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  • @fareenashofficial
    @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +5

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    • @tikax2085
      @tikax2085 13 днів тому

      @@fareenashofficial I will buy book but I hope you get a chance to record the video too. Love your content Fareen 💖

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  13 днів тому +2

      @tikax2085 are you following me on instagram?? I just posted a reel on this 🤍🤍🤍

    • @tikax2085
      @tikax2085 13 днів тому

      @ I’m already following you on instagram hehe. Thanks you are the best !! 💖💖💖

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  13 днів тому +2

      @@tikax2085 just did a video on this! about to upload it!

    • @tikax2085
      @tikax2085 13 днів тому

      @ thanks Fareen, I appreciate you 💖💖

  • @XYZ-qu4yq
    @XYZ-qu4yq 14 днів тому +88

    My understanding is: what Fareen means is: Men don’t develop connection by words but by action. By doing things for a woman they invest their time, energy and money and that’s how they develop their connection and realise: I must love this woman. So women should stop texting them and feeding their ego - that leads to nowhere. If we want to test their true level of interest in us, we should stop texting them and let them take action and allow them to take steps to win us over. If they were serious - they will step up. If they are not serious, they will step out.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +13

      🙏🤍🤍🤍

    • @n0426
      @n0426 14 днів тому +8

      It’s actually not complicated at all. Super easy and liberating.

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 13 днів тому +3

      Yes, and also what you do for a man, and what you do together.
      What you say is a part of it, but also men just don't get a lot out of talking. If men want to connect with each other, they do that by doing something, not sitting down and talking for three hours.
      Men are usually goal and action oriented so they are talking to you so you can meet up (or to establish if they even want to meet up) in person so real things can happen. He will connect with you by DOING things with you, not by talking, and even less by texting, so he is thinking of what needs to happen next. Talking is a means to an end for a lot of guys, rather than an end in itself. At least, it's much less important and impactful than it is for women.
      A man can be with a woman and they talk and talk and talk and at the end of it the guy thinks "yeah, but we didn't actually DO anything", whereas for the women the talking IS the doing. Guys see it differently

    • @n0426
      @n0426 13 днів тому

      @@thecurrentmoment unless he is feminine himself that would be another story with much future faking and pulling you out of you feminine core to initiate and lead the relationship yourself!
      That is absolutely unsustainable for us feminine goddesses. But i know that many women don’t have a problem being the masculine.
      They usually choose narcissistic men, married men and are fine being in a polygamist relationship in a narcissist harem.

    • @ralphkramden2089
      @ralphkramden2089 13 днів тому +2

      EXACTLY!

  • @AstridEstelle-i2q
    @AstridEstelle-i2q 14 днів тому +66

    It’s so easy to fall into a text only situationship in our modern culture. This has been my recent experience. I found it to be very tough on my nervous system! Beautiful words were being spoken with little action to match. My heart felt confused, yet my body knew the truth. Very grateful for the awareness these videos bring.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +11

      You got it, your body knows the truth. Thank you for being here 🙏

    • @n0426
      @n0426 14 днів тому +9

      It’s tough because it’s unnatural to get all this attention and affection from someone you don’t even know.

    • @Mary_QQQ
      @Mary_QQQ 13 днів тому +5

      Whatever you do, don't send pics!

    • @n0426
      @n0426 13 днів тому +2

      @@Mary_QQQ absolutely not!! They want the real deal ? they come irl themselves!

  • @Mary_QQQ
    @Mary_QQQ 13 днів тому +27

    Whatever you do, don't send pics, ladies!

  • @sarahsawrie
    @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому +6

    I don’t want good mornings and good nights if we don’t have a relationship… it’s too much.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  12 днів тому +1

      What do you mean? … oh right you mean while dating … exactly!

    • @sarahsawrie
      @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому

      @ yea, it’s like I barely know you, leave me alone. That said when it would happen, I’d often respond and not listen to my internal ick feels 🙈
      You’ve brought so much awareness to these things.
      You’re the best relationship coach; so on point all the time

  • @shinebright9790
    @shinebright9790 14 днів тому +15

    I’ve been going through this realization bc there’s been a disconnect in text w| men I’ve dated in the past . . . I slowly started to realize men don’t care lol this is FULL confirmation. Thank you for explaining I understand way better now

  • @tritzispoosa
    @tritzispoosa 14 днів тому +23

    I don’t think most men like conversations or sharing ideas over. texting. Texting can be really dangerous because people can say things on texts that you would never say to people in person .

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +3

      Exactly!

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 13 днів тому +3

      And it can be SO easy to misinderstand things. And you get in your head thinking about what to WRITE(which I'm sure is a different part of the brain than talking to someone face to face), so your experience of interacting with her is basically typing. My relationship with her is about staring at my phone, thinking what to write, and typing. That is so boring, a bit like many jobs, to be fair.
      Who wants to type emails and stuff all day and then type words to 'your woman' at night? That's lame

    • @tritzispoosa
      @tritzispoosa 11 днів тому +1

      @@thecurrentmoment there are no tones or context on texts. So dangerous

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 11 днів тому

      @@tritzispoosa exactly
      And it's not always boring to have a text conversation, but it's easy for them to drag out or text while doing something else, it's definitely not as good as in person. And it can definitely be boring if you're not thoroughly enjoying it
      And it can take so much time, a lot more than talking

  • @evolutionbe7150
    @evolutionbe7150 14 днів тому +21

    The inner work course changed my life, it's def worth it!
    Please keep us out of fantasy land 😅🤗

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +5

      Thank you for helping others follow their intuition and moving past their fear to dive into the course!

    • @evolutionbe7150
      @evolutionbe7150 14 днів тому +4

      @fareenashofficial I bought it because of the free info on your website about the books and after I read what men want. Plus these types of videos are for me lol. I go into fantasy so quickly lol.
      So it was really me learning to trust you 💜 I'm so grateful I did 🤗

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +2

      @evolutionbe7150 I’m so excited to meet you in person (or via internet land) one day! You are an amazing soul. I hope you see yourself the way I do 🤍

    • @evolutionbe7150
      @evolutionbe7150 14 днів тому +1

      @@fareenashofficial That would be amazing 😍 I will definitely do so many coaching calls when I get through this transition period in my life lol.

    • @alexandriat5950
      @alexandriat5950 14 днів тому

      🙌🏾❤️

  • @XYZ-qu4yq
    @XYZ-qu4yq 14 днів тому +12

    Thanks, Fareen, for your precious advice. From now on, every time I’m asked by male colleagues for my card / details, all I’m going to give them is just my name and e-mail address written down on a piece of paper, but not my phone number. I suspect a lot of men out there think we work not to fullfill our ambitions and earn money but mainly to hunt for men and that we are eager and easy. And when we give them our numbers and text them, they see no challenge and their interest plummets.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +5

      Yes! Let them work for it! Because if they are truly interested they will make it known!

  • @ReminderMS
    @ReminderMS 6 годин тому

    You are just like a sister to me Fareen.
    You really saved me.

  • @ABC-jq7ve
    @ABC-jq7ve 13 днів тому +13

    Words and texts don’t matter. It’s literally free to send a text and you can do it pooping on the toilet. It’s the most low effort thing you can do. Look at what actually matters like physical dates and spending.

  • @sarahsawrie
    @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому +3

    “Hanging on every word” yup lol

  • @Sunflower-e7k
    @Sunflower-e7k 14 днів тому +11

    Exactly! Play games I dnt have time for tht either, I like actions not words, depends on how far in if at serious stage

  • @KarebelleMissKarebear
    @KarebelleMissKarebear 2 дні тому

    Goodness I needed to see this! And and resonate with most everything you say. Brillint - I also enjoy the way you present so authentically. I'm in my mid 40s with some (6!) several-year relationships with amazing men however, the pattern is constantly emotionally unavailable. Except the for the 2nd that was a devastating breakup. I just realized this year that every break up just fostered & grew the rejection wound too. bonkers. I enjoy learning about relationships & dynamics! Thanks for what you doooo

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  2 дні тому

      🙏 thank you so much! Yup your soul and heart knows! I’m just a voice for your inner knowing :)

  • @sarahsawrie
    @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому +1

    Love cozy vibes. Pups and pillows 🥰

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  12 днів тому

      Mia and Mylo sleep on me sometimes now.. Mia will nap on me when she’s tired. It’s the best

    • @sarahsawrie
      @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому

      @ totally, so precious and you just can’t bring yourself to move 🥰

  • @granola1998
    @granola1998 13 днів тому +2

    Great timing! I really needed this

  • @TerryGuzmanMartinez
    @TerryGuzmanMartinez 14 днів тому +13

    ok, you're talking about early stages of dating. But when there's a relationship, once in a while it's not bad to send him a message.

  • @zsszikszai5180
    @zsszikszai5180 14 днів тому +8

    Love love your videos!❤

  • @Soysaucinn
    @Soysaucinn 4 дні тому

    Yessss 🙌🏽 love love love!!! We were supposed to get into dating & now you’re not my coach anymore!! What am I supposed to do now 😝🙂‍↕️😅

  • @n0426
    @n0426 13 днів тому +3

    This is why i keep my girlfriends and aunt at an all time shoulder length from me. 😬
    Online or irl. Healthy close female relationships are so supportive and grounding.

  • @tikax2085
    @tikax2085 13 днів тому +2

    Love this video ! Please don’t forget to record the video on closing the gap on a man. I think I’m getting it wrong. Love your content Fareen, you are the best 💖💖

  • @sarahsawrie
    @sarahsawrie 12 днів тому

    Love you! Love that we’ll be seeing more of you 🥰

  • @dominikawozniak1194
    @dominikawozniak1194 9 днів тому +2

    I realized i won't find anybody because I live in small town and I can't meet anybody in person 🥺 that sucks

  • @sherleydorsainvillaplante9681
    @sherleydorsainvillaplante9681 6 днів тому

    I am exhausted 😩 this is too much. Wish there was another way or better men.

  • @KevonnieElaine
    @KevonnieElaine 14 днів тому +1

    Good video Fareen! All facts!

  • @Risha-Rene
    @Risha-Rene 14 днів тому +3

    Good advice when meeting people online

  • @mikaboo43
    @mikaboo43 13 днів тому +1

    Right in time 😮‍💨

  • @vanjulabadri6318
    @vanjulabadri6318 13 днів тому +5

    Can you please do a video on long-distance relationships?

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  13 днів тому

      Yes! What specifically?

    • @vanjulabadri6318
      @vanjulabadri6318 12 днів тому

      Like how to navigate those without texting too much, and what the stages of a long-distance relationship should look like

  • @AM-ut7dg
    @AM-ut7dg 12 днів тому +1

    Hi Fareen - thanks for another great video ! What you talk about with energy dynamics always sounds like the truth to me. However, with more practical stuff I’m not so sure. I am really torn about giving my number out. I have been approached by really masculine guys on dating apps and I find that these guys tend to ask for my number or my WhatsApp sooner rather than later. In these cases, I got the impression that it was more for practical reasons, because for both parties it is usually easier to exchange messages off a dating app because they may have notifications turned off, etc. but you are telling me I should not give my number out to these guys. In fact when I applied this logic and told a really masculine guy who asked me to the spa I wasn’t comfortable with giving my number out until I’ve met someone, he unmatched me! May I hear your thoughts on this? If you are ok with sharing that.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  12 днів тому +2

      Hi love! When you say you’re not comfortable giving your number out until you’ve met the person etc, a man that is healthy won’t be deterred by that. The energy we communicate makes a big difference! If it feels like it’s coming from games and playing hard to get versus a genuine interest in protecting one’s privacy and self, it may be perceived the wrong way. My books dive into this much deeper 🤍

  • @SmashMaster
    @SmashMaster 13 днів тому +2

    I hardly text back anymore. And most men lose interest quickly. Apart from a slight tease (when they bother to sporadically text after a month), is there anything else I can do to nudge them?

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  13 днів тому +4

      Don’t nudge them! Become the most confident bad ass version of you!

    • @SmashMaster
      @SmashMaster 13 днів тому +1

      @ haha okkkk fair! That removed even some potentially nice candidates…

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  13 днів тому +4

      @SmashMaster nice candidates won’t lose interest!!!!

  • @secilperkins
    @secilperkins 13 днів тому +4

    What if it’s long distance and in talking stage we’re talking everyday but he’s able to come like once a month

    • @KatLove-bk2xq
      @KatLove-bk2xq 13 днів тому +2

      Same here, i think if we’re happy with that then I think it’s okay… I think long distance is different because they would see us more if they could. And at least they’re communicating everyday

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  12 днів тому +1

      Has he visited yet?

    • @KatLove-bk2xq
      @KatLove-bk2xq 9 днів тому +2

      @ no he didn’t. Just realized he was playing games and cut him off yesterday. He was wasting my time and I was just trying to justify the poor behavior. I realized I deserve soo soo much better. ☺️ thank you so much for your content Fareen. It’s so healing and empowering 🤍🤍

  • @lightninglotuslark
    @lightninglotuslark 2 дні тому

    What about long distance?

  • @eugepretussole7554
    @eugepretussole7554 14 днів тому +1

    Im starting a long distance relationship. How should i approach this advice? I try to prioritize talking over the phone but it sometimes isn’t possible

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +1

      Every situation is different … you can reach out to me if you need and we can go into it more ! The links are in comments

  • @4seasons546
    @4seasons546 14 днів тому +2

    How is he going to contact you to ask you out if he dose mot have your number?

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +8

      I’m pretty sure I mentioned in the video if you meet in person yes give it, but online, I would stick to online. You’ll learn more in my book “what men want.”

    • @n0426
      @n0426 14 днів тому +3

      @@fareenashofficiali think that what you mean is for us to keep our class and modesty in this day and age by not entertaining just anyone !

  • @Trishell1013
    @Trishell1013 14 днів тому

    How do you set a date if you all dont exchange numbers. Are these supposed to be men we only see in person?

  • @clairefoxall2313
    @clairefoxall2313 13 днів тому

    Trouble is this is all most guys wanna do . Had a relationship with guy over 4/5 yrs & he hardly phoned. A friend said even her husband never called always txt 🤷🏼‍♀️. Don’t get me wrong mine wasn’t the best …so I agree less txting 🎉

  • @DesiraeJ
    @DesiraeJ 14 днів тому

    What dog breed do you have? So cute.

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +3

      The big guy on the bed is a pure poodle and the baby on my lap is a Maltipoo 😍😍😍

  • @Li.na_2603
    @Li.na_2603 13 днів тому

    💖💖💖

  • @Ariane-wi3ng
    @Ariane-wi3ng 13 днів тому +1

    That's not true! It's perfectly possebel for a man to fall in love with texting ! For you're information .A lot of studies have shown that.

    • @jesse1381
      @jesse1381 12 днів тому +1

      This video is questionable yeah. Ignoring texts is just a continuation of other mind games like hot and cold. Playing hard to get and setting all these arbitrary rules for texting? Not interested.

  • @alexandriat5950
    @alexandriat5950 14 днів тому

    You are the truth🫶🏾 I look forward to joining your membership 💕

    • @fareenashofficial
      @fareenashofficial  14 днів тому +2

      You’ll be an asset to the membership! I can’t wait for it too! Waiting for the soul message for when to start

  • @Joanna.Swiderska333
    @Joanna.Swiderska333 День тому

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