UA-cam knows what to recommend. I broke up with her a few days ago. She is a wonderful person; I loved her and am grateful for her love and everything she did for me. It's a pity that we didn't get along; I saw that we just have two different ways, I couldn't do anything with it and felt uncomfortable for several months. I wish her success and happiness.
I'm glad for the mistakes, for the breakups. It made me appreciate and learn what I really want. I know if I get into something again with someone someday, I will have more experience and emotional tools for our benefit.
To answer the last question: One thing I know I will uniquely bring is a genuine love of life to the other person. Make them appreciate that they are also existing and excited to see beautiful things too.
I think self respect the only thing matters in relationships. Two person should respect each other in relationship. If there is no respect then it is not love.
I left my ex because I was not feeling myself anymore and, also, felt like I just lost myself. It hurts a lot still and I’m glad you shared this one with us because my heart still hasn’t caught up with my mind. I know it’s for the better, I will be a better person should I fall in love again. I miss the idea I had of her - I don’t miss the abuse nor the anxiety. Thank you very much.
i love this take or aspect about break ups and to be honest i really needed to see that video ,my break up took place nearly a month ago and to be honest its been a mess so many complex and layered emotions have surfaced and yeah getting through it at the moment.....thanks for making this video
Just went through a break up this summer, the cognitive dissonance is so real the attachment and detachment is so real the what if and everything I feel it all. I'm going to take the breakup as feedback to focus on myself for the year and be ok without being in a relationship
As this video ends i actually enter a love affair with the 2nd of two very lovely and wonderful and amazing people in my life but still advice because ive been through bad breakups and is good to hear it so plainly
Very hard breakups - was in complete shock affected me really badly to almost suicide, phoning Samaritans helped, even did some therapy, realised I have an anxious attachment style, due to upbringing and conditioning. I'ts tough navigating relationships. This is a good video with some good insights.
I went through all three. “This is fine, maybe this is suppose to teach us something, I wish I could have done things differently but either way I’ve been alone before.”
I feel we all know the “right approach” to some degree in the back of our minds, but reality is often times much uglier and harder to maintain emotional control to properly execute these strategies. for me, it always took a lot of time grieving and to keep pressing forward even if it was hard and felt never ending. I’m glad i’m not dealing with any breakups anymore. people suck.
Here you go Buddy!!! Hee, hee, hee My baby's always dancin' And wouldn't be a bad thing But I don't get no lovin' And that's no lie We spent the night in Frisco At every kind of disco From that night I kissed our love goodbye Don't blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie Don't blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie That nasty boogie bugs me But somehow it has drugged me Spellbound rhythm gets me on my feet I've changed my life completely I've seen the lightning leave me And my baby just can't take her eyes off me Don't blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie Don't you blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie Woo I just can't I just can't I just can't control my feet I just can't I just can't (yeah) I just can't control (woo) my feet I just can't I just can't I just can't control my feet I just can't I just can't I just can't control my feet Sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie Don't blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't, on the good times Blame it on the boogie This magic music grooves me That dirty rhythm fools me The Devil's gotten to me through this dance I'm full of funky fever A fire burns inside me Boogie's got me in a super trance Don't blame it on the sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie (Don't you blame it) Sunshine Don't blame it on the moonlight Don't blame it on the good times Blame it on the boogie Ow woo (Moonlight) yeah (Good times) mmm (Boogie) you just got to yeah (Moonlight) (Good times) good times (Boogie) Don't you blame it (sunshine) You just got to (moonlight) You just want to (good times) Yeah, oh (boogie) Blame it on yourself (sunshine) Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight) But yours and that boogie (good times) All, all night long (boogie) Can't stop that boogie (sunshine) Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight) But yours and that boogie (good times) Dancin' all night long (boogie) Blame it on yourself (sunshine) Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight) But yours and that funky Funky boogie, boogie, (woo) yeah
I broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago and a series of unrelated videos on relationships and loneliness led me to your channel yesterday, so this is very ironic timing to me.
I haven't ever been with someone, but I know that if given a chance, I'd be the best partner ever. The only thing is that's what I believe. When I think of what "they" might believe, I think that I'd be a let-down for them.
I am leaving this comment here today is 23rd December 2024, I had a breakup with my 4 years of gf. She left me for small arguments, I try to talk and I texted way too many messages and calls but she made her mind. In the past similar things happened but I always used to make her understand that this phase will go but she didn't understand it. We promised a lots of things and she really loved me but over a small fight I taken a small break oof thinking that things will be cool down, but it became worse. It's been 2 week we didn't even talk now. I am so tired of trying every way possible and now she's going back to the other country we didn't even meet as we planned so many things. I don't know what happened in this 7 days she changed this much. I can't even stop myself from thinking about her even for a min. i am feeling like suffocating a lot she was my only friend, best friend after her, I had no one so close. I hope no one ever feel this feeeling.
Its difficult. This person left me in the past, and i only have myself to blame. No, she was not perfect, but I did the unforgivable. When i told her, i haven't seen her since. She was everything to me. I betrayed myself. Years pass by, i still dwell here. I have to live. But she was my lifeim nothing now
Always slightly surreal when i come across videos like this. Never having been in a romantic relationship, this sentence got me curious: "The feeling of hope stems from a habit rather than a genuine longing for the person." a) Hope for what? That everything will be resolved "happily ever after" so to speak? b) The feeling of hope can be habit? o_O Colour me surprised but I've only ever felt that for one week in the last two decades. I'm trying to think of how would one go about making it a habit (not that I could, even my bad habits are irregular xdd)..
Nope, the timing is too weird. Not gonna watch it. I’m sticking through this until i can’t give love anymore. If it’s gonna end rn, she’s ending it. I’ll come back here in a few days if it ends…
Honestly, it's all very tiring. As a man, it's nearly not worth it anymore to dig through bad women to find a good one who likes you enough to make an amazing life together. I rather work on my goals, rest and be the best of myself than actively date random women. It's not worth the time or resources to date 100 women to find one. I have no problem if she finds me but I gotta like her too. I'm a king and I'm not taking less than what I deserve (and no, I don't have stupid standards like she has to be a supermodel, make over 100K a year, or be a big time athlete. My standards are for her to be a kind, feminine woman who cares and supports her king instead of being a girl boss trying to be masculine or be with him for his money and resources. You "modern" women who think this way gotta do better).
I sincerely hope that you don't mean that girls shouldn't be leaders if that's what their goals demand. Also, can you please elaborate on "trying to be masculine", specifically in the sentence that you were using it in? would love some clarity on that. I hope things get better for you. 🌞
cosmic timing
too real for me it was about 14 hours ago
For real. It's like the universe knows what's happening and what to do lmao
Real
too real dude.
Yaaaaa!!
Truth is, when it comes to moving on, your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.
Thank you❤️🥹
I went through my first ever break up after my first relationship in my early 30s.
It hasnt been easy. I needed this.
UA-cam knows what to recommend. I broke up with her a few days ago. She is a wonderful person; I loved her and am grateful for her love and everything she did for me. It's a pity that we didn't get along; I saw that we just have two different ways, I couldn't do anything with it and felt uncomfortable for several months. I wish her success and happiness.
That hesitation at 3:17 felt so honest and genuine, really tied the video together
I'm glad for the mistakes, for the breakups. It made me appreciate and learn what I really want. I know if I get into something again with someone someday, I will have more experience and emotional tools for our benefit.
To answer the last question: One thing I know I will uniquely bring is a genuine love of life to the other person. Make them appreciate that they are also existing and excited to see beautiful things too.
2 years and I’ve still been destroyed over the relationship l.. was young and still am. I needed this thank you
I think self respect the only thing matters in relationships. Two person should respect each other in relationship. If there is no respect then it is not love.
Sis got the best timing in this universe.
I left my ex because I was not feeling myself anymore and, also, felt like I just lost myself. It hurts a lot still and I’m glad you shared this one with us because my heart still hasn’t caught up with my mind. I know it’s for the better, I will be a better person should I fall in love again. I miss the idea I had of her - I don’t miss the abuse nor the anxiety. Thank you very much.
Neat perspective on how attachment style affects a person's reaction after a breakup (detachment style?). Thank you!
I love your timing and hope you are well! Thank you
i love this take or aspect about break ups and to be honest i really needed to see that video ,my break up took place nearly a month ago and to be honest its been a mess so many complex and layered emotions have surfaced and yeah getting through it at the moment.....thanks for making this video
you helped me again, thank you so much. What in the world is this timing😭😭
there's an amazing book called 'Attached' that talks about attachment styles and how to deal with them
Just went through a break up this summer, the cognitive dissonance is so real the attachment and detachment is so real the what if and everything I feel it all. I'm going to take the breakup as feedback to focus on myself for the year and be ok without being in a relationship
keep posting bro you never fail to make my day better :P
I agree with this video, congrats hitting 100K subs bro.
Thankyou for this. The timing is literally surreal.
I’ve so loved discovering your videos! And with each new one I feel like you’re becoming more and more comfortable on camera!!
As this video ends i actually enter a love affair with the 2nd of two very lovely and wonderful and amazing people in my life but still advice because ive been through bad breakups and is good to hear it so plainly
i hope watching your video make me a better kind person
the timing of this, thank you
Very hard breakups - was in complete shock affected me really badly to almost suicide, phoning Samaritans helped, even did some therapy, realised I have an anxious attachment style, due to upbringing and conditioning. I'ts tough navigating relationships. This is a good video with some good insights.
Your timing is on point.
I went through all three. “This is fine, maybe this is suppose to teach us something, I wish I could have done things differently but either way I’ve been alone before.”
You posted right when i needed to hear it, thank you do much kristine
I feel we all know the “right approach” to some degree in the back of our minds, but reality is often times much uglier and harder to maintain emotional control to properly execute these strategies. for me, it always took a lot of time grieving and to keep pressing forward even if it was hard and felt never ending. I’m glad i’m not dealing with any breakups anymore. people suck.
To be able to do things clearly the last part is to help others . I thank u for the help.
love the video
Listening to this in a hot bath goes crazy, great video!
it's good to see people with great talent thrive from 1k and now she achive the 100k subs congrats yan. You gave us a fruitful contents keep it up
been waiting for this vid for a min
Here you go Buddy!!!
Hee, hee, hee
My baby's always dancin'
And wouldn't be a bad thing
But I don't get no lovin'
And that's no lie
We spent the night in Frisco
At every kind of disco
From that night I kissed our love goodbye
Don't blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
Don't blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
That nasty boogie bugs me
But somehow it has drugged me
Spellbound rhythm gets me on my feet
I've changed my life completely
I've seen the lightning leave me
And my baby just can't take her eyes off me
Don't blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
Don't you blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
Woo
I just can't
I just can't
I just can't control my feet
I just can't
I just can't (yeah)
I just can't control (woo) my feet
I just can't
I just can't
I just can't control my feet
I just can't
I just can't
I just can't control my feet
Sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
Don't blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't, on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
This magic music grooves me
That dirty rhythm fools me
The Devil's gotten to me through this dance
I'm full of funky fever
A fire burns inside me
Boogie's got me in a super trance
Don't blame it on the sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
(Don't you blame it)
Sunshine
Don't blame it on the moonlight
Don't blame it on the good times
Blame it on the boogie
Ow
woo
(Moonlight) yeah
(Good times) mmm
(Boogie) you just got to
yeah
(Moonlight)
(Good times) good times
(Boogie)
Don't you blame it (sunshine)
You just got to (moonlight)
You just want to (good times)
Yeah, oh (boogie)
Blame it on yourself (sunshine)
Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight)
But yours and that boogie (good times)
All, all night long (boogie)
Can't stop that boogie (sunshine)
Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight)
But yours and that boogie (good times)
Dancin' all night long (boogie)
Blame it on yourself (sunshine)
Ain't nobody's fault (moonlight)
But yours and that funky
Funky boogie, boogie, (woo) yeah
Immaculate timing 😭🤌
love it 🥺
thank you for this
I love your videos
I broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago and a series of unrelated videos on relationships and loneliness led me to your channel yesterday, so this is very ironic timing to me.
I haven't ever been with someone, but I know that if given a chance, I'd be the best partner ever. The only thing is that's what I believe. When I think of what "they" might believe, I think that I'd be a let-down for them.
Aw love thisssss
Thank you sis 🧎
your voice sounds like you're holding something back. I hope you're doing well and getting better as you said. love you too
yan too real fr. i hope you're doing well. :*)
I am leaving this comment here today is 23rd December 2024, I had a breakup with my 4 years of gf. She left me for small arguments, I try to talk and I texted way too many messages and calls but she made her mind. In the past similar things happened but I always used to make her understand that this phase will go but she didn't understand it. We promised a lots of things and she really loved me but over a small fight I taken a small break oof thinking that things will be cool down, but it became worse. It's been 2 week we didn't even talk now. I am so tired of trying every way possible and now she's going back to the other country we didn't even meet as we planned so many things. I don't know what happened in this 7 days she changed this much. I can't even stop myself from thinking about her even for a min. i am feeling like suffocating a lot she was my only friend, best friend after her, I had no one so close. I hope no one ever feel this feeeling.
Its difficult. This person left me in the past, and i only have myself to blame. No, she was not perfect, but I did the unforgivable. When i told her, i haven't seen her since. She was everything to me. I betrayed myself. Years pass by, i still dwell here. I have to live. But she was my lifeim nothing now
Always slightly surreal when i come across videos like this. Never having been in a romantic relationship, this sentence got me curious:
"The feeling of hope stems from a habit rather than a genuine longing for the person."
a) Hope for what? That everything will be resolved "happily ever after" so to speak?
b) The feeling of hope can be habit? o_O Colour me surprised but I've only ever felt that for one week in the last two decades. I'm trying to think of how would one go about making it a habit (not that I could, even my bad habits are irregular xdd)..
lmfaoo i was contemplating to release a video with the same title yesterday and was watching you
Can't relate with this one 😭🙏
I love you too. 🌹
Ah yes is this the video I ordered?
Thanks youtube, recommending a video about this subject with a girl that has the same eyes as her, Thanks for the video thou :)
2 hours ago my girl left me with saying I don't wanna see u again.......and u drop this
this video feels like a 2014 video
Nope, the timing is too weird. Not gonna watch it. I’m sticking through this until i can’t give love anymore. If it’s gonna end rn, she’s ending it. I’ll come back here in a few days if it ends…
did you read my diary????
damn first time im this early
Let's go another banger
Honestly, it's all very tiring. As a man, it's nearly not worth it anymore to dig through bad women to find a good one who likes you enough to make an amazing life together. I rather work on my goals, rest and be the best of myself than actively date random women. It's not worth the time or resources to date 100 women to find one. I have no problem if she finds me but I gotta like her too. I'm a king and I'm not taking less than what I deserve (and no, I don't have stupid standards like she has to be a supermodel, make over 100K a year, or be a big time athlete. My standards are for her to be a kind, feminine woman who cares and supports her king instead of being a girl boss trying to be masculine or be with him for his money and resources. You "modern" women who think this way gotta do better).
Stay bright king.💓
I sincerely hope that you don't mean that girls shouldn't be leaders if that's what their goals demand. Also, can you please elaborate on "trying to be masculine", specifically in the sentence that you were using it in? would love some clarity on that. I hope things get better for you. 🌞
neva been so early to a vid
I will bring God to my future relationship.
who are you and why were you recommended to me and why did I watch the whole video and learned something
How did you know
Ive never been in a relationship (am i cooked?)
Too painful to watch this
how did you brain storm
❤Thanks Kristine😊
U help me a lot with this video😌🥺🥹