The Black Community Publicly Degrades AWARE Black Men, But Demanding That They Help Single Moms?
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- The Black Community Publicly Degrades AWARE Black Men, But Demanding That They Help Single Moms?
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If you don’t have any children stay away from single MOTHERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've been trying to tell men this...FOR YEARS.
And the fact that they didn't listen
(And inadvertently enabled the bad behavior)
Is why we have this debacle that we have today.
It is one of the primary reasons why men of other races don't respect bm.
Even if you do have kids, stay away from single mothers. #Sysbm
@The-L-Factor FIRST OFF UR GIVING THESE NON BLKS TOO MUCH CREDIT, they're opinions don't matter. Also, the lack of respect is actually hating. These non blk HATE ON blk men.
Even if you do still stay away from them!!! They are rotten tomatoes!!!
Amen 🌍✈️ 👏👏👏👏👏
I am a 60 year old white male and have been involved with youth athletics for 30 plus years. Black men and black fathers are great fathers and role models for black kids. They are disproportionately more involved in coaching and helping develop character in young men of all races than any other group. They do it in spite of the hardships and broken family's perpetuated by the marriage/divorce industrial complex.
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@@Avembeso why are the same men in the comments complaining about mentoring their community?
@@orcaunoo Probably because of the shaming aspect of women trying to get men to mentor. When a woman gets on and says that men need to stop being dusty, zesty, sassy and mentor her kids, men tend to back away. Questioning a dude's manhood used to work. Now we're on to that game and turn away.
Also, there used to be a time when you found a person that could teach him a vocation. Make him an apprentice to someone. Not just find a random black dude he could hang out with on a weekend.
Well said sir 👏👏👏👏👍🏾
@@orcaunoo I’m happy to mentor, my rate is 250/hr. I think the issue is these people expecting people like me to give up my time and resources for absolutely nothing in return. So in the end, I lose out doing what I want so someone who doesn’t do a thing for me can benefit. My advice to any man reading this is to leave these strong independent people alone to be just that: strong and independent. Have your own family and make sure they get ahead by pouring into them and their friends.
The same women who are turned off by "lame and corny" men can't fathom that over half of adult men don't have kids.
exactly
They aren't the brightest group...
Yup
"Mentor our kids" is just step daddy season without saying it. They truly think we're THAT dumb😒.
It’s actually stepdaddy season without the bedroom fun.🫤
Lmaoo step daddy season with extra steps lmaoo!!!!
More like "step dummy season"
No, it doesn't. A mentor can be someone like a teacher or coach
@@salj.5459 the point is why should a stranger mentor your little gremlin? Wouldn't have to ask that if you picked a better father 😒.
🎵You let them hit you raw, you didn't have second thoughts. Now you're a single mom, you're a single mom!🎵😁
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You said imma have this kid, don't care if he's here or not, now you're a single mom, now you're a single mom
Brandon and Jamal
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@@Sentinel5150”Showing the baby off, showing the baby off!”
Mentor these kids and when Keshia gets in her feelings she can say you did something inappropriate around her kids. No...Not interested.
I briefly mentored a small boy following my own divorce until the boy’s mother became too comfortable in my presence. I realized she used her son to lure a man to be around for her own amusement!
facts, it's all a set up
I mentored a boy for 12 yrs and he had a hood Single Baby Momma with her own problems. But never gave me no problems. We as responsible Black Men know how to stand on boundaries and discipline. There are typically enough rules in place to protect Mentors as much as Mentees. Should the sons be made to suffer for Momma’s problems? Jus sayin
@@seensay2132
It's not about little Timmy suffering because of moms behavior but protecting yourself from suffering because of moms behavior.
@@Captain_Of_A_Starship I’m telling you from experience I was given more than enough support from the program I mentored through that I had no problem with my mentee’s Mother and yes, she was a Single Baby Momma with 4 baby daddies and living Section 8. So any possible problems you can imagine from her lifestyle? I was shielded from thanks to agency guidelines and support. My focus was my “little brother’s” safety and well being. I helped instill discipline, structure, respect and order. Nothing any upstanding BM couldn’t handle. I think a lot of Guys on here are conflating Mentoring as if you’re co parenting? Or dating the Single Baby Momma - which it isn’t! There was No struggle for control with her. And if I ever had a problem with her attitude or concern for her treatment of my mentee, I had agency support who would step in on my word and handle the situation. Fortunately never came to those extremes for me 🤷🏾♂️
Dr. Umar talking bout black men systemically failed black women and forget the fact that black women chose the system and daddy government over black men in the home. The black American woman broke her family from back then until now.
@@bullydakidd2023 so, you're making excuses for BW just like Umar! Gee, I wonder how many Black families with 12 kids manage to survive in the past, without being rich! That is a rhetorical question.
This is a historical lie! BM were always around taking care of children from BW that weren't his. We have been step fathers since emancipation.
It's disgusting that our own people would erase us from history just to make themselves a victim. It just goes to show you how thankless of a job that it is...
@@UmbrellaCorp-d7x Yup I knew his story was a lil fishy.
@@bullydakidd2023 this reminds me of the big picture. It isn't BW vs BM, it's the ruling class, the elite vs all of us. Another system of divide and rule. Your comment put things back into perspective, thank you.
He knows, but it goes against his bottom line. He's an actor playing a role
Hold up, isn't laws being passed that will allow woman to file child support on men if they help with the kids. Wouldn't Mentoring fall under that
YUP IT'S ALL A SET UP, POOKIE AIN'T KEISHA AIN'T GOT TO DO NOTHING, they begging men they don't even know, nah i need $500 and hour for me to be a mentor
Parentage by estoppel and yes sir it would
Paternity By Estoppel. I’d run from any danger of winding up in THAT situation so fast my shoes would melt…
EXACTLY!!!
Yes sir it's a trap
Where are the biological fathers?
Stop having kids with Pookie.
My cousin name is Pookie and he raised his family so stop with the Pookie
@@LongRange245good for him 😂😂
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We don't care😂@@LongRange245
@LongRange245 y'all should give your cousin a more appropriate nickname.😅😅😅
WHY WON’T THEY ASK THE MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG TO MENTOR THEIR CHILDREN? Don’t they prefer their sons to learn to have Swag?
Exactly ask those men that pounded them out all that time forget that.
They are subliminally teaching them now through music and gang culture
Nope. Their children (at least the boys) are meant to be Son-Husbands, backups to take care of them in old age.
I agree
Dear Single Moms,
Due to a law called "The Equitable Parent Doctrine," good black men can't mentor your children. It's now way too much of a financial risk.
What's that's?
@@lavellelee5734single mom’s can sue unpaid male mentor’s for child support.
@@lavellelee5734If that King is referring to the law I heard about, do a search for Paternity by Estoppel
They did that to make it even more of a risk. Next thing you start a large scale program or work up to one and they start sending their trained bw agents in to throw a wrench into the program.
The first requirement is that she has to pay us for our time. Don't mentor Pookie's kids for free without both her and pookie paying for it
Unfortunately not realistic Sir and I volunteer mentored for free for 12 yrs. Yes my time is valuable but I helped keep my “little brother” off the streets, out of the prison system and living a standup life. He didn’t ask to be born and suffer for his Single Baby Mommas bad choices.
@@seensay2132Though we commend you for your selfless service to the communitah sir, that task and responsibility should be on the man who made him, and more so on the woman who chose the circumstances and conditions to bring forth life where you have to sacrifice your own for hers because she did a poor job when it came to deploying proper discernment in a mate
@@jamescheaye927 I promise I’m not asking for no praise or extra credit. Just a perspective from direct experience as a Mentor. For the record, my little brother’s father was a jailbird just like his mother’s other baby daddies (4 in total). Reckless and irresponsible? Absolutely. But for the grace of God, I could’ve been born into this situation and not that of a loving, stable family headed by a Strong Black father. I’m actually in full agreement with most everything you stated. I guess the only difference being, I don’t think we should deprive these sons coming up in dysfunctional Baby Momma culture of our guidance, wisdom or support where we CAN help them. It sounds like Guys are equating Mentorship with Stepfathering or fighting a Baby Momma for coparenting- neither of which I was called to do OR put up with. Nor would I. Old School Black community when marriage was strong, folks stepped up to make sure all kids regardless got what they needed. And on principle, they were richer because of it; didn’t have these wildin generations of young’ns disrespectful, criminal and getting away with ig’nant isht.
@@seensay2132 I agree with this sentiment brother, and I appreciate your perspective and insight on this rather painful subject. Mentorship is something I myself would consider as I’m currently pursuing a trade and will be graduating from school next month (Electrical Linework). If all goes according to plan and I’m successful in my career path, sometime down the line I would find it very fulfilling to show and mentor young black people, men especially, the importance of learning a skill. But as Medium Man stated in his closer, certain demands and prerequisites must be met and answered by these black women in order for a critical portion of black men to offer such time and services in good faith.
The kid didn't ask to be born, and we didn't ask to pay for it.
They want the " broke & dusty " to help raise there kids.
My heart ❤️ goes to the kids.
Umar was just saying the exact same thing. He blames responsible black men for not being the clean up men for black women, their sons and their problems, not Pookie and Ray Ray
Booooommmmmm!!!!!!
NOO, he's correctly saying BM has cowardly allowed the so called pookie and Ray Ray's to be the alpha in our communities. But instead of you guys attacking them yall attack women
@@dbig48dso they’re alpha because they’re hitting the bottom of the barrel vvomen? C’mon now, be smarter than that.
@@dbig48d we not responsible for them because we didn’t raise them nor shot them club up and help gave birth to them. Umar is placing blame on the wrong black men whom done nothing to black women, yet those black women think responsible black men owes them and wants them to be the clean up men. Sorry, they got their passports and have moved out of that neighborhood to go where they are safe, celebrated and appreciated. Get Pookie and Ray Ray to fix that community
@@bradleycampbell245 💯💯💯 Exactly, and btw, Umar's a Pookie himself with two baby mommas.
They will still blame any negative outcomes on the mentor. They will also try to control what or how you mentor. This is useless
The second part dude. They’re going to want you to baby them instead of guiding them towards standing on their own.
Not true. Especially if you mentor through a program. There’s professional support for Mentors at least through BigBrothersBigSisters as well as a code of conduct for the child AND The Baby Momma. I was never disrespected in 12 yrs mentoring. The worst I can point to his my mentee’s Mother asking me for money to pay her cell phone bill. Which is NOT required of Mentors. We got guidelines and were told to encourage them to talk to the agency for any personal financial struggles. My sole focus was the direction and well being of my “little brother” in school and whatever was going on in life. He’s doing VERY well in life now in part because of my steady influence.
Agreed
The only”mentoring” they’re going to care about is how much money they can get out of you. No way are they letting a Black man have that kind of power over their children.
@@TollFree999 that is the truth.
Umar is a baby daddy. I'm done listening to him.
When is he supposed to build that school he been talking about! Asking for a friend
@@omarsimpson6375 exactly what we all want to know.
He’s never building that school. He has been taking money from black people since 2010. So for 14 years ain’t no school built or opened yet. RIP 🪦 to black people that donated their money
@@omarsimpson6375still waiting for that also!
@@hassan38Nice profile picture King
Mentor these kids? How many BM have been a stepfather only to catch 7 kinds of hell when they try and discipline and/or mentor the stepchild?? Make it make sense!!!
@seensay2132 Correct....Mentoring is not "stepfathering", but mentoring is a part of being a stepfather. Typical shaming language as always, "You're turning your backs on the kids". Yes these children are paying for the mistakes of their mothers, but at what point do you say, "Enough is enough", let people lie in the beds that they've made and hold them accountable?
@seensay2132 ...and when the shaming tactics don't work, the scare tactics begin. "When pookie pulls a gun on you, etc..."
People have been robbing and killing each other since the beginning of time, and they're not about to pick today to stop. In a perfect world, everyone would be law-abiding citizens and respectful, but that's not the world we live in.
You can change the world just by raising your own children to be productive in society, as many black men, myself included, have done. We chose to focus on our own, and let them be an example to society and others, as we were to them and others were before us. It's time for the wheat to be separated from the chaff...
@@project0077 🎯
@@seensay2132Our grandparents and parents came from a society that embrace reality and respected morals. The reason our community has suffered so much is because the people committing crimes and making poor decisions don't think they have to listen to good advice. They also believe rules don't apply to them. Once they find themselves in a bind, they want the law abiding, good men to rescue them. Sometimes failure is the best teacher of the reality of life. It's sad that it has to happen but hard heads creates tough situations.
@seensay2132 ....and when all else fails, deflection, assumption, opinion, then silence.😂 Radical individualism?🤣😂🤣 How is it this "radical individualism" that you speak of, if one has raised their own family to be productive and be a positive example in society? Do you think that the community is not affected by this? Not everyone is concerned with saving the world, maybe just affecting their sphere of influence. Ya see, this is why some don't concern themselves with other's situations, because even when one does right, it still ain't enough😂🤣😂...and they look to blame men for the problem as usual...
I told a woman I work with that I don’t get involved with women with kid/s. I was told I have a messed up thought process🤦🏽 btw she was a baby mama🤦🏽
Sick. This pervasive, insidious, hyena welfare mindset is truly disturbing
No loss anyway I’m dead serious
Bruh I got called everything but a child of god for doing this. For 2 years at my job I got called selfish and told I was discriminating against women with kids.
I'm so glad you younger brothers are waking up and not making the same mistake us old hats made (dating single mothers). Stick your guns and don't fall for the gaslighting from clowns like Dr. Simpmar & Moist Watkins. That "save the Communitah one stepdad at a time" bs is OVA! #SYSBM!
Do not talk to these females about anything relevant in the work place they will.tey to get you fired
You know...the more you down black men the stronger ,harder,& more focused & determined WE become. 🎯💯💣💥💪🏾😤
And that's exactly when that Vanilla Ice cream becomes soo good 😂
Factual Human Uno Reverse Cards
Like a phoenix set aflame to rise anew from its black ashes
@@thembandaba9021my Flava is butter peacon puerto rican🙃
@@cocolokoflacco 😉
I literally stood up in my office and gave this a standing ovation. I was just sitting here in my corner office, being dusty and my equally dusty assistant ran in thinking something was wrong. Keep up the amazing hard work you do out here brother, you are extremely appreciated and needed. Now i got to take my dusty colleagues to Cheesecake Factory for a drink.
🤣🤣Drizzle Drizzle my brother 🤌🏿✨💦
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Brothers, before you do any of this, learn the paternity by estoppel laws in your state. Thank me later.
Very important to learn
Those male mentors are going to need more legal protection. After I heard a woman try to put her male neighbor on child support because he used to babysit her child while she was at work.
To be fair, kendra's comments about the high earning women being on her show, was sarcasm. Because the women be lying 😂😂😂
My brother is wasting his good time with this. Black men should not negotiate with terrorists...
I mentor an 8 year old black boy. I see him once a month and we work on his unresolved trauma caused by his problematic father. Honestly, I don’t recommend this to black men because it’s a lot to unpack. It’s not hard physically, but mentally you’re having to teach someone that was taught improperly. It’s a double edge sword for the child.
Only BW with sons whose biological fathers are deceased should be eligible for mentorship. BM should be willing to participate in mentorship programs if successful BW with no children participate in mentorship programs that teach black girls how to select suitable BM.
I've wanted to start a mentoring program to teach black boys that reading and speaking the English language is cool. I want to help close that grade-level reading gap. But after that Dr. Umar overtalking interview, I lost hope. They better be careful what they wish for because us good black men might have your boys asking you hard-hitting questions, "Why didn't you marry dad? What is his side of the story?" etc.
Hard hitting questions like, is that my problem, are those my kids, HOW MUCH?
Why would watching a single interview make you abandon your mission?
I used to tutor kids in math in New Orleans. Some of them mfs was actually dangerous, most were mean af lol. I said eff that.
English isn't cool
If your channel was to end today this would be a perfect statement. St. Kevin would be proud.
RIP to the real one.
The 405 legend 🙏🏾
One said “Only black men have a problem raising other men’s kids.”
Think about the mindset for someone to say that and think it’s ok. To think the problem isn’t having kids by trash dudes out of marriage but the problem are the good men not wanting to “step up” and raise them.
Stepfathers = All investments with zero returns! The juice is never worth the squeeze.
It's not your fault, it's not your problem, don't fall for it.
Men should not be expected to take care of children that are not theirs unless it is their job.
I'm not mentoring anyone because if our women weren't attracted to Tyrone & Dewayne their kids would have fathers like us & therefore wouldn't need any mentoring from a man that isn't their father.
Allow me to give you the names of a few black men and the number of their kids. This is public information by the way:
Desmond Hatchett - 30 kids by 11 women
Orland Shaw - 22 kids by 14 women
Jay Williams - 34 kids by 17 women
John Hearring - 43 kids by 30 women
Terry Turnage - 23 kids by 17 women
Richard Colbert - 25 kids by 18 women
This is 6 black men who produced 177 children with 107 black women. Yet people like Umar will say this is all black men's fault. How so? How is it all black men's fault that black women allowed 6 men to cause this much damage?
Hold That Down....The Feds Watching 😂😂😂
80-20 rule more like 98-2
I am so glad to see you tell the truth about how black men are treated by black women
You know what I remember is Black Men in Dallas being belittled for wearing suits !🤦🏾♂️
I think I know what you’re talking about. Was it the video with Bmen and boys all wearing suits standing in line?
And they was being mentors to young boys showing them how to look presentable
yeah that was sick.. smh makes you not even wanna be around them
I don't know why people waste time going back and forth with American BW. I'm so happy I was raised in Miami and learned quick to ignore them. Latina 4 Life!
That's the thing people don't understand. Just ignore em. I don't even give them my eye contact.
It’s astonishing that you’d expect the men you rejected to mentor your sons while at the same time raising your daughters to reject those kind of men and expect the whole thing to just work out. No man who has any self worth would even want to be a part of this. He’d rather do his part by eventually finding a wife and building his own family and raising the very men that are needed instead. I’m lost for words honestly. The entitlement is something else.
Nope, nope, NOPE!!! If I wasn't good enough for you because you wanted Thuggo, and he knocked you up several times between prison terms. Therefore, you have no right to ask for my help now. Welcome to the high cost of being "strong and independent." Here's the bill.
I dated and married women with kids. Don’t do it. 🏃 🏃 🏃
Juan, Brad, Sanjeet, and Yeung can be their stepdaddies. We're good over here. 🚮🛫🌍 SYSBM
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It's their own sons, who they kept away from black men, are who they're complaining about. And then once their sons turn 18, they'll refer to them as black men and blame all their faults on the same black men who they kept them away from.
I once saw a man who runs a mentoring program who acknowledged that it's not unusual to see a mother drop her son off at the program.And then get driven away by her man.
BW at least from my own experiences don't consider the outcome of their actions because those things get in the way of what they feel.
I have volunteered at the YMCA for 18 months now. And I can say these women don't want mentors they want CHILD CARE. Those women drop there sons off bately stopping. But God forbid there son do something wrong and you correct them!!! They flip the dafuq out!!!!!. Some don't even come in and watch the games. Again they drop them off and be just gone!!!! But hey I guess that's ok.
Even if they apologized for their smear campaign, I still wouldn't do it: it's not just about child support, it's also about avoiding all sorts of other potential drama, such as false allegations.
You dropped/slammed tha mic down on this one like Thor's Hammer Medium Man!!!! Keep slapping em in tha face wit these facts!!!!!!!!!!
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Single, educated, childless, handsome Blackman here....haven't watched in a while, but I needed to hear this. 😮 Saved to Playlist.
#SYSBM!
FINALLY!!!
Someone called out Umar for having children out of wedlock but tells us how family should run!!
Thank you Honored Sir!
I’ll pass. Only kids I’m focusing on are my bloodline. Have you tried getting a husband?
MY TIME AND MONEY GOES TO MY FAMILY. Especially to keep them away from her, her choices, and her kids.
You on fire in this one MM. keep telling the truth. Not YOUR truth... THE TRUTH!
5:23 let them Asian & wm take on that responsibility. We good
They let him hit it raw they didn’t have second thoughts now they SMs now they SMs she said she gon have his kid whether he’s here or not
I am a black man and live in a mostly black golf course community. I often see black women show up at the golf course with young kids. Part of me wants to go over and offer to help, but another part of me says don't approach her.
Brother, You are a beast with stats. Much respect from an Army Vet and a fellow MPH.
This man just cooked non stop. 🔥 🔥
This is that ETHER 🔥🔥 the way some of these women can disregard all facts and statistics and create their own reality in their heads needs to be studied 🤦🏾♂️
"Some" The majority of western women are like this.
Yep called delusion 😂😂😂
If a brother mentor's someone else child can he some how get caught up in a weird way of being held responsible for child support. Some mothers are trying to hook men any way they can. Just asking. I have mentored young men before, I just want to let you brothers know to be careful.
Yes they can!
I heard about something similar to that a few weeks ago.
Women wanted to keep their children and get paid for it.
So they should get informed on how to raise their kids.
These adult women need to take responsibility when it is right to have children, plus some arent even emotionally ready to have children. So they failed on all fronts.
So I'm supposed to care for kids that she didn't care for enough to raise in structure? Right... Hard pass. Sysbm
I wasn’t no where in the bedroom when she decided to lay up with Pookies. I have a 13 year old son and my full time is to mentor him and show him how to be a successful entrepreneur. At least I know I don’t have to hear any bs because I’m 5 to 10 minutes late and my wife back me up by saying hell no!
Amen young brother...good luck to you and your son.
This is a bomb drop. Well said!!
Keep up the good work brother! These videos make my life so much easier 😂
Serving up heat!
That closing is powerful!!!
This is the TRUTH 🎯🎯🎯
In some states like Texas, if you do fatherly things for a woman's kids, you can be sued for child support. Even if the kids are not your kids. For some men, mentorship might be a child support trap.
They even sneak these things in common law marriage, now if you date a single mother they state may come after youf or childsupport. If said women lives with you and your not married the state may give said women your house or car or property and say its in the best interst of the children, along with child support for children not yours. Other cuntries in eruope of similar laws but even worse, look at france.
The law says in france the courts and government decides who is a father not paterney not dna testing, and if you do dna testing outside france and return you may be arrested and sent to prison.
I grew up in a single parent Household i asked my mom about dating women with kids she told me you dont want those problems.
Got dammit! Medium Man, you’re my fucking guy bro, this segment is 💯 percent facts and fire 🔥
Dr. Umar on that bullshit! When are black women gonna take responsibility for the poor choices they made in men and had kids with.
Excellent video. Single motherhood is a choice. It means she was not raised right. 🤷🏾♀️
Thank's a lot Medium man.I thoroughly enjoyed your show.More please!
We need to be paid well to clean up anything....😂😂😂
A mentor would have to be paid for the service. You take on a mentorship for free and the mom can say that the guy was being a father figure to her child and take him to court for child support.
Paternity by estoppel is something EVERY MAN needs to know about. DO NOT attach yourself to these women or her kids. And stay away from Big Brothers of America! Unless you want to pay for those kids forever.
if they married before they carried, then their children would have mentors.
How come no one talks about the violence black women commit against each other?🤔 I just saw the video of a black woman beating up her grandmother because the grandmother called her momma "out her name". The biggest haters of black women are other black women.
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It's sad people don't even care if they are living a lie.
Excellent broadcast.
Great show bro. Right to the point and it didn't take 3 hours like other long winded podcasts. Thank you!
You want us to mentor? Book a session.
AND, make these women sign waivers that they will not seek financial support from the mentors. No paternity be estoppel here!
Meanwhile what percentage of black men don't have kids? Right! Over fifty percent. Good luck with your brood, ma'am. No amount of shaming is gonna make me help you in the least.
even aside from the “dating a single mother tip”… I was a mentor in my old neighborhood… them kids refused listening to me. The kids looked up to the drug dealers and thugs in the neighborhood. Those kids go home to horrible situations and teachings as well . One guy I worked with would glorify his burglary and robbing ninjas on the street days to his oldest son; guess what his son wound up being?The same kids I was paying to play basketball in a league, broke into my home. Bro, mind the business of your life all the way around the board. Kids who want to be mentored will come to you and ask and hang around for no reason. That’s how you determine whether or not to take on a mentorship.
Great content
As a woman I have nothing but respect you are so right
Here’s another thing , if u do mentor them anything positive will be undone or the son will start to see what kind of woman his mother really is (which will cause conflict ) and she can’t son husband him
You laid it flat 💪🏿
No matter what it's messed up to punish good men for the sins of bad men. Go to those bad men and tell them to take care of their own children. Don't force that responsibility on the good men who aren't the fathers.
This dude don't play good job brother
I didn't need a mentor because I had a Father....but my Father mentored kids who had no Fathers,more than likely
MM…this was one of your most powerful & influential segments. This will go viral and impact generations to come.
Their whole mindset gotta change. Had a back and forth with s BW who claims black men started the gender war. 😂this goes deep.
If we’re being real, you can’t even be around these dam kids too long without the risk of getting out on child support these days smh
The Titanic known as América is sinking as a sad reality fact ok
The Medium Man is COOKING !
Great video!
Long live Medium Man.
Very good work on this video sir, new subscriber here, 👍🏾
That's EXACTLY what he is telling you..... if all black men could just be perfect then we wouldn't have kids with pookies.... nah shorty you like what you like 5:37