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It seems people have no morals or values anymore, it's only what you can do for me or what I can get from you. It is so sad that everyone is replaceable as soon as next person comes alone. Empathy, kindness, loyalty and honesty lost it's value. Our society needs serious therapy.
Love "code of conduct"! Having spent a considerable time as a woman serving my country, I have to say the'code of conduct' became my mantra. We are not perfect but we are perfectly human...we make mistakes but we are inherently good. I love the Four Agreements and it follows the 'code of Conduct' in a less formal way. Thank you Johnathan for showing our inner child how to show up for ourselves!
Jonathon, I am using this forum to just say that I am been going thru most of your videos and am learning so much. Some of them are older and I know it is hard to make a comment so I just want to say, I am so drawn to your thoughts and presentations. I have been divorced for 35 years and happy with family and friends. Your comment said we are meant to be in relationships. I just want you to know I am giving it thought after all these years😊. You have a new follower!!
A mature man must have emotional intelligence and his word is his bond demonstrating his integrity However, it's all in the connection NOT the chemistry NOT the compatibility...CONNECTION is the key. Love can grow quickly with a connection because it is rooted in your souland blessed by God allowing the relationship to flow naturally like water without chaos, confusion or toxicity
I agree about the WE. What’s good for the relationship , what is balanced, what is strengthening , what is building. It’s the WE. I sooooo believe in this !!!
Ourstanding video Jonathon! Keeping our standard as women and making cystal clear of our relationship essentials is imperative. I love your emphasis on the importance of agreements in relationships that apply equally to men and women alike! 🌟
All these agreements and dating vows are important. I'm also putting in my own, one is no sex for a certain length of time, until past the love drunk phase. That way I have more time to get the guy for maturity, loyalty and so on. I'm more of a wait and see girl. I had a friend get Aids, due to blood transfusion, they were careful to a fault (now no one deserves this to happen, no matter what) so it was devastating news. And seeing this gives me extra care for my health.
I do appreciate your content...I live in S. Florida and am 53 - there are more than 5 women to every man....If dating were a level playing field, then most of your content is 100% spot on....
Alot of people point at each other all the time. That is why after several crazy relationships that were relatively new to me, I'm taking time to myself. If a guy can't see past just having sex with me, I don't want them. I deserve to be treated with respect and care, and I'm willing to provide the same, but I am taking time for myself.
Hi Jonathan, I find your videos very helpful. I haven’t dated in six years. In that time I have focused on pulling my life back together, long story. Getting the list of books to start reading. Still not ready to date. After I finish reading the book list. Thank you!!!
Great information Jonathan. Thank you for sharing, clarification, honesty and your viewpoints. Can you cover the meaning of the words, " I love you ". I see and hear people saying this so freely and the meaning of this to individuals saying it and receiving it. It is spoken... as a good night, to be thankful, during sex... the meaning and value of how often it is said, rarely, 5 times a day, part of love bombing... These 3 words, what is their meaning, what is their value has been on my mind for reflection, definition...
Yea you don’t use someone’s body while your hung up on the past girlfriend being screwed up and using someone are two different things. Work on yourself by yourself don’t use people’s bodies to heal your “conflict and pain” so unfair and is mentally abusive
My guy was a widow. I have been widowed twice. And I gave myself years before getting out there again. This man I dated waited 3 months after her death and had himself on countless dating sites. Ugh
My significant other over drank while we were out with friends and purposely tried starting a fight in the car. Our Christmas plans to be with my family were suddenly canceled. Do people do this on purpose to avoid commitment and getting close? Can you speak on this topic? Thanks, and happy holidays ❤️
Some people will self sabotage big events because they don’t know how to handle the emotions that come with it. It also happens when one person is going away for work/vacation and leaving behind their partner. They will start a fight because it’s triggering their abandonment wounds. I hope this helps! ❤
Yes. Yes they do. It can just be tension, random, drink or most worrying it's because they manipulate to get their own way and don't care re your feelings.
When you pull the integrity card, you really need to consider why you have to lie about your age on dating apps ---- Sorry, how you do anything is how you do everything. It's very easy to preach it - can you live it?
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It seems people have no morals or values anymore, it's only what you can do for me or what I can get from you. It is so sad that everyone is replaceable as soon as next person comes alone. Empathy, kindness, loyalty and honesty lost it's value. Our society needs serious therapy.
Agree Lucky Star. Transactional.
Our damaged society is made of damaged humans who need a saviour.
A fundamental truth is, no one is coming to save you, you've got to save yourself.
People only change when they really want to.
Society is losing human connections
@@sherriflemming3218 Interesting. Depends on what you need saving from.
My son says “We are all broken in one way or another. Some of us more than others”
Love "code of conduct"! Having spent a considerable time as a woman serving my country, I have to say the'code of conduct' became my mantra. We are not perfect but we are perfectly human...we make mistakes but we are inherently good. I love the Four Agreements and it follows the 'code of Conduct' in a less formal way. Thank you Johnathan for showing our inner child how to show up for ourselves!
Thank you for your service...
Even if you do agreements, people can still lie.
Jonathon, I am using this forum to just say that I am been going thru most of your videos and am learning so much. Some of them are older and I know it is hard to make a comment so I just want to say, I am so drawn to your thoughts and presentations. I have been divorced for 35 years and happy with family and friends. Your comment said we are meant to be in relationships. I just want you to know I am giving it thought after all these years😊. You have a new follower!!
Thanks for sharing!
A mature man must have emotional intelligence and his word is his bond demonstrating his integrity
However, it's all in the connection NOT the chemistry NOT the compatibility...CONNECTION is the key. Love can grow quickly with a connection because it is rooted in your souland blessed by God allowing the relationship to flow naturally like water without chaos, confusion or toxicity
Omg so true!! The “controllers” are not relationship material
I agree about the WE. What’s good for the relationship , what is balanced, what is strengthening , what is building. It’s the WE. I sooooo believe in this !!!
Ourstanding video Jonathon! Keeping our standard as women and making cystal clear of our relationship essentials is imperative. I love your emphasis on the importance of agreements in relationships that apply equally to men and women alike! 🌟
You said it 80% hung up on past relationships while entering new relationship
All these agreements and dating vows are important. I'm also putting in my own, one is no sex for a certain length of time, until past the love drunk phase. That way I have more time to get the guy for maturity, loyalty and so on. I'm more of a wait and see girl. I had a friend get Aids, due to blood transfusion, they were careful to a fault (now no one deserves this to happen, no matter what) so it was devastating news. And seeing this gives me extra care for my health.
Merry Christmas, Jonathan and everyone 🎉🎄❤️
🌲🌲🎁🎊🥳✨️
Awesome Lord we serve reminds us to pray but Also have faith❤
I own it. I’m dysfunctional and I’m working on myself. Lol lol. Hey. I put thr FUN in dysFUNctional!! Yaaaaaa
I do appreciate your content...I live in S. Florida and am 53 - there are more than 5 women to every man....If dating were a level playing field, then most of your content is 100% spot on....
Merry Christmas! Yes, approve of 4 agreements- Miguel Ruiz.
Happy holidays!
❤❤two hugs for you Jonathon
You’re right Johnathon 😃
“I am dysfunctional and working on myself”
What's dysfunctional really mean??
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays 🎄
Back at ya
So glad you’re here Jonathan Merry Christmas. 🎉❤
Alot of people point at each other all the time. That is why after several crazy relationships that were relatively new to me, I'm taking time to myself. If a guy can't see past just having sex with me, I don't want them. I deserve to be treated with respect and care, and I'm willing to provide the same, but I am taking time for myself.
Merry Christmas Jonathon and friends ❤❤❤❤❤
thank you for the book list
Such great stuff today! Thank you!! Character is so important.
Happy Holidays To Everyone🎉🎉💫⛵️💖💦
Back at ya...
Yes, i am trying to be an emotional grownup!
I'm trying too😂😅
Jonathon, you nail it every time!
Merry Christmas. 🎄
Thanks, you too!
Hi Jonathan, I find your videos very helpful. I haven’t dated in six years. In that time I have focused on pulling my life back together, long story. Getting the list of books to start reading. Still not ready to date. After I finish reading the book list. Thank you!!!
Thanks Jonathan. You’re the best.
Awe... thanks
Thank you Jonathan and the same to you❤
🙏 thank you
Gre agrees
Great information Jonathan. Thank you for sharing, clarification, honesty and your viewpoints.
Can you cover the meaning of the words, " I love you ". I see and hear people saying this so freely and the meaning of this to individuals saying it and receiving it. It is spoken... as a good night, to be thankful, during sex... the meaning and value of how often it is said, rarely, 5 times a day, part of love bombing...
These 3 words, what is their meaning, what is their value has been on my mind for reflection, definition...
WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you share this video with friends?
It's the three most important things in real estate: location, location, location. It's a joke with a point.
Yea you don’t use someone’s body while your hung up on the past girlfriend being screwed up and using someone are two different things. Work on yourself by yourself don’t use people’s bodies to heal your “conflict and pain” so unfair and is mentally abusive
My ex scorpio did this ..then went back to ex & got engaged
You have great content and information which is so needed! Which of the suggested dating books would you recommend someone read first? Thank you
I've watched this video twice and can't find the #1 sign, 😅. Sorry, can someone help me out? 😊Thank you kindly!🙏
If you make "agreements" with one another...
@@JonathonAslay ah, got it! Thanks!!
Can you send me the rules of conduct
Google it and then you can print it...
I’m posting this on facebook
WOW, thanks
Ive seen this upload before it’s not live sadly
Yes, I recorded this yesterday...
My guy was a widow. I have been widowed twice. And I gave myself years before getting out there again. This man I dated waited 3 months after her death and had himself on countless dating sites. Ugh
Yea demonstrating loyalty is not with being a bully or tripping someone how is that loyalty?
My significant other over drank while we were out with friends and purposely tried starting a fight in the car. Our Christmas plans to be with my family were suddenly canceled. Do people do this on purpose to avoid commitment and getting close? Can you speak on this topic? Thanks, and happy holidays ❤️
Some people will self sabotage big events because they don’t know how to handle the emotions that come with it. It also happens when one person is going away for work/vacation and leaving behind their partner. They will start a fight because it’s triggering their abandonment wounds. I hope this helps! ❤
Yes. Starting drama on holidays or special occasions or at events is a huge red flag. Huge.
Yes. Yes they do. It can just be tension, random, drink or most worrying it's because they manipulate to get their own way and don't care re your feelings.
Did I miss it? I watched the whole video and still not sure what the number one sign is.
His ability to respect your standards and boundaries...
I am disfunctionali am human 😅
Lol 😆
When you pull the integrity card, you really need to consider why you have to lie about your age on dating apps ---- Sorry, how you do anything is how you do everything. It's very easy to preach it - can you live it?
BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂 And Merry Christmas to you Jonathan ❤
Thanks
It's the three most important things in real estate: location, location, location. It's a joke with a point.
Exactly 💯