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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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Am I alone in being baffled that so many people cheat? Never cheated, never been cheated on. If I'm hankering to be with someone else, I end the relationship. Why is that so hard?
I don't get why people get in relationships if they will cheat. Stay single.
Agreed. I think maybe it just seems like a lot bc people write A LOT about messy relationships
I think there’s a lot of reasons people cheat, but it all boils down to cowardice/narcissism to not be upfront with their partners.
The “discreet” site Ashley-Madison that helps married people find people to cheat with is what showed me so many marriages are a sham.
Some people just enjoy the thrill or what to have fun the can't get in a marriage.
My grandma told me as a teen that if you can take him from who he is with someone can take him from you! Wise words that have proven true over the last 20 years!
yes very wise words! i once heard someone say, "how you get your partner might just be how you lose them" referring to people getting together in shady means often lose them in the same shady fashion
My mom: " If he did it with you, he'll do it to you"!
Pretty bang on. People who are with someone who they have cheated with must always have that thought in the back of their mind, surely.
Wise words? Lol more like common sense 😅
@@Leo-eo3pn Common sense ain’t so common anymore!
Broke up with my ex fiancé for cheating. They cheated... a lot. I was in denial for a while but then it hit a point (3 weeks before the wedding) where I could not deny it any more, so I called it off. I never asked friends to choose sides, but I did ask if they stayed friends with my ex to not talk about me to them and that I did not want to hear about them at all. Like a big old wall between us. A mutual friend messaged me months later saying that she hoped I was ok with it, but she was dating my ex. My friend knew what happened, knew about all the cheating and emotional A that happened. She knew how horribly I was treated. I laughed and told her good F'ing luck and I don't want to hear about it again. My friend called me a few weeks later crying and I said "Guessing you got cheated on, and I am sorry but I am not the shoulder for you to cry on when you knew what you were getting in to, so please call someone else" I later found out, that it was the same person my ex was cheating on me with. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Yikesss...glad you got out of that one
Well dayum.. ain't that some shit.
Wow!
With "friends" like that...who even needs enemies?
My momma always told me, "Never date a married man. A guy who cheats on his first wife will cheat on his second wife." Change "wife" to "girlfriend" and the advice still applies.
The story about the guy hiding in the closet makes me chuckle, and reminds me when I broke the rules.
In college, my spouse and I had married student housing where pets were prohibited. There were a LOT of homeless cats around and we adopted three of them. Just before move out, the building supervisor did an inspection. I knew we were going to get big fines. As he walked through the bedroom closet, I saw ALL THREE cats seated in the same windowsill.
This had never happened before. I didn't know they could all fit in one window. I pulled down the shade and stood in front of it. He just walked right by and we passed inspection.
The cats were like, “We got you, mom!” 😂
Lmao well don't that beat all. Supa smooth!!
Reminds me of when I lived in Hawaii military housing with my now ex-husband. We were only allowed 2 pets. We adopted a dog from the Humane Society and a cat from a local rescue. Then my husband saved a kitten who had been abandoned by his mother at Pearl Harbor shipyard. So, we had 3 pets. Well, the cats were somewhat similar looking, except the one had white paws and chest. Wouldn't you know, a maintenance guy had to come and fix something. We were worried that we would be in trouble for having 3 pets. The guy came in, and Thunder (the one without white] greeted him. The guy petted him and did his job. As he was leaving, Squall (the one with white) came downstairs. Thunder had gone upstairs by that point. I was like "Crap!", but the guy petted Squall as he left and said "See ya, Thunder!" 🤣 I was like "Whew!" LOL
I love that kind of cheating! 😍🤣
My kind of cheating!
"i actually think cheating is gross and that people who cheat are disgusting" *proceeds to sleep with married men*
She litteraly said "I'm turned on by trash"...
I know a couple people like that. They are both single. Their mindset is that cheating can only happen to committed couples, but since they are single they aren't cheating on anyone. Only the married man is cheating.
Their argument is pretty sound. 🤷♀️
Yep. Some of these women are very lucky. There are those of us who, shall we say, don't take cheating very well. The consequences are very serious....and sometimes permanent.
@@sptsfn1219 yesss cause oooooo chile I was reading the last one like whaaaaaat did she saaaaaaaay? 🥷
@@norabunyard5798 I can KIND OF see their reasoning, but also, like...do they not remember how cheating worked in school? If someone copies off of your work, they get a zero for cheating. HOWEVER, if you knowingly and willingly let that person copy off of your work, YOU get a zero as well. You helped them cheat, so you're just as guilty as they are. Helping someone cheat IS a form of cheating. If you knowingly involve yourself with a married person and are fully aware that their spouse doesn't know and/or consent to you being involved, you're on exactly the same level as the cheating spouse. Like, these people you're talking about can kid themselves into believing they're "better" or whatever, but at the end of the day what they're doing is still cheating. A different form of it, sure, but trying to pretend it's any better than what the cheating spouses are doing... yeah, no. That's just a "pot calling the kettle black" type of situation.
I'm stealing the "haven't read my Bible in a while but I might dust it off to smack you with it!" line - that was f-ing brilliant! 😆
Met my husband in HS got married at. 22 and 24. We were married for 36 years before he got sick and passed away. Neither one of us cheated bc we loved and respected each other. We had an understanding, we could look but not touch.
Good for both of you, it must have been a great feeling
I’m sorry for your loss. You two are the prime example of what a relationship should be. I don’t understand why people think it’s cute to cheat.
I have that kind of relationship too! It's really nice
I'm sorry for your loss. My husband and I have been together for 19 years, and I'm terrified of the day I won't have him by my side ❤️
I’m sorry for your loss! 😢 My husband and I are the same. We discussed it prior to marrying and if either one found they were attracted to someone else then we either work on our marriage or divorce. Cheating is NOT ok. EVER. 25+ yrs being happily married. Sure there are ups and downs but we deal with them and all’s fine. We’ve had only one “discussion” in our 25 yrs and we weren’t even yelling. We still laugh over that because it was so ridiculous! Our oldest daughter asked us recently why we don’t fight like other married couples. We just looked at each other and told her, there’s nothing to fight about!
My best friend is a serial cheater. She's like "Men are so toxic!" Or, "Why can't I get men to trust me?" I told her she's the toxic one and men shouldn't have to sacrifice their time or energy for her, because she's cheated on every. Single. Partner. And then she tells potential partners she's cheated on everyone else. There's no help for her
Omg I had a friend like that, such an idiotic way to be.
@@aliciax5854 my friend is a narcissist. She doesn't like when she f*cks up and people get mad at her in general. Like "so you're mad at me? Why?" Because you f*cked up idiot!🤣
@@OfficialMadelineF Yup. So she has one night stands and has accepted that she's gonna die with a bunch of cats. I told her play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Her prize is loneliness.
Oooooh. You know my daughter then 🙄
Why not consider open relationship? If you know you will cheat, go find a partner who is ok with it beforehand.
The guy who found screenshots of his own infidelity, was searching for a reason to break up.
One of my ex's was cheating... his squeeze on the side was using my expensive shampoo every time she came over! I noticed the loss of product and instead of going to work one day I moved my car 2 blocks down then walked to my neighbors. We watched troll girl arrive... the two make out on the patio and kiss in the parking lot.
I planned my next move very discreetly. One day while he was at work I called all of my friends who were going to help me and we moved all of my belongings out of the apartment within 3 hours. The only thing left behind was a bottle of my shampoo filled to the brim with *Grease.* Sorry faux blondie, those locks never looked the same until it grew out.
Don't mess with a redhead, especially one you pretended to be friends with in polite company.
Never mess with a redhead! We will take your soul, and are the pettiest of the pettys.
@@janethays3408 My BFF is a redhead. She has a curio cabinet filled with jars of the souls she's stolen...I enjoy dusting it!!
@@norabunyard5798 😂😂😂😂 That’s pretty good!
I would've replaced it with Nair...... 😆😈
@@bubbapuddles Nair can cause chemical burns on some people... I chose a less caustic ingredient as we redheads find out what witch hazel burns, lotions, and makeup allergy can do is permanent. I did not wish jail time for a chemical burn, just a quick realization there is not a single bit of shampoo, soap, dish detergent, clothing detergent or a single bubble... anywhere.
Remember to always bake your neighbors cookies each year. They will return the favor 10 fold when they all claim to be out of shampoo or a single sud.
After being cheated on whilst 9mths pregnant by my so-called ex best friend and my child's father, I sort of felt prickles watching this. Its embarrassing and horrible being cheated on at the best of times, but when your ex is known for being abusive physically, mentally and emotionally, to then cheat with someone who claimed to be a best friend, its the worst feeling ever. Thankfully, those two are no longer together (he did the exact same things to her as he did me), and he's now been put in an incinerator as he drank himself to death literally.
I like a (relatively) happy ending.
Karma is a beach
What goes around comes around. We reap what we sew. The world is a better place without him.
I’m so sorry 😞 They are disgusting and you deserved better sweet ❤️
@@dianeaishamonday9125 A particularly hot one with burning sands I hope lol
That last one! OMG! 🤮 I think both Charlotte and I threw up a little in our mouths at this one. I honestly felt the gorge rise in my throat when she said that she gets turned on by married men, and that it's even better if he has kids! 🤢 Disgusting! What a trash bin of a human!
Can't say I threw up, but was completely looking for someone as taken aback as me, I mean, the audacity ? "It's wife's fault if he goes somewhere else" ? I'm gonna slap her because it's her falt not making her face less slappable
im assuming that kink was derived from some sort of previous trauma
@@cheeling794 it's possible but it's still absolutely gross......... That's the kind of thing you go to therapy for.........
@@shiramarie6770 I dont think they even realize it to even think of going to therapy. Maybe im trying to justify it somehow bc its just so awful i cant wrap my head around
@@cheeling794 yeah it's possible they don't recognize the behavior as being harmful to all parties involved but there is no way they don't recognize that they have been hurt........ If more people went to therapy when they suffered trauma the world would be much better off......
I learned I was I was the side piece when I thought I was the main dish. When I found out I was devastated and did the right thing. I first confronted him about it. I asked him if he loves her. He said yes. So I was in tears and said, “if you loved her how could you cheat on her???? Why did you get me involved in this?!” Left him and blocked him. I wanted nothing to do with him.
A week later his gf called me at work. I told her we can talk after work. So she meets me in the parking lot. She didn’t talk. She grabbed my hair and punched me.
I run in the building ask for security.
I was so scared. I never fought with anyone in my life and this girl didn’t want to talk she wanted to kick my ass.
I unblocked my ex called him and told him what his gf had done.
He apologized and told me he was trying to break up with her. And he told the truth of what he did. I screamed at him to leave me alone and to tell his gf to leave me alone. I wanted them out of MY life.
I think he got scared too by her actions. I don’t know.
But good riddance. I don’t need that type of drama in my life. I can’t understand how some women love being the side piece. I just don’t get it.
I hope you pressed charges! It isn't like you seeked him out because he was married, he lied. I'll never understand blaming the other person when that person has been lied to in the same manner by the same person
Holy moly! Why did the gf came after you? Like it was the bf who cheated you didn't know and when you found out you broke it up o.O People are crazy.
@@MultiTintenherz Fr
@@MrsShocoTaco Exactly, the gf was an imbecile
@@MrsShocoTaco well the police did come and take her. I didn’t press charges but that was it with her and him. Holy shit. I will not lie though I was scared.
The “thin mouth” has me in stitches! 🤣
The woman claims she didn't cheat, but she's helping partake in it, that's very hypocritical. And the moment when she commented that she finds out he has kids makes it more exciting is even worse.
Exactly it's like robbing a bank and they're driving the getaway car.... Like you're still a part of it and you're going to jail too
Besides being generally messed up, she insisted that cheaters "disgust" her. But married men who are on the prowl make her "wildly excited"? So she really likes being disgusted? Huh?! Maybe she should switch to a kink that involves both pee and poo instead of married men.
Shes like i think cheatings gross…any ways it turns me on and i love it. Lmao what
@@meimei51793 Right? The thing is that these people hate to be cheated on by their partner/s! So it doesn't apply to them in their head. It's okay for them to indulge in cheating, but not the other way around. Hypocrites.
@@XMewMoonLightAkitaoX seriously, selfish.
It’s Miss Charlotte offering to dust off her Bible to smack someone with it for me! 😂🤣👍🏼
Guffaw worthy.
I knooowww!!! Reminded me of my momma. We're catholic and as a child she would get the Bible and holy water to beat the demons out of me. Lmao!!! She never hurt me with it, but she would whack me a few times, sprinkle water in my face and say a prayer. I dunno why, but it actually worked. I'd act better afterwards for a while. My mom had a fun way of discipline. She rarely actually hurt us, and usually made us work hard labor for being bad. And boy were we bad sometimes. Lmao!!
@@Dove96 yep, she’s hysterical! I have a friend that snorts when she laughs and I encourage her to embrace her inner snort when watching Miss Charlotte!
@@erikarussell1142 I was raised Catholic so this hits home (pun intended!) for me. There were always chores after misbehaving too. But with five boys in the house there were always chores all the time and we misbehaved a lot too. The only reason my mom didn’t unalive us was cuz a) we’re cute b) we had 10 acres to use to get into mischief without getting into trouble and c) she is a saint who learned very early on to not be a helicopter parent cuz she really didn’t want to know what we were up to. 😂 But talk about putting the fear of God into ya! Pop had the belt but when we messed up it was always, “Don’t tell mom!” 😂🤣😂🤣
Best use of a bible I've ever heard of.
That guy isn't waiting for them to offer, he is def waiting for them to not. He clearly gets something from the gotcha
Love that "thin mouth" is already a running joke
I was single for a long time before I got married. Not saying it's for everyone, but I think waiting for the right person is definitely worth it. Never cheated and never been cheated on. Also, I enjoyed being single... I think finding happiness with yourself is a must before finding happiness with someone else.
Yes! 💛🙌🏻
Also getting married doesn't fix broken relationship. Neither does having a baby.
I have seen WAY too many people just pushing forward, getting married even the relationship has ran its course. Because they probably are afraid to be single, because everyone is expecting them to take next step. If you are unhappy, then tell so and leave. Don't destroy the other part of relationship because you are coward
My husband is my 2nf bf. My first bf was my teenage bf and... Yeah. Turned blind eye to whole f-ing communist march level flags. Because I was stupid, clingy teen.
He took after his dad (who had started cheating before he was born and he was 15 when parents divorced).
..and the small satisfaction when his next gf just announced to him she's moving in with other guy. I poured a glass of whisky and raised my glass to his desperate and heartbroken social media post.
Karma.
Samedt!
My ex-husband (Lee) cheated and I became friends with the girl he cheated with, even became roomates for about a year. He was actually at the hospital with his grandmother visiting her brother who was in ICU when he saw an old friend he had not seen in a while (Scott). They decided to go out to eat and have a few drinks to catch up. He even called to tell me about it and said after he was going back to the hospital to take his grandmother some food and stay the night with her. I wasn't very happy about it because it was his weekend with his daughter, but I didn't say anything because his uncle wasn't doing well. Personally, I thought he should have talked to his daughters mom and arranged to swap weekends considering what was happening. Instead he still picked her up and pretty much just dropped her off with me and went to the hospital.
Anyway, the next morning Scott dropped him off, which was a little suspicious to me. But he just said he left his car for his grandmother and he called Scott for a ride instead of making me get Nikki (his daughter) ready and bring her out in the cold rain. I shrugged it off until Scott came to get him again later that day supposedly to take him back to the hospital. He only had 2 days with his daughter every other weekend, but he had her and extra day this weekend and he'd spent maybe 4 hours so far with her. I couldn't shake my suspicion that something wasn't right so I called the ICU waiting room under the pretense that his daughter wanted to say goodnight. His grandmother answered and informed me she hadn't seen him since he left with Scott Friday afternoon. Which meant he hadn't gone back that night as he'd claimed.
Anyway, the next afternoon at around lunch time I'm in the kitchen fixing my lunch, Nikki is in her booster seat eating hers and she says "Daddy" while looking out the back window. I turn and look out the kitchen window just in time to see him creeping over the back fence. There was a grocery store and shopping center behind us. I asked him the minute he came through the door why he came that way. He said Scott was low on gas so when he stopped at the station next to the shopping center he just said I'll cut through the woods you head on home.
Then I confronted him about calling for Nikki to say goodnight and he made some excuse about not staying in the icu waiting room because Scott was there seeing his wife who had just surgery so he hung out in her room and his grandmother was m8xing up her days because she refused to leave the hospital until her brother was doing better. 🙄 He then went to bed saying he was tired and left me Nikki again. She was not a happy 4 yr old. She would not mind me and was constantly crying for her daddy. After a couple hours of this he got up packed her up, put her in my car and drove her home instead of using his extra day. When he came back we got in a big fight, I ended up telling him I didn't believe his excuses and was sure he had done something he shouldn't have. He stormed out and didn't come home until the next morning again. This time I didn't say anything...I mean not one word the entire day. If he came in the room I was in, I went to another room. I fixed myself lunch, not him. And I grilled myself a burger (it was memorial day) but not one for him....I even cooked a little one for his grandmother's dog (she lived with us). That night he voluntarily slept on the couch.
After he left for work that morning I started packing. What he didn't know is i had already called my parents and asked them to come help me pack because I was leaving the lying cheater. I do not tolerate BS and I don't play games. There were other reasons but I won't go into those details. I was out by around 1pm that day.
I found for sure he had cheated when friends took me out to drink that weekend. I met this really nice pair of sisters (Kate and Sissy) and we got to talking. I told them a little of my story. Kate says that's such a coincidence I was in the hospital last weekend. She then calls her husband over and I nearly choked on my drink when she goes "Scott come here". Crazy coincidence or what? We all hit off, became friends, met up the next day and had dinner with Kate and Sissy and went back to Kate's house where I learned that yes, Scott and Lee went to eat and had drinks Friday night, no they didn't go back to the hospital because Kate was released that afternoon. They had drank too much so Sissy came to pick them up. Lee supposedly had called me to say he couldn't drive and told him Nikki was asleep already so he stayed the night. The next night they did go to the local race track but then ended up at this very bar for drinks and went back to Scott and Kate's. But he said he didn't take Lee home, Sissy did. He didn't tell any of them he was married. That's why they invited me back to the house. In case I lost it while they told me what really happened. He and Sissy did 'sleep' together Saturday night and Sunday he met with again and they went to the county fair together. Something we had originally planned to take Nikki to before his uncle got sick. And they were together again that night. I didn't get mad Sissy, Lee had lied to both of us. I actually shook her hand and thanked her for being honest. We all started hanging out all the time. I even stayed over a few nights when I had worked late (I had to commute to work an hour from my parents home) because the lived 15 minutes from my job. Sissy and I would laugh over the begging texts and vms from Lee to both of us, especially when he sent the same message to both. Finally about 3 weeks later Sissy hatched a plan for payback and texted Lee to come to Kate and Scott's to get a shirt he had left there. When he showed up I was the one who came out to give him the shirt. He actually had the nerve to try to deny it still and act like we were the ones in the wrong. He got even more upset when he found out Sissy had offered for me to move into her apartment since she had just lost her roommate and I needed to be closer to work. 🤣 He so deserved that and more.
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Kudoz to Sissy for being a decent person!
That's terrible. He ditched his daughter so he could go and cheat on his current wife. Some men are just horrible people. Some men who have children only remarry to have someone take care of their child. So they don't have to be bothered. My own husband used to tell me stories about when he was a kid. His stepmom dealt with him the most because his dad couldn't be bothered.
@michellealjunaidi8471 From what I've heard, as Nikki got older, she started to hate her dad. Sadly, I've also heard she turned out a lot like him and her mom (a drug addict). She had 2 boys, stayed stoned more than in their life, has been in trouble with the law, and eventually lost custody of her boys. I'm hopeful that the cycle breaks with them. From what I've been told, a cousin of my ex stepped up and got custody of the boys. In my state, if a parent doesn't do the court ordered parenting classes, drug rehab, community service, or anything else required, then they can lose their parental rights altogether. She didn't, so the boys were adopted. The home they have is stable and loving, but most of all, their mom, grandmother, and grandfather (my ex) are not allowed anywhere near them. I think they were around 5 and 6 when they were adopted, which means they spent at least a year with their adopted family before that. So they were 4 and 5 when they were taken from their mom. I think that's probably young enough not to have been affected by their earliest memories. I haven't heard anything about them in a while, but they should be around 9 and 10.
I actually learned all of this from my ex. After I was diagnosed with cancer, he reached out. We had a pretty long conversation. It seems he might have finally grown up. It only took him about 50 years to finally get there. He asked my forgiveness for the way he treated me. He said he regretted betraying our marriage. I told him I forgave him a long time ago because I couldn't carry that anger and pain in my heart. But that forgiveness didn't mean I forgot or that I wanted him in my life. I'm the one that asked about Nikki because I've always been worried about her. She was a precious child the short time I was in her life. It saddened me to know she followed her parents' paths.
Since then, he occasionally will send me a DM or like or comment a pic or update I post. But otherwise, he's respected my wishes and stayed out of my life.
@@kdscraftcorner wow how r u now? 😊
Your editor is frigging amazing! I fell over when I saw Jesus with potatoes in his hand to offer🤣🤣🤣
I did a double take. LOL
i agree, the editors choices are hilarious
They definitely put the chef’s kiss on her content ❤
#yup
🔥🔥🔥
I can tell He was weighing them and saying "Ehh... po-tay'-to, po-tah'-to!"
I saw a TikTok last night where an Uber driver picked up this guy and his wife and kids saw him off. He had added a stop...to pick up his girlfriend. She was complaining about him leaving his wife. The driver terminated the ride and dropped him and the gf back at HIS house with their luggage.
If you can share a link...... I know I'm know the only one interested in the video 😂
If i was the wife i would have tipped him SO well!
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@@shiramarie6770 Another youtuber covered it on his channel. Carlus King is his name.
I saw that one. I loved it.
One of my son's exes had cheated with one of his friends. He asked the guy if he wanted his leftover sandwich too.
Burn!!
Yeah, I was already pretty convinced I'd stay single forever but that video just puts the last nail in the coffin. Nobody's worth all this heartache.
I used to say the same thing. Been cheated on in every damn relationship I've ever had. But then I was single for six years, loved being single, learned a lot about myself and loved myself more for it. Then all of a sudden here comes this amazing man, in a white suv (we met thru mutual friends and he friended me on fb and we got to talking) and he came and fixed my car for me in tge middle of the night during a blizzard.... all for the sake of making sure I had a car for me and my kid. He wanted nothing in return. That's when I knew he was going to be my future. Since then we've been together for 5 years now and only had one argument between us. We never take each other for granted, and we talk all day. About everything and nothing. He is my best friend and I can't wait to marry him. Btw, I'm 37 and he's 47. It's never too late, don't give up and make your heart jaded. Keep an open mind and an open heart. But don't ever let anyone step over your boundaries. The reason him and I work so well is we have the same boundaries and respect for said boundaries. We listen to each other and always take time to care. Just be true to yourself. If your partner should come along, don't deny a good one... just be aware is all. 😘
Same here....lol
I suppose you have to go through heart ache to find what you really need.
The right person won't cause you pain.
It's videos like these that make me appreciate the fact that I'm aro ace. I don't envy the sexuals...
Don't do that. Not everyone cheats
Ditto
My ex cheated on me. Never told me about it, broke up with me one day out of the blue. Wanted to get with another girl two weeks after breaking up with me but "out of respect" for me waited a whole month instead. It wasn't until like two years later I find out from a mutual friend of ours that he had cheated on me. I confronted the ex about it and he was more angry and upset the friend had told me than having never told me about the cheating and keeping that from me for all that time. The girl he got with after me wasn't even the one he cheated on me with either. Karma got him in the end as like a year later, the new girlfriend he had cheated on him with aforementioned mutual friend
Nothing hurts like finding out you're the "other woman." I found out that when I overheard the guy on the phone. Apparently, his wife saw me and he told her I was the "babysitter." Thanks, Nick. Should've gotten paid for watching his kid then... lol
I live in Vegas. My husband and i both work in one of the high end hotel and casino as maintenance people. He was the one who trained me. 13 years later we've been married for 12 and have 6 amazingly smart kids. But I never stops surprising me how many woman know he's married with a big ring on with a diamond (his choice to make it scream the obvious) and has his kids names tattooed on him. They know but they don't care. I'm just blessed he's actually faithful and no we don't work in the same hotel anymore.
Really brings home how much that whole "Sisterhood, women united" rallying cry is just a bunch of bullshit . If women really were united and supported each other, then men wouldn't have anyone to cheat with.
Right!!! It is the disrespect for relationships from other women that I despise the most. I always try to encourage and support other women 😞 what happend to us...
Jill- Men cheat with married women too. By that logic, "brotherhood" is also an untrue logic.
This isn't about internalised misogyny/ misandry. It's about insecure people/ clinical narcissists who do not value other humans.
@@jillrice2577 It's not just men who cheat so sisterhood would never mean anything to those women that like to do the cheating.
@@It-is-me...Melsie Tell that to the married rich bitches that go after other men. Any women can cheat given the right circumstances.
Sometimes, marriage gets stale because the couple stops putting effort into it and start revealing who they really are when they are not trying to impress anyone. It also tends to become more a financial co-dependency and convenience factor rather than genuine interest in each other's company. They think tying the knot is all it takes to secure a lasting relationship and start to take their partner for granted. The beginning of a relationship is sometimes the "best" part because when people are in "flirting mode" they got the extra length to prove they are worthy of your time and attention and are generally more pleasing.
When nothing's granted (or when you lose someone you care about), you learn to value every moment you've had together.
Yeah they think nothing needs to be done after wedding. That relationship is going to stay up high without any effort and maintenance.
And then after years the big gap is there.
..or think getting married fixes the stale/broken relationship
There was an episode of How I Met Your Mother where Ted is on a date that he had been on 7 years earlier and didn’t remember, and he talks about the “check dance”. He doesn’t want you to pay, but he does want you to try to pay so he can take the check back and say “no, no, I got it”
Side note: The woman who said she can’t resist married men, and doesn’t feel bad about it, is trash! It’s disgusting that she could do that to another woman. A woman who is sitting at home with her kids, probably thinking her marriage is good, and that she is loved. Any woman who can do that to another woman is total trash! JMO.
Well, she couldn't do it if the men weren't willing. I'm not condoning cheating in any way, but you should definitely talk about ALL the trash & not just half. 🤷♀️
@@norabunyard5798 I think the husband being trash was a given.
And they say that women play games. 🙄
Trash is not filthy enough for these types…
I once was dating a man and I got kinda suspicious that he was married because he never invited me over to his house and it happened to be true so I made sure to find out who his wife was and told her everything. She still contacts me from time to time after literally 10 years to ask me if he's been in touch with me again... It's exhausting because I have a family now and it's weird but I still respond just to make sure she's ok. Women should support one another in this!!
Am i the only one that randomly yells “CHAR LOTTTT!!!” 😂 my husband always asks who is that? And I tell him “it is the call of a mother for her child when she is in trouble.” He is still so confused.
Lmao make him watch an episode, he'll understand after that. I got my future husband hooked and my kid. Lol
My huz knows Charlotte. One day he was in the kitchen alone and I hear him say - Subscribe! Cracked me up.
I DO THAT TOO lolol glad I'm not alone 🤣
Side pieces and/or being with side pieces is for people who can't deal with real responsibility and real trust.
And before you start, I was a proud side piece and even had a baby with a married man. When the shiny wears off and it comes down to real life, everything always falls apart because the only real allure was being with someone you already know you can't trust - both a benefit and a downfall.
thats the whole appeal of it..its all fantasy. you are only showing your best side to each other.
@@cheeling794 exactly. I'd be surprised if any real relationships were born out of affairs. I think the trouble comes when people mistake that fantasy for reality, and then can't handle it when it doesn't match up
@@justhearmeout3959 ive never personally seen any successful relationships that came from affairs. Ive heard of them online but who knows if thats true.
@@cheeling794 same
Here
So fare the only true stories I get are from some of my ex friends that were in a relationship with the people they cheated with
But surprise surprise they got cheated on too
One of them already had 2 kids but now they have 4
I don't get why people keeping making the same mistake
So fare relationships that involved affairs/cheating has never worked out heck it ends depressingly for both parties
Especially for the kids
And this is why it's so awesome to be single forever! People like to shame people who never get married but at least we know who we are. It takes strength to be comfortable with just being with yourself :-)
My freshman year in college, I briefly dated a guy "T, " then after we broke up I became friends with a girl "M" who had dated "T" earlier in the year. During our sophomore year, we decided to room together. We were in a suite with two other girls, and it turned out that one of them "C" had also dated "T" during our freshman year. One day "M", "C", and I were walking across campus and saw "T" walking our direction. As soon as he saw the three of us together he turned and practically RAN the other way. We just about died laughing.
Why can't people just say they want an open relationship? Wtf? Plenty of people out there that are willing to have those kinds of relationships. Wear a condom and be honest. There's no excuse for cheating.
If you don't want to be with your partner, just end it. Cheating is something immature people do when they can't handle doing the grown up, responsible, things.
I lived with a guy that cheated and he showed up to a party he didn't know I was at with his girlfriend. They were in the driveway and people were trying to keep us apart. I finally went out, shook her hand and said, "Hi! I'm your boyfriend's girlfriend. We should talk." We both dumped him after talking all night and putting together all his lies and became roommates.
omg this was oddly specific, bc I was just reading this story abt a girl who found out her BF was cheating on her (the side piece exposed him) and she broke up w him and became friends w the side piece. One month later they started dating.
Okay, cheating and polyamory are not the same thing. If you are naturally polyamorous, be that way - just be *H O N E S T.*
thing is that cheaters get off on the idea that they are cheating. that it's something wrong they are doing. and it sucks that they don't have more self control. poly people if they doing it right are in better relationships then many "monogamous" people cause they actually talk about stuff and set boundaries within the relationship.
I honestly dont believe humans were meant to be monogamous
@@cheeling794 then why get married?.. or why be in a committed relationship?
@@cheeling794 you could say SOME people. I know people who have been together 50+ years and never wanted to be with anyone else. And some people who would cheat on every partner they had
@@thecourageousorange Never seen "poly" people actually 'go the distance.' Lots of crashing and burning and terribly messy situations
The woman who cut it off after that guy left his wife is genius! Both women deserve better. Down side is that guy will likely do what mine does and just turns everything into he’s the victim!
I about died when you went in to your southern accent and said “GET MY NAME OUT OF YOUR THIN MOUTH” 😂😂😂
"Never write down your crimes!" - Simon Whistler, Brain Blaze
It’s gold that you promptly used thin mouth. 😂
You know what’s really hot and exciting? Being in a relationship that’s built on trust and has a solid foundation. Telling people no. Being with your person. Saying screw everyone else because you value your partner.
If you’re not happy in your relationship, end it. Cheating makes no sense. Just end it. I have seen cheating destroy my family growing up and have ZERO respect for the women who go after married men or the men who allow it. Vice versa as well if it’s the wife.
And all these girls bragging about being the side piece, either enjoy it when you finally fall in love and get cheated on or never know real love. It’s the bragging about being a homewrecker for me 🤢
I was seeing a guy. One day, we ended up meeting up with one of his ex's. He tried to play the two of us against each other. That was 30 yrs ago, can't remember his name, but she and I are still friends.
My first boyfriend cheated and was texting 5 other girls, really flirting with them. One of them was a friend of mine he had never met but would say, "One day, I'll come visit you and we'll do 1, B, Choo choo train together." She told him that she was in a relationship and she knows that he is dating me and he said, "Its long distance so it could work." When I confronted him, he said I was only complimenting them.... NO THAT ISN'T 🤣🤣 He tried to apologize but I said no way. He texted me after 6 years of not being together, apologizing for what he did... 🤣🤣 I never laughed so hard at a text and my response was, "5 years too late my dude!👋🤣 Have a good life!"
I had a dream once where I was in a guy's apartment and he was trying to seduce me. He carried me to the bedroom and I said " I can't I'm married" He kept saying it was OK he'll never find out, don't worry. He put me on the bed and when he started undressing I jumped up and ran away. I got so freaked out I woke myself up from the dream. When I realized it was just a dream I was soo relieved. I told my husband about the dream so we could have a laugh about it. Now I tell him I love him so much I can't even cheat on him in my dreams! Lol We've been faithfully together for nearly 20 years now. 💕
There's nothing wrong with someone being promiscuous and wanting an open relationship. If that's your prerogative than be honest about it BEFORE starting a relationship. I don't understand why people have to cheat and lie and hurt someone they claim to love, just because they are too afraid to be honest. That's why cheaters are not only inconsiderate, untrustworthy assholes, they also fkn cowards
No you don’t get it. They want to lie and deceive, that’s the part that turns them on. They want those “forbidden fruit” vibes. If it’s an open relationship, then that’s the same as being single with multiple partners and that’s no fun (to them). They have this freakish subconscious desire to hurt, I mean have you heard the crazy lady who gets turned on when a married man have CHILDREN. Yuck.
@@minisn3066 yeah, there are unfortunately narcissistic people like that whose self-serving urges win out because their behaviour isnt restrained by emotional empathy for those they harm through their transgressions.
After dealing with many types of karens during my customer service work hours, I absolutely LIVE for you videos daily!!!
Okay, we need part 2,3,4,5,6 of this! I laughed so hard at the messiness!
Yeesssssss!!!@
"People who cheat are disgusting! But I love men who are married and will cheat on their on wives with me..."
Right because that makes...sense, no it doesn't. 😧
My poor monitor was not ready for "passed out pooping". I just spit my breakfast all over it. Damn.....Thanks Charlotte.......Folks watch out for that "P.O.P."
I think what strikes me the most is the absolute callousness these people exhibit towards the unknowing partner who is getting cheated on. Like the post @3:50...yeah, its a nice fun "fantasy" for you, but for the wife who you are participating in hurting...this is a nightmare. People are really psychopathic these days LMAO, like there is NO empathy. Complete selfishness in their actions. You do not exist in a vacuum! Your actions WILL harm others!
My fave part is watching Charlotte fill in the blanks with more appropriate words of descriptions😂😂
Oh my everloving God.. it was the "married men just hit different" and you responding with "let me dust my bible off to hit you with it" that sent me over the edge 👻👻👻 Scratch that... i died on that whole "pooping and putting to bed" part followed by the 💩💩💩 sounds like someone 💩 themselves. I literally CANNOT!!! 😂😂😂😂
Ew, the guy who feels disrespected when a woman does not offer to pay for their date is vile. He sleeps with the women and then ghosts them out of principle. That is not ok. He could easily just end the date and explain that he isn't interested.
Using them physically and emotionally for some kind of vengeful gratification? He's a misogynist that predates the stone age.
Agreed, i was also grossed out by that, too. Like, guy, how emotionally immature are you? Just be upfront about your expectations. Not everyone is on the same page about how a date goes
My daily dose of Charlotte the Queen of Petty 😃😊🙂
Love From South Africa 🇿🇦❤
Am I the only one how likes the video before it starts ?🤣 cause I just know it’s gonna be good
Watching videos like this makes me appreciate my healthy relationship even more every day.
Bless you❤
I woke up at 4am (5 hours ago) and I was just about to take a nap with my newborn but I have to watch this first 😂
Congrats on your new little one.
Congratulations!!!
Charlotte, I don't know if you will even read this but PLEASE do a full video on the facebook recipe fight, you probably read it already but it goes ON AND ON and stays funny. it is my absolute favourite facebook fight to read lmao
Oh. My. Goodness. When we got the the 'dictator' meme at 2:44 I almost baptized my monitor with coffee...
I start my day and end my day with your videos they are the vibe I need after all the true crime I watch
SAME
Same here too 😂
It's all about the "he/she cheated with me.. I must be better than her/him"... The delusion that you are superior.. No honey.. You are not superior nor more important than her/him.. You are the easy solution to boost his/her confidence.
And so are they - once you're that insecure, it's not so far to being delusional too
Yes!! Watch a little bit of Charlotte on my lunch break,makes me laugh all time. A good boost for the afternoon!
In my youth when men used to hit on me, I would display my wedding ring and say, “Why are you asking, I’m married!” 80% or more of the time, the answer was, “Great! I’m married too!”
If he asked her out and then expects her to offer to pay, he just enjoys confusing people.
"Rule #1 Don't cheat. Rule #2 Don't keep a record of it."
*Alexander Hamilton has left the chat.*
About that one where the guy was searching through the phone to find her cheating only to find out that she knew that he was cheating?
It’s always projecting when the partner accusing you of cheating.
Thank you for your content. I always look forward to your videos, as they give me my much needed daily dose of serotonin. You’re an amazing and inspirational woman. Thank you for being you!
The ring thing is a thing. I almost never get hit on in public without my ring. The same thing happens to my wife. I was told that a ring means it is "safe to flirt" or that there will be "No Strings attached" both sounds sketchy AF.
😑 people are crazy
i haven't read my bible in a few years but im gonan dust it off and smack you with it oml charlotte that got me together XD
Me and my husband's mistress became friends after he freaked her out with the things he said the night I left. His CCs we're cancelled, his phone was cut off, and his car was at his apartment. (He was stuck at the train station) 😂😂 I left with the $, the good furniture, our son and the cats. 😊
But what did he say that fateful night??
You're commentary is literally 10 outta 10 stars, the things u say after has me crackin up laughin! "Get Taylor's name outta ur thin mouth bish" LOL too funny, every video.
When I found out about the affair my ex was having, I foolishly agreed to stay with him on the condition that he ended the affair and have nothing to do with her anymore. Short time later I found out that his idea of a solution to the whole thing was to remain "friends" with her and continue to hang out with her (including at her home) and everything would be "OK" as long as he wasn't sleeping with her. He ended up leaving me because my anger on finding this out was "stressing him out too much." And no, I am not a violent or loud person - I don't even use curse words. He filed for divorce shortly after and a few months later, when the time came, he brought his new fiancé as emotional support to our divorce hearing (and she wasn't even the woman that he had had the affair with).
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As a catholic, I'll be praying for these peoples. Lol
As a reformed Catholic, I will too bestie! 😉
@@davidguidry657 lmao love it.
Edit: let us pray together...
The title for this video is EPIC!!! Well done Potato Queen....well done!
That last one was crazy! ‘I don’t need that much Jesus’ 😂
Just a sprinkle of the Savior. A zest of Jesus, if you will 🤣🤣🤣
Reminds me of that old rhyme:
She offered her honor
He honored he offer
And all through the night
It was honor & offer
Tacky, I know.
Yaay! A new charlotte video just as I was getting into bed. Watching charlotte's video before bed gives me good happy sleep 🖤
I got married at 19, divorced at 29, married at 30, divorced at 41! I have been single every since. Learned my lesson with those cheating men. I am going to be 60 soon and am glad to be a single lady without all the drama. Who says you can't be happy and single forever.
I’m sorry that you experienced that. Twice!
I haven’t heard anyone say I can’t be happy single. Cuz right now, I am! 😉
Wow😢 I noticed your divorces were both at around the 10 year mark! I got with my 5 year old sons father when we were 18 and we broke up 2 years ago when we were 28, because he had an affair with a married woman with 2 young daughters and disguised it as having play dates with the our kids! They were neighborhood friends when they were like 7 and reconnected when they seen each other out somewhere and wanted to get the kids together for playtime! Except it turned into playtime for the both of them the adults and the kids playing together were just a bonus😤🙄
I watch you when I'm feeling chaotic depressed lmao. I have been feeling that way for like 3 weeks straight and I have not run out of videos. Big huge thank you for that because manic depression sucks but you never fail to make me laugh😁
Haha love the throwback to thin mouth- this make me cackle 😂
You always brighten the day Charlotte thank you from Down Under 🇦🇺💜🇮🇹
I only need the petty queen Charlotte😂 that's more than enough to make my day more funnier.
Charlotte, thank you so much for making your videos. I’ve been really sick for the last few days, and your videos are really helpful to distract me.
That last woman is going to end up on Dateline one day.
You know like I've heard a few times now on this channel, guys complain about their dates not paying or offering to pay, and I had no idea! I wonder if any of my dates felt that way about me, I have offered a few times when the guy is looking at the bill, I'll say let me get mine, and they never allowed it, but I'm glad she has brought this subject up because I really had no idea men felt that way.
Not all of us feel this way to be sure. I think it’s more of a symptom of entitlement than anything else. Some men feel entitled to the date and to extracurriculars for paying while some women feel entitled to treatment as a queen when they’re not even members of the court. Personally I prefer chivalry and the more traditional arrangements of the guy asking for the date and therefore paying and both parties interested in the date to learn about each other and enjoy their company to see if it can possibly lead to marriage. I’m not even sure of the intent of modern dating. 🤷🏻♂️
You're right!
And it's funny for me, because the majority of the guys i went out with were quite offended when i insisted to offer the dinner/cinema etc. Some of them actually turned out to be bad people overall, tbh.
I had a guy block me because I told him I couldn't afford to pay for both of us to get sushi because I lost my job. What do you say about that. It just makes me feel like he just wanted a free meal. And I don't have issues with paying for my man but we exchange maybe 10-15 messages. Before asking. Like idk he didn't even explain why.
I would say that whoever asks the other out should be the one to pay. But I like the chivalrous guys, pay for the date, hold the door open, give up their seat on public transportation, etc.
@@janethays3408 Don't you think thats just a cop out? You expect men to ask you out and then say "whoever asks pays". So, it always has to be the guy that pays, and in the end it's just an easy way to keep responsibility or any kind of reciprocity far far away from yourself.
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is what hurts the most.
My co-worker was seeing this girl and he was _completely_ lost for her. Turned out she'd been cheating on him for three months. He dumped her and was really cut up about it but he came around eventually.
No word of a lie it has been about two months since then. She's _pregnant_ and is adamant that it's his. According to him, they've talked it out and are giving it another go. They're going to move in together.
AITA for hoping that the baby comes out and is obviously not his? Not because I'd wish that betrayal on him but because I'd hate for her to hurt him all over again.
NTA, I'm with you on that. I just hope they do a paternity test before anything gets more serious..
It’s nice to see your videos after feeling down, you never fail making me smile❤
"Thin mouth" 😂 you're using the expression from your last video. Imma use it too 😆
About ten years ago at my old job, I started dating one of my coworkers (lesson learned: "Don't get your honey where you make your money") and eventually found out I was the side piece. Instead of breaking up with her immediately, I showed up to work the next day with hickeys on my neck from some random chick I made out with at a bar the night before. Coworker saw them and cried. Then I broke up with her.
That's the biggest problem I have with Christianity, they think they can do wrong and ask God or Jesus for forgiveness and everything is ok, with no consequences! That's not Christ's original message. I'm sick of the entitlement and arrogance. There's nothing Christ like in any of that.
Please don’t paint all of us with that brush. I’m just as disgusted and disappointed with the weaponizing and misinterpretation of the Bible as you are. God’s grace and forgiveness is not an excuse to sin and should absolutely never be presented as such. Your frustration/anger is valid, I just ask that you understand that the loud-mouthed hypocritical people that claim to be Christian do not represent true Christianity and do not speak for all of us. Have a great day Tater Tot.
@UCxmvj1eJZ1syTkz9auDDYSw I have a friend that calls that behavior being a “cafeteria Christian”; I’ll have a little forgiveness, no honor your father and mother today, maybe a little favor, but absolutely no turning the other cheek. That same friend also suggests that we not judge a religion/ideology/political position by its abuses. Something I try to keep in mind.
It is unfortunately all to common (and popular) to call out the hypocrisy of so-called Christians. Hypocrisy however is not a respecter of religions (or absence there of), politics, race, gender, or anything else and can be found in all areas. I’ve met some really good Christians (and I like to think I am one) and some really bad people who claim to be Christians. I’ve also met both good/bad Muslims and atheists. Grouping may be an easy thing to do but I have found that I miss out on some really good things when I group by any identifier. I try to base my opinion of people on my experience with them specifically not as their religion/politics/race/gender/etc. Which is why I love this channel so much! I have found a large percentage (but by no means all) of Tater Tots to be good people even if we disagree about something.
Hey happy stay petty day! Excited to see your new merch in your shop! Thanks for the laughs every day!
We hollered “thin mouth!” at the same time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Petty dose
My boyfriend has trauma from this. His ex never wanted anything to do with him and she was cheating on him the way he found out was she had her man break them up. My boyfriend falls hard and I can't believe a girl would ever do that to a man. She is now pregnant with her side pieces child.
I extremely enjoy your channel! The merch is so tempting 🧡❤
the audacity to check your partner's phone when you were the one cheating, these people are on another level
I think we can all agree that the sole responsibility of being faithful falls on those in relationships. However..I feel those who knowingly participate in cheating with those who are in relationships or married are just as bad. And they definitely need Jesus. Dont be surprised when you find yourself married in the future to the love of your life and find out they have a side piece . Karma always comes back to bite you in the ass when you least expect it and you will feel the same pain you caused someone else.
You’re not wrong.
I disagree. If both people involved are adults and they know that one of them is married they are both responsible. Grown ups are responsible for their own bad behavior. Nobody in an adulterous relationship is innocent unless they are being lied to and told that their affair partner is single.
@@elainehelms4076 I believe that Madisin’s point was that the affair partner (while responsible for their own actions) does not have the level of obligation to the one being cheated on. And I agree. The one in a relationship owes loyalty or at least honesty to their partner while the unattached third party just owes not being an a-hole. Just my opinion tho. 😉
@@davidguidry657 yes that is exactly what I was saying. Basically we are all in agreement to some degree. I may have just worded it poorly. Lol
@@davidguidry657 she did say the cheater was solely responsible, though.
Good video even if it was triggering. My ex believed he wasn't wasn't lying to me. Since I never asked if he was cheating he never lied to me so he wasn't in the wrong until I found out.
Charlotte your videos are so entertaining & funny especially when you do an unexpected reaction, it's even better. The gag at the end had me laughing so hard I almost peed, lol.
Ohh that first one..... I was just waiting for you to say "rule number 1: don't write down your crimes!" 😅