At 34, I met the woman, then just turned 48, who would become the love of my life and my wife- we've been together more than 30 years now and will be to the end. She was quite beautiful, intelligent, and vivacious (the opposite of me, so opposites do attract😊), so much so that guys in their 20s were always hitting on her. She had been married before and told me she was looking for someone real, of substance, rather than just surface attributes. From my late teens onward, I was always sexually, romantically, and emotionally attracted to women ten or more years my senior. Why? Also from my late teens onward I was always described as mature and serious (for my age). But perhaps along with the sexual aspect it was the emotional stability and maturity such women offered, as opposed to the game playing idiocy of girls/women my age with pretty faces but not much going on behind them. Plus, it didn't hurt that she didn't have kids, and I never had wanted any. I'm 65 now, she's 79, and as beautiful to me as ever.
I'm 53. My current man is 31. The last one was 65 and the one before that was 36. They are people and none of us are perfect. Date who you want, be respectful and honest and see where things go
I agree, people can be so judgmental of age gap relationships.. I've been on both sides of the age gap relationship, and I've gotta say, from my own experience, the younger guy's far more thoughtful and kind. If someone makes you happy and you bring each other joy, go for it!
I'm so happy to read your comment. I attract men much younger and I was feeling weird about it. I'm 50 but definitely don't feel or act like it. I feeling better knowing I'm not alone :)
@@annmurray3582 Whatever you and your partner are comfortable with. It really depends on the person you're entertaining as well. There are mature men 20 years younger and immature men who are older. I'm 50 and attract men in their 30s.
I’m 41 and keep attracting guys in their 20’s! I’m not even really looking for a relationship but they keep coming to me in droves! Wish I had this problem in my 20’s 😂
@@ModernGoddess81 SOS seriously, it's so bizarre to me but my sons generation is quite different from my generation in the 90s with dating etc. Lord have mercy is all I have to say.
My husband was 22 and I was 43 when we met through a mutual friend. We just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. We work well together and we have a lot in common from hobbies to values. He still loves me with all of my wrinkles, white hair, teeth gone and all of my medical problems. I still treat him like a king and I put his needs first and he is good to me and treats me like a queen and he has been there for me every time I have been hospitalized and near death. We're each others hearts.
I am 7 years older than my husband. I didn't want a younger man but fell maddly in love. We have benn married 25 years and have 2 sons. I am very happy.
I didn't go looking for someone much younger, but it just works! Hes 27 in December and I'm 52. 😮 Friends/coworkers for 4 years and dating over 2 years.
Congrats. There is a huge difference between chasing younger people like many older guys keep doing, and just happen to connect with a younger person and experience mutual attraction based on actual chemistry, not just looks.
I like a guy who is 21 yrs younger than me. He makes me laugh a lot and fun to be around with! We are currently just being friends. I m 59 yrs old and he is 38; he really wants children but I can’t give him that 😔. I don’t think this relationship will flourish 😔. We will just remain friends 😔
@cathylam344 Not all relationships last a lifetime. Sone people enter our lives for just a season. Just focus on the lessons you have to teach each other. Lessons that enlighten you to be your best version of yourselves. It could be an awesome experience if you can accept that one day it will be time for him to find someone he can have a family with.
Been having a relationship with a much younger man then me . I am 55 and he is 26. Not sure where it may lead but it’s been wonderful and I am having fun. He inspires me and has got me to be aware of things in this world . 😊
wow! and here I am feeling guilty that a 20 yr old is showing interest and I want him too but I am now in early 30's. The huge age gap is the only thing that is stopping me. What makes me attracted to him is that he is mature for his age and responsible as well. Btw best of luck on your relationship 🤗
@@onfourtris3301 I wouldn't do it, because in my country, that's not even old enough to drink alcohol and buy it, so if we can't go out because of legal reasons like that, that's my cue to back off and keep physical attraction in check.
When i was younger i dealt many times with younger men , but it never turned out very well . Now that i am older and very mature no baggage and i do not allow my emotions to control me anymore . I get approached a lot by younger man over 10 years younger ,there is no way i would even consider to get involved . I also found even older men are still lacking maturity and maybe forgot how to court a Lady .
Just ended relationship with someone 10 years younger. My advice: vet out exactly what they want up front (kids etc). 10 years can be a big difference depending on the seasons in life you’re in. Dating a 30 year old I learned he was still unsure exactly what he wanted and I am not willing to have more kids at my age. Unfortunately this conversation materialized after feelings etc were hurt in ending the relationship. There is some immaturity present; communication skills and experience may not be on the same level. Have patience, curiosity, open & kind communication, and have fun.
Yeah i knew from the beginning i need to be honest and direct about who i am and what i want if i want our relationship to work. Not only to her but myself as well. My gf is 38 and i am 27. I told her i want marriage and after i understood myself on kids i told her i want them, but i do not want children if she is not the mother. Her love is more important to me. So i told her that if God decides to bless us with children that will be amazing, but if He doesn't then that just means i will have more time to adore her instead. I am sorry you decided you didn't want children, it could have been a beautiful thing between you two i am sure. People should get married and have babies if they love eachother, it's a wonderful thing.
@@chumbucket6184 it’s not for everyone and each unique situation. I have been a single parent for 14 years and have a child who is almost out of the house. It wasn’t a match, sometimes the mature thing to do is let people go so they can align with someone else with shared life goals.
I've loved older women from a young age. Ever since i lost my virginity to a older woman I just got addicted to older women. My wife is a older woman who's 46 and I'm 35 and we have 4 kids together and been together over 8 years. I loved a lot of older women I was with but most times they just wanted a physique relationship but even those I still made it feel like a real relatioship. Alot of the attraction was sexual even with my wife but the more time I spent time with them the more I started to have romantic feelings with even with my wife I thought it would've ended after a few weeks just having tons of sex but even she started to have feelings as well that's why we made a decision to get married
I'm 46 and for the first time significantly attracted to a man much younger. He is in his late 20s, though we have an undeniable connection and share the same sense of humour. He makes me laugh, he makes me feel understood, he is exceptionally intelligent and good at what he does, he's very attractive (and so am I). There's something in my head which makes me feel a little bit unsure if I should pursue this, even though it feels so right as well. I guess it was the (probably stupid) idea that I'm competing with women in his age... This video helped me so much!
I try dating a guy same age as me. It didn’t work out. I was only attracted to the idea of same age. I’m 34 and started dating a guy 24. I don’t look my age, I look he’s age. I click and hit it off so much more with the 24 then my Ex same age. Plus I’m more attractive to him then I was to the guy same age as me. Younger guys reach relationships status faster then female at that age I think. I didn’t mature until I got to my late 20s to my 30s. Im content with myself and love myself now. Which show younger guys that they are happy and don’t want drama. And know what they want in life. Compare to younger women who are indecisive about their life. So younger men prefer older women in that sense. And draw to more older and mature women.
Also just got out of a almost 2 years relationship with a younger man ...Mostly these guys just want our financial support they are the type who do not want with their money hence they can't date younger gals as the younger gals will demand support from them ...So we really need to be careful here ladies . If he is willing to make sacrifices for you when needled and can also be a head of the household financially as well then you can keep that one. But if he's got problems that need to be solved by you ...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN ...
To me a man must portray the character of being the head of the house despite he's age difference with you before you get too serious with him. No food for a lazy man
Great advice: you’re so correct- I know myself at 57 in a way I just didn’t in my 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s. I would never want to go back in time… this has resonated with me so much! Thank you 🙏🏻
Really needed this video thank you! I clicked because I have been having anxiety about my relationship even though it is going well. I'm 46 and my guy is 37. I guess I have this preconceived idea that he will eventually want someone younger.
You really don’t have that much of an age difference. I’m 62 and was involved with a man who is 43 . I thought it would be really weird . But we fit perfectly
It shocked me how men even 30 years younger than me, wanted to date. Finally not finding what I want in men my age, I gave it a go with a guy 11 years younger than me. It's been great. I just turned 51, and hes a newer 40. We've been together 16 months now and we're discussing moving in together and marriage. I do have to say though, he's about as young as I would go dating. Anymore than 10ish years, I probably wouldn't go there.
I am amazed by this too at 53, I never thought I would level well with much younger but damn, it is so much better and I have to say that the younger generation (if aware spiritually) are way faster at learning things i only learned in the past 10 years, there seeems to be an acceleration in learning at deeper level with this new generation, if they don't fall in the wokeness trap, I would stay far far away from that
@@TheKeystoneChannel you know I wrote that comment three months ago and now he's in the process of moving in. We are still going strong. I love that he has such an open mind and he is so intelligent and self-aware. He just seems to have an emotional intelligence that men my age don't have. He is much more aware of misogyny and actively seeks to be an equal partner and on my playing field and it's really nice not to be taken for granted and have to raise a man.
@@djpdyson Congrats!! Good for you!! I find the same, though this one will not be a relationship but it is really nice to find these guys with so much intelligence and openness . Have a great New Year !!
I'm 41 and he's 37 😢 I know its not a big age gap but I was still struggling with it before. Now I realize and feel we fit so well together. He feels like a protector and I can't help but fall for him. I LOVE taking care of him. He works a very stressful career so I give him deep tissue massages and cook him wholesome dinners.
I have always preferred younger men over older men. I'm now 82 but still extremely active and don't look or act my age. 2 of my 3 husbands were younger than me. I'm still very much interested in dating and finding someone who is looking for a monogamous relationship but not interested in remarrying. I can tell you that's not easy these days, but i haven't given up hope yet
Seriously when I hear that a man is still discovering who he is … all I see is “struggle love”, a puppy or a GINORMOUS annoying project of a person… and it’s a major turn off for me personally… I don’t have the patience for someone whose still growing up.
Smile... 60, and these last few months, I've had dates with 38, 47, and 54. The 38 yr old... mercy. lol Of all the possibilities I had envisioned for myself at this stage, dating, especially younger... was not one of them Loving life atm! ❤
I'm 70 and everyone swears I look 50. But it's hereditary. My Daddy died at 97 and looked 70. My Fiancee is 50 and we are very equally matched. I have years of successful career in corporate America and am retired . He barely graduated from high school and is a country boy. But right now I live in the country on family land and I need someone active and strong. I'm still interested in sex and most men I meet my age are impotent. And younger women aren't into it after children. So it's a wonderful combination. And oddly I believe in the Christian model for marriage and I live to submit to him and he just melts. It's people not age.
I feel if the age gap is >10 years, the older women need to deal with a lot more immaturity from the younger men (even when neither side is crazy about playing mind games).
I am seeing a man who is 42 and I am 61 we have been dating for 10 weeks we have so much in common and we are going to get married in May we are truly in love with each other. We are very happy with each other. We tell each other we love and cherish each other and it is truly wonderful to have all this love for each other.
Since turning 39 there has been several much younger men that have been approaching me. I was surprised because i always here that men only like very young women.
I'm 46 my bf is 40...we get along wonderfully and he has told me he hasn't met a woman like me in years...ive always dated older men but me and him just clicked from the first hello
I am 63 and I am dating a 51 year old. He made it very clear he was interested in me. We have been only together for a month but we enjoy being together. I am looking forward to see where this goes.
49 here. My longest relationships have been with guys around 7-8 years younger. I’ve since realised it’s because I’m still childish in my outlook in life and my interests are also things associated with people decades younger such as gaming, manga and anime. Ive dated guys my age and a bit older when I was younger but as I grew older I found them more and more boring and thus less attractive. Plus the guys I know seem to just give up on their appearance and health after they hit 40, seemingly proud of their beer bellies and moobs. As an ex personal trainer it drives me crazy because this is when you need to start taking care of your diet and activity levels the most.
I dated a 31-year-old when I was 51 just a few years ago. My relationship with him was amazing! There was definitely Rocky stuff because he had problems but his true self was an unbelievable man. I knew I could not be in a relationship with him, we were not in a relationship we were just dating. But he had things about him. That were nothing like I experienced randomly play a song, slow dance with me, we would lay out by the pool and he would just sit down at the edge of my chair and rub my feet in my legs as he just acted like he was enjoying every minute of it. he definitely kept me alive in the area of youth. The short six months I dated him were something I’ll never forget. We did tell each other we loved each other but deep inside I knew it was just the love of his person and companionship.❤️
I love a younger man, he's more man than I have ever met. He's so intelligent driven and knows what he wants. I don't want anyone but him. Direct/honest.❤
Hum… the hardest part about dating younger Men is weeding out Ones tat are looking for someone to take care of them. As an older Women trying to date younger Men we have to be careful not to try and put ourselves into that role…It definitely can work with the right Couples.💕🐺
Great content but the picture examples do not reflect the age difference! My man is MUCH younger in years but older in maturity than guys my age We boost each others self esteem I am outspoken and very happy My friends are skeptical I highly recommend you ladies up your goals instead 👍
Sometimes it's not a happy story. Why because you're finishing raising a younger guy as if he was your son. Also I've seen cases where all of a sudden they want kids and because of your age you can't give them one and they end up leaving you. So you have to be very careful about this because it can be a two edge swore and you wind up getting hurt.
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To avoid children responsibility . That’s what I heard from this 25 yo guy.I was 58 years old at that time. I ignored him. I was happily married at that time.
I am 55 & just getting out there on the dating apps, it's different I think men my age want younger women for sure. I couldn't see myself dating a 40 year old, not sure what we have in common.
Not all older single women are confident. Alot have had their self esteem broken by men. In reality they just get used by younger men for sex until the man moves on to a younger model.
Bingo, that's what I see when my friends go with young men, 100% of the time. We're in our 60s, but far from rocking chair grannies. I'll never go with 20s, 30s, and have been approached😮. The youngest I'll go is 55.
Honestly I don’t see anything wrong older women need love to as well ‼️I like older men but some of them are literally stuck in there ways and want everything perfect . The younger guys are more relaxed . But there’s definitely nothing wrong with it but no older woman wants to have her younger partner mistaken her as a mother figure . Don’t confuse love with mother figure or care giver ‼️
I attract younger guys and have always wondered why. I'm more comfortable with them too for some reason......that's probably part of the reason. Lol I had a 19 year old chasing me when I was 38.....got involved with him and it actually lasted a few years. My husband now is 35 and I'm 53......we get along great. 😁
Dating a lady who's just 7 months older than I am. Want to make it a long term, but was a bit insecure. But reading these comments, I realize I don't even have a problem!
So appreciate this! One year ago I met a younger man by 8 years at work. We hit it off great. Both interested. But because he was younger I turned it off. Oops!
Whe I was in my 20s, guys my age didn't pay attention to me. Now that I'm in my 30s I'm attracting all the 20 something year olds. Guys my age where never into me. And I'm hesitatant to go with younger men because they might just want a fling with an older woman
Im 24. I like older women, but they don’t like me because I’m not tall or good looking enough. They say its because of my age yet they hooked up with other dudes my age who are more desirable. Didn’t fit into either age group. So I guess some people are meant to be alone.
Same boat as you but not really into older women. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and one from my college too but we aren't classmates and 5 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21 and I can't stop thing about her.
At 34, I met the woman, then just turned 48, who would become the love of my life and my wife- we've been together more than 30 years now and will be to the end. She was quite beautiful, intelligent, and vivacious (the opposite of me, so opposites do attract😊), so much so that guys in their 20s were always hitting on her. She had been married before and told me she was looking for someone real, of substance, rather than just surface attributes. From my late teens onward, I was always sexually, romantically, and emotionally attracted to women ten or more years my senior. Why? Also from my late teens onward I was always described as mature and serious (for my age). But perhaps along with the sexual aspect it was the emotional stability and maturity such women offered, as opposed to the game playing idiocy of girls/women my age with pretty faces but not much going on behind them. Plus, it didn't hurt that she didn't have kids, and I never had wanted any. I'm 65 now, she's 79, and as beautiful to me as ever.
Beautiful story😍 Thanks for sharing. You guys sound amazing.
What a beautiful love story. Be happy😊
So heartwarming. I loved hearing from your perspective. Some guys truly very are mature for their age. It's sweet actually.
Good for you, my husband is 13 years younger than me, we've been married for 30 years and still happily married. ❤
As a 40 something gal - your story has given me SO much hope 🥰
Thank you Sir for sharing your beautiful story 🙏🏽😃🤗
I'm 53. My current man is 31. The last one was 65 and the one before that was 36. They are people and none of us are perfect. Date who you want, be respectful and honest and see where things go
I agree, people can be so judgmental of age gap relationships.. I've been on both sides of the age gap relationship, and I've gotta say, from my own experience, the younger guy's far more thoughtful and kind. If someone makes you happy and you bring each other joy, go for it!
I'm so happy to read your comment. I attract men much younger and I was feeling weird about it. I'm 50 but definitely don't feel or act like it. I feeling better knowing I'm not alone :)
What's the age gap that's acceptable
@@annmurray3582 Whatever you and your partner are comfortable with. It really depends on the person you're entertaining as well. There are mature men 20 years younger and immature men who are older. I'm 50 and attract men in their 30s.
@@faceformers So true. I'm attracted to a 20 year old who is more mature than most men my age. I'm 46.
I’m 41 and keep attracting guys in their 20’s! I’m not even really looking for a relationship but they keep coming to me in droves! Wish I had this problem in my 20’s 😂
I concur, only I'm married with a son around that age, so I find this all so alarming .
@@annabanzon313 🤣🤣🤣
@@ModernGoddess81 SOS seriously, it's so bizarre to me but my sons generation is quite different from my generation in the 90s with dating etc.
Lord have mercy is all I have to say.
Same with me
Same and right!?
My husband was 22 and I was 43 when we met through a mutual friend. We just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. We work well together and we have a lot in common from hobbies to values. He still loves me with all of my wrinkles, white hair, teeth gone and all of my medical problems. I still treat him like a king and I put his needs first and he is good to me and treats me like a queen and he has been there for me every time I have been hospitalized and near death. We're each others hearts.
So amazing ❤
I am 7 years older than my husband. I didn't want a younger man but fell maddly in love. We have benn married 25 years and have 2 sons.
I am very happy.
I'm 53, my guy is 37. I love it!
How long have you two been together? Is there a prospect of marriage?
At first did it make you nervous or scared to date him?
53 and 35 here. 👍
I'm 56 and my handsome man is 33. He's thoughtful, loving and respectful. We are having a wonderful time together. We are loving life. Awesome!
I didn't go looking for someone much younger, but it just works!
Hes 27 in December and I'm 52. 😮
Friends/coworkers for 4 years and dating over 2 years.
Congrats. There is a huge difference between chasing younger people like many older guys keep doing, and just happen to connect with a younger person and experience mutual attraction based on actual chemistry, not just looks.
I went out with a guy 23 years younger than me. He surprised me with his emotional maturity. 😊 we will probably go out again! 😃
AMAZING! Have a great 2nd date!! ❤
Laurie you look very charming :) I hope that we could maybe chat. :) I am Marin and I'm 28.
I like a guy who is 21 yrs younger than me. He makes me laugh a lot and fun to be around with! We are currently just being friends. I m 59 yrs old and he is 38; he really wants children but I can’t give him that 😔. I don’t think this relationship will flourish 😔. We will just remain friends 😔
@cathylam344 Not all relationships last a lifetime. Sone people enter our lives for just a season. Just focus on the lessons you have to teach each other. Lessons that enlighten you to be your best version of yourselves. It could be an awesome experience if you can accept that one day it will be time for him to find someone he can have a family with.
Im 35 and my gf is 62. Were a happy coupple since 9 years. I didnt regret a Second of that experience
I always kind of feel insecure about dating a younger guy but itseems like its working well for many people. I think I should just be confident.
He was 23 years younger than I. Best experience ever.
Been having a relationship with a much younger man then me . I am 55 and he is 26. Not sure where it may lead but it’s been wonderful and I am having fun. He inspires me and has got me to be aware of things in this world . 😊
Enjoy!
wow! and here I am feeling guilty that a 20 yr old is showing interest and I want him too but I am now in early 30's. The huge age gap is the only thing that is stopping me. What makes me attracted to him is that he is mature for his age and responsible as well.
Btw best of luck on your relationship 🤗
Lisa you look very charming :) I hope we could maybe be friends. I am Marin and I'm 28.
@@onfourtris3301 I wouldn't do it, because in my country, that's not even old enough to drink alcohol and buy it, so if we can't go out because of legal reasons like that, that's my cue to back off and keep physical attraction in check.
@@MissMcFluffyStuff That's your opinion. Everyone's experience is different. I'm in my late 40's and I'm dating a 25 year old.
When i was younger i dealt many times with younger men , but it never turned out very well . Now that i am older and very mature no baggage and i do not allow my emotions to control me anymore . I get approached a lot by younger man over 10 years younger ,there is no way i would even consider to get involved . I also found even older men are still lacking maturity and maybe forgot how to court a Lady .
Not only do they forget how to court a lady they don't care. It's just gimme what I want.
Just ended relationship with someone 10 years younger. My advice: vet out exactly what they want up front (kids etc). 10 years can be a big difference depending on the seasons in life you’re in. Dating a 30 year old I learned he was still unsure exactly what he wanted and I am not willing to have more kids at my age. Unfortunately this conversation materialized after feelings etc were hurt in ending the relationship. There is some immaturity present; communication skills and experience may not be on the same level. Have patience, curiosity, open & kind communication, and have fun.
Great share and both peeps being clear on their non-negotiables (aka the no kids) is so key ❤
Yeah i knew from the beginning i need to be honest and direct about who i am and what i want if i want our relationship to work. Not only to her but myself as well. My gf is 38 and i am 27. I told her i want marriage and after i understood myself on kids i told her i want them, but i do not want children if she is not the mother. Her love is more important to me. So i told her that if God decides to bless us with children that will be amazing, but if He doesn't then that just means i will have more time to adore her instead.
I am sorry you decided you didn't want children, it could have been a beautiful thing between you two i am sure. People should get married and have babies if they love eachother, it's a wonderful thing.
@@chumbucket6184 it’s not for everyone and each unique situation. I have been a single parent for 14 years and have a child who is almost out of the house. It wasn’t a match, sometimes the mature thing to do is let people go so they can align with someone else with shared life goals.
I've loved older women from a young age. Ever since i lost my virginity to a older woman I just got addicted to older women. My wife is a older woman who's 46 and I'm 35 and we have 4 kids together and been together over 8 years. I loved a lot of older women I was with but most times they just wanted a physique relationship but even those I still made it feel like a real relatioship. Alot of the attraction was sexual even with my wife but the more time I spent time with them the more I started to have romantic feelings with even with my wife I thought it would've ended after a few weeks just having tons of sex but even she started to have feelings as well that's why we made a decision to get married
I'm 46 and for the first time significantly attracted to a man much younger. He is in his late 20s, though we have an undeniable connection and share the same sense of humour. He makes me laugh, he makes me feel understood, he is exceptionally intelligent and good at what he does, he's very attractive (and so am I). There's something in my head which makes me feel a little bit unsure if I should pursue this, even though it feels so right as well. I guess it was the (probably stupid) idea that I'm competing with women in his age...
This video helped me so much!
Yeah, that's it, it's the idea that we are competing with younger ones. But at the end of the day, enjoy!
You are not competing, you already won. If he prefers an older woman it is because you are better than all the little bimbos he sees.
I try dating a guy same age as me. It didn’t work out. I was only attracted to the idea of same age. I’m 34 and started dating a guy 24. I don’t look my age, I look he’s age. I click and hit it off so much more with the 24 then my Ex same age. Plus I’m more attractive to him then I was to the guy same age as me. Younger guys reach relationships status faster then female at that age I think. I didn’t mature until I got to my late 20s to my 30s. Im content with myself and love myself now. Which show younger guys that they are happy and don’t want drama. And know what they want in life. Compare to younger women who are indecisive about their life. So younger men prefer older women in that sense. And draw to more older and mature women.
Currently in the same boat it’s literally a 10 yr gap. I’m like am I gross for liking him
Why are younger women so dramatic now? Like they are spoiled? I don't remember being dramatic or immature in my 20s.
Also just got out of a almost 2 years relationship with a younger man ...Mostly these guys just want our financial support they are the type who do not want with their money hence they can't date younger gals as the younger gals will demand support from them ...So we really need to be careful here ladies . If he is willing to make sacrifices for you when needled and can also be a head of the household financially as well then you can keep that one. But if he's got problems that need to be solved by you ...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN ...
That's some of the men our age too😂. We call them hobosexuals 😅
Agreed
Good advice. They must match or exceed financially and emotionally.
To me a man must portray the character of being the head of the house despite he's age difference with you before you get too serious with him. No food for a lazy man
Why the head of... why not equal?
So in love with a Man 23 years Younger! He s the love of my life!!
Me too. I'm 74 and he's 51. But we're LDR 6 yrs and it's become too difficult. The distance.
I've had men 20+ years younger than me fall for me and now have a better idea why.
😂 I'm 48 March 2 and he's 34 March 4 married going on 4 years together 5 years 🥰🥰
Great advice: you’re so correct- I know myself at 57 in a way I just didn’t in my 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s. I would never want to go back in time… this has resonated with me so much! Thank you 🙏🏻
Really needed this video thank you! I clicked because I have been having anxiety about my relationship even though it is going well. I'm 46 and my guy is 37. I guess I have this preconceived idea that he will eventually want someone younger.
Similar situation and I am worried about the future and me growing more insecure about that age difference and him desiring someone younger later on…
You really don’t have that much of an age difference. I’m 62 and was involved with a man who is 43 . I thought it would be really weird . But we fit perfectly
Same ❤
19 years older than my fiancé. We love it it’s cool
It shocked me how men even 30 years younger than me, wanted to date. Finally not finding what I want in men my age, I gave it a go with a guy 11 years younger than me. It's been great. I just turned 51, and hes a newer 40. We've been together 16 months now and we're discussing moving in together and marriage. I do have to say though, he's about as young as I would go dating. Anymore than 10ish years, I probably wouldn't go there.
I am amazed by this too at 53, I never thought I would level well with much younger but damn, it is so much better and I have to say that the younger generation (if aware spiritually) are way faster at learning things i only learned in the past 10 years, there seeems to be an acceleration in learning at deeper level with this new generation, if they don't fall in the wokeness trap, I would stay far far away from that
@@TheKeystoneChannel you know I wrote that comment three months ago and now he's in the process of moving in. We are still going strong. I love that he has such an open mind and he is so intelligent and self-aware. He just seems to have an emotional intelligence that men my age don't have. He is much more aware of misogyny and actively seeks to be an equal partner and on my playing field and it's really nice not to be taken for granted and have to raise a man.
@@djpdyson Congrats!! Good for you!! I find the same, though this one will not be a relationship but it is really nice to find these guys with so much intelligence and openness . Have a great New Year !!
@@TheKeystoneChannel thank you! Have a wonderful, fulfilling New Year too!
Oh wow Jason !!! What a insightful video because I’ve met many young guys and wonder why they try to pursue me and discredit myself ❤️
I'm 41 and he's 37 😢
I know its not a big age gap but I was still struggling with it before.
Now I realize and feel we fit so well together. He feels like a protector and I can't help but fall for him.
I LOVE taking care of him. He works a very stressful career so I give him deep tissue massages and cook him wholesome dinners.
I have always preferred younger men over older men. I'm now 82 but still extremely active and don't look or act my age. 2 of my 3 husbands were younger than me. I'm still very much interested in dating and finding someone who is looking for a monogamous relationship but not interested in remarrying. I can tell you that's not easy these days, but i haven't given up hope yet
I met a guy 26 years younger than me. Falling in love with him was easy. We had an instant connection.
I am 40 and attracting 20 somethings lately. I have do much anxiety with moving forward with them. Especially having a 21 year old 🤦🏾♀️
Involved with a man 30 years younger than myself. He's the love of my life. So very happy together ❤
Same here and we are a rarity! I am 73 and he is 41
Seriously when I hear that a man is still discovering who he is … all I see is “struggle love”, a puppy or a GINORMOUS annoying project of a person… and it’s a major turn off for me personally… I don’t have the patience for someone whose still growing up.
I am 58 and it's so crazy how much response I have been getting
I’m 85 and he’s 46 and we are very much in love. He wants to marry me but I worry that he’ll want a younger girl in a couple of years🤷♀️
Smile... 60, and these last few months, I've had dates with 38, 47, and 54. The 38 yr old... mercy. lol Of all the possibilities I had envisioned for myself at this stage, dating, especially younger... was not one of them
Loving life atm! ❤
Im 86 & attract men alot younger.i dont look 86 but its a great feeling. Why would someone 25 years younger want to be with an 80+ year old?
..for the money I guess 😅
I'm 70 and everyone swears I look 50. But it's hereditary. My Daddy died at 97 and looked 70. My Fiancee is 50 and we are very equally matched. I have years of successful career in corporate America and am retired . He barely graduated from high school and is a country boy. But right now I live in the country on family land and I need someone active and strong. I'm still interested in sex and most men I meet my age are impotent. And younger women aren't into it after children. So it's a wonderful combination. And oddly I believe in the Christian model for marriage and I live to submit to him and he just melts. It's people not age.
There’s more to it than age….personality
You have an aura and energy that draws men to you.😊
The man I’m with is 23…
I’m 50…
😊
I'm glad you are living your truth, and not giving a damn about what society thinks.
❤
Man or Son
Such an insightful video thank you -- confidence, certainty and self-belief are magnetic. ❤
Thanks for this material. It is certainly enlightening ❤️
I feel if the age gap is >10 years, the older women need to deal with a lot more immaturity from the younger men (even when neither side is crazy about playing mind games).
not necessariky
The most immature men I've met have been my age or older. Even my own 18 year old son is more mature than his father will ever be.
A perspective I have not thought of, thank you!!!
😂 Ooh some called me a 'cougar'! Was married to my younger guy. He treated me like a queen! Best years of my life ❤
Hi Jason.. it's been a long time I didn't receive a post from you.
Thanks for brilliant advice.. your great . Take Care & May God bless you always!
I am seeing a man who is 42 and I am 61 we have been dating for 10 weeks we have so much in common and we are going to get married in May we are truly in love with each other. We are very happy with each other. We tell each other we love and cherish each other and it is truly wonderful to have all this love for each other.
My man is 49 and I’m 64 . We get along great . Been together 3 years . Age is not an issue.
Love is all about someone you really feel for . beauty of your heart 💖
This sound like the starter kit for a man looking for a mother figure he can sleep with.
Since turning 39 there has been several much younger men that have been approaching me. I was surprised because i always here that men only like very young women.
Great story -Thank you for sharing !
Wonderful comments for a person like myself. I’ve learned quite a bit from these videos.
Great points !!👍
So awesome. I find it alluring knowing that every wrinkle she gets is .
.. yours ❤
This stuff gets me excited.
Thank You so much. I sincerely appreciate this insight.
Thanks a lot for the videos
I am 73 and my partner is 41, we have been together for 2 amazing years!
I'm 46 my bf is 40...we get along wonderfully and he has told me he hasn't met a woman like me in years...ive always dated older men but me and him just clicked from the first hello
Good to hear that. How long you're together now?
@@karina_0002 9 months
Luna Ava he is a lucky guy cause you look very charming :)
@@marincuculic1020 thank you
That's not a big age difference at all. I like someone much younger than me.... I'm crazy I know.
thank you so much
He is 60...I'm 71. Stunning! Neither looking, it just happened.
I'm 47 my fiance is 27 his grandpa used to say do not compare with age he always making me feel worthy and positive
I am 63 and I am dating a 51 year old. He made it very clear he was interested in me. We have been only together for a month but we enjoy being together. I am looking forward to see where this goes.
Good for You 😅
WOW .....!!! Interesting ........ all you said was surely true ...... Thank you ..... !!!
Exactly what I think!
Had the best flatter of my life hes 24 yrs.younger then me n oooo cant say more my 1st tym n lv him❤
49 here. My longest relationships have been with guys around 7-8 years younger. I’ve since realised it’s because I’m still childish in my outlook in life and my interests are also things associated with people decades younger such as gaming, manga and anime. Ive dated guys my age and a bit older when I was younger but as I grew older I found them more and more boring and thus less attractive.
Plus the guys I know seem to just give up on their appearance and health after they hit 40, seemingly proud of their beer bellies and moobs. As an ex personal trainer it drives me crazy because this is when you need to start taking care of your diet and activity levels the most.
Not childish. Young at heart.
I dated a 31-year-old when I was 51 just a few years ago. My relationship with him was amazing! There was definitely Rocky stuff because he had problems but his true self was an unbelievable man. I knew I could not be in a relationship with him, we were not in a relationship we were just dating. But he had things about him. That were nothing like I experienced randomly play a song, slow dance with me, we would lay out by the pool and he would just sit down at the edge of my chair and rub my feet in my legs as he just acted like he was enjoying every minute of it. he definitely kept me alive in the area of youth. The short six months I dated him were something I’ll never forget. We did tell each other we loved each other but deep inside I knew it was just the love of his person and companionship.❤️
Thanx for sharing!
😊❤.
I love a younger man, he's more man than I have ever met. He's so intelligent driven and knows what he wants. I don't want anyone but him. Direct/honest.❤
Im 56 my man is 38.. 6 years going strong
Hum… the hardest part about dating younger Men is weeding out Ones tat are looking for someone to take care of them. As an older Women trying to date younger Men we have to be careful not to try and put ourselves into that role…It definitely can work with the right Couples.💕🐺
Just remember that all men want to be taken care of regardless of age. Take my word 4 it. My hubby is 14 yrs my senior.
@@annabanzon313 do you financially support household? Think that's what she meant.
@@christinevillanueva54 yes
Thank you for some eye opening trufhs
Exactly sweet words
Thankyou sir.
Amen so great to read
Thank you!!!! 👏👏👏
Great content but the picture examples do not reflect the age difference! My man is MUCH younger in years but older in maturity than guys my age We boost each others self esteem I am outspoken and very happy My friends are skeptical I highly recommend you ladies up your goals instead 👍
How much younger?
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟 DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜
Wow! Interesting
I am so happy I picked a younger man!!
Sometimes it's not a happy story. Why because you're finishing raising a younger guy as if he was your son. Also I've seen cases where all of a sudden they want kids and because of your age you can't give them one and they end up leaving you. So you have to be very careful about this because it can be a two edge swore and you wind up getting hurt.
Wanting kids??! He11 no, I'm just in it for fun!
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He's 25; I'm 78. Not thinking about marriage at all. We're attracted to each other. He's gorgeous!
This is a joke, right?
@@CPBNJAHKA no
@@elizabethmccaul2223 you are 78 and he is 25??? Are u really serious?
Dang
@@CPBNJAHKA it's true. You don't know what I look like
We already did and we are more settled
I for one am not complaining. 😊
My guy said there's not many left like you and he's younger
My spouse is 25 and im 29 and trust me best spouse ever ❤.
To avoid children responsibility . That’s what I heard from this 25 yo guy.I was 58 years old at that time. I ignored him. I was happily married at that time.
Straight up, direct, no shame, no fear 👑💃😇🥰👍
Yes I'm free!
Hi Janis...where are you from? I live in Germany ...
I WAS 51 YEARS HE WAS 36 YEARS .I HAVE CONFIDENT AND IM LOOK GOOD FOR MY AGE BUT IM HAPPY BEING SINGLE..SINGLE IS BLESSING IS A CURSE 😅😅😅
I am 55 & just getting out there on the dating apps, it's different I think men my age want younger women for sure. I couldn't see myself dating a 40 year old, not sure what we have in common.
I need one
Not all older single women are confident. Alot have had their self esteem broken by men. In reality they just get used by younger men for sex until the man moves on to a younger model.
Bingo, that's what I see when my friends go with young men, 100% of the time. We're in our 60s, but far from rocking chair grannies. I'll never go with 20s, 30s, and have been approached😮. The youngest I'll go is 55.
Honestly I don’t see anything wrong older women need love to as well ‼️I like older men but some of them are literally stuck in there ways and want everything perfect . The younger guys are more relaxed . But there’s definitely nothing wrong with it but no older woman wants to have her younger partner mistaken her as a mother figure . Don’t confuse love with mother figure or care giver ‼️
I love my man that is younger than me. He loves me back. It is wonderful to love a young man.
I attract younger guys and have always wondered why. I'm more comfortable with them too for some reason......that's probably part of the reason. Lol I had a 19 year old chasing me when I was 38.....got involved with him and it actually lasted a few years. My husband now is 35 and I'm 53......we get along great. 😁
Dating a lady who's just 7 months older than I am. Want to make it a long term, but was a bit insecure. But reading these comments, I realize I don't even have a problem!
So appreciate this! One year ago I met a younger man by 8 years at work. We hit it off great. Both interested. But because he was younger I turned it off. Oops!
56...40 year Olds always approach me....they think I am 40...
Whe I was in my 20s, guys my age didn't pay attention to me. Now that I'm in my 30s I'm attracting all the 20 something year olds. Guys my age where never into me. And I'm hesitatant to go with younger men because they might just want a fling with an older woman
Yes, if heart involved, be cautious.
Im 24. I like older women, but they don’t like me because I’m not tall or good looking enough. They say its because of my age yet they hooked up with other dudes my age who are more desirable. Didn’t fit into either age group. So I guess some people are meant to be alone.
You’re still maturing into your looks & personality. Give yourself a chance💖
Same boat as you but not really into older women. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and one from my college too but we aren't classmates and 5 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21 and I can't stop thing about her.
Keep looking; and, most importantly of all, keep growing....you'll eventually attract what and who you want....
You are so young, focus on your health and finances, women of all ages will come.
Hi Joseph, keep improving yourself, gym, hygiene, haircuts, nice clothes, shoes, seems trivial but these matter. Dating coach? Invest in Joseph.