I’m 80, and I agree-nobody is coming to save us, and we have to take charge of our own happiness. It’s easy to regret wasted time, but instead of looking back with sadness, focus on making the best of today. We’ve all got some mileage left, so let’s use it well. Appreciate the life you have while you still can.
I’m closing in on 74. My dear wife passed in 2019. I made 2 promises. I would look after her mother (now 94), and take care of our grandkids. My oldest son sold his house and moved in with his family (we have a big house). I became like Uncle Charlie. I do the cooking and shopping, get the kids on the school bus, etc. I go down my MIL’s house (she lives alone) 3x a week to help her out. I’m busy and fulfilled at the end of every day. I’m blessed to be able to contribute.
You must be full of energy and purpose. Sounds like your living your best life. My condolences to your loss of your wife. Brave soul you are.Be your best.
I realize this at 29 when I got cancer , thankfully I survived, I’m soon to be 63 , this gentleman is 100% spot on . Don’t waste your time tomorrow isn’t promised.
I absolutely agree! Tomorrow isn’t promised so live today the best way you can!! I love being retired and I don’t cry over spilled milk! I thank God and enjoy getting up every day to a new beginning.
Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing.. I will write her an e-mail shortly.
.......i am 54, and I've never given a fuck what people think, what people think of me is none of my business, so I don't care about something that is none of my business.
At 59 after a battle with alcohol for 45 years, I got sober and in the best shape of my life. By some grace, I did not do major harm to my body. My mind is not as clear as it should be but it's getting better daily. I'm 63 now and feel really good about my error correction. Looking back I'm done beating myself up. Physically and emotionally it's over. I'm gonna keep on fighting and getting in better and better shape and I'm going out swinging. Bottom line. I'm grateful for once.
Same here. 56 now but was drunk most evenings and days off for 45 years. Glad to have stopped and don’t seem harmed by it. Missed a lot of time though.
“Your eyesight will begin to degrade with age, but your ability to see through people’s bullshit will become a Super Power.” Lots of great one-liners in this video but that one takes the cake. Love it! Love it! Love it!
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Great video, one that folks really need to watch. I' m 50, retired a while at 45. 1 have 35% of my capital invstments in an IRA. 25% in index funds, and the balance spread across other investment accts. in cumulative of over $ 5M. I receive income from my rental properties too. Zero debt and all is going accordingly. My financial consultant has been patient and has done a wonderful job for me throughout the years.
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Please could you guide me on how to get in touch with your advisor? My funds are being eroded by inflation and I seek a more lucrative investment strategy to effectively utilize before I consider retirement @@camela8445Mar
Be comfortable with being disliked! Absolutely! I’m 68, retired 6 years, and being disliked is kind of a badge of honor! Seriously, it is freedom! Some people will like and some will not. And that’s okay!
I'm 63. Some days I come home from the grocery store and while unpacking my groceries I'm surprised at what I bought !! It makes me laugh! I still feel young at heart even though I suffer from a few health issues. I get up every day and do the best I can. That's all we can do.
That's not all you can do, first start by eating a Proper Human Diet . Google it. You can change yourself and how you feel just with Proper human food. I wish you the best.
I make and consume 2 assorted cream pies a week alone with at least a gallon of icecream 🍦. Any time ⏲️ of day. Quit drinking 6 months ago thank God. I was a mess. Believe it or not my internals are relatively good. Day by day as they say .
I'm 71, almost 72. The best advice I heard from you is stop worrying about whether someone likes you or not. If they don't like you, it's THEIR problem, not yours. Once I let that soak in, I realized how freeing that is.
I'm 53 and I came to the realisation my work was stealing my remaining hours and decided to quit. They offered me a part-time advisory role, a few hours a week, enough to pay my bills and the rest of the time I am free. I took my daughter to the beach yesterday, the sun was shining and the place was almost empty. Bliss.
I’m 54 and I hate work so sick of it. Sucks the life out of my soul. I don’t know how to escape this routine. Praying for ten years to go quick and save for retirement.
My Dad went to age 88, working as an anesthesiologist (medical doctor) ... why? Because he enjoyed what he did. He had 5 years of "full-time" retirement before he died this year (Aug) at age 94. (But, we're from Canada where it's against the law to discriminate based on age. There is no retirement age set by law and no one can force you to retire or fire you based on age. So, he had the law on his side on this one!) On his work days, he would get up at 5 am at the age of 87 to go in to the hospital to have a full day of work! (This, however, is not how I want to live my life at that age. Hell, I don't even want to live to be 94!)
🙏 Thank you for posting. I am now 66, lived in Thailand for almost 30 years. In short, COVID came, destroyed all I worked for. Now alone, broke and back in my country of birth. Your video gave me a boost, never to give up. I am now working towards touring all of Europe on a bicycle, starting next year. Thank you 🙏
Well done, sir. Europe's architectural achievements really are something to behold and to my mind, it's unmatched-goes back to a time when people put in the time and effort with the aim of creating something beautiful and awe inspiring. Enjoy.
Great advice! I'm 71 and doing ok. About 10 years ago my father moved in with us. He was 82 at the time. His health was failing. He made it until he was 88. He put a lot of strain on my wife and me. I learned a lot from him - especially toward the end. He said, "I'm not afraid of dyeing, I just don't want to be there when it happens". He died in his sleep while under hospice care. Reflecting on his life, he also said, "it's been a great run". Anyway, thank-you for making the video. It helps to put things into perspective.
I love using those words "its been a GREAT RUN!" My wife hates it. ...but it's true. It is a statement of contentment. She has said to my sons "HE'S NOT in charge of my long term care!!!" It concerns her that I will pull her plug prematurely . Lol.
Sounds like your Dad had a great sense of humor with, the "I just don't want to be there when in happens..." quip. My Dad was like that. Died at 79, but was telling jokes up to the last minute. He made us feel at ease during the time when he was most under stress.
A more sombre way of saying it ... and a bit more to the point is General Hirohito's famous quote: "The world I have known has lost all of its honor. I cannot think of a better day to die."
So when you come to die, it will be the same for all of us. We will all fondly remember the "glorious" youthful years and dread what the future holds for future generations, just as all former generations thought of us. Or, in General Hirohito's sombre words: "The world I have known has lost all its honor. I cannot think of a better day to die."
My 401k has gone down by 29.7% in the past year due to rebalancing I did out of fear uncertainty and doubt. What are best alternatives to take in other to secure a financially free retirement and achieve ultimate peace? I don’t want to fail after 42 years of working hard.
If you want to rebuild your retirement by yourself, without the help of a partner, I will tell you it is near impossible. Even NewRetirement and co can’t do the job of an FA with expertise, a large following/client base and experience. Vet and hire one and begin to develop a rapport.
Do some research. The demand for advisors have risen more now than it did in the 90’s. At least their importance in an economy such as this can’t be understated. There are a good bunch as well as a bad bunch. You gotta do due diligence and use discretion. I work with Monica Mary Strigle sh’s big timer in New York w/ over 600 m worth assets under management
I have seen advisors and commentary on them but not one that looks this classy yet phenomenomenal. I set up a call. How soon should one expect feedback?
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’ Monica Mary Strigle ” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
After two marriages, 4 children, 2 grand babies….At 61, Im happily single, still work full-time, just started a NEW career as a California Real Estate Agent, walk 5 miles a day, and hike 2-3 times per week. THIS may be the last chapter, but I’m making it the BEST chapter…and you can too!
Thats the worst part knowing its the last chapter and wanting to do long term planning to become more properous seems a waste of energy,so many dying around me at similar age or younger makes you wonder.
I work helping people who are retired. The number one mistake i see is taking their health for granted. The health one has at 65 will NOT be what it is at 70. Not preparing for 70 means a decade of suffering before one then dies. The three things most important so one can physically do the things you're talking about are: 1. Good health insurance, 2. Bills paid off, 3. Walking at least a mile every day. These three are key to everything else.
I’m so glad I found your video! I’m a 65 year old woman and I have really been my own worst enemy as far as the way I feel about myself; not pretty enough, not slim enough, now healthy enough, not wealthy enough - never enough in any way. And, also, I’ve been telling myself I can’t do such and such because I’m too old and it’s too late! Subscribed and following. Older females are the same as older males in the way that we feel invisible. Heck, even our own doctors don’t listen to our concerns. It’s like older people don’t matter, to anyone. And you are right about our possessions - our kids don’t want most of our crap so we might as well get rid of it and lighten our load. Also, I love the idea of giving your children the money BEFORE we die so we can see them enjoy it!!! ❤
I've read many lamenting about being invisible - I like it!! No one pays attention to what I am, or am not, doing - I can get away with sooo much more than before 😂
I like being invisible. I don't want to be noticed. For many years I have said that I have stealth capabilities. It's like my super power. Sometimes I feel like closed circuit cameras can't even see me. Maybe I'm wearing Harry Potters invisibility cloak!
I just have to leave a comment. This video is just so spot on. I'm 67, retired at 58, and have been trying to enjoy life. Unfortunately, a marriage which was not good from the beginning is going to be over. Will be going through divorce after 38 years. But hey, I tried. I put work in, but the past is the past. But now my future is my own. Everything said in this video is absolutely correct. I'm so glad I came across it by accident. I'm in fairly good health, not overweight, don't drink, and I'm just looking forward to the rest of my life. Which I'm solely responsible for. Again, great video, and thank you so much for posting it.
My Dad went to age 88, working as an anesthesiologist (medical doctor) ... why? Because, like you, he enjoyed what he did. He had 5 years of full-time retirement before he died this year (Aug) at age 94. (But, we live in Canada where it's against the law to discriminate based on age. There is no retirement age set by law and no one can force you to retire or fire you based on age. So, he had the law on his side on this one!) And like you, on his work days, he would get up at 5 am at the age of 87 to go in to the hospital to have a full day of work!
I was a contractor, now I hurry out the door with shorts on and my 2 dogs drive on a dirt road to go surfing , and skate my concrete half pipes at night. Work? been there done that.
If you were given only one year to live. Would work be the fun thing that you would do to the end? If the answer is no, that’s what the video is about…..
Dr Phil says you wouldn't worry about what others think of you if you knew how seldom they did. I have learned that people and friends come and go all through our life. Enjoy them while they are there, don't get too attached, let them go when it's over. I have lowered my expectations and have much more peace.
You covered almost everything except dont forget to laugh, dont loose your sense of humor. My dad alway told me face the world with Joy laughter, its also food for the soul. Thanks for sharing sir.
I have been there my friend, it’s a roller coaster ride, everybody takes this ride on a personal level, no 2 people have the same experience, the ride will begin to slow, at a steady pace, and eventually things will be ok, you have many great memories, and experiences, that you both shared, these memories can never be taken away , you can turn them on any time you want to, you have to make sure that you re prioritise your life, now you are the most important person in your life, make sure that you eat regular, and try to sleep ok, try to enjoy the day, loneliness is the hardest thing to adjust to, but at first you will feel a void, and have trouble filling your day, now you have time to do anything that you want to, I would hope that everything turns out ok for you, all the best to you from Norman in 🏴 Scotland
Nice !!! I’m 54 and I’ve noticed I’m getting selective with my time . I tell people I have more time behind me than I do in front of me and I want to use it wisely
My life after age 60 is pickleball, hiking, swimming, gym training. biking and nice, nutritious meals. I keep my distance from entangling relationships and drama. My wife and family are nice but in small doses. And the last thing I want is "help" from others. The most damage others have inflicted came in the form of self proclaimed saviors. When I retired, that was a disconnect from work but also from giving a shit about religion, politics, TV shows or the latest world crisis. I just don't care!
Thank you. I'm 62 and am getting ready to retire. My wife and I are selling our house here in the US and moving to Romania (her home country). She's lived in the US suburbs for 20 years and wants us to go back there in our final years. It's her turn to choose now where we live, and I'm happy to do it, as I love that country. I've been a bit nervous about the move, but this video really helps put things into perspective. Thanks.
My wife is Korean, we retired in 2020 right as COVID was ramping up, we talked about moving to Korea, went for a couple of weeks last year, don't think I could handle it there. My wife has become Americanized, and she didn't care for the Korean lifestyle either. Most people in Korea live in massive apartment buildings crammed in like sardines or small houses out of town. No thanks on both. On the plus side the current exchange rate really favors the USD over the Korean won (1383 won to the dollar).
Wow your wife needs to have a talk with mine. I moved to the east coast to support my wife with her job. I’ve spent nearly 20 years working a hellish job living somewhere I hate. When I retire, it’s my turn to live where I’m happy, but she doesn’t want to move anyplace I’m interested. It’s a problem.
@@holdenc3082 Sorry to hear that. I've been very luck and blessed. Both with a great wife and a great job that I loved for 35 years. I don't really want to give up my work but I do need to retire and it is time. For us it worked out. I am very excited to move to Romania, so in our case it happens to be a win win. Of course anything could happen. Risks are everywhere. You just don't know, and I'm not getting any younger lol.
Great advice, I'm 70 and two years ago was diagnosed with prostate cancer. After surgery. I am cancer free today but not the man i used to be. So what, im still here trying to enjoy every additional day God gives me.
Thanks for this! i just turned 60 and this is exactly what I needed to hear. Our prized possession is every day we have left. Thanks for the lucid and optimistic take on what is important.
It’s all about how you care for yourself. I’m 66 years old retired 7 years Thailand. I’m in the gym 5 days a week, I take care of my body I drink even have an occasional cigarette when I’m out ; but I cook and I’m knowledgeable about what foods are good for my body as well as when what I eat. I have a Thai girlfriend, but that doesn’t mean I eat everything that she does . while I’m not as fit as I was when I was 40,I’d give that guy a run for his money. Every 2 to 3 years I trek to Mt. Everest basecamp to reset mentally. 60 is the new 45. My motto in life is to die young as old as possible 🙏
I'm 10 years younger than you, and like your philosophy of life keenly - and actually also think that vanity to some degree is only positive, ensures that people maintain their best selves regardless of age 👍👍
I’m 71 and loving my life. My health and memory are poor, but everything else is great. My wife, who is younger than me, makes me happy. My two grown sons are successful and are close to my wife and me. My wife and I live in a nice home and are comfortable financially. I don’t worry a lot. Not even about my health or death. I do what I can each day and life is fun. This year my wife and I have traveled to Sedona, Death Valley, Sequoia, Big Sur, Carmel Valley, and Laguna Beach. We have been to four live concerts. Even though everything in my body hurts, I still enjoy going places. I’m getting ready for a European river cruise with my wife, both sons, and both their wives later this month. I still have a few friends and family members. We just helped our older son buy his first house, and when his brother is ready, we will help him too. When we die, everything we have will be split between them. God is good to me and my wife and sons. I hope he is good to you as well.
Amazing story, thank you for sharing. My husband was a police officer for 43 years, retired in 2023, was diagnosed with a terminal cancer in his 70th birthday. He has been given a stem cell transplant in January to give him more time with us. We have two grown children and 2 grandchildren. Our son and family with the two grands live 7 minutes away. We are not intrusive in their lives, but they are always helpful when we need them. Life is good, he has been doing well so far. This was his 2nd cancer diagnosis in less than 5 years. We are not big travelers but want to visit a few places maybe in the spring, so many Drs appts. God bless you, this was a nice video.
@@donnawargacki6612 I’m sorry to hear about the cancer, I hope he lives for many more years. I hope to have grandchildren before too long, and I would be thrilled if our kids lived closer to us. I have survived cancer twice, and have stage three chronic kidney disease, diabetes, atrial fib, a rare auto immune disorder, but I still love my life. Enjoy your husband as long as you can.
I'm approaching 52 with a five - six year plan for semi-retirement in the Philippines. I appreciate your wisdom, bluntness, moderate political views, and willingness to share your experiences with others in this format. Thank you!
Karma happens, but no supreme being has any direct or indirect influence on my life. One can't plan for every scenario, but to have no plan is foolish and even more foolish it would be to count on God, or anyone to save you. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.s@@ukulelebutterfly
Mark, what a "GREAT" Video! I am a 63-year-old AA male. And I have been searching high and low for a video such as this. .. 🙂🙂My eyesight, feet and back hurt (somewhat). Dreaming (and praying) for Love again in my life. And, fighting the negative thoughts that nobody will want you (a now "old middle age" 60 yr old man) ever again. Thinking about stuff that happened 30 - 50 years ago. Thinking about DEATH and DYING! SMH Listening to old DISCO songs, bringing back such good memories so strong, that I have to sometimes turn and run out of the room (so I won’t be in tears). You touched on so many things and emotions I have experienced since I turned 60. Thank you! (And, I didn't have to hire someone to tell me this...) Your video is a keeper for sure...
Change your diet and it will change your life. See Dr. Tony Hampton on UA-cam. I am a 60 year Carnivore, work out regularly with free weights, calisthenics and yoga. I am pain free and my eyesight is decent with reading glasses. You have a lot of life ahead of you and it is up to you decide what you want to do with it.
I’m 63 in three days. I look forward to every day. I’m all done with worrying about everyday concerns of the world. My happiness is enjoying time with my wife and deepening my faith and relationship with God. I love and appreciate my life today more than ever. God bless us all.
Hi! I’m a crazy Canuck living in QC. Thanks for this eye opening wake-up message. If I may, I’d like to bring about a different angle to your comments. I’m 67. I took on my dream career at age 60 and became a Certified Flight Instructor. I now work at the largest Flight College in Canada training future airline pilots. I travel to work everyday on my motorcycle and go to the gym four times a week. I play golf in the weekend, take care of the house, travel, entertain a great relationship with my sons and grand kids and have the most loving spouse one could imagine. Mental and physical health is like a bank account, if you want to withdraw in the future you need to start depositing asap. If you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s, it’s time to fill your personal wellness account. Keep your dreams alive in a journal. Surround yourself with good people. Your body is your life vehicle, take care good care of it. Make plans. Stay curious. Learn. Love and be loved. Care for others. Hope you all have a great life and that when the final curtain falls, you wont say “I should have”… Jack
This video will be my morning reality check. Thank you for your compilation of truisms that we all face. It's sobering to realize that I'm not all that anymore and no one wants to hear about my glory days. You've provided many points that I will focus on because I feel like I'm suffering from chronic depression in part because of lamenting about age and injuries as well as not making the best of the remainder of my shelf life.
@@OceanFrontVilla3 Assuming they are are healthy and happy. Not rebellious, trouble-prone, ill, or drug-addicted. Most of my NYC childhood peers are dead, in jail, or homeless. I spent my youth struggling economically, despite degrees in engineering and finance, and a clean record. I had no desire to raise kids in a hateful, dying world!
@@ViceCoin Very sorry you've had such challenges! My 3 are educated, in good careers, independent and well adjusted. No one I know has spent time in jail. Best of luck in your remaining years!
@@OceanFrontVilla3It's not for everyone and most people regret it even though they don't admit it. If it was good for you consider yourself lucky 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I agree, but thought something was missing. Helping other people is vastly rewarding and there is still ample time to enjoy the things that you enjoy. Experience from my past business ventures and multiple divorces leaves me with a lot of knowledge and some wisdom. Passing that on to the next generation results in enjoying watching up and coming younger people have success and/or avoid major pitfalls. “A wise man learns from the mistakes of others, a 0:39 fool learns from his own mistakes and an idiot never learns”. Humbling myself and explaining that I learned most of what I know by making mistakes, so I fall squarely in the fool category. Start off telling some youngster that and you get their attention. Helping elderly people is also vastly rewarding. To see the look of reality in their eyes that someone does care is priceless. So yes, every day, do your workout, help someone, then get on your Harley and ride, or get your boat and go fishing at the nearby lake, or go play golf, or since it’s now hunting season, get your bow and go enjoy a nice sit in the woods. Life is good, until it isn’t, but as one wise man wrote, “I’m not worried about dying, but I am concerned about not living well”.
I cracked up when you said you hurt your back in your sleep. That hit close to home, as I wake up every morning with a sore back. Takes a lot of stretching just to get up in the morning. A sense of humor and purpose helps. Great video, everything spot on.
You are absolutely spot on ! Just turned 60 and you took the words right out of my mouth. Good to hear it from another man and understand that my mindset is ok . Thanks for the vid.👍
You are great!! I am going through hard times right now as a 61 year old female Truth! No one is coming to save you, is correct! Truth glasses were put on and when I get through this I will be better for it! YOU ARE SPEAKING TRUTH! YOU ARE GREAT! THANK YOU FOR TJIS VIDEO!
I was in Dumaguette last October to check it out. While I have worked throughout Asia for over 25 years, I had never been to the Philippines. Was glad to go, but in the end Malaysia, Singapore and Thailand were closer to my comfort zone. I was actually in Ground Zero twice last year when you were there but you were busy and did not want to bother you. The one point which I would suggest about aging is the importance of making your peace with God. From watching you over the years it has been my observation that this might be a hole in your life (forgive me if I am off the Mark - pun intended). Having lost my love of my life two years ago and watching her suffer through an agonizing disease over her last three years taught me a great deal. Coming to terms with your mortality and preparing to meet God was chief among those lessons. God Bless you, Jenn and the baby.
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans". When you quote someone, double check yourself. It's not a quote if it's not verbatim.
Great quote but it actually first appears in a January 1957 issue of Reader’s Digest magazine and the expression later became popularized in 1980 within lyrics by John Lennon.
I’m 40 but this is great for motivation. I’ve done the military, moved to Norway and Japan, done the big job thing, been married, earned big cash, bought the fast car and motorcycle, but I still want so much more out of life. Thanks for the inspiration, sir.
I’m the same, 41, army, oil field, marriage, 4 kids.. own business… shit went fast.. I’m realizing the simple life is the good life.. work work work… it went by so fast.. I’m focusing on what’s important now not interested in over 50lbs a week.. ready to go travel the USA the nomad lifestyle… who wants to work tell there 65-70 then do it.. I wanna do it by 50 or less while I can enjoy it
I just found your channel. You are a great guy and your info is very helpful. I turned 63 this year and I can't believe how fast time has passed. And it seems to be going faster. Keep up the good work.
Around my 59th birthday I lost 2 businesses and about 60% of my net worth. After years of stress, overindulgence in food and drink, plus working mostly in front of a computer, I was out of shape and low on energy. Trying to get back into a skilled labor type job, I discovered I could only work for 4-5 hours, and I was beat. So, I did a 25 day water fast and lost 22 lbs then started strength training for the past year. I look and feel like a new man at 60! Material comforts are great but without your health and vitality you have nothing. Yes you can build muscle and get in amazing shape at 60. I have even been approached by women in their 20s...still! BTW I am not doing TRT but have not ruled it out in the future.
I began lifting weights at 18. I’m 54 now. 33 of those years I was a Natural. At 51, I got on “The Gear.” 💉Testosterone. Get your blood checked first. Make certain your liver, kidney’s & cholesterol are at normal levels. Congratulations on your progress.
Have financial independence. Maintain your ideal body weight. Be happy whether rich or poor. Reduce stress. Be active. By the way I am 81 plus and I still drive every day.
Really appreciate this video. I’m 62. Time is flying by now. I reflect a lot but try to live my life with God in my heart. We all go down this road and understand and appreciate simple things so much more.
"You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Including yourself" I love listening to people just ahead of me in life. I value your time and wisdom and sharing. 🙏💯🙏 Thank you!!!
I turned 68 last month and I just sold my house 2 weeks ago. I couldn't take care of the house anymore( my back and knees) plus people are charging too much money to fix anything that goes wrong. I moved into a 55 and older place and so far I'm loving it. My wife is 11 years younger so she keeps me active. Met her online 6 years ago and brought her to Texas, she's from Ireland by way of Brazil. As soon as we get settled here we will start traveling more. Can't wait!✈✈✈✈
Please find someone to spend the rest of your life with, take chances, you never know. I have a friend who had a heart attack, he was living alone. If someone was with him, that person might have called 911 and his life might have been saved. I married someone more than 30 years ago, my friend said she will leave once she gets her papers to stay in the US. It doesn't bother me, I know that we are in love, now have 3 grown up children who have left the house and the 2 of us are now by ourselves looking forward to retirement. Telling you this story that life sometimes takes the unexpected. Please give love a chance.
Wow, what a breath of fresh air and honesty you are. I'm so glad I found your channel. You sir are spot on with your advice and I can't say how much I look forward to your post.
I am over 80, 11 year Widower, financially secure. The main issues I see today is friends passing away and you can't get any real pain control medications for routine age related problems in the USA. No wonder street drugs are such a problem.
@@samuelwilliams7331 does it really help with pain? I have never tried it but am looking at gummies at the vaper store. Is Delta the same thing as marijuana? I'm confused as hell✌️
Great insights. I relate to everything you said. I'm 65. Met my Filipina wife when I was 45, she was 25. Have had a fantastic life with her but it goes by in the blink of an eye. Live every day to the fullest. Enjoy every minute. You don't get any days back.
Mark, I’m 87 Korean veteran , still drive, took down 15 foot tree. Travel all over Asia. My secret enjoy life. Think positive, don’t try an keep up with the Jones. And most of all don’t associate with Negative people. An old italiano told me secret Small glass red wine an small piece dark chocolate.
This video needs to have millions of views. Such sound advice. And I say this as someone who is still relatively young, age 38, but I've always tended to look at life from a more mature perspective. And now as I'm getting close to 40 and seeing how it seems like it was yesterday that I was only in my 20's, and seeing how age is starting to add certain challenges to life that didn't exist in my 20's and early 30's, I can understand all the things you say in this video loud and clear. I've made some big, bold, and controversial decisions throughout my life. Life-changing decisions, and I've made numerous ones. I can't say whether they were right or wrong, and I don't know how my life would have been if I had not made those decisions, but one thing I know is that each time I did my best to follow my heart, and thus at least I can say that I don't regret NOT having done X, Y, Z. At the end of the day I think it's better to have experienced some failures and perhaps regret having made certain choices, rather than to regret NOT having done X, Y, Z.
I'm 78 years old and grew up in the 50s and 60s. Yes, we had our problems back then and in every generation since, but the late 50s and early 60s were more like the episodes in Leave it to Beaver, and the movies like "The Music Man" were more enjoyable to watch than what is available today. In my opinion the only live TV worth watching today is "The Voice" on NBC 8 PM, Monday and Tuesday. My wife and I have been married for nearly 50 years, and I thank God every day that we have the life we have, despite the world around us.
Me too and we were the children of the greatest generation which was America's most shining hour in my opinion except for the horrible violent racism... We came so close to nailing but the racism is too ignorant and the wars are just too profitable But I haven't forgotten my pledge to liberty and justice for all
I'm 61. This seemed depressing at first, but then I realized that he is expressing the facts realistically, and then provides great advice. I would want my daughter to find a man like me. So, yes - I am a good partner to a woman. I was with my Ex wife for 17-years. We divorced 11-years ago, and I am disillusioned with modern, American women. Thanks for putting out consistently, helpful content!
This video has to be the most honest and truthful ones I've viewed recently on the realities of aging. Point after point rings true. Wish I had been given this advice and counsel years ago.
Thanks for the video. It really made me think about things - paying stuff off and not buying anything but necessities so that I can retire sooner rather than later.
Mark, here was my Saturday. 5 am woke up and had coffee in peace. Feed my dogs and at 7 am woke up my 11 yr son and made him breakfast. 8:40 we were off to his tennis lesion here in our sub-division. I love watching him learning. Anyway 11 am we were off to the driving range 10 min. from our house and i just watched him hit three racks of balls. On the ride home he said to me "thanks Dad for getting me involved learning golf cause I really enjoy it". That's what I live for, the little thank you's. Right now he's at pretty new roller-skating rink they open near us a few months ago. He hasn't missed a Sat. or Sunday now in a couple of months. By 5 pm I will have picked him up and his mother will be home about the same time. She spent the day at the hospital with her sister and her sic baby and we'll have dinner together. OK, tomorrow being Sunday I will drop them off at Church @ 6:30 am as he, my Son is a alter boy and has been for some time. They normally eat brunch after church then come home. I'll be 75 this month and would not trade what i have for any other life. My man, you have a lot to look forward to in the next few years. Children at our age are blessing at least in my humble opinion. Cheers.
Well you have fun with that i did that at30 yr and now my times is mine and guess what your kid could give a rats behind about you or help you not that I asked them but its the harsh reality of life so its my time now
GREAT advice. You hit so many points in short order. At almost 55 and starting over after being with her since I was 20. I had a hard time, but finally got my head cleared and am back in the saddle. Never again as far as marrige, but am going to enjoy life, be a good father, friend, family member, and give back to the community. That's the important stuff.
Greetings from Manchester in the UK. Just coming up on 60, and I agree with all your observations. Well done on laying things out in a clear, no-nonsense fashion. What's really refreshing is to hear an American speak so candidly, a truly rare event in todays environment. I take my hat off to you sir.
I really enjoyed this and it’s all true!
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
I am retired and 61 years old and diagnosed with cancer 5 months ago. I'm going to enjoy life as long as I can.
Follow Dr William Li & get his book, “Eat to Beat Disease”.
So sorry
You Go Man 🎉👊
Live it up my friend....
Prayers and best wishes for you.
I’m 80, and I agree-nobody is coming to save us, and we have to take charge of our own happiness. It’s easy to regret wasted time, but instead of looking back with sadness, focus on making the best of today. We’ve all got some mileage left, so let’s use it well. Appreciate the life you have while you still can.
Nobody is coming to save men at age 20 either. It is what it is.
life is precious but short so just enjoy every moment.. time is the one resource we never get back in life
@@charlesharmon4926 but Kamala promised she's going to save me! LoL
Like Yogi Berra said! "It aint over till it's over"!!!!
❤🎉🇦🇺✅
I’m closing in on 74. My dear wife passed in 2019. I made 2 promises. I would look after her mother (now 94), and take care of our grandkids. My oldest son sold his house and moved in with his family (we have a big house). I became like Uncle Charlie. I do the cooking and shopping, get the kids on the school bus, etc. I go down my MIL’s house (she lives alone) 3x a week to help her out. I’m busy and fulfilled at the end of every day. I’m blessed to be able to contribute.
you are a great man
You must be full of energy and purpose. Sounds like your living your best life. My condolences to your loss of your wife. Brave soul you are.Be your best.
People today don’t know uncle charley
@ Or, Bub, his predecessor, played by William Frawley.
God bless.
I realize this at 29 when I got cancer , thankfully I survived, I’m soon to be 63 , this gentleman is 100% spot on .
Don’t waste your time tomorrow isn’t promised.
...for anyone
I absolutely agree! Tomorrow isn’t promised so live today the best way you can!! I love being retired and I don’t cry over spilled milk! I thank God and enjoy getting up every day to a new beginning.
💯👍🙏
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Retirement is the reward of disciplined investing over the long term, not just a destination.
My adviser guided me through retirement planning, ensuring my investments were strategically positioned for long-term rewards.
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Sophia Maurine Lanting can't divulge much. Most likely, the internet should have her basic info, you can research if you like.
Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing.. I will write her an e-mail shortly.
My favorite line "Quit giving a fuck what people think" spot on!!!
How am I gonna explain that to my wife though? Oh wait, I think she already knows, so we're all good!!!
Explain that to the police, lol.
Fuck yes
.......i am 54, and I've never given a fuck what people think, what people think of me is none of my business, so I don't care about something that is none of my business.
Don’t worry about what people think…they don’t do it that much
At 59 after a battle with alcohol for 45 years, I got sober and in the best shape of my life. By some grace, I did not do major harm to my body. My mind is not as clear as it should be but it's getting better daily. I'm 63 now and feel really good about my error correction. Looking back I'm done beating myself up. Physically and emotionally it's over. I'm gonna keep on fighting and getting in better and better shape and I'm going out swinging. Bottom line. I'm grateful for once.
Congratulations 🎊 That's a big accomplishment. It's never too late
thank you, I needed this. me too.
Good for you Timothy that was an inspirational comment and keep it going 💪 I'm 58 and loving your positivity 😎@@ForTheLoveOfAnimals-py2wi
Good for you and don't give up. Don't let your past define you, or your future.
Same here. 56 now but was drunk most evenings and days off for 45 years. Glad to have stopped and don’t seem harmed by it. Missed a lot of time though.
“Your eyesight will begin to degrade with age, but your ability to see through people’s bullshit will become a Super Power.”
Lots of great one-liners in this video but that one takes the cake. Love it! Love it! Love it!
Nice!
Yes you r spot on 😊
Is that why scammers focus 90% of their effort on the easy targets that are the elderly??
@@JetFire9 Sad truth.
I saw clear through Kamala Harris bullshit 6 months ago. Jennifer Coolidge (from Seinfeld episodes) is 100 times more intelligent.
Financial planning and retirement strategies are crucial, especially in today's economic climate. With global economic fluctuations and uncertainties, it's essential to have a solid plan in place to protect your financial future.
Great video, one that folks really need to watch. I' m 50, retired a while at 45. 1 have 35% of my capital invstments in an IRA. 25% in index funds, and the balance spread across other investment accts. in cumulative of over $ 5M. I receive income from my rental properties too. Zero debt and all is going accordingly. My financial consultant has been patient and has done a wonderful job for me throughout the years.
Well with the ever-changing global economy, tax laws and regulations can also vary, impacting how investments are taxed. It's essential to stay informed and plan strategies accordingly.
Honestly this cannot be overemphasized, helping people mitigate unforseen circumstances and mistakes .It's always good to have a financial plan,
Please could you guide me on how to get in touch with your advisor? My funds are being eroded by inflation and I seek a more lucrative investment strategy to effectively utilize before I consider retirement @@camela8445Mar
Working with professionals who have expertise and experience in the market can provide valuable insights and guidance to navigate volatile times.
Be comfortable with being disliked! Absolutely! I’m 68, retired 6 years, and being disliked is kind of a badge of honor! Seriously, it is freedom! Some people will like and some will not. And that’s okay!
Agree, cannot please everybody.
I'm 63. Some days I come home from the grocery store and while unpacking my groceries I'm surprised at what I bought !! It makes me laugh! I still feel young at heart even though I suffer from a few health issues. I get up every day and do the best I can. That's all we can do.
That's not all you can do, first start by eating a Proper Human Diet . Google it. You can change yourself and how you feel just with Proper human food. I wish you the best.
Same here
I love kid cereal
I make and consume 2 assorted cream pies a week alone with at least a gallon of icecream 🍦. Any time ⏲️ of day. Quit drinking 6 months ago thank God. I was a mess. Believe it or not my internals are relatively good. Day by day as they say
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So Well said :)
I'm 71, almost 72. The best advice I heard from you is stop worrying about whether someone likes you or not. If they don't like you, it's THEIR problem, not yours. Once I let that soak in, I realized how freeing that is.
Life is not a popularity contest. I don't need other people's approval. Realised that a couple of years ago.
@@lewis1544So well said,, and rightly said !! Thank you 👋
“Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner”
Lao Tzu
I'm 53 and I came to the realisation my work was stealing my remaining hours and decided to quit. They offered me a part-time advisory role, a few hours a week, enough to pay my bills and the rest of the time I am free. I took my daughter to the beach yesterday, the sun was shining and the place was almost empty. Bliss.
A rainy day on the beach is better than a sunny day in the office.
I’m 54 and I hate work so sick of it. Sucks the life out of my soul. I don’t know how to escape this routine. Praying for ten years to go quick and save for retirement.
That's awesome. Starts with making the choice to leave.
My Dad went to age 88, working as an anesthesiologist (medical doctor) ... why? Because he enjoyed what he did. He had 5 years of "full-time" retirement before he died this year (Aug) at age 94. (But, we're from Canada where it's against the law to discriminate based on age. There is no retirement age set by law and no one can force you to retire or fire you based on age. So, he had the law on his side on this one!) On his work days, he would get up at 5 am at the age of 87 to go in to the hospital to have a full day of work! (This, however, is not how I want to live my life at that age. Hell, I don't even want to live to be 94!)
When i go fishing now , there is no one at the river fishing area during the week , they are all at work.😀
🙏 Thank you for posting. I am now 66, lived in Thailand for almost 30 years. In short, COVID came, destroyed all I worked for. Now alone, broke and back in my country of birth. Your video gave me a boost, never to give up. I am now working towards touring all of Europe on a bicycle, starting next year. Thank you 🙏
Well done, sir. Europe's architectural achievements really are something to behold and to my mind, it's unmatched-goes back to a time when people put in the time and effort with the aim of creating something beautiful and awe inspiring. Enjoy.
What happened 😮
I got to say, this is the best video I've watched all year.
Thanks. 60 year old in Florida USA.
Great advice! I'm 71 and doing ok. About 10 years ago my father moved in with us. He was 82 at the time. His health was failing. He made it until he was 88. He put a lot of strain on my wife and me. I learned a lot from him - especially toward the end. He said, "I'm not afraid of dyeing, I just don't want to be there when it happens". He died in his sleep while under hospice care. Reflecting on his life, he also said, "it's been a great run". Anyway, thank-you for making the video. It helps to put things into perspective.
I love using those words "its been a GREAT RUN!" My wife hates it. ...but it's true. It is a statement of contentment. She has said to my sons "HE'S NOT in charge of my long term care!!!" It concerns her that I will pull her plug prematurely . Lol.
Sounds like your Dad had a great sense of humor with, the "I just don't want to be there when in happens..." quip. My Dad was like that. Died at 79, but was telling jokes up to the last minute. He made us feel at ease during the time when he was most under stress.
@alansewell7810 thats a gift
Good on you for taking care of your Dad. I did too and I miss him horribly. I know I'll be with him soon and that's comforting. My best friend ❤
“The world is changing fast. Relax. It’s okay to be left behind.”
Love this.
except if it's the rapture
@@wattzefeuke we are getting left behind
Tech I understand, but the way it's used
FB is sorta simple?
I want to be left behind! BLISS!
A more sombre way of saying it ... and a bit more to the point is General Hirohito's famous quote: "The world I have known has lost all of its honor. I cannot think of a better day to die."
We know how to ride the highs and peddle through the lows in life.
We "choose" to be "happy" during these times.
Cheers everyone
For me personally the 80's was better with people. Nobody was stuck on their phones. Glad I lived back then.🎉
Yeah and the seventies,a long time ago now,I guess.It sure went by fast though.
I totally agree. I think the 80s were our best time.
So when you come to die, it will be the same for all of us. We will all fondly remember the "glorious" youthful years and dread what the future holds for future generations, just as all former generations thought of us. Or, in General Hirohito's sombre words: "The world I have known has lost all its honor. I cannot think of a better day to die."
Absolutely! The 80s were the best of times and the worst of times. But NOW is the only time.
Wayyy better. Love the 80’s
I'm 47 and I'm taking notes. Thank you for the wisdom.
My 401k has gone down by 29.7% in the past year due to rebalancing I did out of fear uncertainty and doubt. What are best alternatives to take in other to secure a financially free retirement and achieve ultimate peace? I don’t want to fail after 42 years of working hard.
If you want to rebuild your retirement by yourself, without the help of a partner, I will tell you it is near impossible. Even NewRetirement and co can’t do the job of an FA with expertise, a large following/client base and experience. Vet and hire one and begin to develop a rapport.
How can one get to interview advisors? And what questions should you ask?
Do some research. The demand for advisors have risen more now than it did in the 90’s. At least their importance in an economy such as this can’t be understated. There are a good bunch as well as a bad bunch. You gotta do due diligence and use discretion. I work with Monica Mary Strigle sh’s big timer in New York w/ over 600 m worth assets under management
I have seen advisors and commentary on them but not one that looks this classy yet phenomenomenal. I set up a call. How soon should one expect feedback?
There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’ Monica Mary Strigle ” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.
After two marriages, 4 children, 2 grand babies….At 61, Im happily single, still work full-time, just started a NEW career as a California Real Estate Agent, walk 5 miles a day, and hike 2-3 times per week. THIS may be the last chapter, but I’m making it the BEST chapter…and you can too!
I have had 2 unsuccessful marriages! The first one left me and the 2nd one won't?
Thats the worst part knowing its the last chapter and wanting to do long term planning to become more properous seems a waste of energy,so many dying around me at similar age or younger makes you wonder.
Greed is good 😂
All the best going forward Victoria! Bless your Beautiful Soul
I work helping people who are retired. The number one mistake i see is taking their health for granted. The health one has at 65 will NOT be what it is at 70. Not preparing for 70 means a decade of suffering before one then dies. The three things most important so one can physically do the things you're talking about are: 1. Good health insurance, 2. Bills paid off, 3. Walking at least a mile every day. These three are key to everything else.
I’m so glad I found your video! I’m a 65 year old woman and I have really been my own worst enemy as far as the way I feel about myself; not pretty enough, not slim enough, now healthy enough, not wealthy enough - never enough in any way. And, also, I’ve been telling myself I can’t do such and such because I’m too old and it’s too late! Subscribed and following. Older females are the same as older males in the way that we feel invisible. Heck, even our own doctors don’t listen to our concerns. It’s like older people don’t matter, to anyone. And you are right about our possessions - our kids don’t want most of our crap so we might as well get rid of it and lighten our load. Also, I love the idea of giving your children the money BEFORE we die so we can see them enjoy it!!! ❤
I've read many lamenting about being invisible - I like it!! No one pays attention to what I am, or am not, doing - I can get away with sooo much more than before 😂
I agree with your last two sentences especially.
I like being invisible. I don't want to be noticed. For many years I have said that I have stealth capabilities. It's like my super power. Sometimes I feel like closed circuit cameras can't even see me. Maybe I'm wearing Harry Potters invisibility cloak!
Brilliant. This should be mandatory viewing for anyone over 55. Thanks for posting this!
Thank you for watching ☺️
Should be mandatory since turning 21. Many good nuggets in here.
Should be mandatory for someone in their 20s
This video is pure gold. Worth ten times more than all the therapy go could go through. You are a wise man!
Thank you 😊 Your comment made my day
I just have to leave a comment. This video is just so spot on. I'm 67, retired at 58, and have been trying to enjoy life. Unfortunately, a marriage which was not good from the beginning is going to be over. Will be going through divorce after 38 years. But hey, I tried. I put work in, but the past is the past.
But now my future is my own.
Everything said in this video is absolutely correct. I'm so glad I came across it by accident.
I'm in fairly good health, not overweight, don't drink, and I'm just looking forward to the rest of my life. Which I'm solely responsible for.
Again, great video, and thank you so much for posting it.
Get the best lawyer you can afford is my advice.
Good to get divorced
You are lucky to get your freedom back. Congratulations. Traveling and do charity as you can and happy to go when god call you
Do you know why divorce is so expensive? Because it’s worth it!
Heard someone say ‘if you don’t fly first class, your children will’
Exactly 🤣
Driving at night is dangerous everywhere. Get your shit done during the day.
Yeah he could go to Hooters and stuff during the day!!
Stay the F in starting dusk.
During the day no bargain either.
Lots of drunk drivers at night.
driving anytime is dangerous...
Right on, my greatest fear is hitting a deer"
I'm 66 still a Contractor still getting up at 5:30 every morning and running out the door. Why? Because I Like what I do 😂
My Dad went to age 88, working as an anesthesiologist (medical doctor) ... why? Because, like you, he enjoyed what he did. He had 5 years of full-time retirement before he died this year (Aug) at age 94. (But, we live in Canada where it's against the law to discriminate based on age. There is no retirement age set by law and no one can force you to retire or fire you based on age. So, he had the law on his side on this one!) And like you, on his work days, he would get up at 5 am at the age of 87 to go in to the hospital to have a full day of work!
I was a contractor, now I hurry out the door with shorts on and my 2 dogs drive on a dirt road to go surfing , and skate my concrete half pipes at night. Work? been there done that.
Right on!
You are blessed.
If you were given only one year to live. Would work be the fun thing that you would do to the end? If the answer is no, that’s what the video is about…..
I’m 51, and when you talked about spending time with your children really opened my eyes.
Your opening line “No one is coming to save you’, set the tone for the rest of the video. Great job!
"Ability to see through others BS will become a super power" - great line.
Yes Trump is the world's greatest BS er. Thousands of lies everyday.
Dr Phil says you wouldn't worry about what others think of you if you knew how seldom they did.
I have learned that people and friends come and go all through our life. Enjoy them while they are there, don't get too attached, let them go when it's over. I have lowered my expectations and have much more peace.
This was great stuff. I really appreciate the line about forgiving people but never trusting them again. Very sound advice!
You covered almost everything except dont forget to laugh, dont loose your sense of humor. My dad alway told me face the world with Joy laughter, its also food for the soul. Thanks for sharing sir.
i will be 70 soon.lost the love of my life 6 months ago.i have been in in limbo ever sense.thanks for pointing out that i am not alone
You are not alone but if you feel alone you can talk to a therapist.
I have been there my friend, it’s a roller coaster ride, everybody takes this ride on a personal level, no 2 people have the same experience, the ride will begin to slow, at a steady pace, and eventually things will be ok, you have many great memories, and experiences, that you both shared, these memories can never be taken away , you can turn them on any time you want to, you have to make sure that you re prioritise your life, now you are the most important person in your life, make sure that you eat regular, and try to sleep ok, try to enjoy the day, loneliness is the hardest thing to adjust to, but at first you will feel a void, and have trouble filling your day, now you have time to do anything that you want to, I would hope that everything turns out ok for you, all the best to you from Norman in 🏴 Scotland
Nice !!! I’m 54 and I’ve noticed I’m getting selective with my time . I tell people I have more time behind me than I do in front of me and I want to use it wisely
Same! Lol
54 here too
Becoming very selective with who I give my time to when it comes to errands....oh and becoming more selfish with the me time
My life after age 60 is pickleball, hiking, swimming, gym training. biking and nice, nutritious meals.
I keep my distance from entangling relationships and drama. My wife and family are nice but in small doses.
And the last thing I want is "help" from others. The most damage others have inflicted came in the form of self proclaimed saviors.
When I retired, that was a disconnect from work but also from giving a shit about religion, politics, TV shows or the latest world crisis. I just don't care!
Thank you. I'm 62 and am getting ready to retire. My wife and I are selling our house here in the US and moving to Romania (her home country). She's lived in the US suburbs for 20 years and wants us to go back there in our final years. It's her turn to choose now where we live, and I'm happy to do it, as I love that country. I've been a bit nervous about the move, but this video really helps put things into perspective. Thanks.
Wow, what a brave adventure for you guys!! 💕
My wife is Korean, we retired in 2020 right as COVID was ramping up, we talked about moving to Korea, went for a couple of weeks last year, don't think I could handle it there. My wife has become Americanized, and she didn't care for the Korean lifestyle either. Most people in Korea live in massive apartment buildings crammed in like sardines or small houses out of town. No thanks on both. On the plus side the current exchange rate really favors the USD over the Korean won (1383 won to the dollar).
Wow your wife needs to have a talk with mine. I moved to the east coast to support my wife with her job. I’ve spent nearly 20 years working a hellish job living somewhere I hate. When I retire, it’s my turn to live where I’m happy, but she doesn’t want to move anyplace I’m interested. It’s a problem.
@@holdenc3082 Sorry to hear that. I've been very luck and blessed. Both with a great wife and a great job that I loved for 35 years. I don't really want to give up my work but I do need to retire and it is time. For us it worked out. I am very excited to move to Romania, so in our case it happens to be a win win. Of course anything could happen. Risks are everywhere. You just don't know, and I'm not getting any younger lol.
Great advice, I'm 70 and two years ago was diagnosed with prostate cancer. After surgery. I am cancer free today but not the man i used to be. So what, im still here trying to enjoy every additional day God gives me.
Thanks for this! i just turned 60 and this is exactly what I needed to hear. Our prized possession is every day we have left. Thanks for the lucid and optimistic take on what is important.
Love both the message and your delivery.
It’s all about how you care for yourself. I’m 66 years old retired 7 years Thailand. I’m in the gym 5 days a week, I take care of my body I drink even have an occasional cigarette when I’m out ; but I cook and I’m knowledgeable about what foods are good for my body as well as when what I eat. I have a Thai girlfriend, but that doesn’t mean I eat everything that she does . while I’m not as fit as I was when I was 40,I’d give that guy a run for his money. Every 2 to 3 years I trek to Mt. Everest basecamp to reset mentally. 60 is the new 45. My motto in life is to die young as old as possible 🙏
Outstanding!
Well done
I'm 10 years younger than you, and like your philosophy of life keenly - and actually also think that vanity to some degree is only positive, ensures that people maintain their best selves regardless of age 👍👍
Mount Everest every two or three years? I salute you, sir you are one tough dude. you’ll live forever.
Nice anyway have you ever considered Nepel as a country to live in?
I'm 59 thank you for this I've spent almost all of my 50s preparing for my 60s I'm ready
This is the most truthful and realistic talk about retirement and aging that I have heard.
I am 63 years old and this guy nailed it! GREAT video of undisputed truth...
I’m 71 and loving my life. My health and memory are poor, but everything else is great. My wife, who is younger than me, makes me happy. My two grown sons are successful and are close to my wife and me. My wife and I live in a nice home and are comfortable financially. I don’t worry a lot. Not even about my health or death. I do what I can each day and life is fun. This year my wife and I have traveled to Sedona, Death Valley, Sequoia, Big Sur, Carmel Valley, and Laguna Beach. We have been to four live concerts. Even though everything in my body hurts, I still enjoy going places. I’m getting ready for a European river cruise with my wife, both sons, and both their wives later this month. I still have a few friends and family members. We just helped our older son buy his first house, and when his brother is ready, we will help him too. When we die, everything we have will be split between them. God is good to me and my wife and sons. I hope he is good to you as well.
Glad to hear from someone who has a positive story.
Amazing story, thank you for sharing. My husband was a police officer for 43 years, retired in 2023, was diagnosed with a terminal cancer in his 70th birthday. He has been given a stem cell transplant in January to give him more time with us. We have two grown children and 2 grandchildren. Our son and family with the two grands live 7 minutes away. We are not intrusive in their lives, but they are always helpful when we need them. Life is good, he has been doing well so far. This was his 2nd cancer diagnosis in less than 5 years. We are not big travelers but want to visit a few places maybe in the spring, so many Drs appts. God bless you, this was a nice video.
@@donnawargacki6612 I’m sorry to hear about the cancer, I hope he lives for many more years. I hope to have grandchildren before too long, and I would be thrilled if our kids lived closer to us. I have survived cancer twice, and have stage three chronic kidney disease, diabetes, atrial fib, a rare auto immune disorder, but I still love my life. Enjoy your husband as long as you can.
I'm approaching 52 with a five - six year plan for semi-retirement in the Philippines. I appreciate your wisdom, bluntness, moderate political views, and willingness to share your experiences with others in this format. Thank you!
First of all, you look amazing for 52. Second, what is semi-retirement? I would love to learn more
And then God decides He has a different plan. 🙃
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Karma happens, but no supreme being has any direct or indirect influence on my life. One can't plan for every scenario, but to have no plan is foolish and even more foolish it would be to count on God, or anyone to save you. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.s@@ukulelebutterfly
Looks like you already bought a wife 😂😂😂
52? You’re a baby
Mark, what a "GREAT" Video! I am a 63-year-old AA male. And I have been searching high and low for a video such as this. .. 🙂🙂My eyesight, feet and back hurt (somewhat). Dreaming (and praying) for Love again in my life. And, fighting the negative thoughts that nobody will want you (a now "old middle age" 60 yr old man) ever again. Thinking about stuff that happened 30 - 50 years ago. Thinking about DEATH and DYING! SMH Listening to old DISCO songs, bringing back such good memories so strong, that I have to sometimes turn and run out of the room (so I won’t be in tears). You touched on so many things and emotions I have experienced since I turned 60. Thank you! (And, I didn't have to hire someone to tell me this...) Your video is a keeper for sure...
Change your diet and it will change your life. See Dr. Tony Hampton on UA-cam.
I am a 60 year Carnivore, work out regularly with free weights, calisthenics and yoga. I am pain free and my eyesight is decent with reading glasses.
You have a lot of life ahead of you and it is up to you decide what you want to do with it.
The DISCO is what's depressing you!
I’m 63 in three days. I look forward to every day. I’m all done with worrying about everyday concerns of the world. My happiness is enjoying time with my wife and deepening my faith and relationship with God. I love and appreciate my life today more than ever. God bless us all.
‘Your family will think your precious possessions are junk’ 😂😂😂
This is true. When my dad died, no one wanted anything out of his house, including me. Sad but very true.
This is a video I will save and watch over and over again over time. Thanks! 💯%
I'm so glad you liked it 😊
Me too.
Hi! I’m a crazy Canuck living in QC. Thanks for this eye opening wake-up message. If I may, I’d like to bring about a different angle to your comments. I’m 67. I took on my dream career at age 60 and became a Certified Flight Instructor. I now work at the largest Flight College in Canada training future airline pilots. I travel to work everyday on my motorcycle and go to the gym four times a week. I play golf in the weekend, take care of the house, travel, entertain a great relationship with my sons and grand kids and have the most loving spouse one could imagine. Mental and physical health is like a bank account, if you want to withdraw in the future you need to start depositing asap. If you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s, it’s time to fill your personal wellness account. Keep your dreams alive in a journal. Surround yourself with good people. Your body is your life vehicle, take care good care of it. Make plans. Stay curious. Learn. Love and be loved. Care for others. Hope you all have a great life and that when the final curtain falls, you wont say “I should have”… Jack
Thank you Jack! Words of wisdom. Your health is your wealth, Amen.
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@@bernardbarbour❤
It's almost impossible to surround yourself with good people. Haven't met one yet
Not a mention of God. Very French.
I am 60 and have another 14 years of work to go. My retirement is in Heaven don’t worry what this world throws at you.✌🏽
Agree!
Same
Amen,I also have the RIP retirement plan.But hey at least I can still work.Cheers
That will last approximately 15 minutes as you are processed in a soul amnesia trap, your conscious memories wiped in the “light”.
@@fearless7424 there is no guarantee that you will be working at 74. Try to retire ASAP.
This video will be my morning reality check. Thank you for your compilation of truisms that we all face. It's sobering to realize that I'm not all that anymore and no one wants to hear about my glory days. You've provided many points that I will focus on because I feel like I'm suffering from chronic depression in part because of lamenting about age and injuries as well as not making the best of the remainder of my shelf life.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊 Consider moving to another country and being reborn in a brand new life.
I want to go out like granddad, quietly in his sleep, not like the passengers in his car.
LOL! Well done 👍
No wife, no kids, no temp jobs, no worries. Best time ever!😊
Wow, can't imagine life without kids and grandkids
@@OceanFrontVilla3 Assuming they are are healthy and happy. Not rebellious, trouble-prone, ill, or drug-addicted. Most of my NYC childhood peers are dead, in jail, or homeless. I spent my youth struggling economically, despite degrees in engineering and finance, and a clean record.
I had no desire to raise kids in a hateful, dying world!
@@ViceCoin
Very sorry you've had such challenges! My 3 are educated, in good careers, independent and well adjusted. No one I know has spent time in jail. Best of luck in your remaining years!
@@OceanFrontVilla3It's not for everyone and most people regret it even though they don't admit it. If it was good for you consider yourself lucky 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sounds sad to me. 😢
I agree, but thought something was missing. Helping other people is vastly rewarding and there is still ample time to enjoy the things that you enjoy. Experience from my past business ventures and multiple divorces leaves me with a lot of knowledge and some wisdom. Passing that on to the next generation results in enjoying watching up and coming younger people have success and/or avoid major pitfalls. “A wise man learns from the mistakes of others, a 0:39 fool learns from his own mistakes and an idiot never learns”. Humbling myself and explaining that I learned most of what I know by making mistakes, so I fall squarely in the fool category. Start off telling some youngster that and you get their attention. Helping elderly people is also vastly rewarding. To see the look of reality in their eyes that someone does care is priceless. So yes, every day, do your workout, help someone, then get on your Harley and ride, or get your boat and go fishing at the nearby lake, or go play golf, or since it’s now hunting season, get your bow and go enjoy a nice sit in the woods. Life is good, until it isn’t, but as one wise man wrote, “I’m not worried about dying, but I am concerned about not living well”.
I cracked up when you said you hurt your back in your sleep. That hit close to home, as I wake up every morning with a sore back. Takes a lot of stretching just to get up in the morning. A sense of humor and purpose helps. Great video, everything spot on.
I’m 70 And Still A Rock’en Musician👍. I’m Thankful!
Wow! What a ton of wisdom packed into 12 minutes! Thank you!
Yes! Good practical wisdom! The best kind!!!
@@richardfadle5921
Yep… 👍
You are absolutely spot on ! Just turned 60 and you took the words right out of my mouth. Good to hear it from another man and understand that my mindset is ok . Thanks for the vid.👍
76 is life expectancy at birth. Once an American man reaches age 60 his life expectancy is around 81.
I didn't know that
Amazing stat
Chinese say after 40 you are probably gonna live long
Ooh, good news
Bingo
You are great!! I am going through hard times right now as a 61 year old female
Truth! No one is coming to save you, is correct! Truth glasses were put on and when I get through this I will be better for it! YOU ARE SPEAKING TRUTH! YOU ARE GREAT! THANK YOU FOR TJIS VIDEO!
You are spot on! Thank You for this video, after 49 years married my husband & I are so aware of all you say🙋🏼♀️🩷
Thanks, great video, I laughed the whole way… 59, retired for 2 years and glad to know there are others out there who see life the same way!
I was in Dumaguette last October to check it out. While I have worked throughout Asia for over 25 years, I had never been to the Philippines. Was glad to go, but in the end Malaysia, Singapore and Thailand were closer to my comfort zone. I was actually in Ground Zero twice last year when you were there but you were busy and did not want to bother you. The one point which I would suggest about aging is the importance of making your peace with God. From watching you over the years it has been my observation that this might be a hole in your life (forgive me if I am off the Mark - pun intended). Having lost my love of my life two years ago and watching her suffer through an agonizing disease over her last three years taught me a great deal. Coming to terms with your mortality and preparing to meet God was chief among those lessons. God Bless you, Jenn and the baby.
Your best video! Good solid advice!
Thank you 😊
“Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans” . John Lennon🙏
Great quote
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans". When you quote someone, double check yourself. It's not a quote if it's not verbatim.
Great quote but it actually first appears in a January 1957 issue of Reader’s Digest magazine and the expression later became popularized in 1980 within lyrics by John Lennon.
This is the most honest and straightforward statement I've ever heard. Thank you ❤️
Who is this old guy in the mirror, and why am I shaving his face? This statement is so accurate!😆
I’m 40 but this is great for motivation. I’ve done the military, moved to Norway and Japan, done the big job thing, been married, earned big cash, bought the fast car and motorcycle, but I still want so much more out of life. Thanks for the inspiration, sir.
Often slow and steady wins the race.
@@woodrmp1 not if you run out of time. Besides, in the end the only race you’re running is with yourself.
I’m the same, 41, army, oil field, marriage, 4 kids.. own business… shit went fast.. I’m realizing the simple life is the good life.. work work work… it went by so fast.. I’m focusing on what’s important now not interested in over 50lbs a week.. ready to go travel the USA the nomad lifestyle… who wants to work tell there 65-70 then do it.. I wanna do it by 50 or less while I can enjoy it
I just found your channel. You are a great guy and your info is very helpful. I turned 63 this year and I can't believe how fast time has passed. And it seems to be going faster. Keep up the good work.
Around my 59th birthday I lost 2 businesses and about 60% of my net worth. After years of stress, overindulgence in food and drink, plus working mostly in front of a computer, I was out of shape and low on energy. Trying to get back into a skilled labor type job, I discovered I could only work for 4-5 hours, and I was beat. So, I did a 25 day water fast and lost 22 lbs then started strength training for the past year. I look and feel like a new man at 60! Material comforts are great but without your health and vitality you have nothing. Yes you can build muscle and get in amazing shape at 60. I have even been approached by women in their 20s...still! BTW I am not doing TRT but have not ruled it out in the future.
I began lifting weights at 18. I’m 54 now. 33 of those years I was a Natural. At 51, I got on “The Gear.” 💉Testosterone. Get your blood checked first. Make certain your liver, kidney’s & cholesterol are at normal levels. Congratulations on your progress.
Have financial independence.
Maintain your ideal body weight.
Be happy whether rich or poor.
Reduce stress.
Be active.
By the way I am 81 plus and I still drive every day.
Thats quite a list! Not always easy for people to achieve especially the financial independence
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Really appreciate this video. I’m 62. Time is flying by now. I reflect a lot but try to live my life with God in my heart. We all go down this road and understand and appreciate simple things so much more.
"You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Including yourself"
I love listening to people just ahead of me in life.
I value your time and wisdom and sharing.
🙏💯🙏 Thank you!!!
I HATE driving
People today drive like maniacs esp on the Interstate
I stop driving at night
No brainer
I turned 68 last month and I just sold my house 2 weeks ago. I couldn't take care of the house anymore( my back and knees) plus people are charging too much money to fix anything that goes wrong. I moved into a 55 and older place and so far I'm loving it. My wife is 11 years younger so she keeps me active. Met her online 6 years ago and brought her to Texas, she's from Ireland by way of Brazil. As soon as we get settled here we will start traveling more. Can't wait!✈✈✈✈
Forget calling a handyman if something in the house breaks...they are all thieves.
@@tonyfanto9743 I agree!
I'm 66, happily alone.
Good stuff !
Please find someone to spend the rest of your life with, take chances, you never know. I have a friend who had a heart attack, he was living alone. If someone was with him, that person might have called 911 and his life might have been saved. I married someone more than 30 years ago, my friend said she will leave once she gets her papers to stay in the US. It doesn't bother me, I know that we are in love, now have 3 grown up children who have left the house and the 2 of us are now by ourselves looking forward to retirement. Telling you this story that life sometimes takes the unexpected. Please give love a chance.
What a wake up call!! Thank you!
Wow, what a breath of fresh air and honesty you are. I'm so glad I found your channel. You sir are spot on with your advice and I can't say how much I look forward to your post.
I am over 80, 11 year Widower, financially secure. The main issues I see today is friends passing away and you can't get any real pain control medications for routine age related problems in the USA. No wonder street drugs are such a problem.
Spot on. I wonder where you CAN get real pain reducing meds for age related pain?
Marijuana.
@@samuelwilliams7331 does it really help with pain? I have never tried it but am looking at gummies at the vaper store. Is Delta the same thing as marijuana? I'm confused as hell✌️
Go to Mexico. You can buy them over the counter
The best for back pain and less harmful then a lot of medications.@samuelwilliams7331
Great insights. I relate to everything you said. I'm 65. Met my Filipina wife when I was 45, she was 25. Have had a fantastic life with her but it goes by in the blink of an eye. Live every day to the fullest. Enjoy every minute. You don't get any days back.
Hope you have disposable income for her ❤
@@SweetUareDesithey’re so selfish getting a younger woman knowing they’re going to die and leave her by herself.
I already submitted one comment while listening but, I can't believe how much wisdom I heard in this video.
That comment aobut forgiving your enemies but not trusting them is GREAT! Took me a while to learn that, but I did and I am happier for it.
That's not always the case, sometimes you can regain trust.
Mark, I’m 87 Korean veteran , still drive, took down 15 foot tree. Travel all over Asia. My secret enjoy life. Think positive, don’t try an keep up with the Jones. And most of all don’t associate with Negative people.
An old italiano told me secret Small glass red wine an small piece dark chocolate.
Red wine and dark chocolate that’s true I’m 73 no visiting doctors no medicine Polish living in Philippines not alone of course.
Most likely the positive mindset rather than the alcohol for longevity.
Korea was over 70 years ago. What were you - like 17 - when you went in?
Thanks for your excellent service. God Bless.
This video needs to have millions of views. Such sound advice. And I say this as someone who is still relatively young, age 38, but I've always tended to look at life from a more mature perspective. And now as I'm getting close to 40 and seeing how it seems like it was yesterday that I was only in my 20's, and seeing how age is starting to add certain challenges to life that didn't exist in my 20's and early 30's, I can understand all the things you say in this video loud and clear. I've made some big, bold, and controversial decisions throughout my life. Life-changing decisions, and I've made numerous ones. I can't say whether they were right or wrong, and I don't know how my life would have been if I had not made those decisions, but one thing I know is that each time I did my best to follow my heart, and thus at least I can say that I don't regret NOT having done X, Y, Z. At the end of the day I think it's better to have experienced some failures and perhaps regret having made certain choices, rather than to regret NOT having done X, Y, Z.
At 70 , I didn’t expect to be single . I appreciate your video .
Oh my, you speak the truth. I'm 73 yo and, based on experience, you speak the truth, indeed. Thanks
I'm 78 years old and grew up in the 50s and 60s. Yes, we had our problems back then and in every generation since, but the late 50s and early 60s were more like the episodes in Leave it to Beaver, and the movies like "The Music Man" were more enjoyable to watch than what is available today. In my opinion the only live TV worth watching today is "The Voice" on NBC 8 PM, Monday and Tuesday. My wife and I have been married for nearly 50 years, and I thank God every day that we have the life we have, despite the world around us.
Me too and we were the children of the greatest generation which was America's most shining hour in my opinion except for the horrible violent racism...
We came so close to nailing but the racism is too ignorant and
the wars are just too profitable
But I haven't forgotten my pledge to liberty and justice for all
100% SPOT ON ONCE AGAIN!!!!😎😎😎😎😎
I'm 61. This seemed depressing at first, but then I realized that he is expressing the facts realistically, and then provides great advice. I would want my daughter to find a man like me. So, yes - I am a good partner to a woman. I was with my Ex wife for 17-years. We divorced 11-years ago, and I am disillusioned with modern, American women. Thanks for putting out consistently, helpful content!
This video has to be the most honest and truthful ones I've viewed recently on the realities of aging. Point after point rings true. Wish I had been given this advice and counsel years ago.
I'm 53. Curiously I thought I would watch your video, so happy that I did. Thanks for taking the time out to make this video.
Thanks for the video. It really made me think about things - paying stuff off and not buying anything but necessities so that I can retire sooner rather than later.
Mark, here was my Saturday. 5 am woke up and had coffee in peace. Feed my dogs and at 7 am woke up my 11 yr son and made him breakfast. 8:40 we were off to his tennis lesion here in our sub-division. I love watching him learning. Anyway 11 am we were off to the driving range 10 min. from our house and i just watched him hit three racks of balls. On the ride home he said to me "thanks Dad for getting me involved learning golf cause I really enjoy it". That's what I live for, the little thank you's. Right now he's at pretty new roller-skating rink they open near us a few months ago. He hasn't missed a Sat. or Sunday now in a couple of months. By 5 pm I will have picked him up and his mother will be home about the same time. She spent the day at the hospital with her sister and her sic baby and we'll have dinner together. OK, tomorrow being Sunday I will drop them off at Church @ 6:30 am as he, my Son is a alter boy and has been for some time. They normally eat brunch after church then come home. I'll be 75 this month and would not trade what i have for any other life. My man, you have a lot to look forward to in the next few years. Children at our age are blessing at least in my humble opinion. Cheers.
Blessed
Well you have fun with that i did that at30 yr and now my times is mine and guess what your kid could give a rats behind about you or help you not that I asked them but its the harsh reality of life so its my time now
I would NEVER allow my son to be an altar boy that's HIGH RISK!!
@@OceanFrontVilla3 If I were you I'd spend more time with your son. Explain the pitfalls he has to watch for in life and how to react to them. Cheers
Lot of truth spoken here. Can’t argue with any of it. Well done.
GREAT advice. You hit so many points in short order. At almost 55 and starting over after being with her since I was 20. I had a hard time, but finally got my head cleared and am back in the saddle. Never again as far as marrige, but am going to enjoy life, be a good father, friend, family member, and give back to the community. That's the important stuff.
Greetings from Manchester in the UK.
Just coming up on 60, and I agree with all your observations. Well done on laying things out in a clear, no-nonsense fashion.
What's really refreshing is to hear an American speak so candidly, a truly rare event in todays environment. I take my hat off to you sir.