Why you get minimum effort from guys | Clip
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2024
- A lot of women complain about getting the minimum effort from guys. Unfortunately, it’s most of them require. Why would guys work hard to impress women who are already impressed? why would they take women seriously who don’t require that they take them seriously Minnesota quick to jump into bed with strangers and women are so quick to let them. Many men don’t actually want relationships. They just want more partners in the bedroom. Many women don’t require men to even want a relationship to start a relationship. They themselves emotionally don’t even like them or respect. Men have learned the easiest way to get the farthest with women. The fastest is to give a minimum effort. This makes overcompensate for what she’s being given to build a feeling of closeness.
Minimal effort.
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Wow, this is literally the best advice ever. I'm in the dating pool and all you said is so true, it's difficult for me to say no to guys i like and when i actually say no, i end up saying yes after some few chat... And it leads nowhere.
I will take this advice, no house dates no bar dates...
Total THUMBS UP 👍 LADIES AND GIRLS ARE YOU LISTENING?And ABSORBING💥🥰
It’s because he hates you babe. Move on
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This is the gospel truth, thank you ❤.
You always come through with the advice whenever am entertaining som1 new😂🍻 Gracias!!
I was just watching the original of this video early this week. Great advices all around.
Another reason may be that he has got nothing to offer!! He's not your guy.
Thanks for watching! Sprinkling some new content in soon. I’m just retraining the algorithm right now.
Makes sense.
Its getting warmer...and we're out and about more now...so within these last 2 days I was out, Im warming myself up by hollerin a lil bit now. Still super nervous, but geting there. You know how that goes. Even though Ive been hollerin at women for 20+ years...since I was young...because we're not players that holla at women all the time all day every day like them, if youre off too long, you be mad nervous when you start again. Idk why its always like that...but it is. But its always exciting when youre about to holla at a new attractive woman. All the way until they usually dismiss you kinda coldly. Lol 😂 But it is what it is. 😂😂
Well said
You are a true gem!! Big brother.
Great advice
Ok kev.. The guy i've been dating two years has this issue.. At first a thought , Oka. But then it happened again yesterday.. So sing this video gave me my stamp of approval... I'm gonna do this.. Keep you updated!! 🎉🎉❤
maturity likes reciprocity, imaturity you have to play games. Man behave like they are shopping objecks, just value them if they are expensive, we are being seen as objekts and not human beings, that´s what´s hapening around
To prevent Confucius.. when move i move..jus like that!!!❤❤🎉
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I....WOULD....NOT....PLAY !!!!!!
..... LOOSE - GOOSE / & / HE / RAN - OFF 💯
Hit the nail on the head. Guilty of both of these and sure enough, didn’t work out for me.
Can this be somehow reversed ? I did everything wrong and we’ve been together and living together for years. I was naive and too young to know this when I met him, I now know better .. I get low effort , no romance etc.. Is this fixable ? I would hate breaking up over this I hope there’s something I can do to change the dynamic.
Thank you for the video, you’re completely right, sadly I saw this too late, so I hope others can take this to heart ❤ believe him please
Same 😢
My honest advice is to take back your power. Move out. Stop giving wife privileges to a man who hasn’t put a ring on it. Stop making yourself available & comfortable with the bare minimum. Switch things up - stop doing the things you’ve done that made him comfortable. Stop depending on him for anything or everything. Switch up your look, get new hobbies & go out more with friends. Communicate the things you want from him & if he doesn’t step up, leave the relationship if he doesn’t value you.
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Kev I absolutely love your single life content... I just wish you could help us identify our actual relationship needs. I value your opinion. I know relationship content is tricky but truly I hope you with the help of your lovely girl can help us.
Sincerely needing good role models,
Absolutely. I do that on personal calls. Everyone’s intrinsic needs are different. My channels are already dying. Switching the content I would absolutely murder it unfortunately. I hate the limits the algorithm places on creators
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He's hot and cold because he doesn't like you.
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Is a movie theater first date a red flag? Is it considered low effort? I get that we can’t talk during a movie but maybe this guys just dumb and didn’t think about it that way and maybe I’m overthinking it
I personally enjoy sharing a movie experience with someone. You can give non verbal expressions like glances, look at each other when something is funny-as if to say “did you see that!”
I’m a low key, mid western girl who likes quality time🤷🏻♀️
Plus you can get a sense of his humor and chivalry. Does he offer you the better seat? Does he make sure you’re comfortable. Does he treat you to popcorn, candy, etc.
Also, it’s interesting to me to talk about the movie afterwards and get his perspective. Did he think that crude joke was funny?
Uck!
Yeah, it could be either 1. Never know.
So it's hard to tell if it's a red flag, yellow flag or no big deal. Idk. 🤔
I think it’s only a faux pas, but not a flag, if it’s the first date. First dates should be about talking, which can happen best over a nice dinner IMO. It also depends on the background. Did you mention you liked movie(s)? Are movies one of his favorite pastimes that he’s just trying to share with you?
I think as long as he “means” well, pays for the date, and wants to converse with you on other dates it’s not a bad date idea. People have been going on movie dates ever since movie theaters have been in operation...going on movie dates is certainly nothing new or unusual.
@@deejames1st We're talking about 1st dates here ma.
Yes, that's possible...but definitely possible that it's a red flag from someone who doesn't care to truly get to know you...because that's really the purpose of a 1st date...not just to have fun, but to get to know each other.
So if I'm dating casually and have no real genuine interest...well longterm interest in that woman, I may take her on a regular casual movie date...so we don't really have to talk...I just give her a good time, so she is good.
See you gotta think about it from the other side. I'm a man. And this lady that made the comment and question is definitely very smart to even ask that.
Okay what's pursuing a man?
Men naturally pursue women that they are interested in.
When you make the initial contact . Shooting your shot. Sliding in his dms. Approaching a man etc. A man pursues a woman when he’s interested. A woman then decides if she wants to be pursued and if she’s available. When a man leads from the beginning he will continue to do so throughout the relationship. The Bible says he who finds a wife not she who finds a husband. ❤
@@yemedemure414 Exactly. Thanks sis! ❤️
@@yemedemure414This is incorrect. Approaching and pursuing are completely different concepts. Pursuit is consistent effort for continued access. Not initial contact.
Women who think like this put themselves in a box and limit their options based on arbitrary/flawed logic.