I was born in October 1954 and just turned 70 years old and don't have any of these thoughts that you have. You are letting the demons creep into your mind and take over. You must control your thoughts and live your life and don't live your life as a seventy-year-old, just live your life as a human being alive and breathing with a new day in front of you. That's it. Do the best you can eating properly and getting enough exercise and clean water. Quit fearing the future, the future is not guaranteed only this moment is guaranteed
Well said gmp, own nothing now & the only responsibility i have is to my health & let the moments happen 1 day at a time. Life has a way of rewarding you if you are true to yourself. This may not be so much a story of getting old as apposed to past decisions made and being owned by them including all the stuff. keep it simple
Yes, and reality comes to you. Most in america retire by 64 ish because of medical reasons not because they wanted to. Life for most becomes a different path. They just have to adapt. look at statictical datta for info.
You and your Great Eternal Now are about to get a massive wake up call, because don trumps coming for your retirememt momey hunty, and your happy fun ride is oh-vuh, according to him. #winning
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The increasing prices have impacted my plan to retire at 62, work part-time, and save for the future. I'm concerned about whether those who navigated the 2008 financial crisis had an easier time than I am currently experiencing. The combination of stock market volatility and a decrease in income is causing anxiety about whether I'll have sufficient funds for retirement.
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I got news for you mate, it's not a nightmare, it's called LIFE. Live your life, help others, and every day count your blessings. Stressing out at your age will only put you 6 ft under that much quicker.
@@eddievonpapen6306 It usually turns bad upon her controlling him or hes putting the breaks on his finances. Philippino live for today. Tomorrow may never come.
I actually never get lonely. Want to know the secret? Be a good person and avoid regrets at all cost. As I tell my kids, "we always have to live with ourselves in the end, and who wants to live with a jerk?"
He has no special relationship with Janette, who only wants a Passport from him to get to the West and work at a coffee shop and then 3 years later bring in her real Filipino lover and dump this guy (fool) in a heartbeat.
One of your biggest mistakes was thinking that at 65 years of age you are/were a “young man”. 65 is an old man as is 70 years of age! The second mistake was thinking that at 65 years old you are/were appealing to “young chicks”. You were not appealing to “young chicks” at 65+, your money was appealing to young chicks!
Interesting how these old guys are so delusional about their attractiveness. Her baby daddy is probably standing on the perimeter waiting to hook up again. I’m sure she had a sob story about how was tricked into single mama status. Funny how the ones with intelligence, a good upbringing and integrity don’t get tricked.
@@jc10907Sealy speak for yourself 😂… it’s the man who ignores his well being lazy. Refuses to exercise 🏃🏽♂️.🏃🏽♀️ I care Not to have a woman partner ,my age , majority are lazy not active .🤧🙄😂 Peace✌🏽 to you!
@@peter-pg5yc. It absolutely matters. Unless of course, you’re ok with a young girl sleeping with you while she’s fighting back the ick factor. Thinking that she’s with you because you’re appealing, or handsome, or sexy is just delusional. But, some guys don’t care if the girl really enjoys being with them or not. They’re fine with exploiting these young girls that are seriously poor and disadvantaged.
I’ve been here since 2022. I, like you, never married and have no kids (to my knowledge). Going to the gym M-F is my hobby. It’s something I really enjoy. Lifting weights is a huge stress reliever, also eating right and taking care of yourself will help you forget your age.
@@jonpritz9838 Guess, average maximumum life time now is between 93 to 95 in present senior generation that really takes themselves well. Possibly up to 100. An impressive improvement compared during western cowboys and Indian.
Your absolutely right Marvin I’m 65 been bodybuilding since 18 always eating good and working out. No smoke drink or drugs and I feel like I’m in my 40s. A lot of these expats don’t take care of themselves drink and have no purpose in their life and they wonder why they feel like shit. Go figure
I'm 77 going on 78, & I'm am living the reality of being in the end of the life cycle. I'm experiencing what arthritis does to your body. Three years ago I was treated & survived throat cancer. But most sobering is I'm starting to see close friends & relatives die off. Somethings are impossible to ignore. There was a 2-month period of this year where I had 3 close friends die. So make the most of every new day & always get as much real joy out of your life. Life is unfairly short.
A little bit of it can be a planning move. Like how best to overcome that situation. I worried monies after a divorce, now at many millions i worry a lot less but still a nudge. My plans I ruminated over came to fruition. But if you handle the worrying it goes away,to ignore is a very bad thing. Just a happy fool.. My 3 cents..
Mike, you could go tomorrow, or you could live 20+ more years. Each day is a blessing. I think you are a pretty lucky guy to be surrounded by a loving wife, family, and good friends.
@@nncadi1 I hear everything but faith in God. And praying together, finding a local church to regularly attend. If you cannot find a good local church, start a small bible study group with friends. Praying out loud together and meal times, shar
I had a sister die at 27....brain cancer left 2 small children...that was about 30+ years ago....I am blessed for everyday of my life. I am so lucky to be 61 and moving along.
I'm 76 and I'm happily married to my beautiful Filipina wife for over 20 years. Our 17 year old son adds so much love and energy to our lives that we all share together - tennis, ocean sports, bicycling, chess and other board games and just life in general. Keeps me 'young'. The cup is way more than half full. I feel blessed. Everyday is a gift. It seems you are missing out on so much. Be positive. Don't become a grumpy old man. Clint Eastwood said it best; "Don't let the old man in."
This was a wonderful video. I moved to Italy, in 2019, and I’m 72. It’s been about 8 months, I feel the same as you. I was the cheeriest, happy, content person, counted my blessings everyday. All of a sudden, I feel old. I guess that’s the way life is.
Mike my brother, I am watching your vid as I am messaging you. This is Mark in Florida. I am married to a Filipina and we have been planning to move to the Philippines. I am 68 and won't be moving for a few years. I am so in touch with what your talking about. Please don't let those thoughts take you out of your game, you are a good guy, you bring joy to us who watch your vids. Eat right, exercise and stay positive. Get some things done to release the pressures your experiencing. I look forward to my wife and I meeting you and Janet. Thanks for all you do. God bless.
I’m 77 . Got here 4 years ago . We got 1.2 hectares on a mountain so I get lots of exercise .we’re always on the go. Built a big house. Had about 25 family members here for Christmas. Went to Bangkok last year. Going to start seeing more of the Philippines now that we’re done with the house.
Do you have a UA-cam channel and do you have videos about building your house? What province did you build your house in? I am thinking about doing the same thing in the mountains..Thanks 👍🙏😊
@user-rn6hm6kl4j I think it is a great thing for him to share his money with somebody less fortunate before he dies.. the Pharaohs of Egypt proved that you cannot bring it with you..😁🍺🍻🤠😎
I workout around USA..I see guys in gym at 60, 70,80 with ripped six pack abs, muscles, ,looking like 30 yrs Old. They don't complain about nightmares or getting older
Am 71, more of my life other than preschool is now happily dedicated to maintenance of body, emotional and spiritual health. Noticing my loss of strength and coordination but now enjoying the fight 😅
'Old Man' -Neil Young "Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life Twenty four and there's so much more Live alone in a paradise That makes me think of two Love lost, such a cost Give me things that don't get lost Like a coin that won't get tossed Rolling home to you Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you I need someone to love me the whole day through Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true Lullabies, look in your eyes Run around the same old town Doesn't mean that much to me To mean that much to you I've been first and last Look at how the time goes past But I'm all alone at last Rolling home to you Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you I need someone to love me the whole day through Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were Old man, look at my life I'm a lot like you were." Songwriters: Neil Young
This one is a good one from the New Testament. Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Stop overthinking as this is taking over your life. Don’t focus on what’s going to happen in the future, focus on what you need to do at this moment that will very possibly help you in the future.
I hear you ! I'm almost 73. The clock is ticking much louder. I'm pretty healthy, and I go to the gym 3 times a week. The older I get, the more invisible I become to other people. More and more people that I know, are dying around me, and I'm wondering how much time I have left? I hope that I die in my sleep! (like most people.) The biggest fear that I have, is dying in some shitty nursing-home, shitting and lying in my own piss, for hours. I have two (30 /41) daughters, who still blame me for everything that's bad in their life. Nobody respects old people, anymore.
Mike, I'm 76 and have been retired in the mountains of Panama for nearly twenty years. My wife passed four months ago at 69 from a cardiac issue that had dogged her since she was 31. So I am in the process of grieving and assessing what my future my bring. I'll be okay. Stoicism says accept change. Accept death. Three years ago, I was overweight, had type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, arthritis, brain fog, gum disease, you name it, I was headed to being one of those guys who you are seeing getting old and in the danger zone. Then, by a twist of fate, I switched to eating the carnivore diet way. Meat, eggs, butter, salt, and water. That's it. Over these three years I've lost the weight and all of my health concerns have vanished. I am now fit and energetic and excited about life. I have several hobbies that fill my days, along with being the maintenance man around this house that my wife and I built here. The Standard American Diet is filled with inflammatory "foods" that age us prematurely and put us at risk of an untimely death. I'm happy that I had the strength to face my sugar and carbohydrate addictions and change my life. I am now living with a lot less stress about my health and impending doom. I wish you strength and returned happiness Mike.
@@ms1362 Yeah, because scientific research would never serve the interest of corporations that profit from sickness and disease. Who funded that 'science'? You don't know or care do you?
If you can.. Hospital stay killed me its been hell to get back to strength. Maybe never the same, but keep reinventing myself. Life is change. adapt change, but keep fighting
Mike thank you for making me feel like I don't have any problems or stress. Sure I get annoyed sometimes at the pace of things here or the lack of respect most of the locals have for everyone that they will not receive something from. I love living in the mountains above Zamboanguita on enough land to have a quiet peaceful life when we choose. I can say the biggest 2 differences between the life of stress I had (just like you are describing) and the carefree wonderful life that I have enjoyed since coming here in 2019 is 1. Good choices 2. YHWH 🤔😉😮
Mike, your video made me start thinking about my own situation. I moved from Los Angeles to Cambodia in 2016. I’m 73 now and worry about the same things. Reading the comments was an eye opener.
I'm 74 Mike. If I have realized one thing, it is that nobody gets out of here alive. My best advice is to serve your family and give them the opportunity to remember you through the legacy left behind. Wouldn't that, in and of itself, be some semblance of immortality. I will see you on the other side.😇
Hey Mike, I'm in Taiwan up north from you. I'm 73 and am still mean as shit. I spend my summers and early Fall at my gold digs in Alaska. Here in Taiwan I spend my days working at our local farm. No fear. No doctors. No pills. Just fight until you are no longer able to stand. Cheers.
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5). The verse instructs us to put all our trust in the Lord and not our own knowledge. The verse tells us not to be reliant on our strength and knowledge, but to trust in the Lord. The words “rest” and “quietness” are at the root word of “peace” in Philippians 4:6-7, which says, “Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand.
Hi Mike. I'm 77 a Brit living in the Caribbean. Thank you for your honest insites to growing older. What you say chimes pretty much with my own experience. Have to say 70 was a breeze it has been the last 5 years coming to terms with the inevitable. Cheers my friend.
Stress is a Killer.!!..Im 76 been here 10yrs and no regrets...our generation has been blessed, and a lot of us have outlived our parent's age..just chill out and don't overthink everything..this is our lifes journey, just remember perfection doesn't exist...no matter what ,enjoy your life.
Hey, Mike. I’m the younger wife of an older husband of a young 83. Hearing your heartfelt concerns as an aging gentleman, helps me view life from his perspective. Your insight and caring sharing is very well accepted by your current and future fans. I’m a big one. ❤️❤️❤️
Dealing with Filipino bureaucracy you can solve by not caring how long it takes. Having learned one thing about PI, is that money always talks. With that in mind, letting your wife take care of these mundane things is the right way to go. Your mission is to provide that financial stability, know your young wife as often as you can, and enjoy the life you have made for yourself in a foreign country. As long as your teenage stepson does not turn to drugs, crime or starts wearing dresses, he'll be fine. Teach him about money and how to avoid bad women and you're done.
I am 68, have lived in Australia all my life, and married to a great Chinese woman 10 years younger than me. I have two loving daughters and 4 loving grandchildren. I am financially secure but feel the same as you about my life. I often think that I am more impatient than I was only a few years ago. I am so lucky but I am also so sad. Mainly because I don’t want to take that next inevitable step into old age and retirement. We are not alone and perhaps some of us who have worked hard and made something of our lives can’t switch off that self determination we need to feel good about ourselves.
Mike, I was in the Aussie military for 17 years. I did two tours in the Mid East. For the 21 years just past I lived and worked in Vietnam. At 72 I returned to Western Australia. It was like returning to the Moon, it was so quiet and different and I knew no one after being away for so long. I contracted Myasthenia Gravis, a serious auto immune disease that causes grave muscle weakness. My Vn partner of 21 years is still in Vn due to the onset of dementia. I am going nuts with loneliness and isolation. You have it good by comparison. Try to see the good side of things more. You still have your health. The average lifespan of a Western man is 82. You have good years ahead of you. Use them well my friend. Cheers.
Hang in there Star. I've had a few down days also but I am sooo thankful for everyday as I was almost gone at 15 in a car accident. At 68.6 & no bad health I praise the Lord for giving me sooo much 🎉 Good luck getting your partner back or get a good internet connection to be able to see them & converse. ❤
You are blessed to get old. Many don't make it Enjoy this season, and don't eat processed food; water fast, work out daily. Stay away from sugars the best you can. Enjoy the journey , take each challenge as an opportunity to grow, & embrace peace. Acceptance is important. I learned that from a 90 yr old Buddhist monk. Apostle Paul said the battle is in the mind. It's all about perspective. You choose how you handle this gift , I'll say it again...this GIFT of life brother❤
I obsessed about death when I was in my thirties. When I accepted that we are all going to die with 100% probability and that it made no sense to worry about it, I erased it from my mind. Moving to France recently with the time to explore new cultures and hobbies has made me mentally 10-15 years younger. There is so much what life we have to explore -- seize every moment and don't worry about things you cannot control. Your nightmare is a distant dream for the vast majority of people who are still lucky to be alive at your age. (BTW, moving to France has removed the whole healthcare issue from my stresses. OTHO, they are the world champions of bureaucracy -- i just deal with it and learn to be patient ). Don't worry about things you can't control. Keep staying healthy and active. Find new hobbies (I started a blog, learned how to take better photos and videos and edit them, learned French and now started learning Italian, take a trip every 2-3 month somewhere in France or Europe, make it a point to meet people from all over the world and now `i have people to visit in a dozen countries. I also used to obsess when a celebrity dies and realized that they are close to my age or younger, but then I remember that they are NOT me. Carpe diem !
@AkamaiOkole Do you have a channel ? I'm trying to get started in that direction and want to see Europe. I'm 68 on a limited budget but ready to explore. Any particular planning tool you use or book.
Mike, I am 64 and brought my wife to the coast of Ecuador . I had retired here in 2023. Now my wife has passed away from cancer 7 months ago. We had bought a plot of land and had just started building a house. I am in my house now, but she never made it. I had to continue the dream without her. I know that to not go insane, I started to make sure and take care of my health. I am eating clean. I have my home gym that I work out in every morning while listening to music. It helps me a lot to keep me strong and positive. I have to appreciate being alive and in good health
My Dad is 93 , 94 in March. He is also in an assisted living facility, he just bought a brand new Cadillac and is following the stock market, he loves sports and still tells me about a sexy woman he saw in the mall. Don't feel so old Mike you're still Young enough to be active. I think 80 is the magic number. But my Dad raises the bar. Stay strong Mike
Your Dad is my kind of guy. I am a 77-year-old Canadian living in the Philippines. I have a stunning 48-year-old Filipina wife, and I can guarantee that a young wife can do wonders for you. Tell your dad to keep looking at those sexy women every chance. he gets and to enjoy his new Caddy.
My Father passed at 93 after giving all his millions and selling all his Real Estate and giving all that money to scammer Nigerians...His trust fund protected it from everyone but him..
There's nothing we can do about getting old so no point worrying much, but there is a lot we can do about living healthy. We all know how to do it because of the voice in the back of our head: don't smoke, don't drink, no sugar, and daily excercise. It's never too late to start with that. I've made it a rule to run a marathon every two years on a holiday location in order to keep me motivated. I'm currently 57 and I will keep it up as long as possible.
That's great about your diet, and at 57 may be okay. Just as a heads up, though, some recent research suggests too much exercise can actually be counterproductive as the years progress. I'm sure more will be known in 10 years or less. Resistance training and moderate aerobics does the trick for me at 68. I prefer swimming and walking to running, since my joints wont take it. Cutting out sugar and most refined carbs is a must. Keep up the good work!
@@wr1120 not easy living here, at times you will get depressed due to a number of reasons. Firstly, compatibility with the locals, compatibility with the food, compatibility with the customs and the constant annoyances. It's always a battle here, you need to control your mind and stay active and have a routine.
@@JamesHickman-g5c Thanks for the advice. I agree it gets more difficult once you age. I never had a sports injury in my entire life and this year I had two all of a sudden so I have to be careful now. I''m not suggesting long distances are for everyone but I think the benefits in my case outweigh the risks. As soon as a problem pops up I'll visit a physiotherapist.
I just turned 80 last month. Believe me, it only gets worse. Getting old is no fun at all. Like you, I now recognize that I’m becoming that grumpy old man. Sad.
little sister got to 27, my big sister got to 65, my big brother got to 42, dad got to 71 just to live to your 70s is for many a dream, i know people in there 80s who still do so much and love life, every day is a gift, i had a stroke in 2015 and small heart attack in 2021, changed my health by walking, lost a lot off weight, give up smoking, got blood pressure down and sleep better, i am 61 and one thing i know your health age is your true age, look after it and it will look after you.
Mike, at the end, you laid out the ways you can handle your situation. You are absolutely right with your stepson, let him be himself and let his mom and uncles take the greater responsibility. He will be alright.
I am 78 and have had cancer for the last 8 years thankfully I can take a pill every day and stay alive. I do not think about dying at all, just try to enjoy life as much as possible and riding my motorcycle when I can. Being able to get up in the morning , dress myself and eat is a good enough no stress situation. Moving to another country means differences one has to accept and adjust to, no use complaining. I think this guy needs to realaxe quite a bit and enjoy life as is.
after retiring in 2008, our family lived in Cagayan de Oro City for 10 years, the happiest years of my life. but we decided to return to Australia to better my son's educational and employment opportunities. This year I had to have an operation due to UTI issues, and Medicare covered that. If we had stayed in the Philippines, I would have been hard pressed to pay for such an operation. Sure, I'd love to return and live out the rest of my life in CDO, but despite the cost of living and the high rent we pay, we're still better off here because as we age and get frailer, we need to prioritise medical care, o/wise we risk a lot of pain that could have o/wise been averted.
Hi Mike Happy New Year🎉 Big hugs for you my friend. I post a long list on my fridge of my life’s many blessings and read it out loud when I am troubled or get the blues. Our mind is a tool Mike that we must use constructively left to itself it will bury you. To be spiritually minded is life and peace. And by the way you look great in your video. 😘
Hey Teamster Brother Mike. I’m turning 65 next week. I do go to the gym 4 days a week and walk twice a day with my dog. I too see many friends last three years pass away. This part of life is sad to me. I’m still active but have so many aches and pains from my old UPS and Fed Ex careers. I live in Florida now(Gods Waiting room). I have plenty of money as I invested well and two pensions besides Social Security. I’d love to find a woman like Jan my brother has a pinay and been married for 8 years. She is a gem. They live in Arizona. Someday I want to go. After my obligations here. Your fortunate Jan can look after you. I’m alone. Never had kids. Thanks for your videos. Happy New Years! To you and Jan!
Just do it. Buy the ticket and go for a visit. You might not like it at all and choose another path or it’s 💯 your jam and will push you to go. 65 is too old to keep procrastinating as you maybe missing out on wonderful experiences.
I did the whole stepdad thing with my Filipino stepson, but I was in my 20's/30's. Honestly, I couldn't imagine doing it with a Filipino teenager in my 60's/70's. That's way too much stress for me in my retirement. The Filipino culture is NOT one that stresses personal responsibility. Kids grow up much more slowly in the Philippines and Filipino mothers tend to treat them like babies way too long. Chances are, if you attempt rein in his typical teenage behavior, you'll just get the standard "yes, yes", smile and nod routine, and then your wife and stepson will just do whatever they want to do behind your back. I'm not suggesting you shouldn't play hardball with him to help keep him check, but I think you'll be forced to accept the reality that your influence as an American stepdad is minimal at best. You do however enjoy the power of the purse strings, and shouldn't be shy of reminding him that there WILL be consequences for him failing to keep his nose to the grindstone. If Janet is a typical Filipino mother, she'll likely bail him out of whatever trouble he gets himself into and he'll learn nothing. Frustrating!
Awesome video my friend! I can totally relate to just about everything you talked about, including the stepson living here in the Philippines. However, one thing I noticed between our lifestyles that I didn't here you mention is a relationship with the creator of us all. Having a good healthy relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ I believe will ease a lot of tention as you continue living here abroad. At least consider this if you're not currently experiencing this. And if you have in the past and walked away, just give it another go. All the best my brother.👍
At 68, it seems people don’t even see me anymore at the store or wherever, those that do say yes sir, thank you sir, always sir, old age creeped up on me too , I felt better a few years ago and I agree it’s not gonna get better, now I can throw my back out putting on eye drops, sucks , but I could never take on a shake n bake family no matter what the woman looks like - be safe
i hear you i just turned 75 last winter i was treated for prostate cancer but last month i had to sell my truck because glaucoma has lett me nearly totally blind my health otherwise is good i have the love of my wife and family and so a strong desire to adapt and carry on
Don't let procrastination be the arbiter of your health Mike !! The science says genetics is only a 40% determiner of health/lifespan. The other 60% is from regular & consistent exercise, diet, attitude & proper/adequate sleep .....AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO SEE/FEEL IMPROVEMENT !!
The key to aging disgracefully is to have one or two hobbies that you enjoy with a passion. To get outside your comfort zone. At 79 I still sail solo aboard my 30ft boat summer and winter. When it’s not suitable for sailing I throw a leg over the motorcycle and head off on long rides to visit distant friends. When the weather is that bad that neither sailing nor riding is safe, I light the fire, curl up with a good book and a glass (or three) of whisky to hand. It helps that I have an understanding wife who lets me pursue my hobbies and is always there when I come home, exhausted, from my wandering. She is not young either, and has her own, separate hobbies and friends. We eat good food, drink good wine and have good conversations. We don’t dwell on the future, beyond planning our next (separate) holidays. Why separate? Because we are interested in different places and activities. Methinks you need to seek some advice on how to deal with depression.
Wow I need a life like yours....Motorcycles , sailing a good woman...home....71 and a half here and my dutch childhood sweetheart GF 68 just emailed me last week to tell me she has a new lover just in time for the holidays but she wants to keep our little dutch apartment and my car and not move in with "him" so much for me going " Home" Mike needs to kick the boy to the curb let him sink or swim for awhile maybe join the military..if he comes back he will be a better man Mike can help.....
@ Not necessarily- solo sailing is considered to be a very hazardous activity. Motorcycling is allegedly good for sharpening the wits. In any case, once a person has made it to the biblical “three score and ten” additional time on this planet is merely a bonus, not to be taken for granted….
I get it Mike - I'm 71 now and have visited Mark and Paul @ Ground Zero 2 years ago today . Now I don't feel like flying 15 hours to Cebu and am content to stay home in Snowy Alberta where I have a good ( Filipino ) wife , home , family . I feel your pain , I'm where you are today . The recipe is to stay strong and stay away from people that piss me off - I'm a believer in Solitude now , lol 😶Happy New Years to You and Janet , All the Best in 2025 ( ps ) I like how you tell it like it is , Thanks for that .
Getting old is a gift that some don’t get. Live each day to the fullest. Think about this my friend. You will never be as young as you are today ever again. Gif bless. 😊
Realization sets in for all of us brother. It’s a hard pill to swallow but do your best not to let it eat at you 24/7 because that added stress will do you in faster than anything else. Keep living and enjoying the way you have been my friend 💪🏻👍🏻🙏🏻❤️✌🏻
Everyday this side of the dirt is a good day. No one gets out alive. If you have family or loved ones, having your affairs in order is one of the most important and responsible thing you can do for them upon your passing. leaving a mess for them after your passing is selfish and irresponsible. Don't sweat the small stuff. Take care of yourself and stay healthy for as long as you can. your healthspan is more valuable than lifespan. Passing quickly, when it happens, is a gift. Hopefully it happens doing something you love.
I am not too far behind you, bro in age. "The life of mortals is like grass, they flourish like a flower of the field; the wind blows over it and it is gone, and its place remembers it no more." Psalm 104:15-16 Thanks for posting!
Great, honest stuff, thank you. Im in my 50s and you have helped me see a bit further down the road. Im looking after my dad in his 80s and i can see the stresses/pain/mums death last year. Seems theres ages and stages when a bunch of problems hit us, and stages when we just sail smooth waters.
Hey Mike. Wow. That was quite the outpouring of authenticity and I certainly feel for you and I certainly can relate to many of the things you were talking about… Especially the age issue. But I know you would call me a young buck at 64, right? I would agree it’s super important to get your will and end of life paperwork done. It’s really important. I totally support your notion to stay healthy and it does sound like walking for you has many many benefits, including physical. I shall be cheering you on!
I’ve been in LDR since 2018. I’m 72 and my partner is 37 with 3 kids. 8 - 16 yo. One thing i know is that interacting with kids keeps your mind younger. We have a house and a business that will give my partner security when i am gone. Yes, our bodies get old and we get physically more tired but keep some exercise going, eat sensibly and enjoy what u now have. Health is our biggest concern so have a plan. Try a new project Mike and don’t sink into apathy and shake off the stress. I wish you many more years of livin’ and lovin’ life. 🌻
Hi Mike, I just returned from Sinulog in Cebu 2 days ago, and yes you do live in a tropical paradise. From 85 degrees to -2 degrees and a New England winter was no cup of tee to return home to. In 2022 you made the move as so eloquently stated in the movie Shawshank Redemption, "Get busy living, or get busy dying"...fortunately you took the first option. With your move to PI, and your wonderful wife, you have a loving family and support. Your contribution to them and "mentorship" provided will serve them well into the future. Teaching them American perspectives and values will allow them additional insight to better flourish throughout their lives. Your imprint and knowledge transfer on Janet and her teenage son will pay lasting dividends, even though it might not seem like it now. (My son is that age and off to college in the fall) The Filipino culture of support for elders is still very vibrant and something not to discount (America has lost this culturally) Having dealt with the elderly career wise in Southern Florida, the twilight years are no cup of tea. Even worse if you have no family support, or they are waiting for you to kick off to get at your assets (Selfish greed) "Century Village" was like a living morgue. I do hope you are feeling more emotionally upbeat since the video a few weeks ago. The underlying concern you were expressing was evident. And remember that the path you are on in the "Adventure of Life" is by God's design. He has your back and hopes to meet you down the road in the years he has allotted to your wonderful life.
I was glad to hear the realization towards the end of the clip that especially as you age, staying healthy should be Priority #1. At 67, I make it a point to work out strenuously for least a half-hour daily - and that doesn't mean just going for a brisk walk. It's hiking and biking challenging uphill climbs, rowing machine, swimming laps, strength workouts doing pull-ups, pushups and dips, etc. I decided to give up competitive sports because of loss of athleticism and the injury risks involved, but find I don't miss them that much. And along with that commitment should be an equally strong one to eating healthy and getting enough sleep. At this rate, I feel I'll be able to maintain my current fitness level at least another ten years. My main concession to aging has been not going out nearly as much now, but since that usually involves drinking and missing out on sleep, it's something I'm willing to sacrifice in favor of staying healthy.
I am 75. I just made the 2 suitcase move over here 2 weeks ago, after 2 trips here earlier this year. Your not old, just older. Stay active and hopefully we both will see the Browns win the Super Bowl.
That's about as likely as Deshaun Watson giving up his "happy ending" massages. Giving up on Baker Mayfield was the Brown's big mistake. Meanwhile, AceBachelorCool is celebtrating, because his Detroit Lions are kicking ass, and contenders to win the Super Bowl.
No proper stroke care in Duma, or Heart doctors/equipment…. While the Philippines can extend your life in some ways, it can also decrease your life expectancy due to lack of proper medical care
Some have argued that we tend to adjust to the windfalls in life sooner than adjusting to pain in life which suggests life is no picnic even in the Phillipines as a relatively well to do expatriate.
Just started watching your channel a little while back and like your content. You come across as a reasonable, authentic person. You've thought about things a great deal. As I get older, I ponder many of the same type of things. I've myself find, especially when thinking of end of life things that my faith is what I lean on and carried me through. I believe in Jesus Christ and without that part of my life guiding me, I'd be far less equipped to deal with the tough issues of aging that we all face. Your wife and son are lucky to have you. I wish you the very best.👍
Your time is going to end when it…… ends. You don’t know when that is and worrying or losing sleep will not change your mortality but will make your remaining days less enjoyable. You don’t have to live each day like it’s your last day but you should strive to enjoy each day, one day at a time. The only best changes you can make is avoid things that waste your time, and make healthy decisions that may buy you extra time or improve your health so you can still enjoy the days that you still have. Worrying about what happens after your passing for the people you care about can be improved by tying up losses ends now to give you peace of mind while you are still alive that they will be OK after you make the final move on. Carry on
My younger brother married a Filipino 22 years ago. They have spent that time working their socks off in the UK. They have visited the Philippines (Mindanao) many times, investing in property and land for their retirement. Within the past 6 months my brother has had two heart attacks. He is 56. He has now been medically retired from his job as a London bus driver. He is adamant he will return to the Philippines from the UK early next year for good. I worry as where his property is located in Mindanao local hospitals are not that good. In my opinion, he will be lucky to hit 60 let alone 70.
I am a nurse originally from Mindanao, now in NHS. I worked with many really good doctors there. Do your research . Adventist hospitals are usually good in the Philippines. Also the Doctors Hospital usually named after each city . But good hospitals are not free .
Excellent video. I turned 67 last month and I can relate to almost everything you're say. I've been wanting to visit the Philippines and maybe even live there. But lately, I've been seriously rethinking my goals because of my age and health issues. I agree with you concerning getting myself healthier physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I'm working on the first three, but for some reason, it's difficult to work on my spiritual side. I haven't been to church in about 7 years. I know reconnecting with God would help me in many ways. Maybe I slipped farther away from God then I thought. Anyways, I know that you didn't touch on this subject and maybe you're fighting the same thing I am too. Sometimes I'll allow things that happen to me to drive a wedge between God and me. I know, it's a process to get closer to God. One step at a time. And as I'm writing this, I realized I'm talking to myself too. There are UA-cam videos about old people and their regrets on life and what they wish they had done. Very interesting. Looks like you and me both are doing a lot of reflecting. Take care and God Bless.
Mike, you will persevere, take your time and put everything you can think of into getting Janet ready to cope with all the things you are doing now. Let her handle things slowly over the next year and take the training wheels off. Let her make mistakes so you can still help to get her confidence up. I still need to plan my next chapter but have a great start with a trust in place and will etc. Take it easy my friend and soon that Filipina will be taking care of you as well as you have taken care of her. Happy, healthy, New year to you, Janet and PJ!❤
As a 64-year-old myself you calling 65 years olds "young men" was a refreshing bit of positivity. I am not sure I'm getting that vibe personally, but it was a welcome comment. I have a German mate who was my mentor back in the 1980, s , mentor as in "young man please listen to me, book yourself a holiday to the Philippines"(I did!) He was born in Adolf Hitler Strasse in 1940. , he finally got grounded by a stroke in 2020 but before that he was going twice or three times a year to Manila to meet his friends, get with the ladies in the clubs and all that, the same things he did when he was a middle-aged bloke. That kind of lifestyle is not for everyone, but my point is he was basically 80 years old before he hit that health wall.
Great video, I love the openness and candor for sharing your perspectives. I'm 45 and I'm toying with the idea of relocating to thailand, these are similar things I've already stated to think about. The child has a very solid role model too, congrats for taking on that responsibility and showing him what a man is 👏
Ill share my big health save for 2024. I noticed some changes to my health at age 60 that i never had before. Rather than mindlessly writing it off to age...i watched videos on foods. It turned out i was approaching insulin resistance from what i was eating. After turning to direct from nature food, eliminating pastries and processed foods, all symptoms cleared up and i feel 10 years younger. No money was spent on tests or meds.
10:32 I know how you feel Mike. I've just turned 75 and I can really feel the difference since I turned 70. Feel like I'm walking on very thin ice since then. Hope it stays good for you. I've travelled a bit since 65 y/o, and have visited Malaysia, Thailand, Laos and Vietnam. In Kaula Lumpur now, and will hit the Philippines for the first time on January 7th, when I arrive in Cebu. Not out for much else but the cheaper cost of living, which is good for someone on a Pension. Love the tropical weather, and the food has been great wherever I've been. Making life enjoyable, but that ice seems very thin at times Do it well Mike.
Stress is a killer. Some facts that you now realize, teenage children are very difficult to deal with in your 50s. In your 70s….that is a heart attack waiting to happen. The children are learning but they can be incredibly challenging, especially as a stepfather and foreigner. Good news is that period will end, but maturity of teens can take years. In the meantime don’t sweat the small stuff.
Making the move within the Next year. I am apprehensive of the time you take to share. I always do research prior to doing anything, so hearing from guy’s like you , Paul McGill and others has been such a blessing to help me avoid mistakes and make a smooth transition
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Mike, don't regret and worry about getting older ... it's a privilege denied to many.
you're right
Amen Brother!
That’s a good one.
The key, I think, is acceptance.
Ben Franklin has a quote on that.
That's your assignment.
In honor of our friends and family that passed before 30. Thanks for the reminder.
The fear of death is worse than death itself. And you can't escape death. Don't bury yourself alive.
Cowards fear. One just accepts it and moves on.
Carnivore diet, zero sugar. Almost 75 and have great health since went to carnivore.
Don't dwell on death, enjoy life! (84 here and going strong!) I was up on my roof last week cleaning out gutters.
There is no death. Life moves on to another level. Be ready.
Fear of dying is the whole problem with him. Only God is going to say when it's time to go. We can't change God's will.
I was born in October 1954 and just turned 70 years old and don't have any of these thoughts that you have. You are letting the demons creep into your mind and take over. You must control your thoughts and live your life and don't live your life as a seventy-year-old, just live your life as a human being alive and breathing with a new day in front of you. That's it. Do the best you can eating properly and getting enough exercise and clean water. Quit fearing the future, the future is not guaranteed only this moment is guaranteed
I think everyone is reflecting after the passing of Mark.
Well said gmp, own nothing now & the only responsibility i have is to my health & let the moments happen 1 day at a time. Life has a way of rewarding you if you are true to yourself. This may not be so much a story of getting old as apposed to past decisions made and being owned by them including all the stuff. keep it simple
Yes, and reality comes to you. Most in america retire by 64 ish because of medical reasons not because they wanted to. Life for most becomes a different path. They just have to adapt. look at statictical datta for info.
Well stated.
You and your Great Eternal Now are about to get a massive wake up call, because don trumps coming for your retirememt momey hunty, and your happy fun ride is oh-vuh, according to him. #winning
The high inflation is a significant reason why most retirees have sleepless nights. The increase in prices of everyday items puts them at risk of running out of money. As prices rise, the amount of money retirees can withdraw from their retirement savings also increases.
The increasing prices have impacted my plan to retire at 62, work part-time, and save for the future. I'm concerned about whether those who navigated the 2008 financial crisis had an easier time than I am currently experiencing. The combination of stock market volatility and a decrease in income is causing anxiety about whether I'll have sufficient funds for retirement.
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@@PatrickLloyd- any recommendations for advisory service in regards to building my portfolio? I don't really know where to start
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I got news for you mate, it's not a nightmare, it's called LIFE. Live your life, help others, and every day count your blessings. Stressing out at your age will only put you 6 ft under that much quicker.
Loneliness is a very difficult thing to overcome, but it more than possible. Being in a bad relationship is far worse than being alone.
Agree!
Amen
@@eddievonpapen6306 It usually turns bad upon her controlling him or hes putting the breaks on his finances. Philippino live for today. Tomorrow may never come.
I actually never get lonely. Want to know the secret? Be a good person and avoid regrets at all cost. As I tell my kids, "we always have to live with ourselves in the end, and who wants to live with a jerk?"
He has no special relationship with Janette, who only wants a Passport from him to get to the West and work at a coffee shop and then 3 years later bring in her real Filipino lover and dump this guy (fool) in a heartbeat.
One of your biggest mistakes was thinking that at 65 years of age you are/were a “young man”. 65 is an old man as is 70 years of age! The second mistake was thinking that at 65 years old you are/were appealing to “young chicks”. You were not appealing to “young chicks” at 65+, your money was appealing to young chicks!
Interesting how these old guys are so delusional about their attractiveness. Her baby daddy is probably standing on the perimeter waiting to hook up again. I’m sure she had a sob story about how was tricked into single mama status. Funny how the ones with intelligence, a good upbringing and integrity don’t get tricked.
Exactly it’s ridiculous old man keep chasing young women and don’t accept the facts of life of aging, and being unappealing, it happens to all of us.
@@jc10907Sealy speak for yourself 😂… it’s the man who ignores his well being lazy. Refuses to exercise
🏃🏽♂️.🏃🏽♀️ I care Not to have a woman partner ,my age , majority are lazy not active .🤧🙄😂
Peace✌🏽 to you!
Geez have you ever been to the pi..It seems you have not.. age matters not.. you have no idea.. i do..
@@peter-pg5yc. It absolutely matters. Unless of course, you’re ok with a young girl sleeping with you while she’s fighting back the ick factor. Thinking that she’s with you because you’re appealing, or handsome, or sexy is just delusional. But, some guys don’t care if the girl really enjoys being with them or not. They’re fine with exploiting these young girls that are seriously poor and disadvantaged.
I’ve been here since 2022. I, like you, never married and have no kids (to my knowledge). Going to the gym M-F is my hobby. It’s something I really enjoy. Lifting weights is a huge stress reliever, also eating right and taking care of yourself will help you forget your age.
That's great Marvin keep it up
Marvin
I'm with you cardio and weights great stress relief
My Dad played golf and gym until he was 88 - lived to 93
@@jonpritz9838 Guess, average maximumum life time now is between 93 to 95 in present senior generation that really takes themselves well. Possibly up to 100. An impressive improvement compared during western cowboys and Indian.
@@marvinphillips1326 Yes, staying active is very important! I am 72, walk one hour most days, also go to the gym. Very important!
Your absolutely right Marvin
I’m 65 been bodybuilding since 18 always eating good and working out. No smoke drink or drugs and I feel like I’m in my 40s. A lot of these expats don’t take care of themselves drink and have no purpose in their life
and they wonder why they feel like shit. Go figure
I'm 77 going on 78, & I'm am living the reality of being in the end of the life cycle. I'm experiencing what arthritis does to your body. Three years ago I was treated & survived throat cancer. But most sobering is I'm starting to see close friends & relatives die off. Somethings are impossible to ignore. There was a 2-month period of this year where I had 3 close friends die. So make the most of every new day & always get as much real joy out of your life. Life is unfairly short.
Worrying is like a rocking chair. It will keep you busy but you won't get anywhere.
A little bit of it can be a planning move. Like how best to overcome that situation. I worried monies after a divorce, now at many millions i worry a lot less but still a nudge. My plans I ruminated over came to fruition. But if you handle the worrying it goes away,to ignore is a very bad thing. Just a happy fool.. My 3 cents..
my new saying for 2025, thank you,
Mike, you could go tomorrow, or you could live 20+ more years. Each day is a blessing. I think you are a pretty lucky guy to be surrounded by a loving wife, family, and good friends.
I am! Thank you
@@anaveragejoeslife Yes, for sure.Mike and his wife are nice people.They seem really enjoyable to listen and give us good content
Well said!
Everyday when you wake up above the ground is a blessing.
@ivannovotny4552 I hope I never wake up below the ground! Lol just kidding, you are absolutely right.
You have the answers 1. Delegate 2. Exercise 3. Eat healthily 4. Chill You’ve got this!
It's easy when you've been doing that for years, hard to start at 70s
@@valmir144 Pray for discipline. Pray for ambition and anyone/everyone can start at 70s.
You’re right, thanks for the reminder!
@@nncadi1 I hear everything but faith in God. And praying together, finding a local church to regularly attend. If you cannot find a good local church, start a small bible study group with friends. Praying out loud together and
meal times, shar
I had a sister die at 27....brain cancer left 2 small children...that was about 30+ years ago....I am blessed for everyday of my life. I am so lucky to be 61 and moving along.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥹
I'm 76 and I'm happily married to my beautiful Filipina wife for over 20 years. Our 17 year old son adds so much love and energy to our lives that we all share together - tennis, ocean sports, bicycling, chess and other board games and just life in general. Keeps me 'young'. The cup is way more than half full. I feel blessed. Everyday is a gift. It seems you are missing out on so much. Be positive. Don't become a grumpy old man. Clint Eastwood said it best; "Don't let the old man in."
Amen 🎉
This was a wonderful video. I moved to Italy, in 2019, and I’m 72. It’s been about 8 months, I feel the same as you. I was the cheeriest, happy, content person, counted my blessings everyday. All of a sudden, I feel old. I guess that’s the way life is.
Mike my brother, I am watching your vid as I am messaging you. This is Mark in Florida. I am married to a Filipina and we have been planning to move to the Philippines. I am 68 and won't be moving for a few years. I am so in touch with what your talking about. Please don't let those thoughts take you out of your game, you are a good guy, you bring joy to us who watch your vids. Eat right, exercise and stay positive. Get some things done to release the pressures your experiencing. I look forward to my wife and I meeting you and Janet. Thanks for all you do. God bless.
I’m 77 . Got here 4 years ago . We got 1.2 hectares on a mountain so I get lots of exercise .we’re always on the go. Built a big house. Had about 25 family members here for Christmas. Went to Bangkok last year. Going to start seeing more of the Philippines now that we’re done with the house.
Congratulations 🍾🎊
Do you have a UA-cam channel and do you have videos about building your house? What province did you build your house in? I am thinking about doing the same thing in the mountains..Thanks 👍🙏😊
@@user-rn6hm6kl4jyou failed to find the right one?
@user-rn6hm6kl4j I think it is a great thing for him to share his money with somebody less fortunate before he dies.. the Pharaohs of Egypt proved that you cannot bring it with you..😁🍺🍻🤠😎
I’m getting on with life in the Phils,also.
I workout around USA..I see guys in gym at 60, 70,80 with ripped six pack abs, muscles, ,looking like 30 yrs Old. They don't complain about nightmares or getting older
@alexplus3 that's me, just turned 50, feel great, besides a few niggles.... knee and hip.
Am 71, more of my life other than preschool is now happily dedicated to maintenance of body, emotional and spiritual health. Noticing my loss of strength and coordination but now enjoying the fight 😅
Any faith/spirituality as a way to bring peace?
Sounds like some good "supplements"...
@@danabaker996 perspective
'Old Man'
-Neil Young
"Old man, look at my life
I'm a lot like you were
Old man, look at my life
I'm a lot like you were
Old man, look at my life
Twenty four and there's so much more
Live alone in a paradise
That makes me think of two
Love lost, such a cost
Give me things that don't get lost
Like a coin that won't get tossed
Rolling home to you
Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you
I need someone to love me the whole day through
Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true
Lullabies, look in your eyes
Run around the same old town
Doesn't mean that much to me
To mean that much to you
I've been first and last
Look at how the time goes past
But I'm all alone at last
Rolling home to you
Old man, take a look at my life, I'm a lot like you
I need someone to love me the whole day through
Ah, one look in my eyes and you can tell that's true
Old man, look at my life
I'm a lot like you were
Old man, look at my life
I'm a lot like you were."
Songwriters: Neil Young
Thanks!
I’m glad you liked it. thank you for your support
The way to get old fast is to keep thinking about getting old.
instead of living the moment of what you have
Yes and no. This one I can't quite figure out.👍
@@edwinbetts5927 💯 correct thanks
This one is a good one from the New Testament.
Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
I have never heard that one. Nice. Thanks
spoken like a true failure. Like hey im poor thats OK..duh
@@peter-pg5ycwhat the hell is that supposed to mean??dah
@@peter-pg5yc hilarious
Stop overthinking as this is taking over your life. Don’t focus on what’s going to happen in the future, focus on what you need to do at this moment that will very possibly help you in the future.
I hear you ! I'm almost 73. The clock is ticking much louder. I'm pretty healthy, and I go to the gym 3 times a week. The older I get, the more invisible I become to other people. More and more people that I know, are dying around me, and I'm wondering how much time I have left? I hope that I die in my sleep! (like most people.) The biggest fear that I have, is dying in some shitty nursing-home, shitting and lying in my own piss, for hours. I have two (30 /41) daughters, who still blame me for everything that's bad in their life. Nobody respects old people, anymore.
I stopped drinking and smoking, started walking and working out, much better mood now 😊
@@WarrenleeScott great that you made those changes and you feel much better. All the best!
Mike, I'm 76 and have been retired in the mountains of Panama for nearly twenty years. My wife passed four months ago at 69 from a cardiac issue that had dogged her since she was 31. So I am in the process of grieving and assessing what my future my bring. I'll be okay. Stoicism says accept change. Accept death.
Three years ago, I was overweight, had type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, arthritis, brain fog, gum disease, you name it, I was headed to being one of those guys who you are seeing getting old and in the danger zone. Then, by a twist of fate, I switched to eating the carnivore diet way. Meat, eggs, butter, salt, and water. That's it. Over these three years I've lost the weight and all of my health concerns have vanished. I am now fit and energetic and excited about life. I have several hobbies that fill my days, along with being the maintenance man around this house that my wife and I built here. The Standard American Diet is filled with inflammatory "foods" that age us prematurely and put us at risk of an untimely death. I'm happy that I had the strength to face my sugar and carbohydrate addictions and change my life. I am now living with a lot less stress about my health and impending doom. I wish you strength and returned happiness Mike.
You really think becoming a carnivore has positive health effects? Sorry, scientific research unanimously says otherwise…
@@ms1362-
Perhaps power of suggestion and believing?
@@panamafred1 yes carnivore and resistant exercises is the way to good health!
@ms1362 You do you, I'll do me. I won't get into a food fight.
@@ms1362 Yeah, because scientific research would never serve the interest of corporations that profit from sickness and disease. Who funded that 'science'? You don't know or care do you?
Just keep telling yourself that you’re 50 years old, and start living like it’s true.
Good one...!! 😂
70 is the new 50 especially when your wife is in her 30's.
If you can.. Hospital stay killed me its been hell to get back to strength. Maybe never the same, but keep reinventing myself. Life is change. adapt change, but keep fighting
If your gonna fake an age why 50?.better to fake being 21
Wish I had your problem being 71 Mike , I just turned 83 how do you think I feel , I am on borrowed time but still doing my best and keeping active ..
Wow Kevin. Just one more decade is all we can ask for. Keep it up
@@mikesphilippineretirement Yes try to stay healthy that's all we can do . We do have a small channel Mike ..Can see what our life is like ..
@@buddyhell7100 We are only tourists on this earth , one day it comes to an end . make the most of it while we are here ..
Mike thank you for making me feel like I don't have any problems or stress. Sure I get annoyed sometimes at the pace of things here or the lack of respect most of the locals have for everyone that they will not receive something from.
I love living in the mountains above Zamboanguita on enough land to have a quiet peaceful life when we choose.
I can say the biggest 2 differences between the life of stress I had (just like you are describing) and the carefree wonderful life that I have enjoyed since coming here in 2019 is 1. Good choices 2. YHWH 🤔😉😮
Mike stop moaning and get on with life.
Mike, your video made me start thinking about my own situation. I moved from Los Angeles to Cambodia in 2016. I’m 73 now and worry about the same things. Reading the comments was an eye opener.
I'm 74 Mike. If I have realized one thing, it is that nobody gets out of here alive. My best advice is to serve your family and give them the opportunity to remember you through the legacy left behind. Wouldn't that, in and of itself, be some semblance of immortality. I will see you on the other side.😇
That is such a beautiful comment. Have a wonderful day✌️
Only Positive vibes-I hope you will be blessed with a long long life!
Hey Mike, I'm in Taiwan up north from you. I'm 73 and am still mean as shit. I spend my summers and early Fall at my gold digs in Alaska. Here in Taiwan I spend my days working at our local farm. No fear. No doctors. No pills. Just fight until you are no
longer able to stand. Cheers.
Why do think you need to be "mean as shit"? 😂
NIGHTMARE, WELL FED, WELL HOUSED, WELL LOVED, WHAT ELSE CAN YOU ASK FORE? YOU ONLY HAVE THE PRESENT MOMENT.
Well said....
Exactly. There is nothing truly nightmarish about his life.
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5). The verse instructs us to put all our trust in the Lord and not our own knowledge. The verse tells us not to be reliant on our strength and knowledge, but to trust in the Lord.
The words “rest” and “quietness” are at the root word of “peace” in Philippians 4:6-7, which says, “Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand.
Hi Mike. I'm 77 a Brit living in the Caribbean. Thank you for your honest insites to growing older. What you say chimes pretty much with my own experience. Have to say 70 was a breeze it has been the last 5 years coming to terms with the inevitable. Cheers my friend.
Thanks for sharing your experience
Stress is a Killer.!!..Im 76 been here 10yrs and no regrets...our generation has been blessed, and a lot of us have outlived our parent's age..just chill out and don't overthink everything..this is our lifes journey, just remember perfection doesn't exist...no matter what ,enjoy your life.
You are blessed my friend.
Hey, Mike. I’m the younger wife of an older husband of a young 83. Hearing your heartfelt concerns as an aging gentleman, helps me view life from his perspective. Your insight and caring sharing is very well accepted by your current and future fans. I’m a big one. ❤️❤️❤️
Wow, thank you
Dealing with Filipino bureaucracy you can solve by not caring how long it takes. Having learned one thing about PI, is that money always talks. With that in mind, letting your wife take care of these mundane things is the right way to go. Your mission is to provide that financial stability, know your young wife as often as you can, and enjoy the life you have made for yourself in a foreign country. As long as your teenage stepson does not turn to drugs, crime or starts wearing dresses, he'll be fine. Teach him about money and how to avoid bad women and you're done.
I am 68, have lived in Australia all my life, and married to a great Chinese woman 10 years younger than me. I have two loving daughters and 4 loving grandchildren. I am financially secure but feel the same as you about my life. I often think that I am more impatient than I was only a few years ago. I am so lucky but I am also so sad. Mainly because I don’t want to take that next inevitable step into old age and retirement.
We are not alone and perhaps some of us who have worked hard and made something of our lives can’t switch off that self determination we need to feel good about ourselves.
Mike, I was in the Aussie military for 17 years. I did two tours in the Mid East. For the 21 years just past I lived and worked in Vietnam. At 72 I returned to Western Australia. It was like returning to the Moon, it was so quiet and different and I knew no one after being away for so long. I contracted Myasthenia Gravis, a serious auto immune disease that causes grave muscle weakness. My Vn partner of 21 years is still in Vn due to the onset of dementia. I am going nuts with loneliness and isolation. You have it good by comparison. Try to see the good side of things more. You still have your health. The average lifespan of a Western man is 82. You have good years ahead of you. Use them well my friend. Cheers.
Hang in there Star. I've had a few down days also but I am sooo thankful for everyday as I was almost gone at 15 in a car accident. At 68.6 & no bad health I praise the Lord for giving me sooo much 🎉 Good luck getting your partner back or get a good internet connection to be able to see them & converse. ❤
I appreciate that you reached out to me in my time of need. I wish all the best for you.
Take care Mark
You are blessed to get old. Many don't make it
Enjoy this season, and don't eat processed food; water fast, work out daily. Stay away from sugars the best you can.
Enjoy the journey , take each challenge as an opportunity to grow, & embrace peace. Acceptance is important. I learned that from a 90 yr old Buddhist monk.
Apostle Paul said the battle is in the mind.
It's all about perspective. You choose how you handle this gift , I'll say it again...this GIFT of life brother❤
Hate seeing you down bud. Keep your head up, and be happy to be where you are. Be happy to make that girls life better. I know you know. Enjoy life.
I obsessed about death when I was in my thirties. When I accepted that we are all going to die with 100% probability and that it made no sense to worry about it, I erased it from my mind. Moving to France recently with the time to explore new cultures and hobbies has made me mentally 10-15 years younger. There is so much what life we have to explore -- seize every moment and don't worry about things you cannot control. Your nightmare is a distant dream for the vast majority of people who are still lucky to be alive at your age. (BTW, moving to France has removed the whole healthcare issue from my stresses. OTHO, they are the world champions of bureaucracy -- i just deal with it and learn to be patient ). Don't worry about things you can't control. Keep staying healthy and active. Find new hobbies (I started a blog, learned how to take better photos and videos and edit them, learned French and now started learning Italian, take a trip every 2-3 month somewhere in France or Europe, make it a point to meet people from all over the world and now `i have people to visit in a dozen countries. I also used to obsess when a celebrity dies and realized that they are close to my age or younger, but then I remember that they are NOT me. Carpe diem !
@AkamaiOkole Do you have a channel ? I'm trying to get started in that direction and want to see Europe. I'm 68 on a limited budget but ready to explore. Any particular planning tool you use or book.
Mike, I am 64 and brought my wife to the coast of Ecuador . I had retired here in 2023. Now my wife has passed away from cancer 7 months ago. We had bought a plot of land and had just started building a house. I am in my house now, but she never made it. I had to continue the dream without her. I know that to not go insane, I started to make sure and take care of my health. I am eating clean. I have my home gym that I work out in every morning while listening to music. It helps me a lot to keep me strong and positive. I have to appreciate being alive and in good health
A future relationship is also a real possibility.
Getting old is a bummer no matter where you live.
That's the truth.
My Dad is 93 , 94 in March. He is also in an assisted living facility, he just bought a brand new Cadillac and is following the stock market, he loves sports and still tells me about a sexy woman he saw in the mall. Don't feel so old Mike you're still Young enough to be active. I think 80 is the magic number. But my Dad raises the bar. Stay strong Mike
Your Dad is my kind of guy. I am a 77-year-old Canadian living in the Philippines. I have a stunning 48-year-old Filipina wife, and I can guarantee that a young wife can do wonders for you. Tell your dad to keep looking at those sexy women every chance. he gets and to enjoy his new Caddy.
Facts 😅😅😅
My Father passed at 93 after giving all his millions and selling all his Real Estate and giving all that money to scammer Nigerians...His trust fund protected it from everyone but him..
The brand new Cadillac at 93 is an inspiration. I hope I can get that BMW SUV in my 80's 😚
Gross. At his age he’s still dehumanising and lusting after women?
There's nothing we can do about getting old so no point worrying much, but there is a lot we can do about living healthy. We all know how to do it because of the voice in the back of our head: don't smoke, don't drink, no sugar, and daily excercise. It's never too late to start with that. I've made it a rule to run a marathon every two years on a holiday location in order to keep me motivated. I'm currently 57 and I will keep it up as long as possible.
I'm trying to walk 2 miles every evening running 22 miles Keep it up WR
Thank you!
That's great about your diet, and at 57 may be okay. Just as a heads up, though, some recent research suggests too much exercise can actually be counterproductive as the years progress. I'm sure more will be known in 10 years or less. Resistance training and moderate aerobics does the trick for me at 68. I prefer swimming and walking to running, since my joints wont take it. Cutting out sugar and most refined carbs is a must. Keep up the good work!
@@wr1120 not easy living here, at times you will get depressed due to a number of reasons. Firstly, compatibility with the locals, compatibility with the food, compatibility with the customs and the constant annoyances. It's always a battle here, you need to control your mind and stay active and have a routine.
@@JamesHickman-g5c Thanks for the advice. I agree it gets more difficult once you age. I never had a sports injury in my entire life and this year I had two all of a sudden so I have to be careful now. I''m not suggesting long distances are for everyone but I think the benefits in my case outweigh the risks. As soon as a problem pops up I'll visit a physiotherapist.
I just turned 80 last month. Believe me, it only gets worse. Getting old is no fun at all.
Like you, I now recognize that I’m becoming that grumpy old man. Sad.
little sister got to 27, my big sister got to 65, my big brother got to 42, dad got to 71 just to live to your 70s is for many a dream, i know people in there 80s who still do so much and love life, every day is a gift, i had a stroke in 2015 and small heart attack in 2021, changed my health by walking, lost a lot off weight, give up smoking, got blood pressure down and sleep better, i am 61 and one thing i know your health age is your true age, look after it and it will look after you.
Mike, exercise relieves stress. I always feel better after being in nature, so relaxing and peaceful.
I'm 66. Play guitar, go fishing, I'm a very good bowler.
This guy has a big yard. I'd have a garden and grow orchids.
Mike, at the end, you laid out the ways you can handle your situation. You are absolutely right with your stepson, let him be himself and let his mom and uncles take the greater responsibility. He will be alright.
I am 78 and have had cancer for the last 8 years thankfully I can take a pill every day and stay alive. I do not think about dying at all, just try to enjoy life as much as possible and riding my motorcycle when I can. Being able to get up in the morning , dress myself and eat is a good enough no stress situation. Moving to another country means differences one has to accept and adjust to, no use complaining. I think this guy needs to realaxe quite a bit and enjoy life as is.
after retiring in 2008, our family lived in Cagayan de Oro City for 10 years, the happiest years of my life. but we decided to return to Australia to better my son's educational and employment opportunities. This year I had to have an operation due to UTI issues, and Medicare covered that. If we had stayed in the Philippines, I would have been hard pressed to pay for such an operation. Sure, I'd love to return and live out the rest of my life in CDO, but despite the cost of living and the high rent we pay, we're still better off here because as we age and get frailer, we need to prioritise medical care, o/wise we risk a lot of pain that could have o/wise been averted.
Hi Mike Happy New Year🎉 Big hugs for you my friend. I post a long list on my fridge of my life’s many blessings and read it out loud when I am troubled or get the blues. Our mind is a tool Mike that we must use constructively left to itself it will bury you. To be spiritually minded is life and peace. And by the way you look great in your video. 😘
Hey Teamster Brother Mike. I’m turning 65 next week. I do go to the gym 4 days a week and walk twice a day with my dog. I too see many friends last three years pass away. This part of life is sad to me. I’m still active but have so many aches and pains from my old UPS and Fed Ex careers. I live in Florida now(Gods Waiting room). I have plenty of money as I invested well and two pensions besides Social Security. I’d love to find a woman like Jan my brother has a pinay and been married for 8 years. She is a gem. They live in Arizona. Someday I want to go. After my obligations here. Your fortunate Jan can look after you. I’m alone. Never had kids. Thanks for your videos. Happy New Years! To you and Jan!
Local 507 Thanks Anthony
You’re so lucky to have two pensions and SS coming in, wish I was in your shoes so I could travel
Just do it. Buy the ticket and go for a visit. You might not like it at all and choose another path or it’s 💯 your jam and will push you to go. 65 is too old to keep procrastinating as you maybe missing out on wonderful experiences.
Hey brothers. 2727 here.
I did the whole stepdad thing with my Filipino stepson, but I was in my 20's/30's. Honestly, I couldn't imagine doing it with a Filipino teenager in my 60's/70's. That's way too much stress for me in my retirement. The Filipino culture is NOT one that stresses personal responsibility. Kids grow up much more slowly in the Philippines and Filipino mothers tend to treat them like babies way too long. Chances are, if you attempt rein in his typical teenage behavior, you'll just get the standard "yes, yes", smile and nod routine, and then your wife and stepson will just do whatever they want to do behind your back. I'm not suggesting you shouldn't play hardball with him to help keep him check, but I think you'll be forced to accept the reality that your influence as an American stepdad is minimal at best. You do however enjoy the power of the purse strings, and shouldn't be shy of reminding him that there WILL be consequences for him failing to keep his nose to the grindstone. If Janet is a typical Filipino mother, she'll likely bail him out of whatever trouble he gets himself into and he'll learn nothing. Frustrating!
I don't want anyone else's kid. Especially a b r a t Filipino kid.
It's pretty much ALL mothers. Anywhere on the planet. They create soft, weak men.
Awesome video my friend! I can totally relate to just about everything you talked about, including the stepson living here in the Philippines. However, one thing I noticed between our lifestyles that I didn't here you mention is a relationship with the creator of us all. Having a good healthy relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ I believe will ease a lot of tention as you continue living here abroad. At least consider this if you're not currently experiencing this. And if you have in the past and walked away, just give it another go. All the best my brother.👍
At 68, it seems people don’t even see me anymore at the store or wherever, those that do say yes sir, thank you sir, always sir, old age creeped up on me too , I felt better a few years ago and I agree it’s not gonna get better, now I can throw my back out putting on eye drops, sucks , but I could never take on a shake n bake family no matter what the woman looks like - be safe
i hear you i just turned 75 last winter i was treated for prostate cancer but last month i had to sell my truck because glaucoma has lett me nearly totally blind my health otherwise is good i have the love of my wife and family and so a strong desire to adapt and carry on
Don't let procrastination be the arbiter of your health Mike !! The science says genetics is only a 40% determiner of health/lifespan. The other 60% is from regular & consistent exercise, diet, attitude & proper/adequate sleep .....AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO SEE/FEEL IMPROVEMENT !!
The key to aging disgracefully is to have one or two hobbies that you enjoy with a passion. To get outside your comfort zone. At 79 I still sail solo aboard my 30ft boat summer and winter. When it’s not suitable for sailing I throw a leg over the motorcycle and head off on long rides to visit distant friends. When the weather is that bad that neither sailing nor riding is safe, I light the fire, curl up with a good book and a glass (or three) of whisky to hand.
It helps that I have an understanding wife who lets me pursue my hobbies and is always there when I come home, exhausted, from my wandering. She is not young either, and has her own, separate hobbies and friends. We eat good food, drink good wine and have good conversations. We don’t dwell on the future, beyond planning our next (separate) holidays. Why separate? Because we are interested in different places and activities.
Methinks you need to seek some advice on how to deal with depression.
Wow I need a life like yours....Motorcycles , sailing a good woman...home....71 and a half here and my dutch childhood sweetheart GF 68 just emailed me last week to tell me she has a new lover just in time for the holidays but she wants to keep our little dutch apartment and my car and not move in with "him" so much for me going " Home" Mike needs to kick the boy to the curb let him sink or swim for awhile maybe join the military..if he comes back he will be a better man Mike can help.....
I would stick with sailing and stay off the bike. You'll live a bit longer.
@ Not necessarily- solo sailing is considered to be a very hazardous activity. Motorcycling is allegedly good for sharpening the wits. In any case, once a person has made it to the biblical “three score and ten” additional time on this planet is merely a bonus, not to be taken for granted….
I get it Mike - I'm 71 now and have visited Mark and Paul @ Ground Zero 2 years ago today . Now I don't feel like flying 15 hours to Cebu and am content to stay home in Snowy Alberta where I have a good ( Filipino ) wife , home , family . I feel your pain , I'm where you are today . The recipe is to stay strong and stay away from people that piss me off - I'm a believer in Solitude now , lol 😶Happy New Years to You and Janet , All the Best in 2025 ( ps ) I like how you tell it like it is , Thanks for that .
Getting old is a gift that some don’t get. Live each day to the fullest. Think about this my friend. You will never be as young as you are today ever again. Gif bless. 😊
Realization sets in for all of us brother. It’s a hard pill to swallow but do your best not to let it eat at you 24/7 because that added stress will do you in faster than anything else. Keep living and enjoying the way you have been my friend 💪🏻👍🏻🙏🏻❤️✌🏻
That's a good point, I'll try to remember that.
Everyday this side of the dirt is a good day. No one gets out alive.
If you have family or loved ones, having your affairs in order is one of the most important and responsible thing you can do for them upon your passing. leaving a mess for them after your passing is selfish and irresponsible.
Don't sweat the small stuff. Take care of yourself and stay healthy for as long as you can. your healthspan is more valuable than lifespan. Passing quickly, when it happens, is a gift. Hopefully it happens doing something you love.
At 70, I look at all these celebrities in their 80’s-90’s and feel I’m not alone and that there’s still more to life.
Two rules I stick to, never ever think of what age I am and secondly never ever say the word old ,only use the word " older ".
I fig out using "older" .. I lived in FL, in my 50's - 60 .. It's relative & perspective ..
I am not too far behind you, bro in age. "The life of mortals is like grass, they flourish like a flower of the field; the wind blows over it and it is gone, and its place remembers it no more."
Psalm 104:15-16 Thanks for posting!
Thanks for sharing those words.
Great, honest stuff, thank you. Im in my 50s and you have helped me see a bit further down the road. Im looking after my dad in his 80s and i can see the stresses/pain/mums death last year. Seems theres ages and stages when a bunch of problems hit us, and stages when we just sail smooth waters.
Hey Mike. Wow. That was quite the outpouring of authenticity and I certainly feel for you and I certainly can relate to many of the things you were talking about… Especially the age issue. But I know you would call me a young buck at 64, right? I would agree it’s super important to get your will and end of life paperwork done. It’s really important. I totally support your notion to stay healthy and it does sound like walking for you has many many benefits, including physical. I shall be cheering you on!
I’ve been in LDR since 2018. I’m 72 and my partner is 37 with 3 kids. 8 - 16 yo. One thing i know is that interacting with kids keeps your mind younger. We have a house and a business that will give my partner security when i am gone. Yes, our bodies get old and we get physically more tired but keep some exercise going, eat sensibly and enjoy what u now have. Health is our biggest concern so have a plan. Try a new project Mike and don’t sink into apathy and shake off the stress. I wish you many more years of livin’ and lovin’ life. 🌻
Congratulations you are now part of the Philippines welfare system LOL
@@jefflynch3946 LOL! Very true words!
I would not want a filipina with any kids under the age of 18. No thanks. Been there. Done that!
What welfare🤔🤔🤔🤔
Mick just live one day at a time. Don't overthink your age. Life is only as good as u want to put into it. Cheers
Couldn't agree more. We're not given a good life or a bad life. We're given a life. It's up to us to make it good or bad.
I love this guy! 64 in Florida. Looking forward to retirement and a 5 year mission to explore new worlds.
Hi Mike, I just returned from Sinulog in Cebu 2 days ago, and yes you do live in a tropical paradise. From 85 degrees to -2 degrees and a New England winter was no cup of tee to return home to.
In 2022 you made the move as so eloquently stated in the movie Shawshank Redemption, "Get busy living, or get busy dying"...fortunately you took the first option.
With your move to PI, and your wonderful wife, you have a loving family and support. Your contribution to them and "mentorship" provided will serve them well into the future. Teaching them American perspectives and values will allow them additional insight to better flourish throughout their lives. Your imprint and knowledge transfer on Janet and her teenage son will pay lasting dividends, even though it might not seem like it now. (My son is that age and off to college in the fall)
The Filipino culture of support for elders is still very vibrant and something not to discount (America has lost this culturally) Having dealt with the elderly career wise in Southern Florida, the twilight years are no cup of tea. Even worse if you have no family support, or they are waiting for you to kick off to get at your assets (Selfish greed) "Century Village" was like a living morgue.
I do hope you are feeling more emotionally upbeat since the video a few weeks ago. The underlying concern you were expressing was evident. And remember that the path you are on in the "Adventure of Life" is by God's design. He has your back and hopes to meet you down the road in the years he has allotted to your wonderful life.
I was glad to hear the realization towards the end of the clip that especially as you age, staying healthy should be Priority #1. At 67, I make it a point to work out strenuously for least a half-hour daily - and that doesn't mean just going for a brisk walk. It's hiking and biking challenging uphill climbs, rowing machine, swimming laps, strength workouts doing pull-ups, pushups and dips, etc. I decided to give up competitive sports because of loss of athleticism and the injury risks involved, but find I don't miss them that much. And along with that commitment should be an equally strong one to eating healthy and getting enough sleep. At this rate, I feel I'll be able to maintain my current fitness level at least another ten years. My main concession to aging has been not going out nearly as much now, but since that usually involves drinking and missing out on sleep, it's something I'm willing to sacrifice in favor of staying healthy.
Accidents do happen so being healthy is not the only problem.
I am 75. I just made the 2 suitcase move over here 2 weeks ago, after 2 trips here earlier this year. Your not old, just older. Stay active and hopefully we both will see the Browns win the Super Bowl.
Go Cav's and Ohio St
THAT may take a while! Lol. 😮
Browns … Super Bowl, that’s not gonna happen
That's about as likely as Deshaun Watson giving up his "happy ending" massages. Giving up on Baker Mayfield was the Brown's big mistake. Meanwhile, AceBachelorCool is celebtrating, because his Detroit Lions are kicking ass, and contenders to win the Super Bowl.
@RandyRhode-yq5hq
I’m a lifelong Kansas City Chiefs fan. Go K.C. Chiefs!!!
No proper stroke care in Duma, or Heart doctors/equipment…. While the Philippines can extend your life in some ways, it can also decrease your life expectancy due to lack of proper medical care
Appreciate your candor, you make great videos. Always real.
Some have argued that we tend to adjust to the windfalls in life sooner than adjusting to pain in life which suggests life is no picnic even in the Phillipines as a relatively well to do expatriate.
Just started watching your channel a little while back and like your content. You come across as a reasonable, authentic person. You've thought about things a great deal. As I get older, I ponder many of the same type of things. I've myself find, especially when thinking of end of life things that my faith is what I lean on and carried me through. I believe in Jesus Christ and without that part of my life guiding me, I'd be far less equipped to deal with the tough issues of aging that we all face. Your wife and son are lucky to have you. I wish you the very best.👍
wow thank you MJ
Mike , you'll be ok , skin will peal off and new things will fall off and new things will grow .
Your time is going to end when it…… ends. You don’t know when that is and worrying or losing sleep will not change your mortality but will make your remaining days less enjoyable. You don’t have to live each day like it’s your last day but you should strive to enjoy each day, one day at a time. The only best changes you can make is avoid things that waste your time, and make healthy decisions that may buy you extra time or improve your health so you can still enjoy the days that you still have. Worrying about what happens after your passing for the people you care about can be improved by tying up losses ends now to give you peace of mind while you are still alive that they will be OK after you make the final move on. Carry on
Mike sending you all the motivation from all the viewers to exercise more.
You will feel better and so will everyone.
The longer we keep existing, the more sorrow we can experience. The loss of others, for example.
Be glad it is a teenage boy. I'm heading torward life with a teenage girl. Pray for me.
Important for raizing a teenager is setting boundaries...
My younger brother married a Filipino 22 years ago. They have spent that time working their socks off in the UK. They have visited the Philippines (Mindanao) many times, investing in property and land for their retirement. Within the past 6 months my brother has had two heart attacks. He is 56. He has now been medically retired from his job as a London bus driver. He is adamant he will return to the Philippines from the UK early next year for good. I worry as where his property is located in Mindanao local hospitals are not that good. In my opinion, he will be lucky to hit 60 let alone 70.
@@stevenhull5025 used the hospitals in Mindanao . I found them excellent. You have to pay but got the best care.
I am a nurse originally from Mindanao, now in NHS. I worked with many really good doctors there. Do your research . Adventist hospitals are usually good in the Philippines. Also the Doctors Hospital usually named after each city . But good hospitals are not free .
Love your honesty and openness Mike, good to hear this from someone who is 20 years younger than you. ✌
Excellent video. I turned 67 last month and I can relate to almost everything you're say. I've been wanting to visit the Philippines and maybe even live there. But lately, I've been seriously rethinking my goals because of my age and health issues. I agree with you concerning getting myself healthier physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I'm working on the first three, but for some reason, it's difficult to work on my spiritual side. I haven't been to church in about 7 years. I know reconnecting with God would help me in many ways. Maybe I slipped farther away from God then I thought. Anyways, I know that you didn't touch on this subject and maybe you're fighting the same thing I am too. Sometimes I'll allow things that happen to me to drive a wedge between God and me. I know, it's a process to get closer to God. One step at a time. And as I'm writing this, I realized I'm talking to myself too. There are UA-cam videos about old people and their regrets on life and what they wish they had done. Very interesting. Looks like you and me both are doing a lot of reflecting. Take care and God Bless.
Mike, you will persevere, take your time and put everything you can think of into getting Janet ready to cope with all the things you are doing now. Let her handle things slowly over the next year and take the training wheels off. Let her make mistakes so you can still help to get her confidence up. I still need to plan my next chapter but have a great start with a trust in place and will etc. Take it easy my friend and soon that Filipina will be taking care of you as well as you have taken care of her. Happy, healthy, New year to you, Janet and PJ!❤
I’m in my mid fifties and I have the same thoughts he has now……
Thanks Mike for just telling it the way it is!
As a 64-year-old myself you calling 65 years olds "young men" was a refreshing bit of positivity. I am not sure I'm getting that vibe personally, but it was a welcome comment. I have a German mate who was my mentor back in the 1980, s , mentor as in "young man please listen to me, book yourself a holiday to the Philippines"(I did!) He was born in Adolf Hitler Strasse in 1940. , he finally got grounded by a stroke in 2020 but before that he was going twice or three times a year to Manila to meet his friends, get with the ladies in the clubs and all that, the same things he did when he was a middle-aged bloke. That kind of lifestyle is not for everyone, but my point is he was basically 80 years old before he hit that health wall.
I enjoyed your frankness and honesty. You are at a point of reflection that a lot of us reach (or will reach). Thanks for sharing.
Great video, I love the openness and candor for sharing your perspectives. I'm 45 and I'm toying with the idea of relocating to thailand, these are similar things I've already stated to think about. The child has a very solid role model too, congrats for taking on that responsibility and showing him what a man is 👏
Ill share my big health save for 2024. I noticed some changes to my health at age 60 that i never had before. Rather than mindlessly writing it off to age...i watched videos on foods. It turned out i was approaching insulin resistance from what i was eating. After turning to direct from nature food, eliminating pastries and processed foods, all symptoms cleared up and i feel 10 years younger.
No money was spent on tests or meds.
10:32 I know how you feel Mike.
I've just turned 75 and I can really feel the difference since I turned 70. Feel like I'm walking on very thin ice since then.
Hope it stays good for you.
I've travelled a bit since 65 y/o, and have visited Malaysia, Thailand, Laos and Vietnam.
In Kaula Lumpur now, and will hit the Philippines for the first time on January 7th, when I arrive in Cebu.
Not out for much else but the cheaper cost of living, which is good for someone on a Pension.
Love the tropical weather, and the food has been great wherever I've been.
Making life enjoyable, but that ice seems very thin at times
Do it well Mike.
Stress is a killer. Some facts that you now realize, teenage children are very difficult to deal with in your 50s. In your 70s….that is a heart attack waiting to happen. The children are learning but they can be incredibly challenging, especially as a stepfather and foreigner. Good news is that period will end, but maturity of teens can take years. In the meantime don’t sweat the small stuff.
Thank you for sharing.
Now you're starting to make me wonder, what i'm getting into.
Or starting to plan for my retirement..😊
Making the move within the Next year. I am apprehensive of the time you take to share. I always do research prior to doing anything, so hearing from guy’s like you , Paul McGill and others has been such a blessing to help me avoid mistakes and make a smooth transition
I'm 81 years old. Yes there are always challenges.