How DETACHMENT will force men to CHASE you
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- Relationship Advice & Dating Advice. Relationship Advice for women so you can understand love in the modern dating world. This is dating advice for women who are struggling to understand how a man thinks and what he wants from a woman in their relationships. I will also break down how to create desire in a relationship with a man so that he can chase after you and you can have the relationship you want! How to become an attractive person that attracts other high-quality potential romantic partners into your life. It's so important to understand that attraction doesn't just consist of your physical traits but there are also plenty of mental, spiritual, and energetic traits that also play a role in someone's attraction to you. How to position yourself in the right way in the modern dating world so you can have access to as many men as you want and build the relationship of your dreams. Not only do we discuss outward techniques and strategies but we also talk about many mindset changes that must take place for you to see real changes in your dating life. We discuss things like manifestation, the law of attraction, affirmations, and the law of assumptions as just a few of the many tools in your toolbox that will help you have the love life that you desire! There are also so many aspects to improving yourself and taking accountability that also play a role in getting the love you feel you deserve. We don't only focus on how to be better for men but we also learn how to be better for you. The better your life is, the more whole you are, the more confidence you will have, and the more attractive you will be to everyone around you. I will use my experiences in the dating world to help give you relationship advice and dating tips to get the type of love you seek!
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I think men can sense when your focus/energy shifts off them like he said they instantly start blowing up your line 😂
Yes purposely trying to distract us !
I’m starting not to care naturally, need to keep this fresh in my mind.
You are God sent. I totally detached myself from a bad guy recently because of you.
A guy who just made me wait so much, and didn't have any clear intentions at all.
Same
Detachment can mean that you are confident with your worth and that you have standards. You can never change people. Love yourself. Easy.
This episode is describing some parts of me as a person. I naturally detach myself from having expectations of a outcome with friendships, relationships, and people that I meet. and it draws people to want to be closer to me. It’s like their attracted to me being naturally aloof.
@shantehill4158 same here. I usually keep to myself. Have been totally disappointed with friends, relationships etc & I keep my distance with people mostly.
@@ektaaasarsame whenever i showed interest in people, they never reciprocated and it ended up as a one sided relationship. I just stop communicating to people who don't match my energy
I’m 49 years old widow. I’ve been dating Now for about seven years. Thank you so much for your videos. They are helping me out a lot.😊
This is 1000% true. I’ve learned that this is a natural part of my personality. The only times things shift and end up being difficult is with guys that have my attention. But the moment I realize that I’m doing too much and switch back, it’s like I’m a magnet again. I’m convinced that guys don’t need that much attention.
Going to start implementing the not watching their social media and using the phone ONLY to set up in person dates!
I believe it's all about loving yourself and self worth ❤
The problem is when they start chasing it’s after they messed up and I’m actually done so it doesn’t mean anything. I guess I gotta learn to drop the hammer earlier when I still gaf 😂
Please Tomisin, tell us about your personal experience with chasing😀
Every time I open UA-cam, this video was first on my suggested videos, I finally clicked lol I'm glad I did, I'm loving this content 🙌
you are saving so many lives! thank you man!
Love your energy ❤
Yess the law of assumption and attraction is imperative! ….dropping gems 💎 I love your channel
I knew it was one-sided, but was in total denial. Thank you for opening my eyes🧐
You drop GEMS. I hope you get a million followers ✨
I don't like when you are quite, that mean danger 😢lol take it easy lol love you for sharing your wisdom you are amazing ❤
The snap score lmfao 😂😂😂 I’m always checking that fml
Thank you, thank you from Germany❤
Can I suggest timestamps ? Love your channel 😊🥰🌸
Wow this channel is growing fast
Tomison I love you so much than you so much for your help
I appreciate your advice so much
I will always remember the Player's Club lol❤
Solid Gold Advice!
I absolutely needed to hear this message!❤ Love you so much!
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U are so right I am going through the same thing with a man right now
Men ain't shit! Focus on ur goals n work on ur dreams gurlll! Ur tooo beautiful to be worrying about a man...❤
He just text me after 35 days
Why wasn’t he blocked already?
Who texts after 35 days?
I would be like who is this????
Next 🔄
Self respect is also important. Not talking to me for 35 days I’m ALREADY detached and no longer have time for you…..
Hey I loved the show..thank you for putting so much value... I love when tell us to back off and you back into the closet... your awesome kid...
Just 👏🏽 amazing
How would this concept apply once your already engaged or married??
She isn't writing anything down. Arlette really went and switched up the order. I'd need an excel spreadsheet to keep track
brilliant
People around me confused to how many guys obsessed with me. It just INFJ thing, i live in my head 24/7 i naturally detached drom people, because reality is hard to live 🤣
Same
21:03 HELLO! I'm Living This Irl.. Love It For Me..
Thank you for your content.
This vdo is legit!!
This is tough love
Master Maestro 📚📣
WOW this content 😘👌
You should have been my big brother 😡.
I had given a lot of space earlier to one guy for like 2 -3 months & he would be bread crumbing often & turn up once in few weeks & I kept on waiting for him even after we broke off kind of. Then he comes back after one year. I don’t know what to do then or say even though I really liked him but I could not feel that trust. How long should I be detached I don’t know. Don’t know whether to show interest or not. I feel best is be friends first. I am tired of these games.
be friends if you want, but don’t fall in the text trap or become his therapist if he’s not committing. keep taking care of you . i promise ❤
You’re tired of the games but wondering if to show interest or not? 👀 DON’T show interest or he’ll just play you again
Run.
Block him please. He's playing you
@@Chrisia-Queens thanks for your feedback. Noted. But curious why what's the need for him playing me... What will he get out of it..? I always kept to myself & he was the one who approached.. Or are such people looking for just something casual like a fling.. asking as I don't really understand such things and I am a simple person
Teacher Tomisin, we are learning 😂😂😂 okay at least I have one whom I haven’t smashed. And he's spent a few coins on me and taken me on exquisite dates. I see the difference 😂😂😂😂 I'm no longer blind😂
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If you've got older kids- only put up w the expectations you would have for your children.
The VERY best because YOU know their worth.
People seem to forget their worth while chasing though.
People naturally make fools of themselves because they dont want to be made a fool of.
Easier said than done. But-
A list of pros & cons-
If you are left disappointed, you are coming from a place of ego, and you won't like the person once you get them anyway.
If its THAT hard. The universe is trying to tell you something, but, if you keep in, you just might get what you wanted- and it equivalent to WASTED TIME.
Present ❤
In my country the wife would have to carry his potential debt too. My opinion: No transparency, no marriage. Don't agree with you Tomisin for once. Why would an honest person hide finances from his partner? Letting the man lead is one thing, trusting blindly is another.
I agree. Especially stay at home moms. They should ALWAYS have access to the man’s finances. You should never be ignorant of your own family’s finances. Also it sounds like that lady is not legally married. They’re just calling each other husband and wife. 15 yrs no wedding!
Agreed. All marital assets belong to both parties. She has every right to know.
Hey everyone
It's so hilarious how you pause when these ladies mentions meeting someone on a dating app....when will these ladies learn 🤣🤣🤣. Take yall insecure tails out n the real world and meet people. STOP being lazy and then cry for help and understanding 😂😂
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What happens after the honeymoon?? & The mask comes off?? Yes the chase is on. Yet saw another side.
Tomiiiii……
Your thumbnails modimo
SCAMMY MEN
I love ur videos thank u for opening my eyes and helping me staying out of my delusions 😭
that is actually i really good way of putting it