Podcast | Estée Lalonde on leaving her toxic relationship

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  • Опубліковано 4 лют 2023
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    A B O U T T H E E P I S O D E
    I'm so glad to welcome Estée Lalonde back to the podcast, especially as this conversation coincides with some exciting developments in her professional and personal life. There's her body care brand Mirror Water and a new relationship...
    Her career is a truly incredible one: she followed her boyfriend to London, became a part of the beauty blogging community and has gone on to make her social media and UA-cam a wildly successful business. She has shared her life with millions of followers and as she evolves from influencer to businesswoman, she's opening up about the highs and lows of taking huge risks, knowing what you want from life, people and relationships and why you have to advocate for yourself.
    I've known Estée for a few years now and I always come away from time spent with her feeling better for having seen the world through her eyes and, I'm just going to say it, I think this might be the best conversation I've had with her in the time we've known each other.
    Estée is always honest, real and straight-talking so hearing her share her life lessons with no filter whatsoever was a real eye-opener. I learned a lot and I hope you do too!
    A B O U T T H E S H O W
    "Are you getting in your own way? You might not even realise you are. I didn’t, but by the time I hit my late 30s, the way I thought and lived was so life-limiting that I’d backed myself into a corner and I was horribly lost; mentally, physically and emotionally. I was the Queen of self-sabotage and the only way out was to admit I didn’t have all the answers, wipe my slate clean and look at the world through other people’s eyes. And that’s how The Emma Guns Show was born. Each week I chat to guests from different backgrounds, expertise and industries to find out how they overcame their insecurities, tapped into their potential and started to live authentically. They generously share their success stories without sugar-coating the failures so you can become the best version of yourself."
    A B O U T E M M A
    Emma Gunavardhana was Beauty Editor at OK! magazine for 10 years, during which time she interviewed industry experts, fashion designers and celebrities. Since becoming a freelance writer in 2012 she has written for Red, Stylist, Sunday Times Style, Women's Health, Zest, Easy Living, The Telegraph, Get the Gloss, Weight Watchers magazine - among many others.
    She launched The Emma Guns Show in April 2016, featuring interviews with celebrities, brand creators, editors and authors. The show charted in the Top 10 on iTunes in the arts chart and has been featured in Stylist, Metro and Cosmopolitan in print and The Coveteur and Get the Gloss online.
    After six months of development, Emma relaunched the show in 2023 with video production and an improved format.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 85

  • @queens6583
    @queens6583 Рік тому +1

    I'm so glad she made a point to let us know that her long term relationship with Aslan was not the one she was referring too.

  • @Di-yk6hb
    @Di-yk6hb Рік тому +773

    Loved the fact that she described her relationship with Aslan as the best union that she ever had in her life. I wonder what is going on in his life. Hope everything goes well for him.

  • @nikos9013
    @nikos9013 Рік тому +483

    OMG I am so relieved that she wasn't referring to her relationship with Aslan as the toxic one. I adored Aslan and I think that him and Estee were an adorable couple. They were a "team" and I was so sad when they ended their relationship. I also remember all the happy times with Reggie ❤ I miss the videos with the three of them 💔

  • @whatkayladoes
    @whatkayladoes Рік тому +101

    Literally just clicked this to confirm that Aslan was the good boy I knew him to be and that the bad egg was not Aslan. <3

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 Рік тому +83

    She still has love for Aslan. You can see it. 😢

  • @sloane7875
    @sloane7875 Рік тому +156

    Aslan really helped give us estee❤ I hope he’s doing well

  • @lostcausel3929
    @lostcausel3929 Рік тому +46

    Why did they break-up? If it was a good relationship…what does that mean? I am just thinking out loud and she has the right to share whatever she wants. I really like how Amelia addressed her break-up head on. There were no questions after that video. The break-up made sense and I know everyone who watch Amelia was cheering her on in the beginning of that relationship. So, when it was over and then she did the video, I mean, that took so much courage because we all were on the journey with her. I was loving every minute of the family dinners, parties, getting to know the in-laws, his sister, and so much more. It was beautiful. And also feeling her pain when it all crashed. It was dramatic, full of emotion, and also love because her friends and family really put their arms around her and got her through. So, yes, nosey and all, I wish Estee could explain the reasons for walking away or why he walked away from a good relationship? The insight could help others who think they are in a good relationship but really maybe we are just complacent. It’s easier than leaving. Anyway, thinking out loud :).

  • @jehnglynn
    @jehnglynn Рік тому +10

    Love Estee!

  • @kayflip2233
    @kayflip2233 Рік тому +42

    I think deep down inside Estee still loves Aslan. They were soulmates.

  • @Sunlives
    @Sunlives Рік тому +112

    Wishing both Aslan and Estée joy in their new relationships!

  • @cumbermelonx3
    @cumbermelonx3 Рік тому +313

    I love how clearly she states that it’s not about the relationship we would all be thinking of to negate any drama and how highly she still speaks of that relationship. I feel like all of her OG subscribers have a sense of nostalgia for that young, first public relationship Estée but so amazing to watch grow and mature with her as well 💗

  • @shaylamia8361
    @shaylamia8361 Рік тому +84

    Was heart broken for a second thinking the relationship was the one with Aslan... So relieved it wasn't... For me they were the more adorable couple ever... The respect the support the love they had is unmatched!!! Looked up to that relationship for so so long

  • @Anwar.AJ.
    @Anwar.AJ. Рік тому +27

    I love how she’s smiles when she talks about her old relationship!! Ah I wish them the best 💕

  • @KristynkaM
    @KristynkaM Рік тому +23

    these comments is exactly what she is reffering too! please lets stop, she has moved on, lets move on too and stop making assumptions about her last relationship.

  • @aynregalado

    "I owe everything to that relationship." Awww I actually miss her with Aslan. But I'm happy they didn't end in bad terms.

  • @jenn_in_atl
    @jenn_in_atl Рік тому +15

    I really enjoyed this podcast!!!! Estée has been my favorite UA-camr since 2011 ❤

  • @ayla8345

    The thing about anxiety is soo true! With my ex I was constantly anxious, constantly on edge, I literally couldn’t sleep most nights because I was worried he was out cheating on me (which he was). Anxiety is the BIGGEST sign that you gotta go.

  • @liaaification

    I'm so glad to find out it wasn't about that relationship. We all share the good vibes of those times.

  • @Blue-xk8vq

    Emma has the best voice, she would be an amazing audiobook recording artist.

  • @christianelila3374
    @christianelila3374 Рік тому +13

    When she did her boyfriend tag that was the first video I ever saw of her and thats when I fell in love with both of them! :-) I wish them both the best.