I love watching these guys, but they have zero story retention lol. Like at least a quarter of their show as them going over stuff that was literally just read, and still getting it wrong half of the time after that lol.
I love the stories and the personalities of the people on the channel, but the reading comprehension levels have me yelling at my screen during most videos lol
@@cassandracole8061just read it yourself then lol 😂😂 The entire point of watching others react to things is them figuring it out and discussing them Like how do you know YOUR ALWAYS RIGHT - you are still just assuming to 🤷🏼♀️ You could be off also - hence where the discussion comes in
My high school ex-boyfriend messaged me 7 months after we broke up for the last time, threatening to hurt himself and begging for me to take him back. The first thing I did was call my mom, who then called his mom, so she was aware of the situation and could get him some help. Then I told him, "I'm sorry you're hurting, but I told you when we got back together the last time that I don't do third chances. Please stop contacting me."
This may be true for you but there are many other people that take this commitment as the most serious commitment they will ever make. I live in Mexico and man or woman if your spouse cheated on you, it is more likely to move the cheating partner into the home if they are pregnant or need support then it is for there to be an actual divorce. In this culture if you are emotionally and financially supporting someone and make that commitment to make them your family they are your family. And in this culture it is not acceptable to leave your family for things unless they are really dire
@@ginasalinas7892 I understand your point , some societies do make it harder for women to leave abusive relationships. It was that way here in America for the longest time until no fault divorce became the norm.
@nyralotep yeah also everyone basically is stuck in the very first relationships they ever had. Because it's almost impossible for anyone to work or put money outside of the home their parents home most people still get their income to their parents until their mid-20s. The only way for a young man to get out of that is to take on his own family. So it is hard for the men as well. They may be upset their spouse cheated but not want her to literally starve which is what could happen if they kicked her out. So what I'm saying is no you don't need a reason to leave the marriage but everyone acts like everyone should leave their marriage over every problem and I think relationships grow from a lot of these. This woman having this emotional affair probably learned not to open herself up with other men or other useful things. I think it's really self-aware for the man to realize that he played a big part in her cheating
I’m confused what’s the debate?? Cheating is cheating emotional or not in fact emotional is WORSE. leave leave leave no further “investigation “ needed🤔
I'm wondering if the wife didn't tell him about the email to potentially have a communication channel open that OP didn't know about. You can move emails to the trash and permanently delete them. And after getting caught from not perma-deleting messages, I think she would begin utilizing that feature.
If someone threatens to harm themselves then believe them and call authorities. Immediately. Average person doesn’t have the tools to help anyway regardless of their unique knowledge of a situation. Get them help, or call their bluff to never pull a power play. Either way, more qualified people will be made available to them.
I swear they jump through hoops to find the guy at fault literally said it was the wife's idea for him to come over and they're like well maybe he shouldn't have planned it that way😂
Omg the many, many updates… This poor, kind man! My heart breaks for him as he wastes his life with this she-devil of a wife. 💔 also- she loves the thought of men fighting over her!!! She’s a trash panda! To the disposal unit with her!!!
14:30 i would definitely divorce. shes already showing that shes not interested in him at all anymore and is already poking around as well. no point in staying with someone who doesnt even want to be with you anymore
Thank you so much for saying that this is what you feel. That this is your opinion. How many people take their opinions as facts when in fact it is different for every relationship
Ok the date night story. The first post said he discovered his wife was withholding spicy sleep for several weeks after the date night. So the ski trip would have been between the date night and the revelation.
Obviously she’s in pain, feels used and it led her to making some crappy decisions. They aren’t good for each other, she’s allowed to feel depressed and alone in a relationship; what she should have done was have that conversation. Her feelings are valid her actions are not.
Wellness checks by the police almost always make situations worse, they cops might even kill the guy for him. They’re simply not trained to deal with any kind of mental health issue, and always escalate the situation.
There’s nothing that reddit, or Sophie, hates more than people resolving their issues through healthy conflict, resolution rather than rage quitting lol.
Uh I mean cheating is a pretty big deal and she has no excuse for. It op blames himself but it's obvious he puts more effort in the relationship. He needs support too and instead she sought validation from another man because they we're going through a bit of rough time. There's a big possibility she'll do it again if op is at a low point in life and honestly it's really sad to see the Marriage is definitely one-sided even if they are communicating more.
You guys never take into consideration but everyone's views on love monogamy and marriage are different. While cheating maybe the end all for some couples, it may not even be something to consider for others. And know someone who regrets their actions could be very likely to minimize them. Also the things you're calling minimizing may just be facts
You guys lack life experience to be able to relate to the stories you tell or to at least give you open mindness to different outcomes of real life situations, the world is not black or white and your commentary in every video shows your lack of flexibility in thoughts and empathy for others.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with going through your significant other’s phone. You should do it whenever you want, and you should allow them to do it to your phone as well.. wouldn’t you want to know if someone was exposing you to an STD? These people are weak.
That makes sense. If you have suspicions I think there's nothing wrong with going through your partner's phone. But at the same time I can't imagine going through someone's phone and having them go through mine. My phones very personal to me, and I'd like to keep some privacy. So I also understand the people who find it an uncomfortable invasion of privacy.
There is nothing wrong with you allowing it. Technically I could do it with my wife's phone whenever I'd want to. And so could she with mine. But if someone actually feels the need to do it, your relationship is already crumbling.
@@brag0001 honestly I don’t ever go through my husband‘s phone, but I have his code and he has mine and we share an iPad that’s tied to both our phones. If you’re with someone and they are constantly hiding their phone and telling you they don’t want you looking at it, it’s time to dump them.
@@robbieshott77 you are making up a straw man. My wife and I also know our access codes for convenience reasons. That doesn't change the fact that the moment one of you two feels the need to snoop through the others phone and messages, your relationship is already crumbling, regardless of whether that suspicion was warranted or not. When the trust erodes, whether the other partner gave reason for it or not, your relationship is starting to fail. If that's not addressed in a healthy way rather sooner than later, it will fail eventually. Looking through the phone when there is probable cause might confirm a suspicion if you are right, but it will not make it go away when you are wrong. That nagging little voice in your head will still be there, even if you find nothing because there is nothing to find. And if you can't find a way to make it go away, that voice will become louder and make you be miserable at first, and your relationship fail at last ...
I am aroace so I am not in a romantic relationship nor will I ever want to be. But this feels controlling to me. People have their own inner lives that they don't wish to share even with their significant other and it has nothing to do with cheating.
I love watching these guys, but they have zero story retention lol. Like at least a quarter of their show as them going over stuff that was literally just read, and still getting it wrong half of the time after that lol.
it actually drives me insane
I love the stories and the personalities of the people on the channel, but the reading comprehension levels have me yelling at my screen during most videos lol
I was just saying this in my head like nooo that’s not what happened 😭
Happens every time but it’s a quirk that makes them them and im into it
@@cassandracole8061just read it yourself then lol 😂😂
The entire point of watching others react to things is them figuring it out and discussing them
Like how do you know YOUR ALWAYS RIGHT - you are still just assuming to 🤷🏼♀️
You could be off also - hence where the discussion comes in
My high school ex-boyfriend messaged me 7 months after we broke up for the last time, threatening to hurt himself and begging for me to take him back. The first thing I did was call my mom, who then called his mom, so she was aware of the situation and could get him some help. Then I told him, "I'm sorry you're hurting, but I told you when we got back together the last time that I don't do third chances. Please stop contacting me."
OP be like " Having date night with wife and 49 others"
0:34 omg i had my phone laying by my head as i was trying to chill out in bed and the music, so loud I can barely hear Sophia 😂
What about the other wife?!?!
You don't need a reason to divorce other than you want to.
This may be true for you but there are many other people that take this commitment as the most serious commitment they will ever make. I live in Mexico and man or woman if your spouse cheated on you, it is more likely to move the cheating partner into the home if they are pregnant or need support then it is for there to be an actual divorce. In this culture if you are emotionally and financially supporting someone and make that commitment to make them your family they are your family. And in this culture it is not acceptable to leave your family for things unless they are really dire
@@ginasalinas7892 I understand your point , some societies do make it harder for women to leave abusive relationships. It was that way here in America for the longest time until no fault divorce became the norm.
@nyralotep yeah also everyone basically is stuck in the very first relationships they ever had. Because it's almost impossible for anyone to work or put money outside of the home their parents home most people still get their income to their parents until their mid-20s. The only way for a young man to get out of that is to take on his own family. So it is hard for the men as well. They may be upset their spouse cheated but not want her to literally starve which is what could happen if they kicked her out. So what I'm saying is no you don't need a reason to leave the marriage but everyone acts like everyone should leave their marriage over every problem and I think relationships grow from a lot of these. This woman having this emotional affair probably learned not to open herself up with other men or other useful things.
I think it's really self-aware for the man to realize that he played a big part in her cheating
I’m confused what’s the debate?? Cheating is cheating emotional or not in fact emotional is WORSE. leave leave leave no further “investigation “ needed🤔
I'm wondering if the wife didn't tell him about the email to potentially have a communication channel open that OP didn't know about. You can move emails to the trash and permanently delete them. And after getting caught from not perma-deleting messages, I think she would begin utilizing that feature.
If someone threatens to harm themselves then believe them and call authorities. Immediately. Average person doesn’t have the tools to help anyway regardless of their unique knowledge of a situation. Get them help, or call their bluff to never pull a power play. Either way, more qualified people will be made available to them.
I swear they jump through hoops to find the guy at fault literally said it was the wife's idea for him to come over and they're like well maybe he shouldn't have planned it that way😂
I noticed that too
Honestly, I think it's the reading comprehension in these stories. They easily forget details that they've just read
Omg the many, many updates… This poor, kind man! My heart breaks for him as he wastes his life with this she-devil of a wife. 💔 also- she loves the thought of men fighting over her!!! She’s a trash panda! To the disposal unit with her!!!
I understand the play on words with skiing and snow bunnies but they both mean something completely different😂
If you have to hide any interactions from your spouse or partner, then it is cheating. If you can’t do it in front of them then you know it’s wrong.
14:30 i would definitely divorce. shes already showing that shes not interested in him at all anymore and is already poking around as well. no point in staying with someone who doesnt even want to be with you anymore
OP says in the first story she was withholding sex for 1 month since that bad date night. So 8 weeks from the date, 6 weeks from the ski trip.
I feel that emotion affairs are worse than physical ones
Thank you so much for saying that this is what you feel. That this is your opinion. How many people take their opinions as facts when in fact it is different for every relationship
The original date night in the post happened months before the Reddit post was posted 23:25
You call the police to get the person baker acted.
Op didn’t invite other people it was a group effort and she invited people to their dates
I would be more hurt by the 'it's nice to talk to someone that is not you'
Ok the date night story. The first post said he discovered his wife was withholding spicy sleep for several weeks after the date night. So the ski trip would have been between the date night and the revelation.
Obviously she’s in pain, feels used and it led her to making some crappy decisions. They aren’t good for each other, she’s allowed to feel depressed and alone in a relationship; what she should have done was have that conversation. Her feelings are valid her actions are not.
May be the kids will be grown up in 15yrs
She's cheating divorce her!!!
omg this guy is such a simp..she was never sorry and continued to play in front of his face and laughed behind his back..smh
I love Psych too. Are you a fan of the delicious flavor?
Wellness checks by the police almost always make situations worse, they cops might even kill the guy for him. They’re simply not trained to deal with any kind of mental health issue, and always escalate the situation.
Divorce. Clearly.
Roderick has got to be packing .
I belive the wife
Guys what is this click bate clip @_@
Just saw that should be removed thanks for saying something!!!! 🫶
This was confusing. Just read the story
There’s nothing that reddit, or Sophie, hates more than people resolving their issues through healthy conflict, resolution rather than rage quitting lol.
Uh I mean cheating is a pretty big deal and she has no excuse for. It op blames himself but it's obvious he puts more effort in the relationship. He needs support too and instead she sought validation from another man because they we're going through a bit of rough time. There's a big possibility she'll do it again if op is at a low point in life and honestly it's really sad to see the Marriage is definitely one-sided even if they are communicating more.
You guys never take into consideration but everyone's views on love monogamy and marriage are different. While cheating maybe the end all for some couples, it may not even be something to consider for others. And know someone who regrets their actions could be very likely to minimize them. Also the things you're calling minimizing may just be facts
You guys lack life experience to be able to relate to the stories you tell or to at least give you open mindness to different outcomes of real life situations, the world is not black or white and your commentary in every video shows your lack of flexibility in thoughts and empathy for others.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with going through your significant other’s phone. You should do it whenever you want, and you should allow them to do it to your phone as well.. wouldn’t you want to know if someone was exposing you to an STD? These people are weak.
That makes sense. If you have suspicions I think there's nothing wrong with going through your partner's phone. But at the same time I can't imagine going through someone's phone and having them go through mine. My phones very personal to me, and I'd like to keep some privacy. So I also understand the people who find it an uncomfortable invasion of privacy.
There is nothing wrong with you allowing it. Technically I could do it with my wife's phone whenever I'd want to. And so could she with mine.
But if someone actually feels the need to do it, your relationship is already crumbling.
@@brag0001 honestly I don’t ever go through my husband‘s phone, but I have his code and he has mine and we share an iPad that’s tied to both our phones. If you’re with someone and they are constantly hiding their phone and telling you they don’t want you looking at it, it’s time to dump them.
@@robbieshott77 you are making up a straw man. My wife and I also know our access codes for convenience reasons. That doesn't change the fact that the moment one of you two feels the need to snoop through the others phone and messages, your relationship is already crumbling, regardless of whether that suspicion was warranted or not.
When the trust erodes, whether the other partner gave reason for it or not, your relationship is starting to fail. If that's not addressed in a healthy way rather sooner than later, it will fail eventually.
Looking through the phone when there is probable cause might confirm a suspicion if you are right, but it will not make it go away when you are wrong. That nagging little voice in your head will still be there, even if you find nothing because there is nothing to find. And if you can't find a way to make it go away, that voice will become louder and make you be miserable at first, and your relationship fail at last ...
I am aroace so I am not in a romantic relationship nor will I ever want to be. But this feels controlling to me. People have their own inner lives that they don't wish to share even with their significant other and it has nothing to do with cheating.