4 True Signs that Your Wife Doesn't Love You Anymore and 4 False Signs | Paul Friedman
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2021
- These 4 true signs that your wife doesn't love you anymore and 4 false signs will help you understand marriage better and inspire you to do more than just accept what is happening because as Paul explains things all the way to the end you have so much power to get happiness and love from your marriage.
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My man has bouts of anger and negativity and wants to fight about the most trivial things. It's getting on my nerves and I'm losing all attraction. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster. He wants to be around me all the time and I just need some space. He gets upset if I want to get things done or have downtime for myself after my physical job. I feel like his mother, not his wife.
My wife is a dismissive avoidant. Your ways do not work for them. I do everything you say men should with their wives. She needs counseling and doesn’t see it.
Your wife being labeled by you, the man who promised to love her through thick and thin is lacking a husband who will treasure her. Become an ideal husband before you expect an ideal wife, Any complaining you do about her is a powerful erosion of happiness.
@@TheMarriageFoundation wow! You are so right about a man taking this approach.
I've persevered for thirty plus years with my partner but I was the only one to do the research and the work needed. She just ignored the fact that we were growing apart.
I always felt like she was holding something back in our relationship.
I've just realised that she has "intimacy anorexia". Which is why she pulls back from throwing herself fully into the relationship.
Her behaviour meets every single criteria spot on for this issue.
Probably stems from the childhood trauma of her mother pushing her away.
Trouble is that it is an addictive behavioural habit which she has absolutely no intention of breaking.
In a nutshell, she's shutting off her ability to love and be loved.
Hope all works out for all husband's and wives!
For reals !! Ungrateful women to start off its me me me take take take entitlement entitlement … nagging
Thank you for sharing. Very good info, practical & most important, it is genuinely honest straight.
His advice is amazing. This is exactly how I felt before leaving my ex husband and filing for divorce.
Yes. It is not a set of behaviors but a disposition of the heart. An attitude, as you say.
So I don’t have to feel bad if someone does not say “I love you” every time they walk out the door, or forget my birthday or our anniversary.
I would trade ALL of that for the gentle hand of empathy. One flesh........
desire is the enemy. Unconditional love is the cure
I needed this!! You’re so right about western psychology and therapy. Seen so many videos about women not having sex and all of that. This is the video i was needing. I’ve watched literally hundreds of videos and this is by far the best advice i’ve gotten. Even my couples therapist isnt giving me this. Thank you so much. Im going to change my thinking. Also, i think therapy should start immediately after the honeymoon. You need the tools from the start. My goodness, just great info.
Get the course for men, Ches, and let the couple's counselor go if you want to make super progress.
Very gentle, very amiable, very special psychological speaker, so insight so much perfect speaker. God bless him, I seldom like on line speaker, but this gentleman is the best.....
Your explanation is spot on!
This is exactly what made me pull back from putting in as much effort. Thank you so much for this clarity for our marriage. For so long I thought I was overthinking it when I wasn't. Sometimes I didn't know why but now it makes sense.
He’s better off without you
I like this your the real deal on this stuff.
Thank you for your wisdom
You are very welcome🙏
Thanks sir very good it help alot
Thanks I came across your site, I need this so much to advise a very troubled adopted brother whose wife is violently abusive
So far this video seems to be about fixing reparable relationships. Generally when man does not make wife feel loved enough to make effort to love back. If one is in a violently abusive relationship it is time to run. As brother you need to be prepared to accept him into your home until he can rebuild his single life. If STBex is violent enough, he needs to go to shelter specializing in abused spouses - and you need to be prepared in case she blames (and becomes violent toward) you.
You’re almost correct when you say there’s a lack of education regarding marriage in the western or more so in the American culture…. I would add more to that notion by saying that there is too much poisonous/wrong education in US regarding marriage. This negative “education” in US comes from the media, the tv series, tv shows, which provide plenty of bad examples where the idea of divorce, and happiness after divorce becomes the normality.
And then the couple counselors are telling you that you have to do more , perhaps, etc…
I agree, however, keep in mind that right education is like a light in a dark room and dispels the nonsense conveyed by the misinformed.
@@TheMarriageFoundation indeed you are wise, I wish to learn the ways
Dude is clueless. Woman will.still be miserable. The true beta male. Guy was a toxic female in another life
😔 great listen Thanks
Thank you.
Thank you for your sharing your wisdom!
thanks you so much
Well done Paul God bless you
Saving my marriage one video at a time ❤ thank you so much
I love to hear that. Go for it!!
Thank you Sir, indeed very good advice!
Thank you
Thanks 💯
Just found your channel. Hope it's not to late for us.
If you are that point then it would be a good idea to look at our courses themarriagefoundation.org/
I’m in your boat, a sinking boat, and I’m hoping the same. Hoping it is not too late.
any updates?? how did it go??
@@jt8713 she’s gone, said she’s in love again. 32 years gone.
@@josephrivera4233 sorry to hear man i hope you find happiness if you havent already
Spot on
wow amazing video thank you
Thanks, marriage guy!
I hope it's not to late for me neither just pushed my wife away due to my Insecurities I was an asshole for An Entire Week no talking being angry being negative . Now that she seems like she is done I'm dying inside feel guilty and alone
Changing one's self is a process that requires a plan and the proper tools.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Omg I'm like dying idk what to do anymore I don't know if I've lost her completely 💔
get the course. you need much more than just the videos here
I did realize One Thing . And That's just to change for the future and be a positive person . I talked to her and I took full responsibility for my actions . We are taking it Day By Day To be Stronger Then Ever 💪👌
Wish I had heard all this many years ago
Could you do a video on love and what it is in general ?
Wow! You want an easy topic, don't you LOL... Start repeating "I am love, I am Joy" with ever deepening attention on your self, the soul, and you will knoow it. Words can in no way define love. You can only realize it...and you can! 🙏
I'm about to love on my wife ❤️ it was almost as if you were talking straight to me. You are so right.... I have to change some things because I have been a real dick lately. Thank you so much for your advice and my God bless you abundantly as well as your family 💯
Boy I wish my husband would think this way! He won't do anything with me..
Is it just me or did you just list three signs that she doesn't love you instead of four? Because I'm really interested in hearing number four
It happens, as I don't plan these talks, But, the main point of the video is that you can do something about it rather than be fatalistic.
My girlfriend of 7 years dumped me this past Mother's Day, said she didn't love me anymore. I know it's because I stopped listening to her and appreciating her and making sure she was seen and heard and validated due to problems in my own life. I lost the emotional connection that we had. I realize my mistakes and am working on changes and living my best life. We are still friends and will co-parent our child but I do hope that working on myself and rebuilding the emotional connection will reattract her.
you need to use a process for change such as what you would have from the course for men themarriagefoundation.org/
Mine says she loves me. She said that she is in too much pain. Shoulders and hips. Stress from work and self-image after 4 kids that she has no drive at all. We still have intimacy, just not sex. I'm hoping we are okay.
Learning to love, unconditionally, is how to rise above the mind's inclinations, including bodily rebelion, which tend to control us. Most people love, but not deeply, from the heart, the soul. This is normal in a world that consumes us with "how are we doing" impositions, so we teach how to push the mind back and how to cultivate love from within. Then, as you learn these natural skills your love will be clear to her. At the same time we teach the rules of the marital road.... themarriagefoundation.org/ we want you to succeed!
I have trouble confronting my wife about these feelings. They’re clear as day and I do so much to let her know I care. Communication is a real issue
Confrontation is never a useful tool of communication. May I suggest you look into our course for men? I think you would do very well with it. themarriagefoundation.org/
What if it's the wife that's the issue and the husband is doing the work? What if she's doing all the stuff your saying the husband is doing?
The same ideas apply.
What if it’s too late?
It is rarely too late but it may be. Write to our counselors (it is free) and explain what is going on and they will tell you, honestly.
Ok, what do ya do if your wife will not change, will not work on our marriage, nothing. I have been 200% for 3 years, been together 22years, I'm tired. Real tired
No matter how hard you work on your marriage untill you work on yourself and do it correctly nothing will change.
Divorce her. Life is too short
Is once a week too much for "girls night out?". Men get together at least once a week for sports. I want to understand, NOT spark a debate. Help!
If girls night out is like for Bible study or doing art together then its fine. or something else that is enriching then its a good thing. But if its going to a bar or to gossip, than it is not lady-like and is bad for your self and your marriage.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Thanks for responding. I wholeheartedly agree!
That is very bad
If you need the company of other people than your spouse once a week, you need another spouse
Thank you so much!!!!!
I. almost lost hope of finding men who would understand this subject of making love instead of sex..
Such important teaching!!!
God help us.. Especially the young generation so exposed to the cheap thing. ..
I get it now, I experienced this a few weeks ago. My wife is a bigger girl but I was so passionate about how I got to hold her thick thighs and just enjoy her. That wasn't just sex it was love making.
Why is it always the guys problem
The problem is with the person who feels the problem and the solution is with the one who makes the right kind of effort.
It is always the same story. Guys are always at fault.
Only love can replace fault finding/ Women sometimes say the same thing because it is hard to hear that we can improve ourselves, but with the proper use of will we can change our lives and our marriages.
Yeah...
The more I tell her how beautiful she is the less interest she has towards me.
Marriage is about developing a connection between soulmates, not just saying this or that. Unless she feels your love the words will be empty to her.
Her girl friends are bad influence.....
That may be true but it is far from the big problem of not having learned how to connect from the heart
If you make your part better she will do more of the same. Did all those things it’s never enough for a modern woman. All the have is excuses and no accountability. You can’t think you know a woman as a man. Sorry you weren’t her first choice and she’s a victim of her own fate. Princesses. Nope all of us don’t think we’re great but some give and some take
Marriage is not about give and take, Its about love and give. You can blame society if you want. Or, you can learn about marriage (take the course for men or at least read one of my books) and get happiness into your marriage
Are women always right...and its the mans fault?
Men do think that, and women think the opposite. Learning how to bridge the gender gap is a challenge for both genders.