How Do Koreans Start Dating?

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  • Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
  • Today I asked people, "How do Koreans usually start dating?" and "What does 'something' mean in Korea?"
    I hope you guys enjoy it!
    ✅Interviewee’s UA-cam channel:
    / @heochungnamkimgongju8789
    ✅Follow on my Instagram!
    / its_jinkwon
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    00:00 Intro
    01:11 Q1. How do you usually start a relationship?
    04:55 Q2-1. What does "Something" mean in Korea?
    06:10 Q2-2. What's the best duration for "Something"?
    07:27 Q2-3. Physical touch in "Something"?
    08:28 Q3. How to make Korean gf/bf?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 107

  • @ultrcttine
    @ultrcttine Рік тому +33

    That man in cap have a good mindset in relationship. Hope he finds good partner in the future

  • @Marsh_125
    @Marsh_125 Рік тому +39

    That couple who make UA-cam videos seem like really lovely people. All of the people you interviewed in this video do actually.

  • @Cavalobos
    @Cavalobos Рік тому +34

    You subtitlte the videos in both languagues, for those learning Korean you are heaven sent! Subscribed!

  • @reizalopez126
    @reizalopez126 Рік тому +60

    Good advice from the guy with the cap, he is right.
    Your interviews are amazing, you start with a question not so complicate, rather simple, and you build up from there to more elaborate questions, bring it out honest answer from the people that you interview, it is not so easy to do it

  • @PBDCTN
    @PBDCTN Рік тому +55

    The teacher said it all right at the end: “there’s no difference “
    Thank you Jin we get to understand and know more about Korea 🙏🏼😊

    • @moshiacid6673
      @moshiacid6673 Рік тому +2

      Well people do miss a hundred shots that they dont take. (on a side note, in the English language, we finish our sentences with a period!)

  • @iraguzzardo1788
    @iraguzzardo1788 Рік тому +17

    Love your interviews, I really get a good picture about differences.. and I love how they all prefer meeting naturally.. Tinder seems to be not their first choice ..

  • @minafultravels
    @minafultravels Рік тому +15

    Yes 👏🏻 treat foreigners like how you would date korean women 👏🏻 I love that guy’s answer. 그는 EQ가 높습니다

  • @jumbojet999
    @jumbojet999 Рік тому +14

    Recently discovered this channel and ever since have been enjoying ur content! Greetings from Ukraine! 🇺🇦

  • @arzuhatunoglu
    @arzuhatunoglu Рік тому +7

    It was a fun shoot. It is important that relationships begin with trust and intimacy. It was nice to see that we are in similar cultures. People you don't know can message you via your social media account and their approach is sometimes good but often annoying. Shares will increase when this is seen as a matter of personal attitude completely independent of country and culture. Mutual love, respect goodwill and a self-sacrificing life will change the process of relationships.

  • @CricketfanEnglish
    @CricketfanEnglish Рік тому +49

    Really those girls are 16 😮

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes Рік тому +23

      they dress like 30 lol

    • @yojumba
      @yojumba Рік тому +10

      My reaction too 😅

    • @lightwithin5581
      @lightwithin5581 Рік тому +17

      Probably 14 or 15 in international age. This is why I struggle being a teacher at a Korean middle school. Half the times I can’t tell the difference between the students and the teachers. The kids dress so nice and are so tall these days 😅

    • @louisthompson5781
      @louisthompson5781 Рік тому +6

      Thinking what EVERYONE was thinking 🤣

    • @Arasaka107
      @Arasaka107 Рік тому +7

      In asia the youth in majority still dress properly and not crazy for attention seeking.
      Something I admire about asian culture.

  • @anashobby41
    @anashobby41 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for all videos, each of them are interesting on their own way! Bring it out honest answer from ordinary people is good to hear and also it is good to know what we could expect if we are there! Carry on!!! Hakju has the best explanations and answers... "We are all humans after all..." Best wishes for braking those stereotypes... 화이팅!!! 💪🥰

  • @martaaos2892
    @martaaos2892 Рік тому +4

    I loved the answers of Hakju! The boy with the cap 😊

  • @durlekaganeshkumar8972
    @durlekaganeshkumar8972 Рік тому +5

    I wish I could have a conversation with the boy with the cap🥺❤ He seems very mature and wise

  • @J14Irish
    @J14Irish Рік тому +3

    Another great video!

  • @RockingMarshall
    @RockingMarshall Рік тому +3

    Very informal video!! Good to know how they do it. 😃😃😃

  • @franklynLP
    @franklynLP Рік тому +5

    Hakju is sooo cool! Love his attitude!

  • @itsnygeria
    @itsnygeria Рік тому

    thank you hakju, i really appreciate his advice at the end! let's break stereotypes & preconceived notions that we all hold towards one another!! 👏🏾

  • @pmatthew74
    @pmatthew74 Рік тому +6

    The UA-cam couple are really cool.

  • @ttheway2life157
    @ttheway2life157 Рік тому +4

    The guy with the girlfriend with the green jacket, has a naturally Korean tv voice. lol deep. I dont even understand him but wow.

  • @share2098
    @share2098 Рік тому +5

    I have watched every Korean serial on mx player, and I'm fall in with Korean specially with their smiles ❤️❤️❤️ and I'm learning Korean language.

  • @getmeouttahere3595
    @getmeouttahere3595 6 місяців тому

    The couple with orange hair are lowkey cute. It seems like they respect each other a lot

  • @user-vs1no7ku4r
    @user-vs1no7ku4r Місяць тому

    8:35 Street club(Dance and drink) is the worst place to meet a serious one. It's mostly for one night stand. Guys will approach to you with impure purpose especially if you are a foreigner.
    1. If you stay in korea for a long time, go to hobby clubs in universities and make friends. Date and relationship is a long game so starting as a friend first is the best shot.
    2. Language exchange meetup is a good choice too. You don't have to be an undergraduate. Learning languages is a good pretext and the possibility of meet a decent guy is quite high because he is already interested in your culture.
    3. Be a hunter yourself, approach to a guy. You can find a decent one in a library, gym, basketball court, cafe, bookstore, restaurant, park, any workplace. Just avoid the club areas such as hongdae, itaewon, gangnam.
    I say it again, Never expect the right one in clubs.

  • @4Wolf
    @4Wolf Рік тому +4

    와, 정말 멋지네요. 여기 있는 모든 사람들이 인도네시아의 자연미를 볼 수 있기를 바랍니다. 제가 모든 친구들에게 인사를 전합니다.

  • @jejudo3000
    @jejudo3000 Рік тому +8

    Ohhh Korea my Korea 🇰🇷

  • @2o2k78
    @2o2k78 Рік тому

    They are all so polite and nice 😊👍

  • @topcoreiadosul
    @topcoreiadosul Рік тому +5

    Vc sempre mostra as diferentes culturas na Coreia. É sempre muito simpático. Espero que seu canal cresça muito. E a aparência muito jovem kk

  • @---oj1zj
    @---oj1zj Рік тому

    For Al.

  • @luc_theriault
    @luc_theriault Рік тому +6

    5:08 the girl with the white mask is so beautiful

  • @MarcoSimple1Videos
    @MarcoSimple1Videos Рік тому +1

    interesting video, but i have a question, what is this club where the people go ? clubs are like disco where people dance ? a bar ? thanks for the info

  • @zatorio4883
    @zatorio4883 Рік тому +1

    good vid

  • @elangbam3115
    @elangbam3115 Рік тому +2

    I feel "something" for the guy wearing black jacket in the middle

  • @dreaaanazariooo
    @dreaaanazariooo Рік тому

    Now.. I'll be looking forward to having a guy-chingu in Korea once I visit. And I'll be observing these things they said. 😊✨ #excited!

  • @infamousshorts
    @infamousshorts Рік тому

    Early 🙂

  • @SHKoh-wo9cy
    @SHKoh-wo9cy Рік тому +1

    HEY JIN ! I WANT TO be on your video ㅎㅎ

  • @AsterYTMusic
    @AsterYTMusic Рік тому +16

    How about some dating tips for foreigners? Or maybe some differences between dating in Korea and in the west, if there are any.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 Рік тому +7

      I would be interested in that topic as well. I am going to visit Korea next year for about 3 months. Mainly for language studies and my hopes that I might get involved in dating are not the highest. But as a single, I would be still curious to know about the differences in case some dating opportunities might arise. If not it is fine. But knowledge is still power. it is good to know what to do in case some chances might arise.

    • @AsterYTMusic
      @AsterYTMusic Рік тому +4

      @@puma0085 You never know :) Good luck and fingers crossed

    • @lasvegasnevada7514
      @lasvegasnevada7514 Рік тому +1

      Not much of a difference but Koreans aren’t very direct. It’s hard to tell if they’re playing hard to get or taking their silence via text/messages as a rejection. I’m a lesbian and I’ve met atleast 5 lesbian/bisexual women in Korea via dating app and tinder, pretty easy but it’ll be challenging for heterosexual. As for men to meet both foreigner and Korean women, this is challenging. I find it easy for women to meet men just for fun but not for a serious relationship.

    • @user-xj5ig9yy2v
      @user-xj5ig9yy2v Рік тому +5

      dont use dating apps, tinders, etc.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 Рік тому

      @@AsterYTMusic Thanks :).

  • @ZeroTubeTV
    @ZeroTubeTV Рік тому

    Hi Jin, where is this Seoul sign located at? I will be traveling to Seoul soon and would love to check it out :)

  • @SakaniEdu
    @SakaniEdu Рік тому +4

    Lemme just get some notes off of this video real quick boi

  • @abigailinkorea
    @abigailinkorea Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Jin. That was really refreshing. I've been feeling a bit down lately because as a foreigner I've found it very tough to date in Korea. My coworker even told me that most Koreans won't really set up foreigners on blind dates unless that person plans to stay in Korea forever, since blind dates tend to be for very serious, marriage-in-mind relationships. I often feel like I'm not considered an option, just "the mysterious foreign woman". The guy in the made me feel better when he said he wants to break that stereotype. Much respect. I hope I can meet more people like him next year.

  • @bearlblack4865
    @bearlblack4865 Рік тому

    🌸🌸🌸

  • @mariahcolby3559
    @mariahcolby3559 Рік тому +3

    The guy with the hat: I'm single.
    Me: I volunteer as tribute!
    **immediately moves to korea**

  • @sab0024
    @sab0024 Рік тому +4

    They calling something a.k.a fwb. It’s very interesting how thy look at that.

    • @reizalopez126
      @reizalopez126 Рік тому +1

      Right?, makes you think different about it

  • @malihamasfi6771
    @malihamasfi6771 Рік тому +1

    Hi

  • @user-qb4ke6gm5b
    @user-qb4ke6gm5b Рік тому +1

    Nice im single😳

  • @Luisancastilho
    @Luisancastilho Рік тому +3

    As a Brazilian it's so crazy to see the culture differences. Here, we are a lot more affectionate so you could kiss (a propper kiss) or have sex on the first date and, although having sex on the first date might seem bad due to sexism, it could also be seen as normal. It's very common to have "something" with people (at times, with a lot of them at the same time hahaha since you're not in a serious relationship) and it can last years. For us being in a serious relationship means that you will meet the family and will make official for everyone. Other than that we are very casual people.

  • @tildoss1810
    @tildoss1810 Рік тому +1

    What are "blind dates" ? I struggle to understand, like you go on a date with someone random, that you don't know ?

  • @za9469
    @za9469 Рік тому +1

    8:37 that's not what Ed Sheeran said

  • @ToadyWoods
    @ToadyWoods Рік тому +3

    South Koreans creating constant Konglish just creates more confusion when they use English. I wonder.

  • @seetosim9043
    @seetosim9043 Рік тому +3

    어떤 채널에서 한국남자들 쓰레기가 많다는 인터뷰 내용을 본적이 있는데 대부분 만남이 클럽이나 틴더 같은 앱에서 만났다고 하더군요 클럽이나 채팅앱은 원나잇을 노리는 남성들이 다수 이고 그런 질 안좋은 남성들은 외국여성에 대해 성적으로 오픈 마인드라는 잘못된 성의식을 많이 가지고 있습니다 만나기 힘들더라도 클럽이나 앱으로 만난 남성을 한국남자라고 호도 안했으면 좋겠네요

  • @hannahdarwish9831
    @hannahdarwish9831 7 місяців тому

    how are the 16 yro girls in middle school?!

  • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
    @BulletPointFitnessPodcast Рік тому +11

    It's a shame. Here in the UK a lot of women would be the exact opposite. They would say if you were both friends first that would be a reason NOT to date someone. Alot of the dating "rules" here in the west are all backwards. Nice to see in Korea, there's a lot that is still the right way around 👍
    (Making me want to move out there as people seem a lot more sensible)

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 Рік тому +1

      its a very homogenous society though so yea…go at your own risk (Lots of work hours etc…)

    • @chrystianaw8256
      @chrystianaw8256 Рік тому

      I hate Western dating too

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast Рік тому

      @@memrman8331 hmmmm what do you mean by this? Homogeneous is an eclectic word to use to describe society 🤔

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 Рік тому +2

      @@BulletPointFitnessPodcast everyone is forced to be the same by society

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast Рік тому

      @@memrman8331 ooh right. Sinister

  • @Btssarangeo
    @Btssarangeo Рік тому

    India students no love relationship because Indian parent's realy very stirct

  • @____-ij5md
    @____-ij5md Рік тому +1

    I like girl on the right(from screen) I wanna ask her number :)

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust Рік тому

      16 girl?

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md Рік тому

      @@Hihellojust I mean i am 20, still can wait two more years haha

    • @christianh1106
      @christianh1106 Рік тому +2

      @@____-ij5md My guy looking for that investment 😂

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md Рік тому

      @@christianh1106 but afraid this invertment value is gonna go down......

  • @user-yc5mv4jy1j
    @user-yc5mv4jy1j Рік тому +2

    중국은 코로나

  • @glowwithzeal
    @glowwithzeal Рік тому

    I agree with that peck thing ✨

  • @reemahusaini638
    @reemahusaini638 Рік тому +2

    Do Korean people accept muslim as a idol??

  • @suvithak6166
    @suvithak6166 Рік тому

    Nice interview. According to me sometimes dating is unsafe for womes. I would say it's very bad culture.

  • @wnals3896
    @wnals3896 Рік тому +2

    16살맞어? ㅋㅋ 26살같이입었네 옷을

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust Рік тому

      요즘 애들 다 저렇게 입는데ㅋㅋ시대에 뒤쳐지시네요

  • @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp
    @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp Рік тому +1

    oh really like koreans mind wow

  • @tam-tampuka8125
    @tam-tampuka8125 Рік тому +12

    I’m screwed, I’m so introvert 😅😢

    • @Xiao_Fei73
      @Xiao_Fei73 Рік тому +6

      Then you will find someone who is extrovert as partner 😃 Opposite attract 😉

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes Рік тому +1

      use it to your advantage

    • @mohamedhamza3039
      @mohamedhamza3039 Рік тому

      Me too 😮‍💨

    • @stettiner2238
      @stettiner2238 Рік тому +1

      They are mostly introverts too.

  • @ToadyWoods
    @ToadyWoods Рік тому +2

    8:10 she says 외국인 but you write “Western” … this is very South Korean of you. And why does she say “foreigner”? Having an open mind about how to proceed in a relationship is very “foreigner.” This is also very typical of South Koreans. Hmm.

  • @charismatic9467
    @charismatic9467 Рік тому +2

    Why tf are they weariing cloth masks outside lmfao?

    • @yamkelamajikela1915
      @yamkelamajikela1915 Рік тому +1

      it has something to do with their air , it's filled with a lot of dust particles that can affect your lungs etc .

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 Рік тому +1

      @@yamkelamajikela1915 Then why are only a few of them wearing them?

    • @rosechoi7415
      @rosechoi7415 Рік тому

      @@charismatic9467 not everyone gives an f

    • @luci4087
      @luci4087 Рік тому

      because they want too. it could be because of dust, pollution, health issues, privacy, personal comfort, etc.

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 Рік тому +1

      @@luci4087 So no good reason, ok got it

  • @turkorean5852
    @turkorean5852 Рік тому +1

    여기 나온 조선인들 인물 너무들 못났다

  • @diptanudebnath8555
    @diptanudebnath8555 Рік тому

    THANKS JIN

  • @selectedsound.
    @selectedsound. Рік тому +2

    Muito maneiro seu canal!!!
    O conheci através do Via Infinda.
    Me inscrevi no seu canal.
    Sucesso!!

  • @bernie5951
    @bernie5951 Рік тому +1

    The content of videos is ok but that masks on girls faces are really annoying you can't see how they look

    • @sgtmian
      @sgtmian Рік тому +1

      that’s not the point of the videos, they’re interviews, you’re here to hear them speak about experiences, not look at their faces. maybe they don’t want their whole faces on the internet anyway.

  • @naturalharmonia1014
    @naturalharmonia1014 Рік тому +1

    Your questions and people's answers are really creative. Earned subs 🤍