These Women Hate Men's Mental Health Month...
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Man hate is celebrated but calling women out on their crap is seen as unacceptable. S/o to all the hard working men and fathers out there. Don’t let these idiots ruin your day.
Women have zero self awareness.
Women can hate men but men aren't allowed to hate women. Both are pretty much bad
Amen
Gotta love society's double standards. NOT!
On Twitter maybe. That isn't true in other places. The red pill movement is horrible to women.
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most.
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I'm sorry.
@@kotomishione He spitting tho
@@kotomishione Yours don't seem very original though 🤔
@@kotomishioneWhy? he is speaking facts
If men don't deserve a mental health month, then neither should women! That's true equality!
A-fucking-men
If white people don't get a white history month, why should black people?
(I'm hispanic, I believe either everyone gets one or nobody does, same goes with gender mental health
lol
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Women suffer - "yes!!"
Men suffer - "yes, but women also suffer!!"
More like 'women suffer more and it's caused by men!'.
I find it's more often like... "Men suffer? Good. I hope they suffer more."
its mens fault
@@potatoaddicts i know you're joking but the sad thing is some people actually think like that
@@potatoaddictsliked you own comment L
To any guys in the comments, hoped you had a happy Men Mental Health Awareness Month! You all matter too!
Thank you :)
Wish you nothing but the best.
Thank you
Thanks.
Thanks matey
You know anytime someone calls attention to the breaking of gender roles, it ultimately undermines the concept of gender equality by implying that this is an exception and not the status quo.
-Knuckles the Echidna
One of the best quotes from that show. Still applies nowadays
😂 Chad knuckles, I'm definitely using that.
That's the thing these women don't really want equality, they want supremacy where they are in control of everyone not just men only but over other women who don't agree with their ideology, and for a real gender equality activist would fight for both genders and not for one particular gender only.
This is why we love Knuckles!
Just because he's a meathead doesn't mean he can't be a feminist.
Trying to treat both genders equally and not hating eachother for two nanoseconds is apparently impossible
i give up tbh
It’s possible, just not on the internet
in the U.S society is giving me a headache when it comes to these debates tbh
Man: **parents died and suicidal dont know who and how to get help** feminist: "it's the patriarchy you built!"
This made me cry, my dad knew a guy in this situation...they were mentally hurt and well...
I was a feminist when MEN would fix my plumbing,
MEN would escort me to places (cab) safely, some creepy but most good,
MEN would be concerned for me solely for the fact I’m a woman,
MEN would help me first in one accident solely because I’m a woman;
Then I stopped being a feminist because without my father, without these men, I don’t know where I’d be right now
You can be proud of yourself to realize this very important fact. Sadly nowadays men and women have their minds poisoned by the media to hate each other. Past experiences and traumas are probably also playing a big role too. But we could achieve so much more if men and women would just work together. It's just sad to see so much brainwashing and hate for the other gender in this day and age. Have a nice evening.
"Men" would help you or be concerned for your well being because you're a human, not because you're a woman. If males don't do these things or do them JUST because you're a woman, they're not really 'men', more like adult aged children, 'alphas' or smarmy sticky palmed reddit mod white knight types.
And the same, actual men deserve that earned respect and support for their stand-up-and-have-a-spine actions, but not all males are men, so many more are becoming a pile of indoctrinated 'alpha' MGTOW mush behind a keyboard and while they deserve little respect beyond basic human decency, they sure as hell need more than a month of 'mental health awareness' to even get them to consider going from manchild to man.
It's sad, both in the ramifications for all of society when gender conflict is normalized, and for the wasted potential of people of any gender in this day and age who just refuse to move beyond all the excuses they're given to not be an honest, respectful, and decent human being of any gender.
Bravo.
Feminism didn't help women at all, even at its start. The right to work was earned by industrial capitalism, not by activists, and the right to vote was a political ploy to earn easy votes.
Most people are stupid, and that includes men and women. As if allowing 50% of the idiots to vote wasn't bad enough, now 100% of them can do it
Yeah so many feminists don't care about equality and just want women to get all the benefits.
Men are seen as disposable and whether or not any cares about you depends on your gender.
And feminists refuse to get jobs like plumbing or learn how to fix their own damn car.
"All men just complain about evil feminism"
- the evil, misandrist, feminist. 2023
Feminists then: we want to be equal to men by voting and working beside them, not being chained to the kitchen popping out babies if we so choose
We want both men and women to be equal
Feminists now : KILL ALL MEN WE CAN REPRODUCE WITH OUR OWN BONE MARROW SO WHAT OUR BABIES ONLY LIVE FOR 2 WEEKS WE ONLY CARE THAT THEY'RE ALL FEMALES. we laugh at men who show emotion other than anger all men are pigs they all want to do things with women, even boy babies it's SA if a male baby is breast fed
Lol
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We're in a matriarchy and those feminists are still delusional about patriarchy.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminists when they see the word misandrist: "I have never seen this word before in my life, therefore it does not exist."
I am a woman and whenever I hear this toxic diatribe about men it pisses me off. I love and adore my father, brothers, nephew and husband. Heck I get along better with my brothers than I do with my sisters (who I also love but we get along a lot better now as adults than we did as children.) And just the thought of someone treating any of them the way these toxic hypocrites treat other men infuriates me! Men and women should not be treated like different species we can’t exist without each other and no one should be treated as inferior because of something they CANNOT change.
Sadly you are a dying bread of women with healthy mind good on you to care about people i wish we can clone you to make more of you
While I'm a bastard at heart, Mostly, I just, Wanna be friendly with everyone, And everything, And, I really like animals more than people, because of this BS that goes on, And, I'm glad you and your family are doing well, I hope they are doing well still.
Well, I’m still giving up on ever getting married, or even having a relationship, but it’s refreshing to know that at least a couple people feel that way, even if you might be faking for likes. Thank you for your input
Same here. It pisses me off so much because you think that as a group of people who were historically oppressed, and still are oppressed in certain ways and places, these women would be able to empathize better with men combating mental health issues and it truly does disgust me just how heartless some of them can be while also claiming they want gender equality.
To me, it seems that people like that just want and/or feel entitled to holding and abusing power over men but brand themselves as promoting “gender equality” and “women’s rights” to try and defend themselves from any criticism of their horrible actions, when in reality, gender equality is something that I would hope that all half decent people, regardless of sex or gender identity, would want to strive for. Especially with how some brave survivors have stepped forth and talked about being discriminated based on sex and/or gender, such as being laughed off by law officials when trying to find safety from abusive partners, having their struggles invalidated because they need to “toughen up and be a man”, risking loosing the right to see their child(ren) and having their lives be controlled by an abusive/neglectful mother because it’s assumed that, as a man, he caused the issue, among many others.
Sorry if this comment seems slightly decoherent, I just feel very strongly about gender equality but I’d be here all day if I tried to talk about all my thoughts.
@@stormylobby you're damn good, It's actually such a damn good explanation on this.
"Also, arguably, men are more egoistical and might think less about how their death will impact others so they're less likely to push through for the sake of everyone else."
I'm 19 and I work in Hyundai factory to feed myself, my mom and 2 siblings, and literally the only thing that stops me from offing myself when both physical and mental stress smash me down on my knees is thinking about my family and how hard would it be for them if I was gone, so idiots like this really get under my skin sometimes.
Note: We constantly hear about how men are terrible, psychotic, abusive, manipulative etc. from these people, so clearly the answer should be helping men's mental health resources which are bare bones and faulty, right?
Yet the moment we try to do that, suddenly it's a bad thing for 'taking focus off of women' and 'acting like men have things so bad'.
It just sends a resounding message to men: "if you aren't useful to us, we want you to suffer and die miserable"
It's stupid 🤦🏾♀️
They want to push the idea that men are terrible, psychotic, abusive, manipulative etc. because of masculinity and misoginy. This way they can ask money from Governments and UN to teach men and BOYS that mascuilinity is toxic, that they are ticking bomb, privileged and need to support women and feminism to be decent beings.
Yeah, funny how men are psychotic, abusive, and the other stuff you said that I'm too lazy to type, but women being EVERY SINGLE ONE of those things is socially acceptable... male privilege is grand
Don't you know men's mental health is a joke.
It's by design, you can thank feminism for this divide between men and women.
As a wiseman once said, "I have NEVER met a happy feminist" and judging by those comments I'd have to say no of those feminists are happy.
I honestly thought since they started their newer crusades in the “culture war” that feminism was all but dead outside of “TERFs”
They don't know how to be happy, and are so wrapped up in themselves they can't figure out how to be happy. So they blame others and find excuses for why they're not happy.
Remember, fellas, what you want in life is results, not excuses.
They can't be happy and because they hate that others can they try their hardest to make sure that at the end everyone is of their condition
you're not gonna be happy as an activist for anything, since you're fighting to have something you want happen, and it hasn't happened yet (those feminists are defo more mad than a typical activist though)
And then you hear them saying, "this is why we need feminism."
That's like saying, "this is why we choose to be miserable."
these women are just proving WHY men also need a mental health month, because we also have our own problems. The more we help eachother, the less murder-suicides/regular suicides we'll see.
The study he pulled isn't even accurate too.
Many other studies have shown mothers kill their kids far more than fathers. Especially single mothers
And that's not even including the genocide known as abortion
"What do men talk about with other men?"
Well last time I talked with my friend he and I debated wether or not we thought Edward The Confessor was the last Saxon or the first Norman King of England.
It's funny how every woman I personally know (maybe with the exception of one of my sisters) is an amazing person but the nebulous blob of internet women are filled with the most petty, hateful, ignorant and punchable people alive.
That's why you mostly find them on the internet, they don't have a life. My sister is one of those. She literally sits all day in front of her computer, spewing shit like the one above. Undatable of course.
I've met a few IRL but they were self aware enough to understand that it was due to previous trauma, and that it wasn't healthy or acceptable.
It's simply a daily reminder of how many people there are in the world and how the internet doesn't at all represent the mass populace in every respect
Same
@@enthiegavoir5955 SAME
_"Men get mental health awareness, women most affected."_
It's always interesting how they keep going on about this alleged "Patriarchy" when both society and the law are quite pro-woman.
Literally anything men do is "wombmen most affected"
Of course they keep going on about that. There is a reason why there is a saying that goes something along the lines of: "Give a woman a finger and she will take your whole arm."
They get something out of cryin patriarchy and now they want more and more because "Oh noooo, I got catcalled while wearing a super low cut top that almost revealing my nipples I just want the right to wear what I want without people looking at me waaaah waaaah." meanwhile they are the ones being toxic towards other people, including women. :V
It does exist, just because you don’t wanna acknowledge it doesn’t mean it isn’t there lol and it affects _everyone_ negatively, men and women alike, just to a slight lesser extent to men. It’s kinda why men’s mental health month is a thing that is sorta needed at the moment
@@vaccuumhelmet521 The patriarchy doesn't exist, kid. Haha
@@sigmaramenIf this is a patriarchy, its a pretty bad at it's job.
I used to laugh at the "fatherless behavior" jokes, but everytime when I see threads like those, I am reminded at how true and rampant that statement is
Sadly I have to agree, it's thrown around like the hot potato now. No real point or value
"Men don't deserve a month to further their egos."
...🤔...Holy Jezus! You know whats ironic about this picture?🤯
Pride month.🙄
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What tf does pride month have to do with insensitive women???
Pride month= :)
Men's mental health month: >:(
Ruined June for me
The fact that that woman considered leaving her husband over a 250k salary is so ridiculous. the average is like 25k a year. That just goes to show how spoiled this person was growing up.
Don't worry. It was a satirical Reddit post, so it didn't actually happen. 😊
She's clearly a gold digger, perhaps she'll marry a 1010 year old rich dude
It was a satire post but I understand why you thought it was real
It is satirical...
But we have to admit... Spoiled, narcissistic people (males and females) do exist...
Literally all western woman act like this though.
I was today years old when I found out there *was* a men's mental health month. Struggling with depression myself, thanks.
Hope all gets better for you man, you have my blessing, just never lose all hope. Its a deep hole, but one that you can get out of. Once you do, you'll be a wayy better person than before, stronger, kinder, more disciplined, etc.
Just know, there is light at the end of the tunnel. And its a bright one! Take care man.
Read a book called "Can't hurt me" by David Goggins.
You're welcome
I know the struggle. Keep fighting, king.
I wish you the best in life friend, you deserve it.
I didn't know it either, but it might have to do with another event that overlaps with it and is promoted prominently.
As someone with ADHD and autism, I was mostly bullied by other kids a lot and didn't say anything because the few times I tried, said students would act innocent (An equal number of boys and girls), and the teacher (mostly women, one bad one in particular) would disregard what I had to say. So I learned that "professionals" were either stupid or didn't care, I couldn't cry when I was upset, I couldn't show any form of frustration because I'd be the one punished, so I was pushed to at one point consider committing die. Yes I had to fix myself, but I later found people who helped me a lot, taught me self care and became my biggest support network. I wish I had known the things I do now sooner.
Edit: Nine months later and thank you for all the support, things have been up and down but I'm still here despite it all, it's nice to see some decent people are out there
There are people out there that care. God's love is pure and will help us. Praying for you. Hope your doing well!
I wish you all the love in the world, whoever you are.
Hope you are doing well now brother, I took the other path and just became emotionally numb, just don't care anymore at this point
My man, I feel ya on that front... At least, to a degree.
I'll admit, I've never had it _that_ bad, but it has gotten bad at times.
Feeling like you could never fit in, was one of my common issues as well.
Glad to see you got better though.
I'm 26 and I have yet to meet a woman near my age worth the effort. I've stopped trying since the last time I was used. My ex cheated and tried to baby trap me with a pregnancy scare, and tried to date 5 other people within 2 weeks before doing any test. She was all gung-ho on child care and making me pay for it regardless, not taking any responsibility. I bought 4 tests and left that lunatic once I knew she got 4 negative tests. My trust with people on an intimate level has been shattered. It wasn't the only time I was screwed over, but it just tops the cake, and thank God it wasn't worse.
Aren't those tests very expensive
You lucked out brother. Stay safe.
That one comment that said most men don't support eachother got me morbidly laughing. As a woman can comfortably say that no one hates women more than other women.
I can confirm this. I worked/studied/lived in places with lots of women. They were always fake with each other, talking crap behind their backs, secretly plotting cheating on their boyfriends and trying to hookup with their friends' bfs. Whenever I've been in male only spaces, we'd try to organize card playing nights, playing football on weekends and many videogame nights with lots of drinking and fun.
I was genuinely laughing at that shit, morbidly, but that is not even close to being true. We may not discuss it openly when we're with the homies and hanging out, but we sure as hell don't not support eachother, we boost eachother up without bringing anyone down. I've felt better hanging out with the homies than anywhere else when im feeling like shit.
@@altogrey9712most of the time we don't even need the details... We sense you're down... We try to cheer you up or take your mind off it at least... Popping a cold one, play some games, hell even fcking go fishing...
Though yes, we (men and women) should be able to be more open about tgis stuff without toxicity and fear of being ridiculed or talked down and laughed at...
@@dlairdiablo945 I think that's something a lot of people fail to understand. Men and women socialize differently, and that's okay.
There is an old saying. "The worst enemy of a women is another women"
Us guys matter, too. It's not just a "Pride" thing. Are we just disposable now?
Always have been. Why do you think we're the ones who get drafted?
Always have been.
yes.
there is literally more women than men on earth, we're the minority.. for a reason.
@@kayef5724well that may also be because men in mainly America, (not sure about other countries which are luckily male dominated, and seem to be doing fine) have the highest suicide rates. All the more reason for a men's mental health month, tbh.
As a left leaning person. This is the biggest gripe I have with the left.
We put men in no-win situations. We tell them to do better. Then we berrate them for trying to do better.
If femenists want to empower women, I stand by them 100%. The instant they start spouting vile nonsense like "All men are pigs" That person becomes dead to me.
Same
Women don't need anymore empowerment. We've seen what they've done with it and how they've voted. Hell, even before they voted; women are responsible for things like Prohibition, and have similarly ushered in disaster after disaster even without their ability to vote.
I have yet to meet a feminist who doesn't use that "equality" bullshit as a shield to justify her abusive behavior
Well said.
Don't know how you've remained left leaning the past few years if that's your stance, especially if you apply the same logic to race and sexuality.
Many of us faced discrimination since our education. Our sisters got much more praise and love from parents than us boys. They ended up confident and successful. We ended up feeling unworthy and sad.
And yet, men who are stuck in such a scenario are still expected to prove themselves to others.
these people are useless witches
That one comment mocking men for “boo hooing” is literally proving the point for the month. “Men are more likely to end themselves early” Can’t have that discussion tho, gotta minimize it. Well anyway, have a great day yall, take care of yourselves.
Also some good advice from Hei at the end, find something positive you can work on and enjoy to get away from the nonsense and noise, like art, weightlifting, or hiking
(Late heart pls Hei?)
And the fact that we choose methods that will for sure end us. It only shows that we don't see any way out of situation we are in and ending it all is best possible solution for us. It may sound selfish but that's how it looks when you are at your lowest possible point, you don't think or care about anything or anyone anymore, you just wish to fianlly end suffering so you take for example gun and boom, you're gone. If woman is choosing method and think about others reacting to her dead body then she isn't at her lowest point yet, she still care about others, how they gonna feel after she is gone, how cleaning crews will react to cleaning mess she left etc.
@@kadarak1 it's more like people who pick ways that will easily fail are likely looking for attention rather than trying to actually do it.
@@sguizzooo Exactly, these people on tiktok and other social media platforms say they are "suicidal" to get attention and support from others. So when it comes to people who really are suicidal, other people just brush aside our attempts to seek support as "attention-seeking."
Thats not necessarily the case. Studies show that women are more concerned eith how their loved ones eill find their body, and often use less physically destructive methods. Hence why overdose is much more common in men than women. The two really cant and shouldnt be compared: at the end of the day suicide and mental illness is an awful thing. It should be approached awually for all demographics, the numbers speak for themselves. 😔
@@acid_tongue_4315Even so, the fact that an old holiday meant to uplift desperate and broken people is now openly mocked by an entitled, whiny, and pathetic bunch of enablers just shows that there's no justice.
If we don't deserve a month then neither do they
No one should have a month, it won't solve anything it's just a way for companies, influencers, and politicians to look good. It's not there to help anyone. If it was you'd have a day off or a long weekend
@@HyattHyatt3179yeah, I'm really tired of their hypocrisy and double standards.
@@HyattHyatt3179 People want men and women to be treated the same, but people can't help but split genders in different months
Let's just have the month of humanity already
A month? As in 1 month? Bro:
International women's day, mothers day, women's history month, national women's day... I donno how many holidays those bitches get!
@@ProgZ and the month of humanity could address problems and stuff? On each day I'm guessing, idk
". .. month to further their egos" that could be taken as an admission that that's what she does all of women's month
NO WAY THEY STILL GET WOMENS MONTH?!?! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡. HELL NAW
June is also Pride Month so that was the worst thing to say in that situation
I remember reading a story of a woman who killed her children and husband, so no murder suicide isn't just a male thing.
this is BEYOND disgusting to see...and they wonder why men dont want to be around them when THEY THEMSELVES talk horribly about men's mental health "blaming" them for thier problems...as i male myself i almost NEVER talk about my problems due to fear of being talked down to for it and THIS kinda stuff further feeds into it for others like me...these women need to take an education course
Yep. Men the world over are seen as disposable commodities and for benefits only. Many men have checked out of this nonsense and refused to talk about their problems. We know many don’t care so we just don’t speak on it. That’s why MMHM was supposed to address this issue and it got undermined by what we’re seeing now. All by design.
Seek support with people you trust and stay strong I belive in you
Stay strong, friend. It's sad that the ones most likely to judge a man for asking for help with his issues are women. For all the feminist complaints about "toxic masculinity" it's usually them perpetuating it.
I hope these women get abusive Male or female partners.
They won't and plenty of simps to go around. That said not all women are that way some are genuine but ill advised by others, I knew one and I just hope she's happy because meeting her is probably what should would count as one of the bad experiences in her life. I believe they just wanted to have topics dropped that were uncomfortable instead of talking about them, something I wish I had abide by as I have some things in my past I am not proud of and needed to remain grounded that it was fair.
I needed to seek a professional and share the pressure to be rude, as well as end conversations abruptly with others. I think our family needs therapy but it's been declined.
I also find it funny how everyone (even myself) rejects that our problems are majority self made past a certain point but originate from a source. I admit I have made my bed and lie in it for the stupidity of my younger years and for giving into fear.
I think all that matters is just doing the best you can and making amends when possible, when it's not a possibility just keep trying to carry on.
Another note anyone else get yelled that they are stupid by their own father's at around age seven or younger just for struggling at math, leading to lasting damage to self esteem and all this made worse by a religion/church that overlooks abuse as long as it isn't physical? I almost forgot to mention a school system that reinforces anger is bad even when about injustices?
Mine blamed aggression coming from middle school bullying solely, excusing my father (himself) from any contribution to the problems with anger I had.
Unironically.... I want to meet the woman who understands what it is like to never feel unconditional love for 30+ years.
Any woman younger than that, but that was clearly not your point.
@@Sukharno2121 No? Women younger than 30 are probably more likely to be unconditionally loved by society than those who are older, and even the older women are still loved exponentially more than men of the same age. It's not until us men grow to an age like 70+ that we get loved unconditionally and that is only because we are old.
Having no sense of humor is truly a sad thing.
@@Sukharno2121 Sarcasm/Sarcastic humor doesn't translate over the internet.
@Sukharno2121 there's no humor you're just embarrassed
When a woman is depressed, people will come out of the woodwork to help. Men with depression will suffer in silence, then people will act surprised if they snap. Women also use tactics in self-termination that can be easily survived, while men choose more effective means
My father died when I was in my 6th grade. My mom single handedly went on a study spree for 2 years and got a job as a teacher for special children. We're a family of 4,amd I'm the youngest, my other 2 sisters don't even have a job but even in that tough situation, we pushed through because of my mom. NOW my sister got a job, my mom got transfered to a nearby place where the commute is 20 mins, it used to be 2 hrs before. My other sister also got a job, and we're good. All thanks to my mom, she'll take my years and live longer
Damn you're mom is respectable
The amount of misandry I see online is sickening...
I'm glad the women I actually know aren't assholes like these people.
Yeah that's the weirdest part. Every woman I know personally generally being chill and awesome... but then everytime I see one I don't know, they are acting in a psychotic manner that makes it really hard not to assume things about the gender. I guess it means we both cultivate relationships with good people, so that's positive? But overall it's depressing.
Bitter broken Ho3s that’s what they are. The women who have the most to say about men are the ones who been used and tossed to the side because some man thinks they are headaches.
Now these women are on rampages proving the point why men don’t take them serious
That's why I fear for the future.
Guys without much female interaction can quickly become hijacked by all this shit and start assuming the worst of all woman.
The way I see it is yes some woman have been assholes to me in my life but you know what? Just as many guys have been assholes same with white people Asians black people ect.
If I hated the immutable characteristic of everyone who's ever been a dick to me id hate the whole world and everyone in it.
Sweeping generalizations are generally stupid most of the time and people should be judged on a person to person basis.
thank you, someone said it, not every woman is a fukhead like these ones. Everyone here either shrugs it off or goes unga bunga women bad
@@-exodus-_true respectable human here
"Mental health is important ❤" mfs when people that commit suicide more often have a month to bring awareness for this issue:
That poor woman has to switch from butter to margarine.
Only 250k a month.
That´s inhuman.
I think it was less than a month ago when a "woman/newly made man" whined somewhere saying that "guys don't talk to each other or give each other hugs" and that being a guy is "lonely"
And now when people try to do that, we get "Men don't need their egos stroke."
Thats a complete lie anyway. Me and my friends (and plenty of other guys) do the bro hug whenever we see each other
Yeah. Like, there's even a book about it. A woman pretended to be a dude and joined a bowling league. Tried to live life as a man. She was horrified to see how poorly women treat men, and how much men rely on the communities of friends they do have. She sadly committed forever sleep later on.
Still, her point stands. I love my bros. I'd take a bullet for em if I had to.
@@Maverickgrindstar a bro hug is very different from a normal hug
It is funny to someone to think that women are the ones that push through and think everything is their own fault and posits it as a good thing. In the meanwhile this same behavior is touted as toxic masculinity in men as men think they need to be self-sufficient and asking for help is a bad thing. Double standards...
Women don't do the most dangerous jobs. I have never seen a woman builder or plumber, electrician, sewer cleaner etc, they ask for equality but don't what those jobs
It is always like this. Women oogle men ? Empowering. Men oggle women ? Rape culture. Women love fighting sports ? Empowering. Men love fighting sports ? Toxic Masculinity. Women being housewife ? Misoginy. Men being house husband ? Progress. Women going to male strip clubs ? Empowering. Men going to female strip clubs ? Objectification.
@@skootergirl22 women want cushy office jobs (that they usually monopolize) to pay as much as men who handles 'dirty' jobs and machines that could get them crippled
Nobody has said that asking for help is bad but lately I've started to believe it to be true
@@imnotahumanimamoron42069 crazy people are actively frankensteining the straw men they keep on making and it's tiring for the rest of the normal people
"...women will exhaust every possibility before giving up,"
Sounds like their range of possibilities are as narrow as their line of thinking.
"...women will exhaust every possibility before giving up," Is that why feminism directly claim discrimination without considering other possibilities whenever there is a gender gap ?
I'm a woman and even I'm disgusted by this attitude towards men
A lot of the work men put in goes entirely unnoticed and often times under appreciated, we gotta normalize supporting our fellow man for real, start complimenting the homies yall!
Best part is a man laid the cables so those slags could have internet access, which they use to bash men... flawless logic
You're a strong, smart, and handsome human being.
And they wonder why men are going their own way?
Probably for their mental health?
It's telling that whenever the idea of empathy towards men is brought up one of the first responses by these feminist types is something involving ego. It's telling because if a month for men is about ego first and foremost then that is the motivation for all the other months as well - and most activism by extension. They tell on themselves without even realizing it...
I didn’t even know we had a mental health month
Honestly same
In terms of mental health, I see myself as a waste of oxygen, and I sincerely hope my end arrives soon. Wish for it every day, as the first words out of my mouth when I wake up and all I can think about at work. But even then, I still recognize that I'm above people like this who are so numb to the suffering of others. It doesn't give me hope for my own life, and certainly not hope for humanity. But even as worthless dreck, knowing that I'm a better human than these monsters makes me feel a little better.
Reading this oddly makes me feel better, thanks man.
The fact you fight to function without tearing anyone else down to make you feel better makes you more valuable than a great many people on this planet
There's this song by peccatum... "some suffer to the point where they grow numb. Others are so numb, they deserve to suffer." That's the only thing that comes to mind
Dude you're not a waste of oxygen if you're making these types of comments
Hope you're doing OK...
as a guy i protect my mental health by staying off twitter about 99% of any given day.
...my curiosity gets the better of me. Whats the 1% day that you would risk life and brain cell to go on Twitter?
@@Maverickgrindstar i generally just go on the weekends to post when i'm streaming, and checking updates from the few people i care about. outside that i just dont feel the need to give twitter any attention.
Deleting twitter is more effective than booking a therapy session. 9/10 of therapists recommended.
Wtf is that last therapist smoking smh
I never use Twitter, consider I'm lucky then.
One of the main characters of my upcoming novel franchise was born in June, aka Men's Mental Health Month. I picked this month specifically to showcase its importance.
So for women to make it out to be a one-up contest sickens me and makes me ashamed as a woman as well as a person.
Remember, nobody shares blame for actions of others simply because they have something in common. Especially with there being billions of people that share that particular trait.
where i can read this novel.
don't you dare feel ashamed as long you understand that not all men acts like assholes and not decide to treat man like shit solely on the fact they were born male then you have my up most respect keep doing well and overcome any challenges you might face
Most of these women that are in the internet forums is because they don't have IRL friends/family that's why they're unhappy and incredibly toxic.
They're what the internet calls a femcel.
The Female Dating Strategy subreddit has always just been sickening in general.
It amazes me that, no matter where I look, the mentality of “treat others how you want to be treated” only applies to themselves and not others.
These are the same people that say “feminism is for everyone”
When a lot of us men just want to be held from time to time and supported with affirmation. That's all we need. Give a man enough motivation and love. We will move mountains for you.
Affirmation is a hard thing to come by for men. Oh you got a career in manufacturing and increased your base pay by half again in a little over two years? Thats because youre a privileged man and not because you busted your ass. (Yes I'm projecting)
Spitting facts 100%
bro i would honestly do anything for a women that wasn't crazy, could work with me to admit we both have problems we need to work on, and not divorce me for all my money and the kids at the first sign of struggles in our marriage.
If any men are reading this, I just wanna say your health is VERY IMPORTANT. Forget about the dumb Twitter women. You matter, and there is someone out there who knows you, loves you, and wants you to succeed in life. There is someone out there who wants you around. There is someone who wants to see you and listen to you. You are loved and cared for here if nowhere else. Men's mental health is important, and we should ALL take it seriously.
Nobody's going to stop them.
Nobody's coming to save us.
@@zacharymabb4873 I'll do everything in my power to save anyone in need.
I find these fake affirmations more depressing than their absence. No, most people don't matter. No, many people have no one who cares about them. That's life. You either deal with it or don't. It's really fucking lame to pretend something positive is true when it's just a white lie to make people feel better. Either they don't see through the lie, and then are really fucked up when they later realize it. Or see through it immediately and find it deeply patronizing. No stranger can know whether you are loved or cared about by the people in your life, so it's empty platitudes.
@zeriel9148 Dude, who pissed in your cheerios? I mean, I'm a pretty pessimistic person myself, but damn.
@@dangerheart2578 I guess it's just a difference in personality, but I find artificial positivity deeply insulting. Like, if you don't care, just don't care. Pretending you do is worse than not caring. I suppose I am just barking up an infinitely tall tree on this subject though, the modern world is full of this nonsense, it's like swimming in the ocean.
If men need a mental health month or a man has a mental health issue that's the opposite of an ego... That's the acknowledgement they have a problem.
That exact comment 6:00 is one of the biggest reasons why they self delete. And the exact opposite is happening. They think they're a problem for others and to not be that they exit out. It's the absolute worst thing you can say... Completely psychotic.
sad thing is not many people talk about this or as often enough. i didnt even realise it was men's mental health month and now the months over. the month dedicated to spreading awareness is failing to do the most basic and fundamental thing it set out to do.
Sadly pride month has more attention during this time. I don’t want to say it but I think we need to pick a different month to do this.
This kind of reminded me of a saying.
"Getting Old is an Inevitability while being Mature is a choice"
Guess that applies to those sorts of people
That first story reminds me of a lot of karma stories where the man suddenly makes less, the woman leaves him for "better", then the man starts recovering on an insane level while the woman who dropped him gets dumpstered by life only to come crawling back to beg for another chance.
Happened to one of my friends. Thank God he talked to us before responding to her text. She was young and didn't know how good she had it, she missed him...golddigger.
NEVER mix narcissism with a victim complex!
Don't they come together?
2:18 (Referring to background footage) - that's what we like to call a "Target rich environment" - you don't even need to aim well, you're going to hit something
When these absolute monsters are dying old and alone because they're such miserable crones that nobody wants to be around them, somehow that will be men's fault too
They'll have half some poor slobs stuff to keep them warm.
“The patriarchy they created” - this “society started in 2016” smoothbrain level of thought…
Those are some rich words coming from people who have entire support networks dedicated just for them. Like a rich person making excuses why the poor are really to blame for their own misfortunes and not them.
Don't let them get under your skin, fellas. They hate themselves more than they hate you, which is why they feel the need to be so hurtful to others from behind a mask. Those words have only as much power as you are willing to humor them -- and the people saying them _know it._ Which is why they're so angry because they know it's the only power they have and once you call their bluff, they're powerless.
This month was Men's Mental Health Month?
No one would shut up about Pride Month long enough to notice....
Just remember lads, when they ask for help. They're strong and independent and don't need us. Let them be and focus on yourself.
Don't want to disrespect how strong and independent they are.
Amen
yay....this changes nothing.... congrats
As a member of the male gender it is sad that people are dissregarding our mental health. We are all human for ffs mental health is important for everyone
Shout out to my dad for the fact he did alot to help my mom during times when i was being born then when i was diagnosed with a health issue, he helped my mom take care of baby me till i was able to eat solid food and wasnt screaming at my moms chest cause eating and drinking was so painful due to my acid reflux. I still have flare ups to today and i apperaciate everything my dad does. He is amazing.
You know it’s kinda sad how June originally being men’s Mental health months gets completely forgotten under the shadow of Pride month it’s getting too much
Corporate and government sponsored and backed gaffotry is seen as more profitable than men's mental health
@@sigmaramen yeah amd they are more protected
This just illustrates how far some people are willing to go to try to prove how immature, insecure, and shallow they truly are. Accountability is the way to reverse some of this. They should take their own advice.
When it comes to Twitter these morons choose not to and let their brain rot.
Feminists: women are oppressed and repressed in this country!
Also feminists: *say whatever the hell they want without even the slightest fear of repercussion
These people are weak.
It's the only way I can describe it. How else could explain feeling the need to punch down on an entire demographic that is admitting it needs help? Pathetic weakness of character, moral fiber, and mind.
If you need help, whoever or whatever you are, seek it out. There is no shame in it, indeed the humility of admitting one's limitations is the strongest character trait I can think of. Survive the ordeal with the aid of others and be ready to pay it forward. Survive because in doing so you can serve to correct the course of another where you might have stumbled. And if nothing else, survive just to spite these useless monsters navel gazing maliciously in their internet covens.
I didn't seek help for my issues until I was almost 32 because of what you just said. I turn 35 next month and Ive found peace and calm for the first time in my life
I didn't know Men's Mental Health month was a thing...
As a man myself.
you the best!!!!
Women who legitimately think like this have never had a male friend; I can't imagine they would think or say things like this if they had a man they had complete platonic affection towards. Really, whichever gender you are, have at least one friend of the opposite. I have just one, and I see her as a sister, I love her so much.
Honestly, we gotta bring back mental asylums for many people
Agreed, that is for reserved for Anime Haters on Twitters
When they do come back we should put the gun grabbers, trans activists, vegans, and environmental activists in them first.
Yeah, some people need to be locked up fr
Man twitter will definitely become desert after that😂😂😂😂
@@pedroj234 Nah, Asylums should be for the mentally ill, so basically any and every activist on Twitter.
The first one reminds me of this Chris Rock comedy special quote: "Men cannot go backwards sexually, women cannot go backwards in lifestyle" 😂
I'm accustomed to getting food when I go to a restaurant but when I leave they don't owe me a steak! I loved his set on this one.
Wait what
There is a month for this?
Whaaat, never heard it
How does this man not go blind from reading so much Twitter? It's like having a staring contest with the sun
Could've fooled me, this month is always touted as exclusively for the pride of a certain community. TIL, I guess. 🤷🏾♂
Yup. It has been overshadowed by everything else now, almost as if its not important at all. Every gender struggles, yeah, but facts are still facts and men have been taught to be macho, never show emotions, etc.
To me, showing emotions is probably the most macho thing to do, as well as the most human thing to do.
If anyone of you struggle, know that there is at least someone out there thinking about you and caring about you. Don't be afraid to call a friend, your parents, or just anyone to talk to them about something.
@@Sherfieethere's a limit to how much emotion you should show as a man.
A guy who just complains and cries over every little thing isn't macho at all.
A stoic guy who talks about his emotions without losing control is a true gigachad.
@@krulak292complaining isn't showing emotion. It's just complaining. Showing emotion means admitting that something makes you feel in a certain way and having the balls to ask for advise, help or just company. Pretending stuff doesn't get you isn't being a giga Chad. Understanding what makes you feel in certain ways, without losing yourself is real strength.
@@hombreg1 Complaining is literally showing emotion?? What are you on about?
Complaining does NOT MEAN you're asking for advice either.
And not like you can't complain. I was obviously talking about excesive complaining.
Real strength is aknowledging what bothers you and fixing them. Just understanding your feelings ain't shit.
@@krulak292 Way to twist my words broski. Thanks for showing why men don't even want to show emotions anymore.
Stoicism, btw, is the act of "it is what it is". Stoicism CAN be a good thing, but it can also be a bad thing. Never showing any emotions whatsoever could make you seem like an emotionless husk and in return you can possibly forget to show emotions at all, and whatever. Emotions like happiness, sadness, anger, etc.
Through my life I have had hardships where I have done nothing but feel down, depressed, like it is the end of the world. And what happened then? I talked about it and people saw how I ACTUALLY felt. So don't you fucking come here with the "mimimi only chads never show emotion" "mimimimi stop showing emotions", boomer. You're so fucking disgusting, all of you who do that, you dick on a stick.
There is no limit. Be yourself regardless of what gender you are. There's no point in having to feel like you can't cry, can't talk about your own feelings, emotions etc.
So yeah, maybe I'm not macho, but I am more human than you ever will be!
03:15 The claim that women attempt it more has been debunked by A Shield for Men, apparently ANY self-harm is seen as an attempt.
Hey so I'm a mental health worker and prospective psychologist, I think a lot about this stuff.
What kinda happened over the past few decades is that, unintentionally, American society has formed a "stereotypical victim" and "stereotypical perpetrator". An unfortunate side effect of this is that perpetrators who do not fit the stereotype are ignored, and victims who don't are dismissed.
I worked for a while in ABA therapy, and as a guy you have to be extra careful about how you carry yourself around the children. I myself followed even more strict guidelines than the RBT ethics code, in order to protect myself from allegations. Unfortunately, this did not stop several parents from taking one look at me and not wanting me working with their children anymore.
But the women I worked with often skirted these rules, knowing they were far less likely to be the victim of a false allegation.
The stereotype is that perpetrators of molestation are male, but there are plenty of female perpetrators, and the stereotype ends up victimizing innocent men and allowing female abusers to get away with it.
This stems, again, from the broader problem; men are stereotypically the perpetrator and women are stereotypically the victim. There are other examples, including male victims of female spousal abuse, sons abused by their mothers, and most egregiously with male victims of s---al assault and r--e.
The answer, however, is NOT to become a men's mental health advocate. It's to become a HUMAN mental health advocate.
Firstly, it emphasizes that the reason men's mental health matters is because they are human beings, as we all are. And secondly, as the 20's bring a new set of challenges for American society, we risk just forming a new stereotype; female perpetrators and male victims.
The emphasis on female societal challenges, while motivated by justice and having a good outcome for women, is what caused the stereotype in the first place, and we shouldn't make the mistake of forming a new one in it's place.
So yeah, the best way to fight for men's mental health, and the disparities men can face in certain situations, is to focus on being a HUMAN mental health advocate uwu
I've always found topics like this triggersome and hurtful as of late, since I've had the unfortunate experiences of dealing with women like this irl. Once upon a time when I did have woman friends, a lot of them used me as a shoulder to cry on when crap hit the fan or them in their lives, but immediately decide to end our friendships when they get hurt by some other man...so because of that I somehow get grouped up as a "piece of shit man" too.
And now with this internet timeline we're in and women (some, most, idk) using it to proactively devalue men...it overall just makes me feel like I should just feel ashamed for just existing. Also doesn't help that I have a past record and history of un-aliving feels and moments for being born into a family that never wanted me in the first place...so yeah.
DISCLAIMER though, I'm fine from watching the video. I'm just stating that these topics can be triggersome...usually, but at the moment I'm just super vibing and catching myself from going into some type of venting lol.
Have a good one Hero, and Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness✌
This person really tried to say more women attempted sudoku in "less brutal methods", which basically translates to "attention". Being less lethal in a sudoku is literally counter intuitive because the lethality is THE POINT. I'm legitimately unsure if that person even realized that they had just argued that more men actually try to go through with it while more women do it for attention.
But yeah these people blaming men for everything while saying men don't take responsibility for anything is just so weird. This idea that men are more viewed as victims in society is equally weird. Women tend to be viewed as the victim, even if they are actively the aggressor, and men seen as the aggressor even while they are being beaten on or viewed as weak for letting a woman beat on them despite being vilified if they were to fight back.
It's a legitimate struggle to get people to care about a guy's mental health. They are shamed if they don't show emotion and try to be strong because that's toxic, but also shamed if they show weakness because they aren't being a man. Both those positions often being pushed by the same people. Most of the year women are viewed as frail victims who can do no wrong, it really shouldn't be an issue to have a month to recognize that men are people too and can in fact feel and hurt like anyone else.
So what if most women attempted ? It is a weird argument. Dying is obviously worst.
I appreciate both your message and your methods of censorship
@@maymarine9658 It's almost like.. Women who do it, tend to do it for attention, rather than ACTUALLY offing themselves. Meaning they won't end it, and instead choose to use it for internet goodgirl points to get their daily dose of victim attention.
Meaning it's fucking pointless and they are the same people who have the nerve to tell us to "man up" while they cry about all the bullshit they cause.
It's.... seppuku....sudoku is a game. Sorry for correcting
It is a shame that some do view it that way. Just a reminder of "Hey, just a reminder to take care yer mental health". At least in the positive amongst the negatives is that not all think this way
3:40
Men Who Murder Their Families:
What the Research Tells Us
by Bernie Auchter
NIJ hosts a forum to discuss the problem and the warning signs that foreshadow these events.
Cases where people kill their
families and then commit
suicide are mercifully rare.
Less extreme forms of domestic
violence and child abuse are more
common. Acts of partner conflict
can fall on a broad spectrum, ranging from verbal criticisms to cases
of a family homicide followed by
suicide. The research identifies
several risk factors that may indeed
predict more severe domestic
violence cases.
In a seminar titled Men Who Murder
Their Families: What the Research
Tells Us, an expert panel discussed
a recent spike in news reports of
“familicide” cases. Panelists included
Jacquelyn C. Campbell of Johns
Hopkins University, author David
Adams, and Richard Gelles of the
University of Pennsylvania.
big brain time
Terrence Popp, a streamer who focuses on men's (and particularly veteran's) mental health, is someone to look into for any men dealing with these issues. Through humor and personal advice related to those issues, he's saved to date over 500 lives. Popp, btw, is US Airborne veteran dealing with the after affects of his service including PTSD and TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury). His videos on those topics have helped more men than can be counted and even pulled many back from the abyss.
I would like to tell all men out there that your mental health and well-being is just as valid as anyone else's. I'm so sorry for any women out there who believe that their mental health is more important than anyone else's just because of gender. Society has made it difficult for men to express themselves emotionally or mentally, but please know that I hope you all who are struggling have a wonderful day and that one day it will get better, even if it's just a little bit at a time. You deserve it ❤
Very wholesome
Thank you.
and thanks to women like you is why a lot of guys keep working and improving themselves, because we don't need a car or that to be motivated, we just a need "i love you" and "i know you can do it"
yes same!!! as a girl im ashamed on behalf of all of these dumb feminists. to all men, i hope you know that showing emotions and reaching out for help isnt weak. men deserve love and appreciation >:(((( everything gets better in the end and feelings are never permanent, no matter how depressed, anxious etc. you feel rn, it will end. anyways i hope all of you have a good day
Good advice in the end man and may all the bros had a great happy men mental health awareness month
They forgot that they were born thanks to their dad and mom, otherwise they wouldn’t exist, tho.
the whole reason it exists is to rasie awareness that men too can suffer from mental conditions. I"m a man and i suffer from PTSD anxiety and Depression. and I'm not ashamed to say so. out dated forms of masculinity don't really matter to me. what a real man is, is someone who will stand up for what is right. and treat others with respect. simple as.
Umm but what you just said at the end has always been the case. That's old school masculinity
@@krulak292 uh huh, no. old school masculinity is, oh men can't show emotions, they have to be strong and silent. they aren't allowed to enjoy things that might be considered girly. that's old school masculinity. today masculinity is about being the best person you can be. it's ok to have emotions. and it's fine to enjoy something other men would frown upon.
@@crimsondragon1794 that's not even masculinity. That's being a good person.
What you described in your first comment is literally Stoicism lol. That's over 2000 years old. It is traditional.
To say what's good masculinity you need to talk about features that men posses more often than women.
Not just some general things.
Masculinity to me is standing up for yourself, being brave, well spoken, gentlemanly, stoic and protecting what you love.
And men do have to be strong. While it's okay to be weak, it's not okay to stay weak. Calling this toxic is absurd.
@@krulak292and the ability to fix problems. I just soldered the cord on my grinder at work back together because it got frayed. Most guys my age that I know can't even build a shelf
@@crimsondragon1794 thats old school masculinity lol
Whats that you don't want men to have good mental health? Don't mind if we get a bit abusive then
1:51 if i go on that post rn and i dont see everbody saying for her to leave that dude to trick her into being in a bad situation, i will seriously be disappointed in reddit
we do a little trolling its called we do a little trolling
1:12 "I also know my worth" yes, we all know don't worry about that
We live in a Gynocentric Society. What did you expect, Hero Hei?
A whatcentric?
@@BlooMonkiMan Gynocentric. Everything revolves around women. Everything. Men are always the "villains", Guilty until proven Innocent, etc.
@@josueveguilla9069So basically amber turd. got it
@@BlooMonkiMan Exactly. Thank you.
Skeletor: HAH! JUST LIKE A WOMAN!
This is sad. I am currently going through the shitter right now and I can't talk it out with anyone. Everytime I try to soeak out, I find myself holding out and stopping midway. Trying to push throught it. If anyone is also in the process of fixing their life, please know that you are not alone. I may not know or will ever see you but I am here dude let us push through together. We got this.
My abusive maternal grandma always berates my dad and emotionally abuses him and I'll never forgive my grandma for that. We live separated from her now. Men's Mental Health month is needed just as much as women's.
Nothing boost a man's ego more than a month dedicated to highlighting their vulnerabilities.
The wife is for the streets
Yup if she can help with the house chores, your health or with the bills, she only with ya for the money and to complain.
This is why I don't feel bad about being single. I don't want to run into one of these.
It just honestly proves more and more that these sorts of women don’t even look at men like human beings. To these women men are nothing more then expendable ATM’s and once men set reasonable boundaries or the cash runs low they turn their backs on us in a heartbeat.
It’s just disgusting that men literally can be treated like this and barely any of these women (a very small percentage) are held accountable for their actions/behaviour. I know Its getting a little better by each day but man does it feel sad at times for these women just living their life of hate.