Yep...the timing of the new guy is sus. Generally doesn’t go over well when u tell someone u are leaving them...especially if there’s someone else (which is- normal situation). But masculine ppl that are possessive and competitive (gender doesn’t matter)...can be very aggressive... just the fact there’s more physical muscle there. This sux and I pray for justice for her family and friends.
My cuzn did that once , he and his ex pretended to be with each other in front of family so she could use him for his money and unfortunately for him he was the fool for allowing it . Crazy You never know what kind of face someone is putting on just for a show .
This case reminds me so much of the Chris Watts case... like, both Shanann and Alexis were in MLMs, both were influencers who put their lives online, both were married to Men who worked in the Oil Industry, Colorado, and then they were both (probably in Alexis’ case) murdered by their husbands. RIP to those beautiful souls
Yes the Chris Watts case was horrifying. I watched the Netflix documentary and I just don’t understand how he did that to not only his wife but his kids too!
Wow, omg your so right. I never noticed. That’s really freaky and the time period between them is relatively close. I really hope these type of cases stop, leaving the families with no answers. I really feel for their loved ones left with all the mystery’s.
Yep, looks so similar to Brian L. Narcissistic behavior raises it's Demonic Head. Homicide then Suicide, Disgusting Damage prior to their suicides. Maybe these pieces of evil will keep each other company in the depths of homicidal HELL!!
The guy is huge I don't feel like it would take much effort from him to strangle/suffocate her. Changing his story and not claiming her body is super shady. So sad :( RIP Angel
@@chamanigunasekera8345 Actually he wasn't, he meant he last saw her alive before she got into that vehicle, the one Tanya changed the color of ? Since people love and believe her, she also listed Alexis's BF has the last person to have contact with her on her hand written timeline, listed as "SM"" (posted on the channel redrum media weeks ago, bottom right hand side of that timeline)
@@dfinite1111 I'm not sure that he is guilty but some of the choices he made sure make it seem like he had something to hide. Also the fact the it was mentioned that he would sometimes strangle her until she passed out, it makes me think whether or not he would purposely try to hurt her, the fact that he is so big makes me think if he did it could have gone too far because he would have the strength to really hurt her.
So, Tom says they had an argument, and he followed her that evening- stalking her. They were talking about divorce, already split bank accounts. His story keeps changing... he’s extremely suspicious
So Tom stalked her to a bar with Seb that evening and didn't do anything ? Bullcrap ! If that were my wife I would have gone in and best the hell out of Seb and so would most husbands, as big as he is and he didn't do anything ? I thought he was so jealous , violent and possessive, I guess that's only if it fits the narrative? Whats just as creepy is someone sitting in your parking lot for 3 hours doing nothing and changing stories on even that part of the story on your next interview.
It's so crazy the husband was one of the last people to see her alive, refused to let her body be released to her parents and changed his story 100 times yet he hasn't been listed as a suspect
Was she drowned in the bath? That's what I think happened. She was probably getting ready for bed or to go out and he held her under the water hence why she was clean and naked and there were no marks on her body. Did Tom call Alexis' phone?
@@crimetimeAU her official cause of death was strangulation. She didn’t drown and I’m sure they would’ve said something if water had been in her lungs. Whoever strangled her could’ve done it while she was in the bath/shower or right after she got out. There’s also a possibility of them strangling her and then putting her in a bath to maybe clean off any evidence? Idk.
@@sullililly5500 some say sometimes there is no bruising after being strangled. Her friend said Alexis told her many times and she was sick of waking up on the bathroom floor💔. He may have had her in a choke hold. Praying for justice for beautiful Alexis and her family and friends🌹🌺🌹🌺🙏💖🌹
@@lindsayceara well said. It was raining the night before and maybe that's why her body was so clean💔. I wonder how she was taken out if she died at home. People would have cameras I would think. My gut tells me her hubby did this horrible murder. Praying for justice for Alexis🌹🌺⚖💖🌹.
He worked in the oil field, she worked for an MLM, they moved to Colorado. All three of those things are carbon copies of the Watts case! freaking weird😬
didn't both of them also die by strangulation? same jobs, same city, same cause of death. plus both women were very active on social media and portrayed a happy life, he changed his story multiple times and talked about her in the past tense. i don't think it means much but the similarities are so weird
The thing that always scares me about such cases is the fact that someone knows. That the person who knows is fine with letting others suffer. Let her family suffer especially.
Yes I agree! It's very creepy. I have personal experience with this because one of my friends was found on the side of the road with his head severely injured and no one has came forward and this was years ago. It makes me very upset to know that someone can sleep at night knowing they did this!
I am not saying that with seriousness, given that there’s no details out to the public yet. But the truth will come to light sooner or later🙏🙏prayers to her family/friends
The cases of Alexis & Gabby Petito are shockingly one in the same. Literally to a T. They both had these picture perfect lives online & hid their scorned relationships from the world. They were both strangled to death after having altercations with the men they trusted most in their lives & who they were the closest to. Yet, both men were too cowardly to face the consequences of their actions & both ended up committing suicide prior to their arrests.
that is so messed up- as im watching this video the cases are more and more similar, and as im reading the comments its the same, like you said. so very messed up:/
the only person who i trust in this case is her mother, the husband cant get the story straight but i feel like the "friends" know something they are not sharing.
Your right and also the fact that the husband had to tell him what she was wearing it’s almost like he wanted him to know she was wearing something which I think is suspicious because ur wife is missing and your talking about what she was wearing! And I know people are calling her ex wife but they just got in a fight they dint break up but I would also do that but like but like WHO BRINGS UP WHAT SOMEONE WAS WEARING WHEN THAT PERSON IS uMISSING AND HE KEPT CHANGING THE STORY LIKE WTF
@@sarahbear343 you actually reminded me of that and made me realize I think Tanya did it. Look at her f'ing grin when she says alexis " loved being an *influencer* " 31:48
Right?? Just like all the articles talking about “The tiktok star that murdered her sister” this week. .. she was just a 14yr old with a tiktok account not even like a star on it. But instead of giving the victim the respect of speaking her name or speaking her killers name for the world to see they make it all about tiktok?
Tom is your classic abuser... looking over her IG you see several posts of “you met me at my worst”, promised her the world and slowly moved her away from everyone she loved. Not talking about her husband to friends, but slowly gaining her courage to leave. We all know the most dangerous time for a woman stuck in domestic violence is when they decide to leave. May this beautiful soul Rest In Peace and may justice be served.
I agree, and I always found that one picture of him with her trying on her wedding dress very odd... because usually the woman goes with her girl friends and mom. like why would he go? seemed like a bit of control he had
It’s kinda weird that the friends at first said alexis never really talked about tom, but they changed to say she talked about him being abusive. I think it’s more likely tom is the killer, but the friend’s inconsistencies were a little weird
@@Hennessy1396 That definitely could be true. The friend continued to say that since Alexis didn't speak about Tom often, they didn't know much about him. I feel like that's a weird statement to make if Alexis was actually sharing her abuse
All the friends are saying “it’s not like her” but tbh people are different in front of everyone. I am definitely a different person with my man than with my friends.
Exactly. Someone can even be very insecure or depressed behind closed doors and the “light” to everyone else when they need to be. Just pointing that out.
That’s what killers do. They change their story and pretend they didn’t do it. They write post after post, claiming to be hurt but they don’t actually feel regret or grieve until they’re behind bars. Such a sad story, this is why love scares me. You can never trust anyone.
reminds me of the story "when mean girls become murderers". Her friends were posting every day claiming to be upset and depressed, even when they did it themselves.
Yeah its crazy, at first i thought it was Tom until i seen her friend in the car...and idk why but she seemed so damn sus...so its crazy how many alternative people are involved that could have done it.
I try not to just jump to blaming the husband but i really think it was him. Especially since there are reports of him having choked her in anger before
strangulation is one of the most popular methods in emotional crimes. Other red flags: - denies fight with her on the night of death - hints at DUI of Alexis to imply self-inflicted death - paints her as troubled/"sad" (which insinuates s*icide) - doesn't care about/ lays off body being brought home - plays victim online (solely concerned about his innocence)
I feel like the friends saying she was so positive & Tom saying she was always stressed is actually VERY typical of an mlm girl. When I was in it I’m sure people would have said similar things about me because that was the role I played - even with close friends and family. My husband was the only one who saw the darker side. I think people need to look more at her friends.
They should, but I doubt her friends we're involved. They're opportunists trying garner attention... Its obvious they're clout chasers. Its probably Tom or her new boyfriend. I think its Tom. Almost every case where the spouse have an argument, one of them turns up dead. Maya Millete's case (unsolved but it points to her Husband), the missing Vista woman (husband did it), Chris Watts, Scott Peterson, Susan Cox Powell's case, Mark Winger etc. Need I say more?
I thought this too. I’ve never done this type of work but I usually don’t show my bad feelings to my friends or family- I’ve definitely put on a happy face around certain people. My boyfriend of 6 years on the other had had seen me at my lowest. He absolutely could have done it and there are def red flags against him but what he’s saying could be true ? I guess we’ll see....
That’s what I was thinking. Like yeah, if you’re the most comfortable with your husband then you’re obviously going to trust him more with your darker side. No one ever is just ALWAYS happy
@revi761 it’s kind of a joke but not really at the same time. The idea is that it’s always the people that “light up the room when they walk in it” that are killed.
It's strange how Tanya says "I don't know who could have done something like this to her, we were her friends." As if to say "we didn't do it, we were her friends." Just weird!
"We were her friends", yet none of them actually looked for her unless they thought she was dead in the parking lot of her own building cause just they sat there 3 hours and didn't even try to contact Tom either . At least Tom claims he went looking for her...her friends didn't and admitted it, people want to talk about red flags !
This story is very sad to me. My ex was a bodybuilder, much older than me, and was in law enforcement. We had a lot of fun and traveled from time to time. Behind everything was pretty scary. He had rages more and more frequently, and was completely controlling. It took my family and friends as a whole to finally help me to get away from him. My heart goes out to the secret sufferers.
Being in a marriage I can say that my husband knows a side of me nobody else sees. When I’m down, depressed, etc., he is the one who sees all of my meltdowns so... I can understand that.
Small correction. He wasn't found dead. US Marshall's went to his daughters house where he was staying to arrest Tom unbeknownst to him and his daughter. When they arrived Tom ran upstairs and proceeded to shoot himself.
Whenever family and friends say that there is no way their family member or friend could be down or depressed and was always happy I think of Robin Williams. Just because you don’t see that side of them, doesn’t mean it didn’t exist. People can hide anything they want from anyone.
yes i was looking for a comment like this i don’t know why people always say they were the happiest person ever or they never were sad literally no one is happy 24 seven every human has bad days
her friends saying that she had "absolutely no demons! she was always happy!" you realize people can mask their emotions right? that part is so laughable
Gee it's almost as though they weren't really her friends and were just MLM contacts or instagram hangers on. There's a difference between friend and acquaintance.
That's what I was thinking.I'm that "Always happy, no demon" person and I deal with chronic depression and anxiety. I Just hide it because i don't wanna bring them down.
It’s especially interesting when you add that according to her friends she was the victim of abuse, having serious marital problems, on the verge of divorce. I mean even a very positive person would be down in a situation like this… Strange.
seriously tho! i was saying this when it FIRST happened 🤦🏾♀️ i even lurked on the bfs ig after she passed and his page was just WEIRD then it randomly went private
Also the almost unnecessary over the top details that are so specific & symbolic like being found naked yet with no signs of struggle like that’s something I’d scoff at as poor writing on a show. And her having a really successful career with her sketchy mlm that’s had multiple law suits but she recruits for and before that working at a hooters-type restaurant that’s probably more likely to attract pervs and creeps than restaurants with standard uniforms. Meeting friends online, one who just got divorced (that such a random yet heavy and sus in this situation side detail) through bumble and then another friend who had multiple plastic surgeries to look like Meghan Markle like these people are CHARACTERS and it’s all so specific and sets up so many different players & suspects & possibilities like everyone is literally too suspicious like if it was show id be like “how the hell are the writers gonna wrap this up in 7 more episodes” and regardless how these hypothetically writers do or what these real life detectives uncover, I feel like it’s going to be like when a show has a big reveal but the fan theories were just as if not more viable and made more sense and matched more pieces together smoothly. Like they’re gonna solve the case and I’m gonna be like wait but that whole subplot about the sketchy mlm, that theory with the Meghan Markle friend and DJ guy made way more sense because the lack of social media posts yet signs of texting!! I’m gonna feel like the writers forgot details the audience still remembers but it’s real life and someone actually died and it’s so sad but also just so so like mind boggling what a case
Like just idk however it ends up im gonna feel like “why introduce the DJ if he was going to have nothing to do with it or why have the mlm controversies” like it’s just so much drama and absurdity for one person like me & most ppl in my life have such boring mundane lives & I feel like wherever she lives they are hogging all the bizarreness like there’s enough to go around but it’s stationed right there bc it’s wild at every turn so much chaos for one case
Her “friends” are obviously all fake. Or I guess you can say acquaintances. And that girl Tonya just likes the attention. And the bf I feel as though they used each other in a way idk just my opinion. I hope she gets justice.
Guess you have already heard that her husband killed himself just before police arrested him. I love your channel! You are so good to look after victims and getting your viewers to be on the look out for missing people or cowardly people that do harm to people. Also, you go the extra mile to help raise money for victims and their families.. Thank you for using you social media platform for the good of others. The world needs more of you. Keep up the good work!
i was so ready to hop on the "tom is guilty" train but her friends are so suspicious!! as someone who has experience as an MLM hun, those friendships are the FAKEST, most shallow friendships ever so tom saying she had her demons and the friends having no clue makes a lot of sense to me. plus that justice for alexis hashtag before she's even been found dead?? weird af! i wouldn’t be surprised if we find out the friends were involved. obvi not saying tom isn’t sus either i just feel really hinky about her friends, especially tanya.
Yeah, the friendships seemed very shallow. I don’t know if I’d say that they were involved, but it is very clear that they really weren’t close friends. MLM schemes are all about fake friendships and projecting a happy facade in order to sell the life to someone else. Double that with the life of an influencer that calls for constant smiles and attractive friends and it’s even more fake. If you check their instas, they posted maybe 2 or 3 images of Alexis then went right back to their regular posts and trips. If I lost a really close friend, I wouldn’t be on social media for months on end and wouldn’t have the energy to post my regular content.
Which one was Tanya? Is that the one who was smiling at the end when she was talking about her? Not the end as in the end of the video, but the end of HER video. She's wearing a flannel and has lip fillers.
They not only knew she was already dead, they also knew she was strangled, that's when they started the choking stories (still without any proof but people believe it). in the bathroom only and they kept insisting that....please !
Was randomly talking to a lady at my physical therapy today about true crime and she asks me “Do you watch Kendall Rae?” And I was like “YES!” and we talked about how much we love your videos! Thought that was cool lol
I introduced one of my best friends to true crime through Kendall Rae and now we talk about it all the time. It kinda messes with my brain sometimes but it’s something for me and that friend to bond over and that’s really cool😂
The fact that she went on Bumble BFF was not to find friends though. Bumble BFF is where MLM women recruit more people by meeting new people… it’s not cool.
This is just a theory as well, but after watching this I believe that once the truth is revealed the husband will not be the only guilty party. Her “friend group” if it’s anything like other MLMs is fake AF. I would not be surprised if one of the friends developed a relationship w her husband and they plotted together. The fact that they started a justice hashtag before the body was found and knew a divorce was impending makes me think he did not work alone.
with how successful Alexis was, i wouldn’t be surprised if her ‘friends’ conspired to get rid of her so that her downline became theirs. success in MLMs is so hard unless you get in early and are one of few at the top of the pyramid.
Am I the only one who immediately found it strange the friends started a “Justice for Alexis” hashtag when there was zero proof of anything that happened or if she was even actually missing? Maybe I just watch too much Kendall 🤷♀️ but I’m calling it now - there’s some waaay more suspicious crap here than the obvious husband story.
You guys are so dumb . Justice for Vanessa was a thing here in Houston and they are obviously following that theme. Justice for Vanessa was a hashtag used to pressure the Military base into finding her because they were trying to brush it under rug. Doesn’t necessarily mean a murder happened, don’t read too much into it
Tom is very suspicious but I’m also very interested as to why the friends worded it as “justice for Alexis“ when they hadn’t found a body yet and she was only considered as missing. That’s odd to me
Just wanna say I truly appreciate your in-depth explanation of victims and their families and making the video really be centered around them and not trying to go down rabbit holes or crazy theories that could be damaging to victims in the case. Thank you!!
I haven’t heard about Travis Alexander. Shan’ann’s story broke my entire heart. This one very sad, too. I wish I could bring them back. They didn’t deserve anything that happened to them.
Heidi Broussard's BF was supposedly guilty like this too and was treated like Tom is, Heidi's best friend since she was 11 murdered her and her 2 week old.
The friends: "She had no demons." Also The Friends: "Her husband is really abusive, manipulative, strangles her, and sends her nasty messages while she's on vacation and there's a lot of tension with her new boyfriend and impending divorce"
Friends: She was always happy and didn't hardly talk about her husband. Also friends : She feared for her life and revealed her husband strangled her and she always woke up in the bathroom Tanya: Waited in Alexis's parking lot alone for 2 hours Also Tanya 10 or so days later : Waited in Alexis's parking lot for 3 hours and had a friend with her. Tanya: She wasn't out with Seb(,gives him an alibi) ,doesn't reveal the name of who Alexis was with or name of the bar Also Tanya: writes down that Alexis left w/Seb in his vehicle,goes to bar 12:30 AM (leaving Tanya's house) Hey, look it up....not my words.
@@coffeepowered6033. Of course, men and women can be friends. However, most people lie. They will introduce you to an ex but claim that nothing never happened between them. They can also be sleeping with that person and claim everything is platonic. It's possible but very seldom.
I find it kinda weird that all her friends were so adamant that Alexis was never sad and always positive because while that could be true when she’s with them maybe she really did have issues at home
Honestly that's a big red flag to me personally. To throw away the idea that she may have been at all stressed from being a full time influencer and working in a MLM sounds ike not being as close as you think to me. Does not help that they kept speaking together instead of just saying the same thing separately. Like I was pretty convinced it was Tom...but what he said about her being stressed was treated like slander against her despite that being very normal which made me very suspicious.
I think it’s not weird at all, her friends were in the MLM girl boss influencer group. Vanity, shallowness, faking happiness, and obsessing over likes becomes second nature to these people. It probably worked both ways here: Alexis pretended to be positive and charismatic to not lose her social status amongst her peers or disappoint them, and her friends covering for her reputation post mortem. Of course, they could’ve not perceived it at all either.
I think they said that because they don’t want Tom to try and paint an Image of her or try to insinuate that she ended her own life or was stressed by drugs or sketchy ppl. her friends were basically trying to say that there wasn’t anything going on with her to “cause” this to happen. (Not that u can cause something like this but idk how else to explain) also they probably don’t wanna agree with tom on anything
This case really hit me hard I’ve been following it since she was found, it’s hard to wrap your head around the fact that she was taken so soon by someone she loved so much RIP Alexis
hmm... maybe they start bankin and they have to get cut out cuz they're too expensive? lol... just going along with your statement. anything is a possibility, for sure
Unfortunately men have been killing their partners for thousands of years. We need to teach our boys to treat women better and how to deal with anger. Not demonizing men but it is statistically usually the husband.
@@KateGrealy1 people who “swore to protect” have nothing to do with this case and are killed by the thousands yearly protecting your stupid ass, shut the fuck up
Of course everyone is different, but the talking about people in past tense is a huge red flag to me now. My boyfriend and his mom referred to his dad exclusively in present tense for about a year after he passed. Now it makes me wonder when people use past tense immediately after their loved one have passed/when people are missing
I really loved how the first worker in this video was very respectful when describing this poor woman's remains that they found, it was thoughtful of him. Not that it would bring her back or make things right by her, but he made it sound less traumatizing to the family I would hope.
Her whole life is staged. I can’t call it. Her hubby seems sus, but it’s been established that he’s a basket case and that doesn’t equal murderer, I’m bothered by her friends for some reason. Sebastian is the last on my list. This one has me legit stumped. Pray her family gets justice.
Is speaking about someone in past tense before they find the body a normal occurrence? or just a glass half empty kind of guy, not very positive thinking. I mean couldn't he have thought she left him since they had been working towards that?
@@analee3299 I’m not ruling him out at all, again I’m legit stumped. Like I said we know from multiple people, his OWN people that he doesn’t have it all, he’s super sus but I’m not feeling her “friends” either ya know
I found it weird she wouldn't look at the camera the whole time she was speaking but then when she called her an influencer she suddenly looked directly at it.
Okay, I don’t know if you’re going to see this or not Kendall, but one of my close friends grew up with Alexis in PA. (We’re both ER nurses in Buffalo at ECMC). She told me about this way before the news caught hold. She said that Alexis would have never been caught dead naked at all especially not on the side of the road like that. She wasn’t a druggie. Her entire family and her friends are starting to think it was her partner. I sent this video to my friend. Thank you so much for covering this. Alexis deserves justice.
Don’t quote me on this, my friend Shadoe works nights and she’s sleeping right now so I can’t text her but I believe it’s Bradford. When she responds I’ll respond back to this message.
Kendall, I know you may not see this but I submitted a case I’d like for you to cover. The victim is Shana Jaros. She was stabbed over 50 times many years ago. I have been friends with her younger brother for close to 20 years now and he is still horrified by it. At the time I lived in St. Louis, Mo and was still a child, but Nokomis Illinois, where the victim is from, is not super far from StL. There has NEVER been any publicity for Shana in the area. I feel a profound sadness for all these young people taken from us senselessly and I pray every day for resolution to their cases. Alexis was a beautiful young woman with a lot of life to live. I hate these atrocities happened to these ladies.
DEFINITELY WANT AN UPDATE! The fact that she was found so clean, almost freshly bathed (something you might do, at home, before getting intimate with your husband?) definitely adds to all the other reasons her husband seems so suspicious...
@@brianagarcia7387 It did that night ! I saw the coverage on the Houston channels website KHOU when they found her, they mentioned the rain coming before it even happened days before.
@@MichaelWH omg lol u making me look bad ! Jkjk all jokes aside ya I’ve heard that rain can def compromise the integrity of evidence . Hopefully they’ll be able to give her the justice she so rightfully deserves. !
Yesss!! I listen while doing my makeup & when I'm making dinner because I don't want to pause & wait, lol.. I watch a lot when I'm in bed too. I've been binging all her videos I haven't seen yet.💜💙
I knew this young woman. Im not trying to say I was friends with her or anything, but Ive met and spoke to her a few times. We grew up in the same community and she was my older brother's age. She was so kind and sweet, just a ray of light, I got this vibe from her even from not knowing her very well. This case hits so so close to home. I know her family is absolutely gutted over this entire thing. Thank you for making a video on her case, Justice for Alexis...
Things true crime has taught me: Dont be nice Dont have a family Dont play sports Dont be good in school Dont have friends Just live in a Hut in the middle in the forest and you're good
True! I feel like this crime was committed by more than one person. Alexis didn’t deserve what was done to her. 💔 No one does and I hope her murderer/murderers get brought to justice.
Sadly that’s super common with people in MLM’s and direct marketing. They pretend to be your friends etc... only problem is 99% them leave or harass you when you don’t make them enough money or leave the pyramid scheme
@@tomkatt3410 "ever truly know someone though" no but there is a difference between a friend since high school and a friend you met at a bar 1 year ago or w.e
same, but also because he was a 40-something man who frequented a hooters like establishment to scoop up one of the 20-something servers. i don’t think he ever viewed her as an equal
But Tanya mentioning a possible affair and posting alleged texts between Alexis and Tom over a month after her "best friend" is dead is normal, and how did she get access to their texts to begin with ? I wouldn't want some third party posting private messages between me and my now recently murdered wife for the world to see....and tell everyone my wife was going out behind my back with another man on a date she help set up to begin with and tried to hide the first few weeks of the case until she accidentally mentioned it on a screenshot of a text which also listed her BF as the last person to have contact with her. Sounds like making Alexis rep and character look even worst after death to me ! Until Dec 11 there was no Seb being at Tanya's house that night as well as no date at a bar afterwards,she hasn't even mentioned the name of this alleged bar to this day, but as no problem yapping about everything else about this case since for some reason she knows everything everyone said and did and who was calling and texting who. Maybe we have 2 so called narcissist ?
My personal opinion is that her and Tom got into an argument, perhaps about her leaving him and her seeing the other guy and in the heat of the moment he strangled her and the reason she was naked was either she had just got out of the shower or he intentionally left her out there naked to “humiliate” her. The whole thing is absolutely heartbreaking
I can’t believe I wrote this right before I finished the video and watched the “theories” part! I must not be the only one cuz she said it exactly how I wrote it smh
What's so scary is how well documented her personal life is due to social media \ networking. The contrast between her Instagram posts and the reality of her unfortunate death is so stark.
@@beachgirl468 Ugh yeah, completely. Social media can hide a lot of shitty things going on. Can’t look at the video of one of the little girls singing that song about her daddy being her hero without crying.
I don't believe Tonya was involved. She seems to like attention and she's definitely grossly capitalizing off the attention she's getting from interviews but I think Tom's red flags are waving way harder. Strangling someone and leaving them naked on the side of the road feels very personal. Especially for a soon to be divorced man whose ex is moving on.
Yea when you leave someone naked and usually strangled it’s because that person felt power over that person when it’s someone that does kill someone that is a partner they usually do something to show how they have power over that person like strangling ugh I hate to bring him up but remember Chris Watts
I can’t help but always feel sorry for the strangers that find the bodies. Especially in Alexis’s case, I could only imagine how surreal it must’ve felt discovering her body and mistaking her as a mannequin...
I guess people always assume it's a mannequin at first, because it seems more probable... and/ or their mind doesn't want to go to more morbid options until it has to
It disgusts me that the person who was supposed to be her most trusted partner and friend, killed her and then left her naked and discarded on the side of the road. I just…my mind can’t comprehend that.
Since the family never had bad vibes from Tom and Tonya won’t stop talking I have a feeling it was Tonya. Former MLM “boss babes” have come out saying those friendships are all so fake and fall apart once your “friend” isn’t making you money anymore. I wouldn’t be surprised if they killed her out of jealousy or some sort of anger towards her...
Yes, I'm not sure who killed her, but her fellow huns were not true friends and I don't trust that they had her best interest in mind. Honestly everyone sucks here.
I feel like when Tom was driving around that night he was probably trying to find a place to dump her body. Thats why he came up with that part of his story saying he was following her around because he knew if the cops looked at his gps location history on his phone etc they would probably see he was driving around at night going to random places.
Deidre Barrington Do you watch True Crime and Wine Wednesday too because Sherilynn always say that “It’s Never a Mannequin” and even has a shirt available
One thing that I absolutely love about Kendall is that she covers recent cases! I get annoyed with channels that constantly cover cases that are decades old because the sad reality is that dna is likely the only thing that solves older cases (I mean cases that are 40+ years old). Spreading information about newer cases is so helpful to solving the investigation!
Hey don’t count those older cases out. Another UA-camr that I follow who has a channel similar to Kendall’s covered a case that had gone cold since the 70s. A couple months ago they finally had a break in the case. So I wouldn’t count those out.
UPDATE: 10/6/21 Tom Sharkey has died by suicide (self inflected gunshot wound) in Florida following the warrant for his arrest for the murder of Alexis.
The “friends” planned a get together & she goes missing. They seem shady and suspicious. They also pointed fingers at husband saying she was scared of him. They planted that seed. They should be investigated.
not suspicious at all since they hung out a lot. Alexis was also VERY young compared to her husband and gained a lot of attention online, he couldve very well become jealous of the fact that she was a somewhat famous girl, smart, pretty, social, and didnt need him for money because she was wildly successful, he met her when she was a younger, new in town waistress so he probaly held a lot of power over her and when she started to "bloom" and become more popular and meet more people that power started to dwindle and he became insecure. also if the marriage wasnt going well he couldve very well been scared of the fact that she could easily divorce him and move own (which she allegedly already had done) plus he has a history of manipulation. people see a group of young pretty girls and always assume cat fights are happening and while this may be true sometimes is not always the case, there is no indicaton her friends did it. its 10000x more likely her husband did it.
The husband was the one reporting her missing to a boyfriend instead of her friends, changes his story multiple times, and uses the classic "she ran off after an argument" story, while she contacted no one else. Huge classic red flags.
Would u go to sleep if u knew your friend was coming back to your house, especially if she went out drinking? A true friend would have picked her up or waited up for her. When it started to get late would r u start calling her nonstop? The more I think about it the friend seems to be the most likely person to know something if not be directly involved.
The whole story is really fishy. Once the girls say Alexis was always cheerful and everything and then all of the sudden she seems like someone who fears for her life. They say stories about how badly Tom treated her, but none of them did anything against it (maybe reaching out to parents, or even Tom... or police). Also, Tom's changing the story... both sides are fishy...
Eh, getting a friend out of an abusive relationship is a lot harder than you think. Even if you go to them about it and say “hey I think this is really unhealthy” they can still be blind to it. It’s a difficult situation and I don’t think that specifically should get fingers pointed to them, especially if Tom was being abusive, because in that case I think the finger should go straight to him.
@@FlowceanSoul Obviously, it won't make Tom's abusive attitude non-existent. However, if the girls knew about the situation they should've acted by simply telling this to the parents of Alexis' because it seems like they never found Tom being a bad guy at all. It was stated that Alexis had a good relationship with her parents if so then telling this to them might help Alexis in some way. I can also imagine that Tom was overseeing her steps that's why she didn't keep in touch with her parents, and that's the point when the friends come into the picture.
@@krisztinaolah7345 You really think her superficial friends will go tell her parents? No. It seems she wasn't close to her friends like that. They weren't like childhood friends who may have good relationship with her parents who will probably tell her parents if it was really concerning. I feel like people are digging into her clout chasing friends too much. The prime suspect in this case is Tom and maybe the boyfriend. My guess is on Tom. They argued and she turned up dead. How many time have we heard this before???!?! Too many times.
Friends can’t get someone out of an abusive relationship! They were married! It’s not that easy. She probably confided in them and ask them not to say anything.
The husband definitely killed her. Unfortunately he committed suicide right before he was to be arrested for connection to her murder. If that isn’t a confession, I don’t know what is.
This case really bothers me, no one is talking about it. It was like oh her body was found we are done. No one is talking. No one is arrested. It's like she doesn't even matter anymore. I hope there is justice for her and her family one day.
Kendall stated that she didn't refer to herself as an "influencer" but a business woman, and then her friend goes on and tells everyone she loved being an "influencer" ... wouldn't she know better if she really was a good friend? Idk seemed weird to me.
Hey guys. So a few months ago, the beginning of October to be exact, the coroner found the cause of death to be strangulation. And that DNA was found that belonged to Tom Sharkey. Because he had been evasive and inconsistent throughout the investigation and other evidence pointed towards him there was enough to charge Tom with the murder of Alexis. However, when police went to arrest him they found him dead from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. So yeah. (Also personal opinion about Tanya, I kinda feel like she and other friends might have used this as a fame/attention grab; whether it was intentional or not. That being said, Alexis never got the justice she deserves and it's just so heartbreaking.)
Authorities did not find Tom dead. They showed up to Toms daughter's house, where he'd been hiding out. Once he realized they were there, he bolted upstairs and barricaded himself in a room - where he then took his own life.
I wonder how heavily they looked into Sebastian? Everyone is so focused on Tom but she was with Tom forever with no issues then met Sebastian and shortly after she died.
I'm not to this part yet but maybe the timing with him looks suspicious because Tom was jealous of this Sebastien person? He could have killed her in reaction to something
I think there might have been issues, and also with Tom's previous marriage as well. Maybe it is related to Sebastian, but not because he's the one who killed her, but because she started dating him, and that pushed Tom to kill her.
I would love for Kendall to do a video discussing the case of Judith Barsi, the child actress killed by her father in 1988 when he also murdered his wife and then took his own life. Such a heartbreaking case because CPS and the adults in Judith’s life really let her down.
She told her friend in confidence, that her “husband” liked to “strangle her until she blacked out...” then her official cause of death was deemed “homicide by strangulation” + the fact they were divorcing at the time, including his past divorce history says volumes to me... 🤷🏼♀️
Which friend ? They keep changing that story as to who it was and whether it was a text,phone call, or face to face conversation...I know, she woke up in the " bathroom" only 🙄. He wasn't even the last person to see her.
exactly, so obvious its laughable but explained away even in this video as strangulation during sex being some kind of kinky harmless sexual aberration. What???? This is misogyny and extreme violence against women that ultimately ended in her death.
@@karentheisen4235 Like I have to say every day, there is no evidence he strangled her "once" let alone all the time and she woke up in the bathroom floor "only". Her friends keep changing the story of who was the one friend Alexis supposedly told and whether it was a text, phone call, or face to face communication And only in the bathroom,gee what a coincidence that usually in a bathroom somebody is nude and covered with water, and how was she found dead ?...that's right, nude and covered with water (cause it rained heavily that night). They can't decide who told who and how and when, but they sure get the bathroom part of the story right and keep mentioning it over and over. Then again,even if she was abused these 7 friends didn't give a shit until she was already dead, which they seemed to know Alexis was before she was even found. He was so abusive to her that Alexis got to go on all these trips without him and just the GF's only all over the world where she partied with other men and lived high on the Hog 🐷,walking around half naked and no visible marks or bruises on her face or entire body ...ever? No friend ever pulled her aside , noticed anything and talked to her and Alexis had to tell "them" she was being abused and they only reveal it after her death? Oh I forgot, she was always happy and had no demons and barely talked about Tom, the glue that held the friends together and all that other stuff people say about a deceased person
@@MichaelWH Given that he strangled her during sex and she died of strangulation, it seems highly likely that he strangled her, whether or not it was on purpose or by accident. And since 80% of the time when a woman is murdered, it is her husband or boyfriend who did it. It all points strongly to the husband. But my real point here is the way the poster of this video presents strangulation during sex as just being a run of the mill, slightly aberrant perhaps but normal activity. It is irresponsible to present this very violent, misogynistic and dangerous act as a normal sexual activity. There is nothing normal about it. It's abusive and extremely dangerous for women.
@@karentheisen4235 Who said he strangled her during sex ? Her friends said that, doesn't mean it's true cause we can't ask Alexis. And they also said she woke up in the bathroom only...100% of the time. Could it be cause one is usually soaked with water and naked in the bathroom, and what a coincidence, she was found dead "Soaked with water and naked" (cause of the hard rain)., if she was just found dead and naked, they could have said the bedroom and that they were having sex or something, but since it rained heavily that night, I guess the bathroom made better sense cause it cover both being naked and covered with water . First they said she was choked cause of sex, then they said it was because Tom was so angry with her, so what the hey, they probably thought "lets stick with both stories" They changed the story at least 4 times as to which "one" friend Alexis told this too and whether it was a text,phone call, or face to face conversation or when it happened, then at one time it was said "She told all of us at the same time on a group text"...I mean first it was one person and they couldn't decide who, then it was the whole group of 7 at one time, and not one of them can prove it, as much as these women lived on their phones and internet ? They started a "Justice For Alexis" tagline and Go Fund Me page that is still going now at over 26 thou that her mom was supposed to get, before Alexis was even found, it's like they (she) already knew she was dead and strangled. These friends and Alexis only knew each other since February 2020,not like they knew each other that well, and most of that was going on all these all girl vacations all over the world, you know since mean ol Tom was so controlling and possessive ,yet she still got to go and had all that freedom for such a kept woman who got choked in the bathroom only and no other room in the entire home and it doesn't rain inside. So yes I question her friends more so than her husband. And not one camera or eyewitness in Houston TX caught him doing anything suspect this whole time from sneaking her out of the apt, into the parking lot and then shoving her in his car, going to dispose of the body, then eventually coming back to the apt building without her ?
I truly hope people learn something from these devastating cases & see the importance of speaking out against abuse. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship &/or fears for their safety, *ALWAYS* mention it to a loved one or report it to the police. It doesn't matter if you love or trust your partner, abuse is abuse & can lead to devastating events, as we seen in this video.
Exactly ....these videos raise awareness on the dangers lurking behind these relationships and how to spot red flags before getting into them...Also how friends and family should react to someone telling them there is abuse verbal, emotional, financial or physical.
a lot of people on reddit are saying possibly her friends could've done it. Allegedly some friends didn't attend the funeral, and instead were on social media partying
Meanwhile houston is drowning in cement and overcrowding buildings due to such an influx of people moving there...not going to lie, I'd kill...DIE....to move to Colorado🤣
i was in a relationship for 11 years...i dont know everything.. but i know kissing, smiling, and holding hands doesnt mean you're in love.
I know exactly what you mean...
Same.
That's only for Social Media.
Yep...the timing of the new guy is sus. Generally doesn’t go over well when u tell someone u are leaving them...especially if there’s someone else (which is- normal situation). But masculine ppl that are possessive and competitive (gender doesn’t matter)...can be very aggressive... just the fact there’s more physical muscle there. This sux and I pray for justice for her family and friends.
Agreed!!
Ive realized that the more couples post about how "happy" they are, the worse it is behind the scenes. There are soo many examples of this.
So true! I know someone who posts almost daily about her husband. They look so happy. In real life, he cheats on her ☹️
My cuzn did that once , he and his ex pretended to be with each other in front of family so she could use him for his money and unfortunately for him he was the fool for allowing it . Crazy You never know what kind of face someone is putting on just for a show .
I portrayed a happy life, when in reality I was being physically abused and cheated on. I finally left
Which is why people really need to use common sense when they observe things online, anyone can throw up window dressing!
Very true
This case reminds me so much of the Chris Watts case... like, both Shanann and Alexis were in MLMs, both were influencers who put their lives online, both were married to Men who worked in the Oil Industry, Colorado, and then they were both (probably in Alexis’ case) murdered by their husbands. RIP to those beautiful souls
Wow so true !
Yes the Chris Watts case was horrifying. I watched the Netflix documentary and I just don’t understand how he did that to not only his wife but his kids too!
@@elle427 cold and heartless.
Wasn't there also a 45 minute phone call made on the morning of the murders
I was thinking this from the start!!!
The vlogging of their road trip with all the clips of them together is so creepily similar to Gabby Petitio and Brian Laundrie…
Wow, omg your so right. I never noticed. That’s really freaky and the time period between them is relatively close. I really hope these type of cases stop, leaving the families with no answers. I really feel for their loved ones left with all the mystery’s.
Yep, looks so similar to Brian L.
Narcissistic behavior raises it's Demonic Head. Homicide then Suicide, Disgusting Damage prior to their suicides. Maybe these pieces of evil will keep each other company in the depths of homicidal HELL!!
Exactly what I thought!
How? No friends with Gabby
Bumble seems like a really sketchy app. Gabby Petitos "bff" was from there too.
The guy is huge I don't feel like it would take much effort from him to strangle/suffocate her. Changing his story and not claiming her body is super shady. So sad :( RIP Angel
And also because he was the last person to see her alive.
I also think that because he is so big, he is easy to suspect. But that doesn’t make him guilty.
@@chamanigunasekera8345 Actually he wasn't, he meant he last saw her alive before she got into that vehicle, the one Tanya changed the color of ?
Since people love and believe her, she also listed Alexis's BF has the last person to have contact with her on her hand written timeline, listed as "SM""
(posted on the channel redrum media weeks ago, bottom right hand side of that timeline)
@@dfinite1111 I'm not sure that he is guilty but some of the choices he made sure make it seem like he had something to hide. Also the fact the it was mentioned that he would sometimes strangle her until she passed out, it makes me think whether or not he would purposely try to hurt her, the fact that he is so big makes me think if he did it could have gone too far because he would have the strength to really hurt her.
@@dfinite1111 Oftentimes, the simplest answer is the correct answer.
So, Tom says they had an argument, and he followed her that evening- stalking her. They were talking about divorce, already split bank accounts. His story keeps changing... he’s extremely suspicious
if you ask me and probably anyone with a surface level knowledge it was tom
Thank y'all!!!!!!
yea he's sus
So Tom stalked her to a bar with Seb that evening and didn't do anything ? Bullcrap ! If that were my wife I would have gone in and best the hell out of Seb and so would most husbands, as big as he is and he didn't do anything ? I thought he was so jealous , violent and possessive, I guess that's only if it fits the narrative?
Whats just as creepy is someone sitting in your parking lot for 3 hours doing nothing and changing stories on even that part of the story on your next interview.
Where did you hear that because tom is claiming that they DIDN'T fight and she left drunk.
It's so crazy the husband was one of the last people to see her alive, refused to let her body be released to her parents and changed his story 100 times yet he hasn't been listed as a suspect
Was she drowned in the bath? That's what I think happened. She was probably getting ready for bed or to go out and he held her under the water hence why she was clean and naked and there were no marks on her body. Did Tom call Alexis' phone?
@@crimetimeAU someone on insta said she was strangled but idk. She wouldn’t have been “clean” and there would be marks on her neck 🤔
@@crimetimeAU her official cause of death was strangulation. She didn’t drown and I’m sure they would’ve said something if water had been in her lungs. Whoever strangled her could’ve done it while she was in the bath/shower or right after she got out. There’s also a possibility of them strangling her and then putting her in a bath to maybe clean off any evidence? Idk.
@@sullililly5500 some say sometimes there is no bruising after being strangled. Her friend said Alexis told her many times and she was sick of waking up on the bathroom floor💔. He may have had her in a choke hold. Praying for justice for beautiful Alexis and her family and friends🌹🌺🌹🌺🙏💖🌹
@@lindsayceara well said. It was raining the night before and maybe that's why her body was so clean💔. I wonder how she was taken out if she died at home. People would have cameras I would think. My gut tells me her hubby did this horrible murder.
Praying for justice for Alexis🌹🌺⚖💖🌹.
UPDATE: Alexis’ husband was just found dead several hours ago. US Marshals attempted to arrest him for the murder of his wife when he offed himself.
Yep not surprised all
Always knew it was him
WOW!!! i had a feeling it was him.
Steroid rage
Just watched this video, thank you for the update 👍
He worked in the oil field, she worked for an MLM, they moved to Colorado. All three of those things are carbon copies of the Watts case! freaking weird😬
Ikr. I was thinking the same thing.
and alllll pretty toxic environments -- minus Colorado of course.
Wow didn’t even dawn on me but you’re
So right! Creepy
didn't both of them also die by strangulation? same jobs, same city, same cause of death. plus both women were very active on social media and portrayed a happy life, he changed his story multiple times and talked about her in the past tense. i don't think it means much but the similarities are so weird
Also on social media a lot like Shanann. Lots of videos and pictures of them
The thing that always scares me about such cases is the fact that someone knows. That the person who knows is fine with letting others suffer. Let her family suffer especially.
God knows and He will judge!
You right, I never thought of that. That kind of scares me
Yes I agree! It's very creepy. I have personal experience with this because one of my friends was found on the side of the road with his head severely injured and no one has came forward and this was years ago. It makes me very upset to know that someone can sleep at night knowing they did this!
The murder could be sadistic, for that matter, and is getting off on watching all the suffering playing out via the media.
I am not saying that with seriousness, given that there’s no details out to the public yet. But the truth will come to light sooner or later🙏🙏prayers to her family/friends
"If you haven't heard of Twin Peaks,it's very similar to a Hooter's*
Me,who hasn't heard of neither: Ah yes
LOL I did t know how else to describe it 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
@@KendallRae That's alright it was just so hilarious for me 😂😂😂😂
The guy who opened Twin Peaks is actually a fan of the show Twin Peaks, right?
Basically they’re both sports bars with their biggest selling point being the waitresses who wear extremely skimpy uniforms 😂
From what my daughter says Twin Peaks is raunchier on the clothing.....ie lingerie for special events.
The cases of Alexis & Gabby Petito are shockingly one in the same. Literally to a T. They both had these picture perfect lives online & hid their scorned relationships from the world. They were both strangled to death after having altercations with the men they trusted most in their lives & who they were the closest to. Yet, both men were too cowardly to face the consequences of their actions & both ended up committing suicide prior to their arrests.
Fucking ayyeee. I thought the same thing.😳
Gabby is alive. The truth will come out soon.
@@suesheny??
@@suesheny bro what- her body was found-??? she died- its very unfortunate but shes not coming back. thats such a horrible fucked thing for you to say
that is so messed up- as im watching this video the cases are more and more similar, and as im reading the comments its the same, like you said. so very messed up:/
the only person who i trust in this case is her mother, the husband cant get the story straight but i feel like the "friends" know something they are not sharing.
Your right and also the fact that the husband had to tell him what she was wearing it’s almost like he wanted him to know she was wearing something which I think is suspicious because ur wife is missing and your talking about what she was wearing!
And I know people are calling her ex wife but they just got in a fight they dint break up but I would also do that but like but like WHO BRINGS UP WHAT SOMEONE WAS WEARING WHEN THAT PERSON IS uMISSING AND HE KEPT CHANGING THE STORY LIKE WTF
Did you ever hear about another pyramid scheme murder? I forgot the exact name but the woman was involved in “gifting tables”
@@matcha.clouds That’s the case of Barbara Hamburg! There’a an HBO doc on it called “murder in middle beach”.
@@leximor ok
@@Jayden_zw it’s important to know what a missing person is wearing so they can be identified easier
I hate how some of the news headlines don’t even say Alexis’s name they just refer to her as “influencer”
Knowingly that she didn’t want to be known as a “influencer”
sad, especially since she didn't identify as one, but I'm sure her story reached a much larger audience with that headline
@@sarahbear343 you actually reminded me of that and made me realize I think Tanya did it. Look at her f'ing grin when she says alexis " loved being an *influencer* " 31:48
Right?? Just like all the articles talking about “The tiktok star that murdered her sister” this week. .. she was just a 14yr old with a tiktok account not even like a star on it. But instead of giving the victim the respect of speaking her name or speaking her killers name for the world to see they make it all about tiktok?
They’re just using the story for clicks and that draws more attention.
Tom is your classic abuser... looking over her IG you see several posts of “you met me at my worst”, promised her the world and slowly moved her away from everyone she loved. Not talking about her husband to friends, but slowly gaining her courage to leave. We all know the most dangerous time for a woman stuck in domestic violence is when they decide to leave. May this beautiful soul Rest In Peace and may justice be served.
Exactly. This is so sad.
I mean she was a scammer... Not very beautiful soul to me..
I agree, and I always found that one picture of him with her trying on her wedding dress very odd... because usually the woman goes with her girl friends and mom. like why would he go? seemed like a bit of control he had
THIS
@@PersonTP so that means it’s okay that she could have been being abused?? I think not
Update: Two months ago, Tom took his own life, moments before being arrested, while being wanted by authorities for Alexis’ Murder.
thanks for this info!
Oh wow what a wuz lame ass
Coward move
holy shit dude wtfffff
Coward
It’s kinda weird that the friends at first said alexis never really talked about tom, but they changed to say she talked about him being abusive. I think it’s more likely tom is the killer, but the friend’s inconsistencies were a little weird
I was thinking the same thing!!!
It’s probably that the time that she did talk about him it was about the abuse
@@Hennessy1396 That definitely could be true. The friend continued to say that since Alexis didn't speak about Tom often, they didn't know much about him. I feel like that's a weird statement to make if Alexis was actually sharing her abuse
I feel like maybe the friends didnt want to share that kind of information yet, seem as how the investigation was early. But it is really weird
they definitely want their 15 minutes
All the friends are saying “it’s not like her” but tbh people are different in front of everyone. I am definitely a different person with my man than with my friends.
true. if i died & people said “that’s not like her”. there’s so much ...ppl who know me don’t know!!
ikr. people keep forgetting we all have personas and can act completely different in private or in romantic relationships.
Exactly. Someone can even be very insecure or depressed behind closed doors and the “light” to everyone else when they need to be. Just pointing that out.
I think about this all the time - there’s a lot that people don’t know about me because I’m very guarded.
If you have to be a different person with your man than when you're with your friends then you shouldn't be with that man
That’s what killers do. They change their story and pretend they didn’t do it. They write post after post, claiming to be hurt but they don’t actually feel regret or grieve until they’re behind bars. Such a sad story, this is why love scares me. You can never trust anyone.
exactly and being excessively involved with the investigation to seem "helpful"...
never trust anyone and like someone else said above, your spouse sees a side of you that no one else sees.
reminds me of the story "when mean girls become murderers". Her friends were posting every day claiming to be upset and depressed, even when they did it themselves.
Yeah its crazy, at first i thought it was Tom until i seen her friend in the car...and idk why but she seemed so damn sus...so its crazy how many alternative people are involved that could have done it.
You yourself should not be trusted. DOnt trust anyone who doesnt trust others.
Update: Tom shot himself today while police were trying to take him into custody for Alexis' murder
I saw that as well. Wonder if he was guilty or if he was just over being hurt. But we know they will close the case on the husband regardless
Wow! thank you for sharing. I had no idea.
@@nichelleevans8677 of course he did, he was being arrested for it. Him Hurt? Hurt bc he killed his wife….or bc he got caught?!
I try not to just jump to blaming the husband but i really think it was him. Especially since there are reports of him having choked her in anger before
Yes! He is a narcissistic abuser. His ex wife says he's always been abusive. It says alot about him.
there isn’t a single doubt in my mind he is responsible
Yeah I think he did it!
strangulation is one of the most popular methods in emotional crimes.
Other red flags:
- denies fight with her on the night of death
- hints at DUI of Alexis to imply self-inflicted death
- paints her as troubled/"sad" (which insinuates s*icide)
- doesn't care about/ lays off body being brought home
- plays victim online (solely concerned about his innocence)
Friend changed those stories (hearsay), obviously you haven't kept up with this case and her friend's changing stories and inconsistencies
Tom referring to Alexis in the past tense before even finding the body is SOOOOO suspicious!
rightt its like the Chris Watts case
@@lamezway Yes! I had forgotten his name but that's the case I was thinking about too!
@@AA-gr6yt omg so glad it wasn’t just me
Yes! He definitely did it
@@lamezway i was thinking the same thing. Tom needs to be interrogated.
I feel like the friends saying she was so positive & Tom saying she was always stressed is actually VERY typical of an mlm girl. When I was in it I’m sure people would have said similar things about me because that was the role I played - even with close friends and family. My husband was the only one who saw the darker side. I think people need to look more at her friends.
They should, but I doubt her friends we're involved. They're opportunists trying garner attention... Its obvious they're clout chasers. Its probably Tom or her new boyfriend. I think its Tom. Almost every case where the spouse have an argument, one of them turns up dead. Maya Millete's case (unsolved but it points to her Husband), the missing Vista woman (husband did it), Chris Watts, Scott Peterson, Susan Cox Powell's case, Mark Winger etc. Need I say more?
I thought this too. I’ve never done this type of work but I usually don’t show my bad feelings to my friends or family- I’ve definitely put on a happy face around certain people. My boyfriend of 6 years on the other had had seen me at my lowest. He absolutely could have done it and there are def red flags against him but what he’s saying could be true ? I guess we’ll see....
MaybE One of her friends was having an affair with Tom or something?
That’s what I was thinking. Like yeah, if you’re the most comfortable with your husband then you’re obviously going to trust him more with your darker side. No one ever is just ALWAYS happy
What does mlm stand for ?
What Ive learned from watching these things is never light up a room when you walk into it.
what do you mean?
why not to do that ?
@revi761 it’s kind of a joke but not really at the same time. The idea is that it’s always the people that “light up the room when they walk in it” that are killed.
😂😂😂😂silly
@@micacarnell1430exactly. In just about every case..
It's strange how Tanya says "I don't know who could have done something like this to her, we were her friends." As if to say "we didn't do it, we were her friends." Just weird!
And then she blames Tom lol
I noticed this. It caught me off guard
"We were her friends", yet none of them actually looked for her unless they thought she was dead in the parking lot of her own building cause just they sat there 3 hours and didn't even try to contact Tom either .
At least Tom claims he went looking for her...her friends didn't and admitted it, people want to talk about red flags !
@@letmusiclivee She more or less says "I have no idea who done this and it wasn't us...but here is how it happened".
Oh wow, GREAT catch on your part. Freudian slip!!!
This story is very sad to me. My ex was a bodybuilder, much older than me, and was in law enforcement. We had a lot of fun and traveled from time to time. Behind everything was pretty scary. He had rages more and more frequently, and was completely controlling. It took my family and friends as a whole to finally help me to get away from him. My heart goes out to the secret sufferers.
I'm so happy you were able to escape and sorry you went through that!
It's always law enforcement
I relate too. Big hugs ❤️
Was he a steroid user?
cringe though?
Being in a marriage I can say that my husband knows a side of me nobody else sees. When I’m down, depressed, etc., he is the one who sees all of my meltdowns so... I can understand that.
I thought the same thing
She was strangled!
Our poor husbands.
Same.
It’s normal to act one way with ur friends and a different way with ur partner. Everyone does lol
Update: Tom was about to be charged for the crime. However, when officials arrived at his home in fort Myers he was found dead.
Cause he killed himself cause he was guilty all along they should have been arrested him it was clear cut
Small correction. He wasn't found dead. US Marshall's went to his daughters house where he was staying to arrest Tom unbeknownst to him and his daughter. When they arrived Tom ran upstairs and proceeded to shoot himself.
@@B3eRp0nGM4sAcre what a coward! Thx for the update!
@@marcelloredhead this comment ! I totally agree.
He was a murderer and a coward
Whenever family and friends say that there is no way their family member or friend could be down or depressed and was always happy I think of Robin Williams. Just because you don’t see that side of them, doesn’t mean it didn’t exist. People can hide anything they want from anyone.
yes i was looking for a comment like this i don’t know why people always say they were the happiest person ever or they never were sad literally no one is happy 24 seven every human has bad days
Yes this is 100% true.
Ok but its clear she didn’t kill herself by strangulation and toss herself naked in a ditch...
@@x0sha0x39 Thank you..
I agree they don’t really know what happens behind closed door.
her friends saying that she had "absolutely no demons! she was always happy!" you realize people can mask their emotions right? that part is so laughable
Who in the hell is "always happy", "never down" ,"life of the party"? Come on people, nobody is like that, not one single soul.
Gee it's almost as though they weren't really her friends and were just MLM contacts or instagram hangers on. There's a difference between friend and acquaintance.
That's what I was thinking.I'm that "Always happy, no demon" person and I deal with chronic depression and anxiety. I Just hide it because i don't wanna bring them down.
It’s especially interesting when you add that according to her friends she was the victim of abuse, having serious marital problems, on the verge of divorce. I mean even a very positive person would be down in a situation like this… Strange.
@@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368 Exactly !
This is like real life modern pretty little liars. Her friends are too sus, her bf is too sus. Nothing adds up. Too much is hidden right now
seriously tho! i was saying this when it FIRST happened 🤦🏾♀️ i even lurked on the bfs ig after she passed and his page was just WEIRD then it randomly went private
Also the almost unnecessary over the top details that are so specific & symbolic like being found naked yet with no signs of struggle like that’s something I’d scoff at as poor writing on a show. And her having a really successful career with her sketchy mlm that’s had multiple law suits but she recruits for and before that working at a hooters-type restaurant that’s probably more likely to attract pervs and creeps than restaurants with standard uniforms. Meeting friends online, one who just got divorced (that such a random yet heavy and sus in this situation side detail) through bumble and then another friend who had multiple plastic surgeries to look like Meghan Markle like these people are CHARACTERS and it’s all so specific and sets up so many different players & suspects & possibilities like everyone is literally too suspicious like if it was show id be like “how the hell are the writers gonna wrap this up in 7 more episodes” and regardless how these hypothetically writers do or what these real life detectives uncover, I feel like it’s going to be like when a show has a big reveal but the fan theories were just as if not more viable and made more sense and matched more pieces together smoothly. Like they’re gonna solve the case and I’m gonna be like wait but that whole subplot about the sketchy mlm, that theory with the Meghan Markle friend and DJ guy made way more sense because the lack of social media posts yet signs of texting!! I’m gonna feel like the writers forgot details the audience still remembers but it’s real life and someone actually died and it’s so sad but also just so so like mind boggling what a case
Like just idk however it ends up im gonna feel like “why introduce the DJ if he was going to have nothing to do with it or why have the mlm controversies” like it’s just so much drama and absurdity for one person like me & most ppl in my life have such boring mundane lives & I feel like wherever she lives they are hogging all the bizarreness like there’s enough to go around but it’s stationed right there bc it’s wild at every turn so much chaos for one case
Her “friends” are obviously all fake. Or I guess you can say acquaintances. And that girl Tonya just likes the attention. And the bf I feel as though they used each other in a way idk just my opinion. I hope she gets justice.
It's her friend,
Guess you have already heard that her husband killed himself just before police arrested him. I love your channel! You are so good to look after victims and getting your viewers to be on the look out for missing people or cowardly people that do harm to people. Also, you go the extra mile to help raise money for victims and their families.. Thank you for using you social media platform for the good of others. The world needs more of you. Keep up the good work!
i was so ready to hop on the "tom is guilty" train but her friends are so suspicious!! as someone who has experience as an MLM hun, those friendships are the FAKEST, most shallow friendships ever so tom saying she had her demons and the friends having no clue makes a lot of sense to me. plus that justice for alexis hashtag before she's even been found dead?? weird af! i wouldn’t be surprised if we find out the friends were involved. obvi not saying tom isn’t sus either i just feel really hinky about her friends, especially tanya.
Yeah, the friendships seemed very shallow. I don’t know if I’d say that they were involved, but it is very clear that they really weren’t close friends. MLM schemes are all about fake friendships and projecting a happy facade in order to sell the life to someone else. Double that with the life of an influencer that calls for constant smiles and attractive friends and it’s even more fake.
If you check their instas, they posted maybe 2 or 3 images of Alexis then went right back to their regular posts and trips. If I lost a really close friend, I wouldn’t be on social media for months on end and wouldn’t have the energy to post my regular content.
Which one was Tanya? Is that the one who was smiling at the end when she was talking about her? Not the end as in the end of the video, but the end of HER video. She's wearing a flannel and has lip fillers.
@@peekaboocharlie8502 That's her,of course she has fillers, the woman had 8 operations in one day
@@sarakeeet I feel they at least "know" something, all the story changes on post and interviews, they have to IMO
Ikr? Like ive said in another comment, I'd accuse Tom right away if the friends werent part of this case. They're so shady.
It’s weird that they started w the hashtag justice for Alexis when she was just presumed missing
I thought so too
I've seen it before but usually it's after someone's been missing for a few days.
Yeah I taught this too
They not only knew she was already dead, they also knew she was strangled, that's when they started the choking stories (still without any proof but people believe it). in the bathroom only and they kept insisting that....please !
Yea i cringed when i heard that part...why is that the jumping off point??
Was randomly talking to a lady at my physical therapy today about true crime and she asks me “Do you watch Kendall Rae?” And I was like “YES!” and we talked about how much we love your videos! Thought that was cool lol
I introduced one of my best friends to true crime through Kendall Rae and now we talk about it all the time. It kinda messes with my brain sometimes but it’s something for me and that friend to bond over and that’s really cool😂
The fact that she went on Bumble BFF was not to find friends though. Bumble BFF is where MLM women recruit more people by meeting new people… it’s not cool.
MLMs are so pr3datory. She didn't really seemed like a good person at all
This is just a theory as well, but after watching this I believe that once the truth is revealed the husband will not be the only guilty party. Her “friend group” if it’s anything like other MLMs is fake AF. I would not be surprised if one of the friends developed a relationship w her husband and they plotted together. The fact that they started a justice hashtag before the body was found and knew a divorce was impending makes me think he did not work alone.
I was thinking this too!
"if it’s anything like other MLMs is fake AF"
There are no exceptions.
Very interesting theory 🤔
I agree
with how successful Alexis was, i wouldn’t be surprised if her ‘friends’ conspired to get rid of her so that her downline became theirs. success in MLMs is so hard unless you get in early and are one of few at the top of the pyramid.
Am I the only one who immediately found it strange the friends started a “Justice for Alexis” hashtag when there was zero proof of anything that happened or if she was even actually missing? Maybe I just watch too much Kendall 🤷♀️ but I’m calling it now - there’s some waaay more suspicious crap here than the obvious husband story.
Right???? I noticed that too
Yup that last interview she hardly looked at the camera just wandering eyes searching for answers
The friends also look super sus on that video call, way too fake. Maybe that’s just me.
You guys are so dumb . Justice for Vanessa was a thing here in Houston and they are obviously following that theme. Justice for Vanessa was a hashtag used to pressure the Military base into finding her because they were trying to brush it under rug. Doesn’t necessarily mean a murder happened, don’t read too much into it
I don't trust her so call friends
Tom is very suspicious but I’m also very interested as to why the friends worded it as “justice for Alexis“ when they hadn’t found a body yet and she was only considered as missing.
That’s odd to me
Yes
They're desperate for attention
@d.r I found that odd, too!
I didn't think of that. Good point.
Agree that was so bizarre. When someone goes missing you don’t think of it as “wanting justice” unless you know the reason they went missing.
Just wanna say I truly appreciate your in-depth explanation of victims and their families and making the video really be centered around them and not trying to go down rabbit holes or crazy theories that could be damaging to victims in the case. Thank you!!
31:35 Did anyone catch that when Tanya said “she loved being an INFLUENCER”, she smiled right after.
Didn’t Alexis not like being called that?
Alexis sister said she hated that.
And so weird how the friend never looked into the camera
maybe the two of them had a joke about it
What’s the time frame? I want to see that
@@zenafaber3498 from 31:35
this gives me chris watts vibes. mlm, strangulation, divorce, referring to alexis in the past tense..
And both men worked in the oil industry 😬
My thoughts exactly
Exactly my thoughts
:O
They also both lived in Colorado too.
but, the in recent case they moved back to Texas. (After moving to Colorado)
Shan’ann was in an MLM, Travis Alexander was too. I’ll steer clear of MLMs.
For many different reasons.
I haven’t heard about Travis Alexander. Shan’ann’s story broke my entire heart. This one very sad, too. I wish I could bring them back. They didn’t deserve anything that happened to them.
I lied. I just looked Travis up, just didn’t remember the name. These are all so sad.
Shan’anns husband worked in the oil field too 😵
Travis Alexander is who was killed by Jodi arias which I’m sure you’ve heard of her sadly.
“And they looked so happy!”
Me: “He killed her.”
Yeah I agree 😅
Oh ya!!!!!
my thoughts exactly
Heidi Broussard's BF was supposedly guilty like this too and was treated like Tom is, Heidi's best friend since she was 11 murdered her and her 2 week old.
Same
If it seems a couple is perfect or so happy half the time they killed their partner
The friends: "She had no demons."
Also The Friends: "Her husband is really abusive, manipulative, strangles her, and sends her nasty messages while she's on vacation and there's a lot of tension with her new boyfriend and impending divorce"
Friends: She was always happy and didn't hardly talk about her husband.
Also friends : She feared for her life and revealed her husband strangled her and she always woke up in the bathroom
Tanya: Waited in Alexis's parking lot alone for 2 hours
Also Tanya 10 or so days later : Waited in Alexis's parking lot for 3 hours and had a friend with her.
Tanya: She wasn't out with Seb(,gives him an alibi) ,doesn't reveal the name of who Alexis was with or name of the bar
Also Tanya: writes down that Alexis left w/Seb in his vehicle,goes to bar 12:30 AM (leaving Tanya's house)
Hey, look it up....not my words.
The husband said their marriage didn't have any tension before she was killed. Now it's revealed she had a boyfriend. Interesting!!!
@@jasonboy9676 Let's not ignore that's speculation. Men and women can be friends.
@@coffeepowered6033. Of course, men and women can be friends. However, most people lie. They will introduce you to an ex but claim that nothing never happened between them. They can also be sleeping with that person and claim everything is platonic. It's possible but very seldom.
looks like her husband was her demon ...
I find it kinda weird that all her friends were so adamant that Alexis was never sad and always positive because while that could be true when she’s with them maybe she really did have issues at home
Honestly that's a big red flag to me personally. To throw away the idea that she may have been at all stressed from being a full time influencer and working in a MLM sounds ike not being as close as you think to me. Does not help that they kept speaking together instead of just saying the same thing separately. Like I was pretty convinced it was Tom...but what he said about her being stressed was treated like slander against her despite that being very normal which made me very suspicious.
@@lauriekapalka1760 I’m still like this 🥺 Im always so bubbly around others and at home I’m so grumpy and aggy
I think it’s not weird at all, her friends were in the MLM girl boss influencer group. Vanity, shallowness, faking happiness, and obsessing over likes becomes second nature to these people. It probably worked both ways here: Alexis pretended to be positive and charismatic to not lose her social status amongst her peers or disappoint them, and her friends covering for her reputation post mortem. Of course, they could’ve not perceived it at all either.
I think they said that because they don’t want Tom to try and paint an Image of her or try to insinuate that she ended her own life or was stressed by drugs or sketchy ppl. her friends were basically trying to say that there wasn’t anything going on with her to “cause” this to happen. (Not that u can cause something like this but idk how else to explain) also they probably don’t wanna agree with tom on anything
Her husband knew her better than friends that only knew her 7-8 months...period !
This case really hit me hard I’ve been following it since she was found, it’s hard to wrap your head around the fact that she was taken so soon by someone she loved so much RIP Alexis
The amount of women who die in MLMs are actually alarming.
right? my mind went right to Shannan Watts. & that case it was the husband🙈
hmm... maybe they start bankin and they have to get cut out cuz they're too expensive? lol... just going along with your statement. anything is a possibility, for sure
Because they are desperate/easily influenced people. Mlm's prey on people with problems
@@LLWW I agree with that assessment. I don’t think they have a good radar for red flags unfortunately and MLMs themselves cause even more problems
@@LLWW good point! I bet that has something to do with it.
I wish the world was a much safer place. You can’t even depend on those who swore to protect you anymore. Everything is dangerous
This is why an awareness of the signs of abuse and coercive control is so important and should be taught in schools
Educate yourself on narcissists, that's a big step towards being safer in today's world lol
Prayers for her family, friends and fans
Unfortunately men have been killing their partners for thousands of years. We need to teach our boys to treat women better and how to deal with anger. Not demonizing men but it is statistically usually the husband.
@@KateGrealy1 people who “swore to protect” have nothing to do with this case and are killed by the thousands yearly protecting your stupid ass, shut the fuck up
I wasn’t much of a fan of True Crime until I started watching Kendall. I immediately got hooked onto it afterwards
Same!
U should aslo watch Ealenor Neale they are both good channels about true crime
Yesss. Same. Favorite channel!
Saaame 😍
DUDEEE SAME
Update: Thomas took his own life before he was arrested for her murder
R.I.P Alexis
Changing stories, talking about her in past tense, their history, his prior marriage history... if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...
Of course everyone is different, but the talking about people in past tense is a huge red flag to me now. My boyfriend and his mom referred to his dad exclusively in present tense for about a year after he passed. Now it makes me wonder when people use past tense immediately after their loved one have passed/when people are missing
Then it is indeed a duck!
You took the words right out of my mouth. I am always saying that. Way to many RED flags.
Exactly! My grandpa died 4 years ago and I still catch myself saying “grandpa loves this” or “grandpa always says”
Fuckin a
I really loved how the first worker in this video was very respectful when describing this poor woman's remains that they found, it was thoughtful of him. Not that it would bring her back or make things right by her, but he made it sound less traumatizing to the family I would hope.
Her whole life is staged. I can’t call it. Her hubby seems sus, but it’s been established that he’s a basket case and that doesn’t equal murderer, I’m bothered by her friends for some reason. Sebastian is the last on my list. This one has me legit stumped. Pray her family gets justice.
My thoughts exactly.
Is speaking about someone in past tense before they find the body a normal occurrence? or just a glass half empty kind of guy, not very positive thinking. I mean couldn't he have thought she left him since they had been working towards that?
@@analee3299 I’m not ruling him out at all, again I’m legit stumped. Like I said we know from multiple people, his OWN people that he doesn’t have it all, he’s super sus but I’m not feeling her “friends” either ya know
@@analee3299 I can’t say what’s normal, it’s weird that he said that tho fa sho
@@lalabonilla9630 I argee can rule out anyone. Some people use negative info to set someone up, so conveniently but he has way to many strikes.
I love how your dog is just casually sleeping, so peaceful 🥰
The way her friend says with a smile how she "loved being a influencer" sends me off vibes. Especially knowing Alexis didn't like to be called that.
yeah i felt really weird after that comment and her smile that was creepy
@@racheljolly7785 why? Because it seems like you people are just overthinking
@@misss.j1960 its not overthinking lmfao, it really does make her more suspicious but we cant know for sure ofc
I found it weird she wouldn't look at the camera the whole time she was speaking but then when she called her an influencer she suddenly looked directly at it.
i picked up on that too!!
Okay, I don’t know if you’re going to see this or not Kendall, but one of my close friends grew up with Alexis in PA. (We’re both ER nurses in Buffalo at ECMC). She told me about this way before the news caught hold. She said that Alexis would have never been caught dead naked at all especially not on the side of the road like that. She wasn’t a druggie. Her entire family and her friends are starting to think it was her partner. I sent this video to my friend. Thank you so much for covering this. Alexis deserves justice.
I'm sorry for your loss
What town in pa was she from?
@@ashleygarcia8486 Aw it’s actually my friend Shadoe’s loss, I didn’t know Alexis personally, but thank you for your concern!
Don’t quote me on this, my friend Shadoe works nights and she’s sleeping right now so I can’t text her but I believe it’s Bradford. When she responds I’ll respond back to this message.
“She wouldn’t have been caught dead naked”
the irony in the statement you just made.
Kendall, I know you may not see this but I submitted a case I’d like for you to cover. The victim is Shana Jaros. She was stabbed over 50 times many years ago. I have been friends with her younger brother for close to 20 years now and he is still horrified by it. At the time I lived in St. Louis, Mo and was still a child, but Nokomis Illinois, where the victim is from, is not super far from StL. There has NEVER been any publicity for Shana in the area. I feel a profound sadness for all these young people taken from us senselessly and I pray every day for resolution to their cases. Alexis was a beautiful young woman with a lot of life to live. I hate these atrocities happened to these ladies.
I would love for Kendall to do an update on what happened with this case! Theres so much information and its a lot to sift through
@kendallrae
@kendallrae
DEFINITELY WANT AN UPDATE! The fact that she was found so clean, almost freshly bathed (something you might do, at home, before getting intimate with your husband?) definitely adds to all the other reasons her husband seems so suspicious...
It's called "rain" !
@@MichaelWH a body in the rain would be covered in mud a dirt splatter 🙄don’t be dumb .
@@MichaelWH also in Texas , it don’t rain that damn much here
@@brianagarcia7387 It did that night ! I saw the coverage on the Houston channels website KHOU when they found her, they mentioned the rain coming before it even happened days before.
@@MichaelWH omg lol u making me look bad ! Jkjk all jokes aside ya I’ve heard that rain can def compromise the integrity of evidence . Hopefully they’ll be able to give her the justice she so rightfully deserves. !
Who else listens to Kendall while getting ready for their day? I feel like a friend is telling me stories 😀
I'm listening it before going to bed😁
I listen in bed because I'm the other side of the pond 😂🏴
I enjoy listening when I wind down 😊
😂😂😂with my time zone she posts late at night so I always watch before I sleep ❤ her voice is so calming.
Yesss!! I listen while doing my makeup & when I'm making dinner because I don't want to pause & wait, lol..
I watch a lot when I'm in bed too. I've been binging all her videos I haven't seen yet.💜💙
I went to college with her..super nice and extremely smart! May she Rest In Peace and may she get justice!
Sorry for the loss of your classmate. Good to hear many qualities emphasized other than her looks and "lifestyle". She didn't deserve this.
wow!
@LanessaMarquee I’d love to know your theory!
Lexi was such a sweet girl! I grew up with her. So thankful you put a light on this situation. Such a tragic story. Rest In Peace beautiful!
I knew this young woman. Im not trying to say I was friends with her or anything, but Ive met and spoke to her a few times. We grew up in the same community and she was my older brother's age. She was so kind and sweet, just a ray of light, I got this vibe from her even from not knowing her very well. This case hits so so close to home. I know her family is absolutely gutted over this entire thing. Thank you for making a video on her case, Justice for Alexis...
Things true crime has taught me:
Dont be nice
Dont have a family
Dont play sports
Dont be good in school
Dont have friends
Just live in a Hut in the middle in the forest and you're good
You can still have a serial killer end up randomly killing you🤷🏻♀️
Fuck it just don't live
@klypl hahah
You will still get killed living anywhere, even in the forest. Look up "Murders at Keddie Cabin".
Baba Yaga
Something is just extremely _off_ about this case. I have a feeling that once the truth comes out that its gonna implicate EVERYONE.
True! I feel like this crime was committed by more than one person. Alexis didn’t deserve what was done to her. 💔 No one does and I hope her murderer/murderers get brought to justice.
Meeee Too!!!!
Thank
I agree!
Tom killed her and her friends were in it, too
Thank you for always spending so much time on the victims' lives before the tragedy. I'm sure their loved ones appreciate it!
Everyone has a demon or two, I don’t think her friends knew her very well. Personally I think the friendships were superficial.
Does anyone 🤔ever truly know someone though...lol
💯
Sadly that’s super common with people in MLM’s and direct marketing. They pretend to be your friends etc... only problem is 99% them leave or harass you when you don’t make them enough money or leave the pyramid scheme
@@tomkatt3410 "ever truly know someone though"
no but there is a difference between a friend since high school and a friend you met at a bar 1 year ago or w.e
@@savannahbennett259 yes my own sister
The only reason I think it is Tom is because his story keeps changing & he’s being uncooperative
same, but also because he was a 40-something man who frequented a hooters like establishment to scoop up one of the 20-something servers. i don’t think he ever viewed her as an equal
Husband's is lying and gaslighting, trying to attack his dead wife's character. Sounds like another case of narcissism.
Bingo
I doubted him from day one
But Tanya mentioning a possible affair and posting alleged texts between Alexis and Tom over a month after her "best friend" is dead is normal, and how did she get access to their texts to begin with ?
I wouldn't want some third party posting private messages between me and my now recently murdered wife for the world to see....and tell everyone my wife was going out behind my back with another man on a date she help set up to begin with and tried to hide the first few weeks of the case until she accidentally mentioned it on a screenshot of a text which also listed her BF as the last person to have contact with her.
Sounds like making Alexis rep and character look even worst after death to me ! Until Dec 11 there was no Seb being at Tanya's house that night as well as no date at a bar afterwards,she hasn't even mentioned the name of this alleged bar to this day, but as no problem yapping about everything else about this case since for some reason she knows everything everyone said and did and who was calling and texting who.
Maybe we have 2 so called narcissist ?
My personal opinion is that her and Tom got into an argument, perhaps about her leaving him and her seeing the other guy and in the heat of the moment he strangled her and the reason she was naked was either she had just got out of the shower or he intentionally left her out there naked to “humiliate” her. The whole thing is absolutely heartbreaking
I can’t believe I wrote this right before I finished the video and watched the “theories” part! I must not be the only one cuz she said it exactly how I wrote it smh
What's so scary is how well documented her personal life is due to social media \ networking. The contrast between her Instagram posts and the reality of her unfortunate death is so stark.
thats because social media life is completely faked
Just like Shanann Watts......
@@beachgirl468 Ugh yeah, completely. Social media can hide a lot of shitty things going on. Can’t look at the video of one of the little girls singing that song about her daddy being her hero without crying.
Eerily similar to Shannan Watts .... who also worked for a sketch MLM
Yes it is very strong
I don't believe Tonya was involved. She seems to like attention and she's definitely grossly capitalizing off the attention she's getting from interviews but I think Tom's red flags are waving way harder. Strangling someone and leaving them naked on the side of the road feels very personal. Especially for a soon to be divorced man whose ex is moving on.
Yea when you leave someone naked and usually strangled it’s because that person felt power over that person when it’s someone that does kill someone that is a partner they usually do something to show how they have power over that person like strangling ugh I hate to bring him up but remember Chris Watts
Agreed
Strangling someone (especially by someone his size) leaves marks, that cause of death is sketchy to say the least.
totally agreed
@@LeneeLenee if it happened during sex he would have probably not pressed that hard to leave marks.
I can’t help but always feel sorry for the strangers that find the bodies. Especially in Alexis’s case, I could only imagine how surreal it must’ve felt discovering her body and mistaking her as a mannequin...
True crime rule #1: Its never just a mannequin
Me too. I can’t imagine that moment when you realise it’s actually a dead body. I can’t imagine how traumatic that would be
A found my neighbor dead from a Heroin OD, it's not fun finding a deceased body when you are not used it.
Sadly, it’s a common thing for Houstonians. Workers find bodies all of the time. It’s awful.
I guess people always assume it's a mannequin at first, because it seems more probable... and/ or their mind doesn't want to go to more morbid options until it has to
It disgusts me that the person who was supposed to be her most trusted partner and friend, killed her and then left her naked and discarded on the side of the road. I just…my mind can’t comprehend that.
Because he was a pig
He was framed most likely.
Since the family never had bad vibes from Tom and Tonya won’t stop talking I have a feeling it was Tonya. Former MLM “boss babes” have come out saying those friendships are all so fake and fall apart once your “friend” isn’t making you money anymore. I wouldn’t be surprised if they killed her out of jealousy or some sort of anger towards her...
Yes, I'm not sure who killed her, but her fellow huns were not true friends and I don't trust that they had her best interest in mind. Honestly everyone sucks here.
I’ve had that feeling since day one. Somethings not right abt tonya. I’m more suspicious of her than Tom.
Everything about their “fun” pictures looks really fake and cringe to me.
@@calcalhoun1333 Forreal, those Monat vacation pics/clips looked like my personal idea of hell.
Alexis didn't like to be considered an influencer. Look at tonya's f'ing grin when she says alexis " loved being an *influencer* " 31:48
I feel like when Tom was driving around that night he was probably trying to find a place to dump her body. Thats why he came up with that part of his story saying he was following her around because he knew if the cops looked at his gps location history on his phone etc they would probably see he was driving around at night going to random places.
And he sat at a gas station for TWO HOURS thinking of what to do? Uhh...
Well then it they had the GPS data .. wouldn’t it show his car at the site or near the site her body was found ?
Brilliant theory! Makes perfect sense to me
Excellent theory!
@@waheedo2635 agree, I guess we’ll find out if they look at it
As a Crime Junkie, rule number one is that it’s NEVER A MANNEQUIN.
Ash and Brit are so wise 👌🏻☺️
Why did this make me laugh 🤣
Deidre Barrington Do you watch True Crime and Wine Wednesday too because Sherilynn always say that “It’s Never a Mannequin” and even has a shirt available
@@sharonjackson3564 No! What! Is it morbid that I suddenly want this...?
Idk how many times I've seen someone say "I thought it was a mannequin"!
not defending her husband, but her friends saying someone is constantly happy and postivie is absurd. everybody has struggles in life.
Your dog is a literal angel
Her dog is sooooo chill. ♥️♥️♥️☝️
Biblically accurate angel, or the gentrified kind?
@@r.i.pyoutube6881 I’m a Christian
The fact that the friends hashtagged justice for Alexis when she was just missing is definitely a bit suspish
That’s exactly what I thought
we knew there was more to the story
I thought that was sooo weird too!!!
One thing that I absolutely love about Kendall is that she covers recent cases! I get annoyed with channels that constantly cover cases that are decades old because the sad reality is that dna is likely the only thing that solves older cases (I mean cases that are 40+ years old). Spreading information about newer cases is so helpful to solving the investigation!
Hey don’t count those older cases out. Another UA-camr that I follow who has a channel similar to Kendall’s covered a case that had gone cold since the 70s. A couple months ago they finally had a break in the case. So I wouldn’t count those out.
Plus everyone’s story deserves to be told! No matter how old or recent.
Or cases that have been covered a bazillion times already when theres a bunch of little known cases
@@baggergurl16 what channel and what case? i’m interested
I like the older cases. Their stories are important too. They shouldn’t be forgotten.
UPDATE: 10/6/21
Tom Sharkey has died by suicide (self inflected gunshot wound) in Florida following the warrant for his arrest for the murder of Alexis.
The “friends” planned a get together & she goes missing. They seem shady and suspicious. They also pointed fingers at husband saying she was scared of him. They planted that seed. They should be investigated.
No it’s not suspect , they would get together a lot.
not suspicious at all since they hung out a lot. Alexis was also VERY young compared to her husband and gained a lot of attention online, he couldve very well become jealous of the fact that she was a somewhat famous girl, smart, pretty, social, and didnt need him for money because she was wildly successful, he met her when she was a younger, new in town waistress so he probaly held a lot of power over her and when she started to "bloom" and become more popular and meet more people that power started to dwindle and he became insecure. also if the marriage wasnt going well he couldve very well been scared of the fact that she could easily divorce him and move own (which she allegedly already had done) plus he has a history of manipulation.
people see a group of young pretty girls and always assume cat fights are happening and while this may be true sometimes is not always the case, there is no indicaton her friends did it. its 10000x more likely her husband did it.
The husband was the one reporting her missing to a boyfriend instead of her friends, changes his story multiple times, and uses the classic "she ran off after an argument" story, while she contacted no one else. Huge classic red flags.
@@sashasilva7066 your comment makes a lot of sense
Would u go to sleep if u knew your friend was coming back to your house, especially if she went out drinking? A true friend would have picked her up or waited up for her. When it started to get late would r u start calling her nonstop? The more I think about it the friend seems to be the most likely person to know something if not be directly involved.
You said oil field, and my Chris Watts red flag went up.
same!!!!
Mine too!
and both women in MLM
glad I wasn’t the only one 🙃
oil field, mlm and Colorado are all similarities between the 2 cases 😅
The whole story is really fishy. Once the girls say Alexis was always cheerful and everything and then all of the sudden she seems like someone who fears for her life. They say stories about how badly Tom treated her, but none of them did anything against it (maybe reaching out to parents, or even Tom... or police). Also, Tom's changing the story... both sides are fishy...
Eh, getting a friend out of an abusive relationship is a lot harder than you think. Even if you go to them about it and say “hey I think this is really unhealthy” they can still be blind to it. It’s a difficult situation and I don’t think that specifically should get fingers pointed to them, especially if Tom was being abusive, because in that case I think the finger should go straight to him.
@@FlowceanSoul Obviously, it won't make Tom's abusive attitude non-existent. However, if the girls knew about the situation they should've acted by simply telling this to the parents of Alexis' because it seems like they never found Tom being a bad guy at all. It was stated that Alexis had a good relationship with her parents if so then telling this to them might help Alexis in some way. I can also imagine that Tom was overseeing her steps that's why she didn't keep in touch with her parents, and that's the point when the friends come into the picture.
@@krisztinaolah7345 You really think her superficial friends will go tell her parents? No. It seems she wasn't close to her friends like that. They weren't like childhood friends who may have good relationship with her parents who will probably tell her parents if it was really concerning. I feel like people are digging into her clout chasing friends too much. The prime suspect in this case is Tom and maybe the boyfriend. My guess is on Tom. They argued and she turned up dead. How many time have we heard this before???!?! Too many times.
How one friend said that she hooked up with that guy & another friend said she didn’t?? Like ??
Friends can’t get someone out of an abusive relationship! They were married! It’s not that easy. She probably confided in them and ask them not to say anything.
The husband definitely killed her. Unfortunately he committed suicide right before he was to be arrested for connection to her murder. If that isn’t a confession, I don’t know what is.
This case really bothers me, no one is talking about it. It was like oh her body was found we are done. No one is talking. No one is arrested. It's like she doesn't even matter anymore. I hope there is justice for her and her family one day.
I agree it’s not fair at all
exactly, it's terrifying.
they are investigating
It takes time to build a case and arrest someone.
@@dathunderman4 very true they need to consider all of their options
I feel it's so clearly Tom.
He has a past.
The nudity connection.
The change in story.
The denial.
That doesn't mean he did it though. We should jump to conclusions just because people "seem" off
The strangulation connection is also huge. Strangulation is very common amongst homicidal domestic abusers.
Kendall stated that she didn't refer to herself as an "influencer" but a business woman, and then her friend goes on and tells everyone she loved being an "influencer" ... wouldn't she know better if she really was a good friend? Idk seemed weird to me.
I was thinking the same thing 🤔
I was about to comment on this too!!!!
Yes!! I was looking if someone else noticed that to, so strange
Point
Eh influencers always say that. They say that to seem more relatable.
Hey guys. So a few months ago, the beginning of October to be exact, the coroner found the cause of death to be strangulation. And that DNA was found that belonged to Tom Sharkey. Because he had been evasive and inconsistent throughout the investigation and other evidence pointed towards him there was enough to charge Tom with the murder of Alexis. However, when police went to arrest him they found him dead from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. So yeah. (Also personal opinion about Tanya, I kinda feel like she and other friends might have used this as a fame/attention grab; whether it was intentional or not. That being said, Alexis never got the justice she deserves and it's just so heartbreaking.)
Authorities did not find Tom dead. They showed up to Toms daughter's house, where he'd been hiding out. Once he realized they were there, he bolted upstairs and barricaded himself in a room - where he then took his own life.
@@Grav3yardMoth when the police when to get him he was already dead. Same difference lol
I wonder how heavily they looked into Sebastian? Everyone is so focused on Tom but she was with Tom forever with no issues then met Sebastian and shortly after she died.
Very unlikely it's him tho... I've looked into things
Not really, she wasn't with Tom forever. It was maybe 2 years. I still think he and the friend Tonya is suspicious..
I'm not to this part yet but maybe the timing with him looks suspicious because Tom was jealous of this Sebastien person? He could have killed her in reaction to something
I think there might have been issues, and also with Tom's previous marriage as well. Maybe it is related to Sebastian, but not because he's the one who killed her, but because she started dating him, and that pushed Tom to kill her.
No she wasn’t with Tom forever. Tom just looks so old you assume they were together forever.
I would love for Kendall to do a video discussing the case of Judith Barsi, the child actress killed by her father in 1988 when he also murdered his wife and then took his own life. Such a heartbreaking case because CPS and the adults in Judith’s life really let her down.
Was she the little girl who was the voice of Duckie in The Land Before Time?
If you won't mind I'd suggest you to watch Eleanor neal's video covering this case.
Peace✌️
@@kelseyelizabeth yes, that’s her :(
That case is heartbreaking... 💔
Someone has. Could be Eleanor
She told her friend in confidence, that her “husband” liked to “strangle her until she blacked out...” then her official cause of death was deemed “homicide by strangulation” + the fact they were divorcing at the time, including his past divorce history says volumes to me... 🤷🏼♀️
Which friend ? They keep changing that story as to who it was and whether it was a text,phone call, or face to face conversation...I know, she woke up in the " bathroom" only 🙄. He wasn't even the last person to see her.
exactly, so obvious its laughable but explained away even in this video as strangulation during sex being some kind of kinky harmless sexual aberration. What???? This is misogyny and extreme violence against women that ultimately ended in her death.
@@karentheisen4235 Like I have to say every day, there is no evidence he strangled her "once" let alone all the time and she woke up in the bathroom floor "only". Her friends keep changing the story of who was the one friend Alexis supposedly told and whether it was a text, phone call, or face to face communication
And only in the bathroom,gee what a coincidence that usually in a bathroom somebody is nude and covered with water, and how was she found dead ?...that's right, nude and covered with water (cause it rained heavily that night).
They can't decide who told who and how and when, but they sure get the bathroom part of the story right and keep mentioning it over and over. Then again,even if she was abused these 7 friends didn't give a shit until she was already dead, which they seemed to know Alexis was before she was even found.
He was so abusive to her that Alexis got to go on all these trips without him and just the GF's only all over the world where she partied with other men and lived high on the Hog 🐷,walking around half naked and no visible marks or bruises on her face or entire body ...ever?
No friend ever pulled her aside , noticed anything and talked to her and Alexis had to tell "them" she was being abused and they only reveal it after her death? Oh I forgot, she was always happy and had no demons and barely talked about Tom, the glue that held the friends together and all that other stuff people say about a deceased person
@@MichaelWH Given that he strangled her during sex and she died of strangulation, it seems highly likely that he strangled her, whether or not it was on purpose or by accident. And since 80% of the time when a woman is murdered, it is her husband or boyfriend who did it. It all points strongly to the husband. But my real point here is the way the poster of this video presents strangulation during sex as just being a run of the mill, slightly aberrant perhaps but normal activity. It is irresponsible to present this very violent, misogynistic and dangerous act as a normal sexual activity. There is nothing normal about it. It's abusive and extremely dangerous for women.
@@karentheisen4235 Who said he strangled her during sex ? Her friends said that, doesn't mean it's true cause we can't ask Alexis. And they also said she woke up in the bathroom only...100% of the time. Could it be cause one is usually soaked with water and naked in the bathroom, and what a coincidence, she was found dead "Soaked with water and naked" (cause of the hard rain)., if she was just found dead and naked, they could have said the bedroom and that they were having sex or something, but since it rained heavily that night, I guess the bathroom made better sense cause it cover both being naked and covered with water .
First they said she was choked cause of sex, then they said it was because Tom was so angry with her, so what the hey, they probably thought "lets stick with both stories"
They changed the story at least 4 times as to which "one" friend Alexis told this too and whether it was a text,phone call, or face to face conversation or when it happened, then at one time it was said "She told all of us at the same time on a group text"...I mean first it was one person and they couldn't decide who, then it was the whole group of 7 at one time, and not one of them can prove it, as much as these women lived on their phones and internet ?
They started a "Justice For Alexis" tagline and Go Fund Me page that is still going now at over 26 thou that her mom was supposed to get, before Alexis was even found, it's like they (she) already knew she was dead and strangled. These friends and Alexis only knew each other since February 2020,not like they knew each other that well, and most of that was going on all these all girl vacations all over the world, you know since mean ol Tom was so controlling and possessive ,yet she still got to go and had all that freedom for such a kept woman who got choked in the bathroom only and no other room in the entire home and it doesn't rain inside. So yes I question her friends more so than her husband.
And not one camera or eyewitness in Houston TX caught him doing anything suspect this whole time from sneaking her out of the apt, into the parking lot and then shoving her in his car, going to dispose of the body, then eventually coming back to the apt building without her ?
I truly hope people learn something from these devastating cases & see the importance of speaking out against abuse. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship &/or fears for their safety, *ALWAYS* mention it to a loved one or report it to the police. It doesn't matter if you love or trust your partner, abuse is abuse & can lead to devastating events, as we seen in this video.
Exactly ....these videos raise awareness on the dangers lurking behind these relationships and how to spot red flags before getting into them...Also how friends and family should react to someone telling them there is abuse verbal, emotional, financial or physical.
a lot of people on reddit are saying possibly her friends could've done it. Allegedly some friends didn't attend the funeral, and instead were on social media partying
but i still think it's the husband...just sus about the friends
@@michaelahunter5013 I agree with you I am very suspicious of her “friend” tonya but believe the husband did it too.
O wow
“You guys are raising our cost of living. It’s not fair.” I’m dead. 💀😂
Meanwhile houston is drowning in cement and overcrowding buildings due to such an influx of people moving there...not going to lie, I'd kill...DIE....to move to Colorado🤣
AND WE KNOW THATS RIGHT! HELL YA KENDALL,,, THANK YOU!
SINCERELY,
COLORADO GIRL BORN AND RAISED!
As someone born and raised in Palm Beach, Fl, I feel you!!
They aren’t natives either so.. 🤣
@@katrinavecchiarelli7556 she’s not a native so y’all should put the finger on her too! 🤣
MLM, “boss babe”, Colorado, disappeared out of the blue. Does this remind any of you of Shannan and Chris watts?
Totally first thing I think when the video start
yes, immediatly
You got it.
Are you saying thier could be a connection?
Absolutely!
I just seen an update on this, Alexis Sharkey's husband killed himself when police showed up to his house to arrest him.