Surviving a Friendship Breakup | Grief After Losing a Friend

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  • Grieving a friendship? Whether it's a toxic friend or a good friend, it's important to know when to end a friendship. Adult friendships can be hard and take work. So if you've been hurt by a friend, watch this video before you cut off a friend or stop being friends. Understand why you lose friends because losing friendships is hard.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 23

  • @Blackberries729
    @Blackberries729 11 місяців тому +8

    That was too short,I was still enjoying it.😊

  • @yvanessalaborde4051
    @yvanessalaborde4051 11 місяців тому +5

    I love friendship talk. I believe it should be talked about just as much as marriage is talked about. Thank you for this! Keep them coming!

  • @AllAboutYve
    @AllAboutYve 11 місяців тому +4

    Good message i needed to hear. A few days ago i decided to go thru a season of isolation (willingly) because my relationships have been so exhausting and unfulfilling. Im asking God to show me where im the problem and heal me where im broken...and lead me where ive been lost. I dont know what i will look like when this season is over but i hope i have as much joy peace and wisdom to offer as the ladies on the platform!

    • @Nina_Medina
      @Nina_Medina 11 місяців тому

      Amen, in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @cecer.4670
    @cecer.4670 11 місяців тому +2

    There’s no mediator with a person who robs. They will keep picking at you

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 11 місяців тому +7

    Love, compassion, and prayers are all we truly need. As a single mom, things have been tough on me. My husband passed years ago. I still miss him dearly. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m overwhelmed. Father God hear my prayers. Since covid I’ve been struggling to support my children and myself but my faith in GOD is strong! I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I’ve been struggling since. I declined because of my health conditions lupus, and heart disease. I tried to get my job back at Forsyth hospital but they are still wanting vaccinated people over the unvaccinated. I’m now waitressing Im thankful to be working but I’m not making nearly enough to get by. BUT! Even as I constantly struggle to pay my rent. And I constantly struggle to provide groceries for my children! I’m choosing to keep faith. Walking with faith is the most important thing us christian’s must do. So as I struggle I Thank you Heavenly Father and I thank you Yeshua I will keep faith! Amen! ❤

    • @lashallvenable-taylor8051
      @lashallvenable-taylor8051 11 місяців тому

      Keep pushing in lean on the father.

    • @mangoleather5476
      @mangoleather5476 9 місяців тому

      I pray your circumstances get easier, God hears us and sees us even when we don't realise, when we think our struggles don't phase Him. His heart hurts for us. I've had to learn that in my season. I firmly believe He has a plan to help us - keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking and He will answer. And don't miss the answer cos it doesn't look as expected. Praying for peace, love and grace over your situation 💙
      "The Lord will never abandon the godly" Ps 37:28
      "'Commit everything you do to the Lord, trust Him and He will help you" Ps 37:5

  • @simonecole6208
    @simonecole6208 11 місяців тому +3

    I went through friendship grieving as well. It really hurt.
    I also broke a friendship last year after 20 plus years.

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 11 місяців тому +1

    praying about your friendships is key 🙏🏽🕊️🎉

  • @kaylee815
    @kaylee815 7 місяців тому

    I’m really glad to have found something from another sister in Christ. I’ve been going to a church for about almost a year, very small non denominational with about 30-50 members. When I started going it was overall warm and inviting but now I’m noticing that I cannot form any connection with other women in the church. I’ve examined my heart as well as my actions to see where I may have gone wrong to hurt them. I’m quiet a little shy but really do my best to be kind and engage with them. Now I get just get standoffish looks and not even a hello. I will continue praying on whether this is a prompting from the Lord to explore the possibility of it being time to find a new home church. It’s hard but I don’t want to let that aspect of the church impact my relationship with God because that’s not reflective of who He is. I’m also aware that what they think/do shouldn’t impact my view the church in its entirety but it right now it is. If any other women of God can tell me if they’ve experienced this and how they gracefully acted on it, I’d greatly appreciate it🙏🏼✝️ Father God help me to keep a soft heart towards my sisters in Christ, help me to see them as you do

  • @babenchrist1471
    @babenchrist1471 11 місяців тому +1

    God is an on time God because I was just thinking about former friends I use to be friends with until God told me to separate . It hurt because I held on to them so hard because I physically lost three friends by death and felt vulnerable to open up to people but when God calls , you definitely have to and should answer !! Thank you for this ! My friendship breakup is still hard and I pray and think of them and really do hope all is well 🙏🏾

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 11 місяців тому +2

    I recently just “broke up” with my best friend of 15 years but the truth is I wonder now if they were truly a real friend. I listen to God and his discernment. I still love them and care about them but our friendship was beginning to become toxic and very one sided and super controlling. I realized now sometimes things have to end even if it feels like it wouldn’t. Now I am learning some friends are temporary and that’s okay. It isnt easy for me but it is okay. I don’t do casual relationships and my friendships are all super intentional most of my friends have been 20+ years now. So it’s so hard for me to only have a friendship for just a year or something surface level.

  • @Nina_Medina
    @Nina_Medina 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow, I just realize I need healing in this area😭 I've been so hurt and betrayed to the point that my so called friends wanted to set me up and take my life, here I am 14years later trying to stay away from making friends😔
    I'll proclaim God's word, encourage others be there for them, do for them... yet I try not to get personal and keep it strictly ministry in my mind 🤣 yet God still keeps sending people my way that want to hang out, talk, check on me...I know God is calling me out my comfort zone😭
    Lord please heal my open wounds😭 teach me to receive Your friendships🙏

  • @gray_tips
    @gray_tips 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi karolyne Roberts, this message is so amazing and blessing to me, is it possible for you to upload the full content of that particular program

  • @skynIV2.0
    @skynIV2.0 7 місяців тому

    I’ve truly have looked at myself and I honestly feel that 2 friends, when I was very, very young still in my teens that it was my fault. My adult friendships have been awful, I often find out they were never my friend. I literally sit and analyze and realize, I whole heartedly loved them and cherished our friendship, never uttered a bad word against but they tore me down. Why is this so?

  • @MrSa458
    @MrSa458 11 місяців тому +2

    God still speaks today sister Karylone he has saved me from so many different things sister Karylone I'm actually starting to feel like Job because of how much I'm going through and my daddy told me the other day to blame God I told him no
    So anyways, God bless you, sister Karylone, and your awesome family 👪 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of Heaven with the encouraging words that you're giving right now 🔥🕊🙌🏿✝️

    • @Nina_Medina
      @Nina_Medina 11 місяців тому

      Press through my sister, wrestle with God just like Jacob, persevere, hold on to His word and promises, Don't let go till He changes your situation, your name, increases your faith.
      Don't let go of faith, you are close to your promise land the only thing standing in your way from crossing over is that river, and Faith is the vehicle that is going to take you across.
      Read Genesis 32❤

  • @relentlessone0679
    @relentlessone0679 11 місяців тому +1

    This was good!!

  • @shayla3020
    @shayla3020 11 місяців тому

    LOVE THIS❤

  • @JayLux24
    @JayLux24 7 місяців тому

    This was really good. When she said we should steward of friendships well, it reminds me of the love of Jesus. And if we are striving to be Christ like then how are we handling our friends.

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 11 місяців тому

    I was watching another channel a biblical one and the lady said there’s 6 types of friendships. I dont remember all of them but I tend to have discerning or selective friendships and some people have more surface level or casual/independent friendships .

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher 11 місяців тому

    Amen.