My last date, I didn't put my arm around her, or feel the need to touch her a lot, because it was a first date, but as we walked back to her car, I asked to hold hands, and it wasn't awkward, and we let go, when we got to the car. Then at the end of the night, I put my arms out for a hug, and asked if it was okay, but I didn't move in for one, so that she was also comfortable with it. These tips have helped me become more comfortable around social settings in general.
If your friends first I can tell you from experience that it makes a really good relationship, you alread know each other really well, you know what they are into, you dont have to be embarrassed about telling them all baggage because they probably already know it. It can be a bit awkward making the transition, but not overly, not if you both like each other more than friends, if the awkwardness out weighs the attraction then its not meant to be.
I was at my best girl friend's house and we were watching DVDs together and sitting on her couch. She kept talking about how she was cold and I could have given her a pat on the shoulder or something, but I didn't. I guess I missed the boat. We've just been friends for so long so I don't really know whether making a move like that is appropriate because I'd rather be on friendly terms with her than admitting my feelings and risk making everything awkward.
bro i know im 14 years too late but you should’ve made a move. how are things going with her now if you still talk? and are you in a relationship now? hope you see this 🫡
@LowLowSpinners I think you have the wrong perspective here because i used to have that same feeling. You shouldn't feel like meeting and being with a woman is an obligation, like you NEED to go through that stupid process of dates, first kiss, level by level breaking the intimacy barrier. you don't need to do that like following some stupid instructions textbook, but it's just that you are gonna have a hell of a time trying to find a woman that is willing to skip that. .
@Jerseymaan10 Dude. Just bring a sweater or a jacket with u.i think that shall be useful.If it's not for her, it's for u. don't get caught in the cold.avoid flu, or u'll get a 3-4 days of not seeing her....hahaha
My last date, I didn't put my arm around her, or feel the need to touch her a lot, because it was a first date, but as we walked back to her car, I asked to hold hands, and it wasn't awkward, and we let go, when we got to the car. Then at the end of the night, I put my arms out for a hug, and asked if it was okay, but I didn't move in for one, so that she was also comfortable with it. These tips have helped me become more comfortable around social settings in general.
If your friends first I can tell you from experience that it makes a really good relationship, you alread know each other really well, you know what they are into, you dont have to be embarrassed about telling them all baggage because they probably already know it. It can be a bit awkward making the transition, but not overly, not if you both like each other more than friends, if the awkwardness out weighs the attraction then its not meant to be.
I was at my best girl friend's house and we were watching DVDs together and sitting on her couch. She kept talking about how she was cold and I could have given her a pat on the shoulder or something, but I didn't. I guess I missed the boat. We've just been friends for so long so I don't really know whether making a move like that is appropriate because I'd rather be on friendly terms with her than admitting my feelings and risk making everything awkward.
bro i know im 14 years too late but you should’ve made a move. how are things going with her now if you still talk? and are you in a relationship now? hope you see this 🫡
Yeah it is always a make or break during the first date...
yes, you can do this to protect her from your friends at the biker bar!
@LowLowSpinners
I think you have the wrong perspective here because i used to have that same feeling.
You shouldn't feel like meeting and being with a woman is an obligation, like you NEED to go through that stupid process of dates, first kiss, level by level breaking the intimacy barrier. you don't need to do that like following some stupid instructions textbook, but it's just that you are gonna have a hell of a time trying to find a woman that is willing to skip that. .
emotion is step of the love,promotion of sex is not love.
so true. +1
There were times when I actually had to comfort girls like that, but they were my friends. I'm pretty much made out to be a teddy bear of sorts.
0:58 that guy on the bench looks like forrest gump! :O
jerseymann thats funny
@Jerseymaan10 u just made a mistake u learn from...me and everyone else did...keep on tryin
thank you! :) and im only 17 XD
@Jerseymaan10 Yah don't feel to bad...I probably would have just offered her my coat and not realized this either...
any man will scare to hold you with such necklace , really unique ...
LOL good one :-)
LOL, nice.
@Jerseymaan10 DAMN.
@threetoedhobbit hahaha
@Jerseymaan10
Dude. Just bring a sweater or a jacket with u.i think that shall be useful.If it's not for her, it's for u. don't get caught in the cold.avoid flu, or u'll get a 3-4 days of not seeing her....hahaha
@Jerseymaan10 Hahahaha Don't worry dude I did same crap just last night.. that's why I'm watching this hahaha
Wanna count shoulders? 1 - 2 - 3 (put your arm around her) 4 :D
your "advice" is causing people to SUFFER. Stop it.