Cosplaying TF2 as a Woman is FRUSTRATING

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  • @SkyminSlash
    @SkyminSlash  11 місяців тому +1664

    Hey guys! I want to address and clarify a few things:
    1. I chose Femscout as my main example because it’s the costume of mine that has gotten the most exposure. This means it had the largest number of Feminization comments to pull from. However I’d like to make it clear that Scout is not the only one I’ve received these comments on. The predominantly male TF2 characters I’ve cosplayed have all received these types of comments to different extents and frequency. Scout was just the easiest to pull from (and record in). I probably should have included comments from my other cosplays (hindsight 20/20) but I had hoped that the comments I included from Saxton Hale would do the same job.
    2. Yes, I have a pony tail and yes Femscout has a ponytail (FemSniper as well). And I can understand some people thinking that ponytail = FemScout but what about a guy with one or with long hair? I’ve known my fair share of Scout’s with that and they don’t get questioned if they’re doing FemScout. Some have said I should hide my hair, which means I either wear a wig (which I have stated why I don’t and wouldn’t be worth it for this costume) or I hide my hair in the hat, the latter of which would be very uncomfortable to do considering the length/thickness of my hair combined with a headset that’s very tight to wear. I’m a firm believer that TF2 cosplay is very accessible to everyone regardless of their physical features. Saying I have to hide personal features of myself contradicts that belief.
    3. All my interactions with fellow TF2 cosplayers have been positive. They’re a legitimately great corner of the community. It’s assumed that these online comments likely come from people who do not participate in the community/hobby or are even familiar with it.

    • @Capiosus
      @Capiosus 11 місяців тому

      cool femscout costume
      this is a joke meant to make fun of how these kinds of people ignore everything else and make a dumb comment

    • @wanttoseea3892
      @wanttoseea3892 11 місяців тому +22

      Dont listen to the tf2 community on gender. You will only go 2 steps back for every foot forward.

    • @The_K1tten_Earter
      @The_K1tten_Earter 11 місяців тому +6

      Have you ever heard of the streisand effect?

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 11 місяців тому +23

      @@wanttoseea3892 The TF2 Community does not care about what Gender one is when Cosplaying. People have cosplayed as TF2 Characters for years, and nobody batted an eye at how the cosplayer was a guy or a girl. (Matter of fact, the Community finds it more humorous than insulting.)
      The fact that you try making this all about Gender Politics tells me more about _YOU_ than it does about the TF2 community as a whole.

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 11 місяців тому +22

      You'd be right on the last one. The Commenters who are against Women cosplaying as TF2 Characters usually turned out to have NOT played TF2 at all. They just look at the art work and just say "You have to be accurate".
      Those kinds of people, I feel, should not be listened to. They never played TF2 at all, or actually been a part of the community in the last odd decade or so.
      Matter of fact, if Gender truly was so important to TF2, we wouldn't have Fem-versions of the characters on the community servers... And especially not fem-versions of the TF2 teams all across the Gmod and SFM workshops. Those exist because people like them... And their ratings show how Positively people accept those versions.
      So if anything, those whining about your Cosplay? They either are those trying to start nonsense in the TF2 Community, or are just trolls... Which can sometimes be one and the same.
      This is how "Infiltrators" start to make a game decline, they basically turn up, spin a fake outrage narrative that _hopefully (for them)_ creates enough of a stink to force the developers to bend the knee to those people... Which only feeds their ego and causes them to shift the goalposts again and again until eventually, the Game Developers cannot cater to them anymore, the Loyal fans have long since abandoned the game, and the ones who crafted the outrage have abandoned the community... Much like Locusts having torn up what was once a lush and fertile land of produce.
      This is why I have a habit of calling such people "Locusts", or "Parasites", because that is what they are. I much rather just ignore those Parasites because that is all that they want, someone to create such a stink that the devs believe they are forced to act in ways that they should not.

  • @demzasdf1596
    @demzasdf1596 11 місяців тому +4992

    Don’t lie to me, you say you’re cosplaying as a scout but I know the truth you’re cosplaying as the spy

    • @somedude3314
      @somedude3314 11 місяців тому +242

      The last word out your sorry mouth will be “I am a spy!”

    • @miccool9ice363
      @miccool9ice363 10 місяців тому +118

      It’s the spy disguised as Skymin dressing up as the scout. XD
      Damn that got a chuckle out of me. Take my like.

    • @dimsthedimwit600
      @dimsthedimwit600 10 місяців тому +32

      @@somedude3314"Come on, I don't have all day"

    • @mechanicpluto2430
      @mechanicpluto2430 10 місяців тому

      @@miccool9ice363This Spy has already breached our defenses!

    • @RealProtonPrompt
      @RealProtonPrompt 10 місяців тому +29

      @@dimsthedimwit600 _Dramatic closeup shot as the Soldier's hand hits the Spy's face_
      *S P Y*

  • @chuckmann7127
    @chuckmann7127 11 місяців тому +5653

    Skymin: "This is a woman" TF2 Community: "Dear God!"

    • @Irken_Invader_Zim
      @Irken_Invader_Zim 11 місяців тому +519

      There’s more

    • @MrCybersnow
      @MrCybersnow 11 місяців тому +442

      @@Irken_Invader_Zim No....

    • @LieseFury
      @LieseFury 11 місяців тому +106

      @@MrCybersnow ...🤨

    • @UberDr009
      @UberDr009 11 місяців тому +301

      I have done nothing but teleport women for three days.

    • @sentineluno
      @sentineluno 11 місяців тому

      Where have you been sending them !!! ​@@UberDr009

  • @canibiso
    @canibiso 11 місяців тому +2532

    Some people are just weird honestly. The first time you posted your scout cosplay, I didn’t think “Oh, she’s cosplaying the femscout” I could tell right away that you were dressed as scout.

    • @artifactU
      @artifactU 11 місяців тому +14

      same

    • @Queen_Coda
      @Queen_Coda 11 місяців тому +15

      same

    • @tintouinseul6870
      @tintouinseul6870 11 місяців тому +65

      Same, didn't even understood the point of saying femscout, like I was actually searching for what made it "female"

    • @TheScout27
      @TheScout27 10 місяців тому +3

      Yeah same here

    • @Skeletin1
      @Skeletin1 10 місяців тому +3

      Wow really?!?!

  • @ShockedTaiLung
    @ShockedTaiLung 10 місяців тому +971

    Same thing applies to being black and cosplaying a non black character, people will just be like "Your cosplay doesn't work because your black" and it's actually so FRUSTRATING

    • @user-bx3kz9sp8p
      @user-bx3kz9sp8p 10 місяців тому +130

      Same thing happens to almost anyone cosplaying a character when they aren’t the character’s race, gender, age, body shape, etc.(example: white person cosplaying a non-white, or in your case black cosplaying non-black, Asian cosplaying non-Asian, the list goes on hehe) like bruv, it’s cosplay?? People need to calm down and let others have fun. Sorry you have to deal with idiots.

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 10 місяців тому +61

      FRR like am i supposed to magically turn white

    • @communismoclock9958
      @communismoclock9958 10 місяців тому +90

      I once saw a black dude cosplaying Alucard from Hellsing and I wasn't thinking "oh my god! he's black!", it was "holy shit this dude is massive" as he stood at a solid 7 feet tall.

    • @Gustoberg
      @Gustoberg 10 місяців тому +11

      ​@@woomy7.7 You can't magically swap the color of your skin?

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 10 місяців тому +8

      @@Gustoberg yeah man 😞

  • @blackjacked_xiii
    @blackjacked_xiii 10 місяців тому +558

    I remember seeing an extremely buff dude cosplay as Lara Croft.

  • @kuddlesgamergirl
    @kuddlesgamergirl 11 місяців тому +1832

    If a guy is allowed to wear a skirt, cat ears, and other female clothing because they wanna dress up as their favorite anime waifu, then I don't see the problem if a girl wants to dress up as Macho Man Randy Savage.

    • @ThreePanz
      @ThreePanz 11 місяців тому +54

      Facts

    • @prouddegenerates9056
      @prouddegenerates9056 10 місяців тому +35

      Yeah, but they are called femboys or ladyboys. They are not necessarily hated.

    • @kaylemathewcomendador6964
      @kaylemathewcomendador6964 10 місяців тому +106

      IDK, I’ve encountered male anime fans that don’t take kindly to femboys that crossdress before.

    • @ArbitraryOutcome
      @ArbitraryOutcome 10 місяців тому

      @@kaylemathewcomendador6964 Nowadays it's the inverse where effeminate males or masc-presenting people get fetishized to oblivion. It's not a problem to have a type or preference at all, it's just I see many "femboy" characters (or just the femboy label as expression) being reduced to hypersexuality.

    • @hyp0thermic_tensi0n
      @hyp0thermic_tensi0n 10 місяців тому

      ​@@prouddegenerates9056well they are fetishized

  • @thedevilisaloser666
    @thedevilisaloser666 11 місяців тому +3173

    I saw your cosplay. I didn't think Femscout. I didn't think Scout.
    I fucking thought "Oh wow, Jerma"

  • @Jontohil2
    @Jontohil2 11 місяців тому +994

    Getting labeled with things you’re actively trying to not be put into is incredibly frustrating (especially being labelled as trans just because you aren’t conveniently feminine) Good on you for doing this, because making something about a pent up frustration without coming off as a douche isn’t easy.

    • @typicalgentleman
      @typicalgentleman 11 місяців тому +16

      I failed at resisting the urge to reply to your comment because I like your content.

    • @TheManWatchingUnderYourBed
      @TheManWatchingUnderYourBed 11 місяців тому

      SPY HAS NO GUN, DO NOT BELIEVE HIS LIES!

    • @omnisel
      @omnisel 11 місяців тому +4

      It's a lot like when you're called australian!!
      jk

    • @datonebluemew3320
      @datonebluemew3320 10 місяців тому +1

      It's insane that transphobes go so far to ruin the lives of people including those they claim to care for

    • @batisphere1168
      @batisphere1168 10 місяців тому +7

      it's not easy to reply with "spy has a gun" so i will just tip my hat to you and say 'thanks' for spy tips

  • @rubyy.7374
    @rubyy.7374 10 місяців тому +764

    I wasn’t allowed to cosplay male characters as a teen because my mom thought it would make me transgender.
    …That’s not how that works.

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 10 місяців тому +76

      Man if that was how it worked the Naruto fandom would be so full of trans boys, given how many girls I've seen cosplay Naruto and Sasuke to record clips of themselves kissing to fuel the Sasunaru side of everything. (the fact that it's even A Thing still floors me)

    • @ZebraOnYourNose
      @ZebraOnYourNose 10 місяців тому +36

      It's so frustrating that some people still don't understand that dressing a certain way =/= being transgender

    • @piroshk1968
      @piroshk1968 10 місяців тому +19

      oh man.. when I was younger I would go to cons in normal clothes and take my cosplay to change into because my mom was on my ass about the same thing

    • @freezedriedzombi8242
      @freezedriedzombi8242 10 місяців тому +4

      Whaaaaat… Lol what.

    • @riv3rw4ter
      @riv3rw4ter 10 місяців тому +20

      I never cosplayed and still turned out transgender, checkmate over concerned parents

  • @furinick
    @furinick 10 місяців тому +2649

    Gender is fucking cringe we should classify people on how hard they can ball

  • @henryatkinson1479
    @henryatkinson1479 11 місяців тому +1698

    "Gender could use a touch up" holy shit I found John Dysphoria

    • @suckassmork2972
      @suckassmork2972 11 місяців тому +21

      😂

    • @JollyColb
      @JollyColb 11 місяців тому +31

      blud is funny

    • @jjprs3062
      @jjprs3062 10 місяців тому +7

      Creator of Dysphoria

    • @freddiefishton
      @freddiefishton 10 місяців тому +10

      Tell me where he is… I just wanna talk

    • @escapefr0mslender
      @escapefr0mslender 7 місяців тому +6

      @@freddiefishtonWhy do you have a shotgun??

  • @johndelapena3484
    @johndelapena3484 11 місяців тому +893

    cosplayers receive a lot flak for not LITERALLY BEING THE SAME RACE/GENDER/HEIGHT/WEIGHT as their characters.
    I hosted a TF2 meet up at anime los angeles and we got great pictures and had a lot of fun. but people online were roasting on the demo man for not black, the scout for being a girl, and the medic being asian (that's me).
    Online, the pictures and group received a good amount of love, but also a few criticisms about physical features we couldn't control. It's dumb because it's cheap pot shots. we can't live up to impossible expectations as skymin says. our cosplays were on point but ughh people always have something to nitpick
    I hate that among gamers/nerds (no hate, cus I am one too), there's a loud minority behind a screen that lack social etiquette and aren't afraid to flame people who share their cosplays online

    • @skepticalskeptic7813
      @skepticalskeptic7813 11 місяців тому +82

      Hello! i was the scout at your meetup! i had a great time, in fact im NOT a girl and that just confuses me even more, despite this however no one should be called out for being NOT EXACTLY LIKE THE CHARACTER! i agree its really dumb

    • @Simboiss
      @Simboiss 10 місяців тому +4

      Being called Femscout is not flak, not an insult. It's just a name, that is justified because the feminine equivalent of the characters in TF2 do not exist in the original game.

    • @Foolisch
      @Foolisch 10 місяців тому +7

      Im cosplaying medic cause I cuz I can speak German

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 10 місяців тому +51

      ​@@Simboisssay you didn't watch/pay attention to the video without saying you didn't watch/pay attention to the video

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 10 місяців тому +25

      ​@@Simboissbro probably liked his own comment too

  • @WaiGee_
    @WaiGee_ 11 місяців тому +1524

    tf2 players be normal to women challenge (impossible)
    also holy smokes that Korra cosplay is amazing

    • @able_archer01
      @able_archer01 11 місяців тому +177

      internet culture be normal to women challenge (impossible)

    • @giby8866
      @giby8866 10 місяців тому +53

      @timjohnathan internet culture be challenge (impossible)

    • @aliveashes4532
      @aliveashes4532 10 місяців тому +41

      ​@@giby8866Internet culture challenge (impossible)

    • @grenadier20
      @grenadier20 10 місяців тому +36

      @@aliveashes4532 internet culture be not normal to women challenge (easy)

    • @Aha_s_Fake_Emanator
      @Aha_s_Fake_Emanator 10 місяців тому +29

      Internet culture is mentally challenged (true)

  • @calicobagels
    @calicobagels 10 місяців тому +122

    Femscout literally has a different shirt (there's a collar) to original Scout and yet people call you Femscout 💀

    • @FED0RA
      @FED0RA 10 місяців тому +6

      also longer handwraps

    • @orimoreau3138
      @orimoreau3138 5 місяців тому +2

      False, there is no such thing as canon femscout so you're

    • @giby8866
      @giby8866 23 дні тому

      @@orimoreau3138 did you get shot mid comment

  • @Pygargue00fr
    @Pygargue00fr 10 місяців тому +88

    I am a guy and I never even realised this. I had always seen female mercs as new characters as oposed to genderbends in general. For instance, to me I had always imagined the cut female spy design as a spanish femme-fatal, while the fem scout designs look a tad more serious than our current scout is. And Granny demo dosn't look like she drinks, like at all.
    In the end people should dress as what they want as long as it's not harming anyone, including themselves.

    • @siyanide8666
      @siyanide8666 10 місяців тому +14

      okay I have to, HAVE TO say this. Granny Demo is a wine drinker you cannot change my mind--

  • @sealacious
    @sealacious 11 місяців тому +2212

    Cosplay culture can be so toxic. I'm sorry.

  • @dimentiorules
    @dimentiorules 11 місяців тому +471

    The weirdest thing is that there is an actual (fanmade) female version of the scout, and she looks different enough from the male version that it’s clear which one someone is cosplaying.

    • @MrRAGE-md5rj
      @MrRAGE-md5rj 11 місяців тому +2

      Unless that version is wearing pants.

    • @Victor-056
      @Victor-056 11 місяців тому +58

      @@MrRAGE-md5rj ...Uh, Femscout is usually portrayed with pants. The ones with Skirts was a later addition.

    • @Aaa-vp6ug
      @Aaa-vp6ug 11 місяців тому +2

      @@MrRAGE-md5rjshort pants, correction.

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 10 місяців тому +14

      Most people don't even know about Fem Scout. So when people see a woman cosplay scout to them it's Gendetbent scout.

    • @mothichorror446
      @mothichorror446 10 місяців тому +25

      Fem Scout has a noticeably different shirt with a collar

  • @MechaEngineerGaming
    @MechaEngineerGaming 11 місяців тому +1175

    ofc itz always like them yapping that "you should cosplay (female character) instead" or "you can't cosplay as a man!! grrr!!"
    like stfu let me dress up as silly robot engineer
    ALSO, I’m surprised that no one knew I’m a girl when cosplaying a *””male””* character. I mean, I’m glad that I wasn’t assumed as the robot femgineer despite having a feminine body shape (since yeah, I was cosplaying him as is), but my gender gets assumed alot n that sux :(

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 11 місяців тому +28

      Is it same thing for race?

    • @Norsk1__
      @Norsk1__ 11 місяців тому +112

      ​@NormalGuy985 Very much, I've seen people get mad at things like that. 😭 It can be both rude, and just straight up annoying.

    • @STRANGER0243
      @STRANGER0243 11 місяців тому +17

      ​@@NormalGuy985probably, which says a lot

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 11 місяців тому +35

      @@STRANGER0243 damn, better I get prepared for those comments for when I post a cosplay in the tf2 sub, with my face blurred out of course

    • @blizz44
      @blizz44 11 місяців тому +28

      I know right. Let people cosplay whoever they want

  • @Mohmar2010
    @Mohmar2010 10 місяців тому +224

    Being a Female in the TF2 community must REALLY be painful
    God be with you Scout, you got this

    • @eveleen.
      @eveleen. 10 місяців тому +26

      woman*

    • @Kingof-Cringe
      @Kingof-Cringe 10 місяців тому +15

      @@eveleen.female and woman mean the same thing. Woman is just a female human.

    • @ajente2o254
      @ajente2o254 10 місяців тому +2

      I heard that being oart of that comunitty is already painful, but i guess being a woman adds salt at the injury

    • @piroshk1968
      @piroshk1968 10 місяців тому +29

      being a woman in gaming spaces in general is pretty painful yeah

    • @Kingof-Cringe
      @Kingof-Cringe 10 місяців тому +5

      @@piroshk1968 Allow me to fix your statement: existing in gaming is painful

  • @alang.bandala8863
    @alang.bandala8863 10 місяців тому +52

    Friendly reminder that the voice actor of Miss Pauling made a video years ago where she cosplayed as every TF2 character, simple times where nobody object...

  • @i8dacookies890
    @i8dacookies890 11 місяців тому +422

    I don't know why spelling errors in harassment is so funny to me

    • @HankMFWimbleton
      @HankMFWimbleton 11 місяців тому +81

      if you gotta bully someone at least do it right
      they can't and it's funny because they can't

    • @Chord_
      @Chord_ 11 місяців тому +32

      I'd give it good odds those ones in particular are written by 13 year olds.

    • @user-bx3kz9sp8p
      @user-bx3kz9sp8p 10 місяців тому +14

      REAL. Especially if they’re trying to call you a slur and misspell/typo it. It’s hilarious.
      (For clarification, slurs aren’t funny, I’m speaking from experience when people have tried to call me slurs and can’t spell them correctly. I start cackling lol)

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 10 місяців тому +12

      @@user-bx3kz9sp8p Another classic is spelling the word correct but managing to pick a word that is not the one they wanted. I ran into someone talking about an amendment to their country's constitution and going "THEY'RE RIPPING THE CONSTITUENCY APART" two days ago and it made me impersonate a hyena.

    • @ryanwillingham
      @ryanwillingham 10 місяців тому +5

      @@neoqwerty NOO! NOT THE CONSTITUENCY!! XD

  • @Blu_Moon_VA
    @Blu_Moon_VA 11 місяців тому +596

    No way, Scout TF2!
    Seriously though, I'm sorry you have to go through this. This is part of why I'm afraid of doing cosplay.

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  11 місяців тому +162

      Don't let it scare you away! I know it's hard to but try to pay no attention to this sort of stuff. Do it for yourself. Do it because you want to and enjoy it.

    • @Samstar369
      @Samstar369 11 місяців тому +24

      I understand the fear to cosplay due to the bad kind of criticism and attention. I strive for accuracy and wanting to look as natural as possible but honestly, the experience of putting together a costume is so fun and you should try to fight the negativity. Surround yourself with other people you know and can trust with cosplays. There are plenty of great guys and gals that can make cosplaying less scary and more fun to engage in as a hobby!

    • @linkscarlet9094
      @linkscarlet9094 11 місяців тому +9

      You should do cosplay anyway. It is fun.

  • @shizar1072
    @shizar1072 11 місяців тому +262

    I still remember when a poor girl posted a medic cosplay on the reddit,just her in a normal 1 to 1 costume of the medic without any changes to make it more feminine or "sexy",and the community acted so weird about it she had to take down the post. I really hope she's doing better now and didn't give up on cosplaying..

    • @nightowl5332
      @nightowl5332 10 місяців тому +1

      In what sense are you saying "weird"?
      If its holny, then its also her fault.

    • @shizar1072
      @shizar1072 10 місяців тому +134

      @@nightowl5332 How in the fuck is it her fault? Like I said her cosplay was not sexualised in the absolute slightest.

    • @NormalGuy985
      @NormalGuy985 10 місяців тому +30

      Yea that was “The incident” that I talked about in the premiere chat turns out skymin specifically avoided mentioning that but we all know it

    • @nightowl5332
      @nightowl5332 10 місяців тому +19

      @@shizar1072 whoops, i read "with" instead of "without".
      Sorry mate

    • @0verpricedcoffee553
      @0verpricedcoffee553 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@nightowl5332
      OP: "-just her in a normal 1 to 1 costume of the medic without any changes to make it more feminine or "sexy" "
      You: "if it's about being horny then its her fault too"
      look me in the ass and tell me you being fr rn chief

  • @jini235
    @jini235 5 місяців тому +25

    I'm a 5'8 skinny black girl and i cosplayed engineer at a recent convention...never again

    • @skarnus3000
      @skarnus3000 5 місяців тому +1

      Why not demoman then xd

    • @FlorianEagox
      @FlorianEagox 5 місяців тому +8

      :( So sorry to hear you had a bad time!
      Please don't let losers discourage your from doing what you love!
      Any chance you got some pics of the cosplay? I LOVE to see engineers!

    • @weirdest_salem
      @weirdest_salem Місяць тому +5

      I'm so sorry that happened, I bet your cosplay was fire! :)
      I'm sorry that you had to face the weird edgy incels and their bigotism.. Hope you're doing well!! 🩷🩷

    • @MessiOlly8
      @MessiOlly8 18 днів тому +2

      @@skarnus3000seriously, thad part of the problem mate.

  • @rynnie_boi4650
    @rynnie_boi4650 10 місяців тому +77

    Thank you for speaking about this issue in the tf2 community. I faced the same problem with my own Scout costume because I was apparently "too short" and "too chubby" to cosplay as him. Since when did dressing up as a fictional character mean you have to look exactly like them? Let people have fun in the communities that bring them joy!
    Great video!

  • @apehawk
    @apehawk 11 місяців тому +352

    I think it's because the average TF2 player has never talked to a real woman

    • @Ash50250
      @Ash50250 10 місяців тому +50

      I think some of them never seen a woman

    • @misteriousgamers9290
      @misteriousgamers9290 10 місяців тому

      Woman? The fuck is that?

    • @SuperSonicbros4
      @SuperSonicbros4 10 місяців тому +4

      That or just because (maybe) Females don't play Tf2 (this is a joke that the entire Tf2 fandom and people that play Tf2 make)

    • @ricefarmer-kr4yv
      @ricefarmer-kr4yv Місяць тому

      what is a woman, is that the 10th class ? never heard of it, hope they will not remove it like how they did with madcap

    • @SauerkrautMan
      @SauerkrautMan Місяць тому

      As a tf2 player, I have never heard of a “woman” but they sound pretty cool

  • @jerryworshiper1587
    @jerryworshiper1587 11 місяців тому +333

    here's a funny story i once heard. this didn't happen to me, and i don't know this individual personally, but someone was cosplaying miss pauling in a convention. they were at the top of the stairs, and a scout cosplayer showed up. the miss pauling cosplayer said "hi" and the scout cosplayer leaned against the railing, said "hey miss pauling" and then fell down the stairs. she never found out if the scout cosplayer was doing that intentonally as part of the scout roleplay or not.

    • @zombieguns37
      @zombieguns37 10 місяців тому +55

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns37
      @zombieguns37 10 місяців тому +5

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns37
      @zombieguns37 10 місяців тому +3

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @zombieguns37
      @zombieguns37 10 місяців тому +2

      If that was Intentional bravo if it wasn't bravo

    • @tbotalpha8133
      @tbotalpha8133 10 місяців тому +46

      That's incredible.

  • @bonic7217
    @bonic7217 11 місяців тому +146

    It's honestly a problem for both sides. While women cosplaying men often face harasment , men cosplaying woman are treated like jokes no matter what the intention of the cosplay was

    • @ryanwillingham
      @ryanwillingham 10 місяців тому

      nonbinary people are immune to the petty squabbles of the gendered (joke)

    • @Lawnmower_PVZ
      @Lawnmower_PVZ 2 місяці тому

      Proof that gender aren't balanced and not fair

  • @Jennacide.
    @Jennacide. 10 місяців тому +26

    The people who expect a cosplay to be sexy, are the same people to say "Yes, This red bikini top and grey bikini bottom is a Femscout cosplay :) "

  • @yazidefirenze
    @yazidefirenze 10 місяців тому +51

    I see cap, red tshirt and pants and I think
    "DAS A SCOUT!"

    • @waterburgr
      @waterburgr 10 місяців тому +2

      I see gaping mouth, unkept neckbeard and soylent and i think "DAS A SOIJAK" LOL!

    • @yazidefirenze
      @yazidefirenze 10 місяців тому +2

      @@waterburgr I see bipedal ability, feathers and a beak and I think
      "DAS A BIRD OF A SPECIES AND GENUS I DO NOT KNOW"

    • @bradentheman1373
      @bradentheman1373 10 місяців тому +2

      same lmao

    • @toomanydum4084
      @toomanydum4084 4 місяці тому

      @@yazidefirenze BEHOLD! A MAN!

    • @yazidefirenze
      @yazidefirenze 4 місяці тому

      @@toomanydum4084 Okay Diogenes

  • @OHNOAAAAH
    @OHNOAAAAH 11 місяців тому +285

    Honestly you could just call this video "Cosplaying as a Woman in general is FRUSTRATING"

    • @mk_gamíng0609
      @mk_gamíng0609 11 місяців тому

      100%
      Not a woman but have interacted with the scene a bit
      and the general reaction to female cosplayers is pretty bad
      Not dressed up slutty enough - You should choose a more revealing cosplay
      Dressed up in too revealing cosplay - Ughh there just trying to get attention from horny men
      Like I get it , Ive seen to many Low effort cosplays of succubus's getting attention from some truly amazing cosplays (Mainly at Japanese events tbf)
      But a cosplay can be both revealing ( meant to draw a viewers gaze in a sexual way ) and high effort
      And don't get me started on the entire boys cosplay vs girls cosplay shit
      - Boys cosplay is better because MEN
      -Girls cosplay is inferior because WAHMEN

    • @russianoverkill3715
      @russianoverkill3715 11 місяців тому

      Yeah, because most women cosplay just as a reason to dress up as hооkеrs, so there gets to be a stereotype.

    • @Kingof-Cringe
      @Kingof-Cringe 10 місяців тому +1

      Don’t cosplay a dude as a woman. It’s kind of a dick move. How would you feel if a dude cosplayed Lara Croft? You’d be upset, wouldn’t you?

    • @hello_ree
      @hello_ree 10 місяців тому +74

      @@Kingof-Cringe why would someone be upset at a guy dressing like a girl character

    • @Kingof-Cringe
      @Kingof-Cringe 10 місяців тому

      @@hello_ree Because it’s a FEMALE character. There’s plenty of male characters to cosplay. The same applies here.

  • @AngeryCrow
    @AngeryCrow 11 місяців тому +190

    12 years cosplayer veteran from Thailand here, yes this community is...indeed very toxic.
    Not to mention the creepy stalker, the critique, and other types of toxic people in this community.

    • @freshnewcungadero
      @freshnewcungadero 11 місяців тому +5

      Thailand is such a great country 🇰🇷❤️🇹🇭

    • @RealestKinga
      @RealestKinga 10 місяців тому +6

      ​@freshnewcungadero I agree! Many [great deals] and [[good company!]] And the food...better than what [Doctors hate him! One simple trick to] makes!

    • @dragonslayer7724
      @dragonslayer7724 10 місяців тому +1

      @@RealestKinga spamton

  • @DelthinTheRanger
    @DelthinTheRanger 10 місяців тому +24

    Femscout wear a skirt and has longer sleeves, the idea that "any woman dressed as scout must be femscout" is irritating, they look so different

    • @eur0be4t3r
      @eur0be4t3r 5 місяців тому +1

      Or short pants as someone else mentioned

  • @tedgonzalez985
    @tedgonzalez985 10 місяців тому +18

    Goddamn, man, no one deserves that level of harassment. This is a great response, honestly. Don't let the idiots and creeps of the internet get to you. They're everywhere, and some will NEVER understand or stop commenting, so it's best to just ignore them for the most part, because nothing you say will get through their thick skulls.
    Yeah, you have some incredible cosplays. I've always seen your RED Scout and BLU Medic with the Vintage Tyrolean cosplays the most, but MAN, I didn't know about the other characters you've done. That's honestly one of the coolest Saxton Hale cosplays I've seen, like, it doesn't even matter that you don't have the build. It's so damn creative and smart with the flesh-colored tank top and chest hair over it. It really makes me want to see you do the rest of the mercs in your own style. Especially Soldier, IDK if you've done him yet.

  • @Nightdreamr
    @Nightdreamr 11 місяців тому +69

    And then those people wonder why they "can't talk to girls". Maybe if they talked to them like they were fellow human beings rather than mythical creatures or subhumans they wouldn't have so much trouble?

    • @MonkiFI
      @MonkiFI 5 місяців тому

      Idk man, being lied to just hurts a little bit too much.

    • @temmie9430
      @temmie9430 4 місяці тому +8

      ​@@MonkiFIjust because someone is not wearing a card displyaing their gender to you does not mean you are being lied to.

  • @chromemaskqurae1222
    @chromemaskqurae1222 11 місяців тому +151

    '...When I heard the first sentence, my anger was triggered... If a female cosplays as a male or a male cosplays as a female, it does not mean they're a feminine male or a masculine female.
    Cosplaying someone or something of another gender does not mean that that cosplay becomes gender-bent to fit the person cosplaying.
    Oh, this has triggered me today and will hope for the best that this will change. ' - Chrome

  • @theunusuallee
    @theunusuallee 11 місяців тому +355

    Going to get in here early and say thank you for the opportunity to be a part of this video :) I know people with have opinions on the topic but I'm proud of you for talking about it as I know it isn't easy :)
    I absolutely adore the TF2 cosplay community and I am so happy it's still around and actually growing and thriving even after all this time
    You look incredible in all of your cosplays and I cant wait to see what you create next (Not sure there's anything that can quite top Francis the talking France though)
    💖💖💖

    • @toakongu1
      @toakongu1 11 місяців тому +4

      Your Tracer/Scout combo look blends them both perfectly.

    • @WestEditz4Life
      @WestEditz4Life 11 місяців тому

      ​@@toakongu1agreed

    • @Samstar369
      @Samstar369 11 місяців тому +1

      Yo i thought your cosplays were awesome and especially funny for the sink sniper pic, you definitely nailed that sniper pissed off look!

    • @nickmilano2516
      @nickmilano2516 11 місяців тому

      i farted out pee

  • @vindiesel6695
    @vindiesel6695 10 місяців тому +78

    Im a 6'4 pale Englishman, and you've given me the confidence to cosplay as the Demoman, Lucio and Mr T.

    • @Crainiac0_0
      @Crainiac0_0 10 місяців тому +16

      you're a very brave individual, I applaud your bravery in doing this.

    • @neoqwerty
      @neoqwerty 10 місяців тому +11

      If you ever do the Lucio you're contractually obligated to make any footage of it have wubs in the background soundtrack

    • @pinkymii072
      @pinkymii072 9 місяців тому

      @@Crainiac0_0he's British, idk what makes him brave. British people do this all the time, and they're barely brave. Having nuance is the true mark of bravery.

    • @Nikotheleepic
      @Nikotheleepic Місяць тому +1

      Based as hell

  • @vicbaez
    @vicbaez 10 місяців тому +9

    The intro is like when dr. Hibert was dressed as dracula for halloween, but everyone tought he was blackula

  • @Ethaniel1999
    @Ethaniel1999 11 місяців тому +87

    Male? Female? What's the difference, we're Mercenaries!

    • @myniko
      @myniko 10 місяців тому

      Killing for gravel is a gender neutral activity

  • @TheStrikingZebra
    @TheStrikingZebra 11 місяців тому +49

    Speaking as a Touhou cosplayer who is still a bit masculine looking… cosplaying as 2hus outside of Touhou spaces have been pain. I’ve definitely gotten lot of stares while at conventions. But man, I just wanna cosplay as a cool female character with a cute dress. Living in Bible Belt, I can’t wear dresses that often.

  • @StormX6
    @StormX6 11 місяців тому +57

    I used to love cosplaying TF2 because anyone could be the characters. There could be multiples of the characters and your face, body, race, gender didn’t have to be the same as the character. I used to cosplay Medic, even though I’m Asian. You should be able to cosplay any character you want.

    • @FigureFarter
      @FigureFarter 10 місяців тому +9

      Exactly, I'm black but I would definitely cosplay as Soldier or Engi

  • @MoldySandwich88
    @MoldySandwich88 10 місяців тому +20

    As a female, i too would love to cosplay as more male characters. I cosplayed as Wrench from Watchdogs 2 and nobody knew that i was a chick. It was fun.

  • @cable_g0re
    @cable_g0re 10 місяців тому +11

    the thing that frustrates me the most is that at the end of the day, cosplay is a form of self expression, and so many people forget that. like there's usually /some/ intent to go for accuracy when making a cosplay in general, but we do it for fun and because we like a character, regardless of if you are the same gender or race or skin tone or height or size. one of my favorite parts of cosplay is seeing all the different versions of a character by different people and the unique spins that were put on their designs n all that.

  • @waffles9733
    @waffles9733 11 місяців тому +105

    It always facilitated me how people think it's necessary to draw these artificial lines and boundaries to whether or not you are "allowed" to cosplay something
    This whole video covered the gender aspect, but theres probably a similar discussion to be made about races and body types
    So uuuh... just let people have fun with silly costumes

  • @catswork
    @catswork 11 місяців тому +39

    i feel like cosplay consistently has an issue with knowing of the individual doing the cosplay and the cosplay itself, which can be pretty demeaning when people's individuality is ignored because it's 'part of the cosplay', but the real takeaway is that scout's short sleeves are rolled up.

  • @samrosen482
    @samrosen482 11 місяців тому +219

    Sounds like some people out there need to go touch grass

    • @Kaboomboom498
      @Kaboomboom498 11 місяців тому +21

      The only thing they have touched is cosplay material

    • @HughMongusJazzhole
      @HughMongusJazzhole 10 місяців тому +7

      Bro some of us are touching grass while being toxic online at the same time. Ever heard of multitasking?

    • @Kaboomboom498
      @Kaboomboom498 10 місяців тому +11

      @@HughMongusJazzhole Most passive aggressive comment I've ever seen. 💀💀

    • @guigui4264
      @guigui4264 10 місяців тому +7

      @@HughMongusJazzhole bro needs to open his window and air out his room

    • @dreameva1400
      @dreameva1400 10 місяців тому +7

      @@HughMongusJazzhole You're still miserable.

  • @demi-femme4821
    @demi-femme4821 10 місяців тому +17

    Tbh I feel like most of the people who get mad about you doing this are transphobes.
    If we lived in a polite society, these chucklefucks would be banished to the woods expeditiously.

    • @PoProstuBoniacz
      @PoProstuBoniacz 10 місяців тому

      Now you are the one being mad saying nonsens bruh

    • @cjsantiago4035
      @cjsantiago4035 10 місяців тому +5

      Nah I think they’re just sexist, no need for a new word.

    • @realcopoolman
      @realcopoolman 4 місяці тому

      What are blabbing about

    • @Nikotheleepic
      @Nikotheleepic Місяць тому

      How are they transphobes lol, how does that make sense, man seems like a word beloved to spew out

  • @dourcream
    @dourcream 10 місяців тому +14

    as another scout cosplayer that is a girl. THANK YOU.

  • @topcat59
    @topcat59 11 місяців тому +47

    Honestly communities will always put a high expectation for you to look a certain way when cosplaying anything and will get mad instantly when seeing something out of place, Whether it be your sex or your skin color.🐱

    • @siaa9992
      @siaa9992 11 місяців тому +7

      yes, thats the problem.

  • @Queen_Coda
    @Queen_Coda 11 місяців тому +311

    Cosplaying as a trans woman has it's own difficulties. I mean, I can barely play the game without getting kicked from the match simply for existing, but then i get EXTRA judged by people for wanting to cosplay male characters because inherently they see me as different to cis women, like somehow just because I changed my gender im now just not allowed to present as the opposite one in COSTUME???? It's so stupid

    • @sexygolfball69
      @sexygolfball69 11 місяців тому +57

      I had to stop playing tf2 because of this reason. Everrry time I used voice chat I'd get kicked.

    • @tessfairfield6435
      @tessfairfield6435 11 місяців тому +25

      Same. This is why I’ve never done cosplay even though I’ve wanted to for awhile. I’m grateful that uncletopia has been an inclusive space to play in

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 10 місяців тому +6

      That's a problem you have to deal with cause you chose to be that. You can't force people to accept something that affects them when you are present. It comes off has ungenuine and selfish.

    • @mothichorror446
      @mothichorror446 10 місяців тому +98

      ​@@SyLuX636please tell us how someone existing in your vicinity is them affecting you

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 10 місяців тому +5

      @mothichorror446 we have to completely change the way we speak for you, and talking about anything is a minefield. We have to be nice to ya, or else we instantly get demonized.

  • @Erik-fn7kj
    @Erik-fn7kj 11 місяців тому +112

    I had the same damn reaction when I was cosplaying as RED Scout at my local convention as a tween 😭 I feel your pain.
    Amazing scout cosplay by the way!!

  • @AdventureSteve7
    @AdventureSteve7 10 місяців тому +12

    The comments you shown on the video and the ones people are posting here really shows how infuriating it can be to just be a woman on the internet. These people do not understand the feeling of having to hear "You are just victmizing yourself" whenerver you talk about a problem or being afraid of creepy comments every time you post a photo of youself. People need to be more emphatic and go outside

    • @hanac5586
      @hanac5586 10 місяців тому +2

      Yeah. A lot of people are willingly ignorant.

    • @Nikotheleepic
      @Nikotheleepic Місяць тому

      Sticks and stones, I mean women do the same to men but to men its not an issue. If a man is attractive you will see women talking about it, if a man dressed like the average cosplayer that is to say not much at all i garuntee youd have just as many comments of that nature. Is it really such a big problem that people think you're attractive also i don't really see that in cosplays like these where they arent really sexual in any way.

  • @Dat-Mudkip
    @Dat-Mudkip 11 місяців тому +157

    Womann: **exists**
    Cosplayers: "And I took that personally."

    • @RealestKinga
      @RealestKinga 10 місяців тому +16

      Every male in a six mile radius defaulting to "heh, I'm not like those weirdos, I respect women! Of course I still view every woman as a potential partner but still!! I'm not a superficial creep like other guys...btw what's your socials let's be besties teehee"

    • @LeonKlent
      @LeonKlent 9 місяців тому

      @@RealestKingaEvery redditor*

    • @orimoreau3138
      @orimoreau3138 5 місяців тому

      @@RealestKinga this guy gets it, this whole discussion is attention seeking + simping, pure cringe

    • @Nikotheleepic
      @Nikotheleepic Місяць тому

      Arent most cosplayers women dor

  • @shapedsky0571
    @shapedsky0571 11 місяців тому +29

    Incredible insight on what it’s like to be a female cosplayer. This video did a great job coming of as informative instead of just ranting (though I could still tell this subject matters to you). Well done

  • @scarlett-moriko1543
    @scarlett-moriko1543 11 місяців тому +74

    The unwanted sexual comments that come with it too…never a moment’s peace.

    • @max3eey
      @max3eey 11 місяців тому +7

      "I'm a force of nature"

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 11 місяців тому

      What did you expect? A costume doesnt change anyone elses sexuality... Thats also the reason, that i am not attracted to Trans-women, with beards (or without beards) XD

    • @augustuslunasol10thapostle
      @augustuslunasol10thapostle 10 місяців тому +40

      @@felixmeier3298 tf are you yapping about? If you don’t have the discipline to not be a sexual harasser I suggest you go to jail atleast theirs people who are more receptive of you in their.

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 10 місяців тому

      ​@@augustuslunasol10thapostle Well, someone is grumpy... Shes still a girl, so some people will still be attracted to her, or make sexual remarks, thats just how some people are. How do you come to the conclusion i am one of them? Why imply that? Whats wrong with you? Thats f-d up dude... people have no chill...

    • @felixmeier3298
      @felixmeier3298 10 місяців тому

      @@augustuslunasol10thapostle how did you get 3 upvotes?! XD
      All i said is that people like that exist, and because she is a woman, she will get targeted by some s*xual comments, wich really isnt a surprise, we are on the internet. BUT I spoke about attraction and you confuse it with s*xual harassment XD Learn how to read and what different words mean... I am not for s*xual harassment and also never took part in it... smh... i wanted to make a point that people that cosplay as "men", dont change gender and people that harass them, dont care if she is dressed as a man.

  • @Dayashii
    @Dayashii 10 місяців тому +22

    Its almost misogynistic that people decide to tranvestigate any woman that doesn’t have stereotypical features/interests.
    Kinda sucks alot

    • @Nikotheleepic
      @Nikotheleepic Місяць тому

      Its not misogynistic, its literally a problem with people who love to use terms such as misogynistic transphobic etc because theyd say the same thing if it was a guy with feminine interests lol lgbt people have the same mindset as iranians considering what they do to crossdressers or homosexuals

  • @PuffPuffPomf
    @PuffPuffPomf 2 місяці тому +5

    THANK YOU!!!! As a woman who has cosplayed tf2 in the past this has been SO FRUSTRATING

  • @Samstar369
    @Samstar369 11 місяців тому +36

    Dude, Sky’s Gibus Scout is just peak. I got almost distracted by the cool goggles wtf

    • @ricefarmer-kr4yv
      @ricefarmer-kr4yv 8 місяців тому

      Im a simple man, i see gibus google, i pick cloak n danger and say mine now

  • @JohnNIneX
    @JohnNIneX 11 місяців тому +52

    It's honestly unfortunate that this behavior in the TF2 community is unsurprising to me.
    People should be able to cosplay what they want, and dress how they want just because they like a game.
    This is a really good video, and it's good that someone spoke up about this. Continue doing what you're doing.

  • @RJsPsycho
    @RJsPsycho 11 місяців тому +30

    the gibus scout picture really brought out the feeling of seeing a gibus scout

  • @Heavym_Etal
    @Heavym_Etal 19 днів тому +1

    honestly, i really love this video. as someone who's super new to the tf2 coslay thing, and who doesn't have the lanky stature nor the epic chops to pull off the ultimate sniper cosplay I have and will continue to dream of, it's nice to know that most people (over here in the community anyways) don't really care and just love to see a character from their favourite videogame.

  • @Smug_Wolf
    @Smug_Wolf 10 місяців тому +8

    9:00 WAIT, you're that Raz cosplayer!!! I've wanted to cosplay him for a while and I was sooo surprised to see so few cosplays for him. I remember looking at yours when I was searching for ideas on how to tackle his helmet. Never did cosplay him, but it's neat seeing you now that I'm into TF2!

  • @ThatTravGuy
    @ThatTravGuy 10 місяців тому +11

    Thanks for making your thoughts heard on a platform as big as yours. This is a concept I've tried explaining to people in my own community and never felt like I could get through to folks.

  • @bobbybooshay5388
    @bobbybooshay5388 11 місяців тому +51

    I thought it was pretty obvious it was scout. FemScout has a skirt. Not pants. Usually.
    Atleast the ones I see in the SFM workshop.

    • @NCRVeteranRanger
      @NCRVeteranRanger 10 місяців тому +2

      She also has a different type of shirt collar than the male scout too.

  • @jerryworshiper1587
    @jerryworshiper1587 11 місяців тому +76

    "seduce me" is a direct tf2 spy quote from an official valve creation, it's definently a joke.

    • @yomama2376
      @yomama2376 3 місяці тому +1

      Well duh. She plays the game, she would know. She literally said a lot of these came off as jokes with that screenshot on screen.

  • @Hikkikomogirl
    @Hikkikomogirl 10 місяців тому +8

    I quite agree with all that you said in the video. I'm a girl and I've been thinking about cosplaying as a scout for a while now... I just haven't done it due to lack of time to put it together and out of embarrassment, I was afraid that others were going to criticize me for it.
    On the other hand, I screamed "OMG RAZPUTIN" out of excitement when I saw your cosplay of the minute 8:59 ^^ it made me feel genuinely happy!

  • @FirstNameLastName-su1sl
    @FirstNameLastName-su1sl 10 місяців тому +11

    I'll admit, I was one of those people who just assumed that every tf2 cosplayer who was female was doing a fem cosplay. I think it was more because I couldn't tell the difference between the fem costumes and the original costumes. I just assumed based off the person's gender whether or not it was a fem cosplay. I also assumed that women cosplaying as male characters would be more comfortable as their female counterparts. Don't get me wrong, I am a TF2 player(at a measly 1000 hours), I am very familiar with each merc and what they look like. Thanks for talking about this! (p.s. Your Korra cosplay looks friggin amazing)

  • @swgclips03
    @swgclips03 11 місяців тому +42

    Your costume is inaccurate, there is no Boston accent and you haven't ran fast enough.

    • @random_gay_transfem
      @random_gay_transfem 10 місяців тому +4

      maybe she needs to try the energy drink from peter griffin

    • @Cassieyipyip
      @Cassieyipyip 10 місяців тому +4

      I love this joke 😭

    • @no_social_life
      @no_social_life 5 місяців тому

      costume inaccurate, needs to be a child liker. accuracy first.

    • @weirdest_salem
      @weirdest_salem Місяць тому

      @@no_social_life what?

    • @kzik3635
      @kzik3635 Місяць тому

      ​@@weirdest_salem scout cannonicaly is a child lover

  • @DytsyFrider
    @DytsyFrider 11 місяців тому +52

    This makes me think of how lucky i'm to always come across nice men and that are actually interested on my cosplay at the conventions

  • @Ded_Pat
    @Ded_Pat 11 місяців тому +19

    When the Uncle Dane cosplayer showed up at first, I audibly went “holy shit, Uncle Dane”. The End.

    • @Your_Local_Bushman
      @Your_Local_Bushman 5 місяців тому +2

      Same like that cosplay was cool and accurate as fuck 😭. why tf would people assume

  • @theredshift180sx
    @theredshift180sx 10 місяців тому +19

    This lokey reminds of this one black guy who cosplayed Luffy. And people kept calling him monkey D. Instead of Luffy and when he called them out for being racist, they just got mad and said it's Luffys name

  • @Justapikachu577
    @Justapikachu577 10 місяців тому +4

    I don't understand how people say you are ugly or how you say you aren't attractive?? You look not only normal but very pretty! HOW CAN ANYONE SAY YOUR UGLY?? Im so confused

  • @NerdelForkMente
    @NerdelForkMente 11 місяців тому +12

    I agree with all you say!
    I've been down this route to. I like to wear dresses or normal clothes (as a guy) and people just don't have any kindness. "Your not manly enough" or "why don't you wear it constantly if ur gonna wear it". Since when did clothing have gender norms???

  • @farisfetic1176
    @farisfetic1176 11 місяців тому +67

    "The gender could use a touch up" 😭😭😭

    • @DoseOfRandom137
      @DoseOfRandom137 10 місяців тому +12

      ah of course! my bad! let me just get a bunch of surgeries to be a guy just for a cosplay, should've thought of that before
      some people man

    • @woomy7.7
      @woomy7.7 10 місяців тому +12

      Bro thinks that people have a magic avatar creator

  • @KungFuPandafan100
    @KungFuPandafan100 11 місяців тому +74

    Being a woman in the TF2 community in general is frustrating. I always see players saying in the chat that 'women don't exist' and it's annoying. I know that it may be a joke, but it's still hurtful. Yes, there are female TF2 players. Yes, some of us may not be as good as most players. But guess what? There are male players who are also not good at the game. But I have fun even if I'm bad at the game. Even in 2024, there are still members in the TF2 community who are misogynistic. Not all of them are, obviously, but it doesn't make me feel safe.
    A few years ago, I was cyberbullied on a community server just for being a girl. They said the usual things. 'Go back to the kitchen', 'make me a sandwich'. And at some point, they went so far as to tell me to kill myself. It traumatized me so bad that I really was feeling suicidal. That's why for a long while, I would just play in practice mode. Nowadays, I do play on casual servers, and keep a low profile.

    • @flamingpaxtsc
      @flamingpaxtsc 11 місяців тому +19

      I’m very sorry those players told you such horrible things. FPS games have such terrible people sometimes

    • @drunk_famasmf5135
      @drunk_famasmf5135 11 місяців тому +20

      Sorry you had to go throw this, they probably just project those jokes and that additude towards women because they themselves never had a female friend or a girlfriend. It hurts to never have someone you can love, but that shouldn't poison other people's lies. I hope you'll have a great time at tf2

    • @Retronomicon18
      @Retronomicon18 11 місяців тому +25

      Yeah, I understand you. I’m a woman myself, and I’ve had to deal with men saying that “you can’t like TF2/Valve games, because you’re a woman!” It’s utter nonsense, because they don’t have girlfriends or female friends. The only women who want to get within 3 feet of them are their female relatives.

    • @max3eey
      @max3eey 11 місяців тому +3

      Mass murderers are usually gamers yknow

    • @reindrops-izm33
      @reindrops-izm33 11 місяців тому +7

      Tbh, this is kinda why I use a gender-neutral name or some silly name. Only 1 time I got someone asking if I was a girl but I didn't reply cuz I left the server asap after the match. Even when I used VC, never had a "is that a girl?!" in chat or VC

  • @Phs.1053
    @Phs.1053 10 місяців тому +6

    “Can I smell your feet”…Im sorry WHAT THE HELL!?!

  • @desu38
    @desu38 10 місяців тому +9

    This reminds me of Veridis Joe's problems with cosplaying. People be calling him "Niggato" and shit.

  • @okamithewanderingwolf172
    @okamithewanderingwolf172 11 місяців тому +9

    Could definitely feel ya channeling the scout here at 8:00
    In all seriousness tho your cosplays are incredible, and I’m rather annoyed that this is a problem in the first place. I hope in the future we can endeavor to solve it tho.
    Hope ya have a nice day!

  • @lazulenoc6863
    @lazulenoc6863 11 місяців тому +24

    Just watched the most passive-aggressive Scout ever. Then again, you also swore and talked inhumanly quickly (I know it was sped up but I don't care) so 10/10. And good job on the swimming!
    I like all your cosplays and it's pretty clear regardless of gender that you're the OG version of the merc, sometimes with some cosmetics.

  • @1odie2
    @1odie2 11 місяців тому +8

    I've been in the TF2 community for almost 14 years now, starting when I was 14 myself, the community has gotten better with age, but some areas definitely do need to grow up a little.

    • @SyLuX636
      @SyLuX636 10 місяців тому +1

      Nah, this is a Cosplay problem than a TF2 problem. He'll most people don't even know about Fem scout. So when a female cosplays any Mercernary to them ots a genderbent cosplay.

  • @Sillygoober104
    @Sillygoober104 23 дні тому +4

    Scout made me realize I’m Transmasc, everyone can be a mann

    • @PhoenixOfTheSkies
      @PhoenixOfTheSkies 22 дні тому +4

      a Boston mann is an odd one to realize from but congrats!!

  • @BlueGibbus
    @BlueGibbus 4 місяці тому +5

    WOMANN or MANN, you can cosplay any character!!!

  • @toakongu1
    @toakongu1 11 місяців тому +26

    8:33 that smile is terrifying and accurate. Sent shivers down my spine

  • @karabiner002
    @karabiner002 11 місяців тому +19

    It's great you've touched on this topic. I've seen a few controversies online where TF2 fans just go over the top in poking and harassing female cosplayers. Either directly or indirectly. It's something that does need to be addressed, as well as the lack of respect to female TF2 fans I have seen in general.
    Also - OH MY GOD that sun-on-a-stick prop is AMAZING- Did you make it yourself or was it commissioned. Because I NEED one!

  • @jojonono2679
    @jojonono2679 11 місяців тому +9

    Great video. Thank you for informing and educating those who may not have realized they were being disrespectful.

  • @Emperor-Quill
    @Emperor-Quill 10 місяців тому +5

    God forbid a woman do anything, I guess 💀
    The cosplay community can be so toxic in general tbh. The ONLY reason I haven't started doing cosplay is because I already know I'd get harassed for being Not White.
    Like I'm sure a lot of people in the community are actually pretty normal but I'd be a liar if I said there wasn't an extremely vocal group of losers that gatekeep their blorbos by attacking anyone who doesn't fit their exact idea as to what that type of person is "allowed" to cosplay them.
    Great video, also holy shit? Pseudoregalia BGM??? Incredible taste.

  • @hibye7373-gx8zi
    @hibye7373-gx8zi 10 місяців тому +16

    4:35 you not only cosplayed as scout, you did one of those gmod faces perfectly☠️

  • @pixelperfect9111
    @pixelperfect9111 11 місяців тому +29

    Tf2 tends to have the best and worst humanity has to offer. Keep doing what you love hun.

  • @nivenreed5118
    @nivenreed5118 11 місяців тому +12

    this is honestly the first time ive heard about this type of problem tho im not really in the cosplay community as many others i normally stay out of it because if i cant take part of it i feel like i wouldnt be a very good part of the community if that makes sense i just like to admire when someone gets a character accurate or just what people make as a whole

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  11 місяців тому +10

      You don’t have to cosplay to be apart of the community or enjoy what comes out of it!

  • @somedude3314
    @somedude3314 11 місяців тому +17

    Beep boop, as a robot, I agree with this message.

    • @goodboi6329
      @goodboi6329 11 місяців тому +4

      Wait... Guys he's not a robot, get him!

    • @youtubepleb
      @youtubepleb Місяць тому

      @@goodboi6329That robot is a spy!

  • @_crankster
    @_crankster 10 місяців тому +3

    This is a really good video and I'm glad someone has made a video on the topic. Also I think the guy in the top right corner at 13:58 might just be British since "Smashing" means like "Good" or "Excellent" over here

  • @maeveesme8873
    @maeveesme8873 10 місяців тому +4

    I've thankfully never been labelled a "femscout" much less a "demoscout" due to me being black. My cosplay specifically is the scout dress that was sold on the welovefine store back in 2020 during the funny sickness time. My cosplay changes literally every time I put it on, sometimes dawning a long wig and sometimes not (I have super short 4c hair that I usually have in a fade) and always faking a boston accent. I think it just depends on which side of the fandom you engage with because my little corner is super respectful and people who stumble upon my cosplay on insta are usually super respectful and surprised to even see a scout cosplayer in the wild nowadays!!

  • @PigeonLord
    @PigeonLord 11 місяців тому +9

    COSPLAY IS FOR EVERYONE!
    that means gender, race, body type, etc. don't mean a thing when trying to cosplay a character. (or really, they shouldn't)
    Cosplay is fun, let people just have fun!

  • @tam5tam_
    @tam5tam_ 11 місяців тому +19

    What do you use for scouts bandage hands? I've been wanting to cosplay as him for a while but I can't find anything.

    • @SkyminSlash
      @SkyminSlash  11 місяців тому +36

      They’re boxing hand wraps. Please never use sports tape. It’s not reusable and doesn’t breathe. Boxing hand wraps are 100% the way to go because they’re made to be reusable and engineered properly stay on and be breathable.

    • @tam5tam_
      @tam5tam_ 11 місяців тому +3

      thank you so much! love the content, the cosplays, all of it. keep it up!

  • @arvidhansen5892
    @arvidhansen5892 10 місяців тому +5

    kinda kringe not to get ftm bottom surgery and hormone therapy for a cosplay ngl

  • @Discriminated_Doffer
    @Discriminated_Doffer 10 місяців тому +3

    I hate people sometimes.. TF2's community can be amazing, and then it can be frustrating. I go out to a convention, I'm dressed up as my Scout loadout.. "Hey! Nice Femscout!"

  • @therealaquariuss
    @therealaquariuss 10 місяців тому +12

    WHAT???? WOMAN AS... SCOUT???? IMPOSSIBLE!!! EVERYBODY KNOWS WOMEN CANT HAVE FUN!!!

    • @waterburgr
      @waterburgr 10 місяців тому +1

      so. heckin. true. bestie. you are so valid! btw what is your wives bull doing now?

  • @TheMadSkull_official
    @TheMadSkull_official 10 місяців тому +6

    As a man i think i experienced kinda the opposite. Last year i cosplayed has Sadako, i during interactions remained mostly silent to stay kinda truth to the character and had my friend dressed has ghostface to basically talk for me.
    One time he has taking some pictures with some jojo guys when a guy in a cosplay of the main character of the witcher (i don't remember his name) came up to me and said that i had a nice sadako costume, to be polite i broke character and spoke to say thanks yours too and then it felt i was talking to a different person when he heard a man voice coming from a sadako costume he asked me why was i dressed as female character and not a male one. I awnser cus i like the Ring movies and Sadako. He tried to prove a point that because i was a man i couldn't dress has a female character because i was a man and especially after he complimented it.
    I got quite angry at that guy that if i could id send him a visit seven days later to see if he still has problems with my cosplay

    • @hanac5586
      @hanac5586 10 місяців тому

      That's so odd. Cosplay is just having fun with costumes, gender doesn't really matter.
      I wonder how he would react to that actress, Tilda Swinton, who played the 82-year-old man in the movie Suspiria.