Exactly! He is an adult and needs to be accountable for his actions. I had a bad childhood but I know how to respect people and don’t do hurtful things to them. I hate when people play the “I had a bad childhood “ card when they did something wrong. That’s not an excuse. We all go through hard things and a lot of us have had bad childhoods.
And if he has his own issues, tell him you’re leaving and won’t come back until he’s bettered himself! There are children involved! They need to start acting like adults!!!!
@@bellerain381 Both parties should be willing to work through this if they want the marriage to work. The husband probably checked out a few years ago. Poor lady, she's holding on to hope that he'll change! The only one who can help him is God!
Hmm not really. We all have different ways to cope with the situation. She's actually strong for doing this. Its just sad that it had to end with them talking to Dr. Phil and really exposing this to social media.
Accountability my butt. The husband is the one who should be held accountable. She has said numerous times she was told he was separated…she was told by the person she was seeing that they were separated and single what else was she suppose to do a dang background check!!!! Girl get your husband and grow up!
That still doesn’t make the girl blameless. She knew about him, the mistress played a part in this whole situation, she needs to take accountability for her part.
The wife is taking her anger out on the wrong person. He knew he was married. He knew he was lying. He knew he was hurting his wife and family. He made those choices and lied to both women. And sat back and let the mistress take all the heat. He will 1million percent do it again because nobody is holding him accountable. Why would the mistress apologize? She’s not married or committed to his wife. It’s not her responsibility to be faithful to her. Wtf dr Phil
It’s easier for her to blame the mistress because then she can justify staying with him :/ She’s insecure. He’s handsome, a total douche canoe, but handsome. I’m sure she doesn’t feel as beautiful and his behavior has only made that worse. Staying with him makes her feel beautiful in some way. I can’t explain but I’ve felt it. I’ve felt like “wow this guy is hot and way out of my league. If he leaves me clearly it’s because I am not pretty and I won’t get better”. It sucks and I feel so awful for her :(
@@bostonbreezyRN I don't think he is handsome at all. And he tries to carry himself as an arrogant cocky gift to women when he really looks and acts like a boy in a man's body. Also, the mistress should be blamed as well because she and the husband discussed where she should park so that his wife wouldn't see her on camera. So she obviously knew the wife lived there. At that point, she should have broken it off with the loser.
Oh you can bet she's not letting him off the hook! He has to live with her anger (good on her for being so open kinstead of doing the passive-aggressive thing many people would do in this situation. That hairdresser is just rude. She really thinks they are even ..... she couldn't even say "I didn't know he was married, if I had kn own I would never have done it and for that I am sorry. I am as much a victim of his lies but I get why you're angry" Now why wouldnt she just say something like that. Rightly or wrongly the hairdresser did it!
I don’t think the “ mistress “ should apologize if she really didn’t know that he was married but then again it is the humane thing to do . I get why she wouldn’t if she really didn’t know but if I was her I would definitely feel the need to apologize because imagine how she would feel if the roles were reversed. no one wants to be cheated on & it is totally on the husband since he’s the one in a committed relationship but idk, I definitely would’ve apologized even if I didn’t know it’s still pretty horrible ://
I wouldn’t want to apologize after the wife did that to me. If the wife didn’t humiliate the girl and asked her instead like a respectable human then I would say she should apologize naturally.
I don't think he believes her. She did say when she ran into him at the bar, she thought one of the women he was with was his wife... she was talking in circles. She can't ask about his wife then claim she didn't know he was married
@@bloonsfamguy If she thought they were separated but out together at a bar, then that would imply separated but still seeing each other. Who in their right mind would want to date a married man that was separated but dating his wife. I have known couples that separated but then dated and got back together. Actually it made their marriage stronger and they re-lite the flame this way. It was actually common to go out a few dates with someone else and then realized they truly loved each other and wanted to spend their lives together.
Dr. Phil was rude to Chelsey. Chelsey asked for them to take down the information. Obviously, smug little wifey is not going to that. There are three adults who caused damage here; all three need to have accountability for their actions. Dr. Phil was pissed when he couldn't cajole Chelsey into an "apologizing evil mistress" just for his ego and ratings. I have lost some respect for Dr. Phil.
Being an adult means taking accountability I don’t think his intention was to bash her he was just stating a fact the wife is definitely wrong and an enabaler to the abuse from her husband. But as a women you KNOW when something doesn’t add up in a relationship red flag would be text messages to avoid the cameras in his home see her clothing hanging up family photos. Sometimes as women we want to believe the lie and fantasy as well & for that she needed to take accountability for. Not for the cheating husband but for the part she played unfortunately.
@@RayveniaelKelAdoria right, I would apologize for my part in the disrespect so I could move on. Then let it go. Janaye, then needs to focus on her life. Her husband has a problem, what is she going to do go after every woman he cheats on her with? Who wants to live their life like that.
@@barriewilliams9824 people lie. I asked someone I was seeing at the very beginning if they had a girlfriend or were married. He straight up said no. Fast forward a few weeks foud out he was married.
Of course now he starts to think about his childhood and see these “connections” because he is searching for an excuse. In matters where you look for a way out random connections are made
why the would she apologize? what accountability???? the man LIED and told her that he was single? how on earth does she have to be accountable for ANYTHING? god. idiocy makes me sick
I don't think he attractive to his wife. He was checking out woman as she was leaving the stage. It shows what type of women he likes totally opposite of his wife. Not saying anything wrong with her.
He’s going to keep cheating on her. He’s manipulative and the wife is just dumb directing her anger out on the other woman who was manipulated to. I’ll never understand why women get more upset at the mistress rather than the man who vowed to be faithful & committed to you for the rest of ya’lls life.
Why does a single woman who sleeps with a married man thinks she has no accountability in the breakup of a marriage? Yes, the married man was wrong but so is the single woman.
If I found out my husband in the future cheated on her I’d take it out on both in the moment but I don’t expect an apology from the woman that didn’t know
@Dian Be then I’d want an apology not to me but to my kid for the emotional distress that it’s going to put on my daughter no one ever thinks about how it’s going to effect the children it’s just about the parents and never the children
@abc123 so if I do ever get married and my husband cheated on me I wouldn’t want an apology from the woman that he cheated with if she didn’t know that he was married or had kids because she’s innocent she didn’t know now if she did know that he had a wife and kids then I would want an apology is that better?
She should've said "I'm sorry I slept with your lying husband if anything.... Though there was no transparency as to what was going on. If I was aware things would've been different." It's not the nicest thing to say, but it's simple/blunt and to the point. Hard to be nice in a situation with a wife that is ignorant/naive to tolerate his behavior. She's in for only more torment in the future if she stays in her clouded eyes.
When people blame their childhood they’re just admitting they’re not strong, smart or self aware enough to overcome their past…I had parents that were bad examples too but I’m still in a healthy relationship today
I'm not sure why dr phil is making her apologize I think he's gone off the deep end a little and sometimes he loses sight of what's going on and being said. She has no commitment to them and she didn't know he was married that's not her problem dr phil. You should apologize to her for making her think it was her problem.
It seems like the wife is just in it for the drama and the victim badge she gets to wear; she doesn't seem interested in resolving the issues she has with her husband.
"Accountability" How?? She didn't choose to sleep with a married man, she chose to sleep with an allegedly single man. He lied, therefore they both owe her an apology. If she didn't slander her and attack her, maybe she'd have been nicer
Chelsey doesn't owe her anything, her husband lied to her about being married. He said they were separated, so why would she think anything different? The wife and husband are sick in the head. She knows her husband and is willing to stay with him after he's humiliated her, TWICE.... That's on her.
Dr. Phil the mistress is blameless. How do you blame a single woman for having a boyfriend? She did not know he was married. Even if she did, who the flip took the vow? I will fiercely defend the mistress on this as a hardcore radical feminist.
The husbands mistress has a good point both here. And both of these the women are victims 100% my heart goes out to the kids. And they need to get divorced there’s no doubt about it children should absolutely be protected and permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever that will protect them for sure!!!:)
I wouldn’t apologize either. The best thing I would say is that it wasn’t in my intention and if I knew I wouldn’t have moved forward. But it’s hard to feel bad for someone and apologize when she’s probably dealing with the hurt and shock that her feelings were being manipulated, the wife blasts her online and encourages other people to harass her as well. It’s all too much.
It's not too much? She knows why the wife is bashing her. Apologize first, and the bashing will stop. Don't tell the wife to stop the bashing first so that you will give her an apology?
Yep and that excuse me of words back in the day but in 2021 you think people would be smarter enough to know what separated means probably getting back together a thousand times before they actually divorce
Separated is kind of self defined through the couple. They may want to just separate for a few months and see how it goes. My aunt and uncle have done this. They just needed a “break,” they never intended on getting a divorce. In this Dr. Phil situation (that wasn’t true) it did sound like him and his wife were no longer together, even if they are still legally married.
It is not up to Chelsea to define HIS marriage. It is up to HIM. He stated he didn't want to talk about it at the salon around others ..that they were separated...had been for MONTHS ...she was living in another state... and he's at a bar trying to meet someone. That is NOT a marriage in any way you could possibly conceive of. HE - DEFINED it as INSIGNIFICANT in his words and actions. There was NO talk of taking a break or trying down the road. That description says it was OVER. Very few ppl in this world wait for a finalized divorce to start moving on in life. You can have an opinion, but it doesn't change the reality. There are ppl who also believe that once married, you can't ever divorce. Is that right? That's WHY *personal* opinions and religious beliefs cannot be imposed on others. Shaming Chelsea is ridiculous. She trusted he was telling the truth. The wife also trusted him. All relationships have an element of blind trust. Did the wife insist he photograph himself at all times, wherever he is at, when he goes out? No. Why not? CAUSE SHE TRUSTED HIM. ...AND - SHE knew him better than Chelsea did and STILL trusted him. Oh but...ONLY the wife can be a victim in her story.
the wife soo wants attention she literally wants everything showed on the internet like her wanting the side girl to apologize on video like girl u obviously want attention from the internet they needa do this in private then move on✌🏽
No sense in her apologizing if she doesn't actually mean it so he's the wife knows and yes it is the husband that should be fully responsible but she'll probably take him back and hate the woman instead
All she ever wanted was an apology from her husband’s lover🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣 and then that fixes it all. This poor lady she’s going to eventually get tired of chasing her husband’s lovers.
That dude is a POS and that wife seems angry at the wrong person, ive been in this situation where a man told me he was single and he wasnt and the wife called me and at first she was hella angry, but once she calmed down, she and I had a very honest good convo. I think that wife was mad at the "mistress" and wanted revenge. plain and simple
I watched the full episode and I understand why they were little hard on the “mistress”. she knew he was married she was hairstylist. she the kind of woman who will sleep with married men and thinks nothing wrong with it because she isn’t the one who broke the vow. it’s about a moral compass and having compassion for other pain. the first mistress reaction was the polar opposite & the wife was able to find out more from the her and they basically apologize to each other for his conniving ways. this one was just cold
The other woman owned her part. She does not need to apologize when she is being attacked like that. You can tell she regrets her actions. Get real Phil.
I had a pretty bad childhood myself and ended up with Borderline Personality Disorder. Even with how unstable my relationships are, and even my morals, I still know not to cheat on my partner. I may have issues with them, but I’d never use my mental illness or past as an excuse to betray someone I love.
I agree with these comments but I saw another video where the wife states the husband and mistress were texting and the husband was telling the mistress where to park and where to come into the home so his wife wouldnt see her on the cameras. So im assuming the mistress knew he was married at this point. Its hard to tell whos lying or not these days.
He did not just say he cheated because of his childhood. Dude are you for real??! I got physically, mentally & emotionally abused as a child and teenager, that doesn't mean i'm entitled to do the same!!
This low class mistress has no shame whatsoever, she knew he was married. Unfaithful spouses cheat because there are cheap women like this one that sleeps with anyone! The husband is awful too and Will not change so please protect your children and get divorced.
She's 100% right. It is not up to Chelsea to define HIS marriage. It is up to HIM. He stated he didn't want to talk about it at the salon around others ..that they were separated...had been for MONTHS ...she was living in another state... and he's at a bar trying to meet someone. That is NOT a marriage in any way you could possibly conceive of. HE - DEFINED it as INSIGNIFICANT in his words and actions. There was NO talk of taking a break or trying down the road. That description says it was OVER. His wife needs to decide if she wants her dysfunctional marriage or not, a husband who described their marriage that way to get into another woman's pants. Decide. Leave this woman alone. Grow up. She wanted proof of the cheating and Chelsea wasn't obligated, but gave it all to her. Instead, she weaponizes it against her. Because she needs to punish someone. She needs her pound of flesh. That says a lot about her. And she can't punish him - he feels nothing. So she goes after Chelsea. They obviously have a sick attachment to the infidelity, to the attention and neither can let Chelsea go. He watched her walk off the stage. He loved having weird permission to still contact her from the wife. The wife is her own worst enemy. She's clueless. On stage, he's team wifey. In his private interview he's acknowledging his wife needs to leave Chelsea alone. He has more sympathy for Chelsea than his wife cause he knows their marriage is messed up and he dragged innocent third parties into that nightmare. The marriage is done. She won't ever let it go and he clearly genuinely liked Chelsea. He basically admitted he was the problem, not Chelsea - to the degree he could - because he had to stick with whatever lies he told his wife.
Did you guys see him check out her butt as she walked off the stage??? Yep….he still wants her & that’s why he’s still contacting her. He’s not into the wifey apparently anymore. She doesn’t have the confidence to leave him because she thinks he’s a prize…..a lying, cheating, deceiving, manipulating prize. But the best “useless” prize. He will never be faithful because he’s still that little boy that doesn’t know to take accountability for his actions.
The mistress feels so victimized. Oh wow. Typical. Isn't it a bit selfish to say, "my business is ruined" than destroying a family? Good job, Chelsey! I do hope you still get to sleep soundly at night.
All three of these adults have damaged another person by their actions. Do not single out the girlfriend. Genn, I hope you sleep soundly at night after bashing another person, and not seeing clearly all of the actions.
He is being very honest. Just leave her as she will be a banshee until the end. Need to stop the mom from posting all her drama and stalking the other women online. Which will only harm the children...
We all have had some issues we have had to deal with since we were children! I think we all can agree on that one! How we deal with that has shaped us as individuals! Some have had worse than others, but I also believe we all can support each other on that!
Don't blame it on your childhood. It's an excuse. You know the difference between right and wrong. You're no kid at this point anymore.
Exactly!
We all have issues we’ve been dealing with since childhood!
What we do with it is our own choice!
second this!
my childhood wasnt a bed of roses, but i dont treat woman like this !
Exactly! He is an adult and needs to be accountable for his actions. I had a bad childhood but I know how to respect people and don’t do hurtful things to them. I hate when people play the “I had a bad childhood “ card when they did something wrong. That’s not an excuse. We all go through hard things and a lot of us have had bad childhoods.
I'm no therapist but I think what's really going on here is: the husband just isn't in love with the wife and nor does he respect her
Yes!
The fact that this woman allowed him to stay in her life makes me think that she's insecure! Cut the cord and let him go lady!! He'll never change!
And if he has his own issues, tell him you’re leaving and won’t come back until he’s bettered himself!
There are children involved! They need to start acting like adults!!!!
@@bellerain381 Both parties should be willing to work through this if they want the marriage to work. The husband probably checked out a few years ago. Poor lady, she's holding on to hope that he'll change! The only one who can help him is God!
Sometimes you just never get an apology. All you can do is move on with your life. Period.
She didn’t deserve on the girl didn’t even know that she was married
What ever happened in this childhood may be an explanation, but NEVER an excuse.
The wife is just as crazy as him to stay with him
Exactly
I think she enjoys the drama and internet points more than the marriage. This works for her.
Hmm not really. We all have different ways to cope with the situation. She's actually strong for doing this. Its just sad that it had to end with them talking to Dr. Phil and really exposing this to social media.
Jenaye has no right to blame Chelsea as much as she is. Her husband is the cause of all of this
And he's crazy to stay with her also....LOL
the way he looked at chelsea when she left 😂😂
💯💯💯💯😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
LMFAOOOOOOOOO
Because he lost another poor woman to manipulate. He’s wife’s a fool. He won’t change
2:56
Accountability my butt. The husband is the one who should be held accountable. She has said numerous times she was told he was separated…she was told by the person she was seeing that they were separated and single what else was she suppose to do a dang background check!!!! Girl get your husband and grow up!
She's still not blameless. She knew.
Exactly!
Not once did he denied that too!! F* the apology, I am glad she said,"NO!"
Not once did he denied that too!! F* the apology, I am glad she said,"NO!"
That still doesn’t make the girl blameless. She knew about him, the mistress played a part in this whole situation, she needs to take accountability for her part.
The wife is taking her anger out on the wrong person. He knew he was married. He knew he was lying. He knew he was hurting his wife and family. He made those choices and lied to both women. And sat back and let the mistress take all the heat. He will 1million percent do it again because nobody is holding him accountable.
Why would the mistress apologize? She’s not married or committed to his wife. It’s not her responsibility to be faithful to her. Wtf dr Phil
It’s easier for her to blame the mistress because then she can justify staying with him :/ She’s insecure. He’s handsome, a total douche canoe, but handsome. I’m sure she doesn’t feel as beautiful and his behavior has only made that worse. Staying with him makes her feel beautiful in some way. I can’t explain but I’ve felt it. I’ve felt like “wow this guy is hot and way out of my league. If he leaves me clearly it’s because I am not pretty and I won’t get better”. It sucks and I feel so awful for her :(
@@bostonbreezyRN I don't think he is handsome at all. And he tries to carry himself as an arrogant cocky gift to women when he really looks and acts like a boy in a man's body. Also, the mistress should be blamed as well because she and the husband discussed where she should park so that his wife wouldn't see her on camera. So she obviously knew the wife lived there. At that point, she should have broken it off with the loser.
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Oh you can bet she's not letting him off the hook! He has to live with her anger (good on her for being so open kinstead of doing the passive-aggressive thing many people would do in this situation. That hairdresser is just rude. She really thinks they are even ..... she couldn't even say "I didn't know he was married, if I had kn own I would never have done it and for that I am sorry. I am as much a victim of his lies but I get why you're angry" Now why wouldnt she just say something like that. Rightly or wrongly the hairdresser did it!
I mean if you did watch the previous vids. The guy said that the hairdresser did knew that he's married.
The hairdresser didn’t sleep with her husband. Her husband slept with the hairdresser.
Really, the mistress is 50% to blame as is the husband, it takes two to tango
@@WolfModigexcept he said they were separated
@@b2kzangelalwayz yes the hairdresser is just as much at fault, homewrecker on her part
@@PeitaBartz separated is still married, so many people have forgotten that
@@WolfModig she was told he was separatewd.
I don’t think the “ mistress “ should apologize if she really didn’t know that he was married but then again it is the humane thing to do . I get why she wouldn’t if she really didn’t know but if I was her I would definitely feel the need to apologize because imagine how she would feel if the roles were reversed. no one wants to be cheated on & it is totally on the husband since he’s the one in a committed relationship but idk, I definitely would’ve apologized even if I didn’t know it’s still pretty horrible ://
She knew he was married. Even if she thought they were separated that's still married. They both owe apologies.
I wouldn’t want to apologize after the wife did that to me. If the wife didn’t humiliate the girl and asked her instead like a respectable human then I would say she should apologize naturally.
She knew he was married
i don’t understand dr. Phil’s reaction, he’s making her out to be the vilain when she didn’t know he was married
I don't think he believes her. She did say when she ran into him at the bar, she thought one of the women he was with was his wife... she was talking in circles. She can't ask about his wife then claim she didn't know he was married
@@katiepetersen7489 she thought they were separated.
@@bloonsfamguy separated is still married when will people understand that
@@bloonsfamguy If she thought they were separated but out together at a bar, then that would imply separated but still seeing each other. Who in their right mind would want to date a married man that was separated but dating his wife. I have known couples that separated but then dated and got back together. Actually it made their marriage stronger and they re-lite the flame this way. It was actually common to go out a few dates with someone else and then realized they truly loved each other and wanted to spend their lives together.
Watch a bunch of episodes of Dr Phil and u will realize he loves to victim blame
Dr. Phil was rude to Chelsey. Chelsey asked for them to take down the information. Obviously, smug little wifey is not going to that.
There are three adults who caused damage here; all three need to have accountability for their actions. Dr. Phil was pissed when he couldn't cajole Chelsey into an "apologizing evil mistress" just for his ego and ratings. I have lost some respect for Dr. Phil.
Same tbh. .
Right
Being an adult means taking accountability I don’t think his intention was to bash her he was just stating a fact the wife is definitely wrong and an enabaler to the abuse from her husband. But as a women you KNOW when something doesn’t add up in a relationship red flag would be text messages to avoid the cameras in his home see her clothing hanging up family photos. Sometimes as women we want to believe the lie and fantasy as well & for that she needed to take accountability for. Not for the cheating husband but for the part she played unfortunately.
@@crystalmargarito5426 100% she knew she may be dumb, but she isn't stupid.
I would apologize even if I knew NOTHING.
@@RayveniaelKelAdoria right, I would apologize for my part in the disrespect so I could move on. Then let it go.
Janaye, then needs to focus on her life. Her husband has a problem, what is she going to do go after every woman he cheats on her with?
Who wants to live their life like that.
I dont see why the "Mistress" should apologize. SHE DID NOT KNOW HE WAS MARRIED🥴
Perhaps she should have checked if he had a partner before opening her legs - just shows her complete lack of accountability and morals!
@@barriewilliams9824 rude
@@barriewilliams9824 people lie. I asked someone I was seeing at the very beginning if they had a girlfriend or were married. He straight up said no. Fast forward a few weeks foud out he was married.
@@emmacantrell1124 too bad
For real tho. Like he cheated not her. In my opinion she's kind of blameless
Hahahahaha.... 02:57 When the mistress walked alway, the "regretful" husband CHECKED her butt out... Hahahahahaha
He's still into Chelsey, did you see the way he watched her leave the stage. Leave him Jenaye, he's not going to change.
Of course now he starts to think about his childhood and see these “connections” because he is searching for an excuse. In matters where you look for a way out random connections are made
If the wife was a strong woman, she would not need the mistress' apology.
why the would she apologize? what accountability???? the man LIED and told her that he was single? how on earth does she have to be accountable for ANYTHING? god. idiocy makes me sick
For real.
That’s what she says.
Dr phil was low key trying to encourage the husband to cheat some more.
I agree with you. All three of these adults caused damages to people by their actions. All three need to own their actions, and be accountable.
Yeah that's what she claims. She's not blameless.
The wife makes just as many excuses as he does. They truly deserve each other.
am i the only one who saw his eyes follow that girl when she left?👀
I don't think he attractive to his wife. He was checking out woman as she was leaving the stage. It shows what type of women he likes totally opposite of his wife. Not saying anything wrong with her.
I thought the same hes giving the other ladies looks but hes still saying he wants to save his marriage. I Think they both need to get rid of him.
Women get big ego's just because some guy looks at them and then they take that as a green light.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
HIS WIFE LOOKS JUST LIKE HIM.
2:56
He’s going to keep cheating on her. He’s manipulative and the wife is just dumb directing her anger out on the other woman who was manipulated to. I’ll never understand why women get more upset at the mistress rather than the man who vowed to be faithful & committed to you for the rest of ya’lls life.
The mistress owes her nothing.
She's hot
Why does a single woman who sleeps with a married man thinks she has no accountability in the breakup of a marriage? Yes, the married man was wrong but so is the single woman.
Blaming this on his childhood is an other manipulation tactic
The way the husband watches his mistress walk away..... he's not done cheating
If I found out my husband in the future cheated on her I’d take it out on both in the moment but I don’t expect an apology from the woman that didn’t know
@Dian Be then I’d want an apology not to me but to my kid for the emotional distress that it’s going to put on my daughter no one ever thinks about how it’s going to effect the children it’s just about the parents and never the children
@abc123 I’m not married I wrote it stupidly sorry
@abc123 so if I do ever get married and my husband cheated on me I wouldn’t want an apology from the woman that he cheated with if she didn’t know that he was married or had kids because she’s innocent she didn’t know now if she did know that he had a wife and kids then I would want an apology is that better?
@abc123 crunchie💀 you mean cringe😂
@abc123 do you know how old I am?
She should've said "I'm sorry I slept with your lying husband if anything.... Though there was no transparency as to what was going on. If I was aware things would've been different." It's not the nicest thing to say, but it's simple/blunt and to the point. Hard to be nice in a situation with a wife that is ignorant/naive to tolerate his behavior. She's in for only more torment in the future if she stays in her clouded eyes.
The husband tried made a special effort to not watch that fine a$$ mistress walk off the stage.
No accountability, pretty sure if the tiles were reversed he would be trashing her, meanwhile he gets a free pass
Tiles?
The wife looks like she a piece of work . She needs to move on. Obviously, the husband still has feelings for the mistress. He checked out.
When people blame their childhood they’re just admitting they’re not strong, smart or self aware enough to overcome their past…I had parents that were bad examples too but I’m still in a healthy relationship today
Bullcrap. He doesn't want to be cheated on, so he knows he's wrong he just wants attention from other women and doesn't care who he hurts
They deserve each other. Leave this woman alone
I'm not sure why dr phil is making her apologize I think he's gone off the deep end a little and sometimes he loses sight of what's going on and being said. She has no commitment to them and she didn't know he was married that's not her problem dr phil. You should apologize to her for making her think it was her problem.
I said the same thing
I will never understand why women always focus all their anger on the mistress. The husbands chose to cheat.
It seems like the wife is just in it for the drama and the victim badge she gets to wear; she doesn't seem interested in resolving the issues she has with her husband.
"Accountability" How?? She didn't choose to sleep with a married man, she chose to sleep with an allegedly single man. He lied, therefore they both owe her an apology. If she didn't slander her and attack her, maybe she'd have been nicer
His eyes at the mistresses butt as she walks away...disgusting!
WELL SHE WAS DRESSED LIKE AHOOKER.
Chelsey doesn't owe her anything, her husband lied to her about being married. He said they were separated, so why would she think anything different? The wife and husband are sick in the head. She knows her husband and is willing to stay with him after he's humiliated her, TWICE.... That's on her.
Dr. Phil the mistress is blameless. How do you blame a single woman for having a boyfriend? She did not know he was married. Even if she did, who the flip took the vow? I will fiercely defend the mistress on this as a hardcore radical feminist.
The husbands mistress has a good point both here. And both of these the women are victims 100% my heart goes out to the kids. And they need to get divorced there’s no doubt about it children should absolutely be protected and permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever that will protect them for sure!!!:)
I wouldn’t apologize either. The best thing I would say is that it wasn’t in my intention and if I knew I wouldn’t have moved forward. But it’s hard to feel bad for someone and apologize when she’s probably dealing with the hurt and shock that her feelings were being manipulated, the wife blasts her online and encourages other people to harass her as well. It’s all too much.
It's not too much? She knows why the wife is bashing her. Apologize first, and the bashing will stop. Don't tell the wife to stop the bashing first so that you will give her an apology?
Wife looks dumb staying with him
Separated is still married
Legally yes but emotionaly no
Yep and that excuse me of words back in the day but in 2021 you think people would be smarter enough to know what separated means probably getting back together a thousand times before they actually divorce
And it's just an excuse to sleep with some one else.
Separated is kind of self defined through the couple. They may want to just separate for a few months and see how it goes. My aunt and uncle have done this. They just needed a “break,” they never intended on getting a divorce. In this Dr. Phil situation (that wasn’t true) it did sound like him and his wife were no longer together, even if they are still legally married.
It is not up to Chelsea to define HIS marriage. It is up to HIM. He stated he didn't want to talk about it at the salon around others ..that they were separated...had been for MONTHS ...she was living in another state... and he's at a bar trying to meet someone. That is NOT a marriage in any way you could possibly conceive of. HE - DEFINED it as INSIGNIFICANT in his words and actions. There was NO talk of taking a break or trying down the road. That description says it was OVER. Very few ppl in this world wait for a finalized divorce to start moving on in life. You can have an opinion, but it doesn't change the reality. There are ppl who also believe that once married, you can't ever divorce. Is that right? That's WHY *personal* opinions and religious beliefs cannot be imposed on others.
Shaming Chelsea is ridiculous. She trusted he was telling the truth. The wife also trusted him. All relationships have an element of blind trust. Did the wife insist he photograph himself at all times, wherever he is at, when he goes out? No. Why not? CAUSE SHE TRUSTED HIM. ...AND - SHE knew him better than Chelsea did and STILL trusted him. Oh but...ONLY the wife can be a victim in her story.
Him watching her walk away 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 LMFAOOOOOO
Hes so not into his wife🤣🤣🤣
The wife is incredibly immature
That guy brought a 3rd party into their lives and made a great big mess. All 3 will be ghosts in each others lives for the remainder of time.
Is Dr. Phil serious?
He just made himself sound like a god damn fool, thinking that she should be held accountable for the situation.
the wife soo wants attention she literally wants everything showed on the internet like her wanting the side girl to apologize on video like girl u obviously want attention from the internet they needa do this in private then move on✌🏽
Agreed, she wants an apology she should do it in private.
Did he just blame his childhood on being a sleeze bag? Him and his wife both fit together perfectly.
Like I told my husband "you said I DO" regardless if the other person knew or not. It starts and end with you.
A link to the entire show would be helpful.
It's on the channel just scroll down on the videos it's 2 parts
It's also on the dr phil Facebook account
Dr Phil got it wrong yet again! You were more mad at the woman than him!
Wtf Dr. Phil had no right with his last comment to Chelsea
Chelse is still in the wrong. Egging the house, agreeing to park somewhere else to avoid the camera to cheat. Girl own up
The wife is terrified of losing her husband hence why she's blaming the mistress but the woman should walk away from this guy he's not the one
I hope the wife reads this comments
Weather she knew or not, just still apologize. Her husband owes both of them an apology.
No sense in her apologizing if she doesn't actually mean it so he's the wife knows and yes it is the husband that should be fully responsible but she'll probably take him back and hate the woman instead
The wife embarrassed herself 😂 she is extremely jealous of the mistress 😂 bc she is so much prettier than her!!!!
All she ever wanted was an apology from her husband’s lover🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣 and then that fixes it all. This poor lady she’s going to eventually get tired of chasing her husband’s lovers.
Mistress side 1000% ( that couple deserve each other ) !!!
Here's an idea gals: don't fight over a loser!
I can’t believe she wouldn’t say sorry. What the heck.
He looks like a grown baby man
That dude is a POS and that wife seems angry at the wrong person, ive been in this situation where a man told me he was single and he wasnt and the wife called me and at first she was hella angry, but once she calmed down, she and I had a very honest good convo. I think that wife was mad at the "mistress" and wanted revenge. plain and simple
Haha she didn’t want to apologize but yet wants her to take the videos down and the reason why it’s chasing her is because it’s karma lmao
The mistress should apologize for the classless egging and her generally cheesy way of dressing!
When you sleep with a married man, you bring it on yourself. You get what you’re willing to accept.
I watched the full episode and I understand why they were little hard on the “mistress”. she knew he was married she was hairstylist. she the kind of woman who will sleep with married men and thinks nothing wrong with it because she isn’t the one who broke the vow. it’s about a moral compass and having compassion for other pain. the first mistress reaction was the polar opposite & the wife was able to find out more from the her and they basically apologize to each other for his conniving ways. this one was just cold
The other woman owned her part. She does not need to apologize when she is being attacked like that. You can tell she regrets her actions. Get real Phil.
This guy likes playing the game. Don't believe a word he says. He just tells people what they want to hear.
This is exactly what they say to you on psychotherapy... Like dude he is not wrong, every person is moulded by their childhood.
I had a pretty bad childhood myself and ended up with Borderline Personality Disorder. Even with how unstable my relationships are, and even my morals, I still know not to cheat on my partner. I may have issues with them, but I’d never use my mental illness or past as an excuse to betray someone I love.
The wife is crazy anyway.
I agree with these comments but I saw another video where the wife states the husband and mistress were texting and the husband was telling the mistress where to park and where to come into the home so his wife wouldnt see her on the cameras. So im assuming the mistress knew he was married at this point. Its hard to tell whos lying or not these days.
@I am Hopeful Oh yea I do remember the other woman.
I love how people blame their childhood for their behavior as a adult! Once a cheater always a cheater! Stop blaming others for your own actions!
Chelsey isn't blameless but James seems to be playing the victim card the most and the wife is just being insecure!!!
He did not just say he cheated because of his childhood. Dude are you for real??! I got physically, mentally & emotionally abused as a child and teenager, that doesn't mean i'm entitled to do the same!!
This low class mistress has no shame whatsoever, she knew he was married. Unfaithful spouses cheat because there are cheap women like this one that sleeps with anyone! The husband is awful too and Will not change so please protect your children and get divorced.
Had to get one last peek at her cheeks as she walked away lol
SHE IS PROLLY COVERED IN CELLULITE.
She said " never I'm not her husband" WOW!!!!! She's only mad because she got publicly put on blast. Don't take those videos down honey.
She doesn't need to give an apology. She did nothing wrong. As far as she knew, she was screwing a separated guy
@@yousufkhan1720 married
@@barbieblue3336 she didn't know that. She was told he was separated If she did know before she screwed him, she should apologize.
You’re brain is smoother than a bowling ball.
She's 100% right. It is not up to Chelsea to define HIS marriage. It is up to HIM. He stated he didn't want to talk about it at the salon around others ..that they were separated...had been for MONTHS ...she was living in another state... and he's at a bar trying to meet someone. That is NOT a marriage in any way you could possibly conceive of. HE - DEFINED it as INSIGNIFICANT in his words and actions. There was NO talk of taking a break or trying down the road. That description says it was OVER. His wife needs to decide if she wants her dysfunctional marriage or not, a husband who described their marriage that way to get into another woman's pants. Decide. Leave this woman alone. Grow up. She wanted proof of the cheating and Chelsea wasn't obligated, but gave it all to her. Instead, she weaponizes it against her. Because she needs to punish someone. She needs her pound of flesh. That says a lot about her. And she can't punish him - he feels nothing. So she goes after Chelsea. They obviously have a sick attachment to the infidelity, to the attention and neither can let Chelsea go. He watched her walk off the stage. He loved having weird permission to still contact her from the wife. The wife is her own worst enemy. She's clueless. On stage, he's team wifey. In his private interview he's acknowledging his wife needs to leave Chelsea alone. He has more sympathy for Chelsea than his wife cause he knows their marriage is messed up and he dragged innocent third parties into that nightmare. The marriage is done. She won't ever let it go and he clearly genuinely liked Chelsea. He basically admitted he was the problem, not Chelsea - to the degree he could - because he had to stick with whatever lies he told his wife.
Did you guys see him check out her butt as she walked off the stage??? Yep….he still wants her & that’s why he’s still contacting her. He’s not into the wifey apparently anymore. She doesn’t have the confidence to leave him because she thinks he’s a prize…..a lying, cheating, deceiving, manipulating prize. But the best “useless” prize. He will never be faithful because he’s still that little boy that doesn’t know to take accountability for his actions.
It’s not her responsibility to be your husband, it’s his.
If the mistress had full knowledge of the wife and relationship then she would need to apologize
People like this are the reason why good women don’t be wanting another man even if he has good intentions
She didn’t know he was married how is she held accountable.
The mistress feels so victimized. Oh wow. Typical.
Isn't it a bit selfish to say, "my business is ruined" than destroying a family?
Good job, Chelsey! I do hope you still get to sleep soundly at night.
All three of these adults have damaged another person by their actions. Do not single out the girlfriend. Genn, I hope you sleep soundly at night after bashing another person, and not seeing clearly all of the actions.
Did anybody stop listening when he started talking? Or just me?
He is being very honest. Just leave her as she will be a banshee until the end. Need to stop the mom from posting all her drama and stalking the other women online. Which will only harm the children...
Im sooo glad the mistress didn't apologize for a damn thing. I wouldn't have either.
get out the fiddle! I had a horrific violent, dysfunctional childhood. Who hasn't!
Lots of people haven’t had a bad childhood… and that’s what separates normal from not normal…
You saying that proves you didn’t have a bad childhood
We all have had some issues we have had to deal with since we were children! I think we all can agree on that one!
How we deal with that has shaped us as individuals! Some have had worse than others, but I also believe we all can support each other on that!
Okay but this is not an excuse to be shitty to your s/o ,,
The husband needs to appoligize to both women for acting like a loser.
The mistress does not need to apologize unless she knew this POS was married. The wife should direct all anger toward her DB of a husband.
I swear men that cheat always do this. Just say ur a liar and a cheater take accountability
The husband also knows he can do this to his wife and she still is desperate and will stay with him.
I usually agree with Dr phil but putting all the blame on the mistress is insane . the husband cheated
Tell that Husband to apologize to them both