Are Dating Apps Blocking BLACK WOMEN From Matching With QUALITY MEN?
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- Are Dating Apps Blocking BLACK WOMEN From Matching With QUALITY MEN?
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These are the very same women that insult other women for being 'pick me's.'
So Basically Hinge see BLACK Women as DUSTY'S 😂😂😂😂
Cold blooded
Hinge has a “no Keisha “policy 😂😂😂
😩🤣
Bingo! 🤣
Naw that’s not it
Black women keep blaming everyone else for their bs? I’m shocked
Black Women and Disney have the same mentality: Don't work on the product, but blame the audience and everyone else even as their market price drops.
😂😂😂
That was BARS
This analogy is so accurate. It's the market's fault, the product is perfect. You're either racist or something-phobic if you don't like the garbage product.
Why would men respond to women interrogating them about their choices 🤦🏾♂️
These apps aren't holding any agendas against black women. They're going to have to accept the fact that the hype they built themselves around isn't it.
She outed herself when she called them dusty. They were right to block her.
What divesting really looks like. 😂😂😂. I gotta know who told them Brad wants them as wives?
@@saints0931 pure delusion.
lol I met my gf on hinge in 2020 and her sister met her husband there in 2019 🤣
These women just aren’t quality and expect their ideal man to pop up
They either aren't quality. Or have their standards so high in the clouds. That they can't see decent dudes who aren't rich executives. They get what they deserve. Good luck
They only want 6’ tall guys
@@MomoAfterDark well that’s why most are single
The vote is in black women. All races of men have seen you on the dating apps. Men as a whole has decided that they really don't want you. Let that sink in.
Desirability is the answer, the longer they deny reality, the longer the problem will persist.
They will never accept responsibility for the ratchetness.
@@ericpowell4350then let them rot where they are.
@@ericpowell4350 then they will stay losing
@@ericpowell4350 They think by blaming BM for their ways, losses and failures, that that will somehow make them more appealing to non-black men through sympathy and simpery.
I’ve gotten over 300+ matches on hinge and majority of them were black. And the stuff some of them say on they profile is Wild lol
I use Hinge and surprisingly their are plenty of other races that are interested in Brothas. South Asian, Latinas, White Women too.
Do they charge 🤔🤔
Africans too ❤
@@williambrucesanders6878 Not that I'm aware of. I've been told that I am handsome so maybe that's part of it. Lol
@@harveylewis4201 I don't care if they're from the continent or not. If they've been in America long enough I put them in the ABW category cause they usually want a whyte guy just like the modern ABW.
Yep. You’d be surprised at some of the locations where these women show interest in black men on Hinge as well.
Smh..now it's HINGES fault. It's never "what is wrong with BW" .
Beedubs forever play the victim. I'm a low value male under 6ft tall. I always match with fat women, older women and single moms. It sucks but I'm not playing victim.
@@oaklandsoldier8520😂 your comment is absolutely funny 😂
"You can't Affirmative Action your way into the dating market. "...i don't remember where I heard this, but I think it is appropriate for this discussion.
Trust me ...thats what they want to happen . A 6ft 6 figure man to be hand delivered and dropped in their lap without doing ANYTHING at ALL.
@@maverickrahming531best comment on here 👏👊🤛☝️
Laughs Kevin Samuelsly
This comment wins!! 😂😂
The caliber of men changed when they switched their race to white, but those caliber of men still didn’t choose them.
And that is the ugly truth BW are unwilling to accept. They can bully/shame Hinge, but they can't bully/shame white men into making them their first choice. BW don't realize that they're going to have to put in a TON of work to out-compete white women.
I’m not sure why they’re frustrated since it’s not like they’re trying to get married.
My man brought out Skeletor...I am done😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine blaming an APP for nobody wanting you 😂.
😂😂😂
The app programmers could use the perceived behavior of of a certain segment of users against them. Perception van become reality. Maybe if these women policed their sisters better, the narrative about them wouldn't be so bad.
Now they're blaming AI.🤣
Maybe ABW should add Bears to their preference, that should boost their chances 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
It's always someone's fault😂😂😂😂
Yeah Yours😂
This is what I like to call a Skill Issue.
The men they want don’t want them……will they self reflect and figure out why? Who knows
No they won’t self reflect because of their ego ( ABW think they are the most desired Women on the planet but they are not by a long shot) so they will do the easy thing and blame everyone else ( especially ABM) except themselves for tarnishing their image..
@@williamljonesjr6695🎯🎯🎯
@williamljonesjr6695 they have the best segz out of all races of women so they think their wanted
@@joshualewis4991...being hypersexual doesn't equate to having good "segz."
Having no "walls" speaks for itself.
You can set the preference... they're not getting preferenced alot..just that simple..not compicated
Yes, the truth is most successful men are NOT checking for black women.
I am a rich successful black man and I dont date black women. I would really like to date black women bc obvs I get way more interest from them than other races of women, but black women just come with a lot of unnecessary headache compared to other races of women 🤷
*complicated.
“This just in, blank women are officially unhinged” 😂🤣
😂😂😂😂
Lmao 😂
The reason why it's always everyone else's fault is because they believe they're perfect.
They know they aren’t perfect, they just think they have the right to force everyone else to put up with them
Black women still being disrespectful when they say dustys rhey mean average black men smh
Correct, but BW don’t disrespect “ Mr Brad Cartwright” for being average..
🎯🎯
@@williamljonesjr6695that’s coz they treat white men as Gods. Remember, the biggest soldier in a white man’s army is the black women!💯☠️
When given a choice women will always choose the top percentile. Other demographics of women will choose best they can get even if it means average. Most men are average . Full stop.
@AfriqueNY Yeah but they don't label average men dusty lol
I thought they were the number one choice of billionaires. Why are they worried about Hinge? 🤔
How about getting off the dating apps all together and get out and meet people. We are on our phones too much to begin with. Babylon 2024 living at its finest. 👀🤷🏾♂️😬
The apps work off algorithm if a man passes on a certain type of women more they wont see those types of women as much.
That Skelator clip was EPIC 😂🤣
What is completely being overlooked is the preferences on dating apps also match by hobbies, activities, music, food preferences, etc. Could these things not be a factor in the outcomes of what BW are experiencing on Hinge? A White or Black guy who listens to Doobie Brothers albums isn’t going to match with a BW who listens to Meg Thee Stallion.😂🤣😂🤣
I'm gonna bet they are filtering out the guys below 6'
Complaining about results on a dating app & other people's preferences is pathetic 😂
Funny how occupation is the first thing they mention about the pool of men
Its not the app, its the preferences of the men. The men are able to set their preferences and filter out certain types. They aren't selecting BW in their preferences and they are filtering out BW. I know this because I usually filtered them out.
How dare you filter your Queen out. Don't be "Sassy"! ROTFL!
@@BishopEddie5443sarcasm, and I'm here for it.
Drizzle Drizzle. They better find the "Only Bears" dating app.😅😅😅😅😅😅
Keep it 💯 most are mad because they're not getting attention from Brad and them...
Megatron!!!!
Optimus PRIME!!!
NO dates for you BLACK WOMENNNN!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They know that they have no value.
The DEI wont help on an app. They dont want to admit that ratchet behavior and their image on social media has hurt them and will continue to. Keep listening to sheera 7 expecting a good outcome.
As the minister says #TBAS
Hinge has a compatibility feature that matches people who you may be interested in and vice versa. The algorithm adjust to what you like as well so if I swipe left on a few black women that I am not interested in, the algorithm will push my other preferences to the front. The reality is the men they want don’t want them in return. The guy in the video made a great point, white men do the best on the dating apps but you don’t hear black men calling it racist. We understand the reality of the dating marketplace
Hinge is looking out for the men. Shoutout to the developers 😂😂😂
Hinge is not wasting time and millions of line of code to cater to a group than no one wants😂😂
lol
Is it possible that they are not desired by the men they desire?
Brainwashed...they think a tall dude in the top 10% guarantees happiness
They refuse to admit that logic is NOT one of their stronger traits.
Absolutely 💯
It's not the apps because they don't get better results offline. It's them
Preach
Hahaha! Matter of fact, that’s why they go to the apps in the first place. 😆
Hmmm, it's s always somebody else's fault. Something, something accountability, something, something kryptonite.
😂😂😂😂😂
Its all Jermaine's fault! 😂
The key component is accountability of course 🤣
Nobody wants to deal with Keisha
You mean kkkeisha.
I rarely saw a black girl on Hinge, and the one I did asked me for money for a babysitter immediately 😮
Wow
That's nasty work
That’s distasteful
Lol 😂😂😂😂 bw r Terrible ppl ..smh
Of course there is such a thing as a preference problem. It is usually a problem for the person who is not preferred.
They are telling on themselves
As usual.
Let them talk long enough, this is what happens.
You mean guys don't want the queens???? 😅
What's a preference problem??...The problem is I am not your preference....I should have standards and boundaries only...not you😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s a wake up call to all the black women out here who might see themselves as successful and look and talk down to us brothers.
The problem is you and you and you sis! Sadly!
This the one.! I cnt stand they A$$. Smh
I don’t want to deal with them without some sort of gain and not their body. I’m less and less attracted to them
@@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80Same
They think they are being blocked because no one is picking them
The unfortunate abundance of septum rings on that app is disappointing. It's always an immediate no for me or any guy worth their salt. And guess who the culprit ALWAYS is??? 😒
What about the fake eyelash and fake hair ratio? I bet it's off the charts. BM keep talking about their attitude, but they disqualify themselves through their appearance before we even get to their attitudes.
The propaganda is real. #SYSBM
I changed my height to 6'6 and boom supermodels. Its systemic😂😂😂
go to any gym and count how many bw you see vs all other races of women. 😂
I see 2 max
My trainer said the same thing.
Not only that, I've seen more non-black women naturally caked up or slim thick than the other way around👀
The saga continues. Blame everybody but yourselves for your outcomes.
Skeletor took me all the way out 😂 I’m literally crying
Funny how BM have no problem on hinge except with BW 😂
They tell on themselves and still don't see it.
They snitch on themselves then plead not guilty.
And expect full acquittal.
The message is stellar bro but the edits are classic 😭😭😭😭😭
The only way a man's preference can be a problem is if it's a preference for minors 😅
I think you hit the nail on the head MM. It's more male preference than anything else. It probably has much more to do with that than BW behaviors. It's over for BW if even a small percentage of BM begin to look at dating other groups of women. Personally, Idgaf about how BW act. I'd just rather date a WW, AW, of LW because it's easier.
Told my sister to stop hanging in large groups of all black women try to mix it up when she goes out …she asked why… I told her honestly a group of black women is automatically seen as group of ratchets 😔….which may not be the case ….but unfortunately most men have seen high level black women all act like or similar to hood rats y’all image is shot….example…. Tiara Mack the mayor who was twerking on tik tok.
I mean, the audacity to always contribute your own woes to everyone Else but yourself...smh
Medium Man has a lot of good videos but this one was very educational. Thank you brother.
It's not the computer. It's I don't need a man. I am strong and independent.And the images B.W. advertised. This is the end results the lease desirables to date
The algorithm was also ageist; over 40 and under 40 as a single male was night and day difference.
Done with them years ago
11:35 I would have blocked and reported her.
They literally are the least desirable and then have the nerve to be difficult and unpleasant on top of that.
I had to leave bumble b/c the other races of women, 30% of them look like the chicks from TikTok after dark😂
There are some non-Black men who do not want Black women. Some are not attracted to Black women. Some do not approve of the cultural and social standing of BW. Some only want BW as sex partners. Some might not want to make mixed Black children.
I would ask what would be the motivation of dating apps to single out Black women to be excluded. Are Black men similarly treated? If not, then I might be a bit more suspicious of these claims of BW discrimination.
Preferences exclude them.
BW searching for WM a dievester collection they looking for not BM
Beautiful looking and beautiful acting are 2 very different things.
Let not forget women who have children , any man with college education and good job aren't going after a single mother
Only Pookies and Christian simps deal with single mothers.
Most of the women are highly educated and set inn their field of choice which means that the average won’t meet their standards. The real question is, how come they went through 4-6 years of university studies and not get a man to commit to them during that time. Most white women who are married now, that’s how they got their husbands. So you think postponing relationships until you’re set in your career is a good idea 😅
I met my wife before she started her masters program. When I met her she said she just wanted to face her studies and not be in a relationship but I told her that’s the BS they tell you black women in America. She changed her mind after a week and it’s been her best decision ever. All her friends after 5 years of graduating and working don’t even have a bf
bw don't value marriage....simple as that
Why do yall keep spreading this lie, most bw ARE not educated. The averager bw in the makes $37,000 a year and is broke.
Wait, if they’re not going to get on Hinge, then I need to get on Hinge! 😆 They’re trying to mainly get YT men and YT men don’t want them. It only makes sense. Trying to guilt YT men into dating them is psychotic.
Psychotic is right! lol
Do people remember when a Hinge and Tinder study said bw and asian men were the least desired based on their app data. Now again an issue comes up. These apps are just running raw numbers and algorithms just like youtube or instagram. If I watch 3 youtube videos about cars youtube is gonna keep recommending car videos and when they recommend videos on other topics like cooking or fitness and they see i consistently skip those videos they recommend them less and less. This is the same thing. Instead of blaming apps and algorithms they need to take an individual look at themselves, be honest, and take the steps to improve which bm have been very open and honest about telling them. M
That Patrice soundbite is special😅
Preference problem! You attract who you are within your options stay in your lane preference on problem.
Preference dictates the behavior of the algorithm 👀
It's all the dating apps fault. But what were the excuses before these apps ever existed?
[BW] "It's *SYSTEMATIC* racism!!!!!"
"doctors, executives, lawyers,.." because electrician, plumbers, carpenters are too good for these ladies. Heck even a Google Web developer, or IT specialist earn good money, but don't meet their "lifestyle".
Exactly. They can categorize men in terms of value but god forbid men decide where they rest at
Hinge should sue them! Users set their own racial preferences for matches! Anyone one who’s ever used the app knows that!
Exactly. Don’t they also set preference for weight and other things?
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime yes sir
Isn't Hinge a hookup app? So the Sistahood is mad that dating apps are hiding zaddy from screwing them 🤦🏾♂️
It's not, Bumbke and Tinder are though
@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvueALL OF THEM ARE
That’s not how apps work
Perhaps its time black women take some time to self reflect
"I'm going to get you Austin Powers!" ....Oh...before I do ...NO dates for you Black women!....Muhahaaaa!
- Dr Evil -
Ayo those Edits have me ROLLLLLINNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!! Keep up the facts bro!!!!!
It’s God intervening on all this ‘manifesting’. Nah sis.. you gotta put in work.
There is some truth to what the ladies are saying about Hing. I’m a 35 year old single black man that has dated a lot. I used all of the dating apps and been on quite a few dates with black women from all of the major apps. Out of all of them Hing is actually my favorite. It’s the app I used to find the woman Im dating right now but you have to use it right, and not aimlessly. Hing is an app where you have to be attentional with your preference or you will never find it especially if you like a particular type of black woman. For example, my number one preference are taller, fit, darker skinned women. If you put no preference in the app it will take a long time to find a fit dark skin black woman depending on where your located. Im in Seattle so it’s even harder on Hing because it’s a smaller population of black people. When you set your preference to black women then they show you all of the light skinned black women with a sprinkle of dark skinned. You have to teach the algorithm what you like then after a while you will start getting what your looking for but it takes a few days. Especially the free version. The issue with the ladies is that most men probably don’t use the targeted preferences, because most of us like who likes us regardless of the race.
Nah MM it is the looks. It's the WEIGHT. Too many twists and turns for something really simple. It's the weight.
Naw even Mexican women that are big are liked more, it’s the attitude
Weight is a massive problem.
@@oppfromthenorm1886 Nobody is promoting obese Mexican women. Just look at the thumbnails on videos talking about Latinas. It's always idealized shapes.
@@oppfromthenorm1886lol no. Fat women get skipped of all races
@@Genjuro22hahaha! Nice pun 😆
the algorithm got em unhinged . . .
Prince would wear your vest and tie . . .👍🏿👍🏿 also you should do a video on your watch winder . . .
My experience with BW on dating apps, (I haven't gone on ANY dates with them) is that most of them don't smile, have fake hair/lashes/nails, and might have a picture of themselves with their middle finger up. Disrespect is not my love language.
Don't forget those "HOOD TALK" headlines "BETTA CUM CORRECT WHEN U STEP TO A KWEEN"
These are the most depressed narcissists!
Bruh skeletor rollin on the floor😂
that skeletor skit was funny af. do those doctors lawyers executives (6 figure income earners as usual) preference black women on their profile? i bet not (skeletor laugh)
To me, that would make them liars, desperate, over barig and (of course) delusional. 🧐
I thought that they wanted the 🐻 anyway?
This is your best work MM! YOU GOING TO THE TOP!!
6’5 😂
She is insane I’m 6’3 and I see people taller than me only a few times a week max 😂.
I rarely see people 6’5 or higher 😂.
This is basic statistics.
Exactly lmao. I'm 6'4 and the only time I got to see others as tall or taller than me was when I was in college 😂😂😂. These little girls slow and delusional
Haha! They must never have heard of that report from "Cupid" from a few short years ago! And...bw imagine wasn't even as bad as it is NOW!😁
😂😂😂😂😂 these sisters are delusional
You had Gargamel catch a snarling, wild, black woman. MM, slick and petty hahahaha ☠