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How to build trust in seconds | Adrienne Bankert | TEDxReno

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  • Опубліковано 13 лип 2024
  • Many consider meeting new people a burden; when it can be a goldmine. In this highly relatable talk, Adrienne Bankert shares how isolation and struggles with belonging can help us breakthrough when initiating conversation and allow us to "prompt engineer connection." Through behind-the-scenes stories from her work as a journalist she reveals one major key for how anyone can move from shallow or awkward interactions to being engaged, opening new doors of opportunity in an instant.
    Adrienne Bankert, an award-winning national news anchor, spearheaded the launch of “Morning in America” on NewsNation and now leads Special Projects. With five years at ABC News, she earned two Emmys for “Good Morning America” and reported for “World News Tonight” and “Nightline.” From Tokyo to Paris, she has covered major events like the Women’s World Cup and tragedies like the Parkland shooting. Adrienne’s interviews span from Kobe Bryant to Lady Gaga, even singing with Garth Brooks! In her book, "Your Hidden Superpower," she explores the impact of kindness on personal and professional success. Based in Chicago, she embraces her new hometown while innovating in media and technology. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 58

  • @arlenesolis024
    @arlenesolis024 Місяць тому +89

    I believe Maya Angelou said “people will forget what you said but remember you by how you made them feel.” I believe this is an example of it. Kindness is action. Thank you

  • @kris.listen748
    @kris.listen748 Місяць тому +34

    9:59 | “What question do you wish more people asked you?”
    WOW! That’s a striking conversation starter!

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae Місяць тому +2

      To me this question is a cop out. Making interviewee do your job for you.
      I’ve seen multiple interviews with this question and the answer is never interesting and it doesn’t look like it builds a connection.

  • @heregoeseverythiing
    @heregoeseverythiing Місяць тому +29

    Someone actually told me I was a breath of fresh air yesterday. It made my day!!!😊

    • @ChanningAyers
      @ChanningAyers Місяць тому +3

      Based off of your unique screen name, seems like you would be that person.. ❤️

  • @botsworkroom5943
    @botsworkroom5943 Місяць тому +24

    Be true to your word and follow through with your actions. ...
    Learn how to communicate effectively with others. ...
    Remind yourself that it takes time to build and earn trust. ...
    Take time to make decisions and think before acting too quickly.
    I hope this may help you from my side.😊😊

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Місяць тому

      It depends on each person, the situation, the interaction and the relationships that you have with that person.

  • @JudyHoPhD
    @JudyHoPhD 27 днів тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your personal story and ways to help people spark interesting and meaningful conversations. Beginning with empathy and a desire to genuine understand another person is so important.
    It was great to meet you at TEDx Adrienne!

  • @AliceHeiman
    @AliceHeiman 25 днів тому +2

    Wonderful ideas for being comfortable starting conversations when networking or interviewing. Prompting is something everyone can learn. Love this talk.

  • @VaxjoyOllie2
    @VaxjoyOllie2 Місяць тому +10

    Great message to takeaway!

  • @alexandrabcarter
    @alexandrabcarter 23 дні тому

    So many people talk about trust, but not how to earn it. Loved seeing this talk in person! Congrats Adrienne!

  • @dm_chae7787
    @dm_chae7787 Місяць тому +5

    Very insightful. Thank you!

  • @KayaStanley
    @KayaStanley Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for this amazing and moving talk, Adrienne! I have thought about this many times since I heard you give this talk live!

  • @ananananabop
    @ananananabop Місяць тому +4

    Really fun and interesting talk. Thank you for sharing your hard earned expertise.

  • @aryaraj-eb1du
    @aryaraj-eb1du Місяць тому +5

    Thank you so much ❤😊

  • @ipsitaroy27
    @ipsitaroy27 Місяць тому

    Kindness speaks! You’re a real encourager! Thank you, this is a wonderful learning.

  • @BobThomason-rht
    @BobThomason-rht Місяць тому +1

    I find when I can make the conversation more about them and a genuine curiosity about them, it leads to very interesting conversations. Bing all about me is no fun for either of us. This is a challenge for my personality type but I continue to work on it. Well don presentation.

  • @stevemartin7464
    @stevemartin7464 22 дні тому +1

    I agree, you need to be kind o yourself, I battle with connection and I definitely have imposter syndrome. Its really a sh!tty thing to have. I was abused as a kid so I have trouble getting to believe in myself because I was beaten for being "too clever". But, I have worked on it, I am much better but still not perfect.

  • @chinyeakaemmanuel2137
    @chinyeakaemmanuel2137 Місяць тому +2

    GREAT TALK

  •  27 днів тому

    This speech is just spectacular!

  • @ewalichorowicz4614
    @ewalichorowicz4614 Місяць тому +3

    Such a great speech! ❤ Every person we meet has a story. 'We all need a breath of fresh air' 🙏😊

  • @olalekanbamidele-qp7tt
    @olalekanbamidele-qp7tt Місяць тому +1

    Great content. Awesome watching this.

  • @marieschmidt9416
    @marieschmidt9416 28 днів тому

    Wow, how inspiring! Great talk.

  • @tetsubo57
    @tetsubo57 Місяць тому +8

    I'm autistic and wasn't diagnosed until I was 58. I've spent my entire life doing the emotional labor of masking who I am to make other people comfortable. I'm done with that. This just sounds like doing more emotional labor for others. Something almost no one has ever done for me.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Місяць тому +1

      Because the inclusive society is not too highlighted ! And also we live in a society which we have to think about group’s mind not individual’s mind so if the group said something and if you’re not following or not agreed about it then you’re the one who are weird ! They called individualism, I called it diversity . . . Each person have a different way of thinking . . . That doesn’t mean that they are wrong or right or you are wrong or right ! Just two different perceptions . . .
      Since I bet a lot on the quality of the relationship than on the quantity, I know my relationship with this person and the improvement I have with it as . . . So I don’t ask myself too many questions

  • @IINoirII
    @IINoirII Місяць тому +3

    What if you were born in a place where kindness is treated as weakness and with hostility?

  • @user-mx3qo9hi8r
    @user-mx3qo9hi8r Місяць тому

    Welfare is the most important thing in human being
    We all should have dignity for certain cases
    To solve problems , first we should discern them deeply
    People should motivate those subdued ones
    I love an ease in her speech :)

  • @suryajaiswal2514
    @suryajaiswal2514 Місяць тому +2

    Great mam

  • @TrentSheltonVideos
    @TrentSheltonVideos Місяць тому

    Amazing 🔥

  • @veebhasharma3403
    @veebhasharma3403 Місяць тому +4

    Watching now

  • @sixfiftyfive2386
    @sixfiftyfive2386 Місяць тому +5

    What exactly is a prompt tho

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae Місяць тому +3

      Instructions on how to do the prompt are very unclear.
      The only clear example she gives is:
      a) asking an interviewee what question you’d like to be asked more (inapplicable unless you are an interviewer)
      b) telling CEO she thinks being a CEO is the hardest job in the world
      c) asking Lady Gaga how to call her during interview and reffering what a man spoke in her name.
      None of the above seems usable. The second example seems to be ‘notice if someone is down and assume what they are down about’.
      Like there is a lot of fluff about serving people, connecting, being genuine, believing in your own value but the application of the above is not explained.

  • @biniz5919
    @biniz5919 Місяць тому

    Impressive appearance and speech ❤❤❤❤

  • @genog5791
    @genog5791 Місяць тому

    This was good!

  • @theschoolofbodylanguage
    @theschoolofbodylanguage Місяць тому

    Congratulations

  • @shubinternet
    @shubinternet Місяць тому +3

    So, she talks about Empathy being key to finding prompts, but what if you’re on the autism spectrum and Empathy is simply not something that exists in your tool bag?

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Місяць тому

      Yes she does not set up here the inclusive society and disabled people like Autism’s people . . .

  • @reemhasan37
    @reemhasan37 Місяць тому

    Thank you beautiful 😻

  • @SEKoranteng
    @SEKoranteng Місяць тому +1

    Who else was surprised this video was more than a few seconds long....

  • @AndNoted
    @AndNoted Місяць тому +1

    Can one help me summerize? English not first language

  • @harisguldiken9890
    @harisguldiken9890 Місяць тому +1

    Niye Türkçe çeviri seçeneği yok altyazı olarak.

  • @MaleahsDiary
    @MaleahsDiary Місяць тому

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @user-im8rm4wl4k
    @user-im8rm4wl4k Місяць тому

    Agree and disagree.

  • @syedhashimnaqvi3321
    @syedhashimnaqvi3321 Місяць тому

  • @joblo2671
    @joblo2671 Місяць тому +1

    Dont forget to be pretty. How the TV manipulates you :

  • @cloudyname
    @cloudyname Місяць тому

    ey baru ges mau ah eyy

  • @KW-3030
    @KW-3030 25 днів тому +2

    Why would anyone want advice from her when she was DEMOTED from her morning anchor job in January

  • @freebrook
    @freebrook Місяць тому +3

    That Lady Gaga story is actually kind of disappointing. :(

  • @user-si7sw7xy4n
    @user-si7sw7xy4n Місяць тому +2

    美國🇺🇸是神的國度

  • @MarvelousMusicmmusic
    @MarvelousMusicmmusic Місяць тому +3

    I don't trust tv anchors though

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen Місяць тому +1

      definitely shouldn't trust her on JewsNation, a mossad company.

    • @KW-3030
      @KW-3030 26 днів тому +1

      ​@@DanFrederiksen her being ULTRA pro-israel is odd cause she was fired from KCRA in 07 for making Antisemitic comments.

    • @DanFrederiksen
      @DanFrederiksen 25 днів тому +1

      @@KW-3030 she is a working girl for a million dollars a year. anchors are grotesquely overpaid. And she even does it in the name of God. Her judgment will be harsh

    • @KW-3030
      @KW-3030 25 днів тому +1

      @@DanFrederiksen 💯💯💯