How to Tell if a Guy is Gay

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  • @JackFelixnAtlas
    @JackFelixnAtlas 7 років тому +5152

    All we gays can agree on one thing..
    It sucks having a crush on someone straight

    • @zacharycoltrane3128
      @zacharycoltrane3128 7 років тому +72

      Jack FelixnAtlas yep

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +40

      Jack FelixnAtlas Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @JackFelixnAtlas
      @JackFelixnAtlas 6 років тому +26

      Cinehotties, I am lol thank you😊

    • @thenotoriousk.i.m5684
      @thenotoriousk.i.m5684 6 років тому +93

      Yeah lmao even worse when they leave town so you just think about what could of been

    • @ntokozonkosi9770
      @ntokozonkosi9770 6 років тому +159

      It's like a straight guy crushing on a nun

  • @spadrine
    @spadrine 7 років тому +29

    Andrew, the video was informative and entertaining. I'm really impressed how good your camera presence has gotten since you began. Everything was perfect including the volume (my usual peeve) lighting, and effects. And you're never boring. You're seem to glow with confidence and humility. Thanks!

  • @EJW2003
    @EJW2003 4 роки тому +7

    It’s creepy, but check who they follow on insta, Facebook, tiktok, etc. If I see 2+ basically straight soft porn accounts, I pass (not worth it to see if they’re bi or not), if I see a significant amount of pretty girls who they follow, I usually pass. Now, if I see a bit too many “men’s fitness” accounts, or straight up openly gay guys they follow, them I pursue lol
    Let me know if this works for you 😅

    • @millevenon5853
      @millevenon5853 10 місяців тому

      Not full proof. Many straight guys now follow a handful of gay guys on Instagram

  • @keith2o9
    @keith2o9 4 роки тому +2

    My heart just melt when you/he did the “the eye” contact. Imagine that in real life.

  • @user-jv1cl2fs6m
    @user-jv1cl2fs6m 4 роки тому +2

    One great sign is when you pass a hot guy and there's the "really quick eye contact but still good eye contact" and you look back and catch them looking back at you too... It's a wonderful sign, but just because they do that, does not mean they're ready for anything beyond that! TRUST ME..I'VE LEARNED IT THE HARD WAY!

  • @chetyoubetya8565
    @chetyoubetya8565 6 років тому +7

    Don't ever go up to any adult and ask if they are gay.When they feel they want to tell you then you will know.Any other time its childish and really not your business.

  • @haroldtejero
    @haroldtejero 6 років тому +47

    Omg yout the most amazing and handsome gay guy i ever seen. someone would be so lucky to have you. 😊

    • @okno6912
      @okno6912 5 років тому +3

      harold tejero I like guys with tight ass to tight ass is better for me and I like guy but tight tight jeans I like skinny guys and what you think about that

    • @okno6912
      @okno6912 5 років тому +3

      any good-looking gay guys out there I don't know what somebody right now he got the cutest tight ass tight I like I like guys with tight ass and I like guys going out maybe 20-25 years old Saturday but will you think about going out with a older guy and their 40s

    • @honeststraightforward1485
      @honeststraightforward1485 5 років тому +2

      Are you serious ? Oh my god !!!! You have never seen a good looking guy then if you think the guy is handsome

    • @CoryMck
      @CoryMck 5 років тому +1

      @@honeststraightforward1485 oh wow, is that you idris Elba? Are you under cover on UA-cam?

    • @honeststraightforward1485
      @honeststraightforward1485 5 років тому

      @@CoryMck maybe.who knows? 😉

  • @kimetzfu426
    @kimetzfu426 3 роки тому +1

    In Europe you can have your chances of knowing that someone is gay like tripled just by figuring out whether he likes Eurovision or not...

  • @calebhambel8369
    @calebhambel8369 7 років тому +8

    Unfortunately I'm struggling with this, with someone I go to school with. 😕

    • @Hiphopj15
      @Hiphopj15 7 років тому +2

      Caleb Hambel honestly same. It's hard to tell when there are no obvious signs

    • @calebhambel8369
      @calebhambel8369 7 років тому +1

      Hiphopj Unfortunately there aren't many signs. It seems like I wish it more than what it seems to be true.

  • @stefankaiser960
    @stefankaiser960 4 роки тому +2

    Nobody has ever guessed that I am gay. Everyone I've told was surprised. On the other hand I thought that someone was gay 100 %, but he had a wife. So chances are that he is not gay.

  • @johngolden891
    @johngolden891 Рік тому

    Another good tip is whether a new acquaintance tends to visually check out men or women.

  • @nottristan1030
    @nottristan1030 4 роки тому +3

    Gay crushing on straight😅 It's nerve wrecking.
    Tell about how to know if someone is gay in non-LGBT areas

  • @GoldenThunder333
    @GoldenThunder333 6 років тому +3

    I know I'm late, but I have a question for those with a better gaydar than me. I had a friend (we're not friends anymore, we still wave at each other in school). In computer class, he would write "I'm gay" on the screen. At first I was like, oh he's just writing it because of the meme. But he kept doing it and I began to wonder if he thought maybe I was gay. (This is gonna be a little stereotypical but oh well) He dresses nicely, he takes good care of himself and he is really cute. But he uses slang words and plays sports. The openly gay people at my school are very feminine, which are not my type. The straight I find really attractive though. You think he might be gay???

    • @ronricci3407
      @ronricci3407 6 років тому

      Yes, he's gay.

    • @claudiagarzia4534
      @claudiagarzia4534 6 років тому +2

      A guy is not gay because he dresses nicely and takes good care of himself, also a straight guy can do that. If he's gay, the fact that he dresses nicely and takes care of himself doesn't depend on his sexual orientation.

    • @Maius26
      @Maius26 5 років тому

      Straight guys in my experience NEVER say they are gay, unless they are trying to entrap you, 98 % he is gay. But be smart, and be very cautious, it is better to miss out than end up in A&E.

  • @jjwebster1
    @jjwebster1 5 років тому +6

    That all works if he's out of the closest. I've known and know straight guys that pong my gaydar yet talk about women and dating women before being very flirty and using sexual language. It's very confusing, lol

  • @GregBurns-j4v
    @GregBurns-j4v 3 місяці тому

    He dresses well. He has a good job which he enjoys. He has a decent, stylish car. He lives in a lovely apartment, condominium, or house, tastefully decorated. He eats well and dines at trendy restaurants. He enjoys traveling, especially to exotic locales. He has seen and loves all old Hollywood musicals. His musical tastes include Judy, Liza, Dianna, Patsy, Cher, and Madonna, among others. He loves to dance, especially ballroom style. He helps anyone and everyone. He adores animals and has pets. He cooks amazing dinners and fabulous desserts. He drinks only incredible wines or top notch cocktails. He is both intelligent and sincerely polite. He enjoys seeing Anita Bryant get hit with a huge, whipped cream pie on UA-cam. He stays physically fit and healthy. He always smells awesome. That's about all I got right now... 👍😁

  • @mikeem848
    @mikeem848 5 років тому

    I'm baffled that this requires a five minute video to answer. You can't tell, period.

  • @xadam2dudex
    @xadam2dudex 7 років тому +4

    gaydar has been a real thing but it seems the younger generation hasn't been trained to use it they go the tech route...sad...

  • @ruzzelladrian907
    @ruzzelladrian907 6 років тому +752

    When my gaydar doesn't work, I switch to the please-be-gaydar.

  • @Mikelaxo
    @Mikelaxo 4 роки тому +240

    Also straight guys always talk about girls within the first 2 hours of hanging out with you, so that's another thing to look for...

    • @Maius26
      @Maius26 4 роки тому +19

      First three sentences if they know you're gay, or you are good looking.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 4 роки тому +9

      it's so true...but be careful, sometimes guys will mention their girls to let you know ahead of time, if something happens, remember i'm straight. it could be either or. also it is a test to see if u are in the same boat. if u say my girlfriend this or that, then if u two end up in bed, you both feel safe. if u are gay and are comfortable with a one night stand, talking about a girlfriend, if u can pass for straight, could land a straight identified guy.

    • @thenaturalpeoplesbureau
      @thenaturalpeoplesbureau 3 роки тому +6

      This does not necessarily signal to gay guys that you are not open. One dude was always trying to you know, lure me to a sauna saying some girls will come, then only he is there. Or make subtle advances. I basically never noticed it, which obviously sent mixed signals. It was until i went to a club with a female friend, that i noticed that all sorts of dudes were hitting on me. I just thought they want conversation. So i did not close my boundaries.. She started to hint they were hitting on me, and only then did i realize what was going on, haha.. It s kinda cute, but now at least i can give stronger signals without being you know, mean. Haha, once i was sitting there with her, and because we were not a couple, they must have thought im available or something. He asked me some questions (which i did not see as advances back then) and she said to him "He is not gay". And he smiled and left. Those dudes in the club were totally nice though, but the little man who tried to bring me into compromising situations (sauna, inappropriate questions) really was creeping me out. Honestly i never noticed how many guys noticed me, until my friend Tadeja t old me about it. In regards to girl talk, not sure that helps to draw my boundaries. I did that and they did not stop.. Now that i can notice it, i can be much much nicer to those who try.. Without giving them false hope. Also once some1 asked me in a bar if i would come with him to a gay bar, i politely declined, smiled broadly, and thanked him for the flowers. He said "damn" and walked away. I basically watch this video, because apparently i did not learn to have my own boundaries, and want to understand the thing better.
      And yeah that is true, when i talk about topics im interested in, i could talk hours to somebody without t alking about sex or girls. Simply because im immersive. So dont confuse openness with interest. I did not differentiate and this lead to many weird situations. glhf

    • @HouseOfWanda
      @HouseOfWanda 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah even as a bi guy I would not randomly start talking about girls, just out of fear that the person might get a clue that I’m not straight

    • @101sanford
      @101sanford 3 роки тому +1

      @@HouseOfWanda im a big boy man

  • @JimL94
    @JimL94 6 років тому +772

    How can you accidentally meet a cute guy and he's also gay!? This never happens to me!!!

    • @ainulyaqin5243
      @ainulyaqin5243 5 років тому +66

      He's hot, that's the reason

    • @perfumeidv
      @perfumeidv 5 років тому +5

      same Jim, same

    • @themuffin3461
      @themuffin3461 5 років тому +2

      Mariano Di Piazza how is your gaydar? My friend says that he doesn’t know what he is and I want to help him

    • @themuffin3461
      @themuffin3461 5 років тому +2

      Mariano Di Piazza
      Thanks he said that he’s grateful for your help

    • @DaySights
      @DaySights 5 років тому +5

      Good for u people bully me :(

  • @Jacy_-nn1hr
    @Jacy_-nn1hr 7 років тому +2949

    If he says hes gay...
    No wait. That cant be a sign. Thats too obvious.🤔

    • @zacharycoltrane3128
      @zacharycoltrane3128 7 років тому +26

      Jacy _1419 so obvious that its a definitive

    • @KoldingDenmark
      @KoldingDenmark 7 років тому +37

      Oh no, I have a friend from military, who would tell girls that he is gay,
      to make them loose interest in him.
      Do I need to tell that they most often didn't respond the way it was intended?
      He was so cool with me whilst in the service while I was in the process of coming out.

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +4

      Jacy _1419 Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @JimL94
      @JimL94 6 років тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @kiky.mp4
      @kiky.mp4 6 років тому +25

      That ain't a sign... That's a damn welcome mat

  • @MrTunapie
    @MrTunapie 4 роки тому +87

    I just watch their eye movements when in a crowd, who are they looking at. Works every time.

  • @HML2004
    @HML2004 6 років тому +368

    This is difficult. I was visiting the optometrist and he kept telling me to keep my eyes open and stare at him.

  • @dela_ruthh
    @dela_ruthh 6 років тому +383

    “We don’t have he’s acting like a girl or she’s acting like a boy anymore- they’re acting like themselves” 🤗 well said, thank you!

    • @hexum7
      @hexum7 6 років тому +3

      Dela Hini Yeah, well, the contestants on RuPaul's Drag Race might beg to differ.

    • @dela_ruthh
      @dela_ruthh 6 років тому +7

      Well, I don't know, I suppose it's all a matter of perspective. Gender in and of itself can be viewed as a social construct, in which gender roles (pertaining to Western society) have been defined throughout an amalgamation of popular Western cultures and traditions. This, however, does not make one culture's approach to gender identity and roles any more valid than another. In that way, the contestants on RuPaul's Drag Race are simply embodying the ideas of the gender norms in their societal context, therefore playing into the construct. In other words, gender is what you make it because it is culturally defined and then internalized at the individual level (which can then have more serious psychological effects, in regards to self-esteem, etc). Sex, however, refers to an individuals biological assignment, and we could go on about how sex is different from gender, but hey, this is just a really sweet UA-cam video and there isn't any need for facetious banter. I appreciate your comment but I fail to understand how it's relevant to what I said and to the video.

    • @hexum7
      @hexum7 6 років тому

      Dela Hini Well, you are right in that the contestants on the Drag Race are ( mostly) presenting as the cultural expectations of female gender, as defined by our society- and, in fact, not really just the cultural norms, but highly exaggerated and pointedly expressed aspects of that norm, that we assign to gender- for example, there seems to be an unwritten rule that they wear extremely long high heels- but that is an expression of femininity unique to western culture - many other cultures do not associate women with high heels at all, and those that do often adopted it from Europe and America.
      But, I wasn't referring to just the performances. I recently binge watched a season of the show, and one thing that stood out in the narratives that was almost universally true of all the "queens" is a history of having been ridiculed, persecuted, and even rejected by their own families for being too effeminate, too girly. This was true, even for the youngest ones.
      So, their drag personas are a way for them to take that pain and humiliation and throw it in the world's face. To say, yes, I an a boy who acts like a girl- and it's fabulous. _ these aren't transgendered people (for the most part) who identify as female. These are cis males who the world would destroy for being too much like the opposite gender.
      And, yes, that's all a bit too heavy for a comment on this video. It's just that due to the binge, it was very much on my mind. I apologize for messing with the mood. You may now return to your regular video comments

    • @dela_ruthh
      @dela_ruthh 6 років тому +2

      I love your response! Thank you for putting down the knowledge and speaking respectfully!

    • @hexum7
      @hexum7 6 років тому +1

      Dela Hini thank you for being kind. If not for that, I might have just left the one sardonic comment and not have given myself the opportunity to express those thoughts

  • @haustreviance
    @haustreviance 5 років тому +392

    You are insanely attractive.

  • @IthrielAA
    @IthrielAA 6 років тому +726

    I'm gay and none of these "signs" apply to me at all.

  • @martincichocki9908
    @martincichocki9908 6 років тому +270

    It's not that easy! Im gay & have messed up with my "gaydar."

    • @alw.8849
      @alw.8849 6 років тому +17

      yes and that eye contact thing can get you in some trouble

    • @shiell6360
      @shiell6360 6 років тому +1

      Same😂

    • @crazymacedonianboi
      @crazymacedonianboi 6 років тому

      yup 😂😜

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 6 років тому +5

      Musicmann1022 Your COUSIN'S son? So your nephew? Um...?

    • @TheMatube12
      @TheMatube12 6 років тому +13

      "Gaydar" is asinine.
      Masculine gay guys, and feminine straight guys exist.

  • @jbc8220
    @jbc8220 4 роки тому +100

    2:39 My repeat button is broken😂

    • @izimations
      @izimations 4 роки тому +3

      Ahhhhhhh.
      *If that happened I'd die due to gay panic*
      Agghhhhhhhhhhh

    • @mangofrugt1
      @mangofrugt1 3 роки тому

      sameeee I paused it

  • @WillMruzek
    @WillMruzek 7 років тому +193

    I'm glad I'm not alone in my level of stalking...err, research...

    • @saebica
      @saebica 7 років тому +4

      Will Mruzek stalk me.

    • @dalmatianluvr
      @dalmatianluvr 7 років тому +1

      Is this really anything different than the "personal safety suggestions" out there to "run a background check" on a potential date? Looking somebody up IG or FB or a hookup app is nothing at all. Welcome to 2017!

    • @michaelkylow4411
      @michaelkylow4411 7 років тому +6

      What if the guy is amazing, looks gorgerous, is pretty smart, seems like is gay... but has no social media? :(

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +1

      Will Mruzek Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @pog395
      @pog395 6 років тому

      Will Mruzek yes!

  • @thomasmoeller3446
    @thomasmoeller3446 6 років тому +630

    If he closes his eyes when you kiss him good night.
    When he asks "Do you have a condom?"
    When he calls you "daddy" and you are not related.

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 6 років тому +7

      Ew about you ARE related

    • @TheMatube12
      @TheMatube12 6 років тому +10

      Why would you be kissing him goodnight if he were straight?

    • @dudeitssalt4249
      @dudeitssalt4249 5 років тому +59

      @@TheMatube12 you gotta give your homies a goodnight kiss. Homies help homies

    • @eric-vu1jy
      @eric-vu1jy 5 років тому +1

      “An I can’t believe you kiss your COCK at night....”

    • @pixxel17
      @pixxel17 5 років тому

      The fact that you have to add the “not related” part makes me shake my head

  • @heyitselijah2076
    @heyitselijah2076 5 років тому +236

    Me: I want to have a girlfriend!
    My Heart: Nope :D
    Me: What?
    *Falls in love with straight guy bestfriends like a boss*
    *Hurts his own feelings like a boss*
    *_Gets depression like a boss_*

  • @jaaesonn
    @jaaesonn 7 років тому +253

    lmao....I like the super obvious sign where they drunkingly make out with you at a party 🎉

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +2

      Jason Ditangco Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @LonelyCinderella123
      @LonelyCinderella123 6 років тому +9

      Maybe I'm just lucky but from my experience half of the guys out there are just 5 beers away from bi-curiosity. Don't try it if you genuinely like them because the day after they will most likely start avoiding you.

    • @geovannyz7238
      @geovannyz7238 6 років тому

      Jason Ditangco and if they're not drunk and it's at your room or someone's room is that a sign?😁😆

    • @siegeldude1
      @siegeldude1 6 років тому +1

      Straight guys have made out with other guys when drunk, so i don't agree with you on this one. I"m transsexual, but before my transition I made out with a lot of staight guys.... in college, etc...

    • @grimreap8835
      @grimreap8835 6 років тому

      Jason Ditangco your gay???

  • @eddiej9270
    @eddiej9270 Рік тому +34

    So I’ll tell you this. I’m 18, I have always been aware that I’m gay and when I finally reached the age of 18 (about two months ago). A month ago, I met a guy at my friend’s. The first time I saw him with mask on, I was laying on a hammock, we looked at each other for one second as he was walking into the kitchen, I thought about him since then how he was so handsome and that was it. Later on, we were drinking, I kept looking at him and he kept looking at me, even everyone in the room could see the intension between us even when they were drunk. We realized that it was our second time meeting. What my friends said was that he is straight that he has always dated girls but if you look at me and him at the same time, you will say I look straight and he looks gay because he’s a pretty fem boy, and I’m more like a regular straight guy. His voice and the way he talks give it away but in a cute, baby way. Everyone agrees that he is cute like a baby. Everybody girls, boys, gay, straight, lesbian... everyone agrees he’s cute, and I so love him for the cuteness. After done drinking I had to go home and he didn’t want me to leave. Fast forward, the second we went drinking again was at my house and while my two other friends are lying on the floor, he and I had our first kiss, it was like 4 seconds. After that night, we kept thinking about each other everyday but we didn’t text anything about that night. And after a week later, we met again and I decided to talk it out. He admitted that the first time we met he noticed everything I did, how handsome I am, how I walked, how I talked, how I smiled, and that the first time he has feelings for a guy. So we kept texting, about 2 weeks ago, we had another talk about how he finds the answer if he is gay, or bi or straight, he said he is confused, he doesn’t know. All my friends think that he is trying to hide himself, Idk, but he said he’s not sure if he’s gay or bi. After another week, I asked him if he has decided yet, because keeping me waiting is going to hurt me only. I wanted to know if we should be dating or just being friends, he decided that we should be friends because he is afraid that if he’s dating me while not knowing what his sexuality is and when it won’t work between us, we will lose the friendship..... Now we are friends but we don’t talk, actually we try to stay away from each other, and I feel hurt. He was my first kiss, I was his also first kiss, and all the sweet moments we had, kissing cheeks goodbye, playing games together, cuddling, and the loving caring texts... because of all of that, I can’t unlove him. I don’t know what he’s thinking right now, I visited his profile everyday and one day his bio said, “I always leave a spot for you” idk if it was for me but we used to talk by changing on our bios, it was fun. But I keep telling myself that he doesn’t really love me so that I can get over it. I admit that I can’t unlove him but it's getting better everyday.
    What I’m telling you is, loving a straight or confused guy is hurtful, especially when you both done kissing, cuddling, texting, admitting feelings for the other but still not even a thing.... that hurts.

    • @1220MrCool
      @1220MrCool Рік тому +7

      I am so sorry to hear about what you have gone through. It definitely sounds like this guy really takes a strong attraction in and strong interest in you man. Also I think that you need to stay away from his social media, take some time for yourself, and perhaps talk to a therapist about how you feel hurt. You deserve to feel happy and love your life more; hang in there!

    • @gabrieeuluzumaki6155
      @gabrieeuluzumaki6155 Рік тому

      @@DJDeezNutz but he’s not the one who’s confused the other guy is and that’s hard, being in love with someone who doesn’t know its sexuality is rather painful, so it’s always preferable to be in love with someone who knows their sexuality and isn’t conflicted about their likings or preferences, hope you got it

    • @valmiro4164
      @valmiro4164 Рік тому

      Sexuality is defined by arousal, just ask him what he jerks off to.

    • @thevaccinator666
      @thevaccinator666 Рік тому

      That's beautiful that you connected and I'm sorry for the pain you must feel about this. Do you know if he has come to any conclusions about his sexuality since then?

    • @eddiej9270
      @eddiej9270 11 місяців тому +2

      @@thevaccinator666 i don’t think so, as far as I know, he hasn’t been in a relationship since, but I got over it. Another part of the story is that my friend, who is now my ex-friend, told him not to date me, he said to him “you shouldn’t be with him if you aren’t sure of your sexuality!” but that friend told me, he said “i told him that because he cared about you, I don’t want u to get hurt” lol he cheated, talking about a good relationship. Anyways my ex-friend and the guy are pretty close, so I didn’t go all the way telling the guy not to listen to him, just kinda accepted. One time, me and the guy were cuddling then that ex-friend asked the guy if he liked me more than him, of course the guy said he liked me more, than the friend suddenly changed face, then for a moment he whispered, “i used to like you” while we being confused, he stomped out of the room, and the guy ran after asking questions, I was left alone and saw what he tried to do, like what?? He was in a relationship at the time and had the audacity to do that. The next day I confronted him about why he’d do that, he said “i’m kidding, it was a joke haha” I’m glad I kicked that kind of friend out of my life.

  • @loneaxolotl
    @loneaxolotl 6 років тому +151

    I came across this video and watched it because I think my best bud is gay. We're both muscular just like you and I'd say he's pretty good looking too, but some of the stuff you mentioned were there. He's not fond of talking about hot chics & stuff. We always hangout with friends but mostly just the two of us. I recently became single and he doesn't have one, just some hookups he's been bragging about. He's always handsy, but I don't mind. We've been bros since diaper days. He likes to cuddle when we're drunk and half ass naked. Does he like me or something? If he's gay, I want him to tell me. I'd gladly support him. Nothing will ever change between us.

    • @oscartaylor9379
      @oscartaylor9379 6 років тому +33

      Kage Krôss I bet you the farm he is gay. You totally described me when I was young with my straight best friend/ roommate,except for the half-naked, drunk cuddling. I was never that invasive or bold. Trust me, he is not that unaware of himself whenhe is "drunk ". If you are not interested, be kind but firm and consistent with body space expectations and with letting him know your true preference. He was testing you by touching you too see how or if you respond. Good luck and value the friendship above all, if it lasts once you inform him. Also, have the discussion away from alcohol so that it is clear. Good luck and Peace

    • @PK-hx9ny
      @PK-hx9ny 6 років тому +37

      dude, you're kind of hot, you could make anyone gay

    • @loneaxolotl
      @loneaxolotl 6 років тому +12

      P K Really? Thanks!

    • @loneaxolotl
      @loneaxolotl 6 років тому +28

      Oscar Taylor He has a girlfriend now and I'm kinda shocked! I'm mad at him because we don't get to hangout as often as before. But I should be happy for him, right? What is wrong with me?

    • @hpatdh077
      @hpatdh077 6 років тому +20

      Kage Krôss it's normal to be jealous of a friend when they get a gf/bf. Because you won't be hanging out much with them. Being gay, it happened to me when my female best friend got a bf ( and I'm not even remotely interested in women).

  • @Jacy_-nn1hr
    @Jacy_-nn1hr 7 років тому +698

    I love this Kind of Videos
    Advice 1: stalk him everywhere😂😂

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +3

      Jacy _1419 Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @JimL94
      @JimL94 6 років тому

      LOL

    • @101sanford
      @101sanford 5 років тому

      @@Cinehotties hi baby

  • @solofhxcjccsubliminals5483
    @solofhxcjccsubliminals5483 4 роки тому +25

    Im a lesbian why am I watching this.

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u 7 років тому +449

    Andrew, your eyes were sparkling the entire time you were talking to me on this video. That's great..........Ray

    • @babygirlholley8859
      @babygirlholley8859 7 років тому +6

      okimlistening2u
      I seen the same thing thought he was sparkling at me 😰

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому

      okimlistening2u Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @ibmsst
      @ibmsst 6 років тому

      Give me a break

    • @micahhenley589
      @micahhenley589 6 років тому +4

      *Here is GOOD NEWS:*
      Jesus Christ died on a cross to save people from their sin according to the bible(God's word). Then Jesus rose from the dead, 3 days later, thus defeating death. Anyone who believes this will not perish but will have everlasting life.

    • @explosivewaffulz3585
      @explosivewaffulz3585 6 років тому +2

      Godzilla John fuck off with your morbid fearmongering

  • @fideidefensor6427
    @fideidefensor6427 7 років тому +373

    The biggest give away is the eyes. Watch their eyes and who they're looking at and how intensely. Like if he's straight he'll likely eye up anyone woman that walks past but if he's gay he'll pretty much only pay attention to other guys 👀

    • @rc388
      @rc388 7 років тому +33

      Fidei Defensor but how do you check the guy out without looking like a creep? I mean if I'm staring at him staring at other guys

    • @fideidefensor6427
      @fideidefensor6427 7 років тому +11

      rc388 Dunno, but if you figure it out let me know cause I know who's gay but at the cost of them thinking I'm a complete creep 😂

    • @omgbitchimsoshook2717
      @omgbitchimsoshook2717 7 років тому +18

      Fidei Defensor this is true

    • @aabelmendoza
      @aabelmendoza 7 років тому +32

      I've met guys that look at woman and also sleep with men so I don't think this works

    • @Ridorana12
      @Ridorana12 7 років тому +28

      Abe Lincoln they might be bisexual or pan sexual instead of gay

  • @flexabigg1
    @flexabigg1 5 років тому +50

    Well...I'm gay. You're cute and my gaydar is broken.

  • @ptboy18
    @ptboy18 6 років тому +191

    Probably the best thing I've done is not assume anyone's sexuality. Just talking to someone without the intent to decipher them really sets guys at ease. People can typically sense an ulterior motive. I know it's the opposite of what this video is about but just my experience.

    • @mxslick50
      @mxslick50 6 років тому +6

      Good advice..and BTW you're hot. :)

    • @vincentruvo6988
      @vincentruvo6988 5 років тому +6

      Guys are intrigued about other guys' sexual identity. It's just normal and natural.

    • @101sanford
      @101sanford 5 років тому

      @@mxslick50 hey baby

    • @len1045678
      @len1045678 4 роки тому

      I agree i rather keep a cool head if is he is if he isn't oh well.. usually i dont chase straight guy.. but recently one have come in my life just to be my friend, but.. i picking on sences i never felt before, the grip in his hand shake and deep look into his eyes, intimate conversations etc yet he love and enjoy baging girls.. like what do u want🤣🤣

    • @thenaturalpeoplesbureau
      @thenaturalpeoplesbureau 3 роки тому

      Dont assume, ask. Thanks

  • @arkboi2145
    @arkboi2145 6 років тому +280

    How I can tell if a guy is gay: He goes out of his way to ignore me and pretend that I don't exist. He won't even look in my general direction. Additionally, I generally don't find them attractive.
    How I can tell if a guy is straight: He goes out of his way to say hi to me, is really friendly, and he looks at me and smiles back. Additionally, I'm generally attracted to them (which that feeling Isn't mutual. FML).

    • @jonp1952
      @jonp1952 6 років тому +27

      IKR. Bonus points when they seem to worry about you more than themselves. Kills me every time.

    • @ljoker3006
      @ljoker3006 6 років тому +42

      It's funny how gay men and straight women have completely different views on straight and gay men. The women tend to think gay men are perfect, caring, and hot while gay men tend to think that about straight men.

    • @ljoker3006
      @ljoker3006 6 років тому +17

      Duff Clem Not finding gay men as attractive doesn't mean he's self-hating. Think about it: There are millions of more straight men than there are gay men... Because there are so many, it means there's a higher chance you're gonna see a hot straight guy than a hot gay guy. I think he's just not into feminine gay men just like I'm not and there's nothing wrong with that.

    • @ljoker3006
      @ljoker3006 6 років тому +6

      Duff Clem It's his general experience. If most gay or straight men are like that in his town, then he has a right to generalize. Obviously not all gay men are like that but you can't blame him if every single guy has been like that for him.
      Uh, if he generally only thinks straight guys are attractive, it's safe to say he's into masculine men only and not the feminine gay men he's met. Not all gay men are feminine, of course, and I'd say a majority aren't, but some are and I think those are the type that are mostly out of the closet.

    • @gabriellucas5494
      @gabriellucas5494 6 років тому +9

      Lesbo Joker. Agreed, Im bi and masculine men are definitely more attractive to me

  • @cainvarner
    @cainvarner 5 років тому +19

    I still feel alone😑😢 literally no one is gay where I am... I can’t tell anyone.

  • @ifreakinlovepop
    @ifreakinlovepop 7 років тому +297

    It's 2017. Everyone's a stalker to a certain degree.

    • @PiggyBankGaming
      @PiggyBankGaming 6 років тому +9

      Lorenzo Paolo Garcia It's 2018 , Now everyone spits in Suicide forests...

    • @6193derek
      @6193derek 6 років тому +4

      There is a difference between stalking and looking up. Stalking is when they reply to every Facebook post you make for 3 months in a row, start friending your friends, and showing up at events you are at. Stalking is creepy. Merely checking out someone’s profile is not stalking.

    • @boshlovely2002
      @boshlovely2002 6 років тому +3

      Derek (D-Rock) Birch
      I think the definition of stalking has changed a bit, because as far as I know in the early 1970’s and back if someone knew your age, height, where you’ve been recently and u didn’t actually know the person that would be considered a stalker
      But then again we willingly give that information now

  • @MrMustard2U
    @MrMustard2U 6 років тому +237

    You can tell from the STRETCH MARKS AROUND HIS MOUTH...

    • @edwardconnelly4350
      @edwardconnelly4350 5 років тому +3

      Hmm

    • @anti-socialwaffle155
      @anti-socialwaffle155 5 років тому +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @eric-vu1jy
      @eric-vu1jy 5 років тому +2

      AHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAA exactly!!!!!!!

    • @crabulous113
      @crabulous113 5 років тому +10

      Or if on the weekends he can’t walk.

    • @soccerislife6108
      @soccerislife6108 4 роки тому +1

      I read that as "scratch marks" I was like I dont get it. I'm not Into that shit😂

  • @Nash1a
    @Nash1a 4 роки тому +24

    Re: Eye Contact. Twice this failed to be a correct indicator - in fact, the only two times I judged a guy by eye contact were BOTH wrong. I think this is a thing that varies with culture as well. In the US yeah, straight guys don't generally maintain prolonged eye contact but I met two different guys (possibly both were South American) who both made prolonged eye contact and seemed overly friendly and yet both were straight. So NOT a universal gay thing.

  • @EstevanQuintero
    @EstevanQuintero 7 років тому +762

    *prepare to melt at **2:38** lol*
    thank me later 😊

    • @chrisevans869
      @chrisevans869 7 років тому +50

      Estevan my heart skipped a beat when he did that 😍😍😍~ if only I can flirt like that...

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +7

      Estevan Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @notme3381
      @notme3381 6 років тому +9

      Ugh. Thank you. 😘

    • @JohnSmith-io4wm
      @JohnSmith-io4wm 6 років тому +6

      OMG; why didn't I look for this comment before! 😍

    • @kevin080592
      @kevin080592 6 років тому +5

      wooooooh! thaaank you

  • @liamcainap352
    @liamcainap352 7 років тому +252

    Your muscles are amazing

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +4

      The Liam Lioness Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

  • @oyodavis1830
    @oyodavis1830 6 років тому +144

    eye contact is the best communication if a person is gay,

    • @ohyeahyeah-xt1zr
      @ohyeahyeah-xt1zr 5 років тому +8

      The information tht this guy is providing.... I came to the conclusion that you have caught the BIG GAY. Im sorry but theres nothing i can do.
      Oh yeah yeah

    • @charlesh8522
      @charlesh8522 5 років тому +1

      Martyr Loxe A lot of hate comes from a place of fear. Fear of being outed or being gay.

    • @jorgieyacap1993
      @jorgieyacap1993 5 років тому +1

      @@joel8708 it has differences you know , when a straight person looks at you with a lust most probably , i mean not just lust , like he admires , he adores you...

    • @jorgieyacap1993
      @jorgieyacap1993 5 років тому

      @@joel8708 aw sad , but your story is bullying , not admiration its different though

    • @jorgieyacap1993
      @jorgieyacap1993 5 років тому

      @@joel8708 you know what , if a guy makes fun of you in a very bad way ,its not love or admiration. I know there are some guy who will probably love you , and if a guy admires u thats not hundred percent they like u,so dont assume so much ,learn to let go and move on , if they tell you they like you and you feel its sincerety go, but if gut gets a very bad instinct ..let go..thats all i could advice.im not perfect u know ,but i learned it from my past.

  • @snowrider48
    @snowrider48 7 років тому +183

    Ever since I trained this guy at work I thought he was giving me the "eyes". he always wanted to talk and chill if we had lunch break together. We would hit the gym together and he would always complement my arms and squeeze them. Weird things that normally straight guys wouldn't do like rub my shoulder and back, like he did. ....Then he sent me ass shot on Snapchat with his tongue hanging out. I thought for sure this guy has to like me. He found out that I was gay from a coworker. I know he asked at least 3 of my coworkers. He asked them multiple times, "are you sure he hides it so well."One of them asked him if he was gay and he got very defensive and then they poked back and said "so you are bi?" He still touches me though. He still acts the same towards me but said he likes girls when I asked him. I told him I don't believe him. I'm so mind fucked. What straight dude acts like this!?!?!? I think he's just scared to be outed.

    • @jamesyeh8508
      @jamesyeh8508 7 років тому +27

      DeanThat is the weirdest straight acting....

    • @saebica
      @saebica 7 років тому +10

      Dean though I lovr those moments, it's not worth it.

    • @motjon
      @motjon 7 років тому +79

      Welcome to the gay world. You will not believe the amount of "straight' men I've encountered.

    • @marcusoconner2805
      @marcusoconner2805 7 років тому +44

      You should just ignore him, keep away from him. It will lead to nowhere.

    • @constantinechow4450
      @constantinechow4450 7 років тому +7

      Maybe just sexual harassment, no matter what is your gender

  • @k.nadien5295
    @k.nadien5295 4 роки тому +83

    Easy just ask him... anything else is just crossing personal lines

    • @neeliad769
      @neeliad769 4 роки тому +3

      K. Nadien what if they keep saying they aren’t?

    • @lj7593
      @lj7593 4 роки тому +7

      @@neeliad769 then they ain't gay ?

    • @danduffy3025
      @danduffy3025 4 роки тому +9

      L.J. They could be in the closet my guy

    • @seansswamp
      @seansswamp 4 роки тому +1

      Dan Duffy ikr

    • @keavinmurcia7026
      @keavinmurcia7026 4 роки тому +5

      Doesn't work if they closeted gay tho, they would most likely always say no if you ask, i know I did lol

  • @Oekofutziwow
    @Oekofutziwow 7 років тому +63

    The best way find out whether someone is gay or not in my opinion is observation - If he just won't stop looking at hot dudes passing by he probably is 😜

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +1

      Xsamplez Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @Oekofutziwow
      @Oekofutziwow 6 років тому +2

      started kinda tough - came back from the bar-waiter job 2 hours later than intended but the woman that celebrated her 30th birthday tonight had a great time and because of that I had an awesome time too ...and the tip wasn´t bad either :P
      #spread positivity!
      hope yours will be awesome aswell! :)

    • @theonionsystem7779
      @theonionsystem7779 6 років тому +2

      Unafil Syntax yeah but it also depends on how they look at other guys as well.

    • @theonionsystem7779
      @theonionsystem7779 6 років тому

      Unafil Syntax but that is you, I am different.

  • @KauaiRod
    @KauaiRod 7 років тому +67

    So subtle.... flexing them arms at the end of your video....😜

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому

      KauaiRod Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

  • @aileexquis3206
    @aileexquis3206 7 років тому +100

    social media stalking is a common thing, but its kinda complicated if he's Bi.

    • @mister0sir
      @mister0sir 7 років тому +15

      Aile Exquis if hes bi then that means you have a chance

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому

      Aile Exquis Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @AntAciieed
      @AntAciieed 6 років тому +9

      Please don't drag us Bi's into monosexual drama

    • @viki7268
      @viki7268 6 років тому

      they weren't

  • @alisarsour8552
    @alisarsour8552 6 років тому +66

    My sister was out on a date with her boyfriend and he got drunk and she caught him kissing his male friend.. My sister still didn't understand and was wondering if he was gay.

    • @kyokazuto
      @kyokazuto 6 років тому +14

      Ali Sarsour صرصور Alcahol makes people do many things.

    • @gustafstrang7191
      @gustafstrang7191 6 років тому +46

      Have you heard about bi sexuality

    • @jestonycanete7672
      @jestonycanete7672 6 років тому +3

      Hahhahaha

    • @seanhunter4297
      @seanhunter4297 6 років тому +6

      Bisexual. My ex-gf's bf before me would kiss guys but would go all the way with girls...interesting..

    • @jestonycanete7672
      @jestonycanete7672 6 років тому +3

      OMG I only try but I'm afraid on sex hmmmm I really virgin

  • @ssjono2753
    @ssjono2753 7 років тому +54

    It's the Eyes! It's always the Eyes 😂😂😂

  • @normancross1515
    @normancross1515 7 років тому +226

    I'm thinking, if he gropes you . . . THAT'S a dead giveaway . . . . . 😂 😂 😂 😂
    Have a great week, Andrew! 💝

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +2

      Norman Cross Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @normancross1515
      @normancross1515 6 років тому

      Not doing so badly. I'd be doing better if it weren't below freezing here! (I hate the frickin' cold!)

    • @ilagwithaccuracy2652
      @ilagwithaccuracy2652 6 років тому

      Ellis Same, so they say.

    • @daviswetter
      @daviswetter 6 років тому

      Norman Cross lmaooooo I’m gay and my friend told me he’s bi so in school it’s wild

    • @zachskiles8059
      @zachskiles8059 6 років тому +1

      Ok I need another opinion... what if he gropes you even after claiming he’s not gay? That’s still a giveaway right?

  • @woodykusaki9970
    @woodykusaki9970 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm gay and I don't do pryde months, RuPaul, girl groups or anything like that. I have other interests. Although whenever I see a hot guy, id stare at him and appreciate beauty for a few seconds.

  • @immorley
    @immorley 7 років тому +42

    Andrew flexing in a tank top just made my week:)

    • @ddarko08
      @ddarko08 7 років тому

      immorley same!

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому

      immorley Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

  • @bsfbestshortfilmsonyoutube
    @bsfbestshortfilmsonyoutube 7 років тому +105

    he's on Grindr 5 feet away !

  • @canisdeumnox4925
    @canisdeumnox4925 2 місяці тому +2

    Ever after sleeping with a guy I'm not sure he gay...

  • @ABC_DEF
    @ABC_DEF 6 років тому +56

    Some of the men I work with I have known for twenty years and consider them friends, but I have no idea whether they are gay or not. We are all in our 50s, and of course they are not on Grindr (neither am I), and if they have facebook they won't reveal it there (neither do I). They may be gay, but they don't go to gay bars, or attend Pride, or wear fashionable clothes, or listen to pop music. Not everyone who is gay is public with it, or makes a big thing about it, and not everyone lives their life on social media.

    • @hpatdh077
      @hpatdh077 6 років тому +1

      ABC DEF are they single, do they talk about women all the time, do they look at women on the street? It's not hard to figure out man.

    • @shiell6360
      @shiell6360 6 років тому +5

      Even if a gay man is not so open. It'll be obvious cause when instinct kicks in😂 little signs will appear for example the eye contact. Eye contact is really obvious. When you walk on the streets with a friend and he suddenly look over at a guy for several seconds. There could be it.

    • @TheMatube12
      @TheMatube12 6 років тому +2

      ^You can have eye contact with anyone for any reason.
      And to the OP, if you don't have Grindr, how are you so sure they don't?

    • @TheMatube12
      @TheMatube12 6 років тому +6

      @Nifan, not everyone talks about the gender that they are sexually attracted to.
      Plenty of straights that don't bring up girls.

    • @markledesma3251
      @markledesma3251 5 років тому +2

      ABC DEF i am in my 50's and did go to pride a few times, los angeles, san francisco and toronto, living in los angeles i have frequented 1350 in long beach, melrose spa and kohler in downtown los angeles, sad to say basic plumbing in silverlake is gone, i dont do well at the zone or hollywood spa, other good choices are tomkat, heisler park and the stretch of beach by the boom boom in laguna beach though keep an eye on roving cops and occasionally a chopper, in my 20's sex in the car, garden grove with the adult bookstores was cruisey so is the parking lot fronting ripples in long beach, craigslist came much later, eye contact worked for me very well.

  • @loveprimetimepokemon
    @loveprimetimepokemon 5 років тому +31

    no no no!!
    literally all straight guys i talk to stare into my soul and im always the one that breaks it

  • @momolight3406
    @momolight3406 6 років тому +15

    I’d say pay attention to their voice, if they are into you then their voice is likely to change around you. Also body contact. I had this one friend who would always touch me but swore he was straight, recently I found out that wasn’t the case. And body language is a big indicator, like if someone is blushing when they talk to you, if they have their bodies pointed toward you, if they are really open. It really isn’t hard to tell when you look at the right signs lol

  • @richardportman8912
    @richardportman8912 6 років тому +22

    The most difficult time was telling my friend . I never did care about what my parents thought. My 2 brothers are straight but totally cool. My sister supports Trump and is the girlfriend of a married straight adulterer.
    But me and M were friends for many years.
    Finally, he asked me, are you gay?
    Seriously, this is after 25 years of friendship! I began to cry and told him yes. But then the conversation was interrupted because we were at a gathering.
    Everything turned out fine.
    I was afraid if he knew I was gay, he wouldn't love me anymore.
    But he still loved me for sake of our friendship.

    • @frigglebiscuit7484
      @frigglebiscuit7484 5 років тому +1

      wtf did this have to do with saying your sister supports trump?

    • @michaelhorath6851
      @michaelhorath6851 Рік тому +1

      @@frigglebiscuit7484 He mean his Sister is crazy !!!

  • @jamieb9168
    @jamieb9168 Рік тому +3

    The co-worker friend l like is straight but I also suspect he is a little bit bi-curious. It's complicated because I'm married to another guy and all 3 of us work together at the same factory. The co-worker is married to a woman and has 3 young kids. I've known him for a little over a year now. And over that time he's seemed to drop hints. The biggest one was when his wife was out of town and we picked him and his two younger kids up and went to a fair in another town. At the fair there was a little indoor reptile exhibit. One of the guys showing the reptiles was obviously gay (mannerisms and voice). A week or so later at work, me and the co-worker were talking about how gay people can find women pretty and how straight people can find someone of the same sex attractive too. Then he actually said "Remember that guy showing the reptiles at the fair?" I said "Ya." Then he said "If I were gay, that's the type of guy I'd like." To me that was a huge surprise that he said that. Then what he said next was even more surprising. He said "Even my wife thinks I'm that 5 or 10% of guys." I'm not exactly sure what he was saying but I think he was saying that his wife suspects he's bi. The one in ten or 10% statistic is usually for gay men. Meaning 1 in 10 men are gay. But he's been flirty with me at times and I've watched a LOT of UA-cam videos to see if my suspicions are true. And, YES, when we're on break or lunch at work I can see him checking me out from the corner of my eye. There was an incident in November of 2022 where he was off work for the whole month because his wife had a medical emergency with a severe asthma attack. She even required a breathing tube. And these are people who are only in their early 40's. After he came back to work in late November, I could tell he was really focused on his wife. But it wasn't long before I noticed him checking me out and making flirty comments again. Me and my partner also take turns giving this guy a ride home each night. Then, just recently he decided to join the local YMCA to start getting in better shape. He brought the paperwork to work with him and I honestly think it was to get me interested and to join. So during lunch one day, I went over and looked at the schedules for different classes and the sheet with the sign-up fees, etc. Then, a few days later I joined that YMCA and he seemed pretty happy. So now we are working out together. And I am also fairly certain he admires men with muscular builds. I'm stocky but I also have a muscular build. And when we talk, I can see his pupils dilate, which tells me that he likes what he's looking at. But this past week he wasn't able to make it to the gym but was keeping in contact with me via text messages. And at work he was telling me that he miss all the days this week because he and his wife are having difficulties. He said they've even been talking about the possibility of divorce! Then, just in the past day or so he's been asking my opinion on having a tattoo of his wife's name removed from his write. He started out by humorously saying he was going to get a new tattoo. Then he showed me the tattoo of his wife's name and he said "I'm thinking of putting the word "Void" there." So I'm in a really peculiar position right now. Here we are working out together at the gym and he's confiding in me that his marriage is on the rocks. And I can see tiny cues that he may be into me. And he knows that I'm attracted to him. Back in the summer of 2022 he grew a beard and was looking super hot. I think he did it to kinda fit in with me and my partner because we both have beards too. But one day he came up and we were talking at my work station. And I told him..... "Ya, when I first saw you were growing a beard, I was like "He's lookin' pretty hot!" And his response was "Ya?" He didn't seem offended at all and I could tell he took it as a compliment. After he was off work for a month and then came back, he decided to start fresh and shaved off the beard. But he still keeps a short chin beard and lets his stubble grow for a couple days each week before shaving. He's tall too..... 6' 5" and has blue eyes. And he has such a nice personality. At first I wasn't too sure because he's into outdoor stuff and likes all those survival type shows. He's actually gotten me into watching a tv series called "Alone." Where people are put on Vancouver Island in the dense forest there. And whoever is the last one remaining gets $500, 000. I'm already on season 4. So, YA, this is my big dilemma. I am so tempted to ask him if he's just a little bi-curious. But there are UA-cam videos that say I should let him make the first move. Otherwise I could embarrass him. There's a good UA-cam video by a guy named Patrick Morano called "How to get a straight guy." It's funny but he does make some good points. Ok, well sorry for writing so much but please let me know what you think.

    • @zaxele
      @zaxele Рік тому

      Long posts like this are usually copypasta but if it's real, maybe you can also drop hints like asking about how he and his wife are doing and what he thinks about a family like yours, or jokingly say that if he was gay or bi he would also be your type. If he's divorced then invite him to dinner and stuff like that.

    • @jamieb9168
      @jamieb9168 Рік тому +2

      @@zaxele This wasn't a fake post. I just like to write in a lot of detail. A lot happened since I first wrote this message 6 months ago. The guy is an alcoholic. He went for just 6 days treatment. But his marriage was already on the rocks. Then he found out that while he was in treatment, his wife went out drinking and spent the night at a girlfriends' house and left their young kids 11, 8 and 6 home alone for the night. When he found out he got into an altercation with his wife. She called the cops. The cops slapped a restraining order on him. So then he moved in with me and my partner on the condition of no drinking or smoking weed around the house. We also were working out together at the local YMCA. He was doing good but very paranoid about his wife being on Facebook all the time. So then he started going on a couple dating apps. He met a woman a few years older than him and a bit heavy set. I tried to tell him she was just a rebound girl. But she became obsessed with him because she knew no other younger, good looking, 6' 5" tall guy would go for her. She started lending him her car for him to take to work. I nick-named the car the "boomerang" because it always ensured he returned to her. He would drive 45 minutes back to her apartment after work and started staying at our house less and less. Eventually we knew he wasn't coming back but he left some of his stuff here. He finally came and got that at the end of May this year. He's being super irresponsible. Him and this girl both quit their jobs and got jobs 90 minutes away from her apartment thinking they'd easily find a place near work. That didn't happen so they're driving 90 minutes each way to work. He called me a couple times asking me to give him a good reference if a potential landlord called. I never got a call. Since he's met this chick he drinking and smoking cigarettes again and isn't working out anymore. And he kept delaying his court case to deal with the charges the police placed against him when he had the altercation with his wife. He said he kept delaying the case to punish his wife but, it made me super angry because he was also delaying being able to see his 3 kids! He kept posting on Facebook about going on trips with this new girl and meanwhile he hadn't seen his kids in over 3 months! He's a loser, a deadbeat dad, an alcoholic and using this chick to live rent-free and use her car. I've lost any attraction to him. Besides he told me he's 100% straight. I blocked him on my phone and Facebook and hope I never see him ever again. I just feel so bad for his 3 kids though. They are gonna grow up to resent their dad. Especially the oldest, who had just come "out" as bi-sexual. He tried defending his mom during the altercation and his dad raised his fist to him and told him to "back off." So the wife told the cops that and there was a restraining order from being able to see his oldest son too. So now I can see some part of his oldest son feeling like his dad left because he came out as being bi-sexual.

    • @zaxele
      @zaxele Рік тому

      @@jamieb9168 (I also tend to type a lot but many ppl told me it's too long so I'm pretty sensitive about it.)
      ugh those alcoholic. My father is one of them. They're always the abusive one. My mother and I have been traumatized by him, mentally and physically, so much that we swore we'd never let him go back to live together again. One of my closest friends has the exact same story with his family and the alcoholic/abusive father. I feel so sorry for that guy's family and you, but if that's the road they chose, they can't be helped, unless they want to do it voluntarily, because drinking and smoking can really damage the brain, and it's very dangerous if we force them into rehab. The outcome would have been so much better and different if they weren't willing to destroy themselves like that, in an ideal world the three of you would have been a company.
      You're awesome and decent. I wish you all the best.

  • @nycdan95
    @nycdan95 7 років тому +23

    The gay bar in my town is called the "leaky life boat" lmao definitely staying away from it

  • @isaiahnichols3125
    @isaiahnichols3125 6 років тому +6

    My big huge crush laughed at my jokes and makes eye contact when he does...I literally called myself dumb thicc im front of him and he laughed ugh I’m still confused still think he’s straight...I hate life

  • @jameshaag3564
    @jameshaag3564 7 років тому +27

    I truly love your videos. The way you talk is just so calm and comforting and I always put your videos on to listen to while I play video games or do homework. Thanks for all of the content you've made. It's helpful in so many ways.

    • @disneyshield
      @disneyshield 7 років тому +1

      Jimmy Haag I agree! His voice is relaxing and always keeps my attention. And the content he puts out is informative but also entertaining! He's the best!

    • @Cinehotties
      @Cinehotties 6 років тому +1

      Jimmy Haag Hello i hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

    • @TeecherChardie
      @TeecherChardie 6 років тому

      😎

  • @artemxcx
    @artemxcx 6 років тому +16

    omg you're so cute i wanna hug you

  • @smokey1255
    @smokey1255 5 років тому +49

    When I finally came out in my mid 30s I realized it was ok to look at guys, it opened a whole new wonderful world. I went to a mall with some friends and realized there was eye candy everywhere. I noticed who the guys were looking at. If they were looking at other men, I was pretty sure they were gay. If they were looking at women or just briefly glanced at me, they were straight.

    • @jonnychingas5757
      @jonnychingas5757 2 роки тому

      I like to look at weirdos like you that doesn't mean I'm gay

    • @stephenproulx175
      @stephenproulx175 Рік тому

      Same! Im facing this right now. I'm 33 and married and it's tough to come to terms with

    • @ChiefJeyEf
      @ChiefJeyEf Рік тому +1

      @@stephenproulx175 Come to terms with what? If you don't mind me asking.

  • @HongKongKasper
    @HongKongKasper 7 років тому +16

    I am gay and I have this guy friend at school that I really like, but I do not know if he is gay or not. It is really hard to tell and I have got no clues. Not even a stereotypical one.
    He does not follow any gay person or makeup guru or fashion designer or whatever on Instagram and Facebook. He does not dress gay or wear makeup or got any gay friends. The only clues I have is that he seems to be best friends with a girl and so am I. He sometimes acts a little gay such as posing "gay" in Snapchat pictures and he often uses the word fabulous. I know my assumptions may seem very stereotypical, but there is just something about his charisma that makes him seem gay.

    • @rickdorsey3990
      @rickdorsey3990 6 років тому +2

      Actions and mannerisms mean nothing honey. I don't get into all that jazz and drama that you motioned, yet I am still gayer than a bag of birds. My partner is even less stereo-typically appearing, yet he is just as gay as I. Some of us boys just like to be boys and like our boys to be boys too.

    • @robertlueras5240
      @robertlueras5240 6 років тому

      Your profile pic throws me off

    • @witchtrials_
      @witchtrials_ 6 років тому

      dont waste ur time and just ask him ffs... don't be like me who liked a guy for a year without doing anything..

  • @clover7359
    @clover7359 6 років тому +15

    There are plenty of people who fall in the category that have no behavioral indicators that even hint at them being gay, like me. Everyone always assumes I’m straight because there’s nothing about me that indicates otherwise. There’s a lot of people like that, which is why the best way to find out is to ask.

    • @clover7359
      @clover7359 6 років тому +2

      MuseDuCafe not really. You don’t have to be gay for that to happen. I’m basically sayin that I’m immune to gaydar. There’s a good amount of us like that too.

    • @frigglebiscuit7484
      @frigglebiscuit7484 5 років тому

      @@xAlphaBxtch saaame. i dont have any real revealing points, and i dont say much, so people really dont know, unless they ask.

    • @101sanford
      @101sanford 5 років тому

      @@clover7359 im avaliable

    • @Securo-Bytes
      @Securo-Bytes 2 роки тому

      Not easy is some places to just ask

    • @gabrieeuluzumaki6155
      @gabrieeuluzumaki6155 Рік тому

      I agree with you why create a crazy creepy story about a persons sexuality and not ask them personally if they’re gay/bi or whatever, but of course if you’re interested in or trying to run away from the person, because it can also be offensive

  • @debashishdas2068
    @debashishdas2068 3 роки тому +9

    Your video remembers me a guy in my office whom I used to have always an eye contact. A very deep, unavoidable eye contact. He was really handsome and didn't have so called gay features! I always thought if I could get to know him more, but pandemic has stopped that flow. One day I was just coming out from restroom and we were face to face. The moment was so sudden that your all guards fell off. We spoke for the first time and he had a such a charming smile.

  • @nwlman
    @nwlman 6 років тому +8

    I met my now husband in 1985 when we were 16 he came into my work place it was eye contact, he was exactly my height age and build, blonde to my dark hair. Still together

  • @plays3270
    @plays3270 6 років тому +15

    I tried walking up to a guy and asking if they were gay. Did not turn out to well for me.

    • @markledesma3251
      @markledesma3251 5 років тому

      pLaYs wrong approach, compliment him on anything

  • @superbuneary8819
    @superbuneary8819 5 років тому +15

    its just all about their vibe and energy.
    when u interact with them just try to feel the atmosphere aroud the 2 of you and the way you make him feel and vice versa, ya know.

    • @thenaturalpeoplesbureau
      @thenaturalpeoplesbureau 3 роки тому

      Testing waters is ok, but if you dont ask directly, then you just cause issues.

  • @lowwfeh
    @lowwfeh 7 років тому +60

    3:13 you have definitely never met Brazilians. We are all, man or woman, gay or not. Very touchy 😂

    • @larsedik
      @larsedik 6 років тому +5

      I've been to Brazil, and I also noticed that the men tend to ignore the women in string bikinis, whereas in the U.S. men would gawk at them. Brazil has more than its share of beautiful men.

    • @quincymagoo6134
      @quincymagoo6134 6 років тому +1

      I want to meet a Brazilian

    • @justme7625
      @justme7625 6 років тому +1

      Da Best i want to meet a Brazilian man then

    • @SubZero3965
      @SubZero3965 6 років тому +1

      FOREAL BRO, being a Brazi I get this ALL the time. People thinking I am when I'm just nice and touchy 😂

  • @brucesarver9328
    @brucesarver9328 7 років тому +13

    Yes- hard to decipher - especially if the person is Bi. Usually 'over time' you can figure it out by like different 'bread crumbs' he drops!

  • @alexharbula4930
    @alexharbula4930 5 років тому +23

    No straight man wears a belly shirt

  • @Hotspot87
    @Hotspot87 6 років тому +25

    Ironically, the cute guys I tend to crush on, end up having a locked Facebook account, or have no facebook at all. So I had to find out the hard way that they were straight...
    The last guy I liked, had some feminine mannerisms, and ended up straight. lol So you definitely can't count on stereotypes.

  • @ternitamas
    @ternitamas 6 років тому +8

    follow the eyes, at some point they will rest and linger on a guy, and ding ding ding!
    to me that's the giveaway

  • @Iceflkn
    @Iceflkn 4 роки тому +37

    I've been assumed to be gay for some crazy reasons. Background to know... I'm a disabled veteran with PTSD that might have been gay from childhood but had abusive parents growing up. My 13th birthday, my dad pulled me to the side to warn me that if I ever went gay, he'd kill me.
    I knew that meant it.
    No idea if they saw something or just wanted to head off something they didn't like the idea of. Who knows?
    I got married at 19 years old and had 3 kids right away. Never really dated before this time. The marriage lasted 22 years before I finally filed for divorce. Also, I never cheated in the marriage.
    I have been divorced 10 years now and initially thought I would hurry up and remarry a woman since being married was all I knew.
    Ha!
    The dating world really sucks and I got educated FAST about women being every bit as bad as the men they complained about.
    Who knew?
    Along the way I decided to go to a mens and womens nudist resort. Got with a couple or two.... Okay, I got so much couples action that first weekend visit that I never got to sleep in my own tent.
    Was told several times that while good-looking and rather manly (deep voice and all), it was my approach and relaxed attitude that made me stand out from all the other single men.
    Basically, I'd compliment a lady on her hair or her clothes or such. I never went straight for the, "goodies". Plus I love to dance and guess I'm pretty good at it, which some ladies seem to really like.
    Anyways, this was also the first place I got to play with guys. Seems most of the married men who invited me to enjoy their wives, were using it as a chance to try something with me.
    So I explored a bit and found it all to be rather fun. Thing is, I had no idea if I was truly bisexual or leaning in any certain direction.
    I continued to chase women and was doing pretty well, according to my friends stunned disbelief. Again, I think it's simply my approach and lack of creppy guy attitude.
    Two years ago I had a nasty breakup with a gal that went stalker on me, so I gave up dating altogether.
    Thanks to my PTSD and issues I am working to overcome, when out in public with friends, I no longer find myself even trying to score on anyone. Nor do I find myself responding when hit on by a guy or a gal.
    I just have no real sexual desires at this time in my life. Not that my sex life was something I ever shared.
    Seeing all of this, most of my friends have assumed that this means I've gone completely gay, even knowing about my PTSD.
    As of today, I'm not sure what label I would put on myself but feel like it would be a waste of time to do so anyways, as people can be fluid in their sexual lives and I'm no different.
    Eh, people will think what they want to and there's little you can do to stop them from doing so.
    So, I hope this might give a slightly different perspective.

    • @benokballatan963
      @benokballatan963 4 роки тому +2

      Nice story sir

    • @kjpeters6975
      @kjpeters6975 4 роки тому +7

      Bruh your life is very interesting.....but from what I’ve read your more curious saying the least. I wouldn’t say your bi or gay or str8. Your somewhere in between those areas. Bi-curious?

    • @keanureeves8969
      @keanureeves8969 4 роки тому

      If you wish to chat with me , write me on my email reevesk62522@gmail.com or WhatsApp ‪+1 (817) 585‑3744‬ ...

    • @kamilamuradymova9569
      @kamilamuradymova9569 2 роки тому

      Hi, probably, you were disappointed in relationships overall and decided to focus on something else like career, hobbies, etc. Maybe if you meet the person you will real like man or woman everything will come in the order. What do you call PTSD in your situation flashbacks from your career or marriage?

    • @stephenproulx175
      @stephenproulx175 Рік тому

      Your dad was wrong and insecure

  • @Manon627
    @Manon627 5 років тому +8

    I fell in love with a guy and am hoping he's straight but i somehow get gays vibes from him but he's so cute though
    Edit: he's straight, now i actually have to try and get him to like me

    • @stupidt3232
      @stupidt3232 5 років тому +1

      I fell in love with a guy and I'm hoping he's straight but idk. Also I'm gay lol

    • @Manon627
      @Manon627 5 років тому +1

      @@stupidt3232 weird flex but okay XD

    • @stupidt3232
      @stupidt3232 5 років тому

      @@Manon627 lmao

    • @stupidt3232
      @stupidt3232 5 років тому +1

      Get your man's girl 👊🏽

    • @Manon627
      @Manon627 5 років тому

      @@stupidt3232 haha thanks ;)

  • @ben132448
    @ben132448 4 роки тому +6

    I'm gay and act very masculine and straight extremely introverted and my brother is very flamboyant and gay very extroverted but he's as straight as they come.

    • @daviddavid2758
      @daviddavid2758 3 роки тому +1

      Lmao being masc sucks no one can think you're actually gay

    • @kimbapibnida693
      @kimbapibnida693 3 роки тому

      this is kinda what i neeeeeded 😭 i like a guy who has a twin, the one I like is masculine and his twin is kinda flamboyant....

    • @thenaturalpeoplesbureau
      @thenaturalpeoplesbureau 3 роки тому

      Im bisexual, and on some days extremely masculine, on others very feminine - but im only bi in that i like to give the occasional BJ.. Other than that i have zero interest in men. But people assume things, and this makes it difficult to date. Gays hope im gay, and im not. Girls sometimes think im gay, because i behave anti cyclical and look a bit feminine. In this way the gay community has made dating for bisexuals very difficult. I cant feel anything for dudes. Nor embrace or kiss them. All my fantasies revolve around women..
      And occasionally dick. So their feeling is not wrong - i love women with strapons. And i like to give head. To both. But the way gays and stright girls are socialized makes them confused about us bisexuals. Just because i reject outward superficial masculine status and symbols, does not mean im gay. Never assume, always ask. And dont ask if gay, ask if bi or gay. Then at least i have an option, and know im not wrongly categorized.
      Which turns me on. Knowing that you understand that other than giving blowjobs, im never interested in dudes, i can let go, and go on my knees without any fear.

    • @thenaturalpeoplesbureau
      @thenaturalpeoplesbureau 3 роки тому

      @@daviddavid2758 being a more feminine bisexual who likes 95% of the time only women, sucks equally... And yeah, i suck ;D

  • @andreaslindenau1190
    @andreaslindenau1190 4 роки тому +7

    I think "touching" is the best way to find it out ! By the was: are there really gay quarters in N.YC ? I thought that there are lots of gay people in San Francisco .

  • @gldi8hr
    @gldi8hr 14 днів тому +1

    I’m personally and physically awkward often mistaken as a gay guy while I’m actually 100% into women only, there hasn’t been a single time I felt myself attracted to a male as I feel for females or got involved with a male, actually the idea of hooking up with a man disgusts me. And many times my sexuality is attacked among other things such as my moral, etc cause it’s people’s interest both straight with lack of confidence and gays who are unhappy with themselves and/or wanted to hook up with me. I agree on not being the most manly guy but that doesn’t make me or anybody else gay. Not to mention there are 100% gay men who are more manly than me as not every lesbian woman being masculine, same applies to the straight universe, man and women 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @davesmith7342
    @davesmith7342 5 років тому +8

    haha this is so funny, I had a guy who was trying to find out if I was gay and his questions were becoming increasingly bizarre, one question he asked me was whether or not I liked Cher and I mean I do so I said yeah . then he looked at me and asked old Cher or new Cher? Too funny!!

    • @rush_han_
      @rush_han_ Рік тому

      I did that shit too, so embarrassing

  • @IPSxvx
    @IPSxvx 6 років тому +11

    So im in a situation with a guy and we have only known each other for a year but he showed signs when we first met. Calling me daddy, touching my thigh, and smiling and looking at me. But we made different friends through the school year and grew apart until I decided to add him on my social medias. He added me back and we started talking sending drawings on sc and he told me I was beautiful. One day he was walking with me to our school bus and he kissed me on my cheek and told me he was bi but idk if he was joking or for real. So one night on facetime with my friend I tell her im going to tell him I like him. So I did but all he said was "Your not the only guy that has had a crush on me" What does that even mean? But ever since I told him that he looks at me in class, smiles at me sometimes, and sits by me for no reason but to sit by me. When I sit with our friends he stares at me but he has a girlfriend. What does this mean? Does he like me? Or is just really friendly?

    • @AlrightyMister
      @AlrightyMister 5 років тому +5

      tristin 0oo0 I know this is from 7 months ago, but to me it seems that you shouldn’t concern yourself with wanting to be with him, because if he kissed you while he was with his gf, it’s likely he’ll cheat on you.

    • @thatb1h855
      @thatb1h855 5 років тому +3

      Sorry to break it to you, but this guy sounds like he’s leading you on, or keeping you on the side in case things end badly with his girlfriend. So just uh try not to give him what he wants, your attention. And I think he is Bi.

    • @bencuraza6503
      @bencuraza6503 5 років тому +1

      Frigglebiscuit LMAO

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    @georgeargolo6310 Рік тому +1

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  • @GBuck0798
    @GBuck0798 7 років тому +37

    Andrew, you're so amazing! You, Mark E Miller and Ethan Hethcote are by far my favorite UA-camrs of all time!!! Keep being incredible!

    • @irwanbiskut
      @irwanbiskut 6 років тому +2

      Garrett Buckingham andrew looks like mark and ethan combined!

    • @ohwow4377
      @ohwow4377 6 років тому

      And they are all 😍😍😍

    • @alansan7431
      @alansan7431 6 років тому

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  • @feminized2gemini861
    @feminized2gemini861 5 років тому +13

    I’m not a stalker but I love visiting your page 😂

  • @TheMrExemplar
    @TheMrExemplar 2 роки тому +1

    I feel like I can see who is gay just by looking into their eyes, gay people have really mild eyes they look like they are not treat to anyone but hetero men look kinda like they have a killer instinct inside them

  • @wendersoares4545
    @wendersoares4545 5 років тому +8

    I know that I am really really gay, when I see men like you. 💕

  • @nicolodelucia8743
    @nicolodelucia8743 3 роки тому +1

    he follows lady gaga? mmmhhh I see the line curving

  • @brenton4752
    @brenton4752 7 років тому +14

    Thanks for sharing man your looking good.

  • @scottsanett
    @scottsanett 7 років тому +56

    Those arms are massive...

  • @franklin7243
    @franklin7243 5 років тому +5

    Worst thing to know about your gay crush is knowing that 1) he’s straight and 2) he’s homophobic

    • @shawnchew767
      @shawnchew767 3 роки тому +1

      Well lots of homophobic guys end up gay like me. I was never homophobic but internal homophobia hit me pretty hard and then one day I’m like okay why are you hating yourself? And now I’m gay 😂. I can’t believe I was “straight” for so long…

  • @PhillipWayneButts
    @PhillipWayneButts 6 років тому +6

    Number One way to tell- Pay attention to what he is looking at. If he's checking out guys, distracted by some hot dude, says Hello to a cute stranger when you're walking down the street, then looks over his shoulder to see if they are looking over their should...

  • @jackfavvv
    @jackfavvv 6 років тому +12

    You're no help.
    What if I want to know if he's gay, while I'm not?

    • @hpatdh077
      @hpatdh077 6 років тому

      jackfavvv ask him. Straight guys are not afraid to ask if another guy is gay.

    • @indashadewithguccipaid510
      @indashadewithguccipaid510 6 років тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @boybriar
      @boybriar 6 років тому

      why would that matter to you as a straight male?? llmao

  • @RamessesIX
    @RamessesIX 4 роки тому +6

    Years ago, a bisexual roommate of mine and I bumped into a gay friend of his at the cinema, and he was all bummed out about a serious crush of his, "Well, if he is straight, yada yada..." We were just both shaking our heads at the sob story. Finally, the gay friend, started paying attention to our speed bump sighs and said, "What?" We each told him, if this guy is a friend, that is what is important. The question is authenticity: Does he maybe like you in "that way" or not? Whether he is gay, bi, or straight, genuine friendship is so much better than all those shallow illusions and what amount to ego issues, trying to make his time and love available to you without taking the time to glide up on him in a sensitive way. Maneurisms? Yeah, all this round and round is enough to give you a stroke. Is love even important to young folks, any more? I never found any love connected with "hooking up", but I found a good bit of quality time with friends who eventually were okay with "benefits".