You are totally right! They fit narcissism category but there’s moments of kindness… it’s like they’re smiles trick you that they’re a good person. Like they’re a good person till they are triggered
I'm glad you talked about this phase and this angle of Narcissists, I'm in the state of constant confusion but your words gave me clarity. Jazak'Allah.
So true, the stuck feeling is so exhausting but , you do move through. Sometime knowing they aren't good is enough but we want to make sure, make sure you aren't wrong, make sure they are what they act like. Appreciate the comment sis xx
Any subtle mental illness is difficult to understand esp when you desperately want them to be normal, desperately want a normal relationship, just normal. To save the relationship. Bc we often love them and can never detatch totally. Go round in circles looking for a solution bc they can't. Even knowing everything are still often in denial. Like any other illness. My best friend, sweetest ever, has the horriblest daughter ever. 😢 Ruined her life.
your right, its hard to see clearly when we have emotional blinders on for the person who we hoped they could be- most of them time who they seemed to be when we first met them. I'm sorry to hear about your best friends daughter, I hope everything works out for her.
You are totally right! They fit narcissism category but there’s moments of kindness… it’s like they’re smiles trick you that they’re a good person. Like they’re a good person till they are triggered
You really helped me realize he’s simply not healthy for me
I'm glad you talked about this phase and this angle of Narcissists, I'm in the state of constant confusion but your words gave me clarity. Jazak'Allah.
I'm really happy to read this, it's so confusing when you face someone and they aren't who they seem. Will share more like this insha Allah :)
Subhan Allah I just feel like this came at the right time for meh
lovely to hear sister x
this is so true ukhty, you do just really want to understand them but alhumdulilah you do MOVE THROUGH
the Stuck-ness.
So true, the stuck feeling is so exhausting but , you do move through. Sometime knowing they aren't good is enough but we want to make sure, make sure you aren't wrong, make sure they are what they act like. Appreciate the comment sis xx
Any subtle mental illness is difficult to understand esp when you desperately want them to be normal, desperately want a normal relationship, just normal. To save the relationship. Bc we often love them and can never detatch totally. Go round in circles looking for a solution bc they can't. Even knowing everything are still often in denial. Like any other illness. My best friend, sweetest ever, has the horriblest daughter ever. 😢 Ruined her life.
your right, its hard to see clearly when we have emotional blinders on for the person who we hoped they could be- most of them time who they seemed to be when we first met them. I'm sorry to hear about your best friends daughter, I hope everything works out for her.
great work
Naw, they’re one dimensional. Very easy to figure out. Same cycle same patterns same red flags nearly the same person
One track mind but with many facets or sides
indeed
JazakAllah khair very helpful info! I wrote a book on this topic as well & hope we can get more muslims to talk about it iA🤍
please share the link to your book!
@@aishahalamofficial I shared it but for some reason its not showing up, its called "The Muslim Thriver" 🤍