kind of crazy how a month ago when you uploaded this I was like I don’t need to watch this I’m happy with my guy rn. But here we are a month later dealing with getting my heart broken and needing this so much rn 💕
It's so hard not to romanticize an ex. My ex broke up with me after a 5 year relationship and it really destroyed my life. But then I built myself back up and followed my dreams and I just got accepted to a doctors of physical therapy program. i'm so happy two years later! IT GETS BETTER x
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I really feel for everyone in the comments. I went through the worst heartbreak ever last year and i genuinely thought i wouldn't be ok. For everyone reading this and going through that: you will be ok. It takes a lot of time, but you will look back and be thankful because that person wasn't right for you.
BS99CA I can also relate. I went through the most horrid break up that took me 6 years to get over but you know what, I now teach about broken heart cause I have deeper understanding now. Of getting yourself from the lowest, lowest point and gather your strength and reach for your dreams again. I share my journey on my channel! I refused to sink and now I’m completely healed
Is horrible, I feel the same, just happened to me last week, check me out if you want ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
8 months ago i was crying everyday every night and now it still hits sometimes and i'll miss him and cry about it. but it's quick and less painful. you can't unlove someone once you truly loved and cared for them but you will learn better ways to love someone from a distance while pouring the love you had for the other person back into yourself x hope y'all are doing okay! feel better soon
Sometimes you can´t rely on them you take care of them and love them and they prefer to leave. They left me last week, but we need to stay strong all together! Would love to hear your story, check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
Also! Just in case someone needs to hear it. Your partner doesn’t necessarily have to have done anything wrong to make you think about breaking up. If you feel like breaking up is right for you, even if you don’t have a list of other reasons that is OKAY. 🌸🌸Just because you feel deep down that a person isn’t what you need right now. That is a perfectly fine reason. I felt so bad about breaking up with my ex because he hadn’t “done anything wrong” I just felt like we had to break up. It was hard but so worth it. Follow your intuition! 💕💕💕🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️
I’m the same it’s really hard but I think I good thing to remember is you can’t force yourself to be with someone. It just wasn’t meant to be but that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone else other there
thankyou! me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years are both going to different university's in September and we have both spoken about what we want and we've agreed on ending it in September. Mostly because I personally couldn't deal with a long distance relationship and id rather just end it on good terms then end it due to constant fighting etc. But then I also feel so mad at myself because I'm not at least going to try the long distance. If any one has some advice I would love to hear it xx
Natalya Dwyer if you feel like breaking things off is necessary for you moving forward when you go to uni, then that it’s more than okay ! Do not feel bad for not sitting it out longer. It is up to you if you want to try a little longer but I really think that if you already have doubts it might just stress you out when you’re at uni. :(
I was in a pretty toxic & emotionally abusive relationship. I actually had to go into therapy two years after our breakup because there were things I couldn’t deal with and had been suppressing but I kept getting really depressed as a result of bottling those things up. Something my therapist told me one day, which was probably an insignificant thing for him to say but to me it was the most profound knowledge that I’d ever been given haha. He explained how triggers work.. he said that something may remind you of that person (your ex) or a memory that you had with them (which is a trigger, it triggers you to think of them) and when you experience that, you are actually feeling the same emotion/pain as you did in that moment. Chemicals in your body actually respond to it which is why I was becoming depressed and having anxiety. But he also told me that the positive thing about triggers is that they fade and eventually aren’t triggering to you anymore. For example, if you hear a song and you remember it was the song that was playing right after you had a massive fight with your partner and you were crying and upset, you’ll probably get upset and cry again. But the next time you hear that song, you might get upset but not feel emotional enough to cry. The time after that, it might upset you but only in a passing moment.. and eventually, one day, you’ll hear that song and not even remember that it meant anything to you in the past. That helped me massively because after I knew that, every time I was triggered by something, I could tell myself that it was okay to be upset in that moment and to feel hopeful that someday soon it won’t hurt anymore. Changed me as a person haha
I can give advice if you want to talk about it, they left me last week, we need to stay strong all together!! Would love to hear your story and try to help you out! check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
I remember in one of the vlogs Josh was in, you said that if the two of you ever broke up, you just wouldn't survive it and you thought that you could never go through a breakup because it would hurt you so much...and look at you now! You are so strong and yeah heartbreak is shit but it can make people grow so much and make you stronger than ever. I love seeing girls glow and evolve after heartbreak because it shows how women are so strong and that they can survive anything and use those hard feelings to be a better version of themselves. Love you so much and thank you for this video!!xx
Love this video, I'm sure it has been very helpful for those going through a break up! I agree, and my tips would be: 1. Wallow in it for a while, grieve the relationship and let yourself be sad 2. You have to want to get over it. People can give you all the advice in the world but it won't help until you're committed to moving on 3. Delete/block their number, social media, all photos together (even if you're on good terms) 4. Remind yourself of everything negative about them. Focus on all the things that you didn't like and all the bad memories. 5. Keep busy. Spend as much time as you can with friends, family, sports, hobbies. Keep your mind distracted 6. Glow up. Focus on self improvement, physically, mentally, emotionally 7. Be social, meet new people and experience new things 8. Give it time. If it was a long relationship its going to take a long time to get over it. Be gentle with yourself
Cry, babe, cry the fuck out of it. Then have some patience with yourself, breathe, and make yourself some tea/warm beverage and listen to some pretty music. And listen to Cartia, 'cause I agree with her 100%. I went through this a year ago and DAMN, it's fucking horrible, but I did most of what she said and it got better. You'll be GREAT! 💜
i just got my heart broken for the first time. i was falling in love with him so hard and everything was so ... perfect. 3 weeks distance because of quarantine and exam stress, and he broke up with me saying he didn't think he'd ever fall in love with me. i feel blindsided, hurt, alone and heartbroken. never felt pain like this. thank you so much for this video, i really needed it.
I have been going through this exact same situation. It’s been so hard and I feel so alone too. Seeing this comment made me realize I wasn’t alone in this situation. I really hope you are doing okay and that everything looks up for you.💕
I was seriously sitting here being like “wow how embarrassing, imagine calling an ex while drunk.” With my face in a toilet bowl, I CALLED HIM 28 TIMES and then when he answered I tried to play it off as a pocket call
I once saw somthing somewhere that said you will never love someone like you have loved a previous ex but that is OKAY becuase you are not supposed to!!!! It will be different. It will be better. There would be no point in repeating the same love as clearly somthing was wrong with it. Do not be sacred that you will never love someone the same as a previous partner xox
It’s so hard to remember why things didnt work when you did everything you could but it was the other person who couldn’t be in the relationship. He was so perfect to me..
Amazing tips ✨🦋 I went through a breakup last summer and I hold myself accountable for not ending it sooner and also dragging it on after we were not together. Maybe a pre-breakup tip: What I learned is that if you’re going back & forth on whether you should break up with your partner or not, is imagine yourself one year into the future looking back on right now. Think to yourself and ask yourself: is the person I’m with going to keep making me happy in one year or will the stress, anxiety, fights, etc still occur? Is the situation I am in right now going to make me a better/stronger person in the future? It helps to realize you’ll be more than ok if you leave a toxic situation if you choose to heal today - sooner rather than later. ✌🏽☺️
Sending you so much love Ella!! There are so many ladies going through the same and I want you to know that you are not alone!! You got this! This is YOUR time to reconnect with your true soul essence. Follow your bliss and meet every single shadow that is hear to show you a wound that is ready to heal a little bit more. hugs from Panama!!
On one side it's so painful it can make us feel sick it can hurt our chests it can make us not want to eat. But when the love stays, how lucky are we to feel so much love for someone and be loved. Love is so beautiful, we are lucky we have felt and we are also lucky sometimes to let go. I've had breakups in the past I never ever thought I'd overcome. I truly believe it's loneliness we need to deal with, love yourself enough that nobody's lack of love will ever stop you from knowing or feeling love. Be in a relationship with yourself first and love yourselves. X
I watched this 10 months ago, feeling like it was never gonna get better. Now I look back at that time and can be honest when I say: time really does heal. I am now more confident than ever and have met a guy that treats me perfectly and makes me happier than the last guy ever could. I never would have dared to imagine how big of a positive impact a breakup can have on your life in the long run. Sending out strength and love to everyone going through such a horrible phase right now, you WILL be fine, trust me.💫🤍
How timely, just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago although we still love each other. We were on different paths and I needed to heal. Thank you Cartia.
@@pecksaydee We had an ongoing issue for a really long time. I didn't trust him as well so that was already a huge contributor to the breakup. It was mutual but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. I would say you really gotta put yourself first and know what's best for you... Perk up the courage to live your best life! I tell myself that I can still love him from a distance and I know that ultimately, he will be happier without me. I'm so sorry you had to go through this as well. Stay strong
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I feel you, they left me last week, we need to stay strong all together.. Is hard but we can overcome it... check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
Omg this was perfect, had a breakup two weeks ago! One thing that helps me is having a sad playlist and a hype up one, I will have my cry and then BOOM Lizzo and whooo I jam out and that helps me get through the day. If anyone wants to listen to my current hype up/self love/breakup playlist my spotify is montithompson and the playlist is called I love myself. I hope everyone is going ok and is safe💕
Hasn’t even been a week for me.... I’m so glad you’ve made this video and it’s come at the right time. All I can think about is wanting to message him. Breaking up in isolation is so hard. Like you said it’s for the best and I have to look back at the reasons why it ended. I think the hardest thing is trust and the idea that you have to look at it from a distance. Cannot wait until isolation is over and I can go for drinks and food with the girls. Hope everyone is okay :) Thank you Cartia
What also worked for me is listing everything I did or brought to the relationship and how awesome I am. And also imagining what it would be like for the other person to lose me. Turning the tables around and thinking "how would I feel if I were him and he lost me?". Know your self value and worth, stay strong and remember why you left (that list of bad things helps!). Great tips thank you
I’m not even going through anything like that rn, very happy in my relationship, my bf’s literally right next to me HAHA I just love listening to you talk about anything 💓 but to anyone who is, it’s gonna be okay even if it doesn’t seem like it now. Love is gonna come to all of you naturally and everything will make sense one day I PROMISE!!!❤️❤️❤️
i did all of this in my past relationship and it worked... i know it's not healthy to wish/hope for them to come back but he was my first true love and what we had, everything about it was just electric. a twin flame. we were perfect for each other but then insecurities amongst other emotions i've never felt before arose and things started to go south. But I know now what I need to work on and I always remind myself that if it's meant to be, it will be. the higher powers/universe already has something in store for all of us and all we gotta do is just sit back and let fate decide x
me and my girlfriend split for the same reason. she had insecurities from a past relationship and it felt like she was losing trust in me and i got defensive and we just kept clashing. i'm super sad about it because when it was good it was amazing! but i'm also just going to keep in mind that if it was meant to be, it will be x
i remember the most heartbreaking moment was when i was crying on a train in Rome 8 months ago thinking how could someone i loved the most just abandoned me like that on the other side of the world. i honestly don't think i will ever be able to forget how i felt when i was there. i also remember a month ago when i was in England wanting to commit suicide bc i was so sad about so many things in life, i reached out to him and said i wanted to see him(obviously i didn't tell him about the mental problem part) but he said no. honestly i don't understand how two people could fall in love with different amount and sometimes the other person can just leave, fall out of love and move on just like that. and they just don't care about you anymore. but you just will always love them:( i really do love him but i have to set both of us free. i feel safe now because as each day goes by, it only gets better xx
official rebekahkah hi, I really feel like you could help me, I’m going though a really hard break up after 9 years I’m 24 now. Please can you contact me on Nazm1n_b Instagram I don’t know if you can message on UA-cam xxxx
I'm in a similar spot, I very much love my ex so much still, she loved me too. She broke up with me, she was already over me at the time of the breakup 4 months ago, but I was at the peak of my love for her. And after we spend months and months together, saying "I love you", being super loving to each other, being happy, and being sure that we would end up marrying each other. And then have them break up, just like that, just like that I'm not in their life anymore, it's that easy for someone to go from loving you to never wanting to hear or see you again. It's completely heart breaking, it hurts so much, especially if you still love them a lot. It's been 4 months, I still think about her all the time, I cry, I spent many weeks pouring my eyes out when she had already moved on. It's hell. I hope you feel better now, I would love to ask you how you're doing now a year later, are you completely over it? How long did it take for you to heal? I thought I would be over her by now, but I'm far from it, miss her every day, want nothing but having her back in my life, as friends, or as partners. But she doesn't want to talk to me or hear from me at all. It sucks, I'm sad beyond anything, I wished she still loved me.
I love this video! Im going through a break up right now in quarantaine and honestly, I think its a blessing and a curse. But this is like big sis advice which i really needed!! We don't need anyone else but ourselves! Thank you so much.
I broke it off with my boyfriend of 2.5 years this week and I haven’t stopped crying and regretting it. I already miss him and I feel like I’ve made a mistake. There wasn’t 1 thing wrong in the relationship, lots of little things that built up overtime to the point I couldn’t handle it anymore. It was the hardest thing I’ve had to do and it’s so painful not being around him. He was my first love and I think we are soulmates. I can’t stop thinking that I’ve done the wrong thing because I still love him so much but I was hurting myself staying. You made so many good points in this video which I’ve written down. It’s making me see it from another perspective but it’s so freakin hard 🥺💔
Watched this when I was happy in my relationship and now rewatching it 3 months after the breakup. Fantastic advice, I’m on the come up of it finally♥️♥️♥️
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Cartiiii, thank you so much for this! I am currently going through a breakup rn. There are days where I feel lonely & sad but I always try to remind myself that I’ll be fine eventually. But damn, quarantine & breakup is such a tough mix!
@@erinmckay7133 You're such a light! I love seeing little acts of kindness like giving words of encouragement to a stranger on the internet. Specially when you're going through a tough time yourself. I'd love to gift you an angel card pull, if you're open to that kinda stuff :) Just as a little gesture of internet kindness back to you.❤️ Sending love and light through all of your journeys!! Hugs from Panama ❤️
@@erinmckay7133 Yay! This topic is so dear to my heart... I can't see sisters going through heartbreak and not send them humongous amounts of love and support 💗 I'm excited to connect with you Erin! 💗
It’s currently 1:30am and I was rolling around in my bed, forcing myself to not replay scenarios and dwell on the pass. I cried throughout the whole video and took notes because I feel like I truly need to move the fuck on with my life and apply these tips. Thanks for all the advice. 💕
I haven’t gone through an intense breakup in a long time, but this is spot on. It’s so true that you just have to trust that this decision (whether it was your decision or your partner’s, or mutual) is for the best for both of you, and that it is going to bring you closer not only to yourself, but also to a partner who is better for you. The process is ugly and it sucks, but it’s important to remember that it’s key to self-development and growth! Everything is a learning experience. 💕
I can give advice if you want to talk about it, they left me last week, we need to stay strong all together!! Would love to hear your story if you feel like talking even if we don´t know each other, check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
one thing that is so hard to face is the truth and that maybe it just isnt going to work out no matter how much love there is between two people. accepting your two different people, wanting different things and going on a different path in life. trying to turn of your heart and listen to your logical mind is the hardest thing. fighting with your head and your heart and trying to make the right desicion for your life is SO HARD. XXXXX
I’ve rewatched this video at least 30+ times. Going through a breakup right now and when I’m feeling really low I just rewatch this in order to continue pushing through. I love you thank you for opening up and sharing this video! xo
Me and my ex broke up 3 times in a 1,5year relationship. The last time we broke up was the most heartbreaking experience I ever had. I felt so much pain and cried every morning right after waking up when I realized he wasn't my boyfriend anymore. This was my life for a month. Then suddenly he called me and asked if we want to try it again. Of course I said yes , because I still loved him. I'm with him now but I don't feel the same anymore because I'm afraid that he would leave me again when things get hard. I'm lowkey so unhappy and can't talk about this with him. My old love and desire for him died but still my heart wants him it's so crazy:( did anyone experienced the same?
Denise T I am in the exact same boat honestly. We have broken up twice and been on and off for 3 years 😭 I hope that everything gets better for you darlingxx
Listen, I am going through this... I actually tried it again and guess who found messages of him texting other girls? When I confronted him, he simply said that he had nothing to say and that he just doesn’t love me. Boo we deserve better, we truly do.
Something I forgot about too often in my spirituality is trust in universe and not being a victim of the universe so thankyou cmal xxx love your content !! ❤️❤️❤️
I think I was staying in my recently ended relationship because of like slight hope. Looking at it he wasn't even up to the standards of who I should be with, I shouldn't be chasing someone and wanting them to be the type of person I want. Idk even though I know my heart isn't broken, I just let myself get into something just because I'm terrified of being alone. And the idea that every guy I've ever pursued hasn't loved me like I loved them is so disappointing. Ima watch this video when I think I need to text him girl thank you
ugh girl i stayed with my toxic boyfriend for almost a year because i always just had hope that he would change and things would get better. i love him so much but he never loved me the same its so sad.
Love this! Im going through a breakup and it really is the worse. Loved how all the subjects you touched are so mature and respectful towards the other person, really wish everyone was like that. You are beautiful btw!
I recently got out of a very controlling and emotionally manipulative relationship and was made feel guilty for prioritising myself and my mental health by ending it. Hold yourself above it, if they don’t add to your life and even hold you back from things you want/need then let it go. Don’t be tempted to try get other people involved to take sides, you two know what happened and that’s all that’s needed. You deserve more than you can probably imagine at this moment but it will find out if you trust in the bigger plan. There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship or breakup so be gentle with yourself💘💘
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crying watching this as it's been 5 months since my breakup & my ex decided to message me (literally like wtf lol) the past 2 days + it triggered such a bad breakdown as it reminded my body + mind to such a traumatic time in my life. & i've been so worked up about it, so much anxiety. even tho i know how to deal w my own emotions, this was so needed as a reminder & couldn't have been posted at a more perfect time. love you cartia
I wish u had posted this back in october 😂 but all good xx and to all the boo's out there that are heartbroken as heck, I promise you everything really will be ok. it may not seem like it now, but it will!! things that helped me so much was just focus on yourself. work on yourself and be the best version of yourself!! in every way, perk up your personality again, hit the gym, catch up with old friends, learn new things, go on spontaneous travels (hard right now but when we can!) make a list of all the stupid little things you want to do everyday eg. clean makeup brushes - so you feel like you have purpose again. we can only focus on yourself, don't even think of your ex or what he/she's doing!!. as hard as it sounds, the only person you can control is you. and if you keep on thinking about your ex in a romantic way, switch the script. think about that love you crave that will be 10x better than the last. we all want to find that head over heels soul mate. you shouldn't have to put up with shit from your ex. we will all find our perfect person that we feel everything and anything for...one day. and don't forget to breathe!! everything will be fine xx
This will help me a lot in the future, Im not in a relationship but I will keep these tips in mind. Love you Cartia, you always help me and I am so grateful for that❤️
watching this the morning after the breakup, worst feeling ever. i’m proud of myself for being strong enough to finally let go. he broke me so much. it hurts, because i loved him a lot and made me happy but he also made me so sad. i’m so relieved to be out of the relationship and now i can really focus on me :)
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years today. I remember watching this video a few days ago and being so grateful for him. He cheated on me multiple times. I know I’m better off and will eventually be okay. The hurt will heal and I’ll become a better person because of it. I love you Cartia, thank you for this! I remember meeting you in Santa Monica years ago! Always such a light 💛
also i 100% agree w getting your anger out by doing boxing bc it allows for you to take your anger out on the bag instead of them or other ppl in your life that care about you and are trying to help you through it. so great tips girl ilsym and glad you’re doing well, it makes me feel sm better as well🥰
don't loose hope. I was heartbroken few months ago when my ex left me. I was able to use some help from Dr Steve I was referred to and he helped me get my ex back.
I love the way you dint have a single negative thing about your ex partner, that’s what tells about you,how strong and beautiful as a human you are ❤️ and to everyone who’s going through breakups/relationship issues please know that we all have the power of loving ourself more than anyone else can do, embrace it 🤍
I love this video, helped me with my first break up 4 years ago and still coming back to it today to help get me through (broke up with my boyfriend this morning) xx
Thank you 🥰 reminding myself why it didn’t work and what did hurt me during that time just reminded me what I do deserve when I’m dating someone. I think we forget sometimes that the person we need to take care of most in our lives is ourselves and if we are letting someone go beneath that then that’s when we need to say “No, I don’t deserve this” which is the hardest but strongest thing you can for yourself. But honestly needed this video, so thank you 💜💜 hope you’re staying strong and getting through this, you deserve it 💜
Going through a breakup in quarantine rn and it’s sucks but at the same time it’s the ultimate test that the person isn’t suited for you deep down because if a bigger tragedy happens in the world the person will run away and you don’t need someone like that in your life. If you would never give up on someone you deserve the same
I NEEDED THIS💕 everything you said was so accurate and helped me so so much during my own time right now😭 I’m dealing with the worst heartbreak right now so it’s so helpful hearing and knowing that someone is/has gone through the same thing recently (even though I hate that you also have experienced this) so thankyou ! X sending my love 💕💕 I’m obsessed with u, your amazing thankyou xoxo
i wish i’d been able to watch this 3 years ago when my ex and i ended it but i think there’s a reason i saw this now. when you said, if you don’t want to get back with them and they don’t want to get back with you, move on with your life. like??? so simple but i needed to hear that. i also struggle with binge eating and you saying that it’s ok to just eat and be emotional, just pull it together at some point, now is that point for me! i’m pulling it together and moving on, thank you for always being so transparent and honest, i’m so so glad youtube led me to you 💖💖💖
What I learned is that time will heal everything. Something will always trigger you a little, but not in a negative way. After a certain amount of time you start to be grateful for that person and experience, and start looking at pictures rather in a nostalgic way not in a tragic “I miss them so badly” way.
I am going through a breakup where my ex convinced himself that I was cheating. It ended with him calling me a lying cheater but I was always so loyal. It's making this breakup psychologically really tricky because I find myself feeling guilty but I have to remind myself of the truth not the story he spun.
Thank you for this video. I absolutely needed it. After 6 months my ex decided to contact me, because he wanted to apologize for his behavior. In his text he revealed that he only apologized, because some dumb girl played him. The worst part is: he stopped loving me in our relationship, but he didn't tell me. Instead he hurt me on purpose so I'd leave. I'm not ok right now
thank you so much Cartia! i played this video so many times and it helped me get the closure they never bothered to give me. I feel so much better, calmer and at ease on my own, it does get better. Thank you angel🧚🏻♂️
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Just remembered that you posted this back when i was still in my relationship. It ended yesterday and im so glad i have this to watch now when i need it💕
my partner broke up with me a few weeks ago because he did not want to be in a relationship anymore. I honestly feel like I failed him and our relationship because I couldn’t make it work. I know that thinking like this is wrong I just can’t help it. Everything seems so surreal and I can’t believe I’m not with him anymore. I don’t even know who I am without him. This sucks. On a positive note - Thank you for this video. It honestly felt like you were my friend and the virtual hug felt so genuine, I had to cry. We will get through this!! Love you xx
after 1,7 year of toxic relationship we broke up yesterday. for about seven months i've talked myself to believing i was a happy person. We had a good moments, but majority was fighting. Last couple of months everyday i was called fat, ugly and stupid. Yesterday we talked about everything and first time in all my life i've said to him the truth - i was unhappy. He treated me like shit. I know i deseve better, and i know i need to move on, start to love myself again but it still hurts. thank you for this video.
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This video has helped me soooo much. I’ve been going through a break up for a few weeks now. My ex is an incredible man I couldn’t say anything bad about him. If time really does heal then maybe we will reconnect but if we don’t that will be okay too. 💓
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My boyfriend and I just broke up last night. We just wanted different things out of each other and life. We both still love each other and that’s the worst part
Thank you so much Cartia, going trough a 5 year relationship breakup now, and the first thing that came to my mind was watching your videos about loneliness and tips and dealing with heartbreak, thank you again, this really helped me clear my thoughts, it is so hard, and you are so real and talking out your heart, again- thank you
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Omg this is said so well cartia! for anyone going through a breakup this is SO true and you gave perfect tips. I could not agree and relate more with everything you said breakups are the worst honestly but its good to see you had all these realizations and came out of the breakup seeming happier xx
Hello, I know how you feel right now but don't loose hope. I was heartbroken few months ago when my ex left me. I was able to use some help from Dr Steve I was referred to and he helped me get my ex back.
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I have only been in love with someone twice. The first time the person had no idea, and that fizzled away into a happy friendship. Then I met someone who I fell so in love with. Being with them we were best friends, so connected and happy every moment we were together. I have never felt so close and comfortable with another person, and they loved me back, properly liked and accepted me for me which I can wholeheartedly say no one in my life ever did in that way before. They made me feel special, like I could do things and be someone. We were in love but there was one small obstacle, one thing that slowly knawed at her brain that she was upset about, so we had to go our separate ways. I don’t know what to do. It’s literally like my other half is gone and I’m swirling back into this pit where I was before, y days are pointless and being with her made me realise how shitty all my friends are in comparison, I cannot talk to a single one about this. I don’t even know how long I’ve cried for and I can physically feel the pain, it’s smothering me and it hurts so bad I can’t describe it. We danced in the rain and I didn’t want to leave, I just wanted to stay with you, messing around in the rain with our music, wet hair and eyes interlocking, hearts beating, though everything else in the world stopping just for us, for us to love.
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@@LauraLopez-bv7od yes. It’s been 7 months and I promise you it gets better, all it takes is time which I know is easier said than done, but you will come out of this
I am so glad you posted this video for those really going through it. I know how hard it can be but there is always light at the end of the tunnel💗 Spreading love to everyone having a tough time, and to Cartia for this beautiful video🦋
It’s been a little over three months since my ex and I broke up and I am still hurting. It’s hard to imagine finding someone better when the break up was due to certain circumstances and not because of a loss of feelings for each other. I actually just wrote a letter that I will probably never send to my ex last night explaining why I’m still hurting but also forgiving him, realizing that not everything was my fault and that I would never not have love for him. It definitely didn’t give me the full closure I need to fully get over him BUT it was liberating.
Thank you Cartia for this video, some really good points you made. It really sucks but sometimes you just need that harsh reality check, sending everyone here love ❤
thank you so much for this. it’s been just over a year and i was pretty much doing great but we started texting again.. and i could immediately see the difference in my attitude and everything. Dont do that. I promise u won’t feel better, you have to FULLY let go. Don’t do my mistake. I’m gonna stop it soon but anyways, i promise it gets better :)
What is worse than going though a breakup ? - Going though a break up during quarantine.
same
YESS
trust me i feel it rn
This comment is accurate.
Dude same. But imma use this time to heal for sure. Sending you good vibes if you're in the same place that I am.
kind of crazy how a month ago when you uploaded this I was like I don’t need to watch this I’m happy with my guy rn. But here we are a month later dealing with getting my heart broken and needing this so much rn 💕
Legit me
Me too 😭
Same
Me too 😭
Weh😪
It's so hard not to romanticize an ex. My ex broke up with me after a 5 year relationship and it really destroyed my life. But then I built myself back up and followed my dreams and I just got accepted to a doctors of physical therapy program. i'm so happy two years later! IT GETS BETTER x
beautywithcass I’m so happy for you 💛🙏♥️
@@katarakatkatara9047 thanks so much
Yesssssss, 💗💚💗❤️
That beautiful one week of break up, the gal still loves me but she said to give her time. but this thing is killing inside
check me out, I feel the same, just happened to me last week, I think it happens to all of us ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
I really feel for everyone in the comments. I went through the worst heartbreak ever last year and i genuinely thought i wouldn't be ok. For everyone reading this and going through that: you will be ok. It takes a lot of time, but you will look back and be thankful because that person wasn't right for you.
BS99CA I can also relate. I went through the most horrid break up that took me 6 years to get over but you know what, I now teach about broken heart cause I have deeper understanding now. Of getting yourself from the lowest, lowest point and gather your strength and reach for your dreams again. I share my journey on my channel! I refused to sink and now I’m completely healed
Thank you fr
Thank you
Is horrible, I feel the same, just happened to me last week, check me out if you want ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
THINK ABOUT THIS: are you in love with the person, or are you in love with the feeling?
c:
Thanks for making it harder for me😭
Wow 💓
ZytxHDx maybe u guys can hopefully work it out in the future then when there is no distance :)
just the feeling but i can’t move on and i won’t find it anywhere rlse
8 months ago i was crying everyday every night and now it still hits sometimes and i'll miss him and cry about it. but it's quick and less painful. you can't unlove someone once you truly loved and cared for them but you will learn better ways to love someone from a distance while pouring the love you had for the other person back into yourself x hope y'all are doing okay! feel better soon
official rebekahkah this was so nice to read! I’m mourning the loss of me relo before I’ve even broken up with him and this was reassuring x
Sometimes you can´t rely on them you take care of them and love them and they prefer to leave. They left me last week, but we need to stay strong all together! Would love to hear your story, check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
Also! Just in case someone needs to hear it. Your partner doesn’t necessarily have to have done anything wrong to make you think about breaking up. If you feel like breaking up is right for you, even if you don’t have a list of other reasons that is OKAY. 🌸🌸Just because you feel deep down that a person isn’t what you need right now. That is a perfectly fine reason. I felt so bad about breaking up with my ex because he hadn’t “done anything wrong” I just felt like we had to break up. It was hard but so worth it. Follow your intuition! 💕💕💕🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️
This !!! So important ! ❤️
Clara K 💋💋💋
I’m the same it’s really hard but I think I good thing to remember is you can’t force yourself to be with someone. It just wasn’t meant to be but that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone else other there
thankyou! me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years are both going to different university's in September and we have both spoken about what we want and we've agreed on ending it in September. Mostly because I personally couldn't deal with a long distance relationship and id rather just end it on good terms then end it due to constant fighting etc. But then I also feel so mad at myself because I'm not at least going to try the long distance. If any one has some advice I would love to hear it xx
Natalya Dwyer if you feel like breaking things off is necessary for you moving forward when you go to uni, then that it’s more than okay ! Do not feel bad for not sitting it out longer. It is up to you if you want to try a little longer but I really think that if you already have doubts it might just stress you out when you’re at uni. :(
I was in a pretty toxic & emotionally abusive relationship. I actually had to go into therapy two years after our breakup because there were things I couldn’t deal with and had been suppressing but I kept getting really depressed as a result of bottling those things up. Something my therapist told me one day, which was probably an insignificant thing for him to say but to me it was the most profound knowledge that I’d ever been given haha. He explained how triggers work.. he said that something may remind you of that person (your ex) or a memory that you had with them (which is a trigger, it triggers you to think of them) and when you experience that, you are actually feeling the same emotion/pain as you did in that moment. Chemicals in your body actually respond to it which is why I was becoming depressed and having anxiety. But he also told me that the positive thing about triggers is that they fade and eventually aren’t triggering to you anymore. For example, if you hear a song and you remember it was the song that was playing right after you had a massive fight with your partner and you were crying and upset, you’ll probably get upset and cry again. But the next time you hear that song, you might get upset but not feel emotional enough to cry. The time after that, it might upset you but only in a passing moment.. and eventually, one day, you’ll hear that song and not even remember that it meant anything to you in the past. That helped me massively because after I knew that, every time I was triggered by something, I could tell myself that it was okay to be upset in that moment and to feel hopeful that someday soon it won’t hurt anymore. Changed me as a person haha
Thank you for your comment. I enjoyed the knowledge you shared :)
wow im going through a similar situation
I can give advice if you want to talk about it, they left me last week, we need to stay strong all together!! Would love to hear your story and try to help you out! check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
Crying rn bc literally i feel like i cant enjoy my hobbies ever again bc theyll remind me of him thank you so much
I remember in one of the vlogs Josh was in, you said that if the two of you ever broke up, you just wouldn't survive it and you thought that you could never go through a breakup because it would hurt you so much...and look at you now! You are so strong and yeah heartbreak is shit but it can make people grow so much and make you stronger than ever. I love seeing girls glow and evolve after heartbreak because it shows how women are so strong and that they can survive anything and use those hard feelings to be a better version of themselves. Love you so much and thank you for this video!!xx
Amen sister
Love this video, I'm sure it has been very helpful for those going through a break up! I agree, and my tips would be:
1. Wallow in it for a while, grieve the relationship and let yourself be sad
2. You have to want to get over it. People can give you all the advice in the world but it won't help until you're committed to moving on
3. Delete/block their number, social media, all photos together (even if you're on good terms)
4. Remind yourself of everything negative about them. Focus on all the things that you didn't like and all the bad memories.
5. Keep busy. Spend as much time as you can with friends, family, sports, hobbies. Keep your mind distracted
6. Glow up. Focus on self improvement, physically, mentally, emotionally
7. Be social, meet new people and experience new things
8. Give it time. If it was a long relationship its going to take a long time to get over it. Be gentle with yourself
I cry every morning miss him so much
:( i love you
Cartia Mallan love you too♥️
It’s okay to cry.
Rainbows come after a storm 🌈❤️
Lili X thank you so much you made my day 🥰♥️
Cry, babe, cry the fuck out of it. Then have some patience with yourself, breathe, and make yourself some tea/warm beverage and listen to some pretty music. And listen to Cartia, 'cause I agree with her 100%. I went through this a year ago and DAMN, it's fucking horrible, but I did most of what she said and it got better. You'll be GREAT! 💜
i just got my heart broken for the first time. i was falling in love with him so hard and everything was so ... perfect. 3 weeks distance because of quarantine and exam stress, and he broke up with me saying he didn't think he'd ever fall in love with me. i feel blindsided, hurt, alone and heartbroken. never felt pain like this. thank you so much for this video, i really needed it.
He helped me to bring back my ex
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I have been going through this exact same situation. It’s been so hard and I feel so alone too. Seeing this comment made me realize I wasn’t alone in this situation. I really hope you are doing okay and that everything looks up for you.💕
I was seriously sitting here being like “wow how embarrassing, imagine calling an ex while drunk.”
With my face in a toilet bowl, I CALLED HIM 28 TIMES and then when he answered I tried to play it off as a pocket call
Holly Lee 😂 this is hilarious and horrible. Oh no. Hope you're handling it and feeling better better now!
Holly Lee that is so embarrassing omg
This is the only thing that made me laugh after crying for a few days now because i relate💀hope you’re doing okay now
Hahaha this made my day! 😂 it happens...
i've done shit like this lol own it who cares - you're human your heart isn't icy
I once saw somthing somewhere that said you will never love someone like you have loved a previous ex but that is OKAY becuase you are not supposed to!!!! It will be different. It will be better. There would be no point in repeating the same love as clearly somthing was wrong with it. Do not be sacred that you will never love someone the same as a previous partner xox
nope, not going through a breakup. Just love your face!!
😂😂😂🤦🏿♂️
Lucky, so lucky
It’s so hard to remember why things didnt work when you did everything you could but it was the other person who couldn’t be in the relationship. He was so perfect to me..
I am so sad all the time, I still think he's the one. I've never felt worse.
My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back
Message me on WhatApp.
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And I will direct you to a woman who can help you bring back your ex
Amazing tips ✨🦋 I went through a breakup last summer and I hold myself accountable for not ending it sooner and also dragging it on after we were not together.
Maybe a pre-breakup tip: What I learned is that if you’re going back & forth on whether you should break up with your partner or not, is imagine yourself one year into the future looking back on right now. Think to yourself and ask yourself: is the person I’m with going to keep making me happy in one year or will the stress, anxiety, fights, etc still occur? Is the situation I am in right now going to make me a better/stronger person in the future?
It helps to realize you’ll be more than ok if you leave a toxic situation if you choose to heal today - sooner rather than later.
✌🏽☺️
going through the hardest breakup and the most heartache I've ever experienced :( thank you I really needed this xo
Sending you so much love Ella!! There are so many ladies going through the same and I want you to know that you are not alone!! You got this! This is YOUR time to reconnect with your true soul essence. Follow your bliss and meet every single shadow that is hear to show you a wound that is ready to heal a little bit more. hugs from Panama!!
Ella Clara you’ll get through this lovely!! Try to remember this feeling won’t last forever xox
You'll be okay, really. Even if it truly doesn't feel like it right now. I'm sending you lots of love and strength. 💜
You can get through this and you will be an even more amazing human afterwards:)
you got this boo. sending you so much love
On one side it's so painful it can make us feel sick it can hurt our chests it can make us not want to eat. But when the love stays, how lucky are we to feel so much love for someone and be loved. Love is so beautiful, we are lucky we have felt and we are also lucky sometimes to let go. I've had breakups in the past I never ever thought I'd overcome. I truly believe it's loneliness we need to deal with, love yourself enough that nobody's lack of love will ever stop you from knowing or feeling love. Be in a relationship with yourself first and love yourselves. X
I watched this 10 months ago, feeling like it was never gonna get better. Now I look back at that time and can be honest when I say: time really does heal. I am now more confident than ever and have met a guy that treats me perfectly and makes me happier than the last guy ever could. I never would have dared to imagine how big of a positive impact a breakup can have on your life in the long run.
Sending out strength and love to everyone going through such a horrible phase right now, you WILL be fine, trust me.💫🤍
My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back
Message me on WhatApp.
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And I will direct you to a woman who can help you bring back your ex
How timely, just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago although we still love each other. We were on different paths and I needed to heal. Thank you Cartia.
how'd you do it? im in the same situation... i think i need to do this.
@@pecksaydee We had an ongoing issue for a really long time. I didn't trust him as well so that was already a huge contributor to the breakup. It was mutual but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. I would say you really gotta put yourself first and know what's best for you... Perk up the courage to live your best life! I tell myself that I can still love him from a distance and I know that ultimately, he will be happier without me. I'm so sorry you had to go through this as well. Stay strong
Ugh I’m in the same boat
Val Chua thank you ❤️ that is a beautiful outlook
They left me last week I feel you! check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
Literally broke up with the love of my life this past weekend. Everything hurts so thank you for this 💗
I feel you, they left me last week, we need to stay strong all together.. Is hard but we can overcome it... check me out if you feel like it ua-cam.com/video/OY488KxM5Z4/v-deo.html&lc=z22jv5hhfqjbs31elacdp433k55hiqux3b2pufgy4tpw03c010c.1613160000706315
hope ur doing better now
@@heidiketchum1630 honestly, I’m the best I’ve ever been and so Is he! We’re still broken up but both very happy 🤗
@@heidiketchum1630 thank you! 💖
@@egochodihi i’m glad to hear it 💗this kinda makes me feel okay about my breakup bc it feels like i’ll never we get over it rn
Omg this was perfect, had a breakup two weeks ago! One thing that helps me is having a sad playlist and a hype up one, I will have my cry and then BOOM Lizzo and whooo I jam out and that helps me get through the day. If anyone wants to listen to my current hype up/self love/breakup playlist my spotify is montithompson and the playlist is called I love myself. I hope everyone is going ok and is safe💕
Hasn’t even been a week for me.... I’m so glad you’ve made this video and it’s come at the right time. All I can think about is wanting to message him. Breaking up in isolation is so hard. Like you said it’s for the best and I have to look back at the reasons why it ended. I think the hardest thing is trust and the idea that you have to look at it from a distance. Cannot wait until isolation is over and I can go for drinks and food with the girls. Hope everyone is okay :) Thank you Cartia
girl we need a breakup playlist x
What also worked for me is listing everything I did or brought to the relationship and how awesome I am. And also imagining what it would be like for the other person to lose me. Turning the tables around and thinking "how would I feel if I were him and he lost me?". Know your self value and worth, stay strong and remember why you left (that list of bad things helps!). Great tips thank you
I’m not even going through anything like that rn, very happy in my relationship, my bf’s literally right next to me HAHA I just love listening to you talk about anything 💓 but to anyone who is, it’s gonna be okay even if it doesn’t seem like it now. Love is gonna come to all of you naturally and everything will make sense one day I PROMISE!!!❤️❤️❤️
tell me why i’m 6 minutes in and i’m already convinced that this is the best video i’ve come across for healing from a break up!!
i did all of this in my past relationship and it worked... i know it's not healthy to wish/hope for them to come back but he was my first true love and what we had, everything about it was just electric. a twin flame. we were perfect for each other but then insecurities amongst other emotions i've never felt before arose and things started to go south. But I know now what I need to work on and I always remind myself that if it's meant to be, it will be. the higher powers/universe already has something in store for all of us and all we gotta do is just sit back and let fate decide x
me and my girlfriend split for the same reason. she had insecurities from a past relationship and it felt like she was losing trust in me and i got defensive and we just kept clashing. i'm super sad about it because when it was good it was amazing! but i'm also just going to keep in mind that if it was meant to be, it will be x
i remember the most heartbreaking moment was when i was crying on a train in Rome 8 months ago thinking how could someone i loved the most just abandoned me like that on the other side of the world. i honestly don't think i will ever be able to forget how i felt when i was there. i also remember a month ago when i was in England wanting to commit suicide bc i was so sad about so many things in life, i reached out to him and said i wanted to see him(obviously i didn't tell him about the mental problem part) but he said no. honestly i don't understand how two people could fall in love with different amount and sometimes the other person can just leave, fall out of love and move on just like that. and they just don't care about you anymore. but you just will always love them:( i really do love him but i have to set both of us free. i feel safe now because as each day goes by, it only gets better xx
official rebekahkah hi, I really feel like you could help me, I’m going though a really hard break up after 9 years I’m 24 now. Please can you contact me on Nazm1n_b Instagram I don’t know if you can message on UA-cam xxxx
I'm in a similar spot, I very much love my ex so much still, she loved me too. She broke up with me, she was already over me at the time of the breakup 4 months ago, but I was at the peak of my love for her. And after we spend months and months together, saying "I love you", being super loving to each other, being happy, and being sure that we would end up marrying each other. And then have them break up, just like that, just like that I'm not in their life anymore, it's that easy for someone to go from loving you to never wanting to hear or see you again. It's completely heart breaking, it hurts so much, especially if you still love them a lot.
It's been 4 months, I still think about her all the time, I cry, I spent many weeks pouring my eyes out when she had already moved on. It's hell.
I hope you feel better now, I would love to ask you how you're doing now a year later, are you completely over it? How long did it take for you to heal?
I thought I would be over her by now, but I'm far from it, miss her every day, want nothing but having her back in my life, as friends, or as partners. But she doesn't want to talk to me or hear from me at all. It sucks, I'm sad beyond anything, I wished she still loved me.
I love this video! Im going through a break up right now in quarantaine and honestly, I think its a blessing and a curse. But this is like big sis advice which i really needed!! We don't need anyone else but ourselves! Thank you so much.
it’s going to get better babies, whatever happens was supposed to happen and is what’s best for you.❤️
My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back
Message me on WhatApp.
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I broke it off with my boyfriend of 2.5 years this week and I haven’t stopped crying and regretting it. I already miss him and I feel like I’ve made a mistake. There wasn’t 1 thing wrong in the relationship, lots of little things that built up overtime to the point I couldn’t handle it anymore. It was the hardest thing I’ve had to do and it’s so painful not being around him. He was my first love and I think we are soulmates. I can’t stop thinking that I’ve done the wrong thing because I still love him so much but I was hurting myself staying. You made so many good points in this video which I’ve written down. It’s making me see it from another perspective but it’s so freakin hard 🥺💔
Watched this when I was happy in my relationship and now rewatching it 3 months after the breakup. Fantastic advice, I’m on the come up of it finally♥️♥️♥️
My dear if you want help to get your ex back. I can recommend you to someone who help me , in case you want him you can contact me on WhatsApp +1:914:206:4085 and I will direct you to him,
Cartiiii, thank you so much for this! I am currently going through a breakup rn. There are days where I feel lonely & sad but I always try to remind myself that I’ll be fine eventually. But damn, quarantine & breakup is such a tough mix!
Sending you so much love dear. There will be ups and downs, just take each day as it comes and dive into the amazing universe that is inside of you
Karla Torres SUCH a tough mix! You are not alone girl. Currently going through it too.. we’ve got this ☺️❤️
@@erinmckay7133 You're such a light! I love seeing little acts of kindness like giving words of encouragement to a stranger on the internet. Specially when you're going through a tough time yourself. I'd love to gift you an angel card pull, if you're open to that kinda stuff :) Just as a little gesture of internet kindness back to you.❤️ Sending love and light through all of your journeys!! Hugs from Panama ❤️
Ivo Empowers I would love that. Noticed another comment of yours, have just followed you on Instagram ☺️ xx
@@erinmckay7133 Yay! This topic is so dear to my heart... I can't see sisters going through heartbreak and not send them humongous amounts of love and support 💗 I'm excited to connect with you Erin! 💗
It’s currently 1:30am and I was rolling around in my bed, forcing myself to not replay scenarios and dwell on the pass. I cried throughout the whole video and took notes because I feel like I truly need to move the fuck on with my life and apply these tips. Thanks for all the advice. 💕
I haven’t gone through an intense breakup in a long time, but this is spot on. It’s so true that you just have to trust that this decision (whether it was your decision or your partner’s, or mutual) is for the best for both of you, and that it is going to bring you closer not only to yourself, but also to a partner who is better for you. The process is ugly and it sucks, but it’s important to remember that it’s key to self-development and growth! Everything is a learning experience. 💕
Its so painful heart break, my heart actually feels heavy
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one thing that is so hard to face is the truth and that maybe it just isnt going to work out no matter how much love there is between two people.
accepting your two different people, wanting different things and going on a different path in life. trying to turn of your heart and listen to your logical mind is the hardest thing. fighting with your head and your heart and trying to make the right desicion for your life is SO HARD. XXXXX
I’ve rewatched this video at least 30+ times. Going through a breakup right now and when I’m feeling really low I just rewatch this in order to continue pushing through. I love you thank you for opening up and sharing this video! xo
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Me and my ex broke up 3 times in a 1,5year relationship. The last time we broke up was the most heartbreaking experience I ever had. I felt so much pain and cried every morning right after waking up when I realized he wasn't my boyfriend anymore. This was my life for a month. Then suddenly he called me and asked if we want to try it again. Of course I said yes , because I still loved him. I'm with him now but I don't feel the same anymore because I'm afraid that he would leave me again when things get hard. I'm lowkey so unhappy and can't talk about this with him. My old love and desire for him died but still my heart wants him it's so crazy:(
did anyone experienced the same?
Denise T I am in the exact same boat honestly. We have broken up twice and been on and off for 3 years 😭 I hope that everything gets better for you darlingxx
Listen, I am going through this... I actually tried it again and guess who found messages of him texting other girls? When I confronted him, he simply said that he had nothing to say and that he just doesn’t love me. Boo we deserve better, we truly do.
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I think I was staying in my recently ended relationship because of like slight hope. Looking at it he wasn't even up to the standards of who I should be with, I shouldn't be chasing someone and wanting them to be the type of person I want. Idk even though I know my heart isn't broken, I just let myself get into something just because I'm terrified of being alone. And the idea that every guy I've ever pursued hasn't loved me like I loved them is so disappointing. Ima watch this video when I think I need to text him girl thank you
I related to this so much. Thank you for sharing and making me feel less alone
ugh girl i stayed with my toxic boyfriend for almost a year because i always just had hope that he would change and things would get better. i love him so much but he never loved me the same its so sad.
Love this! Im going through a breakup and it really is the worse. Loved how all the subjects you touched are so mature and respectful towards the other person, really wish everyone was like that. You are beautiful btw!
This honestly the best and most truthful video on heartbreak that i have ever seen
I recently got out of a very controlling and emotionally manipulative relationship and was made feel guilty for prioritising myself and my mental health by ending it. Hold yourself above it, if they don’t add to your life and even hold you back from things you want/need then let it go. Don’t be tempted to try get other people involved to take sides, you two know what happened and that’s all that’s needed. You deserve more than you can probably imagine at this moment but it will find out if you trust in the bigger plan. There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship or breakup so be gentle with yourself💘💘
going through this right now and I'm so happy I found this video. thank you so much
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crying watching this as it's been 5 months since my breakup & my ex decided to message me (literally like wtf lol) the past 2 days + it triggered such a bad breakdown as it reminded my body + mind to such a traumatic time in my life. & i've been so worked up about it, so much anxiety. even tho i know how to deal w my own emotions, this was so needed as a reminder & couldn't have been posted at a more perfect time. love you cartia
When you're not even going through a break up but canNOT miss one of Cartia's videos xxxx love you girl!
These are really good tips!! I def experienced a similar process, from accepting the past down to sad music! My go-to was Lana del Rey.
I wish u had posted this back in october 😂 but all good xx
and to all the boo's out there that are heartbroken as heck, I promise you everything really will be ok. it may not seem like it now, but it will!!
things that helped me so much was just focus on yourself. work on yourself and be the best version of yourself!! in every way, perk up your personality again, hit the gym, catch up with old friends, learn new things, go on spontaneous travels (hard right now but when we can!) make a list of all the stupid little things you want to do everyday eg. clean makeup brushes - so you feel like you have purpose again.
we can only focus on yourself, don't even think of your ex or what he/she's doing!!. as hard as it sounds, the only person you can control is you. and if you keep on thinking about your ex in a romantic way, switch the script. think about that love you crave that will be 10x better than the last. we all want to find that head over heels soul mate. you shouldn't have to put up with shit from your ex. we will all find our perfect person that we feel everything and anything for...one day. and don't forget to breathe!! everything will be fine xx
This will help me a lot in the future, Im not in a relationship but I will keep these tips in mind. Love you Cartia, you always help me and I am so grateful for that❤️
watching this the morning after the breakup, worst feeling ever. i’m proud of myself for being strong enough to finally let go. he broke me so much. it hurts, because i loved him a lot and made me happy but he also made me so sad. i’m so relieved to be out of the relationship and now i can really focus on me :)
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Please write a break up book, this video is exactly what I needed and you’ve expressed everything so beautifully 🥺xx
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years today. I remember watching this video a few days ago and being so grateful for him. He cheated on me multiple times. I know I’m better off and will eventually be okay. The hurt will heal and I’ll become a better person because of it. I love you Cartia, thank you for this! I remember meeting you in Santa Monica years ago! Always such a light 💛
also i 100% agree w getting your anger out by doing boxing bc it allows for you to take your anger out on the bag instead of them or other ppl in your life that care about you and are trying to help you through it. so great tips girl ilsym and glad you’re doing well, it makes me feel sm better as well🥰
You are seriously so fucking intelligent and mature. Love your perspective. Very articulate.
Realizing that the person you love does not have feelings for you anymore hurts af...
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I love the way you dint have a single negative thing about your ex partner, that’s what tells about you,how strong and beautiful as a human you are ❤️ and to everyone who’s going through breakups/relationship issues please know that we all have the power of loving ourself more than anyone else can do, embrace it 🤍
I love this video, helped me with my first break up 4 years ago and still coming back to it today to help get me through (broke up with my boyfriend this morning) xx
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Thank you 🥰 reminding myself why it didn’t work and what did hurt me during that time just reminded me what I do deserve when I’m dating someone. I think we forget sometimes that the person we need to take care of most in our lives is ourselves and if we are letting someone go beneath that then that’s when we need to say “No, I don’t deserve this” which is the hardest but strongest thing you can for yourself. But honestly needed this video, so thank you 💜💜 hope you’re staying strong and getting through this, you deserve it 💜
Going through a breakup in quarantine rn and it’s sucks but at the same time it’s the ultimate test that the person isn’t suited for you deep down because if a bigger tragedy happens in the world the person will run away and you don’t need someone like that in your life. If you would never give up on someone you deserve the same
I NEEDED THIS💕 everything you said was so accurate and helped me so so much during my own time right now😭 I’m dealing with the worst heartbreak right now so it’s so helpful hearing and knowing that someone is/has gone through the same thing recently (even though I hate that you also have experienced this) so thankyou ! X sending my love 💕💕 I’m obsessed with u, your amazing thankyou xoxo
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i wish i’d been able to watch this 3 years ago when my ex and i ended it but i think there’s a reason i saw this now. when you said, if you don’t want to get back with them and they don’t want to get back with you, move on with your life. like??? so simple but i needed to hear that. i also struggle with binge eating and you saying that it’s ok to just eat and be emotional, just pull it together at some point, now is that point for me! i’m pulling it together and moving on, thank you for always being so transparent and honest, i’m so so glad youtube led me to you 💖💖💖
What I learned is that time will heal everything. Something will always trigger you a little, but not in a negative way. After a certain amount of time you start to be grateful for that person and experience, and start looking at pictures rather in a nostalgic way not in a tragic “I miss them so badly” way.
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I am going through a breakup where my ex convinced himself that I was cheating. It ended with him calling me a lying cheater but I was always so loyal. It's making this breakup psychologically really tricky because I find myself feeling guilty but I have to remind myself of the truth not the story he spun.
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Thank you for this video. I absolutely needed it. After 6 months my ex decided to contact me, because he wanted to apologize for his behavior. In his text he revealed that he only apologized, because some dumb girl played him. The worst part is: he stopped loving me in our relationship, but he didn't tell me. Instead he hurt me on purpose so I'd leave. I'm not ok right now
thank you so much Cartia! i played this video so many times and it helped me get the closure they never bothered to give me. I feel so much better, calmer and at ease on my own, it does get better. Thank you angel🧚🏻♂️
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i needed this so much right now.
Just remembered that you posted this back when i was still in my relationship. It ended yesterday and im so glad i have this to watch now when i need it💕
wowow this came right on time✨ going thru one myself, thank u cartia 🦋💕😩 love uuuu and u look so gorgeous & glowy as usual!!
my partner broke up with me a few weeks ago because he did not want to be in a relationship anymore. I honestly feel like I failed him and our relationship because I couldn’t make it work. I know that thinking like this is wrong I just can’t help it. Everything seems so surreal and I can’t believe I’m not with him anymore. I don’t even know who I am without him. This sucks. On a positive note - Thank you for this video. It honestly felt like you were my friend and the virtual hug felt so genuine, I had to cry. We will get through this!! Love you xx
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Hey, I’m going through this exact thing right now, how did you work through it? And how do you feel now
I love everything about this video..so well spoken and everything is said so genuinely and from a place of raw emotion
after 1,7 year of toxic relationship we broke up yesterday. for about seven months i've talked myself to believing i was a happy person. We had a good moments, but majority was fighting. Last couple of months everyday i was called fat, ugly and stupid. Yesterday we talked about everything and first time in all my life i've said to him the truth - i was unhappy. He treated me like shit. I know i deseve better, and i know i need to move on, start to love myself again but it still hurts. thank you for this video.
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This video has helped me soooo much. I’ve been going through a break up for a few weeks now. My ex is an incredible man I couldn’t say anything bad about him. If time really does heal then maybe we will reconnect but if we don’t that will be okay too. 💓
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thank you carti really needed this
Cartia I think this one of the best, most real and authentic videos you've ever done. Thank you so much for sharing. We love you xxx
Honestly These points are so accurate and so true great advice
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My boyfriend and I just broke up last night. We just wanted different things out of each other and life. We both still love each other and that’s the worst part
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these tips are so good for even letting go of toxic friends! thank you!!
Thank you so much Cartia, going trough a 5 year relationship breakup now, and the first thing that came to my mind was watching your videos about loneliness and tips and dealing with heartbreak, thank you again, this really helped me clear my thoughts, it is so hard, and you are so real and talking out your heart, again- thank you
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You absolutely have no idea how much you boosted my confidence and this video immensely helped me thank you so much❤️
Omg this is said so well cartia! for anyone going through a breakup this is SO true and you gave perfect tips. I could not agree and relate more with everything you said breakups are the worst honestly but its good to see you had all these realizations and came out of the breakup seeming happier xx
seriously hurting so bad right now, thank you for this video. I needed it.
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I have only been in love with someone twice. The first time the person had no idea, and that fizzled away into a happy friendship. Then I met someone who I fell so in love with. Being with them we were best friends, so connected and happy every moment we were together. I have never felt so close and comfortable with another person, and they loved me back, properly liked and accepted me for me which I can wholeheartedly say no one in my life ever did in that way before. They made me feel special, like I could do things and be someone. We were in love but there was one small obstacle, one thing that slowly knawed at her brain that she was upset about, so we had to go our separate ways. I don’t know what to do. It’s literally like my other half is gone and I’m swirling back into this pit where I was before, y days are pointless and being with her made me realise how shitty all my friends are in comparison, I cannot talk to a single one about this. I don’t even know how long I’ve cried for and I can physically feel the pain, it’s smothering me and it hurts so bad I can’t describe it. We danced in the rain and I didn’t want to leave, I just wanted to stay with you, messing around in the rain with our music, wet hair and eyes interlocking, hearts beating, though everything else in the world stopping just for us, for us to love.
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I am feeling the same, does it get better?
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@@LauraLopez-bv7od yes. It’s been 7 months and I promise you it gets better, all it takes is time which I know is easier said than done, but you will come out of this
All these points are sooooo spot on, trust in the universe & forgiveness especially 🙌🏽✨ thanks for sharing this girly!
I am so glad you posted this video for those really going through it. I know how hard it can be but there is always light at the end of the tunnel💗 Spreading love to everyone having a tough time, and to Cartia for this beautiful video🦋
This video helped me in so many ways! Thank you so much, you really said the things that I exactly needed to hear right now!
It’s been a little over three months since my ex and I broke up and I am still hurting. It’s hard to imagine finding someone better when the break up was due to certain circumstances and not because of a loss of feelings for each other. I actually just wrote a letter that I will probably never send to my ex last night explaining why I’m still hurting but also forgiving him, realizing that not everything was my fault and that I would never not have love for him. It definitely didn’t give me the full closure I need to fully get over him BUT it was liberating.
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Thank you Cartia for this video, some really good points you made. It really sucks but sometimes you just need that harsh reality check, sending everyone here love ❤
thank you so much for this. it’s been just over a year and i was pretty much doing great but we started texting again.. and i could immediately see the difference in my attitude and everything. Dont do that. I promise u won’t feel better, you have to FULLY let go. Don’t do my mistake. I’m gonna stop it soon but anyways, i promise it gets better :)