6 Things Women Do That Turn MEN OFF!
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I had a neighbor who was married to a very wealthy man, he treated her poorly, like she was a possession, and when her looks faded he was even abusive. He died early of stress related conditions and she remarried a restaurant cook who made a middle-class salary and treated her like a goddess til the day she passed. Not saying this is a rule, but you should look for a man who respects and adores you. The amount of money he makes shouldn't matter, as long as he does his best to provide.
Absolutely true! Find a good decent guy and the money is secondary.
This 🙌🏼 💯
Find a good man. A good, classy, honest, ethical man.
I met my husband when he was poor. We were both poor. We both worked together and made our fortune. Eventually I quit working because my husband’s position was more than sufficient for us. We’ve been together for 32 years. We are a true team.
Tashi Lhamu I need to remember that. What is your situation?
Wow now your husband has to do all the work not you bruh cause you a woman
Angel Abrego and she has to do all the cooking and cleaning because she’s a woman
Thomas Gebray that is way easier than working you could have breaks whenever tf you want when you are cooking and cleaning in a job you can’t
Thomas Gebray and it’s not like if you have to cook and clean 12 hours a day in a Job you have to
I personally don't think it's about a man being 'rich' ... I think it's about a man having standards 😊😊😊
Thank you
Well said. There are lot of rich man but they don't have standards.
A prime example R Kelly is very rich but no standards Usher is very rich no standards Puff Daddy very rich no standards and yet all of these individuals both Usher and R Kelly have herpes and it's spreading to lots of young women in their 20s 30s and we'll even hump on some that's in their 50s so you really got to be careful with that you're going after money you may not know what this person's intention some of these people like Chris Brown Rich wealthy and sexy but at the same time he will beat the dog crap out of you so when you have your own money your own standards and you have your faith in God you don't have to get beat down just because a man don't like in a flash of a second what you're wearing or the fact you're not praising him as if he is a God really???
No, it depends on the stage of life the woman is in and her current social peer pressure to acquire BETTER/BEST material and personal wealth.
Ew you gross ass sexist
When a woman has a beautiful face and feminine physique, good character and behavior can propel the right people in your direction. Invest in self.
Youth is very powerful. Better find that rich man before you turn 40.
@@ganymeade5151 40? 35 would be max ! Rich men want young women in their early twenties.
I have it all and I'm still single. So?
@@shiningstar4ychannel40 your lack of your humility 🤔
Physique* not physic idiot
To sum this up, be classy at all times and be in your feminine energy.
It seems so odd to me that women need to be schooled about this but we have been receiving the wrong message since the ‘70’s. Men no longer know how to be men and women no longer know how to be women. It’s sad really. I’m all for equal rights/pay etc. but women and men are meant to compliment one another not compete.
@@Lifes_Frosting 1000%
So true;)
@@Lifes_Frosting I agree!!
I AM Absolutely agree!
When you don't wear nail polish..... It's such a drag, if a guy so desires he better maintain it. I remember my ex use to be requesting that i do my nails, lets just say that when i told him 'then pay for it' that was the end of that convo.
Glam Bunni broke men shouldn’t have types
Exactly. We would all look butch without the magic of $. Lol
@@mgdkns6678 lmao making my nails blue or red isn't basic hygiene
You don’t have to have vibrant paint on them but a simple manicure IS A MUST. I’m bipolar as well (seen someone else say they was) I bite my nail and pick at them a lot, that’s the main reason I try to keep a decent manicure.
@@mgdkns6678 if they are a peasants??? have you ever considered miss LaTi fa with your Brazilian and ship shape brows and pits painted nails and what ever else you veneer upon yourself in all your self adoring glory just appeared in that rude statement as you so gently & understandingly put it some of you peasants who do not do your nails May I get your attention off yourself a moment if you would allow me to save you the humility of discovering at a later time Oh your highness Queen Nefertiti that with all due respect and homage your royal highness the white wash of your Personality is chipping miserably and everyone is seeing that a White washed Out house nice as it looks on the outside is still after all an outhouse underneath hmm excuse me My dear she is offering you advice You missed somehow not all of us here are here trying to fool eligible men into thinking we are something we are not Women would all do well to increase their value By developing inner quality which would help them live happier personal lives with or without a wealthy man Virtue is its own reward! she shared genuine traits she herself has acquired obviously to women in general who are interested , You may be quite dashed to learn the numbers of Men who likely would be quite put off by a over inflated hot air balloon with rhinestoned nails far sooner than a genuine lady who is not quite so full of herself without polish- which can as easily be applied as removed however corrosion of ones Character is far more pain staking to remove and generally undesirable apart from someone ordering from a drive thru take out Menu Madame you might consider making room for a man in your overcrowded self absorbed dynasty before referring to other ladies as peasants Miss Sharmoota
women in the comments. why complain?
if you don't want a rich man, fine don't.
if you cant or don't want polish on, fine don't.
if you want to make your own money, fine do it.
for goodness sake, she is only giving this advice to the women who DO want to know these things, who DO want to find a rich man etc, your opinion is irrelevant.
I agree with u she is so kind classy classic beautiful inside out and let's pick good advises from her to advance our lifes 🙂
kymetah wilson exactly!! So many bitter women
100% agree
You want to know what's more amusing? Why are the majority of people who comment on this video women? Makes me think that they actually DO want a rich man but are afraid to admit it 🤔.
Hahaha... right... they come here, watch the video, and they say they don't want a rich man... lol
I'm not personally trying to attract a rich man, but I would like to learn to present myself in a more sophisticated way. I think her videos are fantastic.
Thank you 😘
Exactly
I agree. I have my own business and provide for myself, etc. But I think it's fun and interesting to reflect on my presence. I'm learning a lot
They're usually more promiscuous anyway
one of my ex trustf boyfriends told me that men look at a women's nails like how women look at a men's shoes.
Very true. I like good quality shoes and belts on a man. My husband knows this. I keep my nails short and manicured but only wear polish on special occasions
I once overheard two guys talking at a Rite Aid in line behind me. One said, "I would have married her, but her nails were disgusting!"
I was taught the same thing by my mother !
Yes, and no. I'm definitely one who notices if she's into some flashy new style of throwing all kinds of "bling" on her nails, but I find myself, most often, judging a woman's smile--and teeth--as some personal criteria as to whether I'd find her physically attractive. And that's before I start judging her personality, which is the ultimate dealbreaker.
Well, that's good news because I couldn't care less about shoes.
I agree that a woman shouldn't be asking men for stuff before they're in a relationship. That said, if he isn't offering, then that is a bad sign.
Stingy, cheap rich men are disgusting
@@ganymeade5151 It's his money he can spend it how he wants with it.Why don't you get your own money and stop depending on other people?
@@edsonlapomarede6318 as a gentleman he should be looking after his lady. Its not that hard to understand. If you care about someone you show them.
@@wardakhan618 Yes he should but it's his money he does what he wants with it .
@@edsonlapomarede6318 then he can stay single. His just not ready to start a family
I watch this channel because I find these tips and topics interesting as far as being a more refined, classy and feminine woman, not to attract a rich man. This channel honestly teaches me a lot of self care for my own selfish reasons.
Same! I am happily engaged to be married, but I love this channel for the self care aspect
Me too, thanks
Same here, i will like to be/look more polish,classy,put together, etc... And i feel this channel helps with that. I wouldn't mind a rich man lol but I'm not here for that because if i had the option to be with a trashy,low morals, no principals,ghettos rich man i wouldn't do it.
Same for me! 💯
when it comes to self care - being selfish is the best thing 💖
I dated a very rich young man from old money wealth. After 13 yrs of bitter sweetness I decided that was not for me.I regard myself poor yet very classy and well educated. From then on I just looked at great men with or without money. Found a poor man with amazing qualities. I fell in love and 23 years later and 4 beautiful children I am so glad I took a chance with this man. Together ,we have achieved a lot and we are still crazy about each other.
My advice to young people is love is one strange thing and it will pleasantly surprise you.
Not all rich men are classy. Some are narcissistic bullies, as are some poor ones! Some women fall for money and don't look at the way the man treats other people. Big mistake! Evaluate the individual, rich or poor. Be well groomed, have good hygiene, polite, well mannered and look after yourself, and don't have anything to do with anyone rich or poor who treats you badly. Be the best you can be healthy, educated, hard working, well groomed, considerate. A good mate is a bonus, not a necessity. These days women should not think they "need" a man to do anything they want to do.
@@TheMazinoz I agree. But unfortunately many women (and men) settle with anyone due to social status. As being single is seen as a worse status than being with the wrong person or being of terrible character.
Just beautiful thank u I love ur advice will implement I am just 20and loving it
@@TheMazinoz Very important to point that out 👌🏾
Aww thats really sweet, wish for the best for you and your family
We all joke about bagging a rich man, but true wealth is rocking your own life to the point of attracting a successful equal. Just because Matt Damon married a bartender doesn't mean that's the norm...by a long shot. Have a life and he will appear.
Jessica Bach it’s is then norm
Jessica Thats Atta Girl to you Honey theres one looking for a Girl just like you
This is why I attract famous rich men I can't seem to get them off my back. I fascinate them therefore the having to grow constantly does not apply 😊
@@StarZenith33 you must fascinate them because you are already a whole person, secure in your self and convictions. Beauty may catch his eye, but personality and soul will keep him around. It must be a fun life you lead, good job!👏
A Long shot from a bartender. Lol
A superficial man will dump you the minute he gets bored and the next tart comes along. Not worth the effort. Find true love. Don't be arm candy.
An extension of himself? Trophy wife? No thanks! I want a REAL man with brains and balls, not some rich snob who is into NAIL POLISH. That one shocked me. How shallow can you be?
@@LisaGemini Exactly my sentiments. Heck, I'm an artist..I get paint under my nails..(snark snark)
Yes I agree on this,because he will find more beautiful than what he already have.
true
Thats why you give him spaghetti
The one who has no money also has a huge ego and will cheat you anyway, why not get a rich one.
this is SO true. I dated guys before that where below my standards lookswise (but I still gave them a chance because I thought personality>looks). Turned out that they had huge egos and thought there were rly special .
Dana muller, I totally get it. I’m just tired of my ex-partner who I looked after financially for 6 years🙇🏽♀️he never had steady job. He sat on a couch and talked the world.
NOW my rules is if the guy is not at least financially supporting himself I’m out of here. 🤷♀️
True! My ex - partner was like this as well, I accompanied him from zero and still he couldn't take care of himself then he just hurt me and left me one week before our wedding because of his own insecurities.
My girlfriend's mother used to say to us young Bronx girls, -"It's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor man" :-). Her advice is so true. My elementary friend married an Ivy league. graduate. Myself, I married a College grad Engineer from a good family. My neighborhood friends who dressed sexy and gathered all the neighborhood boys, - married H.S. dropouts. My Norwegian mother taught me to never chase after a man, and to always dress, like a lady. My High School neighborhood friends who dressed provocatively wound up being pregnant and mothers at 17. The lesson to young ladies is, - know and value who you are and demand respect. Do NOT listen to the defective Zeitgeist of today's society.
Time to turn my lawyer game up and get shmoney
One thing that needs to be brought back into society (looking for a rich man or not) is CLASS.
lol I am a girl with some money and you should make a video about what turns rich women off
I am Sure Its a Valid dilemma
Why would she though? If her target audience are women who want rich men, I doubt too many men are watching these videos.
It's such a generalised video, ain't it? People of all income brackets have different wants & needs - should've titled the video, "how to attract superficial traditional men".
I love this! You go girl😍😍
Absolutely agree!!!!!
I must admit watching this video made me feel uneasy and I’ve realised I’d rather earn my own wealth and marry a guy who is my equal.
Right!!! I felt like I might also need to start practicing saying "yes master, anything you want I'll do". Like she took it to 50 shades of gray or whatever but really, I'm more than capable of making my own money, but thank you for the offer to keep me locked up and brained washed, maybe next time... said no one.
@Kat C that is true...
@Kat C LOL... reality check
I respect you. I really do
Men and women will never be equal.
I am married to a rich man, he told me he fell for me the first time we woke up together, messy hair, no make up, sleepy, yawning, warm and happy.
@Get `em! Get `em! 😆😆
you let someone sleep with you when they don’t love you? 😂 not very classy!
@@cherryhappily well I guess we all have our own opinions, I have my opinion in a house worth millions of pounds, or in my Bentley or even sometimes in the heated indoor pool, or on holiday in the Seychelles.......
@@lucritiadarke5025 not classy to attempt to brag either 😂
As long as you are happy,im happy for you.
“First turn off is no nail polish on nails”
Me, a cellist: *oh*
Vila Petrovic u could try keeping your nails a neat type of short rather than having an extra af mani and maybe a soft pink thats similar to your nail color in case it chips?
I think they could make an exception for a cellist!
Can relate! Violin player here.
Lost me at tip #1. Nail polish.
Um... if I come across a dude who gets pressed over bare nails, I am going to be questioning his sexuality.
i keep my toes polished, but my fingernails manicured. I suffer from Bipolar, so on my worst days, if I have nail polish on it will just be chipped in clumps....and that isn't a good look. So i'll bite the dust with this one.
OJay88 she is talking about rich men maybe?
It’s also interesting that many high paying health related careers (doctor, nurse...) don’t require painted nails. In fact it’s a detriment to have painted nails.
They want a polished well groomed lady, they want a woman who shows that she truly care about herself, a feminine woman.
OJay88 Women like nail polish. Most Men don’t. They perceive it as hands of wicked witch.
Rich doesn't necessarely mean high cultural level. I've always been interested in brain, fascinated by intelligence and culture. A person with curiosity and high intellectual propension is the richer person. I will maybe die poor but surrounded by art, litterature, poetry and deep inner richness.
Stop lying 🤣🤣
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Nobody say money is important.
It becomes too important if you dont have any.
@@ashleighnunez5532 fine, but lets say educated men are not allowed to have wealth or power...now you dont want an educated man LoL
Then go some where else
My sister found a good rich man to marry. He is classy and moral. My sister is one of the most virtuous women I have ever met, this is why he married her. If you are manipulating men and looking for a relationship in order to find money or status then don't expect these men to love you for your soul and your heart. If you are classy, you will attract classy men. If you are moral, you will attract moral men. If you are shallow, then that is what you will get.
That is the positive truth!
Perfectly said
Actually, a quality woman will attract ALL kinds of men. The key is to filter out the few good from everyone else!
Agree on that. Everything is the Reflexion and the Mirrow of yourself 🙏👌😊
When it comes to rich men, I think most women value them, not so much for their money, but for the sense of security, that they are bringing in.
vanyus ix there is no replacement for wealth and power, and all the doors that can be opened for you. Although they can be closed forever if you screw around.
vanyus ix 100% correct
@@maggieburgone961 You might be right, however, I don't think so. Authenticity and the truth cannot be replaced by money for many people. This is how I view things, it's more about the feelings that the wealth is bringing you, not the actual wealth.
Its the same thing..
@@vanjaganja You must have heard what they say; "When the money is gone (security) love flies out the window." Even a great love can be dessimated with stress, discomfort, bills unpaid and becoming homeless.
Remember ladies manicured doesn't mean claws or pointy unnatural shapes or garish colors.
I agree, if your nails hurt the skin while you clawing at his back... now that is a turn off
Gee thanks for the memo from the 1940’s
@@schws001 yeah, seems that the memo was missed, so it needed to be reiterated :D
@A O how sure are you that they do wipe?
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Who needs rich men? Make money on your own!!!
Sabine Brühl if you have your own money than I assume you would want a partner who is equally well off or more so than you for the synergy
Finally someone is making sense
if you make your own money does that mean you want a man who is broke ?
@@avawilliams5827 Someone professional with good money management habits and who is a family person will automatically fit the role.
So would you date a broke man and or a man that makes less than you?
I used to be high paid consultant years ago. I left work and take care of my family now. My husband loves that a lot. He likes that I take care of myself more than before now. He loves that fact that he is the provider. I am very feminine and your video had many helpful tips for improvement. 😘
So beautiful
Bless you & YOUR FAMILY!
Being a Lady is a full time job and this is my job. Thank you Anna for your videos that keep inspiring me to elevate myself.
I really want to become a lawyer and work hard, make my own money. But I am more attracted to richer men, not because they're rich, but because they (well most of them) are more mature. They know what they want in life and aren't afraid to work for it.
Inge Schipper I’m literally in the same situation
Inge Schipper could not agree anymore
Hi there Inge, I really like your comment b/c we share some things in common. Can I please have your email as I am interested in being cyber friends w/ you. Thank you❤️
i'm late to the party , but i love your comment ..
Omg same !
i hate everyone commenting like “oh my husbands poor and we’re happy” or “women should make their own money”. like ok why watch the video then?? literally don’t watch it if you don’t like it. this video is made for people that are interested in this type of relationship.
u are sick people , u leave with ur pussy , if u have balls with the pussy i cant imagine what u gona be
@@user-di4hn3ok1e waw so elegant
@@claritascraze hell yeah , do u imagine a pussy with the balls , the Women complex ...tell me why girl love put there face pic in youtube lol wtf so elegant , no one give fuk only simp dogs
@@user-di4hn3ok1e then don’t look at it :) don’t bother reply either cz all you do is spread negative energy and I’m not gonna reply to that 🧚🏽♀️✨
I mean seriously... they saw the title .. 😅
When I was younger I didn’t understand how to dress at all. I wish I was taught this in high school.
Did your mum not tell you how to dress? Did you not have friends? Did you not have Magazins like Vogue and Elle? Did you not see different dressed women where you grew up?
This is so unbelievable to me. In Europe, the twelve year old girls tell mum about fashion. My friend gets discussion every morning of her 4-year old what combination to wear in kindergarden.
I wish I was taught how to save and invest money earlier, I would be rich.
@@ganymeade5151 lol that part
ABSOLUTELY YES 🙏💙💙💙
Whether rich or poor, married or single, happy being single or looking for a mate, wanting to gain elegance and be more classy is never bad. If a woman only improves her appearance yet has a lack of substance in her character, this will reveal itself soon enough. Anna, however, doesn't promote being superficial which she addresses in her other videos. She promotes being well educated, kind, gracious, etc (i.e. all around beauty and elegance from inside out). Take what you can use from her information and leave what isn't applicable to you. :)
Okay i should definitely have a rich husband.....but the lack of nail polish is holding me back. 💅🏾
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I have a love hate relationship with this video 😩
And i have to say your pic is just wow Girl ❤
Same... I want to be myself and follow my own rules yet I still want a rich dude🤦🏽♀️😁
Miss954 you can do both!
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V, yeah most of my ex’s are financially secure and comfortable but not rich... but the more that I think about it, I don’t want the same type that this lady’s videos are about. I don’t want the preppy country club pretentious type but more like a retired nfl player, someone with money but not stuck up
If I meet a rich man, I think I would ask him how he made that money and teach me so I can make my own 🤔
Natalie Muñoz why would he do that lol
@@Aleinad7 to be a nice person. There's always people willing to be somebody's mentor.
Natalie Muñoz well why not find a woman who can be your mentor then ? You need to be careful as most people will have their own interests.
@@Aleinad7 that can be too. But she is talking about rich men, and I was just pointing that out.
Lol. Rich men don't want to have competitions for their businesses.
I know you get alot hate but I love your channel. ❤ There is a lot of truth in your tips so please keep talking.
Seems anyone who puts themselves out there gets a lot of hate.
I agree she has a certain je na sais quoiii
@@ganymeade5151 true
@@asparrow9876 and I bet you're pathetic! Why are you on here trolling her and my comments if you have so much damn money?
Rich men (that she is talking about in this video) want a woman as a status symbol, not a partner.
If you want to be a trophy, ya gotta stand on a tiny pedestal and paint yourself gold.
Sis they ain't ready lol
@@neithrajewelry THANK HEAVENS!
Ultraviolet Morgan yes true
It's true and it's exhausting after awhile
Ultraviolet Morgan - Yep - does melania trump ring a bell?
I think you should do a video on the different types of rich men in different categories
nanay3000
I would watch it
nanay3000 I’d like to see that too
Tradicional feminista! Love it! The way my grandma and mom used to present themselves, as ladies. If we show men we are ladies, we will find a gentleman. My grandma’s words.
When you look for this gentleman you look at his character and values over his wallet and assets.
Offer to this gentleman as much as he offers you, and if you do you should find your "gentleman"
I totally agree with you sis
Me as a nurse.. I can't use any nail polish. It's unhygienic, especially when you have longer nails. Bacteria like those places, even after washing your hands they will stay with you.
I work at a hospital too
So if I want nail polish for an occasion or a party
I use the peel off one
It is easy to remove after the occasion
In quarantine..my nails are ..nurses nails...🤪
I love your comment because so many nurses are working with nails! I see it all the time. I do tell myself I would like another profession because I want to have my nails done but it's a health violation 🤷🏾♀️
@@bassymichaelis2244 how do I find the peel off nail polish and how long does it last?
@@rebekatalebi8046 well I have a cheap one from a local market in my country
It lasts only before you wash it like 3 times (water makes it peel off easily)
But I think you can find good quality brands that last longer
I wouldn't let a man determine my worth. Period. Worry about getting your own so you don't care about what a man wants....love yourself
Selah Alexander 🙌🏽
From one black woman to another. Sis get that chip off your shoulder. Wealth is more then money. Wealth provides comfort,security,protection. No other race of women are on that get your own bull shit.
@@clearlyclaire5825 , I think you misunderstood what Selah meant to say. She was simply stating that you shouldn't change yourself to something you don't like or you don't agree with, because of a man or anyone else for that matter of fact. This is not having a chip on your shoulder. It's about respecting yourself. You should change things if you feel it's better for your self worth, not because you want to please a man. Being yourself is extremely important.
Clearly Claire Truth. So many black women are self sabotaging and they don’t even realize it.
@@edennis8578 You sound insecure if her comment was about getting a rich man you would've called her a gold digger. Who told you a woman needs to be broke to get a husband smh
I'm glad you discussed cussing because that is my downfall. I'm really working on it and want to become better. Thanks for the reality check.
Jessamie Yule amen sister
Jessamie Yule Terrible advice to keep a Woman single.
Mine too
Damn I need to stop cursing
Me too. :/
„I don’t need a rich man, I am the rich man.” -Cher :)
Are you,a dude?!
SAME HERE
And that's why Cher has a daughter that changed her sex..
So , are you rich ?
@@dohahachoumi9080 No, I am not. But I am still blessed. I wouldn't want to be rich and have a daughter that changed her sex..
The one thing you do that you haven’t really mentioned in this video and I don’t know if you’ve mentioned it elsewhere is: speaking at a good pace and methodically.
You speak at a normal pace and clearly. You don’t speak quickly and flippantly you speak with purpose and you make your points in a very proper way and nicely.
You are so REAL.... just love you!!!! Love that you are talking about what was previously just “learned” in your family but never spoken of. Am enjoying your videos so much and actually wishing I was 25 again .... so I could do it all over again. My mother called it “class”. Elegance IS SO special. (I’m 70 now. Great life. Great husband. Traveled. Fabulous home. Happy.) You are so astute! This wisdom is not easy to get.
Her top looks perfect on her!
I have medium length nails & I only wear clear nail polish. That's how most of my conversations start. I get compliments on how clean my nails are.
I just love hearing you giggle when you say something that we know is spot on. I love watching these videos. I often watch while sipping a glass of wine, as if I'm hanging out with a girlfriend, having a chat. Thank you Anna...Cheers!
That was worrying when she said "he wants to be masculine, he is the one with the money" as in he is free to do what he wants but you must behave and conform to him and his likes bcos you have less. Women are their own people not fake, void, puppets for pay for play entertainment. Some of the other advise was good though, it's just about having class.
Ethiopian Sunz TV for some people from different backgrounds and experiences, security is more important.
It's not how you look, it's how you present yourself to the world like a high-value woman because high-value attracts high-value. It's the law of attraction, thanks for your knowledge, you are great.
“Be the rich man your parents wanted you to marry”.
Ewwwww no. I mean.....what???? No😂 That whole independent woman thing is so 2000s. and 2010s. That's started to get played out. Thank God🙋
Yes n o 🤑😈
@@AprilHarmony9 How can you refer to being 'an independent woman' as something 'so 2000s'. It is incredibly sad for a woman to think that. Women should encourage each other to be independent financially, and in all other aspects, and never relying on someone else. Women are not objects or prizes to be preyed on. If a woman wants a rich husband, that's fine, but don't dare disrespect women like that and the whole independent movement.
@@kenza9627 feminists are paving the way for women so that they have choice tk be independent and rich by their own means or marrying a rich man but neither choice being looked down upon because of their sex.
If she wants to marry rich and not work a day in her life let her live her best life there is nothing wrong with that unless shes an abusive mofo who is ONLY dating for moneh then no.
If you are a feminist a woman wanting to be a housewife shouldn't offend you there is nothing wrong with them wanting to be able to rely on their partner for financial support of them and their possible offspring
@@Lucy-ws7sp There is nothing wrong with being a housewife, a woman should be whatever she wants to be. However, I was responded to that person's comment that was totally unnecessary saying "ewwwww no that whole independent woman thing is so 2000s." like how can an independent woman be an outdated thing? That's what I found to be idiotic.
Can't thank you enough, Anna. Such truth, honesty and great advice.
I am a very wealthy women in my own right married to a very wealthy man....all our friends are wealthy also. All their wives are well educated independent women...and the same age....!! My husband wouldnt notice if i was wearing nail polish or not...in saying that we both come from wealthy backgrounds so do know how to behave and dress classy. I think the men you are talking about are nouveaurich...newly wealthy...and feel they have to ..BUY....a trophy wife to reflect the wealth....Not Classy.quite sad really.......
@@vertigo_topples // This chick! HA! Plus, surely very wealthy people would be doing something way more exciting than hanging out watching UA-cam videos about the struggles of 'poors'. Amirite? Wouldn't they be dining, or traveling, or sitting in on an auction of some kind, or attending a charity function, or getting ready to attend a function, or being groomed in some way (massage, mani/ pedi, hair salon, high end shave, fittings at their tailor). Or even doing the things that make money like...WORKING, or meeting with their broker/ banker/ attorney, or......
Lol you and your husband come from Rich background so you know how to behave and dress classy? So in 21th century, people need to have Rich background to know how to behave and how to dress? Hahaha lol 😂 sorry clearly you are not belong to 2018 21 century
Fiona O'Hare Your husbands mistress is the complete opposite of you and your social circle. This is common
it's interesting how hateful the responses to her well meaning post are...you guys have issues.
@@H3LLS3NT4SS4SS1N 👏👏👏
I think this advice is for rich OLD men. Not young new-rich men, who suddenly strike rich at age 25. But men with money who are maybe in their 40's or 50's + and who have been rich for a while.
Chances are you can't get the newly mega rich man. No disrespect. I couldn't either.
The majority of self made rich men are old, and the young ones are born with a silver spoon and dont date outside their little group. The old self made rich men are the only ones you can stand a chance with... but you have to be ok with older men... Im not. Gag.
Yes I agree she did mention that in the video that this video was intended to explain wants of for Rich that have been Rich for years
not the new or inherited
Since when is 40 or 50 construed as all capitals OLD!!??? 50 is the new 30, & there are 50 yo men who look better, are in better shape, & don't choke you or smack you during sex , so I'll stick with the 40-50 year OLD GENTLEMEN
@@nancyburpee3610 I'm so glad I'm not the only female that doesn't like that at all lol .... Sounds like I need me an older man 💛
I like her approach.its not only about rich men its about self empowerment ,surrounded with good standard friends and networks.
my dear. These are truths.I am so grateful for your generosity.
Rich men value kind and caring women, just like any other men.
Jessica Bach, you're correct, I work in a building filled with people who make hand over fist money compared to my working poor salary. Many of the people I deal with are silver-spoon-in mouth type of entitled folks. You can tell they've never done anything in their lives but sit behind a desk for years. When someone has had it good their whole life, they see little need to be humble and kindness seems to elude them, often. Some of the women come off as very snobbish and stuck up to the point where I avoid them whenever possible. Though I have met some great people, which are surprisingly down to earth. I would venture to say that niceness does not really equate to attracting someone with tons of money. It takes a "special kind of woman" to chase after the millionaires and billionaires of this world. Rich men have TONS of options so this woman must be able to claw her way to the top past all the others to be with the top tier of men. I highly doubt being a good person is going to get her there, anytime soon.
Jessica Bach comment of the century!!
@@JBO2493 I agree some very Valid things for Women To Consider Wealth and its citizens have different sets of Problems
Zofia Janeczek Finally, someone who gets it. Most of the women commenting don’t understand it truly is a competition. And, there’s always a line behind you anxious to take your place. Most women don’t have what it takes to play at that level, the same way most men don’t have the drive, talent, skill, etc to create serious wealth.
No, they usually want a trophy wife to display along with his money, cars, jets, yachts, etc. They only want slim, beautiful young women and don't care if she's got a brain, personality or a heart. Maybe some of the older ones would appreciate those things, but only after they learned the hard way. All that glitters is not gold.
Ladies,remember you can be replaced a thousand times over by these wealthy men.Why let yourself be demeaned by men that will more than not discard you.Concentrate on yourselves.
Asense of any man will dump you eventually... for younger model especially midlife men
You can be replaced even faster by a broke man lol
Amen. Make your own money, just stay healthy and as fit as you can. Hell, Im in my 60s and don't attract much in the first place no matter what I look like, so as far as I'm concerned, just be yourself and if it's meant to be cupid will hook you up. I guess.
@@barbarak5740 Yes it will happen if you date playboys
then date a quality man
Your passion and enthusiasm shines through! I love how you are objective and analytical. Please can you do a video about text etiquette / social media etiquette? You have touched on it but it is SUCH a minefield when you are trying to get to know someone in the early stages haha!
I so agree that regardless of who you are with, having your head permanently craned over your phone is rude and not attractive!
Keep the videos coming Anna✨ So full of useful information ✨I'm here for it ❤️
Don’t ask for money and don’t drop hints. Make your own money, period.
uh huh honey that’s a fair enough statement. People do what they need to do to survive. Ideally we could all
make our own money. It doesn’t always work out that way unfortunately. Also, I’m not a “little ignorant person”. I’m quite fat actually, lol. Have a great day!
Men are controlling as hell, thats right women should get a career to have CONTROL!!!
@uh huh honey Somali pirates do what they gotta do. Does that make it right?
I just discovered you and I am glad I did. In my opinion, your advices are supposed to be basic lady's behaviour, primarily for herself.
But not everyone will understand, they will attack and look down on people who thinks that way.
Anyway I am about to follow you on Instagram as well.
Thank you, great content.
You look amazing in this video! Hair, makeup everything! You glow here✨
Learning everyday being a class woman, thank you Coach Anna 💕
Love this video thanks for the tips!! Love what your doing you don’t need to spend 3 mins explaining yourself, we get you hun!! Forget the haters this is not for them anyway, the ones who wanna learn are here to watch 😘😘 would love to see more things like this xx
I love your display picture gorgeous!!!
thank u!! I had my 13 yo daughter watch your video. never to young to learn to be classy.
Why are you here? Go away. This video isn't for you Basica.
That crazy girl Nunu ❤️ you and your crazy self!
P Vincente shoo
She's right about the nails ladies. My on again off again ex is a partner in his law firm and makes seven figures. One day, years ago, we were at dinner and he commented that my nails weren't painted. I don't recall the reason they weren't now but I will never forget that moment. I then replied, "Are my nails always painted?" He replied, "Yes, they are." I always make a point of having my nails done before any date and I always wear color on them (no clear polish). Well-manicured, polished nails convey that you take care of yourself and pay attention to detail. Men notice.
Sounds controlling. Not having them painted but having them neat is absolutely fine lol if he makes comments like that, soon it'll be this isn't done and that isn't done.
That sounds like a narcissist.
its because they think you arent taking care of yourself and your upkeep.
this is true.. a lot of men always notices when the nails r not polished
Nails NOT being done doesn’t equate to you don’t take care of yourself! It means you’re real and not full of yourself, you’re not high maintenance. It equals to you’re the kind of gal who works with their hands, who isn’t afraid to do things on her own if she has to, someone who will pitch in and help her man when needed. In other words NOT a gold digger, not a diva drama queen, not someone who looks plastic and sounds foreign. I’m NOT looking nor aspiring to be a rich mans anything, never have, not my cup of tea! Yes people there are actually women out there who will still date/love a man not for the depth of his wallet but the goodness of his heart. May I ask why this grand garbage is in my feed??? Why? Just why?
my husband is an engineer. He married me because he says I am the smartest women he ever met. Think I will keep him.
Oh yeah be aware he replace you with one who is really smart and eye candy lol
@@cambelasben I've had 2 boyf both cheated and I am what people consider attractive but it's my fun personality that makes me. But my boyfs both cheated after years... one with ex and one with someone younger and not attractive but wanted his money and played to the ego. I'm the lucky one I was confident enough to leave and know I'm worth so much more
does he know that you are a woman? and not a women!
He probably controlling as hell lol
Anna Grass She never said don’t be smart
I’m a concert pianist. Naked nails a must although I do occasionally wear polish but I can never wear them long. 😭 Any man who wants to be with me, will have to appreciate and in fact, cherish who and what I am.
as long as you make sure they are beautifully manicured and clean! they don’t have to be long just make sure they’re manicured :)
I feel that a well manicured nail with a good, natural shine beats all of the decorated, sharp and weird nails of today. I see nothing classy about the way people are wearing their nails.
Great channel, were leaving bums in 2018.
2019!
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Okkk. True.
I'm here for all of that!!!!
For some of us who havr NATURAL big bums like black women, that's a bit harder to do.
I love this channel! I definitely believe the point is to help women become more elegant and be less “sugar baby” style. A classy woman is a happy woman as they receive and enjoy the finer things in life. Anna, this channel is amazing and could really help a large number of women.
I'm 18 so it's hard finding elegant dresses that don't look too old for me..
Elegance is not about being the twin of Kate middelton or something..., look for femininity and u'll find great elegant things for ur age !
I so needed you Anna in 2009 when I met my average Joe..or even before that. I am now binge watching your videos just because I realized I don’t know much good manners. I want to work on myself and be more classy and elegant even if it’s for my own self. I already have a spouse and three young children. But I still have hopes to evolve into a higher class lady.
Rich men are controlling. I'll take a charming, manly hard working tradesman who knows how to treat a woman, plus they are very good with their hands.
Good for you then.
MrsHouse M. Are you stupid?
@@joebroart I dont think so. She was able to come up with her own ideas of what she thinks is right, eloquently.
@Kat C 😁😁👌
My ex is a plumber, I met many tradesmen too... They don't treat women good at all. I don't know where you'd get this idea. They work hard for their money so they're usually very cheap too. They also make a lot of house calls and god knows what they're really doing. Morals of an alley cat and abusive most of the time. Be careful with your logic.
Hello, Ana. I found your site from Christelyn Karazin's Pink Pill website. I am looking forward to learning more about you and your website, and putting into practise the lessons you share with us.
Wow, I truly can't thank you enough for sharing how you used to swear like a truck driver. I was raised in New York and didn't have a good upbringing and had parents who swore every other word. I'm evolving into this high class woman and had heard not to swear but thought "hm maybe I can just get away with some/or maybe I'm different" - but to hear you share that experience changes my perspective completely. This is probably one of the most challenging transformations of my life but I will succeed and as of today I will not swear anymore. Thank you x a million Queen!!! 💖
The dropping hints thing is so true like I had male friends that got me or tried to get me stuffs just because I mentioned them once💀🤦🏾♀️
I’m still building my wealth but I do look for these things in a woman. Interesting
If you have ambition women will cling onto you even more. It’s very difficult to make a decent living these days. I find it impressive if a guy can live on his own without parent’s money/ splitting bills with roommates.
@@sandracastellanos921 i can live on my own. im 14, a CEO and a stock market investor.
Delighted and impressed with Ms Ana Bey and her tutorials. I have married into the nobility. Manners, education and etiquette are the basics of any society, nobility or otherwise...where Ms Ana Bey plays a great part in society today, is that we, as women, must value ourselves, in my experience successful men look upon a woman/partner/wife as an investment and as such will as they always do value and treasure the investment. No wealthy man will part company with a Monet painting...the same applies for the perfect woman in his life.
These tutorials are, for me, a must read...Thank you Ms Bey.
Countess Saskia Du Pretz
Very true
Your videos were so different back then. Love that you keep improving along with us. Big up to you!
Your advices are sooo on point! You are a real mentor ❤️ Thank you for this😘😘
Welcome to the 1950s everyone...
B Langland Welcome to the real world when your feminist marriage fails 😩
Halle Janes your traditionalist one will fail too. Men don’t want to be women’s workhorses anymore...
JBO2493 I’m 18 and have a fiancé that already allows me to stay home full time and has a great full time management position and spoils me lots so it’s really not a fail haha. It’s actually a fail when the woman is forced to go out to make less money than the man would and then ends up doing all the house work and chores anyways because that’s nature, and then has to do 75% of the work to make less than the husband. Or have the wife be spending all her time obeying some other man and working side by side all these other woman’s husbands and cheating and destroying two families at once. That’s a major fail, both are happier in their natural place and that’s fact. Ask any woman if she wanted to marry a man that would work and provide everything and extra for her and show me any woman that would say no.
@@halle212 no.
Esther Fomin you elaborated so well lol 😂😂😂
As a woman who's been married for 26 years (admittedly, to a regular Joe, TRUCK DRIVER! HA!), I have to say that I agree with everything you've said 100 percent. I was raised in NYC by my divorced mother who taught me that the most important thing was to be INDEPENDENT. If anyone would have told me that my Midwestern husband would somehow be able to turn me into the cooking, baking housewife that I am today, I would have laughed in their face.Traditional roles are amazing! I love caring for him. Ninety percent of what he does is FOR me. We always try to put the other first. It's a partnership. If I wanted to go back to work, he would totally support that. But while he never made it an issue, he REALLY likes me staying home. (To this day, I don't know how he did it!) I just wanted to say that you're beautiful, you're speaking facts, and we need more women like you out there letting women know that no career can ever begin to compare to being a full time wife and mother. (No one ever left this life wishing they'd spent more time working!) So aim high ladies! Don't sell yourself short. Don't waste your youth. When done well, it's the most important job there is. The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world!
I'm glad you and your husband make it work! A fulfilling marriage is pretty hard to beat and can uplift both people physically, emotionally, and mentally. I hope I can find someone like that, no matter what he looks like or what he does as a living.
K Smith I also was married for 26 years to a truck driver and he ran off with the nanny. Just here out of curiosity really. I now see that I was home giving my best and he was working and providing but it was not good because when one is living on the road for weeks it gets lonely. I married first time for love but I think second time would be more looking for someone well off and can take some time off work when needed. I love working too and I can but mainly don't want it to be a struggle anymore ever. So glad its going well for you.
All women aren't the same, Some women find fulfilment in having a career and others find fulfilment in staying at home enough of this generalisation of each gender
I think that I’d rather kill myself than devote my life to being a mother and housewife. I’m happily chilfree, married to a wealthy man, educated, working hard, traveling all over the world.
We are all different and aim for different things in life. We are not made for same things and it’s all fine.
A truck driver? lmao
You are spot on with this advise. Thank you for sharing with us.💖
just found you and i love it!!! I can totally agree with what you are saying and I do relate, loved the tips
She is right. In my ballet dancer classes when before a performance all the alumni girls helped our girls get dressed if they saw something incorrect they would tell you like paint your nails before going out on stage.
Bare nails imply you have to work hard and they break or chip or arent allowed. Long nails are a sign of not working. Being pampered.
Very true
Some of us couldn't care less about our nails and enjoy being hard workers. Our jobs are more important.
Medical doctors also have trimmed, bare nails and porn ladies have long nails....just saying
I lived and believed everything you have suggested when I was young, but, now at 63 my mindset is different. I do not need the man and what comes with it anymore. I am a widow and had a wonderful and generous husband. I still miss him after 10 years. I am completely self-sufficient, and I’m sure your advise is for younger woman. Your suggestions are wonderful and very helpful and I pray that these young ladies take your advice. But, somewhere along the way things do change. Don’t get me wrong I still live by many of your suggestions just to keep me looking and feeling good for myself. Thank you, you have inspired me.
Hi, you look so good, can u please talk about your perfume collection for elegant ladies
I would LOVE to know Anna's perfume preferences!!
Some rich men lose their money so I am not changing anything about myself for any man. Trust me. I know.
Donna Ryan exactly
Donna Ryan bet you can’t keep a man
E Dennis que desgracia eres
@@Susana-yg6hk y eres muy buena para hablar en espanhol pero no puedes hablar con el en ingles. No eres mejor solo por hablar en espanhol.
Travel In Pages I can speak english and chinese but you are right That doesnt make me a better person
Why should we have good or bad men, when we can have rich or poor men?
poor ladies, get a life
Girl!! Point # 1!! Yes yes spot on. I actually tried and it works. It impowers you when you wear a pretty color/manicure
These things really are not hard to accomplish and live by. It’s a good common sense list of standards/ habits. Thank you 😌
I dunno how I got here, but well I accidentally subscribed and I'm gonna. accidentally watch a lot of videos here😂 I love the way you talk!!!
Rich men like class...periodt
Omg your top is gorgeous! Do you have any tips where I can find off-shoulder tops elegant like yours? 💁🏼♀️
"THEY have the money, THEY have the power"
I hate that, I wanna have the money and the power instead of clinging to someone who does
An ne 👏👏👏
If you want money and power, learn how money works. Then in time, instead of working, you have your money work for you.
You are an alpha female the same as me. I want to rule as well and i dont like men who wants me to submit to him. I want equal rights.
@@simpleme3757 Exactly!
YES!
Never clicked on a video so fast😂😂😭 I’m not a gold digger though lol😶
Rich men want to own you like they do everything else in their lives. They feel entitled. Women need to have their own, and never ever depend on a man, rich or poor.
All men are the same, some just have more money than others.
Yes, I'm speaking from experience, in case you were wondering.
Christie your comment may be the most truthful and intelligent one in this whole mess
Exactly. Being independent is so important
Broke men want to own u 2
stanza schulz
Thank You for your comment!
Banks Banks
Exactly!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.