He got fired for not shaking her hand! | Fahad Qureshi w. Mohammed Hijab & Ali Dawah
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In this episode of SALAMCast, brother Fahad Qureshi (Islam Net) discusses with Mohammed Hijab and Ali Dawah the recent viral video of him refusing to shake a female minister's hand, and how a Muslim teacher was fired in Norway for not shaking women's hand.
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"Islam started as something strange, and will revert to being something strange. So glad tidings to the Strangers." - Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
@Jizeen Wa alaikum Asalaam brother
BarakAllah feekum!
And peace to our Prophet PBUH, who wished upon us glad tidings. :')
That's a beautiful hadith. I'm not a muslim yet but I'm still searching.
Ameen🤲🏾
I used to work in a rehabilitation center where the doctors always said that he never shakes hands with others because of hygienic reasons and no body had a problem with that. That’s what I call double standards.
So We blame you for it.
Most people who explain why they have an issue shaking hands with respect for the other person will be listened to. Of course, there are exceptions, but it is always about the way you present yourself and how you say it.
Are you dumb? you cant compare this
This had nothing to do with women’s rights.
ServantOfAllah no he is not butthurt
@@NoName-mm6gh he means her!
@Mama Baer exactly! Haha
Exactly!
@Mama Baer you make my day thank you
The Queen of England did not shake hand with an Orthodox Jew. It bothered nobody then.! But soon a Muslim does a same thing "it's disrespectful" to all.
you have a link for this ?
@@justinmills8077 ua-cam.com/video/TRwTK5yYgWk/v-deo.html
Its on youtube
Umm Zaynul: The correct etiquette is lady proffers her hand and the gent accepts. It is possible the Queen had prior info that the Orthodox Jew would not shake her hand and hence did not proffer her hand staving off an embarrassing situation.
But there is no doubt that many Jews and Muslims make an ugly, fussy display of their regressive, antiquated religious customs which can only earn disrepute and ridicule. For example, why do Muslims decline to wish " Happy Christmas" but only condescend to say, " Happy Holiday"?
@@johnpereira9755 Becuase celebrating christmas is haram for us, since imitation of non believers is haram.
@@darkorangesupercar743 : You are not celebrating, you are only expressing your goodwill towards your Christian neighbors on their joyful day. Can you give me a verse of the Quran which says, " Wishing happy Christmas is haram"? The Quran also exhorts Muslims to not take Jews and Christians as awlias in Surah 5:51. Have the Saudis become any less Muslim by collaborating with the Americans in defence matters? Or the Iranians by collaborating with the Russians?
Brothers and sisters never compromise your deen by pleasing people
Be strong in your emaan
We are only here to please our Rab
No one will care once we are 6feet under
May Allah guide us all
Khadijah Akbari Wallahi 100% correct no one will care once ur 6 feet under
@@anisadan4588 ,it's true subhn'allah every1 moves on and forgets us once our soul has left this diluted dunya even family will physically remember you but can't do nothing, yet we are too busy pleasing people not realising we were only ceated to worship and obey our Rab like Allah عز وجل tells us in the Quran
و ما خلقت الجن والإنس إلا ليعبدون
Very true sister
May western countey's all kick you out, thank you my lord
@@wendypeeters7656 ,why so much hate
what has muslims dobe to you?
Do you know or studied about islam if not please don't believe everything you see on media it's all lies
Read the Quran with sincerity
Sub han allah that's called strong iman . I feel guilty of my self that shake hand with women but in side my heart I feel guilty. I love you guys
Abdullah Ghousi Wallahi I am with you
anonymous guy Ameen brother Wallahi you are right May Allah bless you aslam waleikum
I live in norway and Fahad did not disrespect her at all. And its not rude at all to not shake your hand if you cant do it.
in Norway you are free to do many things, unlike other places. But that does not mean that is was not a disrespect. Looks like you live in Denmark but in a Islamic bubble.
I live in norway, and he explained that he couldnt shake his hand
@@Obarg1_ But were you born in Norway?. Speak with your non-muslims Norwegians friends and they will tell you. If they agree with you, well, I am happy for Norwegians be so friendly and open minded.
From my point of view he is the xenophobic in this all situation, but hey... thats me, we all should be free to say our opinion.
Good on you Obarg1
@Iz NoGud yes i was born in norway and i still live here
I’m Christian and I think he was really respectful
During the me-too movement many women complaint of inappropriate handshakes. In fact, this led many companies to start discussing banning handshakes. Now during COVID-19 god has put everyone in a position not to shake hands.
This is only religious discrimination against Muslims.
Guys you should to study Islam and also accept it....
We respect every women and wont touch any that isnt ours(married to us) because she might belong to someone else...
@@socratique she belongs to someone else just like we (men) belong to our wives. We don't want any woman to touch us because our wives have right over our body.
As the Quran says,
"They (your wives) are your garment and you are a garment for them" (Noble Quran 2:187)
As per Quran both equally own each other.
No, he was not respectful because he voluntarily goes to a country where shaking hands is an act of education and he refuses to do so. If I go to an Islamic country I will try to be polite and respect their traditions because it's my duty as a polite person.
The way he said “My wife doesn’t want me to shake anyone’s hand.”😭😭
Yes sir that in utself is respect to womem the fact that im obeying a women
wife doesnt want him to shake anyones hand but he does with makes LOL
Kudus! 😍
Abz A Yes and Islamaphobes say that we don’t respect women.
@@sakhawatrahman4961 they have that little problem in their mind. Well, don't be shock! I understand why! If they use to have intercourse anytime, anywhere and to anyone that are not their mahram how much more shaking a hand... Astagfirollah
To me she received the highest rank of respect you can receive. Makes me sad that she thinks differently.
@@calcifer4297 if a man wants to shake a womans hand the woman can also reject. Does that make the man less of a human?
Allah's Will can not be changed and is not open for discussion. He does not want contact between two unless married.
But every person has a free will and can choose for himself if he/she wants to obey Allah.
@@calcifer4297 thank you and have a good day to.
@@calcifer4297 In his religion NO ONE can shake the hand of the opposite gender. Does that mean if the genders were swapped would you say that the woman believed she was above the man?
@@calcifer4297 In other words, you have no argument to back your ridiculous claim up
It's because in western countries, many women want to become like men... some of them even have penis implants, and cut off their chests, then claim they're men when they're not... it's becoming a sick society
I really have a problem with so-called modernization of Islam. I am an American Muslim woman, and I do not shake the hands of men as a personal choice of respect for my husband. Islam already gave women their equal rights long before the west. It is culture, not Islam, that oppresses women.
It is not just personal respect to one's husband but first to one's Creator. Man cannot shake woman's hand and vice versa, don't know where is the rudeness in that. 😥
@Glenys Wiseman why would we want to marry 4 males? They are not worth the trouble. Why would we want to marry non Muslim? They don't even understand the religion as a whole. Why would woman want to sit in front of man, most Muslim woman have bashfulness(shyness) that you don't. For the testimony, i can't give you the reason. But if you said about inheritance, I don't think it's unfair. Women inheritance is for women alone. But if a men receive his inheritance, he need to SHARE. With his wife, child, sister because he need to take care of them so no problem.
@Reina De corazones strike women, i know the word is there but the context and the condition, you don't know. Force marriage? Don't know what you're talking about. Honestly, just leave. You'll look like an ignorant person preaching about Islam when you don't even know most of it. Leave... it's okay if you don't like it, just keep with your own...
@Reina De corazones huh 😓 then you probably doesn't understand Islam as a whole. I'm not lying, I'm a Muslim too. So don't slander me when you don't know me. And i don't know your background, I don't know how you live your life, I don't know where you come from so i cannot judge you. But to slander Islam based on some unperfect follower is too much. Sometimes i think do some Muslim born really understand Islam correctly... I see error in the follower, I don't see error in Islam, Allah and our prophets. If i see you in front of me, i can ask you for your story, because i want to listen before i can say anything. i can pin point something. And you can judge me, you can see my intention, you can hear my tone of voice, you can shout at me, no problem. But we're not face to face with each other so what we write might be misunderstood by both of us. I'm far from perfect, I'm not that intelligent, i make mistake, i have sins, but i won't slander Islam when my knowledge are just 1/100. Assalamualaikum ....
@Reina De corazones i need to see you to believe you. Apostate usually are Muslim born. There are many converts that comes from different walk of life, different religion and faith. They are the true Muslim, instead they become better Muslim.. they know which one is religion, which one is culture. they convert with knowledge about the religion, their belief are far stronger that I'm ashamed that I'm a born Muslim but they are better in faith. Most converts also women, but you don't see them crying about force marriage, honor killing, strike woman and everything that Muslim born women deem as oppression. They know which one is real, which one is fake. So something to think about... You can slander Muslim and everything but in the end you are the one who will go to war with Allah, not us. Even without Muslim, Islam will spread. I've done my responsibility, what you do is up to you and Allah. Good day...
While back in speakers corner brother Ali was being harassed by a blonde wacko, insisting to shake hand with him, so does Hatun. They do this deliberately.
I get that and I always have one reply. I tell them to marry me and no problem with touching. All halal :)
They don't do it afterwards ;)
Some people just don't shake hands with people, period.
So after all of the sexual harassment scandals in the workplace, we are now having a problem with men not touching women at work! SubhaanAllah!
m begum utter irony
Btw, I worked in an office and before customer meetings I always called and clarified that I would not be shaking hands due to religion reasons and they often appreciated the heads up and were never taken aback or offended.
@Mark R You have a right to your opinion and landing on Mars etc has its merits but if you believe in God and know the true purpose of life, believe in the hereafter and your eternal next life, then all of this does actually matter.
Science, knowledge and religion go together in Islam.
It is only the ones with knowledge that fear Allah. Science brings you closer to Islam. Sadly Islam is not followed by most Muslim hence the downfall. If you read history the greatest advancement in sciences were infact achieved by Muslims who were devout.
We are all here temporarily and this life and just technological achievements will not give you success in the hereafter.
It is only through the obedience of Almighty that one can achieve peace here and true success in the next world.
The questions should be to yourself, what is your purpose in life? Are you answerable to your creator? Do you think your logic is better than the one who made us? What happens after we die, why did He make us different, why not one nation?why did He send different messengers? He Provides Everything, how? what does He expect from us, how and why?
Its not about hand shaking or not. Its about finding the truth. If you conclude Quran is from Allah and then submit to His Will with complete and total trust (even in spite of the few small "precautions" imposed by Him that we may find hard to do).... such as not shaking hands (as an example) then your heart opens up to understanding Islam's depth.
I will ignore your very offensive , rude statement calling other societies animals and put it down to ignorance of what you do not yet understand. Gid Willing you will.
If you want to disregard and abuse people of another belief system without researching from the source ie Quran and Sunnah thats your prerogative. But before condemning, one must try to gain knowledge. One act or deed that you witness used as justification to bad mouth a complete nation or religion and its teachings is, ignorance and arrogance.
I hope you will try and read the Quran to make sense of what looks absurd to you. I understand it totally. But think for a moment what makes people want to obey even such commands so willingly and so diligently??? There must be something more to this....
May Allah Guide you.
Give her cactus so she will not shake your hand
😂😂
Semir Manjura 😂 😂
👏
🤣🤣🤣
lol
If someone did to me what he did to her I'd feel so appreciative for the Respect
He’s such a humble and nice person. May Allah swt reward him for his good actions.
May Allah increase our imaan
Aameen
My my lord kill you all😂😂😂
Sidahmed Nnaji Ameen
@@wendypeeters7656 May Allah the Almighty grant you peace in your sorry state.
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z i disagree with the original comment, but thats really disrespectful of his religion
I swear by Allah, if he was a Christian, they would have praised him to the sky.
No. We don't like religion here in Norway. It's here but we only use it wjen we have to. When people get married, baptism and funerels. It a institusjon that takes care of those things. Of course are some people religious, but most of us Norwegians are paigens. We are still the Vikings pretending to let cristianity rule. But thats only for shits and show. The Paigan way of life, is the core of us. Seasoned with some christian values that suits us 😉
@Mama Baer brutal!
EZI yep. Nothing but this life.
That must feel weird.
Exactly!!
@@deziderious6510 rip
Just because he is Norway it does not mean he has to follow everything that is Norway and since they speak about rights and freedom why can't they allow him to practice what he wants
He does not even shake hand with a Muslim woman unless his mom or wife
It hasnothing to do with disrespect it's just a religious conviction
There Jews who dobt shake hands with women and they have ab entire state in London, nobody talk about them and their women don't mix with men
Nobody cares but they are busy with ISLAM
Chihab Ahmed because Iblis is running the kufaars and he doesn’t care about the Jews. His plan is to destroy Islam. The Jews are already astray.
because islam is the truth. and evil people don't want to tolerate the truth. but those evil people harm nobody except themselfes.
kim jong un
wow, what a sad, miserable and depressed life you must have to come to this comment section of a muslim video only to insult and hate. lol what a sore loser you are.
And thats why it's not compatible with the west. Do what you want in your own home, if you are in someone else's home you are a guest, treat them with respect.
Chihab Ahmed if I move in a Muslim majority sharia guided country I follow the laws there, I cover up in respect of the country I reside in, why does it seem to be a problem for some of these people and I'm not speaking in regards to shaking hands.
Such respect and an act of kindness from him, I don't get how anyone can ever confuse that for something negative. She made herself look arrogant and rude
shelly racists tend to be dumb
Magnificently handled by Fahad. Got flowers and everything and explained it beautifully it was perfect 😂
Yes but she was a shaytan who insisted on the handshake
Flowers are more of a romantic gesture than shaking hands, Are you happy for random people to give your wife flowers?
@@heathersoares186 Not necessarily a romantic gesture especially when given a whole bouquet of flowers. It can be given as a 'get well soon', 'regards' and 'congratulations' etc gestures too.
Vernon Fabrino I think it was an apology
Fahad does a great job standing up against the faar right extremism in Norway. Keep it up! No one can break our rights!!!
Actually you'll find that in the political sphere it is the leftists who are most triggered by all of this.
He is far right extremist, because he doesn't respect women's rights and impose his ideology to other people.
@@danijelamali8467 Would you feel the same way if he bowed instead of the handshake?
I have been forced my whole life to shake hands and hug men my whole life. Its has been like an assault that I have learnt to bare for politeness. Now I learn that feeling was not because I am broken but its God given. Now it's hard to unlearn to not freeze and accept the hand shake or hug. This upsets me. It's not right to force someone to be touched.
I bet most people who extended their hand to you provably felt forced to do so also. I rather not shake hands with people but in western societies it is customary to shake hands...
Socities' norms pressure its members to follow its norms. In America If I went to a job interview and saw that the interviewer was a woman dressed like you, I would extend my hand because that is what is customary.
@@hungrycaterpillar439 I grew up with my mother teaching me that a lady never extends her hand but only accepts it. This is because it many cultures it's not acceptable. I only remember extending my hand once. I did it to avoid offending the sells person. It felt awkward. So I never offer. I just need to figure how to politely decline the offer. People are too quick to be offended. It's really too bad.
@@valeriedhodson3014 I understand what you mean. In this video I liked that the gentleman gave her some flowers instead. I think the woman should not have taken the gesture personal.
She is rambling off topic about gender equality and not listening to him and his concern/belief. So annoying.
He should keep his beliefs in his home, not imposing to other people.
This is not we should call imposing he is just following what his religion teahes him that's it... and it's not about equality if men are not allowed to touch the other women then it's the same for the women also in Islam..
@@mariammahmood6181 Then he must go back to his country if he want to follow his middle century ideology. The same applies to you.
@@danijelamali8467 how is he imposing his religion on others?? she wants to touch HIM not the other way around. that doesn't even make sense
@@dokyeooomm wallah he left his brain at home while typing that comment
A brother died
انا لله وانا اليه راجعون
He had a Rolex watch cost over 5k had a Ferrari a massive bungalow you name it Allah blessed him with so much but ...
He compromised his deen with this crappy dunya he did not put his head down to do sajda, he never prayed 😢and died in his sleep
Ya rab guide us to worship you the way you deserve to be worshiped
All respect to you my friend. You showed great respect to your wife to yourself and to her. She showed ultimate disrespect for not respecting your beliefs.
Some people don’t wash their hands after having a number 2.
I’m not a fan of Islam, but this is ridicules. It’s not like this guy pointed an ak-47 at her and screamed allahu Akbar.
The guy gave even flowers. Wtf. I would be very honored when I got flowers.
Your comment made me laugh 😂
No, brother, flowers don't acknowledge that women are equal to men. A duel does! You should have challenged her to a swordfight!
You are hero brother
Shaking hands has been the culture for 500 years in Malaysia. Islamists want to destroy that culture
@@takiyaazrin7562 they destroy everthing
@@takiyaazrin7562 kau ni muslim ke bukan??
@Ahmad Fadhil time tu menyesal pun dah tak guna
Masha Allah, what an excellent and intelligent discussion. May Allah (S. W. T) continue to make us steadfast in our Deen. Ameen.
He should've mentioned 1 Corinthians 14:34
"Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law"
That is what doctor Zakir Naik would probably do haha 😋
The main argument should be that in actual fact everyone is NOT equal. Is the blind the same as the person who can see? Are the deaf the same as those who can hear? No! They may be better or worse.
So each as to be treated fairly according to their merit. Not just cause they are a man or a woman or blind or seeing for that matter!
IF you treat everyone equally you could be doing grave injustices in fact. Equality is actually treating people differently infact.
Another example can be of 2 employees with same qualifications and skills but one works hard and fulfils his/her responsibilities while the other is lazy and does not work a full day even. Would you pay them the same bonus to treat them "equally" No. Why? Simple...that would be unfair. The word "equal" is totally misunderstood and misused. Going back to women and men. In Islam men are meant to treat women with respect and dignity and protect them, hence 'the not looking twice', 'not shaking hands', 'covering up' etc. Cause they are NOT to be treated like objects by anyone which is the norm in certain societies and the media, saddest part is that women don't even realize how undignified it is. It is abuse disguised as flattery. Men are a degree above women in certain matters such as physique but as far as kindness and respect goes, women have a huge right over and above them.
That is fair and just. Not shaking hands is a sign of respect. Nothing about it is undermining women. Its highly respectful.
So in summary treating people "equally" is not necessarily correct in all situations and might even be totally unfair to the other be it between same gender or opposite.
Yes equality is false but fairness is true
Rubina Merchant@ well Said sister it is so true 👍🏾ma sha Allah
He knew the handshake thing would come up so he tried to counter it by bringing flowers....
Mind Blowing
Lol ... I would MUCH rather a bouquet of beautiful flowers over a hand shake ANY DAY!! 🌹🌷
I don't know why she was upset.. 😕 She got some pretty flowers to place in a vase when she goes home. 😄
Rather than be shitty about it, I would have thanked him! 👍
If a Jew did the same they will say thing about him
And there are Jews who don't shake women hands either
This just shows you the hatred against the deen of Allah
This shows you that these people (not all of them) are stubborn
You know
Walahi will enter Europa like it entered Arabia 1400 years ago
WITH NO SWORD
But with intellect
Today people convert because they do the research while others wasting their time and money fighting God's guidance
You can see the veiled hatred in her eyes. What a waste of energy. May Allah guide her, and guide us all. Ameen.
It's because he's treated her different than he would treat a man. He would shake the hand of a man.
@@siim605 And a woman wouldn’t shake a man’s hand in their culture. Does in that scenario the woman be above the man?
@@rampantrobby7606 The ethos of Islamic culture does make the woman inferior, and the hand-shaking thing is another issue with women being objectified and treated differently as a result. Saying "she is completely okay with these Islamic rules, believes they're right, and it's 100% her choice not to shake men's hands/greet them" is white noise. Plenty of women are brainwashed into thinking Islam gives women a ton of rights (when it gives them significantly fewer rights), and some go as far as to say Islam is a "feminist" religion. This is distortion to the highest degree. No, I think people should be slow to take the word of a woman who says "I wear the niqab as a personal choice", or that they deep down want to live in a society where people occasionally refuse hand-shakes and greetings by virtue of what their gender is.
@@siim605 Ironic how you are speaking on behalf of the muslim women. And think you know better than a woman who herself wants to wear a niqab. I can agree with you on 1 thing. Islam is definetly not a feminist religion. Men and women are not the same. Generally equal yes, but not the same. We have different roles and duties. Something feminism does not acknowledge.
@@UA-cam..Enjoyer You don't seem to understand what irony is. Take some time to really look into it. Yes, I know for a fact that some women are forced, either directly (family) or indirectly (societal/cultural) to wear either the hijab, niqab or burqa, depending on which region they're from. Pew Research shows, in response to the question "must a wife always obey her husband?", that it ranges from 74% (Lebanon) to 93% (Tunisia) in the Middle East and North Africa, from 88% (Pakistan, Bangladesh) to 94% (Afghanistan), and so on. I even know a girl myself, in Mauritania, who secretly doesn't believe anymore, yet is forced to wear a specific garb. I think it'll be a nice, honest concession if you say at least *some* women are forced. Thanks.
01:15 Covid-19
So No Handshake plz
Hahaha....
Ma Sha Allah Brother 💙
This brother was very respectful in what he wanted to say,
And the example of picking up the table is a good one.
Remarkable, the grace we grant to people who are so outside of the light of truth. It’s as simple as personal boundaries. People who are uninformed will get defensive when others explain their boundaries as though it’s a personal attack. Refusing to touch someone regardless of gender/conviction/what have you, should not be met with anything other than acknowledging it and moving along. Ego murks the mind from seeing truth.
subhanallah i didnt know bro fahad can speak english! 😍
I don't shake hands because I have OCD. Touching Male, female, animals and everything else in between just gives me the creeps? Soooooo... not so sorry about that!
I have severe OCD as well, i get severe anxiety through touching or shacking hands with people. I don't even like touching handles and i spend most of my time washing my hands everytime i touch something that i think unclean even when it is clean. I would honestly prefer no one shake hands and i personally prefer people not to touch my things, not because i'm selfish but because well ................ocd!
First place you shouldn't give eye contact to a girl and not talking to the girl, than you have right excuse not to shake her hand.
ItzSpekk
eye contact is allowed when this can be taken as your weakness by mushriks but handshake isn't a weakness...
Its rude to not learn appreciate other cultures too. Its not rude to refuse handshake. I feel its a blessing if someone refuse handshake with me. being hindu i like doing namesthe joining both my hands together maintaining a distance with men.
I feel as if he showed her great respect!!!! Good on him!!!
She had her philosophy wrong and approached the issue from a perspective of ignorance.
Great job Fahad. Keep showing true Islam.
May Allah bless you brother.
Funny how she wears a Cross and is all surpised a man cant touch a non-mahram woman. Yet Christianity teaches the exact same
MaNAME JEFF! Man and women can shake hands in Christian religion
“But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband”.
Corinthians 7:2 - International.
Are you telling me the Bible doesnt preach the same thing? There are several verses indicating that a man cannot look or touch a woman who isnt his wife or family. Just stop yourself... You think Christianity allows it because of how moderne Christians represent their religion. As something that doesnt really matter to them
But christianty grows with time and you are living 1400 years ago
@hbk711x 😂😂😂you are delussional. You are following a peadophile and a warlord, misyonist etc you you christianity is bad wow, you are creepy as hell
@hussein abbas just meanless words from a meanless man
Never shake hands with a non-mahram!
Cuomo Prime Time 515
What is a mahram? 😕
@@nadinekeating3255 Mahram means permissible, it usually means your spouse. I hope that helps.
Edit: Non-mahram means someone who is not your spouse.
Nadine Keating mahram is someone who is opposite gender and you can shake hands etc.... if you are a guy your mahrams are your mum sister auntie nephew grandma your wife etc.....
Non mahram is someone of opposite gender that you can’t touch for example your cousin and strangers etc.....
Same applies for female
Not wanting to shake hands due to religious beliefs is nothing to do with equal opportunities. He explained this perfectly. The woman is the one who was rude
old duffer: If the lady had refused to accept Fahad's bouquet of flowers, then yes you could say she was rude. Did she not accept the bouquet that Fahad offered?
@@johnpereira9755 When he 1st offered the flowers, the lady did not know that it was to substitute the handshake. If she had known, then yes, she would have refused the flowers. The rudeness came from her subsequent words and not her actions of accepting the flowers. This, despite that he so politely explained his reasons. So yes, the lady was rude
@@oldduffer584 I watched that video again after reading your reply. The lady proffers her hand with her fingers straight obviously meant to shake hand . If she meant to accept the bouquet she would most certainly have curved her fingers. She accepted the bouquet and then proffered her hand again which Fahad declined.
I read the English transcript of post incident interview. The lady explained her point with a calm demeanor, smiling face and even, gentle voice. Fahad too was calm, no doubt. I wouldn't say either of them was rude to the other.
I get it, but buying flowers for a girl is much more romantic than shaking hands.
"We live in a society where we have equal rights and opportunities" and so we will take advantage of that. I don't want to shake hands and whenever I'm asked I tell people this "Imagine I went to toilet and did number 2, wiped myself but didn't have time to wash hands or simply I don't wash hands. Would you enjoy me touching you with poop hands? Even going to pee, same story. Would you feel good knowing that? Of course I won't tell you this, but how do I know you don't do it? How do you know I don't do it? Throughout the whole day I touch different objects, take for example the train, chairs are dirty, handles are dirty, even the windows are dirty. I go half of a day touching these places where sick people might have coughed or someone else might have put their dirty hands on and you come and shake my hand." Let's be real, once you have put your hands in these places, you can FEEL the dirt on your hands, you feel disgusted of your own hands and you go about touching others with those hands? Nuh-huh dear, keep your hands to yourself I want to stay as healthy as possible and avoid contacting any of these diseases you're trying to spread.
Let's leave religion aside, imagine you don't have where to wash your hands right away or you forget to do it. You shake my hand and then you eat something with your bare hands, you touch your mouth with your bare hands and then you wonder "why did I get this nasty rash near my mouth?" "Why is my stomach so upset". I really thought for years it was common sense that this is a very fast way of spreading germs and people actually avoid it, but nowadays when you see a Muslim "I MUST SHAKE HANDS", why? Just because it's a muslim? You guys don't do the same thing with japanese/chinese/koreans and yes, there are people among them that aren't muslim but have a great respect towards themselves. Japanese used to only bow a bit when dealing with others, they didn't shake hands and nobody said anything about them. The only thing I heard are positive comments, same about jews :" oh wow they are very religious and respectable"....but when a Muslim is religious "extremist" "oppressed" "backward". Do you see the double standards and how it makes you people look like hypocrites?
Thats the point. Thank you.
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If only he said that coz my wife said so.....she would not say anything however when the creator said so it's an issue.....
She doesn't believe in his creator, but she knows his wife exists. There's a big difference, bro.
@@mightbyson It shouldn't matter if she does or does not believe in God. It is his own choice
Alhamdolillah
brother may the peace, mercy and blessing of Allah Subhana Watala be upon you and I proud to be a Muslim after following Islam
bro, my man prepared by bringing flowers. mashallah
He showed her great respect but the woman disrespected him because he explained to her the reason and the logic but she still was a big mouth
I think it is part of our religion and should be respected by others and when they force us or put pressure on us it means they say ur religion is not important for me u have to shake hand with me as it is common
Ma sha Allah beautiful way to greet a woman.
Mashallah brother you have strong iman to do this, I struggle to do that at work but now thanks to corona we don't have to do temporary at least.
Don't give those islamophobics' flowers. They won't like you anyway so stop trying to please them. I don't know why it's necessary to give flowers. They like you if they like u. If they don't, then they won't like you. Flowers won't help the islamophobia
The point was to show respect. Because he knew that she would not consider his act of not shaking hands as respectful so he did the xtra and gave flowers. This is so that no one can say he disrespected her.
quran 9:32 : They seek to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah refuses but to perfect his light, although the believer may dislike it,.
He looks like an angel !!!
MashaAllah brother Fahad. May Allah az increase you in following the Prophetic commandments. Ameen
Alhamdulillah
Just ask them this question:
[ Is touching the woman's body is respect ? ]
Ikr
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Question: How old was Mary in the Bible?
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And you don't answer the first Question ?
@@Just_A_Stranger because Mohammed is the best example for mankind.
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you don't answer the Question ?
The lady know that he didn’t shake her hand.
I like fahad qureshi bhai.I like the way he handled it
Alhamdulillah.
Go ahead brother fahad
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I have seen vid of another brother among three which met with same situation as brother from Norway. Dear, you are examples for muslims to follow Deen practically.
May ALLAH keep you in bevy of blessings here and hereafter.
Lol she going on bout gender equality leave him alone wha bout religion equality
Soydul Hasan - there is no religion equality!
If you live in the west then respect western values, it’s seen as disrespect here, otherwise go and live in an Islamic run state.
If i go to Dubai I have to accept the laws and values: I can’t share a hotel room with a women I’m not married to - simple. The same applies in the west
Lol during my graduation I had to shake hands with all the teachers and administration people half were men so I kept doing this weird head now and trying to run through the men and I would shake my female teachers so awkward but my mama was hella proud
Alhamdulilah brother may Allah swt blessed you ameen
The video just made me so emotional, who are you to decide that shaking hands is a part of a Norway culture. The men was so respectful and honest, there stands a men that divines love for his wife and Allah. I think that he didnt even care that they fired him, wich means that platform doesnt support the universal rights of leading and expression your religion. The more i see these videos, the more my deen is growing. I have so much respect for this brother, i cant express that.
Big man really today I get lesson
A man doesn't shake a strange woman's hand = "We have equal rights, bla , bla, bla ...!"
What about a woman, who won't shake a strange man's hand ? = ???????
it is also hygienic, imagine people going to toilet or having touched his/her or your private part. :(
LOL
Lotfi: The Germans are notorious for shaking hand too many times a day. But they have the highest standard of hygiene.
John Pereira How do they have the highest standard of hygiene if they don't even wash their bums after pooping?
Alhamdoulillah! Great job!
May allah increase our imaan my hero brother
Ameen
watching from india
Well Brother, you are not alone in this situation. During my college days, after I have delivered a class presentation, the female teacher came to me to shake my hands for my presentation. She held out her hand for a few seconds and I declined her handshake. After the incident, I went to see her in the staffroom and explained my situation and my religious reasons for having declined her handshake. She was a Hindu lady and was cool about it despite her embarassment caused by me. Stay strong Brothers.
He actually show her great respect
Oh ok....I want to start snogging every person i see....if you don’t snog me then you are rude and not welcome in our country. We all live equally and you must respect my belief. After all snogging is just as same as shaking hands...you have physical contact.
La La No, if we want to stay, we'll stay. It's not up to you to tell us to leave silly. After all you can't force someone to shake your hand if they don't want to. Unbelievable
Respect the values of the country you are guest in. If you don't feel at home, then obviously you have different values and should go back to your country of origin where woman's rights are next to nil.
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Right .... considering women were given rights 1400 years ago and when the west (that's considered developed and advanced countries )hyped it all up about women's right years and years later
we Muslims were like
Bruv that's old news 😑
Its culture that oppressed women not Islam
Plus say it for your self and be honest
The west sexualizes women and that's a fact you can't deny
The media is a key catalyst for that
To the point that know modesty is considered alien
As if people cant tolerate women not exposing themselves
@@radekw708 besides last time I checked respecting others and their values is what the UK is based on
Infact one of the countries that's respected because of this
@@AB-no2he Not when your values are clearly oppressive and oppose the values of the majority in that country.
Respect 4m a HINDU 4m INDIA🇮🇳
U did the right thing Allah will rewards you in sha Allah
Subhan'Allah. And just a little over a year after this video was posted, the whole world saw the logic in not having to touch hands with anyone, much less the opposite gender. The pandemic has made it wise to not shaking hands with everyone you meet or even know. To them it's ok if it means your health but not acceptable if it is your religious convictions.
Wow this is Awesome walahi Don't worry brother...“أليس الله بكاف عبده”
Is not Allah Sufficient for His slave? And they threaten you with others beside Him! And whomever Allah sends astray - there is no guide for him.
Salaam alaykum, may be you should have said "islam forbids any man to touch a woman giving women protection and respect"
Subhana Allah.
This hadith from al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer:
It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.”
Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh.
Masha Allah that is true Muslim
I lived in Norway and it is one of the most rasist countrys i have been in just like you can see that video
Brother did not do anything wrong but they will put it like he is a extremist
And that video showes also howe extreme Norwegens are so rude that they can behave like that so rude of norway very bad country just like england
ksa is perfect for you
Just how bad is Norwegian? Are there Norwegian Muslims?
@@MVPA-io5ee There are some Muslime but dont now howe many of tham actually real Norwegians, most muslime are Foreigners.
howe bad If you muslime would not go there because if you dont behave like tham or dont look like tham they will criticize you I do have also Norwegian frends there but even they are talking so bad about Foreigners I can`t stand it
there heart are not open
I don`t care do you like that answere or not but if they dont care howe we see the way they talk I wount care howe they take that
@@oscarkockal in my country non Muslim are free to practice their religion, no Muslim harass them instead we help them (blocking the road) so they can practice their faith. But sometimes i heard in many European, a predominantly Christian country, they don't give the same right to Muslim. And sometimes i also heard Muslim immigrant/refugees who cause chaos in the country they seek asylum, i cannot defend them as i am not sure if they are real Muslim or Shia. And when i heard that, i feel angry and ashamed when they cause trouble.
@@MVPA-io5ee Allah bles your Country and all People in your country
This is the way we Muslime are and our Religion teach us
But in Europ they dont tolarite Islam here is a sicknes calls Islamophobia
Becouse of that they will put anything a Single Muslim dose on the front Page
There are Muslime just like in your Country they dont behave right but europen put islam becouse of that as the regulier bad behavea Religion
And dont give any rights for muslime
For example There was a guy in norway he killed over 100 foreigner
In one day but they dit not put him in prison
A Muslime has no right to behave in a wrong way in Europ
Look at that video that Brother dit not give her his hand becouse off the Respekt to his wife Anstat give here flowers just to show that he dit not mean it in a disrespact full way but they dit put it as disrespectfull
Europen are not reading There holly book they read just Magazin and newes peper and belive in just that this is the way they get there Information
So offcourse here are also Muslime with not so good behavier but they dont do it in the name off Islam if they do so than we both now this is not the way Muslime should behave
Fahad er best
Ma Sha Allah
Why I was not born in a Muslim family😖😖😖
One thing nice about being a lady is no one can fire me for not shaking my hand in fear of sexual harrassment. It's his hand, he has the right to who touch him like any women.
Western media: Equality between male and female
Islam: Equality and RESPECT (what westerners really miss)
Brave man may Allah bless you
That's nice of you bro.
Mashallah Fahad Brother (Bhai )We are proud of you.
I really like how he said that he's doing it because he respects his wife's wishes and on top of that he brought her flowers to compensate for it. That's really good. She was wrong to start assuming that it's related to trying to limit women's opportunities. That doesn't follow from simply not shaking your hand, sorry. She was applying her entire understanding of Islam to this situation in particular and that's not a smart move.
May allah reward you Janah brother
Such a relieve to know that she ended up getting sacked, she's very disrespectful. The man offered flowers and she was still hating