At this old age, he is looking for a nurse with a purse. He should learn cooking, google is free to learn anything instead of this dry begging videos 💀
How many good women has he screwed over in his lifetime? How many women’s hearts did he break? Because he’s being awfully specific with his descriptions but not explaining how he got to his advanced age with no wife.
I'm starting to wonder if he misses all this because he misses the _chaos_ from it all. Now he feels uncomfortable in the silence and with his own thoughts and feelings.
So true he looks like he up there in age and dogged out every women in his life and now that he has to do it all for himself he wants to attach to someone again to keep dogging them out so his needs are met and he doesn't have to eat boiled tuna anymore
He could also try UA-cam university. It's not that hard to learn how to cook. There are plenty of professional chefs that you can find for free that just give out recipes and cooking tips like candy on Halloween. His lack of motivation to solve his own problems would be a turn off for me.
Funny how this said he's sick of eating the same meals FOR YEARS and REFUSES to learn how to cook. Red flags everywhere with that one. You cant even be determined enough to pick up a cook book. You ain't willing to change. 😂😂
Well, I'm having an absolute blast being single. I travel the world, cook myself gourmet meals, love decorating my home, and I don't have to worry about someone else messing it up. 😁😁😁
stop trying to belittle men who talk that way hypocrit . God created men and women so they can match each other poor hypocrit . your women who say " they don't need men" , men are running away from them and they end up alone . fix yourself before saying BS .
ALL people, male or female, should know how to take care of themselves. I can't imagine having ZERO respect for myself and eating a few meals on rotation?? Not smelling nice?? Lawd.
that's why you will end up single and alone forever . you did not care of what men needed before ,so, stop speaking as though you were victims and ever cared what men needed .because you are fake .. feminism will destroy you .
There’s a very clear generational divide happening between older and younger BW and I’m here for it! The younger generation of BW are not “mean” and “bitter” - we SEE and cannot UNSEE how pouring into, loving, nurturing, and caring for a group of men who have created the most dangerous and failed communities does not benefit ANYONE. How many generations of BW have cooked, cleaned, cared for children, nurtured, and loved on their men only to be rewarded with poverty and abandonment? We’re not doing it anymore. We’ve expanded our options to other groups of men who’ve been socialized on how to be men and value family or we’re choosing to stay single and child free. These failures can continue to stay miserable.
I agree with what you say. However I think most of the reason BW are opening options is bc of how bad BM have disrespected BW while speaking well of other women of other races over the past 2-3 decades. BW are fiercely loyal to their people and have no choice but to move on to other groups…which ends up not being such a bad thing in many cases. I love my BM but the reality is the black community has the highest rate of broken homes due to men abandoning their women. It stems from slavery bc it’s not the norm in Africa. Sad all around but BW have to do what’s best for them to have a stable family Edit- for anyone attempting to state that Africans abandon their children the same as black Americans, please stop making up stories and confusing people who aren’t familiar with Africa. Many African people are shocked when coming to USA because it’s not the norm to abandon your children in their countries and just continue to make multiple single parent homes. Also to put a diss toward Af Americans, Africans sometimes call us baby daddy/mama when in argument about the two cultures. Of course in every country people can leave their kids behind but where ever you are talking about is NO where near the rate of our black American community in the USA. Let’s stop making things up
Naw us older women been tired of it😂. That's why they want to jump to younger women. They calling us bitter cause we know the games, a lot of us are established and comfortable, and we not gonna tolerate their nonsense 💅🏿
@carlabellbg5724 I’m not invalidating your experience in any way. There are dangerous men among ALL races and ethnicities. Absolutely no one is denying that - it was never referenced in my post and I’ve never singled out only WM. The rate of abuse and abandonment that BW experience at the hands of BM is disproportionately higher than anyone else has to deal with and unique to us. My dating experiences with non BM have been like night and day, but I would never promote putting anyone on a pedestal - I’m simply highlighting a very clear and real difference in male socialization based on the cultures they grew up and are immersed in.
In trad relationship also men don't contribute much lol they don't want to protect woman everytime, the only work they do is providing money nothing much .. nowadays there are people who can fix cars or bulbs and other thing outside than men in household .. not every man knows to repair and do plumbing in own hoyse
He misses someone stressing and raising their blood pressure about him. Men love drama and would rather have drama around them than being peaceful by themselves. This is a power we women have. Miss me with that one.
when he said, I don't WANT a woman, I NEED a woman. Want is: wish for, yearn for and hope for. Need is: require, demand, and necessitate. They will never ever understand. Move along ladies, nothing to see here.
Men need so much from a woman. Men in one word: NEED. Women don't want to be needed, they want an equal partnership. Men want to be needed so they can have all their emotional, physical, spiritual needs met. Meet your own needs first. Love is not need.
They project their "need" of women on us and say they want to be "needed" too. The problem is, on today's society, women don't need men and really never did. They just made it where women were forced to "need" men on the past. Now that things are more the way things should be naturally...men can't relate to women not needing them.
Guess what? I couldnt cook either. So you know what I did? Took my ass on youtube to find recipes for stuff I liked.. and then.. FOLLOWED THE DIRECTIONS AND LEARNED HOW TO COOK IT. Tf lol?
My assumption is that every strand of grey beard on that man's chin is most likely every good woman this man had and did wrong because at the time, he felt he didn't need a woman, but now he does. No human being "needs" another person unless they're critical to your survival, especially a grown, capable black man needing a woman. A need is usually something you can't be without, but a woman should not be it. For all the women who end up fulfilling this man's need, I wish you well.
When a woman loves food. She learns how to cook. When a woman needs a therapy. She books a session. When a woman needs her house cleaned. She does it herself or hire a maid. Do the work sir
Everything he is looking for is the main reason I avoid dating. I'm burnt out from doing free labor for people, specifically men. I love that more women are detaching from these old washed out ideas that women should serve men and are focusing more on serving ourselves and helping each other. I really want to see more men do for themselves OR lean on other men for support.
They don't even realize that an adult male that can do for himself is so attractive. Literally all of this "needing" a woman like a mommy is a turn off because women are adults. They are only attracted to adults
5:02 THEN SHE NEEDS TO GO FIND HIM AND HELP HIM OUT!!!!!!! girl those women are not bitter..they have tried with these men and are TIRED OF THE LIES AND COS PLAYING....
talking abt we missed the message 😂baby once he said how he eats the same meals on rotation he lost me he wants a servant what are u doing for her? we bitter cuz we don’t wanna be servants literal slaves giving our body to these men doing things for them and getting nothing in return??? smfh
He wears a cloak of “honesty” to conceal who he really is: a King Baby. He wants women to appreciate his “honesty” and hope it overshadows all the weird stuff he’s saying. Diablo. P.S. I honestly don’t care if he’s eating the same four meals in rotation… if he has fifteen bucks, he can be a grownass man and spend it on a cookbook and learn how to bring variety into his own diet.
Nah he missing ALL THOSE GOOD WOMEN THAT HE PLAYED when he wasn’t ready but was up in their faces…. Those women have the same good qualities because they were/are wives. He misses the quality women he was looking over. Now he’s alone 😂😂😂😂
The black men that y’all want are the most desired. If you watch the nfl/nba draft you see majority white women with black men. Look at the most wealthy black men in business, majority have white women. Now the average guy is who y’all are comparing because that’s your dating level “AVERAGE”
I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting those things but he's asking for service. He's only mentioning what this woman can and will do for him. He also needs to talk about what he'll do for her. Will he fulfill the same role for her? Will he care for her heart or her personal needs? We are tired of being servants and getting nothing in return. I'd rather care for my dog and cat than a full grown man because my pets love me unconditionally.
The pick me in the red needs to go away. Seeing someone as a utility is NOT love. Its actually inhumane. The person should come first and absolutely acknowledge what they bring to the table, but you shouldnt be looking for someone just because you want someone to cook, because you want sex, or someone who has money.
Didn’t they say, “all a man needs a couple of beers, a fishing pole, and they can live single ? I suggest he start catching some other fish like salmon
Dudes always have these “come to Jesus moments” when they get in their 40’s. It’s very common. Contrary to what the man o sphere tells men, the reality is that it’s very difficult for men to get married after the age of 40.
@@77kc_77 Funny how they say things like " We men BUILT THE WORLD!" So, if that's the case, WHY do they find learning to use a frying pan such a challenge?
So basically he misses the woman (or women) he took for granted who left him 😂 . Thats what it sounded like with this particular guy. He’s gonna be in trouble and single for a long time because he described a bangmaid 😂
Lmao at the red shirt woman in the car talking about “he’s basically saying he’s ready to love” baby he is a grown man he said exactly what he meant you can’t run behind him saying HE BASICALLY SAYING… he did not say that 😂
Some pick-mes can't help themselves! He's clearly stating he just wants a bang-maid to fill a gap in his life. He'll take whatever comes along until he can find what he REALLY wants- and then SHE will be out on her ear!
Or learn to cook yourself. It's not rocket science! Men are supposed to be the logical, rational gender who has superior knowledge and can "do things"! after all they built the world, doncha know?. But somehow it seems that "cooking" is beyond their capabilities? They can put a man on the moon, but can't operate a frying pan!
Red shirt is goofy.Wants to be wanted so bad ma'am. Savior complex, yuck. He went into detail about what he wants and misses and brifly glazed over what he had to offer- nothing but demands.
Exactly. She talking about he wants to settle down before he old and used up. Her prescription needs to be renewed bc his definitely looked old ash and used up. Around 40 that ED kick in and they start wanting to sit TF down after dogging all their youth.
The woman in red is a huge pick-me. She talking about I hope you find her. Then, she followed up with make sure you keep your promises to her and treat her right, etc.. etc..,? Why would she have to add that disclaimer? Because she knows that they beg like this all the time and then dog women out.
Does anyone else automatically roll their eyes HARD as soon as a man says "bring to the table"? Doesn't matter the context, just those 4 words are eye roll inducing now.
I don't understand why he can't learn how to cook for himself beyond the four meals. He has a brain and cognitive understanding of following recipes, if he puts his mind to it.
I miss raising someone's blood pressure. I miss acting a fool when I have the sniffles and causing her to cuss me out. I need to stress somebody out. Sign up ladies.
Bringing up what you’re eating or lack there of when listing off why you need a woman, is the equivalent of saying you need a woman for her free labor.
I respectfully disagree with the sentiment expressed in the video about women being bitter. I see it more as a shift towards a stress-free lifestyle and a realization of our worth. Many women, regardless of race or ethnicity, are choosing to prioritize their own well-being and happiness over relationships that drain their energy. As a heterosexual woman, I still find men attractive, but I've become more discerning in my romantic pursuits. While I enjoy spending time with men, I no longer feel the need to be in a relationship just for the sake of it. Having the freedom to choose is a privilege, and I'm grateful for it.
Sounds like he needs a chef, a nurse, a bang maid, a friend, and whatever other things he can get you to do. He didn't say anything about love, which is freely given, not earned by completing all of these tasks he can benefit from.
He didn’t say anything about having a home to put this woman in or a nice car he’d like to drive this woman around in or ANYTHING that he’d like to do for her! 🙃
You should never want to be needed for a plethora of reasons, but for the sake of a giggle, it’s better to be wanted by a man rather than needed anyway🤷🏽♀️😂 .. a man will walk, run, and, drive clean past what he needs for what he desires..the wife is what he needs but he can’t seem to get enough of the mistress😂🤦🏾♀️..he can never make it to the doctor but he’s always on time to watch his favorite sport 🤣
These men better not respond with stuff like “i offer protection, safety” because that is dependent on only an emergency situation while cooking and cleaning is CONSTANT
And who, exactly, are they offering "protection" from? That's right: OTHER MEN. There aren't any bears or tigers or lions out there now to be a "danger"!
What do you bring on the table sir?? Do you have money for a chef, maid? therapist? hahahaha!! Deep down, they all feel the same, this one is just honest with himself... lol
@@shaypope4732 I have come to realize that all the fear mongering these men put on is us is actually what they are afraid of in reality. Dying alone, hitting the wall, getting pets as friends... All the single women 35+ plus I know are living their best lives, unborthered. They are the ones with microphones and podcasts, not us.
Listen to HIM , withhold what they want to take. He didn’t offer what he can provide or how he can make her life better , or how he can make HER smile , how he can support her and her growth , he wanted a human support puppet, a chef , etc ! all take -no give!!
LOL! I am so glad these guys are being CALLED OUT! I'm glad there is awareness for younger ladies. his ideas of "companionship" is having a variety of meals, smh. whats interesting is if you are not careful, it can sound like he's saying all the "right things"....its a facade and i'm glad his behaviors are calling him out so young ladies cna be aware.
Lady in red shirt is delulu. She interpreted his message as him saying "he's ready to love" and "take care of someone's heart "😂. Just like the men say, women lie to themselves, and makes their job to finesse easier 😂.
It sounds like he needs a pet and a house manager rather than a girlfriend or a wife. That and a cute dog would probably score him a partner in no time at all.
Sir, you will indeed be single for the rest of your life with that attitude. Buy yourself an otaku pillow and spray it with Victoria's Secret ok? Why don't you get some cats like y'all advise us to do?
Tip for the ladies: If a man tells you he's going to cook a can of tuna, and you have to respond that you don't cook tuna, he's trying to manipulate you into feeling like you need to take care of him. I had a guy once starve himself in front of me, so I would want to "fix" him and "save" him. He knew I could cook, and I cook GOOD! I didn't know exactly what he was doing, and my group of people had to explain it to me a decade and a half later. I never did fall for his bs though. I just thought he was crazy and there was no way I was going to date someone who wouldn't eat for themselves. Don't fall for it! This is how the manipulation starts with highly narcissistic people.
@@77kc_77 bc some women run into actually good men. Not every woman wants to make the same exact choices you will make, nor will they live the exact same life you wish to live. Have a good day!
@@Rose-kj7rz Hey: nobody is saying to NOT have relationships; they are saying "Don't settle for being a slave!" You REALLY looking forward to working full-time and getting to do ALL the housework, ALL the cooking, AND ALL the child care? While HE sits on his ass waiting for his dinner? BE OUR GUEST! Because THAT is the reality for many, many women! And women are SICK of it.
It sounds like he messed up! This is alot of guys when they hit late 30s. They didn’t do right by some good woman and now that they run thru a ton of women who they didn’t value now they want to be vulnerable. Well I hope he gone to therapy and learned how to treat a woman.
If he had, he would not now be "begging" for a woman in his life! You just KNOW any woman who comes along who's halfway decent, he will "love-bomb" her to get her to commit to him- and then later on she will find out she was just a "placeholder", who will get kicked to the curb if something better comes along!
@@marquitapetty9685 Yep: he said what he meant, all righty: he said he needs a slave to serve him. Any women with a brain and a molecule of self-esteem knows EXACTLY what he's saying.
At this old age, he is looking for a nurse with a purse. He should learn cooking, google is free to learn anything instead of this dry begging videos 💀
Chile I just fell tf out🤣🤣🤣 "nurse with a purse"
Right youtube teaches everything
This is beyond dry begging.
Preach we need to put this on a shirt 😂😂😂😂
#HeNeedsANurseWithAPurse
😂😂😂😂😂😂
How many good women has he screwed over in his lifetime? How many women’s hearts did he break? Because he’s being awfully specific with his descriptions but not explaining how he got to his advanced age with no wife.
I'm starting to wonder if he misses all this because he misses the _chaos_ from it all. Now he feels uncomfortable in the silence and with his own thoughts and feelings.
that is the first thing that came to mind
So true he looks like he up there in age and dogged out every women in his life and now that he has to do it all for himself he wants to attach to someone again to keep dogging them out so his needs are met and he doesn't have to eat boiled tuna anymore
Do you want i remind you how many men your gendre likes screwed in their life too , just to laugh ???
Exactly! 👍🏼
He lost me when he said that he wants to eat something different except the 3 meals he has on rotation. Go to a restaurant dude!
Or get one of those meal services that drops of food to your door.
He could also try UA-cam university. It's not that hard to learn how to cook. There are plenty of professional chefs that you can find for free that just give out recipes and cooking tips like candy on Halloween. His lack of motivation to solve his own problems would be a turn off for me.
His finances are not at that level.
He doesn't to many years telling women they weren't worth the Steakhouse on a date 💅🏾
Right! Like buy a damn cookbook!🙄🙄🙄
He need a maid, a personal chef, and a therapist.
Don't forget the sex worker.
That part 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He needs to UA-cam recipes, his MollyMaids, and pursue a person relationship with Jesus.
All of that for free.
🙌
…funny how he immediately jumped to what he can get from a woman, and acts of service… 🙄
He never once mentioned anything that HE loves doing _for_ women either. Strange. 🧐
@HauntedCadaver No xys do its always a service they need rather than how this woman is a positive for him and how she gains into his life
Funny how this said he's sick of eating the same meals FOR YEARS and REFUSES to learn how to cook. Red flags everywhere with that one. You cant even be determined enough to pick up a cook book. You ain't willing to change. 😂😂
@@user-xp6xw8zl6z that was my red flag. He didn't take initiative to learn how to cook. He wants a servant.
Well, I'm having an absolute blast being single. I travel the world, cook myself gourmet meals, love decorating my home, and I don't have to worry about someone else messing it up. 😁😁😁
So he wants a woman cause he can't adult by himself is all I heard honestly
stop trying to belittle men who talk that way hypocrit . God created men and women so they can match each other poor hypocrit . your women who say " they don't need men" , men are running away from them and they end up alone . fix yourself before saying BS .
Yep. And he's draining just listening to him.
yes, it was very dissappointing to hear
This
ALL people, male or female, should know how to take care of themselves. I can't imagine having ZERO respect for myself and eating a few meals on rotation?? Not smelling nice?? Lawd.
So he misses the woman he left for the street.
He is the street and he is currently looking for free cook and house cleaning 😅
Probably wasn’t the one for him. Some people have standards
@@zero1188if he has standards why tf he on tik tok begging for a woman, this dude want anybody that’s going to give him free labor
Smfh
@@zero1188 their standards are women with no standards
Go away from us with this !!!
We no longer care what men need.
This 😂 lol
that's why men run away from you and become passport bros . keep listening your feminist ideology . you will lose everything and end up alone .
😂😂
that's why you will end up single and alone forever . you did not care of what men needed before ,so, stop speaking as though you were victims and ever cared what men needed .because you are fake ..
feminism will destroy you .
Amen 🙏! They need to hire a cleaner, a cook, a SWer!
There’s a very clear generational divide happening between older and younger BW and I’m here for it! The younger generation of BW are not “mean” and “bitter” - we SEE and cannot UNSEE how pouring into, loving, nurturing, and caring for a group of men who have created the most dangerous and failed communities does not benefit ANYONE. How many generations of BW have cooked, cleaned, cared for children, nurtured, and loved on their men only to be rewarded with poverty and abandonment? We’re not doing it anymore. We’ve expanded our options to other groups of men who’ve been socialized on how to be men and value family or we’re choosing to stay single and child free. These failures can continue to stay miserable.
Interesting point
I agree with what you say. However I think most of the reason BW are opening options is bc of how bad BM have disrespected BW while speaking well of other women of other races over the past 2-3 decades.
BW are fiercely loyal to their people and have no choice but to move on to other groups…which ends up not being such a bad thing in many cases.
I love my BM but the reality is the black community has the highest rate of broken homes due to men abandoning their women. It stems from slavery bc it’s not the norm in Africa.
Sad all around but BW have to do what’s best for them to have a stable family
Edit- for anyone attempting to state that Africans abandon their children the same as black Americans, please stop making up stories and confusing people who aren’t familiar with Africa.
Many African people are shocked when coming to USA because it’s not the norm to abandon your children in their countries and just continue to make multiple single parent homes.
Also to put a diss toward Af Americans, Africans sometimes call us baby daddy/mama when in argument about the two cultures. Of course in every country people can leave their kids behind but where ever you are talking about is NO where near the rate of our black American community in the USA. Let’s stop making things up
I'd just like to add that a lot of divorced women and/or single mothers are also decentering men or dating outside the community too!
Naw us older women been tired of it😂. That's why they want to jump to younger women. They calling us bitter cause we know the games, a lot of us are established and comfortable, and we not gonna tolerate their nonsense 💅🏿
@carlabellbg5724 I’m not invalidating your experience in any way. There are dangerous men among ALL races and ethnicities. Absolutely no one is denying that - it was never referenced in my post and I’ve never singled out only WM. The rate of abuse and abandonment that BW experience at the hands of BM is disproportionately higher than anyone else has to deal with and unique to us. My dating experiences with non BM have been like night and day, but I would never promote putting anyone on a pedestal - I’m simply highlighting a very clear and real difference in male socialization based on the cultures they grew up and are immersed in.
He eats three meals because he refuses to learn how to make anything else... Just sad.. 😒
And thinks it's a woman's job to fix this issue... Just like that.
Everyone isn’t good in a kitchen he might burn it down
@@tsharvey89naw that's an excuse. He can boil eggs he can boil pasta and other things to expand his options 😅....
@@tsharvey89that mean you are not willing to learn, why should we care what he eat or not eat? What does he bring to the relationship?
It’s time to ask this man what HE brings to the table.
In trad relationship also men don't contribute much lol they don't want to protect woman everytime, the only work they do is providing money nothing much .. nowadays there are people who can fix cars or bulbs and other thing outside than men in household .. not every man knows to repair and do plumbing in own hoyse
just like you dear . because you are the one who want to take everything but without give nothing in return .
Something definitely not right with him he seems like he act like a child 🤣🤣 like he can't function without being told to do anything
@@Gamer-sv2mzoh shut up😂😂😂
@@stoneyhighhigh3677 like most xys
He misses someone stressing and raising their blood pressure about him. Men love drama and would rather have drama around them than being peaceful by themselves. This is a power we women have. Miss me with that one.
😂exactly men are energy vampires. They are not getting my emotions or my physical labour.
@@vikingrolloishot1789so true
The woman that gets with him will have her HANDS full!
Yeah because then she has to live up to even more standards, he's going to be comparing her to the other woman.
Yup he's looking for a servant nurse with a purse so he doesn't have to make boiled tuna
@@shaypope4732 exactly!!! Can't even learn to cook and you want a women!!!!!! Red flags everywhere!!!
No woman who herd him say "I need a woman. I don't want a woman." should volunteer for that madness. So let's hope no woman gets with him.
A 40 year old son 🤮🤮
He is bored, lonely and can’t cook. 😂
And probably can’t get it up.
@@ElleJae-b9q😂😂😂
when he said, I don't WANT a woman, I NEED a woman. Want is: wish for, yearn for and hope for. Need is: require, demand, and necessitate. They will never ever understand. Move along ladies, nothing to see here.
Well said
Just more work after you come home from work.
Couldn't've said it better myself.
Maybe he should go to Victoria Secret and buy himself the scents he miss so much lol 😂
stop.😂😂😂
And spray it on his pillows at night. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@aprilmay1061 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣
He can voice his opinions. We heard it and we're going back to what we are doing.
😂😂😂😂😂
😴 😴😴😴
Queen behavior 😂
😴 mode
😂😂
He better Goggle quick weeknight meals and go sit down somewhere 😂😂😂
😂
Sit DUNG!!!!! And left us alone!! 😒
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol😂
😂😂
I thought they were getting their passports🧐? BW, please stand down💅 Let the preferences deal with him.
Yeah... What happened to the passports??😂
@copperredd have you not seen the news??? They are getting unalived and kicked out of other countries 😂😂😂
@@mllwbby they've decided to lay low for a while till the dust settles so they can start acting like it wasn't them...
This girl I've been asking
@@copperredd
Men need so much from a woman. Men in one word: NEED. Women don't want to be needed, they want an equal partnership. Men want to be needed so they can have all their emotional, physical, spiritual needs met. Meet your own needs first. Love is not need.
When he reiterated at the end of his statement last: “Ah _need_ you!” 😳Made the hair on the back of my neck stand up.
This
They project their "need" of women on us and say they want to be "needed" too. The problem is, on today's society, women don't need men and really never did. They just made it where women were forced to "need" men on the past. Now that things are more the way things should be naturally...men can't relate to women not needing them.
Guess what? I couldnt cook either. So you know what I did? Took my ass on youtube to find recipes for stuff I liked.. and then.. FOLLOWED THE DIRECTIONS AND LEARNED HOW TO COOK IT. Tf lol?
My assumption is that every strand of grey beard on that man's chin is most likely every good woman this man had and did wrong because at the time, he felt he didn't need a woman, but now he does. No human being "needs" another person unless they're critical to your survival, especially a grown, capable black man needing a woman. A need is usually something you can't be without, but a woman should not be it.
For all the women who end up fulfilling this man's need, I wish you well.
I feel that he's looking for a Mommy/Nurse. He's getting older in age and realizing that without a woman, he would die alone.
Bingo you both!
@@shanellem6310 and without any meal variety.
What exactly does he want to provide a woman? All I heard was how much he will drain a woman and not a single way he would add to her life.
🎯🎯🎯
Ok!?
He misses what she used to do for him
I had someone try to get me back n he said what u said. He miss what I did for him then he proceeded to say I meannnnnn 😂😂😂😂 blocked forever!🎉
@@TNT31414 same😂
giving him acts of love and servitude for him to use her as a foot Stool🤡🤛🏾😒😑
When a woman loves food. She learns how to cook.
When a woman needs a therapy.
She books a session.
When a woman needs her house cleaned. She does it herself or hire a maid.
Do the work sir
Everything he is looking for is the main reason I avoid dating. I'm burnt out from doing free labor for people, specifically men. I love that more women are detaching from these old washed out ideas that women should serve men and are focusing more on serving ourselves and helping each other.
I really want to see more men do for themselves OR lean on other men for support.
Exactly! Where are his brethens anyway?!?
They don't even realize that an adult male that can do for himself is so attractive. Literally all of this "needing" a woman like a mommy is a turn off because women are adults. They are only attracted to adults
So he misses using a woman? No where did he say he missing his role in a woman’s life.
Women will do nothing in a relationship but men should evrything
@@yashyashwanth5888… 🙄 oh please do sht up. Men barely do anything positive as it is in relationships.
@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 you shut up.men did many positive things
5:02 THEN SHE NEEDS TO GO FIND HIM AND HELP HIM OUT!!!!!!! girl those women are not bitter..they have tried with these men and are TIRED OF THE LIES AND COS PLAYING....
talking abt we missed the message 😂baby once he said how he eats the same meals on rotation he lost me he wants a servant what are u doing for her? we bitter cuz we don’t wanna be servants literal slaves giving our body to these men doing things for them and getting nothing in return??? smfh
BINGO!!! THEY WOULD BE A PERFECT MATCH!!! she clearly gets played and can't see through the bs
Bingo!!! She needs to find him.....also she can't tell the difference between B.S. and vulnerability
She a pick me…..go take care of him then.😂 so he can be well fed n cheat for the one he really want.
He wouldn't want her because she too eager. But, he'll let her bring food by 💅🏾
He wears a cloak of “honesty” to conceal who he really is: a King Baby. He wants women to appreciate his “honesty” and hope it overshadows all the weird stuff he’s saying. Diablo.
P.S. I honestly don’t care if he’s eating the same four meals in rotation… if he has fifteen bucks, he can be a grownass man and spend it on a cookbook and learn how to bring variety into his own diet.
Cookbook? Girl, there are youtube channels dedicated to teaching you different recipes.
If he can cook the same three meals, he can learn to make other meals. Almost every meal out there is an expansion of the same three or four dishes.
@@Kereign haha, I guess I’m showing my age! 🤣
Doesn't even need that much. He can go to a thrift store and pick one up for two bucks.
@@rowdybliss-A cookbook is too sophisticated for him
Nah he missing ALL THOSE GOOD WOMEN THAT HE PLAYED when he wasn’t ready but was up in their faces…. Those women have the same good qualities because they were/are wives. He misses the quality women he was looking over. Now he’s alone 😂😂😂😂
He better get some cats😂
@@TNT31414 🤣 Not some cats 😭😭😭
I thought these men were the most desired? What's the problem?
Get that man a doll and some TV dinners
😂😂
I thought they got they passports and left😳🤔🤷🏾♀️
women don't want their asses.🤪
The black men that y’all want are the most desired. If you watch the nfl/nba draft you see majority white women with black men. Look at the most wealthy black men in business, majority have white women.
Now the average guy is who y’all are comparing because that’s your dating level “AVERAGE”
I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting those things but he's asking for service. He's only mentioning what this woman can and will do for him. He also needs to talk about what he'll do for her. Will he fulfill the same role for her? Will he care for her heart or her personal needs? We are tired of being servants and getting nothing in return. I'd rather care for my dog and cat than a full grown man because my pets love me unconditionally.
My pets have brought me lots of Surprise! "presents" over the yrs, but never an S T D.
All I heard was: ME, ME,& ME & I, I, &I.
Selfishness
Narcissistic 101
With all that gray in the beard - I think he hit the wall better lower his standards 😂😂😂😂
I don't want a man who needs me.
I can’t stand a needy adult. Only children should have a level of neediness that should be tended to not a grown man .
The pick me in the red needs to go away.
Seeing someone as a utility is NOT love. Its actually inhumane.
The person should come first and absolutely acknowledge what they bring to the table, but you shouldnt be looking for someone just because you want someone to cook, because you want sex, or someone who has money.
Didn’t they say, “all a man needs a couple of beers, a fishing pole, and they can live single ? I suggest he start catching some other fish like salmon
Good. Then Mr "Ineedawoman!" can go buy himself a fishing pole, if that's the case!
Nah! I heard they need 3 S's: sandwich, s3x, support!
Dudes always have these “come to Jesus moments” when they get in their 40’s. It’s very common. Contrary to what the man o sphere tells men, the reality is that it’s very difficult for men to get married after the age of 40.
Men over the age of 40 do not know how to man! LOL!
Because women know they are only looking for a nurse or a purse!
He especially miss them MEALS. He adding the other stuff to make it sound legit. Keep rotating those 4 meals for the rest of your life bruh!!
He had so much energy talking about getting his meals and no energy for all the other comments. LOL! So obvious!
😂😂😂😂
He wants "companionship," he better get a dog and call it a day.
But he doesn’t want to be an “old dog man” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Lady in the RED SHIRT . . . . GO GET YO MAN!!! 😂
It's a love match 😍
She'll be back with tears if she tries it 😂
This mf really thinks you cant cook tuna
Fish looks different when its not in a can friend
LoL, he's like Josh's mom!
🤣 Right!!!!
@@Egg_Apronat least Josh’s mom tries!
he needs a woman……to take care of him.
Pretty much like all xys
@@77kc_77 Funny how they say things like " We men BUILT THE WORLD!" So, if that's the case, WHY do they find learning to use a frying pan such a challenge?
@@BabalonNuit idk 🤷🏽♀️ lol their entitled brats
So basically he misses the woman (or women) he took for granted who left him 😂 . Thats what it sounded like with this particular guy.
He’s gonna be in trouble and single for a long time because he described a bangmaid 😂
Not the PickMe wanting to still be picked 😂😂😂
Chile, she can have him. Watch how fast he uses her up, then dumps her just like he did the rest.
Right! I wonder if she hopped in his DMs after recording. 😂
She crawling up mammy mountain on her hands and knees😹😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Who lady in red? She sure was running up mammy mountain. I can bet if she slide in his DMs he will ignore the hell out of her.
I was going to say ugh, why do older Women have to spoil and coddle and ruin things?
He misses what he can take from women, he misses what they can do for him. Men never miss being a good man and doing what they need to do.
Lmao at the red shirt woman in the car talking about “he’s basically saying he’s ready to love” baby he is a grown man he said exactly what he meant you can’t run behind him saying HE BASICALLY SAYING… he did not say that 😂
Some pick-mes can't help themselves! He's clearly stating he just wants a bang-maid to fill a gap in his life. He'll take whatever comes along until he can find what he REALLY wants- and then SHE will be out on her ear!
The love caping for these mediocre dudes🤦🏽♀️
It doesn’t cost much to hire a cook. No free labor for this dust in remission.
Why did I cackle at this 😂💀
once a week get a Cook a maid and a therapist 😒😑💯
Or learn to cook yourself. It's not rocket science! Men are supposed to be the logical, rational gender who has superior knowledge and can "do things"! after all they built the world, doncha know?. But somehow it seems that "cooking" is beyond their capabilities? They can put a man on the moon, but can't operate a frying pan!
Red shirt is goofy.Wants to be wanted so bad ma'am. Savior complex, yuck. He went into detail about what he wants and misses and brifly glazed over what he had to offer- nothing but demands.
That pick me in the glasses needs to just log off, he ran the streets for years now he’s begging for some love …
More like service
Exactly. She talking about he wants to settle down before he old and used up. Her prescription needs to be renewed bc his definitely looked old ash and used up. Around 40 that ED kick in and they start wanting to sit TF down after dogging all their youth.
So he want a woman to cook for him. He misses homemade food
Alright
😂😂😂😂
Hospice Wife Alert!!
I tell my daughters this all the time, we don’t need them, they need us.
Why have so many mothers not taught their boys how to adult? Or how to be a good person?
An even better question is WHY haven't the fathers?
I ask this all the time and nobody ever answers. Confused as to why parents raise their sons to be so incompetent in such a variety of things.
I feel like women can do it but men should be raising boys.
And they make terrible husbands. It triples a woman's workload. Housework, work and child rearing.
So they will need them for life
The woman in red is a huge pick-me. She talking about I hope you find her. Then, she followed up with make sure you keep your promises to her and treat her right, etc.. etc..,? Why would she have to add that disclaimer? Because she knows that they beg like this all the time and then dog women out.
True
She lives in delulu land
Priscilla said “he sounds like Adele…’hello?’”🤣🤣😭😭
If he misses all these things then he definitely had them available to him before. What choices did he make to mess it up?
Funny how he can use his smartphone to beg for a woman but don't use that same smartphone to look up recipes on UA-cam, or google cooking classes.😂
He got tired of smelling nuts? 😂 be careful out there! 🤢
I get tired of seeing them when men show themselves in pictures 😅 you too sis
He's due for a pamper change 😒😑
I screamed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
His check engine light is on 😂
The whole mother board lit 😂😂
😅😅😅😅
@@MiiPhiMuah 😂😂😂😂
ITS DULY NOTED don't eat those mammy biscuits ladies!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She sounded like Squick from the Color Purple 😹😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Does anyone else automatically roll their eyes HARD as soon as a man says "bring to the table"? Doesn't matter the context, just those 4 words are eye roll inducing now.
Yeah, it’s such a transactional coded term
I keep hearing what he needs but im not hearing what he wants or will do for this woman....
Good grief his neediness is overwhelming 🤧
So he can’t learn how to cook
I know how to cook, and I still fall into a rut sometimes. That’s why god made takeout 😂
Man could easily get on UA-cam to learn a quick new meal 😂 They'll do anything but learn it themselves
Right, he's on TikTok crying about a female when he can look up recipes.
This the reason they can’t comprehend that women can be single and happy. It’s because they can’t that’s why they crying over cats 😂
Word! Every insult they throw at women is how they feel!
I don't understand why he can't learn how to cook for himself beyond the four meals. He has a brain and cognitive understanding of following recipes, if he puts his mind to it.
They have meal kit subscriptions that are delivered with instructions! He has no dam excuse!
I miss raising someone's blood pressure. I miss acting a fool when I have the sniffles and causing her to cuss me out. I need to stress somebody out. Sign up ladies.
Best translation ever😂😂
The woman in red🤦🏾♀️Just say you want to be a servant.
that's a desperate Pickmisha
Bringing up what you’re eating or lack there of when listing off why you need a woman, is the equivalent of saying you need a woman for her free labor.
I respectfully disagree with the sentiment expressed in the video about women being bitter. I see it more as a shift towards a stress-free lifestyle and a realization of our worth. Many women, regardless of race or ethnicity, are choosing to prioritize their own well-being and happiness over relationships that drain their energy. As a heterosexual woman, I still find men attractive, but I've become more discerning in my romantic pursuits. While I enjoy spending time with men, I no longer feel the need to be in a relationship just for the sake of it. Having the freedom to choose is a privilege, and I'm grateful for it.
Sounds like he needs a chef, a nurse, a bang maid, a friend, and whatever other things he can get you to do. He didn't say anything about love, which is freely given, not earned by completing all of these tasks he can benefit from.
Right ...they don't love women, they love what they can get from women!
He didn’t say anything about having a home to put this woman in or a nice car he’d like to drive this woman around in or ANYTHING that he’d like to do for her! 🙃
Kinda like you tuby.
You should never want to be needed for a plethora of reasons, but for the sake of a giggle, it’s better to be wanted by a man rather than needed anyway🤷🏽♀️😂 .. a man will walk, run, and, drive clean past what he needs for what he desires..the wife is what he needs but he can’t seem to get enough of the mistress😂🤦🏾♀️..he can never make it to the doctor but he’s always on time to watch his favorite sport 🤣
Lol good point
I think the mannerisms went over the lady in reds head😂
These men better not respond with stuff like “i offer protection, safety” because that is dependent on only an emergency situation while cooking and cleaning is CONSTANT
And who, exactly, are they offering "protection" from? That's right: OTHER MEN. There aren't any bears or tigers or lions out there now to be a "danger"!
the lady in the red and the glasses, has not been paying attention to the RBTLS.
What do you bring on the table sir?? Do you have money for a chef, maid? therapist? hahahaha!! Deep down, they all feel the same, this one is just honest with himself... lol
He should have posted that on indeed. He’s looking for several laborers.
🤣🤣🤣
Meanwhile women may want a man, but don't need one.
Funny how that works lol.
That's how the Divine Feminine made it to be. 💪🏾🥰🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
They project their need on us, but it doesn't work that way for women.
It's giving lazy, and thats what he's bringing to the table.
This first girl needs to model somewhere. Them features on her face! Beautiful ❤️.
The 2nd pick-me, You go be with him then with your raspy voice.
He's old as hell so I'm sure he took advantage of every women he had in his life already
I think that voice is a.i. I don't understand why people use it.
@@shaypope4732 I have come to realize that all the fear mongering these men put on is us is actually what they are afraid of in reality. Dying alone, hitting the wall, getting pets as friends... All the single women 35+ plus I know are living their best lives, unborthered. They are the ones with microphones and podcasts, not us.
@@MiiPhiMuah so unflattering.
He would ignore the hell out of her if she slid in his DMs until he realizes no baddies are biting.
The pickmeisha in red can miss me with her talking points.
Sad part is, for even admitting he needs help, he’s in the top 10% of men
I do not feel sorry for these men. Let the thirsty women give him everything he needs!
I prefer to be Wanted not Needed ! There is a difference.
Listen to HIM , withhold what they want to take. He didn’t offer what he can provide or how he can make her life better , or how he can make HER smile , how he can support her and her growth , he wanted a human support puppet, a chef , etc ! all take -no give!!
LOL! I am so glad these guys are being CALLED OUT! I'm glad there is awareness for younger ladies. his ideas of "companionship" is having a variety of meals, smh. whats interesting is if you are not careful, it can sound like he's saying all the "right things"....its a facade and i'm glad his behaviors are calling him out so young ladies cna be aware.
I think he is speaking from the heart, but he is immature. His entire sob story was What's In It For Me.
Lady in red shirt is delulu. She interpreted his message as him saying "he's ready to love" and "take care of someone's heart "😂. Just like the men say, women lie to themselves, and makes their job to finesse easier 😂.
It sounds like he needs a pet and a house manager rather than a girlfriend or a wife. That and a cute dog would probably score him a partner in no time at all.
He ain’t got the money for all of that 😅
Sir, you will indeed be single for the rest of your life with that attitude.
Buy yourself an otaku pillow and spray it with Victoria's Secret ok?
Why don't you get some cats like y'all advise us to do?
Tip for the ladies:
If a man tells you he's going to cook a can of tuna, and you have to respond that you don't cook tuna, he's trying to manipulate you into feeling like you need to take care of him.
I had a guy once starve himself in front of me, so I would want to "fix" him and "save" him. He knew I could cook, and I cook GOOD!
I didn't know exactly what he was doing, and my group of people had to explain it to me a decade and a half later.
I never did fall for his bs though. I just thought he was crazy and there was no way I was going to date someone who wouldn't eat for themselves.
Don't fall for it! This is how the manipulation starts with highly narcissistic people.
How about we just leave xys alone because they are problematic in themselves
@@77kc_77 bc some women run into actually good men.
Not every woman wants to make the same exact choices you will make, nor will they live the exact same life you wish to live.
Have a good day!
@Rose-kj7rz I don't even date men so who tf you applied too - lol most of these xys are trashy af and no prize to women
@Rose-kj7rz you have a good day
@@Rose-kj7rz Hey: nobody is saying to NOT have relationships; they are saying "Don't settle for being a slave!" You REALLY looking forward to working full-time and getting to do ALL the housework, ALL the cooking, AND ALL the child care? While HE sits on his ass waiting for his dinner? BE OUR GUEST! Because THAT is the reality for many, many women! And women are SICK of it.
I bet he had all that but he let her go now regretting it 😂😂😂. And the red shirt women need to get out of her Disney life mindset.
It sounds like he messed up! This is alot of guys when they hit late 30s. They didn’t do right by some good woman and now that they run thru a ton of women who they didn’t value now they want to be vulnerable. Well I hope he gone to therapy and learned how to treat a woman.
If he had, he would not now be "begging" for a woman in his life! You just KNOW any woman who comes along who's halfway decent, he will "love-bomb" her to get her to commit to him- and then later on she will find out she was just a "placeholder", who will get kicked to the curb if something better comes along!
All these good women out here. If a man that age aint got nobody something bad is wrong with him.
he is honest lol
He needs to look for a man
Yep they can cook n have holes as well 🎉 get u 1 brother who needs service cause he don’t want a woman.
👀 A Suger daddy, most likely 😁😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤗 that would be perfect for him 🤣
He needs a troon. After all, they want to be 'real women', so why aren't they lining up for some 'real women' experience-of being a "bang-maid"?
0:26 Boy if you don't go order you some you HelloFresh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Correct
Lady in red “translated” what he said. Y’all gonna stop with the translations. He said what he meant.
Right, men say exactly what they mean and mean what they say. Women will turn it into something else or what they want to hear rather.
I said this too. He doesn’t need a narrator. He meant exactly what he said.
@@marquitapetty9685 Yep: he said what he meant, all righty: he said he needs a slave to serve him. Any women with a brain and a molecule of self-esteem knows EXACTLY what he's saying.
AND it was a mustranslation. She heard what he did not say...😮
They need us but we don’t need them
Allll they ish they talked about women, now it's hard for them to get some nookie. Nowww they're starting to "miss" us. Na bruh keep that same energy.