What you Seek is Seeking you! (Roadmap to your purpose)

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  • @selah7702
    @selah7702 3 роки тому +1

    I see this is an older video but it is perfectly on time for me right now at this moment in 2021! I’m 47 and some years ago I had finally given up on being me and decided I had to find a way to be one of “them” which has let me down a very difficult and painful and unfulfilling path. Right now I’m trying to repair that damage and figure out where the real me fits in.. love and appreciation 💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Jackie-ng3rn
    @Jackie-ng3rn 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this vital guidance, for people who aren't aware of there purpose in life 🙂 This is how I started to feel myself going through this experience, not feeling that I was fitting into society, but over time I've come to realise the reason behind this.

  • @rukkayyahyusuf2056
    @rukkayyahyusuf2056 4 роки тому +1

    What you seek is seeking you: what you always needed is what you wre always meant to become and it will all align. Original wounding of separation, the belief that In order to connect I must suffer because of experience of conforming to ideals and suffering. Own your truth, seek those who need you. Let go of ideal in order to connect. You deserve connections that are aligned with your purpose .

  • @smurph4959
    @smurph4959 6 років тому +20

    That feeling as a kid that there's something wrong with you and that you can't fit in ... it's terrible ... and never leaves. You are so right self acceptance and increased capacity for collective inclusion 💗💗💗 to get over the need for validation is a hard one but I think age helps 🌼🌸🌹

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  6 років тому +4

      Smurph Yes yes yes!!!! Too many people are going through that and find themselves in the endless cycle that really needed to take place during the developmental ages. Now we must validate the Self 🔮

  • @healingravn4219
    @healingravn4219 5 років тому +2

    Your balance🌈
    Your safety🧡
    Your truth💜
    Your devotion💙
    Your holeness💚
    Thank you💛

  • @karissaschwartz1017
    @karissaschwartz1017 6 років тому +17

    Beautiful put. Exactly. Yes. It’s like listening to a wise friend or older sister that has her shit together. 💓😉

  • @susantraynor643
    @susantraynor643 6 років тому +2

    I'm 59 years now. When I was about 22, my lover, frustrated with me asked me what love was or meant to me. After some minutes of silence, I said that love was separation. Over the years I have tried to understand my surprising response because in fact, I "separate" from everything ~ people, things, animals. I am in a perpetual state of letting go and of course this is emotionally painful as well as costly. Imagine constantly moving, having to buy new beds, cars, etc. I have never felt worthy of animals though I love them. I have a very low capacity for small talk so I lose relationships quickly. I do know where some of it comes from because two sisters and a brother died at different times from illnesses, all before I reached 25. Being a highly sensitive person without enough parental embracing has left me feeling shameful and excessively guilty; I think am fundamentally flawed. After a couple of decades of tenacious research and persistence, two positive traits of our type, I am finally beginning allow myself to integrate sage words with my emotions instead solely intellectualizing them. Separation dissolves as I allow this integration to take its place. I am healing now and you are helping. MegaLove to you, Susan

  • @juleh.6346
    @juleh.6346 6 років тому +13

    everything you do here is so very helpful..pure light..thank you so much for beeing who u are,and doing what u do :) lots of sun!!!

  • @peacelove8078
    @peacelove8078 6 років тому +4

    I feel like I have triple healing polysproren ointment on my soul right now! Yet again you have spoken to my wounds and I feel understood like never before. I was only recently diagnosed with a learning disability and PTSD but I’ve had it my whole life. I think it’s developmental trauma from complex ptsd. Either way that had to be noticed by the school system and social workers but never was. Many times girls keep everything inside, withdraw, and isolate, and don’t act out then they are punished for falling behind. People in charge have to take special care of sensitive souls like this and need to find the root of the behaviour in order for these children not to take their wounds into adulthood and give them a chance to heal and thrive in life. Often times they are a product of their dysfunctional environment and are not to blame with judgements and labels.
    Sending peace and love 💕

  • @deannemary8931
    @deannemary8931 6 років тому +3

    Tears rolling down my cheeks. Thank you for being you, Candace x

  • @carlypastore
    @carlypastore 6 років тому +3

    Candice your content is so healing..... I feel like you need to have mandatory seminars for all teachers so they can understand how to let children learn the way that’s best for them and to not force people in boxes that don’t fit them. lol. THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts when you were a teen- and now on UA-cam! I’ve said this before but I wish i could’ve watched your vids when I was in high school, but now even as an adult your content and guidance is so appreciated and valuable!

  • @jenniferl5456
    @jenniferl5456 6 років тому +7

    Im going through the Ascension symptoms now and I had a panic attack this past week because It freaked me out because I didn't know what was going on. I thought I had REALLY bad inner child experiences but vertigo and all and googling ascension symptoms is everything Im going through while working on myself and trying to get back to my authentic self. It feels SO GOOD! I just hope I continue to grow into my authentic and true self! You have helped me so much!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  6 років тому +3

      Jennifer Urban omg I love this! Thanks so much for sharing and I’m sending you Light on your journey! XO

  • @1LadyyBugg
    @1LadyyBugg 6 років тому +1

    I loooove this . I have felt the same way. Different perception and not included bc of it. Love how u said "don't change but please include"

  • @laurenwerner8785
    @laurenwerner8785 3 роки тому

    I was labeled bipolar and psychotic and schizophrenic and medicated with no change to my symptoms and hospitalizations my whole life by my parents especially my father and I awakened that I’m really just gifted empath HSP psychic and have many spiritualgifts as well. I just went through a spiritual emergency and with help found a therapist who gets this stuff and told me yeah it’s not mental illness! So I’m so thankful to people like you on UA-cam who teach this stuff. Thank you so much!!

  • @JenniferCrystalJohnson
    @JenniferCrystalJohnson 6 років тому +8

    Thank you for your work! The way you think resonates so much with me, and I am super happy I found your channel =). I am just starting my journey (the trifecta is in process; my kids and I lost our home, were ostracized out of the family, lost the majority of our belongings, lost one of our fur babies, and are currently staying in an RV; I have also changed focus in my career several times since I began waking up, so things are changing massively) on UA-cam and making videos as well as doing podcasts, but inner work, mindfulness, and emotional healing are what I understand, especially from a more spiritual perspective, so I'm running with it ;). This video just helped confirm that I should keep going, so thank you so much =).
    Jen

  • @EmilyOlson
    @EmilyOlson 6 років тому +31

    Candace! I've been watching your videos lately & I just LOVE your heart for inner truth! It is so refreshing. I feel so connected to the way you speak your truth. I can't tell you how much your videos have opened my eyes to so many ways I think about things & I've been on a personal awakening journey for about the past year now. I couldn't be happier. Anyways, I found you on IG & noticed you're based in Malibu & I'm practically in Malibu every weekend (I live about 20 mins away) & I'd love to meet up sometime! Much love! xx Emily

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  6 років тому +2

      Emily Olson Thank you so much!! I would love to meet 💜🌸

    • @sxyteesa0890
      @sxyteesa0890 5 років тому +1

      Same

  • @Theoracle_1111
    @Theoracle_1111 5 років тому +1

    The quarter life crisis part hit me HARD. in the past 3 years: I moved out of my childhood home, my grandmother (who raised me as a teenager) passed away from cancer, the guy who I moved from home with broke up with me so I started living on my own for the first time, my childhood home was foreclosed on & my family moved, my older sister moved out after my grandmother died, & the very close relationship I used to have with my siblings is not so close anymore. I know that one of the keys to being happy is embracing change but I just feel like my whole world got turned upside down and it’s very hard to deal with on my own. And on top of all that I have a lot of childhood issues I need to work on, it just all gets to be so overwhelming

  • @charlotte-allan
    @charlotte-allan 6 років тому +4

    Candace this is so on point for me right now!! Purpose has been my main focus for the past several weeks and I've been so confused. This has been so helpful 💖 thank you 🙏 xx

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  6 років тому +1

      Charlotte Allan Awww wonderful! I’m so glad :-))

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 3 роки тому

    Thank you, Candace!!!! I just need to stand in my own power and live out the calling on my life. So I can make this world a better place.

  • @louismillard4480
    @louismillard4480 5 років тому

    You have helped me so much! I am healing from narcissistic abuse and coping with codependency issues. All your videos speak to me and I just cry watch them. I'm finally in a recovery with a life coach. I incorporated your videos in my therapy.

  • @JonasAnandaKristiansson
    @JonasAnandaKristiansson 6 років тому +1

    You miss Candace.. Are true light and love in the dark of the masses. So glad I just got into your channel, and I appreciate what you are and do big time.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Рік тому

    I hope you know how amazing you are Candance! You are amazing, thank you so much xo

  • @jeav172
    @jeav172 6 років тому +2

    This is one of the most helpful video I´ve ever watched - thank you so much for this insights. All your videos are very good and I can relate so much. Thanks for being one of the INDIGO-leader :)

  • @nadiacavallini4728
    @nadiacavallini4728 6 років тому

    You're an amazing and beautiful soul. Thank you for your words of wisdom and owning your truth! Yes, the world is a better place when you honor what's right for you!

  • @theslo777ery
    @theslo777ery 5 років тому

    I relate to this 100%. How I view the world makes so much more sense than how the status quo views the world. I get so frustrated that most people can't see what I see even when I show them concrete evidence to support my beliefs. In the end it's always the same. Laugh at me for being enlightened and they sit in darkness claiming mental superiority. In their eyes I'm the crazy one. Very frustrating..

  • @kendraicu
    @kendraicu 6 років тому

    Candace...I can't thank you enough for doing this IMPORTANT work! You probably help people sooooo much more than you know! You are beautiful! Maybe an angel!!
    Thank you!!

  • @morningdevotionswithnickpe436
    @morningdevotionswithnickpe436 3 роки тому

    I love this. I had to grow into my identity and now I am Free.

  • @javeriaharoon7957
    @javeriaharoon7957 4 роки тому

    You give me hope to see myself in a differnt positive light and honor my sensitivities.

  • @johan7285
    @johan7285 6 років тому +1

    I honestly love you! I don't know you face to face, but I feel you.

  • @LisaSmith-yb2uz
    @LisaSmith-yb2uz 4 роки тому

    🙏🥰thank you thank you for consistently throwing me extra pieces of confirmation of what I always knew all my 47 years of life!!! ❤️☺️

  • @Lola-mt1ne
    @Lola-mt1ne 4 роки тому

    I happened upon this today, and what a wonderful thing to hear first thing in the morning. Thank you.

  • @SeanFitzgerald
    @SeanFitzgerald 6 років тому +8

    This is so great. Thank you for sharing your authentic self with the world. By shining your light, you have held space for me and many others to shine more brightly.

  • @traceylynn2746
    @traceylynn2746 6 років тому +4

    Thanks for another great video! I can relate to your content and it does help me a lot. I hope more and more people become aware💜

  • @FictionSourceX
    @FictionSourceX 6 років тому +29

    Just comes at the right time in my life!

  • @rosarioav1161
    @rosarioav1161 5 років тому

    I'm so happy to have found you...many insights and a-ha moments! I'm an energy healer and still healing & learning! Much love to you Candace! Namasté.

  • @AllWeNeedIsLove77
    @AllWeNeedIsLove77 5 років тому

    Not a rant at all, Your expression was much needed by me. Thank you

  • @mitsurula8216
    @mitsurula8216 6 років тому +1

    Absolutely, the system does not know how to update itself, it relies new changes to push upstream and to the master system ... That will become new model for others to follow

  • @cynthiahamil9801
    @cynthiahamil9801 5 років тому

    I agree with your take on the Saturn Return. I went through this at age 27 - and it was a huge shift in my world - almost as if the rug were being literally pulled out from under me, and then having to scramble to readjust to the circumstances. Great video - I like your perspective!
    I too was involved in counseling and was taking psychology courses in a leveling course to begin a psychology profession in marriage and family counseling. I took some psychology courses and felt as if they were more focused on Abnormal Psychology than actually helping people to adjust to a well balanced life.
    Great video!
    Thanks for your insights!
    They are very compatible with my own beliefs and personal truths!

  • @hungariandoula
    @hungariandoula 3 роки тому

    i never felt belonged in school and had really bad grades cuz i just could not pay attention and was always daydreaming,felt something is really wrong with me..to realized i think i was kind of depressed and being the youngest sibling i felt that i was blamed on everything... the years passed and im on the inner journey around 7 years now..still want to belong to my tribe.
    Thank you for your videos its really helps a lot!!!lots of love ✨✨👼🏻

  • @vaniarodriguez3224
    @vaniarodriguez3224 4 роки тому

    It's amazing how smart YOU ARE
    Peace an love
    Namaste.

  • @speaklife2298
    @speaklife2298 6 років тому +7

    Thank you so much for this. MANY BLESSING!!

  • @mysticpeace
    @mysticpeace 6 років тому +6

    I really appreciate this message. It makes so much sense to me, as someone who has always struggled to fit in and had dyslexia keeping me separate, as well! Your message is beautiful and it is my prayer that each of us wondering about our particular calling will now be able move closer to our individual truth. ❤️

  • @soniabernatchez7466
    @soniabernatchez7466 3 роки тому +1

    thank you, i m borderline since 2011, i worked hard, it disappeared, it took 10 years to understand, i am emotionally intelligent

  • @kevincole9713
    @kevincole9713 6 років тому +1

    Blessings sis , glad I found your videos. Blessings

  • @shayanzahedi5735
    @shayanzahedi5735 5 років тому

    You are somebody who puts my soul thoughts into words. More of that! Love this :)

  • @Taryn101
    @Taryn101 5 років тому +1

    I’ve always felt like I view the world differently and that I am here before my time.

  • @petrabakker8055
    @petrabakker8055 5 років тому

    So true. Everything changed when I was 27. New relationship, new place to live. I've had my saturn return and I am very happy I listened :) but it was challenging,

  • @julesgiddings8747
    @julesgiddings8747 4 роки тому

    Its interesting, I have been diagnosed with ADHD and its certainly turned my life upside down in every way but this system that has been created just doesn't work for all of us and I'm currently trying to find my own path out of it. I keep chopping and changing direction and I get a lot of FOMO anxiety which I never used to have. Always looking and comparing to others which triggers a huge amount of shame in me as i think I'm not good enough and it really does cause me a lot of suffering. Thanks for your video Candace. :)

  • @tavoiaiono7885
    @tavoiaiono7885 6 років тому

    Love and light. Higher self, guardians of light. I accept your love,
    friendship, protection and freedom. Clear my path and protect me from negative
    energies and hurtful intentions. I accept the world is beautiful and friendly I
    accept unconditional love for all my experiences and for everyone and
    everything I see and feel. I am ready to heal all aspects of my life as I
    continue to send a beam of light, love, healing and protection to our Mother
    Earth Gaia. Love and light

  • @Racekelly9
    @Racekelly9 4 роки тому

    We're in this together sister

  • @williammcmillen215
    @williammcmillen215 4 роки тому

    makes all sense to me Candace, thank you

  • @Armione
    @Armione 6 років тому

    Hello Candace, Wow!your energy is so pure , strong and body consciouss that it is a real uplifiting & Healing experience to see your videos. ^ì^ thanks for your mesages I'll start to make videos on my awakening soon . namastè

  • @tomvalenta3307
    @tomvalenta3307 6 років тому +1

    Yes Candace, I was labeled as LD and Special Ed when I was in school and I was labeled as a defective doll by my own family. Yes your right. I agree with you I was there and I knew this from the beginning. And yes I am deeply seeking your wisdom and your sweet ghidence!!! Wich is why I whant so much to join soel lab I'm having trouble with face book though I don't know how to navigate face book to get to soel lab. So I have to figure that out somehow. Anyway love your videos can't wait for the next one. Look forward to it. See you next week. Enjoy your weekend. Lots of love you friend tom.

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin 6 років тому +1

    Thankx for sharing Gr8 wisdom candance!!! You are truly amazing!!!

  • @drstrangeloop7820
    @drstrangeloop7820 5 років тому +2

    I’ve been saying for a while now that to be a good teacher or boss, one should have their students/employees take personality tests like the Meyers Briggs model in order to better relate to them. That’s what I’d do.

  • @thebrightestrainbowever3841
    @thebrightestrainbowever3841 4 роки тому

    Aye!! 100%! This video found me today!

  • @Healingfromtheroot
    @Healingfromtheroot 6 років тому +3

    Your timing 🙏💫 thank you.

  • @wakeup_withAshley
    @wakeup_withAshley 5 років тому

    Love this. So much truth. Was thinking many of these same thoughts recently as well. Loved your insight. Beautiful message that I hope more grow to learn and apply 🕉️❤️🦋

  • @jancasson3066
    @jancasson3066 6 років тому +3

    Thank you Candace. I am so grateful for you expressing your point of view on recognizing everyone and providing viable "systems" that address the whole person and offer real results.

  • @jerseydeviljohnnyfeds9347
    @jerseydeviljohnnyfeds9347 6 років тому +9

    Always enlightened info.

  • @PraxisOfHealthBillFaulkner
    @PraxisOfHealthBillFaulkner 6 років тому +3

    Bravo Candace! Blessings.

  • @mntol
    @mntol 5 років тому

    when i look at you externally i say wow , when i see you internally i say WOW ! , keep the good intentions :)

  • @lornajohnson2831
    @lornajohnson2831 4 роки тому

    I am my perfect self while I am at work. I used to bring joy to my patients and their families as an ICU nurse. I was SO happy & I wanted to share my joy with the world. Then I injured my back from heavy lifting for 26 years and now I am permanently disabled and unable to do the job that I truly loved. How can I continue to be my perfect, joyous, happy self?

  • @MarikaTheEmpress
    @MarikaTheEmpress 5 років тому

    So so True girl. Thank you so much

  • @MarivthyelCelestialWaterDancer
    @MarivthyelCelestialWaterDancer 6 років тому +10

    Every life counts. Only those who are trully evolved can understand this concept. That's all I can say...

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  6 років тому

      Manus The Black Thorn True Story! ✨✨✨

  • @batangrapper
    @batangrapper 5 років тому +1

    You are a goddess.
    11:22 - alignment of your higher purpose.

  • @BigManTate7364
    @BigManTate7364 6 років тому +1

    I resonate with this so much. Very inspiring! Exactly what I needed right now

  • @GlowingDimensions
    @GlowingDimensions 6 років тому

    Thank you sharing your story and authenticity Candace :)

  • @cosmosbaby7604
    @cosmosbaby7604 4 роки тому

    Hello, Candace! Thank you for sharing this insite! I want apply it for myself now
    And I'm so agree with you about education system. And I was thinking lately that may be this isolation period is not that bad for children - they have chance to be outside of society physically for some time, may be it will reduce the pressure to fit in and let them develop understanding themselves more independently ( if they have that chance in a family)
    Wish you lots of love!

  • @fintechip96
    @fintechip96 2 роки тому

    Wow ur story is like mine! Keep up the good work.

  • @akshatbhandari4779
    @akshatbhandari4779 2 роки тому

    Suffering is road to awakening. It leads to ego death " dark nite of soul". Its like valleys and mountains it comes and goes but it gets deeper everytime it comes.lot of people are going through breaking through the matrix of carrots being dangled for happiness. Job family car house and bigger is better. More you have more happy you have. That view is getting broken by many.

  • @laurzettm
    @laurzettm 5 років тому

    Great message and perfect timing...thank you❤️

  • @spiralsun1
    @spiralsun1 5 років тому

    OMG seeing things differently!! I actually thought maybe I was actually an alien and I had a fantasy that I was accidentally left on Earth, and maybe my people would come back for me. I also considered that I might be adopted. I was always afraid of being myself at first too. I cannot believe you see it. I even joined MENSA to try to find people that saw like I did... I too totally want to reform the school system because it destroys organic real learning in people and prevents you from truly seeing and understanding by its methodology. Anyway, I love you so much 💕!!! 🥰🧘‍♀️

  • @javeriaharoon7957
    @javeriaharoon7957 4 роки тому

    You are a beautiful soul😇

  • @andreadomingachidiac9855
    @andreadomingachidiac9855 6 років тому +1

    Hello, but if we are really depressed, and feels like you are not able to see almost any light ( people usually say> the're givimg up or they will just live that way of the rest of their life ) this is also for very lost people whom just happen for them to even stop knowing what' s causing their pain I can recommend to check out The Last Reformation by Torben Sondergaard on youtube, there are a lot of videos ! I am just checking myself out as an indigo person and i feel it's really GREAT way for you to find yourself again ,hopefully it could benefit anyone !

  • @eforsuzyasamkoclukokulu
    @eforsuzyasamkoclukokulu 5 років тому

    Amazing thank you exactly what I m teaching and went through years ago. And still today! Love you 😘

  • @diglight4you
    @diglight4you 6 років тому +3

    Good job I see you there

  • @so7iane88
    @so7iane88 6 років тому +1

    U r amazing,sister💜👑😉

  • @ayoaremu9355
    @ayoaremu9355 6 років тому +1

    This should be a TedTalk! thank you

  • @tookeys3932
    @tookeys3932 4 роки тому

    So when I got flogged and stomped on, jumping into a gang that was me thinking I had to suffer to belong, but I was contributing to the other gang members joy of violence.. Fair enough!
    Right copy that, Got it!
    So my gift of armed holds ups is seeking me Okie dokie! Copy that!
    I want to thank you so much for helping me find my purpose in life..
    Puts on gloves, ski mask and thing on its Hip and off we Hop..

  • @gabs9256
    @gabs9256 5 років тому

    Your videos are amazing Thank u !

  • @johnnyuyjohnson1208
    @johnnyuyjohnson1208 3 роки тому

    Awesome vid!!!! Love this

  • @lesliemichelle951
    @lesliemichelle951 6 років тому +1

    I LOVE U GIRL, THNXS...

  • @popstargirl79
    @popstargirl79 5 років тому

    Amazing! Thanku so much! I needed this reminder. Bless you xx :)

  • @Meghasharmax3
    @Meghasharmax3 6 років тому +1

    Candace, could you please do a video on empaths who have ocd. Your videos have been very helpful to me but whenever I question myself on their basis, I keep having repetitive thoughts about them. I don't know if I should trust my judgement or not.

  • @dreamwalker5367
    @dreamwalker5367 4 роки тому

    I am a healer by touch, still searching. I hope I find it soon.. yeeesh.53 and still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.

  • @217xe8
    @217xe8 6 років тому +6

    Confirmation of my experience earlier today. Authentic me 😉

  • @danieljones-tg9oe
    @danieljones-tg9oe 6 років тому

    gorgeous Candace.

  • @tassap9355
    @tassap9355 5 років тому

    Our body's talk to us, wow!! 👁️🤯

  • @leejohnson4661
    @leejohnson4661 6 років тому +1

    Thank you

  • @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810
    @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810 6 років тому

    Thank you for making this video🙏💚

  • @Beeso
    @Beeso 6 років тому

    Boy can I relate. Thank you.

  • @royalrayel8036
    @royalrayel8036 4 роки тому

    Timless message 🙏🏾 still so riveting

  • @Feber2001
    @Feber2001 5 років тому

    Wow...so powerful!

  • @saxenas
    @saxenas 6 років тому +2

    Candace van Dell OMGZ I seriously feel like, like, like I KNOW you, ya know? Like, if you take all the blocks, put them together, and then POWWWW: i think you and i are besties now. K?

  • @OnjelieMarie
    @OnjelieMarie 4 роки тому

    Oh my gosh I love her

  • @peterpiper4242
    @peterpiper4242 6 років тому +1

    Nice video dear thank you

  • @jesicastipanuk8191
    @jesicastipanuk8191 6 років тому +1

    I know what I’m supposed to do! How can you possibly have a grasp at the same extent as I do and feel so Secure it you very Nice life..

  • @karlosbatista3103
    @karlosbatista3103 10 місяців тому

    well new performac, happy new year the green brazil online lik you.

  • @notavailable708
    @notavailable708 4 роки тому

    3:42 🤗 4:10 why? Reason for the sadness.
    8:20 healing 8:49