Glad to see Kanwal is back. These are the things which are needed to be talked about. The awareness of the people needs to increase regarding such stuff instead of just brushing away the dust under the carpet. Takes a lot of bravery to do all this! Hats off to Kanwal, the ladies and the team.
I am a boy. And I have been sexually abused many times. By servant, by my professor and a stranger. I felt so weak at those times. It made me suffer clinical depression and I became victim of borderline personality disorder. Alhamdulilah I am fine now after 3 years of psychotherapy. I am a doctor now. These girls are brave to talk openly about this. Kyun k loag judge krtay hain phir. Edit: Thank you for loving my comment. 😍
I canttt even... Im speechless. Bought so many bitter memories!!! Not all men?? But all women have been abused before even reaching double digits in their age... 😭😭
Yes every girl/ girl child in pakistan in every section of the society has been abused in some way. In their own houses by the people they knew, in a shop/ market, on the bus.. you name it. Sick sick men in pakistan 😞
I am a survivor. I thought I would watch this and cry, but I watched and felt so lucky that incredible women like this haven given voice to pain. Kanwal, you are the real deal. I love you so much
Once I was waiting for a bus at a bus stop in karachi a man came and brushed his hand against my back and my butt it looked like as if it was a mistake so I shook it off a few minutes later he did the same thing again I knew that it was intentional then and I was petrified I froze I had no idea what to do, when I was in class 6 I used to be really good at taekwondo I won a few inter school and karachi level compititions and one thing that my trainer always used to say is that ur ment to use it when you need to be protected and not harm others this defense mechanism kicked in I remembered him at that moment. When that man came again and brushed his hand against my thighs and butt I turned and gave him a hard slap he ran away, but to this day I cannot wait at a bus stop are a public area comfortably , acts like this have repeatedly happened over the years Note: I wear a complete burka and have been wearing one since matric.
As a mother of a 6month old baby girl, I am literally shivering listening to these stories and thinking what kind of world I am bringing her up in. My soul shivers to even think about this. It's insane. These people are wolves in disguise of humans..
I would suggest never ever leave ur children with even ur family members alone.no one is trustworthy.Trust in Allah he is the mighty one over all these devils
I have a 7 year old daughter. When she was only 5 years I taught her about good n bad touch n who can touch her n at which extent anyone can touch her. Last year when she was only 6,her school van driver forced her many times to sit beside him or on his lap. When she did so,he touched her between her legs. She felt it wierd n told him to complain about it. He threatened her that if you told anyone I would drop you anywhere at strange place that you would never reach to your home. But she is brave Alhamdulillah. She told me. When I came to know about it I complained to school authorities n they got out him from his job.
Im so impressed and proud of your daughter. Well done for making her secure enough and aware that she should tell you. This is where we need to get to in the Asian community, rather than shying away from the subject or pretending it doesn’t happen.
I am a survivor of child sexual abuse and i am glad these things are being talked about. I probably will never talk in a public forum if i was not able hide behind anonymity. People need to understand the trauma and PTSD that the survivor goes thru. It happened to me when 5 or 6 and went on for many many years. I am almost 36 and with kids of my own, but that torture i still go thru. I only ever told my mother when that man was dying and i was being forced to see him on his death bed. For me i will never get closure because he is dead and you don't speak ill of the dead but i say it about that man who took my innocence from me as much as i can may that man burn in eternal fire with no forgiveness and no path to Jannah because that is the only way to closure for me now.
You are right..trauma and PTSD are very real and can be triggered any time. I hope that time comes when we can talk about sexual abuse openly and parents can understand and deal when their children share their experience and tell them that they are not comfortable around someone.
@@hinajm25 hey pls let it out..Allaah heal your pain, write about it in your journal, or please please seek professional help. You're in my duas from now.
My mother would take us to our taya's house in Lahore for summer holidays and we would stay there for a couple of weeks. I was only 5 at that time but I remember everything so clearly. My cousin who was in his early 20s told me he would show me kites on the roof, I didn't want to go because I had just woken up but he picked me up and took me upstairs to the top of the roof just under the staircase. He put me down and stood behind me. He then put his hand down my trousers and touched me between me legs. I remember I didn't know why he was doing this but I knew it is wrong because no one had ever touched me there. I felt extremely angry. I started to scream and pulled myself out of his grip. I ran down to my mother. It never happened again alhamdulillah. But I never told anyone and only found courage to tell my mother when I turned 23. She said she remembered he would always call me to go upstairs but I never went. She went quite after this and never brought it up again. This cousin has a problem with drugs and his personal life is in shambles as well. Allah gave him what he deserves. May Allah protect all of our children from these monsters. Ameen
The stories of sexual abuse or harassment remind me of how even I had once faced inappropriate touches when I was hardly 6 - 7 years old. My school was 10 minutes walk away from home. I used to come back home with my other 2 female cousins and brother. I had exams in those days and no friend or cousins had exam on same day except my brother and he too were busy playing cricket in school ground so I disappointingly left alone for home. But that day I came across a stranger on a street and it was almost at noon time. He first said that he is my uncle and blah blah and then picked me up. He then touched me in inappropriate ways. At that time I was so little to understand what was happening but knew that he might be trying to kidnap me so I started crying loudly and then he left me there and ran away. Today when I hear about these abuse stories I honestly feel so blessed to be in the community where women like you are there to raise awareness on such sensitive issues. This will help more people to know and understand how they need to get themselves out of such situations. Hats off to you ladies!
6 times i was sexually abused at different occasions between age of 4 to 12. It takes A LOT of courage to share what happened to you how you truly felt then and how you truly feel about it now. Hats off to you ladies ❣️ thank you for sharing.
Hiii mam...m from INDIA... Firstly i want to say that the stories i have seen in ur channel is soooo sooo inspirational..... And Secondly m following u since 2 or 3 years,....thanku for such inspirational stories mam .... Love for INDIA..
My friend and I were discussing the first episode when she told me how she was molested as a 6 year old. She is now 38 and she still remembered each and every detail of that incident which broke my heart. She said that this was the first time that she shared it with someone 😒 This show is bringing so much power to the oppressed. God bless.
Oh my god , I really did not expect the show to improve this much I am really enjoying the new format it is amazing Kanwal you are doing great job. I started crying listening to these stories this gave me a good reality check of how bad our society is
This made me sob like a 12 year old i was... He made me feel like I'm the one who's enjoying it because i don't tell my parents... Parents need to build up their relationship with their kid so they're not afraid... I'm 29 today and my father still doesn't know I've just recently told my mum about it...
@@noorkhaild please tell your patents or a sibling or a friend. If you can, tell the person to stop you dont like it. But pls pls do speak to someone so they can help you from this awful person
I think it’s equally important to teach our parents how to respond to such stories. Almost every woman and so many men were abused as children, and when we gather enough courage to tell our parents, they genuinely don’t know how to handle it. They feel guilty, and naturally ask k “why didn’t you tell us earlier?”. But they can do so much more. They can make that little child in us feel loved and cared for. They can acknowledge the pain. They can try to not listen to their knee-jerk response to brush it under the rug.
Parents must teach kids about good touch and bad touch and tell the kids to come tell them if they feel someone touched them in a bad way. They need to know they can talk to someone upon being touched.
I cried while listening sahar I was eating my lunch and I couldn’t eat now!! More power to them for being so strong and sharing. I have little nieces I will now be more protective for them. Thankyouuuu kanwal more power to you! Loved it ❤️
I am a survivor, this brought back sooo much stuff that I had blocked out long ago, more power to these strong women for coming forward with their stories.
Please try to record these stories in Urdu, specially the conversation with Police officer so the masses could learn and know the protocol, the sole purpose of this show is to educate people, English will only limit the audience, hats off to these brave girls and to Kanwal of-course!
I just cannot take the shiver in the voice of the victims... takes a lot of courage to step out and talk about these things. I'm so sorry and wish every abuse survivor a safe and contented life
As a victim of sexual advances from adults as a kid, I request parents to show their kids that they will be trusted. Give your children the confidence to tell you instead of brushing everything under the carpet and doubting them. I was fortunate that I was a very perceptive child and narrowly escaped from the abuse of two grown adults, both of whom were our servants. I was too young to know what it was. Just that I felt uncomfortable in their presence and the way they looked at me. Please talk to your kids about inappropriate touching. You are the adult and should inform them that their bodily autonomy is supreme and they must come to you if anyone crosses that boundary. Normalize having open conversations with your children and allow them to feel safe in their own homes. Even if a child does not protest against molestation or finds it pleasurable, it's still sexual abuse as kids are unable to give consent as they're neither grown up nor informed enough to do so. What happened to me was much less severe and horrifying than what's happening to so many innocent children today. Yet I cannot trust men ever again. Every time a man even remotely comes close, I feel afraid. Alhumdulilah I have overcome my trauma in many ways but I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with people of the opposite gender. Thank you to these incredible women for speaking so eloquently on this subject.
Both the girls , i Thank you for your courage to share such traumatic experiences with the audiences. I hope this saves many other naive children from predators.
It's a very serious issue that has been raised.hats off to the ladies narrating their experiences and also to Kanwal and Co for providing such a platform
Speechless ... I'm seeing so many women telling in comments section how they faced something similar. Wish we all have this courage to come up with our stories and this time society doesn't judge us for what has happened with US 😭 Lots of love for the survivors ❤❤❤
I use to go to this particular shop as a kid. I was 7 or 8 years and would buy sweets and candies. But this shopkeeper would always be friendly with me. He would touch my hips, legs. And for few time he use to made me sit on his lap. For few times this happened. One day while casually strolling with my elder sisters. Both of sisters were elder than me one may be 12 and other 15 at that time I told them. Baton baton main Bata dia k ye uncle ayse karte hain (still I think about that day k main itne chothi thi lekn qudrat ne mjhe apne behno k samne bulwaya. Than and there my elder sister went to his shop aur sab k samne bezatti ki us kamine ki. Do Bhai hute the shop pe. Ek bht kamina tha aur ek bht he shareef insan. Mere sister ne bht tamasha sab k samne aur wo sharminda hugaya. Uske bad main kbhe us shop pe nh gae. Today I am 25 years old. Aur main us hi area main rehte hun. Jab bhe kisi Kam se us shop se guzarti hun mjhe ye incident yad ata hai. He is no more there now. But my memories are!
May ALLAH give u patience & courage 2 cope with this situation. All I can say is unfortunately this happens with may be every girl. We should teach our children about their private parts & take good care of them😇may ALLAH bless you more 🌸
This was a really needed topic. I have a 9 months old daughter and I will make sure to teach her about good and bad touch and that I'm there for her no matter what. Thank you Kanwal and these brave ladies for talking about these things. We all need awareness.
Can completely feel you both, Najda and Sahar. Never had the courage to speak it out but you did. Thank you Kanwal and the team for this, to bring up this kind of sensitive concern of our society. Hope this courage and the hard work will bring about a positive change!
This help in healing the wounds of a child abuse victim. I realized all victims have the same process, blocking memories, getting aggressive, losing grades, not having a lot of friends . Having your memories back at later stage and having a hard time getting over it. Thank you Kanwel for talking on these topics
What's terrifying is that it happened even in vigilant households where parents are being careful. Also makes us mindful and more watchful..... As well as being tuned in to our kids' behaviours and feelings.
It takes allot of effort to talk about it. It feels so awkward when someone's stare at you continuously or want to touch you in an inappropriate way. My mother always told me to greet guests from distance when I was small. So I have this thing in my mind that we have to be reserved around everyone or any stranger even if they are your relatives. Personally meri ya thinking hai k humay apnay ird gird dhiyaan rakhna chahiya hai bachon ka even if they are not our kids. Jitna hum protect kar saktay hain at least utna karain. Baaki to sub Allah k hawalay hai, Allah subko apni amaan may rakhay Ameen 🖤 Kanwal, you know that you are an amazing person. More power to you and to these girls.. they are brave and strong and I'm proud of you all... stay blessed always ❤
After seeing this episode last week i couldn't type any comment here The hijabi girl's story: uski kuch baten mere zehen me bar bar ati rahin kch din tak Jb me ye episode dekh ri thi tw uski zulm ki kahani mjh se suni hi nahi gyi, mene pause krke video band krdi thi, phr bad me dekhi. Allah so much pain children go thru😓😫 only akhirat's concept can relieve a person' heart When Allah swt will do justice with mazloomeen May Allah forgive all of us, and protect us from being zalim as well as from being mazloom
I literally had GOOSEBUMPS while listening their stories. The much needed topic for all us to take care of our children and other's around us. More power to themm and Kanwal ❤❤❤
Thank you Kanwal for shedding light to these issues that aren't talked about often and are usually pushed under the rug. I so respect the fact that Kanwal is focused more on the issue plus she empathizes with her interviewees and doesn't dramatize tragedies for ratings like most talk show hosts. So much respect for you, Kanwal!
Brilliant episode. Thank you for shedding light on the law as well. I hope parents start reporting these things! It's so painful to interview survivors because just retelling makes then relive the trauma. I could hear the tremors in her voice. :(
May this stigma of 'log Kia kahenge' in our society get it off and more power to all these inspirational women and especially to Sahar you are Gem keep going girl proud of you all kanwal you are awesome! ❤️❤️❤️
The moment children start going outside of the house to play, in schools or madrassas its so important to teach them about good and bad touch. I am in tears.
Thank you for addressing this issue. It is an enigma how an issue so common is still so less talked about. This was definitely a need of the hour. This is not to scare parents, but to scare abusers - the next generation is not going to stay quiet about it!
This hits home. Thank you Kanwal for bringing this issue to the mainstream. Praying that we enforce better child protection mechanisms to avoid putting young people through such trauma.
Heart wrenching stories and this is happening all around us. I want to recommend a great book that I used to discuss the topic of bad touch with my 3 years old son. It’s called “My underpants rules”. Highly recommended for everyone to keep at home and keep reading it with them and provide them a safe reliable relationship. They need to have trust in parents to come back with any kind of problem and get a resolution.
Im so happy to see you back, this brought tears to my eyes😭😭 ALL these ladies are heroes for coming out and for having the strength to speak about their trauma... I pray Allah SWT protect all of us from this inhumane, heinous act. Ameen ❤️❤️
I literally felt goosebumps and can't control my tears. I think every woman has been molested at least once in their life time. And i think this is almost the story of everyone. Thank you for creating such a masterpiece ❤️❤️
I can't stop crying just knowing that many of the children of our society have been facing it being such innocent souls is devastating. Thankyou for this! What a start CWK! 👏🏼❤️
It's so difficult to come out with your memory of sexual abuse.... It's like reliving it all again.... More power to these 2 ladies, to everyone who's been through it. I hope we can all make a difference by educating our children, our women, our men, New parents of how we all need to do our part ❤️
It went shivers down my spine! We need to talk about ACEs too (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how they impact a person's psychological and physiological being!! ACEs study is one of the largest investigations of childhood abuse and neglect and household challenges and it's outcomes on later-life health and well-being done by CDC (Center of Disease Control and Prevention).
Omg! What a powerful episode! I have immense gratitude for these two ladies for sharing their stories as it requires extreme courage to do so. Thank you Kanwal for normalizing these conversations- a dire need of the hour!
Ya Allah!! You both are so strong.. I am so sorry that at very young age you guys had to go through this... after watching this episode I was literally crying and at the same time I had goosebumps all over my body .. Completely agreed on educating ourselves as moms and then our kids.. No One to trust!!!
This one gave me goosebumps and made me cry. This is such a sensitive topic, narrated so bravely by these strong women. Thank you so much Kanwal for bringing such important topics to everyone's daily discussions through CWK. Such real issues should be on mainstream media. Way to go! More power to us!
This had been happening and still happening around us but people had not the courage to talk about abuses but this channel is providing a platform and making people aware...keep up the good work.
Thank you so much for making this video and educating us . This is such a grave issue and most of the people don't dare to talk about it. But thanks to these both powerful ladies. I have six years old sister and this video has raised my eyebrows and made me careful and vigilant about my sister. We as an individual has the responsibility to educate everyone around us to mitigate this threatening disease from our society.
First of all, hats off to the ladies who are true heroes. They're the ones setting examples by sharing their own trauma and educating us all. Kanwal you're doing a phenomenal job. Keep up the great work, we NEED more content like this! 👍🏻
Hugs to both of you girls! You are so brave to come forward and share your stories. So many lessons learned. Loved the production quality/music/execution/mood...the entire show giving such calming soothing safe space vibes! Bravo Conversations with Kanwal team👏🏻👏🏻
So heartwrenching..this is one of my worst fears now that I have a child..may Allah protect all our children and everyone,and definitely we need to teach our children about it
Oh my God. I’m in literal tears. SOO well made. Such relatable emotions and stories ugh 😭 May all our abusers burn in hell. Kudos to these ladies for this courage to come out like this! The production value is great and it looks awesome. Impatiently waiting for the next episode!!
Ok so I loved the episode and yes the abuser can be anyone. After watching the episode I want to share what happened with me too. So we use to live in joint family and there was this man who used to work for at my tayas shop he use to come after the shop closed and use to get bread for dinner. Twice or thrice he tried to squeeze my hands while I handed him money. He showed me and my cousin his private part while we were playing he even pressed my chest once and now when I remember it I feel like crushing his face. And another time it was my tailor so basically I changed my tailor and my mother used to get hers stitched from some other tailor so I went alone and during the measurements he tried his fingers to reach to my chest. His workers and helpers were laughing I still remember their faces and the laugh. I ran away and never went back there after watching the episode all these memories came back. I wish these people burn in hell.
Kanwal, thank you for kicking off season 3 with such an important topic, one that is typically swept under the rug specially in South Asia. To the incredibly brave women who spoke about and relived these traumatic experiences I say this - Courage is contagious. When a brave man (or woman) takes a stand, the spines of others are often stiffened.
Very informative episode of all times Thank you for bringing this up. I was abused by my brother in law. He was my sister in laws husband. Imagine his guts to blackmail me and abusing me and I was just 18...everyone In the family respected this man so much... He would bring gifts for all and do everybody's work happily So I knew nobody would believe me as I was the newcomer in the house. But when this man tried crossing his limits I used to get nightmares and I started hiding whenever he was in our house. Then one fine day in the middle of the night I started crying and that was the time I shared it with my husband. After that till this day he knows everything and started protecting me and our daughters but even till now he hasn't exposed this men because of the family pressure.
So much strenght was needed to make this show. I just hope people realise that it is someone close most of the time. Please dont trust anyone with your kids and build a good relationship with your kids.
This all is making me sad that such things are common in our society but happy that you guys are making awareness. We all mothers should be vigilant and put these men down; name them n shame them.
Raised An excellent issue, we really need to educate our kids about sexual abuse. Very good episode. Keep it up👍 May Allah protect our innocent kids from such bloody rascals.
Uploading these episodes on UA-cam was necessary too... men can watch, from what sort of struggles and abuse women have gone through of going through Conversations with Kanwal it is indeed a brilliant start ❤ women around the world can relate to this not just of one country..
I remember I was just 14 when I first got harassed for the very first time in the public in Lahore , I cried alot but couldn't tell anyone else, then I was 17 when it happened again in the public in karachi. I can feel the fear those moments gives you for your entire life
Grateful to the two beautiful ladies that have come forward to share their stories. I hope that this video reaches far and wide, in every corner of our country so victims who are yet to come out to their families or seek out help and therapy can finally be inspired to do so and won’t be fearful anymore. You all have every right to be heard and those that did wrong by you must be named and shamed, preferably also jailed.
I hope these stories get to those guys who did it, they feel the consequence of what they did, they feel ashamed ... Well done to whole team CWK, love the fact that you guys added the legal perspective.
Kanwal and team can't thank you enough for bringing this topic up. It's so brave of both the girls to talk about. I myself faced multiple molestation attempts and everytime something like that happened I couldn't sleep for nights. It shattered my confidence completely. Now I am a mother of two year girl and the only that haunts me is if something like that happens to my little girl ever.
The situation of parents of kids must be tricky. I used to teach 9 year old girls in a school long time ago. There was talk about a male teacher who loved to talk to class 10th girls about ‘women related matters’ without being prompted making girls uncomfortable. One day the girls of my class told me that I should request the principal to not send that teacher to their class as a substitute teacher if another teacher had taken a day off as he did not teach them. I asked the reason and I was told that he came the day before and made a girl sit next to him to recite something and kept putting his hand all over her . I was livid and went to the principal who asked me to write a letter there and then and the teacher was removed. However, I later faced backlash from other teachers that I spoke without evidence as kids sometime imagine things. Also that I was responsible for how his family would suffer as his income source would be cut. I also felt later that I had not personally witnessed the incident and did not have a solid base to complain. In my defense I had written in my complaint that he makes the girls uncomfortable and should not be sent and nothing else. So the moral of the story is that sometimes kids testimony is not considered objective. That is another problem
@yasmeenahmed9321 I agree with your moral of the story....because sometimes the kids are not believed....as in Ur case you did a right thing and than you got back lash but am proud of you if you feel you saved the girls one or the other way.🙏🙂 @
I'm shaking... Thia brought back terrifying memories. I experienced sexual absue at the age of 14/15 and to this day, it effects me and my married life.
Kanwal please bring forward such parents who found out their children were being abused and did something about it. There is a certain barrier between parents and children in our society, which ultimately benefits the abuser. Getting to hear first hand stories from parents who actually took a stand for their kids would help many others.
Kawanl thank you so much for bringing these stories to us. Thank-you ladies for sharing your stories. You guys are survivors and we stand together. My abuser was our family doctor. A person in a place of trust. Among my cousin's I wasn't the only one who was inappropriately touched by the freak. People who say Pakistan may aisay nai hota are mistaken.
Pakistan mai yeh cheez bohat saaloun sa ho rahe he ab jub media par ana shuru hus aesa incidents tou logo ko courage mili k sab ko aware karen pehla tou parents tak nahi bacchoun ko guide karte tha
I am shivering listening to this. Yes not all men. but yes. enough men for all women. Thankyou for being a voice kanwal. thankyou for being our super star. Thankyou for providing us and a victims platforms so that they can share and save us.
Thank you for coming forward and sharing this ladies! Appreciated! You ladies are so strong Mash Allah,Thank you for raising this topic. Kanwal you’re doing great job. I have no words I just want you to thank you.
Unbelievably brave women! I can’t imagine how hard it must be for them to talk about their ordeal, and to share it with us and in a society where these things are swept under the rug.
Thankyou so much to Kanwal for bringing this topic up in such detail. Secondly, special thanks to the two ladies for sharing what is the story of thousands of children in Pakistan unfortunately. Just feel very thankful that we have come to a place where we are educating our children and learning that it’s not the kids fault! ❤️
It angers me so much to hear these stories. But I’m so glad that there’s someone out there trying to show us that instances like these are occurring sometimes right under our noses. It’s so important to create awareness and no matter how painful these topics are, talking about them is the only way we can be more aware. More power to all the women here & to Kanwal!
These topics need to be highlighted.parents should speak out with children and teach them how to report such incident. So proud of the girls who stepped up and shared their story.more power to you!
Salute to the guests it takes alot of courage to share such incidents that too in open. And much thanks to kanwal this is a much needed discussion, not just the incident but the aftermath and different coping mechanisms. The coping mechanisms are itself a hint for parents. People usually think aggression or coyness is the only coping mechanism but the one discussed in the latter part is one that needed to be told.
this is really sad that kids r generally not safe at their own homes.. way to go kanwal this is one of the most important taboo issues which need to be addressed and creating awareness is really important
What a kick start episode...wow so so impressed, im really thankful to these ladies for opening up n sharing. It needs to reached every where, n would suggest that it should be part of curriculum from elementary school level. In this era,even parents are reluctant to talk about sexual awareness,but blve me you are putting ur child in danger. It should b included in our curriculum. Thank you kanwal
KANWAL , Really good step , we needs to talk with this script , i mean this hell should get vanished , this hell is going through from centuries , ab bs bohat hogya, feels like the ratio is about 85%
Glad to see Kanwal is back. These are the things which are needed to be talked about. The awareness of the people needs to increase regarding such stuff instead of just brushing away the dust under the carpet. Takes a lot of bravery to do all this! Hats off to Kanwal, the ladies and the team.
Strong message!
Also, these are all strong, courageous and brave women and human beings. Speaking about their issues and traumas is a tough task indeed.
Gentleman spotted !!
No keep subtitles in English. English is a universal language.
Maybe add urdu subtitles along with English.
I am a boy. And I have been sexually abused many times. By servant, by my professor and a stranger. I felt so weak at those times. It made me suffer clinical depression and I became victim of borderline personality disorder. Alhamdulilah I am fine now after 3 years of psychotherapy. I am a doctor now. These girls are brave to talk openly about this. Kyun k loag judge krtay hain phir.
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Love and prayers for you
More power to u ♥️
I see you! And more power to you!
Sorry to hear keep strong 💪
May Allah protect you always Ameen
When your kid tells you that he or she doesnt feel comfortable around someone (chahay wo KOI BHI HO) please pay attention please!!!
You are absolutely right . I don't why our parents doesn't pay attention to that matter . There are so many evil monsters around us .
Riht
Exactly.. Kids can easily sense of good touch or bad touch ..
Right. Please don't ignore🙏
Yes right ..
I canttt even... Im speechless. Bought so many bitter memories!!!
Not all men?? But all women have been abused before even reaching double digits in their age... 😭😭
Yes every girl/ girl child in pakistan in every section of the society has been abused in some way. In their own houses by the people they knew, in a shop/ market, on the bus.. you name it. Sick sick men in pakistan 😞
We can't generalize it by saying every girl has been through it.
I am a survivor. I thought I would watch this and cry, but I watched and felt so lucky that incredible women like this haven given voice to pain. Kanwal, you are the real deal. I love you so much
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Once I was waiting for a bus at a bus stop in karachi a man came and brushed his hand against my back and my butt it looked like as if it was a mistake so I shook it off a few minutes later he did the same thing again I knew that it was intentional then and I was petrified I froze I had no idea what to do, when I was in class 6 I used to be really good at taekwondo I won a few inter school and karachi level compititions and one thing that my trainer always used to say is that ur ment to use it when you need to be protected and not harm others this defense mechanism kicked in I remembered him at that moment. When that man came again and brushed his hand against my thighs and butt I turned and gave him a hard slap he ran away, but to this day I cannot wait at a bus stop are a public area comfortably , acts like this have repeatedly happened over the years
Note: I wear a complete burka and have been wearing one since matric.
*hugs*
You are a courageous woman Fatema!
May Allah ease your problems and give you more strength 💛
i wish all girls has the courage to react like you did , more power to you
As a mother of a 6month old baby girl, I am literally shivering listening to these stories and thinking what kind of world I am bringing her up in. My soul shivers to even think about this. It's insane. These people are wolves in disguise of humans..
Give her your trust and confidence to speak out dear. That's what parents can give to children. 💕
I would suggest never ever leave ur children with even ur family members alone.no one is trustworthy.Trust in Allah he is the mighty one over all these devils
I have a 7 year old daughter. When she was only 5 years I taught her about good n bad touch n who can touch her n at which extent anyone can touch her. Last year when she was only 6,her school van driver forced her many times to sit beside him or on his lap. When she did so,he touched her between her legs. She felt it wierd n told him to complain about it. He threatened her that if you told anyone I would drop you anywhere at strange place that you would never reach to your home. But she is brave Alhamdulillah. She told me. When I came to know about it I complained to school authorities n they got out him from his job.
Im so impressed and proud of your daughter. Well done for making her secure enough and aware that she should tell you. This is where we need to get to in the Asian community, rather than shying away from the subject or pretending it doesn’t happen.
I am a survivor of child sexual abuse and i am glad these things are being talked about. I probably will never talk in a public forum if i was not able hide behind anonymity. People need to understand the trauma and PTSD that the survivor goes thru. It happened to me when 5 or 6 and went on for many many years. I am almost 36 and with kids of my own, but that torture i still go thru. I only ever told my mother when that man was dying and i was being forced to see him on his death bed. For me i will never get closure because he is dead and you don't speak ill of the dead but i say it about that man who took my innocence from me as much as i can may that man burn in eternal fire with no forgiveness and no path to Jannah because that is the only way to closure for me now.
Speechless 😔
You are right..trauma and PTSD are very real and can be triggered any time. I hope that time comes when we can talk about sexual abuse openly and parents can understand and deal when their children share their experience and tell them that they are not comfortable around someone.
Please talk about it more often whenever you can, talk to your kids...may you feel liberated.
@@hinajm25 hey pls let it out..Allaah heal your pain, write about it in your journal, or please please seek professional help. You're in my duas from now.
@@hinajm25 if you ever ever need to talk, hit me up here and I'll share my email
My mother would take us to our taya's house in Lahore for summer holidays and we would stay there for a couple of weeks. I was only 5 at that time but I remember everything so clearly. My cousin who was in his early 20s told me he would show me kites on the roof, I didn't want to go because I had just woken up but he picked me up and took me upstairs to the top of the roof just under the staircase. He put me down and stood behind me. He then put his hand down my trousers and touched me between me legs. I remember I didn't know why he was doing this but I knew it is wrong because no one had ever touched me there. I felt extremely angry. I started to scream and pulled myself out of his grip. I ran down to my mother. It never happened again alhamdulillah. But I never told anyone and only found courage to tell my mother when I turned 23. She said she remembered he would always call me to go upstairs but I never went. She went quite after this and never brought it up again. This cousin has a problem with drugs and his personal life is in shambles as well. Allah gave him what he deserves. May Allah protect all of our children from these monsters. Ameen
You know I hope you still have the courage to stand up for yourself as you did back then well done and im sorry to hear
The stories of sexual abuse or harassment remind me of how even I had once faced inappropriate touches when I was hardly 6 - 7 years old. My school was 10 minutes walk away from home. I used to come back home with my other 2 female cousins and brother. I had exams in those days and no friend or cousins had exam on same day except my brother and he too were busy playing cricket in school ground so I disappointingly left alone for home. But that day I came across a stranger on a street and it was almost at noon time. He first said that he is my uncle and blah blah and then picked me up. He then touched me in inappropriate ways. At that time I was so little to understand what was happening but knew that he might be trying to kidnap me so I started crying loudly and then he left me there and ran away. Today when I hear about these abuse stories I honestly feel so blessed to be in the community where women like you are there to raise awareness on such sensitive issues. This will help more people to know and understand how they need to get themselves out of such situations. Hats off to you ladies!
6 times i was sexually abused at different occasions between age of 4 to 12. It takes A LOT of courage to share what happened to you how you truly felt then and how you truly feel about it now. Hats off to you ladies ❣️ thank you for sharing.
Did you tell your parents???
Hiii mam...m from INDIA... Firstly i want to say that the stories i have seen in ur channel is soooo sooo inspirational..... And
Secondly m following u since 2 or 3 years,....thanku for such inspirational stories mam ....
Love for INDIA..
You are right
My friend and I were discussing the first episode when she told me how she was molested as a 6 year old. She is now 38 and she still remembered each and every detail of that incident which broke my heart. She said that this was the first time that she shared it with someone 😒
This show is bringing so much power to the oppressed. God bless.
And omg yes “abuser koi bhi ho sakta hai.” Wish more ppl understood that. :(((
Absolutely 💯
Power to these girls for talking about their experiences so bravely and helping all of us be more sensitive to this issue of child abuse❤️
Oh my god , I really did not expect the show to improve this much I am really enjoying the new format it is amazing Kanwal you are doing great job. I started crying listening to these stories this gave me a good reality check of how bad our society is
Thank you so much :)
This made me sob like a 12 year old i was... He made me feel like I'm the one who's enjoying it because i don't tell my parents... Parents need to build up their relationship with their kid so they're not afraid... I'm 29 today and my father still doesn't know I've just recently told my mum about it...
Literally going through the same thing im now 15 years old and was 12 then
@@noorkhaild please tell your parents it wasnt your fault just know that
@@noorkhaild Tell Your Parents, Love. Take it from someone who went through it, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.
@@noorkhaild apne parents ko Bata de warna ap regret Kro ge they will understand u onhe pata ha that it's not ur fault 🙌🏻
@@noorkhaild please tell your patents or a sibling or a friend. If you can, tell the person to stop you dont like it. But pls pls do speak to someone so they can help you from this awful person
I think it’s equally important to teach our parents how to respond to such stories. Almost every woman and so many men were abused as children, and when we gather enough courage to tell our parents, they genuinely don’t know how to handle it. They feel guilty, and naturally ask k “why didn’t you tell us earlier?”. But they can do so much more. They can make that little child in us feel loved and cared for. They can acknowledge the pain. They can try to not listen to their knee-jerk response to brush it under the rug.
Parents must teach kids about good touch and bad touch and tell the kids to come tell them if they feel someone touched them in a bad way. They need to know they can talk to someone upon being touched.
I cried while listening sahar I was eating my lunch and I couldn’t eat now!! More power to them for being so strong and sharing. I have little nieces I will now be more protective for them. Thankyouuuu kanwal more power to you! Loved it ❤️
I am a survivor, this brought back sooo much stuff that I had blocked out long ago, more power to these strong women for coming forward with their stories.
Please try to record these stories in Urdu, specially the conversation with Police officer so the masses could learn and know the protocol, the sole purpose of this show is to educate people, English will only limit the audience, hats off to these brave girls and to Kanwal of-course!
Allah protect our girls and boys from these monsters and give them severe punishment in this world and hereafter Ameen!
I just cannot take the shiver in the voice of the victims... takes a lot of courage to step out and talk about these things. I'm so sorry and wish every abuse survivor a safe and contented life
As a victim of sexual advances from adults as a kid, I request parents to show their kids that they will be trusted. Give your children the confidence to tell you instead of brushing everything under the carpet and doubting them. I was fortunate that I was a very perceptive child and narrowly escaped from the abuse of two grown adults, both of whom were our servants. I was too young to know what it was. Just that I felt uncomfortable in their presence and the way they looked at me.
Please talk to your kids about inappropriate touching. You are the adult and should inform them that their bodily autonomy is supreme and they must come to you if anyone crosses that boundary. Normalize having open conversations with your children and allow them to feel safe in their own homes. Even if a child does not protest against molestation or finds it pleasurable, it's still sexual abuse as kids are unable to give consent as they're neither grown up nor informed enough to do so.
What happened to me was much less severe and horrifying than what's happening to so many innocent children today. Yet I cannot trust men ever again. Every time a man even remotely comes close, I feel afraid. Alhumdulilah I have overcome my trauma in many ways but I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with people of the opposite gender. Thank you to these incredible women for speaking so eloquently on this subject.
Both the girls , i Thank you for your courage to share such traumatic experiences with the audiences. I hope this saves many other naive children from predators.
Hey I'd really suggest to add Urdu subtitles for ease of alot of audiences since English so far seems to be dominant spoken medium here.
Thank you so much for the feedback. ❤ The conversations were mixed so it was a bit tricky to manage subtitling.
Yes plz
UA-cam has the option for captions so its possible to add those.
Agreed
Yes urdu subtitles or try to do these videos in urdu more
Becuz I want to share these with my elders of family but Ik unko half to smjh nhi ayega
It's a very serious issue that has been raised.hats off to the ladies narrating their experiences and also to Kanwal and Co for providing such a platform
Speechless ... I'm seeing so many women telling in comments section how they faced something similar. Wish we all have this courage to come up with our stories and this time society doesn't judge us for what has happened with US 😭 Lots of love for the survivors ❤❤❤
I use to go to this particular shop as a kid. I was 7 or 8 years and would buy sweets and candies. But this shopkeeper would always be friendly with me. He would touch my hips, legs. And for few time he use to made me sit on his lap. For few times this happened. One day while casually strolling with my elder sisters. Both of sisters were elder than me one may be 12 and other 15 at that time I told them. Baton baton main Bata dia k ye uncle ayse karte hain (still I think about that day k main itne chothi thi lekn qudrat ne mjhe apne behno k samne bulwaya. Than and there my elder sister went to his shop aur sab k samne bezatti ki us kamine ki. Do Bhai hute the shop pe. Ek bht kamina tha aur ek bht he shareef insan. Mere sister ne bht tamasha sab k samne aur wo sharminda hugaya. Uske bad main kbhe us shop pe nh gae. Today I am 25 years old. Aur main us hi area main rehte hun. Jab bhe kisi Kam se us shop se guzarti hun mjhe ye incident yad ata hai. He is no more there now. But my memories are!
May ALLAH give u patience & courage 2 cope with this situation. All I can say is unfortunately this happens with may be every girl. We should teach our children about their private parts & take good care of them😇may ALLAH bless you more 🌸
This was a really needed topic. I have a 9 months old daughter and I will make sure to teach her about good and bad touch and that I'm there for her no matter what. Thank you Kanwal and these brave ladies for talking about these things. We all need awareness.
Can completely feel you both, Najda and Sahar. Never had the courage to speak it out but you did. Thank you Kanwal and the team for this, to bring up this kind of sensitive concern of our society. Hope this courage and the hard work will bring about a positive change!
This help in healing the wounds of a child abuse victim. I realized all victims have the same process, blocking memories, getting aggressive, losing grades, not having a lot of friends . Having your memories back at later stage and having a hard time getting over it.
Thank you Kanwel for talking on these topics
After watching this i'm having tragic flashbacks now i'm able to understand what was that.
What's terrifying is that it happened even in vigilant households where parents are being careful. Also makes us mindful and more watchful..... As well as being tuned in to our kids' behaviours and feelings.
Im sorry but allowing your children to entertain and 30+ man out your sight is not being vigilant. He shouldve joined the adult conversations
It takes allot of effort to talk about it. It feels so awkward when someone's stare at you continuously or want to touch you in an inappropriate way. My mother always told me to greet guests from distance when I was small. So I have this thing in my mind that we have to be reserved around everyone or any stranger even if they are your relatives. Personally meri ya thinking hai k humay apnay ird gird dhiyaan rakhna chahiya hai bachon ka even if they are not our kids. Jitna hum protect kar saktay hain at least utna karain. Baaki to sub Allah k hawalay hai, Allah subko apni amaan may rakhay Ameen 🖤
Kanwal, you know that you are an amazing person. More power to you and to these girls.. they are brave and strong and I'm proud of you all... stay blessed always ❤
After seeing this episode last week i couldn't type any comment here
The hijabi girl's story: uski kuch baten mere zehen me bar bar ati rahin kch din tak
Jb me ye episode dekh ri thi tw uski zulm ki kahani mjh se suni hi nahi gyi, mene pause krke video band krdi thi, phr bad me dekhi.
Allah so much pain children go thru😓😫 only akhirat's concept can relieve a person' heart
When Allah swt will do justice with mazloomeen
May Allah forgive all of us, and protect us from being zalim as well as from being mazloom
I literally had GOOSEBUMPS while listening their stories. The much needed topic for all us to take care of our children and other's around us. More power to themm and Kanwal ❤❤❤
Thank you Kanwal for shedding light to these issues that aren't talked about often and are usually pushed under the rug.
I so respect the fact that Kanwal is focused more on the issue plus she empathizes with her interviewees and doesn't dramatize tragedies for ratings like most talk show hosts. So much respect for you, Kanwal!
Omgg, the third season is back and I am soo happy because it empowers women around the world also men in some cases💜. Welcome back ❤.
Brilliant episode. Thank you for shedding light on the law as well. I hope parents start reporting these things!
It's so painful to interview survivors because just retelling makes then relive the trauma. I could hear the tremors in her voice. :(
Definitely. Thank you for your constant support. I really appreciate it. ❤
May this stigma of 'log Kia kahenge' in our society get it off and more power to all these inspirational women and especially to Sahar you are Gem keep going girl proud of you all kanwal you are awesome! ❤️❤️❤️
Hats off to both the girls for speaking up with such bravery.
The moment children start going outside of the house to play, in schools or madrassas its so important to teach them about good and bad touch. I am in tears.
Thank you for addressing this issue. It is an enigma how an issue so common is still so less talked about. This was definitely a need of the hour. This is not to scare parents, but to scare abusers - the next generation is not going to stay quiet about it!
Exactly in our childhood we never knew the thing we are facing is "sexual abuse".
Thank you for such wonderful show.
This hits home. Thank you Kanwal for bringing this issue to the mainstream. Praying that we enforce better child protection mechanisms to avoid putting young people through such trauma.
She was spot on, abuser can be anyone. My friend was abused by her mamu. Yes!
God
Heart wrenching stories and this is happening all around us. I want to recommend a great book that I used to discuss the topic of bad touch with my 3 years old son. It’s called “My underpants rules”. Highly recommended for everyone to keep at home and keep reading it with them and provide them a safe reliable relationship. They need to have trust in parents to come back with any kind of problem and get a resolution.
Im so happy to see you back, this brought tears to my eyes😭😭 ALL these ladies are heroes for coming out and for having the strength to speak about their trauma... I pray Allah SWT protect all of us from this inhumane, heinous act. Ameen ❤️❤️
I literally felt goosebumps and can't control my tears. I think every woman has been molested at least once in their life time. And i think this is almost the story of everyone. Thank you for creating such a masterpiece ❤️❤️
I can't stop crying just knowing that many of the children of our society have been facing it being such innocent souls is devastating. Thankyou for this! What a start CWK! 👏🏼❤️
It's so difficult to come out with your memory of sexual abuse.... It's like reliving it all again.... More power to these 2 ladies, to everyone who's been through it. I hope we can all make a difference by educating our children, our women, our men, New parents of how we all need to do our part ❤️
I loved how you guys have selected two contrasting personalities to show that different people have different reactions and coping mechanisms.
It went shivers down my spine!
We need to talk about ACEs too (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and how they impact a person's psychological and physiological being!! ACEs study is one of the largest investigations of childhood abuse and neglect and household challenges and it's outcomes on later-life health and well-being done by CDC (Center of Disease Control and Prevention).
We cannot say enough how important this topic is. Bless all of you for talking about it and creating awareness.
Omg! What a powerful episode! I have immense gratitude for these two ladies for sharing their stories as it requires extreme courage to do so. Thank you Kanwal for normalizing these conversations- a dire need of the hour!
Ya Allah!! You both are so strong.. I am so sorry that at very young age you guys had to go through this... after watching this episode I was literally crying and at the same time I had goosebumps all over my body ..
Completely agreed on educating ourselves as moms and then our kids.. No One to trust!!!
This one gave me goosebumps and made me cry. This is such a sensitive topic, narrated so bravely by these strong women. Thank you so much Kanwal for bringing such important topics to everyone's daily discussions through CWK. Such real issues should be on mainstream media. Way to go! More power to us!
This had been happening and still happening around us but people had not the courage to talk about abuses but this channel is providing a platform and making people aware...keep up the good work.
Thank you so much for making this video and educating us . This is such a grave issue and most of the people don't dare to talk about it. But thanks to these both powerful ladies. I have six years old sister and this video has raised my eyebrows and made me careful and vigilant about my sister. We as an individual has the responsibility to educate everyone around us to mitigate this threatening disease from our society.
First of all, hats off to the ladies who are true heroes. They're the ones setting examples by sharing their own trauma and educating us all. Kanwal you're doing a phenomenal job. Keep up the great work, we NEED more content like this! 👍🏻
Hugs to both of you girls! You are so brave to come forward and share your stories. So many lessons learned.
Loved the production quality/music/execution/mood...the entire show giving such calming soothing safe space vibes! Bravo Conversations with Kanwal team👏🏻👏🏻
So heartwrenching..this is one of my worst fears now that I have a child..may Allah protect all our children and everyone,and definitely we need to teach our children about it
Oh my God. I’m in literal tears. SOO well made. Such relatable emotions and stories ugh 😭 May all our abusers burn in hell. Kudos to these ladies for this courage to come out like this!
The production value is great and it looks awesome. Impatiently waiting for the next episode!!
I 100% grind my teeth and have that “khatkhat” sound because of memories of my sexual abuse. This makes such sense uff
Fuxk, the kidney stone and avoiding drinking water and peeing to avoid that feeling is so relatable too.
Literally AMAZING episode
Ok so I loved the episode and yes the abuser can be anyone. After watching the episode I want to share what happened with me too. So we use to live in joint family and there was this man who used to work for at my tayas shop he use to come after the shop closed and use to get bread for dinner. Twice or thrice he tried to squeeze my hands while I handed him money. He showed me and my cousin his private part while we were playing he even pressed my chest once and now when I remember it I feel like crushing his face.
And another time it was my tailor so basically I changed my tailor and my mother used to get hers stitched from some other tailor so I went alone and during the measurements he tried his fingers to reach to my chest. His workers and helpers were laughing I still remember their faces and the laugh. I ran away and never went back there after watching the episode all these memories came back. I wish these people burn in hell.
Kanwal, thank you for kicking off season 3 with such an important topic, one that is typically swept under the rug specially in South Asia. To the incredibly brave women who spoke about and relived these traumatic experiences I say this - Courage is contagious. When a brave man (or woman) takes a stand, the spines of others are often stiffened.
Very informative episode of all times
Thank you for bringing this up. I was abused by my brother in law. He was my sister in laws husband. Imagine his guts to blackmail me and abusing me and I was just 18...everyone In the family respected this man so much... He would bring gifts for all and do everybody's work happily So I knew nobody would believe me as I was the newcomer in the house.
But when this man tried crossing his limits I used to get nightmares and I started hiding whenever he was in our house. Then one fine day in the middle of the night I started crying and that was the time I shared it with my husband. After that till this day he knows everything and started protecting me and our daughters but even till now he hasn't exposed this men because of the family pressure.
A good partner is blessing
Sad no matter how vigilant parents are paedophiles manage to abuse children.. much needed awareness. Good job k and crew x
This has brought back soo much that i had blocked out long ago and now i cant process normally. You did a great thing by highlighting this but.... 😪😭😭
This is such a painful episode. Such courageous women you all are to speak about it. Crying literally
So much strenght was needed to make this show. I just hope people realise that it is someone close most of the time. Please dont trust anyone with your kids and build a good relationship with your kids.
!!!! I’ve waited for this season for so long!
This all is making me sad that such things are common in our society but happy that you guys are making awareness. We all mothers should be vigilant and put these men down; name them n shame them.
Raised An excellent issue, we really need to educate our kids about sexual abuse. Very good episode. Keep it up👍
May Allah protect our innocent kids from such bloody rascals.
Uploading these episodes on UA-cam was necessary too... men can watch, from what sort of struggles and abuse women have gone through of going through Conversations with Kanwal it is indeed a brilliant start ❤ women around the world can relate to this not just of one country..
Men bhi abuse hote hai bahot baar bachpan mai wo bhi man se .mere sath 5 baar hua bachpan mai
I remember I was just 14 when I first got harassed for the very first time in the public in Lahore , I cried alot but couldn't tell anyone else, then I was 17 when it happened again in the public in karachi. I can feel the fear those moments gives you for your entire life
Grateful to the two beautiful ladies that have come forward to share their stories. I hope that this video reaches far and wide, in every corner of our country so victims who are yet to come out to their families or seek out help and therapy can finally be inspired to do so and won’t be fearful anymore. You all have every right to be heard and those that did wrong by you must be named and shamed, preferably also jailed.
I hope these stories get to those guys who did it, they feel the consequence of what they did, they feel ashamed ...
Well done to whole team CWK, love the fact that you guys added the legal perspective.
These series need to go viral. These talks need to be aired on television.
Kanwal and team can't thank you enough for bringing this topic up. It's so brave of both the girls to talk about.
I myself faced multiple molestation attempts and everytime something like that happened I couldn't sleep for nights. It shattered my confidence completely.
Now I am a mother of two year girl and the only that haunts me is if something like that happens to my little girl ever.
The situation of parents of kids must be tricky. I used to teach 9 year old girls in a school long time ago. There was talk about a male teacher who loved to talk to class 10th girls about ‘women related matters’ without being prompted making girls uncomfortable. One day the girls of my class told me that I should request the principal to not send that teacher to their class as a substitute teacher if another teacher had taken a day off as he did not teach them. I asked the reason and I was told that he came the day before and made a girl sit next to him to recite something and kept putting his hand all over her . I was livid and went to the principal who asked me to write a letter there and then and the teacher was removed. However, I later faced backlash from other teachers that I spoke without evidence as kids sometime imagine things. Also that I was responsible for how his family would suffer as his income source would be cut. I also felt later that I had not personally witnessed the incident and did not have a solid base to complain. In my defense I had written in my complaint that he makes the girls uncomfortable and should not be sent and nothing else. So the moral of the story is that sometimes kids testimony is not considered objective. That is another problem
@yasmeenahmed9321 I agree with your moral of the story....because sometimes the kids are not believed....as in Ur case you did a right thing and than you got back lash but am proud of you if you feel you saved the girls one or the other way.🙏🙂 @
I'm shaking...
Thia brought back terrifying memories. I experienced sexual absue at the age of 14/15 and to this day, it effects me and my married life.
May Allah heal u
Kanwal please bring forward such parents who found out their children were being abused and did something about it. There is a certain barrier between parents and children in our society, which ultimately benefits the abuser.
Getting to hear first hand stories from parents who actually took a stand for their kids would help many others.
Kawanl thank you so much for bringing these stories to us. Thank-you ladies for sharing your stories. You guys are survivors and we stand together. My abuser was our family doctor. A person in a place of trust. Among my cousin's I wasn't the only one who was inappropriately touched by the freak. People who say Pakistan may aisay nai hota are mistaken.
Pakistan mai yeh cheez bohat saaloun sa ho rahe he ab jub media par ana shuru hus aesa incidents tou logo ko courage mili k sab ko aware karen pehla tou parents tak nahi bacchoun ko guide karte tha
I dont know why ppl says k "
"pehlay halaat buhat safe thay. Ab bachay safe nahi hain".
This was happening in that time too.
I am shivering listening to this. Yes not all men. but yes. enough men for all women. Thankyou for being a voice kanwal. thankyou for being our super star. Thankyou for providing us and a victims platforms so that they can share and save us.
Thank you for coming forward and sharing this ladies! Appreciated! You ladies are so strong Mash Allah,Thank you for raising this topic. Kanwal you’re doing great job. I have no words I just want you to thank you.
Unbelievably brave women! I can’t imagine how hard it must be for them to talk about their ordeal, and to share it with us and in a society where these things are swept under the rug.
Thankyou so much to Kanwal for bringing this topic up in such detail.
Secondly, special thanks to the two ladies for sharing what is the story of thousands of children in Pakistan unfortunately.
Just feel very thankful that we have come to a place where we are educating our children and learning that it’s not the kids fault! ❤️
It angers me so much to hear these stories. But I’m so glad that there’s someone out there trying to show us that instances like these are occurring sometimes right under our noses. It’s so important to create awareness and no matter how painful these topics are, talking about them is the only way we can be more aware.
More power to all the women here & to Kanwal!
These topics need to be highlighted.parents should speak out with children and teach them how to report such incident.
So proud of the girls who stepped up and shared their story.more power to you!
They are there, you can't differentiate them and it scares me. Thank you for bringing this up!
Salute to the guests it takes alot of courage to share such incidents that too in open. And much thanks to kanwal this is a much needed discussion, not just the incident but the aftermath and different coping mechanisms. The coping mechanisms are itself a hint for parents. People usually think aggression or coyness is the only coping mechanism but the one discussed in the latter part is one that needed to be told.
What a powerful episode. It takes a lot of guts for victims to come out and speak up.
This whole episode literally gave my goosebumps.
Very brave women, by having these conversations so many people find healing. Kanwal, bless.
this is really sad that kids r generally not safe at their own homes.. way to go kanwal this is one of the most important taboo issues which need to be addressed and creating awareness is really important
What a kick start episode...wow so so impressed, im really thankful to these ladies for opening up n sharing. It needs to reached every where, n would suggest that it should be part of curriculum from elementary school level. In this era,even parents are reluctant to talk about sexual awareness,but blve me you are putting ur child in danger. It should b included in our curriculum. Thank you kanwal
KANWAL , Really good step , we needs to talk with this script , i mean this hell should get vanished , this hell is going through from centuries , ab bs bohat hogya, feels like the ratio is about 85%