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How To Call A Guy Out And Show Your Standards - Ask Mark #43
“How to call a guy out?” “how to show your standards?” and “how to tell a guy how to treat you” Those are the questions we’re answering today! This is dating and relationship advice delivered differently. Tonight is how to call a guy out on his bullshit and how to show your standards to a guy. This is Ask Mark, where I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from MakeHimYours) answer questions directly from you, my subscribers!
0:33 - How To Call A Guy Out And Show Your Standards
7:22 - How To Not Be Boring And How To Be Upbeat Around Men
10:30 - How To Get A Guy To Text You Daily/How To Get Your Boyfriend To Text You Daily
12:52 - Should You Sleep With A Crush Once Just So You Don’t Have To Wonder
The first dating advice question I answer today is about how to show your standards to a guy when his treatment has been less than impressive in dating. If he ghosts, uses you or betrays your trust, what’s the best way to call a guy out and ensure it doesn’t happen to you or another woman again? Should you call a guy out in dating? How to call a guy out in dating? How to show a guy how to treat you and how to show your standards to a guy - that’s what I’m talking about in today’s main question!
The second dating advice question I’m answering is in regards to how to not be boring and how to be more upbeat around men. What if you’re not naturally upbeat? Should you change yourself in dating? How to change in a way you like? Your energy will resonate with men, so what do you do if you’re not naturally upbeat? I talk about how to put a great, positive, natural energy across that attracts the best men, even if it hasn’t been you in the past.
The third dating advice question I’m answering is in regards to how to get your boyfriend to text you and how to get a guy to text you daily. If you’d like to receive a text each and every day, how do you do it without seeming needy? How to get your boyfriend to text you each day and how to make a guy text you. You don’t want to seem needy, but you also want to get what you want, so in a great third question today I’m talking about how to get a guy to text you.
Finally, I’m answering a dating advice question about should you sleep with a crush once just so you don’t have to wonder? If you’re obsessed with a guy, should you just have sex with him once, so at least you know and can move on? That’s the final dating advice for women question I’m answering today!
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Hey Mark, are you saying to give him feedback if he comes back to me, or should I continue to pull away when he tries to flirt with me at work?
And If his Ego is always high and he never want to admit that he need to keep ANY woman?
Hey Mark, thank you so much for taking that last question and paying such attention and care as you did. Such an important message to be spread, thanks for looking out for our young ones! !
We need more on this topic :) chicken vs. lettuce. Too funny
I love this - being vulnerable saves a lot of future heartaches. I was in a situation where a guy took what I said the wrong way & completely avoided me. I told him he hurt me, & I ended the friendship. Nothing grates me more than a passive aggressive man - it's the most unattractive quality a person can have. If a man allows his ego to get in the way of an argument every time, it won't work for me. I'm all about humility. Conflict isn't you VS. me, it's US VS. the problem. I cannot emphasise enough how vital GOOD communication is! X
NIce thoughts T-Cat. Thanks so much for watching and commenting. xx
Silence and never call him...he Will think in His mind...
Hahahah that's definitely one method Kadri
I always call out. Lol. I need communication. I gave a guy an "F" in communication and told him so. I don't like flaky or ghosting. I'm direct. I don't lecture, don't whine...but I believe in respect. Why play games? Why pretend to be hurt? If it's irritating, say so. Geeze.
I definitely agree that when he's wanting to make things work, this is a great attitude.
I did the same to women when I was single. Weird how they were all butt hurt over being the cunt in the scenario.
J R I’m about to also and I don’t like game playing either, I want to know why he doesn’t want to have sex with me but just one position when we do have sex, so I asked him to do different positions with him and he didn’t answer he didn’t even look at the picture of a couple in the position? So this is sending a strong message to me and I want to discuss it. So that will happen tonight ? If it’s a selfish reasons he wants to do the same position all the the then I’m moving on...
I see your point ! Interesting. I can get over people very fast (especially men) so I do what he said "that's his loss. Why waste my time with a bitch ?"
Had nothing but games from a 48 year old. Like men never grow up
Silence is the best way to conserve ur energy & use it towards things/ people that actually benefit our lives! Don’t waste it ladies & gents ✨
I’m so happy when you said the best way to call out a guy is by your absence or walking away! As I did this recently I could see him bread crumbing pulling away! I almost text him to say I felt like he was stringing me along but then I thought mmh from what I was seeing from his maturity n behaviour I’d have to keep calling him out each time so felt wasn’t worth it. I let him show himself to me and in the end I I just walked away!
I swear I did the same thing. Allowed him to show his true colors and simply went silent. Did not block him though.
I am older and have had many online dating situations. I have been so exhausted by it. Many flakey guys. I used to be overly nice. But I learned to value myself more. I think it is best to call someone out for flakey behavior. Then walk away. But I think he needs to know his actions are not right first.
@@cm9859 online is exhausting 😅 it’s a numbers game which can be endless dating getting nowhere. I’m personally not going to call out every guy I date suppose you have to make ur own judgement on the situation. I find a lot of Time wasters/Ghosters tend to not reply or care so I don’t waste time or effort on people like that especially if they’re from online. so unless you don’t expect a reply back ….do what you feel is right 4 U.
@@cocohitchman3209 Yes, you are right. Cannot call out each person who does something we do not like. I regret now calling out POI a few weeks ago, because he got upset and he has not reached out at all. Even though, I have reached out to say sorry in detail. Maybe I needed to be more patient and not jump to conclusions. I am leaving it up to fate and Angels 😇 above. I hope he will consider reconnecting even if just friends.
A man can feel guilty and be aware of his shitty behavior but still keep doing all the stuff he has done before. If he is blocked in heart then nothing is gonna make him change. Neither the aggressive reaction of the woman nor the smooth polite reaction.
So very true. Some people are seemingly irredeemable. I ran into one recently. The block on his heart is disturbing. He does not attach to ANYTHING.
True. It's frustrating but reality. Only one option is lick my wounds and close the door behind us.
I’ve been binge watching your videos and I want to say that I’m blown away by your compassion and ethics in giving advice in dating. Right away I could see the difference in your energy from other dating coaches on UA-cam. I also love that you’re knowledgeable about the evolutionary psychology that motivates people, and you are clearly well researched. I’m so glad I found your channel, and I look forward to watching more of your videos.
Amen!
This is so true, don’t say anything & keep it moving.
If he is grown he will recognize his mistake & try to rectify it, if he doesn’t you have saved yourself from wasted time & effort.
It may not seem like it now but believe me you will see the blessing in hindsight.
I respect you so much! This is how these videos should be. Coming from a place of values not pleasing a man. You are really good and wise. Do not compare yourself with other "dating coach" with million subscribers. You are way better than that. Your oratory skills, presence and advises are excellent. It's a matter of time you will have many more subscribers and likes people take time to absorb wisdom most of them are looking for which fix. Having said that I hope the number of subscribers and likes never become your driving force of making these amazing videos.
Arw Sakshi what a beautiful comment - thankyou so much for it xx
And yes, agree with the last part x
I like the way you advised the 4th girl. You’re so wise and kind and you make women feel so safe 😍 you’re an amazing human being 💖
Do not put up with low effort men, pull them up on it and if they don't listen we have to walk away otherwise we'll turn it inwards and it will cripple our self-esteem. Either he's crippled with fear, hesitation or doubt and until he sorts his own issues out and learns to communicate or overcome his own insecurities the relationship is doomed. Learn to pull the plaster off and walk away, sooner you do, sooner you'll meet a man who knows what he wants and goes for it. These low effort men can rarely be trained, if the instinct isn't there then they're either not that into us, a coward or full of anxieties he's doing nothing to address. Imagine a life with this man, you will constantly be sacrificing yourself to make sure he is feeling comfortable, it will go at a slow pace until it just dies when one day you stop carrying it. Chemistry does not equate compatibility - we deserve both, a man who is low effort especially in the beginning will only hurt you. Do not chase him. Tell him you're not interested in this type of relationship, the dynamic is all wrong, you're not entertainment and if he doesn't shape up you have to be strong enough to LEAVE. Love yourself enough to LEAVE his ass. You're not his therapist or his mum, you don't need to train a low effort man, you need to LEAVE and hold out for a man who is assertive and puts in the effort.
Love beyond the moon I agree
Well said
Love this. It's easier said than done though.
I really love your advice, you bring value!
This isn’t about playing games but communicating your standards & asserting your worth by walking away when treated below standards.
‘We teach others how to treat us’.
Being a high value woman is a very lonely path because we don’t settle for anything less and far too many men out there try their luck with us.
I’m more determined and focused than ever to love myself and focus on what makes me happy, raising my worth everyday until the right one appears.
Thanks 🙏🏼
Glad you liked the video, Nilzaneva! Thanks for writing in! x
Agree. There's no point giving feedback to someone that isn't interested.
Thank you for expanding on this! I have typically been the one to walk away without saying a word but I have done it out of a "submissive"/"non-confrontational" (i cant seem to find the right word at the moment) mindset. My friends/family urged me to say something this time around because they think that this guy really took advantage of the good person that I am. Funny that I had indirectly been taking the high value route all along with past dating relationships. Because of your videos (this one in particular), I see the importance of building confidence and changing the way you look at the reason you walk away without saying a word. This is a game changer!
Yeh, I think there can be a LOT of strength in turning and walking away from someone who isn't deserving of you - not because you're being weak... but because you're leaving them in your wake to go be awesome without them. There are absolutely times to talk and communication is essential, especially when IN a relationship/commitment... but this applies much more powerfully to people who WANT to be in your life and meet your standards... sadly, with those walking away... it often falls on deaf ears.
Dude! That is so sweet that you took the time to respond to Gazelli!
Excellent message on negative feedback. Thank you for all your videos! ❤
Watched this a few nights ago and I used your advice.. It worked just like you said!! I'm skeptical of any advice usually but you sir are right on the nose! Thank you for helping me get thru dating after divorce.. After 50!! You are the real deal... and very easy to look at💜💙🙏
Mark, this was soooooo helpful!!!! I’ve been looking for answers and I found it!!! Moving on with my beautiful life and not looking back!!
Hey Mark! I see that your take in dating advice is deep and not manipulative or superficial. I really admire that, thank you!!
Thanks Tonia - really appreciate your feedback and lovely comment!
Seriously, you give so much clarity. Really great advice. Thank you.
A guy I've been seeing non-exclusively just told me he's decided to get together with someone else but still wants to be close friends.....thanks to your advice, i'm just going to let him feel the loss of me. :)
I had a similar experience, you did right. If you know what you want, you won’t stay for something you’re not happy with.
This is so true. Years ago I left my current boyfriend. No ultimatum, I didn't try and reason with him. I just blocked all avenues of communication.When we met again years later he took no chances and snatched me up quickly because he knew what he had he never wanted to lose again.
Are you guys married?
but why did you want to get back with him? also did he change?
Great video as always! The chicken and lettuce example was golden
Thanks Cynthya! Yeh I like it a lot. I loved this question and I'll have to make another video out of it.
Bless your heart, you're a patient soul, Mark. Nice video. (and this one wasn't pre-coffee!)
Hahahahahha nice Carly. Have a lovely, caffiene driven day
Amen to this! Your answer to Question 1 was just what the doctor ordered. Thanks dude! 👍 😋 x
Cheers Amy - appreciate that!
Advised my 16 yr old daughter that 'one strike and you're out' is the best motto..she disagreed! 10yrs on and many tears later the message has hit home.. She has figured it out herself..Talk about learning the hard way..
Oh gawd Magz. Sorry to hear. If it's an consellation, 16 year old daughters auto-disagree with everything
Awh Mark thank you for the reply.. her first guy was psychopathic so she fell into a habit of giving second chances. I so agree with your advice to cut them out.. she now does as well.. Happy New Year from Ireland.
Happy new year from Australia!
Mother Tring Tring approves this video! So my type, too just too young. Your advice is closer to what I know than the other coaches are bringing.
Whatever! The problem is that not everyone will do this so many people will not learn from how they treat you. I will continue to call people on their BS as I am walking away.
So, so true...on point 📌 Mark. Thank you for sharing this with us.
As always top notch advice . I always learn something useful for myself or a good friend. Mahalo nui loa!
Cheers Leimanaang - appreciate that
For me it is really interesting that there is a man who advice the women to know how to behave to men and give them hope and confidence. I appreciate that.
Excellent advice Mark!!! It makes perfect sense👌The best advice video I’ve heard on here! I definitely won’t be calling him out now lol
Woohoooo!! 🙌🏻 I love this advice. It’s spot on!
I would give this video two thumbs up if I could...Great advice Mark.
Mark thank you for confirming how to react to a man that disrespects you. I've been trying to figure out if I should respond to disrespectful text messages. You confirmed that him losing me says enough said. Thank you 😘
My pleasure! Thanks for watching xx
Love the bit about gravitating toward men that invest in you!
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I needed to hear this so fucking bad, thank you Mark! ❤️ i’m doing nothing, besides getting on with my own life and enjoying it without him ✌🏼
Great analogy about the "Dog and the chicken." Spot on as to how the way men learn.
Ok my problem is, I don't lead a man on, spend time with them, sleep with them, be in a relationship then one day stop texting them...if I am not feeling him from the beginning I leave him alone. I'm upset with the men who pretend they are in a relationship with you then just disappear, so I will let them know they shouldn't of wasted my time...let me know from the beginning, not months or years into the situation.
Amber Marie if he wastes my time I will call him out sorry not sorry
Sandra Alexandra oh trust I do.
Amber Marie it's the worse. Way too many people. No need for ganes...
Bella Song an asshole? A game player? A waste of time?
I tell them by the first date if I want to see them again...it within a few days. I believe in being direct. No stringalong.
Fire answers! Thank you!!
Dogs should not be equivalent to men. A dog shows unlimited love & attention to his human. Humans are limited (some manipulative as well) in how they show or give love, if at all. But I don’t refer to guys as dogs.
It's not intended to be a direct metaphor Celisse - but all forms of mammals, humans too, are creatures of emotion and emotional training.
Ya...they are pigs actually....dogs are faithful after all
Celisse Willis I agree a million percent. My dog is my bestie right now, and I tell people, “when a man shows up that can love me as much as my dog does, and I love him as much as my dog, then, and only then, will he get my attention”. I have learned to have WAY more self-esteem than most men can handle. And my standards are pretty high. I have chosen to keep the “cookie jar” closed for about. 17 years now, and feel FABULOUS. Nobody using me, breaking my heart, making my soul cry, in humanities inhumanity to women. I am SOVEREIGN and in my POWER and loving my own fabulous vibration. If the right one comes, fine, if not, fine. I am good.
Just marry a dog then
Acting like animals are better than men is hella stupid and wrong
My dog is very manipulative. The difference is he wants me to give him food and back rubs instead of sex and validation.
Wow- I love this advice. Very insightful!
I love how you ask the question, "How does it change the world?'❤️
:)
I loved the chicken example! That was perfect! Haha XD That was a great way to explain it! I completely agree! Keep up the great work!
You nailed it.. The dog with chicken...I love it! I finally get it!
Boom!! This is soooo powerful advice Mark.. i looooove all of them in there - your advice is purely Gold! Thanks Mark. Much Love.. 👌
Thanks Belle - I really appreciate such a beautiful/lovely comment
This is a such a good video. You give really genuine and ideal pieces of advice and from a really good place.
Means a lot, Nalini. Thanks so much! x
I’m expressing how I feel and being my authentic self.... I can’t stand men who just want to see how long they can waste your time texting you and calling and never ask you out on a date. How long is appropriate to text before your a woman who is just wasting their time? I say two weeks if they don’t live in another country after just wasting two months of my time. I just told this guy basically that I didn’t appreciate him leading me on ...and told him I’m giving him the cold 🥶 shoulder next time I see him where we hang out and I feel much better now. I honestly think it’s better to let him know how I feel and that I don’t appreciate him wasting my time just to get attention from pretty girls.
some guys subconsciously do it, especially if it's normal in their culture. this advice won't work if there's a cultural difference and it is better to call him out and express myself instead of just walking away it will only make me resent him more. I did the opposite good thing I told him what offended me because he said he had no idea because it's normal in their culture.
"..the chicken's over here, better sit for that shit..." 😂😂😂 WINNING!!
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you are so great Mark ! love your advice
This is a great message. I was being strung along by a guy who was “super busy” and ignoring the signs he wasn’t really interest. Finally just started ignoring his occasional texts. The. He straight up asked me if I was mad at him lol. I caved and we made tentative plans of course. Then the next day I texted him that I’d changed my mind. Told him that I felt strung along and hadn’t been mad but just stopped responding because I was disappointed with him. Then I just said goodbye in the nicest language possible. He wrote back an excuse and a nice goodbye sentiment as well. Of course I have moments wondering if I read him wrong because I really liked him. This video helped me come to my senses yet again! I said goodby to him to remove all temptation for me so I could move on. The right move. Been seeing a guy now, nothing serious, but his emotional momentum despite my struggles to make plans is obvious. He asks about my projects and what’s going on in my life! Thank you for opening my eyes and keeping me honest with myself!
I wouldn't have broken up with him just yet, I would want to see if continued to have interest, and I would communicate how I felt, and let him know my intentions & what are his intentions
I had a guy ghost me after 3 months of dating; he just stopped all email, text and phone suddenly. 3 years later I ran into him at an event. When came up to me casually trying to chat, I said maybe 2 curt words and didn't look at or speak to him for the rest of the evening.
good! he deserved it x
Awesome advice....love the metaphor about the dog and the chicken. Great stuff and funny too :)
Made that up on the spot aha! Thanks Ivana
OMG what an awesome response to the first question? The one about negative feedback? I just had a similar experience and wanted to yell at him telling why he should not do that to people, ... but I decided to calm down... and yes... the best way is just to run AWAY, he is not going to listen anyways... if I decide to tell him how much of a jerk he is... I bet he enjoys to be one, so if he is going to ever EVER wonder about anything related to me... is what the hell did she go??
I love listening to you on my spare time you are inspirational thank you
Wow! Great video. You nailed such a complicated topic. You blew my mind.
Thanks for watching, kkiissssiikk! Appreciate the comment! x
I don't believe in calling out on anyone. Ladies, it is a complete waste of time and you will come across as a psycho. Just have self confidence, shrug it off and go out that same weekend and meet someone new. That's what I do. Works like a charm. Eventually you will meet someone who will stick around. Maybe you will not run into someone like that for a long time but having fun in the meanwhile never hurts you now, does it? Also, date multiply guys at once. Have options cos you never know who will stick and who is not. Once one of them sticks, you can drop the others.
Világjáró oh..yes..Im doing this with guys online..some think they are exclusive..when Ive never promised this..😂😂💝🎈
What if you're friends at first?
On the contrary, you should make it a priority to call a guy out. Why? Because no man or woman should be allowed to treat you like you're nothing more than entertainment then move on to the next. But you must only do this once and to the point, then walk away and go have a great life. I guarantee you that you will be hearing from him again, now let the fun begin 😂!
I think you missed the part about delivery. You're supposed to be vulnerable about it
That's how I see life too. But I don't have a lot of friends and I'm single lmaooo
So true, I take great pleasure in the knowledge that he will miss my abscense.
So many tips in a video!
Mark, Bravo... I just love the advice you provided to that last question... seriously.. super classy and great advice to all young girls out there!!!
Thanks Roberta - yeh I try to keep in mind the youngens on the channel. Thanks for the lovely comment xx
I agree, I thought it was very sweet that he would include that in there even though it may not have been the most poignant question he received just so that he could provide a misled young girl with some valuable information and standards :)
Amazing sound advice!! Love it!!
Thanks Lauren - def gotta do a full vid on this one :)
"The loss of you!" Amen! The loss of me and complete lost of contacts.
God I really needed this !!! Thanks Mark 🙏
Thanks Mark great video and tips as usual.
Your advice is uplifting. you're amazing! Thank you
Awww thanks so much, Miss Louise! Saving your beautiful comment for any time I have a down day. x
This was SOO valuable. Love the lettuce, dog and chicken analogy. So we're chicken and men are dogs? 😂
Hey Mark! Thanks so much for another great session! I have such respect for you and your content, as it’s always 💯.
Your high vibe resonates in the depths of my soul and is inspiring, at the least. Love and light!
That is the best feeling in the world...the lose of you. I guessed the answer would be not responding--perfect about the energy part
Absolutely Jia Linn :) Thanks for watching and commenting!
I love this guy!
Omg Mark thank you so much! I actually walked away from him today :( my heart hurts, but i know that he will realise what he lost...i had so much love for him
i'm different i communicate everything that's on my mind, then i move on that's different from feedback or a guilt trip it's an honest conversation but it's how you do it
If you allow a man to use you he will take full advantage. It should never be one sided and if that's how it is you need to love yourself more and leave. You will find someone better.
You can always say,
“I was under the impression we had a good connection, however I just wanted to let you know that I am perfectly good and happy and wish the same for you. Farewell”.
I definitely would do this after doing the check-ins. If he doesn’t respond...you know what to do.
Because if he ghosts you, you definitely don’t want him in your life at all anyway.
Nope....
You are my new hero! Yeyy
This spoke to meeeee !! Thank you !
I love this because doing really speaks deep truth....it reminds me of the mothers in the Target toy aisle who "talk" with their illogical kids...DO logic.
Great Advice! Thank you!
This is great advice. Thank you
I love your videos! Biggest fan from Egypt xo
Amazing Advice!! Thank you.
Shanks Universal xx
Came across this gem again Mark 🙏🏻 amen to that. Powerful. I walked away from a guy. His gradually got back in touch 🤔🤔🤔
Hope you got heaps from this video, Claire! Thanks for watching! x
Oh wow that's so true. I wish more women were so bold to hold on to their standards. Because that's the only way to a healthy relationship.
Very good point Justine Mfulama! Thanks for sharing xx
I like watching all your videos Mark...i learn a lot which i could apply in my relationship with my bf..keep sharing your ideas by helping others. ThNk you. God bless
Get advice-Mark-great! Invest in myself, first. Thank you!
Dang Mark your response was on point 👌
Thanks, Maribel. Glad you liked it! x
I wish I met your videos way before now. Thank you
OMG are you coming to Cali?? lol watch you literally everyday, you give the best advice & vibes
I love your answer to the question about what you should do if they didn't text you for the entire day. Thank you
My pleasure Lashawnda. I'm glad you liked the video. Thanks so much for watching xx
Excellent advise, as always! Now I need to drill this in my head.
We have the chicken!!! Lol love that one
Hahahahah it's such a great Metaphor isn't it Jennifer?? Thanks for watching :)
Thank you mark, I really appreciate this as its relevant to my situation.
Glad to know that, Roy. Hope you got heaps from the video. x
I think this is a great video.
Loved the video 😊👍
Thanks Michele
Aaaugh you stood up for the youthful - saving inner lives 😁
Thanks Maryl, really appreciate it xx
Haha! 7:10 "better sit for that shit" I have a dog and this cracked me up. ^.^
Hey my friend you are so very right on this one .🌹❤️🌹
Don’t call out, just leave ❤👑❤️
I Love your analogies.
Mark you're great
Thanks so much, Pamela Vanzant! Really glad you loved them! Thanks for the compliment! 😊
Why is it always put on us to guide them.real men take your hand and tke the lead.
Full-Throttle Princess I have heard that I have also heard of men who want to be with women who considers them to be of equal importance. Men desire women of higher stature true enough but I have heard of them being intimidated by them too. Relationship comes from the word relate can you relate to them being so lowly, only if they are too. What about growing same thing. Will you be their friend when they aren't as high? Its bad on a relationship for people to cut off communication I am making no excuses for the rotten behavior because in some cases it lowers you sometimes even far too much when previously you were getting by they swoop in and take you to euphoria just so that when they drop you you crash hard. That's not good examining things to the tee can be a bit less brutal then examining emotions and motions of them. You look it over and you won't be thinking ecstatic or depressed you'll sum it all up in confused. I was a young girl as a kid I used to spin around in circles I confused my eyesight and my brain with this sort of thing if I were too disoriented I would drop and get back up again as if I were ready to be dizzy all over again. Confusion. Remember the first time you tried a different kind of something you previously tasted and the taste didn't seem to fit what the thing was. If you ate wheat bread all your life and you swear up and down you know what bread tasted like and you're handed sourdough, you know not the bread your used to. The strange bread has a very strong confusion to it. Only difference though you had to have known what THIS bread tastes like, because its bread and you said you knew. One mind blowing question is why spend so much or any time attempting to be noticed by the girl or talk to her if she's not that important to you that her text comes from out of the blue and you not only give her ample opportunity to turn her into a crazy person but make it difficult not to be? A woman who is direct wouldn't sugarcoat for the sake of an ego bloat I mean did they?
Full-Throttle Princess because unfortunately we run into kids not men 😩
We guide and inspire them, they take action. That's how I believe genders work in hetero relationships. It's equal, but we are not the same. Unfortunately, we often don't know how to inspire, and end up doing everything in a relationship, being controlling or simply expecting men to do everything on their own.
@@fsmithh thank you. The guys we want actually turn out to be kids.
this one man I dated before I met my husband, said, we have to talk more consistently, frequently if "this" is going to work long term, it's like, yeah, start putting in the time, effort, pick up the phone and call me, it's like he was expecting me to call him first (he needed that reassurance from me) when he is the one who pursued me & sought me out (maybe that's what other women were doing before me) & I wanted to see the effort, time, interest from him first
amazing you just saved me!!
That's good to hear Cathy :) Glad you enjoyed the vid
Hey Mark, I’ve really enjoyed the videos you’ve done on earning a guys respect, but most of your advice applies more so to early on dating and casual situations. In a long term relationship, i feel that just peacing out of the relationship is an over-reaction as a way to show the standard of treatment I expect and deserve. I’m looking for respectable ways to show standards and consequences that could be less drastic steps to take when ending the relationship would be premature. I find your examples of things to say very helpful, I was hoping you might have some suggestions on what I could say and how I could act to show that I’m serious about the walk, as well as the talk