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What will America look like with all these single moms and single dads. Stop suggesting to men to stop dating single moms. its not good for America to have so many miserable people being single. Let them have an institution of a family.
Will somebody tell me why bald guys always feel that they have to grow beard it’s like well I don’t have hair on my head but if I have it on my face, it will look just as good. It’s such an absurd, insane unrealistic weight of view hair you know put it on your face if you don’t have it on your headfreaking crazy
For 5,000 years of civilization, female virginity was required for lawful marriage. A marriage to a divorced woman was always known as adultery. That was true of Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.
The last generation may have tossed out the laws of God for the sake of Modernity. However, that does not mean the laws of nature actually changed.
Your like for young women is clear & that’s ok-but not all men want or need their women under 25
@@blaumausfrauMen grow beards because it’s a man’s prerogative - & historically proves strength & dominance
Gentlemen, you're not dating a single mother, you're dating a broken family.
Then why are these men dating single moms ??? It's just for easy sex
🎯
This should be top comment
You’re dating someone who expects you to be a provider and be thankful that’s she’s giving you the time of day.
Fact.
2 kids with 2 different fathers is a HUGE red flag.
If she doesn't see the reason why its a red flag, that's a red flag itself.
more red flags than in a communist parade
absolutely. it's like she showed questionable judgement and had a first child 'sired' by some guy, then she chose a guy willing to look the other way concerning her being a single mom who in turn she couldn't make it work with,, if that makes sense. So it's as if she made at least three poor judgement calls.
I’ll bet she is a champ in the bedroom- and knows it.
That's a walking red flag. Just put a bra and makeup on the flag.
@@TheAirlock I wonder if red flag has another connotation. Bulls rush in when they see a red flag. While smart people know to run away. I guess the unthinking men are drawn in by the red flags? Just brainstorming, sorry to bother.
If she wouldn’t date you in her prime, don’t save her in her decline.
We don't want to support single momas all their life - whileas some other guy had his saved game.
She's not yours it's just your turn
@@jgrullon32 I prefer she stays far away from me.
Right
This phrase is so *DEAD* on right.
I married a woman with two kids and after 4 years came to the realization that I was nothing but an ATM.
Ass to mouth?
my buddy did the same - he was hispanic so his family all but ex communicated him for marrying a non- hispanic woman with kids . Her ex never paid a penny, and my friend went into debt to the tune of 200k in todays dollars from the wife's spending. He divorced her, took the debt on and took 20 years to pay it off. He kept bailing out the kids in their disastrous lives over the years as he knew he was the only real dad they ever had. He worked way harder than I did and pretty much worked himself to death at 68. BTW- his marriage lasted only 4 years.
@@richardvallonjr.6716 I think you dodged a bullet compared to your buddy,
RIP.
@@richardvallonjr.6716 R.I.P to your buddy. How punany has ruined so many mens lives. Moment of silence everyone 🙏🏼 I profess that it's not worth the time, funds nor stress. Wrap it up 🎁 👆🏽😎
Exactly
"When I grow up, I want to be a stepdad" -said no one ever
😂😂😂
You be surprised how many simps out there raising another man’s seed 🙄
@@Son-of-Kryptongot one raising my kids 😂sucker. Thanks for relieving me of the burden.
@@improvisedsurvival5967 don’t be a deadbeat dad bro. You shouldn’t be okay with another man raising *your* kid. That’s a low value trait. Take care of your kids.
@@M0SSADDID911Pookie and RayRay tactics.
When a woman dates a single father she’s not expected to financially support the children but a man is expected to.
Yep men are expected to uphold traditional gender roles while modern women have dumped ALL of their traditional roles
Definitely true. The real difference in my opinion is the man is generally the disciplinary of the kids. If it's not his kid, it's always going to be a point of contention. Women aren't expected to do that for another mans kids.
@@Sketch_Sesh - Bingo!
not in DATING only in marriage or living together
She is if she lives with the man with kids. She's paying for food that the kids will eat, as well as cooking and taking care of them. If you're sharing rent, she's also paying for a bigger home/apartment than would be necessary if he didn't have the kids.
Dudes dating a single mom are looking for an easy lay.
And she is looking for a guy that she may be interested in pursueing a relationship
that has the potential to work the guy to death, should he pursue her long term.
I knew some guy who was dating a single mom and was looking to propose when she told him she was pregnant. He immediately ended the relationship on the spot. Why? Because he had a vasectomy 12 years prior. She was stone cold busted and now she was back on the street with a bun in the oven to boot. Pro Tip#1: If you bluffing with four aces, you better make damn sure someone else does not have an ace as well. For anyone out there thinking, "sometimes a vasectomy could fail." Which is why my friend went to the doctor ASAP to double check as he did feel a bit guilty. Doc came back and said he was sterile as sterile can be, tested twice, zero sperm detected both times.
@@tedwojtasik8781 Is 60 too old to get a vasectomy? I'm done, I don't
want any BS from any gold digger women.
Maybe, but I'm sure not all guys.
Men's arguments : statistics and logic.
Women: I feel like ...
Notice how she never mentions her children because Mommy is so clearly more important than the kids nowadays
I FEEL LIKE ...whatever i want is what i should get whenever i want it
Men: this is why you have 2 baby daddies and why any man would be INSANE to put up with it
they HATE generalities
@OP that's because their goal is not to reach an understanding of right or wrong, or true or false. Their goal is to gain ADVANTAGE.
and so they will say any combination of words as long as the outcome is: they have an advantage.
So they will use Shaming, Morality, Philosophy, and even Logic, if it serves their goal of gaining ADVANTAGE .
@@JZan-ug3eyspot on. They personify narcissistic traits all over
Single mums aren't looking for love; They're looking for HELP.
they are looking for a fool to fix their broken life and bail them out of the mess they brought on themselves
@@sshreddderr9409 Sooo true
Once rheu have stability, then they look for greener pastures 💀
You guys are pathetic. Stop your whining and take responsibility for how your relationships go, instead of whining about women, as if we men don't have it pretty damn good.
N financial help.
Dating a single mom is like going to a party just as everybody is leaving and then washing their dishes
I'll add it's more like going to a party that you weren't invited to and nobody wanted you there, And in the end he still had to wash dishes
Hhahah e
😮😮😂
😂😂😂
Lol. It's like chewing another man's piece of gum. It's like doing time for a crime you didn't commit.
Having one kid might have been a mistake, 2 is not.
FACTS.
What if they're twins?😂
What if she had the first one at 17, and there was no marriage.
And then the second one was planned but something was wrong in the marriage and
she got divorced?
Yep, yet single not so yummy mummies will insist they're a victim 😂
@@metalmike570she's a red flag
"The facts don't align with my feelings so the facts must be wrong."
So true
Exactly.
Did ANY of those gals make any sense?
“Single Mothers are a Liability, not an Asset“
-Kevin Samuels 💯💊
KS Nailed it in one line 👍🏼
Most women like 99% if not more are liabilities
Facts
Woman are a liability
That’s what it comes down to. When it doubt ask yourself one question fellas, is she acting like an asset or liability?
When you deal with a single father, you're dealing with someone that there is a 70% chance tried to maintain a family.
When you deal with a single mother, you are dealing with someone that there is a 70% chance chose to dissolve her family, often in the most destructive way possible.
There is nothing else to understand.
Not to mention, a single father doesn’t expect a woman to provide for his kid while the woman expects a man to
Great points. Women leave marriage 80% of time. If educated, it's 90%.
Treu i tried but she thought te grass was greener
@@jordyvanbrussel3057 Don't let it bother you brother. As an old guy I can tell you, they all want to come back later. And the thing is, if you take care of yourself, you cannot imagine ever allowing that. They bloom beautifully then "poof", away it goes. You can grow stronger for decades though. It's really not fair to them at all.
@@dcg590 As a man I would make sure the woman pay every cent. Every guy should think like that. Women are quilty for the modern age problems and in the age of feminism they should pay every cent a man would pay.
Blond woman with two kids from two marriages, let's break this down.
1. Two failed relationships
2. Two exes
3. Two more mouths to feed
4. One or two extra bedrooms
5. High chance that at one point she will leave (see #1), and your relationship with those kids will br terminated
6. If domestic chores are divided your workload increases
7. Most times her body is trashed or at least not what it was before kids
8. You will be #3 priority
9. Questionable decision making abilities
10. More than likely quite a bit of emotional damage (also see #1)
11. At any point her child support could decrease or end, guess who will make up the difference
12. If you marry her she will monkey branch if given the opportunity (see #1 again), enter 50% loss of assets
Where is the up side? At least she didnt rate herself a 10.
That blonde clearly looking for some help you can see the struggle and stress of doing it by herself is draining her.
The upside is they usually just wanna bang because they're getting money from the fathers of the children. So once in a while you pay for a babysitter for her for the night.
Don’t worry guys, chad will step in to give her the coup de grace 🤣
Yep you nailed it
Your list is speculation though, another possibility is -
What if she had the first one at 17, and there was no marriage.
And then the second one was planned but something was wrong in the marriage and
she got divorced?
Another issue for marrying a single mom is that the man can forced in a divorce to pay for child support for kids that are not his.
Nightmare!!!!
Which is insane !
@@marcp.1752
I agree but it is still happening. I guess the courts look for the person with the deepest pockets. Reminds me of ambulance chasing lawyers. Lol Guys who are actually working and making money become targets to more than just women wanting a Beta provider. Guys have actually self deleted because of this stuff.
Lol marrying
She's a nightmare that just can't get over herself you got to love that combination
I noticed that people that come from old money families ALMOST never mess with single moms. Single moms don’t fit in their plans for preserving generational wealth.
Good observation.
Facts. I have been warning my son against doing anything stupid like this and he is only 13. With wealth comes wisdom and an instinct to.protect it
I married into franco-belgian aristocracy and have been happily married for 9 years. We have 2 kids (expecting our 3rd). They dont tolerate NEITHER man or woman with previous kids. The sharing of love, resources, time and all the drama associated with having to keep up with previous relationships is not worth. I would never give a chance to my husband if he had kids already. He is a handsome, smart, gentleman multimillionaire businessman and I would still pass. I had options and would not downgrade for someone who didnt wait for me to start a family. Never.
If you are high level and it's in high demand it goes both ways.
Yes. That's probably true. There are certain people you can marry and certain people you can't.
I'm pretty sure their family would disown them. I would not like if my son dealt with a single mom.
Single mom - instant NO-FLY ZONE for me - no exceptions, no excuses, no hesitations: Not my Circus, Not my Monkeys - Definitely not my bills, not my responsibility. Not ever. Not once.
Facts and I don't care if she was married, widowed or whatever it doesn't matter raiding another man's kid is an automatic no
As regular as clockwork ...
She tells her kid(s) to treat you like cr*p then tells you how much easier life would be if you adopted her kids. IMMEDIATELY after the adoption ceremony, she serves you with DIVORCE PAPERS and you are stuck paying for HER brats!!!
😢😢😢😢
Circuses should not have animals in it. But I get the picture.
For real!
@@manlybaker3098that sounds like something that clearly should be illegal.
I wouldn't even use a parachute that has an 80% chance of working....
"John, we've been dating two months now, and it's been great." ...... "Yes, it has been great Melissa. You're a good woman." ...... "Okay, but now here's my son little billy." ...... "FUUUCK HIM!!! I'm outta here!!"
@@josephinetracy1485 Right same kinda thing. Not really though because
the man must work and make ends meet. Women don't really have to but
they SHOULD.
@@metalmike570 They don't have to work, huh?
@@josephinetracy1485 I guess it depends on the guy she's with. If he makes
six figures then .......... she'll have options to stop working hahahaha!
@@metalmike570 I think that you need to sit down alone with a cup or two of coffee, and think this all over again lol
San Francisco Bay Area mid-1980’s I went before “Family Court” three different times, at three different ages, pleading with the court to award custody to my dad. He was a dedicated Christian. Regular churchgoer. Single 5 years after my mom filed for divorce. Not dating in or near the home. My mom lived with her on/off boyfriend who smoked weed in front of us and left the coke scale on the dining room table. He got physically abusive with us numerous times (as elementary school kids) and we were exposed to nude adults running around the pickle barrel hot tub, drinking and taken to nude beaches. The court “awarded” custody to my mom on every single occasion. Thank God dad used his Tuesday nights to take us to Mervyn’s and buy us clothes because the child support that he paid promptly was immediately “contributed” to rent. Were it not for my dad I’d have gone to school with holes in my shoes. Several school years. FAMILY COURT WAS A SCAM 40 YEARS AGO. I shudder to imagine it today. And people ask why I’m 52 and MGTOW. Had to fight with everything in me to earn these 6 years clean and sober. Broken homes F kids up. They just do.
I know you've got just 5 likes but thank you for sharing. I really appreciate it!
Should be quote of the century "Broken homes F kids up. They just do". People don't want to hear that, even though it's true.
Peace be with you bro. You're a survivor of unfortunate circumstances 👆🏽😎
Thank you for sharing facts..so thankful u made it this far..stay strong..
Don't know what a mgtow is, never heard of it
The fact that they can’t comprehend the difference between a single mom and a single dad is reason she has two kids from 2 different dads, delusional.
Fact. She'll have another one soon enough. That lady leaves a trail of destruction in her path.
Delusional 🙌🏻
My thoughts exactly as I was watching this.
_AND_ a pain in the ass spoiled dog she can't control!!
Can you help me understand?
As a single father, I know that men do not get a pass on being a single father. I have had women tell me that they would not date a man with kids. I didn't get hurt about it.
A single father with money and personality has ton of options…never forget men are success objects !
If I may chip in, I don’t have any children but have been singled out by single moms due to this, when I have replied “well you’re a single mom” the answer is “well my kids aren’t a problem”
@@Project-Masculinity The self delusion is incredible
I’ve been told that two or three times, also
The prime REASON WHY: Because your finances are not pouring into them and their future kids. Everything is fkn about them. That's why they see it as a minus.
Men usually look for love and to build a family, women look for someone to pay for everything. That's literally the biggest difference between the 2 genders when it comes to relationships.
Thank you!
true said. that's why guys are not doing the same mistake which these single mom's ex husband did.
EXACTLY.
Men rush to get married to find a babysitter
I guess it was the same all the back to the cave man days.
I dated a single mother with Borderline Personality Disorder. I lived to tell the tale.
Not many do. If you had married her, you'd be in a box.
Dated a a single mother for a year. Did my best to support her teenage daughter whenever possible, did my best to support both of them emotionally, and even grew to love the kid like she was my own. She ended it because she still had feelings for her ex (not even the father). The break-up sucked but losing the kid was one of the hardest things I had ever been through.. I swore to never date another single mom again. Sorry if that seems extreme but the potential of losing a bond like that is too much of a risk factor to ever attempt again.
They don’t take no accountability and they want a man to do all the work
I didn’t see the big deal at first but I dated her for 3 years and became best friends with her 4 year old daughter. Watched her grow from a little 4 year old to a 7 year and when it ended it was the darkest period I had ever felt in my life. 3 years later there’s not one day goes by I don’t think of her. The ex wanted to try and reconnect but she had already monkey branched to other men after we split and I couldn’t accept that. Now she’s still single and her daughter is still fatherless because of feminism
The kids get used to a revolving door of men and fathers they don't see that much because mom makes it difficult for him. In my experience.
They don’t call you ‘thrill house’ for nothing . . .
My work colleague went through the same thing. Took care of 2 Kids for 4 years and then the mother met some random dude on a 2 week course away from home and ended it. Men, remember: Pump and dump.
Don’t settle for single mommas. They should be with the loser that knocked them up. Do not be the fall guy for their mistake 😣
Don't raise someone else's mistake
The problem is that some single mommas are hot.and the simps are everywhere.
So if a woman screws over a man and leaves him with the kids, he's a "loser"? I bet you're a woman.
Not all single fathers are losers some were either forced out or chose not to be in a turbulent relationship 🎉
Half the time they don't know who that loser is.
Guarantee all these women would date a single father if he looked a certain way.
Also if he was making 6 figures
Nope, as they said looks has mostly little to do with it, it's about status and monetary potential.
Sounds harsh but that is how the "Majority" of women judge men.
@@ReceptiveKing93 Yeah deep pockets has to be a factor.
I would NEVER EVEN CONSIDER dating a woman that had 2 children from 2 different men etc . . .
Gillian is one of those annoying modern women who claims “equality” while also expecting privilege
And overweight. She has basically nothing to offer a man.
Equality is to them a feeling that "when it comes to everything, I'm at least as good as you are".
She also probably pushed out a lot of footballs and now wants to act like her value hasn't dropped in the slightest.
@@The_Kirk_Lazarus And they want a contract like any pro footballer does.
After this dreadful conversation , I will definitely stay away from single moms!!!!
Ha it took you this long to realize that
Hahahahaha
@@teresworrell7973better late than never I suppose?
These women refuse to listen to his arguments. YOU ignore a man's problems/issues just makes him ignore you
I am a grandma age woman and I agree with you. The kids are extra people that come along with the single woman. As lovely as kids are, they really complicate a relationship. They are a huge amount of work.
As a man I literally won’t even date or sleep with a single mother. I don’t want to risk both accidentally getting her pregnant and being tied to that mess. Or B risk catching feelings. Fuck that.
I made that mistake, didn’t get her pregnant but got feelings for her. Was in a relationship for a year and she broke up with me and went back to her ex bf after day 1 of breakup telling me I didn’t give enough time and attention. Left me a mess
@@ThisIsIt42768 well hopefully you learned your lesson. Go work hard for a few years. Sacrifice and save 100k in s&p 500. Then go find a beautiful foreign wife of any variety and treat her super well! Have a good day my man!
i did it it was a disaster i left and on my way convinced her ex baby daddy to adopt i got lucky in the end and escaped any court payments good lesson learned
@@user-od8wp4xr1wYou left your child and convinced the Mothers ex BF to adopt your child? Am I following that correctly? 🤔
Why sleep with any of them then ??? It sounds like to me that you just are their for the sex. And I am a man saying that
Jordan is a perfect example of zero accountability after making the same poor choices multiple times.
@adh8734They all think they're the exception to the rule but more often than not they're the very case proving the rule itself.
Jordan is lucky if she’s a 4.
Hooking up with her is like playing Russian roulette with every cylinder loaded.
She seems like the dumbest of the 4 women but talks the most. Rich or Moff will clearly answer her question, then she'll say "but I don't understand why [exact same question that was just asked and answered]".
Lying trick saying she never rated herself
I am a single father basically. I have my son half time. I have a house, financially secure, put together well. Dating has been the WORST at 40. It’s a mine field.
I love how in every video, every woman, has to be course corrected with in 5 words during every answer to every question asked, every time.
Being a single father of 3 kids, the single mothers just ran away from me. The normal women had no problem dating me. Some of them treated me as a hero, for raising Mr 3 kids after divorce.
You better off without those single moms bro…unnecessary baggage 🙄
The metric of attraction has always been different for single fathers. You are looked at as a provider wear as single mother has looked at as damage and used goods.
@@moveadvisor3580 it’s not different. There’s a reason why single childless women avoid single dads
@@Son-of-Kryptonsingle divorced dads have too much baggage too !
Yea, i’m a single dad and most single moms avoid me. Thank God 😂
It is never functional to debate with someone who is stuck in the belief of their feelings rather than the probability of facts.
which is the reason the creatures shouldn't have a say in politics.
*repeal the 19th*
You can’t have a rational discussion with women who still think they are prize. They will never accept that bringing children from another man into their new relationship introduces drama that most men don’t want to deal with. They don’t care how most men really feel about it, only how THEY feel about it.
I had FOUR children, 6-2yrs old when my husband married me. He has always treated my children as his own, and I allowed him to also discipline them. Then my husband and myself had FIVE more children together. We are a big, happy family with nine children and nine grandchildren! We will be married 38yrs this upcoming October. AND, no way is my husband a simp either lol! I’m blessed ❤
Glad it worked out for you and your family. Very often, it doesn't.
There are always exceptions, but they’re rare.
So? I know people that have won the lottery and became multi-millionaires. Doesn't mean I am going to encourage people to blow money on a ticket, let alone base their retirement plan on such a ridiculously low percentage chance of success.
We are trying to WAKE WOMEN UP TO REALITY, so they don't keep making these insane choices that set them up for failure down the road when there is NOTHING they can do to fix it.
For THE vast majority of women, walking around with someone else's children means their options for men, drop dramatically, even IF they had realistic expectations, which most don't.
So bringing up the one in a 100,000 exception is NOT helping them or their delusions.
It's great that your husband was willing to step in and save the day, but it COST HIM, A LOT. He missed out on what you gave to the guy no longer in your life but got all the responsibility and hard work that went with it. Now I have no idea why you were in that situation. Obviously if your first husband died in battle, work or a sickness or accident, that's clearly not your fault, but doesn't change what your current husband had to deal with.
Now if your profile pic is anywhere near recent, then 38 years ago, I am sure you were an absolute smoke show. So if you had a great personality, brought peace and comfort to his life and not contentious strife, then I am sure he did the math and figured, it was worth taking on the responsibility to get such a rare gem. But that's the point. You were a RARE Gem. Most of these women aren't, so they have zero chance of hitting those lottery numbers. Also, 40 years ago, most women had a VERY different mindset, than they do today.
Anomaly
As usual these women are in complete denial regarding anything negative about them. I have tried to date single moms and it is a HUGE pain in the ass, and I will never do that again.
Pairing up with a single mother is like volunteering for prison. But you'll get to hear---I DON'T HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU! YOU'RE NOT MY DAD!
The main difference Rich didn’t mention, is that when women say they don’t wanna date a single father the men are like ok cool your choice. When men say they don’t want to date single mothers the women freak out and try to gaslight them into doing so.
Don’t gaslight just go move silence
Exactly this
In some cases, the reason is ..because if the man has no experience with kids , then the mother ends up having to teach him along with the kids . Then y oh are looking at a whole other issue.
Men are not born nor taught at any age how to be a good father . Most learn on the job training, and like us all make plenty of mistakes. But for a single mother she has already gone through those mistakes and doesn’t want to repeat them again.
I love how you guys never really discuss these situations, when they make up a majority of the people.
I disagree, I was taught how to be a good father (until 19, he died)by my father. Also, from other men, fathers in the neighborhood. I always tried to be a good father, dad, accepting that I would make mistakes and should’ve done better. I had a wonderful wife, but after an awful divorce (thanks to you effing methheads out there) I received custody of our three minor children. 24 years later, we still have good relationships which I don’t take for granted but I’m very thankful for. Please don’t mistake being a “baby daddy“ a.k.a. effing idiot, for being a real man, father, dad.
Well he really should have stopped her in her tracks when she brought up the point about single fathers because that's not what this topic of conversation was about in the first place and he allowed her to deflect from that.
I dated a single mom before and she wanted me to allow her son to call me dad but she didn't want another child because 2 baby daddys would make her look bad lol.
One thing from my personal experience is that I was raised by my grandparents. Why? My stepfather was a traditionalist who had an issue with me not being his child. So, my grandparents stepped in to take custodialship over me so they were comfortable I would not be abused. Secondly, I remember my ex-wife asking me if I had any children of my own with any of my past relationships. She basically informed me that she would have an issue if my attention was focused between her, her family, and any children I had. So I see this argument from a double point of view. But I feel if I had any children, she would not help me. Whereas she expected me to provide support for her children and grandchildren.
I’ve noticed a lot of comments are about “me,me,me” if she is willing to help you out with your kids then you should help her out. It should be mutual- single mom of 2 (same dad) this is why I don’t date and I keep to myself. Everyone wants treat me a type of way just bc he got cold feet. I’m always the everyone’s fuck up that they want back and begging to take back after the damage is way to far gone. All I get out of guys is me taking care of them and they walk when my cup is dry. I just want someone to pour into me so I can pour right back into them. I want that step mom moment if it’s there bc all kids should be loved. It would be nice to find someone who would treat my kids the way I treat their kids but I’m told I do too much. I was making sure his kids had shampoo and a dresser and a bed at my house and that was too much for his kids bc they bring their stuff from their moms house. Shouldn’t I welcome his kids here? They should want to be here right? Almost all the comments on this video are so selfish. I can’t even date and find someone decent bc everyone is like this. I’m so sorry your step dad was like this. Being a single mom was not on me, he chicken out because of his own issues. He now apologizes to me but another woman is living the life he promised me
A high value man needs a single mom, like a fish needs a bicycle
A high value man doesn't need dating advice in the first place.
I like your thumbnail, which Bentley is that?
@@Sharkbar_ Thanks! It’s a 2021 Bentayga
As someone in this situation right now it is not worth it. As a dummy I dated her long distance, she moved in with me kids in tow, and everything comes out of my pocket, whether it’s school supplies, food, extra curricular activities, etc. it’s become my burden while dad gets to show up on birthdays and kids flock to him as a savior. On top of that, I’m expected to take this woman out on dates, furnish a home, while she works Tuesday-Saturday but rarely contributes to anything. There’s no benefit to being a stepparent. Avoid it at all costs.
Bro u good? Lol
Chad Dad thanks you for supporting his kids.
I've dated a single mother and man let me tell you it's definitely not worth it. Most single mothers actually resent you for dating them if you don't have kids. They start to think why is he with me, am I the best he can do, etc. Don't do it.
Now you have to do all that for the woman while she has no obligation to you and she can just up and leave when she wants because they’re not your kids.
Why would any man sign up for that?
She is still smashing the daddy lol😂
When I was 14 in 1981 my parents divorced, sold the dairy farm and my dad quickly remarried about 3 months later, moving from Minnesota to Victoria Australia. Besides 2 months on his farm in a trip to Australia in 1985 I had very little contact with him between 1981 and 1999 when I got email. A huge vacuum was left in my life as my mom had lots of baggage from her rough childhood and no guys had anything more than a short interest in my mom and she never remarried. I found myself wandering around Fleet Farm and other large shopping places like I was lost. Looking back at that time I was looking for a father. One of my Doctors got to know me well enough that he figured out that my life was lacking positive encouraging role models. One of my brothers told me that my dad regretted leaving me without a father figure in my life. But my father followed his heart marrying a much younger woman from Australia.
Too bad he didn't fight for custody to have you? But, then you would have missed your
mom the same way if had won.
@@metalmike570 I was given the choice of living with my mom or moving to Australia and living with my dad and his new young wife. I was undecided until one of my brothers suggested my mom as the slightly better of two bad choices. My dad was bipolar with an explosive temper and his wife was very very driven and feisty which I didn’t need with the ptsd I had since age 5, 3 very big traumas from age 5 to age 8.
@@MustangsTrainsMowers Well in the end you're normal, and lived this far and
seem grounded. Do you consider yourself successful?
Also it seems like a choice that a kid shouldn't have to make at all. You shouldn't
frustrate yourself about it now. I guess that the thing is when a boy is about 11 he should see his father a lot because it will influence who he is, and can learn guy skillsets.
Just my opinion but going into puberty yeah seems right to seek out your father.
It's all behind you now anyway, did you go to Austrailia at all?
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Successful no, had Lyme since about 1983, diagnosed in 2013. Australia yes 4 months 1985, half of them with my dad. 13 days in 1999 and 7 weeks of an 8 week trip in fall of 2002. He passed January 2023. I never was able to really connect with him.
@@metalmike570
At age 14 when my parents were divorcing I decided I was going to have a manufacturing business. I’m very mechanical, intelligent and creative but Lyme pretty much derailed my plans. In 2017 I was so sick I thought I had 2-3 years to live.
Single parents should date each other. I wouldn’t want my future daughter with a single father or a man with multiple kids but I also wouldn’t want my son with a single mother.
Single mother don't have that leverage since she is NOT going to provide for the single father and his kids. Also, single father don't have biological clock unlike women.
I am 57 and speaking from years of experience, and yes, I have dated single mothers in the past. Dating single mothers is like going to Prison for a crime that you didn't commit, You will never be "Number one" in their life, not worth it, Guys just don't do it!
thanks bro I will follow your advice, I think the same
Even if you marry a childless woman and have your own kids with her you won't be "Number one".
Going to prison for a crime you didn't commit? Lmao😂😂😂. Perfect description
Dated a widowed single mother for years and can confirm from my own experience.
How did you not learn after the first time?
Once upon a time, a man asked a woman to marry him. She said no. From then on, he ate what he wanted when he wanted, he drank what he wanted when he wanted, and he did what he wanted when he wanted, and he lived happily ever after. The end.
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Now that's a fairy tale ending!
Just gonna drop this right here...
Father, Where Art Thou?
Two children are born on the same day, in the same country, in the same state, in the same city and on the same street.
One of them is more likely to have self-esteem issues.
One of them is more likely to suffer from anger management and behavioural issues.
One of them is more likely to suffer from depression and anxiety.
One of them is more likely to underachieve in education.
One of them is more likely to play truant from school.
One of them is more likely to be suspended or expelled from said school.
One of them is more likely to become addicted to drugs and alcohol.
One of them is more likely to be in trouble with the law.
One of them is more likely to end up in prison.
One of them is living in a stable, loving two-parent household.
The other is not.
A single mother household equals a single digit probability of success.
Excerpt from:
The Brothers Fate and other Red Pill Fables.
This sounds like me when I was a child and a younger adult. I had both stepmom and dad. My dad was very weak. So it was like growing up in a single mother home. Stepmom became an angry alcoholic once her father died.
I was 22 and in the German Army, I was together with my girlfriend but we have broke up after 2 years, maybe because I was allways abroad (in the Kosovo)... 20 years later I met her again, she had 3 children from 3 different guys and I was so foolish to start a realasionship with her for 1and half year... It cost me about 20 thousend Euros and a fals acusation of beating her (I was release by the court for free). All I can say: singel moms are more dangerus than those enemys which I was fighting in 4 years Bundeswehr duty...
I moved in with a single mother and 2 kids in 1993. I spent 7 years caring for the children ( 3 & 4 yrs old). I treated them as if they were my own. Supporting them all financially and emotionally. Sports, outings, camping, did it all like a normal family. No drinking, smoking or drugs. A perfect home environment. Then she decided that she had a better offer from a man younger than her, and I was unceremoniously shown the door. Never to see the children again. Which compounded the break up for me emotionally. I became an MGTOW for the next 20 yrs, long before the term ever existed, buying 2 labrador puppies instead. It was the best decision I ever made. I wish the internet and YT existed back then.
Bad decision next time don’t do it again bad move
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Yes Mom!
The fact that the children didn't try to contact you at some point, especially when older says a lot about them and the mother. None of them had formed any type of attachment to you or experiences with you.
I think it was President Harry S Truman who said about Washington, "If you want a friend get a dog." No one is as faithful as a dog except two dogs.
@@robertcuminale1212 The reality is that the children could have been told I wanted nothing to do with them, who would know? It was a tough learning experience. As I said above, I took a leaf out of Truman's book, bought myself two labradors, and never looked back. Actually it was Mickey Dolenz from the Monkee's who gave me the inspiration. Listen to his song 'I'm going to buy me a dog'.
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 And share the story.
Never date a single mother. That kid always started fights between us, but never took the blame. Then with all the time, money, effort in raising the child, one day he says to you, "You're not my father". That day will come.
Keep cordial with them my mom is like this right now but she expect me to clean home etc without independence
I dated a single mother and the son was such a shithead omg it was terrible.
@@Saskidan that why you don’t hold on
Literally had one attempt to kill me over taking away video games for usung my credit card online and his mother took his side. That having a kid playing 🎮 was worth more than my life to her. 💀💀💀
A husband is a spouse. A good spouse does Husbandry. Husbandry is protecting, supporting the family and also helping people and animal to grow and mature. He is the leader and sets to tone and pace for the family goals.
Must be a great feeling knowing you come last, after her kid(s), her parents and her dog.
"knowing you come last, after her kid(s), her parents and her dog." Get in good with the dog and you're all set. 2nd grade I had a friend who was thin as a rail and ate dog food the dry kibbles and dog bones. I didn't believe him until we went into a grocery store. He punched a bag of dogfood and grabbed a handful, then got some dog bones and started chowing on those too. Told me to try it. Nope. His father had remarried and he was from the first marriage. I always took it that that's what he did to survive. Super wealthy family btw. Bad stepmom imo. Hope he made it.
@@drewodessa2483 When I was like 6 years old, the girl living next to my grandma's house was eating dog-food as well. They were pretty poor I think. When eating cereal (more accurately: müsli), she ate it with water and I was like wtf no you eat it with milk. Her father was probably an alcoholic, since this girl took me out to a bar to hang out with her, she wanted me to be her date, because grown ups had stuff like that too - or something. She was a really really fun girl, and I missed her a lot when she moved out.
And probably the kid(s) dad(s)
@@kabouterwesley83
Yo, fellow Jeroom fan
Even if you are the first one to marry her, and she's only got your kids, I know most guys feel the wife cares more about the damn dog than him.
I’ve had many women tell me they would not date a single dad. There are good and logical reasons for this. I did not blame them a bit.
I won't date a single dad. His bullshit kids are not my problem. 👿
I just told friend to move in silence don’t explain her business to the world I am good example as far us woman do make that mistake branching off without no real reason
He used Cinderella so they would have no choice to relate 😂
As a woman with no kids I'd never date a guy with kids.
I don’t have any kids that I know of.
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Just kidding. Haha 🤪🤪🤪🤪
I stopped dating single moms the day one of them told me right off the bat,"Just to be clear, you will ALWAYS be number 2. My kids (that are not genetically mine) will always come first". Gotcha., Im out
Nobody gives a sh$t what you think.
I knew a guy who dated a single mom. After a while, she claimed he was abusing her kids verbally and pulled him to court..this guy is devastated.
My nephew is going through all that right now.
that happens a lot, there are severe legal risks when you date single moms
Getting with a single mom is a like putting gas in a car another man already wrecked.
Dating a single mother is putting diesel gas in a regular gas car
A woman is not a car... a single use object... there are no men and women, there are people, all different, all with different situations. Each person deserves a second chance..
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Maybe you could get the car to run but it’ll never be like new, it’s damaged goods 😂
@@aal5704 Have you ever heard of hyperbole 😂😂😂
I married a single mum, happily took on 3 great children. Best decision i ever made. Married for 14 years until covid to my wonderful wife. Choose the right person when you marry.. doesnt matter if they have kids or not
The fact Jordan has her kids that little says a lot about her as a woman.
Thanks Rich! These single moms prove why you don’t choose them! I couldn’t stand being on a date with them let alone risk my entire future with them!
Says a broke man. Im childless, I don't want kids.
Not having any authority over the child is a bullshit reason. Men only want to provide and provision for their own child their own DNA, Period. My time is valuable, my resources are valuable and I didn't work so hard in my life to raise another man's seed. Let alone the baby daddy drama and dealing with a woman banged and impregnated by other man.. is this even a joke? Rich is not speaking direct language to these women.
Also shows that they will always dodge accountability. This clip also proves that you cannot have a reasonable discussion with waman at all.
Strong wahmen 🤢🤮
I think the idea is that you are getting a ready made family. How does that hit you? I recall a particular day around the holidays when I was in a barbershop chair getting a haircut, it was a F barber, and I was hearing what she was doing with her kids during the holidays arts and crafts stuff. And I don’t like any talk at all. That was 10 yrs ago. Damn the effect - it still has since I’m not involved. Shet, it’s some powerful shet. Never doing that, a M only when I’m in the chair. Or cut my own F’in hair. Shet I stay away from it all - thank god I did, just saying, now 60 plus I said F it at about 38, crazy suicide. Others still attack me being single, it never ends. And I’ve seen close neighbor guys loving this way or living, better dead than that shet.
Back in the day I dated a single mom. Was set up by her aunt that I worked with. Kid was just a baby at that time. ended up liking the mom and thought maybe we might have future together. Few months in she ended it because she was still in love with the baby daddy. Where was the babies daddy? He was in jail doing 7 years for almost beating her to death. She was literally still in love with a man that beat her so bad she spent week in the hospital. That was the last single mother I ever dated. Ended up marrying a girl overseas best decision I ever made.
Some women like to be abused. It is so deranged.
Many women are insane.
not surprised to hear this, some women pick horrible men and won't let them go no matter what
Good that you learnt your lessons
You got a bad apple bro. Sorry to hear. Dont let one bad experience keep you down bro.
Raising other mans children is sign of weakness unless the man cannot have kids due to a medical condition or the father is dead I don't see the reason why a single man should ever choose that path.
From dating single mums since my early 20s, I found they make considerably better lovers, are more experienced and more adventurous. I've been with many childless women and mothers, and I very much doubt it's a coincidence.
Rich, what you failed to state here, is that those kids will never consider you their "real father" if their biological wants back in. Once he does, they will drop the stepdad like a rock, its happened to me more than once, and ive finally learned my lesson. Not correcting someone elses mistakes!
Absolutely! All kids will prefer their real dad. I saw a spiel from a single mama with three different baby daddies and said that it’s her partner’s responsibility to sort out teh baby daddies. Like three men and three children to one.
It’s in a persons nature to see their biological father as their real dad even if he did nothing ever for them. Only in rare cases where the biological dad never showed up do kids ever end up viewing step dad as their real dad. What real man would want to invest 10-20 years raising a kid only for that kid to not appreciate them.
I'll tell you why it's different :
1- Financially you will be paying for her and her kids most if not everything. And even those so called " strong and successful" women will still expect you to pay . On the same point, if you wanna do something nice for her , the kids will be involved which will increase your financial burden . As a single father however, she isn't gonna pay shit for those kids no matter how successful she is .
2- in Most of custody agreements , the mother is the primary custodian , getting her kids most of the time, meaning you will have her kids most of the week , which means less intimate time and again, more financial burden. Single fathers have the kids maybe on weekends at best in most cases,.
3- Most women's sexual drive tapers off after having kids. She will flood you with sex in the beginning, but that will disappear pretty quickly once she got you hooked. Men's sexual drive in most cases is gonna be the same whether they're single fathers or not.
4- Nothing more humiliating for a guy than to raise some other man's seed, and he can't discipline them in most of the cases . Any showing of authority will get you the "you're not my dad you can't tell me what to do" , or " you can't do that to my kids" . While single mother can get the "you're not my mom" , she is not the primary authoritative figure. And to get back o point number 2 , most guys will get 2-3 days/week at best , which mean less time to have kid drama.
5- If you ask most men, the best period they had with their women is before having kids. That's because her attention was on you . After having kids , Most of the attention will go to her kids. So you skip the best time and go right to the shitty part. A single dad will have his attention on his kids, but he will always gives his attention to his woman as well. Men and women give and receive attention differently. Point number 2 and 3 proves this point as well.
6- Women decline in value as she ages because a woman's value is mostly dependent on her beauty. Men become more valuable as they age if they worked in themselves.
7- The woman's most valuable asset is her womb , and she gave it to another man . Women are more emotional than men, and she will always have some form of attachment feeling to the baby daddy. Men has that with the baby mama , but trust me , that love disappears every time you have to fork that child support and alimony .
8- A single mother if she's older will not give you kids if you want your own lineage. A single father can have kids at any age.
9- Lastly , a man can get stuck paying child support for her kids as we all know >90% of child support goes to the women , so it's not the same the other way around.
Are there exceptions to that rule , sure , the 1 women out of the 10000. A man with value doesn't have the time to look for that unicorn. Even a man with kids should not get with a single mom. If you're a man with no kids and getting with a single mom , I don't care what's your excuse , you are a low value man with no options. No single man with no kids and even little value would take that deal. Let's call a spade a spade and cut the delusion .
Some women pay child support to men and some single fathers date single mothers and those relationships never workout
God damn. Well done 👏🏻
Thank you for taking the time to write this out so clearly and concisely. I get a headache watching Rich talk with women who argue just for argument’s sake, and avoid any kind of accountability.
Excellent post. Extremely on point with everything said. These panel discussions trying to explain the obvious to women are pointless.
Single moms are for pdg treatment only.🤣
I've been a stepfather, and it is a no-win situation.
It is not one way traffic husband and wife relationship is Based on mutual respect and trust.
The importance of financial stability and physical charm of your spouse cannot be denied but it is your spiritual goodness and kindness that came into power and make your life in comfort.
Once, I Went On A Date With A Single Mom. 30 Minutes In, I Knew I'd Be The 4th Or 5th Priority For Her.
I Never Saw Her Again.
Bullet Dodged.
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I was dealing with the same situation but in fact just weird all together
I dated a couple of single moms. I was never on the Priority List but expected to be the financial safety net/pay for everything. Two learning experiences for me.
@@racebannon96I am dealing with this right now from a woman perspective whom I am just friend with
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 The only way to win is not to play. It will not get better.
This zoom call is actual proof you shouldn't date single moms. The fact they can't even agree there are differences when he brings one up, is crazy.
You shouldn’t date Delusional single moms it’s a difference
Those ladies are poison for any man. They have the power to destroy many lives especially their children.
That's more a female thing, not specific to single mothers😅
Lmao not to mention that annoying ass dog barking and she wouldn’t put it up
Oh, they will agree there are differences, but when he brings them up, they just say, "Well, casting that aside..."
EXCUSE ME? The new dad doesn't just get to CAST those issues aside. He's STUCK WITH THEM.
My favorite was they just didn't get what Rich was saying about passing the footballs through their vagina. They weren't connecting the dots.
THAT MEANS YOUR PUSSY IS BLOWN OUT. SEX WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD!
All they got from it was that yes, men and women are different, women can give birth.
I dated a single mom of a teenage son, who was an absolute nightmare. The wealthy father only threw money at the issue, which made it worse. He treated his mother terribly, thought he knew everything, struggled with sexuality issues. When I would get upset over his behavior towards his mom, she didn’t appreciate. Rough situations were common. Wonderful woman, awful child.
Jordan has a dog also. A good friend of mine married a woman with a child and 8 years in she actually told him, " I would get rid of you before I got rid of my dog." Like the husband was something to 'get rid of'. It eventually happened.
2 more negatives(from experience):
1. A single Mom, when she's finally able to see you, will not want to make you dinner, etc because she will be exhausted being a single Mom, as she should be. She will want YOU to do all the planning, take HER on special dates, fancy dinners, and treat HER like a queen but she will not have the energy to reciprocate and treat you like a King. It's a great deal. Then, you can wait 2 weekends, if you're lucky, to do it all over again unless...(see #2)
2. She will likely have other commitments on one of those "free" weekends, like a friend's baby shower, birthday, girls trip, etc etc where she will, shockingly, have all this energy she didn't have when you finally got to see her.
So, you maybe get to see her one weekend per month and you better plan something fun for HER.
I just matched with a single mom and talked to her one day, and all this became apparent. She has a photo of her mountain biking on her profile. I'm a mountain biker, so I'm thinking sweet, a shared interest. Then in talking she says she didn't go for a single ride all year! Next thing, she likes to travel, as do I. Then says a trip for next year is "up in the air" because of other things going on. I stopped texting her, lol.
@@huntstyle That's the irony. They shouldn't have time to do things, like mountain biking, skiing, etc because being a Mom is the most important job in the world. Yet, they want to pretend they do these things to get a boyfriend. Maybe, just maybe, if they have 50/50 custody, they could indulge in these hobbies more often but I haven't seen it.
@@gmoneymac23 True. About the only time there's a chance is when the kid or kids are older and self-sufficient, and probably don't want to hang out with their mom anyway.
And if you ever do get to go over and spend the night, her kid always sleeps in bed with her.
Yea fuck that
I was granted custody in my divorce. I was 42 years old, and had custody of a six year old daughter. And the women that I dated never did completely take on my daughter as their own. I always felt that if I had got remarried that I would have an evil step mom in my house.
stay single dont bring any stragglers home
Are you saying that you allowed these women to interact with your six-year-old daughter - even before wedding vows? You allowed your six-year-old daughter to possibly get emotionally involved with these (possibly) fly-by-night girlfriends? You allowed your daughter to risk being emotionally damaged by the subsequent separation?
i raised my daughter on my own .i never brought anyone home ever @@alexmuenster2102
Sounds more like you were picking the wrongs ones then introducing them to your daughter way to soon, and then complaining about who you picked . Accountability dude.. you were the picker .
Understand.
Rules are made to be broken, and I had this rule, too, but I broke it. I'm heading on 15-years of marriage with a beautiful woman with two wonderful stepkids and 3 kids of our own. I also consider her ex-husband to be with a friend, and he stays at our place (though he gets on her nerves) occasionally to give some quality time with the kids. She pretty much kept full custody of the kids, which helped, as I was the man of the house, and there wasn't any changing houses or "they do it different over there." I now go out fishing, shooting, backpacking, and cook out with the older, adult stepkids, and our little ones adore them. It can work out, but like any marriage, you have to have people committed to the idea of a marriage succeeding, no matter what. As always, a relationship grounded in shared faith in Christ is going to work out better. That's the anchor that keeps everything in place; not the kids.
Women don’t understand that raising a kid is more then dressing them in cute clothes 😂
I agree, stay clear of single women with a kid. At age 22 I started dating a woman with a 3 year old child who was seeing her father weekly but he wasn't paying a dime in support, I put an end to the visits, he took it to court and was forced to pay child support, which is all I wanted so I wasn't bearing the load of caring for his kid, 7 years later after moving the family to a different state she left, took the kid, with not even a thank you for helping to raise a kid that wasn't my own. Stay away is my advice.
Oof
In their mind they have no reason to thank you. She and her kid deserved it, and her kid was entitled to it as a condition of dating her. Thanks for sharing your experience and warning.
Brutal.
You got played my man. Take it as a lesson learned.
@@PlatinumHustle - For 7 years? No, she just wasn't interested anymore. That happens all the time.
NEVER date Single Mums!!
Plain and simple! ✌️
@CalinGilea some don't want to until kids are adults.
Yep
Moms, not mums
@@rvh1702Mums is the British English spelling of Moms. That's how it's spelled in countries like UK, Ireland, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and South Africa. It is therefore also correct.
Great discussion
As a woman...I TOTALLY AGREE!!! If a woman chooses to have young with whomever comes along, if she picks men who can't commit, men who walk away from their own children and relationships, men who are possibly quite shallow, I am seeing it as bad choices women make. There is a reason you look very carefully at men, at previous choices they have made, at what they choose as occupation, etc etc. To not see that men and women are quite different is just blind silliness to me. Often females seem to want to have cake (beef) and eat it too, not noticing what is messed up about that. I would not want to raise kids I haven't bonded with, and don't blame men for not wanting it too. Plus the chances of step fathers messing with kids they have not bonded to.
The dog barking was kevin samuels spirit chiming in
It would of been hilarious if the dog said you can't make this shit up! Then went back to licking his balls!
K.S. Rest in power😂😁👍
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When Rich said "is there one Disney story with an evil step father" and Jordan blurted out "because it's not fantasy it's real life." That told me everything I needed to know about her.
I watch true crime videos on a regular basis. There are too many stories with an evil stepfather.
Him as well. Ita was an inane comparison.
This is dumb. Step dads mistreat step kids and rape them and beat them all the time. Sexual abuse goes up by the thousands when being raised by step dads . Just because children’s fairytales don’t cover this ugly truth doesn’t make it not true . This was super illogical
@@gatanegra8815 Same. I wondered why he bought up the point about the evil stepmother in fantasy fiction, it's a very weak point.
@@gatanegra8815 He's not saying there's no evil stepfather. There are loads of movies about that but when it comes to wish-fulfillment stories, you generally don't see evil stepfathers that often. If it implied that there is, they're completely absent in the story.
I do not date women with children. It's to much going on with being responsible for someone else's kid. It's not something I want to deal with.
How can Gillian admit there's a difference between a man and a woman but deny that the difference between two sexes has a statistically significant difference to when a man commits to a single mother compared to the vice versa situation?
I'm grateful to still be single, never married and no kids at age 36. 🔥👌🏻 top notch content Rich ! .
Keep it this way my dude🍻
41 single and no kids here
same.
Well Done Brother!
37 an same
Watched a friend date a single mom for years, then she decided to leave and he never saw the children he had formed a deep bond with again. The little girl was in diapers , he's her daddy fir six years now he's gone.
It was very bad for him and the children.
Guy was a fool hopefully not today
That’s the problem
women never care about hurting the kids
That is what I fear if I found a single mother with children
good luck you are just seen as a wallet, you have no authority yet all the responsibility for her kids...her kids will always come before you..@@kjaergaard12345
Kenzie: "Women contributing 50% to the bills."
Since when?
God she just cannot get over herself it's totally embarrassing
I was a single dad of my 2 biological Amerasian children for nearly 10 years, and raised my daughter and son successfully with zero assistance/ support from their mother. It was only after the hard work was done, and both kids were successful adults, that she began to desire contact with her own kids. There were virtually no support systems in place for a single dad (Veteran) anywhere to be had, but we (me and the kids) damn sure did it.
You are a good man n father, bravo 🐨
I am the example that Rich is describing. 35 years ago I was not around to get his advice or my life would be different. I married a single mom, who had two kids and two different men. I loved her and them, so it was not a big problem. I essentially raised her kids as my own. One father wanted nothing to do with his offspring and the other did with his and has some influence on the child growing up.
I had another two children with my wife then and had a great family. Now after 35 years she left me. And her two children? Now both want nothing to do with me after I raised them, gave them a good clean home, kept them well fed, provided a good Christian influence, showed them a good work ethic, kept them safe, participated at all school events (band, tennis, swimming, etc.), took them to ALL their hobbies and extra-curricular activities, took them to fun places like Disney World, theme parks, camping and much more.
NOW they have thrown me away like yesterday's garbage.
So, YES men, don't date women with their own children expecting those children to accept you as their father and love you when you get older... no matter how much love and attention you give to them... after all... they aren't yours. So, if you choose to marry a single mother, chances are that it won't end well for you.
sorry this happened to you.
I can agree with all of this. The mother of my 2 children. She was a single mom, her daughter was 1 at the time. She's now 17. Her mother and I haven't been together since she was 15. I was there for everything. Her biological dad didn't really put much into being a father. But that didn't matter. Her daughter pretty much doesn't really have much to do with me anymore now that her and mother aren't together anymore.
you're a superhero in my book. A true role model for men. You deserved far better....
Thank you @@henryjoshual1848 I'm comfortable with raising 4 kids into productive citizens. I did my "job" as a man. My two kids love me, but hers do not. I guess "blood" really is the most relevant factor.
"I had another two children with my wife then and had a great family."
So a family of 6.
"Now after 35 years she left me. And her two children? Now both want nothing to do with me"
So they're now in their 40s and want nothing to do with you. I think that might be due to reasons other than the divorce.
Also what happened to the 2 biological children you had.
Also how old was your wife when she divorced you? 60?
"don't date women with their own children expecting those children to accept you as their father"
They did for 35 years.
Date a single mom is like a strat to play video game starting from someone"s saving.
Take it from a guy who is currently in the situation, dont do it. I always stayed away from single mothers but i just had to have this woman and decided to try it. She moved in with me due to a circumstance. Of course her daughter came with her. It had been hell sometimes for the last 3 years. I jave the responsibility of provide a roof over her child's head and everything that comes with ut. The drama with her ex. Its too much and not worth it. I have a daughter from marriage who i see everyday and have 3 days a week. Her and her daughter is jealous of my relationship with my daughter. I explained to her that my daughter is my responsibility, her daughter is not. I feel like a visitor in my own home. Fellas please stay away from single mothers. My sister is a single mother and i would tell any guy she met to leave it be.
bro wtf , LEAVE , if you can vocalize this then you know there's an issue,
If married, it's a trap ime. The eventually break up the custody arrangements and child support was brutal, as will be the divorce, depending on the state.😢
A friend of mine dated a single mother within a year he moved in with her, she used him like an ATM and kept pressurising him into having a baby with her, the baby trap some men fall in to, eventually his money ran out and she fell out of love with him and he had to go. just makes me think how many other men did she do this to.
Yeah... My last single mum girlfriend tried that tactic on me... Very open and willing to getting pregnant! I dated her for 2.5 years and never once climaxed out of fear she would use my own seed against me!!!
Nobody ever says when I grow up I want to be an ATM!!!!
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Single mothers only option is to get back with their childs father. its the best thing for the child and her even if she dont realize it yet.
Gillian looks like she's bankrupted quite a few men in her life. Her snarky attitude is a red flag.
"I want someone who is confident, successful and a great communicator."
Why would I exhaust myself to be those things for a single mother?
High quality guys in her age bracket, are all dating women in their 20s that worship them and have no baggage.
I had to laugh when she said that😂
She wanted someone equal. In other words, she thinks she is confident, successful and a great communicator.
@@seriouscat2231 If she wants her equal, then she can look for a guy who has those qualities and is a single parent, also. Otherwise, the single, childless men who have those qualities are not likely interested in her.
@@bambooforrests, the kids were not the point. The point was that she probably, nah make that obviously, does not have those qualities. She just ignores the kids and goes straight to the prince charming stuff, as if she now had a second try to land one.