It's absolutely NOTHING like seeing that Tony's videos will be 50 min+...I go get snacks and sit crossed legged on the floor lol.. This man is out here changing our lives...I'm forever grateful for his wisdom!!
Ladies, yes it can get very lonely waiting for your king to find you. BUT, trust me, I would rather be lonely than be tied up with a man that is lazy, untrustworthy, stingy, cheater, beater or any other low life behavior. Enjoy your life and live, until the one God has for you comes in your life. Don’t cheat yourself, LIVE.
I was not gonna share but today the man who wanted to marry me so bad as he claimed also stopped talking to me because I've never had sex and wouldn't give him any. He's also a church drummer, yall know those drummers lol yet he loves pre-marital sex and told me there was no difference if we did it now or later. Keep your legs closed and you will see people's true intent. I cried but I'm okay Update 2/5/21: he was cheating on me with someone else to satisfy his need. the girl he cheated on me with 9 months ago just had his baby 2 weeks ago. The child was conceived during our relationship smh
We are not built for casual sex, no matter what some women claim. If it's not your husband, you will feel convicted after and he's not likely to "wife" you. Standards work to weed out men who are not your husband, every time!
So correct ! Only those with values notice this, for others everything is perfectly normal. This is why when you are different, when you have standards and want quality, the world will feel "offended" and will try to call you difficult, insecure, dramatic, exaggerated and that you think you're better. It's bad enough they don't have values, but to try to make YOU feel less for having, that's where the AUDACITY is ! Smh..
Listen to Tony, men definitely judge women ALOT. When you have standards and hold yourself well and you have your mind right.. the wrong ones will respect that and leave you alone. A lot of men are surprised to meet a level headed woman who sticks to her standards. The right ones will compete for you because you truly are a prize to the man who wins your heart, attention, affection.
True, but sometimes the WRONG ones will see you as a challenge and will pursue you just for the thrill of trying to CHANGE you. I've met those types too and I didn't waste anytime running for my life.
@@shauntadavis945 careful he may have sexual issues... I have heard this before. Of course if you love him you will get over them together, but a guy who has a good sexual life has a very hard time to abtain... only if he is very religious
Thank you TG.. I just said the other day I cannot compete with these over sexualized women when I'm trying to stay wholesome and chaste. But I have to realize it will be lonely until I find the man that will appreciate the queen that I am.
Same, but I’ll be 34 this June 😳. But from listening to others we’re not missing out too much 😆. Keep waiting sis, the right one will respect your standards. God has kept me, I’ve gone through college and I was in military for 5 years and I’m still a virgin, a lot of temptations and men who were interested in me, but they didn’t have the same standards as me. I don’t tell anyone or guys I’m interested in that I’m a virgin. Most people assume I’m not due to my age and also because I’m not “awkward” and other stereotypes they believe about virgins 😆. The right one will come along, in the meantime we just gotta focus on ourselves, leveling up and staying focused.
I’m 28 and a virgin, dating is hard bc men don’t seem like they want to wait or when I tell them I’m a virgin (only bc they ask lol) they think I’m lying 🙄... whatever my standards will remain the same
@@brittanyelisejohnson7992 same and im 37..ill turn 38 in August..a bit worried about the body clock.but the NHS in the UK told me most women can have healthy pregnancies up to 45 years old..and maybe I d like one child only..I just cant with the few men I meet..I m in ireland for over 10 years and French..I have fewer options than you I think ..Im not on the same level of many men my age..plus they do nothing..and many want an irish woman first..im left with the foreigners who many times cant speak English properly..at least the ones I have met so far..
A soda addict , hardcore vodka drinker, loose booty 901 , Taxi mega fan, ice cream hoarder, overweight, insecure and foolish went to a strictly disciplined meal prep girl who walks 30 mins everyday and goes hiking, hasn't touched alcohol in a year, celibate since a year with a 7 glass a day water habit, and taking multivitamins. Learning languages instead of online dating ,Normal weight, and knows what god is .I did it in a year. I dont laugh at jokes I don't find funny and refuse to take even small unnecessary favors from men attracted to me and literally these 2 things chase them off the first time I meet them. Start living your truth and stop lying to yourself. Because of Tony Gaskins, I am literally 'goin about my business'
This was such a confirmation I needed today. I've been doubting lately if I am not doing enough to find a man who is on my level. Who takes living for God seriously, being abstinent, not drinking, not smoking, etc. (Still working on getting motivated to lose a lil weight lol) But God today has reminded me that I am doing enough for him and he is pleased. And that is enough. If we are enough for God, that should be enough.
@@marilynking527 Yes we do! I love reading and remembering the story of Jacob. He worked 14 years for the woman he wanted. Isaac was 40 when he got married! If God can make it happen back then, he has not changed!! God makes anything possible!!!!
Speaking truth here brother Tony. In November I'll be 33 and still a virgin. I'm happy about it. I'm thankful that I have lived this strong for so long. I've come close to losing that but learned to say no, not stay in that place of temptation, I've spend time alone and stayed away from the roads or the world and I know that Jesus has helped to keep me grounded and strong on His word. However, I'm flawed. Deal with lust, at times pornography and lately I've struggled with cursing. It's been hard but it's never to late to lean into Jesus and the truth in His word to strengthen me, sustain me and keep me. Here's to living life in FAITH, one day at a time people! Blessings.
He’s absolutely right. At 5’6 I was always criticized for being too tall for my 5’8 boyfriend in my 20’s. I guess he didn’t feel man enough. It didn’t work out. The right person for you will accept you as you naturally are. I wish I had left sooner.
Same maybe I got ghosted for height ..he is 1 cm shorter than me .. and I only wear trainers - I d see him with way shorter women around .. different ones always short . And he d stare at me with no expression.. while the entire street of men would stare with lust lol .. anyway makes me think it’s pathetic if it’s for that reason and I never realised it until I kept seeing him with shorter women .. could be a coincidence though and more for the fact that my legs and home are closed until marriage and he lives with someone unmarried after I told him..
It is LONELY at the top but if you keep going GOD will BLESS you for your efforts. Then The haters come and tell you that you don't deserve it but they do not know what ALL you went through to get THERE
This video make me feel real good about myself! I have currently been celibate for 9 months now and have learned and valued my own worth by loving me more. Now most dudes don’t even come at me crazy because the standards I have set in place. Thank you Tony for you hard work ! Just wanted to let you know that it is some women out here listening and taking your advice and teaching seriously 🙌🏾👍🏾‼️
U speak such words of wisdom and truth. At 59yrs old I just CANNOT try to keep up with the world when it comes to the wide range of the sexuality pushed out there from commercials to cartoons. I’m old school and I don’t feel comfortable with all these shenanigans. It may seem hard and yes at times lonely , but when I think of the alternative, I’m happy to be on my back yard, in my screened in patio set, sipping a glass of wine, reading a good book and listening to some great jazz. Yep a simple thing, but great for my peace of mind and who I am. Blessings to u all, especially the young ladies that are still trying to navigate the enemy’s snares that are abound. ❤️🙏🏽
I really felt this when I was going to college in a very liberal city and was living around my age group. Drinking, drugs, sex, crude jokes, etc. It did feel lonely but when you are not involved in all that, you naturally will not be able to get close to people who are into all these things.
And these same conformists men love that women conform And accept the exploitation pushed on them ..all I can say is no condom no entry .. my Legs and home are closed until marriage and only open with a condom after marriage .. I have no respect for men challenging women on this .. and they should be dumped
Thank you for this message. I recently had a conversation with some coworkers about my standards ect...I left that conversation feeling like something was WRONG with me. They literally told me I am asking too much and will be alone! I realize that I am set apart from the masses and I will NOT compromise my standards just to make YOU feel better. Thank you Tony. God bless you.
Keep in mind if they have no standards or BARE MINIMUM standards, yours are gonna seem like you’re doing WAY too much. The truth is you’re approaching life from a higher level than they are. That’s all it is
I had a guy last summer tell me “ I don’t think you’re going to find what you’re looking for “ when I literally only mentioned to him wanting a respectful partner who can communicate. The nerve he had to try and sleep with me after that
I needed this encouragement😫 I had to let go of a man of God yesterday that was inconsistent. It made me sad but I’m guarding my heart and I will do the work to be ready for my husband. Praying for him and hope he fights thru too! It’s so hard but what God has will always be better than what we want 🥺🙏🏼 sending everyone love!! We got this ❤️
Aww sis, irs gonna be ok. Be glad you saw the red flags early before you invested your mind, body and spirit to this man. You can walk away with your dignity and worth IN TACT!!!! We have a God of crockpot blessings!- rich and deep in nature. It will always be better than what we want. You got it sis 🌻
@@ashleybeverly7328 I appreciate you! Yes, I feel empowered walking away knowing I'm respecting and loving myself more than the idea of who this man could be. Thank you for these encouraging words. Have a blessed week 😊
Truly great message about morals, values and standards ! I have dealt all my life with people's attitudes for being different, for wanting more out of life, for caring about the quality and type of people around me, for preferring to be single and happy instead of accepting anyone out of loneliness or social pressure. My parents never talked to me about having standards or what values are, but God somehow instilled them in me and i will forever carry them in my heart, will never lower or give them up and this is even more confirmation to do so.
I ll never open my legs with no condom after marriage - his comment on this was pathetic- He is the one making her wife pregnant and he wonders if the drugs or vaccine on his wife works ? Absolutely sickening- any husband not willing to wear condoms is a red flag .. I can’t believe so many women are willing to be Slaves .. no men Would pull that line ‘ you don’t use condoms with your Wife ‘ .. but yeah my legs and home are closed until marriage and any man challenging me on condoms or pulling that line .. I’ll walk Away
I so appreciate you! You ain’t lying I’ve been abstinence for years and the last guy I dated said I was too religious and I had a friend of a friend told me I need to “use it “ before I lose it and I was like 🥴🤨😕??? so I appreciate you! I just pray for them but it sucks that being in this space people judge me when Ian even judging them 😒 but you and this community sure make me feel like we not alone!!! God bless you and your family !!!!
Day 3 of the 14 days I’m leaving my man not talking to him to see if this my husband or not... wish me luck ... also yesterday was my last day using 💊... so wish me luck pls !! Thanks for everything Tony!! Here goes to sober and single better than being with a person that ghosts me ... 🥰🙌🏼🙏🏼 Be blessed
Paulina Magana@ Day 3 that is amazing. I am wishing you all the strength and support. 🙏🏽 We first crawl, then we walk and eventually we RUN. Girl, you got this 👍🏽. If you are interested: Check out ways to oxygenate the blood through breathing. This is in the realm of natural healing. I have heard about positive results in regards to mood, mind and body issues. Check out Mr Gaskins' videos from these days: November 25, 2019 / March 26, 2020 /December 8, 2020. They contain good info on ghosting. Be blessed. "Coach Francesca"
@@nicolewilliams7849 Yess! Can you imagine how refreshing it would be to give him this wisdom to young, fresh minded men and women? He would would setting them up for MAJOR success!!
This popped up on my timeline at just the right time… I was just beating myself up because I’ve lost all of my friends but it was because I’ve been elevating & they’ve chose to remain stagnant and hate… which is very hurtful so I was forced to cut them off but I keep receiving signs that im on the right track ❤
Yes I told my girlfriend when I met here before we got into a relationship I don’t wanna have sex and she said she thinks it’s bad not to have sex. So when I’m thinking about leaving now cause she can’t go without it. I’m trying to follow what god wants for me.
When a man becomes fully invested into a woman he loves, his love is effortless, meaning a woman won't have to ask him well why you didn't call me or why didn't you get me anything because he will do most things he'll hate to do for that woman without no problems. When a man isn't vested into that woman, a man isn't gonna just do something for that woman without constant reminders, or nudging!! He will hate those things you request for him to do. You won't know that but he will.
Uncle Tony , discovering your channel is the biggest gift god send me early on this year ! And yes I am Muslim , but I appreciate and respect Christian values , you speak life into me ; i am 23 yo and I am elevating every single day trough these videos . Keep it up , thank you !
Wow this came right on time. I found out some disturbing info about somebody yesterday and I thought to myself I’m teaching my kids to be nice sweet and kind in a world full of savages. Thank you for this message!
Absolutely correct. You are doing a great job. Also teach them about Jesus Christ. The world is getting very scary and people feel so lost and empty without Him. Jesus loves unconditionally and deeply cares about everyone. Consider accepting Him as Lord and personal Savior ❤️
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 thank you I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and will be teaching my daughters. Times are def scary and I worry about their future but just take it one day at a time
I always allow men to chase me and not the other way around because I always have high standards with men and they love and appreciate it. I am married but going through a divorce soon but when I get back in the dating pool again, I will have that same approach is to value myself and not allow a man to do anything and everything with me. My husband had to wait till we were married to have me and he appreciated it. Unfortunately I had to walk away from the marriage but your video is a reminder of what I done in the past is what I should be doing and it shouldn’t be foreign or compromised with and I should not be ashamed of being different. My husband told me all his women before him have been the one to propose to him and I was the first one to not do that, I’m old school thinking and don’t believe in it. Thanks for the awesome content! Be blessed!
Wow I was just having this conversation with my mom. I’ve been waiting for 8 years abstinent. It’s so hard. People ask me how do you do it?? I want to get married but it’s hard to find a man now a-days that is willing to wait. I love Tony’s channel it’s so helpful. I’m not a legalist but my faith is in Christ. I prayed and prayed and have waited. It’s hard at times.
I had a guy tell me I have too many standards and requirements. I only know him for a few months he was nasty to me. Very disrespectful however wanted me to sleep with him and speak into his microphone. I decided to exit of the situation but began to miss him because we talked everyday. I learned he’s used to women that don’t have any morals and expected me not to have none
This is currently my story. I realized the majority of men out here are not used to women with standards and morals and don’t know how to act when they meet one who does
Thank you for your transparency. Thank you for encouraging us good girls with morals, values and self discipline. I'm not for any/everybody and I'm okay with that. God has been so good to me, I can't afford to compromise for anything less than His blessed best. What God has for me, is for me. Anything other can kick rocks with opened toed shoes.
you know i noticed other dating coaches encourage people to get back with their ex and tell them to wait and feel ppl lies saying ur ex is amazing because they want more people using their websites, buying their “recovery kits” etc and i think that’s so selfish cus they don’t care about their clients but tony a real straight up type of guy. he won’t sugar coat anything n lie n say ur ex coming back means they love u, he respects his clients feelings n spits facts ❤️❤️
Tony. After listening to you speaking today made me realize a few things about myself. I notice you were speaking from your heart and being very sincere about your past life. I admire you for your honesty. Being very open in speaking to people is something I need to work on. Thank you for this video.
yeah my parents dont know I have no men at all..they think I have random men because im alone..lol.they could never understand..my sisters same..31 and 35..had several men..and not married ..im 37 and I had none..I almost was on my back when I was in my early 20..and said NO..I never looked back..but yeah I dont drink, dont smoke, dont curse, dont party, dont do drugs etc..I dont meet many men on my level I guess ..my legs and home are closed until marriage..I knew since I was 15 years old I wanted this
Idk how many times I’ve watched this video but it’s one of my favorites! I laugh and learn like it’s the first time watching it! It also serves as reassurance!
Just love these real talks about real life and marriage. Thank you Tony! The pool definitely gets smaller as you get better. There are those that want to ride on that low vibration but once he sees you are not riding at a low state, either he will rise to you or step out. But love who God created you to be ladies,! You will shine better than the sun! Your glow will be unstoppable! And how can we get that shirt Tony had on? Is that for sale? And where? When?
Being a Virgin or practicing abstinence is only frustrating when u r doing it in hopes of marriage. It's comforting for me to say... I am preserving my temple to standards that are pleasing to God. Stay strong ladies🤗💞🤗
I’m very thankful for your insight Tony. Your family is blessed to have you leading them.. Keep working as a team with your wife, don’t give up& don’t give in my brother.
Confirmation, Confirmation! As always, your insight is impeccable! We “APPRECIATE YOU”and “THANK YOU” for being an unapologetically Extraordinaire Life Coach!! Thank you for speaking on the importance of being disciplined in an unbiased way! A million and one blessings to you and your wonderful family! Keep up the great job!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
When you took it back and started humming/singing Lauryn Hill, you reminded of my love for the classics! Bout to make me whip out The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill!!! I really miss the 80s/90s artists!! Music ain't the same no more these days! And sidebar...I hollered when you said, "" That tickled me so much this morning and had me cracking up!! LOL
In 2010 I changed so much of myself to try to fit in Hollywood, 🤦♀️ this channel is such a blessing to see that not everybody runs on the okedoke bandwagon and is constantly giving out wisdom, even when someone maybe suicidal and don’t know where to turn. This channel is a blessing because to hear Tony speak wisdom and not just get right do right, but wisdom beyond tryna impress people, it’s good to be reminded cse even a lot of church people are teaching to fit in🤦♀️ thankful for another video 🙏
I’m so glad you giving these small details that matter to men. A lot of women don’t factor in these observations from men. The small things make a difference
God Bless You! Thank you for constantly, preaching, and teaching The Word of God! In this last days , got to keep standards,morals, and never forget your first love God and his word, that will always stand.
So so true! You don't have to try so hard to fit in if it means losing your morals and values! You have to set your own standards, not other's standards. Great video! Thank you!
I truly do believe you are a man after God’s heart. I hear and receive the underlining message you are speaking into the hearts and minds of women:” let those who have ears to hear, hear the word of God”. Preach, preacherrr. Be Blessed.
This message is right on time as always! Tony, May OUR POWERFUL HEAVENLY FATHER KEEP BLESSING ABUNDANTLY You and Your Family members IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN AND AMEN!!!!
I been dealing with this issue cause i have standards and respect 4 myself Ive even lost friendships behind my standards. Even acquaintances. Im not gonna change my way of living for nobody!! Ppl.want me to respect them they dont want to respect me. I tell ppl. if i dont want to talk nobody i dont have too. Some of these guys dont know a real woman when they see one. They dont even know have to approach a lady. Especially a Queen!!!
Thank you for sharing your Gifts TG! Praying up for all! Blessed Tribe. Ladies we have the wisdom and power to change the future!! Love yourself 1st. It will help you to be a “Virtuous Woman”! Give love to Yourself first and then share it respectfully. A man does NOT define you!! Be blessed Keep your morals!! It takes “Standards” to keep “Standards”!!
This is One of your most powerful messages. I was so blessed. This was a confirmation for me. I will wait and keep my standards so glad I have been freed to be who God knows I am. Thank you Tony for this word from Heaven.
I needed to hear this. I was beginning to wonder if there was something wrong with me or I was too “old fashioned” to date the way society is set up these days.
true I dont meet many men,,and most of them curse, drink, smoke, dont look healthy etc I notice the men that are more available dont necessarily look nice..even the ones willing to marry and be loyal..
It's absolutely NOTHING like seeing that Tony's videos will be 50 min+...I go get snacks and sit crossed legged on the floor lol.. This man is out here changing our lives...I'm forever grateful for his wisdom!!
😂 a mood!
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Amen!
@Seabiscuit ... Amen!! 🙏
I love this‼️Definitely facts.
Ladies, yes it can get very lonely waiting for your king to find you. BUT, trust me, I would rather be lonely than be tied up with a man that is lazy, untrustworthy, stingy, cheater, beater or any other low life behavior. Enjoy your life and live, until the one God has for you comes in your life. Don’t cheat yourself, LIVE.
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I was not gonna share but today the man who wanted to marry me so bad as he claimed also stopped talking to me because I've never had sex and wouldn't give him any. He's also a church drummer, yall know those drummers lol yet he loves pre-marital sex and told me there was no difference if we did it now or later. Keep your legs closed and you will see people's true intent. I cried but I'm okay
Update 2/5/21: he was cheating on me with someone else to satisfy his need. the girl he cheated on me with 9 months ago just had his baby 2 weeks ago. The child was conceived during our relationship smh
Sis I'm glad you dodged that bullet!!! Keep standing your ground always!!!
@@michelletiaraharris thank You
@@yana212 you're welcome
You did the right thing.
We are not built for casual sex, no matter what some women claim. If it's not your husband, you will feel convicted after and he's not likely to "wife" you. Standards work to weed out men who are not your husband, every time!
Morals/standards are at an all time low audacity is at an all time high 🤷🏾♀️
You are right about that.
Yes I’m like is it anyone left with any
The audacity part sis
It’s the audacity for me
So correct ! Only those with values notice this, for others everything is perfectly normal. This is why when you are different, when you have standards and want quality, the world will feel "offended" and will try to call you difficult, insecure, dramatic, exaggerated and that you think you're better. It's bad enough they don't have values, but to try to make YOU feel less for having, that's where the AUDACITY is ! Smh..
“You can’t lose your morals and values, trying to fit in.” 👏🏾🙌🏾
But fitting is for women only .. the media , Hollywood etc pushed their slavery agenda on women ..
SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
Listen to Tony, men definitely judge women ALOT. When you have standards and hold yourself well and you have your mind right.. the wrong ones will respect that and leave you alone. A lot of men are surprised to meet a level headed woman who sticks to her standards. The right ones will compete for you because you truly are a prize to the man who wins your heart, attention, affection.
Yes ma'am!
they do, all day
And the right one is a man who will wear a condom to not make you pregnant after marriage .. and would think it’s horrible to not wear one
We are definitely judged the double standard long lives!!
True, but sometimes the WRONG ones will see you as a challenge and will pursue you just for the thrill of trying to CHANGE you. I've met those types too and I didn't waste anytime running for my life.
Abstinent for 12 years. To God be the glory.
...For the things He has done!!!!!
I’m 14 years in and I’M GREAT and waiting. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me also
MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!I made a mistake with my first child,but had my 2nd child in wedlock.Glory to God!
I understand that most men are not trying to wait until marriage. It will be a certain type of man to actually want to wait.
Facts! Its definitely a certain type of man. I have one now that’s willing to wait. They are out here.
They're definitely out there.
You are absolutely right!!
@@shauntadavis945 careful he may have sexual issues... I have heard this before. Of course if you love him you will get over them together, but a guy who has a good sexual life has a very hard time to abtain... only if he is very religious
Everyday I'm pushing forward I'm not giving up no matter what self love and healing all day
Here, here 🍷
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AMEN
@@beefaye18 the ww ww the way w r
“You being judged based on your decisions and your choices.” TG
just out of curiosity what is that red thing next to your name, i see oranges ones too on other peoples name
@@mizzcrazygal its the badge for blessed tribe members for Tonys channel
facts
Thank you TG.. I just said the other day I cannot compete with these over sexualized women when I'm trying to stay wholesome and chaste. But I have to realize it will be lonely until I find the man that will appreciate the queen that I am.
You’re definitely not alone. It’s been lonely.
Better to be alone than to get in a toxic or tragic relationship with someone who wants a loose booty 💅🏽
“Don’t be weary in well doing, you WILL reap in due season, if you don’t faint.” Galatians 6:9
@@patwilson1257 correct. I’ve been widowed for five years I know it’s going to take patience to find someone similar to what I had
Sister, the best fruit is on the tree not on the ground. So hold fast and don't settle - cause you deserve the best
Keeping standards and being yourself becomes easy when you learn how to love yourself. You are worthy queen.💕
yess ma’am!!!💙💙
I’ll be 32 in august and I’m a virgin.. I think I’m in the wrong generation, where saving myself is not people’s cup of tea ☕️..sigh
Same, but I’ll be 34 this June 😳. But from listening to others we’re not missing out too much 😆. Keep waiting sis, the right one will respect your standards. God has kept me, I’ve gone through college and I was in military for 5 years and I’m still a virgin, a lot of temptations and men who were interested in me, but they didn’t have the same standards as me. I don’t tell anyone or guys I’m interested in that I’m a virgin. Most people assume I’m not due to my age and also because I’m not “awkward” and other stereotypes they believe about virgins 😆. The right one will come along, in the meantime we just gotta focus on ourselves, leveling up and staying focused.
I’m 28 and a virgin, dating is hard bc men don’t seem like they want to wait or when I tell them I’m a virgin (only bc they ask lol) they think I’m lying 🙄... whatever my standards will remain the same
Hold it very good weeding them out
@@brittanyelisejohnson7992 same and im 37..ill turn 38 in August..a bit worried about the body clock.but the NHS in the UK told me most women can have healthy pregnancies up to 45 years old..and maybe I d like one child only..I just cant with the few men I meet..I m in ireland for over 10 years and French..I have fewer options than you I think ..Im not on the same level of many men my age..plus they do nothing..and many want an irish woman first..im left with the foreigners who many times cant speak English properly..at least the ones I have met so far..
Girl hell naw 🤣🤣
A soda addict , hardcore vodka drinker, loose booty 901 , Taxi mega fan, ice cream hoarder, overweight, insecure and foolish went to a strictly disciplined meal prep girl who walks 30 mins everyday and goes hiking, hasn't touched alcohol in a year, celibate since a year with a 7 glass a day water habit, and taking multivitamins. Learning languages instead of online dating ,Normal weight, and knows what god is .I did it in a year. I dont laugh at jokes I don't find funny and refuse to take even small unnecessary favors from men attracted to me and literally these 2 things chase them off the first time I meet them. Start living your truth and stop lying to yourself. Because of Tony Gaskins, I am literally 'goin about my business'
This was such a confirmation I needed today. I've been doubting lately if I am not doing enough to find a man who is on my level. Who takes living for God seriously, being abstinent, not drinking, not smoking, etc. (Still working on getting motivated to lose a lil weight lol) But God today has reminded me that I am doing enough for him and he is pleased. And that is enough.
If we are enough for God, that should be enough.
Same!! Keep going!
@@marilynking527 Thank you, Queen. It's good to know that we are not alone. I needed this encouragement today!
@@ashleybeverly7328 you’re welcome! And I did too it’s so weird how right on time this was. I was talking to God yesterday about this. We got this!! 😘
@@marilynking527 Yes we do! I love reading and remembering the story of Jacob. He worked 14 years for the woman he wanted. Isaac was 40 when he got married! If God can make it happen back then, he has not changed!! God makes anything possible!!!!
@@ashleybeverly7328 so true I never thought if that!
I was ask by a 51 year old man. “ What’s the point of you being abstinent for over 5 years, you already have kids”? As if that mattered. BLOCK!
Well.....🤔
Exactly! Keep them Standards sis! He ain’t the one then, 🥰
Good for you sis! Keep it moving👏🏽
Because you got those children with your husband! He has some nerve! You did right to block that a-hole.
The nerve! BLOCK indeed.
Be not weary in well doing, for in due season you shall reap if you faint not.
Gal. 6:9
Been meditating on this cause I've been getting weary and frustrated
Speaking truth here brother Tony.
In November I'll be 33 and still a virgin. I'm happy about it. I'm thankful that I have lived this strong for so long. I've come close to losing that but learned to say no, not stay in that place of temptation, I've spend time alone and stayed away from the roads or the world and I know that Jesus has helped to keep me grounded and strong on His word.
However, I'm flawed. Deal with lust, at times pornography and lately I've struggled with cursing.
It's been hard but it's never to late to lean into Jesus and the truth in His word to strengthen me, sustain me and keep me.
Here's to living life in FAITH, one day at a time people! Blessings.
30 and in the SAME boat
You two are SO respectable. Fight tooth and nail to hold on.
He’s absolutely right. At 5’6 I was always criticized for being too tall for my 5’8 boyfriend in my 20’s. I guess he didn’t feel man enough. It didn’t work out. The right person for you will accept you as you naturally are. I wish I had left sooner.
r u serious? Crazy.
Its a lot of men's out here God created that love women's your height. I'm 5'7 I've dated tall and short mens..😂
Same maybe I got ghosted for height ..he is 1 cm shorter than me .. and I only wear trainers - I d see him with way shorter women around .. different ones always short . And he d stare at me with no expression.. while the entire street of men would stare with lust lol .. anyway makes me think it’s pathetic if it’s for that reason and I never realised it until I kept seeing him with shorter women .. could be a coincidence though and more for the fact that my legs and home are closed until marriage and he lives with someone unmarried after I told him..
Self love is the best love. Never forget to come back to you. You always have you!💝
It is LONELY at the top but if you keep going GOD will BLESS you for your efforts. Then The haters come and tell you that you don't deserve it but they do not know what ALL you went through to get THERE
This message was for me! Lost 57lbs, jog every day 5k and I am walking and growing in the spirit! 👏🏽💪🏽🙌🏽
Wow, I need to be on your level
@@TatyanaBuie you can do it too! I am not there yet but I made a 180 🙂
Atta girl! Congratulations!!!
@@chriscooks5437 Thank you! All praises to the most High tho!
Growing with the spirit of the LORD ?
I really needed this because I've fell off so bad mentally. But God!
❤️❤️
Amen
Lord give us strength! ❤
It’s all about how quickly you can hop back on. If you haven’t already, hop back on and quickly
Was a long time smoker 🚬, realized it wasn't very attractive and not good for health. Already a diamond!
🗣Hey, Tony Gang here! 🙌🏾
Yes maam!
Hey girl hey!! Lol
Yesss! Love your channel too! ❤️
Hey 🙌🏾
@@IvyElizabeth918 be
This video make me feel real good about myself! I have currently been celibate for 9 months now and have learned and valued my own worth by loving me more. Now most dudes don’t even come at me crazy because the standards I have set in place. Thank you Tony for you hard work ! Just wanted to let you know that it is some women out here listening and taking your advice and teaching seriously 🙌🏾👍🏾‼️
It's lonely, coming from where I'm from, trying to be positive and keep pushing.
You got it sis! Women empowerment, we’re in this together ❤️
@@nicolewilliams7849 Yes, it's much needed❤
@@nicolewilliams7849 Yes we are! Women in this Blessed Tribe are family! We are sticking together 😌
It’s a personal conviction... that’s how the Holy Spirit deals with us, PERSONALLY ‼️
U speak such words of wisdom and truth. At 59yrs old I just CANNOT try to keep up with the world when it comes to the wide range of the sexuality pushed out there from commercials to cartoons. I’m old school and I don’t feel comfortable with all these shenanigans. It may seem hard and yes at times lonely , but when I think of the alternative, I’m happy to be on my back yard, in my screened in patio set, sipping a glass of wine, reading a good book and listening to some great jazz. Yep a simple thing, but great for my peace of mind and who I am. Blessings to u all, especially the young ladies that are still trying to navigate the enemy’s snares that are abound. ❤️🙏🏽
I'm feeling the same too!
You are inspirational sis!
Thanks for the encouraging words.
@Keely Crawford yessss sis!!!!
See....right there 👑
I really felt this when I was going to college in a very liberal city and was living around my age group. Drinking, drugs, sex, crude jokes, etc. It did feel lonely but when you are not involved in all that, you naturally will not be able to get close to people who are into all these things.
And these same conformists men love that women conform
And accept the exploitation pushed on them ..all I can say is no condom no entry .. my
Legs and home are closed until marriage and only open with a condom after marriage .. I have no respect for men challenging women on this .. and they should be dumped
Tony I am not willing to sleep around, obedience is better than sacrifice and To whom much is given much is required !!!
Thank you for this message. I recently had a conversation with some coworkers about my standards ect...I left that conversation feeling like something was WRONG with me. They literally told me I am asking too much and will be alone! I realize that I am set apart from the masses and I will NOT compromise my standards just to make YOU feel better. Thank you Tony. God bless you.
Good girl!!💜
Keep in mind if they have no standards or BARE MINIMUM standards, yours are gonna seem like you’re doing WAY too much. The truth is you’re approaching life from a higher level than they are. That’s all it is
I had a guy last summer tell me “ I don’t think you’re going to find what you’re looking for “ when I literally only mentioned to him wanting a respectful partner who can communicate. The nerve he had to try and sleep with me after that
@@j-tenn226 He's never gonna find what HE'S looking for...
I love to hear the story about you and your wife. Your wife is a wonderful example of how women should respectful and love themselves.
I needed this encouragement😫 I had to let go of a man of God yesterday that was inconsistent. It made me sad but I’m guarding my heart and I will do the work to be ready for my husband. Praying for him and hope he fights thru too! It’s so hard but what God has will always be better than what we want 🥺🙏🏼 sending everyone love!! We got this ❤️
Aww sis, irs gonna be ok. Be glad you saw the red flags early before you invested your mind, body and spirit to this man. You can walk away with your dignity and worth IN TACT!!!! We have a God of crockpot blessings!- rich and deep in nature. It will always be better than what we want. You got it sis 🌻
I feel you girl! But we will pull through 🙏🏾
@@ashleybeverly7328 I appreciate you! Yes, I feel empowered walking away knowing I'm respecting and loving myself more than the idea of who this man could be. Thank you for these encouraging words. Have a blessed week 😊
@@TheArlenefelicia yes we will girl! Blessings coming our way! Keep your head up😊
Omg sis is there anyway we can talk offline I want to ask you a few questions about my situation. I’m kind of going through the same thing. 😢
Truly great message about morals, values and standards ! I have dealt all my life with people's attitudes for being different, for wanting more out of life, for caring about the quality and type of people around me, for preferring to be single and happy instead of accepting anyone out of loneliness or social pressure. My parents never talked to me about having standards or what values are, but God somehow instilled them in me and i will forever carry them in my heart, will never lower or give them up and this is even more confirmation to do so.
I ll never open my legs with no condom after marriage - his comment on this was pathetic-
He is the one making her wife pregnant and he wonders if the drugs or vaccine on his wife works ? Absolutely sickening- any husband not willing to wear condoms is a red flag .. I can’t believe so many women are willing to be Slaves .. no men
Would pull that line ‘ you don’t use condoms with your
Wife ‘ .. but yeah my legs and home are closed until marriage and any man challenging me on condoms or pulling that line .. I’ll walk
Away
amen
I so appreciate you! You ain’t lying I’ve been abstinence for years and the last guy I dated said I was too religious and I had a friend of a friend told me I need to “use it “ before I lose it and I was like 🥴🤨😕??? so I appreciate you! I just pray for them but it sucks that being in this space people judge me when Ian even judging them 😒 but you and this community sure make me feel like we not alone!!! God bless you and your family !!!!
Sis... you’re not alone. A lot of us have been abstinent for years.
Be 8 years for me. I’m not trying to please NOBODY BUT GOD.
@@patwilson1257 amen to that!!
@@Glamrocs that’s amazing hopefully we can change the world and restore our families
Use it before you lose it? 😂😂😂 wtf does that even mean?! People say anything smdh a mess
Day 3 of the 14 days I’m leaving my man not talking to him to see if this my husband or not... wish me luck ... also yesterday was my last day using 💊... so wish me luck pls !! Thanks for everything Tony!! Here goes to sober and single better than being with a person that ghosts me ... 🥰🙌🏼🙏🏼
Be blessed
Sending love to you queen, you’re doing great proud of you!!! Keep going! Don’t give up
Paulina Magana@ Day 3 that is amazing. I am wishing you all the strength and support. 🙏🏽 We first crawl, then we walk and eventually we RUN. Girl, you got this 👍🏽.
If you are interested: Check out ways to oxygenate the blood through breathing. This is in the realm of natural healing. I have heard about positive results in regards to mood, mind and body issues.
Check out Mr Gaskins' videos from these days: November 25, 2019 / March 26, 2020 /December 8, 2020.
They contain good info on ghosting. Be blessed. "Coach Francesca"
Make your self proud
We support you sis. I’m on month 3.
@@pattygeee2298 we got this sis 💪🏽💖
Tony you are such a blessing!!!! High schools should have you as a guest speaker to Seniors as they graduate
I agree, sis! High school and maybe even graduating college students?!
@@ashleybeverly7328 yes!!! South Carolina State University and the University of South Carolina
@@nicolewilliams7849 Yess! Can you imagine how refreshing it would be to give him this wisdom to young, fresh minded men and women? He would would setting them up for MAJOR success!!
This popped up on my timeline at just the right time… I was just beating myself up because I’ve lost all of my friends but it was because I’ve been elevating & they’ve chose to remain stagnant and hate… which is very hurtful so I was forced to cut them off but I keep receiving signs that im on the right track ❤
Imma start calling you Uncle Tony because these stories be havin’ me in stitches 😭😭 I cried for real on the blanket of leg hair 😩
He is hilarious!
In the middle of watching a movie but turn it off when you realise Mr G has posted
Yes I told my girlfriend when I met here before we got into a relationship I don’t wanna have sex and she said she thinks it’s bad not to have sex. So when I’m thinking about leaving now cause she can’t go without it. I’m trying to follow what god wants for me.
She sounds immature she isn't the one.
This title is ALLLLLREADY A WHOOOOLE WORD!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
When a man becomes fully invested into a woman he loves, his love is effortless, meaning a woman won't have to ask him well why you didn't call me or why didn't you get me anything because he will do most things he'll hate to do for that woman without no problems. When a man isn't vested into that woman, a man isn't gonna just do something for that woman without constant reminders, or nudging!! He will hate those things you request for him to do. You won't know that but he will.
Uncle Tony , discovering your channel is the biggest gift god send me early on this year ! And yes I am Muslim , but I appreciate and respect Christian values , you speak life into me ; i am 23 yo and I am elevating every single day trough these videos . Keep it up , thank you !
Keep watching because he speaks truth. The bible says, you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.
Wow this came right on time. I found out some disturbing info about somebody yesterday and I thought to myself I’m teaching my kids to be nice sweet and kind in a world full of savages. Thank you for this message!
Absolutely correct. You are doing a great job. Also teach them about Jesus Christ. The world is getting very scary and people feel so lost and empty without Him. Jesus loves unconditionally and deeply cares about everyone. Consider accepting Him as Lord and personal Savior ❤️
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 thank you I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and will be teaching my daughters. Times are def scary and I worry about their future but just take it one day at a time
I always allow men to chase me and not the other way around because I always have high standards with men and they love and appreciate it. I am married but going through a divorce soon but when I get back in the dating pool again, I will have that same approach is to value myself and not allow a man to do anything and everything with me. My husband had to wait till we were married to have me and he appreciated it. Unfortunately I had to walk away from the marriage but your video is a reminder of what I done in the past is what I should be doing and it shouldn’t be foreign or compromised with and I should not be ashamed of being different. My husband told me all his women before him have been the one to propose to him and I was the first one to not do that, I’m old school thinking and don’t believe in it. Thanks for the awesome content! Be blessed!
Wow I was just having this conversation with my mom. I’ve been waiting for 8 years abstinent. It’s so hard. People ask me how do you do it?? I want to get married but it’s hard to find a man now a-days that is willing to wait. I love Tony’s channel it’s so helpful. I’m not a legalist but my faith is in Christ. I prayed and prayed and have waited. It’s hard at times.
Know your WORTH👑 QUEENS, Shalom Tony & The Blessed Tribe Family!!!🙏👑🌹☺
I had a guy tell me I have too many standards and requirements. I only know him for a few months he was nasty to me. Very disrespectful however wanted me to sleep with him and speak into his microphone. I decided to exit of the situation but began to miss him because we talked everyday. I learned he’s used to women that don’t have any morals and expected me not to have none
This is currently my story. I realized the majority of men out here are not used to women with standards and morals and don’t know how to act when they meet one who does
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Thank you for your transparency. Thank you for encouraging us good girls with morals, values and self discipline. I'm not for any/everybody and I'm okay with that. God has been so good to me, I can't afford to compromise for anything less than His blessed best. What God has for me, is for me. Anything other can kick rocks with opened toed shoes.
“you’re gonna be separated for greatness” 👏🏾 Thank you! God bless 🙌🏾
Coach Tony gotta Show us a whole picture!!!! I cannot see him with golds & dreads .... not even with my good eye !
😂😂😂
Thanks!
All FACTS! Here getting my daily message ❤️ To anyone who needs to here it, “ Block his number sis & start your business” I did :)
you know i noticed other dating coaches encourage people to get back with their ex and tell them to wait and feel ppl lies saying ur ex is amazing because they want more people using their websites, buying their “recovery kits” etc and i think that’s so selfish cus they don’t care about their clients but tony a real straight up type of guy. he won’t sugar coat anything n lie n say ur ex coming back means they love u, he respects his clients feelings n spits facts ❤️❤️
You are changing a lot of women’s lives❤️❤️❤️ God bless you and your family.
To each his own but to thine own self be true. "Coach Francesca"
Tony. After listening to you speaking today made me realize a few things about myself. I notice you were speaking from your heart and being very sincere about your past life. I admire you for your honesty. Being very open in speaking to people is something I need to work on. Thank you for this video.
I am staying as me in a positive light, for the greater good of me.
“Now if you start off at 140 lbs, I’m not talking to you...” 😂
I was about to say “Cuz I’ll disappear”....😂
Good talk Coach....👌🏽
yeah my parents dont know I have no men at all..they think I have random men because im alone..lol.they could never understand..my sisters same..31 and 35..had several men..and not married ..im 37 and I had none..I almost was on my back when I was in my early 20..and said NO..I never looked back..but yeah I dont drink, dont smoke, dont curse, dont party, dont do drugs etc..I dont meet many men on my level I guess ..my legs and home are closed until marriage..I knew since I was 15 years old I wanted this
That is awesome!! Keep your standards.
@@brendajefferson1734 thanks :) and yes I will..:)
Idk how many times I’ve watched this video but it’s one of my favorites! I laugh and learn like it’s the first time watching it! It also serves as reassurance!
Just love these real talks about real life and marriage. Thank you Tony! The pool definitely gets smaller as you get better. There are those that want to ride on that low vibration but once he sees you are not riding at a low state, either he will rise to you or step out. But love who God created you to be ladies,! You will shine better than the sun! Your glow will be unstoppable!
And how can we get that shirt Tony had on? Is that for sale? And where? When?
This message caught me right when I started slippin. 🙏🙌
Being a Virgin or practicing abstinence is only frustrating when u r doing it in hopes of marriage. It's comforting for me to say... I am preserving my temple to standards that are pleasing to God. Stay strong ladies🤗💞🤗
I’m very thankful for your insight Tony. Your family is blessed to have you leading them.. Keep working as a team with your wife, don’t give up& don’t give in my brother.
The title was straight confirmation. Thank you.
Confirmation, Confirmation! As always, your insight is impeccable! We “APPRECIATE YOU”and “THANK YOU” for being an unapologetically Extraordinaire Life Coach!! Thank you for speaking on the importance of being disciplined in an unbiased way! A million and one blessings to you and your wonderful family! Keep up the great job!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Tony Gaskins, you've come a long way,(ur funny,but you've become the man GOD wanted you to be). Amen
When you took it back and started humming/singing Lauryn Hill, you reminded of my love for the classics! Bout to make me whip out The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill!!! I really miss the 80s/90s artists!! Music ain't the same no more these days! And sidebar...I hollered when you said, "" That tickled me so much this morning and had me cracking up!! LOL
In 2010 I changed so much of myself to try to fit in Hollywood, 🤦♀️ this channel is such a blessing to see that not everybody runs on the okedoke bandwagon and is constantly giving out wisdom, even when someone maybe suicidal and don’t know where to turn. This channel is a blessing because to hear Tony speak wisdom and not just get right do right, but wisdom beyond tryna impress people, it’s good to be reminded cse even a lot of church people are teaching to fit in🤦♀️ thankful for another video 🙏
🗣 YOU TEACHING IN HEA 👏🏽❤🙌🏾
I’m so glad you giving these small details that matter to men. A lot of women don’t factor in these observations from men. The small things make a difference
Going down the steps took me out!!😂🤣🤣😂
God Bless You! Thank you for constantly, preaching, and teaching The Word of God! In this last days , got to keep standards,morals, and never forget your first love God and his word, that will always stand.
So so true! You don't have to try so hard to fit in if it means losing your morals and values! You have to set your own standards, not other's standards. Great video! Thank you!
I truly do believe you are a man after God’s heart. I hear and receive the underlining message you are speaking into the hearts and minds of women:” let those who have ears to hear, hear the word of God”. Preach, preacherrr. Be Blessed.
This truth! Be Yourself, everybody else is taken! I learned that from reading Do It Afraid. A book of getting myself to know myself again.
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This message is right on time as always! Tony, May OUR POWERFUL HEAVENLY FATHER KEEP BLESSING ABUNDANTLY You and Your Family members IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!!
AMEN AND AMEN!!!!
Thank you Tony for being YOU! I have been watching you for about 3-4 months now and I can truly say you have changed my mindset.
I been dealing with this issue cause i have standards and respect 4 myself Ive even lost friendships behind my standards. Even acquaintances. Im not gonna change my way of living for nobody!! Ppl.want me to respect them they dont want to respect me. I tell ppl. if i dont want to talk nobody i dont have too. Some of these guys dont know a real woman when they see one. They dont even know have to approach a lady. Especially a Queen!!!
Tony I gotta see the pics of these teeth and these hairstyles, I'm picturing it and I really just can't 🤣
I'm hollering 🤣 at that story!
right😭
Saaaaaame!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Be blessed!!! Yes, I'm on the right track. These talks with Tony are GEM'S. Thank you Mr. Gaskins for your honesty and wisdom. Blessing's
I don’t use foul words either & I’m not into dating anyone who makes it a habit , I feel you on that cursing Tony !!
Thank you for sharing your Gifts TG!
Praying up for all! Blessed Tribe.
Ladies we have the wisdom and power to change the future!! Love yourself 1st. It will help you to be a “Virtuous Woman”! Give love to Yourself first and then share it respectfully. A man does NOT define you!! Be blessed Keep your morals!! It takes “Standards” to keep “Standards”!!
Good video Tony! Right on time 🙂
Edit: parts of this video had me laughing 🤣
Amen Tony! It doesnt matter how long it takes, I aint playin games with my body, mind and my spirit!
This is One of your most powerful messages. I was so blessed. This was a confirmation for me. I will wait and keep my standards so glad I have been freed to be who God knows I am. Thank you Tony for this word from Heaven.
Great discussion. I do believe that abstaining until marriage is consistently a Christian expectation...popular or not.
3.30am listening ended a situationships when I realized I was objectified. Trying to heal.
I don’t know if, anyone could see how funny he is.. I am crying on these stories.. I love it😂😂😂
Thank you for the motivation to stay strong and that it is separation before elevation!
I needed to hear this. I was beginning to wonder if there was something wrong with me or I was too “old fashioned” to date the way society is set up these days.
Level of greatness and discipline!!
Whew!! inside the mind of a man. As they say the more you live,the more you learn.
true I dont meet many men,,and most of them curse, drink, smoke, dont look healthy etc I notice the men that are more available dont necessarily look nice..even the ones willing to marry and be loyal..
Noticing this as well
@@Ashley_Banks and I d add they aren’t necessary nice as well !
It’s the comedy fa me. You are funnnyyy and genuine 😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Love yourself first & God
Self Love is The Best
Always Take care of Yourself Everyday