Who Should Pay On A Date in Korea?
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- If you're going on a date with a Korean for the first time,
you might be curious if a man should pay everything or you should split the bill.
So, I asked Koreans how they actually pay on a date.
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00:00 Intro
00:43 Q1. Who pays on a date?
04:37 Q2. Who should pay on the first date?
05:19 Q3. What if the man pay for everything?
06:38 Q4. Koreans have a bank account for dating?
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in Romania, boys pay all the time that they go out with a girl on a date, and after marriage they are together for all expenses, not separately.
But I have seen that in France there are many couples who do half and half and pay with 2 bank cards
I hate splitting the bill so we all just take turns paying. It is the same when we go out with friends too.
Opening a joint account for just dating, especially if it hasn't been a very long time, sound crazy to me 😅
in korea .making a account is so very very easy
so i don't know about your country situation
but i think here it is not crazy thing
It's fairly easy in Canada, where I'm from. But the idea of having a joint account relatively early into dating seems a bit odd to me, could be a cultural thing@@user-qx8gb7iv2b
The person who asks another person out on a first date with intentions to date, should pay. Doesn't matter the gender.
After the first date, if people want to continue to see one another, they can figure out the money aspect for themselves, like any other healthy relationship with good communication.
Problem is women rarely ask for the 1st date statiscally.. might aswell just go with the default answer instead of the politically correct one at this point.
as a woman, women barely ask for the first date so yeah men pay first date, it’s just courtesy at this point
Used to be a custom in Europe that men pay, but since material position of men vs. women has deteriorated dramatically over the last 50 years, it makes no more sense and half the men can't afford it anyway.
Perhaps I'm not a traditional person, but I dont think is fair to have the guy pay every single time. First time if he ask for the date, he pays, if I ask him on a date, then I pay for both. But after that, as we both work and have responsibilities, we should split the bill.
Sharing the financial load equally in this day and age is a given, but obviously depends on both people having employment. What I didn't agree with is the concept of a man having to pay on a first date as it is more romantic? No one mentioned going for a lovely walk in a park on a first date, and perhaps a coffee afterwards. It would be a wonderful way to get to know the other person, and potentially be more personal and romantic. I think men are expected to put in much of the effort when it comes to romantic gestures ie; flowers, taking their girl somewhere special etc. Romance should work both ways. Come on ladies all over the world! Start being romantic too! Interesting interview as always, Jin😊
In my personal experience, as a woman, I have paid SO MANY meals and outings and activities over the years, and also the planning aspect of it. I have always gotten the short end of the stick. I’m a good looking woman, with a decent personality and a normal job. Yeah I have flaws, like I’m not that great at math, or sometimes I get indecisive, but I don’t think those are crazy red flags. Anyway, I feel like I’m a normal woman who has dated seemingly normal men except those men would always take advantage of me after some time. They were lazy, didn’t put in as much effort, and were really careless. As a woman, I think I bring a lot to the table and if a man is dating for marriage, he has to show me that he can take care of me. I’ll pay for coffee, but if he has a job, I’m no longer paying for meals. I’m tired of being taken advantage of especially when I’m the one who contributes the most to relationships, sometimes even tending to his personal schedule or helping him improve his life, or sometimes even giving business advice, just because they are my bf but not anymore! If a man wants to date me, or even marry me and wants me to have his babies, he’s going to need to make a serious effort pursing me, otherwise I’d be happier single for the rest of my life.
Another super interesting video! It always surprises me how well dressed and trend korean people are ❤ I specially like the hairstyles, so neat and clean! In my country it's not expected for the man to pay on dates, usually we split the bill but I know it's different in Korean culture because I really like Korean culture and I noticed that usually is expected the man to pay. Anyways, I feel split the bill is more fair and I personally have never let a man to pay for my drink just in case they expect something in return. I also think it's cute if the guy pays one day and you pay next date. Can't wait to travel to Korea soon!! ❤
Thanks for the sweetest comment :)
@@JinsStreetInterview Aww!! Ty so much 🤗
I like your interviews!!!
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Meals cost more than coffee, but in Korea on average, men earn 40% more money.
Seems fair that they also pay more.
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but men mostly work hardly or longer and more risk job
it doen't make a sense
i think it is possible in past
In my experience most Korean guys always pay for dates and don't let women pay, but usually the guys who always insist on paying tend to be more patriarchal which some girls do prefer.
Always split a bill..otherwise somebody might missunderstand things..
First date depends on who asks. Any further dates should be split. Personally, I hate when a man pays for me. The same with superficial compliments. Just no.
I don’t like splitting bills. It is better to take turns paying.
If you truly like each other, it doesn't really matter who pays for the date. If you're paying attention to who spends more money on dates, it means you haven't met the right person.
It's a good sign that both men and women are wary of wasting money. And overall, it is better for those who can afford it financially to pay more. It's just the same as being a true friend.
i agree with your opinion
but in reality
all people don't meet only real lover
most people meet and fight and broken and meet andfight and broken .this is reality
i think your comment is too much ideal dream comment😅
In Russia girls never pay on dating. For me, personally it sounds weird and im automatically think that this guy is greedy or financially unstable, so what's the reason to continue...
Person who asks for date.
I just read a post related to sologamy. what do they think about it? Honestly, I don't understand how she could do that
I like how it's not just geared towards one gender and they want equality instead of thinking men should do everything.
I am not a fan of having a joint account for dating, actually not a fan of joint account in general. It's always a bad idea😅😅
Depends. If I ask uou out for whatever reason, I'll pay the bill, bit if they ask me out, they'll have to pay the bill. No matter of their gender, never mind opening a joint account
Students, whether middle school, high school, or college, should split the bill. If both parties are working, the man should step up and pay. The woman should extend an invitation sometimes to show her appreciation. Also, the parties should never expect their date to add their friends' bill. I heard that this happens in Korea.
한국은 여자들이 살기 편한 나라입니다.
uau! que legal, amo a coreia.. ekekekeke.
The one who asks the other person for a date, should pay. Gender doesn't matter. In a relationship, it should be split between the two. Women shouldn't expect for a man to pay for everything. And men should learn to accept when woman wants to pay. We don't look down on you, or whatever. We like to treat our boyfriends too.
Exactly and it is not the old days anymore.
We ASEAN countries should unite and meanwhile east asians are fighting each other 😂😂😂 we are friendly people 😊 I am proud to be filipino and Indonesin 😊😊😊
How did you know we dislike one another?😢
So there’s no Sprinkle Sprinkle in Korea? 😂😅
조회수 추천수 다른 영상들 보다 떨어 집니다 왜 그럴까요? 답은 영상에 나옴...
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Women says it is romantic if men pays on first or all date. BS.
Men!
My Puerto Rican father refuses to let me pay. He still buys me food, pays for my travel and every other thing that includes money. He carries my heavy backpack and won’t let me do anything in front of him. I won’t settle for anyone else. I’m not a gold digger. Papi just showed me how to seen as a woman. He does the same with my other 2 sisters.
Sorry, but to me that just sounds spoiled, high maintenance and dependent on a man.
My dad does same but I buy stuff for him back and get the bill behind his back too lol 😅 my father is hispanic too and older generation so its understandable they are like this. It was very prominent during their youth I guess
@@anabanana8137I think this is a generational difference. But I agree, like my dad does this too but I in no way expect this from guys of my generation or forward. Its not fair, as times have changed.
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I hope this helps
Well why wouldnt they!? Bm are the most desired males with the least to offer right?!🥴
The woman should always pay
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Enjoy being single.
@@rewghob projecting much?
@@ghhhggrtes-rx1gx you must be the one projecting because you sound _very_ single. 😂😂😂 (I’m married, btw, before you try to say I’m also projecting.)