My niece and her friend came for the weekend and left wet towels on the floor. She also used 8 towels in 1 day because of our pool and shower’s. Picked them up after they were in the pool and said… who is going to do the laundry?? My house was new and just built, so I was upset she had no regard for the house 😩 never had her at my house again. She was in her late 20’s to old to know better.
Here's something I've found very nice: When you get in, bring some flowers and a cake for an afternoon "coffee talk". When you leave, leave your room as tidy as you can and leave A LETTER thanking all the attentions that your host had and inviting them back :D
I have to add one more to your great list. 11. Continuing to look down at your phone when someone is speaking to you. Or even worse! - picking up your phone while they are mid-sentence. Unbelievable how many people do this to others. I had 1 friend that would do this to me sometimes, and I would actually stop what I was saying and just awkwardly stare at her until she was done texting. It's simply rude. Especially if you do this to your spouse, or your kids. You're sending a message, and not a good one. I try to give my husband the same attention I want in return. So if I am on my phone and he begins to speak, I make sure to hit my phone screen off and put it down so I can look at him, and be intrigued and invested in what he's telling me.
@@simonrwife What I mean by, "Being Easy" is being Desperate. Desperation makes it so a man can't chase. Men may go after the girl spilling out her feelings early on or even spilling out of her bodycon dress, for pleasure, but When they see women like Anna Bey slowly walking by with a subtle grin, an air of mystery, wearing a pretty outfit, and smelling of sweet perfume, they chase! They chase relentlessly, and that purpose is usually to make her his wife and take good care of her, if she'll have him. It's like the Jewlery that anyone can grab on a rack versus the Jewlery behind glass. You automatically know it costs more, it's worth more, and you must take good care of it. Don't be afraid to be the Jewlery behind the glass. ❤
@@carak4356 I'm so glad. Just remember, this list is only for a man that's worth your time. Avoid men that try and tell you how great they think you are as a way to get close to you. Know yourself, and know that everything about you that's good and positive is a HUGE DEAL, not common. The more you realize this, the better off you will be and the more likely you are to avoid men (and people in general) with narcissistic tendencies. I just felt the need to tell you this.
vulgar language. In my experience, men (classy men) prefer when a woman speaks with class and not dropping profanity every few seconds. Thank you Anna! Love your videos
Thanks for pointing this out. It's something I need to work on too. I consider myself quite feminine and soft spoken. But I use profanity often. Not in a harsh way but it is part of my vocabulary. Need to tone it down.
Agree! There is NEVER an excuse to speak vulgarities - it demeans you and demonstrates your lack of proper vocabulary and your lack of self-control. A most unladylike trait! 😖
I’m dating someone rn and is going great but hearing about dating stories from other women, the dating pool is trash. Many men today want all the benefits of a boyfriend without even committing to a relationship. It’s hard to find high quality men nowadays
I noticed this from my friends, too. I want to tell them so much that it's because of XYZ (casually sleeping with the man, being too available for the man, offering to pay for him, taking over the conversation, etc, etc), but I can tell it's not my place. I hope they find their way because they are all wonderful girls and want so much to be loved from a genuine place.
I think we have to set the tone and show others how we want to be treated. And we do that not by showing that we're these entitled princesses, but by living the kind of life that exudes self-respect, healthy boundaries, standards we set for ourselves.
Quality men didn’t go anywhere. They’re still very much around, they just adapted. Modern women have been reengineered to prioritise and appreciate the very things you’re complaining about in men. The jerks and F boys who don’t care are usually the ones who win these days. The “good guys get punished and the F boys get rewarded aplenty. So men adapted. In the past, women use to emphatically trade sexual access for commitment, as men control commitment and women control sexual access. Then there came the hook up culture, a bill of goods sold to Western women by the girl power heretics. You can blame men from now till kingdom comes, but in the dating market, women dictate the pace and rhythm. If you demand a certain behaviour from men in order to gain access, we’ll comply. It’s that simple. It’s been that simple for all of human history. To the long-term detriment of modern women and the pleasure of men, the girl power movement told women they should easily give up the very leverage they have in relationships (sexual access), while simultaneously demanding no commitment from men as a prerequisite. Men and women are not the same. Sex as an act in itself has different physical and mental implications for both men and women. More power to you gals.
some turn offs... making him the butt of your jokes to get laughs in a group, constantly correcting him in public and praising other men . I have seen all these done in group settings. I chose not participate in the conversations but it was awkward.
@@carlabridgesmason3529 to be honest, i dont say anything, because in their relationship, my brother is besotted by her, even tho this behaviour is visibly upsetting to him. but if anyone dared to critize her, he would not like it either...
that is awful... and there are these girls that are like "What? That's how I act when I like someone!" No... That is so repulsive and wrong, if someone did this to me I would be so annoyed and instantly get turned off
My fiancé told me that he absolutely adores how I show love to everyone. I was surprised that this was one of the main qualities that made him want to shower love on me. So I think Anna is right. Men don’t like drama and they find kindness and an understanding spirit (even with people who do not share your values) a remarkable trait.
on god!! almost the same with my boyfriend. he loves me for having a good heart, didn't expect that answer at all back then... and yes, they hate drama. kindness and calm is really important to my boyfriend too. and intelligence, and yes, understanding also... a little bit of profundity, gratitude, honesty, but also authenticity.
Being clingy is a huge turn off to most men. Be independent and have your own life, interests, hobbies...things that make you interesting and show that you're your own person.
@Me men like to feel *NEEDED* occasionally, but that's totally different than a sad lil woman who just mopes around til the light of her life -her man!- appears lol. A successful man typically wants a woman who can keep up with the lifestyle, and a whiny, clingy girl just ain't gonna cut it for very long.
@@dijonvolner6024 not me, I can't say that i was inelegantly neighing like a horse at Anna jokes and faces hahaha, she is good with the humor in her videos lol
'Oops, I dropped something!' Love it.....reminded me of that scene in Legally Blonde where Reese Witherspoon teaches the other lady how to do that! Also, that blue dress looks great on you....
I’ve been going on dates with very high value men, and I can 100% say your tips have helped me so much. I act naturally feminine, I let them initiate, I am secure and not desperate, and I don’t ever in anyway, ever even reach to pay or anything like that at all, and let me tell you, these men seem to find all of that rare. All of them have been very happy about all of those things. Thank you Anna for your help❤
And since I started following her advice,I realized men really give when you just rest in your femininity you don’t even have to ask he’s ready to give you and spend on you and even listen to you..thank you Anna
To both you and the person who replied to you, not to be nEgAtiVe, but what you're describing might work *only and only* if you're exactly his type. I am naturally very feminine, very well-mannered and elegant, yet I'm basically invisible to the male population. Before you might mention this, yes, I sMiLe a lot. Yes, I am still pOsiTiVe, despite my total lack of success. But please stop giving other women false hopes. Unless they find you physically attractive to begin with, at best they will ignore you and at worst they will make fun of you for "pretending to be a princess". Just be honest.
I like that you mention how it's important not to be this ice cold queen pretending you're not interested in this person in front of you. I think a lot of women forget that men are not bulletproof when it comes to rejection. And sometimes we ladies need to send some non verbal cues to ensure him we're interested. You don't want to attract someone who's only interested in the numbers game 😉
Honestly I think men have more fragile self images than women do. They fear rejection far more than we do and unless it’s in good taste, better not to make fun of him. Tease him maybe, but not in a playground bully type of way. Men do NOT like to be emasculated by women.
Yes that was very important. I unfortunately have an issue with that which I think comes from shyness, or rather awkwardness around someone I find interesting. Anyway I accidentally come across as not interested at all when in reality I wouldn’t mind being pursued.
I will quote what I read in a comment on another video of yours: "Anna, you are a civilizing force". Thank you for daring to give these tips that I'm sure a lot of "modern" people would frown upon
I have noticed you are having more fun making videos lately. I love it! 😊 It has been a nice change and it makes the videos more relatable and fun to watch.
Anna, would you be able to make a video about managing conflicts with family in a calm, elegant way? I think they are most emotional and often drive us to act irrationally. So how do we keep our cool when we get mistreated by people closest to us, when they make inappropriate comments, step over boundaries and ask questions that are too personal, etc. Love your channel, btw! You are a wonderful person. Thank you for sharing your journey and knowledge! ❤
I end up becoming a stone cold woman when i have a crush on someone!!!!! I'm working really hard on this because you're right! It's 100% a turn off. I think I'm getting better.
We need to swap some problems because I am the opposite, way too warm, way too soon. Like the comment above mentions...I have no mystique or mystery! Let's pretend we are each other next time we are with our respective crushes!
Same! I'm working on this too. 🙂A friend of mine told me it comes from being afraid to be vulnerable with someone. She said, "It's ok to be vulnerable. It's a necessary part of getting to know each other."
Ana! As always, perfect! Looking fantastic, making a lot of sense, perfect sense of humor and of course- professional knowledge. I’m one of few ‘over 60’ viewer enjoying your videos tremendously…and still learning. Thank you!
My newest realization to avoid being 'the man' is allowing things to get as awkward as you can. No joke.. I have dated men who will comfortably not make concrete plans, not chose the restaurant, not invest time in asking questions.. They know that we will start to pick up the slack just to make things more 'comfortable'.. . but if you DO NOT act... let it be as awkward or uncomfortably strange or silent.. he will pick up that tab. he will become more dominant and make the choice. He is forced to hunt, instead of expecting you to become the man and do everything
I was raised by fairly masculine women, and some of the behaviours I picked up from them are so difficult to unlearn and change. I was always taught not to be too "girly" or show vulnerability. It's so annoying sometimes when I realise how I'm behaving 😅
@Xristina Rose Yeah, same here. Masculine traits definitely serve their purpose, I think, but in such cases, femininity gets pushed down until we forget why we need it. It's not an easy thing to relearn
Agreed. One of the reasons I resisted being more feminine when the notion was introduced to me was the indoctrination I had received against femininity.
I'm not anna but i can say that no... eligant lady don't flirt with men.. because anna say's in her videos that don't Chase a men... and Don't try to hard....it will downgrade your image
one article I read said when interviewing men "not past your bra band And hair you can run your fingers through. " men want to touch your hair but if they can't the intimacy is gone and when you have to long of hair it gets all trapped
@@a.b.2405 humans are so confusing.. everything else in life is fluid, but for some reason, marriage has to stay static? Not hating.. just curious. 🤷♂
Very true. I think that perfectly summarises a perfect date. You're enjoying yourself while being yourself and you're also engaging with the person in front of you.
I'm guilty when it comes to Musculinity tendencies Anna but I'm working on it,although I'm not dating at the Moment but I'm learning, I've improved tremendously when it comes to feminine dress code since I've been a tomboy all my life, Thank you soo much my dear Elegant lady Anna, sending love from Africa❤
There’s nothing wrong about being a tomboy if you feel comfortable with it,every person has a masculine and feminine features and it’s perfectly normal
me too! I am married but it is always necessary to improve ourselves... being independent my whole life with no dad and a mom that was like an army general.. I too developed some masculine traits that now I am aware of and with Anna's help I am trying to fix. It is not easy but not impossible.
Dont get brainwashed by this misogynist girl. Masculinity and feminity is a myth. We as humans are whoever we are, our talents, our skills. We dont have to be restricted by our gender. And certainly not change ourselves or become less of something to impress a man. Be a powerful woman!
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I would love recommendations on how to maintain your feminine allure within marriage. I'm finding that after being married for 3 years and becoming a little more settled with each other that my husband is a little more relaxed about some things and not as prone to doing some of the roles of a man the way he was when we were dating. Is there something that I am doing that has caused this shift?
Ana, #4 is my sore spot. I am very direct and to the point. Get it done and not fluff. But I do understand some fluff is needed as not to come off so hard which I really am not. Love this list😍
Anna, you did it again 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼 I love your realistic teaching, it’s so funny 😂 yet so true . 😌 You teach biblical principles … SELF CONTROL no matter what the situation maybe… God help us !😅😅😅 Thank you so much for the teaching / reminder to stay elegant 👱🏼♀️ Lots of Love from the Coachella valley 🌴
The lip bite got me laughing! Love all your videos. So true about heavy lifting. I still ask my husband to open jars for me. I can use a knife to loosen jars myself, but I ask him to use his muscles to do it because it's a masculine thing for him to do.
love this! if you expect to be treated as a queen, you must conduct yourself as one! respectable, high-value ladies create a society of men that rise to the occasion, and become strong, doting partners and providers!👏👏
I just so happy seeing you getting more comfortable in front of the camera , thank you so much Anna everything about you is motivating me , thanks God you exist 😍💕
then let anna run your relationship in the future im sure you would have more success you must the the most stupidest woman on here coz you thank to God for her existence
I have known you since I was 17, despite the fact that I did not relate or understand some of your content, I did learn self-awareness and for that, I am grateful. I have re-watched your videos and every time I did I knew myself, accepted myself and came to realize that I have flaws. The stone ice woman is one that I am battling with and I am very direct. No fluff just straight to the point. I am not dating neither am I interested at the moment but a friend of mine had tried courting me but I scared him off. It took me a year to understand what he meant.
Hey Anna, can u make a video on how not to look desperate? A detailed video on how we look desperate, besides physical touch; Like facial expressions, in the classroom, a workplace where we have to indulge in meetings and group talks, etc? And how to be truly confident, and what to do instead?
Aloha Anna, I absolutely thoroughly enjoy your videos. I believe, in my humble, honest opinion, that in the long run, it’s best to be yourself. Of course the way you act around men will either attract a gentleman or someone who maybe won’t treat you the way you wish to be treated. It’s wonderful that you are teaching women proper etiquette and self esteem and once it becomes second nature to you, then you will automatically attract a man who will truly value you and treat you with respect.
It was my birthday. A man took me to dinner, asking where I would like to go. It was a medium priced, popular restaurant at the time. After the dinner, we stopped at a nice local bar serving free tacos. He said he thought this is where we should have gone. I told my friends. They said, don't take it personally. I said, " This was my first and last date with him." He had a great income as well. To me it showed little respect or care for my choice on my birthday. He was cheap.
I wonder if most men are like that because they are practical. Also they tend to be blunt and say what is on their mind. I wouldn't have taken it personally because he did take you to dinner at your place of choice. You might be right in your instinct because of more factors than you mentioned. I would have given him another chance. Cheap people will show it at every turn and not be able to hide it.
This advise is for every woman in general, even if you do just want an “AverageJoe” many of them will also appreciate a woman who knows how to behave. Men and women are the same across economic boundaries and this is great advise for everyone.
My bf is always encouraging me to carry heavier stuff to get stronger lol but I'm glad you clarified it being about across the board masculine tendencies.
Her teachings are mainly for upper class women who will always have subordinate men in their life to do stuff for them. Like she said, when you are alone you will have to carry heavy stuff all by yourself, and then you will wish you had better muscle strength, feminine or not.
@@cece898 you can build strength in the gym, and men who like to carry stuff for their women are not subordinate, they are being MEN and loving being masculine in partnership with their soft feminine partner, it has nothing to do with class. Men fall in love with how a woman makes them feel and a woman who makes a man feel masculine, needed, wanted and who receives positive feedback for what they do will stick around longer than one in a relationship where the woman is more manly than he is!
This is one of your best videos. You’re adorable and fun. I also think your message is spot on!!! I think being needy will cause a man to run for the hills. They seem to like a “little” bit of independent thinking from women.
Because of Anna I'm wearing a bright summery red on my nails. I am blonde blue eyed and always thought it was too much for my coloring. Now I love it and I look more put together than pink hues.
Lol..the bags🤦🏻♀️ as a rule I always ask my husband to open things (jars, bottles ect.) for me, get things down for me, and carry heavy stuff (and my shopping) for me. He LOVES it 🤣 I recommend.
You are simply amazing and hilarious Anna!! 💗 I always learn so much from your videos, but I also enjoy laughing at all the funny parts. Also, thanks for reminding everyone that men and women are two different genders.. nowadays that seems to be confusing to some! Lol
Amen to that. So glad that we are _slowly_ moving back to a time of somewhat "normalcy"... where men are embracing their masculinity, and women their femininity, and proudly so.
I love your video content, I wonder how many young ladies are really getting these advices? Women nowadays are not feminine because they believe that we are equal to men. Don’t forget that we are not, we are build differently
@Lola Jacomino I disagree. Check your words. You’re conflating the word equal with biology. ALL human beings are EQUAL. No race, ethnicity, or gender is “unequal” as in “less than” another. Perhaps you are from a part of the world that believes certain things. Try to internalize the word “different” as in different but equal or if you prefer, “equal yet different” Due to socialization and biology women and men are different. Women are not less than men nor are men less than women. Each gender brings distinct skills, talents, behaviors, and energy to interactions. We can exercise our feminine nature as we see fit without believing we are somehow less of a human being than others
You are completely right!!! I’m sorry for not being clear. English is my second language, that’s why. Also, what you explained is completely on point. Thank you for it
All great tips. I've been working hard on balancing my feminine energy and not being so masculine. I believe that happens when you learn that you are in a relationship with a more feminine energied man. And you "can" do it all, not that you should. But when they don't you end up doing his part too. I'm trying to dial that way back! Ps did I miss no 1? Thanks for the laughs! They're hilarious
I feel this so much. Maybe not with your same intent.. but my last relationship, everything emotional, I felt like I had to step up and be the man. Then to "help" him feel like man. I'd let him pay for things and take care.kf things financially along with planning things (which he's great at) But again, every time when it got to emotions, it felt like I was with someone more womanly than me. And it got rough, especially as it was a time when I was going through a lot of emotional release, along with rediscovering who I am and how I want to show up in the world. With what I'm letting go. It felt like in the ways it counted for him to be in his grounded masculine, he was an apathetic woman pretending to be a man, and when I needed emotional flexibility, it felt like he couldn't reach out of his own emotions and meet me. And O didn't know how to meet him either. Ultimately we just aren't compatible.. but I really got some lessons in which masculine qualities I require, and ways I can allow for his feminine energies to shine through. We were just opposites in those ways. Lessons on their own.
I just watch your videos because of you. You give information in such interesting way, and I like your personality. Thanks, u a helping me to make myself a lady :).
God bless the person on your team that edited the video, some incredible stuff🤣 Also Anna, you as well, I loved the jokes and couldn’t stop laughing! ☺️ All love❤️
You have this sense of humor that keeps me watching you. Would you believe I bought a satin pillowcases this morning because I watched that video. All videos are interesting and great points. 💕👍
When I began watching your videos I wasn't looking for a man. My son was playing tennis and I didn't have much to talk about with the other mums at the tennis club. I was hoping they'd talk to me more, if I managed to look more elegant. My son has since stopped playing tennis and took up Shaolin Kung Fu. No one cares what you look like in Shaolin Kung Fu and it's more relaxing. Yet, I still enjoy elegance. It lifts my spirit, to move through life elegantly. I always enjoy watching your videos 🙂 Btw this blue dress suits you perfectly!
I’m around men quite a lot and I always hear that guys don’t like when a girl is cold and she doesn’t even smile, it puts them off so much! Girls these days they will put a lot of make up on and show so much of their skin and think they are beautiful but they won’t even smile at the guy or make a genuine conversation and they wonder why they’re single 🙈 I love this video, so honest and true! 💕
The last tip about baby talk and then controlling, I've been guilty of. Cringe! I'm super feminine and sometimes my voice goes into that tone, from poor old habits of a previous relationship. Anna you're right, that successful wealthy Men, like my boyfriend find baby talk a turn off. There is a big difference between being feminine and being girly, and it's true that prestigious Men prefer the former.
Anna i laughted so much when you imitated this "little girl's vibe" ! Haha A lot of older women (50) do that to pretend they are younger and its just so fake and "trying too much ". Thanks again for the great tips.
A lot of women including myself are naturally like this. Very girly when we like someone. That’s not fake at all. If Anna Bey wants to coin it as “little girls vibe” that’s her problem. Men don’t dislike this. What they dislike is masculine older women behavior that signals you might be a tough, in charge feminist.
@@laundrybasket2689 Very true. I've had guys who loved the little girl behavior. Not over the top, but they definitely liked the cutesy stuff which surprised me.
@@island661 Yep! It’s great because I get to be myself. When a masculine man is around it allows me to naturally fall into my very feminine and girly side. They definitely seem to enjoy this.
A video about etiquette when visiting peoples home for the weekend, when you sleep overnight, would be be very nice. Love your work.
Yes, Anna, that would be so helpful.
My niece and her friend came for the weekend and left wet towels on the floor. She also used 8 towels in 1 day because of our pool and shower’s. Picked them up after they were in the pool and said… who is going to do the laundry?? My house was new and just built, so I was upset she had no regard for the house 😩 never had her at my house again. She was in her late 20’s to old to know better.
@@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11 I totally understand your frustration, my friends that come to visit me are over 30 and they act like teens too.
Yes!! I need this etiquette!!
Here's something I've found very nice:
When you get in, bring some flowers and a cake for an afternoon "coffee talk". When you leave, leave your room as tidy as you can and leave A LETTER thanking all the attentions that your host had and inviting them back :D
"I don't want to turn myself into a man because I really enjoy being a woman"
True!❤
Adding to the list:
1. Poor self-presentation
2. Gossip
3. Pessimism
4. Constant profanity
5. Attention seeking
6. Bratiness
7. Lacking ambition
8. Turning down his compliments
9. Being Easy
10. Not showing reciprocity
I have to add one more to your great list.
11. Continuing to look down at your phone when someone is speaking to you. Or even worse! - picking up your phone while they are mid-sentence.
Unbelievable how many people do this to others. I had 1 friend that would do this to me sometimes, and I would actually stop what I was saying and just awkwardly stare at her until she was done texting.
It's simply rude. Especially if you do this to your spouse, or your kids. You're sending a message, and not a good one.
I try to give my husband the same attention I want in return. So if I am on my phone and he begins to speak, I make sure to hit my phone screen off and put it down so I can look at him, and be intrigued and invested in what he's telling me.
“being esay”,just because women answers their message and say things like “i love you”
@@simonrwife What I mean by, "Being Easy" is being Desperate. Desperation makes it so a man can't chase. Men may go after the girl spilling out her feelings early on or even spilling out of her bodycon dress, for pleasure, but When they see women like Anna Bey slowly walking by with a subtle grin, an air of mystery, wearing a pretty outfit, and smelling of sweet perfume, they chase! They chase relentlessly, and that purpose is usually to make her his wife and take good care of her, if she'll have him. It's like the Jewlery that anyone can grab on a rack versus the Jewlery behind glass. You automatically know it costs more, it's worth more, and you must take good care of it. Don't be afraid to be the Jewlery behind the glass. ❤
Really insightful and I felt like this spoke to me as good career and actually marriage advice!
@@carak4356 I'm so glad. Just remember, this list is only for a man that's worth your time. Avoid men that try and tell you how great they think you are as a way to get close to you. Know yourself, and know that everything about you that's good and positive is a HUGE DEAL, not common. The more you realize this, the better off you will be and the more likely you are to avoid men (and people in general) with narcissistic tendencies. I just felt the need to tell you this.
vulgar language. In my experience, men (classy men) prefer when a woman speaks with class and not dropping profanity every few seconds. Thank you Anna! Love your videos
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Thanks for pointing this out. It's something I need to work on too. I consider myself quite feminine and soft spoken. But I use profanity often. Not in a harsh way but it is part of my vocabulary. Need to tone it down.
When you use less profanity, in arguments people tend to take you more seriously in my opinion. In general from friends, family etc
Agree! There is NEVER an excuse to speak vulgarities - it demeans you and demonstrates your lack of proper vocabulary and your lack of self-control. A most unladylike trait! 😖
It took me a while but I trained myself to stop doing it. It helps to only listen to the clean versions of songs as well!
I love you girl. Love that quote ‘leave your worst self at home where no one has to deal with you,😭.’ That is so great.
I’m dating someone rn and is going great but hearing about dating stories from other women, the dating pool is trash. Many men today want all the benefits of a boyfriend without even committing to a relationship. It’s hard to find high quality men nowadays
I noticed this from my friends, too. I want to tell them so much that it's because of XYZ (casually sleeping with the man, being too available for the man, offering to pay for him, taking over the conversation, etc, etc), but I can tell it's not my place. I hope they find their way because they are all wonderful girls and want so much to be loved from a genuine place.
@@pennypenny376 same. I don’t want to judge their lives but at some point us women have to start seeing the red flags early.
I think we have to set the tone and show others how we want to be treated. And we do that not by showing that we're these entitled princesses, but by living the kind of life that exudes self-respect, healthy boundaries, standards we set for ourselves.
Quality men didn’t go anywhere. They’re still very much around, they just adapted. Modern women have been reengineered to prioritise and appreciate the very things you’re complaining about in men.
The jerks and F boys who don’t care are usually the ones who win these days. The “good guys get punished and the F boys get rewarded aplenty. So men adapted.
In the past, women use to emphatically trade sexual access for commitment, as men control commitment and women control sexual access. Then there came the hook up culture, a bill of goods sold to Western women by the girl power heretics.
You can blame men from now till kingdom comes, but in the dating market, women dictate the pace and rhythm. If you demand a certain behaviour from men in order to gain access, we’ll comply. It’s that simple. It’s been that simple for all of human history.
To the long-term detriment of modern women and the pleasure of men, the girl power movement told women they should easily give up the very leverage they have in relationships (sexual access), while simultaneously demanding no commitment from men as a prerequisite.
Men and women are not the same. Sex as an act in itself has different physical and mental implications for both men and women.
More power to you gals.
@@esha7486 even if the dating pool is trash, do not ever lower your standards sister and I'm sure you are gonna find a good man ❤️❤️
some turn offs... making him the butt of your jokes to get laughs in a group, constantly correcting him in public and praising other men . I have seen all these done in group settings. I chose not participate in the conversations but it was awkward.
my sister in law does that ALL THE TIME with my brother, those exact three things. feel sorry for him, but we all could see this dynamic from a mile
@@marykay7878 how do you handle that situation? It’s so hard to listen to.
@@carlabridgesmason3529 to be honest, i dont say anything, because in their relationship, my brother is besotted by her, even tho this behaviour is visibly upsetting to him. but if anyone dared to critize her, he would not like it either...
that is awful... and there are these girls that are like "What? That's how I act when I like someone!" No... That is so repulsive and wrong, if someone did this to me I would be so annoyed and instantly get turned off
That would be the female narcissist in those settings. Treating the person as male narcissists do.
My fiancé told me that he absolutely adores how I show love to everyone. I was surprised that this was one of the main qualities that made him want to shower love on me. So I think Anna is right. Men don’t like drama and they find kindness and an understanding spirit (even with people who do not share your values) a remarkable trait.
on god!! almost the same with my boyfriend. he loves me for having a good heart, didn't expect that answer at all back then... and yes, they hate drama. kindness and calm is really important to my boyfriend too. and intelligence, and yes, understanding also... a little bit of profundity, gratitude, honesty, but also authenticity.
@@Eeeaa733 love this!!!
Being clingy is a huge turn off to most men. Be independent and have your own life, interests, hobbies...things that make you interesting and show that you're your own person.
Not true at all. It’s a turn off for women, but to some extent it’s attractive if a woman is little clingy. Just don’t try to control him
@Me men like to feel *NEEDED* occasionally, but that's totally different than a sad lil woman who just mopes around til the light of her life -her man!- appears lol. A successful man typically wants a woman who can keep up with the lifestyle, and a whiny, clingy girl just ain't gonna cut it for very long.
Anna's sense of humor is what I love the most in all the videos 😂 I mean educative and funny? Yes, please 😍👌♥️
Wasn't she funny? I was laughing so much - in a good way of course! ❤️
@@dijonvolner6024 not me, I can't say that i was inelegantly neighing like a horse at Anna jokes and faces hahaha, she is good with the humor in her videos lol
Any man would be lucky to marry a persian woman.
She’s hilarious I keep sayings this
@@RamMohammadJosephKaur how do you know I'm Persian? 😂
'Oops, I dropped something!' Love it.....reminded me of that scene in Legally Blonde where Reese Witherspoon teaches the other lady how to do that! Also, that blue dress looks great on you....
Bend and Snap lol.
It's rather tacky lol
The thumbnail... This is going to be great 😂
I thought as much😂😂😂😂
2:02 this is already great 🤣🤣
I’ve been going on dates with very high value men, and I can 100% say your tips have helped me so much. I act naturally feminine, I let them initiate, I am secure and not desperate, and I don’t ever in anyway, ever even reach to pay or anything like that at all, and let me tell you, these men seem to find all of that rare. All of them have been very happy about all of those things. Thank you Anna for your help❤
And since I started following her advice,I realized men really give when you just rest in your femininity you don’t even have to ask he’s ready to give you and spend on you and even listen to you..thank you Anna
To both you and the person who replied to you, not to be nEgAtiVe, but what you're describing might work *only and only* if you're exactly his type. I am naturally very feminine, very well-mannered and elegant, yet I'm basically invisible to the male population. Before you might mention this, yes, I sMiLe a lot. Yes, I am still pOsiTiVe, despite my total lack of success. But please stop giving other women false hopes. Unless they find you physically attractive to begin with, at best they will ignore you and at worst they will make fun of you for "pretending to be a princess". Just be honest.
I once heard from a man: "if she s a feminist then its 50/50 when the bill arrives but if she s a traditional women, then I pay"
I like that you mention how it's important not to be this ice cold queen pretending you're not interested in this person in front of you. I think a lot of women forget that men are not bulletproof when it comes to rejection.
And sometimes we ladies need to send some non verbal cues to ensure him we're interested.
You don't want to attract someone who's only interested in the numbers game 😉
Honestly I think men have more fragile self images than women do. They fear rejection far more than we do and unless it’s in good taste, better not to make fun of him. Tease him maybe, but not in a playground bully type of way. Men do NOT like to be emasculated by women.
Yes that was very important.
I unfortunately have an issue with that which I think comes from shyness, or rather awkwardness around someone I find interesting. Anyway I accidentally come across as not interested at all when in reality I wouldn’t mind being pursued.
I will quote what I read in a comment on another video of yours: "Anna, you are a civilizing force". Thank you for daring to give these tips that I'm sure a lot of "modern" people would frown upon
Advice tips: learn the mistakes and fix this mess before regrets come knocking down.
I have noticed you are having more fun making videos lately. I love it! 😊 It has been a nice change and it makes the videos more relatable and fun to watch.
Anna, would you be able to make a video about managing conflicts with family in a calm, elegant way? I think they are most emotional and often drive us to act irrationally. So how do we keep our cool when we get mistreated by people closest to us, when they make inappropriate comments, step over boundaries and ask questions that are too personal, etc.
Love your channel, btw! You are a wonderful person. Thank you for sharing your journey and knowledge! ❤
Yes please
Exactly
Yes please!
I end up becoming a stone cold woman when i have a crush on someone!!!!! I'm working really hard on this because you're right! It's 100% a turn off. I think I'm getting better.
We need to swap some problems because I am the opposite, way too warm, way too soon. Like the comment above mentions...I have no mystique or mystery! Let's pretend we are each other next time we are with our respective crushes!
Same! I'm working on this too. 🙂A friend of mine told me it comes from being afraid to be vulnerable with someone. She said, "It's ok to be vulnerable. It's a necessary part of getting to know each other."
@@teresai1877 I like that Teresa. Thank you for sharing your friends wisdom.
Me too.
Same, I'm a stone.
Ana! As always, perfect! Looking fantastic, making a lot of sense, perfect sense of humor and of course- professional knowledge. I’m one of few ‘over 60’ viewer enjoying your videos tremendously…and still learning. Thank you!
Same here....I'm around the same age, but like to think I can always learn something new!
Me too!
I came here for the tips…but stayed for the comedy. Love your humor, Anna.🤜🏼🤪
My newest realization to avoid being 'the man' is allowing things to get as awkward as you can. No joke.. I have dated men who will comfortably not make concrete plans, not chose the restaurant, not invest time in asking questions.. They know that we will start to pick up the slack just to make things more 'comfortable'.. . but if you DO NOT act... let it be as awkward or uncomfortably strange or silent.. he will pick up that tab. he will become more dominant and make the choice. He is forced to hunt, instead of expecting you to become the man and do everything
Love how you’re bringing femininity back! Woman power is actually acting like a powerful woman and not a man. ❤️❤️❤️
I was watching this with my boyfriend, he says he agrees 💯 %! I love your content 💕💕
I was raised by fairly masculine women, and some of the behaviours I picked up from them are so difficult to unlearn and change. I was always taught not to be too "girly" or show vulnerability. It's so annoying sometimes when I realise how I'm behaving 😅
You are not alone, i feel the same. For me behaving feminine is everything but natural since i had to be strong and brave in the past when growing up
@Xristina Rose Yeah, same here. Masculine traits definitely serve their purpose, I think, but in such cases, femininity gets pushed down until we forget why we need it. It's not an easy thing to relearn
Agreed. One of the reasons I resisted being more feminine when the notion was introduced to me was the indoctrination I had received against femininity.
Anna, please make video/s on which haircuts are elegant.
I also want to know that does elegant lady flirts with men?
Fabulous Idea!!!! 👌
I'm not anna but i can say that no... eligant lady don't flirt with men.. because anna say's in her videos that don't Chase a men... and Don't try to hard....it will downgrade your image
@@zmrjhn9097 ya you are right
one article I read said when interviewing men "not past your bra band And hair you can run your fingers through. " men want to touch your hair but if they can't the intimacy is gone and when you have to long of hair it gets all trapped
@@zmrjhn9097 Actually they do. Just not in the obvious way.
my husband always comes to the door when i return home, to open it before i reach it an carrys everything for me :) its a small thing but I love it :D
Love this dress color reminds me of the dress I wore the day my husband proposed 52 years ago ❤️ Great video 👍👍
Aaaww 🥰 52 years down and forever to go!
@@a.b.2405 thanks a million God bless 🙏
@@a.b.2405 humans are so confusing.. everything else in life is fluid, but for some reason, marriage has to stay static? Not hating.. just curious. 🤷♂
It seems like a lot of this is balance and not trying too hard. Love it and your delivery makes it so much fun to watch and memorable. 💕
I love your sense of humor and it is so nice in this video to see you enjoying yourself while teaching us important tips
Very true. I think that perfectly summarises a perfect date. You're enjoying yourself while being yourself and you're also engaging with the person in front of you.
I'm guilty when it comes to Musculinity tendencies Anna but I'm working on it,although I'm not dating at the Moment but I'm learning, I've improved tremendously when it comes to feminine dress code since I've been a tomboy all my life,
Thank you soo much my dear Elegant lady Anna, sending love from Africa❤
guilty of the same :(
There’s nothing wrong about being a tomboy if you feel comfortable with it,every person has a masculine and feminine features and it’s perfectly normal
Let's do this!!
me too! I am married but it is always necessary to improve ourselves... being independent my whole life with no dad and a mom that was like an army general.. I too developed some masculine traits that now I am aware of and with Anna's help I am trying to fix. It is not easy but not impossible.
Dont get brainwashed by this misogynist girl. Masculinity and feminity is a myth. We as humans are whoever we are, our talents, our skills. We dont have to be restricted by our gender. And certainly not change ourselves or become less of something to impress a man. Be a powerful woman!
I'm sensing this is gonna be hilarious already!
@Michelle...
Enough.
Stop.
And get some mental help.
Now.
Even though I am married, this serves as a gentle reminder. Plus I love Anna videos!❤️
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I would love recommendations on how to maintain your feminine allure within marriage. I'm finding that after being married for 3 years and becoming a little more settled with each other that my husband is a little more relaxed about some things and not as prone to doing some of the roles of a man the way he was when we were dating. Is there something that I am doing that has caused this shift?
Hi Anna Bey! When is the next enrollment of your school? Thank you.
Your exaggerated expressions are hysterical. Love the sense of humor you put in your videos.
Ana, #4 is my sore spot. I am very direct and to the point. Get it done and not fluff. But I do understand some fluff is needed as not to come off so hard which I really am not. Love this list😍
The only thing brought me here is your sense of humour while teaching! What’s better than this
Anna, you did it again 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼
I love your realistic teaching, it’s so funny 😂 yet so true . 😌
You teach biblical principles …
SELF CONTROL no matter what the situation maybe… God help us !😅😅😅
Thank you so much for the teaching / reminder to stay elegant 👱🏼♀️
Lots of Love from the Coachella valley 🌴
God bless you Olga. Femininity, particularly within a biblical context should be the model for young women in this day and age. Jesus is King.💕✝️
@@jojos.1041 Amen 🙏🏾 sister in Christ!
I’ve been watching Leesha leveling up and now I’m saving up to take “Secrets of the Elite Woman” myself!!
Anna, I love your advice! You prove that a woman can be a lady while still being strong. You are incredible! Thank you! Judith
Already laughing!!! Thanks, Anna, for this topic :)
Oh my gosh Anna, I just love that your showing your naturally funny side. ❤❤❤
The lip bite got me laughing! Love all your videos.
So true about heavy lifting.
I still ask my husband to open jars for me. I can use a knife to loosen jars myself, but I ask him to use his muscles to do it because it's a masculine thing for him to do.
love this! if you expect to be treated as a queen, you must conduct yourself as one! respectable, high-value ladies create a society of men that rise to the occasion, and become strong, doting partners and providers!👏👏
I loved the "ups, I dropped something"
😂
The exaggerated body moves are fantastic...
HILARIOUS!!!
Honestly you just teach how to not embarrass yourself infront of the others and I’m there for it. I need it!
I just so happy seeing you getting more comfortable in front of the camera , thank you so much Anna everything about you is motivating me , thanks God you exist 😍💕
then let anna run your relationship in the future im sure you would have more success you must the the most stupidest woman on here coz you thank to God for her existence
I have known you since I was 17, despite the fact that I did not relate or understand some of your content, I did learn self-awareness and for that, I am grateful.
I have re-watched your videos and every time I did I knew myself, accepted myself and came to realize that I have flaws.
The stone ice woman is one that I am battling with and I am very direct. No fluff just straight to the point. I am not dating neither am I interested at the moment but a friend of mine had tried courting me but I scared him off. It took me a year to understand what he meant.
I LOVE being a woman! The power we carry is unmatched if you know how to use it appropriately.
Hey Anna, can u make a video on how not to look desperate? A detailed video on how we look desperate, besides physical touch; Like facial expressions, in the classroom, a workplace where we have to indulge in meetings and group talks, etc? And how to be truly confident, and what to do instead?
Generally speaking, if you are passive but receptive you won't appear desperate. If you aggressively pursue a man, you will look desperate.
@@selectiveoutrage6617 thank u, it helped 🌸
i want video like this too
Her sense of humour is brilliant… I actually love her❤️. Her personality is shining 😊
Also I would like to see a video on how one goes from low self-esteem to truly feeling as if you are worthy of a good Man and a higher value lifestyle
you are too old for that grandma!
Aloha Anna, I absolutely thoroughly enjoy your videos. I believe, in my humble, honest opinion, that in the long run, it’s best to be yourself. Of course the way you act around men will either attract a gentleman or someone who maybe won’t treat you the way you wish to be treated. It’s wonderful that you are teaching women proper etiquette and self esteem and once it becomes second nature to you, then you will automatically attract a man who will truly value you and treat you with respect.
It was my birthday. A man took me to dinner, asking where I would like to go. It was a medium priced, popular restaurant at the time. After the dinner, we stopped at a nice local bar serving free tacos. He said he thought this is where we should have gone. I told my friends. They said, don't take it personally. I said, " This was my first and last date with him." He had a great income as well. To me it showed little respect or care for my choice on my birthday. He was cheap.
I think you made the right decision. Especially since it was your birthday and he said that.
I wonder if most men are like that because they are practical. Also they tend to be blunt and say what is on their mind. I wouldn't have taken it personally because he did take you to dinner at your place of choice. You might be right in your instinct because of more factors than you mentioned. I would have given him another chance. Cheap people will show it at every turn and not be able to hide it.
Now we want to know the traits to turn the men ON please!!❤️🔥❤️🔥
I have videos like this in my archive :)
@@AnnaBeyOfficial omg Anna Bey answered me🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️
Oh yeahhh
I love the way she talks, what an elegant confident women. Defiantly an inspiration.
This advise is for every woman in general, even if you do just want an “AverageJoe” many of them will also appreciate a woman who knows how to behave. Men and women are the same across economic boundaries and this is great advise for everyone.
2 min in and Anna has me laughing! The example lmao. She's so adorable and funny she really is an inspiration she balances herself so beautifully
'for the average joe smo you don't need my tips' how accurate is this 🤣🤣
😂 yeah just like for wymin over 40, men don't need tips
My bf is always encouraging me to carry heavier stuff to get stronger lol but I'm glad you clarified it being about across the board masculine tendencies.
Building strength and exercising regularly it’s a must for everyone! You can be fit and strong and feminine at the same time!
My father did the same , now it is such a turn off when a man wants me to be ‘stronger ‘
Her teachings are mainly for upper class women who will always have subordinate men in their life to do stuff for them. Like she said, when you are alone you will have to carry heavy stuff all by yourself, and then you will wish you had better muscle strength, feminine or not.
@@cece898 you can build strength in the gym, and men who like to carry stuff for their women are not subordinate, they are being MEN and loving being masculine in partnership with their soft feminine partner, it has nothing to do with class. Men fall in love with how a woman makes them feel and a woman who makes a man feel masculine, needed, wanted and who receives positive feedback for what they do will stick around longer than one in a relationship where the woman is more manly than he is!
@@oanadamian5850 You can exercise and lead an active lifestyle, but leave the menial tasks to the guy (if you have one) lol
This is one of your best videos. You’re adorable and fun. I also think your message is spot on!!!
I think being needy will cause a man to run for the hills. They seem to like a “little” bit of independent thinking from women.
Because of Anna I'm wearing a bright summery red on my nails. I am blonde blue eyed and always thought it was too much for my coloring. Now I love it and I look more put together than pink hues.
Red and blue look great on blonde women!😁
Oh my gosh no! I’m blonde with green eyes and always have red on my toes/nails. Lol I don’t care for wearing it though.
Lol..the bags🤦🏻♀️ as a rule I always ask my husband to open things (jars, bottles ect.) for me, get things down for me, and carry heavy stuff (and my shopping) for me. He LOVES it 🤣 I recommend.
Great tips thank you!! Can you do a video for mistakes to avoid once you’re in a relationship?
Soften, soften, soften! I have to remember! Thank you, Anna :-)
You are simply amazing and hilarious Anna!! 💗 I always learn so much from your videos, but I also enjoy laughing at all the funny parts. Also, thanks for reminding everyone that men and women are two different genders.. nowadays that seems to be confusing to some! Lol
This! 🙌🏻
Amen to that. So glad that we are _slowly_ moving back to a time of somewhat "normalcy"... where men are embracing their masculinity, and women their femininity, and proudly so.
💯 you have to realize the truth of this as your starting point. Good video
I love your video content, I wonder how many young ladies are really getting these advices? Women nowadays are not feminine because they believe that we are equal to men. Don’t forget that we are not, we are build differently
@Lola Jacomino I disagree. Check your words. You’re conflating the word equal with biology.
ALL human beings are EQUAL. No race, ethnicity, or gender is “unequal” as in “less than” another.
Perhaps you are from a part of the world that believes certain things. Try to internalize the word “different” as in different but equal or if you prefer, “equal yet different”
Due to socialization and biology women and men are different. Women are not less than men nor are men less than women. Each gender brings distinct skills, talents, behaviors, and energy to interactions. We can exercise our feminine nature as we see fit without believing we are somehow less of a human being than others
You are completely right!!! I’m sorry for not being clear. English is my second language, that’s why. Also, what you explained is completely on point. Thank you for it
The exaggerated lip bite had me cracking up. I'm going to do that to my husband all day today lol #cringesunday. 😆 😂🤣
I like that she does not have an unnecessary introduction. Very straight to the point ❤️
Men are attracted to me when I'm natural and laughing. I have tendency to get stone cold when feel someone's fake or wants to get close too fast.
Pure gold:) loved the mix of comedy, wisdom, and insight.
All great tips. I've been working hard on balancing my feminine energy and not being so masculine. I believe that happens when you learn that you are in a relationship with a more feminine energied man. And you "can" do it all, not that you should. But when they don't you end up doing his part too. I'm trying to dial that way back! Ps did I miss no 1? Thanks for the laughs! They're hilarious
Men who grew up without fathers tend to be feminized. They expect Mommy (you) to do everything for them
I feel this so much. Maybe not with your same intent.. but my last relationship, everything emotional, I felt like I had to step up and be the man. Then to "help" him feel like man. I'd let him pay for things and take care.kf things financially along with planning things (which he's great at)
But again, every time when it got to emotions, it felt like I was with someone more womanly than me. And it got rough, especially as it was a time when I was going through a lot of emotional release, along with rediscovering who I am and how I want to show up in the world. With what I'm letting go. It felt like in the ways it counted for him to be in his grounded masculine, he was an apathetic woman pretending to be a man, and when I needed emotional flexibility, it felt like he couldn't reach out of his own emotions and meet me. And O didn't know how to meet him either. Ultimately we just aren't compatible.. but I really got some lessons in which masculine qualities I require, and ways I can allow for his feminine energies to shine through. We were just opposites in those ways. Lessons on their own.
The mother thing is so true for me because it was something i have to really work on! thank you Anna I'm happy for the videos on thursdays :)!!!
I’m guilty of #6 😭 if I’m falling for you, I avoid you. It’s a terrible trait…
Same
You are hilarious, Anna. What an angel!
I just watch your videos because of you. You give information in such interesting way, and I like your personality. Thanks, u a helping me to make myself a lady :).
Yes, so excited about you posting more often over the next weeks! Your videos always make my day! 💛
God bless the person on your team that edited the video, some incredible stuff🤣 Also Anna, you as well, I loved the jokes and couldn’t stop laughing! ☺️ All love❤️
I LOVED THE COLOUR OF THAT DRESS!!!
No LIES told here! There are a few in your examples Anna that I need to work on. Thank you.🙂🙏
I think it all comes down to how a man feels about himself when he's around you.
This is one of your best, Anna! Loved every sign you described and I'll be printing the top page of this video out to remember! 👏
That dress is beautiful both in cut and colour.
You have this sense of humor that keeps me watching you. Would you believe I bought a satin pillowcases this morning because I watched that video. All videos are interesting and great points. 💕👍
‘Liked’ in advance 😊
When I began watching your videos I wasn't looking for a man. My son was playing tennis and I didn't have much to talk about with the other mums at the tennis club. I was hoping they'd talk to me more, if I managed to look more elegant. My son has since stopped playing tennis and took up Shaolin Kung Fu. No one cares what you look like in Shaolin Kung Fu and it's more relaxing. Yet, I still enjoy elegance. It lifts my spirit, to move through life elegantly. I always enjoy watching your videos 🙂
Btw this blue dress suits you perfectly!
your sense of humor Anna is classy..❤
You actually got me laughing.Love your new energy. KEEP IMPROVING.
I liked your humorous side !!
I’m around men quite a lot and I always hear that guys don’t like when a girl is cold and she doesn’t even smile, it puts them off so much! Girls these days they will put a lot of make up on and show so much of their skin and think they are beautiful but they won’t even smile at the guy or make a genuine conversation and they wonder why they’re single 🙈 I love this video, so honest and true! 💕
Anna can you do a video on how to help shy ladies talk to men. That would help me a LOT!! 😁
I always look forward to watching your videos every Sunday!
I love the body demonstrations🤣🤣 thank you. Yet another good video ❤️
The last tip about baby talk and then controlling, I've been guilty of. Cringe! I'm super feminine and sometimes my voice goes into that tone, from poor old habits of a previous relationship. Anna you're right, that successful wealthy Men, like my boyfriend find baby talk a turn off. There is a big difference between being feminine and being girly, and it's true that prestigious Men prefer the former.
Great lesson Anna it's 💯 percent truth and I know when in their 50s,60s,and 70s needs to listen to your great and awesome lessons
The blue dress color is amazing on you! You look beautiful
Anna i laughted so much when you imitated this "little girl's vibe" ! Haha A lot of older women (50) do that to pretend they are younger and its just so fake and "trying too much ".
Thanks again for the great tips.
A lot of women including myself are naturally like this. Very girly when we like someone. That’s not fake at all. If Anna Bey wants to coin it as “little girls vibe” that’s her problem. Men don’t dislike this. What they dislike is masculine older women behavior that signals you might be a tough, in charge feminist.
@@laundrybasket2689 Very true. I've had guys who loved the little girl behavior. Not over the top, but they definitely liked the cutesy stuff which surprised me.
@@island661 Yep! It’s great because I get to be myself. When a masculine man is around it allows me to naturally fall into my very feminine and girly side. They definitely seem to enjoy this.
@@laundrybasket2689 💯
@@laundrybasket2689 Too boring being so prim and proper all the time. 🥱
Great video Anna!💯Those are very important and useful recommendations. 👑
Thank you Anna, now moving to Abu Dhabi and definitely want to step my style up. So much to learn but you show me is possible. Regards,