I sure hope this works out for OP, but jesus that has to sting. He spends all day working for the benefit of his family, she doesn't appreciate it and wants him to take less hours. He complies and gets less hours in exchange for her also working, she immediately crosses boundaries with the first dude to show her attention. I hope the downsizing thing works out, but there are a lot of people out there that are never satisfied no matter what you do and his wife could be one of them.
The seed had been planted, the mind poisoned and she showed a certain mind set. Damned if you stay, damned if you don't. And never immediately apologize.
It feels like she said that to gauge OP's reaction and she now knows to keep it under ground, she is already sleeping with her coworker. Plus how do you hear your wife say something like this and not DNA test? It's like OP has never heard of the Internet.
I make it very clear at the start of any relationship - it you are tempted by another you cut all contact immediately. If you are tempted and do something with them, don't come back.
Why did he fold!!!!!! He should have just stuck through. Oh well in a few years he will learn that she cheated on him with a stud🤡🤡🤡🤡 I just hope their child will be okay with the messy divorce. Its always them its the hardest for.
this never would have happened if he just told this woman the truth... that she was an idiot for suggesting they buy a house they cant fully use or pay for without substantial changes
exactly, when we bought our house we were approved for much more than i wanted to spend, the realtor put that in my wifes head and she had much more expensive houses in mind. had to shut it down, although yea we could have afforded it im trying to work less as i get older not more.
Gentlemen, never set yourself on fire to give your wife the lifestyle she wants. Once they downsize, she will leave him because she deserves a 2 bedroom, 2 bath house.
Yep, give it.... a year. tops. Some guy is going to come through her checkout line with a fake rolex and she'll trip over her drenched panties trying to divorce the husband and the courts will take him from being able to afford a house on a single salary to needing three roommates and food banks just to survive so he can pay for a kid he'll maybe see every other weekend. She most likely already cheated. She had already deleted the evidence because most likely he dumped her and she felt guilty, hence why he found nothing. She went through the classic cheaters playbook "You weren't here enough, I was so lonely, I had to work too hard, they made me feel desired." blah blah blah... just another bint chasing butterflies while her naive husband works his ass off to fund her.
oh and then rubbing it in his face like it's no big deal, she's literally making excuses for cheating, zero accountability, and blaming the husband on top of that, modern women behaviour
@@FrutoseDeMorango Dont believe everything on the internet. This guy doesnt have proof either, and this is just his opinion. Sounds too real to be fake, cuz stuff like this do happen alot.
1) NTA. Wife is a cake eater. she wants the lifestyle, also she had an emotional affair, she was tempted into cheating on you with a guy who she only knew for only 6 weeks, there was an emotional element to it while you were working your butt off, not because you want to but because you want to provide for your family, while she had everything, and instead of talking to you, she'll keep her mouth shut, and still have an affair, within 6 weeks? affairs usually take 6 months
He just had to kill it at the end, encouraging his wife to #MeToo the coworker.. Harassment is unwanted attention.. She made it very clear to Op AND the coworker that she def wanted it.. Wild af for a guy to tell a woman to falsely accuse another guy like this....
Wtf are you even saying, she did not report him for harassment because there was no harassment, there are companies where you can't have relationships with coworkers - and harassment is not unwanted attention but when somebody goes beyond flirting against the other party's wishes, making them uncomfortable or humiliated.
@@BERKE-no1dsHe literally said around 11:00 he wants her to report the coworker to management and HR for hitting on her.. You can only report that if it was unwanted/harassment.. Which in this case would be Bs because she reciprocated and flirted back.. And yes flirting alone can be considered harassment of its unwanted.. She can't report someone for doing something she happily engaged in and reciprocated....
@@kilamkam The fact that you didn't like somebody flirting with you does not make it sexual harassment - you showing that you didn't enjoy it and them still proceeding with flirting again or going beyond boundaries in other ways does. Show me in any legible and trustworthy source of information which proves that "unwanted attention" is the same as harassment. Also, it was about them working different hours so they would not meet. I am yet to see a case of somebody who harassed another person in a workplace with only changing their hours as a reprimand/punishment. It doesn't work like that and I hope it never will.
@@BERKE-no1dsI know its not harassment to just flirt.. I'm not saying he harassed her.. But she would have to make a case for harassment to report him.. Otherwise she has ZERO grounds to report him in the first place.. You think she's just gonna say "hey I wanna report this guy for flirting with me even though I flirted back and actually wanted him"?.. The husband telling her to report him, is basically telling her to report him for harassment.. Which didn't happen, hence me calling it a false accusation 😒🤦🏾♂️....
No guy should be with a woman who doesn’t respect them or understand how hard it is to provide. The fact that OP’s wife even thought about cheating means she is easily manipulated.
"You bring up making more money than her a lot" Well yeah, when she's the one that pushed for the expensive house they could barely afford and forced him to bust his back while she was fantasizing about getting hers blown out by some idiot... They need counseling, she needs to realize she's been a terrible wife otherwise the marriage won't work and you can be sure OP will break under the load of his work and she'll also cheat.
You could tell this guys an insecure jock. He has good reasons to be pissed off but The Kid? her kid? My kid? Wtf?! Did they adopt a kid or is it their biological kid? No My son or my daughter?....
Dude just divorce her, she’s not the only one woman on the planet, let her go with this other man, and you find another woman just replace her, she’s a dime a dozen
The problem is the finances to divorce.. and a lot of courts are going to give everything to the woman since she’s the primary caretaker and the husband is the one who brings the money in. That’s maybe why.
@@bobfg3130 Nah I've seen this story play out hundreds of times. She got dumped by chad and realized she wasn't worth what she thought she was. So she went crawling back and worked instead on trying to manipulate the husband into being more in line with her own thoughts of what she deserves. "Oh I was *tempted* to cheat because you're not around enough, and you don't help enough, and blah blah blah." They never take accountability. "Oh they were flirting with me" Yeah... and she didn't shut it down immediately like a spouse should. She reveled in it and at BEST was only stopped because she realized the fallout. Not because she actually wanted to. But again I stress... She had already gotten pumped and dumped by chad.
It's actually normal to feel tempted when the opportunity to cheat arises. The question is how one deals with that temptation. She told him immediately. This is exactly what you're supposed to do. He is blaming her for feeling temptation. I think this is unfair. If some super model came on to him and he thought he could get away with it, would he honestly be able to say he wasn't sorely tempted? What matters isn't how strong the feeling of temptation is, but rather the willpower to say no despite that feeling.
She didn't tell him immediately, she told him after she felt guilty flirting with a guy at a job she only had for a month and was tempted to cheat. She was 100% emotionally cheating. There are many people not tempted to cheat just because someone hot comes into the picture, if you have this mindset you shouldn't get married. If you are tempted to cheat you shouldn't be with someone, all it takes is one argument, one to many drinks, or whatever stupid excuse people use to go through with that temptation.
I kind of agree with the last comment. I mean, yes, the guy was at fault for flirting with a married woman, but reporting him means jeopardizing his job. And of course, she will not admit that she took part in it as well, so that seems kind of unfair.
She stopped it and was honest with her husband, not every woman is a cheater. There is literally nothing to suggest she would do it again. Also that guy was a scumbag.
@@god-of-logic99She has most likely already engaged in emotional affair but got scared when she noticed it was getting close to becoming physical. Husband probably was vocal about not forgiving cheaters , hence his reaction from just the idea that the wife entertained the thought of cheating. The wife probably just stopped while she was still ahead due to the consequences. She has proven to be a risk.
@@god-of-logic99 I'm not saying she is a cheater, but I'm talking about her ‘reporting’ that guy to HR. Companies take this seriously, so it could jeopardize his job. She probably won't admit to participating in the flirting. She could ask for different shift hours instead, but why REPORT him? That's why I called it unfair.
@@karishma_k I don't particularly care, that guy is a disgusting individual. The wife came clean before her husband so I don't think a good person like her should suffer. I am a man but I don't hate women, people make mistakes she was honest about it and stopped it from escalating.
It stings but its harsh reality that attractive both men and women face many temptations during the years and its unavoidable, its matter of not falling into it. If one can't handle that thought, maybe relationship is not for them, especially with attractive people.
the problem isn't even that, the problem is that she allowed the dude to tempt her for 6 weeks because she is lonely because he has to work a lot for their family. It's one thing to find someone attractive and it's another to have a flirtratious relationship for weeks. The real problem is that she is selfish and doesn't see what her partner is going through and only cares about her own feelings.
@@andynorck2389 What indicates her flirting back? She told husband when being asked out and agreed to downgrade lifestyle so they can spend more time. Not selfish to me.
Just reading the comments made me realize that so many people here are incels or have never actually talked to a woman in real life anymore. People can talk things out. There's a difference between forgiving and being a doormat, and almost noone here knows it
yeah what can you expect with a reddit thread being posted to youtube? Half the guys on this platform think that all women are just waiting for the opportunity to cheat. Very dumb.
It's okay to be angry and hurt after what she said, but she didn't do anything and admitted what was going on. Everyone has their own boundaries, and in this case, he needed to discuss these with her right away. Thankfully he stopped the pity party and they got out of the downward spiral that they were both in. I fully suspect the comments telling him that she was bound to cheat eventually are coming from people who are simply sad and insecure due to their own relationships.
All of this could have been avoided if you had just prepared properly before deciding to start a family; but you just dove in senselessly and half-assed and haphazardly without planning everything in advance thoroughly. Your wife is indeed the one to blame, but not up to such an extent to the point where it warrants a divorce. If I were to your advisor, during the situation I would have advised you to sit down with your wife and thoroughly Express everything that all the hard work you put in etc etc is for the family so that she can stay at home, which she should never have done to begin with. And she should know better than to be attracted to someone else regardless of negative emotions or feelings.
What is wrong with people in comment sections nowadays?! A man who was having trouble with his partner managed to work things out and mend his family. Yet despite that, people still tell him to end his relationship and destroy his family. I wish every bad thing on people like this and hope they stay lonely and angry at the world forever. Because clearly, if they can't be happy, no one else should be able to, right? Divorce, divorce, divorce. All I hear about today. So much for vowing to love someone "till death do us part."
The girl sounds like a disgusting gardening tool and this guy sounds like a huge doormat. I do agree ppl talk about divorce way too quick on these stories
@arjundhaliwal8853 No. It is not. Are you trying to tell me that you have never had a single bad thought in your life that you decided not to act on? People are not perfect. The thing you're disregarding here is that the wife didn't actually act upon her bad thoughts. And admitted it to her husband. Thus, showing honesty. Marriage is a promise to stay together forever and work through the tough times. If you're this quick to break your promise at the first sign of trouble, then don't get married. It's not for you.
@@UnknownUnknown-nv2nvlmao there’s a difference between making a bad decision and just being a disgusting person. If you know your husband has been slaving away 12 hours a day at work for your family. And when you tell him to cut back and u start working it only takes 6 weeks for her to tell him she wanted to cheat on him that is disrespectful to the max and absolutely worthy of divorce for some ppl. I’m not saying ppl shouldn’t talk through problems and work your way through marriages. But acting like what the wife did isn’t disgusting and divorce worthy is a very wierd view point. Do y like it when ur SO thinks about cheating on u? Maybe ur one of those wierd fetish ppl
@arjundhaliwal8853 Firstly, I never brought up fetishes. That was you. You've never met me and don't know me. Don't make assumptions about me. Secondly, yeah. I'd be beyond devastated if my wife admitted that she felt the urge to cheat. But at least she was honest with her husband and wanted to work things out. She could have very easily kept quiet or even worse, acted on those thoughts. But she didn't. That should count for something. Maybe you view marriage differently than I do. IDK. I haven't met you. But I believe it's something sacred. And that when you Vow to do something, you keep that Vow. And she didn't actually even break her Vow. She thought about it. But she didn't. And was honest to boot. It seems to me like in this day and age, everybody is trigger happy with the divorce button, when it isn't always the only option.
Nta. Wife is a cake eater. Wants the house, the lifestyle, but feels lonely since the husband is the only one working. Wtf.
6 weeks that you know of* she's gonna do it again, if "6 weeks" is what took her to almost change her mind, imagine what a year would do.
I sure hope this works out for OP, but jesus that has to sting. He spends all day working for the benefit of his family, she doesn't appreciate it and wants him to take less hours. He complies and gets less hours in exchange for her also working, she immediately crosses boundaries with the first dude to show her attention. I hope the downsizing thing works out, but there are a lot of people out there that are never satisfied no matter what you do and his wife could be one of them.
The new, realistic American Dream
Not really. Vasectomy/tubes tied use the opposite sex for recreation. Mind and finances whole
The seed had been planted, the mind poisoned and she showed a certain mind set.
Damned if you stay, damned if you don't.
And never immediately apologize.
And Jesus said to his disciples: "Truly, I say to you, from the streets she came, and unto the streets she will return."
Another doormat story!
1 hand yea...on the other marriage laws and family courts so skewed most men would probably just submit to the woman to keep their finances whole
Wow. At least they got together and talked in depth. Like adults. Counseling could really help
It feels like she said that to gauge OP's reaction and she now knows to keep it under ground, she is already sleeping with her coworker. Plus how do you hear your wife say something like this and not DNA test? It's like OP has never heard of the Internet.
I make it very clear at the start of any relationship - it you are tempted by another you cut all contact immediately. If you are tempted and do something with them, don't come back.
Why did he fold!!!!!! He should have just stuck through. Oh well in a few years he will learn that she cheated on him with a stud🤡🤡🤡🤡
I just hope their child will be okay with the messy divorce. Its always them its the hardest for.
Never underestimate the power of a SIMP. A simp knows no bound when it comes to pleasing a woman.
You've posted a few pictures of yourself. 😂
@@mikef2811
He's not a simp. 😂
@@bobfg3130 he's a simp and so are you 🥳 good little simpy
this never would have happened if he just told this woman the truth...
that she was an idiot for suggesting they buy a house they cant fully use or pay for without substantial changes
exactly, when we bought our house we were approved for much more than i wanted to spend, the realtor put that in my wifes head and she had much more expensive houses in mind. had to shut it down, although yea we could have afforded it im trying to work less as i get older not more.
NTA, divorce away!
Aye aye captain!
There is no chance to save such a marriage.
It simply lacks a solid foundation.
Everyone at some point will have this feeling. Not doing it is itself a good thing. Talking openly will only improve things.
Once she admitted to be tempted to cheat on you with this funny guy at work your marriage is over.good luck pal
Gentlemen, never set yourself on fire to give your wife the lifestyle she wants.
Once they downsize, she will leave him because she deserves a 2 bedroom, 2 bath house.
Yep, give it.... a year. tops. Some guy is going to come through her checkout line with a fake rolex and she'll trip over her drenched panties trying to divorce the husband and the courts will take him from being able to afford a house on a single salary to needing three roommates and food banks just to survive so he can pay for a kid he'll maybe see every other weekend.
She most likely already cheated. She had already deleted the evidence because most likely he dumped her and she felt guilty, hence why he found nothing. She went through the classic cheaters playbook "You weren't here enough, I was so lonely, I had to work too hard, they made me feel desired." blah blah blah... just another bint chasing butterflies while her naive husband works his ass off to fund her.
Bro….. the fold I just witnessed today will no doubt make it into the history books.
Bro was sooo fkn close it hurts
This doormat. Next update she vheated with the coworker
Really? Or are you making stuff up?
oh and then rubbing it in his face like it's no big deal, she's literally making excuses for cheating, zero accountability, and blaming the husband on top of that, modern women behaviour
@@FrutoseDeMorango he made it up the dude posted 4 days ago and no update since
@@LTBH69 Ok, thx
@@FrutoseDeMorango Dont believe everything on the internet. This guy doesnt have proof either, and this is just his opinion. Sounds too real to be fake, cuz stuff like this do happen alot.
1) NTA. Wife is a cake eater. she wants the lifestyle, also she had an emotional affair, she was tempted into cheating on you with a guy who she only knew for only 6 weeks, there was an emotional element to it while you were working your butt off, not because you want to but because you want to provide for your family, while she had everything, and instead of talking to you, she'll keep her mouth shut, and still have an affair, within 6 weeks? affairs usually take 6 months
He just had to kill it at the end, encouraging his wife to #MeToo the coworker.. Harassment is unwanted attention.. She made it very clear to Op AND the coworker that she def wanted it.. Wild af for a guy to tell a woman to falsely accuse another guy like this....
Wtf are you even saying, she did not report him for harassment because there was no harassment, there are companies where you can't have relationships with coworkers - and harassment is not unwanted attention but when somebody goes beyond flirting against the other party's wishes, making them uncomfortable or humiliated.
@@BERKE-no1dsHe literally said around 11:00 he wants her to report the coworker to management and HR for hitting on her.. You can only report that if it was unwanted/harassment.. Which in this case would be Bs because she reciprocated and flirted back.. And yes flirting alone can be considered harassment of its unwanted.. She can't report someone for doing something she happily engaged in and reciprocated....
@@kilamkam The fact that you didn't like somebody flirting with you does not make it sexual harassment - you showing that you didn't enjoy it and them still proceeding with flirting again or going beyond boundaries in other ways does. Show me in any legible and trustworthy source of information which proves that "unwanted attention" is the same as harassment.
Also, it was about them working different hours so they would not meet. I am yet to see a case of somebody who harassed another person in a workplace with only changing their hours as a reprimand/punishment. It doesn't work like that and I hope it never will.
@@BERKE-no1dsI know its not harassment to just flirt.. I'm not saying he harassed her.. But she would have to make a case for harassment to report him.. Otherwise she has ZERO grounds to report him in the first place.. You think she's just gonna say "hey I wanna report this guy for flirting with me even though I flirted back and actually wanted him"?..
The husband telling her to report him, is basically telling her to report him for harassment.. Which didn't happen, hence me calling it a false accusation 😒🤦🏾♂️....
@@BERKE-no1dsbro you're on the same side
No guy should be with a woman who doesn’t respect them or understand how hard it is to provide.
The fact that OP’s wife even thought about cheating means she is easily manipulated.
Glad they seemed to realize how much that house they bought is really going to cost them...
So you think it's a food idea for them to be homeless. It's not.
@@bobfg3130 with your comprehension skills, I think it's a "food" idea for YOU to be homeless 😂
"You bring up making more money than her a lot"
Well yeah, when she's the one that pushed for the expensive house they could barely afford and forced him to bust his back while she was fantasizing about getting hers blown out by some idiot...
They need counseling, she needs to realize she's been a terrible wife otherwise the marriage won't work and you can be sure OP will break under the load of his work and she'll also cheat.
put the house in a parents name if you can, cover your money and bases and divorce - she is gonna cheat and make it your fault
So she made crap wages and he made three times crap. Impressive.
You could tell this guys an insecure jock. He has good reasons to be pissed off but The Kid? her kid? My kid? Wtf?! Did they adopt a kid or is it their biological kid? No My son or my daughter?....
the f is she gonna report.. flirting is a 2way street...
Flirting. Not necessarily a 2 way street. Nice try.
Nope. Not necessarily.
And yes, he's at fault for flirting with a known married woman.
@@eleethtahgra7182 He is not the one with a responsibility to remain faithful
Run
Dude just divorce her, she’s not the only one woman on the planet, let her go with this other man, and you find another woman just replace her, she’s a dime a dozen
The problem is the finances to divorce.. and a lot of courts are going to give everything to the woman since she’s the primary caretaker and the husband is the one who brings the money in.
That’s maybe why.
Op get away from that feral creature. You deserve better.
She will definitely cheat next time
if she`s telling you, she`s already done it.
Not the case. If she did it, she wouldn't have told him.
@@bobfg3130 Nah I've seen this story play out hundreds of times. She got dumped by chad and realized she wasn't worth what she thought she was. So she went crawling back and worked instead on trying to manipulate the husband into being more in line with her own thoughts of what she deserves. "Oh I was *tempted* to cheat because you're not around enough, and you don't help enough, and blah blah blah." They never take accountability. "Oh they were flirting with me" Yeah... and she didn't shut it down immediately like a spouse should. She reveled in it and at BEST was only stopped because she realized the fallout. Not because she actually wanted to. But again I stress... She had already gotten pumped and dumped by chad.
Shouldn’t have gotten married
It's actually normal to feel tempted when the opportunity to cheat arises. The question is how one deals with that temptation. She told him immediately. This is exactly what you're supposed to do. He is blaming her for feeling temptation. I think this is unfair. If some super model came on to him and he thought he could get away with it, would he honestly be able to say he wasn't sorely tempted? What matters isn't how strong the feeling of temptation is, but rather the willpower to say no despite that feeling.
She didn't tell him immediately, she told him after she felt guilty flirting with a guy at a job she only had for a month and was tempted to cheat. She was 100% emotionally cheating. There are many people not tempted to cheat just because someone hot comes into the picture, if you have this mindset you shouldn't get married. If you are tempted to cheat you shouldn't be with someone, all it takes is one argument, one to many drinks, or whatever stupid excuse people use to go through with that temptation.
@a7x266 You know nothing Jon Snow.
Wtf are some of this reddit comments bruh
I kind of agree with the last comment. I mean, yes, the guy was at fault for flirting with a married woman, but reporting him means jeopardizing his job. And of course, she will not admit that she took part in it as well, so that seems kind of unfair.
He's the type of scumbag who flirts with a married woman (yes, he knew she was married). I don't mind scumbags like that get in trouble.
She stopped it and was honest with her husband, not every woman is a cheater. There is literally nothing to suggest she would do it again. Also that guy was a scumbag.
@@god-of-logic99She has most likely already engaged in emotional affair but got scared when she noticed it was getting close to becoming physical. Husband probably was vocal about not forgiving cheaters , hence his reaction from just the idea that the wife entertained the thought of cheating. The wife probably just stopped while she was still ahead due to the consequences. She has proven to be a risk.
@@god-of-logic99 I'm not saying she is a cheater, but I'm talking about her ‘reporting’ that guy to HR. Companies take this seriously, so it could jeopardize his job. She probably won't admit to participating in the flirting. She could ask for different shift hours instead, but why REPORT him? That's why I called it unfair.
@@karishma_k I don't particularly care, that guy is a disgusting individual. The wife came clean before her husband so I don't think a good person like her should suffer. I am a man but I don't hate women, people make mistakes she was honest about it and stopped it from escalating.
no
LoL women are always only focused on the material stuff and forget about the money
It stings but its harsh reality that attractive both men and women face many temptations during the years and its unavoidable, its matter of not falling into it. If one can't handle that thought, maybe relationship is not for them, especially with attractive people.
the problem isn't even that, the problem is that she allowed the dude to tempt her for 6 weeks because she is lonely because he has to work a lot for their family. It's one thing to find someone attractive and it's another to have a flirtratious relationship for weeks. The real problem is that she is selfish and doesn't see what her partner is going through and only cares about her own feelings.
@@andynorck2389 What indicates her flirting back? She told husband when being asked out and agreed to downgrade lifestyle so they can spend more time. Not selfish to me.
Just reading the comments made me realize that so many people here are incels or have never actually talked to a woman in real life anymore. People can talk things out. There's a difference between forgiving and being a doormat, and almost noone here knows it
yeah what can you expect with a reddit thread being posted to youtube? Half the guys on this platform think that all women are just waiting for the opportunity to cheat. Very dumb.
Women ☕🐸
It's okay to be angry and hurt after what she said, but she didn't do anything and admitted what was going on. Everyone has their own boundaries, and in this case, he needed to discuss these with her right away. Thankfully he stopped the pity party and they got out of the downward spiral that they were both in. I fully suspect the comments telling him that she was bound to cheat eventually are coming from people who are simply sad and insecure due to their own relationships.
You can make sure that non of them actually ever had any serious relationship in their life.
All of this could have been avoided if you had just prepared properly before deciding to start a family; but you just dove in senselessly and half-assed and haphazardly without planning everything in advance thoroughly. Your wife is indeed the one to blame, but not up to such an extent to the point where it warrants a divorce. If I were to your advisor, during the situation I would have advised you to sit down with your wife and thoroughly Express everything that all the hard work you put in etc etc is for the family so that she can stay at home, which she should never have done to begin with. And she should know better than to be attracted to someone else regardless of negative emotions or feelings.
A lesson to men: take your woman on dates, or someone else will. It is not enough to just financially provide.
What is wrong with people in comment sections nowadays?!
A man who was having trouble with his partner managed to work things out and mend his family. Yet despite that, people still tell him to end his relationship and destroy his family.
I wish every bad thing on people like this and hope they stay lonely and angry at the world forever.
Because clearly, if they can't be happy, no one else should be able to, right?
Divorce, divorce, divorce. All I hear about today. So much for vowing to love someone "till death do us part."
The girl sounds like a disgusting gardening tool and this guy sounds like a huge doormat. I do agree ppl talk about divorce way too quick on these stories
This is a very real reason to divorce tbh
@arjundhaliwal8853 No. It is not. Are you trying to tell me that you have never had a single bad thought in your life that you decided not to act on? People are not perfect.
The thing you're disregarding here is that the wife didn't actually act upon her bad thoughts. And admitted it to her husband. Thus, showing honesty.
Marriage is a promise to stay together forever and work through the tough times.
If you're this quick to break your promise at the first sign of trouble, then don't get married. It's not for you.
@@UnknownUnknown-nv2nvlmao there’s a difference between making a bad decision and just being a disgusting person. If you know your husband has been slaving away 12 hours a day at work for your family. And when you tell him to cut back and u start working it only takes 6 weeks for her to tell him she wanted to cheat on him that is disrespectful to the max and absolutely worthy of divorce for some ppl. I’m not saying ppl shouldn’t talk through problems and work your way through marriages. But acting like what the wife did isn’t disgusting and divorce worthy is a very wierd view point. Do y like it when ur SO thinks about cheating on u? Maybe ur one of those wierd fetish ppl
@arjundhaliwal8853 Firstly, I never brought up fetishes. That was you. You've never met me and don't know me. Don't make assumptions about me.
Secondly, yeah. I'd be beyond devastated if my wife admitted that she felt the urge to cheat.
But at least she was honest with her husband and wanted to work things out.
She could have very easily kept quiet or even worse, acted on those thoughts. But she didn't. That should count for something.
Maybe you view marriage differently than I do. IDK. I haven't met you. But I believe it's something sacred. And that when you Vow to do something, you keep that Vow.
And she didn't actually even break her Vow. She thought about it. But she didn't. And was honest to boot.
It seems to me like in this day and age, everybody is trigger happy with the divorce button, when it isn't always the only option.
Damm OP is freaking pathetic
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