Also a new-grad here. Over the last 14 months I've applied to over 600 jobs and finally landed one today! People don't talk enough about how hard it is to find a job right now, and how hard it can be to push through all the rejections. To all the other new-grads- you got this!
I truly love this girl wherever she is in the world. I just graduated not too long ago and when she said she’s in the same spot I truly felt not alone and usually when people say you are not alone I never feel it. But it truly is another level of getting through life when you’re alone and going through what you consider is the worst times while trying to adjust becoming a new adult.
What makes this video even more magnificent is the fact that Arvo Pärt is playing in the background. “Spiegel im Spiegel” really reflects the introspective nature of your video essays! Beautiful!
i agree so much with stepping away from the ordinary to gain motivation. ive felt it countless times. even something as mundane as taking a different, but new path home.
I just started university and it's being so overwhelming for me. I don't really know why, but I cried while watching this video. I haven't been feeling my best lately but your videos are so calming. It's like listening to an old friend giving advice. Please, keep making these videos :)
a fresh grad here 🖐🏻 as she said, i hope we all can do whatever makes us happy, fulfilled, and content no matter how unambitious it is for other people because we are the ones doing it anyway. best of luck to us! ✨
I graduated almost 3 years ago, it's not recent but I'm going to fold my bed thanks to this video and continue with tiny steps as you have said. Love your videos!
I'm worried to death I've always been so worried I fear dying before building a life...I think I mostly fear regretting "You are not alone I am in the same position as you" oh my thank you dearest stranger I'm glad I found you And I promise to fold my bed
It’s super that you’re aware! Try to live in the moment :D (Pay attention to your breathing or listen to the noises around you) No matter what advice we get, we have to fight our thoughts alone. It’s annoying but that’s how it is, Good luck to you🍀
@@tsukki-w8n Thank you so much for taking the time to say that!! You with no doubt have the sweetest soul I've ever seen I'll always remember that, and I truly hope that it gets easier for both of us
I also just graduated. Was feeling so lost and lonely. And I kept telling myself that everything will be okay and I’ll find my place again. Holding on and trying not to fail in this chapter of my life. This came just at the right time :)
idk how you popped up in my recommendations but as soon as i heard "after graduation" and relating to what i'm going through, i just listened like a baby hearing a bed time story
I must say that I’ve been through some periods of change in life that were quite paradigm shifting. Being constantly uprooted as a youth to travel and live in different cities was very hard at that age. And just when things are starting to seem normal, we move again, and again. It changed me as a person. I no longer sought to even try to put down roots. For many years, I lost the feeling of “home”. Even as a young adult, I would move frequently because nowhere I ever lived felt like home. Eventually I became a drug addict of the most advanced sort, and battled it for 20 years. I tried over and over again to recover-sometimes with some success…but never a lasting success. It showed me that no matter how low and disconnected you feel…you can always go lower, and lower until you feel as though you are nothing but a void of suffering. And I would spend time living on the streets of downtown Toronto, ON. And this is during COVID, so the streets were extra filled with lunatics. I still can’t decide whether sleeping under a streetlight, or in a shelter is the safer option. It came to me one day leaving a shelter in the morning that the sun was already shining brightly. And I looked up at it and said “good morning”. And a tear came to my eye which was both happy and sad. I realized that I was grateful for the sun because in that moment I felt it was the only thing in the whole universe that did not hate me or want to victimize me in some way. When you’re homeless, every other homeless person wants to get something from you through manipulation of some sort. And every other person is scared of, distrusts, or despises you. Even though I am university educated, no one would believe when I mentioned it. So I stopped mentioning it. All these thoughts made me very sad, yet there was one spot of joy to be had…the sun was shining, and it wasn’t shining to manipulate me or victimize me. It took three years to slowly get off the litany of drugs and prescribed medications I was on. And it was such a harrowing time for me. Loneliness. I moved away from the madness. I spent two weeks of every month sick from withdrawals of various medications. I resolved not to meet people because ‘people’ will either lead you to the drugs, or-if they’re good people-are such that I cannot maintain a normal relationship with in my state anyway. So I spent 3 years alone, sick, depressed and suffering, only because I was positive that it was what must be done in order to live. It changed me fundamentally, and although I’d dreamed constantly of the eventual day I could wake up not on drugs, and also not in withdrawal from drugs (a thing which had never occurred in 20 years) when that day finally came….I was lost. I didn’t know how to actually go about life unsick and not spending most of my time laying down. It was absolutely heart breaking. Routine.. It was important for me to do a routine so much so that I would feel lost and frightened without doing regular simple things. Yet I struggled to use it to the same effect once I stepped back into normal life. And so I remembered the sun. The warmth of the sun was once a tiny little feeling of home within a completely homeless world. And it taught me that, just like the sun is always with you…so to “home” is always inside you. You just need to become mindful that it’s there, and you will never feel like you’re reeling and unbalanced again. It took some time keep going forth into the light and out of the darkness-my eyes adjusted slowly. I’m getting there now. Things are never what you expect them to be so don’t become attached to expectations. No matter where a persons at in life, to find something small to be grateful for is essential. Not because that thing is super important, but because the feeling of gratefulness erases the uncomfortable feeling that things are not how you’d want them to be Sorry I didn’t mean to write so much. It just kept coming out. lol. Ty for the video, and I hope this helps someone.
the reason why I subscribed, liked, and commented on your video is your positive vibes and your beautiful voice and everything ❤ I need something like this every day... thank you for sharing 😊
i don't quite know why i keep watching your videos all the way through, stranger... yet, i just want you to be happy, and somehow, for some selfish reasons, that'll just make my day - thank you for posting :D
Your videos are so motivating, not in the toxic motivation kinda way , but in a way where our soul can actually heal and take the next step forward. Thank you( i hope what i said makes sense, english are not my first language)
recent graduate, I can't help but feel terrified that because I haven't found a job I'm falling behind. This video has helped with this worry so thank you for that, your videos are really well done! :)
Your efforts are greatly appreciated (by you). You should never think, ever again, that to consider the completion of your own work to be the definition of "happiness" would be "indulgent"/"self-serving" (and therefore may contaminate your future "tree" of choices in life, and resulting in the creation of another identity which would be "vacant" from the perspective of someone "pure"). You WILL, always, be able to recognize yourself.
I'm not a recent graduent, I'm actually a struggling therapist andI found this video of yours both inspirational and actually actionable. You're doing great, Kristine, and I'll be doing better thanks to you
I am currently is the same situation as you but your channel has been a motivation and a blessing ! I really hope your current and future projects will succeed !
I recently learned these lessons and thou my day is a little empty the full parts are way more satisfying and I too try to brainstorm new ways to make my day fuller and full of meaningfull tasks.
Such a good video, i also recently finished my studies and while i dont feel lost, i can totally reciprocate of that change in routine. Its quite jarring but videos like this help me feel like im not all alone with it. Thank you Kristine.
Thanks to you and so many others, I’m feeling a lot better now. Thank you so much for giving the advice on small rituals, I plan to put it into action this week!
I think I found my comfort channel! This girl must be an INFJ I can feel the worries in her eyes, I truly resonate, although change is and how your life can turn out is scary, everything will work out and we just have to see the positives without jumping into conclusions.
Inspiring! Just graduated last July and I felt lost. But now I try to shift my mindset from seeing myself as the worthless being without a job to a person who is taking time to figure out whats important to me. ♥️✨
I'm a software developer who recently graduated, and I just discovered your channel. I have to say, your recent videos have helped me deal with many things that have been bothering my mind lately, especially regarding perspectives on past relationships. Thank you for inspiring us through your experiences. Your content makes me feel accepted in a way I can't quite explain. I was recently dumped by someone I thought I could trust. Right when I opened UA-cam, your video appeared, and your positive outlook on the world makes me feel like I can overcome my current emotions. Thank you for reminding me about the importance of simple routines and staying focused on goals, as I often feel rushed when it comes to dating. I've developed more than five full-stack projects this year, and you're right that action must accompany ideas. Even though I'm dealing with heartache now, it's comforting to know that I still have my personal plans for this year to focus on in this chaotic world. Thank you again for helping me realign my thoughts. Please continue inspiring us.
I've bee watching your videos for quite a while now, honestly many of your videos I have been watching them on loop because every time I do so I get a new perspective that suits me. I am really really really grateful to come across your youtube channel. I was at one of the lowest points of my life, but I feel better now, and I got back into my everyday life. It is funny how I got motivated to start a youtube channel and I soon will within a week. However, there is one thing that still bothers me "fear" I hope, one day in one of your videos I wish to see the answer for this question and again. Thank you so much.
Thanks a lot I’m from Japan.I’m really lucky to find you . Your voice and word choice is amazing and makes us feel comfortable. Take care ! I’m looking forward to your next video ❤
"a true master is always a student";seeing video like this from time to time can be reassuring, that there are beautiful people around the world, my only regret is that i will not be able to meet them, becuase as strange as it sound, the people who we choose to stay can help shape ourselves to the best we can.(sometimes being alone is the best option, has been for me for some times, but now i have learned so much about myself and the world that I enjoy, in a more mature way, stay with others) So if you find someone how is young yet wise, don't underestimate theme, on the contrary they might be realy cool😉
Hi! I just watched your video and loved the calming vibe you create, especially with how you folded your bed so effortlessly. It's simple yet so satisfying to watch! I’m also a small content creator from Singapore, and I'm working on creating similar calming and lifestyle vlogs. Keep up the great work - I’m excited to see more from you!
thank you so much. This was very much needed. I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago and felt very, VERY lost. I have pushed myself to practice playing guitar again, something I lost this year - even when it was one of my core things. I will visit a new cafeteria on my way to work tomorrow. I want to get a matcha!
As she mentioned, these are the five steps of design thinking. I recommend Googling and learning more about the set of cognitive and practical steps designers take to understand users better. I never thought about it, but this also applies to personal reflection really well!
Bed folders rn 📈
Lmao
Me sleeping on concrete:😐
Stonks!
real
imk one of them now gahahahhaha
Coziest channel, really ppsitive vibes
They’re lying to you
@@bennelong8451what
Dont listen to that woek nonsensevfolding your bed wilk makevyou go bald 🗣🔥🔥
Also a new-grad here. Over the last 14 months I've applied to over 600 jobs and finally landed one today! People don't talk enough about how hard it is to find a job right now, and how hard it can be to push through all the rejections. To all the other new-grads- you got this!
Good job and good luck!!
wow, good luck !
I truly love this girl wherever she is in the world. I just graduated not too long ago and when she said she’s in the same spot I truly felt not alone and usually when people say you are not alone I never feel it. But it truly is another level of getting through life when you’re alone and going through what you consider is the worst times while trying to adjust becoming a new adult.
What makes this video even more magnificent is the fact that Arvo Pärt is playing in the background. “Spiegel im Spiegel” really reflects the introspective nature of your video essays! Beautiful!
don't stop sharing your wisdom as you grow, we really appreciate what you have to say!
Best part of my day is to watch these videos
i agree so much with stepping away from the ordinary to gain motivation. ive felt it countless times. even something as mundane as taking a different, but new path home.
I just started university and it's being so overwhelming for me.
I don't really know why, but I cried while watching this video. I haven't been feeling my best lately but your videos are so calming. It's like listening to an old friend giving advice.
Please, keep making these videos :)
buck up.
you seem so pure and focused like a nature in its most natural form
Nature : do you love me?
Nature : what a weird question wdym? I can't even stop loving you
a fresh grad here 🖐🏻 as she said, i hope we all can do whatever makes us happy, fulfilled, and content no matter how unambitious it is for other people because we are the ones doing it anyway. best of luck to us! ✨
ohh... this made me feel so much better. "no matter how unambitious it is for others." thank you
Watching your videos give me so much comfort, thank you so much and I hope you are able to find the same comfort you provide.
I graduated almost 3 years ago, it's not recent but I'm going to fold my bed thanks to this video and continue with tiny steps as you have said. Love your videos!
that burst smile at the end made my day
1:39 we've become 'that unemployed friend on a random tuesday'. It's so liberating & worrying at the same time.
Exactly me for the last 3 months
I'm worried to death
I've always been so worried
I fear dying before building a life...I think I mostly fear regretting
"You are not alone I am in the same position as you" oh my thank you dearest stranger
I'm glad I found you
And I promise to fold my bed
All the best ✨
Jesus loves yall. seek him
It’s super that you’re aware!
Try to live in the moment :D
(Pay attention to your breathing or listen to the noises around you)
No matter what advice we get, we have to fight our thoughts alone.
It’s annoying but that’s how it is,
Good luck to you🍀
@@tsukki-w8n
Thank you so much for taking the time to say that!! You with no doubt have the sweetest soul I've ever seen
I'll always remember that, and I truly hope that it gets easier for both of us
@@hahahabiba I hope for the same!
Your reply just made my day, so likewise, thank you ♡
I also just graduated.
Was feeling so lost and lonely.
And I kept telling myself that everything will be okay and I’ll find my place again.
Holding on and trying not to fail in this chapter of my life.
This came just at the right time :)
I feel so safe, happy, and moved listening to you.
insanely wholesome and comfy vibes. thank you.
this is the youtube rabbit hole i love most
I just broke out crying listening to this. It shows that I really needed to hear this
idk how you popped up in my recommendations but as soon as i heard "after graduation" and relating to what i'm going through, i just listened like a baby hearing a bed time story
Thank you, your videos help me a lot ❤
thank you!!🌱🌱🌱
I must say that I’ve been through some periods of change in life that were quite paradigm shifting. Being constantly uprooted as a youth to travel and live in different cities was very hard at that age. And just when things are starting to seem normal, we move again, and again. It changed me as a person. I no longer sought to even try to put down roots. For many years, I lost the feeling of “home”. Even as a young adult, I would move frequently because nowhere I ever lived felt like home.
Eventually I became a drug addict of the most advanced sort, and battled it for 20 years. I tried over and over again to recover-sometimes with some success…but never a lasting success. It showed me that no matter how low and disconnected you feel…you can always go lower, and lower until you feel as though you are nothing but a void of suffering.
And I would spend time living on the streets of downtown Toronto, ON. And this is during COVID, so the streets were extra filled with lunatics. I still can’t decide whether sleeping under a streetlight, or in a shelter is the safer option.
It came to me one day leaving a shelter in the morning that the sun was already shining brightly. And I looked up at it and said “good morning”. And a tear came to my eye which was both happy and sad. I realized that I was grateful for the sun because in that moment I felt it was the only thing in the whole universe that did not hate me or want to victimize me in some way.
When you’re homeless, every other homeless person wants to get something from you through manipulation of some sort. And every other person is scared of, distrusts, or despises you. Even though I am university educated, no one would believe when I mentioned it. So I stopped mentioning it.
All these thoughts made me very sad, yet there was one spot of joy to be had…the sun was shining, and it wasn’t shining to manipulate me or victimize me.
It took three years to slowly get off the litany of drugs and prescribed medications I was on. And it was such a harrowing time for me.
Loneliness.
I moved away from the madness. I spent two weeks of every month sick from withdrawals of various medications. I resolved not to meet people because ‘people’ will either lead you to the drugs, or-if they’re good people-are such that I cannot maintain a normal relationship with in my state anyway. So I spent 3 years alone, sick, depressed and suffering, only because I was positive that it was what must be done in order to live.
It changed me fundamentally, and although I’d dreamed constantly of the eventual day I could wake up not on drugs, and also not in withdrawal from drugs (a thing which had never occurred in 20 years) when that day finally came….I was lost.
I didn’t know how to actually go about life unsick and not spending most of my time laying down. It was absolutely heart breaking.
Routine..
It was important for me to do a routine so much so that I would feel lost and frightened without doing regular simple things. Yet I struggled to use it to the same effect once I stepped back into normal life.
And so I remembered the sun. The warmth of the sun was once a tiny little feeling of home within a completely homeless world. And it taught me that, just like the sun is always with you…so to “home” is always inside you. You just need to become mindful that it’s there, and you will never feel like you’re reeling and unbalanced again.
It took some time keep going forth into the light and out of the darkness-my eyes adjusted slowly. I’m getting there now. Things are never what you expect them to be so don’t become attached to expectations.
No matter where a persons at in life, to find something small to be grateful for is essential. Not because that thing is super important, but because the feeling of gratefulness erases the uncomfortable feeling that things are not how you’d want them to be
Sorry I didn’t mean to write so much. It just kept coming out. lol.
Ty for the video, and I hope this helps someone.
good
the reason why I subscribed, liked, and commented on your video is your positive vibes and your beautiful voice and everything ❤
I need something like this every day...
thank you for sharing 😊
i don't quite know why i keep watching your videos all the way through, stranger... yet, i just want you to be happy, and somehow, for some selfish reasons, that'll just make my day - thank you for posting :D
we will never meet, but you somehow still sound like a close friend. I hope you can accomplish everything set your mind to
Your videos are so motivating, not in the toxic motivation kinda way , but in a way where our soul can actually heal and take the next step forward. Thank you( i hope what i said makes sense, english are not my first language)
recent graduate, I can't help but feel terrified that because I haven't found a job I'm falling behind. This video has helped with this worry so thank you for that, your videos are really well done! :)
Your efforts are greatly appreciated (by you). You should never think, ever again, that to consider the completion of your own work to be the definition of "happiness" would be "indulgent"/"self-serving" (and therefore may contaminate your future "tree" of choices in life, and resulting in the creation of another identity which would be "vacant" from the perspective of someone "pure").
You WILL, always, be able to recognize yourself.
this made me cry, thank you for understanding and for sharing, your channel is truly special.
youve gotten so big! im so happy for you man
this video felt so genuine, thank you
Crazy good timing on this video. I needed this having just graduated and feeling very overwhelmed by life. Thank you.
Ah, another unintentional ASMR so I can sleep to, perfect
I'm not a recent graduent, I'm actually a struggling therapist andI found this video of yours both inspirational and actually actionable. You're doing great, Kristine, and I'll be doing better thanks to you
there is a peace in your voice
I am currently is the same situation as you but your channel has been a motivation and a blessing ! I really hope your current and future projects will succeed !
Oh my sweet summer child, you are too innocent for this cruel world. Wish there were more people like you.
I recently learned these lessons and thou my day is a little empty the full parts are way more satisfying and I too try to brainstorm new ways to make my day fuller and full of meaningfull tasks.
Such a good video, i also recently finished my studies and while i dont feel lost, i can totally reciprocate of that change in routine. Its quite jarring but videos like this help me feel like im not all alone with it. Thank you Kristine.
Thanks to you and so many others, I’m feeling a lot better now. Thank you so much for giving the advice on small rituals, I plan to put it into action this week!
I think I found my comfort channel! This girl must be an INFJ I can feel the worries in her eyes, I truly resonate, although change is and how your life can turn out is scary, everything will work out and we just have to see the positives without jumping into conclusions.
Inspiring! Just graduated last July and I felt lost. But now I try to shift my mindset from seeing myself as the worthless being without a job to a person who is taking time to figure out whats important to me. ♥️✨
that skyline is SOOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOOOODD!!!!!
folding your bed also symbolizes you are done with sleeping for the day. Really helps with me not falling asleep again
I'm a software developer who recently graduated, and I just discovered your channel. I have to say, your recent videos have helped me deal with many things that have been bothering my mind lately, especially regarding perspectives on past relationships. Thank you for inspiring us through your experiences. Your content makes me feel accepted in a way I can't quite explain.
I was recently dumped by someone I thought I could trust. Right when I opened UA-cam, your video appeared, and your positive outlook on the world makes me feel like I can overcome my current emotions. Thank you for reminding me about the importance of simple routines and staying focused on goals, as I often feel rushed when it comes to dating.
I've developed more than five full-stack projects this year, and you're right that action must accompany ideas.
Even though I'm dealing with heartache now, it's comforting to know that I still have my personal plans for this year to focus on in this chaotic world. Thank you again for helping me realign my thoughts. Please continue inspiring us.
*Legendary reel pull* 🗣🗣
I resonate so much with this. Also, I feel like you would love the movie Perfect Days.
I've bee watching your videos for quite a while now, honestly many of your videos I have been watching them on loop because every time I do so I get a new perspective that suits me. I am really really really grateful to come across your youtube channel. I was at one of the lowest points of my life, but I feel better now, and I got back into my everyday life. It is funny how I got motivated to start a youtube channel and I soon will within a week. However, there is one thing that still bothers me "fear" I hope, one day in one of your videos I wish to see the answer for this question and again.
Thank you so much.
it makes me elated to know that her channel is growing. big supporter!🥳🫶
How I would describe You and your channel - peace and harmony. Thank you for what you're doing and keep it up because it's great.
Thanks a lot
I’m from Japan.I’m really lucky to find you . Your voice and word choice is amazing and makes us feel comfortable. Take care ! I’m looking forward to your next video ❤
Thank you for bringing comfort to us struggling young adults 💖
I really love your voice - it sounds like a beloved female actress or something ❤
unfortunately i am eepy and need my blanket. no fold bed yet. i lvor u though i love ur videos
I'm so happy i found this channel last week 🥹🩷
I have recently discovered your channel and it inspires me a whole lot. I love your tone and the way you speak- it’s very calming and grounded.
my fav creator atm
such a comforting voice. love your vids, they helped me find my true self thank you truly😁
great video essay, please don't stop sharing the gift of knowledge. we are here to actively listen. :)
man its been 3 years since graduation , and i feel like i have self destructed. Going to use some of these to hopefully return back to normal :)
I love this channel🥺💗
"a true master is always a student";seeing video like this from time to time can be reassuring, that there are beautiful people around the world, my only regret is that i will not be able to meet them, becuase as strange as it sound, the people who we choose to stay can help shape ourselves to the best we can.(sometimes being alone is the best option, has been for me for some times, but now i have learned so much about myself and the world that I enjoy, in a more mature way, stay with others)
So if you find someone how is young yet wise, don't underestimate theme, on the contrary they might be realy cool😉
my comfort channel
Really wholesome and beautiful videos
thank you for this 🩷🩷
Thank you kristine, I needed this. Much love 🙌
Thank you for this, it's so calming. I needed this
I'm glad I found this channel. Thank you.
Hi! I just watched your video and loved the calming vibe you create, especially with how you folded your bed so effortlessly. It's simple yet so satisfying to watch! I’m also a small content creator from Singapore, and I'm working on creating similar calming and lifestyle vlogs. Keep up the great work - I’m excited to see more from you!
this came at the right time, i’m about to graduate and enter uni next year, i’m nervous about it but this video really helped 😭 thank you
Thank you for this❤️
Right now, I am extremely excited.
i can tell by your video format that your children’s book will be amazing :)
Love your philosophical outlook on Life.Very inspiring.
Because discipline is beautiful and give our lives right direction....🕯️💌
Whole video and especially the third point can be summarized in "get out of the comfort zone to get to the growth zone".
Cheers!
So inspiring! really, I think I might start a UA-cam channel exactly like yours. I love your stuff please don't stop
relating to this so much, since its been months since i graduated.
Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️ Keep up the great content!
lovely videooo
felt like a hug all the wat through
Thank you for teaching us such valuable lessons!
Life is interesting now that I have started living i seem to slowly realise this
thank you so much. This was very much needed. I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago and felt very, VERY lost. I have pushed myself to practice playing guitar again, something I lost this year - even when it was one of my core things. I will visit a new cafeteria on my way to work tomorrow. I want to get a matcha!
I really needed this message 🥺❤️
I love your vibes so much 🥹
I love how you're gaining a lot of subscribers every day! Good luck
Gem of a video. Really inspirational, keep going!
what a perfect video to watch while i eat my morning bagel 🫶
Someone tell me why I wanna cry from just watching this
I sleep in a hammock in my bedroom. 6 years now. best thing ever, more space. I make my bed in less than 20 second.
i love your videos so much they inspire me you are so cool!!!
just what I wanted to here. thank you
Framework for navigating the unknown
1) Empathize 2:43
2) Define 2:55
3) Ideate 3:08
4) Prototype 3:35
5) Test 3:45
As she mentioned, these are the five steps of design thinking. I recommend Googling and learning more about the set of cognitive and practical steps designers take to understand users better. I never thought about it, but this also applies to personal reflection really well!
Great message!
your voice is so prettyy
I love how you fold your bed....
Just graduated yesterday and guess which video finds me❤