Online Dating Nightmare: The Dirty John Story
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Kendall Rae - Ahhh I missed your videos 🥺🦋
The little doggies in the back ground😌💚😍
Thanks so much for the upload! I know you work hard and I really appreciate that!
You should do a live stream, it would be really enterteining for us while being on quarantine🙇🏻♀️🥺
Do a video on the betz sphere!!! I’m surprised you haven’t!? Lol
I love how you're so detailed but also say shit like "so they call an ambulance for his ass" lmaoooo you're the best
"She grabbed that knife and started to stab the fuck out of him" :D
She got the crazy white girl in her trying not to get demonitized. 😂
"this guy was like a damn cockroach"
Riiiiight
@Kristian Alexis 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her daughters are badasses.
Periodt
I thought the same thing! BADASS
Mullet Mayhem yes!!
😂😂
Terra is amazing !
Kendall: “She stabbed the FUCK out of him”
Me: *sips tea* “good for her”
😂
Add a spoon of sugar to the mix 🍵
@@alexagurrola170 period😂😭😭
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And he’s a fuckin cockroach 😂😂😂
You forgot to mention Tara's dog, Cash! He helped fight off Dirty John as he attacked her. She was able to get an upper hand on the attack due to the dog's intervention. Poor Cash passed away a couple of months ago. RIP Cash!
RIP cash ❤️❤️❤️❤️🐾
So the dog barking distracted John or did it bite him?
@@MikeyReadman Attacked him! ^^
Omg this made me tear up 😭😭😭 we dont deserve dogs
Where did you hear that? I'd like to hear that story too.
If a man replied to my text implying he was the 'best thing that ever happened to me', he'd be deleted from my life so fast. LOL
I literally huffed loudly enough at that part that my husband texted me from upstairs and asked, "did you just 'humfph'? Why'd you say 'HA!' twice?" That part was so ridiculous
Amen Sis. I once dated a guy that everyone said nobody has ever broke up with him. Next day, i dismissed him lmao
Lol right? Haha I'd be like..dude..you don't know my life. Hahah
Happened to me. He continued to say it. I found out he was lying about so much. Important things
@@kimsmith819 1
Imagine defending someone who MURDERED YOUR CHILD. That blows my mind.
Riiiiiight
@Jenny Unfortunately, they wanna stop the wrong people from having kids
I agree, but your UA-cam name is all i can think about...lol. Love it!
I honestly can't understand that. Disgusting
Think about how her daughter felt... oh
Terra and Jacqueln are my cousins and Debbie is my aunt. During this time I was spending a lot of time with Jacquelyn helping her investigate John and witnessed a ton of the horrible things he was doing. I think you told the story pretty well and straightforward. They are all really good people and this was a situation where someone was blinded by love. I remember putting my Aunt in hotel rooms under my name and credit card so he could not find her. This was a true life very scary story, and thank God it's over. Hopefully people learn from this to do research on the people you meet online.
Tell Tara she is my hero! I saw her story on some ID true crime program and was amazed by her courage.
I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family this is no joke people are dangerous out there know telling who they really are
Jesus! Sorry this happened! John is a major POS!
I went on a date with a doctor once and he wore his scrubs to the date. I was not as impressed as he thought I'd be 🙄
My mom is recently separated. I told her she has to watch this documentary before she considers dating again, lol.
@Jenny I remember after my dad left when I was a child, my mum started to date again. And her first boyfriend was amazing! So kind and caring, he ended up having a heart attack after around three years of them meeting. My mum, my siblings and I were devastated. My mum didn't date again for around two years, and her next boyfriend was an abusive jack ass! Hed lay hands on my mum all the time, and she eventually got rid of him, only for him to stalk her for a year. Eventually he broke the restraining order, broke into her house and held her hostage for two days and was jailed, he left her alone after his release. My mum has been with her current husband now for eight years he is a lovely guy. I worried so much for her and her love life after her psycho stalker ex, but thankfully she met the kindest guy. I hope ur mum also finds her Prince charming! I think it's hard for us to imagine any guy potentially hurting our mum, but I guess she has to find her own way. And all we can do is be there to support and love her.
@@alexcarlson4344 I'm so happy that things turned around for you guys
Smart move
Kamarca Lol... funny 😄 but wait....yeah, she DOES need to watch this
Aww please don’t be mean to your mom try to do everything to make her happy she’s probably so devastated right now❤️
I will never understand how women can choose men over their own child!!
Trin Esparza its truly so....disturbing....my friend was raped for 5 years by her stepdad and her mom was like jealous and i think she lowkey knew and once it finally got out she told her she probably liked it because she didn’t say anything sooner....she was 10-15 !!!
Same. Its sickening. I'd choose my children over their own father or anyone... ANY DAY
I actually had a friend in my early 20s who once told me her husband would be nmber one over her kids because he husband would be there first and because he made them. Wtf🤦🏽♀️ not sorry we stopped being friends. Not because of that but because she was a compulsive dirty lying person.
Same, It pisses me off so much.
@@flxwercxrpse1871 your poor friend hope she is doing well now.. best wishes for her
In these abusive relationships they are usually so brainwashed that they choose the abuser before anyone else. That's why these situations are so dangerous and sad.
If it wasn’t for the kids, I would feel sympathy for her. But I cannot help but feel true disgust with her decision after knowing her children suffered like that. Absolutely amazing the children didn’t all just abandon their mother like she did them.
One of the lessons of this tale is that even an extremely successful, highly intelligent person can routinely slip into a mode where their considerable intelligence isn't even being used because they're on emotional override in how they see the world. Just like all the extremely successful, highly intelligent people who got scammed by Bernie Madoff. People see what they WANT to see. Or what their psychological debilitations NEED them to see.
Wow what a true story.
They were adult women with an issue overstepping on her personal life. Stop with the "children" bullshit. She is a WOMAN and a mother, not just a mother.
Yes!
Whats funny is that John probably thought that because Tara was the “kind” one she’d be easier to kidnap (you’d think he’d have gone for Jacquelyn since he appeared to hate her the most) Guess jokes on him! This is why you don’t underestimate the nice/quiet ones!!👏🏾👏🏾
“A cornered rat will bite a cat. One who is cornered will fight a devil.”
@@Cure_Hana💜 AMEN 🙏 YES, WATCH OUT FOR US QUIET ONE'S! WE WILL FIGHT!
The fact that Terra fought so hard, kicked the knife out of his hand and then stabbed him 13 times, makes me so proud!
I cheered and fist pumped the whole time! I'm just glad she didn't face any legal ramifications.
That fact that she says her watching The Walking Dead made her feel like she could fight him off made me so proud! TWD is LIFE.
@@MaryTheresa1986 EXACTLY what I was thinking! What if there wasn't a witness? Would the D.A. then play devil's advocate, flip the script and attempt to convict?? With our unjust justice system, it wouldn't have been surprising.
Did you say stabbed 13 times 😨
I cheered.
SPOILER ALERT:
abused women his whole life and was killed by a woman. Karma works
me while the girl was stabbing him: *yaaas queen get into it*
we have no choice but to stan
J J I wish you had posted a spoiler alert!
It was hard to miss your comment because it was at the top spot.
@@melodymeyers-spears4181 sorry! I edited it.
Loneliness cannot be worth sacrificing relationships with your children. Sigh…I’m glad all of these ladies are alright.
The scrubs thing cracked me up! As a retired RN ,I remembered meeting a guy who wore scrubs to Club Med on vacation, a sure sign that someone is NOT a doctor.
I was just coming to say this. 🤦🏽♀️
What he did at the beginning of their relationship, what he was doing is called love bombing. It's a tactic that narcissists use to manipulate someone
Joe Momma yesssss I know this all too well
Yep, I've experienced that as well. It was a huge red flag for me when she mentioned that.
Yep. Smh. If only..
Isn't it crazy how they are all the same? All the same tactics...love bombing, gas-lighting, silent treatment. Kendall is so right, listen to friends and family, because they see what you can not!
Joe Momma yep I thought this immediately too! Classic
Kendall: “what do people do in Vegas?”
Me: “GAMBLE!!”
Kendall: “they get drunk and they get married”
Me: “oh yeah, that too”
I thought the same thing lmao
Lmao
balmain addict glad I wasn’t alone lol
Exactly my internal monologue lol
Casey O'Leary lmao kinda like dora
I would have a hard time speaking with mom after this crap. She is half of the reason this happened. He was a creep but hello mom. You are crazy!!!
She stopped being a victim in my eyes as soon as she took him back after finding out about who he actually was.
His sister yanked that plug like she was starting a chainsaw. Good for her. Apologies for my dark sense of humor. Lol Love love love the way you tell a story. You have a great voice and my day just flies by even doing the most mundane of tasks so thank you.
“A really nice penthouse.. Like the type that us commoners only see in movies” Lmaoo sis you ain’t have to do us like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gladys Andrade deadass😭
Fr tho
Gladys Andrade lmfao glad I wasn’t the only one low key offended
😂😂😂😂😬
I legit screamed haahhahhha 😂😂😂
Let me get this straight: John acts horrible to Debra’s daughters and even jokes about shooting one dead and Debra just laughs it off. When he shows his shitty side to her THAT is when she gets suspicious?
MissPopeyes22 i know it’s not the same thing of course, but i just binged the netflix series tonight, and that scene where he said that was so unsettling, i just can’t imagine what it was like in real life. just cannot fathom how crazy this was and i am glad that terra is okay she is really brave
MissPopeyes22 right about her in the first place she was married four times.
jared diamond what’s the series called
Noe Moneytoya Dirty John on Netflix. It’s pretty good!
ALEA LOVE thank you!
This reminds me of a crazy guy a friend of mine dated. He told her he was in the US Navy and told her not to tell me when she informed him I had been in the Navy. I couldn't help but ask him questions after finding out and he couldn't give me answers that made any sense about where he went to bootcamp or his rank. One day he told her that his sergeant called him to duty so he wouldn't be in reach. I told her to dump him because there aren't any sergeants in the Navy. Thank God she listened to me.
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I need friend like you in my life 😭❤
@@lavenderlovee Bad luck finding decent people friend?
unfortunately for John he was set up for failure as a man (his dad taught him to be a low life) and unfortunately for Debra her own mom didnt teach her about self value
Unfortunately women, in those days werent raised to value themselves. Neither my mom or grandmother had any semblance of self worth.
A woman who divorces 4 husbands and has a safe for pocketbooks pretty much knows her own value. And as for John, it doesn’t matter who raised him, it matters that so many women fell for his line of BS.
@@deanjacobs1766 The devil can be quite cunning.
Debra's mother didn't value her own daughters.
When you see red flags but red is your favorite color.
Love does blind some people. Others simply choose not to see and ignore *ALL* the red flags. Those are the ones to cry the hardest once they end up in a messy place.
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Me af
Ahhh so true
@@_lb_0911 I just can't respect a "man" who would carry the purse in public.
Bruh why is no one talking about how Debras daughter is a literal detective
Please stop saying Bruh. Sounds so unintelligent.
Paladium lmao. The comment section isn't an email to a teacher or boss. It's a UA-cam comment section. Slow down.
@@palladium607 bruh
Paladium bruh
@@palladium607 B R U H
Imagine how Debra would have felt if Terra had been the one on the recieving end of the knife that day. Such a scary situation. And surely one that must have taken time for Terra, especially, to heal from. I'm sure she had some lingering feelings about it all. But let's not forget the family dog, Cash. If he hadn't run out and began biting at Johns feet and jumping at him, Terra might not have been able to get the upper hand and we'd have a very different ending to this story.
As someone who is married to an anesthesiologist, I can tell you they work ALL THE TIME. My husband is up at 5am and home around 6. Like all doctors, he works insane hours.
She had my empathy until she went to the hospital, forgave him, and took him back. There are such things as mistakes and then, there is just stupidity.
mimo 3433 same here
mimo 3433 It actually got me upset😡
it's a dumb thing to do but also Stockholm syndrome?
annie hall thank you, a lot of people who are hating on her have never been in or have never seen what a toxic and abusive relationship can do to someone. Especially how mentally manipulated they become
@@claudiahelen1 Yup! And it's so unfair and victim blaming to say that, you don't know if he bribed her with expensive items or cars or whatever. We don't know what went on, don't assume :)
I’m Emily Meehan, John Meehan’s daughter. I LOVE your channel. I can’t believe you’re talking about it! Tonia Bales is my wonderful mother. ☺️
I hope you have been able to live your best life and not let it affect you too much. And yes, your mom seems to be an awesome person. ETA: Wow, good for you, becoming a nurse. Thank-you from someone who practically grew up in the hospital.
Crazy!
You're a bad ass
I'd love to hear your input about him.
Wishing you the best💗
Love to you, sweet girl! 🥰
Just a side note: CRNA's don't just take care of patients before and after surgery. They basically fulfill the role of the anesthesiologist in cases. Sometimes you will have an anesthesiologist in a procedure, sometimes a CRNA. Not even big cases have the anesthesiologist and smaller cases have a CRNA. They can be the provider in any size of surgery. Some places don't even have an anesthesiologist. CRNA school is extremely tough to get into and graduate from/pass boards. Which is why they are compensated extremely well.
My sister is a CRNA says the same, she works with John's first wife Tonya
CRNA School is so tough to get into that this criminal with addiction issues and criminal background got it and passed so easily
@@rubinaameeralican’t explain specifically this case. But that doesn’t diminish the fact that it is tough to get into CRNA school and that it is a lot of work.
I married someone I'd known and didn't even realize that he'd put himself up as a victim of his ex, and being a protector, I took it hook, line and sinker feeling sorry for Mr. Selfless. Years later, when he went total deadbeat, I left. Would you believe my Gram had told my Aunt that she didn't trust him - the FIRST time she met him. Unfortunately, neither told me at the time. Even my dad said he thought he was a phony but I was so happy. UGH. See something; say something!
The fact that he wore scrubs at a fancy charity event was really hilarious
Lol exactly
I died
She goes what fucking doctor dont have a car lol
@@rebeccaweeks2498 lmao!
Lol scrubs are pretty comfortable tho, just saying 😝
John: *TOO busy doing doctor stuff to change out of scrubs*
Also John: *Has PLENTY of time to sit and play video games*
😂😂 this comment made me laugh so hard, I nearly spit my coffee out
@@fallingforyoudarling IM NOT WRONG THO!! 😂
Shawna Alice_xo red flag💀
@@dylananthony It's sooo true!!! 😂
Why did she not see it?
I applaud the daughter for fighting him back! I couldn't imagine putting my child in the position to have to kill someone
And what makes it worse is the fact that the so called “mother” still is constantly trying to play the victim and tries to justify her actions. (Not yelling in caps pointing out)
In a book she wrote she said she KNEW her kids would be angry and would disown her if they knew she was living with John so early on yet she went right ahead and moved in she lied and tried to hide it and was caught HOW DOES THAT MAKE HER THE VICTIM?
After Thanksgiving she wants to whine because the kids where not coming to visit her but yet SHE TOLD them if they wanted to come over and see her they had to get along with John and her attitude was they HAD TO ACCEPT that John or live with the consequences. How does that make her the victim
Despite the fact she knew her relationship with her kids was at there breaking point she clearly didn’t learn that lying to her kids and hiding things from her kids does more harm then good she married John and hid it from them. How does that make her the victim?
She wants to whine about Christmas being a disaster yet she the one who told the kids John is coming and if your gonna start drama over it then it be best if you not come and she the one who refused to stick to the agreement she made with Tara and said her kids where acting childish how does that make her the victim?
Yet somehow she was blindsided when the kids refused to see or speak with her and wouldn’t let her see there kids how does that make her the victim?
She wants to whine and justify her actions because her kids didn’t like anybody she dated before she met John yet she been married 4x and dated man who used and abused her is it any wonder they had 0 faith in there mom ability to pick good guys?
She SAW John going off on Tara at a time when all her kids w
I was always told when you are dating do not be a social worker and try to fix someone else's problems.
"John looked like a good guy." So did Ted Bundy.
Lmao! Ain’t that the damn truth!😂
Lmao right hell’s no this is just plain scary
That's what I said!
Question Your World hahaha 😂
It was always in the eyes, listen to your gut pipl
It's difficult to have sympathy for anyone who puts a partner before their children .
BWC make girls go crazy
Absolutely, I have zero respect for this woman, such a joke
I completely agree I don’t buy for a nanosecond that she didn’t see any red flags ( NOT YELLING IN CAPS POINTING OUT) I BELIEVE SHE WAS SO DESPERATE for male companionship that was WILLING TO IGNORE THE RED FLAGS SHE SAW. She heard him yelling and going off on her youngest daughter before she married him. THAT ALONE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ENOUGH FOR HER TO KNOW THAT HE WAS BAD NEWS SHE HEARD HIM SAY THAT HE WANTED TO TAKE OUT ANOTHER DAUGHTER WITH A GUN. Yet she went back and TRIED TO PLAY THE VICTIM BECAUSE HER KIDS DID NOT WANT TO SEE HER AND DID NOT LET HER SEE HER GRANDKIDS.
@@jimtaggert42 Sorry, Jim.....what is BWC.....?
@@wet_jojo1015 No, dummy. If I knew I wouldn't have asked. Bye.
It does get to me that Debra was "disappointed" with her other dates for little discrepancies in their profile, but quickly accepts a guy with an entire false background. Look, I was in an abusive relationship and did go back too many times...but we were both pretty young, it was nothing on this level & the warnings were nowhere near this obvious, nowhere near this quickly. I do feel it's a failure of due diligence, especially at that age with that level of worldly success, to not be wary and learn about someones background before getting too deep. I definitely understand how difficult it can be to get out once you are in -- but allowing someone in this quickly & easily, when you are wealthy enough that you should know people might want to swindle you... it is frustrating/maddening just from the outside. Her kids must have been going crazy watching this.
Debra sucks.
No one tells a story like you, Kendall. It's like being in a living room after dinner just hearing you spill the latest tea.
"Was taken off life support by his sister who also hated him"
Boy I love a happy ending
Then his sister called their mom and said "Hes dead! Let's have a party."
Celebrating someone's death is awful, no matter the circumstances.
@@MikeyReadman I don't think so, now Deborah and her daughters can finally live peaceably without having to worry constantly about their safety and lives... Isn't that worth celebrating?
@@MikeyReadman Mikey, buddy. You're defending a man that was extremely abusive. fuck. off.
If you need a therapist, a lawyer and a private detective within 3 months of your relationship beginning, I think it's a sign! Her daughters are badass 👏👏👏
If you see your boyfriend going off on your daughter the way John was going off on Tara that should have been game over get your stuff and get out of my house.
The Lonely Hearts Club is a dangerous membership to have. A simple background check would've headed all of this off at the pass. This woman of immense resources could've found everything she needed to know about this dude out before the first date. But she was so desperate for love and attention.
This is why you don’t underestimate the “nice/quiet” ones! I’d bet good money John thought that since Tara was the more docile one of her children she would be the easier one to kidnap. Jokes on him!!
Everytime I think of her I think of Connie Britton who played her lol
@@PrincessKarrah in the show the mom was always telling her daughters to forgive their men
Classic story of a relationship with a narcissist!
I lived it and survived it too! BUT.. I LISTENED TO MY KIDS!
Kendall starting the segment on John's life by describing him as a "sketchy fuck" is exactly why I watch her channels
"She started stabbing the fuck out of him!"
- Kendall Rae, 2020
And he died four days later in a hospital bed, unconscious and knocked out from Terra stabbing him!
Good. He deserved no fuck to be in him. Good riddance, throw the whole man out.
@@_rainey right
Dont forget that she called him a damn cock roach lol
I was so hyped at that part. Yes Terra!!
I'm sorry.... But I find it hard to empathize with Debra. She went back to him... She had the *means* to leave him... Most women don't. He was threatening to murder her kids... And finally attempted to murder her daughter.... Idk... Maybe it's just me.
Shes hard to watch in some interviews. Sometimes it seems like she misses him. Watching the show on Netflix drove me insane. I had so much anxiety watching this woman be so blind to abuse. I know abusers have this weird control over their victims, but she only knew this guy a few weeks before they were married, and there was already red flags from day one.
Yeah, for being such a successful woman she wasn't very smart.
Ugh watching the Netflix show, I got sooo anxious and would yell at the tv lol. Listening to her on the podcasts was torturous. If I were one of her daughter's, I'd find it hard to forgive her. I guess ignorance is bliss. Lol
It's not just you...
i kinda feel that way too, but i figure debra will punish herself for the rest of her life, and doubt that she’ll make that mistake again :””) your opinion is perfectly valid though, i completely seems where you’re coming from
I was so mad at Debrah when I was watching the series. Like when he got mad at Terra the first time they met, the relationship was pretty much new, but she still chose him also when he made the joke about shooting the other daughter.
The fact that mom even let him talk to her kids like that… I’m so proud of Tara!!!! U go girl. Kicked his evil ass!!!!
"She stabbed him through the eye into the brain" OH hell yes!
"But he was still alive" 😑
"He died a few days later" 😲
those boots should be credited
me scrolling thru the comments tryin to find spoilers like
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He died in the hospital not from the calloused hand of a man, but by the soft hand of a woman! LOL!
@@janetwestwood9194 Imagine if Hitler had been killed by a woman and she had killed him in the same way that Terra killed John! LOL!
Bruh I’ve been on enough tinder dates to give the advice, if he has a shirtless mirror selfie, he’s a narcissist. Swipe left.
Thank u dr. 👏🏻
someone who move too fast in a relationship. someone who say i love u too fast or just praise u too much. man this guy have all the red flags.
thought the same. it's such a clear indicator right from the beginning and almost as clear to recognize as if they would have written it on their foreheads :-D
Yep, shirtless mirror selfies and pictures of them holding dead animals. Run as FAST AS YOU CAN in the other direction.
so true
I didn't expect that happy ending. I was preparing myself to cry for the death of the $tupid rich woman. I'm so happy to see that she walked away unharmed, hope she learned her lesson. Debra, stay away from any dating, not only the online one.
I can’t stand Debra lol I bet she was so sad he died and I bet she’s getting duped again today
So, I was listening to this while laying in bed last night, and when you said "Like a damn cockroach," I HOLLERED!! My poor husband. 🤣
Can we talk about how TERRIFYING it would be to find a woman literally straight out of The Ring in your living room?? I would never sleep again.
Mia Draper random but yeah
Lmao yes i thought the same
Jordyn Lopez he set that up, but yes, I’d be traumatized!
No cus I dont have a tv in my living room for that exact reason
Literally the worst part
Terra is a badass, holy shit. I can't even imagine being put in that situation. Her quick thinking (and heavy boots) likely saved her life and maybe even her mom's. Such a scary cautionary tale-
Jacklyn was sassy, strong and took shit from no one while Tara looked weaker and more of an easy target that’s why he tried to kidnap her instead of jacky who he hated more but boy oh boy he underestimated Tara lmao her daughters are savages
Yes! She is definitely bad ass. Beat a big tall dude and saved her own life. I'm proud of her
John was a pussy, picking a fight with a girl. That's shameful.
@@satob7690 That's my kind of woman!
@@bibleguy1207 TELL EM KING
With all their money could they not get a background check or something? It’s such a sad story and a reminder that love bombing is a thing and to be careful
This was the most kick ass story I've heard. Debra raised some strong daughters! 👊🏼 I'm glad they stayed safe.
shoutout to karen for taking him off life support
A Karen we respect
Don't piss off your next of kin!
TurboCMinusMinus lmao what?did you watch the whole video 😂
@TurboCMinusMinus....I know where you are coming from with that comment and I would normally sympathize. But, in this particular instance, this guy got what he deserved.
TurboCMinusMinus 🥰
all I gotta say is, Terra is a fucking legend. A real hero, that woman.
Totally agree!!!!
I can’t believe he was gunna abduct her. I’m so happy she won that struggle. I’m so tired of listening to true crimes of abductions :/
This should be made into a movie
called "Women sure know how to pick`em"
@@planetfourthreich3022 the guy was literally a psychopathic manipulator and y'all will STILL find ways to blame the woman...
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Having met several potential soulmates on dating sites, I've learned to spot the red flags. This guy is flying red flags all over the place. I'm truly amazed that Debra didn't recognize those red flags and head for the hills. In my opinion, he really does exhibit an extreme narcissistic personality. Very interesting video.
this story again confirms that if your close, trusted loved ones don’t like your SO you should probably drop them asap
Lol when she said “He told her on the third date he wanted to marry her it took josh 6 years to propose to me” 😂😂
It made me laugh...It is still taking my girlfriend over 10 years 😂😂 but no rush we have talked about it. it is also b/c we both did grad school and more so in these times of need I am in no rush but to save 😂😂
😂 😂 😂
That's a huge red flag honestly. Be wary of anyone who's extremely eager to jump into marriage, moving in together, etc--thats not how honest/psychologically healthy people behave.
Hahahahaha honestly though. I have been with my fiancé for almost 6 years. And we had talked about getting engaged for a while. But we only agreed it was time when we had been together for 5 years
I’ve been engaged to John for 25 yrs! 😂 We discussed dates on 2 different occasions. Keep in mind we had both been married twice before. We’re both comfortable in our arrangement and know we’ll always be together so I will just remain eternally engaged. Actually have 2 engagement rings 💍. 😂. Still getting to know him and not wanting to rush into another marriage. We are both in our early 60’s now. I think if we actually did get married, our kids would think we were kidding. 😂😂💕💚. Growing old together has been pretty cool. ✌️
When Kendall said " This guy wouldn't die, he's a damn cockroach" Hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣
She didn't say "this guy wouldn't die" I'm lil confusion
@Crystal Lewis I know right! lol 😂
I laughed so hard to that :O)
Yasss i died laughing😂😂😂
Puhaha
You really want me to have simpathy for Debra ? Not gonna happen 😂
Right 💀💀 fully grown woman. Idc. She needs to take accountability for her decisions. ALL these red flags and you still carry on with him??? 💀💀.
I'm glad she's safe, but she put her kids in harms way for a man she knew was a psychopath. She doesn't get sympathy.
I love your shirt, your hair, your makeup, your necklace. You're so genuine and adorable. Thank you for bringing awareness to us!
Awareness to who?
The perks of being single and unbothered
When you really have no overwhelming want to be with anyone else
That’s really the way to be ✨
I mean Debrah did exactly what her mom did. She chose to believe the partner instead of protecting her kids.
Good point
You mean her daughter's husband ....
✨No victim blaming please✨
@@pretzeldough2959 I don't believe that you should believe "victims" whatever they say or do. Adults have responsibility to care for their children in the beat possible way. And she and her mom failed theirs. Psychoanalytically she seemed to have learned that from her mom, and your "woke" stance here is irrelevant
@@Hera4 Excellent point, and I totally agree. The whole "victim blaming" thing wants to absolve every victim of responsibility, even if whatever terrible thing happened to them was a direct result of really bad, stupid choices. These people should be used as examples to help other people learn from the victim's poor choices and not make the same mistakes. Deborah IS to blame for everything that happened, and what she did almost got her daughter killed. She was responsible for her daughter being attacked and almost killed, and she was responsible for her daughter having to kill a man in self defense.
So not only did John's sister pull the plug on him, but the other sister visited Terra and gave her flowers in the hospital. He deserved what he got.
Holy smokes I almost spit out my tea when you said he took her out to Houston’s in Irvine, CA as I currently sit inside my office building that is literally right next to Houston’s, that was actually crazy to me. These crimes always seem so far away from me until statements like these are made
When some of his friends drop the nickname “Dirty John” and just call him “Filthy” that’s a major red flag
The only time "Philthy" is an acceptable nickname is in rock n roll. Motorhead.
@@roxannemoser His nick name should be CRAZYJOHN!
Moral of this story: Love yourself. Be kind to yourself. And there is so much more to life than love. What the media deems as love is a fallacy, and most people are not capable of it. So just live your life, be smart, and be free.
great advice!
That was remarkably wise advice! I'll bite off a chunk of that! 😎 Mmm. I imagine good advice tastes crispy, like a good apple. Juicy, too.
Yes! 💜
I’m going through a rough time right now.. that was nice words I needed to hear. Thank you so much keyoka.
BLOOP
Terra is the real hero of this story, she doesn't get near enough credit. She is a badass lady. Saw her and Debra at Crimecon 2019. Terra was not elevated to the level she should have been. She's the name we should know, not John's, not Debra's. Terra Newell. Although I was in the elevator with Debra and she sure has an energy about her. I was terrified to say anything so I just froze and rode the elevator.
This is my favorite video of yours Kendall😂 how you describe John and your cussing had me in tears! And you look gorgeous as always, but in this one your makeup is perfect!
I think she looks like Jennifer Aniston
I would never forgive her if I was her daughter. Her lack of caring about her family’s advice got her daughter kidnapped, stabbed, and made her a murderer (out of self defense of course, but still). I understand leaving an abusive relationship is hard but like Kendall said, it’s hard to feel bad for her when she allowed her husband to threaten her children
I mean, her own mother chose her other daughter's literal KILLER over her...so she clearly didn't have a great example.
I mean, loneliness pushes people to suicide. They're probably just happy their mum is alive. Imsread of agreeing with an ignorant victim blamer 🙈
Don't justify what you said by sayimg Kendal agrees she literally said we can't judge her
@@kirstybrown1185 There's a difference between victim blaming and holding people accountable for their actions.
@@waste_of_grace do you know the person to hold her accountable or are you judging a stranger while not knowimg what you're talking about? You aren't helping her so get your head out your arse.
It’s not a Kendall video if there’s not a sleeping pet in the background 😂
I’ve been watching you since 2016 and I swear there has not been one single
sit down video without a pet in the back
My FAV kind of background lol
That's my life too lol
I really loved that you did this one, I had been in an abusive rationship, got married, got worse, so divor Ed and left, so I could feel for this one, so thank you
You tell amazing stories, I sit there in awe as I listen to you. You have a way with story telling that captures the audience.
She's rich and cant do a simple background check.. wtf
Exactly
She opened and grew her business, raised amazing women. She’s allowed to be human and f*ck up every once in awhile and have a blind spot.
She just didn’t wanna know, she wanted to be happy and pretty much put the blinders on herself
Exactly. Not to victim blame but it’s not that hard to do a quick google search.
Considering all she has to protect that would have been a bright idea
can we talk about how fucking AMAZING HER CHILDREN ARE
Yes!
This would’ve gone completely different if they wasn’t in her life.
Tara is a BEAST!
Yes
Had a couple of "Dirty Johns" in my life, and learned my lesson well. Truly enjoy your videos. A bit off-subject - Your art work in your coloring book is stunning.
This is my 3rd time rewatching/listening while deep cleaning my apartment and I have ZERO regrets. Ugh I love listening to your videos on true crime while I clean. It’s so therapeutic!(: congratulations on the baby! Wishing you a safe delivery and healthy baby!❤️
LOL "all my clothes were stolen in Iraq" And she BELIEVED it? 🥴🥴🥴
No he said "all my GOOD clothes' sooo he must keep a pile of shit shit clothes just in case that happens hes prepared and don't have to buy more decent ones lol
Right and I have a bridge for sale😝
Why would his good clothes be stolen in Iraq who brings good clothes to Iraq while in the army 🤔😅
Right!! Like his WHOLE wardrobe LMAOOOOO kay.
Lol yeah If that’s true I’m straight
If someone ever tells me they're a "doctor", I better see your license, your degree, your board certification, all of it. You don't get an MD without flaunting that shit. If you ain't got proof, there's the door!
ThatGirlIsAwkward exactly!!!
My mom usually looks up the persons license
@@laiahfats3869 or usually call the board to ask if that person is actually a doctor
Well learning about disfucttional family relationships helped me understand why my mom helps make me vulnerable. If somebody wants to see you and a lower state through some type of abuse or manipulation, they will also use others actions to abuse u further. It's almost like an unsaid agreement where they will just credit each other and help each other and un-validate you.
I just discovered your youtube videos and I am addicted. You are excellent at retelling compelling stories. You are so thorough and provide so many details. I love your cute pets who join you too! I look forward to seeing more. Richard from Ottawa, Canada
"It took Josh 6 years to propose to me"
I heard that low key bitterness 🤣
Lol well they were really young
She was 23 when she got married
Lol
To be fair its better to wait until someone is absolutely sure rather then.. you know
Hey I’m out here going on 7.5 years... it is what it is lol
Why did I get a satisfaction feeling when you said “and she stabbed him in the eye deep into his brain” lol I’m so glad this girl was strong enough to fight this creep!!!
I love that she stabbed him to death, and I hope that Terra is well and happy.
And he died in a hospital bed four days later!
Since I found your channel I'm watching non stop. I recognize a lot of cases but with your inside im learning more. You really do your homework keep them coming I love it
Also hurrah for Terra’s little doggo Cash, who bit the cr*p out of John’s legs and ankles when he was attacking Terra (he’s in the pic when she’s in the hospital). He = little hero doggo
"turns out John didn't actually die"
me: oh COME ON-
Though, on the bright side, he died four days after.
@@origamipein18 GUD😌
"This guy is like a damn cockroach" 😂 😂
@@jwilliams2294 cockroaches recycle and are innocent. This guy was sickening. And so was she for forgiving him time after time.
When she said "stabbing the fuck out of him." I smiled a bit.
I did too. 😇
@Mad Max No, it was actually because she said the f word. Not the stabbing part for me.
@@growwiththeflow4854 No, I was happy about the stabbing part. If somebody brings a knife to try to kidnap/kill me and I kill him defending myself I’ll be pretty damn happy
@@laurieawesomeness7221 get it, boo!! No judgment from me! ♡
I really liked the way she used a lot of 'colorful phrases' in this video 😁 👍 ❤
I've watched this twice and plan to send it to my daughter who is in her forties and extremely naive about online dating. Kendall, since this video was made 2 years ago it's a little late for me to tell you but the olive green setting and clothing is great with your eyes. My eyes are the same color so now I'm inspired to wear more of that color. Keep up the good work! I really enjoy watching this channel.
I’m loving the top you’re wearing and the decor behind you, that shade of green being one of my three favourite colours, the others being Red and Orange.
“He was grumpy all the time, and had lots of mood swings”
Me at 3am: m-maybe he’s pregnant?!?!??
😂😂😂
LMAO!
Haha
He a Narcissist ‼️
😂😂😂😂
4 failed marriages is a sign telling you to focus on better things in life like personal health,vacations, your kids(if one has any).
It's okay to be single.
Exactly it’s ridiculous that Debra tried to use the fact that her kids never liked anyone she dated before to justify not listening to them and really making them the bad guys for not liking John. When she married 4x and they saw her date bad guys is it any wonder that they had no faith in her ability to chose a good guy.
Rich people don’t know how to enjoy being rich.
It's the desperation for me
I understand where she was coming from. She was lonely, her children are grown adults and they have their own lives. She's wealthy so finding genuine friends can be tough. Wealth isn't a doorway to happiness. Also her mom is an oddbod, defending someone that killed your daughter, wtf? She must've done damage to Debra and her sister growing up.
It IS ok to be single. It seems like an assumption that a person is married or in a committed relationship, or desperately looking for a partner. Some people are better off single. You can still be social, have fun, go on dates, love the special ones in your life romantically, make out in the car, etc. It's ok to go to a party or a BBQ by yourself. Then you can leave when you want... And stop at Del Taco or 7-11 cuz you got the munchies.
I am 48, never married ( or divorced--a horrible episode to go thru). My last serious GF was 4 years ago. She was great, but it didn't work out. As much as I miss so many things in that relationship, I am just as happy now. And nobody hassles me or cares that I am single and most likely will never get married or have kids.
when i first met my boyfriend irl, i made sure i had someone i knew with me the whole time coz honestly, you can never be too careful.
audibly said “LETS FUCKING GO” when it got to her stabbing tf out of him. was so worried this would end horribly and I’m so glad everyone made it out safe
Surprised Deborah's mom didn't hold a memorial for him 🙄
@La’Rae M. I probably shouldn’t be laughing so hard! Huh! 🤭
Right ?
@@janetturner1931 same
I wonder how her husband treated her.
For real. :-/ Her mom is a piece of work.
Moral of the story: lack of self worth, emotional intelligence and independence can land you in psychotic situations or even cost you your life. Deborah and her family are so lucky they got out alive.
Moral of the story: just buy a damn vibrator!
@@MaryTheresa1986 o my god
That One Girl I mean it’s much better than getting a psycho bf
Also: be extra careful online, look for red flags if their present, and listen to your families concerns
Definitely, it’s a design fault in humans, people can be so competent and successful in one area but have huge deficits in another.
This is the story I always come back to. The way Kendall tells this is so engaging and the content is entertaining yet horrifying, a classic true crime story!