I have a feeling that the parents won't retire until they get divorced. I promise wifey is talking to them about her feelings. Wife is unhappy, but doesn't want to leave for whatever reason. Could be that she doesn't want to leave because of the financial entanglements and what would happen if they did split. He became so enmeshed in her family business, that it can get messy... and divorce isn't a reason for firing someone, so having to work with your ex is uncomfortable to say the least. OP needs to leave, get custody, and with the proceeds, start his own business. The whole relationship has become completely toxic and isn't healthy for anyone.
"I’m in a similar boat, but I’m stuck between anger and heartbreak. I found out she’s been seeing two other people, and every day feels like a battle to decide if I should leave or stay for the sake of our kids. Advice?"
Honestly I don't see that much hate for OP. I see so much bull crap women will do to collect evidence for divorce proceedings. I see them wait months just to make sure they get the best cash out from a divorce. But when this man is thinking about his future his money and he wanted to check if his wife was cheating and she was. He's the gross controlling bad guy?.... I'm sorry but you can't call somebody controlling when someone's literally being cheated on.
There's no excuses for cheating. That said, this situation is probably primarily OP's fault. Women are heavily conditioned to settle for men, the "tolerable level of unhappiness" men are very well aware of as a control tactic to keep women chained to them. She didnt like his hobbies, she didnt want children, he takes joy from causing harm to her. He's hurt she's cheating but doesnt actually wanna divorce her, he wants to hurt her. I hope SHE divorces HIM. I wish she did so before cheating but here we are.
So she's a child who can't make her own decisions or say no?..... If you guys agree on having kids. And then later on she changes her mind and then reconsiders later on. No don't put this on OP. Lol stop babying women I'm not dealing with the she cheated cuz she was sad bullshit
I love it when Kion gets pissed because it’s always from a place of genuine concern ❤
11:51 I'm waiting for them to go after the wife and not OP.
I have a feeling that the parents won't retire until they get divorced. I promise wifey is talking to them about her feelings. Wife is unhappy, but doesn't want to leave for whatever reason. Could be that she doesn't want to leave because of the financial entanglements and what would happen if they did split. He became so enmeshed in her family business, that it can get messy... and divorce isn't a reason for firing someone, so having to work with your ex is uncomfortable to say the least.
OP needs to leave, get custody, and with the proceeds, start his own business. The whole relationship has become completely toxic and isn't healthy for anyone.
Kion was so upset by this OP
"I’m in a similar boat, but I’m stuck between anger and heartbreak. I found out she’s been seeing two other people, and every day feels like a battle to decide if I should leave or stay for the sake of our kids. Advice?"
Girl has already mentally checked out, she needs to finish checking out
Honestly I don't see that much hate for OP. I see so much bull crap women will do to collect evidence for divorce proceedings. I see them wait months just to make sure they get the best cash out from a divorce. But when this man is thinking about his future his money and he wanted to check if his wife was cheating and she was. He's the gross controlling bad guy?.... I'm sorry but you can't call somebody controlling when someone's literally being cheated on.
ESH. The *only* reason he's staying is for money. I feel sorry for the kids.
There's no excuses for cheating.
That said, this situation is probably primarily OP's fault. Women are heavily conditioned to settle for men, the "tolerable level of unhappiness" men are very well aware of as a control tactic to keep women chained to them. She didnt like his hobbies, she didnt want children, he takes joy from causing harm to her. He's hurt she's cheating but doesnt actually wanna divorce her, he wants to hurt her.
I hope SHE divorces HIM. I wish she did so before cheating but here we are.
So she's a child who can't make her own decisions or say no?..... If you guys agree on having kids. And then later on she changes her mind and then reconsiders later on. No don't put this on OP. Lol stop babying women I'm not dealing with the she cheated cuz she was sad bullshit