LoL, I'm 53 and have been on that route since I was 48. Own mine, have mine and single as can be. Like my peace, enjoy my peace. I don't even speak to females these days. Don't hold doors, etc.. simply want nothing to do with the bs. Life is good.
Being alone for a while is dangerous, it's addicting. When you see how peaceful it is, you never want to deal with people ever again .Quote from actor Tom Hardy
Imagine being in a situation where someone who has an attitude of always being right and never ending demands for entertainment has legal power over you....due to the family court. THe numbers don't lie, men are passing on this "opportunity."
There was a quote or a book published when some iteration of feminism was in play in the dying decades of last century which said. " A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle " Kind of encapsulates an attitude, still current, that isn't particularly alluring.
@fredking7419 .I whole heartedly agree only difference is im 81 still happy no one bitching at me , nothing but peace& quiet ,use your marrage licence for toilet paper .thats about all its good for.
I am 65, single, no kids. Love the peace and freedom. I live in Tucson and the other day I drove to Phoenix for lunch because it seemed like a good idea, ended up in Flagstaff for dinner and a beer, stayed the night and watched the sunrise while driving home the next morning.
keep living the dream. my roof is leaking. a deer crashed into my car today. always fixing small engines. maintaining 5 acres. 67 years old. I'm just tired.
Once you understand women's nature, there is no going back, and you will never look at women the same way again. At 64, women can't lure me at all. I don't need anything from them. I have my freedom and my peace, and I will never give that up. I am very indifferent to many women.
I'm a senior woman who lost my beloved husband of 40 years 10 years ago. 2 years after he died, I tried "dating" and met so many grumpy old men whom I would not be caught dead with! And they thought they were so great-yet they all had health issues and wanted a nurse with a purse! NO WAY! UGH!
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 I know many men that ended up being caregivers to their old sickly wives. For some strange reason women always assume men become old and sick but not them. Women have health issues once they reach menopause. It works both ways.
61yr old male here also choosing to stay single. Reasons are simple. I've already had kids and they are grown. I've devoted myself to two long-term relationships including a 10yr marriage & a 23yr cohabitation. Now that both of those relationships are over there is no reason to put myself through that fem-drama ever again. Now in my later years I'm single & free to have a dog, a motorcycle, a place of my own and a bit of land I can call my own. I love my autonomy and my peace.
When i became widowed at age 58 i tried to date again. The women i met were only interested in my income. They were mainly still hurting from their past divorce, which they almost universally filed. Their expectations for men were very high and almost always centered round a very high income. Yet they offered very little in return. I miss women, but my peace is more important.
Past experience has shown me that I am nothing more than a financial conduit for women. I gave up on female companionship in my early 50s. I simply won't allow myself to be used by women anymore. Now 27 tears later and still single, there is nothing a woman can bring to the table that is worth the potential of losing everything again. The law is in their favor since they're an entitled group in this society that can do as they please without consequence. While men are always held to a higher standard and required to give it all. Society has destroyed heterosexual compatability. I don't miss the gaslighting women so graciously offer.
You Can meet a good and attractive Woman, have a beautiful relationship together, a companionship while living apart, and without marriage. You don't need to give up on love. If they have been married once most women don't Care getting married twice, no need for a second marriage. So, your financial stability is not at risk....
@@carynefuture5778 No. "relationships" are trial marriages and still all about women being able to spend a man's money. I did without marriage and children, and "relationships" too. That's what's known as being strong and independent.
I was married for 35 wonderful years. It was not till my beloved partner passed that I realized how lucky I was. Dating since then has been a nightmare they are either broke, angry, crazy ing or drunks. i am so done with dating and relationships. I never thought I would say this but I now find it more rewarding to fulfill any sexual needs I may have by pay to play with a professional. No BS
It's the same here in Australia...I'm 65 and can't be bothered any longer dating..it's just too hard ...most women here carry life baggage and can't let go of that...happy having peace and quite..just love it...
Cảm ơn bạn đã chia sẻ suy nghĩ của mình. Sự bình yên và tĩnh lặng thật sự rất quý giá, và đôi khi việc tìm kiếm hạnh phúc trong sự độc lập cũng rất quan trọng.
Why are older men increasingly opting to remain single? Because many older women are no more mature and sane than their younger counterparts! Who voluntarily lives out their days like that?
@@jasonvandervalk3679 I am 62 and had only 2 Girlfriends. I grew up with Mental health Problems. My Mental Health is fine now for years but I have a serious Lung Problem for a few years. Had a low income all my life. Money is so important to having a decent life. Glad I did not get Married though. Men and Women are not getting along for years now. I find that sad. But Peace and Quiet is undervalued I think but not with the Men on this Web Page thankfully! Best of luck.
@@jasonvandervalk3679 At 62 having only 2 Girlfriends. I have a serious Lung Problem. Men and Women not getting along for years which is sad I think. On a low income for my whole life. Glad I did not end up in a toxic Marriage though.
You are too young to remain single! You Can meet someone special who is compatible with you, you share the same values, life projects, compelling leisure etc, and strong physical attraction. Don't be scared to live. Again, you're only 42! Don't give up your desire for true love, true, deep, meaningful relationsip with an attractive Woman. Go find her in Thailand or South America like the passport Bros if you need to. But don't give up on Real, full happiness. You Can have deep happiness. You deserve deep happiness. I am a Woman. Take care.
I'm 71 and my wife passed after 44 years of marriage and don't feel the need to replace her. I don't think I have the time left to try to navigate another new relationship that would be as rewarding as ours was.
@@carynefuture5778 but the juice isn't worth the squeeze. They've saved themselves a lot of wasted time, not to say wasting their finances. They gave up because all the women they saw were low quality with high expectations and high maintenance. Don't you see that they're saying it was the best decision they ever made!
Boy you sure put a lot of complexities into this being single in old age deal. At 77 and widowed for 18 years now, I think at least for me, it is simple. I don't want someone (a woman) getting involved in my financial affairs, money, etc., and attempting to steal or negatively affect same in some way via the many legal ways that are available to women these days. That's it in a nutshell. I say no way Jose! 😀 PS: If you think some woman (new wife, girlfriend) is going to step up and take care of you like some nurse, dream on you fool!
I'm 75 and widowed, everyone says I will find someone and be with them, married or date. Since my wife of 53 years moved to Heaven I don't have a single wish to be with another woman. I've adjusted to my peace.
So my friends and l meet regularly. There are five of us, all in our 60s, who are happily single. We don't dislike women, its just that a relationship is out of the question. We can all see the traps and snares that women wield, and won't take the chance again. We're happy, wealthy and productive.
I so enjoy my alone time with my dogs and kids. No need for any older woman in my age range. Too much drama, anger, entitlement and looking for someone to pay their way.
67 and been single since I divorced my ex(you know why) 20 years ago. What can I say? I have peace, quiet and I am financially very well off. Aside from 3 holes, fee males have zero to offer.
I am not intimidated by pushy, obnoxious women. They can go have it all without me because I replaced them all with motorcycles. Have had peace and quiet with no artificial drama ever since.
At 80 years old and having been married to the same wonderful woman for a bit over 55 years, where could I find another one as compatible as she was all of those years? She stayed at home and raised our children then took care of both of our parents for a total of another 17 years. She loved to sew and I accommodated her on that on the little that I made. We made a home together and enjoyed each other’s company.
I am 64 years old. I am not interested in sexual intimacy with women who are 50 or over. I guess I'm pretty much screwed. Being a recluse isn't so bad. Very peaceful.
It's Never too late. You Can still find a true love, a wonderful Woman. Don't be scared to live. Dare to live. You Can even have a child, your first child if you Want to, like rock stars ! Enjoy!🥳 ❤
True, all of Western Europe, and the 1st word. ANd not just us older men, but surprising men in their 20's and 30's are obviously checking out. These young men while having many faults of their own such as lack of fathers and corn addition, have to deal with a generation of women that takes the Disney Princess entitlement to 11. "They only deserve the best" and if they are not happy, it is always the man's fault. THrow in social media which no man can keep up with, and the situation becomes a break up waiting to happen. No-fault divorce insures that. As the family goes, so does society and the nation. Demographic collapse is upon us (albeit in slow motion). Change will happen regardless if we reform family laws or not as you can't put the feminist gennie back in the bottle. But be sure, economic collapse will erase feminsim and the nanny state. It is coming.
This video frames my story almost perfectly. At 63, retired own my house, gym regularly, I can’t deal with women in my age range and I can’t relate to most younger women. I was married in my 20’s for eight (hellish) years and 2 kids. Divorced at 30, and could never face matrimony again
At 76, happily divorced for over 20+ years, very financially secure, keep myself in excellent physical shape have no desire for a female of any sort except for a new female dog when my present one passes. I enjoy my male friends, a very few intelligent well spoken female friends, freedom to indulge in global travel on my time schedule, own a Porsche and penthouse on the ocean, etc. Why would I screw that up with a woman, her past, baggage, kids, etc? My relationships last 20-30 minutes or long-term one week depending on the price I am willing to pay. Sorry if this all sounds very shallow and self-serving but I sleep sound, awake with a smile while loving life.
I've been divorced for almost 13 years and I'm having the time of of my life. I'm at the point in my life that it's "a wrap" for me (dating wise) and I don't want to complicate my life any further with marriage or a relationship. I spend my money on myself as I see fit and I run my household without any bothers or worries of someone coming in and disrupting that. I'm too old for relationship complications. Basically, I'm good.
I'm 60. Never married. No kids. I have a girlfriend who lives about 20 km. from me. We're both happy with this arrangemetn. Might I add I live in Asia. Women here are far easier to deal with than North American women.
After 20 years of financial difficulties because of my wife uses credit cards, I can’t stand it. No respect no apologies from her is a divorce decision.
My heavenly-resplendent wife died in November 2010. She was like a gal from my mum and dad's generation - The Great Depression and WWII. Even whilst my wife was dying from an aggressive form of cancer, she still found time for me and even others about her. My wife had unwavering faith in Jesus the Christ - even up to her last heartbeat. She always backed up whatever I attempted in this life. I have yet to find a woman who thinks and believes like my deceased wife. "I'll Never Find Another You" (The Seekers) -- for My Barbra Rose (RIP) Barb, My Darling-of-Darlings, we will be together again (and Forever) -- soon enough.
I would like to point out something that seems to always be overlooked. Women age and also have health issues. You always hear that older men are looking for a nurse. Women experience health issues especially after menopause. Many men will become caregivers. I have personally seen these situations many times and can't recall how many men I have known who ended up caring for their wives. At present I know two couples and the husbands are caring for wives that now have dementia. One of the wives is only 62.
I have only met two women my age (65) that I felt attracted to. They were both married. There is no way I’m going to get involved with someone I’m not even attracted to.
Yes I hear this nurse with a purse stuff too but most of those purses are filled with maxed out credit cards and I've seen too many stories of men abandoned as soon as they were no longer able to be the plowhorse... Save and invest so you can purchase care in your final days (don't count on medicare).
So many of us think this a men vs women issue, but it is really an issue of the difficulty of relationships in general. Most uf us who have walked the coals of bad relationships, realize that PEACE is more valuable than all the gold in the world. I wish I would have found a partner who was rght for me, but the older I get, the more I believe it is just a fairy tale. There was a time I felt broken-hearted about this reality, but now I just feel FREE! May you all enjoy peace and freedom!
Watch a few videos of J Krishnamurti speaking about love and relationships or Anthony de Mello speaking about Love. Additionally, there’s a video of Mooji speaking about “Finding a Life Partner” it’s hilarious. He brings the message home quite succinctly in that video. Here’s to truly LOVING your own company and appreciating good (well suited) company when it comes and not feeling lonely (especially not desperately lonely) ever again if/when it leaves. One more thing that I would recommend: Listen to the song “On the Inside” by Michael Franks. It’s a beautiful song…on a great album. Cheers! 💫
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
You Can also be with somebody in Haven ! Let's be positive and resilient ! We Can heal from our past wounds and find true love. We don't have to live together. We Can share wonderful moments, projects, values....
I could go on for weeks! Im 63, been through the wringer many times! Married 3 times, one wife died of cancer, the others were just fucked! Im sick of the bullshit women bring to the relationship! I’m sure ill be single till i die at this point. I’m definitely happier and have zero stress!
40 here was married 14 years 22-36 not dated since I served her papers in 2020 best choice of my life there is nothing like peace and quite. Best part is I don't have to entertain a woman or compromise anything haven't dated or hooked up since 2020 no desire or plans too living my best life alone feels good.
As a young, growing , lad, I met and befriended some men who lived in huts they had built out of the bush that was near our home, and in which we played, and enjoyed many great times in.I still recall today how I often mentioned how clean their huts were, as I still say today, " You could eat off the floor," which was dirt. It was amazing how these men lived, and seemed quite happy. Now, at the age of 73, and living solo in a rented house,( as I lost my money through believing people),I often think back, and fully understand how, and why those friendly guys I grew up around, were living as they did.
"I'd rather spend the rest of my life wanting what I don't have, than having what I don't want. Because what's desirable in marriage is unattainable, and what is attainable is undesirable." - T.S. Mooney, Protestant Irish Minister who when he died had many testimonial letters found in his house from thousands who said their lives would have been a disaster if not for his ministry.
Really insightful! I never considered how factors like health issues and family dynamics could play such a big role in relationship choices for older men. Thanks for sharing!
No one wants to be disrespected by anyone so allowing another person into your world at your most vulnerable age is understandable. It takes time to find someone honest to share your elder years with who isn't trying to take advantage.
Because solitude means *PEACE* , *GOOD HEALTH* and *MONEY IN THE POCKET* . Nowadays being single is no longer a matter of _"choice"_ , but indeed, *QUALITY OF LIFE* No further comments
Never-married, but straight, I lived with Mom until she died at 101. We lived for each other. Now I'm alone for the first time in my life. I have no family within 500 miles, and nobody here cares if I live or die, nor would they even know. I almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal. I think I'm mourning and missing Mom, rather than being lonely. It will be one year on Oct. 1st.
almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal. You didn't dodge a bullet there, you just barely got out of the path of a speeding freight train.
@@elultimo102 Death of a stable datum in your life is traumatic but temporary, trust me you will get to the end. Think on this,you haven’t finished you mourning, but when you do you dead mom would want you to move on,DONT hitch your star on the first available person , you are using that person as an emotional crutch. This will end in failure for you. To attract someone who is equivalent to you , you need to be independent and strong.you must work on this. Don’t give in to temptation and take the first helping hand, go with your gut it’s never wrong it’s just that we don’t listen Good luck on your journey Keith
@@keithlowe9037 Thanks. I've always been a loner, but never really alone, until now. There is one girl that Mom hoped I might marry, who just got dumped after being strung along for years by a self-serving and duplicitous ex-fiance'. I'm sort of BFF friend zoned, but she recently said, "I could have married you." I once told her that she was one of two in my life whom I might have married, (the other having died) and that she should have gone with the "poor short guy that loves her." (She is a little shorter than I am, and five years older, but the ex was a foot taller) . Mom said that the girl and I made a cute couple, but was glommed onto by the other guy, before I made a move. There is hope---. Life does seem pointless, but I still go to the doctor, accomplish some house maintenance, and try to lose weight.
I'm alone in my 50s because of two reasons I'm a widower and modern women my age are emotionally damaged I may have some loss but I also have peace of mind
Women are too much work! They offer very little that would benefit me and at retirement age all I want is peace and quiet. If I want female companionship then she can maintain her own home and I will keep mine. We can see each other when we want. Why should I live with her if i don’t have to?
at 65 and married briefly 30 years ago. I still don't know what I did so wrong that made her leave. I've had opportunities to re-marry but avoided/evaded it. I still enjoy talking with women, more than men, but I'm not interested in romance. I wouldn't mind having someone to just talk to or do things with. I'd be happier with a kind word and a hug than a roll in the sheets.
‼️Book clubs. Many people enjoy them. Pickle ball is another thing that many people enjoy. ONLY do things that you feel INSPIRED to do. Not because you’re going to extract something from those activities. HOWEVER, I very strongly encourage you to enjoy your OWN company first, and when you do venture outdoors, don’t go LOOKING for anyone to give you attention or affection. Let things unfold organically…if you’re being your TRUE/natural self and they are being themselves (truly/naturally), then if something WHOLISTIC draws you to share some time together, it’ll be enjoyable for you both…for however long, with no desire to manipulate or play mind games with each other. Cheers! Cheers.
Our society turned so litigious. Signing a business contract which is what a marriage is can easily drain a persons life savings and create an enormous amount of unwanted drama.
This is spot on for me minus any health issues. It took a while to recover from divorce and other breakups to get where I am now and not just risky but not worth it. Being able to not wake up to new problems and threats that you don't create is peaceful beyond measure, enjoy the fall season of your life gents, Salute To You All!
Even just having my wife die from medical complications and dealing with my own health. I no longer have the wish to deal with their drama no matter how healthy I am. Peace and quiet, yeah.
I'm almost 40 single and loving it. I'll probably watch some adult videos tonight. Play some video games and fall asleep perfectly happy. No stress i do my job go home
73 with kids and family... I'm a performing musician and get attention, yet tired hearing about ungrateful kids or grand kids etc. Or being told what I should be doing!😎
I’m 71 and have been single since my divorce in 1997. I’ve stayed single because meeting available women is difficult. The women I met had been married and had children…too many children,only interested in how much money I made,had unreasonable expectations,had taken poor care of themselves,or had never been in a long term relationship and there were good reasons. I just didn’t want to go through what I had just gone through with my ex wife. I’ve been relatively happy as a single man. I live my life the way I want. I get my companionship with my dogs,they are loyal,always happy to see me and don’t judge me.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯‼️ Feminism, generational family dysfunction gone unchecked for CENTURIES and now the weird FUBAR, out-of -order alphabet with all of its fake “genders”, TicToc, Instagram and the fact that texting has practically replaced phone calls. Even people over 40 tend to text their own family members “HBD” instead of making a call. Communication has gotten so much worse in the last 20 years and is on its way to hell in a hand basket.
I am often told that I need a woman in my life. I get tired of hearing that same old thing time and time again. I am happy, my little house is filled with things that I love, my work shop houses a half restored, and much loved 1920s motorcycle. I have no debts, no worries and I do what I want, when I want. I don't feel lonely. I feel at peace with myself.
because - when we were younger, we enjoyed the peace, quiet, stability, sanity and finances - and I ain't met a girls since 36 that ever would change my mind. Happier abroad. Single AF. A xx might get an audition vet period - but I ain't ever getting married, ain't ever living with one again, never having kids with one, never putting up with any shiate from one.
Excellent video. As a single 65 year old female, I am quite comfortable spending the rest of my life going solo. I love my independence ,financial freedom, and many choices to have the life I want. Not willing to sacrifice my happiness for " romantic connections" with men who are stuck in old programming with their rigid , controlling, possessive, gender based oppressive mindsets. We come inti this world alone and we will leave alone. "My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude" ❤
@@wendydaniel1110 you sound like just the sort of woman that would be mana from heaven to a single mature man. Let me explain: You’re independent, self reliant, head strong, I presume you look after your self, that makes you a pretty damn good companion I wish you well
I’m now almost 70 and been a single MGTOW bachelor all my life. I walked away from this 5 decades ago. There is absolutely no upside in dating and marriage. I was able to retire early and now on my 15th year of retirement. I worked in international heavy industry as a union worker, shop steward and contract negotiator . And to think a woman try and boss me around etc GFL on that one. I’ve been to hell and back many times and fought many battles and loosing and retreating isn’t in my playbook. I can smell a shit show coming 25,000 light years away. I have peace n quiet. I do not have to contend with the committee decision making process or justify my decisions to anyone, only to myself. I’m just one phone call away to 911 in loosing everything. All these women are entitled dingbats , period. Also I have my hobbies and my own time schedule. I actually have it really quite well indeed. I’m truly blessed. And I don’t need any woman in my life totally fuck it up.
@@jimkelly4214 thanks. It’s just me voicing my opinions of 6 decades of real life trying to skate up hill out of the abyss of lies , life and bullshit😂😂😂😂👍
Not opposed to dating. However, had lunch with a woman on July 5, her profile age: 58, nice pics on the bio. Compared to her pics, she wasn’t 58. She looked older by about 5-7 years, I’m 59, without confronting her I ended the “date”. Can’t have liars in your life, have had enough of that.
I Don't have to watch this video to express my life as A Man. In why I choose to walk alone. Peacefulness. No extra over the top drama. Having my life being planned out. Making my own decisions. And most of ALL ! Being ridiculed and talked behind my back ! As if I'm not worthy enough to be in a relationship. I have serenity, unlike women.
I am 62, been divorced for 25 years and truly enjoy my peace of mind living alone. I purchased a Alto Saxophone 2 months ago and I am about to start my Saxophone lessons this month to learn how to play the music 🎶 I love.
@@MrLawrence7777 That’s so great. It’s going to be amazing when you really learn how to wail. Years ago I took flute lessons from a guy who would come to the house. He lived in an apartment so he couldn’t really wail. He was so happy to blow a bit of clarinet as loud as he wanted at my house. It sounded amazing. I imagine the saxophone will be even more incredible hearing it solo in a nice room. All the best to you on this endeavor. 🎷🪇🐸🪇🎷
one of the better more truthful bits of life i have watched regarding how men feel about relationships when we get older....the truth is folks...the juice is no longer worth the squeeze as we get older....women pay attention to the one....if you wanna get and keep a man around.
It’s not just older men., it’s young men aswell., I’m 33 and got screwed over., never again my peace is too important to me. Single life for me forever ❤
I'm a 7o year old woman and I find that having a football game playing on TV is a lot of company for me while I'm puttering around the house and reading, the noise of the football crowds in the background is very nice. Find things that you like doing, start a new hobby, puzzles,stay outside a lot if you can. Really think about doing something different. 😊😊😊
Men tend to be more philosophical. It's a good time to reflect on their lives instead of running around the country visiting somebody else's grandchildren.
A lot of truth in this video. Especially the part that many women cause unnecessary drama and stress sounds very familiar to me. Was married twice and divorced and am now 57. This video is about American men and women but you can copy it 1 on 1 on Europe.
I had some relationships up to my early 40s, then I checked out, as none of them made my life better or made me feel happier. My success in life and in the job has skyrocketed since and I found my way to enjoy life. No woman needed, thank you.
Only 54, so not an older man at all. Yet single for 6 years now. And yes, there have been women showing interest. I simply cannot be bothered. Life is easy and peaceful on my own. And I can fill the dishwasher the way I see fit.
I’m 68 and I’ve had a gutz full of forever trying to please my partner She left 2 yrs ago I hurt for 8 months got over the loss and moved on. I HAV NEVER BEEN MORE HAPPY NOW THAT IM FREE . My stress Level is non existent , I can’t be bothered looking let alone dating. I ride my motor bike when ever I want eat what I want, visit friends and go on holidays. Life is good , I’m not rich by any means, you live within it , so what I’m free and no one can judge me and I’m looking forward to the next years.
Hands down . I’m tired of being criticized and screamed at enough. When her parents died her sister took over her life to break us up. Borderline personality disorder. I’m exhausted of being gaslighted for doing the best thing . ❤
i wrote this when i was around 22 and had never been in a relationship or married Poem: a woman is a strange creature: her mind is like the weather...it changes. her love is like the wind......it shifts. those words can even be applied to men, but i feel those words apply more so to women.
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LoL, I'm 53 and have been on that route since I was 48. Own mine, have mine and single as can be. Like my peace, enjoy my peace. I don't even speak to females these days. Don't hold doors, etc.. simply want nothing to do with the bs. Life is good.
@@Nottloka Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Because once you have experienced true peace and serenity there is no going back to drama.
I’m afraid you’re probably correct.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Being alone for a while is dangerous, it's addicting. When you see how peaceful it is, you never want to deal with people ever again .Quote from actor Tom Hardy
Spot on 👍
@@brianmcnamara3532 peace and serenity is the basic need for us all.
I'm 49 and I'm tired of women BS rather be alone and keep my money
Thank you very much
Yup
I’m 49 myself. No wife, no kids. 🕺😎
I buy my own things. Happier, too. Good luck.
Nailed it!🎯
Men aren't intimidated by bossy women... They're irritated and annoyed by them.
Took the words right out of my mouth!
Yes, my friend. I wanted to comment that here, but you beat me too it.
repulsed is the word
Exactly what I was going to say.
@@Carguytct Same here.
Too old for drama..just want peace.
That's great, thank you.
and we want to keep our house and our money
like old Bull elephants ,just want peace and quiet
Amen to that 💪👊🏻
Imagine being in a situation where someone who has an attitude of always being right and never ending demands for entertainment has legal power over you....due to the family court. THe numbers don't lie, men are passing on this "opportunity."
I am 61 and single and hear women saying they do not need a man .I am fine giving them what they want.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA LOVE IT!!!
There was a quote or a book published when some iteration of feminism was in play in the dying decades of last century which said.
" A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle " Kind of encapsulates an attitude, still current, that isn't particularly alluring.
Better to come home to an empty house than one with someone in it you wish wasn’t there
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Or a good dog!
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@@Joe-ti7qd Remember man was alone on earth with animals. God the creator and all wise, made Adam a mate, a companion. She is woman.
robo, the happiest I ever was as a teenager was when my dad took my family to Texas . No raging alcoholics, no little brats running around ! !
We get smarter as we get older.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
If I could turn back over 25 years ago, I would've been smarter then.
Sadly, only SOME of us do!
love is only for the young and naive.
I am 71 single and loving it , never been happier , work on yourself enjoy the things you like to do. So good to be stress free.
@fredking7419 .I whole heartedly agree only difference is im 81 still happy no one bitching at me , nothing but peace& quiet ,use your marrage licence for toilet paper .thats about all its good for.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Yes. Become who you know you are supposed to be and enjoy life, and not molded into a "trophy" husband she wants you to be to show off.
I am 65, single, no kids. Love the peace and freedom. I live in Tucson and the other day
I drove to Phoenix for lunch because it seemed like a good idea, ended up in Flagstaff
for dinner and a beer, stayed the night and watched the sunrise while driving home
the next morning.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I salute you!
Right on!
keep living the dream. my roof is leaking. a deer crashed into my car today. always fixing small engines. maintaining 5 acres. 67 years old. I'm just tired.
Sounds like a good life! Congrats 👏👏
Once you understand women's nature, there is no going back, and you will never look at women the same way again. At 64, women can't lure me at all. I don't need anything from them. I have my freedom and my peace, and I will never give that up. I am very indifferent to many women.
If I had my time again - no way would I marry 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
I'm a senior woman who lost my beloved husband of 40 years 10 years ago. 2 years after he died, I tried "dating" and met so many grumpy old men whom I would not be caught dead with! And they thought they were so great-yet they all had health issues and wanted a nurse with a purse! NO WAY! UGH!
Keep your purse. Lol... Not interested, and don't need a nurse.
@@fuzzball4918 GOOD! You are sparing women from a lot of nonsense you old grump!
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 I know many men that ended up being caregivers to their old sickly wives. For some strange reason women always assume men become old and sick but not them. Women have health issues once they reach menopause. It works both ways.
61yr old male here also choosing to stay single. Reasons are simple. I've already had kids and they are grown. I've devoted myself to two long-term relationships including a 10yr marriage & a 23yr cohabitation. Now that both of those relationships are over there is no reason to put myself through that fem-drama ever again. Now in my later years I'm single & free to have a dog, a motorcycle, a place of my own and a bit of land I can call my own. I love my autonomy and my peace.
Well Earned I'm Sure Johnny Way To Go. Keep It Simple.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
You go, Bro!
@@johnnie2638 Amen brother from another mother
When i became widowed at age 58 i tried to date again. The women i met were only interested in my income. They were mainly still hurting from their past divorce, which they almost universally filed. Their expectations for men were very high and almost always centered round a very high income. Yet they offered very little in return.
I miss women, but my peace is more important.
Don't need a man!! But, a high-earning one can come around and pay her bills until she grows tired of him!! LOL. Yeah, sign me up for THAT! haha.
It’s all about peace and quiet. Society paints a happy picture of being blissfully married with a mortgage and two kids. Not true!
Thank you for sharing your words
@alanbarns3569 well said, your so right
Been married 3 times now I'm 70. It's just not worth the trouble.
I never got married. Was on a low income my whole life. I feel lucky though. Could have landed in a toxic Marriage.
What a meaningful sharing. Thank you so much.
looking for a male friend to travel
Slow Learner!! LOL
@@bwnco what are you talking about?
Past experience has shown me that I am nothing more than a financial conduit for women. I gave up on female companionship in my early 50s. I simply won't allow myself to be used by women anymore. Now 27 tears later and still single, there is nothing a woman can bring to the table that is worth the potential of losing everything again. The law is in their favor since they're an entitled group in this society that can do as they please without consequence. While men are always held to a higher standard and required to give it all. Society has destroyed heterosexual compatability. I don't miss the gaslighting women so graciously offer.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
But you spent DECADES letting women spend your money --- I'm tempted to add YOU FOOL!
You Can meet a good and attractive Woman, have a beautiful relationship together, a companionship while living apart, and without marriage. You don't need to give up on love. If they have been married once most women don't Care getting married twice, no need for a second marriage. So, your financial stability is not at risk....
@@carynefuture5778
No. "relationships" are trial marriages and still all about women being able to spend a man's money.
I did without marriage and children, and "relationships" too.
That's what's known as being strong and independent.
I was married for 35 wonderful years. It was not till my beloved partner passed that I realized how lucky I was. Dating since then has been a nightmare they are either broke, angry, crazy ing or drunks. i am so done with dating and relationships. I never thought I would say this but I now find it more rewarding to fulfill any sexual needs I may have by pay to play with a professional. No BS
It's the same here in Australia...I'm 65 and can't be bothered any longer dating..it's just too hard ...most women here carry life baggage and can't let go of that...happy having peace and quite..just love it...
Cảm ơn bạn đã chia sẻ suy nghĩ của mình. Sự bình yên và tĩnh lặng thật sự rất quý giá, và đôi khi việc tìm kiếm hạnh phúc trong sự độc lập cũng rất quan trọng.
@@roncrane4597 wise words
Took you rather too long to figure that out don't you think?
Why are older men increasingly opting to remain single? Because many older women are no more mature and sane than their younger counterparts! Who voluntarily lives out their days like that?
You don't like blue and green hair and bat shit crazy?
On point brother
@rcas350pilot8:
SURE, I like that! I also like keeping a Nile crocodile as a house pet! 🤣🤣🤣
100%
Im 42 only 4 girlfriends and now single 6 years life hasn't been better. I love my peace and quiet life.
Thank you for sharing your words
Gets much easier in 3 or 4 years when you pass age 45.
@@jasonvandervalk3679 I am 62 and had only 2 Girlfriends. I grew up with Mental health Problems. My Mental Health is fine now for years but I have a serious Lung Problem for a few years. Had a low income all my life. Money is so important to having a decent life.
Glad I did not get Married though. Men and Women are not getting along for years now. I find that sad.
But Peace and Quiet is undervalued I think but not with the Men on this Web Page thankfully! Best of luck.
@@jasonvandervalk3679 At 62 having only 2 Girlfriends. I have a serious Lung Problem. Men and Women not getting along for years which is sad I think. On a low income for my whole life. Glad I did not end up in a toxic Marriage though.
You are too young to remain single! You Can meet someone special who is compatible with you, you share the same values, life projects, compelling leisure etc, and strong physical attraction. Don't be scared to live. Again, you're only 42! Don't give up your desire for true love, true, deep, meaningful relationsip with an attractive Woman. Go find her in Thailand or South America like the passport Bros if you need to. But don't give up on Real, full happiness. You Can have deep happiness. You deserve deep happiness. I am a Woman. Take care.
I'm 71 and my wife passed after 44 years of marriage and don't feel the need to replace her. I don't think I have the time left to try to navigate another new relationship that would be as rewarding as ours was.
Thanks
I also lost my wife although I'm younger I share your sentiments
At our age we just can‘t do a full circle what a happy and fulfilling marriage means. Same here …
It is very nice when you do find that right someone and spend the rest of your lives together with respect. until the end. Don't we all wish it.
Lost my wife 4 months ago and do not think I will ever find someone as wonderful as her. It's hard to win the lottery twice.
I gave up on women in 2002 when I was 40. Best decision I ever made.
1974 when I was 30!
you gave up on women too Early,! Don't be afraid to live. Dare to live. You Can Still meet a loving true beautiful Woman. It's your choice.
@@carynefuture5778 but the juice isn't worth the squeeze. They've saved themselves a lot of wasted time, not to say wasting their finances. They gave up because all the women they saw were low quality with high expectations and high maintenance.
Don't you see that they're saying it was the best decision they ever made!
2003 for me:)
A man's ultimate achievement in his life is to be in control of it.
I agree with you. Thanks
Well said. If there is one governing philosophy I have adhered to, it is the desire for personal freedom. It means more to me than anything.
Boy you sure put a lot of complexities into this being single in old age deal. At 77 and widowed for 18 years now, I think at least for me, it is simple. I don't want someone (a woman) getting involved in my financial affairs, money, etc., and attempting to steal or negatively affect same in some way via the many legal ways that are available to women these days. That's it in a nutshell. I say no way Jose! 😀 PS: If you think some woman (new wife, girlfriend) is going to step up and take care of you like some nurse, dream on you fool!
Thank you for sharing your words
@fnuyen .you realy did a great job of spelling it out for us,thank you for your help, so true
@@Chuncy566 Thanks. That is how I see it.
I'm 75 and widowed, everyone says I will find someone and be with them, married or date. Since my wife of 53 years moved to Heaven I don't have a single wish to be with another woman. I've adjusted to my peace.
@@rabick62 Yes, that is basically how I feel as well.
No one wants to be bossed around in their own house!! It's not hard to understand.
Thank you very much
A few times around the track equips you to spot the red flags. The unconscious body language and attitudes only take two or three months to surface.
So my friends and l meet regularly. There are five of us, all in our 60s, who are happily single. We don't dislike women, its just that a relationship is out of the question. We can all see the traps and snares that women wield, and won't take the chance again. We're happy, wealthy and productive.
I so enjoy my alone time with my dogs and kids. No need for any older woman in my age range. Too much drama, anger, entitlement and looking for someone to pay their way.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
67 and been single since I divorced my ex(you know why) 20 years ago.
What can I say? I have peace, quiet and I am financially very well off.
Aside from 3 holes, fee males have zero to offer.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
I am not intimidated by pushy, obnoxious women. They can go have it all without me because I replaced them
all with motorcycles. Have had peace and quiet with no artificial drama ever since.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Expensive mistress motorcycles
Motorcycles, muscle cars, airplanes, boats, gun collection, cottage on a lake…….
@@mudhutproductions Motorbikes like dogs give you unconditional love ,the more you put in the more you get out
@@keithlowe9037 Hell yeah!
At 80 years old and having been married to the same wonderful woman for a bit over 55 years, where could I find another one as compatible as she was all of those years? She stayed at home and raised our children then took care of both of our parents for a total of another 17 years. She loved to sew and I accommodated her on that on the little that I made. We made a home together and enjoyed each other’s company.
You got lucky, way easier to spot a needle in a haystack than finding her type
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Going on 62 and have been single for a few years, no way am I giving up the peace and freedom that I have now for some drama queen.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I am 64 years old. I am not interested in sexual intimacy with women who are 50 or over. I guess I'm pretty much screwed. Being a recluse isn't so bad. Very peaceful.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I'm like you. I travel to Thailand every year. It's a game changer. I also pay to play with 25 year old pretty women.
That doesn't sound like a problem. If you ever feel the urge, it's easy to get and women in their 30s-40s give it away if they smell money.
One should confound marriage, friendship and relation with intimacy and body action. Better separate it for your piece of mind.
Sixty eight years old, never married & childfree .
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Sixty-four & dito.
Sounds lonely
@@donpeace894 Naah. You get used to it. Also solitude is a beautifull thing, though I get it.
Its not for everyone.
It's Never too late. You Can still find a true love, a wonderful Woman. Don't be scared to live. Dare to live. You Can even have a child, your first child if you Want to, like rock stars ! Enjoy!🥳 ❤
It's not only American men!
True, all of Western Europe, and the 1st word. ANd not just us older men, but surprising men in their 20's and 30's are obviously checking out. These young men while having many faults of their own such as lack of fathers and corn addition, have to deal with a generation of women that takes the Disney Princess entitlement to 11. "They only deserve the best" and if they are not happy, it is always the man's fault. THrow in social media which no man can keep up with, and the situation becomes a break up waiting to happen. No-fault divorce insures that. As the family goes, so does society and the nation. Demographic collapse is upon us (albeit in slow motion). Change will happen regardless if we reform family laws or not as you can't put the feminist gennie back in the bottle. But be sure, economic collapse will erase feminsim and the nanny state. It is coming.
This video frames my story almost perfectly. At 63, retired own my house, gym regularly, I can’t deal with women in my age range and I can’t relate to most younger women. I was married in my 20’s for eight (hellish) years and 2 kids. Divorced at 30, and could never face matrimony again
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
@@jimp3878 I wish I’d learned as early as you, I’d be wealthy or dead from having too much fun
@@keithlowe9037 thanks for your comment. We all do the best we can with what we have at the time.
At 76, happily divorced for over 20+ years, very financially secure, keep myself in excellent physical shape have no desire for a female of any sort except for a new female dog when my present one passes. I enjoy my male friends, a very few intelligent well spoken female friends, freedom to indulge in global travel on my time schedule, own a Porsche and penthouse on the ocean, etc. Why would I screw that up with a woman, her past, baggage, kids, etc? My relationships last 20-30 minutes or long-term one week depending on the price I am willing to pay. Sorry if this all sounds very shallow and self-serving but I sleep sound, awake with a smile while loving life.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
You are smart and not selfish, please make sure you partake in loads of charitable events and you are good 👍
So you are very shallow and self serving but you’re sorry about it. LOL
The women I meet, are there for a good time… Not a long time!
You GO guy-love your post
I've been divorced for almost 13 years and I'm having the time of of my life. I'm at the point in my life that it's "a wrap" for me (dating wise) and I don't want to complicate my life any further with marriage or a relationship. I spend my money on myself as I see fit and I run my household without any bothers or worries of someone coming in and disrupting that. I'm too old for relationship complications. Basically, I'm good.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
I'm 60. Never married. No kids. I have a girlfriend who lives about 20 km. from me. We're both happy with this arrangemetn.
Might I add I live in Asia. Women here are far easier to deal with than North American women.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
I won't be some woman's retirement plan. You're on your own sister.
After 20 years of financial difficulties because of my wife uses credit cards, I can’t stand it. No respect no apologies from her is a divorce decision.
@@LenSheppard-sc2vw don’t forget the gaslighting
Staying single is a real option,I am there
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Its so nice to come home to the sound of.... Nothing.😋 People say " aren't you lonely?" And I say "nope". 😃😃 Just happy.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
My heavenly-resplendent wife died in November 2010. She was like a gal from my mum and dad's generation - The Great Depression and WWII. Even whilst my wife was dying from an aggressive form of cancer, she still found time for me and even others about her. My wife had unwavering faith in Jesus the Christ - even up to her last heartbeat. She always backed up whatever I attempted in this life. I have yet to find a woman who thinks and believes like my deceased wife. "I'll Never Find Another You" (The Seekers) -- for My Barbra Rose (RIP) Barb, My Darling-of-Darlings, we will be together again (and Forever) -- soon enough.
That song by the Seekers says it all. I will never find another you.
@@jeffmeyers2106 For our special gals whom God had sent to us. ❤🎼🎵🎶
Imagine getting divorce grapped In your 60’s ? 😵💫 no thanks
Thank you for sharing your words
Happened to a guy I currently work with., 62 years old married 30 years she’s getting everything even his pension. Sad 😢 asf
Well because as women's stock value goes down they seem to think it's going up
I totally agree
@@cahlendavidson2921 only if you value wrinkles and liver spots LOL
I'm 60 and alone.
My crime for being a Nice Guy.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I hear what you’re saying.
I would say you are blessed.
@@Teardehawkee you’re not alone you are single and enjoying life.Keep that mantra in your head
I would like to point out something that seems to always be overlooked. Women age and also have health issues. You always hear that older men are looking for a nurse. Women experience health issues especially after menopause. Many men will become caregivers. I have personally seen these situations many times and can't recall how many men I have known who ended up caring for their wives. At present I know two couples and the husbands are caring for wives that now have dementia. One of the wives is only 62.
Thanks for sharing, it's great
My wife passed away 3 years ago at 62 y/o, I’m done with caregiving, period. I never wish to take that role again since I did it for years.
I have only met two women my age (65) that I felt attracted to. They were both married. There is no way I’m going to get involved with someone I’m not even attracted to.
Yes I hear this nurse with a purse stuff too but most of those purses are filled with maxed out credit cards and I've seen too many stories of men abandoned as soon as they were no longer able to be the plowhorse... Save and invest so you can purchase care in your final days (don't count on medicare).
So many of us think this a men vs women issue, but it is really an issue of the difficulty of relationships in general. Most uf us who have walked the coals of bad relationships, realize that PEACE is more valuable than all the gold in the world. I wish I would have found a partner who was rght for me, but the older I get, the more I believe it is just a fairy tale. There was a time I felt broken-hearted about this reality, but now I just feel FREE! May you all enjoy peace and freedom!
We are not intimidated… just sick and tired of their bullshit.
62 with 3 grown kids, happier than ever alone with peace.
Alone but never lonely.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Alone is not bad, but being lonely is a totally different animal for me personally.
You are 100% correct!!!!
Watch a few videos of J Krishnamurti speaking about love and relationships or Anthony de Mello speaking about Love. Additionally, there’s a video of Mooji speaking about “Finding a Life Partner” it’s hilarious. He brings the message home quite succinctly in that video.
Here’s to truly LOVING your own company and appreciating good (well suited) company when it comes and not feeling lonely (especially not desperately lonely) ever again if/when it leaves.
One more thing that I would recommend: Listen to the song “On the Inside” by Michael Franks. It’s a beautiful song…on a great album.
Cheers! 💫
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
dr apala omofulma is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for his ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
In our younger years, we get together because of sex and ignorance. In our later years sex no longer has the drive and we get smarter
Thanks
When were young we think with the wrong head.
Better alone in peace than with somebody in hell. 👍👍😜😜👍👍
Thanks for your wonderful sharing
You Can also be with somebody in Haven ! Let's be positive and resilient ! We Can heal from our past wounds and find true love. We don't have to live together. We Can share wonderful moments, projects, values....
Im 58 and single for 11 years. I have peace and quiet. I know where my money is and how its spent. I know how to cook and keep a house.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Amen, I'm 60 and done with drama
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I could go on for weeks! Im 63, been through the wringer many times! Married 3 times, one wife died of cancer, the others were just fucked! Im sick of the bullshit women bring to the relationship! I’m sure ill be single till i die at this point. I’m definitely happier and have zero stress!
My pleasure!
40 here was married 14 years 22-36 not dated since I served her papers in 2020 best choice of my life there is nothing like peace and quite. Best part is I don't have to entertain a woman or compromise anything haven't dated or hooked up since 2020 no desire or plans too living my best life alone feels good.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
As a young, growing , lad, I met and befriended some men who lived in huts they had built out of the bush that was near our home, and in which we played, and enjoyed many great times in.I still recall today how I often mentioned how clean their huts were, as I still say today, " You could eat off the floor," which was dirt. It was amazing how these men lived, and seemed quite happy. Now, at the age of 73, and living solo in a rented house,( as I lost my money through believing people),I often think back, and fully understand how, and why those friendly guys I grew up around, were living as they did.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
Hang in there. You sound cool.
"I'd rather be alone than wish I was."
Big Mike Griffin
"To Meet the Blues"
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
"I'd rather spend the rest of my life wanting what I don't have, than having what I don't want. Because what's desirable in marriage is unattainable, and what is attainable is undesirable." - T.S. Mooney, Protestant Irish Minister who when he died had many testimonial letters found in his house from thousands who said their lives would have been a disaster if not for his ministry.
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Really insightful! I never considered how factors like health issues and family dynamics could play such a big role in relationship choices for older men. Thanks for sharing!
No one wants to be disrespected by anyone so allowing another person into your world at your most vulnerable age is understandable. It takes time to find someone honest to share your elder years with who isn't trying to take advantage.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Because solitude means *PEACE* , *GOOD HEALTH* and *MONEY IN THE POCKET* . Nowadays being single is no longer a matter of _"choice"_ , but indeed, *QUALITY OF LIFE*
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@@WiseAdvice93
My pleasure
Never-married, but straight, I lived with Mom until she died at 101. We lived for each other. Now I'm alone for the first time in my life. I have no family within 500 miles, and nobody here cares if I live or die, nor would they even know. I almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal. I think I'm mourning and missing Mom, rather than being lonely. It will be one year on Oct. 1st.
Thank you for your kind wishes
almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal.
You didn't dodge a bullet there, you just barely got out of the path of a speeding freight train.
@@elultimo102 Death of a stable datum in your life is traumatic but temporary, trust me you will get to the end. Think on this,you haven’t finished you mourning, but when you do you dead mom would want you to move on,DONT hitch your star on the first available person , you are using that person as an emotional crutch. This will end in failure for you. To attract someone who is equivalent to you , you need to be independent and strong.you must work on this.
Don’t give in to temptation and take the first helping hand, go with your gut it’s never wrong it’s just that we don’t listen
Good luck on your journey
Keith
@@keithlowe9037 Thanks. I've always been a loner, but never really alone, until now. There is one girl that Mom hoped I might marry, who just got dumped after being strung along for years by a self-serving and duplicitous ex-fiance'. I'm sort of BFF friend zoned, but she recently said, "I could have married you." I once told her that she was one of two in my life whom I might have married, (the other having died) and that she should have gone with the "poor short guy that loves her." (She is a little shorter than I am, and five years older, but the ex was a foot taller) . Mom said that the girl and I made a cute couple, but was glommed onto by the other guy, before I made a move. There is hope---. Life does seem pointless, but I still go to the doctor, accomplish some house maintenance, and try to lose weight.
I'm alone in my 50s because of two reasons I'm a widower and modern women my age are emotionally damaged I may have some loss but I also have peace of mind
Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much
Women are too much work! They offer very little that would benefit me and at retirement age all I want is peace and quiet. If I want female companionship then she can maintain her own home and I will keep mine. We can see each other when we want. Why should I live with her if i don’t have to?
Thank you very much
@gbu61 you got the right idea about the 2 different houses,that works great.
at 65 and married briefly 30 years ago. I still don't know what I did so wrong that made her leave. I've had opportunities to re-marry but avoided/evaded it. I still enjoy talking with women, more than men, but I'm not interested in romance. I wouldn't mind having someone to just talk to or do things with. I'd be happier with a kind word and a hug than a roll in the sheets.
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‼️Book clubs. Many people enjoy them. Pickle ball is another thing that many people enjoy. ONLY do things that you feel INSPIRED to do. Not because you’re going to extract something from those activities.
HOWEVER, I very strongly encourage you to enjoy your OWN company first, and when you do venture outdoors, don’t go LOOKING for anyone to give you attention or affection. Let things unfold organically…if you’re being your TRUE/natural self and they are being themselves (truly/naturally), then if something WHOLISTIC draws you to share some time together, it’ll be enjoyable for you both…for however long, with no desire to manipulate or play mind games with each other.
Cheers!
Cheers.
Our society turned so litigious. Signing a business contract which is what a marriage is can easily drain a persons life savings and create an enormous amount of unwanted drama.
Thanks for your sharing, it's great. Wish you a happy and joyful new day.
So true
This is spot on for me minus any health issues. It took a while to recover from divorce and other breakups to get where I am now and not just risky but not worth it. Being able to not wake up to new problems and threats that you don't create is peaceful beyond measure, enjoy the fall season of your life gents, Salute To You All!
Even just having my wife die from medical complications and dealing with my own health. I no longer have the wish to deal with their drama no matter how healthy I am. Peace and quiet, yeah.
My pleasure!
I'm almost 40 single and loving it. I'll probably watch some adult videos tonight. Play some video games and fall asleep perfectly happy. No stress i do my job go home
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73 with kids and family... I'm a performing musician and get attention, yet tired hearing about ungrateful kids or grand kids etc. Or being told what I should be doing!😎
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@@neebinmakwah349 Ageing groupies who would have thought
Good luck brother
I'm 63 and single ,Life is very good! I never thought I could be this happy.
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I’m 71 and have been single since my divorce in 1997. I’ve stayed single because meeting available women is difficult. The women I met had been married and had children…too many children,only interested in how much money I made,had unreasonable expectations,had taken poor care of themselves,or had never been in a long term relationship and there were good reasons. I just didn’t want to go through what I had just gone through with my ex wife. I’ve been relatively happy as a single man. I live my life the way I want. I get my companionship with my dogs,they are loyal,always happy to see me and don’t judge me.
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This is healthy. People should value their peace above all else.
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Not just Americans. Anyway, feminism and hedonism did this.
Thanks for your wonderful sharing.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯‼️
Feminism, generational family dysfunction gone unchecked for CENTURIES and now the weird FUBAR, out-of
-order alphabet with all of its fake “genders”, TicToc, Instagram and the fact that texting has practically replaced phone calls. Even people over 40 tend to text their own family members “HBD” instead of making a call. Communication has gotten so much worse in the last 20 years and is on its way to hell in a hand basket.
I am often told that I need a woman in my life. I get tired of hearing that same old thing time and time again. I am happy, my little house is filled with things that I love, my work shop houses a half restored, and much loved 1920s motorcycle. I have no debts, no worries and I do what I want, when I want. I don't feel lonely. I feel at peace with myself.
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because - when we were younger, we enjoyed the peace, quiet, stability, sanity and finances - and I ain't met a girls since 36 that ever would change my mind. Happier abroad. Single AF. A xx might get an audition vet period - but I ain't ever getting married, ain't ever living with one again, never having kids with one, never putting up with any shiate from one.
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Excellent video. As a single 65 year old female, I am quite comfortable spending the rest of my life going solo. I love my independence ,financial freedom, and many choices to have the life I want. Not willing to sacrifice my happiness for " romantic connections" with men who are stuck in old programming with their rigid , controlling, possessive, gender based oppressive mindsets. We come inti this world alone and we will leave alone.
"My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude" ❤
good for you, Men also are enjoying their stress-free lives without entitled, unsatisfied, moody women.
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@@wendydaniel1110 you sound like just the sort of woman that would be mana from heaven to a single mature man.
Let me explain: You’re independent, self reliant, head strong, I presume you look after your self, that makes you a pretty damn good companion I wish you well
I’m now almost 70 and been a single MGTOW bachelor all my life. I walked away from this 5 decades ago. There is absolutely no upside in dating and marriage. I was able to retire early and now on my 15th year of retirement. I worked in international heavy industry as a union worker, shop steward and contract negotiator . And to think a woman try and boss me around etc GFL on that one. I’ve been to hell and back many times and fought many battles and loosing and retreating isn’t in my playbook. I can smell a shit show coming 25,000 light years away. I have peace n quiet. I do not have to contend with the committee decision making process or justify my decisions to anyone, only to myself. I’m just one phone call away to 911 in loosing everything. All these women are entitled dingbats , period. Also I have my hobbies and my own time schedule. I actually have it really quite well indeed. I’m truly blessed. And I don’t need any woman in my life totally fuck it up.
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@@jimkelly4214 thanks. It’s just me voicing my opinions of 6 decades of real life trying to skate up hill out of the abyss of lies , life and bullshit😂😂😂😂👍
Not opposed to dating. However, had lunch with a woman on July 5, her profile age: 58, nice pics on the bio.
Compared to her pics, she wasn’t 58. She looked older by about 5-7 years, I’m 59, without confronting her I ended the “date”. Can’t have liars in your life, have had enough of that.
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We older men don’t want the DRAMA!
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Me divorced 35 years best time ever retired 58 age live happy peaceful life
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I Don't have to watch this video to express my life as A Man. In why I choose to walk alone.
Peacefulness.
No extra over the top drama.
Having my life being planned out.
Making my own decisions.
And most of ALL !
Being ridiculed and talked behind my back ! As if I'm not worthy enough to be in a relationship.
I have serenity, unlike women.
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They have nothing of value to offer
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I am 62, been divorced for 25 years and truly enjoy my peace of mind living alone. I purchased a Alto Saxophone 2 months ago and I am about to start my Saxophone lessons this month to learn how to play the music 🎶 I love.
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That sounds like an amazing, good time. Best of luck! 🎷🎷🎷
@soarornor , Thanks Fam, it was a Real Great Time, Plus I learned a Lot Today on My First Day in Class.
@@MrLawrence7777 That’s so great. It’s going to be amazing when you really learn how to wail. Years ago I took flute lessons from a guy who would come to the house. He lived in an apartment so he couldn’t really wail. He was so happy to blow a bit of clarinet as loud as he wanted at my house. It sounded amazing. I imagine the saxophone will be even more incredible hearing it solo in a nice room. All the best to you on this endeavor. 🎷🪇🐸🪇🎷
one of the better more truthful bits of life i have watched regarding how men feel about relationships when we get older....the truth is folks...the juice is no longer worth the squeeze as we get older....women pay attention to the one....if you wanna get and keep a man around.
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Im a older man been through it all ! Video is excellent! That's why I'm going for an AI woman when they are on the market and if i live that long !😊
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It’s not just older men., it’s young men aswell., I’m 33 and got screwed over., never again my peace is too important to me. Single life for me forever ❤
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At 64 and recently divorced wish that prostitution was legai. Divorce was very expensive
I'm a 7o year old woman and I find that having a football game playing on TV is a lot of company for me while I'm puttering around the house and reading, the noise of the football crowds in the background is very nice. Find things that you like doing, start a new hobby, puzzles,stay outside a lot if you can. Really think about doing something different. 😊😊😊
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Men tend to be more philosophical. It's a good time to reflect on their lives instead of running around the country visiting somebody else's grandchildren.
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A lot of truth in this video. Especially the part that many women cause unnecessary drama and stress sounds very familiar to me. Was married twice and divorced and am now 57. This video is about American men and women but you can copy it 1 on 1 on Europe.
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Because we've been divorced and impoverished. Same in the UK.
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I had some relationships up to my early 40s, then I checked out, as none of them made my life better or made me feel happier. My success in life and in the job has skyrocketed since and I found my way to enjoy life. No woman needed, thank you.
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Only 54, so not an older man at all. Yet single for 6 years now. And yes, there have been women showing interest. I simply cannot be bothered. Life is easy and peaceful on my own. And I can fill the dishwasher the way I see fit.
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You are older lol
I’m 68 and I’ve had a gutz full of forever trying to please my partner She left 2 yrs ago I hurt for 8 months got over the loss and moved on. I HAV NEVER BEEN MORE HAPPY NOW THAT IM FREE . My stress Level is non existent , I can’t be bothered looking let alone dating. I ride my motor bike when ever I want eat what I want, visit friends and go on holidays. Life is good , I’m not rich by any means, you live within it , so what I’m free and no one can judge me and I’m looking forward to the next years.
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Getting married late in life you become responsible if that person is in need of long term medical care. That can break you.
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I’ve got a cat, who doesn’t ask for much? No mind games….No drama….No Bull- shit? Peace…Is Priceless…and Non Negotiable?
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Cats provide entertainment and laughter too.
Let me add to your list. 10. A single mother is a single mother at any age. 11. The thought of an older woman in my bed .....well I'll let that go.
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Same
The thought of an older woman in my bed .....well I'll let that go Don't blame you
@@Dave-zt7su A joke: first there was cougars now there are leopards, these are cougars but older and with liver spots
Good video!! Agree with most of it. Took me 7 years of hard work to recover from the divorce. Doing better now. 😊
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Wow!!!
This video was made with me in mind!!! It’s amazing how true it is!!
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Hands down . I’m tired of being criticized and screamed at enough. When her parents died her sister took over her life to break us up. Borderline personality disorder. I’m exhausted of being gaslighted for doing the best thing . ❤
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When I hit 50 I made it and didn’t need a woman.
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i wrote this when i was around 22 and had never been in a relationship or married Poem: a woman is a strange creature: her mind is like the weather...it changes. her love is like the wind......it shifts. those words can even be applied to men, but i feel those words apply more so to women.
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