I feel like tiktok is not talked about enough due to how many people are addicted to it and how many people will just immediately dismiss anything you say about it. Tiktok is a horrible place and it's getting worse and worse every year. Worst thing is tiktok knows so much about us but it also has a monster of an algorithm which no social media's can even come close to competing with. If you are reading this get of tiktok right now and never come back, delete the app. Don't even open links to tiktok your friends may send you
Bro I have a cousin that watches tiktok regularly. I constantly tell him to stop scrolling and just do something but he never listens. His whole fam does the exact same as well. I completely agree with you
@@Eboarsenal thing about UA-cam is you are not bombarded with as many short-form videos overloading your brain with thousands of pieces of information a minute. you're more in control
This was really moving. I deleted tik tok,insta, and snap a couple months ago and this was a nice reminder to keep going. I’m a girl and have literally been questioning if there’s something wrong with me because I don’t feel that hookups are normal. I don’t feel safe around the young men around me, they have no strong morals, discipline, and are overall being emasculated and treating woman worse and worse. Since I’ve deleted the app, I’ve naturally gained so many hobbies, become more connected with nature, my family, and spirituality. I really hope this generation starts realizing how fucked up our culture is becoming. Thank you for sharing these unique perspectives. Nice editing btw👍🏽
Good luck creature, In our world Men with strong connection with their male soul, their male virtues, with a pure and intense Shakit (Discipline, concentration, Creativity,Determination,Mental Power,Hope) With a healthy Libido and a well Developed genius (Morals and values) are extremely rare girl, life is fuck Trust my when I say that 80% of men are garbage, good men are inside the 20% along with assholes, Many men here say it's full of good man just wanting a chance to have a good woman but that's a lie, most people are bad people, Good humans beings are 10% at maximum the world is crazy, then good luck lady. Your speeches give me the understanding that you are moving towards spiritual success, with a lot of self-love, self-esteem and a whore of a genius ... But beware the higher we are the higher the fall, I was once a spectacular man but today I am a failure. A wise man gave me a warning and I ignored him and now I'm reaking the consequences ... The warning was : "kill your mind before it actually kills you" after your mind kills you it can be quite tricky to gain control back i was a little arrogant i must say.
Deleted social media, stopped consuming short videos, going back to school, looking for a job. I came to these things myself but my views are becoming more solid the more I listen to you. Thank you.
I’m a teacher at a public high school in the US. I wish there was the school appropriate version of this. I want my students to watch this. I send all your videos to my son though who is 19. Keep up the good work.
@@themindnoter I agree but I do feel that there is something more hooking about a stranger talking about a subject than someone that you listen to every single day (ish) to a schoolkid. Just an observation
I once saw a TikTok-themed birthday cake for a seven-year-old child. I got frightened and understood that something really fucked up is going on with our society. The worst part is that no one seems to give a shit.
As a 14 year old kid from romania, im happy that my mother told me to uninstall tiktok 2 years ago. I am super grateful that she put a stop for me from watching tiktok
The saddest thing to me is that there is an overwhelming number of people who are fully aware of these problems arising with social media apps like Tik Tok but because there are sadly so many people who are that desperate to have some need of attention or acceptance in some way, they will willingly turn away from it all.
I am a woman (21) and have deleted tok tok, Instagram and Facebook since the beginning of this year and only use WhatsApp and messages to speak with people. When I tell you how lonely it felt in the beginning… it was nuts. I felt less lonely with waking up to a bunch of videos, tik toks, memes, etc. sent to me from friends. But then it all stopped. One year later I’m so much happier. I talk to people and feel more confident and feel like I’m actually using my time wisely. One really important thing was also hearing stories, celebrations and goals reached from people. If someone had a baby I heard it from them, I can have a genuine reaction. Not just say “aw that’s cute” and move on scrolling mindlessly. People are losing the ability to show and feel emotion, speak to eachother normally. Everyone either depressed, anxious, or extremely sensitive. It’s sickening because the truth is that we have become an ashamed society hiding under a confident title of freedom. But freedom doesn’t mean screwing everyone, it doesn’t mean doing whatever you want without consequences. I think freedom is a choice to do the right thing for you and the people you love (which I hope is also yourself).
I did the same thing and immediately felt relief. I deleted everything and then realized how much time I had, and how much time I had wasted. Once that revelation wore off I started naturally being interested in more traditional ways of life and thinking. Instead of dancing on TikTok, I want to learn how to garden. I want to learn how to sew, cook, bake. I have UA-cam so that I can learn and listen to the news. Instead of drinking until 5am I’m waking up at 5am. It’s almost like with social media, my life was blurry. Now I’m learning who I really am at age 20.
Age 23. Just deleted Tiktok, Facebook, Instagram and Reddit a few hours before finding this video. I noticed how much time it takes from me, how my mental health started deteriorating the last few months, and that my attention span and ability to concentrate reduced tremendously. Now I legit have withdrawals. I'm baffled how addicted people can get to these platforms (and social media as a whole). I want more free time, and a meaningful at that. I want to learn crocheting, want to start reading novels again, to draw and paint for entertainment again. This gonna be a doozie to adjust living without these platforms and shake off the addiction that I unknowingly acquired lately, but I feel like it's worth it and I'm full of hope.
I think you should be able to screw whoever you want. It isn't your business when it comes to other people's sex life. Glad you found happiness, but other people find happiness through sex.
as a 19yo woman I always though I was missing out on those sexual activities because all of my friends hooked up with so many guys but I was always scared yk, but this video made me realize, that im not missing out on anything and now I feel so much better not doing the same things as my firends. (sorry for my english)
I have adhd and I watched through this whole video without skipping or reading comments. What you’re saying is important and explains alot of the social issues we have today. Well done.
True feminism is realising that the promotion of sex work etc., is not actually empowering. It is actually making it worse for everyone. Worse for women. Harder for men, and people to form genuine relationships and self-worth. It's so dangerous, and so many people who try and speak up about this get cancelled or ignored.
Feminism is destroying the west there’s a reason feminism was outlawed everywhere in the world including the west up until recently. Every nation that ever practiced feminism or sexual freedom has perished in a horrible way. U wonder why adultery is prohibited in very single religion?
I’ve been trying to get my friends to understand there is no Power sleeping with whoever you want. At the end of the day if a man doesn’t get any from you he will find it elsewhere.
Tiktok ruined this world Too much weird content In first tiktok was a good app for entertaiment and now 💀💀💀 Its not because of the creator Its because of the [USERS] 90% of my friends in school watch this app and get corrupted not like old times. Now im an introvert because 95% kids outside my house is a kid that likes to swears and said sus things Going outside in my Country (Indonesia) now very dangerous And now what i want is to keep tiktok alive so [THEY] can do it again again and AGAIN, cause i want to see them stay corrupted like that idk why (Maybe because of my soul) Its useless even if tiktok banned, "Snack Video" content almost same tho I never downloaded tiktok or use it entire my life I only see the content a bit and its making me 💀💀💀 Weird Dancing and my friend do that too like they dont know what is copyright And tiktok make all my friends swears and now they swears everyday like there is nothing wrong with their words
Its saddening, tiktok made almost every other platform adopt some form of their short videos. UA-cam has shorts instagram has reels, even platforms like facebook have adopted it. 6:26
Im so grateful to have learned how bad tiktok and all this degradation shit is early on in life (im 13) because I go to school and see everybody on tiktok and talking about porn and it makes me sad. I just hope this self improvement is spread to more of the youth in these western countries.
As a 12 year old I had realized that tiktok was ruining my life and holding me back from my potential and after I deleted it I had improved big time in my focus, study, and confidence
I never got Tiktok because I thought it was only dances are stuff which is cringe af, but then my friends told me it's more then just dancing so I was planning to get the app and now that I look at this video I find out they were wrong, it's still cringe so I'm not getting it
As a daughter of a single mother, I completely agree how valuable a father figure is. I hate how the West glamorises being a single mother, it’s literally the last thing I could wish for any woman or child. I have honestly had to put in so much work and healing to make sure I do not get mislead. It effects your self esteem soo much. It has previously made me more in my “masculine energy” as I did not grow up with a stable father figure to rely on and therefore became hyper independent. And then this creates a generational cycle as if you do not brake this pattern you can only attract a weak/ unavailable man.
You are exactly spot on. Parents need to open their eyes WIDER an acknowledge what's going on. Children aren't growing up the same as bk in the day! Children aren't children anymore sadly 😔
I rarely leave comments on UA-cam but I want to thank you Hamza for what your doing. I'm a man (26) and I've been addicted to gaming and in poor mental health for most of my life. I still haven't had sex with a woman, and for the longest time that has been a huge source of shame. The sexual trauma I've had, along with a gaming and porn addiction, have left me fucked up mentally for most of my life. Last year, for a variety of reasons, I finally followed my dream and enlisted in the U.S Army. After completing training and working out consistently at the gym now for about 3-4 months I feel infinitely better, and you've helped me realize the importance of studying and learning again. I've been reading David Goggin's books and will start The Way of the Superior Man when it arrives. Thank you brother for doing so much for us. I never got advice like this from my father or older brothers, and I've lived my life for too long as a soft and timid man afraid of what other random people think of me. Just know that some of us do still choose to stand for the greater good. I look up to the Greatest Generation and will do my best to carry the torch of freedom they passed. Wish you all the best.
I just randomly came across your video. All I can say is, as a woman, I'm so grateful that people like you exist and are talking about how modern s*xual "freedom", rampant use of alcohol, isn't about empowerment at all, but eventual destruction of a person's self esteem, identity and principles, woman or man.
I think that the reason why he said that he was going to get cancelled or whatever bc he was prolly afraid that he didn’t outline the difference betweeen actual positive sexual freedom (while being also having the freedom to limit yourself) and actual degeneracy so yeah, I see what you mean
@@S12359 "Freedom" doesn't mean doing whatever the hell you want to do. Some people are taking it too literally. Most if not all people who have indulged in alcohol, casual sex, without any limits, have ended up depressed and devastated.
I agree, most people nowadays both men and women, really don't understand this. Good to see people who do, especially from my country. Bhalo theko or in other words have a nice day.
I am glad I was not born in the TikTok/short-form content era. I've talked to many teachers and they absolutely despise TikTok. It ruins people's attention spans to the point where they can only focus for less than 30 seconds(around the same length as a TikTok). It is significantly more damaging for young kids in middle school and younger as their brains are still in the most critical part of development.
Oh, don't be fooled, UA-cam does the same thing. We find ourselves watching 5, 10, 20 videos covering the same topic. We just have a longer attention span. It's still playing on the dopamine response.
@@AviationPilot91 I completely agree, that being said, I find that TikTok has other issues as well. Tiktok feeds people corrupting content unasked for while on youtube you must be either looking for this content or have previously looked at it. This is horrible with the number of children on the platform as it essentially creates young-age addictions that will haunt these kids for the rest of their lives. I may be wrong about this, but I belive there is less moderation on TikTok as well when it comes to age-restricting content.
I used to have tiktok since i was probably 8-9. At the time it was musically and i wasnt that addicted to it. However once it became tik tok the videos completely changed from innocent lip sync videos to content that kept you scrolling for hours. The algorithim had kept me hooked and i would easily spend hours of my day on it. I wasnt particularly happy in fact i felt terrible it was such a bad addiction and it felt horrible to have. This year i made the decison to delete tik tok and i havent looked back since, its the best desicion I've made and its made me realise that it was incredibly bad for my mental health.
ever since 2021 i stoped posting tiktoks and stuff and ive seen my life improve by so much. also i think there is a very aching issue in the western countries about these social media forums and sh** like that. Thank you Hamza for creating this vid as it has helped me be more aware of these s*** people are indulging to. Bc when I use to scroll through tiktok i was just addicted and i felt insecure and like a failiure. May God bless you on this message youre tryna broadcast to the world
I strongly agree with you but there are many companies who is making clones of tik tok and they all destroying our youth. Like fu** #*ng Instagram reels.
Not many people have noticed this but two days ago I realized how TikTok plays with your mind. TikTok knows exacly what its users want, and how their minds work (they have all the data), but still they dont show them what they want all the time because they know how your mind works, they know what content to show you and show it in a way that they could easily manipulate your mind, then they can controll your actions, and influence in your life. So be careful, it can be worse than you think.
It makes me cringe so much when Mfers at school talk about tiktok and social media. And even though I'm only in high school I overhear shit about hooking up and it's disgusting. You've really changed my life for the better Hamza and I'm glad I never went down that path.
I used to be one of the propagandists for TikTok, I told people it wasn’t that bad who told me to stop, told people that it’s just how it is when people told me it isn’t normal. Thank you for bringing me into the light.
Hamza is literally saving an entire generation. I've been on the self improvement journey for the last 110 days and because of Hamza i was able to do it with Discipline. I've lost 20kgs of fat and gained muscle. I started reading books that Hamza recommended and now i have a feminine girl in my life. Thank you Hamza for saving me from a mediocre life. We all are gonna make it brahs 💪
As a girl, I 100% agree. As women, you are pushed into degeneracy, into sleeping around, into constantly being and looking sexual. They make tinder highly addictive, it’s the same as tiktok in the way that you’re waiting to get the good person/video. Sleeping around makes you unable to stay the moment anything gets hard in a relationship. And with almost all men addicted to porn we women just end up trying so hard to live up to what they watch. Before my now boyfriend (who I plan to marry) I was manipulated into sleeping with one man before. And honestly it’s damaging to your mind and body. My advice to young girls is to be highly selective about sex, do not freely sleep around when you and your partner are under developed. Wait for your 20s, trust me if you don’t respect each other fully it is NOT empowering.
I agree with your message but I place more blame on the women who just force their body down our throats for views. If you read a lot of the comments you’ll realise most men actually just don’t find that appealing, it’s just cringeyv
@@Ricardo-ur5os Its women but more so the algorithm. Its everyone's fault if they choose to be on the app but once you invest your time in the app's corrupt algorithm, it changes the way you think about yourself, changes your ideas and your goals. It homogenizes everyone and everyone on the app comes out with the same jokes and same ideals and not one single original thought. Its not the women directly forcing their bodies its the algorithm manipulating them to think that the attention they are getting from the app is good. And its the algorithm promoting those same videos onto other's for you pages.
@@Ricardo-ur5os Sure you can blame any one more or less and that’s your experience. I can only speak from my own. All we can do, now that we can see clearly this problem, is no longer contribute. If every one of us lives and enacts the change we want to see we will get a better future. Men will have a different opinion than women, then there will so many nuances of viewpoints within one sex, there’s probably no one ‘right’ way to agree on it, let’s just be the best we can now.
@@torib3928 I would agree that it’s no one persons, or one sexes fault. These apps are doing it on purpose to all of us. We have to make the change individually.
@@Ricardo-ur5os Its not our fault. Women are constantly sexualized by men, even little girls. Every single day. So some women try to make money with it. Whats wrong about that
That's great, but be aware that China has most of your information. Maybe you can make a new e-mail just to make profit from tiktok and use vpn. I just want to help 🙃
As a 13 year old boy, I can say that its so hard to distance yourself from the internet because all your friends think your just being stupid and idiotic. The influences around you force you to use social media otherwise your not worthy of their attention and or your not cool to them. My generation of teenagers are glued to their screens and social media, its just shit.
Dude I agree, I'm 14 now and like 90% of my friends have tiktok and unfortunately I've downloaded it before, and then deleting within days because of what stuff I was seeing and how much time I was spending on the app. I also thing that yt shorts is copying this idea, but it's clearly not as addictive.
It's not just teenagers, even 10 - 12 year olds are glued to their screens. And I don't know what place you living in if your friends think your being stupid, and idiotic for distancing yourself from the internet. In all of my years of living, I've never seen a place where you're not worthy of attention, and your not cool to people for not using social media.
The most annoying thing about TikTok is that it’s merged with every other platform, even if you don’t wanna see TikTok content, you’re gonna see it anyway.
To be fair if you follow the right pages on places like Instagram it's usually either cringe videos that are posted to be made fun of or the 1% of actual good/funny content that does come from TikTok.
Dude Hamza I'm 14 and I have been watching so many of your videos I'm so grateful for coming across this side of UA-cam you are rebuilding and fixing my life
You are actually saving a whole generation of young men. You will have saved countless inventors, entrepreneurs and hard working men whom might have been lost to TikTok if you were not here.
@@sauceduptim I care about my friends by letting them make their own decisions and travel their own journey. The fact that you think that you know better is a hugely disrespectful thing towards them and the life they have lived. But that is just my opinion, and im a random guy on the internet so do what feels right for you man.
I've talked with my friends about TikTok, some of them don't even have it, and I could see that because they have a bigger attention span, study harder... I've deleted TikTok and Snapchat literally 15 minutes ago. Thank you Hamza for opening my eyes.❤️
watching this as a muslim woman is a relief. i’m glad there are men out there who understand the reward and importance of sexual discipline. and i think you are far from misogynistic for highlighting the shortcomings of women; it’s true. we all learn it the hard way.
@@nathanielobeh7710because they’re at constant war with one another. Africa is a very divided nation unfortunately and it’s so crazy to think about cause they could potentially be more powerful if they United and put their differences aside
Although, I'm only 15yrs old, your every single point hit me. Even if I understand the dangerous strategy of TikTok , my beloved friends and family members won't😢
Hamza I really need to thank you man. You’ve made me change my life. Im 15 currently and when I was 14 I always went on my phone whenever I woke up and played games for hours and hours in my room and not doing anything with my social life or business life. Ever since I’ve found you I’ve woken up. Ate breakfast brush my teeth fill my 2.2L of water jug and go workout for hours and hours and then after I study and study and then I go socialise or take a walk. Then later I read a book for an hour and socialise I just really need to thank you how much you’ve changed me. Thank you so much! Your a king 👑 Update: Fri-26-5-2023. I have now started a car washing business and I’m making around £700 a day from washing cars. From luxury cars to ur every day one you see on the streets. I’m still really thankful for all the ones that supported me! I can now buy my family things and pay the bills for them and I’m just really thankful for everyone ❤❤❤❤
Dude, this really opened my eyes this actually makes so much sense thx bro this made me look at things in another way how things that seem so harmless that can actually destroy life's, I appreciate your videos and I respect you
I think TikTok is such a scary thing that people don’t talk about. Literally a year ago I was in one the shittiest periods of my life. I was pretty much nocturnal, I was missing so many lectures, my self image was shit and I was depressed af. There were other reasons why of course, but deleting my socials (TikTok, snap, twitter, insta, etc) was probably one of the best things I did. I was able to reset and properly allocate my time effectively. I started taking actual pictures of my self instead of with this filters that made me feel like shit whether I took them off. I started doing stuff I’d procrastinated for agesssss. My pride in myself started coming back, and I literally fell in love with myself.
I’m back on my socials currently, but after knowing what’s it’s like to completely delete them, I’ve learned to be so much more boundaried and disciplined. I only use Snapchat to message people and then close the app. I use TikTok to find fitness, food and art inspiration and ideas and I literally have a 15minute timer on my phone, so if I’m on TikTok for more than 15minutes in one day, it automatically locks the app and kicks me out. I don’t really use Twitter, I just see the stuff my boyfriend sends me. I probably use Instagram the most, but purely to post my art/poetry and network with other artists.
Finally, the anti-tiktok video that paints the entire picture. Especially the last segment has hit me hard. I've been living in Ukraine for 11 years. And I'm simply so thankful that a lot of our people haven't yet fallen to the degenerate pit of vomit, that is western postmodernism. More people should see this, but I'm afraid there are not many who will actually listen, and do something, they've just lost all will. The average will power has fallen to such dark depts, it's almost impossible to see the bright shining light it emits. Speaking of Sun Tzu, The Art of War should be studied much more deeply by everyone. I've found such a large amount of lines that can be applied almost to every situation in life, and bring you victory, yet everyone has become so lazy... it's truly frightening...
After this video, Hamza just became my first idol... he has the guts to say all of that and I appreciate this so hard. Love 24:35 when he warns about self-improvement since I've been meeting this whole community like some months ago after a shitty heartbreak... As a Brazilian I do feel anxious as fuck not just because currently I'm in the most anxious nation in the world but because people here are so fucking dumb and ignorant all the time. Listen to me, South America is very manipuilated by itself and I might not know so much about my neighbors but here we're all like a bunch of mfs addicted to funk or soocer stuff (it isn't just a stereotype), making cheesy dances on tiktok with songs as crap as those Hamza mentioned for the Usa.. So I was already pretty paranoic before and after watching some videos like this one, I get to understand and accept that being like this is actually the best thing to do during these times. Thank you Hamza, for all of the effort you put on these deep videos, hope everything get well someda... now, I have dreams to achieve
i'm a woman, 20, and have deleted tiktok after watching this video. i haven't been using it a lot anyways but what i wanted to address is that you're obviously speaking about the majority of these issues whereas i live in a quite huge city where everything is the opposite. men sleep around and women have to stay virgin, that's when my girls keep losing their temper as to how "unfairly" they're being treated (like an object in that case) and if you had even only slept with one guy you're already below anyone. here, girlpower is everything. because i grew up without a dad - not bc he was an social media addict or had tiktok but bc he failed as a dad - and i have no other choice but to teach everything myself and do the chores a man should be doing. i raise my brothers child because he's also incapable of being a father. my single mom raised both me and my brother and on top of that my brothers child. there are thousands of woman like me out there who have nothing else left but to encourage themselves and turn 10000% independent or else you're going to get run over by life. independence is what helped me survive my toughest days. i have no male friends or male relatives to rely on, i'm in this with me and my mom only. and that can happen to anyone at any time.. it is important that women still learn that they can't be dependent on a man solely because of how this society is. because a woman with a past like mine will always worry that the other partner might eventually leave one day, so rather than having unrealistic fantasies that we're meant for each other, it's better that i'm prepared to be single for the rest of my life so i won't end up in the streets, drastically imagined and said. i agree with almost everything you said considering you talked about the majority. i believe everything will have its end if men start taking a grip onto themselves and make a step, so that women can take an example from them and do the same step forward to better themselves.
Stay strong. Being prepared to be single is a good thing, but also you want to take measures that will prevent being with a shit guy in the beginning, you might think that it's impossible to know if a guy is dependable or not, or if he'll leave one day; you'll find good guys anywhere but if you really want to up your chances, marry a Muslim guy, of course that doesn't mean every Muslim guy is better and more responsible than all other men but in Islam the man has a lot of duties that he HAS to fulfil if he gets married and has children (Our prophet PBUH says: All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects, the man is a guardian of his family, the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring), so most men getting married will be ready... as long as they don't use tiktok lol
Your mom was irresponsible to have children with that kind of man. And that man is a scumbag that won’t take responsibility for his actions either. The only person we really have control over is ourselves, so personal accountability is huge.
@@432HzPlug getting married in 1996 as an immigrant female, not knowing language or anyone in that country, what else was she supposed to do? tell him no i won't let you inpregnate me? you're aware what would've happened to her if she refused. you can not call my mom irresponsible if she was the one who fought for a perfect life for two children and my own dad not even turning up when she gave birth to us. i am doing completely fine without a dad as my mom never made me feel like i don't have one. she was doing both jobs as a mom and a dad.
(25 male) I had a bit of a tiktok addiction at the start of 2022, turned service off on my smartphone, switched to a flip phone for 3 months, it changed my life. Since then I've got in shape, started waking up early, spend the summer traveling europe while working (remote software engineer), bought a house, started a business, and focused on strengthening and building my relationships. I have essnetially become a different person, 2021 me died when I turned off my smartphone, the guy that was born from that desicion is something else and I'd rather die before going back to the early twenties version of myself. Just wish I had done it sooner.
Got a few questions, you say u turned of service and switched to a flip phone. But how u keep in contact with family, idk, collegues, friends ? Only through calling ? Or did you used ur laptop?
@@aleccsandra So I wont lie, communication takes a hit. But at the end of the day, the people that want to be a part of your life will make an effor to be a part of your life no matter what phone you have. I generally just called. When I went through with the flip phone idea lots of people thought it was cool but all of them made excuses, most of them were valid excuses. Going to a flip phone is not something thats convenenient, theres going to be a billion reasons not to do it, and lots of the reasons are good ones. At the end of the day though it boils down to you either do it or you dont, excuses/reasons be damned you just follow through. There are benefits an there are trade-offs, I have since switched back to a smartphone (as I said I believe they are useful tools) but I no longer have the habbit of staring at social media/tiktok for hours, heck I actually havent even bothered to install tiktok again. A flip phone is inconvenient and hard. But so is spending all day on tiktok, pornhub, etc...pick your hard.
Thank you man that's all i gotta say thank you for getting out and spelling facts that people still deneying or even still not aware of how dangerous and bad tik tok and it's content is
I’m 13 and I’m so glad I watched this entire video instead of watching some dank memes or some shit that I usually watch. I’m trying to start self improvement early and I have seen so much difference in my body and mind from a year ago. Somehow I had got porn addicted at like sixth grade. SIXTH GRADE. I can finally say I’ve quit that for sure and have stopped video games. I want to start early in the money section but it’s kinda hard as a kid. Though I am proud of my new mindset.
Exactly samee broo. Im also 13 and im on self improvement and I also had porn addiction at 5th/6th grade. Im waking up early, working out, taking clod showers, working on my music business what you can see on my channel. Im really happy cause I started it, if I havent seen the hamza tiktoks then I wouldnt even know where I should be right now. But yea, Its never, NEVER too late or early, to start self improvement. Gotta keep the grind
as a ex sw, and a woman that’s been “ran thru” i pretty much fully agree with this. i fell for the trap and i’m still pulling myself out. it’s a crazy psychological war fr….
This doesn't just apply to TikTok. It applies to all social media. TikTok may be the elephant in the room but there are still hippos and rhinos sitting next to it
disagree, nothing is as in your face and attention grappling as TikTok, it's the short videos that don't make you lose attention too fast, like this video did after about 2 minutes, I have been saying this about TT for years this guy made some decent points, but he missed the main nail on the head.
My younger cousins with that Snapchat one in particular. Sitting taking hundreds of pictures of yourself everyday and sending them to people you don’t even know. I picked a couple of them up from school a few weeks back and they stand out the front of the school beside people talking to them but not even looking at them because their heads are bent down looking at a phone. The social system has been entirely rewritten. I’d consider not looking at people you’re talking to to be rude but apparently to them it’s “weird” to not sit on a phone being a degenerate. I don’t even like associating with people my own age because it’s so incredibly boring, my best friend is literally a 43 year old guy who I go fishing with and have conversations about actual things. Masculine things, cars and such. Other than that it’s my Dad. Doing pretty much the same sorta stuff. A 23 year old being best friends with someone nearly exactly 20 years their senior😂😂. That’s how low society has fallen that people my own age bore me. My parents didn’t allow me to get a phone until I was 16 and I am very happy about that decision they took. I’ve had one girlfriend who I was with since I was 15 but she cheated on me so that was out the window. In particular finding “women” has become somewhat impossible because most of them have the mental age of a 15 year old. Stay away from people like that kings.
@@wokevirushandsanitzer5300 Yeah, I don't understand how people my age could sit there for half an hour taking pictures of the ceiling and sending it to random people, complete waste of time which has no reward at all.
It's really sad how my friends think I'm a looser for not having tik tok and they just want me to download it and when I say it's bad for them they just make a stupid ass comeback like "you're jealous I have 300 followers" cuz those people are just being sucked in by the algorithm and my friends are as well. One time I asked them to show me their screen time and it was 7 hours just TikTok. crazy...
The scary thing for me... I just recently discovered your channel about 4 days ago and have been watching a few of your videos each day, the scariest part for me is I've been saying and thinking a lot of what you've been talking about for years and people just laugh it off, call me crazy or misogynist etc... One of the mottos I live by, hope for the best, prepare for the worst. I let myself slip and got soft... No more, fuck that and fuck TikTok & the entire porn industry, also Twitch as well allowing and exploiting sexual conduct.
FINALLY someone else addresses it. I've been aware of this whole thing for a while due to my own research and information from my father figure, and having to see the consequences of social media addiction with my own eyes watching these pathetic Jeffreys. I'm so glad you're bringing real attention to this subject in your own captivating way.
Same I always see these addicts scrolling through tiktok on the bus or even while walking somewhere, like do you really need that dopamine? What’s wrong with thinking or just listening to music and looking at the views or something. It’s way too normalized in today’s society. Stay healthy bro 👊
@Seth 1234 to be honest with you, if you can't do much things now, going out with your friends would be the best thing, i used to play on pc a lot and i missed some good times
What a legendary quote this joe guy must be a genius from the beginning of history since the human dawn of time from the past decade of the big bang to the dinosaurs, homosapien and the age of the greek gods. LEGENDARY
The problem isn’t the single mother. Why aren’t those men staying around to raise, teach, & care for their children??!!! Those men choose to be incompetent, and give up on active fatherhood. Single moms would loveee for their children’s fathers to step up and carry the load. Stop blaming women for men’s actions. Other than thaaaat, I agree w/ you!
But who chose to mate with the incompetent man? Who chose to mate with the incompetent man OUTSIDE of marriage? Women need to have some accountability in this as well
This isn't about men versus women all of us are victims men and women are victims in different ways but were equally as fucked up by it. quit trying to figure out who's to blame work on yourself and try to help those around you
You are like a true messiah, I swear I thought about all this, and you say it out loud, you really know the truth, keep fighting for it even if you are in the minority, you are really right that people who think it is not true are the ones who are blind and need healing
This video has shook me. I’m 14 years old and deleted tiktok yesterday which is a small step. This opened my eyes to how messed up the worlds state is. I would not consider myself as someone who is lazy or doesn’t put in work for irl goals but this video is still insane
Don't look at deleting Tiktok as a small step. It's a huge step, as it could potentially lead you into a rabbit hole and be addictive and destroy your mental health. You dodged a bullet! The hard part is to keep it that way
the fact that lots of people around me (at school, etc.) cannot understand all of this, makes me so desperate... but as you said, the only solution is self-improvement. thank you a lot for this video. you are so smart, can you please make more videos about these kind of topics ?
Selin a Almost all of my friends dont understand this tho They said cringe to other people but they use tiktok and dont even know what cringe real meaning
I get dopamine from watching something educational, it’s a addiction for me wanting to learn and this is one reason why I love watching Hamza, Self-Improvement and Education
This is a very good video to talk about. Duing November I told myself I would delete TikTok for the month. I reinstalled it for a day to check videos that I was sent during my Thanksgiving break. I tried to scroll after watching them and I couldn't. Your brain has the ability to quit, it just takes time.
I grew up in a conservative Ethiopian Orthodox Christian home, in the hood. It was rough, I grew up with all the kids around me making fun of me for being a nerd, and was reading a lot, and not sleeping around at 15-16. However I started to workout around my teenage years, that combined with my conservative christian beliefs, and reading a lot, helped me soo much in life. It is true that the family builds a man.
Hamza, I can't thank you enough for opening my eyes to how disastrous an app can change the status of a family, relationship, and more importantly, society. I happened to realize that my friend circle is constantly surrounded by those that spend not half an hour or an hour on the app but rather 3-4 hours of mindless scrolling just to trigger an insane amount of dopamine, hoping to find the next video that they may send to a friend. I constantly tell those that I am close to that I am not on TikTok because I slowly became aware of a mass of people that deny they are addicted to a mobile app. As hard as it is to say, an addiction to cigarettes may lead to lung cancer, but social media addiction may lead to you losing control of the most valuable thing in your possession, your mind.
Wow “your mind” People don’t even understand how important our minds are it’s literally the only thing keeping us alive without your minds we can’t work we can’t eat we can’t anything I feel so trapped lately I’ve been telling my self I need to do something else I need to pick up this book I bought months ago and only read 3 pages I have the want to be better but I’m being slowed down and it’s fucked up it feels weird feels like I’ve been out of my body for years until now I feel like my mind is changing I’ve always been woke but i never truly felt it until recently
im 14 almost 15 and honestly this video opened my eyes more than i needed currently i am very sad and haven't felt very good lately and spend all m time in social media due to not wanting to talk to people distincing myself and to the point that I've gotten bored of tik tok itself since i know what type of videos my fyp gives i want to go back to my hobbies like crochet, read, workout, and many more things but since I'm too young to even go out and get a job be productive i feel useless therefore i feel like i cant move from the bad habits have i feel cornered i need some advice to keep on living and feel motivated everyday feels the same I'm constantly sad depressed anxious and even though ik i prob don't have those conditions it feel like i do which me me feel worse...
Bro i am 1 year o self improvement you dont need now to start o business or having money . Just do the habits that hamza told us gym meditation journaling ... Then learn as much as you can about money don't take an action yet we don't have the money .
I agree with almost everything said but putting the blame on single mothers as if men aren't responsible EVER didn't sit right with me. not every single mom chose to be single. if her husband cheats on her or leaves her than thats not her fault.
Yea it did kinda seem a bit biased. Women are not the only reason why a relationship/marriage doesn’t work. A woman could be 100% committed/faithful and completely unaware her husband has a double life the entire time
@@arkadia7422 exactly! its so biased. Women experience the same mistreatment and cheating! it's not women's fault all the time. And there's nothing wrong with being confident too. Remember your worth ladies. Also it's not that women "being confident and thinking they can do anything" are a reason for a man not to stay loyal! Disloyalty happens really often these days. And it has nothing to do with a woman being confident in her abilities and strenghts.
@@Odlotx Agreed! The TicTok analysis was en pointe. However, this video was biased and geared towards a male audience. What's more troubling is the comment above (supposedly by a female teacher) that wants to distribute this to her students. This vid is no better than the TicTok.
@@Orthosaur7532 question tho, how does an app destroy ur life? cuz i tried it for a day and i got recommended like sum mr beast wannabes and gives ppl kindness
@@kamisatoayatoes190he way TikTok is designed is just really bad for your dopamine. The fact that you have no idea what you’re going to see next is so hyper stimulating and it gets you addicted, almost like a gambling addiction in a way, where you’re trying to find the perfect TikTok. Plus so many of the TikToks are things that can destroy your general mental health like girls trying to fill you with lust, plus it always knows what you like to watch making it hard to escape, and it also decreases attention span. This applies to a lot of other social media platforms like UA-cam Shorts, Instagram, etc
bro i'm paranoid i'm not even willing to do anything bruh i was going to play video games and this video just popped up, but i'm glad i saw it, you are one of the best influencers i know, keep the great work
0:00 Jeffrey 0:27 Adonis 0:50 What TikTok is made for 2:02 Unpredictable Rewards 3:02 Skinner's Rat Box Experiment 4:27 You have no respect for yourself if you think like this 5:20 TikTok is much worse than you think 6:49 Social Credit system in China 7:36 TikTok in China is different from the west 9:08 How oversexualization can ruin a whole nation 18:16 How TikTok comes into play 19:40 Andrew Tate was right? 24:16 What you can do about it
@@pakistanichad8739 brother iam on self improvement i journal daily i go to the gym daily i study daily i meditate daily aswell this stuff was already on hamza's description what is your age brother?
Man i knew most of this but thank god nobody in my house hold ever allowed me to have tiktok and the paranoia you gave me wasn't given it was just boosted thanks for informing other people about this situation.
everything you just mentioned about girls literally also applies to guys, because as a girl i've noticed that guys can be as egocentric as the girls you just mentioned
Yeah especially the "study" about women being more unfaithful if having more partners. I'm interested to see the article about this and if they have made the same thing to men. If the article is true, i think it's the same thing for men too, no difference on the sex.
he never denied or downplayed that though, you're just getting personally offended from it, and it is not intended to be offensive, but merely an observation
@@ami_KT literally nobody is getting offended, i'm only highlighting the fact that everything he says can also apply to guys considering the video is merely about girls
Thanks, Hamza I've actually deleted TikTok recently and it's given me so many positive effects. Such as more energy, waking up and sleeping earlier, I haven't fapped ever since because I haven't seen any tits or ass right in front of my face which is the majority in TikTok. So I have to thank you Hamza, you've been teaching me so much important information, and facts that I need to accept as a man, and I've been ever-improving.
I downloaded the app a while ago (back when I was unemployed) just to see what all the fuss was about. After 2 weeks I checked my app usage time and it showed an average of 4 hours per day. I could also feel that I couldn't even focus on making job applications for more than 5 minutes at a time which really scared me so I just deleted it and have never picked it up again. Then youtube shorts came long and I had the same thing so I force myself to never scroll on shorts. If there's a short I want to watch I will watch only that one and then come out of it otherwise it just becomes like TikTok. I'm a fully functioning adult with goals and ambitions, I can't imagine how a responsibility-less child would react with all this stuff.
I have many times over here the story of children being affected because they grew up without a father. I was raised by my grandmother and let me tell you that nobody could’ve ever raised me as well as she did . The problem isn’t about the absence of a father , it’s about the absence of teaching of values , responsibility and strictness . That is what true parenting is about .
one case doesnt make it the norm. You got lucky with a great grandmother. The average individual needs a two parent family for the simplest reason is that having two people giving support and perspectives is better than one. His point still stands. But good for you and great work from your grandmother
I feel like these last few months the world around me has been terrifying. I am starting to see the world as it is and it is honestly petrifying. All the issues are starting to click, and I am a victim to all the problems. I don't know how to get out and I don't know how, all I know is that this is scary and I can't stand being a part of it.
Move to the country where life is more like it was 20 years ago i.e. no uber, bolt, deliveroo etc Also there is more sense of a community and support in the country rather than the dog eat dog hustle and bustle life in the city
Try to do things that make you happy, for me it's cycling, crafts, cooking, reading and making music. Build up passions and spend less time on the Internet if you can
You’re gonna spiral if you continue to believe there’s nothing you can do about it. You first need to change your perspective and understand you’re not a victim. A victim to what exactly? You’re really only creating problems that aren’t even there when you start to fixate on the shit you can’t control. You have control over a lot. Your mind, the food you put into your body, the music and entertainment you expose yourself, the books you read, and so much more of course. Take power back in your life and understand your time and energy are more valuable than money.
@@Lunalla I feel like I used "victim" incorrectly, It is more of me just realizing that I have been a part of the modern problem with men, and that I followed the norms that have been destroying the population of strong men. It is a work in progress and I feel like I have started to improve on what I can control.
Woah i deleted tik tok maybe two weeks ago along w IG and just started back in the gym. Brain fog is gon and depression feels like it left my body. As a women, at 22, one of the guys i dated put me onto Kevin samuels and he changed my life. This is a huge problem. I’m glad i got out of this matrix and I’m just so focused on self improvement and becoming a better woman who is worthy of a great nuclear family. I never cared more about wanting a family more than now. Thank you this channel is golden and more women need to be subscribing. Thank you to all the men spreading this information.
Brother, first of all resbect I really appreciate it and im glad this video wasn't removed im little late on your chanel it's been out since a month I just now saw this video Hamdallah im a muslim inshallah your fath in Islam grows and I hope you convert not back to Islam but you truly convert to Islam when u where younger you where muslim in name but not truly now you are slowly going in the right direction inshallah you be strong in heart to Allah and be a true beliver. I download tik tok lideraly yesterday I will delite it rn ty I will do woke out rn thx for everything I totally agree I kinda knew all that but I really needed that speech or like message in my face so I actually realis it better witch this video gave me. Cya man Inshallah everything's goes to the Better.
honestly i didnt really get addicted to tiktok i use to go on it for about 20-30 minutes about 1-2 times a month and barely thought about it but after wathching this video and hearing what you had to say its really opened my eyes and now i genuinely am worried about what will happen. thank you again hamza for the eye openers
13 years ago as a teenager I regularly used to go to EDL marches to march against and fight Muslims. I was an unhappy youth with no job prospects or future and the blame was put on to them. Them for invading and taking all our jobs. Yet as I got older I realised it was because their culture supports each other and is more inter connected. Ours is atomised and disconected. Therefore every skill Ive got I had to learn it myself. Im an HGV driver and 29. Ive got my shit together now and a long term girlfriend. But not one friend! If one of my children does not want to be a HGV driver. To what friend do I send them to be mentored by? At this point in time, just as hard core Christianity overcame the deprevaty of the Romans. Islam will overcome the depreverity of the West. My hate for Islam all these years was wrong. I fought for the wrong side and I could not be more apologetic.
Wow bro what a powerful turnaround. I hope you can study more about ISLAM. I always said people are hating on ISLAM because of the media propaganda. And the day the people pf the west understand ISLAM they will come to it in droves. I admire your ability to see thru the façade of the west. Keep fighting for truth.
i don’t agree with the family being destroyed by sexual degeneracy. What i do agree with is the attention of young people being taken away, and having young brains prone to addiction. I am a 14 year old girl and i quit tik tok about a year ago. even though i may not be up to date with trends and memes i feel like life is more enjoyable without the constant stress and distractions that tik tok causes. It was hard to quit but eventually with finding hobbies and things to work twists irl i was able to enjoy life more fully. NOT ONLY YOUNG MEN ARE AFFECTED. we need to start seeing this issue in all points of view.
@@dj-ru6rx because women should not be put into a box and be blamed for men’s suffering. this video made me feel like it wasn’t talking to me because i’m a woman. Many things used to be considered sexual and therefore shunned, but i think men just need to be more respectful and learn how to not let sex control their perception of a woman’s worth.
@@sckz5320 i think we’re all quick to protect men and jump on the “it’s not the woman’s fault” but they DO have some role in the failure of this country. women are addicted to sexual praise, and men are addicted to giving it.
@@sckz5320 women exploit themselves online and call it “confidence” and then hate when they get objectified. women AND men are addicted to nudity and sex. that’s why our country fails. it’s not about prosperity it’s about desires.
I think what you just said about women, the more they sleep around before marriage, the less likely they will stay faithful with their partners. It also applies to men. The problem nowadays is that the internet connects people and you get so many options here and there, so people tend to not settle easily, both men and women.
yep both need to understand this topic it's not about quantity it's all about quality if we try to understand each other character by watching their behavior rather than sleeping with her/him it would be a game changer for the future child or you can say the whole world cause not majority is bad
@@sahriarjihan220 absolutely. You should not sleep with someone easily, unless you really enjoy him/her emotionally and physically. In fact, sleeping around without a in depth connection can be consuming for both women and men. I encourage dating & meeting people as much as possible before marriage (without unnecessary sexual contacts), it will give you experience to read people.
It is a problem for both its worse for women , women suffer more than men when it comes to consequences of sleeping around but by extension a lot of good men also suffer because supply chain has been disrupted and we all are going to suffer.
It is way more detrimental to women. Having too much sexual activity before marriage means higher likelihood of kids out of wedlock, single mothers, absent fathers, and the cycle continues…
I feel like tiktok is not talked about enough due to how many people are addicted to it and how many people will just immediately dismiss anything you say about it. Tiktok is a horrible place and it's getting worse and worse every year. Worst thing is tiktok knows so much about us but it also has a monster of an algorithm which no social media's can even come close to competing with. If you are reading this get of tiktok right now and never come back, delete the app. Don't even open links to tiktok your friends may send you
preach
Agreed
Bro I have a cousin that watches tiktok regularly. I constantly tell him to stop scrolling and just do something but he never listens. His whole fam does the exact same as well. I completely agree with you
brah im from india uhm its banned here
@@axsh904 good for you
The worst thing about TikTok is how addictive it can be, yet people refuse to admit that they're addicted. The first sign of addiction is denial🤷🏾♂
I deleted it just now.
@@kinwiggler5489 w
Same with UA-cam
@@Eboarsenal thing about UA-cam is you are not bombarded with as many short-form videos overloading your brain with thousands of pieces of information a minute. you're more in control
@@nathanieltesfaye7506 D e n i a l
This was really moving. I deleted tik tok,insta, and snap a couple months ago and this was a nice reminder to keep going. I’m a girl and have literally been questioning if there’s something wrong with me because I don’t feel that hookups are normal. I don’t feel safe around the young men around me, they have no strong morals, discipline, and are overall being emasculated and treating woman worse and worse. Since I’ve deleted the app, I’ve naturally gained so many hobbies, become more connected with nature, my family, and spirituality. I really hope this generation starts realizing how fucked up our culture is becoming. Thank you for sharing these unique perspectives. Nice editing btw👍🏽
Good luck creature, In our world Men with strong connection with their male soul, their male virtues, with a pure and intense Shakit
(Discipline, concentration, Creativity,Determination,Mental Power,Hope)
With a healthy Libido and a well Developed genius
(Morals and values)
are extremely rare girl, life is fuck
Trust my when I say that 80% of men are garbage, good men are inside the 20% along with assholes, Many men here say it's full of good man just wanting a chance to have a good woman but that's a lie, most people are bad people, Good humans beings are 10% at maximum the world is crazy, then good luck lady.
Your speeches give me the understanding that you are moving towards spiritual success, with a lot of self-love, self-esteem and a whore of a genius ... But beware the higher we are the higher the fall, I was once a spectacular man but today I am a failure.
A wise man gave me a warning and I ignored him and now I'm reaking the consequences ... The warning was : "kill your mind before it actually kills you"
after your mind kills you it can be quite tricky to gain control back i was a little arrogant i must say.
Read more about Islam. May Allah guide you & us to the right path!
woww truly impressive you would watch hamza as a woman(no sexism intended)
Ur gut feeling was right. Good on you
Find the right guy
Deleted social media, stopped consuming short videos, going back to school, looking for a job. I came to these things myself but my views are becoming more solid the more I listen to you. Thank you.
W decision
I’m a teacher at a public high school in the US. I wish there was the school appropriate version of this. I want my students to watch this. I send all your videos to my son though who is 19. Keep up the good work.
I suggest you make the school appropriate version yourself! We want pioneers in this day and age especially in academia :)
@@themindnoter I agree but I do feel that there is something more hooking about a stranger talking about a subject than someone that you listen to every single day (ish) to a schoolkid. Just an observation
Honestly if they're in highschool they should be able to watch it
@@themindnoter I want to do that! I found articles and other sources and I’m putting it together. 👍
@@corinneoliver9198 Amazing!
I once saw a TikTok-themed birthday cake for a seven-year-old child. I got frightened and understood that something really fucked up is going on with our society. The worst part is that no one seems to give a shit.
You sell weed to middle school children, stfu
nobody gives a shit because nobody knows what’s happening
That's what I never understand, people seem as if they don't even care or know
The cake thing is not new around here. Tiktok has taken over.
A cake? Not a big deal
As a 14 year old kid from romania, im happy that my mother told me to uninstall tiktok 2 years ago. I am super grateful that she put a stop for me from watching tiktok
The saddest thing to me is that there is an overwhelming number of people who are fully aware of these problems arising with social media apps like Tik Tok but because there are sadly so many people who are that desperate to have some need of attention or acceptance in some way, they will willingly turn away from it all.
Please UA-cam don't ban this brave man who has seen through the algorithms and has the courage to reveal the truth.
I just hope they don't ban me! 🙏🏾
Amine ya rebb 3alamin
He’s taking attention off other platforms which is good for business on youtube
Amen my bro
He kind of plays on the same dopamine response with his videos but...I get it.
I am a woman (21) and have deleted tok tok, Instagram and Facebook since the beginning of this year and only use WhatsApp and messages to speak with people. When I tell you how lonely it felt in the beginning… it was nuts. I felt less lonely with waking up to a bunch of videos, tik toks, memes, etc. sent to me from friends. But then it all stopped.
One year later I’m so much happier. I talk to people and feel more confident and feel like I’m actually using my time wisely. One really important thing was also hearing stories, celebrations and goals reached from people. If someone had a baby I heard it from them, I can have a genuine reaction. Not just say “aw that’s cute” and move on scrolling mindlessly.
People are losing the ability to show and feel emotion, speak to eachother normally. Everyone either depressed, anxious, or extremely sensitive. It’s sickening because the truth is that we have become an ashamed society hiding under a confident title of freedom. But freedom doesn’t mean screwing everyone, it doesn’t mean doing whatever you want without consequences. I think freedom is a choice to do the right thing for you and the people you love (which I hope is also yourself).
I did the same thing and immediately felt relief. I deleted everything and then realized how much time I had, and how much time I had wasted. Once that revelation wore off I started naturally being interested in more traditional ways of life and thinking. Instead of dancing on TikTok, I want to learn how to garden. I want to learn how to sew, cook, bake. I have UA-cam so that I can learn and listen to the news. Instead of drinking until 5am I’m waking up at 5am. It’s almost like with social media, my life was blurry. Now I’m learning who I really am at age 20.
Age 23. Just deleted Tiktok, Facebook, Instagram and Reddit a few hours before finding this video. I noticed how much time it takes from me, how my mental health started deteriorating the last few months, and that my attention span and ability to concentrate reduced tremendously. Now I legit have withdrawals. I'm baffled how addicted people can get to these platforms (and social media as a whole). I want more free time, and a meaningful at that. I want to learn crocheting, want to start reading novels again, to draw and paint for entertainment again.
This gonna be a doozie to adjust living without these platforms and shake off the addiction that I unknowingly acquired lately, but I feel like it's worth it and I'm full of hope.
Seems like 1 day people like us just wake up from reality and say what the f*ck are we doing. The rest don’t seem to understand..
I think you should be able to screw whoever you want. It isn't your business when it comes to other people's sex life. Glad you found happiness, but other people find happiness through sex.
W people
as a 19yo woman I always though I was missing out on those sexual activities because all of my friends hooked up with so many guys but I was always scared yk, but this video made me realize, that im not missing out on anything and now I feel so much better not doing the same things as my firends. (sorry for my english)
Your a smart woman and they are hoes. You know your worth, keep it. When you all get older they’ll be used up and useless while you thrive
Thats why they try to seperate people so much they make us fight about genders races politics etc so we dont unite to end this attack on humanity
The most powerful weapon developed in China😂
I have adhd and I watched through this whole video without skipping or reading comments. What you’re saying is important and explains alot of the social issues we have today. Well done.
same
ADHD dont exist it's victiming yourself.
@@editnator.sure buddy
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Same
True feminism is realising that the promotion of sex work etc., is not actually empowering. It is actually making it worse for everyone. Worse for women. Harder for men, and people to form genuine relationships and self-worth. It's so dangerous, and so many people who try and speak up about this get cancelled or ignored.
Spot on
Feminism is destroying the west there’s a reason feminism was outlawed everywhere in the world including the west up until recently. Every nation that ever practiced feminism or sexual freedom has perished in a horrible way. U wonder why adultery is prohibited in very single religion?
I’ve been trying to get my friends to understand there is no Power sleeping with whoever you want. At the end of the day if a man doesn’t get any from you he will find it elsewhere.
100% agree
Tiktok ruined this world
Too much weird content
In first tiktok was a good app for entertaiment and now 💀💀💀
Its not because of the creator
Its because of the [USERS]
90% of my friends in school watch this app and get corrupted not like old times.
Now im an introvert because 95% kids outside my house is a kid that likes to swears and said sus things
Going outside in my Country (Indonesia) now very dangerous
And now what i want is to keep tiktok alive so [THEY] can do it again again and AGAIN, cause i want to see them stay corrupted like that idk why (Maybe because of my soul)
Its useless even if tiktok banned, "Snack Video" content almost same tho
I never downloaded tiktok or use it entire my life
I only see the content a bit and its making me 💀💀💀
Weird Dancing and my friend do that too like they dont know what is copyright
And tiktok make all my friends swears and now they swears everyday like there is nothing wrong with their words
Its saddening, tiktok made almost every other platform adopt some form of their short videos. UA-cam has shorts instagram has reels, even platforms like facebook have adopted it. 6:26
Im so grateful to have learned how bad tiktok and all this degradation shit is early on in life (im 13) because I go to school and see everybody on tiktok and talking about porn and it makes me sad. I just hope this self improvement is spread to more of the youth in these western countries.
As a 12 year old I had realized that tiktok was ruining my life and holding me back from my potential and after I deleted it I had improved big time in my focus, study, and confidence
Ur on the right track bud
same bro
Respect!
I never got Tiktok because I thought it was only dances are stuff which is cringe af, but then my friends told me it's more then just dancing so I was planning to get the app and now that I look at this video I find out they were wrong, it's still cringe so I'm not getting it
Thank god I deleted tik tok as well
As a daughter of a single mother, I completely agree how valuable a father figure is. I hate how the West glamorises being a single mother, it’s literally the last thing I could wish for any woman or child. I have honestly had to put in so much work and healing to make sure I do not get mislead. It effects your self esteem soo much. It has previously made me more in my “masculine energy” as I did not grow up with a stable father figure to rely on and therefore became hyper independent. And then this creates a generational cycle as if you do not brake this pattern you can only attract a weak/ unavailable man.
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Girl your name is literally Anastasia! You are destined to be an alpha female, rise and become her!
Anastasia zelim zenu poput tebe
@Tom Muggeridge I know I agree. And I’m saying she should rise to become the Divine Feminine!
You are exactly spot on. Parents need to open their eyes WIDER an acknowledge what's going on. Children aren't growing up the same as bk in the day! Children aren't children anymore sadly 😔
Yep😞
I rarely leave comments on UA-cam but I want to thank you Hamza for what your doing. I'm a man (26) and I've been addicted to gaming and in poor mental health for most of my life. I still haven't had sex with a woman, and for the longest time that has been a huge source of shame. The sexual trauma I've had, along with a gaming and porn addiction, have left me fucked up mentally for most of my life. Last year, for a variety of reasons, I finally followed my dream and enlisted in the U.S Army. After completing training and working out consistently at the gym now for about 3-4 months I feel infinitely better, and you've helped me realize the importance of studying and learning again.
I've been reading David Goggin's books and will start The Way of the Superior Man when it arrives. Thank you brother for doing so much for us. I never got advice like this from my father or older brothers, and I've lived my life for too long as a soft and timid man afraid of what other random people think of me.
Just know that some of us do still choose to stand for the greater good. I look up to the Greatest Generation and will do my best to carry the torch of freedom they passed.
Wish you all the best.
I just randomly came across your video. All I can say is, as a woman, I'm so grateful that people like you exist and are talking about how modern s*xual "freedom", rampant use of alcohol, isn't about empowerment at all, but eventual destruction of a person's self esteem, identity and principles, woman or man.
right
I think that the reason why he said that he was going to get cancelled or whatever bc he was prolly afraid that he didn’t outline the difference betweeen actual positive sexual freedom (while being also having the freedom to limit yourself) and actual degeneracy so yeah, I see what you mean
@@S12359 "Freedom" doesn't mean doing whatever the hell you want to do. Some people are taking it too literally. Most if not all people who have indulged in alcohol, casual sex, without any limits, have ended up depressed and devastated.
I agree, most people nowadays both men and women, really don't understand this. Good to see people who do, especially from my country.
Bhalo theko or in other words have a nice day.
@@CA_786 Apnio bhalo thakben.
I am glad I was not born in the TikTok/short-form content era. I've talked to many teachers and they absolutely despise TikTok. It ruins people's attention spans to the point where they can only focus for less than 30 seconds(around the same length as a TikTok). It is significantly more damaging for young kids in middle school and younger as their brains are still in the most critical part of development.
And we still honestly don't know how this will effect future generations.
Oh, don't be fooled, UA-cam does the same thing. We find ourselves watching 5, 10, 20 videos covering the same topic. We just have a longer attention span. It's still playing on the dopamine response.
@@AviationPilot91 I completely agree, that being said, I find that TikTok has other issues as well. Tiktok feeds people corrupting content unasked for while on youtube you must be either looking for this content or have previously looked at it. This is horrible with the number of children on the platform as it essentially creates young-age addictions that will haunt these kids for the rest of their lives. I may be wrong about this, but I belive there is less moderation on TikTok as well when it comes to age-restricting content.
The average teenage American attention span in 2022 is 14 seconds
@@abelnickerson4470 are you serious? I’m scared if that’s true
I used to have tiktok since i was probably 8-9. At the time it was musically and i wasnt that addicted to it. However once it became tik tok the videos completely changed from innocent lip sync videos to content that kept you scrolling for hours. The algorithim had kept me hooked and i would easily spend hours of my day on it. I wasnt particularly happy in fact i felt terrible it was such a bad addiction and it felt horrible to have. This year i made the decison to delete tik tok and i havent looked back since, its the best desicion I've made and its made me realise that it was incredibly bad for my mental health.
Thats fine bro. Every one been through this. Change from now.
ever since 2021 i stoped posting tiktoks and stuff and ive seen my life improve by so much. also i think there is a very aching issue in the western countries about these social media forums and sh** like that. Thank you Hamza for creating this vid as it has helped me be more aware of these s*** people are indulging to. Bc when I use to scroll through tiktok i was just addicted and i felt insecure and like a failiure. May God bless you on this message youre tryna broadcast to the world
Thank God Indian govt did a good thing by banning tiktok (lol)
I strongly agree with you but there are many companies who is making clones of tik tok and they all destroying our youth. Like fu**
#*ng Instagram reels.
I think they knew. Because they don't have a good relationship with China if you know what I mean.
I'm very grateful for that.
true dude
But we still have Instagram reels
Not many people have noticed this but two days ago I realized how TikTok plays with your mind.
TikTok knows exacly what its users want, and how their minds work (they have all the data), but still they dont show them what they want all the time because they know how your mind works, they know what content to show you and show it in a way that they could easily manipulate your mind, then they can controll your actions, and influence in your life. So be careful, it can be worse than you think.
We found a weak spot though , the content I see is all motivational, cobra tate and Hamza
UA-cam also has "all the data" and the creators of UA-cam also know how your mind works and just want you to spend your whole day on it.
@@anestis2162 That is not a weak spot. Nobody is fighting against you. It's just how the app works😭
That's why we must restrict and resist such toxicity! IT'S destroying our minds, and I'm trying to ensure my fans don't ruin themselves!
@@tqts3039 why are you out here replying every comment defending tiktok
It makes me cringe so much when Mfers at school talk about tiktok and social media. And even though I'm only in high school I overhear shit about hooking up and it's disgusting. You've really changed my life for the better Hamza and I'm glad I never went down that path.
I used to be one of the propagandists for TikTok, I told people it wasn’t that bad who told me to stop, told people that it’s just how it is when people told me it isn’t normal. Thank you for bringing me into the light.
Hamza is literally saving an entire generation. I've been on the self improvement journey for the last 110 days and because of Hamza i was able to do it with Discipline. I've lost 20kgs of fat and gained muscle. I started reading books that Hamza recommended and now i have a feminine girl in my life. Thank you Hamza for saving me from a mediocre life. We all are gonna make it brahs 💪
6kg/month is great, but I want to see improvement in an entire generation re-learning the meaning of 'literally.
Yoo W you keep it up bro!! Likes to hear it💯
Your story is almost identical to mine
I congratulate you brother
As a girl, I 100% agree.
As women, you are pushed into degeneracy, into sleeping around, into constantly being and looking sexual. They make tinder highly addictive, it’s the same as tiktok in the way that you’re waiting to get the good person/video. Sleeping around makes you unable to stay the moment anything gets hard in a relationship. And with almost all men addicted to porn we women just end up trying so hard to live up to what they watch.
Before my now boyfriend (who I plan to marry) I was manipulated into sleeping with one man before. And honestly it’s damaging to your mind and body. My advice to young girls is to be highly selective about sex, do not freely sleep around when you and your partner are under developed. Wait for your 20s, trust me if you don’t respect each other fully it is NOT empowering.
I agree with your message but I place more blame on the women who just force their body down our throats for views. If you read a lot of the comments you’ll realise most men actually just don’t find that appealing, it’s just cringeyv
@@Ricardo-ur5os Its women but more so the algorithm. Its everyone's fault if they choose to be on the app but once you invest your time in the app's corrupt algorithm, it changes the way you think about yourself, changes your ideas and your goals. It homogenizes everyone and everyone on the app comes out with the same jokes and same ideals and not one single original thought. Its not the women directly forcing their bodies its the algorithm manipulating them to think that the attention they are getting from the app is good. And its the algorithm promoting those same videos onto other's for you pages.
@@Ricardo-ur5os Sure you can blame any one more or less and that’s your experience. I can only speak from my own.
All we can do, now that we can see clearly this problem, is no longer contribute.
If every one of us lives and enacts the change we want to see we will get a better future.
Men will have a different opinion than women, then there will so many nuances of viewpoints within one sex, there’s probably no one ‘right’ way to agree on it, let’s just be the best we can now.
@@torib3928 I would agree that it’s no one persons, or one sexes fault. These apps are doing it on purpose to all of us. We have to make the change individually.
@@Ricardo-ur5os Its not our fault. Women are constantly sexualized by men, even little girls. Every single day. So some women try to make money with it. Whats wrong about that
i USE tik tok but i dont WATCH it, i use it for affiliate marketing
That's great, but be aware that China has most of your information. Maybe you can make a new e-mail just to make profit from tiktok and use vpn. I just want to help 🙃
You fell in my feed, you gained a subscriber. Love your quick synopsis
As a 13 year old boy, I can say that its so hard to distance yourself from the internet because all your friends think your just being stupid and idiotic. The influences around you force you to use social media otherwise your not worthy of their attention and or your not cool to them. My generation of teenagers are glued to their screens and social media, its just shit.
Fax
Dude I agree, I'm 14 now and like 90% of my friends have tiktok and unfortunately I've downloaded it before, and then deleting within days because of what stuff I was seeing and how much time I was spending on the app. I also thing that yt shorts is copying this idea, but it's clearly not as addictive.
We all should make a groupchat and have a genuine talk about all this. I'm 15B
It's not just teenagers, even 10 - 12 year olds are glued to their screens. And I don't know what place you living in if your friends think your being stupid, and idiotic for distancing yourself from the internet. In all of my years of living, I've never seen a place where you're not worthy of attention, and your not cool to people for not using social media.
I guess this is what happenes if you let kids access social medias.
The most annoying thing about TikTok is that it’s merged with every other platform, even if you don’t wanna see TikTok content, you’re gonna see it anyway.
To be fair if you follow the right pages on places like Instagram it's usually either cringe videos that are posted to be made fun of or the 1% of actual good/funny content that does come from TikTok.
The fact that youtube is turning into tiktok
@@onemicyeehaw1583 i think what he’s saying is that UA-cam has UA-cam shorts, Facebook has reels, etc
at least that doesn't use the tiktok algorithm on other platforms
@@crunchycakegaming1507 what algorithm brother what do you mean
Just sent this to a friend props bro 💪🏼💪🏼
Dude Hamza I'm 14 and I have been watching so many of your videos I'm so grateful for coming across this side of UA-cam you are rebuilding and fixing my life
You are actually saving a whole generation of young men. You will have saved countless inventors, entrepreneurs and hard working men whom might have been lost to TikTok if you were not here.
100%
And women
Young woman here 🙋♀️
and womennn
And women🤝
Every time I start talking about how bad tiktok is my friends always clown me for disliking it, its kinda hard to break the stigma around it.
They're not your friends then
@@tomsinsight You can disagree with your friends man. Just let them watch it if they want, you shouldn't care. Focus on yourself
@@tomsinsight I disagree, I think they just don't understand
@@sauceduptim I care about my friends by letting them make their own decisions and travel their own journey. The fact that you think that you know better is a hugely disrespectful thing towards them and the life they have lived. But that is just my opinion, and im a random guy on the internet so do what feels right for you man.
Same man, i got my friends to watch hamza tho and he convinced them more than me, maybe try sending them this video
Thank you for deciding to take the risk of posting this content. We need more people with platform to bring awareness to these ideas.
I am 14 with no father but I am not going to be weak,I will never make those mistakes other people make
I've talked with my friends about TikTok, some of them don't even have it, and I could see that because they have a bigger attention span, study harder... I've deleted TikTok and Snapchat literally 15 minutes ago. Thank you Hamza for opening my eyes.❤️
Good luck man ❤
@@GetSmokedShido ty, already felling better, started to go to the gym and eat healthier❤
you ngas are so corny 🤦♂
@@glkspz damn igaf
@@ismr_ if u dont whyd u respond goofy nga
watching this as a muslim woman is a relief. i’m glad there are men out there who understand the reward and importance of sexual discipline. and i think you are far from misogynistic for highlighting the shortcomings of women; it’s true. we all learn it the hard way.
Two Muslim women in a jacuzzi video by hamza is a must watch for you. It gave me more realization, youll understand about what when you see it
The more I see all this things I wonder why countries in Africa and the middle east are not developed
@@nathanielobeh7710because they’re at constant war with one another. Africa is a very divided nation unfortunately and it’s so crazy to think about cause they could potentially be more powerful if they United and put their differences aside
@@Lunalla Africa is continent don't be dumb
But it's true sha it's a very divided place
He's also Muslim, yet he has a girlfriend which is something I don't get lol
This video needs more views ....
I totally agree with you, because specifically this kind of videos is worth more views than pointless masterbeast videos
Although, I'm only 15yrs old, your every single point hit me. Even if I understand the dangerous strategy of TikTok , my beloved friends and family members won't😢
stay safe
Its not because of tiktok
Its because of the users making tiktok a weird app
Hamza I really need to thank you man. You’ve made me change my life. Im 15 currently and when I was 14 I always went on my phone whenever I woke up and played games for hours and hours in my room and not doing anything with my social life or business life. Ever since I’ve found you I’ve woken up. Ate breakfast brush my teeth fill my 2.2L of water jug and go workout for hours and hours and then after I study and study and then I go socialise or take a walk. Then later I read a book for an hour and socialise I just really need to thank you how much you’ve changed me. Thank you so much! Your a king 👑
Update: Fri-26-5-2023. I have now started a car washing business and I’m making around £700 a day from washing cars. From luxury cars to ur every day one you see on the streets. I’m still really thankful for all the ones that supported me! I can now buy my family things and pay the bills for them and I’m just really thankful for everyone ❤❤❤❤
You're in the right path, keep going!!
sounds good! I have also started transforming my life to better.
cool
All that studying and yet still can't use the correct you're
@@LilHotPocket938 Grammar isn't all that important.
19:30 "China's been preparing for war, and everyone here is too busy twerking". Damn, very well stated.
Dude, this really opened my eyes this actually makes so much sense thx bro this made me look at things in another way how things that seem so harmless that can actually destroy life's, I appreciate your videos and I respect you
Were actually lucky to have a,people like you in this platform
I think TikTok is such a scary thing that people don’t talk about. Literally a year ago I was in one the shittiest periods of my life. I was pretty much nocturnal, I was missing so many lectures, my self image was shit and I was depressed af. There were other reasons why of course, but deleting my socials (TikTok, snap, twitter, insta, etc) was probably one of the best things I did. I was able to reset and properly allocate my time effectively. I started taking actual pictures of my self instead of with this filters that made me feel like shit whether I took them off. I started doing stuff I’d procrastinated for agesssss. My pride in myself started coming back, and I literally fell in love with myself.
I’m back on my socials currently, but after knowing what’s it’s like to completely delete them, I’ve learned to be so much more boundaried and disciplined. I only use Snapchat to message people and then close the app. I use TikTok to find fitness, food and art inspiration and ideas and I literally have a 15minute timer on my phone, so if I’m on TikTok for more than 15minutes in one day, it automatically locks the app and kicks me out. I don’t really use Twitter, I just see the stuff my boyfriend sends me. I probably use Instagram the most, but purely to post my art/poetry and network with other artists.
i’ve completely deleted my socials around 2-3 months ago except youtube ofc and truly i’ve never felt better!
Thanks for telling us how you deleted your social media, on UA-cam! 🤣🤣🤣 clown man cringe go get some friends
UA-cam is the only app for good entertaiment :)
Finally, the anti-tiktok video that paints the entire picture. Especially the last segment has hit me hard. I've been living in Ukraine for 11 years. And I'm simply so thankful that a lot of our people haven't yet fallen to the degenerate pit of vomit, that is western postmodernism. More people should see this, but I'm afraid there are not many who will actually listen, and do something, they've just lost all will. The average will power has fallen to such dark depts, it's almost impossible to see the bright shining light it emits. Speaking of Sun Tzu, The Art of War should be studied much more deeply by everyone. I've found such a large amount of lines that can be applied almost to every situation in life, and bring you victory, yet everyone has become so lazy... it's truly frightening...
he also posts on tiktok daily
The west started the war in unkraine for you.
@@4orddrip404no thats just random people taking clips from his videos and uploading them
рад что в украине есть еще такие парни которые понимают всю суть тик тока
That's why tiktok is banned in my country 🇮🇳
India Gigachad
Indian Adonis
After this video, Hamza just became my first idol... he has the guts to say all of that and I appreciate this so hard. Love 24:35 when he warns about self-improvement since I've been meeting this whole community like some months ago after a shitty heartbreak... As a Brazilian I do feel anxious as fuck not just because currently I'm in the most anxious nation in the world but because people here are so fucking dumb and ignorant all the time. Listen to me, South America is very manipuilated by itself and I might not know so much about my neighbors but here we're all like a bunch of mfs addicted to funk or soocer stuff (it isn't just a stereotype), making cheesy dances on tiktok with songs as crap as those Hamza mentioned for the Usa.. So I was already pretty paranoic before and after watching some videos like this one, I get to understand and accept that being like this is actually the best thing to do during these times. Thank you Hamza, for all of the effort you put on these deep videos, hope everything get well someda... now, I have dreams to achieve
i'm a woman, 20, and have deleted tiktok after watching this video. i haven't been using it a lot anyways but what i wanted to address is that you're obviously speaking about the majority of these issues whereas i live in a quite huge city where everything is the opposite. men sleep around and women have to stay virgin, that's when my girls keep losing their temper as to how "unfairly" they're being treated (like an object in that case) and if you had even only slept with one guy you're already below anyone. here, girlpower is everything. because i grew up without a dad - not bc he was an social media addict or had tiktok but bc he failed as a dad - and i have no other choice but to teach everything myself and do the chores a man should be doing. i raise my brothers child because he's also incapable of being a father. my single mom raised both me and my brother and on top of that my brothers child. there are thousands of woman like me out there who have nothing else left but to encourage themselves and turn 10000% independent or else you're going to get run over by life. independence is what helped me survive my toughest days. i have no male friends or male relatives to rely on, i'm in this with me and my mom only. and that can happen to anyone at any time.. it is important that women still learn that they can't be dependent on a man solely because of how this society is. because a woman with a past like mine will always worry that the other partner might eventually leave one day, so rather than having unrealistic fantasies that we're meant for each other, it's better that i'm prepared to be single for the rest of my life so i won't end up in the streets, drastically imagined and said.
i agree with almost everything you said considering you talked about the majority. i believe everything will have its end if men start taking a grip onto themselves and make a step, so that women can take an example from them and do the same step forward to better themselves.
wow you are a legend
Damn I’m proud of you. You’re doing incredible throughout all the shit life’s thrown at you, keep it up
Stay strong.
Being prepared to be single is a good thing, but also you want to take measures that will prevent being with a shit guy in the beginning, you might think that it's impossible to know if a guy is dependable or not, or if he'll leave one day; you'll find good guys anywhere but if you really want to up your chances, marry a Muslim guy, of course that doesn't mean every Muslim guy is better and more responsible than all other men but in Islam the man has a lot of duties that he HAS to fulfil if he gets married and has children (Our prophet PBUH says: All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects, the man is a guardian of his family, the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring), so most men getting married will be ready... as long as they don't use tiktok lol
Your mom was irresponsible to have children with that kind of man. And that man is a scumbag that won’t take responsibility for his actions either. The only person we really have control over is ourselves, so personal accountability is huge.
@@432HzPlug getting married in 1996 as an immigrant female, not knowing language or anyone in that country, what else was she supposed to do? tell him no i won't let you inpregnate me? you're aware what would've happened to her if she refused. you can not call my mom irresponsible if she was the one who fought for a perfect life for two children and my own dad not even turning up when she gave birth to us. i am doing completely fine without a dad as my mom never made me feel like i don't have one. she was doing both jobs as a mom and a dad.
(25 male) I had a bit of a tiktok addiction at the start of 2022, turned service off on my smartphone, switched to a flip phone for 3 months, it changed my life. Since then I've got in shape, started waking up early, spend the summer traveling europe while working (remote software engineer), bought a house, started a business, and focused on strengthening and building my relationships. I have essnetially become a different person, 2021 me died when I turned off my smartphone, the guy that was born from that desicion is something else and I'd rather die before going back to the early twenties version of myself. Just wish I had done it sooner.
Got a few questions, you say u turned of service and switched to a flip phone. But how u keep in contact with family, idk, collegues, friends ? Only through calling ? Or did you used ur laptop?
@@aleccsandra bro you can still text on your flip phone...
@@aleccsandra So I wont lie, communication takes a hit. But at the end of the day, the people that want to be a part of your life will make an effor to be a part of your life no matter what phone you have. I generally just called. When I went through with the flip phone idea lots of people thought it was cool but all of them made excuses, most of them were valid excuses. Going to a flip phone is not something thats convenenient, theres going to be a billion reasons not to do it, and lots of the reasons are good ones. At the end of the day though it boils down to you either do it or you dont, excuses/reasons be damned you just follow through. There are benefits an there are trade-offs, I have since switched back to a smartphone (as I said I believe they are useful tools) but I no longer have the habbit of staring at social media/tiktok for hours, heck I actually havent even bothered to install tiktok again. A flip phone is inconvenient and hard. But so is spending all day on tiktok, pornhub, etc...pick your hard.
Thank you man that's all i gotta say thank you for getting out and spelling facts that people still deneying or even still not aware of how dangerous and bad tik tok and it's content is
I’m 13 and I’m so glad I watched this entire video instead of watching some dank memes or some shit that I usually watch. I’m trying to start self improvement early and I have seen so much difference in my body and mind from a year ago. Somehow I had got porn addicted at like sixth grade. SIXTH GRADE. I can finally say I’ve quit that for sure and have stopped video games. I want to start early in the money section but it’s kinda hard as a kid. Though I am proud of my new mindset.
Exactly samee broo. Im also 13 and im on self improvement and I also had porn addiction at 5th/6th grade. Im waking up early, working out, taking clod showers, working on my music business what you can see on my channel. Im really happy cause I started it, if I havent seen the hamza tiktoks then I wouldnt even know where I should be right now. But yea, Its never, NEVER too late or early, to start self improvement. Gotta keep the grind
as a ex sw, and a woman that’s been “ran thru” i pretty much fully agree with this. i fell for the trap and i’m still pulling myself out. it’s a crazy psychological war fr….
Your so strong and you can only elevate from here‼️ Peace, love and many blessings
@@mylordtakemeaway don't start that shit mf
@@mylordtakemeaway dont force your religion on others
@@Anasto_ 🤓
as a hoe*
This doesn't just apply to TikTok. It applies to all social media. TikTok may be the elephant in the room but there are still hippos and rhinos sitting next to it
disagree, nothing is as in your face and attention grappling as TikTok, it's the short videos that don't make you lose attention too fast, like this video did after about 2 minutes, I have been saying this about TT for years this guy made some decent points, but he missed the main nail on the head.
like i aree but youtube is more good then bad when u know whatat u are watching, insta and tik tok are the wors it always depends on ur self.
My younger cousins with that Snapchat one in particular. Sitting taking hundreds of pictures of yourself everyday and sending them to people you don’t even know. I picked a couple of them up from school a few weeks back and they stand out the front of the school beside people talking to them but not even looking at them because their heads are bent down looking at a phone.
The social system has been entirely rewritten. I’d consider not looking at people you’re talking to to be rude but apparently to them it’s “weird” to not sit on a phone being a degenerate.
I don’t even like associating with people my own age because it’s so incredibly boring, my best friend is literally a 43 year old guy who I go fishing with and have conversations about actual things. Masculine things, cars and such.
Other than that it’s my Dad. Doing pretty much the same sorta stuff.
A 23 year old being best friends with someone nearly exactly 20 years their senior😂😂. That’s how low society has fallen that people my own age bore me. My parents didn’t allow me to get a phone until I was 16 and I am very happy about that decision they took.
I’ve had one girlfriend who I was with since I was 15 but she cheated on me so that was out the window. In particular finding “women” has become somewhat impossible because most of them have the mental age of a 15 year old. Stay away from people like that kings.
@@loopyalc1490 Instagram reel, UA-cam shorts, Snapchat shorts you can’t get away from it now unless you completely delete social media
@@wokevirushandsanitzer5300 Yeah, I don't understand how people my age could sit there for half an hour taking pictures of the ceiling and sending it to random people, complete waste of time which has no reward at all.
It's really sad how my friends think I'm a looser for not having tik tok and they just want me to download it and when I say it's bad for them they just make a stupid ass comeback like "you're jealous I have 300 followers" cuz those people are just being sucked in by the algorithm and my friends are as well. One time I asked them to show me their screen time and it was 7 hours just TikTok. crazy...
The scary thing for me... I just recently discovered your channel about 4 days ago and have been watching a few of your videos each day, the scariest part for me is I've been saying and thinking a lot of what you've been talking about for years and people just laugh it off, call me crazy or misogynist etc...
One of the mottos I live by, hope for the best, prepare for the worst. I let myself slip and got soft... No more, fuck that and fuck TikTok & the entire porn industry, also Twitch as well allowing and exploiting sexual conduct.
Who Said This Motto, You Or Someone Else
@@SelfImprovementManiac132 I've heard it over and over again from many people in my life, especially older people!
I'm glad that youtubers are slowly starting to realize how tiktok ruins someone's life and are standing up against it. United we strong💪
there always has been
Yes, do well!
agreed. also great pfp
FINALLY someone else addresses it. I've been aware of this whole thing for a while due to my own research and information from my father figure, and having to see the consequences of social media addiction with my own eyes watching these pathetic Jeffreys. I'm so glad you're bringing real attention to this subject in your own captivating way.
Same I always see these addicts scrolling through tiktok on the bus or even while walking somewhere, like do you really need that dopamine? What’s wrong with thinking or just listening to music and looking at the views or something. It’s way too normalized in today’s society. Stay healthy bro 👊
@@shoruda completely agree, I feel ashamed to take out my phone in public cause every npc does it.
@@5tone_10 this is so true, people use the phone 24/24, on the roads, cars, everywhere bruh
@Seth 1234 to be honest with you, if you can't do much things now, going out with your friends would be the best thing, i used to play on pc a lot and i missed some good times
I have a brother that uses it and he just scrolls endlessly, in fact he did it for probably 6 hours today and it’s not even 5pm yet.
Nowwwww this is so trueeee!! Thank you so much for sharing this!
" *Being masculine also means having the physical power to be considered as a danger and the mental power to hold your anger* " -JoeXOTic
lmfao quoting urself in the youtube comments
-Jordan Peterson
Thats a good one, bro
What a legendary quote this joe guy must be a genius from the beginning of history since the human dawn of time from the past decade of the big bang to the dinosaurs, homosapien and the age of the greek gods. LEGENDARY
@@vasekjablonsky9734 lol
The problem isn’t the single mother. Why aren’t those men staying around to raise, teach, & care for their children??!!! Those men choose to be incompetent, and give up on active fatherhood. Single moms would loveee for their children’s fathers to step up and carry the load. Stop blaming women for men’s actions. Other than thaaaat, I agree w/ you!
fr that’s what i said
In some cases, the woman divorces and takes full custody of the kids, hence leaving the father behind
But who chose to mate with the incompetent man? Who chose to mate with the incompetent man OUTSIDE of marriage? Women need to have some accountability in this as well
Word!!
This isn't about men versus women all of us are victims men and women are victims in different ways but were equally as fucked up by it. quit trying to figure out who's to blame work on yourself and try to help those around you
and we all hated trump for trying to ban tiktok
You are like a true messiah, I swear I thought about all this, and you say it out loud, you really know the truth, keep fighting for it even if you are in the minority, you are really right that people who think it is not true are the ones who are blind and need healing
This video has shook me. I’m 14 years old and deleted tiktok yesterday which is a small step. This opened my eyes to how messed up the worlds state is. I would not consider myself as someone who is lazy or doesn’t put in work for irl goals but this video is still insane
good job, we only go up
Don't look at deleting Tiktok as a small step. It's a huge step, as it could potentially lead you into a rabbit hole and be addictive and destroy your mental health. You dodged a bullet! The hard part is to keep it that way
good job :)
the fact that lots of people around me (at school, etc.) cannot understand all of this, makes me so desperate... but as you said, the only solution is self-improvement. thank you a lot for this video. you are so smart, can you please make more videos about these kind of topics ?
Don't worry , this is why you're not like them...
well bro you have to face it, the society is brainwashed, they're dumb and stupid
@@dionelabazi6159 just say you haven’t got any friends 😂😂😂
Selin a
Almost all of my friends dont understand this tho
They said cringe to other people but they use tiktok and dont even know what cringe real meaning
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I get dopamine from watching something educational, it’s a addiction for me wanting to learn and this is one reason why I love watching Hamza, Self-Improvement and Education
This is a very good video to talk about. Duing November I told myself I would delete TikTok for the month. I reinstalled it for a day to check videos that I was sent during my Thanksgiving break. I tried to scroll after watching them and I couldn't. Your brain has the ability to quit, it just takes time.
I grew up in a conservative Ethiopian Orthodox Christian home, in the hood. It was rough, I grew up with all the kids around me making fun of me for being a nerd, and was reading a lot, and not sleeping around at 15-16. However I started to workout around my teenage years, that combined with my conservative christian beliefs, and reading a lot, helped me soo much in life. It is true that the family builds a man.
Good to see another orthodox christian here!
Good shit mike!
ambessa
Fantastic to hear!
Hamza, I can't thank you enough for opening my eyes to how disastrous an app can change the status of a family, relationship, and more importantly, society. I happened to realize that my friend circle is constantly surrounded by those that spend not half an hour or an hour on the app but rather 3-4 hours of mindless scrolling just to trigger an insane amount of dopamine, hoping to find the next video that they may send to a friend. I constantly tell those that I am close to that I am not on TikTok because I slowly became aware of a mass of people that deny they are addicted to a mobile app. As hard as it is to say, an addiction to cigarettes may lead to lung cancer, but social media addiction may lead to you losing control of the most valuable thing in your possession, your mind.
Wow “your mind”
People don’t even understand how important our minds are it’s literally the only thing keeping us alive without your minds we can’t work we can’t eat we can’t anything I feel so trapped lately I’ve been telling my self I need to do something else I need to pick up this book I bought months ago and only read 3 pages I have the want to be better but I’m being slowed down and it’s fucked up it feels weird feels like I’ve been out of my body for years until now I feel like my mind is changing I’ve always been woke but i never truly felt it until recently
fax tiktok genuinely destroys your thinker i know from experience
Tiktok addict destroy brain and let your mind to scroll and seeing useless contents
This is so in-depth. Fantastic work man for real
I hate to admit how much the video makes sense and how terrifying I find it. These are things that need to be said and carefully considered.
im 14 almost 15 and honestly this video opened my eyes more than i needed currently i am very sad and haven't felt very good lately and spend all m time in social media due to not wanting to talk to people distincing myself and to the point that I've gotten bored of tik tok itself since i know what type of videos my fyp gives i want to go back to my hobbies like crochet, read, workout, and many more things but since I'm too young to even go out and get a job be productive i feel useless therefore i feel like i cant move from the bad habits have i feel cornered i need some advice to keep on living and feel motivated everyday feels the same I'm constantly sad depressed anxious and even though ik i prob don't have those conditions it feel like i do which me me feel worse...
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Bro i feel like i am the only person with 15 yo to start self improvement. Have you ?
Bro i am 1 year o self improvement you dont need now to start o business or having money . Just do the habits that hamza told us gym meditation journaling ... Then learn as much as you can about money don't take an action yet we don't have the money .
@@samlezi9807 I started self improvement at 14 and a half years old, now 15. I wasn't aware of Hamza till I was 15 though.
Girl you better to pray to GOD , go to jesus to help you. No doctor , no medicine, no group therapy can do the things Jesus can do.
I agree with almost everything said but putting the blame on single mothers as if men aren't responsible EVER didn't sit right with me. not every single mom chose to be single. if her husband cheats on her or leaves her than thats not her fault.
he did make some great examples but overall I feel like he unofrtunately made this video for male audience only
Yea it did kinda seem a bit biased. Women are not the only reason why a relationship/marriage doesn’t work. A woman could be 100% committed/faithful and completely unaware her husband has a double life the entire time
@@arkadia7422 exactly! its so biased. Women experience the same mistreatment and cheating! it's not women's fault all the time. And there's nothing wrong with being confident too. Remember your worth ladies. Also it's not that women "being confident and thinking they can do anything" are a reason for a man not to stay loyal! Disloyalty happens really often these days. And it has nothing to do with a woman being confident in her abilities and strenghts.
@@Odlotx Agreed! The TicTok analysis was en pointe. However, this video was biased and geared towards a male audience. What's more troubling is the comment above (supposedly by a female teacher) that wants to distribute this to her students. This vid is no better than the TicTok.
@@arkadia7422agreed.
im really happy i quit it a few months ago, my general happiness had skyrocketed
Congratulations to you! Even more happiness awaits you on your journey, good luck!
@@Orthosaur7532 question tho, how does an app destroy ur life? cuz i tried it for a day and i got recommended like sum mr beast wannabes and gives ppl kindness
@@kamisatoayatoes190he way TikTok is designed is just really bad for your dopamine. The fact that you have no idea what you’re going to see next is so hyper stimulating and it gets you addicted, almost like a gambling addiction in a way, where you’re trying to find the perfect TikTok. Plus so many of the TikToks are things that can destroy your general mental health like girls trying to fill you with lust, plus it always knows what you like to watch making it hard to escape, and it also decreases attention span. This applies to a lot of other social media platforms like UA-cam Shorts, Instagram, etc
bro i'm paranoid i'm not even willing to do anything bruh i was going to play video games and this video just popped up, but i'm glad i saw it, you are one of the best influencers i know, keep the great work
I love this message!
Too many kids are being led down the wrong path along with their parent(s).
Thank you for this bro! 🙏🏾
0:00 Jeffrey
0:27 Adonis
0:50 What TikTok is made for
2:02 Unpredictable Rewards
3:02 Skinner's Rat Box Experiment
4:27 You have no respect for yourself if you think like this
5:20 TikTok is much worse than you think
6:49 Social Credit system in China
7:36 TikTok in China is different from the west
9:08 How oversexualization can ruin a whole nation
18:16 How TikTok comes into play
19:40 Andrew Tate was right?
24:16 What you can do about it
just incase y'all dont wanna go to the description
@@pakistanichad8739 brother iam on self improvement
i journal daily
i go to the gym daily
i study daily
i meditate daily aswell
this stuff was already on hamza's description
what is your age brother?
But- there are video chapters
@@Vneosjwfk this channel was meant for future adonis's those who have less attention span
@@Vneosjwfk to ur mom
This is very true , sad but thank you for putting the word out to your audience. Hopefully this reaches to a lot of men out here.
Man i knew most of this but thank god nobody in my house hold ever allowed me to have tiktok and the paranoia you gave me wasn't given it was just boosted thanks for informing other people about this situation.
everything you just mentioned about girls literally also applies to guys, because as a girl i've noticed that guys can be as egocentric as the girls you just mentioned
same
almot everything stated in the vid can beapplicable to a damn lot of guys too, starting by the fuckboys out there
Yeah especially the "study" about women being more unfaithful if having more partners. I'm interested to see the article about this and if they have made the same thing to men. If the article is true, i think it's the same thing for men too, no difference on the sex.
he never denied or downplayed that though, you're just getting personally offended from it, and it is not intended to be offensive, but merely an observation
@@ami_KT literally nobody is getting offended, i'm only highlighting the fact that everything he says can also apply to guys considering the video is merely about girls
@@stoptalkingaboutmypfp5440 aah, my bad, it's really late for me and i misread, sorry about that
Thanks, Hamza I've actually deleted TikTok recently and it's given me so many positive effects. Such as more energy, waking up and sleeping earlier, I haven't fapped ever since because I haven't seen any tits or ass right in front of my face which is the majority in TikTok. So I have to thank you Hamza, you've been teaching me so much important information, and facts that I need to accept as a man, and I've been ever-improving.
HOLY CRAP, CHILL OUT. PURE FAX FOR 30 MINUTES. Bro I could see everything connect, bro this needs to be shared, holy....
I downloaded the app a while ago (back when I was unemployed) just to see what all the fuss was about. After 2 weeks I checked my app usage time and it showed an average of 4 hours per day. I could also feel that I couldn't even focus on making job applications for more than 5 minutes at a time which really scared me so I just deleted it and have never picked it up again. Then youtube shorts came long and I had the same thing so I force myself to never scroll on shorts. If there's a short I want to watch I will watch only that one and then come out of it otherwise it just becomes like TikTok. I'm a fully functioning adult with goals and ambitions, I can't imagine how a responsibility-less child would react with all this stuff.
I have many times over here the story of children being affected because they grew up without a father. I was raised by my grandmother and let me tell you that nobody could’ve ever raised me as well as she did . The problem isn’t about the absence of a father , it’s about the absence of teaching of values , responsibility and strictness . That is what true parenting is about .
You are so right. I think people saying these things are misogynistic and don't want to give women credit foe anything positive at all.
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one case doesnt make it the norm. You got lucky with a great grandmother. The average individual needs a two parent family for the simplest reason is that having two people giving support and perspectives is better than one. His point still stands. But good for you and great work from your grandmother
@@jonbanks653 anything you say nowadays is misogynistic apparently. and funnily enough nothing a woman say can be misandrist
@@iceman47 keep thinking that way and enjoy your own ignorance
I feel like these last few months the world around me has been terrifying. I am starting to see the world as it is and it is honestly petrifying. All the issues are starting to click, and I am a victim to all the problems. I don't know how to get out and I don't know how, all I know is that this is scary and I can't stand being a part of it.
Move to the country where life is more like it was 20 years ago i.e. no uber, bolt, deliveroo etc
Also there is more sense of a community and support in the country rather than the dog eat dog hustle and bustle life in the city
Try to do things that make you happy, for me it's cycling, crafts, cooking, reading and making music. Build up passions and spend less time on the Internet if you can
You’re gonna spiral if you continue to believe there’s nothing you can do about it. You first need to change your perspective and understand you’re not a victim. A victim to what exactly? You’re really only creating problems that aren’t even there when you start to fixate on the shit you can’t control. You have control over a lot. Your mind, the food you put into your body, the music and entertainment you expose yourself, the books you read, and so much more of course. Take power back in your life and understand your time and energy are more valuable than money.
@@Lunalla I feel like I used "victim" incorrectly, It is more of me just realizing that I have been a part of the modern problem with men, and that I followed the norms that have been destroying the population of strong men. It is a work in progress and I feel like I have started to improve on what I can control.
no one cares lil bro
This video needs more awareness. Commenting it to boost this to the world! (UA-cam algorithm stuff)
thanks man, really needed this. Thinking about deleting social media :)
“I was once clever so I wanted to change the world, I’m now wise and I am changing myself” - Rumi
Woah i deleted tik tok maybe two weeks ago along w IG and just started back in the gym. Brain fog is gon and depression feels like it left my body. As a women, at 22, one of the guys i dated put me onto Kevin samuels and he changed my life. This is a huge problem. I’m glad i got out of this matrix and I’m just so focused on self improvement and becoming a better woman who is worthy of a great nuclear family. I never cared more about wanting a family more than now. Thank you this channel is golden and more women need to be subscribing. Thank you to all the men spreading this information.
This. Everything has changed sooo so much for me in the span of just a few days. I’m so glad I’m off of it.
Brother, first of all resbect I really appreciate it and im glad this video wasn't removed im little late on your chanel it's been out since a month I just now saw this video
Hamdallah im a muslim inshallah your fath in Islam grows and I hope you convert not back to Islam but you truly convert to Islam when u where younger you where muslim in name but not truly now you are slowly going in the right direction inshallah you be strong in heart to Allah and be a true beliver.
I download tik tok lideraly yesterday I will delite it rn ty
I will do woke out rn thx for everything I totally agree I kinda knew all that but I really needed that speech or like message in my face so I actually realis it better witch this video gave me.
Cya man Inshallah everything's goes to the Better.
honestly i didnt really get addicted to tiktok i use to go on it for about 20-30 minutes about 1-2 times a month and barely thought about it but after wathching this video and hearing what you had to say its really opened my eyes and now i genuinely am worried about what will happen. thank you again hamza for the eye openers
13 years ago as a teenager I regularly used to go to EDL marches to march against and fight Muslims. I was an unhappy youth with no job prospects or future and the blame was put on to them. Them for invading and taking all our jobs. Yet as I got older I realised it was because their culture supports each other and is more inter connected. Ours is atomised and disconected. Therefore every skill Ive got I had to learn it myself. Im an HGV driver and 29. Ive got my shit together now and a long term girlfriend. But not one friend! If one of my children does not want to be a HGV driver. To what friend do I send them to be mentored by? At this point in time, just as hard core Christianity overcame the deprevaty of the Romans. Islam will overcome the depreverity of the West. My hate for Islam all these years was wrong. I fought for the wrong side and I could not be more apologetic.
Wow bro what a powerful turnaround. I hope you can study more about ISLAM. I always said people are hating on ISLAM because of the media propaganda. And the day the people pf the west understand ISLAM they will come to it in droves. I admire your ability to see thru the façade of the west. Keep fighting for truth.
Your apology is accepted brother ❤️❤️💪🏻
Islam is for all of the jinn and mankind , it is not owned by any nation , Islam will save the World mark my words
MashaAllah bro🙏❤
i don’t agree with the family being destroyed by sexual degeneracy. What i do agree with is the attention of young people being taken away, and having young brains prone to addiction. I am a 14 year old girl and i quit tik tok about a year ago. even though i may not be up to date with trends and memes i feel like life is more enjoyable without the constant stress and distractions that tik tok causes. It was hard to quit but eventually with finding hobbies and things to work twists irl i was able to enjoy life more fully. NOT ONLY YOUNG MEN ARE AFFECTED. we need to start seeing this issue in all points of view.
well said.its not about women its more just both genders have so much more options
why do you not agree with the family being destroyed by sexual degeneracy?
@@dj-ru6rx because women should not be put into a box and be blamed for men’s suffering. this video made me feel like it wasn’t talking to me because i’m a woman. Many things used to be considered sexual and therefore shunned, but i think men just need to be more respectful and learn how to not let sex control their perception of a woman’s worth.
@@sckz5320 i think we’re all quick to protect men and jump on the “it’s not the woman’s fault” but they DO have some role in the failure of this country. women are addicted to sexual praise, and men are addicted to giving it.
@@sckz5320 women exploit themselves online and call it “confidence” and then hate when they get objectified. women AND men are addicted to nudity and sex. that’s why our country fails. it’s not about prosperity it’s about desires.
I think what you just said about women, the more they sleep around before marriage, the less likely they will stay faithful with their partners. It also applies to men. The problem nowadays is that the internet connects people and you get so many options here and there, so people tend to not settle easily, both men and women.
yep both need to understand this topic
it's not about quantity it's all about quality
if we try to understand each other character by watching their behavior rather than sleeping with her/him it would be a game changer for the future child or you can say the whole world cause not majority is bad
@@sahriarjihan220 absolutely. You should not sleep with someone easily, unless you really enjoy him/her emotionally and physically. In fact, sleeping around without a in depth connection can be consuming for both women and men. I encourage dating & meeting people as much as possible before marriage (without unnecessary sexual contacts), it will give you experience to read people.
It is a problem for both its worse for women , women suffer more than men when it comes to consequences of sleeping around but by extension a lot of good men also suffer because supply chain has been disrupted and we all are going to suffer.
It is way more detrimental to women. Having too much sexual activity before marriage means higher likelihood of kids out of wedlock, single mothers, absent fathers, and the cycle continues…
good on ya saying it your not alone calling it all out you should be ok ..