I’m only 22 but I’ve come to realize the importance of walking around with your head up, chest out, and a smile. Being that positivity can be life changing for someone.
@@DraculasHeadOnPike See thats the thing about confidence ,the only person who knows whether you are confident or not is you , if you think of your self as a confident person then you are one,Its like a choice you have to make yk. You just wake up and say youre confident you are confident. Confidence isn't something anyone is born with its just a choice you make
@@DraculasHeadOnPikethe phrase “fake it till you make it” actually works when working on your confidence. Once it’s been a while doing things again and again and again, you will notice you’ve been gaining confidence in that thing, and by consecuence, you will start being more confident.
Honestly I do not know what question to ask so heres a warrior's advice: Power comes in response to a need, not a desire. You have you create that need, not wait for it. You don't want it, You need it. (reply to it how ever you please, I'm curious what you all will reply to a statement as such.)
(Power comes in response to a need,not a desire)- if you want to achive something like muscular body, to be good academicly, to have a good relationship.its takes power to achive it, not by just desireing it must be backed up with action. (you have you creat that need,not to wait for it)-the need is created by desire,the need can be anything which is created by you then again it is backed up by taking action. (you don't want it,you need it.)-it is not something that you will be fine with out it, you have to be it.
I'm actually loving how hamza is switching between modern, highly edited videos with extra clips, music etc and just old-school, dopamine free video for us day ones.
He did it multiple times and switched back to highly edited videos again and again. It's hard to take these switches seriously when they happen that often.
(17) I don't know how to handle my situation with my old friends. I realize that I don't want to do what they're doing anymore, hanging out till 2am on discord playing games, some out partying and drinking, etc etc... i've kind of just been slowly drifting, spending more time alone working on myself or sometimes in genuine interactions with company I enjoy (new friends: we play music together, box, gym, sports, etc...). My current plan is to just still be kind when we see each other but not really participate in those late nights anymore. Its not the lifestyle i'm looking for and i've been a lot happier and fulfilled this way. If anyone has any pointers that'd be great, thanks.
I’d keep focusing on my progress, and hanging with the good friends. Still be respectful to the old ones though, as it shows that you’re still the person they know but better.
Actually everyqhere. Talk to someone at the gym, talk to random people on a train or bus, go running and join someone jogging. Sign up for swimming, maybe for martial arts and I am sure you will find them.
Hey bro I was struggling with this exact thing. And it took a long while for me to make friends who actually care. And all this happend out of no where very quickly actually. Go to libraries, restaurants, gyms, and don't force friendship let it come to you. Dont expect it to happen overnight either, and don't be afraid to initiate going out with people. Being positive will attract the right people, and if they don't stay then they weren't the right people. Good luck bro you will get there eventually
Well in building the house we build the foundations first. Your body mind and soul. Relationship with God your physique and getting money should be your first priorities. Then everything else can be built on that foundation when in doubt remember your foundations
You said, you are only 19. I remember a clip from Andrew Tate saying that you're only 19, you are a baby ! You have no human responsibility that you are in charge, so take all the risks you can in young age ! It's doesn't matter that you lost everything, but it's not the same for a guy 40 y.o with 3 childs... TAKE RISKS
i dont know brother! to be honest... i think you should do a deep reflections on how you want your life to be. so... have a vision. after that, you need to know the resources that you need for fulfill your vision. you need money? you need time? you need knowledge? know what you need for fill the gap between you and your goals! and always remember, put your mental health first, and heavily work on yourself!
To be completely honest the best answer is to not do anything. What I mean by that is quite literally to not distract yourself or rush into anything I would take time and reflect upon myself and what it is I wanted to work towards. Write stuff down, keep track of thoughts you have often. For example you might keep thinking about a certain experience when left to your own thoughts and that might be one of the things holding you back. In essence, my advice is to take the time to really understand yourself and the direction you want your life to go in. I can understand how daunting of a task that is though so I will tell you now you don't have to get a perfect answer just enough vague ones to get started.
I have 4 years left of puberty, if I'm lucky. I feel like the pieces are coming apart day after day, and I keep trying to pull myself together and put an effort on the puzzle. But as the days pass by, putting an effort, making progress on that puzzle piece gets harder and harder, and its this compounding effect that I feel I have no control over. I'm almost 15, I've been making efforts for self improvement since I was 12. I'm in the worst position of my life so far in terms of mental health, I don't expect for that to change. My whole life I've been incompetent at everything I've touched, and so I never pursued anything. Not friends, not hobbies, not even my studies; the supposed purpose of my teenage years. I'm behind my peers to an unimaginable degree. How do I flip this on its head. How do I get out of this, this desire to break free has lingered despite my bad condition. To give you a bit of context, and a couple things you may find useful, when answering my question: I have a grand total of 1 friend. He's a self improvement guru, he's maxxed out every millisecond of his time ever since he was 12. He has an incredible physique, training and seeing tangible results in his attempt to be an MMA fighter. He's intelligent, manages his time, can work endlessly, Top band grades. -Dis-appointed parents. Although he isn't the most empathetic guy, getting help from him is almost impossible as he puts maximizing his time over anything else, including helping a friend in need. Could I make use of this connection to help me get out of this rut? I need help. Thank you for your time.
You could join in with whatever he’s doing, or just do it yourself. 15 years ago in school I struggled to connect with people, I only learned how to talk to people through my absent fathers way of talking to people. Whenever I wanted to do something I’d just do it anyway, always offer others, but be the leader, even if you have no-one to lead, people will want to follow you if you’re going in good directions, bring them along.
Hey bro, I was in the same boat with hitting puberty late. It sucks I know bc I didn’t see signs of puberty till around 15 and I’m currently 18 and still going through it. Just focus on what you can control and prioritize you’re mental health ASAP.Watch Hamzas full mental health guide that really helped me
See brother your comment literally explains your problem. If you've been on self improvement for 3 years and still feel like the way you do there's something wrong isn't it?I read your comment 3 times and you seem like an intelligent guy and an overthinker. On what terms you think you're behind your peers in an unimaginable degree? Your one friend who aspire to be an MMA fighter, do you have the same goal in your mind? If you can answer these 2 questions I can give you some good advice with what I know
Here's the CURE : 1. maximize your biology. YOUR PHYSICAL STATE DIRECTLY EFFECTS YOUR MENTAL STATE. a. Cut out garbage food. Don't eat fast food or ultra processed food (food with 1 trillion ingredients). Eat simple foods like meat, fruits, vegetables eggs etc. b. Workout Everyday. Plenty of guides online. Pushups, running, squats is a good place to start. c. FIX YOUR SLEEP. Wake up at a certain time. And sleep at a certain time 2. Read & Write. a. Reading enriches you with the experiences of others allowing you to learn much faster than those before you and currently those around you. You can literally choose your peers, your mentors can be some of the greatest people to have ever lived. b .Writing is quite literally, thinking. Write about anything. What you think about teachers. What you think about yourself. What you think about the efficiency of the criminal justice system. Literally anything, and it WILL make you SHARPER 3. QUIT FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF Quite honestly my friend, you speak very pathetically. Do you notice what you're even saying to yourself? a. "I don't expect for that to change" WEAK : You're are literally telling yourself "I WANT TO LOSE". Never speak to yourself this way. Catch yourself next time. Force yourself to think and speak like a winner. No longer LISTEN to yourself. from now on you will NARRATE to yourself who you want to be. b. "My whole life I've been incompetent at everything I've touched, and so I never pursued anything" WEAK: "I've been a loser my entire life, so I continued to be a loser" ??????????. Be stronger an refer to 3a c. "Could I make use of this connection to help me get out of this rut?" W E A K: "I'm a loser so should I beg the only winner in my life to help me?!" Two things to say on this. One, this is pathetic, you already know what to do, you're just to scared to do it. Your pretending like he's gonna share some secret sauce that makes everything easier, and BOOM, you get everything you want!!! . . . . . WAKE UP TO REALITY . . . . . EAT PAIN AND PROSPER Two, everyone hates a needy person. I have cutout many people in my life ruthelesly (but respectfully), the always weak, the always needy, the always complaining, the always depressed. The simply hindered me. I had a friend ask me in a sad tone, he said "why don't you hang out with any of the boys anymore?" I said "You are my child hood friend and I will always remember you, but I am going to become LEGENDARY, not decent, not good, not great, but LEGENDARY. If you want to be someone who is frequently around me on my ascension, then you must be my equal or greater. Anything else will diminish my spirit. and that is UNACCEPTABLE." He looked at me like I was insane. Is what it is. No hate against him, still has a place in my heart. But he's not on my same wave length. My friend to be the friends with the strong you must become strong. Learn to carry your weight. 4. Social media a. No tiktok or IG. Obvious reasons if your IQ isn't tanked. b. Don't listen to shitty music that either makes you stupid or sad/depressed. IT IS POISONING YOUR BRAIN. 5. "How do I get out of this, this desire to break free has lingered despite my bad condition" Quit lying to yourself. You know what you needed to do. You don't desire to break free. You desire to for the world to become easier. You pray the magically one day will come where everything will become easy. You pray that the pain simply stop . . . Coward THE ONLY WAY IS THROUGH The world will not become easier You must become stronger Will you be that flame who refuses to be consumed by the darkness? Will you rebel by burning with fury pain & rage? Or you will you go quietly into the darkness?
It’s sad how some men don’t even know how to do the basics Which are: 1. Basic hygiene 2. Basic manners 3. A basic level of social intelligence (reading social cues and body language on a basic level) 4. Maintaining the cleanliness of your space
To all my brothers here, I am 19 and in self improvement for a quiet a while but i don't know what should i focus most at this time like gym, making money, social skills etc. Also not seeing much progress sometimes feels very discouraging.
work on all pillars, your can go to the gym early in the morning, after go to work or do you hustle, if where you work there is a cycle of people socialise there , if there is non, just follow hamza' s advice 😊of talking to 2 new girls every day
I also have the impression that you cannot focus on everything all at ones and be succesful at them. In my opinion, if there's a priority like making money, you should mainly focus on that and neglect lesser important aspects for some time. That's what all of those entrepreneurs do as well. 16 hour days for a few years until they reach 7 figure revenues. They then start focusing on the other aspects more, because they can outsource large parts of their business.
Through the thousands of years that history has played out, the countless people who've died because they were too weak.. The strongest have survived.. It's already in YOUR DNA.. YOU have to unlock your full potential, it would be a shame to your bloodline if you didn't.. I don't know if you'll understand the weight behind this, but. 600 years from now theirs going to be a kid wondering why how he can fight so well.. And why he's so strong.. He's going to an amazing speaker and he's going to be the richest your family has ever seen All because you never gave up your actions will have a positive effect on your life and generations down the line Stay true to yourself To god And to others If you feel discouraged from a lack of results.. it means you need discipline to carry you through Review your plan and improve where possible.. You're always going to be learning new things.. ALWAYS.
Prioritize engaging in activities you genuinely enjoy, focusing on the journey rather than solely on the destination. Otherwise, you're likely to experience constant stress without seeing real progress. Had I grasped this concept a year ago, I could have avoided a year of futilely chasing outcomes, which only resulted in stress and ingratitude. I failed to recognize the blessings in my life. Now, I see the value in my current circumstances and am beginning to enjoy my life, slowly transforming into the person who effortlessly attracts the life I desire. This change has significantly simplified and enriched my life, making it happier and more fulfilling. It's astonishing how much improvement comes from accepting my life as it is and pursuing what I truly want. It's crucial, however, to distinguish between genuinely fulfilling activities and short-term indulgences like lounging around, using substances, or eating junk food. If you're inclined towards these habits, it might be time to explore positive routines, discover more about yourself, build discipline, and find what truly excites you. Once you uncover these passions, the appeal of wasteful activities diminishes because you'd rather spend your time engaging in meaningful pursuits. For instance, despite hearing the benefits of gym workouts, I never enjoyed them, mistakenly believing they were the sole path to fitness. This pursuit of immediate results, without enjoying the process, left me stressed and drained. Eventually, I discovered my love for calisthenics, which I engage in purely for the joy it brings. Removing the pressure to achieve specific outcomes has allowed me to cherish the process, focusing less on results and more on my passion, which I can't imagine living without.
As a young guy on self-improvement, I find it hard to be single I feel constant loneliness and all I want is to have a girlfriend. I constantly remind myself it is for the better I don't have one now but I just feel Like it is everything that I am missing.
18 years old: how do i overcome imposter syndrome? i wake up early, do the ‘eat the frog’ technique, eat well, train hard etc etc. i’ve tried dropshipping (just about broke even). it’s just the imposter syndrome that holds me back, thinking like ‘who am i to do all this? i’ll never make it’. hopefully others can resonate with me.
How do i hold myself accountable and stop making excuses for my failure and how to take more risks and overcome failure hamza thank you by the way for your guidance by the way when i first started watching your videos i didn't take action and thanks to modern conditioning i dismissed what you said as toxic but now that i have hit rock bottom and fell harder into degenracy i have begin to appreciate your advice more than ever as a young man so again thank you. Sorry for the paragraph
You become accountable by holding yourself accountable. You stop making excuses by not making excuses. You take more risks by taking more risks. You think that there is some easy answer You think there is a trick that makes it less painful THERE ARE NO TRICKS THE ONLY WAY IS THROUGH Embrace the pain Or you will not "overcome failure" ps "Sorry for the paragraph" if you think this is a lot of writing you're brain is fried and you should read some books
We like being lazy. And asking these questions are a lazy way to feel like we're going somewhere without actually going somewhere. We decide what we want to do, any time of the day. Even if we're "exhausted" we still have the option to decide and choose. And so, if you know what you should be doing, just do it, instead of overcomplicating and turning it into some stupid philosophy. It's hard yes, I slack sometimes yes, but realize that it's always within your control. I wanna say 3 interesting and helpful things though: 1. Make your goals visible through writing them down and adjust what you should be doing and when in order to achieve your goals. This helps clean things up in your head and help you focus 2. Doing hard things regularly increases the size of something in your brain, I dont know the name of it, which is responsible for doing hard things, and when you stop doing them, after a day or two it starts shrinking again, so momentum is a big thing, once you start do not stop, or else you'll feel hard things become hard again 3. Develop a character in which you have no other choice other than do what you gotta do. For example, which is a really weird experience of mine. Right before I went to bed I read a book in which the main character is very disciplined. When I woke up somehow my mind tricked me into thinking that I was him for a solid 2-3 seconds and instead of staying in bed I fucking jumped out of it thinking that this is who I am and what I should be doing. Don't give yourself other choices, you can't stay in bed, you can't skip the gym, you just do it. ❤
The answers you have received, despite the good intentions, probably didn't do much for you(correct me if I'm wrong). Taking risks and overcoming (fear of) failure are no easy things to learn, and thus it will take time and energy. The first step is to accept that, and to realize it is gonna take a while. Play the long game. Eventually, it will all become second nature. For now, let's return to the core of your problem. Your thoughts seem to be quite chaotic and unorganized. Since your situation is not specified, it's a bit harder to know what's going on exactly, so take this with a grain of salt. My recommendation for you is to watch either some David Goggings OR Julienhimself videos (they are quite the opposite, so make a choice) and see what happens. Other people you could check out are Jordan Peterson(old content!), Gabor Maté, Better Ideas or even Tristan Tate lol. These last ones should come with a warning. They might become a source of distraction and confusion. But from my impression you don't have too much to lose at this point. It's still better to binge on productivity UA-cam videos than God knows what..
@@Dontoverthinkthis-sq7ws I have already watched videos from most of your suggestions but thank you anyway for them my root problem I will say is lack of discipline a flaw I have been slowly working on or doing the hard work even when I don't feel like it.and yes these replies have helped recently.
I have nothing to ask. I just wan to say, Whatever you're doing right now, don't give up One day it will pay off No matter what, please please please don't give up Your future self will thank you. This mindset is what pushes me during the hard times
I’ve been existent on this world for long enough for me to know that everyone lives are different in a unique way, but everyday when we walk past a person we don’t know, we somehow feel connected, but we take it for granted and never said anything to that person like “if I don’t see you again live a good life” or something like that, there’s just so many people in this world and personally if I don’t see them again in life it just feels so darned awkward. Because that person could be your future lover, acquaintance or friend. I know there is no way to tell if you can live tomorrow or die in your sleep. This just makes me question life itself, and why have god created us, and why have we turned into antisocial animals that only live only for themselves.
Your purpose is to become the best version of yourself in all areas. Financially, physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc. Get started where you can and the money making part will come to you. Sit down with a journal and write out the things you’re good at, things you enjoy, and things you know a lot about. Try everything and find the grind that you can endure forever. The one that’s your purpose is the one you can help the most people/ have the biggest impact with
Starting over from scratch, I would prioritize discovering what truly brings me joy and engagement, emphasizing the importance of the journey itself over the destination. It's crucial to understand that forcing outcomes or focusing solely on profitability from the outset can hinder genuine progress and fulfillment. To find my purpose and potentially profit from it, I'd build positive habits and routines to explore my interests deeply, distinguishing between fleeting pleasures and true passions. This exploration involves trying different activities to unearth what resonates with me, thus developing discipline and self-awareness. Identifying an activity that I naturally enjoy, much like my preference for calisthenics over gym workouts, allows me to engage with it purely for the love of the process, rather than the results. This approach ensures a more enjoyable and fulfilling life and establishes a foundation for profitability. However, it's vital to acknowledge that forcing things or chasing immediate profitability can lead to instability. Instead, becoming proficient in your passion through dedicated learning and practice is key. As you excel in something you love, monetization opportunities will naturally emerge. You might not see all the possibilities now, as it's a process that unfolds step by step. Only by committing to each stage of growth can you begin to see the next steps and understand how to make your passion profitable. To summarize, finding your purpose and potentially profiting from it entails experimenting extensively and embracing your passions without pushing for immediate results. Transforming into someone who naturally engages with their interests leads to a life in harmony with those passions. Initially, your focus should be on personal growth and skill development rather than immediate profitability; success and stability stem from consistent dedication and becoming proficient in what you love. As you master your area of passion, you'll naturally discover various ways to monetize it, uncovering opportunities that weren't apparent at the beginning. This gradual process of exploration and improvement will guide you to see the future steps more clearly.
Happiness comes from progress and accomplishment. Instead of focusing on trying to become happy, focus on building the life you desire and for-filling your purpose while you're here. You pursing this will bring happiness with it. Also, don't withhold happiness from yourself until you reach a certain goal. Learn to love the process of reaching that goal/building your dream life and you will find happiness in the process.
Gratitude ever single day. You will always have more or less than another person. So the acquisition of things will not make you happy long term. But gratitude will
Why is it that whenever I feel ready for a girlfriend, and I get one it never ends well and I never end up feeling well about the relationship and end it
i just want to be rich and take care of family and retire them, make them proud, but everytime i try to start a business or something i keep finding myself stopping at the worst time and start doing bad habits like playing games, and everytime i play games i get pissed off, i get pissed off by how uselless i am how worthless i am how im wasting my time on these bs games because my mom and my dad looks me with empty eyes (whats he gonna do about his life) and i feel bad about this but i cant keep going on the thing that i should do because i just dont have "real friends" who are thinking about their futures, i just need friends that has goals. Please i just need some friends
Hey mate So. Life is life. We are all living the same existence. People often say becoming a billionaire is unrealistic. Elon musk is a billionaire and his life is just as real as yours When it comes to doing the things that matter. You’re worth just sitting down and writing out how mad existence is at all. It can help you to do work you know you should do when you remind yourself how mad it is that you’re even here. Not to mention the shit your parents and everyone else has gone through to make your life as easy as possible It’s so lucky. And so easy to take for granted But writing this down reminds you how lucky you are And can help you do the work to achieve the things you want to achieve for the people you love
Number 1 stop being a pussy talking bout how you're so worthless. Like ok, so stop being worthless, do something that gives you some value and increases your worth. its always 1 step at a time man you just gotta keep making steps and never give up on yourself. Believe that your ambitions will come true and then once you really believe that your actions start to follow suit with your ambition because you know that it needs to happen for your goals to come into fruition. And stop using lack of friends as an excuse. If you want friends that have ambitions you gotta provide those friends w value too. You're not valuable enough yet to have friends w high value and ambitions.
How can I become happier and more confident, how can I improve my family relationship, how can I get more confident around girls , how can I cure my anxious attachment style,how can I become a millionaire by 20(I'm 18), how can I get my dream physique (i should go to gym but I'm unemployed and my family is not well off financially like literally) how can i become more masculine, how can i erase this fear of authority, how can i move in from her,how can i live my dream life ,how can i have more freedom
The 1st most important is gym and diet. Build good strong body. 2nd Very important thing! Stay out off trouble. Dont do any off the stupid stuff if you can avoid it.
Honestly I get lost when talking to people (Especially girls too). I've always wonder if they're going to judge me or not and worried if I do the wrong thing then it becomes like a problem for me.
How to find a tribe where you'll get life long friends who not only will be there for grinding together, but to grow, to have fun ( non-degen ways) altogether build strong brotherhood.
I’m 17 years old and I work pretty much every waking hour of my day. I have an online business and I have such a drive and fire in my belly that I haven’t seen in another guy my age. But every time I tell it to somebody, they come at me with that balance bs talk. I know most of the times people say we need balance but it’s just a way to lie to yourself and be lazy. I know I should be working as I’m young, but how do I go about enjoying life without compromising my purpose/work? I don’t like parties, school, or anything most teens do nowadays. And I don’t like hookup culture, I just want to find a good girl who understands my grind and supports it. Should I just wait until I get older to date?
How do i get over the fact that my family and friends watch my youtube channel and i want to post the types of self improvement videos but it feels strange, like thats a different me from what they normally see
Reason I came to you and been watching I had my life crushed when my sister bloodline that I took out of depression feed paid rent come to me in front of my girlfriend and said that she deserves better I am just crushed my girlfriend from 4 years btw
I am 16, and my parents are not letting me join the gym or clear out my diet. My mother still uses seed oils and gets angry if she sees me excercise. I tried to tell them about the harmful effects of seed oils but they refused to believe me. My question is if you were in my place, how would you navigate through this?
I am 18 years old and my problem is that I have so much things to do and even though I have scheduled my things I find it hard to get things done. I play icehockey (and inline also), disc golf, go to gym, try to be good at school (bc my parents...), and also many other tasks. I dont know what goals I should focus or cut off bc I just want to be good at everything I do and when I am not able to do them I feel bad about my self and start doing some degenerate things for example not sleeping enough, fapping, complaining. I dont have close likeminded friends and I think that If I would have things could be done way much easier. I am grateful if I get any help here in my comments.
Read the subtle art of not giving a f And focus on yourself because if everything works out and you become successful you will be able to do everything you have wanted to do so you won’t miss out And be with people who encourage you and do things that are similar to the your goals and not be with them if they bring you down or take you on the wrong path leave them and just keep thinking about how they will want to be friend with you when suddenly you better than they are And they will still hate because people don’t want you to be better than them expect people who are real friends So focus on yourself bro and be the best version of yourself things will work out if you stay consistent
How can I stop being annoying, i tended to always act weird since a kid in social gatherings, so I’m shy sometimes to prevent that, I’m more mindful of it now but I still have my moments, how can I fix this and be that charismatic guy who doesn’t mess up in public?
I do not like to party so I do it scarcely but even when I do I cannot stop feeling responsible (I do not drink) for everything and everyone around me. Because of that I cannot relax and enjoy this little time that I have off.
I am 15 right now and have many hopes and dreams. I have already started to pursue many of them but am still struggling with the business aspect of things. I have been trying to learn sales and have come a decent way ( still not that great tho ). My parents are not in favor of this passion of mine and and not very well-versed, so it is quite difficult to just begin. My main question is just how to start? Like what do i do so make a business ( ex. B2C or B2B )? Like what platforms to use? I have been procrastinating for way too long.
17years old, preparing for college entrance exams currently how to find the confidence in the things you know or positive energy in ourselfes as a being? you cant be confident about your knowledge as i realised that the knowledge i have is seriously limited (checks out as im only 17) but how to learn that knowledge. while preparing for these entrance exams i also realised that you cant trust all the teachers who seem like they can teach but infact are doing you more harm. apologies if this question is too vague i hv been thinking about this for a year now but havnt gotten closer to any answer. thanks
I lack purpose in my life. I lack proper vision in my life, I don't have a goal in my life. I have few masculine friends but at the same time we all are just trying to find our purpose. How me and my friends can find our purpose, have goals and have a vision? I want to be a man with wisdom, can anyone tell me how can I achieve that? I am currently 20. I want to attract a good feminine women in my life who can inspire me to raise my standards even high as a man and get to the top while her being by my side and being respected from from her. I hope in general every man is looking for the same thing. But I have been stuck in finding my purpose, having a clear goal and a vision.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said: The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah the weak believer. Sahih Muslim. My question: How can I become a strong believer?
Progress in the gym can be slow to start, especially when your young. It takes time. Think of what older you would want you to do. Discipline boils down to the concept of delayed gratification. In other words lol “doing the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it” I try to remind myself by hanging around like minded friends and we always keep each other accountable.
how do i destroy limiting beliefs because i feel like they run me and a lot of other guys mind when it comes to trying to do anything long term like youtube.
What do i do if i live in a very evil and dark environment where people make fun of you for no reason and they disrespect you whenever they can (this is not over exaggerated it has happened to me and continues to happen to me no matter what body language tricks i do or how i talk unless im strong and big and feared)
It's no revelation that tons of people suffer from addiction, most harmful in nature. One I really struggle with is my addiction to dopamine, particulary neglecting difficult things since they don't really provide a dopamine boost. Do you struggle with the same issues? What are some measures I can take to move my life beyond this point and if you did overcome such issues, beyond the standard advice, how were you able to overcome such issue?
How can i stop being lost in life? I’m about to be an adult (18 years) and I haven’t achieve anything in life. I’m really lost and sometimes I just want to have a girlie quick and forget this stuff
How should I spent my time? As a teenager you only get to be it once should I use my time dedicating it to Grow? And how should I know when to trust someone who gives advice?
what is going on with me? i’m broke but i’m not even worried about it, i’m lazy and find it hard to focus on being productive. any advice that i can receive?
Well im 15 and i have a fear of not making it to the top 1% . Im can confidently say that i will make it there. But is it that scary when you are not there
how to be a high value man if my ideal physique isn’t to be big. See my dilemma is that i’m not into lifting weights, i play football so my legs are pretty strong and Ive got pretty big calves and hamstring and even ab muscles but I don’t want to really gain upper body strength. My ideal physique is of someone like Neymar jr who is fast and nimble but still athletic, low bf. I want to be more agressive as a man as well and am thinking of picking up kickboxing as I want to learn how to fight instead of being a pussy so there’s that.
Im 17 and i want to make money i researched it everywhere from past 2 yrs but not get any yet Also want to have a good circle which is not possible in my locality
I dont have any experience, bit most people online tend to sell your plans to become rich, which doesn't work. Everyone has different questions in life, and you can't copy someone else. So maybe take advantage of the books and college around you to get more knowledge about business and building a good one.
be the kind of person that legit people, people who have goals and hustle want te be friends with , if you improve in life , people like that are going to come to you
Start hustling yourself and becoming the type of person you would want to be friends with and you will attract like minded people to you. Law of Attraction.
(20yr old) Best advice I can give anyone: 1. Failue isn’t one event, it’s the consistent decline of … 2. Walk with a bounce, head high, chest out, make eye contact and smile to people. When in a restaurant/cafe/bakery always take control of the room, be loud, respectful and funny (Always smile) Happiness radiates happiness, people who see u happy will become happy and people will react postiviely to your happiness (it’s a neverending cycle) This is a major foundation to then be successfull in my opinion, build the best connections and develop your networking skills
When I was 19 years old, (I'm currently turning 21), I used to work for like 12hours, ended up with me breaking down and experiencing the worst anxiety /rut of my life, I have now learnt to say no to overworking(like actually taking more time to enjoy things I thought was a waste of time) and the toxic hustle grind, and be more holistic in my self-improvement, and actually enjoy the days more, Thanks a ton as always for your videos
Today, for the first time, I approached two girls. Even though I felt uncomfortable, I still did it because, as Hamza once said, you have to gather the courage to talk to girls so you can meet your future dream woman. And ever since that the thought never left me, so I told myself I wouldn't leave the city today until I got a number. And to be honest, I did it, and afterwards, I felt so confident, even though it went so badly and now they're ghosting me. But I know that in the future, it won't be like this because it's part of the progress. So i am happy of todays Progress
Well done on building up the courage. Most people don't realize how difficult it is to do this without having any prior experience, it can be so scary and overwhelming, but the fact that you pushed through is fantastic. Although what you're doing is healthy and fairly positive skill you need to acquire, don't be attached to the outcome, rather the let outcome find you. I'm Christian and you don't necessarily have to be Christian to understand the following: Matthew 12:30 AMP [30] He who is not with Me [once and for all on My side] is against Me; and he who does not [unequivocally] gather with Me scatters. If they don't talk to you, their honestly doing you a favour, you don't have to waste your time on people who don't resonate with you. Stay blessed brother, focus on the process not the outcome ❤
@visualities I asked a girl about her phone number, but she told me that she had a boyfriend, so I just turned directions. Afterwards I asked another girl I was like asking her some stuff, she were responding, but it still was kinda awkward because as I talked to her my mouth told her "i am sorry" for doing it so bad and I didnt even wanted to say it, it just came out. But in the end I still got her number, I texted her "hey was nice to meet you" and since then no reply😭. Anyways this was a wholesome experience and I kinda like to get rejected by girls. Because it only tells you that you have room to improve. So yeah I got only one number. Have a great day my brother!
I lost myself. I stopped watching your videoes and fell into even worse habits, i still workout but that's it, my mindset is all wrong. I'm mostly typing this for myself but i'm gonna try and stay on the right path. I hope i'll be able to forgive myself for what i've done.
how old are you bro? I'm 15 btw and I feel like I'm behind everyone my age on self-improvement because I can't even focus properly due to allergies bruh
@@rithvikmedasani363 I’m 22 but don’t use allergies as a reason for why you feel behind. You’re literally 15. I didn’t discover self improvement until 17/18. Do the best you can with the cards you’ve been dealt. I wish I knew about self improvement at 15
@@ejm_official thank you so much for that advice brother! I really needed it! I think I'll go to college this year to have something to grind and also to gain some skills like social skills and time management skills
It’s not that deep bro your only human after all and we aren’t perfect, instead of beating yourself up about it just get back to it and use your relapse into bad habits as a lesson to never do it again, you’ve got this g 👊
Man you are still so real and pure even though money is in your face. I appreciate you a ton bro. I’m far up on the self improvement and other guys my age look up to me, and it is partly because of guys like you that I kept going through tough times and even worked harder on myself. For example when I was 15 (now 17) my dad got diagnosed with ALS, and it was very progressive. During his decline I took my mental and physical so serious even more so than before. Worked out 6/7 days a week and leveled up about everywhere (except for school where I couldn’t really put my attention at the time, but still managed with decent grades). He died within a year later when I was 16, but the grind has not stopped. Now working really hard and about to have exams for my last year of grad school. One little thing I struggle with though is when I tell others about self improvement ideas and things I am working on in the early stages of it and the feedback always is negative, I tend to give up on it for a while. I understand this is something people automatically do because they don’t want others to outgrow them, so now I just silently grind before showing my passions, but do you have any other advice on the mental block of opinions on your goals?
I would start meditation "Meditation can help strengthen your mindfulness and inner peace. As a result, you develop a deeper self-acceptance and a better understanding of your own thoughts and feelings. This makes it easier for you to accept the opinions of others without them strongly influencing your own self-perception. Ultimately, meditation helps to establish a stable inner foundation that enables you to react more calmly to the opinions of others."
Keep up the amazing work bro. Your ability to work hard through tragedy and adversity will get you very far in life. You will be a man everyone looks up to and counts on. My advice is to not let others opinions bog you down and question your identity as a man.
Sorry for your loss man. To your question, I'd say get a group of friends online from Adonis Gang or something and speak to them about your goals, not to "normal people". Hormozi says something like if they don't have a life you want, don't listen to their opinions.
I recommend you read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie because, in that book, Mr.Carnegie talks about how you can get other people to understand you and like you even if they have the opposite opinions and beliefs that you have. One piece of advice I will give to you is to always control your temper in conversations because getting angry or emotional will only make the other person more stubborn with his ideologies, opinions, and beliefs because he/she will feel the need to defend themselves and their pride. So never say that the other person is wrong or stupid and genuinely be open-minded even if you know that they are wrong. Doing so will make the other person more open-minded as well so he might start understanding and respecting your goals and ideas even if he/she is a loser. I could talk about a lot more techniques like this but I'll just recommend you to read the book that I mentioned cuz it will change your life
I'm always afraid, before training, before sparring, to talk to the girl I like, to be honest with my parents about my future. Will the fear ever go away?
I am almost 21 and i struggle with this too.. especially because there is no such thing as progressive overload for this (you either do it completely or you dont)
No, it can decrease but will never go away completely. However, you can learn how not to be afraid of this anxiety. The key for that is to always try to do things overcoming this feeling and see that the result is not as scary as you expected
if you fake courage it actually courage when i first start sparing i always has this fear didnt know the opponent but it goes when your mind knows you are in it their is no escape.
No, the fear is never going to go away. Fear is a natural human emotion. You can't deal with it. But, you can manage to control it, and get over it. For example, you're afraid to talk to girls, Good. You trick your mind to go, with fear in you and let your mind talk naturally to this girl... It's also correlated with self-confidence...
Yes it is but you will notice the persons you want are very rare which is good as a man as you build yourself you will control your reality more and if this is what you want you can filter that into existence
Btw I'm a single mother raised 16 year old boy who witnessed constant fights at home since I grew up even till today. Changed houses from my father's parent's home to father's own home to mother's parent's home which my mother reconstructed with her own money and now my aunt fights with my mother. My mother works a middle-class earning job which I'm very grateful to. My mother is my only family and I have no siblings.
For a man I believe that trauma is a good thing, it's what makes you succeed in life, I actually love it and embrace it. I came to this realization this morning, I got a bit sad because of some personal issues and everytime my mood improves I find my self trying to come back to the sad state, I actually liked, sometimes it's good to feel sad, it's good to feel anxious as long as you are still doing the work. But I'm sure Hamza would disagree and tell you to read some book 😅
@@dangermouse6404 Thank you for your insight G! However I think home is a place where you rest and relax. I work hard and all but what's the point if at the end I don't have that core fulfillment and peace in the most basic unit of life.
@@fahadalnabi Yeah I totally get you brother, but for me I rarely feel peace and I don't want to feel it, it will just make me lazier, but I'm weird I guess 😆
Bro I have been raised by single father and it's tough to handle the situation of your home but I have learnt one thing that moving around in nature and developing new hobbies which can divert your mind from all these problems but at the same time you have to handle the situation with your parents because there is solution for every problem Bro.... I hope you find this helpful
I just won a massive business competition and came FIRST PLACE: ua-cam.com/video/SyMFphASx9k/v-deo.html
damn
I’m only 22 but I’ve come to realize the importance of walking around with your head up, chest out, and a smile. Being that positivity can be life changing for someone.
real
like how to?? i am not confident enough to walk lol?!!?! i forget how to walk when i see a bunch of people
@@DraculasHeadOnPike See thats the thing about confidence ,the only person who knows whether you are confident or not is you , if you think of your self as a confident person then you are one,Its like a choice you have to make yk. You just wake up and say youre confident you are confident. Confidence isn't something anyone is born with its just a choice you make
@@DraculasHeadOnPikethe phrase “fake it till you make it” actually works when working on your confidence. Once it’s been a while doing things again and again and again, you will notice you’ve been gaining confidence in that thing, and by consecuence, you will start being more confident.
change for your self bro and your family make them proud dont make them think that u are a waste of space
Honestly I do not know what question to ask so heres a warrior's advice: Power comes in response to a need, not a desire. You have you create that need, not wait for it. You don't want it, You need it. (reply to it how ever you please, I'm curious what you all will reply to a statement as such.)
How to be needed how to crave for that need what should I do
Without a strong necessity, most people are unable to make changes.
(Power comes in response to a need,not a desire)- if you want to achive something like muscular body, to be good academicly, to have a good relationship.its takes power to achive it, not by just desireing it must be backed up with action. (you have you creat that need,not to wait for it)-the need is created by desire,the need can be anything which is created by you then again it is backed up by taking action. (you don't want it,you need it.)-it is not something that you will be fine with out it, you have to be it.
A true saiyan warrior
Indeed… also necessity is the mother of invention…
I'm actually loving how hamza is switching between modern, highly edited videos with extra clips, music etc and just old-school, dopamine free video for us day ones.
He did it multiple times and switched back to highly edited videos again and again. It's hard to take these switches seriously when they happen that often.
He also get less views with this kind of content
(17) I don't know how to handle my situation with my old friends. I realize that I don't want to do what they're doing anymore, hanging out till 2am on discord playing games, some out partying and drinking, etc etc... i've kind of just been slowly drifting, spending more time alone working on myself or sometimes in genuine interactions with company I enjoy (new friends: we play music together, box, gym, sports, etc...). My current plan is to just still be kind when we see each other but not really participate in those late nights anymore. Its not the lifestyle i'm looking for and i've been a lot happier and fulfilled this way. If anyone has any pointers that'd be great, thanks.
Like Plan The Things With Generosity And Cancel It In Last Moments Or Just Switch On DND When They Will Try N Contact You.
I’d keep focusing on my progress, and hanging with the good friends. Still be respectful to the old ones though, as it shows that you’re still the person they know but better.
How do you actually find a group of high quality friends that also initiate fun activities and you're not the only one initiating fun things?
Im in the same situation, i guess there are lonely periods but you also want to be the person who socializes more, be the extrovert outside
Actually build confidence and they will come to you. That’s how I did it.
Actually everyqhere. Talk to someone at the gym, talk to random people on a train or bus, go running and join someone jogging. Sign up for swimming, maybe for martial arts and I am sure you will find them.
Hey bro I was struggling with this exact thing. And it took a long while for me to make friends who actually care. And all this happend out of no where very quickly actually. Go to libraries, restaurants, gyms, and don't force friendship let it come to you. Dont expect it to happen overnight either, and don't be afraid to initiate going out with people. Being positive will attract the right people, and if they don't stay then they weren't the right people. Good luck bro you will get there eventually
Controversial, but realistically you shouldn’t be engaging or worried about unproductive fun when you’re young
I’m 19 and will turn 20 in November, my question is: how would you start your life over if you have lost everything, if you went back to ground zero?
Well in building the house we build the foundations first. Your body mind and soul. Relationship with God your physique and getting money should be your first priorities. Then everything else can be built on that foundation when in doubt remember your foundations
You said, you are only 19. I remember a clip from Andrew Tate saying that you're only 19, you are a baby ! You have no human responsibility that you are in charge, so take all the risks you can in young age ! It's doesn't matter that you lost everything, but it's not the same for a guy 40 y.o with 3 childs... TAKE RISKS
i dont know brother! to be honest... i think you should do a deep reflections on how you want your life to be.
so... have a vision.
after that, you need to know the resources that you need for fulfill your vision.
you need money? you need time? you need knowledge?
know what you need for fill the gap between you and your goals!
and always remember, put your mental health first, and heavily work on yourself!
i would read read read read all day , reading is what actually makes you smart and being getting smart you get what ever you wish in life
To be completely honest the best answer is to not do anything. What I mean by that is quite literally to not distract yourself or rush into anything I would take time and reflect upon myself and what it is I wanted to work towards. Write stuff down, keep track of thoughts you have often. For example you might keep thinking about a certain experience when left to your own thoughts and that might be one of the things holding you back. In essence, my advice is to take the time to really understand yourself and the direction you want your life to go in. I can understand how daunting of a task that is though so I will tell you now you don't have to get a perfect answer just enough vague ones to get started.
How to survive in a negative environment if leaving is not an option
just remember that u are the man bro,stop caring what others think.Made the environment better and stop giving a fuck
I have 4 years left of puberty, if I'm lucky. I feel like the pieces are coming apart day after day, and I keep trying to pull myself together and put an effort on the puzzle. But as the days pass by, putting an effort, making progress on that puzzle piece gets harder and harder, and its this compounding effect that I feel I have no control over.
I'm almost 15, I've been making efforts for self improvement since I was 12. I'm in the worst position of my life so far in terms of mental health, I don't expect for that to change. My whole life I've been incompetent at everything I've touched, and so I never pursued anything. Not friends, not hobbies, not even my studies; the supposed purpose of my teenage years. I'm behind my peers to an unimaginable degree. How do I flip this on its head.
How do I get out of this, this desire to break free has lingered despite my bad condition. To give you a bit of context, and a couple things you may find useful, when answering my question: I have a grand total of 1 friend. He's a self improvement guru, he's maxxed out every millisecond of his time ever since he was 12. He has an incredible physique, training and seeing tangible results in his attempt to be an MMA fighter. He's intelligent, manages his time, can work endlessly, Top band grades. -Dis-appointed parents. Although he isn't the most empathetic guy, getting help from him is almost impossible as he puts maximizing his time over anything else, including helping a friend in need. Could I make use of this connection to help me get out of this rut?
I need help. Thank you for your time.
You could join in with whatever he’s doing, or just do it yourself. 15 years ago in school I struggled to connect with people, I only learned how to talk to people through my absent fathers way of talking to people.
Whenever I wanted to do something I’d just do it anyway, always offer others, but be the leader, even if you have no-one to lead, people will want to follow you if you’re going in good directions, bring them along.
Hey bro, I was in the same boat with hitting puberty late.
It sucks I know bc I didn’t see signs of puberty till around 15 and I’m currently 18 and still going through it. Just focus on what you can control and prioritize you’re mental health ASAP.Watch Hamzas full mental health guide that really helped me
See brother your comment literally explains your problem. If you've been on self improvement for 3 years and still feel like the way you do there's something wrong isn't it?I read your comment 3 times and you seem like an intelligent guy and an overthinker. On what terms you think you're behind your peers in an unimaginable degree? Your one friend who aspire to be an MMA fighter, do you have the same goal in your mind? If you can answer these 2 questions I can give you some good advice with what I know
Puburty stops at 25 for guy and even then your test is still really high (prime at your 30s
Here's the CURE :
1. maximize your biology. YOUR PHYSICAL STATE DIRECTLY EFFECTS YOUR MENTAL STATE.
a. Cut out garbage food. Don't eat fast food or ultra processed food (food with 1 trillion ingredients). Eat simple foods like meat, fruits, vegetables eggs etc.
b. Workout Everyday. Plenty of guides online. Pushups, running, squats is a good place to start.
c. FIX YOUR SLEEP. Wake up at a certain time. And sleep at a certain time
2. Read & Write.
a. Reading enriches you with the experiences of others allowing you to learn much faster than those before you and currently those around you. You can literally choose your peers, your mentors can be some of the greatest people to have ever lived.
b .Writing is quite literally, thinking. Write about anything. What you think about teachers. What you think about yourself. What you think about the efficiency of the criminal justice system. Literally anything, and it WILL make you SHARPER
3. QUIT FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF
Quite honestly my friend, you speak very pathetically. Do you notice what you're even saying to yourself?
a. "I don't expect for that to change" WEAK :
You're are literally telling yourself "I WANT TO LOSE". Never speak to yourself this way. Catch yourself next time. Force yourself to think and speak like a winner. No longer LISTEN to yourself. from now on you will NARRATE to yourself who you want to be.
b. "My whole life I've been incompetent at everything I've touched, and so I never pursued anything" WEAK:
"I've been a loser my entire life, so I continued to be a loser" ??????????.
Be stronger an refer to 3a
c. "Could I make use of this connection to help me get out of this rut?" W E A K:
"I'm a loser so should I beg the only winner in my life to help me?!"
Two things to say on this. One, this is pathetic, you already know what to do, you're just to scared to do it. Your pretending like he's gonna share some secret sauce that makes everything easier, and BOOM, you get everything you want!!! . . . . . WAKE UP TO REALITY . . . . . EAT PAIN AND PROSPER
Two, everyone hates a needy person. I have cutout many people in my life ruthelesly (but respectfully), the always weak, the always needy, the always complaining, the always depressed. The simply hindered me. I had a friend ask me in a sad tone, he said "why don't you hang out with any of the boys anymore?" I said "You are my child hood friend and I will always remember you, but I am going to become LEGENDARY, not decent, not good, not great, but LEGENDARY. If you want to be someone who is frequently around me on my ascension, then you must be my equal or greater. Anything else will diminish my spirit. and that is UNACCEPTABLE." He looked at me like I was insane. Is what it is. No hate against him, still has a place in my heart. But he's not on my same wave length.
My friend to be the friends with the strong you must become strong. Learn to carry your weight.
4. Social media
a. No tiktok or IG. Obvious reasons if your IQ isn't tanked.
b. Don't listen to shitty music that either makes you stupid or sad/depressed. IT IS POISONING YOUR BRAIN.
5. "How do I get out of this, this desire to break free has lingered despite my bad condition"
Quit lying to yourself. You know what you needed to do. You don't desire to break free. You desire to for the world to become easier. You pray the magically one day will come where everything will become easy. You pray that the pain simply stop . . . Coward
THE ONLY WAY IS THROUGH
The world will not become easier
You must become stronger
Will you be that flame who refuses to be consumed by the darkness?
Will you rebel by burning with fury pain & rage?
Or you will you go quietly into the darkness?
It’s sad how some men don’t even know how to do the basics
Which are:
1. Basic hygiene
2. Basic manners
3. A basic level of social intelligence (reading social cues and body language on a basic level)
4. Maintaining the cleanliness of your space
To all my brothers here,
I am 19 and in self improvement for a quiet a while but i don't know what should i focus most at this time like gym, making money, social skills etc. Also not seeing much progress sometimes feels very discouraging.
work on all pillars, your can go to the gym early in the morning, after go to work or do you hustle, if where you work there is a cycle of people socialise there , if there is non, just follow hamza' s advice 😊of talking to 2 new girls every day
Bende de benzer bir durum var. Ama devam etmek zorundayız. bir de Neverfap akademiyi öneririm.
I also have the impression that you cannot focus on everything all at ones and be succesful at them. In my opinion, if there's a priority like making money, you should mainly focus on that and neglect lesser important aspects for some time. That's what all of those entrepreneurs do as well. 16 hour days for a few years until they reach 7 figure revenues. They then start focusing on the other aspects more, because they can outsource large parts of their business.
Through the thousands of years that history has played out, the countless people who've died because they were too weak.. The strongest have survived.. It's already in YOUR DNA..
YOU have to unlock your full potential, it would be a shame to your bloodline if you didn't..
I don't know if you'll understand the weight behind this, but.
600 years from now theirs going to be a kid wondering why how he can fight so well.. And why he's so strong.. He's going to an amazing speaker and he's going to be the richest your family has ever seen
All because you never gave up
your actions will have a positive effect on your life and generations down the line
Stay true to yourself
To god
And to others
If you feel discouraged from a lack of results.. it means you need discipline to carry you through
Review your plan and improve where possible.. You're always going to be learning new things.. ALWAYS.
Prioritize engaging in activities you genuinely enjoy, focusing on the journey rather than solely on the destination. Otherwise, you're likely to experience constant stress without seeing real progress.
Had I grasped this concept a year ago, I could have avoided a year of futilely chasing outcomes, which only resulted in stress and ingratitude. I failed to recognize the blessings in my life. Now, I see the value in my current circumstances and am beginning to enjoy my life, slowly transforming into the person who effortlessly attracts the life I desire. This change has significantly simplified and enriched my life, making it happier and more fulfilling. It's astonishing how much improvement comes from accepting my life as it is and pursuing what I truly want.
It's crucial, however, to distinguish between genuinely fulfilling activities and short-term indulgences like lounging around, using substances, or eating junk food. If you're inclined towards these habits, it might be time to explore positive routines, discover more about yourself, build discipline, and find what truly excites you. Once you uncover these passions, the appeal of wasteful activities diminishes because you'd rather spend your time engaging in meaningful pursuits.
For instance, despite hearing the benefits of gym workouts, I never enjoyed them, mistakenly believing they were the sole path to fitness. This pursuit of immediate results, without enjoying the process, left me stressed and drained. Eventually, I discovered my love for calisthenics, which I engage in purely for the joy it brings. Removing the pressure to achieve specific outcomes has allowed me to cherish the process, focusing less on results and more on my passion, which I can't imagine living without.
As a young guy on self-improvement, I find it hard to be single I feel constant loneliness and all I want is to have a girlfriend. I constantly remind myself it is for the better I don't have one now but I just feel Like it is everything that I am missing.
18 years old: how do i overcome imposter syndrome? i wake up early, do the ‘eat the frog’ technique, eat well, train hard etc etc. i’ve tried dropshipping (just about broke even). it’s just the imposter syndrome that holds me back, thinking like ‘who am i to do all this? i’ll never make it’. hopefully others can resonate with me.
I follow u because of this genuineness❤
How’d do I completely stop caring about what people think
will I ever find people who are serious abouit self improvement like me? I keep meeting people without goals
How do i hold myself accountable and stop making excuses for my failure and how to take more risks and overcome failure hamza thank you by the way for your guidance by the way when i first started watching your videos i didn't take action and thanks to modern conditioning i dismissed what you said as toxic but now that i have hit rock bottom and fell harder into degenracy i have begin to appreciate your advice more than ever as a young man so again thank you. Sorry for the paragraph
You become accountable by holding yourself accountable. You stop making excuses by not making excuses. You take more risks by taking more risks.
You think that there is some easy answer
You think there is a trick that makes it less painful
THERE ARE NO TRICKS
THE ONLY WAY IS THROUGH
Embrace the pain
Or you will not "overcome failure"
ps "Sorry for the paragraph" if you think this is a lot of writing you're brain is fried and you should read some books
We like being lazy. And asking these questions are a lazy way to feel like we're going somewhere without actually going somewhere.
We decide what we want to do, any time of the day. Even if we're "exhausted" we still have the option to decide and choose. And so, if you know what you should be doing, just do it, instead of overcomplicating and turning it into some stupid philosophy.
It's hard yes, I slack sometimes yes, but realize that it's always within your control.
I wanna say 3 interesting and helpful things though:
1. Make your goals visible through writing them down and adjust what you should be doing and when in order to achieve your goals. This helps clean things up in your head and help you focus
2. Doing hard things regularly increases the size of something in your brain, I dont know the name of it, which is responsible for doing hard things, and when you stop doing them, after a day or two it starts shrinking again, so momentum is a big thing, once you start do not stop, or else you'll feel hard things become hard again
3. Develop a character in which you have no other choice other than do what you gotta do.
For example, which is a really weird experience of mine. Right before I went to bed I read a book in which the main character is very disciplined. When I woke up somehow my mind tricked me into thinking that I was him for a solid 2-3 seconds and instead of staying in bed I fucking jumped out of it thinking that this is who I am and what I should be doing.
Don't give yourself other choices, you can't stay in bed, you can't skip the gym, you just do it.
❤
Get a friend who holds you accountable. not necessarily a friend it can be a family member , but a guy as in a male
The answers you have received, despite the good intentions, probably didn't do much for you(correct me if I'm wrong). Taking risks and overcoming (fear of) failure are no easy things to learn, and thus it will take time and energy. The first step is to accept that, and to realize it is gonna take a while. Play the long game. Eventually, it will all become second nature.
For now, let's return to the core of your problem. Your thoughts seem to be quite chaotic and unorganized. Since your situation is not specified, it's a bit harder to know what's going on exactly, so take this with a grain of salt.
My recommendation for you is to watch either some David Goggings OR Julienhimself videos (they are quite the opposite, so make a choice) and see what happens. Other people you could check out are Jordan Peterson(old content!), Gabor Maté, Better Ideas or even Tristan Tate lol.
These last ones should come with a warning. They might become a source of distraction and confusion. But from my impression you don't have too much to lose at this point. It's still better to binge on productivity UA-cam videos than God knows what..
@@Dontoverthinkthis-sq7ws I have already watched videos from most of your suggestions but thank you anyway for them my root problem I will say is lack of discipline a flaw I have been slowly working on or doing the hard work even when I don't feel like it.and yes these replies have helped recently.
I have nothing to ask.
I just wan to say,
Whatever you're doing right now, don't give up
One day it will pay off
No matter what, please please please don't give up
Your future self will thank you.
This mindset is what pushes me during the hard times
I’ve been existent on this world for long enough for me to know that everyone lives are different in a unique way, but everyday when we walk past a person we don’t know, we somehow feel connected, but we take it for granted and never said anything to that person like “if I don’t see you again live a good life” or something like that, there’s just so many people in this world and personally if I don’t see them again in life it just feels so darned awkward. Because that person could be your future lover, acquaintance or friend. I know there is no way to tell if you can live tomorrow or die in your sleep. This just makes me question life itself, and why have god created us, and why have we turned into antisocial animals that only live only for themselves.
How to know my purpose and how to be profitable from it.
does he haave a vid on this?
it depends on you how would u loe to spend ur life ? a footballer a drawer , do u want to travel the world or become rich asap that's up to u
Make UA-cam videos
Your purpose is to become the best version of yourself in all areas. Financially, physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc.
Get started where you can and the money making part will come to you. Sit down with a journal and write out the things you’re good at, things you enjoy, and things you know a lot about. Try everything and find the grind that you can endure forever. The one that’s your purpose is the one you can help the most people/ have the biggest impact with
Starting over from scratch, I would prioritize discovering what truly brings me joy and engagement, emphasizing the importance of the journey itself over the destination. It's crucial to understand that forcing outcomes or focusing solely on profitability from the outset can hinder genuine progress and fulfillment.
To find my purpose and potentially profit from it, I'd build positive habits and routines to explore my interests deeply, distinguishing between fleeting pleasures and true passions. This exploration involves trying different activities to unearth what resonates with me, thus developing discipline and self-awareness.
Identifying an activity that I naturally enjoy, much like my preference for calisthenics over gym workouts, allows me to engage with it purely for the love of the process, rather than the results. This approach ensures a more enjoyable and fulfilling life and establishes a foundation for profitability. However, it's vital to acknowledge that forcing things or chasing immediate profitability can lead to instability. Instead, becoming proficient in your passion through dedicated learning and practice is key. As you excel in something you love, monetization opportunities will naturally emerge. You might not see all the possibilities now, as it's a process that unfolds step by step. Only by committing to each stage of growth can you begin to see the next steps and understand how to make your passion profitable.
To summarize, finding your purpose and potentially profiting from it entails experimenting extensively and embracing your passions without pushing for immediate results. Transforming into someone who naturally engages with their interests leads to a life in harmony with those passions. Initially, your focus should be on personal growth and skill development rather than immediate profitability; success and stability stem from consistent dedication and becoming proficient in what you love. As you master your area of passion, you'll naturally discover various ways to monetize it, uncovering opportunities that weren't apparent at the beginning. This gradual process of exploration and improvement will guide you to see the future steps more clearly.
How to maintain your ethics for a long period and find similar minds in a unchangeable environment where everything is opposite of you.
How to be happy in life
Happiness comes from progress and accomplishment. Instead of focusing on trying to become happy, focus on building the life you desire and for-filling your purpose while you're here. You pursing this will bring happiness with it. Also, don't withhold happiness from yourself until you reach a certain goal. Learn to love the process of reaching that goal/building your dream life and you will find happiness in the process.
Gratitude ever single day. You will always have more or less than another person. So the acquisition of things will not make you happy long term. But gratitude will
Thanks this would help me to be a better person in every aspect of my life .
@@akudowells869 I agree with gratitude.
Read Bhagavad Gita
You will know your purpose
Why is it that whenever I feel ready for a girlfriend, and I get one it never ends well and I never end up feeling well about the relationship and end it
How can I actually make money in my 20's... Now iam 16 give me a complete road map to become successful
i just want to be rich and take care of family and retire them, make them proud, but everytime i try to start a business or something i keep finding myself stopping at the worst time and start doing bad habits like playing games, and everytime i play games i get pissed off, i get pissed off by how uselless i am how worthless i am how im wasting my time on these bs games because my mom and my dad looks me with empty eyes (whats he gonna do about his life) and i feel bad about this but i cant keep going on the thing that i should do because i just dont have "real friends" who are thinking about their futures, i just need friends that has goals. Please i just need some friends
Hey mate
So. Life is life. We are all living the same existence. People often say becoming a billionaire is unrealistic. Elon musk is a billionaire and his life is just as real as yours
When it comes to doing the things that matter. You’re worth just sitting down and writing out how mad existence is at all. It can help you to do work you know you should do when you remind yourself how mad it is that you’re even here. Not to mention the shit your parents and everyone else has gone through to make your life as easy as possible
It’s so lucky. And so easy to take for granted
But writing this down reminds you how lucky you are
And can help you do the work to achieve the things you want to achieve for the people you love
How old are u bro?
Number 1 stop being a pussy talking bout how you're so worthless. Like ok, so stop being worthless, do something that gives you some value and increases your worth. its always 1 step at a time man you just gotta keep making steps and never give up on yourself. Believe that your ambitions will come true and then once you really believe that your actions start to follow suit with your ambition because you know that it needs to happen for your goals to come into fruition. And stop using lack of friends as an excuse. If you want friends that have ambitions you gotta provide those friends w value too. You're not valuable enough yet to have friends w high value and ambitions.
@@lautarobeheran 15
What to do if you broke up with that girl but realise you made a mistake
How can I become happier and more confident, how can I improve my family relationship, how can I get more confident around girls , how can I cure my anxious attachment style,how can I become a millionaire by 20(I'm 18), how can I get my dream physique (i should go to gym but I'm unemployed and my family is not well off financially like literally) how can i become more masculine, how can i erase this fear of authority, how can i move in from her,how can i live my dream life ,how can i have more freedom
How can i chase my dreams at 13 y old
The 1st most important is gym and diet. Build good strong body. 2nd Very important thing! Stay out off trouble. Dont do any off the stupid stuff if you can avoid it.
Watch your diet. Age 13 is the key to starting your journey.
Why do I feel unauthentic when I’m in a social situation
Honestly I get lost when talking to people (Especially girls too). I've always wonder if they're going to judge me or not and worried if I do the wrong thing then it becomes like a problem for me.
How to find a tribe where you'll get life long friends who not only will be there for grinding together, but to grow, to have fun ( non-degen ways) altogether build strong brotherhood.
How to get emotianaly invested in your why's/ how to find yout deep why's
How can I properly define my passion? To be more exact my passion is entrepreneurship, coding, religion and health(martial arts)
I’m 17 years old and I work pretty much every waking hour of my day. I have an online business and I have such a drive and fire in my belly that I haven’t seen in another guy my age. But every time I tell it to somebody, they come at me with that balance bs talk. I know most of the times people say we need balance but it’s just a way to lie to yourself and be lazy. I know I should be working as I’m young, but how do I go about enjoying life without compromising my purpose/work? I don’t like parties, school, or anything most teens do nowadays. And I don’t like hookup culture, I just want to find a good girl who understands my grind and supports it. Should I just wait until I get older to date?
How to find value in yourself
How do i get over the fact that my family and friends watch my youtube channel and i want to post the types of self improvement videos but it feels strange, like thats a different me from what they normally see
Reason I came to you and been watching I had my life crushed when my sister bloodline that I took out of depression feed paid rent come to me in front of my girlfriend and said that she deserves better I am just crushed my girlfriend from 4 years btw
I am 16, and my parents are not letting me join the gym or clear out my diet. My mother still uses seed oils and gets angry if she sees me excercise. I tried to tell them about the harmful effects of seed oils but they refused to believe me. My question is if you were in my place, how would you navigate through this?
I am 18 years old and my problem is that I have so much things to do and even though I have scheduled my things I find it hard to get things done. I play icehockey (and inline also), disc golf, go to gym, try to be good at school (bc my parents...), and also many other tasks. I dont know what goals I should focus or cut off bc I just want to be good at everything I do and when I am not able to do them I feel bad about my self and start doing some degenerate things for example not sleeping enough, fapping, complaining. I dont have close likeminded friends and I think that If I would have things could be done way much easier. I am grateful if I get any help here in my comments.
What is the perfect mindset? And how do I stay true to myself?
You stay true to yourself by asking yourself what you should do or what someone you respect wants you to do. You need to find your own perfect mindset
How do I not struggle with being consistent?
how to get out of the fomo, focus on myself and not care about fake people and how to find people who are being genuine.
Read the subtle art of not giving a f
And focus on yourself because if everything works out and you become successful you will be able to do everything you have wanted to do so you won’t miss out
And be with people who encourage you and do things that are similar to the your goals and not be with them if they bring you down or take you on the wrong path leave them and just keep thinking about how they will want to be friend with you when suddenly you better than they are
And they will still hate because people don’t want you to be better than them expect people who are real friends
So focus on yourself bro and be the best version of yourself things will work out if you stay consistent
What to do when your parent are limiting your potential. I've got money saved up but they wont let me invest it.
19 years old … where can i find men with similar mindset?
How can I stop being annoying, i tended to always act weird since a kid in social gatherings, so I’m shy sometimes to prevent that, I’m more mindful of it now but I still have my moments, how can I fix this and be that charismatic guy who doesn’t mess up in public?
@@thecountach3948 thanks bro
How do i let freinds go soft.. without not being their freind.. but setting small boundaries that will slowly dispute us from eachother
I do not like to party so I do it scarcely but even when I do I cannot stop feeling responsible (I do not drink) for everything and everyone around me. Because of that I cannot relax and enjoy this little time that I have off.
I am 15 right now and have many hopes and dreams. I have already started to pursue many of them but am still struggling with the business aspect of things. I have been trying to learn sales and have come a decent way ( still not that great tho ). My parents are not in favor of this passion of mine and and not very well-versed, so it is quite difficult to just begin. My main question is just how to start? Like what do i do so make a business ( ex. B2C or B2B )? Like what platforms to use? I have been procrastinating for way too long.
Why should I even try to get what I want in this world. What more is there to gain when its never enough?
its better than nothing man its to short its to meaningless to waste enjoy it and rise
17years old, preparing for college entrance exams currently
how to find the confidence in the things you know or positive energy in ourselfes as a being? you cant be confident about your knowledge as i realised that the knowledge i have is seriously limited (checks out as im only 17) but how to learn that knowledge. while preparing for these entrance exams i also realised that you cant trust all the teachers who seem like they can teach but infact are doing you more harm.
apologies if this question is too vague i hv been thinking about this for a year now but havnt gotten closer to any answer.
thanks
I lack purpose in my life. I lack proper vision in my life, I don't have a goal in my life. I have few masculine friends but at the same time we all are just trying to find our purpose. How me and my friends can find our purpose, have goals and have a vision? I want to be a man with wisdom, can anyone tell me how can I achieve that? I am currently 20. I want to attract a good feminine women in my life who can inspire me to raise my standards even high as a man and get to the top while her being by my side and being respected from from her. I hope in general every man is looking for the same thing. But I have been stuck in finding my purpose, having a clear goal and a vision.
I hate school i want to make money but i do neither dont know why dont know how but i just couldnt focus
How do I let go of friends that aren't leveling up with me even if they are my only friends.
How to have a financial freedom
how do i deal with getting a younger man to change his habits and replace them with ones that will set him apart
Q1: how to make a lot of money when you are unoriginal?
Q2: How to find a high quality woman IRL?
My question: God forbid if you were to die right now, would you go to heaven?
(under 20) how to be fullfilled? (how to live without being as an average? )
I have been struggling with a girl my mental state is unstable from previous relationship.
How did it go? Did you change did you finally did it? Did you stop getting lost? You found the way?
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said: The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah the weak believer. Sahih Muslim. My question: How can I become a strong believer?
I don't want to be with fake friends, what should I do?
How to stay consistent with your workout and be disciplined
Progress in the gym can be slow to start, especially when your young. It takes time. Think of what older you would want you to do.
Discipline boils down to the concept of delayed gratification. In other words lol “doing the hard work especially when you don’t feel like it” I try to remind myself by hanging around like minded friends and we always keep each other accountable.
Why do somehow after doing the good habits I end up going back to the bad habits
how do i destroy limiting beliefs because i feel like they run me and a lot of other guys mind when it comes to trying to do anything long term like youtube.
How to forget the past
How to find your true self like what I really want to do, just mean what to do to start really living the life rather than just spending it
I am 16 years old currently
And i don't have any goals or ambition
So my question is what goals should i have in this time
What do i do if i live in a very evil and dark environment where people make fun of you for no reason and they disrespect you whenever they can (this is not over exaggerated it has happened to me and continues to happen to me no matter what body language tricks i do or how i talk unless im strong and big and feared)
It's no revelation that tons of people suffer from addiction, most harmful in nature. One I really struggle with is my addiction to dopamine, particulary neglecting difficult things since they don't really provide a dopamine boost. Do you struggle with the same issues? What are some measures I can take to move my life beyond this point and if you did overcome such issues, beyond the standard advice, how were you able to overcome such issue?
i’m 14, should i start grinding, hard improving myself, doing all that monk type shit, and going to the gym at this age.
How can i stop being lost in life? I’m about to be an adult (18 years) and I haven’t achieve anything in life. I’m really lost and sometimes I just want to have a girlie quick and forget this stuff
How can I eat healthy when my mum makes food that’s bad for me
How should I spent my time? As a teenager you only get to be it once should I use my time dedicating it to Grow? And how should I know when to trust someone who gives advice?
I feel like I wont achieve anything, because my life is too easy. How do I make my life hard af
what is going on with me? i’m broke but i’m not even worried about it, i’m lazy and find it hard to focus on being productive. any advice that i can receive?
Well im 15 and i have a fear of not making it to the top 1% . Im can confidently say that i will make it there. But is it that scary when you are not there
how to be a high value man if my ideal physique isn’t to be big. See my dilemma is that i’m not into lifting weights, i play football so my legs are pretty strong and Ive got pretty big calves and hamstring and even ab muscles but I don’t want to really gain upper body strength. My ideal physique is of someone like Neymar jr who is fast and nimble but still athletic, low bf. I want to be more agressive as a man as well and am thinking of picking up kickboxing as I want to learn how to fight instead of being a pussy so there’s that.
Does high value men become more abundant when you get older, or does it remain perpetual?
How do i genuinely stick up for myself
How do you know if friends are just joking around with me or insulting me
Im 17 and i want to make money i researched it everywhere from past 2 yrs but not get any yet Also want to have a good circle which is not possible in my locality
I dont have any experience, bit most people online tend to sell your plans to become rich, which doesn't work. Everyone has different questions in life, and you can't copy someone else. So maybe take advantage of the books and college around you to get more knowledge about business and building a good one.
As a 15 yr old, should I focus more on business development or character development goals?
From my perspective of not having a successful business, is it worth the time and effort?
How do you get more productive during the afternoon
How am i meant to know when Im ready for a relationship?
what if i rush it and mess it up?
What if I wait too long?
Honestly it's crazy to see how many people here need actual friends that are real
Yea sometimes thats all you need in life
It’s honestly a very very important part of life: social life. If one thing fall apart, the rest falls apart too
Yea we all need it, but it's hard to find people who are actually decent and don't do degen shit
how to find legit friends who hustle and have goals.
be the kind of person that legit people, people who have goals and hustle want te be friends with , if you improve in life , people like that are going to come to you
Start hustling yourself and becoming the type of person you would want to be friends with and you will attract like minded people to you. Law of Attraction.
you dont they will find you if you follow this path
Difficult, but not impossible. Hang around places that you can find friends like you mention.
you don’t find them. You attract them.
(20yr old) Best advice I can give anyone:
1. Failue isn’t one event, it’s the consistent decline of …
2. Walk with a bounce, head high, chest out, make eye contact and smile to people. When in a restaurant/cafe/bakery always take control of the room, be loud, respectful and funny (Always smile)
Happiness radiates happiness, people who see u happy will become happy and people will react postiviely to your happiness (it’s a neverending cycle)
This is a major foundation to then be successfull in my opinion, build the best connections and develop your networking skills
1st one is massive
When I was 19 years old, (I'm currently turning 21), I used to work for like 12hours, ended up with me breaking down and experiencing the worst anxiety /rut of my life, I have now learnt to say no to overworking(like actually taking more time to enjoy things I thought was a waste of time) and the toxic hustle grind, and be more holistic in my self-improvement, and actually enjoy the days more, Thanks a ton as always for your videos
For sure you gotta like what you do
Today, for the first time, I approached two girls. Even though I felt uncomfortable, I still did it because, as Hamza once said, you have to gather the courage to talk to girls so you can meet your future dream woman. And ever since that the thought never left me, so I told myself I wouldn't leave the city today until I got a number. And to be honest, I did it, and afterwards, I felt so confident, even though it went so badly and now they're ghosting me. But I know that in the future, it won't be like this because it's part of the progress. So i am happy of todays Progress
So this means you did get a number?
Well done on building up the courage. Most people don't realize how difficult it is to do this without having any prior experience, it can be so scary and overwhelming, but the fact that you pushed through is fantastic.
Although what you're doing is healthy and fairly positive skill you need to acquire, don't be attached to the outcome, rather the let outcome find you.
I'm Christian and you don't necessarily have to be Christian to understand the following:
Matthew 12:30 AMP
[30] He who is not with Me [once and for all on My side] is against Me; and he who does not [unequivocally] gather with Me scatters.
If they don't talk to you, their honestly doing you a favour, you don't have to waste your time on people who don't resonate with you.
Stay blessed brother, focus on the process not the outcome ❤
Good fucking shit bro you're a beast for that
@visualities I asked a girl about her phone number, but she told me that she had a boyfriend, so I just turned directions. Afterwards I asked another girl I was like asking her some stuff, she were responding, but it still was kinda awkward because as I talked to her my mouth told her "i am sorry" for doing it so bad and I didnt even wanted to say it, it just came out. But in the end I still got her number, I texted her "hey was nice to meet you" and since then no reply😭. Anyways this was a wholesome experience and I kinda like to get rejected by girls. Because it only tells you that you have room to improve. So yeah I got only one number. Have a great day my brother!
@@rucilleramlal2397thank you, bro For the time you took for me. In Germany we say "Gott segne dich".
Hamza is like the big bro we all wanted
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These are the type of videos we need Hamza keep up the good work!
Love these kinda videos.. no hyperediting and raw knowledge.. Keep up man!
agreed
This is your alt lol@@deadwick306
dang saw ur videos now
I think you will love hamza uncut
I lost myself. I stopped watching your videoes and fell into even worse habits, i still workout but that's it, my mindset is all wrong. I'm mostly typing this for myself but i'm gonna try and stay on the right path. I hope i'll be able to forgive myself for what i've done.
Watch Hamza’s video titled “Staying consistent on self improvement”. It really helped me
how old are you bro?
I'm 15 btw and I feel like I'm behind everyone my age on self-improvement because I can't even focus properly due to allergies bruh
@@rithvikmedasani363 I’m 22 but don’t use allergies as a reason for why you feel behind. You’re literally 15. I didn’t discover self improvement until 17/18. Do the best you can with the cards you’ve been dealt. I wish I knew about self improvement at 15
@@ejm_official thank you so much for that advice brother! I really needed it!
I think I'll go to college this year to have something to grind and also to gain some skills like social skills and time management skills
It’s not that deep bro your only human after all and we aren’t perfect, instead of beating yourself up about it just get back to it and use your relapse into bad habits as a lesson to never do it again, you’ve got this g 👊
Man you are still so real and pure even though money is in your face. I appreciate you a ton bro. I’m far up on the self improvement and other guys my age look up to me, and it is partly because of guys like you that I kept going through tough times and even worked harder on myself. For example when I was 15 (now 17) my dad got diagnosed with ALS, and it was very progressive. During his decline I took my mental and physical so serious even more so than before. Worked out 6/7 days a week and leveled up about everywhere (except for school where I couldn’t really put my attention at the time, but still managed with decent grades). He died within a year later when I was 16, but the grind has not stopped. Now working really hard and about to have exams for my last year of grad school. One little thing I struggle with though is when I tell others about self improvement ideas and things I am working on in the early stages of it and the feedback always is negative, I tend to give up on it for a while. I understand this is something people automatically do because they don’t want others to outgrow them, so now I just silently grind before showing my passions, but do you have any other advice on the mental block of opinions on your goals?
I would start meditation "Meditation can help strengthen your mindfulness and inner peace. As a result, you develop a deeper self-acceptance and a better understanding of your own thoughts and feelings. This makes it easier for you to accept the opinions of others without them strongly influencing your own self-perception. Ultimately, meditation helps to establish a stable inner foundation that enables you to react more calmly to the opinions of others."
Keep up the amazing work bro. Your ability to work hard through tragedy and adversity will get you very far in life. You will be a man everyone looks up to and counts on. My advice is to not let others opinions bog you down and question your identity as a man.
Sorry for your loss man. To your question, I'd say get a group of friends online from Adonis Gang or something and speak to them about your goals, not to "normal people". Hormozi says something like if they don't have a life you want, don't listen to their opinions.
I recommend you read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie because, in that book, Mr.Carnegie talks about how you can get other people to understand you and like you even if they have the opposite opinions and beliefs that you have.
One piece of advice I will give to you is to always control your temper in conversations because getting angry or emotional will only make the other person more stubborn with his ideologies, opinions, and beliefs because he/she will feel the need to defend themselves and their pride. So never say that the other person is wrong or stupid and genuinely be open-minded even if you know that they are wrong. Doing so will make the other person more open-minded as well so he might start understanding and respecting your goals and ideas even if he/she is a loser.
I could talk about a lot more techniques like this but I'll just recommend you to read the book that I mentioned cuz it will change your life
Rest in peace. I admire your strength. Wishing you the best brother.
I'm always afraid, before training, before sparring, to talk to the girl I like, to be honest with my parents about my future. Will the fear ever go away?
You overcome fears once you face them. It's almost like a skill: you do it more - you do it better. Try to open up more, and it will become easier
I am almost 21 and i struggle with this too.. especially because there is no such thing as progressive overload for this (you either do it completely or you dont)
No, it can decrease but will never go away completely. However, you can learn how not to be afraid of this anxiety. The key for that is to always try to do things overcoming this feeling and see that the result is not as scary as you expected
if you fake courage it actually courage when i first start sparing i always has this fear didnt know the opponent but it goes when your mind knows you are in it their is no escape.
No, the fear is never going to go away. Fear is a natural human emotion. You can't deal with it. But, you can manage to control it, and get over it. For example, you're afraid to talk to girls, Good. You trick your mind to go, with fear in you and let your mind talk naturally to this girl... It's also correlated with self-confidence...
This video is a gem. Exactly what i needed, thank you.
MY QUESTION:
IS Having the 90s type of love, old school type of love mindset good in this generation?
Yes it is but you will notice the persons you want are very rare which is good as a man as you build yourself you will control your reality more and if this is what you want you can filter that into existence
Depends on what you like and value
I would say absolutely yes!
Not if you’re talking about struggle love.
Yes
If you find the right woman yes
How to relieve childhood trauma and what to do when you don't feel peace at your own home? (reply smth⬇️)
Btw I'm a single mother raised 16 year old boy who witnessed constant fights at home since I grew up even till today. Changed houses from my father's parent's home to father's own home to mother's parent's home which my mother reconstructed with her own money and now my aunt fights with my mother. My mother works a middle-class earning job which I'm very grateful to. My mother is my only family and I have no siblings.
For a man I believe that trauma is a good thing, it's what makes you succeed in life, I actually love it and embrace it. I came to this realization this morning, I got a bit sad because of some personal issues and everytime my mood improves I find my self trying to come back to the sad state, I actually liked, sometimes it's good to feel sad, it's good to feel anxious as long as you are still doing the work. But I'm sure Hamza would disagree and tell you to read some book 😅
@@dangermouse6404 Thank you for your insight G! However I think home is a place where you rest and relax. I work hard and all but what's the point if at the end I don't have that core fulfillment and peace in the most basic unit of life.
@@fahadalnabi Yeah I totally get you brother, but for me I rarely feel peace and I don't want to feel it, it will just make me lazier, but I'm weird I guess 😆
Bro I have been raised by single father and it's tough to handle the situation of your home but I have learnt one thing that moving around in nature and developing new hobbies which can divert your mind from all these problems but at the same time you have to handle the situation with your parents because there is solution for every problem Bro....
I hope you find this helpful