"Talk to your partner about that" (looks at the palm of his right hand and thinks to himself "We need to talk"). Now jokes aside: Each time he said "that is a great question" I though "duh! It's no wonder with such fantastic interviewers!" Glad you picked up the topic. I love the way Mr. Wilson approaches the matter - to inform and not start a revolution. He keeps all speculation aside and has his focus on the facts, which is not easy. I think that such an approach shields him from a lot of unrequired controversy and should be picked up by other youtubers in order to broaden the reach of such information without giving it a "movement" aura. Because this ususally transfers the judgmenet from the propagator of the movement to the idea itself and often brings harm to it.
Thank you, we had a really good time talking to Mr. Wilson. He's done a fantastic job bringing awareness to the topic of porn addiction. I enjoyed reading your comment. Thank you.
He was just caught in the momentum of the conversation. He talks about it in that way so much that he got it crossed between what he does and what the porn does to people in general. Lol.
@@archiecoolsdown5854 dude what does that even mean first off I want step by step how u overcame the urges pls man I want to quit so bad Im on day 1 streak
Two more things: one thing he doesn't say is that if you jump from genre to genre and find a dead end - you'll jump with your searches to the real life, which makes the industry a maniac factory. Probably without the creators and participants even knowing. the second thing is that food porn as a type of popular youtube material is called may be a good word combination with the same effect as the non food variety. I would add to this - arousing fast beat music (or any that triggers emotions) and blockbuster movies (they give dopamine rushes too). On why that is see Vilayanur Ramachandran videos. Long story short - our brain can't see the difference whether something happens to us or to the person on screen.
no this is not correct. He explains in other videos that there is a specific part of the nuclease acumbens (reward center) dedicated to sex. This part of the brain releases the most dopamine. Food on the other hand is not the same thing it does not release as much dopamine as sex. The priority of our brains is to spread our genes so this releases the most dopamine.
Can anyone tell me if porn addiction effects are reversible? Does everyone have benefits after months/years they stop or maybe those who have been fapping for too long will be depressed, anxious etc... forever? Thanks in advance for your answer
There are no ill effects...what are you talking about? I read one book by a neurosurgeon who claimed that you could be reversing the effects after two years of strong recovery and once again regain the capacity to love others again. I have often wondered how he was able to measure the 'capacity for love' with this erroneous
4 th of July 2014 my friends cousin was like at you least you still have a toungue ...that was 2014 .I got nothing ...no energy , lethargic, frequent urination etc .
Told my dad about this Xmas 2013 same yr I gave my aunt and uncle gift card ..6 yrs people I got nothing .....quit this crap 2013 ..it's now 2019 I got nothing ....this sucks ... Dr Oz show 2013 ....I got nothing...same year I went to water park trip ... flirting with girl from Chicago playing Marco Polo that same yr .I'm freaking out ...saw a pic 2014 looking depressed ...Dr Oz show never mentioned the withdrawals of back pain etc , frequent urination, lethargy, destiized testicals,man boobs , Weight gain etc ....
Had a nervous breakdown on my mom Oct 2016 .threw the remote at the TV ,that was 2016 for gods sakes ,it's almost my 47 bday I got nothing.maybe this why my ex gf is having mood swings .bc the last time we spoke she told me she watches this crap and she's having mood swings ..etc ..
Not just person issue trust me it's fall 2019 stayed home again on new yrs 4 th of July didn't want to celebrate my 47 bday .git invited to Halloween party stayed home bc of depression .nit happy about my break up .on disability lost job April 2014 bc if this crap no job tried supplements they suck .been told Wellbutrin works on dopamine .ex and I broke up over two yrs already ....
It's fall 2019 I got nothing ....very stubborn flAtline still not recovered .....been a recluse ....stayed home again Halloween party .gabe said he watched since 12 hs colledge and it didn't effect him right away .how did he have sex at 14 if he was watching this crap since 12 seems fishy. I'm 47 and it's not just a young person issue trust me .should of been recovered. ..way past the time frame .starting to feel broken lethargic fat sudiceal .hey Gary it's Oct 2019 I got nothing .fuck you Dr Oz show and your 4 weeks .they didn't mention the withdrawals .I'm at over 5 yrs still not recovered .no morning wood etc . Christmas will be here soon. ,refused to go to my dad's for Xmas 2016 .ex and I broke up sept 2017 . miserable ....got fired April 2014 bc of this crap on disability.
I swear to God porn and the internet in general is more addictive than actual drugs. It’s like gold dust. I quit, only to go back to it a few weeks later.
This is three yrs old my brain won't heal.whu the 90 day challenge sucks ,trust me not just a young person issue ,turning 48 in two months , starting to panic ,saw a pic if me bday party 2014 same yr I got fired ,the flAtline is killing me .pretty sure I had this issue since 2013 dells trip. Same yr Dr Oz show. Dr Oz show never mentioned the withdrawals of lower back pain frequent urination weight gain , frequent urination ,death grip etc withdrawals are horrible .on disability bc of this .
In freaking out it's 2019, man boobs frequent urination,back pain ,tried supplements they suck ,feeling sucide Al ,my Rx gf isn't helping was supposed be my soulmate playing hepadgameps
If you don't like the questions you could send us questions that you'd like to hear for topics that cover this issue (questions that address your particular issue in more depth). And another suggestion, one you might want to consider since it sounds like you have some strong ideas about what you would do differently. You can start your own show and reach out to Gary. He's a really nice guy and a great guest. If you'd like to send us specific questions, you're welcome to respond right here. If the questions are profound and offer something new, I am sure Gary would be happy to join the show again.
@@LuisCongdon His point was just to sound like a rude jackass. The question were absolutely fine, hence why no one else on the comment section is complaining about it.
2019 I got nothing freaking out .....panicking in Wisconsin .Gary said he starting to see a few think won't heal .still destiized down there death grip etc .
Yep March 2019 I got nothing,he said some guys never recover,not just a young person issue , got fired April 2014 bc if this,haven't worked since .im turning 47 soon ... went off on my mom Oct 2016 ....saw a pic of myself 2014 June bday party suprised I even went ..looking depressed , lethargic etc ,same yr Robin Williams died,it's March 2019 I got nothing ,my ex and I broke up sept 2017 ...we dated for 9 months ...showed this to therapist last time I saw him Dec 2014 same yr my uncle passed away ,as a matter of fact I had to cancel one of my appointments that yr bc my mom had to fly out for the funeral and I don't drive ,etc that was 5 yrs ago still not recovered Gary ....im freaking out .I quit this crap 2013 ..same yr Dr oz had a show ....its been over 5 yrs Gary I got nothing ....
I had all three of them plus caffeine, occasionally I'd drink alcohol but was never addicted to. I am not addicted anymore to any of it, but i am still very sensitised to caffeine, weed and porn. It's because i like their effect on me. I dislike smoking and i dislike nicotine because of its short half life.
There’s a ton of guys in denial about this and the problem will manifest more and more over the next several decades Porn isn’t bad but addiction is a real thing. For a male brain it’s basically like fucking different girls all the time and it ultimately will result in ED problems I also think it results in low T problems
He is absoulutly correct i have been addicted to internet porn yrust me the feeling the life with it is disguisting.
"Talk to your partner about that" (looks at the palm of his right hand and thinks to himself "We need to talk").
Now jokes aside:
Each time he said "that is a great question"
I though "duh! It's no wonder with such fantastic interviewers!"
Glad you picked up the topic. I love the way Mr. Wilson approaches the matter - to inform and not start a revolution. He keeps all speculation aside and has his focus on the facts, which is not easy. I think that such an approach shields him from a lot of unrequired controversy and should be picked up by other youtubers in order to broaden the reach of such information without giving it a "movement" aura. Because this ususally transfers the judgmenet from the propagator of the movement to the idea itself and often brings harm to it.
Thank you, we had a really good time talking to Mr. Wilson. He's done a fantastic job bringing awareness to the topic of porn addiction. I enjoyed reading your comment. Thank you.
"I want to connect with my wife or my.. err.. WIFE" lol brilliant
lol, i was gonna say.. Hopefully his wife doesn't see this interview
😂
He was just caught in the momentum of the conversation. He talks about it in that way so much that he got it crossed between what he does and what the porn does to people in general. Lol.
I think he meant husband if you are a woman
17:40 Quesation and answer to : How to rewire your brain and how can your partner help you with that
161 days of freedom from porn today.
How Im so desperate
@@Mob-q1o there is lots out there.
@@archiecoolsdown5854 dude what does that even mean first off I want step by step how u overcame the urges pls man I want to quit so bad Im on day 1 streak
Taoism teaches ejaculation outside of intimacy produces so much energy(chi) and when not replaced is the main cause of fatigue in men.
Yep its 2018 I got nothing .. freaking out.. my ex gf is beautiful .. kept avoiding her like the plaque. . I'm on wellbutrin it's week ..
I need help for this stuff I’m addicted
Two more things:
one thing he doesn't say is that if you jump from genre to genre and find a dead end - you'll jump with your searches to the real life, which makes the industry a maniac factory. Probably without the creators and participants even knowing.
the second thing is that food porn as a type of popular youtube material is called may be a good word combination with the same effect as the non food variety. I would add to this - arousing fast beat music (or any that triggers emotions) and blockbuster movies (they give dopamine rushes too). On why that is see Vilayanur Ramachandran videos. Long story short - our brain can't see the difference whether something happens to us or to the person on screen.
Yes, I agree. Thank you for sharing and letting us know that you enjoyed the interview as well.
no this is not correct. He explains in other videos that there is a specific part of the nuclease acumbens (reward center) dedicated to sex. This part of the brain releases the most dopamine.
Food on the other hand is not the same thing it does not release as much dopamine as sex.
The priority of our brains is to spread our genes so this releases the most dopamine.
@@mrhood8073 indeed, the stimulae to reproduce is the strongest, but also doesn't occur that often as food and music does nowadays.
Can anyone tell me if porn addiction effects are reversible? Does everyone have benefits after months/years they stop or maybe those who have been fapping for too long will be depressed, anxious etc... forever? Thanks in advance for your answer
There are no ill effects...what are you talking about? I read one book by a neurosurgeon who claimed that you could be reversing the effects after two years of strong recovery and once again regain the capacity to love others again. I have often wondered how he was able to measure the 'capacity for love' with this erroneous
4 th of July 2014 my friends cousin was like at you least you still have a toungue ...that was 2014 .I got nothing ...no energy , lethargic, frequent urination etc .
Told my dad about this Xmas 2013 same yr I gave my aunt and uncle gift card ..6 yrs people I got nothing .....quit this crap 2013 ..it's now 2019 I got nothing ....this sucks ... Dr Oz show 2013 ....I got nothing...same year I went to water park trip ... flirting with girl from Chicago playing Marco Polo that same yr .I'm freaking out ...saw a pic 2014 looking depressed ...Dr Oz show never mentioned the withdrawals of back pain etc , frequent urination, lethargy, destiized testicals,man boobs ,
Weight gain etc ....
Had a nervous breakdown on my mom Oct 2016 .threw the remote at the TV ,that was 2016 for gods sakes ,it's almost my 47 bday I got nothing.maybe this why my ex gf is having mood swings .bc the last time we spoke she told me she watches this crap and she's having mood swings ..etc ..
It kills your back and death grip ....spinal chord ....
Panicking in wisconsin feel broken , my ex and I broke up a yeae ago already .. I miserable .. stub born flat line .. etc..
How are you doing bro
Hey Gary its 2017 I'm recovering slow as hell!
Not just person issue trust me it's fall 2019 stayed home again on new yrs 4 th of July didn't want to celebrate my 47 bday .git invited to Halloween party stayed home bc of depression .nit happy about my break up .on disability lost job April 2014 bc if this crap no job tried supplements they suck .been told Wellbutrin works on dopamine .ex and I broke up over two yrs already ....
RIP OG G-Wil🕊
It takes longer then 90 days trust me
Todd Bedusek depends how bad your addiction is
It's fall 2019 I got nothing ....very stubborn flAtline still not recovered .....been a recluse ....stayed home again Halloween party .gabe said he watched since 12 hs colledge and it didn't effect him right away .how did he have sex at 14 if he was watching this crap since 12 seems fishy. I'm 47 and it's not just a young person issue trust me .should of been recovered. ..way past the time frame .starting to feel broken lethargic fat sudiceal .hey Gary it's Oct 2019 I got nothing .fuck you Dr Oz show and your 4 weeks .they didn't mention the withdrawals .I'm at over 5 yrs still not recovered .no morning wood etc . Christmas will be here soon. ,refused to go to my dad's for Xmas 2016 .ex and I broke up sept 2017 .
miserable ....got fired April 2014 bc of this crap on disability.
Still not recovered it's fucking Oct 2019 ...
2020 I got nothing
After 90 days. The urges become almost non existent and when they do they are easily controlled
Dr oz never mentioned the withdrawal. .
I swear to God porn and the internet in general is more addictive than actual drugs. It’s like gold dust. I quit, only to go back to it a few weeks later.
A few weeks dude I can’t even go 6 days without it if I’m lucky
This is three yrs old my brain won't heal.whu the 90 day challenge sucks ,trust me not just a young person issue ,turning 48 in two months , starting to panic ,saw a pic if me bday party 2014 same yr I got fired ,the flAtline is killing me .pretty sure I had this issue since 2013 dells trip. Same yr Dr Oz show. Dr Oz show never mentioned the withdrawals of lower back pain frequent urination weight gain , frequent urination ,death grip etc withdrawals are horrible .on disability bc of this .
Dr oz show 2013 .. I got nothing ..
Jesus guy
Does it make you put on weight
My friend on fb jyst had her child
I quit this shit along time ago
And I got nothing
@@toddbedusek6263 good man Todd. Negative as fuck
In freaking out it's 2019, man boobs frequent urination,back pain ,tried supplements they suck ,feeling sucide Al ,my Rx gf isn't helping was supposed be my soulmate playing hepadgameps
I got nothing it's 2020 ,should of been recovered months ago . not just a young person issue trust me .trued supplements for Dopamine they suck
These questions are so dumb...
If you don't like the questions you could send us questions that you'd like to hear for topics that cover this issue (questions that address your particular issue in more depth). And another suggestion, one you might want to consider since it sounds like you have some strong ideas about what you would do differently. You can start your own show and reach out to Gary. He's a really nice guy and a great guest. If you'd like to send us specific questions, you're welcome to respond right here. If the questions are profound and offer something new, I am sure Gary would be happy to join the show again.
@@LuisCongdon His point was just to sound like a rude jackass. The question were absolutely fine, hence why no one else on the comment section is complaining about it.
Beets coming early
Dude it's July 2018 I got nothing
Then you may have something else stop saying the same thing just go to far away
Yes todd
Bite me
Everyone is recovering faster then me it's April 2019, didn't he say some guys never recover
2019 I got nothing freaking out .....panicking in Wisconsin .Gary said he starting to see a few think won't heal .still destiized down there death grip etc .
Have to be honest, I almost stopped listening because of that terrible long intro.
Smart guy.. except that far left liberal comment.
The Art of Brad errr .. what?
What comment
Did anyone see the family guy episode where qugermere gets addicted , and his arm looks like Popeyes ..
It's 2018 I got nothing, flailing limp noodle since 2013
Go see a psychologist. A sex therapist preferably. Don't blame the porn for this...the founder of NOFAP doesn't blame porn for his ED anymore.
Yep March 2019 I got nothing,he said some guys never recover,not just a young person issue , got fired April 2014 bc if this,haven't worked since .im turning 47 soon ... went off on my mom Oct 2016 ....saw a pic of myself 2014 June bday party suprised I even went ..looking depressed , lethargic etc ,same yr Robin Williams died,it's March 2019 I got nothing ,my ex and I broke up sept 2017 ...we dated for 9 months ...showed this to therapist last time I saw him Dec 2014 same yr my uncle passed away ,as a matter of fact I had to cancel one of my appointments that yr bc my mom had to fly out for the funeral and I don't drive ,etc that was 5 yrs ago still not recovered Gary ....im freaking out .I quit this crap 2013 ..same yr Dr oz had a show ....its been over 5 yrs Gary I got nothing ....
Didn't he say some guys never recover ..
My brain won't heal .this sucks .......
Pavols dog theory
Cigarettes weed and porn. I only have three addictions I need to address 🤔
3 too many
I had all three of them plus caffeine, occasionally I'd drink alcohol but was never addicted to.
I am not addicted anymore to any of it, but i am still very sensitised to caffeine, weed and porn. It's because i like their effect on me.
I dislike smoking and i dislike nicotine because of its short half life.
@@kartikthefriend I forgot caffeine and sugar from my last. Nothing has changed since my first comment was posted 🤷🏻♂️
@@davidthomas9190 i can help you quit cigarettes atleast but only if you want to and it's pretty easy method and you won't have any cravinhs
*cravings
Stubborn flat line
Why the 90 day challenge sucks
Todd Bedusek why you make new accounts?
Stubborn flat line ..
Jesuschrist get to the point about how to quit.
Not many view on this one. Not so many people interrested in this. lmao
maybe not on UA-cam but on the website and podcast it had over 13,000 downloads in 2 days.
Thanks man :) Glad you enjoyed it.
There’s a ton of guys in denial about this and the problem will manifest more and more over the next several decades
Porn isn’t bad but addiction is a real thing. For a male brain it’s basically like fucking different girls all the time and it ultimately will result in ED problems
I also think it results in low T problems