How Do Koreans Start Dating?

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  • @ultrcttine
    @ultrcttine 2 роки тому +38

    That man in cap have a good mindset in relationship. Hope he finds good partner in the future

  • @Cavalobos
    @Cavalobos 2 роки тому +38

    You subtitlte the videos in both languagues, for those learning Korean you are heaven sent! Subscribed!

  • @Marsh_125
    @Marsh_125 2 роки тому +39

    That couple who make UA-cam videos seem like really lovely people. All of the people you interviewed in this video do actually.

  • @reizalopez126
    @reizalopez126 2 роки тому +62

    Good advice from the guy with the cap, he is right.
    Your interviews are amazing, you start with a question not so complicate, rather simple, and you build up from there to more elaborate questions, bring it out honest answer from the people that you interview, it is not so easy to do it

  • @anashobby41
    @anashobby41 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for all videos, each of them are interesting on their own way! Bring it out honest answer from ordinary people is good to hear and also it is good to know what we could expect if we are there! Carry on!!! Hakju has the best explanations and answers... "We are all humans after all..." Best wishes for braking those stereotypes... 화이팅!!! 💪🥰

  • @iraguzzardo1788
    @iraguzzardo1788 2 роки тому +17

    Love your interviews, I really get a good picture about differences.. and I love how they all prefer meeting naturally.. Tinder seems to be not their first choice ..

  • @PBDCTN
    @PBDCTN 2 роки тому +55

    The teacher said it all right at the end: “there’s no difference “
    Thank you Jin we get to understand and know more about Korea 🙏🏼😊

    • @moshiacid6673
      @moshiacid6673 2 роки тому +2

      Well people do miss a hundred shots that they dont take. (on a side note, in the English language, we finish our sentences with a period!)

  • @arzuhatunoglu
    @arzuhatunoglu 2 роки тому +8

    It was a fun shoot. It is important that relationships begin with trust and intimacy. It was nice to see that we are in similar cultures. People you don't know can message you via your social media account and their approach is sometimes good but often annoying. Shares will increase when this is seen as a matter of personal attitude completely independent of country and culture. Mutual love, respect goodwill and a self-sacrificing life will change the process of relationships.

  • @martaaos2892
    @martaaos2892 2 роки тому +4

    I loved the answers of Hakju! The boy with the cap 😊

  • @jumbojet999
    @jumbojet999 2 роки тому +15

    Recently discovered this channel and ever since have been enjoying ur content! Greetings from Ukraine! 🇺🇦

  • @minafultravels
    @minafultravels 2 роки тому +17

    Yes 👏🏻 treat foreigners like how you would date korean women 👏🏻 I love that guy’s answer. 그는 EQ가 높습니다

  • @판탈라사
    @판탈라사 8 місяців тому +1

    8:35 Street club(Dance and drink) is the worst place to meet a serious one. It's mostly for one night stand. Guys will approach to you with impure purpose especially if you are a foreigner.
    1. If you stay in korea for a long time, go to hobby clubs in universities and make friends. Date and relationship is a long game so starting as a friend first is the best shot.
    2. Language exchange meetup is a good choice too. You don't have to be an undergraduate. Learning languages is a good pretext and the possibility of meet a decent guy is quite high because he is already interested in your culture.
    3. Be a hunter yourself, approach to a guy. You can find a decent one in a library, gym, basketball court, cafe, bookstore, restaurant, park, any workplace. Just avoid the club areas such as hongdae, itaewon, gangnam.
    I say it again, Never expect the right one in clubs.

  • @J14Irish
    @J14Irish 2 роки тому +3

    Another great video!

  • @franklynLP
    @franklynLP 2 роки тому +5

    Hakju is sooo cool! Love his attitude!

  • @durlekaganeshkumar8972
    @durlekaganeshkumar8972 2 роки тому +7

    I wish I could have a conversation with the boy with the cap🥺❤ He seems very mature and wise

  • @RockingMarshall
    @RockingMarshall 2 роки тому +3

    Very informal video!! Good to know how they do it. 😃😃😃

  • @Telugu_Vlogs_Off
    @Telugu_Vlogs_Off 2 роки тому +48

    Really those girls are 16 😮

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes 2 роки тому +23

      they dress like 30 lol

    • @yojumba
      @yojumba 2 роки тому +10

      My reaction too 😅

    • @lightwithin5581
      @lightwithin5581 2 роки тому +17

      Probably 14 or 15 in international age. This is why I struggle being a teacher at a Korean middle school. Half the times I can’t tell the difference between the students and the teachers. The kids dress so nice and are so tall these days 😅

    • @louisthompson5781
      @louisthompson5781 2 роки тому +7

      Thinking what EVERYONE was thinking 🤣

    • @Arasaka107
      @Arasaka107 2 роки тому +7

      In asia the youth in majority still dress properly and not crazy for attention seeking.
      Something I admire about asian culture.

  • @pmatthew74
    @pmatthew74 2 роки тому +6

    The UA-cam couple are really cool.

  • @itsnygeria
    @itsnygeria Рік тому

    thank you hakju, i really appreciate his advice at the end! let's break stereotypes & preconceived notions that we all hold towards one another!! 👏🏾

  • @4Wolf
    @4Wolf 2 роки тому +4

    와, 정말 멋지네요. 여기 있는 모든 사람들이 인도네시아의 자연미를 볼 수 있기를 바랍니다. 제가 모든 친구들에게 인사를 전합니다.

  • @share2098
    @share2098 2 роки тому +5

    I have watched every Korean serial on mx player, and I'm fall in with Korean specially with their smiles ❤️❤️❤️ and I'm learning Korean language.

  • @ttheway2life157
    @ttheway2life157 2 роки тому +4

    The guy with the girlfriend with the green jacket, has a naturally Korean tv voice. lol deep. I dont even understand him but wow.

  • @luc_theriault
    @luc_theriault 2 роки тому +6

    5:08 the girl with the white mask is so beautiful

  • @jejuden3000
    @jejuden3000 2 роки тому +8

    Ohhh Korea my Korea 🇰🇷

  • @MarcoSimple1Videos
    @MarcoSimple1Videos 2 роки тому +1

    interesting video, but i have a question, what is this club where the people go ? clubs are like disco where people dance ? a bar ? thanks for the info

  • @AsterYTMusic
    @AsterYTMusic 2 роки тому +16

    How about some dating tips for foreigners? Or maybe some differences between dating in Korea and in the west, if there are any.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 2 роки тому +7

      I would be interested in that topic as well. I am going to visit Korea next year for about 3 months. Mainly for language studies and my hopes that I might get involved in dating are not the highest. But as a single, I would be still curious to know about the differences in case some dating opportunities might arise. If not it is fine. But knowledge is still power. it is good to know what to do in case some chances might arise.

    • @AsterYTMusic
      @AsterYTMusic 2 роки тому +4

      @@puma0085 You never know :) Good luck and fingers crossed

    • @lasvegasnevada7514
      @lasvegasnevada7514 2 роки тому +1

      Not much of a difference but Koreans aren’t very direct. It’s hard to tell if they’re playing hard to get or taking their silence via text/messages as a rejection. I’m a lesbian and I’ve met atleast 5 lesbian/bisexual women in Korea via dating app and tinder, pretty easy but it’ll be challenging for heterosexual. As for men to meet both foreigner and Korean women, this is challenging. I find it easy for women to meet men just for fun but not for a serious relationship.

    • @익명-q6x
      @익명-q6x 2 роки тому +5

      dont use dating apps, tinders, etc.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 2 роки тому

      @@AsterYTMusic Thanks :).

  • @topcoreiadosul
    @topcoreiadosul 2 роки тому +5

    Vc sempre mostra as diferentes culturas na Coreia. É sempre muito simpático. Espero que seu canal cresça muito. E a aparência muito jovem kk

  • @tildoss1810
    @tildoss1810 Рік тому +1

    What are "blind dates" ? I struggle to understand, like you go on a date with someone random, that you don't know ?

  • @2o2k78
    @2o2k78 2 роки тому

    They are all so polite and nice 😊👍

  • @getmeouttahere3595
    @getmeouttahere3595 Рік тому

    The couple with orange hair are lowkey cute. It seems like they respect each other a lot

  • @---oj1zj
    @---oj1zj 2 роки тому

    For Al.

  • @mandy18573
    @mandy18573 4 місяці тому

    the guy in the cap has real standards and he reminds me soo much of the very famous c-drama actor yang yang!! hahahah. he looks very similar to him and his alluring smile too. hahah.

  • @ZeroTubeTV
    @ZeroTubeTV 2 роки тому

    Hi Jin, where is this Seoul sign located at? I will be traveling to Seoul soon and would love to check it out :)

  • @dreaaanazariooo
    @dreaaanazariooo 2 роки тому

    Now.. I'll be looking forward to having a guy-chingu in Korea once I visit. And I'll be observing these things they said. 😊✨ #excited!

  • @elangbam3115
    @elangbam3115 2 роки тому +2

    I feel "something" for the guy wearing black jacket in the middle

  • @SakaniEdu
    @SakaniEdu 2 роки тому +4

    Lemme just get some notes off of this video real quick boi

  • @za9469
    @za9469 2 роки тому +1

    8:37 that's not what Ed Sheeran said

  • @zatorio4883
    @zatorio4883 2 роки тому +1

    good vid

  • @SHKoh-wo9cy
    @SHKoh-wo9cy 2 роки тому +1

    HEY JIN ! I WANT TO be on your video ㅎㅎ

  • @abigailinkorea
    @abigailinkorea 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Jin. That was really refreshing. I've been feeling a bit down lately because as a foreigner I've found it very tough to date in Korea. My coworker even told me that most Koreans won't really set up foreigners on blind dates unless that person plans to stay in Korea forever, since blind dates tend to be for very serious, marriage-in-mind relationships. I often feel like I'm not considered an option, just "the mysterious foreign woman". The guy in the made me feel better when he said he wants to break that stereotype. Much respect. I hope I can meet more people like him next year.

  • @mariahcolby3559
    @mariahcolby3559 2 роки тому +3

    The guy with the hat: I'm single.
    Me: I volunteer as tribute!
    **immediately moves to korea**

  • @hannahdarwish9831
    @hannahdarwish9831 Рік тому

    how are the 16 yro girls in middle school?!

  • @sab0024
    @sab0024 2 роки тому +4

    They calling something a.k.a fwb. It’s very interesting how thy look at that.

    • @reizalopez126
      @reizalopez126 2 роки тому +1

      Right?, makes you think different about it

  • @InfamousNAW
    @InfamousNAW 2 роки тому

    Early 🙂

  • @malihamasfi6771
    @malihamasfi6771 2 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @seetosim9043
    @seetosim9043 2 роки тому +3

    어떤 채널에서 한국남자들 쓰레기가 많다는 인터뷰 내용을 본적이 있는데 대부분 만남이 클럽이나 틴더 같은 앱에서 만났다고 하더군요 클럽이나 채팅앱은 원나잇을 노리는 남성들이 다수 이고 그런 질 안좋은 남성들은 외국여성에 대해 성적으로 오픈 마인드라는 잘못된 성의식을 많이 가지고 있습니다 만나기 힘들더라도 클럽이나 앱으로 만난 남성을 한국남자라고 호도 안했으면 좋겠네요

  • @mandy18573
    @mandy18573 4 місяці тому

    and european women are very educated n successfull in their own lifes- we ALWAYS offer to pay the bills half n half in a restaurant. but most men are offended by it and feel rejected hehe. okay but i dont wanna owe anything to a stranger. some guys have that weird thinking. like hey i paid for your food or your cocktail - so you owe me xxxx. or some bs. in my last relationship long term we switched bills. sometimes i paid, sometimes he did. perfect. or he pays the dinner to keep his honor - later on i might pay for the cinema tickets or some.

  • @bearlblack4865
    @bearlblack4865 2 роки тому

    🌸🌸🌸

  • @이하나-m2h
    @이하나-m2h 2 роки тому +1

    Nice im single😳

  • @Luisancastilho
    @Luisancastilho 2 роки тому +3

    As a Brazilian it's so crazy to see the culture differences. Here, we are a lot more affectionate so you could kiss (a propper kiss) or have sex on the first date and, although having sex on the first date might seem bad due to sexism, it could also be seen as normal. It's very common to have "something" with people (at times, with a lot of them at the same time hahaha since you're not in a serious relationship) and it can last years. For us being in a serious relationship means that you will meet the family and will make official for everyone. Other than that we are very casual people.

  • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
    @BulletPointFitnessPodcast 2 роки тому +11

    It's a shame. Here in the UK a lot of women would be the exact opposite. They would say if you were both friends first that would be a reason NOT to date someone. Alot of the dating "rules" here in the west are all backwards. Nice to see in Korea, there's a lot that is still the right way around 👍
    (Making me want to move out there as people seem a lot more sensible)

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 2 роки тому +1

      its a very homogenous society though so yea…go at your own risk (Lots of work hours etc…)

    • @chrystianaw8256
      @chrystianaw8256 2 роки тому

      I hate Western dating too

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast 2 роки тому

      @@memrman8331 hmmmm what do you mean by this? Homogeneous is an eclectic word to use to describe society 🤔

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 2 роки тому +2

      @@BulletPointFitnessPodcast everyone is forced to be the same by society

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast 2 роки тому

      @@memrman8331 ooh right. Sinister

  • @reemahusaini638
    @reemahusaini638 2 роки тому +2

    Do Korean people accept muslim as a idol??

  • @김은우-b8t
    @김은우-b8t 2 роки тому +2

    중국은 코로나

  • @Btssarangeo
    @Btssarangeo 2 роки тому

    India students no love relationship because Indian parent's realy very stirct

  • @____-ij5md
    @____-ij5md 2 роки тому +1

    I like girl on the right(from screen) I wanna ask her number :)

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust 2 роки тому

      16 girl?

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md 2 роки тому

      @@Hihellojust I mean i am 20, still can wait two more years haha

    • @christianh1106
      @christianh1106 2 роки тому +2

      @@____-ij5md My guy looking for that investment 😂

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md 2 роки тому

      @@christianh1106 but afraid this invertment value is gonna go down......

  • @charismatic9467
    @charismatic9467 2 роки тому +2

    Why tf are they weariing cloth masks outside lmfao?

    • @yamkelamajikela1915
      @yamkelamajikela1915 2 роки тому +1

      it has something to do with their air , it's filled with a lot of dust particles that can affect your lungs etc .

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 2 роки тому +1

      @@yamkelamajikela1915 Then why are only a few of them wearing them?

    • @rosechoi7415
      @rosechoi7415 2 роки тому

      @@charismatic9467 not everyone gives an f

    • @luci4087
      @luci4087 2 роки тому

      because they want too. it could be because of dust, pollution, health issues, privacy, personal comfort, etc.

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 2 роки тому +1

      @@luci4087 So no good reason, ok got it

  • @glowwithzeal
    @glowwithzeal 2 роки тому

    I agree with that peck thing ✨

  • @wnals3896
    @wnals3896 2 роки тому +2

    16살맞어? ㅋㅋ 26살같이입었네 옷을

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust 2 роки тому

      요즘 애들 다 저렇게 입는데ㅋㅋ시대에 뒤쳐지시네요

  • @tam-tampuka8125
    @tam-tampuka8125 2 роки тому +12

    I’m screwed, I’m so introvert 😅😢

    • @Xiao_Fei73
      @Xiao_Fei73 2 роки тому +6

      Then you will find someone who is extrovert as partner 😃 Opposite attract 😉

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes 2 роки тому +1

      use it to your advantage

    • @mohamedhamza3039
      @mohamedhamza3039 2 роки тому

      Me too 😮‍💨

    • @stettiner2238
      @stettiner2238 2 роки тому +1

      They are mostly introverts too.

  • @suvithak6166
    @suvithak6166 2 роки тому

    Nice interview. According to me sometimes dating is unsafe for womes. I would say it's very bad culture.

  • @turkorean5852
    @turkorean5852 2 роки тому +1

    여기 나온 조선인들 인물 너무들 못났다

  • @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp
    @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp 2 роки тому +1

    oh really like koreans mind wow

  • @selectedsound.
    @selectedsound. 2 роки тому +2

    Muito maneiro seu canal!!!
    O conheci através do Via Infinda.
    Me inscrevi no seu canal.
    Sucesso!!

  • @diptanudebnath8555
    @diptanudebnath8555 2 роки тому

    THANKS JIN

  • @bernie5951
    @bernie5951 2 роки тому +1

    The content of videos is ok but that masks on girls faces are really annoying you can't see how they look

    • @sgtmian
      @sgtmian 2 роки тому +1

      that’s not the point of the videos, they’re interviews, you’re here to hear them speak about experiences, not look at their faces. maybe they don’t want their whole faces on the internet anyway.

  • @naturalharmonia1014
    @naturalharmonia1014 2 роки тому +1

    Your questions and people's answers are really creative. Earned subs 🤍