CHILDHOOD SIGNS I WAS GAY
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- Опубліковано 11 сер 2019
- Childhood signs I was gay | Gay Kid | Gay | Gay Teen | LGBT Teen
Today I will be exploring all the childhood signs I was gay with my good friend Remy. Remy was one of my only friends who suspected I was gay before I came out. He's been a great friend and supported me coming out. He will be sharing some things he saw in me that made him question my sexuality/think I was gay.
Thanks for helping me out with the video Fen (Remy)!
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Remy may be straight (and you're really lucky to have a friend like him) but he looks at you with real affection. I think it's important not to ascribe the bonds of friendly affection and even admiration with sexual desire of any kind. There are many kinds of love, and the innocent love of true friends is surely the highest.
@@skzstarstruck1930 Not sure what you're replying to, Matilda. Certainly not my post.
Tristan You totally lucked out with your 3 best friends. Talk some more about the groups values, peer pressure and conforming.
Yeah, they're awesome. I'll have to talk more about them sometime.
Thank you for this informative video, and also it is very cool that your friend in the video let you know it is totally okay to be who you are and is a true friend.
Well presented. Great friends too!
Look at this channel Brock and Boston. Twins. Gay vs not gay. Mind blowing. The personal dynamics between them that they are willing to show is interesting.
Tristan --- LMFAO when you wondered if all boys tried on their mom's clothes. Remy smilingly gave a definite "No" while his beet-red face definitely said otherwise. Thanks, this was fun!!
i saw that as well. i wondered if Remy suggested that they have a few drinks, afthe the video shoot !
then said to tristan I shouldn't drink and drive. maybe we should have a sleepover like we used to have!
"i don'[t mean Wrestle and Rough House like we use to, unless for old time sake , you want to!
No Homo! haha
Totally relatable for me. This describes me to a tee, always into masculine energy, for both romantic and platonic relationships. I feel like alot of gay guys are afraid to live this way, because it really is tricky figuring out how to navigate the initial awkwardness inherent with straight friendships. It feels so good when those old friends you were scared to tell just accept you, like this.
This series really is entertaining. I just got back from my 45th high school reunion, and no one in high school (except my very DL secret boyfriend and a couple of other guys who I’d slept with) had any idea I was gay. This was the first reunion where I brought my husband of 40 years, and everyone was cool, of course. But I happened to overhear a conversation with several of the people who were questioning my 3 best friends that I hung out with all the time, and they were asking them, “So you guys didn’t know Randy was gay?” And they were like, “Nope, we had no idea.” The first one to suspect only caught on once I’d moved in with my husband and we shared a bedroom in a two bedroom apartment. I was planning on coming out that night to him anyway, and when I said, “I’ve got something to tell you, he said, “well, I think I might know what it is...”. After I told him and he said, “ya, I figured”, I asked him how he figured it out and he said, “when I got here and saw that you both shared a bedroom when there are clearly 2 bedrooms available, I thought ‘that’s not normal’. And then he quickly caught himself, saying, “no I don’t mean it that way, that you’re not normal....blah blah blah” and continued to dig himself deeper and deeper!
We laughed hysterically and it totally made it a fun - and relieving- coming out event for me. Lifelong best friends are just such a blessing and I am so fortunate to have some of the best. Obviously you are equally blessed...
That's a cool story! I'm glad you have some great, life long friends. They truly are a blessing. And I'm glad they were cool with you coming out.
"No holes barred, eh, Tris"? No worries you're one of us, now!
Yeah, those damn Red Ruby Slippers shouts every time. I started watching your content really soon after you started posting. I would have been super pissed if you had filled my bedroom with flour filled balloons. However, I wish I might have gotten to know you a bit better. I attended uiuc for 85 semester hours, but do to some undiagnosed medical issues, I did not graduate. I did graduate from SIUC! I just live about 90 miles from UC. I ramble. Best wishes for the rest of gay week.
Thank you. That's cool that you've been watching back since the flour balloon video. That was a long time ago!
It's nice to get to know you! I'm sorry to hear about your undiagnosed medical issues.
I’ll add not all men that dress up are gay that’s a bad stereotype. My brother used to dress up all the time in dresses etc when we were kids but he’s definitely not gay as an adult
Hehe. I think dressing in your mom’s clothes is a sign. I’ve never done it, but I have a LOT of gay friends that used to do that. 😜 And the rough housing, I always used to wrestle with the guys, but it was because I’m small, but strong, and I used to enjoy being able to beat guys bigger than me. What I’ve never understood was gay guys who like straight guys...I’ve NEVER had any attraction to any of my straight friends.
Holy Mary Joseph and the Camel. In case someone else misheard - Tristan and his cousin would have SNACKS !
I've got a couple of friends who are. Their eye for details is superior to mine & they (for some reason) keep picking pollen or lint from my shirt/sweater that I didn't notice. What does this mean?
Tbh, the childhood sign that I was gay was attraction to men instead of women. At the gym, I was always in this play pen while my dad worked out (I was 5-8 years old when I went to the play pen. Then I stopped going to the play pen). Women and men worked out there, but I had eyes for the men. My brothers were there watching the women, admiring them. I remember just watching handsome guys lifting weights instead of playing (I'm sorry that I was so weird). When I watched TV shows, I noticed myself liking the man characters. My first ever TV crush was on Finn Hudson from Glee when I was 5. In Elementary school (Yes, Kindergarten through 5th grade), I had a "girlfriend" every year to try and "be a real man". This was mainly to impress my dad who was openly Homophobic. It could have been because I was a little kid, but felt nothing with the girls. I saw every girl as a friend, I made friends with them. When I saw a handsome guy, I had butterflies in my stomach and felt like impressing him. Especially when we did sports activities in gym class. I had my first official crush on guy in 3rd grade, knowing way before then I liked guys. It was on a kid named Simon. We were friends and looked up to eachother. I also had a crush on this Karate assistant instructor in 3rd grade. His name was Brandon. I felt safe around him, I felt different, I felt like I could be myself. I thought he was the handsomest man I had ever seen. I felt something different with a guy rather than a girl, I thought it was weird. I resented myself for it during middle school and freshman year of Highschool. I then started to love every aspect of myself. I actually still friends with my "girlfriend" from 1st and half of 2nd grade. He is FTM trans and he was the first person I came out to. He helped me begin to love myself for who I was. I came out to him a year before anyone else knew. I hid it for a long time until 4 days before my 16th birthday (came out on February 4, 2021). So, those were my childhood signs.
Didnt know, didnt care.. you seem like a nice, genuine person. Im glad you are enjoying your time in Oz.. (especially with the craziness in the USA atm)..
I appreciate that! And yes I am enjoying the heck out of Aus. You have no idea how happy I am to be here (especially with the whole covid thing)
@@TristanKuhn some of my most loved people on the planet are LGBTI.. I hope you find yourself a nice Aussie guy and enjoy your life here.. ;) Cheers mate..
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
@@brianhardwick4673 you did WHAT?? What a complete breach of your sons privacy and rights.. Horrendous... Its no-ones right but HIS to express his sexuality when HE is comfortable.. NOT YOURS..
@@brianhardwick4673 and "the way he behaved".. I am just speechless that ANY parent would do this..
When I wrestled and rough housed with my buddies, It always felt like it needed to be private and not seen by others.
i wondered if Remy suggested that they have a few drinks, afthe the video shoot !
then said to tristan I shouldn't drink and drive. maybe we should have a sleepover like we used to have!
"i don'[t mean Wrestle and Rough House like we use to, unless for old time sake , you want to!
No Homo! haha
Same I was always shy to wrestle with guys in public even though everyone else was.
In Grade 4 I only hung out with girls because I liked skipping and wasn't interested in football (Australian Rules). That generated a firestorm of resentment among a couple of the boys who teased me horribly. But I was incredibly stubborn and refused to fall in line. In Grade 5 I spent a lot of lunch times in the library with a buddy. We'd check out a portable cassette player and listen to ABBA. I guess those were two pretty bright red lights. But when I finally came out age 19, even my closest friends were shocked. I thought the whole world could tell, but literally no one had any idea whatsoever.
Hi Tristan. Are you still in Australia? If so apply for permanency. We need positive happy people like you.
lol
I don’t think there were any giant signs I was gay when I was younger. I never really thought about it until now. I’m only 14 years old, and fresh out of the closet. So far everyone I’ve told has been for the most part supportive (one of my friends is... misguided at best on what being gay means). But now that I understand my sexuality, I have been thinking about these “signs” of my sexuality. I played with barbies when I was younger. I stopped playing with them when I was five, because even then I knew that “boys aren’t supposed to play with barbies those are girl toys.” When I was between ages 8-10 there were a bunch of Barbie movies my sister and I loved watching. I don’t remember most of them, but from what I do remember the plots are actually good. I never did the thing where I try on my moms fancy shoes, but I did get my toenails painted by my sister in first grade. A few years ago I had my sister teach me how to braid hair (still not very good at it though). I remember always watching the Disney movies with the prince and the princess, and as happy as I was things worked out between the two of them, I never really felt any extreme happiness you get for people when it’s a happy situation but you relate to it’ sort of thing. Ok, a lot of what I’m listing is stereotypes at this point, but hey, they become stereotypes for a reason people. Just don’t assume people are gay if they relate to any of these things, ok? I have never liked any sports of any type. I do not find them entertaining. Part of that might be due to the fact that in elementary school when we played sports for gym class people rarely passed to me so I rarely played. But like, sports on tv. Soooooooo boring for me personally. I’ve never really liked most traditionally “boy toys” like cars growing up. I did however enjoy playing with stuffed animals. A common stereotype I don’t fit is that people think all gay guys have mostly friends that are girls. I did get along well enough with the nice girls in my elementary school, but I was never really ‘friends’ with any of the girls. I do have multiple girl friends right now because I met them in our schools theater productions (yet another stereotype lol). Probably the most obvious sign though, was last year. The topic of gay people was brought up at our table occasionally. It was never serious, just the type of joke where someone says “if you’ve seen (recent Disney movie) you’re gay.” Or, “this Pixar movie is gay.” Either way those jokes were very annoying to me. Because although I didn’t know much about lgbtq stuff at the time, I knew enough to know that what you do and watch has nothing to do with your sexuality. And I expressed how I felt about them making those jokes. I thought I was just passionate about this topic at the time, but honestly looking back I was getting pretty defensive, lol. Surprisingly, no one accused me of being gay. A different day someone was taking about who at our table was most likely gay, and I was not mentioned. However when everyone was discussing it, I felt nervous about someone guessing I was gay. But I still didn’t get why I was getting nervous. I was so deep in denial, looking back. Alright. Well, I can’t really think of any more signs I was gay right now. If I come up with more I’ll edit this comment. Wow, you read this far? Thanks for reading, I guess. Have a nice day/night!
Great short essay David. Very reflective, and great writing. You might have a future as a writer. 😊👍
markmh835 oh really? Thanks! Funny that you mentioned that because one of the carrier options I am seriously considering is being an author. Thanks for the encouragement!
@@danial804 -- Well you could become a world famous reporter like Ronan Farrow. (And I encourage you to read his writings. He has a unique "voice." Also gay. 😊 ) Or, you might make a great first-person story teller. Or both. 👍
long story snap peteryanes for anyone want to share theier]
Hi Tristan my friend name is sonic and this video is really keep up the good work buddy.😊👍😀😃😄👌🤙
You are going to be an amazing boyfriend..... That is if you could get around to it! Come on dude, that first guy was probably as hard as ice talking to you at 3am, but that should not be your first, I hope you find great love,
Brother if a guy hangout with boys or don't talk to girls it doesn't means he is gay ,we can also say that he is bit shy to talk to girls.
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
"Not all gymnast are gay" lol that you know of, how do you know they themselves aren't in the closet? Or they're bi, pan, fluid...sexuality is a spectrum imo.
True but you could say that about anyone. I had 30+ "straight" friends on the team. Maybe one or two will come out later but highly doubt most of them aren't straight.
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
OMG! Tristan's on UA-cam, someone please hold me, I'm about to faint
How often do people mistake you for brothers? Even knowing you're not, I'm having a hard time processing that you're not related. 😂
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ItsAPandaGirl :P hello! Thanks for checking the channel out. Hope you like it!
Being gay sucks coz rn I’m attracted to the blue shirt guy and this happens many times… literally every video I watch I get butterflies in my stomach seeing a cute guy.
That’s funny, as straight woman- the teal shirt guy is by far way handsome
I am here because my 11 yr old is showing signs.but I’ve always seen the signs since he was 5🤦🏽♀️ I try to talk to him I am an open mother I do t judge but I also don’t accept it knowing that he’s still young. Today I noticed his Snapchat has a lot of group chats under gays, monkeys, etc with gay men kissing. Or asking questions about if you was gay would you date an Asian. My son turned down so many girls that liked him and some of the girls also messages him asking is he gay. He is very mean and nasty towards me his sister and girls and I always wondered why he respects his male friends more and now I’m starting to see why. I’m scared to approach and if I am making him feel uncomfortable. My middle son loves to rough play but my oldest hates it but he will rough play with my daughter. I know gays run on both sides of the family. I will like some help on how to approach him
With the gymnast gay thing I would think that its because when people think of gymnastics they think of Women's Olympic Gymnastics and people commonly associate "female" qualities with being gay, but that is just a guess.
Do you have any video or pictures of when you all were in your younger years? Make a video talking about the pictures or video of you and your friends. When you hung out where you extra friendly with each other? Did remy or your other straight friends ever try to sexually tease you to mess with you?
Some gay guys: 'one sign I was gay was I was just friends with boys'
Other gay guys: 'one sign I was gay was I was just friends with girls'
I always thought I was straight- until I realized I was bi XD
Yes you have too much and never stopped words that can be silent with a lip kiss.
Him: No one expected I was gay
Me: Can’t relate… *flashback*
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Best friend After I Came out: Yeah someone talked to you for 5 minutes they’d know..
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Parents after I came out: Wanna know a secret? We knew.
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Friends/ Acquaintances after they found out (I didn’t directly tell them): I assumed.
I'm gay and the funniest one a coworker told me. She said I never gave her the once over. That's how she knew I was gay. And she was correct I notice cute guys way more.
Actually I think my brother is gay since I know the term what gay is... Cause hasn't had girlfriend once... Now he is 23... And I dated and got caught by my family couple of times even though I am younger sibling so I think he is gay... Because he had many bestfriends('bros') but still never dated anyone so do you think he is gay or not or I even think maybe he is asexual... I don't know...
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
I liked wearing my moms clothes and her makeup and nail polish… in my teens I was shy and blushing around guys but I was talking comfortably around girls and I had like a sis bond or smh between them… I’m 17 now and I know I’m gay since 15 by pr0n ofc… I googled “h#t males” and the resulting videos stated gay, that’s how I knew. From where I come from (India) it’s a shame to my family 😭. I feel horrible
My son used to play dress up with my clothes
For some reason I'm a boy but I can sound like a girl and almost look like one and I have no idea also I always feel like their is something missing from me and I don't understand why I feel different from my brothers
I need to know is how would you tell if a masculine sports loving young man is gay?
Barely 13 years old 5'10 180 lb with a very deep voice and extremely good at sports, I'm looking outside the stigma
The best sure way to know is to be told but, it's not fair to ask someone if they're not ready.
Just be patient, supportive, prepared for anything and know that it's ok.
OMG There's TWO of THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if i had a friend that looked like Ricky, i would be gay too
If you mean the 2nd guy in this video (the straight one), I think his name is Remy.
Remy 🥰
Honestly my 11 yr old son is "Showing signs" of being gay. I'm not 100% positive he is but I'm just doing research in case he is so I approach it the right way.
Signs to me. Feminine mannerisms, likes to use girl slurs, female stance, nervous about girl conversations and wants to change the subject. He's an 11 yr old 6th grader.
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son I suggest you give him a try
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
just keep a eye on what he does n ask him about the other kids at school
@@peteryanes3413 Ask him what about the other kids at school?
@@Simply_Anthony83 if he like one or how many Friends he has when he come home just ask how was school then say how all your friends so anyone in your class u like be thateasy
Did we establish if the good friend Remy was gay too or not? Just curious cuz he's pretty hot.
Casual2020 he’s straight
@@TristanKuhn Darn the bad luck. LOL
Remy suggested that they have a few drinks, afthe the video shoot , like they use to in high school !
then said to tristan "I shouldn't drink and drive. maybe we should have a sleepover like we used to have!"
"i don'[t mean Wrestle and Rough House like we use to, unless for old time sake , you want to! "
No Homo! haha
Is this all a joke,...kids always dress up in adults clothes
I’m 11 and people think I’m gay just because I do dances and cartwheels,roundoffs etc. But I don’t know if I’m gay can someone plz help me.
What kind of "help" do you want Jon? You have plenty of time to determine your feelings.
Its not up to people its up to you. Boys doing cartwheels doesn't define your sexuality, its like saying women who play football are lesbians
So the plot thickens
Some one please help me . I have a very serious question about my child. This is my only platform for information
Happy pride month
More Remy please!
i dressed my sisters clothes in childhood 😁😁😁😁 love from sri lanka ❤❤❤❤❤❤😘😘😘😘😘🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈❤❤❤❤❤❤
Oh wow, all the way from Sri Lanka! That's so cool!
Lol I have the same name as you
How cool! Haha
Well, 7-8% of a men's gymnastics group being gay is an overrepresentation.
Mainly because feminine gay dudes do not do sports. And that's at least a third of the gay male population, which is 5-6% of the general male one.
It's not like actors, where 20-30% of them are gay, but it's still double the percentage you get in other sports, where 3-4% of the group is gay.
I'm not counting bi dudes, 'cause most of us are in the closet.
I think what really sucks about been gay is society distinguishes
I started noticing it from my son Matt due to the way he behaves and I didn’t know how to ask him about it until I met someone on Instagram *7hackman* that helped me hacked into he’s phone and social media and I found out he was gay, tho I felt bad but I just had to let him know we still love him regardless. All thanks to *7hackman* now I get to know whatever is going on with my son
Really??? 😁
Number one reason why is; you were drop multiple times in a row. The Second is you were bullied, and for good reasons. The third is..every girl rejected you.
Can you stop saying like like like like:)
Holy shit.. !!!!!!??????the guy on left is lost ..!!😮👎