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  • @hdm6897
    @hdm6897 3 роки тому +31

    I Benefit so much from Abdul Rahman , May Allah Preserve him.

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому +2

      *Ustad

    • @hdm6897
      @hdm6897 3 роки тому +4

      @@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 I benefit so much from *Ustadh Hassan Abdul Rahman***May Allah reward him and Guide us jamee'an!

    • @hdm6897
      @hdm6897 3 роки тому

      @artist you definitely need to do some "self critical thinking" and ask Allah to guide you.You sound actually like a weirdo with deep issues.The Quran & Sunnah accommodate each other and they together establish Islam ,Al Wahyayn , Al kitab Wa Hikmah.
      Dude your majnoon.

    • @youtrip1037
      @youtrip1037 3 роки тому

      @artist didn't Allah say in Quran that O muhammad we have revealed this quran so you can explain it to the people".. So are you now rejecting quran by saying Allah I don't need the explaination of the quran because I understand it well than prophet.
      Watch "the hot seat podcast" named "is quran enough " by ustadh abdurrahman hassan in his podcast. May Allah guide you and us.

    • @youtrip1037
      @youtrip1037 3 роки тому

      @artist did the quran directly drop at your home, no, it came through prophet and his companions.

  • @hatehair1364
    @hatehair1364 3 роки тому +29

    Some guests came to our house it was necessary to say the least, There was a non hijabi women who also came and extended her hand to my son , ALHAMDULILAH my son looked down and continued, so proud of him 😊

    • @mohamedghassenmahjoub6076
      @mohamedghassenmahjoub6076 3 роки тому +3

      @Ahmad Shaikh leave home omg reply
      EDIT: sorry I meant leave him be as in the anti hadith guy there's no need to argue, he doesn't want to change his mind

    • @mohamedghassenmahjoub6076
      @mohamedghassenmahjoub6076 3 роки тому +1

      @Ahmad Shaikh the anti hadith guy

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому +4

      @artist anyone who reject hadith is mushrik?
      Lol, do you even pray? Because it is not in Qur'an which explains how to pray
      You don't pray, don't bother replying

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому

      didn't Allah say a million times in the Quran to OBEY ALLAH AND HIS MESSENGER? Now was this a general statement or was it just for that time? If it was just for that time than according to you Islam is incomplete,

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому

      @artist I know how to deal with Quranists,You people are dumb 😂

  • @anouaressanoussi
    @anouaressanoussi 3 роки тому +2

    Maa shaa'Allah, the setup looks nice

  • @afreenafreen6390
    @afreenafreen6390 3 роки тому +1

    Jazakallah khair brother AbdurRahman Hassan

  • @amgadragab6584
    @amgadragab6584 3 роки тому +1

    بارك الله فيك

  • @Wakobear.
    @Wakobear. 3 роки тому +3

    جزاك الله خيرًا

  • @amgadragab6584
    @amgadragab6584 3 роки тому

    Thank you brother

  • @sulemandukuray2165
    @sulemandukuray2165 3 роки тому +1

    May Allah bless u brother

  • @sukaipenn8810
    @sukaipenn8810 3 роки тому +2

    Peace and Blessings 🏏🏏🏏🏏🏏

  • @sukaipenn8810
    @sukaipenn8810 3 роки тому +3

    Glory to be Allah 🔵🔵🔵🔵🔵

  • @anouaressanoussi
    @anouaressanoussi 3 роки тому +2

    Is it possible for someone to add Arabic subtitles

  • @MohamedAli-nf8cp
    @MohamedAli-nf8cp 3 роки тому +1

    وقع خلط في كلام الأستاذ عبد الرحمن، بيانه على النحو التالي:
    المس في لغة العرب لا يكون إلا مس البشرة للبشرة، قال الفيومي في المصباح المنير في مادة م-س-س: (أَفْضَيْتُ إلَيْهِ بِيَدِي مِنْ غَيْرِ حَائِلٍ هَكَذَا قَيَّدُوهُ)، فالعلماء يقيدون المس أن تكون باليد ومن غير حائل، وقد أشار إلى هذا الإمام الشافعي وغيره.
    وعليه؛ فقولك في تفسير الحديث: إن الحديث دال على عدم التفرقة بين الحائل وغير الحائل = لا يستقيم، ولا يصح أن تستدل بالحديث على هذه الجزئية بعينها.

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому

      يعني على اساس الناس هنا يعرفون اللغة العربية... اكتب بالعربي!!!

    • @MohamedAli-nf8cp
      @MohamedAli-nf8cp 3 роки тому

      @@MohammedAlSharif2002 كتبتُ بالعربية حتى لا يطلع على هذا الكلام إلا من كان أهلًا له.
      والله الموفق.

  • @l.k1992
    @l.k1992 3 роки тому +6

    What if there is a very very elderly man or woman who is struggling to go up stairs or cross the road etc. Is a brother or sister allowed to offer physical assistance to such a person from the opposite gender?
    Likewise if there is a blind person struggling to find their way on a path, can a muslim offer physical assistance to a person from the opposite gender?

    • @evilhunter8542
      @evilhunter8542 3 роки тому +11

      Even in situation mentioned above A Muslim would try not to touch an opposite gender unless in an emergency situation where he or she is forced by the situation and can't be helped without touching.
      If I see a girl falling from the stairs and I can save her by holding her, then I should. I don't need to ring a Scholar whilst she is rolling down the stairs and then later call an ambulance . Lol

    • @haroondabbagh2869
      @haroondabbagh2869 3 роки тому +1

      @@evilhunter8542 lol
      Good point

    • @Hero_03
      @Hero_03 3 роки тому

      It is permissible only if it's a legitimate reason to save someone's life or to give medical attention but concentrate only on that part thats it

    • @mohammedqureshi3398
      @mohammedqureshi3398 Рік тому

      @@Hero_03 no its never permissable to touch non relative no matter what even if they dying or were about to die

    • @JibreelProductions
      @JibreelProductions Рік тому

      @@mohammedqureshi3398 Assalamu Alaikum, I think we have to be cautious with this, because being "liberalized" isn't good, but going to extremes in that sense isn't either...
      Even eating pork or dead mean is permissible if you are starving for instance...
      That means, it's not the ideal, but Allah won't burden souls to that level...
      And just as saving your life can justify some things, saving other people's lives also can...
      But I would consult with someone of knowledge.
      But saying something is haram when it isn't can also be a sin brother... watch out.
      Assalamu Alaikum.

  • @youtubeaccount0x073
    @youtubeaccount0x073 3 роки тому +1

    What if a woman touches you without your permission. For example, a class mate taps your back when she tries to grab your attention. Or a teacher taps you. And you never intended to touch them?

    • @adamfxcr
      @adamfxcr 3 роки тому +10

      Actions are based on intentions. If you didn't want it but it happened without your permission Allah won't hold you accountable inshaAllah.

    • @mrsk8518
      @mrsk8518 3 роки тому +4

      A person can not go against Islamic teachings regardless of intentions.
      The situation you mention would be completely out of your control but if this did or does happen you can also ask/advise politely to prevent it happen again

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому +2

      @artist dude shut it and stop spamming

    • @rosya.traveler4269
      @rosya.traveler4269 3 роки тому

      @@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 lets just report that @artist! . the person seems to be spreading lies and spamming. probably not even a Muslim.
      Its funny how these disbelievers and hypocrites comes to Muslim channels to spread lies.

    • @mahmoud-quran
      @mahmoud-quran 3 роки тому +1

      Tell them not to touch you! Would they like if you went ahead touching them without their permission?

  • @youtubeaccount0x073
    @youtubeaccount0x073 3 роки тому

    Where has Ustadh Muhammad Tim humble been?
    Is he alright?

    • @adamfxcr
      @adamfxcr 3 роки тому +7

      Go on his own official yt channel, he uploads lessons on there.

  • @MuslimPrince_
    @MuslimPrince_ 3 роки тому

    I have seen ruqyah clips where raqii is taking Jinn out of females by grabbing pinky then somewhat smacking the hand. Any idea if this is from the Sunnah

    • @MohammedAlSharif2002
      @MohammedAlSharif2002 3 роки тому +7

      That’s why the best type of Ruqyah is Seld-Ruqyah. And men aren’t allowed to touch women while doing Ruqyah.

    • @adamfxcr
      @adamfxcr 3 роки тому +2

      Touching in ruqyah is not necessary. It can be done with the same gender, but it’s not necessarily needed for effectiveness. With regard to with the opposite gender, touching is absolutely haram and not from the Sunnah

    • @MuslimPrince_
      @MuslimPrince_ 3 роки тому

      If you guys can forward this to Ustadh! I’d love to hear more on ruqyah

  • @DeMonotheist
    @DeMonotheist 3 роки тому +1

    What about little girls below the age of puberty?

    • @mahmoud-quran
      @mahmoud-quran 3 роки тому

      Then there is no problem if she has not reached puberty.

  • @Zeczam
    @Zeczam 3 роки тому +3

    What about sheikh Yusuf qaradawi's opinion permitting it? It would be good to make reference to other opinions even if you consider them weaker.

    • @ab.a8353
      @ab.a8353 3 роки тому +1

      Did you even watch the video?

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому +6

      Lol Yusuf qardawi is an ikhwani, that mans words are irrelevant

    • @AbuYahyah23
      @AbuYahyah23 3 роки тому

      It’s dishonest from AH to show it one sided. Many scholars of Sunnah have permitted shaking the hand of elderly women.

    • @Zeczam
      @Zeczam 3 роки тому

      @@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 a what?

    • @Zeczam
      @Zeczam 3 роки тому +1

      This entire fatwa appears to hinge purely on one man's (Sh Albani RH) authentication of some hadith that are considered weak by many muhaditheen. It would be good for the sheikh to mention the other opinion along with their evidences.

  • @user-zv2re4hw5v
    @user-zv2re4hw5v 3 роки тому

    What is actually the intro from 0:00 to 0:18?

    • @mahmoud-quran
      @mahmoud-quran 3 роки тому

      A poem. You can find it on this channel I believe

    • @osman.s1405
      @osman.s1405 3 роки тому

      Lamiyyah, ibn taymiyyah

    • @user-zv2re4hw5v
      @user-zv2re4hw5v 3 роки тому

      @@osman.s1405 Jazakallahu khair

  • @oemadam
    @oemadam 3 роки тому +1

    Assalamu alaykum is it really haram to shake hands of an old man?

    • @rzya.11
      @rzya.11 3 роки тому +6

      as long as they are non-mahram to you, it is haram. an old man still has desires

    • @rzya.11
      @rzya.11 3 роки тому +5

      @life Lesson can you please share the hadith that says old men don't have desires?
      the hadiths did not restrict on age of the men or women. so we shouldn't think it is alright to do so because the person is old. And Ustadh AbdulRahman already explained the concern around age. wouldn't the same apply to women as well as it applies to men?
      ----
      It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.”
      Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh.
      -----
      Muhammad bin Munkadir said that he heard Umaimah bint Ruqaiqah say:
      “I came to the Prophet (ﷺ) with some other women, to offer our pledge to him. He said to us: ‘(I accept your pledge) with regard to what you are able to do. But I do not shake hands with women.’”

    • @dasohmoff
      @dasohmoff 3 роки тому +5

      @life Lesson That does not mean that he hasn't desires. And saying "According to the Sharia" is very dangerous, as the Sharia is the law of Allah (swt).

    • @dasohmoff
      @dasohmoff 3 роки тому +4

      @life Lesson The hadith you mentioned does not say that old men don't have desires. It maybe could imply that their desires are less, but completely negating their desires is not possible. Furthermore, for the sake of the argument, even if they had no desires, touching non mahram woman would still be haram for them. Except if you can bring something to prove otherwise.
      The one who explained it to you, if he is a reliable source and if he can bring proof for his claim, then we will accept it.

    • @User-ts2jj
      @User-ts2jj 3 роки тому +3

      Regardless if the old man has desires or not, it is impermissible as the hadith ustadh mentioned (paraphrased) 'it is more dear to me for a metal rod to be put into my head than to touchthe hand of a woman'

  • @AdaGyuik56
    @AdaGyuik56 3 роки тому

    Aslam alikum. Is looking at a women (not out of pleasure) haram

    • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913
      @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 3 роки тому

      @artist stop spamming! You think spamming is halal??

    • @aatif7518
      @aatif7518 3 роки тому

      @life Lesson why should imam look?
      I have seen these sheikhs in their programs completely lower their gazes when I attended

    • @nidaeshaque
      @nidaeshaque 3 роки тому +1

      No. You are not supposed to look at women even if u have no feelings. Always lower gaze

    • @Nur12551
      @Nur12551 3 роки тому

      Please guys don't answer questions in the comments

  • @ahmedk7815
    @ahmedk7815 3 роки тому

    Why can no one actually be honest and open about our religion. Okay I understand that you follow a particular school of thought etc.. but give different opinions of different scholars. You said your answer like all scholars from time of the prophet to 2020 agreed. Look at sheikh Qardawi fatwa for example.. regardless of what he believes, he showcases all the different evidences for both sides of the argument..
    www.virtualmosque.com/islam-studies/faqs-and-fatwas/shaking-hands-with-a-non-mahram-dr-yusuf-al-qaradawi/

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 9 місяців тому +2

      "Sheikh" qardawi is a jaahil ikhwaani. He is not a scholar