What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?

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  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 Рік тому +278

    A healthy relationship consists of: allowing God to be the center of each other's lives, therefore making it easy to deliver to each other: respect, faithfulness, communication, honesty, caring, understanding, patience humbleness.

    • @dorothymartin5488
      @dorothymartin5488 Рік тому +6

      I agree Tony because it is a spiritual warfare open that door evil that follows with then you wonder why your marriage ended God made one woman one man for a woman each other to be as one and it is against God's word so no good things can come from that and keep up the good work thank you for this video there is so much truth in

    • @nikkiwest1631
      @nikkiwest1631 Рік тому

      @@dorothymartin5488 you

    • @talicialee
      @talicialee Рік тому

      Whew 🔥🔥🔥

    • @feliciarichard686
      @feliciarichard686 Рік тому

    • @DalbecKatie
      @DalbecKatie Рік тому +1

      That is what caused so many problems. I can't love a God who could ever send us to hell if we don't follow his gospel or obey him especially knowing all the mental health issues out there.

  • @Desertvibes234
    @Desertvibes234 Рік тому +56

    "In order to have the best love you can possibly have, you have to be willing to possibly lose". This is such a powerful quote!

  • @la6136
    @la6136 Рік тому +36

    I don't believe open relationships work. Someone will always be sacrificing more than the others. Someone will always feel left out and neglected. Someone will always be lying to someone else and leaving out information. It is impossible to build real intimacy.

  • @lisasmilez
    @lisasmilez Рік тому +22

    Stay away from that ear and neck 😂😂😂😂 I was waiting for the hand gestures when he said bike(back) 😂😂😂

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae Рік тому +59

    Ready to learn! It's getting harder and harder to meet ppl that believe in healthy love. So many people have never seen healthy love and therefore settle for toxicity. I'm looking to break that cycle when it's my time 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 Рік тому +5

    Not the Khia reference! 😩 That part had me cracking up! 😂😂😂

  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 Рік тому +27

    “When you feed lust it gets stronger, and you just want more and more and more, and nothing is ever enough”…T.G.

  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 Рік тому +63

    Interesting that you say “for a man to enjoy more than 1 woman at a time I’d think there’d have to be some childhood trauma”.
    I think you hit the nail on the head.
    And
    One more thing: Sometimes a man or even this type of “playboy”can’t even please 1 woman in bed. 😂😂😮

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 Рік тому +10

      They really can't....its so sad that they think they doing something.....po thing 😂😂

    • @pkp6791
      @pkp6791 Рік тому +1

      Childhood trauma is being used as an excuse for everything. Sometimes, people are simply narcissistic jerks. It doesnt get any ‘deeper’ than that. There are
      lots of armchair /internet ‘professionals’ out here who have NO clue. They use soundbites and key words to ‘explain’ things. It is messing our already messed up society even further.

    • @nymph3ttt
      @nymph3ttt Рік тому

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @Brightestlightt
      @Brightestlightt Рік тому

      Ooops sounds so true

  • @DeniseM4698
    @DeniseM4698 Рік тому +32

    TONY!!!! Remember that video you posted about “Having Balance” ?!
    I realized how much you’ve been posting , also fluctuating between business videos, love and relationships , and also sermons, and live chats!!! Chilleee you doing the Darn Thing!!! You are truly doing Gods Work! I appreciate the consistency of the videos !!! Thank you Tony !!!

  • @Iamsimplyfree
    @Iamsimplyfree Рік тому +14

    Lord I pray I am blessed to have all these things given to me in a committed relationship with the one you made for me.

  • @alexisagginie4574
    @alexisagginie4574 Рік тому +18

    It seems when you live within the boundaries of a healthy relationship, you both grow and become more compassionate, more ready to learn and more trusting.
    There is so much to learn about the Self to keep us occupied for a great length of time.

  • @poetik444
    @poetik444 Рік тому +17

    You’re a great role model for young black men who’ve lacked a strong male influence sir. Thank you.

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 Рік тому +17

    We went back to Kiyah...with the neck & back 😂😂😂😂

  • @belindamendez1278
    @belindamendez1278 Рік тому +3

    Proverbs 24:3-5...through Knowledge, understanding and wisdom in God, His Word, principles...we grow in self love, the love towards God we'll know who we want in our lives...and our lives and homes with have pleasant experiences.

  • @annagrace1159
    @annagrace1159 Рік тому +10

    Yes to a 4-8hr prepaid seminar on relational warfare 👐

  • @Slayfear101
    @Slayfear101 Рік тому +11

    Preach Tony. You may not be ordained by man, but you are certainly ordained by God to speak the truth! And that’s what matters. God bless you and your family.

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith Рік тому +7

    Healthy communication!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @joyariffic4217
    @joyariffic4217 Рік тому +28

    Ive never in my life seen a heathy and healed couple that was polyamorous. Its always people that come from brokenness

    • @Graced4Glory
      @Graced4Glory Рік тому

      I come from a good home and today I'm 1 of 3 wives. 😊❤

  • @qscott888
    @qscott888 Рік тому +20

    Let’s get into it. 🙌🏽

    • @carolyn4realife
      @carolyn4realife Рік тому +7

      When I hear, "hey, hey Tony Gaskins here.." I hit the LIKE 😄

    • @qscott888
      @qscott888 Рік тому +2

      @@carolyn4realife 😂Exactly.

    • @qscott888
      @qscott888 Рік тому +2

      @@dublingirl1691 🙌🏽👋🏽. I post some of his quotes on my IG story on Fridays often. Looks like this might be a good one for tomorrow.

  • @sullivancountydays
    @sullivancountydays Рік тому +4

    I'm glad to hear a man say the truth. Your barely making 3rd base. Who needs a third party.

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 Рік тому +11

    A much needed message! There definitely is a difference between a healthy vs. unhealthy relationships. Plus, much of what is shown on social media unfortunately is unhealthy or fake relationships

  • @Nitra813
    @Nitra813 Рік тому +4

    Get out of here. My husband and I anniversary is March 30th as well. Renewing our vows next month. So glad I found your channel. We’re not perfect but we were very fortunate to have a healthy and godly foundation.
    Praying for many years of love and happiness to you and your wife.

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Рік тому +10

    WHAT DON'T COME OUT IN THE WASHER WILL COME OUT IN THE DRYER......THEY WILL GET CAUGHT IF DOING WRONG....THEY AIN'T 007 😂

  • @portia547
    @portia547 Рік тому +1

    Childhood Trauma really affects so much of your life as an adult. Never be afraid to get help 💖🙏🏾

  • @HaranArena
    @HaranArena Рік тому +10

    What are the signs that a man likes other men that are undercover? What signs can you look for when the guy has kids with multiple women?

  • @janiceborne8882
    @janiceborne8882 Рік тому +4

    Just wanted to say I thank you for being obedient to GOD to speak to his people on this WISE about All of this is SPIRITUAL

  • @bbQueens22
    @bbQueens22 Рік тому +7

    Lawd…I’m July1984…I always said, us 80babies Rocks!!!

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 Рік тому +3

    Congratulations to 16 yrs 🎉🎉🎉👏👏👏❤️✌🏾

  • @glorytoyahuah2935
    @glorytoyahuah2935 Рік тому +1

    Life is spiritual and what you were speaking of at the end there, I completely understand. Praises to the Most High for giving His people Spiritual Eyes to see! Bless Yahuah indeed through Yahusha for insight via the Holy Spirit. Not many ppl have the understanding but I am grateful and love those who do!

  • @chrissysam7949
    @chrissysam7949 Рік тому +9

    I'm going to enjoy this! Thanks Tony 😊

  • @seeksimplicity
    @seeksimplicity Рік тому +3

    You answer some concerns I wasn't connecting the dots. I'm going to rewatch this video again. God is using you for his purpose.
    Thank you

  • @supermodelatlanta1354
    @supermodelatlanta1354 Рік тому +4

    You definitely slimming down and skin looks good 👍🏽 👌🏾

  • @parvinacouture
    @parvinacouture Рік тому +1

    Tony quote has really changed my life when it come to relationship. God will keep granting you wisdom 🙏🏻

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 Рік тому +6

    This was so good! It’s great to hear a man talk about spiritual warfare. Ive never heard it explained this way. Keep being a light!

  • @theresa_jwallace1737
    @theresa_jwallace1737 Рік тому +3

    Tony I want to send you some gifts for you and your wife. Your my new children spiritually. I pray you get all you endeavors met. Thank you for talking about the real in the relationships. I know what your talking about. My friend died now I am by myself and Father God and Jesus Christ thank the Holy Spirit. Keep it coming to people.
    Sincerely yours, Theresa Wallace

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 Рік тому +2

    Every video I listen to appreciate and learn from. God bless!

  • @Mercedesthegift
    @Mercedesthegift Рік тому +4

    Yessssss you went in on this one!!! Praise GOD and your parents for you 😭😭😭💓💓💓

  • @Truu5StarLifeDriver
    @Truu5StarLifeDriver Рік тому +1

    ❗️This waz BETTER THAN GOOD...And tha TIMING 🙌🏾 DIVINE❗️HUGE GRATITUDE for this Share 🙏🏾

  • @Carter989
    @Carter989 Рік тому +5

    Back and Neck like Khia😂

  • @Themelissaeppingermorningshow
    @Themelissaeppingermorningshow Рік тому +4

    You are teaching today!!! This is absolutely amazing today and it’s needed. Thank you for the pour!

  • @Chosenlaur
    @Chosenlaur Рік тому +1

    Tony is changing lives! Amen 🙏🏾

  • @roseamezcua4180
    @roseamezcua4180 Рік тому +2

    Go deep Tony!!! God built us to handle it 🥰 God bless you and your wife Tony! U guys are changing the next generation 🙏❤️💯 Stay humble and stay blessed ❤️

  • @lgeorges4289
    @lgeorges4289 Рік тому +4

    Put God first in your relationship and your going to be fine

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 Рік тому +8

    🙋🏿‍♀️ Am here listening , this going to be full of wisdom Blessings to you Bro Tony 🙏🏾♥️

  • @carmenscottie2678
    @carmenscottie2678 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this information. God bless you and your family.

  • @DrEliane01
    @DrEliane01 Рік тому

    This maybe the best I've ever heard! No stone left unturned! Thank you!

  • @gtd743
    @gtd743 Рік тому +1

    Tony thank you for all your helpful messages. Sending you a light and love from Bulgaria and our pisces ♓ team here! God bless you 🙏

  • @teeswan9354
    @teeswan9354 Рік тому +1

    Tony said ‘Like Khia’ 🎵🙃😫🤣

  • @lechellejackson1226
    @lechellejackson1226 Рік тому +7

    This is good 😌 😊❤.

  • @SoShannon1
    @SoShannon1 Рік тому +2

    This is soooo Good … thank you for blessing us with this video. I wish it was longer, but definitely not complaining. ❤️

  • @SimoneWmson
    @SimoneWmson Рік тому +2

    So many gems! I would definitely support the tour

  • @dianamadison1623
    @dianamadison1623 Рік тому +3

    Love this. Thxs Tony.

  • @modestmama3863
    @modestmama3863 Рік тому +8

    I loved this so much. Thank you! I’d say either wanting to have multiple women had childhood trauma or have been programmed by the porn industry. Unrealistic and unhealthy desires

    • @justinray8107
      @justinray8107 Рік тому +3

      Agreed. Especially with the latter. What you feed your mind determines your appetite basically.

  • @iriscaba3352
    @iriscaba3352 Рік тому +1

    Tony be preaching and never disappoints ! I learn so much here ty! He also be having me lol over here he definitely makes some funny comments !

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom Рік тому +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤. I DEFINITELY NEED THIS.

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 Рік тому +2

    Women do need to understand men and women are different most men not gone put up with what women put up with and that is just true for most men

  • @Essdotg1710
    @Essdotg1710 Рік тому +2

    Thanks tony!!!!

  • @nettas5437
    @nettas5437 Рік тому +1

    This is so timely! Thank you Tony.

  • @BlancaRosa79
    @BlancaRosa79 Рік тому +3

    I need to hear this.

  • @mexicaflor05
    @mexicaflor05 Рік тому +2

    The title appealed to me because I can honestly say I have yet to see a genuine healthy relationship 😢

  • @lashandaedwards6691
    @lashandaedwards6691 Рік тому +1

    Good teaching 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Indiscrazyworld
    @Indiscrazyworld Рік тому +2

    Perfectly said Tony 👌🏽💯

  • @kellyharrell6521
    @kellyharrell6521 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for inspiring words it really helps me understand appreciate my relationship more

  • @candacesimpkins902
    @candacesimpkins902 Рік тому +2

    Great message Tony!

  • @e.jackson1308
    @e.jackson1308 Рік тому +2

    Lol you might wanna stay away from the ears and the neck fa ya be on ya bike! 😂😂

  • @tamikadaniels6556
    @tamikadaniels6556 Рік тому +1

    I love ❤️ the topic
    Kudos to Tony Gaskins for this one

  • @damarish.torres145
    @damarish.torres145 Рік тому +1

    ❤needed this today Tony! Gracias

  • @maraka8106
    @maraka8106 Рік тому

    We love the improvement on the sound❤️

  • @iam6fifty
    @iam6fifty Рік тому

    You are 100 percent correct. Then at the end we definitely don’t live have the culture

  • @holaciao54
    @holaciao54 Рік тому +1

    Jack of all trades Tony!

  • @StrengthDignity
    @StrengthDignity Рік тому +2

    So good 🦋 tysm!

  • @ambermj3037
    @ambermj3037 Рік тому

    I have to write my letter to Tony!!!

  • @Desertvibes234
    @Desertvibes234 Рік тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @luevondataylor6286
    @luevondataylor6286 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video well needed for such a time as this.

  • @TaKyraMoonlight
    @TaKyraMoonlight Рік тому +1

    Love the video ✨

  • @mariabbanks
    @mariabbanks Рік тому

    Thank you! Been researching on this topic

  • @ewomick
    @ewomick Рік тому +3

    18:39 😁😆Leave us alone Tony. Love this video. Thank You!

    • @jlee3242
      @jlee3242 Рік тому

      So hysterical 😂

  • @adrienneallen3022
    @adrienneallen3022 Рік тому

    Wow. You saw my comment! That's great!

  • @michellewilliams1489
    @michellewilliams1489 Рік тому +2

    This is good 😊

  • @sophisticatedsoulvegan1031
    @sophisticatedsoulvegan1031 Рік тому +1

    I'm a Pisces ♓️ 3/13

  • @Iamsimplyfree
    @Iamsimplyfree Рік тому +1

    🙏 life goals

  • @joyariffic4217
    @joyariffic4217 Рік тому

    Youre talking about crowd funding. People pay ahead of time and that money funds the event or product.

  • @LetsTalkShayDuprís
    @LetsTalkShayDuprís 8 місяців тому

    Oh wow! This is deep! Breakdown TG again.. on the spiritual regarding these threesomes. 😮

  • @teresadaniel2077
    @teresadaniel2077 Рік тому

    So true!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @hillmeli
    @hillmeli Рік тому

    I can't stand when my opening up leads to a long convo. I literally want to tell you 5 words from my heart with intention and purpose and that's it. To talk SO MUCH absolutely drains me and discourages me from further talking...it actually makes me shut down. I really am a woman of few words when with a man. With my girls ..I talk alot

  • @o00..
    @o00.. Рік тому +1

    The area I live in... nonexistent!

  • @lashondajack7403
    @lashondajack7403 Рік тому

    Healthy relationship doesn't have a look it just is.its a feeling not a look healthy walks by faith n not by site.

  • @mykingthoughts2224
    @mykingthoughts2224 Рік тому +6

    March 11 here Pisces brother

  • @dtanner70
    @dtanner70 Рік тому

    Agree 2 women somebody not satisfied

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 Рік тому +1

    Amen 🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @DominiqueBarnes-zq9qp
    @DominiqueBarnes-zq9qp Рік тому +1

    Was it the Murdaugh Murders?!?!?

  • @queenlene9218
    @queenlene9218 Рік тому

    💙💙💙

  • @lindasaintil1928
    @lindasaintil1928 Рік тому +1

    Happy early birthday Tony, fellow March baby!! My birthday is March 9th. I pray for God to continue to bless you abundantly, may his face shine upon you, may he bless you with good health always. You’re doing the Lords work and I’m grateful for you.

  • @brittneydavis7846
    @brittneydavis7846 Рік тому

    You said you're last name so fast, I thought I heard you say Tony Gangster. lol
    And this entire time I thought I was listening to an old head and here you are a millennial.

  • @MaishPosh
    @MaishPosh Рік тому +1

    When you mention men whose lust get stronger are into trans and men is it because they became gay or they got bored with women and the lust of freakiness for the taboo got stronger

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому

    The option to have a healthy relationships isn't a choice for me because of an ignorant, messy group of people who have taken up an interest in my life! Because of this crazy public curiosity in my life, I see people as lacking authenticity and having bad motives.

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae Рік тому +1

    Ears and neck 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @scottthomas5819
    @scottthomas5819 Рік тому

    👍

  • @jamesnorris9637
    @jamesnorris9637 Рік тому

    I'm here for brunch skin