I Was Gang Raped By My Dad & Father In Law | BritAsia TV True Stories | Episode 1 | Nina Aouilk

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  • @MamaKatt3
    @MamaKatt3 Рік тому +9234

    As someone who comes from an extremely traditional culture, this is NOT culture... this is sick, abusive sadism!!! NONE of this should be considered normal, anywhere!!! Her strength is an inspiration!!! I truly wish her love, light and peace!!!

    • @kajalbrahma9711
      @kajalbrahma9711 Рік тому +144

      True!!! This is sumthing like carrying false ego to maintain the good image in society

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Рік тому +357

      it IS CULTURE NO MATTER WHERE THEY LIVE. my husband worked 7 yrs in the mid east it is their culture,

    • @cassondralynch6342
      @cassondralynch6342 Рік тому +207

      @@marilynwillett804 Nope. You haven't learned by now generalizations are stupid?

    • @cassondralynch6342
      @cassondralynch6342 Рік тому +45

      Great post. I was reluctant to even click on this because I suspected possible negative propaganda.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Рік тому +167

      true...if your culture is torture, then that is sick

  • @user-yv2qr4xt9
    @user-yv2qr4xt9 11 місяців тому +6486

    Her family should be prosecuted and jailed for their crimes.

    • @sofiakhan4580
      @sofiakhan4580 10 місяців тому

      And her in-laws ....that’s rape , incest, abuse, gender and dowery abuse, forced abortion , gang rape of minor , attempted murder, sexual harassment , slave labour etc

    • @squirrel-daily
      @squirrel-daily 10 місяців тому +170

      100% agree! Her family is religious but they did horrible things to their own family member !!!!!!

    • @asiakym
      @asiakym 10 місяців тому

      I agree. They have the nerve to be religious and pray while they behave like the worst demons you could ever imagine. SMH...

    • @beeblake7591
      @beeblake7591 10 місяців тому +47

      Absolutely!

    • @SrMway
      @SrMway 10 місяців тому +74

      @@squirrel-daily Are they're even religious? This is the first time to m hearing this kind of news about Sikhs.

  • @miaash3870
    @miaash3870 8 місяців тому +1052

    To be tortured, abused, and belittled physically and mentally by one's family is beyond comprehension!
    How this superhuman survived her nightmares is beyond belief!
    May Nina be blessed with divine grace in everything!

    • @mr_coffee9917
      @mr_coffee9917 8 місяців тому +12

      this is quite common in asian culture

    • @miaash3870
      @miaash3870 8 місяців тому +10

      @@mr_coffee9917 Are you saying that this monstrous barbarity happens in India, Pakistan, Bangladesh,.... and there are no repercussions for the perpetrators?

    • @UPAKHOSALA
      @UPAKHOSALA 8 місяців тому

      @@mr_coffee9917 what the du know about asia?
      u r illerate in asian culture
      even at uk porkisthan families some women r treated like this but british press loves criticising other countries

    • @florafrancis6753
      @florafrancis6753 7 місяців тому

      ​@@mr_coffee9917nonsense

    • @fehyndana7725
      @fehyndana7725 7 місяців тому

      @@miaash3870yes

  • @PattyFreeman-q1i
    @PattyFreeman-q1i 2 місяці тому +181

    This is the most bravest person I’ve ever heard of im 66 and my heart is broke for her.. God keep her safe. Amen.

  • @daaangdasia
    @daaangdasia Рік тому +2952

    18 minutes in and my mouth has been dropped open the entire time. This type of abuse is demonic. I am so happy she lived to tell her story. Wow

    • @louiseputtock2645
      @louiseputtock2645 Рік тому +8

      Same 😢

    • @ellaova
      @ellaova Рік тому +9

      5 minutes in

    • @twainalex996
      @twainalex996 Рік тому +14

      Me too but is death 💀 not better what a hell of an existence.😢

    • @gladiammgtow4092
      @gladiammgtow4092 Рік тому +21

      Maturity is when you realise that whole world is unstable because of peaceful community 😊❤😊❤❤
      "If you read the Quran, you are Muslim!
      If you understand the Quran, you are Ex-Muslim!"

    • @marcospacheco9689
      @marcospacheco9689 Рік тому

      Same

  • @CobainKiedis
    @CobainKiedis 8 місяців тому +1255

    I can't comprehend how someone can go through so much demonic, horrible, disgusting abuse and still carry so much light. Thank you for this interview, Nina is a true survivior, an exceptional human being and I feel we are privileged to be able to hear her story. I genuinely wish her the best, bless her beautiful soul.

    • @onceuponanexploration6048
      @onceuponanexploration6048 8 місяців тому +18

      I’m going through some bs right now that is no where near the level of this video but it sucks none the less. When you go through major bs, you cherish the rays of light so much more.

    • @kristiemcinnes304
      @kristiemcinnes304 8 місяців тому +16

      What an horrendous story. Her family should be prosecuted. How brave you are and how resilient. ❤ much love to you

    • @Zill7711
      @Zill7711 7 місяців тому

      @@onceuponanexploration6048I hope you are ok? I will pray for you. Sending loving thoughts to you. Hope you find a better situation.

    • @manuelmoraleda9684
      @manuelmoraleda9684 7 місяців тому +3

      It's hard to believe and you don't want to believe this type of incident.
      These people don't have a conscience.

    • @nataliaalfonso2662
      @nataliaalfonso2662 6 місяців тому

      That’s usually how it goes.

  • @sandra8542
    @sandra8542 Рік тому +3867

    Shame on her evil family, Shame on England for not putting her rapists in jail for life

    • @fraulotte
      @fraulotte Рік тому +177

      Your also called a racist if u critize foreign cultures. Remember Rotherham

    • @fizaa4330
      @fizaa4330 Рік тому +1

      ​@@fraulotteThere is evil in every culture and country and colour. Remember Jimmy Saville and the BBC covering up. All the celebrities jailed. Remember the church and the Vatican the children's homes that abused children in Britain. So race has nothing to do with it as evil prevails in humans of all races. Don't blame race or religion as its the humans that are responsible.

    • @imhere8380
      @imhere8380 Рік тому +105

      @@fraulotte Obviously you cannot understand english . She discussed what her evil family did. And yes, she is British Indian. So what? She could be any nationality..

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Рік тому +32

      ​@@imhere8380race and nationlity arent the same. He was talking about race

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Рік тому

      ​@@imhere8380and only one culture performs honour killings. My friend had to run away to escape her sister's ex-husband as he turned violent and raped her sister's friend as revenge.

  • @Mandyvoukanari
    @Mandyvoukanari 3 місяці тому +101

    How can a child/woman take so much abuse and vile behaviour from her family and still be so dignified and beautiful.! Such an inspiration ❤️

  • @Tiffmay
    @Tiffmay Рік тому +1569

    This women deserves justice! That family should be held to account for these atrocities. She's a testament to herself and I hope she obtains the healing and love she needs.

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg Рік тому +79

      Yes and I would say these ppl should be out of the public
      They are danger to society

    • @juliesterling3292
      @juliesterling3292 Рік тому +30

      What an amazing woman, so courages.
      Thank you for the wonderful and beautiful lady that you are
      May God bless you a hundred fold. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @KindraShalynnHaimberger
      @KindraShalynnHaimberger Рік тому +18

      Love she needs and deserves. Every single person should know and experience love. Especially as a child. From their parents, be the parents' biological or via adoption. No child should ever feel alone and unloved, nor should they feel unlovable. 😢

    • @intheredcold9216
      @intheredcold9216 Рік тому +28

      Many cultures today women are treated sub human.

    • @scrappydoogal804
      @scrappydoogal804 Рік тому +29

      Are you kidding? British justice system wouldn't tackle this poor woman's case because they don't want to be seen as "R*׶∆cst"!!!😠

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 Рік тому +2502

    Her father worried that people thought of him with respect? He's the lowest form of human waste. How could he be so stupid to think anyone could respect a person who committed his actions? He is an embarrassment to his entire culture, while Nina is to be admired and praised.

    • @adammckenzie8769
      @adammckenzie8769 Рік тому +139

      Because those in that culture did hail him a hero, the whole culture is to blame!!

    • @cookies-pd4pv
      @cookies-pd4pv Рік тому +14

      @@adammckenzie8769 what culture is it? where is Nina from?

    • @rachelvegavoiceover3342
      @rachelvegavoiceover3342 Рік тому +32

      I agree! Despicable

    • @em7dim9
      @em7dim9 Рік тому +29

      @@cookies-pd4pv Indian.

    • @snowyowl6892
      @snowyowl6892 Рік тому

      @@cookies-pd4pv
      India ….. ghastly…,

  • @bilentegegne5348
    @bilentegegne5348 Рік тому +1206

    Crazy that her parents were saying she was dirty after the pregnancy which was caused by her father. I hope the rest of her life is filled with love and happiness.

    • @Imeldatopham
      @Imeldatopham 2 місяці тому +31

      I just can't rap my head around this level of evil it's so insane and demonic

    • @luciato8972
      @luciato8972 2 місяці тому +11

      Its just a crap they said to blameshift their horrible immoral crimes.

  • @olesyashuparskaya6077
    @olesyashuparskaya6077 5 місяців тому +265

    Jesus Christ, this poor women. She’s been through enough sufferings for 10 horrible lifetimes. I’m so sorry :( life is so cruel for some, it’s so unfair. You deserve so much more ❤️

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 місяці тому +3

      Don't use the name of the Lord as profanity.

    • @olesyashuparskaya6077
      @olesyashuparskaya6077 2 місяці тому +10

      @@marilynwillett804lol he’s not my lord. If he was real I’d have a bone to pick with him about why he lets people suffer like that but gets so offended when his name is misused . Wtf 😂

    • @cbak1819
      @cbak1819 Місяць тому +3

      Jesus suffered and died for crimes he didn't commit, he paid our debt to all who put their trust in him and who he really is.
      It's hard to see all the good he has done when our hearts are turned away from him. God has declared His glory through creation.

    • @micheleberg4922
      @micheleberg4922 Місяць тому

      ​@@cbak1819and he forgives abusers like this women's.

    • @ocean440
      @ocean440 27 днів тому +2

      this is what islam does

  • @Chhyste
    @Chhyste Рік тому +1958

    I’m outraged that all the people she encountered along the way, friends , family , police , hospital staff not 1 person was compassionate enough to help. As a nurse I could never turn a blind eye to this.

    • @Pilot_the_Dune
      @Pilot_the_Dune Рік тому +48

      I hear all the time that western countries are the worst place to live by people that have no idea these situations exist. Heartbreaking.

    • @michelleroberts6597
      @michelleroberts6597 Рік тому +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @marvbarker3137
      @marvbarker3137 Рік тому +88

      I had a Asian friend during my school days. We were really close and I do remember times when she appeared stressed and really sad. When asked what’s wrong she always said her brother and Dad got on her nerves. She was never allowed to come to my house, I wasn’t allowed to her house. I feel a bit guilty that I never chased up when she just disappeared. The last conversation I had with her 50 years ago was she was being sent abroad to get married. I’ve never heard from her, never seen her again.
      After listening to this horrendous human torture and abuse I feel 😢😢😢😢. So sad. I am so glad this lady is still on her journey of loving herself. But I feel sad her children had to suffer too. Keep spreading the word. Why does this culture look down on females. You wouldn’t exist if a woman wasn’t around.
      Dont live in fear girls or guys report the abuse.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @carlywright5127
      @carlywright5127 Рік тому +16

      A lot of people get manipulated by lies 1. A lot of people take advantage of people who are in vulnerable state. A lot of people are very ignorant when it comes to humanity issues. They seem to think, oh, this person has done something to be in this position in life, thus judgemental and ignorant.

    • @jollyjohn5820
      @jollyjohn5820 Рік тому +24

      I know Jesus loves you.

  • @lemani2024
    @lemani2024 10 місяців тому +2190

    😳 I'm never complaining about my life again.. so much evil in this world

    • @nyakwarObat
      @nyakwarObat 9 місяців тому

      You will forget in couple days and slide back to the self entitlement, diva attitude with a whole lot didums. Habitual patterns don't just puff away in a day 😁😉🤪🙄

    • @joleerinehardt2676
      @joleerinehardt2676 9 місяців тому +23

      me either

    • @Esmene.
      @Esmene. 9 місяців тому +20

      Truly

    • @CCmagee3
      @CCmagee3 8 місяців тому +30

      Yeah, some of us live wonderful lives.

    • @samrahahmed6464
      @samrahahmed6464 8 місяців тому +35

      Seriously it puts everything in perspective 😢

  • @bobbylacy2374
    @bobbylacy2374 Рік тому +1276

    When a woman is abused and starts to speak out, she helps someone else. By helping someone else, her pain gets less and less. Strangely, she finds her own strength in her pain. God bless this woman. 🙏

    • @wyltedrose
      @wyltedrose Рік тому +6

      🙏🏼

    • @kumaranvij
      @kumaranvij 11 місяців тому +16

      We don't need a male god to bless us. We need each other.

    • @user-fv1fm4wq9m
      @user-fv1fm4wq9m 11 місяців тому +1

      Not every person on social media is telling the truth.

    • @kumaranvij
      @kumaranvij 11 місяців тому

      @@user-fv1fm4wq9m What's you point? Do you doubt this woman?

    • @sarath-t6b
      @sarath-t6b 11 місяців тому

      I am a male at a young age at six . I was sexually abused by one animal, and I can not forget that scar still now
      Then, from there, the situation switched me. I believed in one male and three female close relation family members ....... situation went smoothly still one woman entered illegal relation my entire life ruined ..........for her favor for illegal relation she switched me one more place there i caged in with real animal , they always abused me several times mentally physically beating. I don't know what I am being abused for Verbally .....when I come to know their illegal relationship and abusing . .. .. they charged me an attempt murder and theft case In police station .. .. .. my age is 32 now
      Now I am nowhere to go .....several times mentally distracted fear anxiety
      Occupies me whenever I stand up
      I am diverting myself in prayer
      To save me from that evil elements
      These evils are very much sufficient with money party personal support
      They're playing me like a ball
      I am suffocating now also because of that evil ghosts ...

  • @wearetheworld9092
    @wearetheworld9092 3 місяці тому +53

    Oh my god. She’s the epitome of Strength! I can only imagine the level of trauma and PTSD no matter how brave front she puts up. I just want to hug her and tell her she is such a sweet soul who didn’t deserved any of this .

  • @Brightangel001
    @Brightangel001 Рік тому +1418

    I hope her family sees this and knows that the rest of the world looks down on them in complete shame, no honor whatsoever. Nina is a brave woman and I only wish her the best for the rest of her life.

    • @yingdormak9049
      @yingdormak9049 8 місяців тому +15

      i watched a documentary video lately about what the Indian man thinks about rape being interviewed by a Western reporter
      they don't feel rape is a severe crime in their country and women should better stay home or no short skirts

    • @paulahunt3508
      @paulahunt3508 7 місяців тому

      @@yingdormak9049 They’re pig$

    • @blizz2795
      @blizz2795 7 місяців тому

      @@yingdormak9049 Right? How indefensible is that? I watched one about a woman gang r*ped and beaten on a tour bus by 6 men in India and it was horrific! She was able to tell her statement to investigators while suffering from multiple injuries, including disembowlment. She died of her injuries while being flown to a specialized hospital. Then when the tourism director of India said that a "small rape" that received world wide news coverage caused them to lose millions of dollars of revenue from female visitors made me absolutely sick! WTH is a small r*pe? He and the r*pists blamed her for being out after dark with a male friend. Of the six men that perpetrated this unconscionable act one was killed or committed suicide in his jail cell, one was 17 and was sentenced to three years at a reformatory that teaches them skills and gives them 10,000 rupes when they leave , and the other four were hanged in a group. Since then India has changed their law stating that if you are over age 16 and commit such a horrific crime you will be tried as an adult.

    • @allesasmart
      @allesasmart 7 місяців тому

      If her family reads this just know I see the devil and your nothing but dung. This woman is classy and angelic. You never got to her, her soul got better from her own strength, you are mere vapor. No one cares about your gross 'anti'family people. May the dog be forever loved and honored over your last name.

    • @shiara41
      @shiara41 7 місяців тому +7

      @@yingdormak9049it’s crazy and sad

  • @sunnyday6679
    @sunnyday6679 Рік тому +1019

    19:40 Her dog showed her more humanity than her family did. I am so, so sorry. I hope she finds healing and peace.

    • @helenperry3072
      @helenperry3072 Рік тому +75

      Animals are the most intuitive things on this earth ❤️

    • @nataliaalfonso2662
      @nataliaalfonso2662 6 місяців тому +9

      Animals always know who is good.

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 Рік тому +873

    The fact this woman can even sit up in a chair to tell of her experience is everything. Despite the ignorance and evil from her own family she rose above the ashes and is a glowing example of female strength and determination.
    I pray that God restores the years taken from her life with light, love and great joy. ❤

    • @nuna4307
      @nuna4307 Рік тому +8

      And so it is

    • @evaalfaro9917
      @evaalfaro9917 Рік тому +1

      She’s Indian! Nothing to do with Arab….

    • @tamijakel8072
      @tamijakel8072 Рік тому +5

      God bless your sweet little soul. God is Amazing - your resilience is highly honorable. I am so proud of you for fighting for yourself and you are sharing your pain to alchemize it into light. Love love love you.

    • @mvdwillik5991
      @mvdwillik5991 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤😢😭😭😭😭😭😭Lady do you know how much Jesus loves you. God love black sheep,All my persicutions was not your sufferings. We in ourself are sinful, but your pain cause things in other reactions.❤️✝️🙏🏻🕊️🙌🏻 To be loved and cared for can bringing inner healing through The WORD of GOD who died being abused because to carry all those suffering 😭 we as humans do to ourself, or others do to us. HE GOD the SINLESS became our human sin from the moment a evil disciple fullfill THE WORD for 30 pieces about the price of a bread. HE IS our BREAD of LIFE, HE became our Living Water, GOD forgive when we see our own sin GOD forgive. GOD wanted the best for us. HE wanted us to ask GOD through HIS HOLY SPIRIT to help us to live, like HOW GOD wanted the Best every moment.GOD would teach us how to love and forgive. to see and think and choose rightly handled people with respect and care.

    • @mvdwillik5991
      @mvdwillik5991 Рік тому +2

      Maybe you will be the healing of my daughter, who abuse have been tapered, married to a Indian and lost 10 babies. nearly commitsuicide. last yr. Had to flee and now still suffered in another country. I suffered as a missionary raped after fighting 5 hrs with that man. Lost confidence . only recently came over some some 2 t/ yrs ago.2

  • @Sandra-faith
    @Sandra-faith 2 місяці тому +25

    This poor woman. The strength she has to still be here and tell her testimony ❤

  • @danielainthesouth
    @danielainthesouth 9 місяців тому +1194

    The dog had more compassion than her whole family put together 😔

    • @NancyHowlett
      @NancyHowlett 8 місяців тому +57

      Angels come in many forms that day he was her angel

    • @rosestar8293
      @rosestar8293 8 місяців тому +40

      God knows what hail the dog goes through on a daily basis if they treat her like that😢

    • @scathatch
      @scathatch 8 місяців тому +15

      More compassion and more understanding more wisdom.

    • @kamipersonal2687
      @kamipersonal2687 7 місяців тому +21

      I was thinking same! 😮 ... don't hv enough words to express how harrowing that is! What an upside-down world we live in! God bless these beautiful souls of Nina and the dog!

    • @Kiki-p1n1y
      @Kiki-p1n1y 7 місяців тому +6

      agreed

  • @mindyk4
    @mindyk4 Рік тому +4026

    The abuse she describes is demonic.

    • @maryann2600
      @maryann2600 Рік тому +98

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @donitaforrest9064
      @donitaforrest9064 Рік тому +94

      ​@@maryann2600 satanic too

    • @donitaforrest9064
      @donitaforrest9064 Рік тому +18

      One wonders why

    • @donitaforrest9064
      @donitaforrest9064 Рік тому

      Sounds Like Her 'Family' Were "Thugs" of Hindostan. She was probably a stolen child from the start, snatched from a cradle and raised to be a slave and scapegoat. Such evil people. That sounds more like it, that, or a product of adultery or incest kept secret. Anyway, i think she should get a DNA sample from all involved in this criminal behavior. Chances are 50/50 she's not related. Would explain alot.

    • @warriorsofthehighest6632
      @warriorsofthehighest6632 Рік тому +25

      I agree completely

  • @ginarogoto3842
    @ginarogoto3842 Рік тому +895

    I am speechless. The amount of suffering in this world is just too overwhelming.

    • @umelokarnes5460
      @umelokarnes5460 Рік тому +17

      Amen! Pray for God's Kingdom to come! Matthew 6:9,10.

    • @ldavanzo44
      @ldavanzo44 Рік тому +1

      It's so hard , but a blink ,a school and back to our true home soon
      We learn to ascend .

    • @1MoOnChild3
      @1MoOnChild3 Рік тому +31

      Humans truly are a nasty peace of work...😢

    • @em7dim9
      @em7dim9 Рік тому

      Don't blame humanity. Her parents were just pieces of shit.

    • @cannabis1490
      @cannabis1490 Рік тому +2

      @@1MoOnChild3 💯

  • @karenmillet554
    @karenmillet554 Місяць тому +8

    I thought I had a sad life until I watched this woman share her life... You're amazing! Thank you for helping the world to change. ❤🎉❤

  • @zukofire6424
    @zukofire6424 8 місяців тому +414

    "I liked the way people reacted to me when I smiled, they smiled back!"😢 A miracle that she's alive! May she find/ have by now, all the love she deserves. Thank you Ms Aouilk.

  • @kathylovesmk
    @kathylovesmk Рік тому +1110

    As a mother I can't comprehend how your mother allowed this to happen. I'm so happy you've been able to overcome. 💖

    • @veronicadelorey4941
      @veronicadelorey4941 Рік тому +54

      Right? I guess motherhood to girls dosent mean anything in that culture. Because it sounds like honor killings and rape happen alot. Prayers for all those girls and women being treated like they don't matter.

    • @veronicadelorey4941
      @veronicadelorey4941 Рік тому +39

      Albeit it's it just their culture. We have criminal rapists and pedophiles everywhere. But it can be made worse by one's surroundings and society. I was told about 9 or 10 that my sexual abuse was not bad enough to remove me from my home while they took my older brother out of the home. Albeit his situation was worse but we were both beaten, chained up and given no facilities. I on the other hand got the additional sexual abuse. But that is the American system for you.

    • @kathylovesmk
      @kathylovesmk Рік тому +22

      ​@veronicadelorey4941 that is just so horrific. I'm so sorry that happened to you. 💔

    • @AmberDawnRising
      @AmberDawnRising Рік тому +23

      Seems like her mother dealt with the same thing

    • @quiltgalsews
      @quiltgalsews Рік тому +17

      Don’t think the Mom had any power.

  • @americanwoman8967
    @americanwoman8967 Рік тому +2600

    This is one of the most barbaric family situations I 've ever heard.

    • @melissaa4168
      @melissaa4168 Рік тому +84

      Yet it happens everyday and still...awfully sad.

    • @DoreenPollock-d2q
      @DoreenPollock-d2q Рік тому +106

      This is very common. Sad and shameful culture.

    • @dragilxcom4176
      @dragilxcom4176 Рік тому +25

      @@DoreenPollock-d2q what culture is this from?

    • @PlantLover094
      @PlantLover094 Рік тому +79

      This actually happens a lot in the US but isn’t really talked about. I watch a channel called Soft White Underbelly where this guy interviews people from skid row and a lot of them have childhood stories similar to this, from right here in America. It’s so sad.

    • @annajx3233
      @annajx3233 Рік тому

      ​@@dragilxcom4176 check honor killing..it's there in multiple cultures

  • @morenobinator9267
    @morenobinator9267 4 місяці тому +17

    this is one of the most inspirational women i have ever come across. even after everything that happened to her she is full of love and empathy for others. truly a miracle she is still here and thriving to help others in need.

  • @phyllis1384
    @phyllis1384 Рік тому +714

    So sorry, you were surround by psychopaths. Thank you for sharing the horrific incidents to help others.

    • @MichelleJudy-s8n
      @MichelleJudy-s8n 11 місяців тому

      Muslims are psychos

    • @hello-zn8fd
      @hello-zn8fd 10 місяців тому +1

      Narcissist

    • @Liyana_R
      @Liyana_R 8 місяців тому +8

      ​@@hello-zn8fdNo, Psychopaths is the right word. They were def more than "just" narcissists

    • @susanhawkes2519
      @susanhawkes2519 7 місяців тому +3

      Malignant narcissists.

    • @zahararay5611
      @zahararay5611 6 місяців тому +1

      Demons.

  • @ninarmathew
    @ninarmathew Рік тому +530

    Nina is such a sweet and genuine woman. I messaged her on Instagram after hearing her story, and she sent me such a heart full message encouraging me. She's truly so selfless and wants to make a difference in other people's lives. Her strength and grace is astonishing

  • @Wristshot
    @Wristshot Рік тому +1384

    You are the most strongest woman I have seen. To go through all you have and still have the strength to talk about your life. May your future with your family be full of happiness and success. And all the abusers you have encounter burn in hell!

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Рік тому +83

      I speak out so others can heal.
      My non profit enables others to heal and find their own freedom ❤

    • @NurulDysson
      @NurulDysson Рік тому +31

      ​@@londonslifecoachyour story is just so sad 😢 but you are a strong woman,may God bless you 🙏
      I have been through hard times as well not the same as you but it has been tough the last few years 😭
      I am praying for a miracle & for someone that can help me

    • @ajam3086
      @ajam3086 Рік тому +13

      why didn't she report any of them?!?!

    • @flowerfleur8105
      @flowerfleur8105 Рік тому +37

      @@ajam3086why is that your question and what you are angry about, you are not angry about the crime? Many of these cases go unreported because of fear that they will not be believed, they don’t want to go through any more pain and even though they are the victims, many times they feel shame even though they did nothing wrong.

    • @ajam3086
      @ajam3086 Рік тому

      ​@@flowerfleur8105because those people continue on hurting others

  • @Arjun_Strikes
    @Arjun_Strikes 2 місяці тому +8

    Oh my God, what she has endured in life is nothing short of a horror movie. Yet, she’s still standing strong, finding happiness in her children and her career. That’s truly amazing. She’s a warrior through and through.

  • @nitawolf6397
    @nitawolf6397 Рік тому +636

    OMG! I have been a licensed social worker and family educator in my career and this is the absolute worst situation I have ever heard of anywhere. Horrible! I wanted to hold Nina throughout her life to show her love and support. What an inspiration she is with her strength, reliance, and courage!

    • @karmakarma4169
      @karmakarma4169 Рік тому +11

      Thank you for sharing your story. I am horrified by what you have endured! Speaking your truth is healing. Human trafficking is out of control and I feel your experience has led you to becoming an advocate and voice for many who need guidance and help in these situations. You are a beautiful soul and I wish you much love, happiness and healing. ❤

    • @Judy122550
      @Judy122550 Рік тому +7

      it is still going on with other young girls it NEVER STOPS

    • @aleckerby1236
      @aleckerby1236 Рік тому +3

      Clearly not

    • @bendook
      @bendook Рік тому +1

      %❤

    • @Pilot_the_Dune
      @Pilot_the_Dune Рік тому +3

      Be very thankful you can be a social worker in the West.

  • @mandycowan1927
    @mandycowan1927 7 місяців тому +355

    I cannot believe that this poor lady wasn't helped and rescued by someone. I just want to hug her. What an amazing woman.

    • @faa8882
      @faa8882 6 місяців тому

      She was helped by a Christian woman.

    • @willowsworry
      @willowsworry 3 місяці тому +2

      I don’t think she was rescued because she didn’t know any better and she also didn’t report anything. I hear this from many trauma people. They really think it’s normal.

    • @Elisa-yw4bp
      @Elisa-yw4bp 2 місяці тому +1

      Good point... Neighbors play a huge role in protecting vulnerable children, teachers,
      Parents of other kids sometimes can see something is wrong especially if they hear things from their children at home. Doctors regular check ups, dentist. It takes a community to raise a child. Child abuse always present symptoms and signs. I want to throw up hearing this. We need noisy neighbors back... I mean the abortian clinic didn't raise concerns

    • @learnturkishlanguagesandmusic
      @learnturkishlanguagesandmusic 19 днів тому

      I totally agree. I am sure some people saw, but they kept quiet ​@Elisa-yw4bp

  • @gobstopper3041
    @gobstopper3041 7 місяців тому +2050

    Her dad Amarijt Singh* apparently lives in London still. Ex wrestler. And she says he owns restaurants. Londoners, please investigate and give this man hell! His wife and his sons and friends as well!

    • @blondiex315
      @blondiex315 7 місяців тому +156

      Yes!!!! Air out the laundry!

    • @professionalasshole-youmad2356
      @professionalasshole-youmad2356 7 місяців тому +13

      Agreed!!

    • @almondeyez_80
      @almondeyez_80 7 місяців тому +178

      Thnx for info.what monsters! 🤮 Her parents should be prosecuted.

    • @patriciaoreilly8907
      @patriciaoreilly8907 6 місяців тому +91

      Name & Shame 😊

    • @casebased8391
      @casebased8391 6 місяців тому +84

      It’s such a common Sikh name though…all men have the last name Singh. Will be hard to find him, wish he’s brought to justice ):

  • @moirawalsh1575
    @moirawalsh1575 2 місяці тому +7

    Nina landed on this video accidentally but I decided, minutes in, that I'd stay up and listen every word you have to share. I took it as a small calling. I feel you are special, with a special message. and, by the way, I absolutely believe you. God is love, our love for ourselves and each other. You are a living example of love. Warmest wishes and biggest hugs to you and your family.

  • @btcrazee1
    @btcrazee1 7 місяців тому +648

    When she said, “I don’t want me either”, I cried. Poor, poor girl.

    • @kimmieh8419
      @kimmieh8419 6 місяців тому +6

      Me too! I almost went through a whole box of tissues watching this! 😢

    • @123cillitbang
      @123cillitbang 3 місяці тому +7

      She went through hell and survived. I really wish the best for this beautiful soul moving forward🫶

    • @JudyDodoama
      @JudyDodoama 3 місяці тому +1

      I couldn't stop crying upon hearing your story,we have some very bad parents who treat their daughters that way in our country.im sorry ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Senee628
      @Senee628 2 місяці тому

      In their culture they dont have such thing as "mental health", thats just a western, fake concept in their view. Now imagine what each one of them (her mother-in-law, who she described for exmaple) had and has to live through in their societies. And even the boys grow up like this, seeing-, and learning how to treat EVEN YOUR OWN FAMILY... no wonder they see any westerner's life as wxrthless. Their holy book was written by a wxrlord 1400 years ago, and the more you follow it the better person you are (in their point of view).

    • @nadia5346
      @nadia5346 Місяць тому

      Same here 😢

  • @juleerowley9706
    @juleerowley9706 10 місяців тому +941

    How could a " Mother " do such things to her beautiful Daughter and how could that Mother allow anyone to hurt her child???
    Unbelievable how this lady has survived.
    Bless her heart and soul ❤

    • @VioletFlame-Ivy
      @VioletFlame-Ivy 9 місяців тому +19

      What can YOU as a mom do if a bunch of narcissists are after your child? If there's nobody to help you and you were raised to see yourself as nothing but a HOUSESLAVE as well? Where are you going to find the strength and support to save someone when you are traumatized yourself?

    • @april4848
      @april4848 9 місяців тому +10

      That just blows my mind! Disgusting!

    • @fs8541
      @fs8541 9 місяців тому +15

      @@VioletFlame-Ivynever give birth never bring a kid to suffer THTS what she can do.

    • @VioletFlame-Ivy
      @VioletFlame-Ivy 9 місяців тому

      And how exactly is she going to KNOW that? When most people are liars at the beginning. You've never been lied to in your life and betrayed badly by the ppl you've trusted? Woah! I guess you are the first one in the entire world. @@fs8541

    • @hannahkatiefountain
      @hannahkatiefountain 9 місяців тому +12

      ​@fs8541 never give birth, what rock are you loving under

  • @MsHLJones
    @MsHLJones Рік тому +950

    This is absolutely shockingly.... this violent neglectful abuse is barbaric and disgusting...how many girls have lived like this, how many girls are living like this now....at any degree...speaking out is brave, I hope this gets well publicised ..

    • @lisalockwood1443
      @lisalockwood1443 Рік тому +37

      True-lets keep the message loud and strong. This brave woman deserves to have her message heard around the world.

    • @aislingconnolly9165
      @aislingconnolly9165 Рік тому

      Muslim babaric cultures that hate women

    • @koolbreze6652
      @koolbreze6652 Рік тому +15

      AND BOY'S 😢🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @elaineproffitt1032
      @elaineproffitt1032 Рік тому +17

      This poor woman! She didn't deserve this abuse! All of those that abused her should go to prison for ever!!

    • @LindaSDeAnda-f8l
      @LindaSDeAnda-f8l 8 місяців тому +4

      Nobody deserves to be verbal physically spiritually mentally abused that's the mistakes the victims make about themselves.so be careful not to be manipulated easily.

  • @sophiathieme3037
    @sophiathieme3037 2 місяці тому +3

    She is so well spoken, eloquent and emotionally intelligent.. I feel such deep pain for her.. I just cannot fathom her level of suffering and she’s so so resilient. I wish her all the healing, love and safety in the world..

  • @neelamali5382
    @neelamali5382 Рік тому +737

    I remember watching a video of you before and crying so much. I didn’t think I’d listen through your whole ordeal again. But I did, the whole hour. Because you deserve to be heard, over and over again. I pray that you’re always protected and continue to be a voice for the voiceless.

    • @londonslifecoach
      @londonslifecoach Рік тому +50

      I acknowledge the time you have gifted and please know that I literally cut myself open so that others can heal.
      I don’t want anyone to suffer so hold my arms open and my non profit so that they can get support and help to escape and live their lives as they deserve 🙏🏼❤️

    • @Rr77184
      @Rr77184 Рік тому +6

      It requires lots of guts

    • @emmaalvarez1617
      @emmaalvarez1617 Рік тому +4

      ​@@londonslifecoachMany children and women go through this.

    • @donnadallariva8377
      @donnadallariva8377 Рік тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @TheNicB
      @TheNicB Рік тому

      100-million times this!!!!

  • @nasudsy5485
    @nasudsy5485 8 місяців тому +294

    As a father of two daughters, i just cant imagine what this lady would have gone through. The abuse, hurt and pain 💔 .. may God heal your heart and may you find inner peace, true happiness and strength

    • @unabunny585
      @unabunny585 4 місяці тому +1

      May god heal her father's heart for his is the one with the sickness...hers seems fine.

    • @QuickestSteps
      @QuickestSteps 4 місяці тому +1

      God bless you❤

  • @frankarhelger8240
    @frankarhelger8240 Місяць тому +4

    This woman is a hero in her own right. She dealt with so much throughout her entire life and still feels the empathy towards other people. I admire her and her beautiful soul.

  • @jamie9364
    @jamie9364 11 місяців тому +563

    In a world of social media and distractions, I did not once turn away from the video and whatched it from start to finish without a break. Even when tears came to my eyes, I didn't turn away. I knew this women deserved my attention, to hear every word. I am in awe of her strength , her vulnerbility and unconditional love. Thank you for the work you are doing and for finding your own healing and peace through it.

    • @leapingkitties
      @leapingkitties 11 місяців тому +11

      Yes, we only have to experience it through video, and that's nothing to living the trauma.

    • @dog-dx9pd
      @dog-dx9pd 11 місяців тому +6

      ♥ I pray she finds peace, and healing. May God bless her...

    • @BobWoolmer-kx3ym
      @BobWoolmer-kx3ym 10 місяців тому

      Yawns 🥱

    • @Yady9501
      @Yady9501 10 місяців тому

      ​@@BobWoolmer-kx3ym WTF is that? What does your dumbass mean?

    • @jamie9364
      @jamie9364 10 місяців тому

      @@angelsavita524 ❤️

  • @Y3172E
    @Y3172E Рік тому +551

    I have endured childhood trauma and neglect but nothing like you’ve experienced. This testimony gave me additional strength to get out of my toxic relationship. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @mikejaxson777
      @mikejaxson777 Рік тому

      ​@@snarkyenigma9219you are a sicko

    • @randomsomeguy156
      @randomsomeguy156 Рік тому

      ​@@snarkyenigma9219wot

    • @no-rz1sv
      @no-rz1sv Рік тому +13

      @@snarkyenigma9219 what would that psychiatrist gain from doing so? dont say stuff like this to someone who expresses being abused, you might say it from a nice place but it comes off mean

    • @snarkyenigma9219
      @snarkyenigma9219 Рік тому

      @@no-rz1sv What would a psychiatrist have to gain you ask? The same thing a mechanic gains when he finds nothing wrong with a car ....$NOTHING$ (because they would be out of business). The sicker a person is, the richer a doctor becomes. I could go on and on. Healthcare workers push the so called vaccines because they get paid commission checks for every "jab" they sell. There are countless cases where Psychiatrists are convincing people (mainly impressionable children) that they are suffering from gender dysphoria. BTW, I am not a conspiracy theorist or necessarily a skeptical person who dwells on the negative ... I'm only providing you with some facts. Finally, I'm just not real big on people exploiting the alleged trauma in their lives for profit and/or social media "clicks".

    • @KarenLovesColours
      @KarenLovesColours Рік тому +9

      Yes! You can do it! Sending lots of love and good thoughts your way 🙂

  • @Mrslisamaree
    @Mrslisamaree 10 місяців тому +259

    Layer upon layer of trauma ... I am shocked at the severity of trauma but MORE astounded that you Nina, chose to love humanity through it all. YOU are one of the world's most stunning human beings. I hope I meet you in Heaven to personally say thank you.
    I will do my part to support survivors of abuse in Australia. Let's walk in our communities with our eyes open!

  • @immirvine2825
    @immirvine2825 Місяць тому +5

    Nobody helped. Nobody asked enough questions. Are you people so spiritless you did not feel? Are you so blind that Noone saw? Dear lady, with all this suffering and coming out still gentle, you are MY angel on earth. God bless you. I believe and love you. I am 72 year old grandma.

  • @aleanbh3808
    @aleanbh3808 10 місяців тому +1191

    “People don’t ask questions when a girl disappears” broke me

    • @ReviewsChannel-e4r
      @ReviewsChannel-e4r 9 місяців тому +52

      When you occasionally hear about the rape and brutality culture in India and surrounding countries, it's TRUE.

    • @katarinagbajobi6620
      @katarinagbajobi6620 8 місяців тому

      I live in UK for the past 20years. I do not like Indians somehow. Pakistanis have more heart for humans.

    • @doremi131
      @doremi131 8 місяців тому

      People run serious closed cults and they normalise them.

    • @LetsgetloudUK
      @LetsgetloudUK 8 місяців тому

      Islam breaks everyone. Everything they touch and everywhere they go, hell.

    • @sn.m
      @sn.m 8 місяців тому +9

      ​@@ReviewsChannel-e4rthere are a lot of flaws in India. But please do not generalize. What this incredible survivor went through, is extremely horrifying. However, this does not represent the entire country.

  • @imamachineok
    @imamachineok Рік тому +394

    So deserved, this real woman getting a woman of the year award! She deserves it, I admire her strength and perseverance. What a wonder she is. I am so sorry for the trauma she endured, I was physically abused by my partners but that pales in comparison. Nina you are a soldier.

    • @imamachineok
      @imamachineok Рік тому +12

      Her story is so harrowing, its almost unbelievable. That poor woman.

    • @CCelia1953
      @CCelia1953 11 місяців тому +7

      What a brave, beautiful and soulful personality. I wish you only love and a prosperous life! Much love to you❤

    • @domesticviolence8560
      @domesticviolence8560 11 місяців тому +3

      I have also faced domestic violence by my husband am divorcing .

    • @Vero2yu
      @Vero2yu 10 місяців тому +4

      @@imamachineok It is one thing getting raped, like in general, a whole other thing to be raped by someone who is supposed to be a parent. How disgusting.

  • @nickkruger3296
    @nickkruger3296 7 місяців тому +99

    This story makes me feel guilty for ever complaining about family relations, life’s problems, or struggles with friends. I just want to give this woman a big hug! God bless you fine lady.

  • @jessamycr
    @jessamycr Місяць тому +2

    You give me such strength! It’s incredible how the love we have for our children can absolutely save us. You are an absolute treasure and inspiration for women everywhere.

  • @scathatch
    @scathatch 8 місяців тому +195

    Nina Aouilk says that Angels came into her life at critical times, her mothers friend, her dog understood, the taxi driver.......Nina is an Angel. Her openness to her pain, her humility, her honesty and integrity, her gift for communication. Words cannot really describe this giant soul. Love and respect.

    • @blondiex315
      @blondiex315 7 місяців тому +4

      Absolutely agree with this!

  • @hugolm.oso24
    @hugolm.oso24 Рік тому +402

    "Freedom is just being allowed to live without fear." -- Nina Aouilk. I salute you and I admire you Nina, for everything you have accomplished in spite of all of what you endured. You truly are a fighter! An inspiration!

  • @sandraevans6066
    @sandraevans6066 8 місяців тому +127

    It is a miracle that you survived this level of abuse. You are a hero and a champion for womanhood! Bless you

  • @Ka3Burton
    @Ka3Burton Місяць тому +6

    I lived in a hostel for young adults and met a young woman who moved from uo north on the run. She was made to work in a factory and raped by her father, uncles and friends, torchered and tied to a bed by her hair. I don't know what happened to her after that but she had a boyfriend who I think gave her some comfort but they both started taking drugs which is so sad. I really hope she's safe and living a happy life now.

  • @taslimbello2854
    @taslimbello2854 10 місяців тому +383

    The fact that Nina has made it this far is just a MIRACLE.
    To be honest, I just can't bring myself to finish watching this clip as my heart has already been shredded.
    All those who put her through the ordeals are beyond animals and it's only a matter of time (if it has not happened already) that they will be severely punished in this life and get burnt in hell when they eventually arrive there.
    Nina, you are the strongest Woman I have known so far.
    May GOD continue to be your strength.

    • @nowhere-qj5bd
      @nowhere-qj5bd 10 місяців тому +3

      aameen Ya Allah
      bi Rehmatika Ya Mujeebu Ya Wahhabu Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum
      Alhamdulillah

    • @fariash4695
      @fariash4695 8 місяців тому +1

      Amen

  • @MedMicroBioMe
    @MedMicroBioMe 10 місяців тому +450

    I remember the moment in my healing when, at 33, I enjoyed the freedom of looking at a tree - specifically a leaf that was dangling from the tree. i had been in survival mode for so long, I just stood there for a good 20 mins, in the middle of the day, next to a busy road just staring at this leaf like it was the first time i'd ever seen one. I couldn't remember how long it had been since I'd noticed anything around me besides what I feared. I must have looked insane. Like Nina, I too remember the moment I realised that anything bad I thought or knew about myself was what people said to or thought of me. My heart aches for all of us whose childhoods were stolen. This is not what our lives should have been and the road back is such an emotional roller coaster ❤

    • @rahimkarim7921
      @rahimkarim7921 9 місяців тому

      In Islam, Iban Asura, Hadees, he tells how to have sex with mother. In Bukhari, Hadees he explains how to have sex with daughter, sister, etc. In Islam, woman are said to be like farm and man has right to cultivate farm with any women. Mohammad always played victim card but was always the killer and perpetrator. Understand and read Islamic books. Without lies, Islam dies.

    • @vivetkah
      @vivetkah 9 місяців тому +25

      You are given a life for a purpose and sharing your story and helping others is one.

    • @jaledalton4194
      @jaledalton4194 9 місяців тому +8

    • @sashapalma2033
      @sashapalma2033 9 місяців тому +16

      This is so beautiful I would love to read a book written by you!

    • @ReviewsChannel-e4r
      @ReviewsChannel-e4r 9 місяців тому +10

      It is a long journey back to have faith in humanity or at all. Only those who have been there know what's it like.

  • @naimahq8739
    @naimahq8739 Рік тому +477

    It’s disgusting when people say “why didn’t you just leave?”
    Are you kidding me? She was psychologically conditioned to sustain abuse.
    Be grateful because to ask a question like “why didn’t you ‘just’ leave?” It’s evident that you have likely grown up in a household with at least subpar love and even if you’ve a history of surviving abuse you were around enough love and support that gave you the confidence to know there’s an options such as walking away. Coming from a reality in which allll of THIS is unacceptable. Means you grew up with healthy boundaries. Whereas, abuse is the transgression against another humans boundaries. Abusers fail to recognize others as humans.
    Stop the cycle. Don’t let your kids grow up thinking this is acceptable. It’s not.

    • @soniapasin2283
      @soniapasin2283 Рік тому +6

      I don't get it, she was good at working and making money, reading books how can you not click.

    • @b.abouttowwn
      @b.abouttowwn Рік тому +13

      I agree, but I think that most people can’t see staying with children especially when they are now sharing in the abuse. It makes her complicit in them receiving abuse because she isn’t protecting them at all. Abused children cannot understand your trauma when they are undergoing and enduring their own. This is what most people can’t understand. She shares that she didn’t want to be around people at the women’s refuge because they were drinking, but stayed with a partner who was abusing her children. It’s tough to reconcile that. For me anyway, her being a loving parent didn’t override her partner being a monster. Her children still endured and that saddens me.

    • @Fonoyb
      @Fonoyb Рік тому +6

      Very well Spoken! The people with the most Compassion are those who have a sad childhood story to tell...

    • @Fonoyb
      @Fonoyb Рік тому +7

      Soniapasin2283 it is hard to understand of you've never went through it. I hope you will read more about childhood abuse and what is does to people.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 Рік тому +5

      She did leave though

  • @wonderwoman1199
    @wonderwoman1199 3 місяці тому +7

    Nina, I'm with you. I love you. As a victim of abuse. I could feel your pain. I'm sorry this happened to you. To me, You're a hero.

  • @mommabear5059
    @mommabear5059 7 місяців тому +243

    It makes me so sad to hear her say she thinks she wasn’t a good mother because she didn’t ask her kids how they were. Meanwhile, she’s been in survival mode since she was a toddler.

    • @sbh0007
      @sbh0007 2 місяці тому +1

      😢

  • @theobserver6493
    @theobserver6493 Рік тому +208

    This is gut-wrenching!! HUUUGGEEEE respect for this incredible lady - Nina Aouilk. I so wish that she would be blessed with unimaginable love, happiness and being cared for.

  • @dyawr
    @dyawr Рік тому +514

    I wish her parents would be charged for what they've done to her. The gang gRape isn't provable by now, unfortunately, but she still has her medical and police records from the attempted honor killing. It is *disgusting* that the authorities didn't press charges even if she didn't want it. This isn't civil matter, but a *criminal* one. It's not up to the victims, who may be scared out of their minds, whether justice should be served or not.

    • @nusratbaig859
      @nusratbaig859 Рік тому +10

      Herang her story I cryed there.all time I hope she is coping good now god helped her there.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 Рік тому +30

      I remember Nina's horrific life story. I am so glad she is thriving. 2 things I'd like to ask.
      1. Did her mother actually teach Nina to cook?
      2. Why do those dimwit men not realise they need women to have children with. Men cannot live in a world without women.

    • @dyawr
      @dyawr Рік тому +9

      @@manichairdo9265 Well, yeah, prob. Considering she starting cooking for them when she was 5-6.

    • @mariesahota1478
      @mariesahota1478 Рік тому +26

      😢it can be proven to a degree because of HER early pregnancy

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 Рік тому

      ​@@manichairdo9265Women like her mother are a part of the evil.

  • @OlaAlexAlek
    @OlaAlexAlek Місяць тому +5

    And we have only one life. And when your life is like this, I wonder how people find strength to fight. You are so strong, brave and amazing, girl!!!!!

  • @Venus61840
    @Venus61840 Рік тому +392

    This is beyond shocking. It’s beyond humane. This lady seems so lovely and kind despite what she’s endured. I’d love to be her friend and show her how much she’s liked and appreciated

    • @lee-annbryce97
      @lee-annbryce97 Рік тому +24

      I feel the same as you about this beautiful woman, may god bless her always and protect her. Sending hugs from Australia.🇦🇺♥️

    • @angeltitis8723
      @angeltitis8723 Рік тому +9

      Me too

    • @cspeak2me
      @cspeak2me Рік тому +10

      Yes lord

    • @christinezuk4152
      @christinezuk4152 Рік тому +7

      Sending love from Long Island New York! She is an angel!

    • @marsy1480
      @marsy1480 Рік тому +2

      Agree completely.

  • @justthefacts8872
    @justthefacts8872 Рік тому +447

    I believe every word you're saying.
    I hate the phrase "honor killings" because there is NO honor in it. It is the goal of nothing but sick, disgusting psychopaths.
    People like that and their enablers make me want to VOMIT..... both parents. Narcissistic personality disorder lives EVERYWHERE! But some cultures clearly support it. No God has any hand in their deeds.
    Please know that her abuse did not happen without the endorsement of WOMEN.
    YOU ARE A BOSS. YOU ARE A HERO!!!!!!!!!!!
    THANK YOU FOR EXPOSING THE WORST OF SOCIETY....JUST DISGUSTING.

    • @nidhia6925
      @nidhia6925 Рік тому +2

      Dear fellow sensitive soul....
      Everything has a hand of God in it..
      And, then he could have stopped it??
      Was it her karma showing up??
      I wish I had the answers..
      I am sad for her
      I pain myself for the pain of others

    • @justthefacts8872
      @justthefacts8872 Рік тому +25

      @nidhia6925 No, it wasn't her karma. There are soul-sucking organisms on earth that are devoid of empathy. They have three goals; their pleasure, their self-preservation, and keeping up appearances to hide their souless shape-shifting carcases.
      Her one mistake was being born among them.

    • @OrionEstrella
      @OrionEstrella Рік тому +2

      AFTER THIS I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW SHE IS STILL ALIVE. ( I would be traumatized to my core that I could probably not have been able to string a sentence ....I would turned into a Rainman...... I MEAN THERE IS N O T H I N G B A D... YOU CAN THROW AT THIS GIRL THAT SHE HAS NOT ENDURE....GOOLLLYYYY...I CAN TELL SHE HAS A LOT OF IMAGINATION, AND THAT SHE LIKED BOOKS...SHE SHOULD WRITE THE NEXT SAW MOVIE...STEPHEN KING HAS NOTHING ON THIS GAL. I think not even the interviewer believes her.
      I have a very hard time believing her story. The story is woven with truth between all the lies.. it seems like she wants to make herself cry, she seems manipulative. She may have a wish to be white for real, and she may be a closet lesbian. I think she was lazy when young and her mum disapproved of that. I think she has a very bad mental disorder for sure...like delusional.
      I don't understand. how her mom was pleased that she got married if she actually treated like a maid, as she is saying... it would have been like if your maid is leaving. And her mother-in-law was also on it too? I mean nobody in the whole world was good to her? and she also supported them? they hurt her physically?, but she went to school as a child?
      MMMMMMMM.........I'M NOT SURE ABOUT HER STORY.....WHERE WAS HER MOTHER AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY?.....AND THE FATHER IN LAW TOO? HER BROTHERS TOO? HER SISTER TOO?
      IT SEEMS TO ME THAT MURPHY'S LAW JUST WENT ALL OUT ON THIS WOMAN. I'M SORRY BUT I HAVE A SUSPICION THAT SHE WAS EITHER THE ONE WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS ( I do actually believe that she got pregnant but I think she was pregnant because of rape....OR SHE IS MAKING THIS UP TO GET PITTY OR SOME SORT OF FINANCIAL GAIN
      I MEAN THERE IS N O T H I N G B A D... YOU CAN THROW AT THIS GIRL THAT SHE HAS NOTNDUREDE....GOOLLLYYYY...I CAN TELL SHE HAS A LOT OF IMAGINATION, AND THAT SHE LIKED BOOKS...SHE SHOULD WRITE THE NEXT SAW MOVIE...STEPHEN KING HAS NOTHING ON THIS GAL.

    • @umelokarnes5460
      @umelokarnes5460 Рік тому +3

      ​@@nidhia6925Jehovah God, our Creator, does not try anyone with evil. Jehovah is a God of love.

    • @rubyescobedo5750
      @rubyescobedo5750 Рік тому +1

      ​@nidhia6925 God created humans. Humans choose right or wrong the humans who did this to her made the choice to hurt her not God.

  • @humblecrabd6981
    @humblecrabd6981 Рік тому +294

    being woman of the year is simply not enough for someone like Nina. she is the woman of this millennium. I can only thank the Almighty Lord, her children and her wonderful dog who guided her to survival. thank you for surviving Nina, you have more honour in your finger nail than any of the abusers wish they could have. what a wonderful warrior you are 💓

    • @donpietruk1517
      @donpietruk1517 Рік тому +5

      Just remember some idiot somehow named Dylan Mulvaney Woman Of The Year when she sits as a shining example of strength, courage and compassion.

  • @anyahoskins6534
    @anyahoskins6534 2 місяці тому +5

    I truly appreciate her sharing her story. It’s sad that women/females are not safe anywhere. I thank God for miraculous life.🙏🏽

  • @shannoninalaska
    @shannoninalaska Рік тому +181

    I am speechless. The evil, neglect, abuse, violence, rejection, and terrible treatment this beautiful young woman lived through is unimaginable.

  • @ashleyhaynes8627
    @ashleyhaynes8627 6 місяців тому +281

    “Freedom is just being able to live without fear.”
    That was heartbreaking to hear and completely true.

  • @patsycathcart1
    @patsycathcart1 7 місяців тому +177

    This is one of the saddest things I’ve ever heard. She is such a strong woman and an overcomer.

  • @lindarossouw5052
    @lindarossouw5052 Місяць тому +4

    This is a super lady. Going through so many atrocious things and still be able to help others! You are well loved beautiful woman!

  • @LyndseyRose-cl3mu
    @LyndseyRose-cl3mu Рік тому +122

    I’ve never gone through so many emotions watching this.
    Shock, Sadness, Anger!
    Absolutely horrific!
    The strongest woman I’ve ever seen!
    You’re beautiful and kind ❤

  • @MazharBokhari1
    @MazharBokhari1 8 місяців тому +173

    At 70 I cannot cry out loud but my eyes are full of tears … to sympathise will be an insult to a great human like you
    God bless you 😢❤️😢

    • @sophritoh
      @sophritoh 8 місяців тому +15

      What does that mean, do you mean literally you can’t cry out loud physically? Do you stop being able to cry when you get that age? Sorry, I don’t mean this rudely, I’ve just never heard that before

    • @MKiller-se6sm
      @MKiller-se6sm 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@sophritohshut up mate

    • @Mrgg-vo9hr
      @Mrgg-vo9hr 7 місяців тому

      She's curious. Don't tell her to shut up. RUDE​@@MKiller-se6sm

    • @QueenOfSheeba187
      @QueenOfSheeba187 6 місяців тому

      ​@@MKiller-se6smthey asked a genuine question ffs

    • @MKiller-se6sm
      @MKiller-se6sm 6 місяців тому +1

      @QueenOfSheeba187 he yapped for 9 hours to ask a 1 sentence question, shut up.

  • @clubbersguidenewyork9
    @clubbersguidenewyork9 8 місяців тому +206

    The grace of this beautiful woman under the most sickening of circumstances is just incredible and inspiring

  • @kripleenks9644
    @kripleenks9644 2 місяці тому +3

    This is so freaking sad!! And am stunned to know that this level of abuse exists in the world & such cruel & heartless human beings!! Much love to you & I wish you the very VERY best in life. I feel proud of you for being so strong!! 💪🏻

  • @ryanborder189
    @ryanborder189 8 місяців тому +142

    Wow-just wow.
    I’m a white, gay man and my siblings and I had a really tough childhood because of our father. But we were blessed with the best mother that God ever put on this planet-she was truly wonderful. Children can survive all kinds of deprivations just as long as they have someone that believes in them, someone that would take a bullet for them. I’ve seen some terrible things and heard some terrible things but this ladies story is almost unbelievable its so shocking.
    Nina, I send you my love and respect. For anyone to survive that with their sanity is amazing. To use that experience to help others is Gods work. God put you here for a reason-keep on spreading the word sister and all people of conscience will be with you🙏

    • @villa_fan8882
      @villa_fan8882 7 місяців тому +2

      I don’t mean to be rude and I am lucky to have had a blessed upbringing. However, may I ask why your Mom didn’t leave your father to get you and your siblings out of the situation?

    • @ryanborder189
      @ryanborder189 7 місяців тому +8

      @@villa_fan8882 ok, here goes. You have to know that this was 50 years ago when i was child. My mother was Irish(so was my father) and much like I would imagine for many Muslims when you got married it was for life. Divorce was not on the cards in those days for Irish women. You must also know that then society did not view marital abuse in the same way as we do today. There was no help, no welfare that would allow you to walk away and in those days believe it or not the police were really not allowed to remove a man from his home even when he was a violent bully although the Police did on many occasions. My mom was terrified that we would be homeless and that we would be taken into care.
      My mother always worked 2 jobs and sometimes 3 as my father rarely worked and would then cook, clean and be incredibly involved with us as well as being incredibly loving and caring towards us. She worked her fingers to the bone and always made us believe that better time were ahead. She was no pushover and did fight back but the pressure on her through the community and socially was immense. She did divorce my father after 9 attempts and brought us up by her self. She also took care of my father until he died even after she had divorced him and even though she couldn't stand him-she did that because she believed it was the right thing to do...he was our father.
      My mother died aged 89 2 years ago. When she left this world my mother died as poor as a church mouse but my mother died like a Queen. She was looked after, at home by her family until she died with incredible love and devotion and was surrounded until the day she died by her 7 children, 8 grandchildren and 8 great grandchildren. None of us cared about about an inheritance because there was no money. But she left us with the kind of inheritance that money cannot buy. We all knew that every bit of prosperity, every great experience and everything good in our lives came from her unbelievable efforts and that is why she was adored and why we shall all miss her for the rest of lives. We may be biased but we know she was an exceptional woman and every day we look to the heavens and thank God that he could choose us for such a gift. Thats why.
      BTW we grew up a mile from the Villa!!

    • @Snailryder
      @Snailryder 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@ryanborder189 marriage is not 'for life' for Muslims, divorce is fine when a marriage breaks down.
      Also, just to note: the victim in this video is Sikh not Muslim.

    • @ryanborder189
      @ryanborder189 6 місяців тому

      @@Snailryder I never said Muslims cannot get divorced. Irish Catholics can get divorced too. The point I was making was that within the Muslim community, particularly for women there is a lot of cultural and societal pressure to stay in a marriage for women-that is not usually the same for men(that was the same for Irish Catholics in that era)
      I am fully aware that this lady is Sikh and not Muslim but the same applies to most Asian people. I have them in my family so I know that is the case.

  • @nildaweiss4287
    @nildaweiss4287 7 місяців тому +68

    Nina, you spoke of angels helping you. However, you are an angel for millions. Blessings to you, your children & all you do. You are appreciated & loved. Thank you!

  • @rositaadunchezor5347
    @rositaadunchezor5347 Рік тому +105

    I thought I was strong with my story until I listened to Nina. What a sad, horrible, painful experience. Nina, all I can say is you are a hero, a champion, an inspiration. I wish you all the love, care and happiness in this world. Stay strong and continue radiating love. ❤

  • @ketnamistry5805
    @ketnamistry5805 Місяць тому +2

    You are so strong! Thank you for sharing this story. Honest, Raw, and Brave.

  • @qawsed963
    @qawsed963 Рік тому +112

    She is more than woman of the year… she’s the woman of a lifetime ❤

  • @DataJunkieTX
    @DataJunkieTX Рік тому +83

    I suddenly find myself desperately wanting to hug and cry for her and for so many like her. I love this women’s courage and the great awareness she has and managed to maintain throughout her entire life. God Bless her.

  • @JaishreeBawa-ey3et
    @JaishreeBawa-ey3et 7 місяців тому +142

    Shocked to the core… the parents should be exposed behind bars for life

  • @joannpilgrim1580
    @joannpilgrim1580 2 дні тому

    Such a brave and caring woman. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family.

  • @jamie-lee6979
    @jamie-lee6979 7 місяців тому +48

    The generational curses that have been broken here, absolutely powerful. Nina, gorgeous woman, I am so very honoured to hold your feats of resilience in my heart. You are made of love, and you are deeply loved. Continue to gently tread upon this Earth, she is your home, and you are always held. Blessed be.

  • @nellebelle9060
    @nellebelle9060 Рік тому +210

    It’s insane how so many people failed this woman. It takes a lot of strength and courage to still come out such a horrific situation a loving and caring person, where people in similar situations can project that same abuse on to others or themselves as a means for coping. Truly appreciate her telling her story, such an inspiration for others also going through family abuse/trauma❤️

  • @hailtothefire_
    @hailtothefire_ Рік тому +203

    I cannot believe how incredibly strong this woman is. I don't know how she managed to keep her head above water when she was at the very bottom. I wish I could hug her and thank her for all the things she's doing for girls and women that are going through similar situations, and also for telling her story.

    • @g60force
      @g60force 10 місяців тому +2

      totally agree and it makes you value your own life even more...
      I sometimes complain but it's like 0,00001% of what she went through
      when people here my story they say OMG you have had so much badluck
      perhaps I was lucky cuz it could've been million times worse!!!
      (PS: i was never abused or anythings like that, actually had very good parents)
      So I hope you also had a good childhood... in any case stay strong!

  • @vinivini5747
    @vinivini5747 Місяць тому +4

    What a beautiful soul she is that she forgave all who hurt her and doesn’t hate anyone. She is God’s child.

  • @lisatotaram8584
    @lisatotaram8584 10 місяців тому +270

    I am in complete shock and disbelief at her story. Words cannot describe how incredibly strong she is to keep getting back up literally 😢As an Indian who has Punjab in my moms side, I never once thought this was considered a “culture “ its demonic and pure evil. Sending love and light.

    • @Aryantics
      @Aryantics 8 місяців тому +2

      Same thing happened to my Indian friend in high school. She swore never to be with an Indian after all the abuse she endured.

    • @susanatonkin1007
      @susanatonkin1007 8 місяців тому

      Blessings beautiful lady of God your very powerful 😢❤🙏👏

    • @sabak84
      @sabak84 2 місяці тому

      It's only Indian Punjab. Alhamdulillah this behavior doesn't represent the Muslim Punjabis of Pakistan. This doesn't mean abuse doesn't exist but it's rare.

  • @fionamb83
    @fionamb83 Рік тому +127

    I can't imagine what this woman has been through. She's got more resilience than I can possibly fathom.

  • @Oldflower63
    @Oldflower63 8 місяців тому +132

    She was bullied & abused for being kind. It makes me so sad and furious at the same knowing many horrible people who go through the ritual of prayers and sexually abuse her. I am proud of your strength to leave that hell. All the best to you, stay strong.

  • @lynnlee4822
    @lynnlee4822 Місяць тому +4

    Nina, Thank you for being bold, selfless and caring enough to expose with insider accounts the heinous deeds committed in the dark by vile and beastly characters.
    It matters. Amongst other good, It heightens awareness and alertness in all of us. May it set free the other “captives” (in mind and similar situations) who have not been able to see.
    Indeed, Deep appreciation to you both.

  • @Idontknowho.
    @Idontknowho. Рік тому +236

    Nina’s story is the most heartbreaking story I have ever come across. What her “family” did to her in the name of “honour” was completely demonic. I cannot even begin to understand how the family could justify their actions. Truly demonic. I hope that everyone that was involved gets punished. I wish Nina nothing but happiness, love, joy and most of all safety.💜

    • @melodreama
      @melodreama 11 місяців тому +4

      Truly sorry you had to go through that. I wish you nothing but the best moving forward 💗

    • @MichelleJudy-s8n
      @MichelleJudy-s8n 11 місяців тому

      It's demonic. Their thoughts and prayers including the ideas of custom, culture, relation even their takes on heaven is demonic. Islam is demonic. It makes people infested with evil one and made them worse than zombies.

    • @kumaranvij
      @kumaranvij 11 місяців тому +1

      There are no real demons, though. You know that, right?

    • @sabinariverson3181
      @sabinariverson3181 11 місяців тому

      Wow this story is very sad

  • @lenoreleitch5297
    @lenoreleitch5297 8 місяців тому +533

    What a horrible, horrible, disgusting culture. She is beyond brave to tell her story. I wanted to reach through my screen and just give her a very long hug and tell her she is worth 100x more than any one of her despicable family. 😢

    • @CarmenRodriguez-ze2xg
      @CarmenRodriguez-ze2xg 7 місяців тому +12

      This happen in occidental culture señora too. To many childrens are abusing every day

    • @CarmenRodriguez-ze2xg
      @CarmenRodriguez-ze2xg 7 місяців тому

      This happen every day in occidental countries to many childrens abuse

    • @Bravofandom00
      @Bravofandom00 7 місяців тому

      This is NOT our culture!! Get it straight!! Perverts and abusers and neglect in EVERY culture!

    • @theaaravaanyachannel5493
      @theaaravaanyachannel5493 7 місяців тому +14

      This is nothing to do with culture

    • @adelemorrone3670
      @adelemorrone3670 7 місяців тому +22

      Violence against women happens in all cultures including white culture. This is about patriarchy not culture.

  • @ellespencer8563
    @ellespencer8563 Рік тому +240

    I’ve seen a few of Nina’s videos and in the rare chance that she could ever see this: you are heard, believed, appreciated, and so admired for your bravery if only for the several times you told your story to the world. What unbelievable resilience. What a tremendous life calling. What a way to turn such horror into safety and hope for other survivors. The next life will be glorious for you, Nina. I hope this one is as much as it can be, as well. You’re a Queen.

    • @parveenhussain8857
      @parveenhussain8857 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes you are loved after i have heard your story you will always be in my heart and prayers and inshaallha Allah will give you and your children all the health wealth and happiness in the world love so much

    • @joel6427
      @joel6427 10 місяців тому +1

      The family's religion is the source of their thinking.

    • @marthabalev2208
      @marthabalev2208 10 місяців тому +1

      NINA you life Will get better I’m sure you going to be okay,you need to contact Alba Weinman, she’s hypnotherapist I’m promise you going to be alright believe me get an touch with her; I’m sure you life is going to take off after make an appointment with her, you’re a divine soul that need this help .Im 70 can I call u daughter? It make me happy an is a privilege for me trillions of BLESSINGS 🇨🇴🇦🇺

    • @gretchenboyd69
      @gretchenboyd69 6 місяців тому

      ​@@marthabalev2208Weirdo. Why would you want to call her Daughter?

  • @nathanj109
    @nathanj109 2 місяці тому +11

    Poor girl, coming from a family who has had siblings who were sexually abused, she is saying very similar things to what I experienced. My heart goes out to her and I hope she is able to heal

  • @poshy3045
    @poshy3045 7 місяців тому +102

    This is so traumatic even at this adult stage she still cries when thinking of that 14 yrs old gal. Imagine worse, she got pregnant

  • @smmds
    @smmds 7 місяців тому +932

    Her mother is pure evil. She was part of all this , didn't protect her own daughter.

    • @SwimminWitDaFishies
      @SwimminWitDaFishies 7 місяців тому +24

      Her mother probably was in fear of her own life, and that's likely why she didn't want to make waves with the husband. Unfortunately she was unable to be strong enough to send her daughter away to live with relatives or a convent (or other religious conclave)

    • @susanhawkes2519
      @susanhawkes2519 7 місяців тому

      Mother also female and powerless.

    • @ThePimmy11
      @ThePimmy11 7 місяців тому +7

      Ever consider she knew the life the girl child she made was going to face and that's why she didn't bond with her? So what was she supposed to do? Knowing who she was with, how little her own family valued her, how unhelpful the authorities would be.....what was she to do?

    • @smmds
      @smmds 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@ThePimmy11so the alternative is to just stand around and watch her daughter being raped by her husband and relatives, also almost being beaten up to death later? She did nothing. She didn't even TRY to get help. You bring a child into the world, you protect it with all your might. She could have called a neighbour or the police or the emergency number . Yes the daughter tried on her own later and that one policeman didn't help but that doesn't mean EVERYONE is the same. Not everyone is evil in the world, there are people who might have helped or intervened if she had at least tried to do something for her daughter while she was being beaten. Most sane people won't stand around and watch someone being 'bounced off walls' , 'bones being broken' and 'stamped on' . Ever considered that?

    • @smmds
      @smmds 7 місяців тому +41

      ​@@ThePimmy11ever considered that she could have called a neighbour or emergency number or TRY to do something to save her daughter from being killed instead of standing around (which is completely against the maternal instinct which even animals have) watching her daughter being beaten to death? You bring a child into the world, you protect it with all your might. It's as simple as that.

  • @rosannabilly7718
    @rosannabilly7718 11 місяців тому +120

    "Freedom is just being allowed to live without fear!" - Nina Aouilk
    You are truly resilient, brave and a inspiration to all! ❤

  • @rhondakaminsky4837
    @rhondakaminsky4837 25 днів тому +1

    What a talk! This is certainly an eye-opening experience watching this and exposing so much suffering and pain in this world, particularly among women.

  • @rosejones2932
    @rosejones2932 Рік тому +115

    Hearing this woman humbles me and gives me strength. She has learned how to get through trauma and come out with love. I am very impressed!