Another thing that works is telling him that he's already doing it. I tell him, "I'm so lucky to have a man who's crazy about me" or "I'm so happy you keep pursuing me after all this time." I only say it because I know it's true, even if his pursuing is less often than I would like - he's a man and is busy and can't give me his focus every day of the week! So if he pursued me once that week, I'll tell him "I'm so lucky you're the type to keep flirting with me", then he feels this positive reinforcement and does it again or even grander. It's all about increasing appreciation+ lowering expectations
GREAT tips, I love the feminine ways you enspire your husband and practice appreciation. That is beautiful and a great reminder for us all! Thank you for sharing!❤
Thanks for the reminders, Adrienne. I am 63. When I was young and beautiful in my prime, I had no problem with men chasing me. My husband did it until the day he became ill. He took care of everything for us and our home. Something happened to me when he died. I felt like the weight of the world crashed down on my shoulders and now I had to be the responsible one. I have forgotten how to be in my feminine energy until now. I want to have another long term relationship again. So thank you so very much for the reminder.
I’m sorry for your loss. Mine came by way of divorce. We were both to stupid to save our marriage. My ex pursued me as well up til marriage and after. I haven’t found a man a fraction of his caliber yet. I feel a bit lost in this world of dating . Mature men seem to have lost this zest for the chase and being chivalrous . I think maybe I’ve lost my feminine charm and of course the attraction I held in my 20s. I’ve worked on my inner self, and feel ready for marriage again , but I’m often left frustrated and confused by men’s behavior.
I love your videos so much. Your energy is so gentle and feminine. Thank you!! Your voice is so soothing and puts me right in my feminine energy. It would be so lovely if you would make some meditations to get in your feminine energy and take the focus off the man. 🥰
In my VIP library I do have a meditation for this! Look at the ABCs program for more details! Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
You’ve helped my marriage so much Adrienne!!! As a career and goal-oriented person I’ve had to really practice being in my feminine energy with my man. It’s been a process but the dynamic is getting better and better! Thank you gorgeous! ❤
Saying "no" actually really helps to sort out very quickly. I just had that! This guy put over a small thing so much pressure on me, that I ended it before it could even beginn. And he excused his behavior that he is a lawyer and thats why he has no patience 🤷♀️ and when he wants something he wants it now 🤦♀️! And he blamed me than for beeing stubborn!!!
Thank you for the tips, Adrienne! These are extremely valuable. Would you ever consider making guided meditations to get in touch with our powerful dynamite woman/goddess on a pedestal energy? That would be sooo lovely ☺️
Yes! It’s my “100 men” meditation. In my VIP library I do have a meditation for this! Look at the ABCs program for more details! Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
I am very proud of my daughter, a gentleman brought her an expensive gift on a first date and she explained that she was flattered but could not accept such a gift for a coffee date. She would feel very uncomfortable knowing the cost and feel guilty if they were not compatible to get to know each other better. It was a 950.00 scarf. He was impressed with her honesty and the fact she was not a gold digger. They did continue to date for a few months, but she was just not into him. She is successful, not like him, but she knows her worth and gifts on first dates? Are you dating for a gift or for a life long relationship?
I just love you------------I am middle aged now, but I learn a lot from you. I love that you give examples and dialogue and kind of model it for us, and lI love those episodes where you just talk about being a girl and being involved in loving life and doing things and not making everything about a man. I have so many things I love to do I cannot fit them all in, and I never knew that was attractive--------also I really love when you talk about how to feel feminine in the clothes you choose etc...i would love for you to talk more about how to love ourselves and express our femineity, just to be more free bc you just have a beautiful way of explaining things.....thank you for all of your videos ...
I loove and have been missing these lives so much Adrienne! This video was spot on on what I needed to hear right now, it's like you always know haha. Thank you
I love Adrienne but this just confused me. The topic says getting a man to chase u when he's lost interst. But #2 was make sure ur not pursuing or after a man that's not interested in u or the wrong man. It seems to contradict itself to me at that point..ill go to next video🤔
Hi..I was having masculine energy and my husband was a tough masculine guy.we were married for 10 yrs and have 2 kids.we used to fight for everything but we were very much connected physically.he started to flirt with another lady .and I paused for 1 month and now he's home after 1 month. I really like him but I get triggered on some of his actions like not communicating,going out with friends for long days and for having alcohol. I want to say him about this boundaries of mine.but I don't know how to say that.please help.
How do you deal with men who alway wants to change plans last minute or offers last minute things? I generally don’t like that and usually say no, but then I feel bad that I miss out on opportunities…what else do I do about it? ❤
@@AdrienneEverheart ok thanks. Sometimes though I feel it’s disrespectful of my time, as it seems like it always has to be on his terms and his time schedule. I have a busy life so I’m not always able to drop everything for him last minute, it feels unfair to me sometimes. Is there a way to communicate this?
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Hey adrienne !! My guy is stressed up due to his office work.. and when we talk he doesn't say much or talk much to me.. he only says to me to talk because my voice makes him feel good.. but how can i talk alone over a phone call or anyway, so i sometimes feel like he's only calling me for me that only i am the one who wanted a chat and not him (we're in a long distance relationship for 2 years). How should the things will get better.
Everything great - but ladies if you go on a first date and he isnt paying .. that alone is a red flag enough to never see him again. It isnt being petty- If he isnt working hard to impress you in those first few dates, he isnt into you. He doesnt think you're worth the hype. He needs to think you're worth the hype from day one. When I first started dating my now husband... I was so nervous (and very young, think teens), I came to the date EARLIER and purchased BOTH of our movie tickets. He was annoyed and had the intention of paying for me. I did a lot of that chasing at the start and it always felt like I had to CONVINCE him still that I was all that. It wasnt until I stopped all that nonesense that he started to really. see me as a prize.
Hugs to you! Try not speaking for some time. Smile. Be warm. Yet let him lead. Begin to live your life with your energy off him. This is part of the reset button. Learn more in FEMM for RELATIONSHIPS bit.ly/femmtools
Okay thank you! I will try ...I feel I do so much and if I don't cater to him then he thinks something is wrong...but I don't like how he feels we see each other all the time and he knows me already
Interesting… You don’t say thank you after a man compliments you? Is this your philosophy for compliments from other people such as friends family associates as well? Just curious! Also, why not?
Great question. I thank a man for an action. I don’t thank him for telling me I’m beautiful. It’s better to share a Feeling and connect to his heart instead of a phatic “Thank you.” Say: I feel ….
Another thing that works is telling him that he's already doing it. I tell him, "I'm so lucky to have a man who's crazy about me" or "I'm so happy you keep pursuing me after all this time." I only say it because I know it's true, even if his pursuing is less often than I would like - he's a man and is busy and can't give me his focus every day of the week! So if he pursued me once that week, I'll tell him "I'm so lucky you're the type to keep flirting with me", then he feels this positive reinforcement and does it again or even grander. It's all about increasing appreciation+ lowering expectations
GREAT tips, I love the feminine ways you enspire your husband and practice appreciation. That is beautiful and a great reminder for us all! Thank you for sharing!❤
Thanks for the reminders, Adrienne. I am 63. When I was young and beautiful in my prime, I had no problem with men chasing me. My husband did it until the day he became ill. He took care of everything for us and our home. Something happened to me when he died. I felt like the weight of the world crashed down on my shoulders and now I had to be the responsible one. I have forgotten how to be in my feminine energy until now. I want to have another long term relationship again. So thank you so very much for the reminder.
I’m sorry for your loss. Mine came by way of divorce. We were both to stupid to save our marriage. My ex pursued me as well up til marriage and after. I haven’t found a man a fraction of his caliber yet. I feel a bit lost in this world of dating . Mature men seem to have lost this zest for the chase and being chivalrous . I think maybe I’ve lost my feminine charm and of course the attraction I held in my 20s. I’ve worked on my inner self, and feel ready for marriage again , but I’m often left frustrated and confused by men’s behavior.
I love your videos so much. Your energy is so gentle and feminine. Thank you!! Your voice is so soothing and puts me right in my feminine energy. It would be so lovely if you would make some meditations to get in your feminine energy and take the focus off the man. 🥰
In my VIP library I do have a meditation for this! Look at the ABCs program for more details! Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
You’ve helped my marriage so much Adrienne!!! As a career and goal-oriented person I’ve had to really practice being in my feminine energy with my man. It’s been a process but the dynamic is getting better and better! Thank you gorgeous! ❤
Saying "no" actually really helps to sort out very quickly. I just had that! This guy put over a small thing so much pressure on me, that I ended it before it could even beginn. And he excused his behavior that he is a lawyer and thats why he has no patience 🤷♀️ and when he wants something he wants it now 🤦♀️! And he blamed me than for beeing stubborn!!!
I'd call that a lucky escape! Who wants to waste time with the wrong person?
Thank you for the tips, Adrienne! These are extremely valuable. Would you ever consider making guided meditations to get in touch with our powerful dynamite woman/goddess on a pedestal energy? That would be sooo lovely ☺️
Yes! It’s my “100 men” meditation. In my VIP library I do have a meditation for this! Look at the ABCs program for more details! Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
I am very proud of my daughter, a gentleman brought her an expensive gift on a first date and she explained that she was flattered but could not accept such a gift for a coffee date. She would feel very uncomfortable knowing the cost and feel guilty if they were not compatible to get to know each other better. It was a 950.00 scarf. He was impressed with her honesty and the fact she was not a gold digger. They did continue to date for a few months, but she was just not into him. She is successful, not like him, but she knows her worth and gifts on first dates? Are you dating for a gift or for a life long relationship?
😂😂😂 How Can she be a gold digger if she have more than him and he propose to offer ? Be for Real ...
Many of you use the word gold digger too loosely . A women Can not be a gold digger because she accepted a scarf or a bag ,😂😂
@@kellymensah8181Omgggggg 😂😂😂😂
Maybe he got the scarf on sale. Maybe he only paid like 50$ at a swap meet...take the gift 😅
@@user_abcxyzza swap meet or a meat swap?
I just love you------------I am middle aged now, but I learn a lot from you. I love that you give examples and dialogue and kind of model it for us, and lI love those episodes where you just talk about being a girl and being involved in loving life and doing things and not making everything about a man. I have so many things I love to do I cannot fit them all in, and I never knew that was attractive--------also I really love when you talk about how to feel feminine in the clothes you choose etc...i would love for you to talk more about how to love ourselves and express our femineity, just to be more free bc you just have a beautiful way of explaining things.....thank you for all of your videos ...
Thank you, thank you! That is so kind. I’d be happy to share more about that topic. 💖 love to you.
I loove and have been missing these lives so much Adrienne! This video was spot on on what I needed to hear right now, it's like you always know haha. Thank you
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“being worshipped” doesn’t have to be sexual ie being worshipped with actions, gifts, compliments & deep consideration
Thank you for your honesty Adrienne. I truly LOVE IT!
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I really like how you explain everything and I like your calmness❤Thank you for this!
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Adrián you are sooo goood at this ❤ I love every video you make
Thank you so much 😀
Thank you for these great tips to be in your feminine. I have been challenged to exude thiat kind of energy and am a work in progress.
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I love Adrienne but this just confused me. The topic says getting a man to chase u when he's lost interst. But #2 was make sure ur not pursuing or after a man that's not interested in u or the wrong man. It seems to contradict itself to me at that point..ill go to next video🤔
I felt the same.. The contradictions. Bit confusing.
This is such a good video
When a man continues to pull away hurts where the girl turns away..
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Such a great interview. Thank you!
Thank you so much for your videos. I was a little lost lamb and now I see more clearly! ❤
Happy to help. 🥰
so inspiring as usual my dear
Thank you so much!
@@AdrienneEverheart a big hug from Algeria xoxo 💋
I loved your New York/Hawaii analogy! ☺️
Great video! ❤
Hi..I was having masculine energy and my husband was a tough masculine guy.we were married for 10 yrs and have 2 kids.we used to fight for everything but we were very much connected physically.he started to flirt with another lady .and I paused for 1 month and now he's home after 1 month. I really like him but I get triggered on some of his actions like not communicating,going out with friends for long days and for having alcohol. I want to say him about this boundaries of mine.but I don't know how to say that.please help.
Also regarding the flirt thing he did.
How do you deal with men who alway wants to change plans last minute or offers last minute things? I generally don’t like that and usually say no, but then I feel bad that I miss out on opportunities…what else do I do about it? ❤
I would let him lead unless it truly affects your boundaries. Some of the most fun I’ve ever experienced has been last minute things. 💕
@@AdrienneEverheart ok thanks. Sometimes though I feel it’s disrespectful of my time, as it seems like it always has to be on his terms and his time schedule. I have a busy life so I’m not always able to drop everything for him last minute, it feels unfair to me sometimes. Is there a way to communicate this?
Get her book 500 ways to talk to a man. It covers this.
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What about saying I have a really busy schedule so it would feel really nice to plans things a head of time...
That was hilarious at the end about the game changer masculine energy 😂
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I love your videos ❤❤
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You’re amazing thank you ❤
Hey adrienne !! My guy is stressed up due to his office work.. and when we talk he doesn't say much or talk much to me.. he only says to me to talk because my voice makes him feel good.. but how can i talk alone over a phone call or anyway, so i sometimes feel like he's only calling me for me that only i am the one who wanted a chat and not him (we're in a long distance relationship for 2 years). How should the things will get better.
Why do we always find these videos when it's too late😂
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Everything great - but ladies if you go on a first date and he isnt paying .. that alone is a red flag enough to never see him again. It isnt being petty- If he isnt working hard to impress you in those first few dates, he isnt into you. He doesnt think you're worth the hype. He needs to think you're worth the hype from day one. When I first started dating my now husband... I was so nervous (and very young, think teens), I came to the date EARLIER and purchased BOTH of our movie tickets. He was annoyed and had the intention of paying for me. I did a lot of that chasing at the start and it always felt like I had to CONVINCE him still that I was all that. It wasnt until I stopped all that nonesense that he started to really. see me as a prize.
I do believe this.
Hi Adrienne
Do you think a man who has been cheated on is unable to commit to the next woman ?
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Thankyou ❤
Wonderful ❤❤
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Elaborate
Thank you
What about your husband's attention?? We have been together for 12yrs and he just tunes me out
Hugs to you! Try not speaking for some time. Smile. Be warm. Yet let him lead. Begin to live your life with your energy off him. This is part of the reset button. Learn more in FEMM for RELATIONSHIPS bit.ly/femmtools
Okay thank you! I will try ...I feel I do so much and if I don't cater to him then he thinks something is wrong...but I don't like how he feels we see each other all the time and he knows me already
Interesting… You don’t say thank you after a man compliments you? Is this your philosophy for compliments from other people such as friends family associates as well? Just curious! Also, why not?
Great question. I thank a man for an action. I don’t thank him for telling me I’m beautiful. It’s better to share a Feeling and connect to his heart instead of a phatic “Thank you.” Say: I feel ….
What does one say "..…I feel ....
@@AdrienneEverheartexcellent ❤ too many women say thank you for him complimenting beauty … you know that so just smile .. thank you is too needy
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