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  • @KelvinTroyJohnson
    @KelvinTroyJohnson  7 місяців тому +4

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  • @tamikascales888
    @tamikascales888 Місяць тому +27

    I’m 42 and I have a 24 yr old pursuing me. He’s very intelligent, an entrepreneur, mature, attractive, and fun Lord help me🙈

    • @user-em9xr5se4i
      @user-em9xr5se4i Місяць тому +2

      Give him a chance

    • @KH-nt7ej
      @KH-nt7ej 16 днів тому

      Go for it.

    • @puglif3708
      @puglif3708 8 днів тому +1

      I'm 21 and she's 33 She has read me like a book and i dont know if i can really trust her or not you got any advice

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  4 дні тому +3

      @@puglif3708 get out of your head. If a woman is still entertaining you, you’re in the game. Enjoy the relationship as you would any other. Need help? Book a coaching session with me: lovecoachatlanta@gmail.com.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  4 дні тому

      I’d love to hear how this turned out.🤣

  • @Maggiebenjee
    @Maggiebenjee 9 місяців тому +62

    Guys. You need to be fit as well. Idk why guys think all they have to bring is dck.

    • @morganbmgtow8879
      @morganbmgtow8879 3 місяці тому

      with older women 15-30 years older all they want is dk; this a wonderful thing about women as they age; sexually women stop aging at 40.. any healthy woman 20-40 years older will wear da sweet fuk out any 30 year old man❤

    • @user-ox1cx8sh2c
      @user-ox1cx8sh2c Місяць тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @kristinm2577
      @kristinm2577 17 днів тому +1

      Amen!!!!

    • @maggie3004
      @maggie3004 6 днів тому

      I’m tearing up laughing 😂

  • @lamart3857
    @lamart3857 5 місяців тому +34

    Be confident,dominant and persistent and shes all yours

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  5 місяців тому +13

      Lol. Yeah, that’s part of it. The other part is knowing when to give up, back up and leave her alone. A man has to know the difference. Thanks for watching.

  • @user-iz1hv7xf5n
    @user-iz1hv7xf5n Рік тому +111

    That's what's up I'm 25 my wife is 40 she is very beautiful

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  11 місяців тому +7

      Yes! Good stuff. Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

    • @yanusteenbok
      @yanusteenbok 6 місяців тому +1

      Im in some sort of connection with a 40 yr old but i don’t like the fact that when im like 40 yr old , she will be like 63 yrs old. How do you look at that part???

    • @deequinn997
      @deequinn997 5 місяців тому +6

      @@yanusteenbokyou’re overthinking the age difference which is completely understandable and it’s ok. Im seeing a 23 year old i just turned 33 and he is also overthinking so i did right by him and cut him off so he can figure himself out and try to date within his age group. You should try that as well. You have a valid concern but life isn’t guaranteed what if you die tomorrow or she does and you missed out on something amazing because you were overthinking the future. The future doesn’t exist

    • @jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722
      @jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@yanusteenbokFind a younger cougar then 😂

    • @maureentaylor8745
      @maureentaylor8745 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for this video. Fit, Feminine and Fun, I agree...age is not a problem unless you make it a problem.

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 Рік тому +106

    As an 'older' woman ..this is all good advice !!! 💖💖💖

    • @Queen-to2cj
      @Queen-to2cj Рік тому

      hello I'm interested in you let get to know each other

    • @Vanessaadedeji
      @Vanessaadedeji 9 днів тому

      I hope I can get to meet you... I connect with you

    • @UnicRat
      @UnicRat 8 днів тому

      I think so, too. Because when you are older than him, you tend to think that you misread him, like "I don't think that's what he meant, I'm a fossil compared to him"....

  • @victoramougou9433
    @victoramougou9433 10 місяців тому +76

    I am in a situationship with a woman who’s 20 years old than me I’m 27. I have more chemistry with her than I had with my previous relationship and the attraction is crazy.
    Never felt this passionate about a woman in a long time.
    And the one thing she told is that I was able to tap in her mind intellectually that’s why she was interested in me and asked me for my number

    • @space.midnight.cowboy
      @space.midnight.cowboy 8 місяців тому +2

      LoL

    • @deequinn997
      @deequinn997 5 місяців тому +7

      That’s hot. Im 33 dating a 23 year old man. He’s far more mature than anyone my age and any older man I’ve ever dated in the past

    • @MrTrollbaby
      @MrTrollbaby 5 місяців тому

      ​@@deequinn997 That says a lot about your choices n men

    • @MrTrollbaby
      @MrTrollbaby 5 місяців тому

      She horny and knows it wont last. She wont let you know until she walking out the door or you leave first. Like the man said, 'she got no time for games'. But thats paradoxical. The game she playing is a double edged sword. "No games" and "games". Does it feel like things are happening abnormally faster than usual, like passionate sex all the time and she already saying that she loves you? RUN! 😂

    • @DariusW-2000
      @DariusW-2000 4 місяці тому +8

      My uncle is 49 who is married to his wife that is 37. My friend is 23 and his wife is 47 with no kids. Me and my wife are 23. My sister is 21 and her husband is 22. My parents are in their 50s and still happily married.

  • @juniorronaldbeasleywaltbab2219
    @juniorronaldbeasleywaltbab2219 3 місяці тому +12

    I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend is 56❤❤

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  3 місяці тому +5

      Oh wow.. drop the knowledge. How did you meet her and how did you get her to say yes?

  • @kylegolson81
    @kylegolson81 9 місяців тому +22

    Blessed my wife 47 im 38 🎉we rocking 8 years

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  9 місяців тому +1

      Love it. Keep rocking!! Hit Subscribe. More to come.

  • @SophisticatedApproach
    @SophisticatedApproach Рік тому +39

    I'd recommend the direct approach if the guy sees choosing signals from the woman. If not, build attraction until you do see those signals. 👍🏽

  • @Entelechhhy
    @Entelechhhy Місяць тому +5

    I’m married to someone 10 yrs younger. I always tease him and tell him I’m gonna trade him in soon for a newer model and we joke and call him old man because he has less energy than me. He never makes a joke about my age and I don’t let my age affect how submissive I am with him. If he had acted differently it would never have worked

  • @shatterking215
    @shatterking215 Рік тому +69

    I just turned 34 and I am dating a fit blonde 40 year old woman. She turns 41 in a month so we have about a 7 year age gap so it’s not that much but damn does she know how to treat a man.
    I have been blown away by how easy she makes it for us to be together since day one. Older women put in more effort.

    • @calaragazza3556
      @calaragazza3556 Рік тому +12

      You’re older too lol

    • @vp5867
      @vp5867 10 місяців тому +3

      What if u want to start a family with her isnt she past her biological age and wouldnt it br difficult to have children

    • @justsomeguywithamustache2901
      @justsomeguywithamustache2901 9 місяців тому

      ​@@vp5867they can still have sex and adopt kids lol

    • @shamarirose7288
      @shamarirose7288 6 місяців тому +6

      ⁠@@vp5867 As long as a woman has her uterus and still has menstrual cycles then she can still get pregnant at anytime and it happens way more often than people think, for example my ex’s mother had him at 45, I have a 42 year old cousin that’s currently pregnant and I have met plenty of young adults that had empty nest parents over 40 with babies and toddlers which is why women over 35 still need birth control, just remember that just because the clock starts to slow down doesn’t mean it’s done ticking.😂

    • @vp5867
      @vp5867 6 місяців тому

      @@shamarirose7288 fair enough but what about the medical complications that come with it because of middle age and also difference in life experience between the younger man and older woman I'm not saying the age difference is twice the age but for example 2-5 yrs age difference and how to make it work in the long run

  • @MrTrollbaby
    @MrTrollbaby 5 місяців тому +6

    Be authentic unapologetically
    Act your age with confidence
    Humour

  • @MarshawnCarter
    @MarshawnCarter 3 місяці тому +9

    I'm 24 and my wife is 47. Her daughter is about to be 18 and we just had our newborn son last month. I met her when i was 21 and she was straightforward with what she wanted from me. I love that grey natural hairstyle on her, she also workout at the gym to stay fit and healthy. She is very freaky and we didn't worry about the age gap because we both are adults. She always cook me some healthy foods.

    • @daddypfp734
      @daddypfp734 2 місяці тому +1

      How’d you get around age questions, I’m having trouble with dating older women, I don’t like women my age to inexperienced and immature

    • @efrenhernandez7510
      @efrenhernandez7510 21 день тому

      ​@@daddypfp734don't over think things too much just let it flow and have fun with it and if you really enjoy it you are in the right place.

  • @JamRockzs05434
    @JamRockzs05434 Рік тому +36

    Just picked up this nice fine older black woman in the gym came straight to her and all that's left is pursuing the right way

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +4

      Yes sir!!!! They love it. Hit Subscribe for more dating and relationships tips.

    • @iori7390
      @iori7390 8 місяців тому +2

      @@KelvinTroyJohnsonnah he needs to hit something else first 💀

  • @AshleySpeaks4U
    @AshleySpeaks4U 3 місяці тому +7

    SPOT ON! ❤ We do NOT mess around.

  • @valkylva
    @valkylva 7 місяців тому +13

    I’m 33 and one thing I dislike about dating men my age or older is they like to be SO CAUTIOUS. They are attracted to me and talk to me but they hold back and tip toe around and are less likely to commit. Women like men who desire her and go after her just like he says! Think about it, a beautiful woman could have 10 men trying to get her attention. Maybe a few of them are catching her eye. The ones who actually show they want her and desire her will be way more appealing than the one that drags everything on and is scared to be forward.
    In my opinion showing you want and desire a woman right off the bat is way more masculine and attractive than a man who’s holding back. Men who hold back seem unsure and its unattractive!

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  7 місяців тому +1

      Ooohhhhh yes! Yes! Yes! 🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾 you articulated this perfectly. This is the conversation I am attempting to have with the men. Go after what you want. The worst she can say is no. If she says, no, nothing changed, but if she says yes, everything changes. Great comment. Hit subscribe for more conversation like this.

    • @DariusW-2000
      @DariusW-2000 7 місяців тому +2

      My friend is 23 and he is married to a woman that is 47. They both enjoy going to the gym working out, traveling and just enjoying life. They didn't worry about the age situation at all. Me and my wife is 23 same age.

    • @ccheyenne
      @ccheyenne Місяць тому +1

      Ok but not all women feel this way. I honestly hate it when guys are that forward. I don't like the feeling of being desired for my body, and if we don't know each other obviously my looks are all the information you have. If we actually know each other it's different because my personality and my intellect are part of the equation. If we've been talking and hanging out casually there is a whole backstory of conversations, moments of connection that have built up into that desire, and if the approach is along the lines of I really like you, you're very interesting, then that is a appealing to me.
      But a random guy walks up to me and goes straight to telling me he desires me? Automatic no, don't care if you're the emperor of the universe, that's a MAJOR turn off for me.

  • @rickeymaliktv
    @rickeymaliktv 3 місяці тому +11

    This man told no lies I'm 27 dating a 41 yr old woman she is so 🔥

  • @iberiae591
    @iberiae591 4 дні тому +1

    1,000 % amazing advice!!!!
    I met my love and married same year. he was 29 and I was 43. We so good together ❤❤I’m now 53 and he’s 40

  • @efrenhernandez7510
    @efrenhernandez7510 21 день тому +1

    Im 25 dating a 45 year old woman and honestly there is nothing better than that , is been fun in many way and just gonna keep enjoying every moment that there's is to come .

  • @andyconcepcion5883
    @andyconcepcion5883 11 місяців тому +12

    I went straight to her got her number and she went from asking me for my number to "you're too young goodbye"😕

    • @DrDillDough
      @DrDillDough 8 місяців тому

      You most likely have an immature personality

  • @jeannineholmes4390
    @jeannineholmes4390 2 місяці тому +2

    Not Bad!!!! I’ve been married to a younger man for 35 Years. (4 years apart) We have 2 children who are now College Graduates!!! 🎓 it’s been a good life. His Family says he’s always acted like an old(er) man. He’s very Mature!!!!
    Best wishes and Blessings!!

  • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
    @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx Рік тому +55

    Lol I’m dating a 25yo! Lol 😂 I’m 36 was his idea

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +22

      Alot of men find older women very attractive just stay in the reality of the situation and tell them the truth about your expectations and direction.

    • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
      @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx Рік тому +8

      @@KelvinTroyJohnson he say he does not care the age gap 🤷‍♀️yes we need to talk about it

    • @mahmoudqurash7358
      @mahmoudqurash7358 8 місяців тому +1

      Y’all still dating?

    • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
      @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx 8 місяців тому +1

      Was 7months ago so no! Lol he is 25 works if you want something for a free months or the moment but that all

    • @Informativeeye
      @Informativeeye 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kxSo you are not together anymore.

  • @susansanchez1629
    @susansanchez1629 17 днів тому +1

    You are 100% correct!

  • @molleycharles9313
    @molleycharles9313 10 місяців тому +10

    I have a feeling the guy that just walked up to me at Walmart watched this 😂
    Came right up to me and asked for my number said I was gorgeous.
    I didn’t even know how to respond at first since he is about the same age as my son.
    I said I’m 38 and he said “ I’m 18 and still interested”
    Another guy walked up to me and said be careful it’s a trend right now.
    Wtf

    • @thobanihlela6235
      @thobanihlela6235 7 місяців тому +3

      But how did you feel about it that metters don't let bad vibes let you don't if you love him try and get ahold of him he might be young and be your forever soul mate

    • @BadBoy-wm1ir
      @BadBoy-wm1ir 6 місяців тому +1

      😂

  • @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
    @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 7 місяців тому +6

    It's not gonna be that simple. Bcuz older women know that guys want it easy and think that older women are easier bcuz they're older. And that's not getting over either.

  • @wilalco6104
    @wilalco6104 Рік тому +12

    Guys, take it from a guy in his 50s whose been married for 30 years. If I could do it over again i'd be a Virgin till I was 49.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  11 місяців тому +2

      HAAAAA!!! I hear ya. Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 8 місяців тому +4

    Nice to hear a mature response

  • @annicecaldwell1271
    @annicecaldwell1271 Рік тому +8

    You're absolutely right!!!!

  • @sarahzimmerman6145
    @sarahzimmerman6145 15 днів тому

    Daaaamn! Thanks, Kelvin! That's some good advice. I'm a 42 year old women & just started talking to a 21 year old guy. I found this short while overthinking things but this video really made me just want to relax & have fun with him!

  • @agne9180
    @agne9180 8 місяців тому +2

    Great advice! Thank you!❤

  • @Me-eb3wv
    @Me-eb3wv Місяць тому +2

    How do you do #1 without coming off as a creep?

  • @thobanihlela6235
    @thobanihlela6235 7 місяців тому +3

    28 years please get me one 2000's are doing to much older woman know how to take good care of us

  • @danieltorresjr.698
    @danieltorresjr.698 Рік тому +3

    She’s about to turn 21 in July looking younger than she actually is and I’m turning 19 in September. We’ve been and still are talking but it’s looking real good so far. She DEFINITELY is liking me so far. She doesn’t have many friends, studying electrical engineering, is busy but still manages to reply on decent times, never leaves me on read. I’d say her Ukrainian parents raised her right

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +5

      This sounds great. Two years isn’t exactly a real age difference but it can be a maturity difference. Sounds like you’ve got a good thing going on. Cool.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 10 днів тому

    Don't be scary when you come straight at her to let her know you like her !! Practice before you do this with a trusted female like an auntie or your sister. I actually think dating someone at work is a BAD idea.

  • @kristamaeh74
    @kristamaeh74 Рік тому +20

    As a woman in my 40’s nothing makes me madder, sicker, and more creeped out to be referred to as “older” or “cougar.” I didn’t date younger men, but OFTEN had younger guys hit on me. Who wants to feel “OLDER”? Great advice, my friend

    • @EV-EV-EV
      @EV-EV-EV Рік тому +14

      Be mad, sick and creeped out all you want....but you are an old woman and all those labels apply to you.
      This is what happens when Instead of being married with your own kids and grand kids, you're out there dating

    • @mr.mayhem6755
      @mr.mayhem6755 Рік тому +1

      ​@@EV-EV-EV burrrrnnnnnn

    • @Galworld761
      @Galworld761 Рік тому +13

      @@EV-EV-EV you are assuming she wants to be married. It ain’t for everyone. Second, no one ages backward and when your time comes that young woman may be dating you for your wallet and send you home with a peck on the cheek after dinner. Why? Because you are old, she needed a meal and a good story to tell her friends at brunch the next day. Unless you are George Clooney, most young women don’t like older men. There are exceptions. So, just realize time is ticking for you too.

    • @firstnamelastname6717
      @firstnamelastname6717 Рік тому +1

      What’s your idea of maybe dating of hooking up with an older man and how old? Just curious 🧐

    • @justicethedoggo3648
      @justicethedoggo3648 10 місяців тому

      We want older women who have good womanky libido drive as well , and gets turned on by those words not like you

  • @michaelf.bender3718
    @michaelf.bender3718 20 днів тому

    It's funny you brought up the idea of the Battlehawks being a future NFL expansion team. I've had thoughts about that, too.

  • @Christopheristusoberadoladutes
    @Christopheristusoberadoladutes 22 дні тому

    Followed your advise 😂😂guess what, she told on me,, i was sat down in a family meeting for advice😂😂

  • @King_Ced
    @King_Ced 9 місяців тому +4

    What if women is the one who cares about the "age difference"?

    • @boop8127
      @boop8127 6 місяців тому +1

      Agree. I mean yeah im flattered. And things are fine now. What about im 59 and hes 41? Is he reallllly going to stick it out ??? 10 years diff maybe. 16 years? 😢

  • @richardcollinsphotography1288
    @richardcollinsphotography1288 2 місяці тому +3

    Pure facts. I've dated double my age since I was 18. First older woman was 62 I was 18. First time I rode in a Corvette.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  2 місяці тому +1

      I bet she taught you all kinds of lessons beyond how to drive a corvette. LOL thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe for more.

  • @Caysonator007
    @Caysonator007 9 місяців тому +16

    I’ve got a 42 year old non mom sending me pics n sh!t. And she is a baddie. Like a French model not a day over 32. And I’m 23. I think she’s going thru a split or sum and not telling me. But I’m tryna seal the deal. She definitely wants it, now I just gotta get her to really slide thru. Ooooooo boi. Wish me luck. 😂

    • @Sixpackpuma
      @Sixpackpuma 8 місяців тому +5

      I'm 18 and I find older women attractive and sexy. A, I too young to pursue relationships with them?

    • @klausseize4147
      @klausseize4147 8 місяців тому +3

      How is it going so far,you done secured that baddie👀🔐

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 8 місяців тому +3

      @@Sixpackpuma he11 nah. You would be surprised how much they are into young men. You just have to be confident, and play it smart. 18 is a lil young. But the right one will be down. Plus you won’t be 18 for much longer.

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 8 місяців тому

      @@klausseize4147 bruh. 😂. I’m onto the next one / 2. I got to hit. But she was a lil crazy. Ofc. She told me not to nut, and I thought she meant it better last a while. But no, she literally didn’t want me to nut at all. Even though I was wearing a rubber. She used the fact that @bortions are now illegal as her excuse for being terrified of getting pregnant. And then after going at it for like 10 - 15 mins, her husband (that she promised was just a friend that lets her live with him multiple times) (aka sugar daddy or really good friend.) started spam calling and texting her mad af. So then she finally admitted that she is married, and trying to get a job so that she can leave him and move out. So then she left after I laid it down good, but she blue balled tf outa me, and had me pay for a hotel room for the night. When she coulda just came to my house, especially since she was only staying for like 2 or 3 hours. But she was talking like she wanted to spend the night the whole time. So luckily I only got a like $60 hotel room. But hey, it was fun. She had a lot of features to enjoy. It gave me a crazy story to tell. Taught me some lessons. And now I’ve been hittin this super tiny 30 year old Asian girl, that looks younger than me. 💯🔥🤷‍♂️. So Ig it is what it is. That’s life for ya. And heck, it probably ended up more entertaining / interesting / productive than if it all went smoothly anyways.

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Sixpackpuma idk about relationships though. At least with the baddies. No matter what they tell you, they are probably looking at you as their lil boy toy or sum. If not, they are probably desperate, or missing something in their life that they are searching for. Just remember “listen to their actions, not their words.” Their words mean nothing, and can bounce around at the drop of a hat. Lying doesn’t matter to them at all, and sometimes they honestly don’t even realize they are lying. Because everything they say and do is based off of their feelings, and their feelings completely contradict themselves on a regular basis. But hey, this applies to every girl and woman. Don’t think they are gonna be completely different because they have an extra 10 to 20 years on this planet. They might have some slight differences, but a woman’s nature is woman’s nature. They either have good character, or they don’t. You don’t gain it from 20 to 50.

  • @efilms5123
    @efilms5123 Рік тому +8

    19 she 31 she look 20 tho i love her personality should i take it serious?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +3

      Great question. My anawer to this question is do your futures match? Are you both clear on what you want? I.E. Kids, House, Careers, Living. What is her expectations of you. Go deep on this and don't sugar coat. Tell the truth. If it doesn't match up, be ok about walking away.

    • @asdfghjkl3003
      @asdfghjkl3003 6 місяців тому

      How did you meet her

  • @daddypfp734
    @daddypfp734 2 місяці тому

    Y’all help me out, I’m 19 and very very well off I’m only gonna have to work a few more years to be able to retire anytime(I won’t ever retire), and I feel like older women don’t date younger men because immaturity, lack of life experiences, and no financial security. I hate that they assume that, because I have none of those issues. Do you have any advice? The women I like are mid 20’s+

  • @Qwr345
    @Qwr345 14 днів тому

    Older women come to you. You don’t go to them.

  • @khaledkaissar5263
    @khaledkaissar5263 10 місяців тому +2

    I love old-school 😁

    • @khaledkaissar5263
      @khaledkaissar5263 9 місяців тому

      As long as she has a tight body…I can go till 60 yrs old if she has a nice 🍑😁

  • @tayandkayworld9095
    @tayandkayworld9095 2 місяці тому

    Yes sir he’s right !

  • @GoldCoastInvestor
    @GoldCoastInvestor Місяць тому

    Exactly!

  • @SatraLacerna
    @SatraLacerna 5 днів тому

    Older woman straight 54 ❤

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  4 дні тому

      Is this an advertisement?🤣 These guys will be in your inbox, quickly!

  • @Dids010
    @Dids010 Місяць тому

    Oh my goodness I just love younger men! It’s like a complete barrier…I’m 49 and if I meet an older man - even slightly older, I’m like “nope”! Just can’t do it! What’s going on?!

  • @IamYim
    @IamYim 5 місяців тому

    I’m 47 my husband is 42. We’ve been married 17 years. I look damn good to be my age, however I’ve always been the older wife. I’ve recently started to feel a way about it as I age. People assume that my husband and I are the same age, but I know as men age they start to desire younger women. It’s something to consider if you’re an older woman.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing this. I may do something specific on the topic of men getting older and their sexual desires and changes with their spouse.

    • @kingshakeem
      @kingshakeem 4 місяці тому +1

      Me and my wife have the same age difference issue.. . Some issues did arise, one being children I don't have any. She has one. And the second is one you mention it, we solve that issue by allowing me to take a trip once a year pass alone. 😉

  • @amysalas802
    @amysalas802 9 місяців тому +3

    I’m 42 and my boyfriend is 29. Go get Um fellas

  • @angelicamartinez613
    @angelicamartinez613 2 місяці тому

    I liked reason #3

  • @aidasellsflorida
    @aidasellsflorida Місяць тому

    Approved and I’m #43 I am just hesitant about younger men.

  • @leea3531
    @leea3531 Рік тому +2

    The 💰 gentleman

  • @ShahbazSindh
    @ShahbazSindh 3 місяці тому

    Love you brother

  • @DeborahMills-ri9bg
    @DeborahMills-ri9bg 10 днів тому

    truth

  • @delapazadu1869
    @delapazadu1869 7 місяців тому

    Heyyyy she showed so much interest after I tried this then blocked me right after for then unblocked and hasn’t replied my text what do you think ?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  7 місяців тому +4

      I think you leave it as it is.. She is undecided and confused about her feelings. Some older women feel embarrassed to be talking to a younger man. But she loves the attention.

  • @davidgay7033
    @davidgay7033 6 місяців тому

    True

  • @tanese97
    @tanese97 11 місяців тому

    Facts

  • @Prosperic
    @Prosperic 7 місяців тому

    It’s not a problem unless she tries to make it one too

  • @user-tm4hi8jn8v
    @user-tm4hi8jn8v 6 місяців тому +2

    A lot of young guys like older women because they for one can't get pregnant, for two they have a lot to offer that younger man financially. Just saying 😇

    • @Tauro420
      @Tauro420 5 місяців тому

      Not younger men like men that have their own money.

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 3 місяці тому

    I’m a Jaguar 🐆 ❤❤❤❤

  • @user-iz1hv7xf5n
    @user-iz1hv7xf5n Рік тому +3

    👍👍👍💯

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  11 місяців тому +1

      Yes Yes! Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

  • @causticchameleon7861
    @causticchameleon7861 Рік тому +14

    Yeah that advice sucks. Don’t come at me telling me what you want. What you desire. You want a feminine traditional woman? Then you treat me like a feminine traditional woman. Woo me. Don’t expect sex anytime before 3-4 months of steady dating. Age is a thing! It can be a problem especially if the age difference is greater than that of me and my kids. I do not want to feel like I’m raising another child. Lastly, age difference really matters if you ever want children. I’m done! I’m not having anymore and I’m not adopting any to fulfill your wishes. I am only interested in grandchildren now. If you think you may eventually want children, go date someone your age or younger.

    • @firstnamelastname6717
      @firstnamelastname6717 Рік тому +1

      What’s the story with older men and older women dating or hook ups? Just curious?🤔

    • @causticchameleon7861
      @causticchameleon7861 Рік тому +4

      @@firstnamelastname6717 Not sure what your question is. I can tell you, I’m not into hookups. They are satisfying. They leave you empty inside afterwards. Dating would be great but all the older men want is a sex partner. That’s it. So they go after younger women.

    • @xantonify
      @xantonify Місяць тому

      ​@@causticchameleon7861ofcourse they do. No man takes older women seriously, atleast as a rule not the exception.
      They have been with everyone else before you, have baggage and bad experience with previous men in relationships. What did you thought?

  • @billystanhope5855
    @billystanhope5855 7 місяців тому

    Why?

  • @thebusinesshour1733
    @thebusinesshour1733 Рік тому +7

    That’s fit, feminine, friendly, sexy and submissive. In my KS voice..

  • @boop8127
    @boop8127 6 місяців тому

    16 year age gap. I sure hope it can go somewhere. Im the one scared about it

  • @NEWOKA
    @NEWOKA 9 місяців тому

  • @madehoney5052
    @madehoney5052 12 днів тому

    You’re the reason he keeps circling back to say hi every 3 months lol too cute but no lol seriously tooo cute though

  • @misscbrown9179
    @misscbrown9179 3 місяці тому

    Have you own everything, money, car, and house or apartment 😂

  • @worldelite5016
    @worldelite5016 Місяць тому +1

    Great advice, if i approach and ask out to a cougar older woman that i like and she rejects me, i'll accept it and move on. I'll try next time to approach and ask out another cougar older women until one accept me and say yes.

  • @maui2erika
    @maui2erika 2 місяці тому

    What about kids if he is 35 and she is 50 for example, he will probably want to have kids. Right?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  2 місяці тому

      That’s a conversation that should happen on the first or second date. If he says he doesn’t want children, which is something many men will say in the beginning, that’s fine. But just like women, men have right to change their minds. Thanks for watching.

  • @grandparedpill2695
    @grandparedpill2695 Місяць тому +1

    Younger guys need practice girls. Nothing has changed. I'm 66 I was doing this when I was 30. We didn't call them older women, we called him what I said up front, practice girls. Women who are good enough to sleep with but let's face it we're not paying full retail for this s***.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Місяць тому

      I’ve never heard of that term 🤣 thanks for watching.

  • @MbalazauFernandes
    @MbalazauFernandes 8 місяців тому

    Where did you get this Statistics?

    • @ErinDeNis
      @ErinDeNis 8 місяців тому

      You can look up peer review research and statistics on your own using google.

  • @MultiTheWanderer
    @MultiTheWanderer 20 днів тому

    AAÀAAMMMMEEENNNN!!!!!

  • @nathanchavez2996
    @nathanchavez2996 4 місяці тому

    Im 19 i want a women in her 30s how do i do this

  • @vusviews
    @vusviews Рік тому +2

    👏👏👏👏

  • @theblissfulbeauty_
    @theblissfulbeauty_ 2 місяці тому

    Message Approved…. #43

  • @JusCamIke
    @JusCamIke 11 місяців тому

    I’m 15 she’s 33 any tips ?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  11 місяців тому +16

      lol I hope you're joking. If not, a crime is being committed.

  • @colinrunciman5166
    @colinrunciman5166 Рік тому +1

    you study higher Enghish, and please do not present 2 fingers to Scotland

    • @colinrunciman5166
      @colinrunciman5166 Рік тому

      no she is a lady, and you're advice is insulting to me in Scotland

  • @aaron210tx5
    @aaron210tx5 10 місяців тому

    As a 17 year old I wanna hook up with my 25 year old coworker how should I text her????

  • @B16sixx
    @B16sixx 8 місяців тому

    Soo shes bout 5 or 6 yrs older than me ..

    • @B16sixx
      @B16sixx 8 місяців тому

      @@kularanidurara fr ima ask her out today wish me luck

    • @user-cp5xh7mp8n
      @user-cp5xh7mp8n 4 місяці тому

      ​@@B16sixxhow did it go broo ?

  • @SamBradford_
    @SamBradford_ 9 місяців тому

    I’m 12 and she’s like 15 I’m in 7th she’s in 10😭😭💀🙏🏿

    • @ErinDeNis
      @ErinDeNis 8 місяців тому

      😆😆😆😆

  • @jonathanstutzman8272
    @jonathanstutzman8272 4 місяці тому

    You don’t do it !! Literally she will be your momma ! She will never respect you and will always try to lead you and dominate you ! Why would you even think this way

    • @main2333
      @main2333 Місяць тому

      That’s an assumption. Everyone is different. Look at the Matrix Star dating older woman. He’s happy!

  • @user-tm4hi8jn8v
    @user-tm4hi8jn8v 6 місяців тому

    No thanks!

  • @xxgetshot55xx84
    @xxgetshot55xx84 11 місяців тому +1

    Well you all can see this how you want but, I just turned 21 this year and I went to the dentist 3 days ago and I got my D.A Phone number, she's 36 with children and she really likes me. How should I play this?
    Comment is for the Boys 🫡

    • @justicethedoggo3648
      @justicethedoggo3648 10 місяців тому +1

      How do you know she likes you ? Older men are just nice and polite to younger men in general just like they are to cute children 💀, doesnt mean they want to fc you .