The Benefits of Living Alone as an Older Man

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 897

  • @neilfoster814
    @neilfoster814 3 місяці тому +291

    I'm 61, lived on my own since 2000 and I love it. I need nobody, I rely on nobody, so I get let down by nobody. Simple.

    • @eastlondon666
      @eastlondon666 3 місяці тому +24

      There's a big difference being alone to being lonely.

    • @DavidBaird-py9er
      @DavidBaird-py9er 3 місяці тому

      Do you Masterbate 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @pauladamson8577
      @pauladamson8577 3 місяці тому +2

      I am a rock i am an island🎵

    • @TheZanshen
      @TheZanshen 3 місяці тому +17

      If you want loyalty buy a dog .

    • @jameshollyoak8230
      @jameshollyoak8230 3 місяці тому +4

      @@neilfoster814 I hear you brother ,

  • @Bonypart
    @Bonypart 3 місяці тому +89

    I have lived on my own for 37 years and enjoyed every minute of every day. At 82 I have no regrets apart from the fact that as my days are numbered it will all come to an end soon. Well done Kev for living your life as you want to.

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  2 місяці тому +7

      Thank you for sharing...Kev

    • @brknhrtdsl
      @brknhrtdsl Місяць тому

      I prefer being single and am an introvert. Jesus is my Lord and heaven is my true home.

    • @alabadia3014
      @alabadia3014 9 днів тому +1

      اتمنى لك زيادة في عمرك، مع صحة جيدة❤!

    • @Bonypart
      @Bonypart 8 днів тому

      @@alabadia3014 Thank you for your kind words. I wish you the same ❤

  • @Philippines-Anthony-Sandra
    @Philippines-Anthony-Sandra 3 місяці тому +353

    Your van, your space, your rules, your positive energy, no one moaning at you, no one telling you what to do. PRICELESS

    • @Newleaf1023
      @Newleaf1023 3 місяці тому

      Got nothing better to do than to watch channels that annoy you?
      How very sad you are 😊
      Cheer up pal, your taxes were wasted on champagne in parliament long before Kev got his hands on them!
      Be kind or Foxtrot Oscar 🙏👍 there’s enough d heads in this world, don’t add to it 😊@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera

    • @Philippines-Anthony-Sandra
      @Philippines-Anthony-Sandra 3 місяці тому

      @@SimonPeters-e7i it’s sad that the government rob us all but we end up fighting among each other. Just as they like it.
      Have a great weekend guys that’s enough for me. 👍👍👍

    • @SimonPeters-e7i
      @SimonPeters-e7i 3 місяці тому

      @@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera when I wake up in a world full of sunshine and butterflies I will perhaps consider your approach but until they reopen the garden of Eden I am afraid we are in a society where only the strong or smart survive. If you would rather starve to keep your morals then that’s fine but I hate to tell you, you are not making any difference, you are just needlessly suffering.
      We are in a race, if you want to keep handing out ice lollies instead of aiming for the finish line then that’s your choice but don’t go moaning about it when you feel the pain of your self appointed moral high ground.
      Anyway you have a good life enough said. It’s all a bit trolling don’t you think?

    • @SimonPeters-e7i
      @SimonPeters-e7i 3 місяці тому

      @@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera we were all forced to waste £300M on the Rwanda scheme, forced to fund an illegal war in 2003, forced to put illegals into hotels. I mean start on something that will make a difference or you know you also have the choices that he has so are you really forced? Maybe by your own belief system but other than that you have choices just like anyone else.
      You could leave the UK, you could live off grid, you could go and live in a phone box. You could convert your own van.
      If you turn this on its head maybe he is not willing to be forced to live in a system that controls his life and has said point blank no I am not doing that.
      On that note maybe you could learn a thing or two from him?
      You are coming across and very angry and bitter you are not exactly selling the ‘system’ to me. I’d much rather take his route than end up feeling the way you feel. Sorry, facts.
      Who says they own the planet? Why shouldn’t he be able to play the hand he has to the best outcome for him?
      Sorry if you don’t like that. But you have no argument here at all. Like I originally said it’s flawed.
      We are FORCED to read your nonsense until Kev blocks you which hopefully will be soon.

    • @arthur-q8x
      @arthur-q8x 3 місяці тому +2

      Hear Hear!

  • @bruceshaw2402
    @bruceshaw2402 3 місяці тому +374

    Im a loner , I didn’t choose to be a loner it chose me I was born this way , I spent many years looking after my mom , she died I got married , my wife left and I decided what ever life was left to me was going to be mine , Ive been on my own for nearly 12 years and I can honestly say they have been the best years of my life , being on my own is not a punishment its a pleasure .

    • @alanwann9318
      @alanwann9318 3 місяці тому +51

      I be been twice divorced, I'm 76 and been alone 35 yrs. I have a nice bungalow and garden ,hobbies and friends. I decide what I want and do.

    • @andrewminjiras5745
      @andrewminjiras5745 3 місяці тому +1

      @@alanwann9318 I’m envious!

    • @warren6899
      @warren6899 3 місяці тому +39

      From South Africa never been attached, never wanted. I'm a deep recluse, not interested in socializing. Happy with that

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +11

      Thank you for sharing Bruce...Kev

    • @ianwoods1384
      @ianwoods1384 3 місяці тому +24

      Good luck to you, my friend. There's nothing worse than having to please someone else all the time or walking on eggshells.
      Being yourself, living life as you want to live it, no one moaning, pulling their face, is the best!

  • @eddiemercury3372
    @eddiemercury3372 3 місяці тому +60

    I've been deeply hurt by women I have loved - Being on my own has shown me that it is far more rewarding when I discover my own hidden depths of resilience.

    • @Wozamotorbikeadventures
      @Wozamotorbikeadventures Місяць тому +2

      True I been betrayed bye my wife of 31 years.
      2 years alone now it isn't as bad as I feared it would be only me to please now 😊

    • @eddiemercury3372
      @eddiemercury3372 Місяць тому +2

      @@Wozamotorbikeadventures I still feel the hurt from time to time even after 30 years. Then I remind myself that she's not doing that`as I am the only one in control of my emotions. I consciously 'switch channels' to something more positive and doable. I can't change the past but I can shape my future. kind regards.

    • @Wozamotorbikeadventures
      @Wozamotorbikeadventures Місяць тому +1

      @eddiemercury3372 respect brother 👌

  • @MrPerryUK
    @MrPerryUK 3 місяці тому +64

    I'm exactly the same as you, I don't need a single person around me, Happy being alone.

    • @TheLandrover44
      @TheLandrover44 2 місяці тому

      Just because you live alone doesn't mean you're lonely i just worry about getting ill and going into care but llove my alone life -now crepping into my late 70s

  • @robertross8565
    @robertross8565 3 місяці тому +48

    Good man Kev. Whenever my wife leaves the house, I jump for joy.

    • @RotiJohnPrata-h9o
      @RotiJohnPrata-h9o 2 місяці тому +1

      yea, bob.. your neighbor says she is.. finally.. smiling.. big time.. when she leaves the house.. - so, there.. a win-win..

  • @AJ-qn6gd
    @AJ-qn6gd 3 місяці тому +145

    Being alone and being lonely are two different things !

    • @marshy1950
      @marshy1950 3 місяці тому +3

      You, sir, have hit the nail on the head!! I can be heard, quite frequently, using exactly the words you just quoted. I have lived with my cats for over 14 years and, whilst there are very few times i feel lonely, I am mostly very content in my own company. I am also the best of friends with my ex-wife's boyfriend. We go to a local Wetherspoons for our breakfast a few times a week and have the best chinwags I've ever had.

    • @marshy1950
      @marshy1950 3 місяці тому +2

      @@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera that is such a sad thing to read. I empathise with what you wrote. I've lived alone for over 14 years now and there's such peace to be had. You enjoy yourself and do exactly what makes you happy!!

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +2

      Perfect!...Kev

    • @stevebowness9435
      @stevebowness9435 2 місяці тому +1

      Very true great comment.

    • @russellsteventon8069
      @russellsteventon8069 2 місяці тому +1

      Too true.

  • @robertwatson5104
    @robertwatson5104 3 місяці тому +90

    I agree I’m 63, been on my own for 16 yrs now.
    Love my space , living life my way

  • @geraldbull9272
    @geraldbull9272 3 місяці тому +37

    If I could have my wife back who passed away three years ago I would right now without a shadow of doubt, she was quiet, placid and very easy going. I am totally on your side Kev, I am very happy living on my own knowing that nobody can replace my wife. What I have learnt is that unless you are extremely lucky as I was then living on your own can be brilliant.

  • @JOHNOGRADY-un2ft
    @JOHNOGRADY-un2ft 3 місяці тому +90

    I’m 60, live alone and love it!

  • @russellziegler4348
    @russellziegler4348 3 місяці тому +94

    I live alone. At first, I found the change hard, but I've come to realise that the peace and freedom can not be beaten. Soooo I agree with all that you said.

  • @lucyjay7963
    @lucyjay7963 3 місяці тому +118

    As a older woman I'm happy to be alone single with peace m joy and doing me
    Lonely never. Have a blessed safe day. Be happy

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +5

      Thanks for sharing Lucy....Kev

    • @lucyjay7963
      @lucyjay7963 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOverasorry your mom was evil. Don't allow it to have a badt life. Trust God

    • @petercunningham5640
      @petercunningham5640 3 місяці тому +1

      What are you doing tonight 🤗

    • @Gavaldo
      @Gavaldo 3 місяці тому +3

      Yeah I’m a 49 year old male who’s been on my own now 7 years after a 15 year breakup but I must say I am happier with living by myself and I do enjoy my own company but I also feel lonely quite often which concerns me a little! I am outgoing and speak to neighbours and friends but I do miss the Soacial interaction when I come home and just feel the need to bounce my ideas or thoughts of someone still. Simple things like I missed my bus or the wether or news subjects! Do you feel the same way or is it just me. As I do sometimes wonder why I get that feeling when I prefer living alone. ✌️🤷‍♂️

    • @petercunningham5640
      @petercunningham5640 3 місяці тому +1

      @@lucyjay7963 At 49 your still young. You have a lot more than most people who live alone. Can be in a relationship and still be lonely which isn't healthy either. All the best for the future.

  • @l3f799
    @l3f799 3 місяці тому +35

    Been single post divorce for the last 25 years. People assume I'm a sad, lonely old guy but I am completely accustomed to it and enjoy my relatively peaceful existence. My marriage was like a bad dream I couldn't wake up from and was both financially and emotionally damaging. Living alone is fine as I have friends and family and can still socialise when I want. Kev is right. Living alone is freedom without judgement, criticism, nagging, cheating, dishonesty or unreasonable demands.

  • @imacdonald99
    @imacdonald99 3 місяці тому +28

    I am an introvert too, and are totally happy on my own. I can do smalltalk well, run big meetings and love talking to big audiences on stage no problem, but it takes effort and is tiring. Im always most happy on my own, and as i get older i have learned to not let other people make me feel it is wrong or pitiful in some way. We should live the way we are each happiest.

  • @JohnMooney-g5o
    @JohnMooney-g5o 3 місяці тому +56

    I live on my own and love it I can't stand being around people they get on my nerves. Your own company is your best friend.

    • @geraldbull9272
      @geraldbull9272 3 місяці тому +7

      @@JohnMooney-g5o I have always thought to myself I am a loner, upon reading the comments it’s nice to know I am not alone.

  • @nickbenson2711
    @nickbenson2711 3 місяці тому +148

    The problem for us introverts is that we can’t do smalltalk. I enjoy having a deep dive into a subject, especially if i feel I’ve done my research. But i have zero interest in another persons domestic arrangements

    • @SimonPeters-e7i
      @SimonPeters-e7i 3 місяці тому +15

      but you've just watched a video about someones domestic arrangements 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @_Louise__
      @_Louise__ 3 місяці тому +8

      Agree. I've found that studying philosophy in a group is a good solution. Deep dive discussion about life and things that can improve it, without having to discuss the details and specifics of people's lives

    • @Rose-m1d9d
      @Rose-m1d9d 3 місяці тому +11

      ​@@SimonPeters-e7inot had a face to face conversation though...completely different...can push the stop button lol

    • @SimonPeters-e7i
      @SimonPeters-e7i 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Rose-m1d9d but that doesn't make it 'zero interest' 🤣 obviously I was being sarcastic (with light hearted intentions) I don't want to labour on it. I just found it funny.

    • @frankpettinato2324
      @frankpettinato2324 3 місяці тому +1

      🎯

  • @marklucas2591
    @marklucas2591 3 місяці тому +16

    I'm about to turn 65, I live alone in a Winnebago and I'm as happy as Larry.

  • @anthonydempsey7693
    @anthonydempsey7693 3 місяці тому +25

    Incredibly honest man.

  • @picking4profit
    @picking4profit 3 місяці тому +53

    As a fellow introvert, I totally understand. Had to go away for a couple of days with a group of people and it has taken me two days to re-charge from over socialising!

  • @K4rmaRules
    @K4rmaRules 3 місяці тому +32

    Introvert here also. Our own space is peaceful, no drama and soothing.

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o 3 місяці тому +6

      And no bitching and moaning - paradise 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

  • @RoyGregory-m6b
    @RoyGregory-m6b 3 місяці тому +61

    I love living on my own because. I eat what i want when i want , i love watching football, i go to bed when i want ,get up when I want. Go where ever i want, fart when I want ,shave when i want, shower when I want, love reading,love crosswords and most of all never argue with myself.

    • @Gavaldo
      @Gavaldo 3 місяці тому +1

      Then you obviously don’t work then surely! Unless you are lucky enough to not have to turn up at the same place at least 5 times a week for 9/10 hours a day my guess. No disrespect just an observation that I wish I could do something like this but due to job commitments I wouldn’t be able to do so in a major city. Respect Due.✌️👍✌️

    • @Gadgetdad007
      @Gadgetdad007 3 місяці тому +1

      It’s a good life for the people on unemployment benefits. 😂

    • @artyfhartie2269
      @artyfhartie2269 3 місяці тому

      I live next door and your farts keep me awake sometimes. Can you use a silencer please?

    • @luciusesox1luckysox570
      @luciusesox1luckysox570 3 місяці тому

      @@Gadgetdad007 Or retired... like me,, and I love it.... no people to irritate.

  • @johnallright6847
    @johnallright6847 3 місяці тому +108

    Ever since i got rid of the Narcissistic witch that tried to destroy me with her constant affairs and lies i have led a blessed life with piece and tranquility and finally managed to find my own self and my own worth and wouldnt swap with any man who thinks marriage is good , freedom is better and have been on wonderfull holidays and had some good 1 nighters but only on my terms and as soon as they start talking crap its bye bye.

    • @basicconcepts1d
      @basicconcepts1d 3 місяці тому

      If there was no bad women, there would be no bad men.
      I wonder why there is very few men speaking up for their fellow men.
      C,mon guys, the pendulum needs to swing back to the rights of Men.....

    • @markhughes9092
      @markhughes9092 3 місяці тому +9

      Well said👍

    • @sephirothff7ps164
      @sephirothff7ps164 3 місяці тому +10

      i was married to a Narcissistic witch too, the only thing i got out of my marrage is two wonderfull sons, ive never been happier since the ex witch divorced me after she could not control me anymore.

    • @leroybrown8705
      @leroybrown8705 3 місяці тому

      I walked in on my wife and my 3 brothers which they were all enjoying them selfs on top of the wife .
      She was loving it you name it any position any style
      I couldn't believe what i was seeing.
      I then pulled down my trousers and joined in the fun.
      .
      Then i kicked the selfish wife out .
      Living on my own is the best thing ever.
      Ballocks to women ....

    • @skiendhiu
      @skiendhiu 3 місяці тому +3

      Yup, life is to short for drama, I got a dog instead and she is always happy and just wants to chill with me, I turned 74 a couple days ago and life is good, and peace full, every day is a bonus. I'm grateful.

  • @aue82a
    @aue82a 2 місяці тому +4

    It is quite comforting to know that when you wake up in the morning, there is nobody close enough for you to piss off, or suffer criticism from.

  • @mickyg3820
    @mickyg3820 3 місяці тому +29

    There is nothing selfish in accommodating for your own happiness! It is a selfless act we perform, in our search for Inner Peace in a world full of chaos 👍🏻

  • @robertwilson7736
    @robertwilson7736 3 місяці тому +35

    Am 66 just retired lived on my own the last 20 years i couldent imagine living with someone it would be like a prison sentence really buy yourself is bliss

    • @timpearce3314
      @timpearce3314 3 місяці тому +1

      69 y/o and happy, I felt as though Id,e been "let out of prison" the day I walked out on my ex wife,! phew! what a releif...😂😂...

    • @robertwilson7736
      @robertwilson7736 3 місяці тому

      @timpearce3314 😂😂😂 that bad

  • @johnhatfield1070
    @johnhatfield1070 3 місяці тому +23

    I’m 67 now and a loner. 19 years ago I sent my three remaining friends a termination of friendship letter. I realised that they were freeloading peasants. Now the only thing standing between me and a life of tranquility and bliss is the “Old Trouble and Strife.” She is, thankfully , looking a bit peaky of late!

    • @andysav72
      @andysav72 3 місяці тому +3

      Termination of friendship letter........Love it.
      I ghosted mine, took over a year for them to stop txting and e-mailing me.

  • @mmwaashumslowww7167
    @mmwaashumslowww7167 3 місяці тому +55

    The same with me Kev, my space, when and how I want and nobody to answer to. I grew tired of relationships and some family that wanted me to do this and you should do that. I decided bollocks to it and I don't care what they think. Now that I'm retired it's even better, no more having to get up and go to work in the freezing cold and be told what to do. Enjoy your freedom and independence my friend and there are many just like us.

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +3

      Great comment..thanks for sharing....Kev

    • @andrewminjiras5745
      @andrewminjiras5745 3 місяці тому +2

      I like your phrase, “I grew tired of relationships,”

    • @user-rasco
      @user-rasco 25 днів тому

      @@mmwaashumslowww7167 just wish I,d known about van life 30 years ago.

  • @IwasBraveFor2WholeSeconds
    @IwasBraveFor2WholeSeconds 3 місяці тому +31

    I'm 57 ex career soldier, just like you I like my own company. I've been effectively alone since 35 after my divorce. Even as a kid I wasn't too keen about having friends, I just couldn't be bothered with the nonsense and crap it came with it. I retired 7 years ago just plodding along doing what I do without a care in the world. I know I'll be alone for the rest of my life, my family particularly my five siblings have eventually excepted it. I tend to keep away from family politics and the fights that comes with it.

  • @ChanelThomas248
    @ChanelThomas248 3 місяці тому +18

    I cannot even believe I just heard someone say EXACTLY all the same thoughts and philosophy on life as I have! I became single in 2010 and felt such a rush of relief when I finally realized I don't have to date. It eliminated so many problems for me. I also love living alone. I have a built out van I live in during the summers when I travel, and I love it! I feel like I'm in my own cocoon. I sometimes leave my house and sleep in it in my driveway when I'm not traveling.I will probably live in it fulltime when I retire in a couple of years. New subscriber here!

  • @grahamwilliams5190
    @grahamwilliams5190 3 місяці тому +16

    I lived in a 24-foot tiny trailer house I built for 8 years, and I'm very happy. My house is situated on a farm, where I work 2 hrs, 5 days a week. I'm 69 and a father of 5 sons.
    I'm financially comfortable, and I keep all my pension. I own 2 motorcycles and no car by choice. I'm so very happy.

  • @Nedxr777
    @Nedxr777 2 місяці тому +8

    I do hope Rupert’s happy. Dogs are a gift from God himself!

  • @corkboy4523
    @corkboy4523 2 місяці тому +4

    I’m 53 and have lived alone for the last 21 years. I’m self employed and work alone, and I never get lonely! I have my own house, business and a couple of good friends and family that I meet with or at least keep in touch with regularly. I couldn’t even imagine living with someone again and I couldn’t be happier😊

  • @deb7518
    @deb7518 3 місяці тому +19

    I'm glad to see more people realize that it's alright to be alone. I've seen so many people enter and hang onto relationships that weren't working just to say they 'have someone'. My brother sweated over that for a while after his divorce, but after he realized he actually preferred it, he's been much more at peace. I'm so glad you've found a situation that works well for you and Rupert.

  • @andrewminjiras5745
    @andrewminjiras5745 3 місяці тому +31

    At 80 I wish I had followed your example. A little late now for the privacy you enjoy, but I do take trips alone.

    • @marshy1950
      @marshy1950 3 місяці тому +1

      I am very much saddened to read your comment. If you ever want to be in touch with another gentleman, for purely platonic reasons, you're more than welcome to do so. If and when that becomes the case, we can exchange contact details, if that suits?

  • @deadandburied7626
    @deadandburied7626 3 місяці тому +18

    16 years alone with just cats and rabbits here, no complaints.

  • @brian9480
    @brian9480 3 місяці тому +20

    Well done sir you are a wonderful human being.
    All the best to you.

  • @davidcattin7006
    @davidcattin7006 3 місяці тому +8

    Fiercely independent. Just turned 69. Have had roommates over the years. Happy just to live by myself. Try not to bother anyone for anything if I can help it. Regards from Indiana!

  • @clarenceishmael9615
    @clarenceishmael9615 3 місяці тому +20

    Your my brother from another mother! Thanks for helping me to understand the way I am! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +3

      You are so welcome Clarence, i love that phrase...Kev

  • @ForeverintheQ
    @ForeverintheQ 3 місяці тому +6

    Im 70 haven't lived with another person since 2004. I dont want to be around other people. I come and go as i please and do what i want when I want.

  • @hughphillips1427
    @hughphillips1427 3 місяці тому +25

    Good for you Kev, sounds like you have a peaceful life.

  • @davidgraham3699
    @davidgraham3699 3 місяці тому +49

    A lot of married couples hate each other and stay together because ther all shit frightened of change and the material things they have to give up. I had a lovely house , flash car and quiet well off but a wife I came to detest so I left it all and lived on my own for the last 12 years in a small but comfortable flat I also have a lovely girlfriend she live on her own we go out together and do lots of camping,go out for meals,country walks the list goes on but life is fantastic don’t live a life of misery we aren’t here that long I’m 65 and wish I’d made the move much earlier.

    • @barrywilliams4866
      @barrywilliams4866 3 місяці тому +3

      you're so lucky to have a gf who is happy with the arrangement, many just want more and the whole commitment thing, pressure from her family and friends always doesn't help, you know what people are like at judging, the beauty is you keep your relationship fresh and exciting by looking forward to seeing each other, that's how I see it, would love to meet someone who thinks like this too but it's pretty rare in my experience...

  • @markhartley4864
    @markhartley4864 5 днів тому +2

    You've articulated exactly how I feel at 55.

  • @popestar100
    @popestar100 3 місяці тому +19

    It’s easy to be in a situation where your living someone else’s life , real peace comes from being content on your own 👍

  • @christineduffy348
    @christineduffy348 3 місяці тому +18

    I enjoy living alone with my dog,it is freedom

  • @IsidoreJoseph-g7x
    @IsidoreJoseph-g7x 3 місяці тому +13

    Whatever makes you happy sir, I totally agree with you

  • @jimmac9557
    @jimmac9557 3 місяці тому +9

    Spot on fella, Im just the same and fully agree with all you say..I do what, when and if I want to do things..just me and my cat...

  • @raymondgreen5261
    @raymondgreen5261 3 місяці тому +23

    I am now 78 lived on my own for the last 22 yrs love it👍

  • @saintbarky
    @saintbarky Місяць тому +2

    Well done, Kev. You and Rupert !!

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much, that's very kind of you...Kev

  • @Spartonian74
    @Spartonian74 3 місяці тому +12

    I’m a similar personality like yourself. For me, my connection to communication is watching people like yourself on UA-cam in how lives are lived. Connecting with people in the modern world is vastly different nowadays ✌🏻

  • @watgaz518
    @watgaz518 3 місяці тому +12

    Being alone doesn’t necessarily mean your lonely. Like anything else, it has pros n cons attached. Given the choice, I prefer my own company and only interact when certain occasions arise for my attendance to be requested, weddings, funerals, parties etc. These occasions fill a gap and it’s nice to have company for a few hours, but I am happy to get back to the solitude and what I really like and prefer, a life of peace n quiet and peace of mind.

  • @shaundawson5639
    @shaundawson5639 3 місяці тому +10

    I’m 62 years old man I love living alone as well

  • @PaulFerguson-t2x
    @PaulFerguson-t2x 3 місяці тому +29

    I've been married 27years I now live alone living alone is better.

  • @rebeccaslater1398
    @rebeccaslater1398 3 місяці тому +11

    68 love living on my own ❤

  • @RoaminRob
    @RoaminRob 3 місяці тому +17

    I have lived in my van with my teenage daughter for 18 months, recently she's left... And I'm loving it 😂😂😂

    • @michael1234755
      @michael1234755 3 місяці тому +2

      ya selfish prk throwing your daughter out in the cold

    • @hardlines2635
      @hardlines2635 3 місяці тому +1

      I lost everything, took a crappy job in a bus garage so I could sleep on the back of buses every night, did this for two years, I had access to showers canteen and games room, I was never late for work 😂, Got a van now that I live in, go where I like, work when I want, I’m living the dream.

    • @RoaminRob
      @RoaminRob 3 місяці тому

      @@hardlines2635 The best views are often after the hardest climbs my friend 👍👍👍

    • @Kodakcompactdisc
      @Kodakcompactdisc 2 місяці тому

      @@michael1234755 it’s not that cold

  • @ratawai
    @ratawai Місяць тому +2

    Edifying, informative & inspirational. A man after my own heart. Thanks, Kiwi Tim

  • @dodibenabba525
    @dodibenabba525 3 місяці тому +11

    I can totally relate to everything you have said Kev. I've been it two long term relationships, 4 and 33 years. After suffering from long term narcissistic abuse, I can see myself doing this in a couple of years. Great vid.

  • @Oneman1122
    @Oneman1122 3 місяці тому +18

    Hi Buddy hope your well. It's your life your rules. Whatever makes you happy
    Hope your enjoying the van more now those jobs done.
    Take care. Rob

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +3

      I'm loving it Rob...hope you're well and warm...Kev

  • @johnjohns7687
    @johnjohns7687 2 місяці тому +6

    I live alone in my Van and my little doggie. Had a wife who made me feel useless even though im not. I have lots of skills. Life now is amazing and mentally rewarding. Im no youngster but im fit and eat well. TIME NOW FOR ME.

  • @russgt1511
    @russgt1511 3 місяці тому +6

    Hi Kev, great to have met you and Rupert the other evening in Arundel. Sorry I cut your evening walk a bit short and thanks for your time in showing me your van. What a great home for you both. Keep up the great vids, take care and maybe see you around again. Russ

  • @keithwesley2471
    @keithwesley2471 3 місяці тому +12

    I live in a one bedroom workshop! The only room without tools and machines is the bathroom. I'm working on correcting that!!! Join the 'not club' and enjoy life. You are what is known as a social introvert. I'm the same and free from the tyranny of 'shoulds and oughts' and that means at 78 years old I still look forward to the next day.

  • @adebrade172
    @adebrade172 3 місяці тому +18

    Great vid kev, i share your views to a T, plus your dogs love is unconditional.

  • @alexlanning712
    @alexlanning712 3 місяці тому +6

    Its all about living alone and enjoying it,and a good attitude,helps!

  • @waltergiles86
    @waltergiles86 3 місяці тому +3

    Not at all!!! You got here alone! And you will leave alone! No Harm, No Foul! You are loved by the Highest Spirit!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @spaceoddity5674
    @spaceoddity5674 3 місяці тому +5

    I dont live alone but the title of your channel 'Re creating Kev ' ...gave me real sense of hope .......who knew ! 😊...

  • @tmusson151186
    @tmusson151186 3 місяці тому +16

    You have mastered solitude kev.

  • @BioRuss-qr5il
    @BioRuss-qr5il 3 місяці тому +15

    Hi Kev, I understand exactly where you are coming from. I also spent nearly half my life being married for 16 years then another 10 living with a GF, when that broke up I bought s home in a small town where I live in a garden shed that I had turned into my man's cave but now live in for the past about 15 years with my 2 little dogs, I learnt to enjoy my own company when my wife left me before I foolishly met the now ex GF who made my life more and more difficult over time to a point of where she ended up destroying my life. fortunately I was able to prove my innocence and was able to move on. The freedom is priceless so I could never take another chance in another relationship I suppose one can call me MGTOW I am not bitter but I know what I value in life and being single is priceless and way cheaper and way less demanding on myself and my requirements to other people. Thanks for another great video and God Bless you and Rupert

  • @gtthompson5818
    @gtthompson5818 3 місяці тому +8

    I’m 58, comfortably retired at 55. I’ve lived on my own the majority of my whole adult life. Twice I had ladies live with me for a total of 8 years, it wasn’t for me! I answer to no one, totally independent and please myself. Wouldn’t swap this lifestyle for anyone. My married mates envy me, more so when I can do the hobby we share whenever and wherever I want whereas they can’t. I advise any youngsters male or female to choose this lifestyle.
    If you do want short-time company it’s available.

  • @andyjames8612
    @andyjames8612 3 місяці тому +20

    Good on you mate. I’m happily married, wouldn’t swap my wife for anyone. We live in a nice Edwardian house, just us two, we like each others company but equally there’s enough space in the house for us to have time on our own if we want it. I work alone, often in my workshop all day and I love it. I like the company of my wife when I’ve finished work but I’m equally happy being on my own, in my own company, doing what I want.

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi Andy, thank you for sharing and yes we are all different. You sound like a happy man in a happy relationship which is lovely to hear....Kev

    • @RobertoPol710
      @RobertoPol710 3 місяці тому +1

      Some women ( my wife) expect to control whole man's life and feel unhappy to lose him of sight. That suck 😕

  • @ProjectCamper
    @ProjectCamper 3 місяці тому +4

    100% agree Kev, zero drama on your own, best wishes mate and congratulations on your growing channel ❤

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Sean, hope you're all good mate....Kev

  • @jameshollyoak8230
    @jameshollyoak8230 3 місяці тому +2

    I love being in my world , where I can do what I want , when I want , nothing better than putting headphones to block out the noise from the world , and listening to what I want

  • @alandykes2519
    @alandykes2519 3 місяці тому +7

    I totally agree with you kev I am same as you ive been on my own for many years now I do what I want when I want and i love spending loads of time with my grandkids 👍👍👍👍

  • @Irideonandon
    @Irideonandon 3 місяці тому +12

    Im glad you are happy. Most people aren't.

  • @tonycollazorappo
    @tonycollazorappo 3 місяці тому +5

    I've been a loner since I was in school, I enjoy it. I have a ton of things I can do, read, listen to music, I have even gone to movies by myself. I do enjoy talking to people, but I would rather not. I'm a 63 year old senior man.

  • @theslowwalkhome7314
    @theslowwalkhome7314 3 місяці тому +7

    I totally agree with every single word you’ve just said
    Subscribed !

  • @captnagrom8178
    @captnagrom8178 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm 59 now and have lived alone since 2013 .. I'm very very happy with that and truly appreciate the time and space it gives me. I guard that and value it highly. I really count my blessings. Lucky man. 👍

  • @mesmogruvinski
    @mesmogruvinski 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm an outgoing introvert too. After my wife died 7 years ago, I've come to cherish and appreciate having my space and the freedom to have it as I want. Good health and happy trails. 🙃

  • @AnotherTruth
    @AnotherTruth 3 місяці тому +4

    Your point of view is commendable and I appreciate it. I think your life is rich with your own life experiences. I appreciate your independence yourself respect and self resiliency. Take care.

  • @duncanpaton8227
    @duncanpaton8227 3 місяці тому +2

    I've just seen your channel for the first time and it's just not me! Thank you so much what you have said🎉 greetings from 65 year old scot😎

  • @tomdunnnz460
    @tomdunnnz460 3 місяці тому +18

    Don't mistake comfort for happiness. I bicycle camp with a stretcher tent. Waking up every morning to the symphony of wildlife and the beautiful vistas of Nature brings so much peace and joy. I am retired here in NZ and love this sort of lifestyle. Gave all my property to my insecure wife. I am free to pursue what really matters. 👍😊

    • @saxonpete5131
      @saxonpete5131 3 місяці тому +4

      Single is the way to go in NZ. NZ women demand to be treated like princesses are fickle and relationships with them are a full time job. Single in NZ is bliss.

    • @tomdunnnz460
      @tomdunnnz460 3 місяці тому +1

      @@saxonpete5131 Agree bro. NZ is a great place to pursue happiness. We get enough income to live well.

    • @marshy1950
      @marshy1950 3 місяці тому +1

      @@tomdunnnz460 I really wish that the UK Government would give us Retired Individuals enough to live on.

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for sharing Tom, sounds perfect to me....Kev

  • @sandraparry8653
    @sandraparry8653 3 місяці тому +22

    Yes Kev, I to live alone with little dog. I enjoy my life, and I seem to be quite a busy person in my own way. I love my Bungalow and small garden. I walk as much as I can with my dog.
    Living alone has many benefits 😊
    One question I would like to ask you, if you don't mind: where do you park? Is it in car parks or sides of the road? Or in the wild? What sort of restrictions do you have to deal with?
    Love the channel.
    Sandra. Rhyl North Wales.😊

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +6

      Hi Sandra, thanks for sharing..I mainly park on roads..sometimes industrial estates...sometimes seafronts....if there are restrictions then I don't park there...Kev

  • @easystar123
    @easystar123 18 днів тому

    I will be 62 in September and ive lived on my own for 14 years and wouldn't have it any other way. I could write a book on the number of times ive been let down and hurt by a woman. This is the happiness time of my life. Well done Kevin and thanks for sharing this great video and the best of luck to you.

  • @kenr2181
    @kenr2181 3 місяці тому +3

    Gr8 stuff. Relationships do not solve problems..they create problems.
    Up to the individual then to decide if its worth the additional problems & drama.

  • @dondle2
    @dondle2 3 місяці тому +2

    Good on ya bud, all the best to you both. Dogs are better than people.

  • @mikesalt8248
    @mikesalt8248 2 місяці тому +1

    Good subject ! I live alone it was forced on me through circumstance, so its been about 9 years now and a lot of what you say and point out really hit home with me and so true! So thanks Mike🤗

  • @michaelwittmann2644
    @michaelwittmann2644 Місяць тому +1

    I'm lucky that my wife is introverted like me. However, we enjoy other people's company, but only on our terms. Greetings from Cambridgeshire, and all the best to you and your dog😊.

  • @duncan0610
    @duncan0610 3 місяці тому +4

    I'm just like you, love living on my own and by my rules. Love it at work but glad to get back to solitude. 👌👍👍

  • @richerthaniam9067
    @richerthaniam9067 3 місяці тому +12

    Hey Kev I'm 26 years old and even i grow tired of other peoples company from time to time. The people in my life seem superficial and only want me around when they need something from me. My gf of 7 years has recently left me and you know what I feel much more at peace now than when I was with her. I live only in a one bedroom apartment and I'm constantly told where are your kids and your not a real man from my family. I'm just like leave me alone your company is so tiring and I'm happy by myself thank you.

  • @TheJambulance
    @TheJambulance 3 місяці тому +4

    Good video Kev...having your own personal space is important and living your own way and not to others ideals is the way. Take care 😊

  • @donniblanco5239
    @donniblanco5239 3 місяці тому +9

    Hi Kev, Totals💯- I’ve discovered my Authenticity Over the last Few Years, and you’ve Just about Summed it up here Brother - I’ve Spent most of my Life putting others First, now it’s my turn to give Myself some love without Guilt, Blame or Shame - Great update & thanks for posting, your Content goes from Strength 2 Strength 👍🏻

    • @Re-CreatingKev
      @Re-CreatingKev  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you Donni, I appreciate that...Kev

  • @neilcook1652
    @neilcook1652 3 місяці тому +4

    I’m happy with my own company, but also enjoy social interaction with others when it suits me, the compromises made are acceptable to me or I wouldn’t make them. Good luck to you with your choices, I’m glad you’re happy with them.

  • @georgewheeldon-f8s
    @georgewheeldon-f8s 3 місяці тому +4

    live the exact same life style myself(but sadly in bricks n mortar )but its living in peace and quiet for my remaining few years on this planet

  • @ptonpc
    @ptonpc 3 місяці тому +26

    Recently living alone. For the first time in a looonnng time, I feel I can breath.

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o 3 місяці тому +2

      Now you can live your life on your own terms 👌👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

    • @johnpullen3729
      @johnpullen3729 3 місяці тому

      It the silence after you let out a monster fart in bed... Pure bliss...

  • @jonjones6583
    @jonjones6583 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello Kevin, it was very lovely to hear your viewpoint of being sad and lonely. I hope moving forward in your life you are happy with your situation. I personally was forced into being a sad and lonely person which I absolutely hate and despise and I feel sorry for most sad and only people. Best wishes, my friend, Jon❤

  • @jamesjimbob71
    @jamesjimbob71 3 місяці тому +5

    i live in warden assisted acommadation but i have my own flat so i have the best of both peace when i want, company when i want

  • @robgregory8067
    @robgregory8067 3 місяці тому +4

    A true honest talk kev,,your a true inspiration and true gent..❤

  • @EuanElliott
    @EuanElliott 3 місяці тому +2

    The saddest thing in the world is the belief that you are loved when you are not...
    And the most fortunate thing in the world is having the wisdom to recognise the difference.

  • @kimtaylor5312
    @kimtaylor5312 Місяць тому +1

    New Subscriber, just watched a few of your videos. Thankyou for sharing.. authentic human being. Same traits, love being on my own. Wish you well during the festivities. Nobody should judge anyone, it says more about them. T.C.

  • @robertjones7792
    @robertjones7792 Місяць тому +1

    You have just about convinced me to live alone again, I had for several years until I decided to get into my current relationship of being absolutely miserable.

  • @ANDREASJOV
    @ANDREASJOV 3 місяці тому +1

    Have been living alone in my warehouse since 2017. There are issues that I have to regularly overcome but I wouldn’t change a thing. The loss of another’s warm touch is missed at times but the freedom of being alone overcomes that.