Cosplaying TF2 as a Woman is FRUSTRATING

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  • @SkyminSlash
    @SkyminSlash  9 місяців тому +1559

    Hey guys! I want to address and clarify a few things:
    1. I chose Femscout as my main example because it’s the costume of mine that has gotten the most exposure. This means it had the largest number of Feminization comments to pull from. However I’d like to make it clear that Scout is not the only one I’ve received these comments on. The predominantly male TF2 characters I’ve cosplayed have all received these types of comments to different extents and frequency. Scout was just the easiest to pull from (and record in). I probably should have included comments from my other cosplays (hindsight 20/20) but I had hoped that the comments I included from Saxton Hale would do the same job.
    2. Yes, I have a pony tail and yes Femscout has a ponytail (FemSniper as well). And I can understand some people thinking that ponytail = FemScout but what about a guy with one or with long hair? I’ve known my fair share of Scout’s with that and they don’t get questioned if they’re doing FemScout. Some have said I should hide my hair, which means I either wear a wig (which I have stated why I don’t and wouldn’t be worth it for this costume) or I hide my hair in the hat, the latter of which would be very uncomfortable to do considering the length/thickness of my hair combined with a headset that’s very tight to wear. I’m a firm believer that TF2 cosplay is very accessible to everyone regardless of their physical features. Saying I have to hide personal features of myself contradicts that belief.
    3. All my interactions with fellow TF2 cosplayers have been positive. They’re a legitimately great corner of the community. It’s assumed that these online comments likely come from people who do not participate in the community/hobby or are even familiar with it.

    • @Capiosus
      @Capiosus 9 місяців тому

      cool femscout costume
      this is a joke meant to make fun of how these kinds of people ignore everything else and make a dumb comment

    • @wanttoseea3892
      @wanttoseea3892 9 місяців тому +21

      Dont listen to the tf2 community on gender. You will only go 2 steps back for every foot forward.

    • @The_K1tten_Earter
      @The_K1tten_Earter 9 місяців тому +6

      Have you ever heard of the streisand effect?

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 9 місяців тому +22

      @@wanttoseea3892 The TF2 Community does not care about what Gender one is when Cosplaying. People have cosplayed as TF2 Characters for years, and nobody batted an eye at how the cosplayer was a guy or a girl. (Matter of fact, the Community finds it more humorous than insulting.)
      The fact that you try making this all about Gender Politics tells me more about _YOU_ than it does about the TF2 community as a whole.

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 9 місяців тому +21

      You'd be right on the last one. The Commenters who are against Women cosplaying as TF2 Characters usually turned out to have NOT played TF2 at all. They just look at the art work and just say "You have to be accurate".
      Those kinds of people, I feel, should not be listened to. They never played TF2 at all, or actually been a part of the community in the last odd decade or so.
      Matter of fact, if Gender truly was so important to TF2, we wouldn't have Fem-versions of the characters on the community servers... And especially not fem-versions of the TF2 teams all across the Gmod and SFM workshops. Those exist because people like them... And their ratings show how Positively people accept those versions.
      So if anything, those whining about your Cosplay? They either are those trying to start nonsense in the TF2 Community, or are just trolls... Which can sometimes be one and the same.
      This is how "Infiltrators" start to make a game decline, they basically turn up, spin a fake outrage narrative that _hopefully (for them)_ creates enough of a stink to force the developers to bend the knee to those people... Which only feeds their ego and causes them to shift the goalposts again and again until eventually, the Game Developers cannot cater to them anymore, the Loyal fans have long since abandoned the game, and the ones who crafted the outrage have abandoned the community... Much like Locusts having torn up what was once a lush and fertile land of produce.
      This is why I have a habit of calling such people "Locusts", or "Parasites", because that is what they are. I much rather just ignore those Parasites because that is all that they want, someone to create such a stink that the devs believe they are forced to act in ways that they should not.

  • @chuckmann7127
    @chuckmann7127 9 місяців тому +5300

    Skymin: "This is a woman" TF2 Community: "Dear God!"

    • @Irken_Invader_Zim
      @Irken_Invader_Zim 9 місяців тому +479

      There’s more

    • @MrCybersnow
      @MrCybersnow 9 місяців тому +408

      @@Irken_Invader_Zim No....

    • @LieseFury
      @LieseFury 9 місяців тому +95

      @@MrCybersnow ...🤨

    • @UberDr009
      @UberDr009 9 місяців тому +278

      I have done nothing but teleport women for three days.

    • @sentineluno
      @sentineluno 9 місяців тому

      Where have you been sending them !!! ​@@UberDr009

  • @thedevilisaloser666
    @thedevilisaloser666 9 місяців тому +2941

    I saw your cosplay. I didn't think Femscout. I didn't think Scout.
    I fucking thought "Oh wow, Jerma"

  • @demzasdf1596
    @demzasdf1596 9 місяців тому +4641

    Don’t lie to me, you say you’re cosplaying as a scout but I know the truth you’re cosplaying as the spy

    • @somedude3314
      @somedude3314 9 місяців тому +219

      The last word out your sorry mouth will be “I am a spy!”

    • @miccool9ice363
      @miccool9ice363 9 місяців тому +107

      It’s the spy disguised as Skymin dressing up as the scout. XD
      Damn that got a chuckle out of me. Take my like.

    • @dimsthedimwit600
      @dimsthedimwit600 9 місяців тому +27

      @@somedude3314"Come on, I don't have all day"

    • @mechanicpluto2430
      @mechanicpluto2430 9 місяців тому

      @@miccool9ice363This Spy has already breached our defenses!

    • @RealProtonPrompt
      @RealProtonPrompt 9 місяців тому +26

      @@dimsthedimwit600 _Dramatic closeup shot as the Soldier's hand hits the Spy's face_
      *S P Y*

  • @blackjacked_xiii
    @blackjacked_xiii 9 місяців тому +364

    I remember seeing an extremely buff dude cosplay as Lara Croft.

  • @ShockedTaiLung
    @ShockedTaiLung 9 місяців тому +821

    Same thing applies to being black and cosplaying a non black character, people will just be like "Your cosplay doesn't work because your black" and it's actually so FRUSTRATING

    • @user-bx3kz9sp8p
      @user-bx3kz9sp8p 9 місяців тому +117

      Same thing happens to almost anyone cosplaying a character when they aren’t the character’s race, gender, age, body shape, etc.(example: white person cosplaying a non-white, or in your case black cosplaying non-black, Asian cosplaying non-Asian, the list goes on hehe) like bruv, it’s cosplay?? People need to calm down and let others have fun. Sorry you have to deal with idiots.

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 9 місяців тому +52

      FRR like am i supposed to magically turn white

    • @communismoclock9958
      @communismoclock9958 9 місяців тому +82

      I once saw a black dude cosplaying Alucard from Hellsing and I wasn't thinking "oh my god! he's black!", it was "holy shit this dude is massive" as he stood at a solid 7 feet tall.

    • @Gustoberg
      @Gustoberg 8 місяців тому +7

      ​@@woomy7.7 You can't magically swap the color of your skin?

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 8 місяців тому +7

      @@Gustoberg yeah man 😞

  • @canibiso
    @canibiso 9 місяців тому +2391

    Some people are just weird honestly. The first time you posted your scout cosplay, I didn’t think “Oh, she’s cosplaying the femscout” I could tell right away that you were dressed as scout.

    • @artifactU
      @artifactU 9 місяців тому +12

      same

    • @Queen_Coda
      @Queen_Coda 9 місяців тому +13

      same

    • @tintouinseul6870
      @tintouinseul6870 9 місяців тому +62

      Same, didn't even understood the point of saying femscout, like I was actually searching for what made it "female"

    • @TheScout27
      @TheScout27 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah same here

    • @Skeletin1
      @Skeletin1 9 місяців тому +1

      Wow really?!?!

  • @kuddlesgamergirl
    @kuddlesgamergirl 9 місяців тому +1702

    If a guy is allowed to wear a skirt, cat ears, and other female clothing because they wanna dress up as their favorite anime waifu, then I don't see the problem if a girl wants to dress up as Macho Man Randy Savage.

    • @ThreePanz
      @ThreePanz 9 місяців тому +50

      Facts

    • @prouddegenerates9056
      @prouddegenerates9056 9 місяців тому +28

      Yeah, but they are called femboys or ladyboys. They are not necessarily hated.

    • @kaylemathewcomendador6964
      @kaylemathewcomendador6964 9 місяців тому +102

      IDK, I’ve encountered male anime fans that don’t take kindly to femboys that crossdress before.

    • @ArbitraryOutcome
      @ArbitraryOutcome 9 місяців тому

      @@kaylemathewcomendador6964 Nowadays it's the inverse where effeminate males or masc-presenting people get fetishized to oblivion. It's not a problem to have a type or preference at all, it's just I see many "femboy" characters (or just the femboy label as expression) being reduced to hypersexuality.

    • @hyp0thermic_tensi0n
      @hyp0thermic_tensi0n 9 місяців тому

      ​@@prouddegenerates9056well they are fetishized

  • @henryatkinson1479
    @henryatkinson1479 9 місяців тому +1624

    "Gender could use a touch up" holy shit I found John Dysphoria

  • @rubyy.7374
    @rubyy.7374 9 місяців тому +680

    I wasn’t allowed to cosplay male characters as a teen because my mom thought it would make me transgender.
    …That’s not how that works.

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 9 місяців тому +71

      Man if that was how it worked the Naruto fandom would be so full of trans boys, given how many girls I've seen cosplay Naruto and Sasuke to record clips of themselves kissing to fuel the Sasunaru side of everything. (the fact that it's even A Thing still floors me)

    • @ZebraOnYourNose
      @ZebraOnYourNose 9 місяців тому +35

      It's so frustrating that some people still don't understand that dressing a certain way =/= being transgender

    • @piroshk1968
      @piroshk1968 8 місяців тому +18

      oh man.. when I was younger I would go to cons in normal clothes and take my cosplay to change into because my mom was on my ass about the same thing

    • @freezedriedzombi8242
      @freezedriedzombi8242 8 місяців тому +3

      Whaaaaat… Lol what.

    • @riv3rw4ter
      @riv3rw4ter 8 місяців тому +15

      I never cosplayed and still turned out transgender, checkmate over concerned parents

  • @furinick
    @furinick 9 місяців тому +2519

    Gender is fucking cringe we should classify people on how hard they can ball

  • @WaiGee_
    @WaiGee_ 9 місяців тому +1477

    tf2 players be normal to women challenge (impossible)
    also holy smokes that Korra cosplay is amazing

    • @able_archer01
      @able_archer01 9 місяців тому +172

      internet culture be normal to women challenge (impossible)

    • @giby8866
      @giby8866 9 місяців тому +50

      @timjohnathan internet culture be challenge (impossible)

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 9 місяців тому +37

      ​@@giby8866Internet culture challenge (impossible)

    • @grenadier20
      @grenadier20 9 місяців тому +32

      @@aliveashes4532 internet culture be not normal to women challenge (easy)

    • @Aha_s_Fake_Emanator
      @Aha_s_Fake_Emanator 9 місяців тому +27

      Internet culture is mentally challenged (true)

  • @Jontohil2
    @Jontohil2 9 місяців тому +920

    Getting labeled with things you’re actively trying to not be put into is incredibly frustrating (especially being labelled as trans just because you aren’t conveniently feminine) Good on you for doing this, because making something about a pent up frustration without coming off as a douche isn’t easy.

    • @typicalgentleman
      @typicalgentleman 9 місяців тому +15

      I failed at resisting the urge to reply to your comment because I like your content.

    • @TheManWatchingUnderYourBed
      @TheManWatchingUnderYourBed 9 місяців тому

      SPY HAS NO GUN, DO NOT BELIEVE HIS LIES!

    • @omnisel
      @omnisel 9 місяців тому +4

      It's a lot like when you're called australian!!
      jk

    • @datonebluemew3320
      @datonebluemew3320 9 місяців тому +1

      It's insane that transphobes go so far to ruin the lives of people including those they claim to care for

    • @batisphere1168
      @batisphere1168 9 місяців тому +7

      it's not easy to reply with "spy has a gun" so i will just tip my hat to you and say 'thanks' for spy tips

  • @johndelapena3484
    @johndelapena3484 9 місяців тому +830

    cosplayers receive a lot flak for not LITERALLY BEING THE SAME RACE/GENDER/HEIGHT/WEIGHT as their characters.
    I hosted a TF2 meet up at anime los angeles and we got great pictures and had a lot of fun. but people online were roasting on the demo man for not black, the scout for being a girl, and the medic being asian (that's me).
    Online, the pictures and group received a good amount of love, but also a few criticisms about physical features we couldn't control. It's dumb because it's cheap pot shots. we can't live up to impossible expectations as skymin says. our cosplays were on point but ughh people always have something to nitpick
    I hate that among gamers/nerds (no hate, cus I am one too), there's a loud minority behind a screen that lack social etiquette and aren't afraid to flame people who share their cosplays online

    • @skepticalskeptic7813
      @skepticalskeptic7813 9 місяців тому +77

      Hello! i was the scout at your meetup! i had a great time, in fact im NOT a girl and that just confuses me even more, despite this however no one should be called out for being NOT EXACTLY LIKE THE CHARACTER! i agree its really dumb

    • @Simboiss
      @Simboiss 9 місяців тому +4

      Being called Femscout is not flak, not an insult. It's just a name, that is justified because the feminine equivalent of the characters in TF2 do not exist in the original game.

    • @Foolisch
      @Foolisch 9 місяців тому +6

      Im cosplaying medic cause I cuz I can speak German

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 9 місяців тому +44

      ​@@Simboisssay you didn't watch/pay attention to the video without saying you didn't watch/pay attention to the video

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 9 місяців тому +22

      ​@@Simboissbro probably liked his own comment too

  • @calicobagels
    @calicobagels 9 місяців тому +84

    Femscout literally has a different shirt (there's a collar) to original Scout and yet people call you Femscout 💀

    • @FED0RA
      @FED0RA 9 місяців тому +3

      also longer handwraps

    • @orimoreau3138
      @orimoreau3138 4 місяці тому +1

      False, there is no such thing as canon femscout so you're

  • @Mohmar2010
    @Mohmar2010 9 місяців тому +190

    Being a Female in the TF2 community must REALLY be painful
    God be with you Scout, you got this

    • @eveleen.
      @eveleen. 9 місяців тому +24

      woman*

    • @MrAwesome457
      @MrAwesome457 9 місяців тому +12

      @@eveleen.female and woman mean the same thing. Woman is just a female human.

    • @ajente2o254
      @ajente2o254 8 місяців тому +2

      I heard that being oart of that comunitty is already painful, but i guess being a woman adds salt at the injury

    • @piroshk1968
      @piroshk1968 8 місяців тому +24

      being a woman in gaming spaces in general is pretty painful yeah

    • @MrAwesome457
      @MrAwesome457 8 місяців тому +5

      @@piroshk1968 Allow me to fix your statement: existing in gaming is painful

  • @dimentiorules
    @dimentiorules 9 місяців тому +443

    The weirdest thing is that there is an actual (fanmade) female version of the scout, and she looks different enough from the male version that it’s clear which one someone is cosplaying.

    • @MrRAGE-md5rj
      @MrRAGE-md5rj 9 місяців тому +2

      Unless that version is wearing pants.

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 9 місяців тому +58

      @@MrRAGE-md5rj ...Uh, Femscout is usually portrayed with pants. The ones with Skirts was a later addition.

    • @Aaa-vp6ug
      @Aaa-vp6ug 9 місяців тому +2

      @@MrRAGE-md5rjshort pants, correction.

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 9 місяців тому +14

      Most people don't even know about Fem Scout. So when people see a woman cosplay scout to them it's Gendetbent scout.

    • @mothichorror446
      @mothichorror446 9 місяців тому +25

      Fem Scout has a noticeably different shirt with a collar

  • @MechaEngineerGaming
    @MechaEngineerGaming 9 місяців тому +1143

    ofc itz always like them yapping that "you should cosplay (female character) instead" or "you can't cosplay as a man!! grrr!!"
    like stfu let me dress up as silly robot engineer
    ALSO, I’m surprised that no one knew I’m a girl when cosplaying a *””male””* character. I mean, I’m glad that I wasn’t assumed as the robot femgineer despite having a feminine body shape (since yeah, I was cosplaying him as is), but my gender gets assumed alot n that sux :(

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 9 місяців тому +29

      Is it same thing for race?

    • @Norsk1__
      @Norsk1__ 9 місяців тому +111

      ​@NormalGuy985 Very much, I've seen people get mad at things like that. 😭 It can be both rude, and just straight up annoying.

    • @STRANGER0243
      @STRANGER0243 9 місяців тому +17

      ​@@NormalGuy985probably, which says a lot

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 9 місяців тому +34

      @@STRANGER0243 damn, better I get prepared for those comments for when I post a cosplay in the tf2 sub, with my face blurred out of course

    • @blizz44
      @blizz44 9 місяців тому +27

      I know right. Let people cosplay whoever they want

  • @sealacious
    @sealacious 9 місяців тому +2170

    Cosplay culture can be so toxic. I'm sorry.

  • @Pygargue00fr
    @Pygargue00fr 9 місяців тому +55

    I am a guy and I never even realised this. I had always seen female mercs as new characters as oposed to genderbends in general. For instance, to me I had always imagined the cut female spy design as a spanish femme-fatal, while the fem scout designs look a tad more serious than our current scout is. And Granny demo dosn't look like she drinks, like at all.
    In the end people should dress as what they want as long as it's not harming anyone, including themselves.

    • @siyanide8666
      @siyanide8666 9 місяців тому +10

      okay I have to, HAVE TO say this. Granny Demo is a wine drinker you cannot change my mind--

  • @alang.bandala8863
    @alang.bandala8863 9 місяців тому +28

    Friendly reminder that the voice actor of Miss Pauling made a video years ago where she cosplayed as every TF2 character, simple times where nobody object...

  • @Blu_Moon_VA
    @Blu_Moon_VA 9 місяців тому +577

    No way, Scout TF2!
    Seriously though, I'm sorry you have to go through this. This is part of why I'm afraid of doing cosplay.

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  9 місяців тому +156

      Don't let it scare you away! I know it's hard to but try to pay no attention to this sort of stuff. Do it for yourself. Do it because you want to and enjoy it.

    • @Samstar369
      @Samstar369 9 місяців тому +23

      I understand the fear to cosplay due to the bad kind of criticism and attention. I strive for accuracy and wanting to look as natural as possible but honestly, the experience of putting together a costume is so fun and you should try to fight the negativity. Surround yourself with other people you know and can trust with cosplays. There are plenty of great guys and gals that can make cosplaying less scary and more fun to engage in as a hobby!

    • @linkscarlet9094
      @linkscarlet9094 9 місяців тому +8

      You should do cosplay anyway. It is fun.

  • @i8dacookies890
    @i8dacookies890 9 місяців тому +398

    I don't know why spelling errors in harassment is so funny to me

    • @HankMFWimbleton
      @HankMFWimbleton 9 місяців тому +77

      if you gotta bully someone at least do it right
      they can't and it's funny because they can't

    • @Chord_
      @Chord_ 9 місяців тому +32

      I'd give it good odds those ones in particular are written by 13 year olds.

    • @user-bx3kz9sp8p
      @user-bx3kz9sp8p 9 місяців тому +14

      REAL. Especially if they’re trying to call you a slur and misspell/typo it. It’s hilarious.
      (For clarification, slurs aren’t funny, I’m speaking from experience when people have tried to call me slurs and can’t spell them correctly. I start cackling lol)

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 9 місяців тому +12

      @@user-bx3kz9sp8p Another classic is spelling the word correct but managing to pick a word that is not the one they wanted. I ran into someone talking about an amendment to their country's constitution and going "THEY'RE RIPPING THE CONSTITUENCY APART" two days ago and it made me impersonate a hyena.

    • @ryanwillingham
      @ryanwillingham 9 місяців тому +5

      @@neoqwerty NOO! NOT THE CONSTITUENCY!! XD

  • @rynnie_boi4650
    @rynnie_boi4650 9 місяців тому +67

    Thank you for speaking about this issue in the tf2 community. I faced the same problem with my own Scout costume because I was apparently "too short" and "too chubby" to cosplay as him. Since when did dressing up as a fictional character mean you have to look exactly like them? Let people have fun in the communities that bring them joy!
    Great video!

  • @TheStrikingZebra
    @TheStrikingZebra 9 місяців тому +43

    Speaking as a Touhou cosplayer who is still a bit masculine looking… cosplaying as 2hus outside of Touhou spaces have been pain. I’ve definitely gotten lot of stares while at conventions. But man, I just wanna cosplay as a cool female character with a cute dress. Living in Bible Belt, I can’t wear dresses that often.

  • @jerryworshiper1587
    @jerryworshiper1587 9 місяців тому +305

    here's a funny story i once heard. this didn't happen to me, and i don't know this individual personally, but someone was cosplaying miss pauling in a convention. they were at the top of the stairs, and a scout cosplayer showed up. the miss pauling cosplayer said "hi" and the scout cosplayer leaned against the railing, said "hey miss pauling" and then fell down the stairs. she never found out if the scout cosplayer was doing that intentonally as part of the scout roleplay or not.

    • @zombieguns3773
      @zombieguns3773 9 місяців тому +53

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns3773
      @zombieguns3773 9 місяців тому +5

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns3773
      @zombieguns3773 9 місяців тому +3

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns3773
      @zombieguns3773 9 місяців тому +2

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @tbotalpha8133
      @tbotalpha8133 9 місяців тому +44

      That's incredible.

  • @shizar1072
    @shizar1072 9 місяців тому +241

    I still remember when a poor girl posted a medic cosplay on the reddit,just her in a normal 1 to 1 costume of the medic without any changes to make it more feminine or "sexy",and the community acted so weird about it she had to take down the post. I really hope she's doing better now and didn't give up on cosplaying..

    • @nightowl5332
      @nightowl5332 9 місяців тому +1

      In what sense are you saying "weird"?
      If its holny, then its also her fault.

    • @shizar1072
      @shizar1072 9 місяців тому +129

      @@nightowl5332 How in the fuck is it her fault? Like I said her cosplay was not sexualised in the absolute slightest.

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 9 місяців тому +28

      Yea that was “The incident” that I talked about in the premiere chat turns out skymin specifically avoided mentioning that but we all know it

    • @nightowl5332
      @nightowl5332 9 місяців тому +17

      @@shizar1072 whoops, i read "with" instead of "without".
      Sorry mate

    • @0verpricedcoffee553
      @0verpricedcoffee553 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@nightowl5332
      OP: "-just her in a normal 1 to 1 costume of the medic without any changes to make it more feminine or "sexy" "
      You: "if it's about being horny then its her fault too"
      look me in the ass and tell me you being fr rn chief

  • @apehawk
    @apehawk 9 місяців тому +327

    I think it's because the average TF2 player has never talked to a real woman

    • @Ash50250
      @Ash50250 9 місяців тому +49

      I think some of them never seen a woman

    • @misteriousgamers9290
      @misteriousgamers9290 9 місяців тому

      Woman? The fuck is that?

    • @SuperSonicbros4
      @SuperSonicbros4 9 місяців тому +4

      That or just because (maybe) Females don't play Tf2 (this is a joke that the entire Tf2 fandom and people that play Tf2 make)

  • @StormX6
    @StormX6 9 місяців тому +53

    I used to love cosplaying TF2 because anyone could be the characters. There could be multiples of the characters and your face, body, race, gender didn’t have to be the same as the character. I used to cosplay Medic, even though I’m Asian. You should be able to cosplay any character you want.

    • @FigureFarter
      @FigureFarter 9 місяців тому +7

      Exactly, I'm black but I would definitely cosplay as Soldier or Engi

  • @Jennacide.
    @Jennacide. 9 місяців тому +21

    The people who expect a cosplay to be sexy, are the same people to say "Yes, This red bikini top and grey bikini bottom is a Femscout cosplay :) "

  • @AngeryCrow
    @AngeryCrow 9 місяців тому +182

    12 years cosplayer veteran from Thailand here, yes this community is...indeed very toxic.
    Not to mention the creepy stalker, the critique, and other types of toxic people in this community.

    • @freshnewcungadero
      @freshnewcungadero 9 місяців тому +4

      Thailand is such a great country 🇰🇷❤️🇹🇭

    • @RealestKinga
      @RealestKinga 9 місяців тому +5

      ​@freshnewcungadero I agree! Many [great deals] and [[good company!]] And the food...better than what [Doctors hate him! One simple trick to] makes!

    • @dragonslayer7724
      @dragonslayer7724 8 місяців тому +1

      @@RealestKinga spamton

  • @dodsonboys
    @dodsonboys 9 місяців тому +273

    Honestly you could just call this video "Cosplaying as a Woman in general is FRUSTRATING"

    • @mk_gamíng0609
      @mk_gamíng0609 9 місяців тому

      100%
      Not a woman but have interacted with the scene a bit
      and the general reaction to female cosplayers is pretty bad
      Not dressed up slutty enough - You should choose a more revealing cosplay
      Dressed up in too revealing cosplay - Ughh there just trying to get attention from horny men
      Like I get it , Ive seen to many Low effort cosplays of succubus's getting attention from some truly amazing cosplays (Mainly at Japanese events tbf)
      But a cosplay can be both revealing ( meant to draw a viewers gaze in a sexual way ) and high effort
      And don't get me started on the entire boys cosplay vs girls cosplay shit
      - Boys cosplay is better because MEN
      -Girls cosplay is inferior because WAHMEN

    • @russianoverkill3715
      @russianoverkill3715 9 місяців тому

      Yeah, because most women cosplay just as a reason to dress up as hооkеrs, so there gets to be a stereotype.

    • @MrAwesome457
      @MrAwesome457 9 місяців тому +1

      Don’t cosplay a dude as a woman. It’s kind of a dick move. How would you feel if a dude cosplayed Lara Croft? You’d be upset, wouldn’t you?

    • @hello_ree
      @hello_ree 9 місяців тому +72

      @@MrAwesome457 why would someone be upset at a guy dressing like a girl character

    • @MrAwesome457
      @MrAwesome457 9 місяців тому

      @@hello_ree Because it’s a FEMALE character. There’s plenty of male characters to cosplay. The same applies here.

  • @bonic7217
    @bonic7217 9 місяців тому +130

    It's honestly a problem for both sides. While women cosplaying men often face harasment , men cosplaying woman are treated like jokes no matter what the intention of the cosplay was

    • @ryanwillingham
      @ryanwillingham 9 місяців тому

      nonbinary people are immune to the petty squabbles of the gendered (joke)

    • @Lawnmower_PVZ
      @Lawnmower_PVZ Місяць тому

      Proof that gender aren't balanced and not fair

  • @BluBugg13
    @BluBugg13 9 місяців тому +18

    As a female, i too would love to cosplay as more male characters. I cosplayed as Wrench from Watchdogs 2 and nobody knew that i was a chick. It was fun.

  • @ThatTravGuy
    @ThatTravGuy 9 місяців тому +10

    Thanks for making your thoughts heard on a platform as big as yours. This is a concept I've tried explaining to people in my own community and never felt like I could get through to folks.

  • @Ethaniel1999
    @Ethaniel1999 9 місяців тому +76

    Male? Female? What's the difference, we're Mercenaries!

    • @myniko
      @myniko 9 місяців тому

      Killing for gravel is a gender neutral activity

  • @Nightdreamr
    @Nightdreamr 9 місяців тому +54

    And then those people wonder why they "can't talk to girls". Maybe if they talked to them like they were fellow human beings rather than mythical creatures or subhumans they wouldn't have so much trouble?

    • @MonkiFI
      @MonkiFI 3 місяці тому

      Idk man, being lied to just hurts a little bit too much.

    • @temmie9430
      @temmie9430 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@MonkiFIjust because someone is not wearing a card displyaing their gender to you does not mean you are being lied to.

  • @theunusuallee
    @theunusuallee 9 місяців тому +353

    Going to get in here early and say thank you for the opportunity to be a part of this video :) I know people with have opinions on the topic but I'm proud of you for talking about it as I know it isn't easy :)
    I absolutely adore the TF2 cosplay community and I am so happy it's still around and actually growing and thriving even after all this time
    You look incredible in all of your cosplays and I cant wait to see what you create next (Not sure there's anything that can quite top Francis the talking France though)
    💖💖💖

    • @toakongu1
      @toakongu1 9 місяців тому +4

      Your Tracer/Scout combo look blends them both perfectly.

    • @WestEditz4Life
      @WestEditz4Life 9 місяців тому

      ​@@toakongu1agreed

    • @Samstar369
      @Samstar369 9 місяців тому +1

      Yo i thought your cosplays were awesome and especially funny for the sink sniper pic, you definitely nailed that sniper pissed off look!

    • @nickmilano2516
      @nickmilano2516 9 місяців тому

      i farted out pee

  • @cable_g0re
    @cable_g0re 9 місяців тому +10

    the thing that frustrates me the most is that at the end of the day, cosplay is a form of self expression, and so many people forget that. like there's usually /some/ intent to go for accuracy when making a cosplay in general, but we do it for fun and because we like a character, regardless of if you are the same gender or race or skin tone or height or size. one of my favorite parts of cosplay is seeing all the different versions of a character by different people and the unique spins that were put on their designs n all that.

  • @yazidefirenze
    @yazidefirenze 9 місяців тому +45

    I see cap, red tshirt and pants and I think
    "DAS A SCOUT!"

    • @waterburgr
      @waterburgr 9 місяців тому +2

      I see gaping mouth, unkept neckbeard and soylent and i think "DAS A SOIJAK" LOL!

    • @yazidefirenze
      @yazidefirenze 9 місяців тому +2

      @@waterburgr I see bipedal ability, feathers and a beak and I think
      "DAS A BIRD OF A SPECIES AND GENUS I DO NOT KNOW"

    • @bradentheman1373
      @bradentheman1373 9 місяців тому +2

      same lmao

    • @toomanydum4084
      @toomanydum4084 3 місяці тому

      @@yazidefirenze BEHOLD! A MAN!

    • @yazidefirenze
      @yazidefirenze 3 місяці тому

      @@toomanydum4084 Okay Diogenes

  • @catswork
    @catswork 9 місяців тому +36

    i feel like cosplay consistently has an issue with knowing of the individual doing the cosplay and the cosplay itself, which can be pretty demeaning when people's individuality is ignored because it's 'part of the cosplay', but the real takeaway is that scout's short sleeves are rolled up.

  • @Erik-fn7kj
    @Erik-fn7kj 9 місяців тому +111

    I had the same damn reaction when I was cosplaying as RED Scout at my local convention as a tween 😭 I feel your pain.
    Amazing scout cosplay by the way!!

  • @waffles9733
    @waffles9733 9 місяців тому +105

    It always facilitated me how people think it's necessary to draw these artificial lines and boundaries to whether or not you are "allowed" to cosplay something
    This whole video covered the gender aspect, but theres probably a similar discussion to be made about races and body types
    So uuuh... just let people have fun with silly costumes

  • @tedgonzalez985
    @tedgonzalez985 9 місяців тому +13

    Goddamn, man, no one deserves that level of harassment. This is a great response, honestly. Don't let the idiots and creeps of the internet get to you. They're everywhere, and some will NEVER understand or stop commenting, so it's best to just ignore them for the most part, because nothing you say will get through their thick skulls.
    Yeah, you have some incredible cosplays. I've always seen your RED Scout and BLU Medic with the Vintage Tyrolean cosplays the most, but MAN, I didn't know about the other characters you've done. That's honestly one of the coolest Saxton Hale cosplays I've seen, like, it doesn't even matter that you don't have the build. It's so damn creative and smart with the flesh-colored tank top and chest hair over it. It really makes me want to see you do the rest of the mercs in your own style. Especially Soldier, IDK if you've done him yet.

  • @vindiesel6695
    @vindiesel6695 9 місяців тому +69

    Im a 6'4 pale Englishman, and you've given me the confidence to cosplay as the Demoman, Lucio and Mr T.

    • @Crainiac0_0
      @Crainiac0_0 9 місяців тому +15

      you're a very brave individual, I applaud your bravery in doing this.

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 9 місяців тому +10

      If you ever do the Lucio you're contractually obligated to make any footage of it have wubs in the background soundtrack

    • @pinkymii072
      @pinkymii072 8 місяців тому

      @@Crainiac0_0he's British, idk what makes him brave. British people do this all the time, and they're barely brave. Having nuance is the true mark of bravery.

  • @topcat59
    @topcat59 9 місяців тому +46

    Honestly communities will always put a high expectation for you to look a certain way when cosplaying anything and will get mad instantly when seeing something out of place, Whether it be your sex or your skin color.🐱

    • @siaa9992
      @siaa9992 9 місяців тому +7

      yes, thats the problem.

  • @chromemaskqurae1222
    @chromemaskqurae1222 9 місяців тому +148

    '...When I heard the first sentence, my anger was triggered... If a female cosplays as a male or a male cosplays as a female, it does not mean they're a feminine male or a masculine female.
    Cosplaying someone or something of another gender does not mean that that cosplay becomes gender-bent to fit the person cosplaying.
    Oh, this has triggered me today and will hope for the best that this will change. ' - Chrome

  • @samrosen482
    @samrosen482 9 місяців тому +217

    Sounds like some people out there need to go touch grass

    • @Kaboomboom498
      @Kaboomboom498 9 місяців тому +21

      The only thing they have touched is cosplay material

    • @HughMongusJazzhole
      @HughMongusJazzhole 9 місяців тому +7

      Bro some of us are touching grass while being toxic online at the same time. Ever heard of multitasking?

    • @Kaboomboom498
      @Kaboomboom498 9 місяців тому +11

      @@HughMongusJazzhole Most passive aggressive comment I've ever seen. 💀💀

    • @guigui4264
      @guigui4264 9 місяців тому +7

      @@HughMongusJazzhole bro needs to open his window and air out his room

    • @dreameva1400
      @dreameva1400 9 місяців тому +7

      @@HughMongusJazzhole You're still miserable.

  • @PuffPuffPomf
    @PuffPuffPomf Місяць тому +3

    THANK YOU!!!! As a woman who has cosplayed tf2 in the past this has been SO FRUSTRATING

  • @DelthinTheRanger
    @DelthinTheRanger 9 місяців тому +17

    Femscout wear a skirt and has longer sleeves, the idea that "any woman dressed as scout must be femscout" is irritating, they look so different

    • @eur0be4t3r
      @eur0be4t3r 3 місяці тому +1

      Or short pants as someone else mentioned

  • @Queen_Coda
    @Queen_Coda 9 місяців тому +303

    Cosplaying as a trans woman has it's own difficulties. I mean, I can barely play the game without getting kicked from the match simply for existing, but then i get EXTRA judged by people for wanting to cosplay male characters because inherently they see me as different to cis women, like somehow just because I changed my gender im now just not allowed to present as the opposite one in COSTUME???? It's so stupid

    • @sexygolfball69
      @sexygolfball69 9 місяців тому +57

      I had to stop playing tf2 because of this reason. Everrry time I used voice chat I'd get kicked.

    • @tessfairfield6435
      @tessfairfield6435 9 місяців тому +23

      Same. This is why I’ve never done cosplay even though I’ve wanted to for awhile. I’m grateful that uncletopia has been an inclusive space to play in

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 9 місяців тому +6

      That's a problem you have to deal with cause you chose to be that. You can't force people to accept something that affects them when you are present. It comes off has ungenuine and selfish.

    • @mothichorror446
      @mothichorror446 9 місяців тому +96

      ​@@SyLuX636please tell us how someone existing in your vicinity is them affecting you

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 9 місяців тому +5

      @mothichorror446 we have to completely change the way we speak for you, and talking about anything is a minefield. We have to be nice to ya, or else we instantly get demonized.

  • @Samstar369
    @Samstar369 9 місяців тому +35

    Dude, Sky’s Gibus Scout is just peak. I got almost distracted by the cool goggles wtf

    • @ricefarmer-kr4yv
      @ricefarmer-kr4yv 6 місяців тому

      Im a simple man, i see gibus google, i pick cloak n danger and say mine now

  • @RJsPsycho
    @RJsPsycho 9 місяців тому +30

    the gibus scout picture really brought out the feeling of seeing a gibus scout

  • @vicbaez
    @vicbaez 9 місяців тому +7

    The intro is like when dr. Hibert was dressed as dracula for halloween, but everyone tought he was blackula

  • @dourcream
    @dourcream 9 місяців тому +13

    as another scout cosplayer that is a girl. THANK YOU.

  • @Dat-Mudkip
    @Dat-Mudkip 9 місяців тому +153

    Womann: **exists**
    Cosplayers: "And I took that personally."

    • @RealestKinga
      @RealestKinga 9 місяців тому +15

      Every male in a six mile radius defaulting to "heh, I'm not like those weirdos, I respect women! Of course I still view every woman as a potential partner but still!! I'm not a superficial creep like other guys...btw what's your socials let's be besties teehee"

    • @LeonKlent
      @LeonKlent 7 місяців тому

      @@RealestKingaEvery redditor*

    • @orimoreau3138
      @orimoreau3138 4 місяці тому

      @@RealestKinga this guy gets it, this whole discussion is attention seeking + simping, pure cringe

  • @shapedsky0571
    @shapedsky0571 9 місяців тому +28

    Incredible insight on what it’s like to be a female cosplayer. This video did a great job coming of as informative instead of just ranting (though I could still tell this subject matters to you). Well done

  • @scarlett-moriko1543
    @scarlett-moriko1543 9 місяців тому +71

    The unwanted sexual comments that come with it too…never a moment’s peace.

    • @max3eey
      @max3eey 9 місяців тому +7

      "I'm a force of nature"

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 9 місяців тому

      What did you expect? A costume doesnt change anyone elses sexuality... Thats also the reason, that i am not attracted to Trans-women, with beards (or without beards) XD

    • @augustuslunasol10thapostle
      @augustuslunasol10thapostle 9 місяців тому +40

      @@felixmeier3298 tf are you yapping about? If you don’t have the discipline to not be a sexual harasser I suggest you go to jail atleast theirs people who are more receptive of you in their.

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 9 місяців тому

      ​@@augustuslunasol10thapostle Well, someone is grumpy... Shes still a girl, so some people will still be attracted to her, or make sexual remarks, thats just how some people are. How do you come to the conclusion i am one of them? Why imply that? Whats wrong with you? Thats f-d up dude... people have no chill...

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 9 місяців тому

      @@augustuslunasol10thapostle how did you get 3 upvotes?! XD
      All i said is that people like that exist, and because she is a woman, she will get targeted by some s*xual comments, wich really isnt a surprise, we are on the internet. BUT I spoke about attraction and you confuse it with s*xual harassment XD Learn how to read and what different words mean... I am not for s*xual harassment and also never took part in it... smh... i wanted to make a point that people that cosplay as "men", dont change gender and people that harass them, dont care if she is dressed as a man.

  • @Dayashii
    @Dayashii 9 місяців тому +21

    Its almost misogynistic that people decide to tranvestigate any woman that doesn’t have stereotypical features/interests.
    Kinda sucks alot

  • @jini235
    @jini235 3 місяці тому +5

    I'm a 5'8 skinny black girl and i cosplayed engineer at a recent convention...never again

    • @skarnus3000
      @skarnus3000 3 місяці тому +1

      Why not demoman then xd

    • @Clonebenjamin77
      @Clonebenjamin77 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@skarnus3000 Because they wanted to cosplay as the Engineer.

    • @FlorianEagox
      @FlorianEagox 3 місяці тому +2

      :( So sorry to hear you had a bad time!
      Please don't let losers discourage your from doing what you love!
      Any chance you got some pics of the cosplay? I LOVE to see engineers!

    • @weirdest_salem
      @weirdest_salem 9 днів тому

      I'm so sorry that happened, I bet your cosplay was fire! :)
      I'm sorry that you had to face the weird edgy incels and their bigotism.. Hope you're doing well!! 🩷🩷

  • @JohnNIneX
    @JohnNIneX 9 місяців тому +52

    It's honestly unfortunate that this behavior in the TF2 community is unsurprising to me.
    People should be able to cosplay what they want, and dress how they want just because they like a game.
    This is a really good video, and it's good that someone spoke up about this. Continue doing what you're doing.

  • @DytsyFrider
    @DytsyFrider 9 місяців тому +51

    This makes me think of how lucky i'm to always come across nice men and that are actually interested on my cosplay at the conventions

  • @jerryworshiper1587
    @jerryworshiper1587 9 місяців тому +73

    "seduce me" is a direct tf2 spy quote from an official valve creation, it's definently a joke.

    • @yomama2376
      @yomama2376 Місяць тому

      Well duh. She plays the game, she would know. She literally said a lot of these came off as jokes with that screenshot on screen.

  • @Hikkikomogirl
    @Hikkikomogirl 9 місяців тому +8

    I quite agree with all that you said in the video. I'm a girl and I've been thinking about cosplaying as a scout for a while now... I just haven't done it due to lack of time to put it together and out of embarrassment, I was afraid that others were going to criticize me for it.
    On the other hand, I screamed "OMG RAZPUTIN" out of excitement when I saw your cosplay of the minute 8:59 ^^ it made me feel genuinely happy!

  • @demi-femme4821
    @demi-femme4821 9 місяців тому +15

    Tbh I feel like most of the people who get mad about you doing this are transphobes.
    If we lived in a polite society, these chucklefucks would be banished to the woods expeditiously.

    • @PoProstuBoniacz
      @PoProstuBoniacz 9 місяців тому

      Now you are the one being mad saying nonsens bruh

    • @cjsantiago4035
      @cjsantiago4035 9 місяців тому +5

      Nah I think they’re just sexist, no need for a new word.

    • @realcopoolman
      @realcopoolman 3 місяці тому

      What are blabbing about

  • @Ded_Pat
    @Ded_Pat 9 місяців тому +19

    When the Uncle Dane cosplayer showed up at first, I audibly went “holy shit, Uncle Dane”. The End.

    • @Your_Local_Bushman
      @Your_Local_Bushman 3 місяці тому +2

      Same like that cosplay was cool and accurate as fuck 😭. why tf would people assume

  • @farisfetic1176
    @farisfetic1176 9 місяців тому +65

    "The gender could use a touch up" 😭😭😭

    • @DoseOfRandom137
      @DoseOfRandom137 9 місяців тому +10

      ah of course! my bad! let me just get a bunch of surgeries to be a guy just for a cosplay, should've thought of that before
      some people man

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 9 місяців тому +11

      Bro thinks that people have a magic avatar creator

  • @bobbybooshay5388
    @bobbybooshay5388 9 місяців тому +48

    I thought it was pretty obvious it was scout. FemScout has a skirt. Not pants. Usually.
    Atleast the ones I see in the SFM workshop.

    • @NCRVeteranRanger
      @NCRVeteranRanger 8 місяців тому +2

      She also has a different type of shirt collar than the male scout too.

  • @Waluigilover
    @Waluigilover 8 місяців тому +4

    14:03 “can I smell your feet”💀

  • @theredshift180sx
    @theredshift180sx 9 місяців тому +16

    This lokey reminds of this one black guy who cosplayed Luffy. And people kept calling him monkey D. Instead of Luffy and when he called them out for being racist, they just got mad and said it's Luffys name

  • @NerdelForkMente
    @NerdelForkMente 9 місяців тому +11

    I agree with all you say!
    I've been down this route to. I like to wear dresses or normal clothes (as a guy) and people just don't have any kindness. "Your not manly enough" or "why don't you wear it constantly if ur gonna wear it". Since when did clothing have gender norms???

  • @1odie2
    @1odie2 9 місяців тому +8

    I've been in the TF2 community for almost 14 years now, starting when I was 14 myself, the community has gotten better with age, but some areas definitely do need to grow up a little.

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 9 місяців тому +1

      Nah, this is a Cosplay problem than a TF2 problem. He'll most people don't even know about Fem scout. So when a female cosplays any Mercernary to them ots a genderbent cosplay.

  • @AdventureSteve7
    @AdventureSteve7 9 місяців тому +10

    The comments you shown on the video and the ones people are posting here really shows how infuriating it can be to just be a woman on the internet. These people do not understand the feeling of having to hear "You are just victmizing yourself" whenerver you talk about a problem or being afraid of creepy comments every time you post a photo of youself. People need to be more emphatic and go outside

    • @hanac5586
      @hanac5586 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah. A lot of people are willingly ignorant.

  • @FirstNameLastName-su1sl
    @FirstNameLastName-su1sl 9 місяців тому +11

    I'll admit, I was one of those people who just assumed that every tf2 cosplayer who was female was doing a fem cosplay. I think it was more because I couldn't tell the difference between the fem costumes and the original costumes. I just assumed based off the person's gender whether or not it was a fem cosplay. I also assumed that women cosplaying as male characters would be more comfortable as their female counterparts. Don't get me wrong, I am a TF2 player(at a measly 1000 hours), I am very familiar with each merc and what they look like. Thanks for talking about this! (p.s. Your Korra cosplay looks friggin amazing)

  • @hibye7373-gx8zi
    @hibye7373-gx8zi 9 місяців тому +16

    4:35 you not only cosplayed as scout, you did one of those gmod faces perfectly☠️

  • @somedude3314
    @somedude3314 9 місяців тому +16

    Beep boop, as a robot, I agree with this message.

    • @goodboi6329
      @goodboi6329 9 місяців тому +4

      Wait... Guys he's not a robot, get him!

  • @toakongu1
    @toakongu1 9 місяців тому +24

    8:33 that smile is terrifying and accurate. Sent shivers down my spine

  • @swgclips03
    @swgclips03 9 місяців тому +42

    Your costume is inaccurate, there is no Boston accent and you haven't ran fast enough.

    • @random_gay_transfem
      @random_gay_transfem 9 місяців тому +4

      maybe she needs to try the energy drink from peter griffin

    • @Cassieyipyip
      @Cassieyipyip 9 місяців тому +4

      I love this joke 😭

    • @no_social_life
      @no_social_life 3 місяці тому

      costume inaccurate, needs to be a child liker. accuracy first.

    • @weirdest_salem
      @weirdest_salem 9 днів тому

      @@no_social_life what?

  • @Smug_Wolf
    @Smug_Wolf 9 місяців тому +8

    9:00 WAIT, you're that Raz cosplayer!!! I've wanted to cosplay him for a while and I was sooo surprised to see so few cosplays for him. I remember looking at yours when I was searching for ideas on how to tackle his helmet. Never did cosplay him, but it's neat seeing you now that I'm into TF2!

  • @desu38
    @desu38 9 місяців тому +9

    This reminds me of Veridis Joe's problems with cosplaying. People be calling him "Niggato" and shit.

  • @nivenreed5118
    @nivenreed5118 9 місяців тому +12

    this is honestly the first time ive heard about this type of problem tho im not really in the cosplay community as many others i normally stay out of it because if i cant take part of it i feel like i wouldnt be a very good part of the community if that makes sense i just like to admire when someone gets a character accurate or just what people make as a whole

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  9 місяців тому +10

      You don’t have to cosplay to be apart of the community or enjoy what comes out of it!

  • @lazulenoc6863
    @lazulenoc6863 9 місяців тому +23

    Just watched the most passive-aggressive Scout ever. Then again, you also swore and talked inhumanly quickly (I know it was sped up but I don't care) so 10/10. And good job on the swimming!
    I like all your cosplays and it's pretty clear regardless of gender that you're the OG version of the merc, sometimes with some cosmetics.

  • @okamithewanderingwolf172
    @okamithewanderingwolf172 9 місяців тому +8

    Could definitely feel ya channeling the scout here at 8:00
    In all seriousness tho your cosplays are incredible, and I’m rather annoyed that this is a problem in the first place. I hope in the future we can endeavor to solve it tho.
    Hope ya have a nice day!

  • @BlueGibbus
    @BlueGibbus 3 місяці тому +3

    WOMANN or MANN, you can cosplay any character!!!

  • @Justapikachu577
    @Justapikachu577 9 місяців тому +3

    I don't understand how people say you are ugly or how you say you aren't attractive?? You look not only normal but very pretty! HOW CAN ANYONE SAY YOUR UGLY?? Im so confused

  • @KungFuPandafan100
    @KungFuPandafan100 9 місяців тому +72

    Being a woman in the TF2 community in general is frustrating. I always see players saying in the chat that 'women don't exist' and it's annoying. I know that it may be a joke, but it's still hurtful. Yes, there are female TF2 players. Yes, some of us may not be as good as most players. But guess what? There are male players who are also not good at the game. But I have fun even if I'm bad at the game. Even in 2024, there are still members in the TF2 community who are misogynistic. Not all of them are, obviously, but it doesn't make me feel safe.
    A few years ago, I was cyberbullied on a community server just for being a girl. They said the usual things. 'Go back to the kitchen', 'make me a sandwich'. And at some point, they went so far as to tell me to kill myself. It traumatized me so bad that I really was feeling suicidal. That's why for a long while, I would just play in practice mode. Nowadays, I do play on casual servers, and keep a low profile.

    • @flamingpaxtsc
      @flamingpaxtsc 9 місяців тому +18

      I’m very sorry those players told you such horrible things. FPS games have such terrible people sometimes

    • @drunk_famasmf5135
      @drunk_famasmf5135 9 місяців тому +19

      Sorry you had to go throw this, they probably just project those jokes and that additude towards women because they themselves never had a female friend or a girlfriend. It hurts to never have someone you can love, but that shouldn't poison other people's lies. I hope you'll have a great time at tf2

    • @Retronomicon18
      @Retronomicon18 9 місяців тому +24

      Yeah, I understand you. I’m a woman myself, and I’ve had to deal with men saying that “you can’t like TF2/Valve games, because you’re a woman!” It’s utter nonsense, because they don’t have girlfriends or female friends. The only women who want to get within 3 feet of them are their female relatives.

    • @max3eey
      @max3eey 9 місяців тому +3

      Mass murderers are usually gamers yknow

    • @reindrops-izm33
      @reindrops-izm33 9 місяців тому +7

      Tbh, this is kinda why I use a gender-neutral name or some silly name. Only 1 time I got someone asking if I was a girl but I didn't reply cuz I left the server asap after the match. Even when I used VC, never had a "is that a girl?!" in chat or VC

  • @karabiner002
    @karabiner002 9 місяців тому +18

    It's great you've touched on this topic. I've seen a few controversies online where TF2 fans just go over the top in poking and harassing female cosplayers. Either directly or indirectly. It's something that does need to be addressed, as well as the lack of respect to female TF2 fans I have seen in general.
    Also - OH MY GOD that sun-on-a-stick prop is AMAZING- Did you make it yourself or was it commissioned. Because I NEED one!

  • @arvidhansen5892
    @arvidhansen5892 8 місяців тому +5

    kinda kringe not to get ftm bottom surgery and hormone therapy for a cosplay ngl

  • @Emperor-Quill
    @Emperor-Quill 9 місяців тому +4

    God forbid a woman do anything, I guess 💀
    The cosplay community can be so toxic in general tbh. The ONLY reason I haven't started doing cosplay is because I already know I'd get harassed for being Not White.
    Like I'm sure a lot of people in the community are actually pretty normal but I'd be a liar if I said there wasn't an extremely vocal group of losers that gatekeep their blorbos by attacking anyone who doesn't fit their exact idea as to what that type of person is "allowed" to cosplay them.
    Great video, also holy shit? Pseudoregalia BGM??? Incredible taste.

  • @anoth112
    @anoth112 9 місяців тому +5

    And then there's the double standard to it - I have cosplayed female characters, yet not ONCE have I heard 'oh it's Millia Rage as a guy' or 'MascBaiken' because it seems the chronically online side of the cosplay community only cares when it's a woman doing it. In fact, whilst it seems from what I've noticed that women get called out for/insulted for minor discrepancies in outfit or just cosplaying a male character, I've only ever gotten laughs and compliments for it, which is both a sad double standard and a reminder of why I generally keep my cosplay to events and away from the internet, and tend to stick to cosplaying men when I do want to post something because I'm conscious of the discrepant reactions.

  • @pixelperfect9111
    @pixelperfect9111 9 місяців тому +29

    Tf2 tends to have the best and worst humanity has to offer. Keep doing what you love hun.

  • @atomoaiV
    @atomoaiV 5 місяців тому +5

    at 0:15 i said scout yet they still want that i have a conversation with my therapist

  • @Phs.1053
    @Phs.1053 9 місяців тому +5

    “Can I smell your feet”…Im sorry WHAT THE HELL!?!

  • @J4CKNO1R
    @J4CKNO1R 9 місяців тому +8

    No, you obviously have to learn to double jump to become a Scout cosplayer!

  • @Deckofmanycards
    @Deckofmanycards 7 місяців тому +3

    17:59 tracer scout also know TROUT
    Also you helped me get inspired to make a tf2 cosplay thank you and I hope your channel continues to grow and GROW!

  • @jojonono2679
    @jojonono2679 9 місяців тому +9

    Great video. Thank you for informing and educating those who may not have realized they were being disrespectful.

  • @tam5tam_
    @tam5tam_ 9 місяців тому +17

    What do you use for scouts bandage hands? I've been wanting to cosplay as him for a while but I can't find anything.

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  9 місяців тому +34

      They’re boxing hand wraps. Please never use sports tape. It’s not reusable and doesn’t breathe. Boxing hand wraps are 100% the way to go because they’re made to be reusable and engineered properly stay on and be breathable.

    • @tam5tam_
      @tam5tam_ 9 місяців тому +2

      thank you so much! love the content, the cosplays, all of it. keep it up!

  • @justicetheawesomedemon1229
    @justicetheawesomedemon1229 9 місяців тому +4

    I've been cosplaying for a fare few years now and never had a negative interaction (but i know it will happen one day), i always strive to be the nicest person to everyone i meet and hearing this kinda broke my heart, to know that people can say things like that is sad...so to whomever might read this dont let some jerk ruin your fun, keep your head high and cosplay whoever you like!!!

  • @therealaquariuss
    @therealaquariuss 9 місяців тому +11

    WHAT???? WOMAN AS... SCOUT???? IMPOSSIBLE!!! EVERYBODY KNOWS WOMEN CANT HAVE FUN!!!

    • @waterburgr
      @waterburgr 9 місяців тому +1

      so. heckin. true. bestie. you are so valid! btw what is your wives bull doing now?

  • @maeveesme8873
    @maeveesme8873 9 місяців тому +3

    I've thankfully never been labelled a "femscout" much less a "demoscout" due to me being black. My cosplay specifically is the scout dress that was sold on the welovefine store back in 2020 during the funny sickness time. My cosplay changes literally every time I put it on, sometimes dawning a long wig and sometimes not (I have super short 4c hair that I usually have in a fade) and always faking a boston accent. I think it just depends on which side of the fandom you engage with because my little corner is super respectful and people who stumble upon my cosplay on insta are usually super respectful and surprised to even see a scout cosplayer in the wild nowadays!!